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"I LOVE YOU, BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU" WHATTTTTT?!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables but hill I'm willing to die
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  Speaker 1: on is. So they asked me how I feel, and
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  Speaker 1: I said, if someone compliments your partner and you're upset
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  Speaker 1: about it, the problem isn't the compliment, but the problem
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  Speaker 1: is you.
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  Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Audie Clark aka Mummy,
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  Speaker 2: and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.
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  Speaker 2: And Odi is Mummy because he is the one you
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  Speaker 2: need to go to when you want to talk about
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  Speaker 2: your feelings, and Jake is Daddy because here's the one
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  Speaker 2: you go to because he can't say no to the baddies,
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  Speaker 2: and you guys listening are the baddies. Let's go. It
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  Speaker 2: actually worked pretty well. Welcome back, guys. We've got a
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  Speaker 2: few new things. Firstly, I want to preface the new
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  Speaker 2: cars for all the video watches, they're sick in my opinion.
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  Speaker 1: If you guys have only ever listened to the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Every time we're doing like a AGI question or a.
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  Speaker 2: They got to nowhere reading or dilemma. Yeah, we're reading
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  Speaker 2: them for a long time.
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  Speaker 1: We're reading off our phones and now for a long
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  Speaker 1: time we've been reading them off our cards. And we
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  Speaker 1: just updated our cards, so audio listeners, we want you
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  Speaker 1: to be involved even though you can't see them.
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  Speaker 2: Upgrades, Baby, upgrades. But first Monday episode where we're not
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  Speaker 2: wearing headphones because we're trying to predict our hearing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we've been having some issues in the background. Hey, just
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  Speaker 2: like in the studio, this is like a fully self
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  Speaker 2: made studio and we don't really know the repercussions of
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  Speaker 2: wearing headphones very loud for three years slash having artificial
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  Speaker 2: light really brighten your eyes while we're complaining.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't know, I'm not complaining. It's just very
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  Speaker 1: recently we figured out that the light from our lights
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  Speaker 1: and the and the combination of having the headphones and
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  Speaker 1: they just send it to the depths of your brain,
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  Speaker 1: telling you it gets you in.
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  Speaker 2: The zone, Yeah, but really gets you on the zone.
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  Speaker 2: It sends you to the depths of your brain. And
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  Speaker 2: once we're like finished recording for the day, we always will,
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  Speaker 2: we kind of sit here and and just think, why
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  Speaker 2: do I feel? Sus And we've put it down to it.
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  Speaker 2: We can remove the headphones, we can't remove the light unfortunately. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but we're definitely good. We're happy, we're learning what works
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  Speaker 2: for us, which is relatable, very relatable. Yeah, it's crazy
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  Speaker 2: how much we've learned. Lucky we're almost the same person though, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: pretty close to it. Can I say something because you
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  Speaker 2: said that? So what was I posting? Something was posted
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  Speaker 2: all right? Yeah, and someone said that, Oh it was
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  Speaker 2: a comment on our birthday post. I've got one too,
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  Speaker 2: three year birthdays relatables turned three and we posted something
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  Speaker 2: for it.
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  Speaker 1: I read some comments. Someone said, you guys are best friends.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you were brothers this whole time. Your name
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  Speaker 1: is Craig, mine's Clark. Click on our profiles, reckon they
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  Speaker 1: see the C and ce like the same might be fair,
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  Speaker 1: we could be like but step brothers.
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  Speaker 2: That doesn't even make anything. I saw a funny one too,
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  Speaker 2: is some people like still hit on us on the
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  Speaker 2: d ms obviously who don't listen to the podcast, and
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  Speaker 2: now we have partners. But we also had a TikTok
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  Speaker 2: that went semi decent and it was you saying you're
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  Speaker 2: an aquarium or an aquarius yeah, and me saying I'm
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  Speaker 2: a leo. And she goes, I knew you were an aquarium.
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  Speaker 2: You're so hot. He goes to shut goes to shot
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  Speaker 2: that do star signs me and anything. Obviously you didn't know.
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  Speaker 2: They had no idea. But today, Jake, we are starting
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  Speaker 2: with the song updates. Yeah, this is uh. They're out.
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  Speaker 2: The Baddie EP is live. They're being streamed. Keep it up, guys,
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  Speaker 2: We love you, but little recon Last week we asked
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  Speaker 2: you guys to stream it. Comment the radio stations you
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  Speaker 2: want us to get on, because this is the ploy
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  Speaker 2: to get us on the radio.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, if you listened to last week
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  Speaker 1: and if you're just tuning in this week, we have
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  Speaker 1: released an EP.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It is called Baddie because of obviously all you guys
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  Speaker 1: a baddies and it is your your lovely hosts here
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  Speaker 1: jakn Nody, who are singing on said EP. We have
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  Speaker 1: three songs. There's Shalant his POV and Love a Boys version.
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  Speaker 1: They're all very different genres, but the mission is to
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  Speaker 1: get at least one of them on a radio station somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't even have to be international. Sorry, is there even
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  Speaker 1: international radio station?
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  Speaker 2: We did some international radio really Okay, it doesn't have
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  Speaker 2: to be a national one. It could be a local one. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we just want to hear it on the radio. So
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  Speaker 2: phase one is the initial DM. Yeah, so I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to read you what we DMD about. I would say
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  Speaker 2: about two twelve to fourteen radio stations, and we'll go
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  Speaker 2: through the radio stations we DM. So let's read the DM.
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  Speaker 2: We just copied and pasted and changed the name of
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  Speaker 2: the top two. Yeah, okay, this is so this is
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  Speaker 2: the DM that we've yeah, we've said, yeah, yeah, ok.
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  Speaker 2: Hopefully none of these radio stations do the due diligence
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  Speaker 2: and listen to this. What we didn't personalize, yeah, we did.
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  Speaker 2: We change the name work smarter, not harder. So the
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  Speaker 2: DM was Hey, insert radio station where Jack and Oti
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  Speaker 2: from the related to this podcast, And we are about
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  Speaker 2: to drop our debut EP Baddie on the first of
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  Speaker 2: July with three tracks We're stoked about Chalant his PERV
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  Speaker 2: Love a Boys version. They're funny, reliable and built for
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  Speaker 2: driving with the windows down. We'd love to get them
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  Speaker 2: played on the radio just once. Low, Okay, can we
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  Speaker 2: send you them through for a listen. Appreciate your time.
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  Speaker 2: And the radio stations we contacted. Ah, the Hits en Z, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the Hits Breakfast, the Hits AU Okay, the Hits Drive, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: this is the first one to respond. They said, Hi there,
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  Speaker 2: thanks for getting in touch. We will get back to
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  Speaker 2: as soon as possible. That was the Hits drive. Yes okay,
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  Speaker 2: George FM and Z radio station in New Zealand, shout
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  Speaker 2: out Star one of two point seven cans, Nice one
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  Speaker 2: O six point five Kiss FM, Carl and Jackie, oh
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  Speaker 2: Will and Woody Kiss one O six point five, lew
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  Speaker 2: and Jarge new radio station. Did we message them? They're radio?
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  Speaker 2: They have a radio Instagram, not their actual page. Two okay, Nice,
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  Speaker 2: iHeart radio. Are you nova? We got a response, but
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  Speaker 2: I think it was automated. Will we take that?
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  Speaker 3: Probably?
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 2: Automated responses don't mean anything. Triple J we have a
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  Speaker 2: million followers Triple Triple M Sydney and this is the
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  Speaker 2: best the lead we've got so far. Jimmy and Nath
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  Speaker 2: we have a little bit of rapport with them too.
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  Speaker 2: We've been on their podcast. So we got yeah boys,
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  Speaker 2: send them through so not a robot and an email
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  Speaker 2: n which we emailed and they yet to get back
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  Speaker 2: to us. So okay, okay, okay, funny. So that's our update.
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  Speaker 2: Do we want to say what we're going to do
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  Speaker 2: this week to try and get a step further, or
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  Speaker 2: should I tell my story that Jimmy and Nath have
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  Speaker 2: something to do with Let's tell your story. Okay, this
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  Speaker 2: is I'm going to go from like beginning. I I think.
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  Speaker 1: Three weeks ago, came onto the podcast with a story,
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  Speaker 1: and I believe I brought it as a dilemma. I
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  Speaker 1: brought it to Oddie and the Baddies, and I had
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  Speaker 1: posted it.
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  Speaker 2: On TikTok to preface.
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  Speaker 1: And the dilemma was about the local barrista where my
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  Speaker 1: girlfriend Beth goes on mornings where she's not working, had
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  Speaker 1: been writing her little love notes on her take away
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  Speaker 1: coffee carp We hate to see it, okay, And so
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  Speaker 1: one of them happened, and then she told me about
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  Speaker 1: it and I said, ha ha, funny, funny, and it
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  Speaker 1: said my love. Another one, this one said my secret
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  Speaker 1: and then the third one, Beth came in and goes,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I got another one, and I was like, wait,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to start making a video and give a
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  Speaker 1: live reaction. So I made a TikTok and had my
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  Speaker 1: live reaction of it, and it said my secret love
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  Speaker 1: and he was so he's combining them, and it kind
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  Speaker 1: of got the video did pretty good, and so then I.
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  Speaker 2: Got a news article written about me. I get away
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  Speaker 2: from this Daily Mail. Yeah, And then I got.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, I do want to read the comments on the
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  Speaker 1: news article on the Daily Mail, or I'll just tell
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  Speaker 1: you one.
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  Speaker 2: So when they asked for like permission and said, yeah, like,
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  Speaker 2: as long as you don't I don't know, just make
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  Speaker 2: sure it's nice. And so they wrote this thing and someone.
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  Speaker 1: Commented on it, and I feel terrible for the person
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  Speaker 1: who wrote it because they're just doing their job.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's funny. But someone said this is the
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  Speaker 2: worst piece of journalism I've ever seen I've ever laid
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  Speaker 2: eyes on along those lines, you, I reckon, it's good.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry I should have brought the thing. But okay, So
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  Speaker 2: that was like a three week over three weeks. That
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  Speaker 2: happened right in a three week period.
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  Speaker 1: And so then I think it was on Sunday night.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to read you the text message I got
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  Speaker 1: random okay, let me okay, cook cook cool. On Sunday night,
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  Speaker 1: at four twenty three pm, I get a text message
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  Speaker 1: from a random number. Hey Jake, my name is Lauren
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  Speaker 1: and I'm one of the senior producers for Jimmy and
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  Speaker 1: Nath and Emma on today I FM. Nath passed along
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  Speaker 1: your details. We were wondering if you would.
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  Speaker 2: Be free for a phone chat tomorrow morning about the
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  Speaker 2: barista who wrote on your girlfriend's coffee cup. Would you
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  Speaker 2: be free around seven forty am. And So when I
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  Speaker 2: first started reading that, I thought it was gonna be
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  Speaker 2: about song. Jake said it to me and I started
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  Speaker 2: reading it, and I was so excited, and I kept waiting, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: like you're kidding. I was like, I was thinking on
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  Speaker 2: my head, well, that was easy. When I first started,
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking the same thing, like, cuty this quick. We
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  Speaker 2: need them put some fucking I've got a response and
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: email Jimmy and Knafe like a day after that. Half
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  Speaker 2: the episode came out, honestly, and so I I told
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  Speaker 2: Beth and she she laughed and she goes, do it?
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  Speaker 2: Do it? Do it? Yeah? But I screenshoted before I replied,
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  Speaker 2: and I said to Audio, I was like, has this
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  Speaker 2: should I do it? And then so he said to
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  Speaker 2: me gues. I thought that was gonna be the song
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  Speaker 2: ish blah blah and so ah.
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  Speaker 1: Basically I was kind of umming and ring whether I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to do it or not. And then I thought
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  Speaker 1: I got to use this to my advantage, so I
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  Speaker 1: sent a message.
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  Speaker 2: I said, yeah, I'd love to seven forty is fine.
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: I'll keep my phone on.
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: Also, I'd love to book in a chat with Jimmy
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  Speaker 1: and Nath off air, because myself and my podcast host
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: have an idea for our podcast that Jimmy and Nath
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: could play a part in. Do the boys have any
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: time tomorrow after their show? She said, stunning, thank you
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: so much, looking forward to it. But I said, oh amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure they would love to hear about it or
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: check what post show looks like tomorrow and confirm a time.
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  Speaker 1: So I said thank you, and here's where. So I
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to tell them about the songs. I didn't
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: want to say, like if you check your emails. I
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: kind of wanted to make it seem as though I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, we just had like a six story time. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: But she goes, the boys' schedule is pretty packed this
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: week because Nath goes to Spain on Friday. But shoot
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  Speaker 1: them an email with the idea and they will tee
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  Speaker 1: up a time for a chat when he's back. She
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  Speaker 1: sent me the email and I said, too easy, thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I didn't want to say, go check your
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  Speaker 2: emails because it's already there. Basically, that's okay, I'm not
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: We've hit a little bit of a cross, right, We've
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: hit a wall, though, so we don't give up. Though
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: we were looking good, we were sitting pretty Yeah, okay,
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: that's our best lead so far. Yeah, we're still gonna
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  Speaker 2: go down that avenue. Hopefully when Jimmy or Neff gets
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  Speaker 2: back from Spain, we'll get a call in.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we should send another email, but actually
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  Speaker 1: I bet I'm not gonna lie. I feel like the
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: bautis pre You want to hear about how I went
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  Speaker 1: on the radio, so I'll tell you quickly.
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  Speaker 2: I'll take that. Okay, So next day, this is often
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: this is selfishly. I was just thinking about the songs, okay,
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: So next day I was actually thinking, obviously they're gonna.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: I've never phoned into a radio, right, so I was
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: intrigued how it was going to be done. But also
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  Speaker 1: I'd never I set an alarm for seven thirty to
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  Speaker 1: remind me, like I was gonna forget, but I.
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: Sent in love for seven thirty to remind me, and
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: so I was super intrigued as how we don't hold
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: to start. Yeah, okay, I've always wondered that I have
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: a routine.
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: Where I wake up, have a shower, and then I'll
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: go sit at my desk straight away and just kind
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: of look at my computer write my list of things
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  Speaker 1: I want to do that day, and then I'll go
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  Speaker 1: downstairs make my breakfast.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't I don't do anything until i'vee pood.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, sorry to be vulgar. I've done my bitness.
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  Speaker 1: And so I got to seven thirty I think it
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  Speaker 1: got to a bout and and the you're on the.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: Toilet my reminder, My reminder goes off, all right.
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  Speaker 1: And Beth is in our bathroom getting ready for work,
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  Speaker 1: and I go, Beth, it's like seven thirty five, I
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  Speaker 1: need to ship.
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: So your body, dude, your body. I went down to
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: our downstairs bathroom and I just went, you know what,
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: I think I can. I can push this out before
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: they call me. And so I go down. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah blah. Seven forty on the dot,
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  Speaker 2: I'm still on the toilet. I get a call. Hey,
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: Lauren is the producer also just they get up so
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: early that she was like it was midday for she
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: was cheery as and I was like, holy crap. And
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: so I'm she goes, hey, the boys are about to
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: just do a little intro for it.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: Do you mind just holding and then they'll bring you in.
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  Speaker 1: So I was on the toilet and I wiped and
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: I got upstairs. But yeah, it was just it's music, right,
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: and then you just hear what They all just kind
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: of start chatting, like Nathan or Jimmy, and one of
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: them starts going, ah, what would you do if someone
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: hit on your partner?
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  Speaker 2: And it's all like such. It's so fast paced that
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: I had no idea.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: They're about to say my name and then they go, oh,
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: we got a Sydney bloke.
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: Who's the girl named Emma?
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Show goes, yeah, we've got a guy from Sydney who's
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: experienced this firsthand.
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: And then I will shout out to Jimmy and Nathan.
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: One of them goes, ah, yeah, Jakie from the relatable
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  Speaker 2: Let's go. But yeah, they just kind of asked me
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: about it, and I told I told this the quickest
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: backstory I could and.
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  Speaker 1: They just kind of well, like I got to like
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: hear how it works, and then one of them said, so,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: how do you actually feel about it? And I was
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: just like, you know, this is kind.
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  Speaker 2: Of actually a hill.
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  Speaker 1: I'm willing to die on something we're going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about probably in a minute, but hill I'm willing to
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: die on is So they asked me how I feel,
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  Speaker 1: and I said, if someone compliments your partner and you're
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  Speaker 1: upset about it, the problem isn't the compliment, but the
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: problem is you.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. And I was just thinking, I can't wait to
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: talk about this in the podcast because I just spat
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: a bar National Radio. Let's go. I really did. But
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: they're like wow. They were kind of like actually fast,
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: so true, standing on business and then yeah, I got
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  Speaker 2: Then they go alright, thanks Eaves, Jake, and so I
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: was like cool, and I stayed on. I thought they
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: were just gonna hang up. Yeah, And so I stayed
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  Speaker 2: on and then I hear them go all right, you
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  Speaker 2: guys phone in seven three one two two two?
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  Speaker 1: What do you do when someone hits on your partner?
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  Speaker 1: And I was just staying on the phone and Beth goes,
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  Speaker 1: hang on, you can hang up.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, do I hang up? They didn't say it.
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  Speaker 2: I just thought they would have hung up, So I
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: just hung up and nothing's happened. Okay, probably the right thing.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: What was kind of nervous? Yeah, I bet, I bet?
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  Speaker 2: And well we've done a podcast with them, and they
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: are very radio compared to podcasting is like one hundred
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: miles a minute. It's so quick. Yeah, they because they
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: have their own podcast. Yeah, yeah, it's called Born Funny.
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  Speaker 1: And when we went in, they had just finished recording
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: their radio show.
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  Speaker 2: And they came in and they're just so awake. They're
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: just so awake. And when they did the intro to
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: their their podcast, it was like it was crazy. It
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: caught me off guard for sure. Yeah, I remember. The
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: first thing I said was, well, you guys, you'd be
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: good at ad reads, That's all I'm saying, because you
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: read something off for sheet. Yeah, it would be one
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  Speaker 2: of those good auctioneers. Like. But yeah, it was kind
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: of what it was a weird experience. I get to say,
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I've been on radio now, so yeah, yeah, actually, which
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: is cool. We're so close, but no cigar not quiet.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: But I think we'll get I think we'll get there.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Next steps though, Yeah, here's I reckon Okay, next steps, Yeah,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: next steps are in the background of our podcast. We
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: have got some connections to luckily, Yeah, luckily just from
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: like us doing our thing, talking to some people in
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: the industry, and we have some emails to some very
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: important people. We have a Spotify contact, a Listener contact,
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: which is the radio station today connected to.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: So Listener is owned owned by Southern Cross over Stereo
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: and Southern Cross our stereo.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: In Australia is the biggest one. Yeah. So they have
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Triple M, they have Jimmy and nath today they have
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: all these So we've got to connect to the podcast
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: side of that, yeah, which is still a connect. And
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: we have a Nova connect which as Nova. The Nova
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: connector we have is the podcast side. It's a foot
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: in the door. So next steps are we're going to
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: send a few more emails. I actually have faith in
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Spotify because I won't say their name yet knows everyone, Yes,
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: they know everyone. The only question is we need a
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: foot in the door. Is it a song, Jake, and
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: then we're in. Is radio a competitor to Spotify? Oh no,
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: it can't be. And to be fair, the songs are
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: already on Spotify. We've given you what you want. So
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: next steps are email. We will get some more responses
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: on the dms. It's only been about five days. Yes, yes, yes,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know when they get back to us. And
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: but what you guys can do to help is just
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: keep on. Please stream in the songs again. If you
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: don't like them, that doesn't matter. Put it on overnight.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: That meme it goes hard on mute. If our songs
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: go hard on, we don't care. All I heard was
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: it goes harder. I'm having fun. Yeah, I reckon. We've
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: got this same is key manifested. I've been having some
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: thoughts about it, right, this is all fun yeah to us,
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: right if we get on the radio, we only want
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: it played once to be fair. Yeah, and we want
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: to listen to it played. But I feel is it
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: a thing?
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: You know how industries different industries get kind of annoyed
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: when someone with a platform comes in and just does
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: something and.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Gets it straight away. Are we going to be hated
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: by musicians for writing a song that subjectively is not good?
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: And hey, I'm even compared to someone that's really good, right, Well,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I think they would be angry if we. I think
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: the valuable thing about a radio song on a radio
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: is if you get it on the roster and it's
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: played repetitively, like one listen at nine fifty three pm,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: is it going to do it? It's not even gonna
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: lie midnight give me anything?
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all I want is midnight. I want to
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: record our reactions. I want to celebrate let off some poppers.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think there'll be any rebuttals to that,
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: yeah yah yeah, but if we got to like on
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: the rock, like we're not gonna say no to the roster,
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: but if we got it on like I think Triple
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: J might be a bit of rebuttal because that's the
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: music radio stay Friotple J's for Australian. Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: well like where these ones are like shows.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: And you know what, here's one thing in my rebuttal
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: to that if anyone's thinking that, I mean, I'm just
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: kind of being pessimistic.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Come on, man, optimism.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: The only thing that I can say to someone that says,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: you know, you go just use your platform, right is
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: we're gonna give the biggest shout out to the producer
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: that made us sound slightly good all right with what
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: he had and he is also an aspiring musician and producer.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if we get on, we're gonna plug him. So
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: we're yeah, we're gonna plug the shit out of him.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: He deserves Toby Wells. Toby Wells, he's Toby Wells and
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: the cat Snatches. There you Yeah, here's the coolest band,
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: the Cat Snatchers. I'm so happy about how this is
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: turning out, even though we haven't gone on the radio.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: It's about the journey, jake, not the end destination. Already, guys,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: up next to is ig question of the week. But
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: before we do that little bit of house keeping, Patreon
• 21:04
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• 21:08
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• 21:10
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• 21:15
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• 21:18
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• 21:20
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• 21:25
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• 21:27
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• 21:31
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• 21:32
  Speaker 1: You get an extra episode every Thursday, and you get
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the book club five days early on a Monday.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: So yeah, and the community over there, the chats, the
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: comments are going crazy recently. Yeah, it's actually been pretty sick.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: It's been sick to see and also, guys, the Facebook
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: group Relatables bad is unite on Facebook. Join post. You
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: can ask you to post it if you want, honestly, Yeah,
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: you can be completely anonymous. You can choose anonymous. We
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: have no idea who it is. And we're going to
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: be going through the Facebook group page on our YouTube
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: show as just like a thing to connect with the baddies.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: More Facebook reacts. But it's gonna be fun. Yeah, community building, Patreon,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Facebook five star, we love you all. Yeah, slow but
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: ig question of the week, Jake, this is something I
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: think you like love.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, are really looking forward to I am not gonna
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: lie game for this one.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah. The IG question was hills you're willing to die on? Yeah?
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: What are you badies dying on? What's the hill you're
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: willing to die on? There were some good ones. I'm
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: not gonna lie. We know the hill where both willing
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: to die on? Is that girls and guys can't be
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: best friends? Emphasis on best Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: have you seen any effective heells I'm willing to die on.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Because you had one really good one where and where
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: it was there's a difference between hanging out.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: In quality time?
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, girlfriend, And like heaps of people agreed, but you disagreed.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I disagreed, Yeah, in the time. And then I just
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: was like kind of reading comments and then I feel
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: like it's not that hard to put a label on it.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Let's let's make this quality time and put her phones away.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: And I think sometimes you do need a label things.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Here's a hill I'm willing to die on. I think
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: it is necessary to ask her to be your girlfriend.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm on that hill. Yeah. I think that
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: because it's planned a flat, because it's will you be
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend? It's five words, Yeah, to make her a
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: hill I'm willing to die. And it's calling a day
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: to date. It's not a hangout. Yeah, we're going on
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: a data I like that. Yeah, there we go the
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: day of the date. Yeah, don't say let's hang out.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: You're mean to go first? Yeah, you go, you go hills.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: You're willing to die on a hill where men don't exist.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I don't think she quite got the question, but I
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: liked it still, that's yeah, yeah, straight to the point.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: I see.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, this one, this one's kind of facts. What's the
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: hell you're willing to die on? Women are better politicians
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: and country leaders. No war has been caused by a woman.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: I like that. I hope that they did their research. Yeah,
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: and not just saying yeah, well I think so. I mean,
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised if there was been zero wars
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: caused by women. Oh yeah, I think I think the
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: world would be a completely better place if it was
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: run by women, for sure. I can't argue that we've
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: had a we had a women prime minister. Yeah. What
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: was her name again? Julia Gillard? Julia Can I'm good? Yeah,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: where that come from? Man? You are good? Well. I
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: can think of when I think of prime ministers is
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Kevin Rudd when he was planned handball and he fell over.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: You know what. The only another thing I think about
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: with prime ministers. For some reason, Tony Abbott comes to
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: my head. Maybe I don't think he was prime minister
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: for very long now, No, it was only like one thing.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: I don't really know how he didn't do a full term,
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure, and for some reason, like The reason.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Is because he was mad into surf life saving I think.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Oh and there was just for so many photos of
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: him just in budgy smugglers and a cat.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Good on him doing swim. Well, what's the Prime minister? Now?
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: How much we know about Albanisi? He bought a house
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: at Copa, which is literally five minutes from where we're
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: recording right now. Yeah, it was pretty funny.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: And for some reason there was this big kind of
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: thing about how expensive the house was.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Oh. Yeah, well he's a baller. He's also you know,
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: he's fixing all the man roads near where we live
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: to get to his house. That's why that is? Who
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: told you that? Because that is so not for Daily Mail.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: I mean the same people that wrote an article about me. Yeah.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know, mate. Look it's like yellow taxi theory.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Start looking at the roads and it's all from colors
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: to a vocal drive. Yeah, all the way the main
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: road to his house. Here's the thing though, right, so
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: I think about how slow councils are. Yeah, okay, it's
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: coming from the big doc man. Think about how slow
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: counsels are and how slow our council in particular is. Yeah,
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: that would have been proposed ten years ago. Oh yeah,
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: this guy bought a house last year. No way they're
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: doing this for our council. Censer Coast Cancer Council is
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: the most in debt council in all of Australia, the
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: most corrupt. Weally one hundred and ten million dollars in
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: debt for like the Markers, we're corrupt. Bro oh right.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: I think I might agree with this one. Hills you're
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: willing to die on airlines should disclose where kids are sitting.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Screw privacy, stay away from me facts. When you're logging
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: your seats online, it says okay for a little kid
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: or you know how there's so there's first class, business, class,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: premium economy, we've said, and then there's a economy, and
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: then usually there's like so there's economy, some bathrooms, and
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: then another last cabin of economy. I think one cabin
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: should be dedicated where you can choose if you have kids.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: The only bad thing about that is like imagine they
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: run out of seats and then you're fully in the
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: kids section, and it is it is what it is.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Say that's the yeah, yeah, that's the nature of the beast.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I think that's the nature of the beast, and Right
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Air or jet Star should do something like that. The
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: budget airlines what I mean, Hey, they love controversy like
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Right Air especially right What is a hill you're willing
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: to die on? Men are fucking dumb. Men are fucking
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: dumb when it comes to social relationships, meaning social relationships
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: like online, I guess interesting like how to go about it?
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: I think I think it just being like hills I'm
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: willing to die on? Men are fucking dumb. Pause period,
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Stop right there, Men they're just fucking Yeah. I agree
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: with that bit. I no, I can't argue with that.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: But when it comes to social relationships social situations, I'm dumb,
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Like I can admit that. I wonder if that means
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: if they just think that men are done because they
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: maybe she's implying like how they flirt online and reading
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: between the lines, like dudes can't do that at all
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: social relationships, Like she's saying, come over me. He's like,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. Or maybe she's saying
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: because social social relationship would be no, like zero sexual
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: relationship or zero romance or something. Maybe, but men always
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: think that there is yeah maybe lines let y, yeah,
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: all right, hills you're willing to die on, and I
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: stand on this hill. Marcha is fucking disgusting and tastes
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: like pond water. It tastes like grass. It tastes like that.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, its like grass. Every single time Beth
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: gets a march and you want something, you want something,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: you want some No, I'm all good, I know it.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: And the flavor laughs. We go to this place in Bondi.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: It's called Harry's. It's renowned for its march, the canned marcher.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Beth says that marcher tastes great.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, now, I'm pretty sure the reason it tastes great
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: is because it's five percent marcher, the rest blueberry, the
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: rest strawberry, whatever flavor you get, all right, now, that's why.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: It tastes good. Every other place Beth has got a marcher. Gross,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: this is not a good marcher. I'm pretty sure that's
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: just marcher. Yeah. And what you're getting from Harry's it's
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: not marcher. I think it's because it looks cool. People
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: are doing it for the look. Is it a foot
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: it's just sugar. Yeah, I'm pretty sure this it tastes
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: like the blueberry ones there are the syrupy sugar. It
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: tastes like if I mowed the lawn. Yeah, I used
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: to mow lawn. It tastes like the smell of mowing.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: MANE got the clippings and brooded in a tea and
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: tastes bast terrible.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: That is a good one, though. Okay, what the hell
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: you're willing to die on? You should be able to
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: sleep a different room to your partner if you want space, yes,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: just in general, if you.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Have the room. Oh yeah, if you have the room,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I reckon. You should convert your little office into like
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: a spare single bed and move your office. I've been
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: trying to think about how to fit it in there.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: I just don't know. This is your roommate. Listen to
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: the pod. No kick her out? All right, hells you're
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: willing to die on? Men could never birth a baby? Facts?
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Are you kidding? God gave its strongest soldiers the hardest challenge,
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: and that's women. Yeah, I'm selling like appreciative of that.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Like what they go through is insane, like I remember,
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: but it's literally insane. All this chat about from men
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: saying it takes two to make a kid cool, Who's
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: saying that or you did. Who's saying that? Okay, okay, okay,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: This is like saying, so let's say I plant a
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: flat Yeah all right, but who's watering it? I put
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: some fertilizer on it. The earth and the flower are
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: doing all the work. And then like, that's like me
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: saying without me, without me, are you serious?
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: Broke? Women grow a human being with a brain, eyeballs, teeth,
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: a skull, a heart that beats blood in their stomachus.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and technical term push it out there? Would you not? Crazy? Yeah? Crazy?
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: I don't know how someone couldn't appreciate that, but yeah,
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you they get. God gave its hardest challenge
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: to its strongest soldiers. My girlfriend's quiet teach. She's five
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: foot three, she's so devo and twins running my family
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: and it missed me. And I love the joke, like saying,
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: she's just treading it. She's like, if I have twins,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: I might diet explode. She's not a big person. You'd
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: be surprised that the human body can. Yeah. Yeah, I
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: just like to play on imagine too. Imagine like one's crazy,
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: and imagine two things growing in there that's crazy. Imagine
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: triplets Oh, the body is capable of crazy things. My
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: biggest fear is having two kids, right, and then going,
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: you know what, I do want a third? And then
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: it's and then it's twins. Yeah, and so now you've
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: got four twins? Are your stepmom mate step mom? Yeah?
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: So when I'm not blood related at all, and so
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I have I don't think I have any because my
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: mum's a twin. Yeah, what the hell you're willing to
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: die on? People who say expresso instead of espresso should
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: pay a fine Expresso that this one grinds my gears.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: I don't drink coffee and I say that you say
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: expresso express. That's insane, that one drinking though. It's like
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: when people say Pacific instead of specific. It grinds my y.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Brought instead of bought. That one's kisses me off. I'm
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: glad that pisses you off, because if it didn't, I
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: would have walked out there. I brought a new TV. No,
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: where'd you bring it from?
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I saw something I saw fuck it a TikTok video
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: and it was a girl and she wrote on the.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: Screen how she wrote blah blah blah blah blah, like
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I brought him as in that she bought him. She
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: spelt it as broad. Yeah, so that means she genuinely
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: thinks the word is broad and not bought. And I
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: want to know what school she went to so I
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: can shut it down. I feel like they're there and there.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: I will give a little bit of lenience. They're there
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: there one d confusing thing. Ever, Also, if you spell yo,
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: you are, but what but you meant you are, I'll
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: give you that as well. You're in a rush, that's fine,
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: I know what you mean. Yeah, but if you say
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: broad instead of bought, I'm going to pull you up
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: on it every time. Yeah. And if I don't pull
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: you up on it, just know that our friendship has
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: been ruined at that single moment and we're never talking
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: to you again after this conversation. So specific of you, oh,
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: specific and specific alright, here's me. Yeah, okay, this one's
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: interesting and I agree Hill's you're willing to die on.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: A good man is an average woman, doesn't smoke or drink, works,
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: takes care of the family, et cetera. Very eye opening.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Say again, a good man is an average woman. It
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: doesn't smoke or drink like that's the expectation of a
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: good man doesn't smoke or drink, works and takes care
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: of the family, et cetera. Yeah, no, bare minimum needs
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: be brought up. Yeah wow, bare minimum for the modern man.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah down, I like that a lot.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: What's who you're willing to die on? One direction of
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: the greatest band our generation we'll ever see and no
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: one will ever compare one deeper life direct uh recipes Liam?
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but a one direction reunion in Liam's honor? Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: yes Styles, Oh yeah, Hary. I always forget he's in
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: it because he's made his own career. Louis Tomlinson zaying
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: Harry Styles, the blonde one's name is you would be
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: a great girl, dad, because you get so invested in
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Like I still like him and appreciate it, but I
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: just don't get invested. What's the blonde one's name? I
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: don't know. You ask him the wrong person, Harry, Louis
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Liam passed away, blondey not. My first girlfriend's favorite one
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: was a blonde one and I remember it. What are
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: you thinking about her? Because she had a weird obsession
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: with him her room and it's just like a poster
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: forget if they fun no horrent, You're the man. You're
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: the man.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: What the hell you're willing to die on that? Amarantha
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: and Tamlin were mates. No one can change my mind.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Oh but why wouldn't he sleep with her or pick her?
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: We're finding out mates are just given out like this
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: in the book. They're not as important as they make it. Yeah, mates,
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: you're one mate, she's mine. He didn't. He just doesn't
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: want to be her mate. Yeah, well, Favor is hotter,
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: but also she isn't a genocidal maniac. Yeah, but TAM's
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: a bit. Craig Gray, Yeah, was crazy also, To be fair,
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: both manipulates. Maybe maybe he didn't really know they were mates,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: or he didn't want to accept it, but he was
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: more than happy to be her little pet under the
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: mountain and do nothing to try and say Favor off
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: his powers manned, they were diminished.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Risk your life for the risk your life for the
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: one you love. Quotations By the way, audience listening not
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: watching book.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: Club, plug already my last one, and this one's a
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: good one to finish on hills you're willing to die on?
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Sorry without change is manipulation? Oh damn you, I was
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: going with you do it? Sorry with that change is manipulation. Yeah,
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: it's like you're saying so because that's what you want
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: to hear, that's what the person wants to hear, but
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: you don't do anything to change them. I'm it's like,
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry I cheated on you, then you continue the
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: cheat easy example.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Obviously, Hey, maybe the person was actually feeling sorry that
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: they cheated but couldn't help him.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: I'm kidding, ding kidding. I like it.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, I I got a few more, but I'm gonna
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: choose one.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Here's the best. Let me just ah, I got some
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: good ones.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: I'm going to smash these out, So I'm just going
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: to do a couple. What's the hell you're willing to
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: die on? Men's bathrooms do not need to be the
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: same size as women's bathrooms. Certainly can't argue with that.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: That was it bigger.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: What's the hell you willing to die on? Men get
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: sensitive about their height, which is the reason it matters
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: to some women.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: Oh I never thought of that, neither. What's how you're
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: willing to die on? If a man bangs on about
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: his toxic X, he's probably a toxic one. But we
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: know that two more. If a man what the hell
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: you're wanting to die on. Women should yell at men more? Okay, sure,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: I mean if you want to, what's who you're willing
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: to die on? Men should start in jail? What should
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: Men should start in jail and work their way out
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: like monopoly, three rounds of dice. You're born in jail.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: You just gotta work your way out. We have proved
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: you that you're you're a nice guy. You go into society,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: letting prove without mal intent. As soon as you turn eighteen,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: you get like three years going to work your way
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: out of here. Facts, bro, turn eighteen, three weeks in jail.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: All right, prove to us you have no mal intent. Yeah,
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: you're not toxic. Yeah, I said what many wouldn't get out.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: That's exactly why you should do it. Exactly why you
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: should do it. Yeah, okay, that was interesting, batties. It
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: is time for dilemmas. If you would like to send
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: in a dilemma for us to help you out with,
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: it will be linked in the description of this video,
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: or it will be in the link in our Instagram bio.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: And it's all anonymous completely. Sure, there's an option to
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: say don't be anonymous, but we fucked up and it's
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: all anonymous. Anyways, that was me. It doesn't matter. Yeah,
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: I think so too. Okay. My partner and I have
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: been together ten months. He's been absolutely lovely and had
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: no doubts about this man since I met him. For context,
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: very much a giving person and acts of service is
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: his love language. We'll run a bath and pour me
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: a wine when I get to his without asking. Oh. However,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: it took him a long time to say I love you,
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: and I had questioned it a few weeks ago because
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: there was something in my gut saying something wasn't right.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: He told me that he loved me, but was not
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: in love with me. I asked him what he meant.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I asked him what he meant by that, because to me,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: that makes me feel like I'm just a placeholder and
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: he is waiting for the right person. He couldn't really
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: give me an answer as to what he meant, and
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: I'm still very confused.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: He says he still wants to.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Keep going with our relationship, but I have a lot
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: of doubt creeping in. Should I cut my losses seeing
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: as it's early on, or is it worth sticking it out?
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Say it again? The love thing. He loves me, but
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: he's not in love with me. That means absolutely nothing.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: That's a crazy thing to say. Also, oh it hurts me. Also,
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: is there a difference between loving someone and being I mean,
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: I love you, but I'm in love with Beth? He's
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: saying something to keep her there. He's saying what she
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: wants to hear. Kind of Yeah, he's as saying nothing.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Man woy like to say, I'm not ready to say
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: I love you yet, and she can deal with that
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: as she wants. Things men do to try and hide
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: their toxicity. M They'll say I love you, but I'm
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: not in love with you. Is the craziest statement ever,
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: as grin as my years. Who's saying this and getting
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: away with girl fuck him off? Eight Even this guy's
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: just not mature enough to like say that I'm not
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: in love with you or yeah, I think that's what
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: it is. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I mean, yeah,
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: I reckon, I think that I don't. I just feel
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: like there's no You should have walked out as soon
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: as he said it. You should have because I think
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: the other solution he could have had is had conversation
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: and said, look that you don't know if you love
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: them yet, but don't say I love you, but I'm
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: not in love with you. Because he say nothing, say
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: I'm not ready to say it yet. So because I
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: believe with the timeline wise they have been saying I
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: love you. And then she just asked one day a
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: few weeks ago, like, oh, I think she just asked,
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: how come it took you so long to say it?
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he said, ah, because I love you,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: but I'm not in love with you?
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Fuck off? A Yeah, I just I think you should
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: cut your losses. That word that, those three words I
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: love you, holds so much value in a relationship. That's
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: like the strongest emotion anyone can have. He's playing with that.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: Let me I know in love? Fuck off? Stupid? No,
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, I think that also the part where
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: she says that she has a bad feeling in her gut,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: trust that thing should be the best advice you've ever
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: gotten from your own gut. Yeah, it doesn't feel good
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: in there. Your gut knows something your brain can't comprehend. Hey,
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: gut nos, Yeah, it's weird. Yeah, people talk about feelings.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Trust it. Your gut's telling you something. Don't confuse it
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: with nerves. But your gut's telling you something.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, in this scenario, like I don't know,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: if you were to go on a roller coaster and
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: your guts like this is gonna fucking crash.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Maybe ignore your gut. Then we like glass half full
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: situations like cut your ties if you want to. And
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: it's only ten months. It's not like it's three yearsy
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: in and he's saying that shit. Yeah yeah, Like ten
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: months is like it's an okay amount of time to
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: see someone, figure out if you like him or not,
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: or if I'm in love with you, and be like, bitch,
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: figure out yourself. I'm moving on. Like yeah, honestly, sorry,
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: that's happening to you. Yeah, I say, sad, How should
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: how should she break up with him? I don't know,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: I reckon, Just don't jump straight to break up. Be
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: like this isn't good enough, man, I think jump straight
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: and breakup. See what we have to say. I like
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: to put him in his place before you break up
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: with him now, but put him in his place with
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: the breakup true true maybe yeah, yeah, get out of him,
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: like what the fuck do you mean, dude, and then
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: break up of him like this isn't on? Yeah, breakup
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: bringing what is the best way to toxically break up
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: some Obviously, there's the healthy wag want to be Oh yeah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: this guy's a dog. We don't like him. Okay. Text
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: text is crazy, We're done. Text is absolutely insane. Well
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: he said that, that's insane. I'm trying to think of
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: a way right for her to get him to say
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: I am in love with you and her go to
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: little too late. Yeah, so okay, what's that Birdie song?
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: You only know your lover when you let her go facts.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Block him on everything, just straight up without even telling him.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: Just act like everything's fine. Block him on everything, and
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: then see what sort of effort he goes to to
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: get in contact with you. And yeah, I don't know,
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: I reckon. Just go and just wait to see what
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: he says next time you're with him and you're leaving
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: just like, oh, by the way, I've had a realization
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: you're not good enough for me, and you're not doing
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: the bare minimum someone should do in a relationship.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: It sounds like, oh, well true, I was gonna say.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: Sounds like he does a lot of really good things,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: but there's this one thing but this one thing's insane.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: He is insane. I don't think he has the emotional
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: maturity to be in a relationship to say something like that.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I would actually like you to dump him, And I
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: would also like you to put an update in the dilemmas.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: And titled update I die dumped him. Yeah, all caps,
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: titled the update I dumped him and put it in
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: the dilemmas. Yeah. I've always been very conscious of like
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: who I say I love you too, and when I
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: say it and I actually want to feel it. Yeah. Yeah,
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: I feel like some guys really do throw thinking about
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: some of our friends, dude do say it just to
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: like say it and make their partner happy when they
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: don't actually feel it, which is terrible sometimes, I think. Men,
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: let's say it's been a while and your girlfriend that
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: you've been with for a little while, you haven't said
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: I love you yet.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: She does ask, right, she does, just maybe talk about
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: love or something, and you're just a little too afraid
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: to say, I'm I'm very happy.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's what he should say, I'm very very happy.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: But I don't want to. I don't want to say
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: something that I don't want hundred percent mean Okay, that's
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: exactly what we should do, and I don't. I don't,
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: but also don't say like I can see myself falling
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: over you, because that's giving a false hope. Right. Yeah,
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: So I think if even though it's been a little while, like,
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: is there a cutoff? You know? I feel like if
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: you've been together for a year and she says, what
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: about this love? I think the cutoff is individualized. Okay, yeah,
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: because like some people want to be asked to be
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: their girlfriend after a month, Some'm like three months, some
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: like six. Like I think it's unique to the person.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: No, I think asking to be girlfriend definitely, But is
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: there is there an amount of time where you are
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: like if it's some I should know, Like I kind
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: of I don't know if there's a hot take or not.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: I feel like you kind of know within Because here's
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: the thing is, you can you can fall in love
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: with someone even though you don't fully know them yet. Yeah,
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: it's fine. You learn a lot about someone in six months,
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: or you learn a lot about someone in four months
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: when you start dating and you spend so much time
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: with them. Yeah, well it's interesting though. So we date,
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: we date, and we see that woman as potentially being
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: O forever person to get married to him. Some people
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: date to date, yeah, like they become boyfriend and girlfriend
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: and he especially dudes just date and they don't see
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: that any thing, whereas we only date with I'm not
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: going to date someone I don't want to or potentially
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: think I can marry like that. I look at it
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: more of a yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah we got When
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: I started dating my girlfriend, like very early on, I
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: knew like I could fall in love with you soon.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeahah yeah, whereas some dudes like, oh I'm
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: dating you, yeah maybe maybe I don't know. I reckon
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: I'm going to say something crazy. I think there should
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: be a cutoff for how long it takes him to
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: say I love you. And also here's the thing, you know,
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: I think if you a man should ask the girl
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: to be his girlfriend. Right, if you want to ask
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: him to be a boyfriend, by all means to go
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: for it. But I mean, I'm more than happy to
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: say that. I think the guy should ask the girl.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: But when it comes to I love you, I don't
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: think that any gender has more of a role. No, no,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: and who says it first? But if you say I
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: love you, and he doesn't love you yet, should you
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: break up? Maybe? Also, like I don't know, this might
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: be slightly philosophical. Might be the verb you can see
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: in someone's eyes if they love you or not. You
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: really can, like you know, like you can see it
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: even live like your parents. You can see the love
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: a relationship. You can see it way more in a
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: relationship if that person does love you. When you're having
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: those conversations on a day, you can see if there's
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: love in your eyes. And if you can't see that,
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: which I think you probably can't see, yeah, fuck him off. Yeah,
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: go with your gun. Yeah that's what your gut knows,
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: that feeling, but you don't want to accept it. I
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: think that's what helped because you kind of have to
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: go to a breakouts so scary. That's relateable. Yeah, through
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: breaksleft for shit? Shit all right? Up next is my
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: dilemma title? Am I being selfish? Or is he? Hey, guys,
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: I am in desperate need of your help and advice asap.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: year now and have been friends for about five years
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: before we started dating, and early on into our relationship,
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: my boyfriend had told me he was moving to the
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: Netherlands in exchange for hockey for nine months with his friends.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: I made it very clear to him that I was
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: not interested in committing to a long distance relationship due
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: to past trauma with my father in Brackets, which I
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: openly told him how much this all affects me. I
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: suggested we end things and at that point so we
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: both didn't get hurt. He then a few weeks later
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: told me he has decided to defer going away by
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: a year so we could both finish our degrees. I
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: am studying nursing and very much want to work in
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: the UK for experience, and also can work in Europe,
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: but have to do a special course beforehand. So by
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: him deferring leaving had meant I could either move with
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: him or had the ability to visit him, as I
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: don't until I graduate at the end of this year,
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: and with nursing I have full time prack and must
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: attend all my classes. In Brackets, I have no life.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: See now this takes us to the present. Two nights ago,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: in my bed, my boyfriend randomly blurted out that he's
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: still going to the Netherlands and he's moving in September.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: This was all quite a shock to me, and I
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: felt quite upset. We further spoke about it the following day,
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: and turns out he had dropped one of his units
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: at UNI weeks ago, which was his prack units, as
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: he knew he wouldn't be able to attend his prack.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: I had been asking about his prack units, and he
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: knew he wouldn't be able to attend his prack because
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: he dropped out. And I had been asking him when
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: he was starting, and getting him ready and helping him
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: and all that business, but he'd just been lying to me.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: I had also been trying to book a holiday and
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: he had an excuse not to go. He had excuses
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: not to go, which overall felt like he didn't want
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: to experience traveling with me to these places. But turns
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: out he just knew he wasn't going to be here
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: for the holidays. I don't know how I feel about
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: this at this point. I know how much hockey means
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: to him, but he used to live in Ireland with
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: his friends for hockey. I don't know if I'm being
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: selfish thinking he has already made and had these experiences
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: with hockey. But I don't want to hold him back.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: He went away for a month at the beginning of
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: the year to Japan when I was on prack and
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: it was extremely hard. So I feel like I already
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: know how I feel while he's going to be away,
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: and I question what will happen if I want to
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: move to the UK after my grade program. Is it
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: wrong for me to ask him to stay? Am I
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: being selfish for wanting him to stay and support me?
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: Or is he being selfish after I set boundaries at
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: the beginning of our relationship? Why do I feel so
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: sad and betrayed for him doing something he wants to do? Who? There? Okay?
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: I think that this is a crazy valid And the
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: reason I say valid is because the way she says
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: she feels at the end is so she said, I
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: want him to stay, but I also want to support him.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: I wanted to do it, he wants to, Like, why
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: do I not want him to do something that he
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: wants to do. That's such a valid thing, right, yeah,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: because she would be feeling so so torn?
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: But big butt? But the biggest thing here is at
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: the start of the relationship, you said I'm not doing
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: long distance, bro, I'm not doing it. You told him why,
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: it's everything right.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: And so plans were made where you wouldn't have to
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: and then he decided to change those plans without telling
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: you for weeks and then he just drops it like,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm actually going.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. This is manipulation at its core. So you
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: have a valid reason to leave him. Yeah, okay, you
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: have a valid reason to feel what you're feeling. You
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: have a valid reason to feel the way you're feeling.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: You have a valid reason to leave him. But here's
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: the situation, and here's the cards you have been dealt.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: He's going, Okay, you need to make a choice of
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: whether or not you want to be with him. Obviously,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: if you stay with him, you're allowed to be mad
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: at him. But the fuck I need to know, Like
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: what he is saying in this situation. Is he saying,
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: why are you supporting me with what I want to do?
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: Is he the one that's making her feel this way?
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: Because if so, you guys are not right for each
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: other because he doesn't care about you at all.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: I think he doesn't care about her at all. In
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: the fact that he's just molded this situation to work
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: around him, and he's manipulated the situation to work around
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: his life and doesn't care about the repercussions of him
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: going to have fun playing hockey while her feelings are
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: going to be really say, missing him, and he doesn't
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: really care. I think that's really toxic, and that's just
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: like a kick in the guts. But it's also like, yeah,
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: fuck you, I don't think I should be with you.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: You didn't appreciate what I said at the start, being
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: open about how I feel about long distance, And he's
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: probably just like in the back of his head, Oh, yeah,
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: it'll be right, he'll be right, he'll be right. Nah,
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: it's right. Yeah, it's not right at all. I think
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: it's terribly toxic. And like, although like it might be
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: hard to see it his manipulation, it definitely is and
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: he's probably not giving him an excuse by any means.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Maybe done it unconsciously, but he's still done it. He's
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: the thing, right, if someone manipulates you unconsciously, I think
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: that even though they didn't mean to do it, they're
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: just a manipulating person. That yeah, they're just a manipulative person.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: And so that's the hardest thing to accept. Well, he's
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: manipulated you to get his way. Yeah, which you agreed
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: on verbally wasn't going to work for your relationship. But
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: he's manipulated the situation to work for him, and he's
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: just got you for nine months all Basically he didn't stay,
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: she didn't stick to his word. Yeah, you don't want
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: a man who's not a man of his word. He
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: said one thing, did another, did another. Hate women? So yeah,
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie big grim dilemmas, but I think
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: you know the answer about it is completely saying it.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: I'll say it. Yeah, dump him, I'll say it. Yeah.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: And like we said before, breakups are super super hard,
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: but like him doing this should make a breakup easier
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: because you're like, what a terrible person? Yeah it sucks, Yeah,
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: you learn something about people, Like the breakups are extra
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: high when like, I don't know, did they break up
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: on amicable terms and there's no real reason for a
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: breakup maybe, But like if he's done something like this,
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: it's like the quivalent. It's similar if someone cheats, it's
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: easier to get over him, It's what I'm trying to say. Yeah,
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: because you hate him, Yeah, so much easier to hate someone. Yeah, right,
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: it's so much easier. It's slightly harder because he's only
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: done this. But it's not even. It's not even and
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: only he's done this.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Like if you guys were just breaking up because you've
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: come to terms of the fact that you're just not
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: right together. But yeah, that's what you You have love
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: for each other and you both want the best for
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: each other, and you're leaving each other.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: That's what it's hard. That's a hard breakup for this,
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: and you think that it's an easy breakup, But the
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: easy breakups are the ones where there's just the best
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: reason to do it. Also, let's go toxic. How good
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: is he at hockey? Yeah? Wait, how good is he?
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: Is he going to be in the NHL? Yeah, if
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: we're talking about ice hockey, and pretty so if we are,
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: I don't think he is. If we're talking ice hockey,
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: because Netherlands is another place that plays it. If he's
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: going to make the NHL, maybe, but she said his mates,
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Like was he planned his hockey with his team with
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: his friend? Like, tell you right now, this motherfucker is
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: not making the NHL. Yeah, because by the sounds of it,
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: you're in university and most of the time if you're
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: in UNI. He starts bast you know, if you're in
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: the NHL. It's like any professional sports, you know. And yeah,
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: I think, not gonna lie. Okay, okay, okay, not gonna lie.
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: I think it's kind of a nick.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: Like I think it's kind of a nick that he's
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: going to nether to the Netherlands as I'm assuming an
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: adult because you're in the university to play play an
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: amateur like maybe semi professional, probably not university hockey league
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: with his friends, and he's in it, like I am
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: assuming what you guys would call it a committed relationship.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: I think that's the biggest dick, so crazy give it
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: up to pick a girl. Wow, he's the type that
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: is always going to pick hockey over his current girl.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: He's the type that injured his knee. Yeah, but if
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: he didn't, yeah that if he didn't, he would have
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: made it. Unfortunately, guys, the episode is ending. But until
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: that happens, we have a few things to do. First thing,
• 58:12
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• 58:14
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• 58:16
  Speaker 2: to them. Yeah, I'll go first, Megan said, listening to
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: the when you got to go segment whilst mid run
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: nearly created my own story dangerous game that is, that
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  Speaker 2: is a dangerous game. It would have had you thinking
• 58:30
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• 58:34
  Speaker 2: and about going for a walk with the kid and
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: then you thinking imagine if that happened to me, probably
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: made you think, oh, actually can't have to go. Yeah,
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: that's what I would. I would, I would expect he would.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: Hailey said it didn't dawn on me that Australia had
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Hannah Montana until Jake serenaded us at the start Montana song.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: Even though it's the same person. I think it's a
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  Speaker 2: malo sar. Yeah, she's the cause career. I love Hannah Montana. Ay,
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: did you you know I loved it ten on a Saturday.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: Did you know Hannah Montana only had two seasons? What
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: it feels like there was ten. I feel like I
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: watched five hundred episodes of that show and every episode
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: was different. I loved every Saturday morning at like seven
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: thirty eight o'clock Hannah Montana was on, and then I
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  Speaker 2: I am telling you, please be wrong. Oh okay, okay,
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: what four seasons? Still? How many episodes? There is? Ninety
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  Speaker 2: eight episodes altogether. That's a fair few. It's okay, look,
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: that's a fair few. But I guarantee you I've watched
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: all of them. Yes, oh bro, all right, Vicky said,
• 59:45
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• 59:51
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  Speaker 2: clap clap also to explain diffuser. It depends on your hair,
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