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- 0:00Speaker 1: I am all in again.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Let you.
- 0:17Speaker 1: You'll more Girls Gazette with Amy Sugarman and Danielle Romo,
- 0:21Speaker 1: then iHeartRadio Podcast.
- 0:23Speaker 2: We are back for another episode of Parenthood, and this
- 0:26Speaker 2: is season one, episode six, the Big Oh.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Okay.
- 0:32Speaker 2: So before we jump in, here's the synopsis of the episode.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Christina's constant worrying begins to take a toll on her relationship. Meanwhile,
- 0:40Speaker 2: Max starts with a new young behavioral aide who might
- 0:44Speaker 2: just be what he needs. Sarah finds herself torn as
- 0:47Speaker 2: she considers going on a date with her daughter, Amber's teacher,
- 0:50Speaker 2: and Crosby struggles to find the right moment to tell
- 0:53Speaker 2: his parents about your bar. The one thing missing from
- 0:55Speaker 2: this synopsis is Julia and Joel.
- 1:00Speaker 1: But here's the question. Are you mad at Joel? Are
- 1:03Speaker 1: you okay with Joel? How are you feeling? M I
- 1:08Speaker 1: know because Joel didn't do anything, but I have I
- 1:12Speaker 1: have some opinions.
- 1:14Speaker 3: I go back and forth because.
- 1:16Speaker 1: Joel stopped it. He stopped it.
- 1:18Speaker 3: He did tell her, but he also didn't.
- 1:20Speaker 2: He told her after being confronted versus telling her up front.
- 1:25Speaker 1: Here's my problem. He stopped it. I believe him. I
- 1:29Speaker 1: don't think anything happened between him and Raquel is satur
- 1:32Speaker 1: name Raquel Raquel. Ok, she's so kissy, kissy, flirty, flirty.
- 1:37Speaker 1: Still it's like she tried to make out with him
- 1:41Speaker 1: one night. He says, no, but it's not like she
- 1:43Speaker 1: stopped being flirty, flirty, kissy, kissy.
- 1:46Speaker 3: You're right, you are one hundred percent right.
- 1:48Speaker 1: That's my problem.
- 1:49Speaker 3: There are many there are many.
- 1:52Speaker 2: I don't I don't even know where to begin with
- 1:55Speaker 2: this topic because there's a lot to dissect. I worry
- 2:03Speaker 2: a little because he did not say anything to his wife,
- 2:08Speaker 2: and she had her reservations about her and told him
- 2:15Speaker 2: about it, and he basically was like, there's nothing to
- 2:18Speaker 2: stop you know whatever.
- 2:20Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, there was something. There is something. There
- 2:24Speaker 3: is an issue.
- 2:26Speaker 2: So I worry about that because he was essentially trying
- 2:31Speaker 2: to brush it under the rug when there was actually
- 2:33Speaker 2: an issue there. Right, So that is part number one,
- 2:38Speaker 2: Part number two. Look, I'll give it to her. Julia
- 2:44Speaker 2: is being really freaking cool in this situation, and like
- 2:48Speaker 2: I would have I would have.
- 2:50Speaker 3: Done what she originally intended to do. Sorry, our friend Ken,
- 2:53Speaker 3: I would.
- 2:53Speaker 1: Have been so harsh to the daughter, like it would
- 2:56Speaker 1: have been she's excruciating.
- 2:57Speaker 3: She's six. I totally agreed with her. She's six. She
- 3:02Speaker 3: can buy another friends, like.
- 3:05Speaker 2: She can buy another friends, she can what is more important?
- 3:10Speaker 1: Friend? I kind of agree with what she did.
- 3:13Speaker 3: I don't.
- 3:15Speaker 2: I mean, look, I think it's very big of her
- 3:17Speaker 2: and and that is the right route to go. That
- 3:18Speaker 2: is being in the bigger person. I'll give that to her.
- 3:21Speaker 2: But like, if you are going to choose that route, Like, personally,
- 3:26Speaker 2: I would have gone up to Racol and said, I
- 3:28Speaker 2: know what you did, don't do that again.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Totally. That's the thing. If you want her.
- 3:34Speaker 3: To be if you want our kids to be friends,
- 3:37Speaker 3: don't do that again. Don't do that again.
- 3:39Speaker 2: And if you do it again, you're to blame that
- 3:41Speaker 2: our friends, that our friends are no longer friends.
- 3:44Speaker 3: That's like I I would have made it known.
- 3:47Speaker 2: I would have made it known and no, we're coming
- 3:50Speaker 2: over my house, stay away. Your daughter can't get you
- 3:54Speaker 2: the door, and you leave. That's personally what I would do.
- 3:57Speaker 2: What would you do in that situation? Like would you
- 3:59Speaker 2: have done?
- 4:00Speaker 3: I feel like you would have done what Julia did.
- 4:02Speaker 1: First of all, I don't like confrontation. I know it
- 4:05Speaker 1: seems like I do but I don't. I actually don't.
- 4:08Speaker 1: I think I would have been like, kids can be friends.
- 4:11Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be chill. I think what I would
- 4:14Speaker 1: do is some subtle snide comments. I feel like that's
- 4:19Speaker 1: what I would do. Like you're thinking, Deraquel, let's back
- 4:23Speaker 1: it up. Back it up, girl, Raquel.
- 4:25Speaker 3: I need to talk to you and need to talk
- 4:26Speaker 3: to today. Quel.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Listen, this is what I know. I know what happened.
- 4:32Speaker 2: You're trying to pull a fast one. I mean, guess what.
- 4:35Speaker 2: It's not happening.
- 4:36Speaker 1: First of all, Danielle, what you act so tough? You
- 4:39Speaker 1: would not do that.
- 4:40Speaker 2: I would do it. No, no, no, no, here's the thing.
- 4:42Speaker 2: Here's the thing. You're all about the friends being friends. Great,
- 4:47Speaker 2: I get that. That's very sweet. By the end of
- 4:50Speaker 2: the day, what's a jeopardy is a relationship of that
- 4:55Speaker 2: daughter for her parents, right, So like, does she want
- 4:58Speaker 2: to have the best friend or does she want to
- 4:59Speaker 2: parents that are together.
- 5:00Speaker 3: At the end of the day, she wants the parents
- 5:02Speaker 3: that are.
- 5:02Speaker 1: Together, totally. I'll give it to you. I give it to.
- 5:05Speaker 2: Protect the most important thing, and in that scenario, the
- 5:07Speaker 2: most important thing are the parents.
- 5:09Speaker 1: Respect. I respect it. You are correct, but it would
- 5:13Speaker 1: be a tough situation. It's just, oh, now you hate Raquel, Wow,
- 5:18Speaker 1: you hate her.
- 5:19Speaker 3: Now I do. But she's good for the story.
- 5:21Speaker 1: So I'm like, she's good for the story. She needs
- 5:23Speaker 1: to stay because you know why her marriage is bad
- 5:25Speaker 1: is because they bring their kid on date night. I know,
- 5:28Speaker 1: I know, like Juliet was right, she's like, what, Mack's
- 5:31Speaker 1: our kid?
- 5:31Speaker 4: Here, kid eats vog wah or whatever she said.
- 5:43Speaker 1: Let's talk about my favorite part of the whole episode.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Her name is Minka Kelly. Her name is Minka Kelly.
- 5:50Speaker 1: I know.
- 5:50Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't remember.
- 5:51Speaker 1: That Minca shows up so quick. I didn't realize she's
- 5:55Speaker 1: for some reason, I thought she was like season two three,
- 5:57Speaker 1: Oh real quick. She is great.
- 6:01Speaker 3: She's so, she's here, She's gorgeous.
- 6:03Speaker 2: She seems like she's gonna help solve a lot of
- 6:06Speaker 2: issues with Max.
- 6:07Speaker 1: She totally befriends uh Monica Potter, whose name I cannot get.
- 6:11Speaker 1: Christina now straight Christina. I love the whole thing. I
- 6:15Speaker 1: love the way that they bond. I love the way
- 6:18Speaker 1: that Christina felt awful at first, Like you really feel
- 6:21Speaker 1: that that she's like sad, like it's going so well
- 6:24Speaker 1: but she's sad by it, like I tried this a
- 6:26Speaker 1: thousand times and I couldn't do it. Yeah, that would
- 6:30Speaker 1: be super hard as a mom. That's why it's like
- 6:32Speaker 1: they really cover the whole thing.
- 6:36Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, because as a mom, you feel like, or
- 6:41Speaker 2: really anyone that takes care of a child, you feel
- 6:43Speaker 2: like you know what they need at all times and
- 6:45Speaker 2: sometimes and it takes somebody who's not there every day
- 6:49Speaker 2: to actually tell you what you need right and like
- 6:52Speaker 2: how to do things with your how to how to
- 6:55Speaker 2: fix things with your child.
- 6:56Speaker 3: And so I think she's coming to terms with that.
- 6:59Speaker 3: And you see that in.
- 7:01Speaker 2: The one scene where you know they're hanging out with
- 7:04Speaker 2: Max and she goes, oh do you want do you
- 7:05Speaker 2: need this?
- 7:06Speaker 3: Do you need that? Oh?
- 7:07Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, don't do that because he won't respond
- 7:09Speaker 2: well to it. And Mina Minka Kelly's character was like
- 7:12Speaker 2: and she's.
- 7:13Speaker 1: So chill though she's not like yeah, not like, calm down, mom,
- 7:17Speaker 1: let me do my thing.
- 7:18Speaker 2: She's like, no, no, okay, let him try, let him
- 7:20Speaker 2: you know, and sometimes you just need that.
- 7:23Speaker 3: I love the relationship.
- 7:25Speaker 2: I love that it's stemming just like beyond backs and
- 7:29Speaker 2: actually into you know, Christina and Adams sex life, which
- 7:33Speaker 2: is you.
- 7:33Speaker 1: Know, find out that Christina sometimes is a faker faker.
- 7:38Speaker 3: She's a faker faker.
- 7:40Speaker 1: He's so like, not happy about it though.
- 7:42Speaker 2: I know, but I do find it interesting, like that
- 7:47Speaker 2: she confides in this person who's here to help.
- 7:52Speaker 1: Her, so totally bond. It's so good. And what does
- 7:55Speaker 1: she say to her relaxed?
- 7:57Speaker 3: And Adam's like, you told her about ours?
- 8:01Speaker 1: What did you tell her?
- 8:02Speaker 2: Like it was just oh gosh, you could just see that,
- 8:05Speaker 2: like actually be a conversation with the writers pulled that
- 8:09Speaker 2: from somebody.
- 8:11Speaker 1: So I think a lot of girlfriends talk about things
- 8:13Speaker 1: that the husbands would be like what, But they're not
- 8:16Speaker 1: like like husbands. You always hear like maybe boys more
- 8:20Speaker 1: like talk about things. I don't know, like in a
- 8:25Speaker 1: more Oh, I don't know how to explain it. You
- 8:28Speaker 1: have the impression that boys might say inappropriate things, but
- 8:31Speaker 1: I think boys say nothing, whereas girls they yeah, whereas
- 8:35Speaker 1: girls all together they're not inappropriate, but they definitely talk
- 8:40Speaker 1: about it.
- 8:41Speaker 3: If I had a dollar for every time my husband
- 8:43Speaker 3: has said, oh, this friend broke up with his girlfriend,
- 8:48Speaker 3: Oh my god, what happened? Why did they tell you? Why?
- 8:52Speaker 3: They broke up. I thought they were getting engaged this year.
- 8:55Speaker 3: I'd be like, I don't know, it just didn't work O.
- 8:59Speaker 2: What Like if it was a girlfriend of mine, I
- 9:02Speaker 2: would know exactly what happened.
- 9:04Speaker 3: I would know what they did with the ring.
- 9:06Speaker 2: I would know, you know, like who's whose fault it was,
- 9:10Speaker 2: and you know all that stuff.
- 9:13Speaker 3: And my husband was like, together, I don't know, I
- 9:17Speaker 3: just didn't work out. I'm like, what do you mean
- 9:20Speaker 3: to worry out? You to ask questions? No, he's really upset.
- 9:23Speaker 3: I just I just I was listening. Screw you give
- 9:28Speaker 3: me the juicy details, dude, I need the juicy details.
- 9:33Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, but it's very girl friendy to like
- 9:36Speaker 1: open up like, hey, this is happening. What should I do?
- 9:39Speaker 3: Exactly?
- 9:40Speaker 1: Also girlfriendy to be like, he texted me this mean yeah,
- 9:45Speaker 1: And then girls just spent eight hours dissecting it. No
- 9:47Speaker 1: one knows, no one knows what it means.
- 9:49Speaker 3: Should we talk about Crosby and Jabbar? I thought that
- 9:51Speaker 3: was very sweet.
- 9:52Speaker 1: There's nothing I loved more than the grandparents meeting Jabbar.
- 9:55Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Well, and just you know, first of all, he takes
- 9:59Speaker 1: them to the line first. He can't do it whims out.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Then they go to the diner and they're like, are
- 10:05Speaker 1: you okay? They're so worried, and then they're so happy.
- 10:09Speaker 3: They're so It's one of those things.
- 10:11Speaker 2: That it just makes you feel so so good when
- 10:14Speaker 2: that happens, because it is a situation in which maybe
- 10:20Speaker 2: not all parents or not all relatives would be fully
- 10:22Speaker 2: accepting of right or just or comfortable with right off
- 10:27Speaker 2: the bat. You know, some people would just need time
- 10:29Speaker 2: to adjust that their son has a kid that they
- 10:32Speaker 2: haven't known about for five years, you know whatever.
- 10:34Speaker 1: You know what I love. It's the elephant in the room.
- 10:36Speaker 1: And I'm going to say it. Yeah, they don't care
- 10:39Speaker 1: that he's not the same race as them at all.
- 10:41Speaker 2: I know, I know that that is true. I mean,
- 10:45Speaker 2: and the first thing that the mom.
- 10:46Speaker 1: Said was or that he's mixed race. I should say, yeah.
- 10:50Speaker 3: The first thing that the mom says is he has
- 10:52Speaker 3: your smile.
- 10:53Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, because don't They say does he
- 10:55Speaker 1: look like you?
- 10:56Speaker 3: And he goes, yes, he does, yes.
- 10:58Speaker 1: And you know what he does? And I just love
- 11:01Speaker 1: the way they they don't they're not they don't have
- 11:05Speaker 1: to be on the nose with it. They don't have
- 11:07Speaker 1: to overtly address it or comment on it. We got it,
- 11:12Speaker 1: we got it, we got it. And then the bike,
- 11:15Speaker 1: the bike comes out.
- 11:16Speaker 2: But even before the bike that they were like, you
- 11:18Speaker 2: can call me grandma, you can call me grandpa.
- 11:20Speaker 3: And then it's just it was just it was one
- 11:24Speaker 3: of those things that you literally felt so good, so
- 11:28Speaker 3: good about one.
- 11:29Speaker 1: The way they handled it, the way every and it's
- 11:31Speaker 1: very how they would it. Tracks.
- 11:35Speaker 3: Yes, I agree.
- 11:36Speaker 2: I agree. So Camille and and and Zeke, we love you.
- 11:42Speaker 2: You guys get the Grandparents Awards of the of the week.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Oh, I know what I want to talk about. There's
- 11:56Speaker 1: not a lot of Amber or the kids as much
- 11:59Speaker 1: because oh oh yes or no? Check yes or no.
- 12:04Speaker 3: Jason, it wasn't yes or no, it was multiple choice.
- 12:07Speaker 1: The Amber has a crush on the teacher.
- 12:10Speaker 3: I know. I taken there.
- 12:12Speaker 1: It's taken Max Medina and Laura La to an entirely
- 12:16Speaker 1: new level.
- 12:17Speaker 2: Yeah, they saw the gim One Girls storyline. They're like,
- 12:19Speaker 2: we're gonna one of that.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Rory never had a crush on Max Medina and clearly
- 12:25Speaker 1: Amber she likes the teacher. It's not weird. It's not like.
- 12:29Speaker 2: Staying late at school and doing an extra credit. Amber
- 12:31Speaker 2: does not do that.
- 12:32Speaker 1: She wants to do that paper or whatever he's doing. Oh,
- 12:37Speaker 1: it's going to be real bad when she finds out
- 12:39Speaker 1: that the mom is dating the teacher.
- 12:41Speaker 3: It's just what did you think? I look, you can
- 12:45Speaker 3: cut the sexual attention with a knife. I thought it
- 12:47Speaker 3: was incredibly hot that he came to the bar and
- 12:52Speaker 3: was like, look, basically, I like you, I want to
- 12:56Speaker 3: take you on a date? Can you know? Can you
- 13:00Speaker 3: so the question essentially.
- 13:01Speaker 1: And she's so the way she underacts oh, but she's smiling,
- 13:06Speaker 1: it's so good. And then she's like, oh, oh, goes
- 13:08Speaker 1: back to her job.
- 13:08Speaker 3: I mean, and well, let's not forget that they that
- 13:12Speaker 3: they kiss.
- 13:13Speaker 1: I know, I know at the end he comes back.
- 13:15Speaker 1: She says, it's complicated, he comes back.
- 13:18Speaker 2: It's so good, and then she does the yes, and
- 13:21Speaker 2: he says that's the right answer. And then you just
- 13:24Speaker 2: feel it, you feel the butterflies, you feel all of it,
- 13:28Speaker 2: and I'm in great acting, great acting.
- 13:32Speaker 1: Yeah, Jason Rider is like an underrated amazing actor. Like
- 13:36Speaker 1: I think people know he's a good actor, but I
- 13:38Speaker 1: don't think they realized like he's a great actor. Maybe
- 13:40Speaker 1: he's having his moment now on Matt Lock, but uh wow,
- 13:44Speaker 1: it's so he is just perfect, perfectly cast. Oh so good.
- 13:50Speaker 2: What did you make of the ending of the show
- 13:53Speaker 2: where Crosby's doing the puppet show and and you see
- 13:56Speaker 2: Raquel and Julia standing next to.
- 13:59Speaker 1: You tid it. I liked it because she sees this
- 14:02Speaker 1: two that her daughter and her friend Raquel's daughter with
- 14:06Speaker 1: the arm around, and she goes she decides, I'm going
- 14:11Speaker 1: to sacrifice what I want for what my daughter needs.
- 14:15Speaker 1: And I'm like, that is great.
- 14:18Speaker 2: And then Christina and Adam have really good sex. My
- 14:24Speaker 2: favorite is when he's like, was that good?
- 14:26Speaker 3: Are you sure? And she's like, I haven't felt this
- 14:28Speaker 3: good in two months. She's all, be quiet, be quiet,
- 14:32Speaker 3: it's so good.
- 14:33Speaker 1: It's such a great show. Am I right?
- 14:35Speaker 3: Like you know it's fabulous? Honestly it is. It is
- 14:38Speaker 3: so great. It is so if.
- 14:40Speaker 1: You're not watching Parenthood from fifteen years ago? When was
- 14:45Speaker 1: it out two thousand and ten, twenty ten, fifteen years ago,
- 14:50Speaker 1: you should be like, if you're listening to us, watch it.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Watch Parenthood. It's so good.
- 14:55Speaker 3: No, it is really good.
- 14:57Speaker 1: It's very good.
- 14:58Speaker 3: Now there is like go girls, tie it in from our
- 15:01Speaker 3: producers that I feel like I should read.
- 15:03Speaker 1: We talked about it, isn't it the teacher stuff?
- 15:05Speaker 2: Yeah, but I didn't put it together Max Medina and
- 15:09Speaker 2: the Amber's teacher.
- 15:11Speaker 3: They're both English teachers.
- 15:13Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, yeah, right, fine, fine, nice little that's
- 15:16Speaker 1: good good fine.
- 15:17Speaker 3: Yeah, so same same subject, school subject.
- 15:19Speaker 1: Really good job, good job, good job, crackstaff, good job.
- 15:25Speaker 1: So I don't remember how we end the Braverman's Out,
- 15:27Speaker 1: Braverman's Out.
- 15:28Speaker 3: We didn't read the episode though. Did you want to
- 15:30Speaker 3: read the episode? Oh?
- 15:31Speaker 1: Of course I did. Nine point and seven five. Like,
- 15:36Speaker 1: I could give them all tens, but I'm just holding
- 15:37Speaker 1: back so that I don't just seem like I'm a
- 15:39Speaker 1: loosey goosey with my tens.
- 15:40Speaker 3: Yeah, this was a nine to four to me.
- 15:42Speaker 2: It is my most rating, not because of content, not
- 15:45Speaker 2: because of content, it's just there.
- 15:46Speaker 3: There was a lot of good stuff in this, really good.
- 15:49Speaker 3: But the last episodes were like, you know, like, ok, yeah,
- 15:54Speaker 3: but this was this was I have not rated lower
- 15:58Speaker 3: than a nine to four. You guys, that's that's how
- 16:00Speaker 3: good this thing is.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Quick shout out. I saw Michae O'Malley on something and
- 16:04Speaker 1: I wanted to remember to tell you that he was
- 16:08Speaker 1: doing fine because I saw my he's doing fine. What
- 16:13Speaker 1: did I see? I'm very worried.
- 16:14Speaker 3: About Michael Malley, you know what I need to do.
- 16:17Speaker 1: That or something. I was watching and I'm like, Oh,
- 16:19Speaker 1: there's Mike O'Malley. He's all good. What was it? I
- 16:24Speaker 1: don't remember if it was something old or new, And
- 16:25Speaker 1: now I have to go to his.
- 16:26Speaker 3: IMDb and that's what I'm doing.
- 16:29Speaker 1: I can jog the old noggin.
- 16:31Speaker 3: Oh man, what did I just see him?
- 16:34Speaker 1: Docsey, thank you so much. I think maybe it was
- 16:37Speaker 1: stock Odyssey. It was it was okay, Thank goodness. This
- 16:41Speaker 1: is why IMDb helps me so much. Does Michael Malley come.
- 16:44Speaker 3: Back one more episode?
- 16:48Speaker 1: So anyway, Josh Jackson, I feel like you're a fan.
- 16:52Speaker 1: Are you a Dawson's Creek fan? No?
- 16:55Speaker 3: Wow?
- 16:55Speaker 1: But anyway, so Josh Josh Jackson Pacey has a new show,
- 16:59Speaker 1: Doctor Seat, which I watch, and he thinks maybe he's
- 17:03Speaker 1: going to leave the ship and just go back home
- 17:05Speaker 1: and be a doctor in his hometown. And Michae O'Malley
- 17:08Speaker 1: is a doctor who like runs the hospital, and I
- 17:11Speaker 1: was like, oh, Michael Malley, you're getting work. I'm glad.
- 17:17Speaker 3: Michael Malley is doing fine after being dumped at the
- 17:21Speaker 3: coffee shop.
- 17:22Speaker 2: He's doing all right, all right. Well, Braverman's officially out.
- 17:55Speaker 1: Hey, everybody's altoget. Follow us on Instagram at I Am
- 17:59Speaker 1: all In podcast and email us at Gilmore at iHeartRadio
- 18:04Speaker 1: dot com.