Latest / Wellness, Actually with Emily Oster & Perry Wilson, MD / Learning to Speak: Understanding the babbling black box
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is parent data. I'm Emily ost.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Hm hmmmm mm hmmm, hig duck ba Mama. The book
- 0:33Speaker 2: Hi j k N then a peak to wos w
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- 0:49Speaker 3: When I was a baby, my mother was at a
- 0:52Speaker 3: party and she met a woman named Catherine Nelson who
- 0:55Speaker 3: was an expert in child language development. And as my
- 1:00Speaker 3: mom used to tell it, she explained to Catherine that
- 1:03Speaker 3: I like to talk to myself in the crib more
- 1:06Speaker 3: or less NonStop.
- 1:08Speaker 1: And Catherine asked her, what would you be willing to
- 1:10Speaker 1: record that? And so my mom.
- 1:12Speaker 3: Recorded with a tape recorder under my bed me for
- 1:16Speaker 3: two years, almost every night when I talk to myself.
- 1:20Speaker 3: And she turned all of these tape recorders over to
- 1:23Speaker 3: Catherine and a bunch of researchers use them to try
- 1:27Speaker 3: to understand how kids develop language. And I remember when
- 1:33Speaker 3: I was nine getting the book that resulted from this
- 1:36Speaker 3: research and looking through it and thinking, who would read this?
- 1:39Speaker 1: It's incredibly boring.
- 1:42Speaker 3: But as an adult, as a parent myself, I have
- 1:44Speaker 3: gone back to read that book and I no longer
- 1:46Speaker 3: find it boring. Not because I'm so interested in my
- 1:50Speaker 3: own babbling, although who isn't, but because the question of
- 1:55Speaker 3: how our kids develop language as parents is so fascinating
- 2:00Speaker 3: because it's so hard to understand.
- 2:03Speaker 1: At one moment, your kid.
- 2:05Speaker 3: Is just babbling, and then all of a sudden, it
- 2:09Speaker 3: feels like you wake up two weeks later and they're talking.
- 2:12Speaker 3: And those first moments of talking in a way you
- 2:15Speaker 3: can understand are so powerful because now instead of screaming
- 2:19Speaker 3: and throwing things, they can say milk and you can understand, ah, milk,
- 2:26Speaker 3: I should have guessed. So child language development is exciting,
- 2:32Speaker 3: is interesting.
- 2:33Speaker 1: It can also be fraught.
- 2:34Speaker 3: It is one of the first things that gives us
- 2:36Speaker 3: a moment to say, was my kid behind? Or they
- 2:38Speaker 3: have enough words? What is enough words? How do I
- 2:41Speaker 3: understand whether that even is a word? My guest today,
- 2:46Speaker 3: Michael Frank researches language development. He's a professor at Stanford
- 2:51Speaker 3: and he studies how kids learn to speak and how
- 2:56Speaker 3: we can understand how kids learn to speak. And we're
- 2:59Speaker 3: going to talk today about what's cool about studying this,
- 3:03Speaker 3: what we know about it, how we should think about
- 3:05Speaker 3: the difference between understanding and speaking, and think about when
- 3:10Speaker 3: you should be worried and should you be worried, and
- 3:12Speaker 3: how to think about the stresses that come with us
- 3:16Speaker 3: after the break Professor Michael Frank. So, I'm delighted to
- 3:24Speaker 3: welcome Stanford's psychology professor Michael Frank to the podcast.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Mike, thanks for joining.
- 3:28Speaker 4: Me absolutely, thanks for having me so to.
- 3:31Speaker 3: Introduce people to you, I actually want to read language
- 3:34Speaker 3: from your website because I think it's the simplest way
- 3:36Speaker 3: to explain why I'm excited about this conversation. So here's
- 3:40Speaker 3: from your website, how do we learn to communicate using language?
- 3:44Speaker 3: I that's you study children's language learning and how it
- 3:48Speaker 3: interacts with their developing understanding of the social world. I'm
- 3:51Speaker 3: interested in bringing larger data sets to bear on these
- 3:53Speaker 3: questions and use a wide variety of methods, including I tracking,
- 3:57Speaker 3: tablet experiments, and computational models. The work in my lab
- 4:00Speaker 3: has focused on data oriented approaches to development. So for
- 4:04Speaker 3: parent data, you've pretty much just put together our favorite keywords.
- 4:08Speaker 3: There's data, big data, children, methods, development, it's the best,
- 4:12Speaker 3: And so I was I was struggling with it where
- 4:14Speaker 3: to start, And we're going to try to touch on
- 4:16Speaker 3: a bunch of those pieces, but I think we're going
- 4:18Speaker 3: to start with language development. So without asking you to
- 4:22Speaker 3: teach me like five semesters worth of PhD classes. Can
- 4:26Speaker 3: I just ask you to talk a little bit about
- 4:28Speaker 3: this very basic question of like, how does my kid
- 4:31Speaker 3: learn to talk?
- 4:32Speaker 1: Because it seems like magic.
- 4:34Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think it seems like magic to
- 4:36Speaker 4: a lot of us. Actually, no, it's really amazing. Right,
- 4:39Speaker 4: So you have this trajectory over not that many years
- 4:43Speaker 4: where you go from just not being able to talk
- 4:45Speaker 4: to being able to do pretty well at making your
- 4:48Speaker 4: way through the world and conversation. So back in the day,
- 4:52Speaker 4: the starting hypothesis was I say things to my kid,
- 4:55Speaker 4: they repeat it back, they imitate. And that's in some
- 4:59Speaker 4: sense not a terrible way to start thinking about language development,
- 5:02Speaker 4: because you know, in different languages around the world, there's
- 5:05Speaker 4: a different word for dog, and so you've got to
- 5:08Speaker 4: learn that word by hearing it and hearing it matched
- 5:11Speaker 4: with something in the world, ideally like a dog. What
- 5:14Speaker 4: if you were a stuffed dog or a picture of
- 5:15Speaker 4: a dog in a book or so forth. But language
- 5:18Speaker 4: is more than imitation. So you're hearing these things, but
- 5:21Speaker 4: you're also hearing how they go together in sentences. And
- 5:24Speaker 4: it's actually very very quick to see kids starting maybe
- 5:28Speaker 4: even eighteen months two years to combine words in ways
- 5:31Speaker 4: that they haven't heard before, so starting to generalize and
- 5:34Speaker 4: produce new forms. And when that gets super obvious to
- 5:37Speaker 4: parents is when they start to make errors, especially when
- 5:40Speaker 4: they say, like, oh, I goed to the store like this.
- 5:43Speaker 4: That's them combining that ed from you know, other verbs
- 5:47Speaker 4: that they know with a verb that it doesn't go with.
- 5:52Speaker 4: So basically some combination of learning from the environment from
- 5:56Speaker 4: the people around them to get those word forms and
- 5:57Speaker 4: then starting to combine them into novel expressions, trying to
- 6:01Speaker 4: make new sentences and get their message across in whatever
- 6:04Speaker 4: way they can.
- 6:05Speaker 3: How much we sort of dialed into the like brain
- 6:08Speaker 3: part of this, how much do we understand about like
- 6:12Speaker 3: I don't know the neuronal connections of how that happens,
- 6:15Speaker 3: Like do we actually know what part of the brain
- 6:18Speaker 3: is turning on or off when we're doing that or
- 6:20Speaker 3: is that still kind of a black box?
- 6:22Speaker 4: I would say basically it's still a black box in
- 6:25Speaker 4: terms of kids. So when we're studying adults, there have
- 6:28Speaker 4: been a bunch of really nice studies recently that have
- 6:32Speaker 4: really uncovered some of the neural structures that are are
- 6:35Speaker 4: supporting language. I mean, there's there's a long history here,
- 6:38Speaker 4: of course, dating back to you know, people looking at
- 6:40Speaker 4: folks with brain injuries. But there's been some.
- 6:43Speaker 3: Exciting Phineas Gauge, right, I have my younger kid is
- 6:46Speaker 3: named Phineas, So this is sometimes people with sayle like
- 6:49Speaker 3: Phineas Gauge.
- 6:50Speaker 4: Well, well he didn't lose language. He lost according to
- 6:52Speaker 4: the Resi version self control. But you know, I'm broken
- 6:56Speaker 4: and Wernickey, these neurologists back in the nineteen sex we're
- 7:00Speaker 4: looking at, you know, what happened to language when you
- 7:04Speaker 4: had brain injuries. But it's really modern neuroscience with decoding
- 7:09Speaker 4: methods and even computational models that's starting to give us
- 7:12Speaker 4: insight into how language is working in the adult brain.
- 7:15Speaker 4: But there's lots of challenges when you try to scale
- 7:17Speaker 4: that to the kid's brain, most notably that our best
- 7:20Speaker 4: technique for this is functional MRI, which requires you to
- 7:23Speaker 4: sit still for many minutes at a time, which is
- 7:26Speaker 4: not a strength of toddler's learning language. So we're actually really,
- 7:30Speaker 4: you know, I think in the next couple of years,
- 7:33Speaker 4: going to learn a lot as folks like some of
- 7:35Speaker 4: my colleagues here at Stanford persuade toddlers to sit still
- 7:39Speaker 4: for just a little bit longer and get a little
- 7:41Speaker 4: bit faster at functional MRI scanning, and maybe we start
- 7:44Speaker 4: to apply some of those insights from the adults to
- 7:46Speaker 4: the kids. But right now, the brain data on kids
- 7:49Speaker 4: learning language is actually much more limited than you might expect.
- 7:53Speaker 3: So when my kid is little, I mean, this is
- 7:55Speaker 3: something I think parents wonder, is like when does something
- 7:57Speaker 3: become language? Right, so your kids starts, they're making the noises,
- 8:02Speaker 3: the bu mum, you know, the noises, and then slowly
- 8:07Speaker 3: it turns into something which maybe it seems to them
- 8:11Speaker 3: like a word, but certainly isn't something that hears.
- 8:15Speaker 1: Should we view those as words? Or is this all
- 8:17Speaker 1: sort of a vague?
- 8:19Speaker 3: Is there a moment when it's like now they understand
- 8:21Speaker 3: the idea of the mapping or is that just a
- 8:22Speaker 3: very slow process.
- 8:25Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 8:25Speaker 4: Part of the amazing thing about languages, it does have
- 8:28Speaker 4: this gradual emergence at the beginning. So my daughter Madeline,
- 8:32Speaker 4: around nine months she said something like bra bra, which
- 8:35Speaker 4: I think meant brown bear, you know from that classic
- 8:38Speaker 4: brown Bear brown Bear when you see book. And I
- 8:41Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, it's the first word. We're here,
- 8:42Speaker 4: We're in communication. It's language is great, and then it
- 8:45Speaker 4: went away and we didn't hear anything else told about
- 8:48Speaker 4: thirteen months, so that was a kind of a long
- 8:50Speaker 4: dry spell. And first words are kind of frustrating like
- 8:53Speaker 4: that they come and they go. They're sometimes communicative, sometimes
- 8:57Speaker 4: they just feel like you're trying things out. Way that
- 9:00Speaker 4: my father in law, who's actually a speech pathologist, describes
- 9:03Speaker 4: this process is that kids are playing the instrument. They're
- 9:06Speaker 4: just trying stuff out with their voices. And you know,
- 9:10Speaker 4: you actually see this with signing kids too. They'll babble
- 9:12Speaker 4: with their hands, they'll try out different gestures. But I
- 9:15Speaker 4: think the reason here that this is a complicated question
- 9:18Speaker 4: is because there's no language, not language distinction. It's all
- 9:22Speaker 4: communication all the way down. That's my viewpoint is even
- 9:26Speaker 4: very very early on, kids are really communicating to other people.
- 9:30Speaker 4: And you see that actually well before language and most
- 9:32Speaker 4: kids because they start to point, and that emergence of
- 9:35Speaker 4: pointing is a huge milestone. It's really I want to
- 9:38Speaker 4: share this external thing with you. And a lot of
- 9:41Speaker 4: people have argued that that's pretty unique to humans. That's
- 9:44Speaker 4: that big declarative, like let's share this thing that's outside
- 9:49Speaker 4: of the two of us. But let's share it between
- 9:51Speaker 4: the two of us, that triadic idea, that that's human
- 9:55Speaker 4: unique and really predictive of later language. It's really a
- 9:58Speaker 4: powerful moment. So I actually remember that moment with both
- 10:00Speaker 4: of my kids that like, fingers out, we're looking at
- 10:03Speaker 4: something else and you want to tell me about it,
- 10:05Speaker 4: and that's really special. So it's like, you know, walking
- 10:08Speaker 4: down the street in New York City with my son
- 10:10Speaker 4: Jonah when he was about ten eleven months old at
- 10:13Speaker 4: Thanksgiving visiting my parents, and he was like dah ah
- 10:16Speaker 4: and I was like, yeah, that's that's the moment.
- 10:19Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 10:19Speaker 3: My mother in law and sis that my husband said
- 10:21Speaker 3: the word fishy when he was six months old, and
- 10:24Speaker 3: that like that was his first word.
- 10:25Speaker 1: I mean, I've sort of always thought about that.
- 10:27Speaker 3: As just a thing she completely fabricated, which is almost
- 10:30Speaker 3: certainly true, but maybe maybe not.
- 10:34Speaker 4: You know, my grandparents say that my first word was
- 10:36Speaker 4: like rhinoceros, which is hilarious for so many reasons, one
- 10:39Speaker 4: of which is that the sounds and rhinoceros are actually
- 10:42Speaker 4: extremely hard to say, right, but also how would you
- 10:46Speaker 4: have been exposed to so first words are really notoriously difficult.
- 10:52Speaker 4: It is very interesting though there's a bunch of work
- 10:54Speaker 4: with more sensitive measurements that has shown that six month olds,
- 10:57Speaker 4: seven month olds, nine month olds do know a teen
- 11:00Speaker 4: little bit about language. So there are detectable traces of
- 11:04Speaker 4: understanding a little bit of words under there, under the surface.
- 11:07Speaker 4: So that's like what that means is like if you
- 11:09Speaker 4: gave them a choice between ball and dog, when you
- 11:12Speaker 4: say dog, they're gonna look at the dog, like, uh,
- 11:16Speaker 4: fifty three percent of the time.
- 11:18Speaker 3: This is these eye tracking experiments right where you watch
- 11:20Speaker 3: where they're looking to see whether they understand what you're talking.
- 11:23Speaker 4: About exactly, and you can find the first traces of
- 11:27Speaker 4: success in that early period, but it's not really until
- 11:31Speaker 4: about the first birthday where language comprehension really kind of
- 11:34Speaker 4: leaps above the surface and you start to see, oh, yeah,
- 11:37Speaker 4: you get this. You're understanding what I'm saying in some
- 11:39Speaker 4: kind of more consistent way.
- 11:41Speaker 3: So that's actually good segue to what I think is
- 11:44Speaker 3: there's the part of this it's so exciting that it's
- 11:47Speaker 3: just so cool, but then there's a part of it
- 11:49Speaker 3: that's really scary because your kid isn't doing the thing
- 11:53Speaker 3: that you thought. They're not pointing, they're not making the words.
- 11:56Speaker 3: They're not developing in the way that we expect. And
- 11:59Speaker 3: I get a lot of quotes about this, and I
- 12:01Speaker 3: is just source of a source of tremendous stress for parents,
- 12:05Speaker 3: and so I'm not even sure I have a question
- 12:08Speaker 3: here as much as you know, can you comment on
- 12:11Speaker 3: that topic?
- 12:13Speaker 4: Yeah, it's totally stressful. So I think there's there's a
- 12:16Speaker 4: couple things to say here. The first is that language
- 12:20Speaker 4: is really variable. Early language is scary and frustrating and
- 12:23Speaker 4: complicated for parents, in part because the variability is very high.
- 12:28Speaker 4: So most kids in the US and actually around the
- 12:31Speaker 4: world walk within a month or two of their first birthday.
- 12:35Speaker 4: There's some variation, but it's it's not so big. But
- 12:37Speaker 4: if you take a milestone for early language, like saying
- 12:40Speaker 4: fifty words or one hundred words or combining words, it
- 12:43Speaker 4: varies by a lot of months. And that's within typically developing,
- 12:47Speaker 4: healthy kids who are going to have good language outcomes.
- 12:50Speaker 4: So if there's anything that I've you know, kind of
- 12:52Speaker 4: discovered from digging into data with lots and lots of
- 12:55Speaker 4: kids that was I think not really appreciated or known,
- 12:59Speaker 4: it's just how much the variation between kids is actually
- 13:02Speaker 4: consistent or universal across the samples we look at. No
- 13:06Speaker 4: matter where you're looking in the world, kids are all
- 13:08Speaker 4: over the place with respect to language.
- 13:10Speaker 3: So we're talking about like, when we look at sort
- 13:12Speaker 3: of a typically developing eighteen month old, you can have
- 13:15Speaker 3: these ranges between you know, a few words, maybe almost
- 13:18Speaker 3: no words, up to kids who kind of seem I mean,
- 13:22Speaker 3: I had a friend who's kid at that age. We
- 13:24Speaker 3: showed up at a at.
- 13:26Speaker 1: Like a restaurant, and she was like, look, there are umbrellas.
- 13:29Speaker 1: I was like, what are you kidding me?
- 13:32Speaker 4: No, exactly right. It's really really remarkable how different you
- 13:37Speaker 4: walk into a preschool class, how different these language abilities
- 13:41Speaker 4: are across the class. So that's within the typically developing range.
- 13:45Speaker 4: And that's very anxiety provoking for parents who always want
- 13:47Speaker 4: to be at the very top of the range, or
- 13:49Speaker 4: or worry that it.
- 13:50Speaker 3: Is predictive, right, I mean, I think it's sort of
- 13:53Speaker 3: The worry is is in some ways not so much
- 13:56Speaker 3: that people are worried that their kid won't learn to talk,
- 13:59Speaker 3: but they're something that this is denoting that is going
- 14:04Speaker 3: to be true in.
- 14:05Speaker 1: The long term.
- 14:06Speaker 4: So one really important thing about that is that when
- 14:09Speaker 4: you talk as a little kid is not just related
- 14:12Speaker 4: to how much you understand, but also how easy is
- 14:15Speaker 4: it is for you to move your mouth in a
- 14:17Speaker 4: particular way and move your you know, your entire articulatory apparatus,
- 14:22Speaker 4: Your vocal cords need to hum and buzz the right ways,
- 14:25Speaker 4: you need to push air through your entire system. So
- 14:30Speaker 4: it's there's a lot of coordination that has to happen
- 14:33Speaker 4: in order for talking, and especially for combining words and
- 14:36Speaker 4: too complex sentences to happen right. Evolutionarily speaking, there's a
- 14:41Speaker 4: lot of mechanics that human beings have that other primates don't,
- 14:45Speaker 4: for using your vocal apparatus and your breathing and your
- 14:49Speaker 4: vocal cords and your articulators so flexibly to be able
- 14:52Speaker 4: to do this incredibly fast dance that we do when
- 14:54Speaker 4: we talk and so like. For example, my son Jonah
- 14:57Speaker 4: actually was by many standards what's called a late talker.
- 15:01Speaker 4: His productive vocabulary was relatively low at age two. I
- 15:06Speaker 4: wasn't worried at all about him. Well, I wasn't worried
- 15:08Speaker 4: very much about him. How can you? You are a parent,
- 15:10Speaker 4: so yeah, gotta worry, But I wasn't really very worried
- 15:15Speaker 4: from a rational perspective, because I knew he understood a
- 15:17Speaker 4: tremendous amount language was working, but moving his mouth in
- 15:22Speaker 4: this particular way was pretty hard. And his early vocabulary
- 15:26Speaker 4: was hilarious. He was like, had some numbers, some abstract
- 15:29Speaker 4: you know, colors, you know, a bunch of kind of abstract,
- 15:32Speaker 4: complicated stuff that made me feel like, Okay, your cognition
- 15:35Speaker 4: is fine. But this whole moving the mouth thing and
- 15:37Speaker 4: lining that up with the vocal cords, that was really
- 15:39Speaker 4: pretty tough for him.
- 15:41Speaker 3: It's interesting because I think you're Another perhaps simpler way
- 15:44Speaker 3: to say this is just that we think of productive
- 15:48Speaker 3: language as a metric of cognition, as a sort of
- 15:52Speaker 3: pure like it is your brain that is that is
- 15:55Speaker 3: doing this, and in fact it is a combination of
- 15:58Speaker 3: cognition and something that's a more basic physical milestone, which
- 16:02Speaker 3: is the production and the way. We don't think about
- 16:04Speaker 3: walking as of something that is about, you know, your
- 16:08Speaker 3: cognitive development. We just think about it as a physical thing.
- 16:11Speaker 3: But there's this physical component to this as well.
- 16:14Speaker 4: That's exactly right. And so when you go to the
- 16:17Speaker 4: pediatrician or the speech pathologist when your child at age
- 16:19Speaker 4: two two and a half isn't saying that many words.
- 16:22Speaker 4: One of the first things they look into is going
- 16:24Speaker 4: to be, well, are they having trouble understanding language as well,
- 16:27Speaker 4: or is there understanding relatively intact, but there's something speech
- 16:31Speaker 4: motor that's giving them difficulty. So there is huge variation.
- 16:36Speaker 4: That's not to say that there shouldn't sometimes worry. There
- 16:39Speaker 4: are places where we do need to go to the pediatrician,
- 16:44Speaker 4: ask for for all, maybe go to a speech language specialist,
- 16:46Speaker 4: try to figure out what's going on. And that's typically
- 16:49Speaker 4: when a child is in that third year, there's two
- 16:52Speaker 4: two and a half and they're still not saying much,
- 16:54Speaker 4: and especially when they're having trouble understanding, or even earlier
- 16:59Speaker 4: if if they're really not communicating, so they're not doing
- 17:03Speaker 4: those communicative gestures like pointing, they're not responding to their
- 17:08Speaker 4: own name consistently. These are the kinds of indicators that
- 17:13Speaker 4: we look at where it's good to chat with a
- 17:15Speaker 4: professional to try to figure out what the next steps are.
- 17:17Speaker 4: But I think what you want to look for for
- 17:19Speaker 4: that reassurance is the comprehension, is the understanding and the
- 17:23Speaker 4: community and the desire to communicate, Those are going to
- 17:25Speaker 4: be your big kind of easy to spot markers. If
- 17:28Speaker 4: there's comprehension and desire to communicate, it's probably a speech
- 17:32Speaker 4: motor thing. If there's not, you know, you might be
- 17:34Speaker 4: looking at either a general language issue or something like
- 17:37Speaker 4: an autism spectrum disorder.
- 17:40Speaker 3: Yeah, and there is, of course all of these things
- 17:42Speaker 3: at top the top on the variation that are predictable,
- 17:44Speaker 3: Like if your kid is learning multiple languages, the productive
- 17:48Speaker 3: vocabulary in any single language is smaller because there's many languages,
- 17:53Speaker 3: and it can be hard for people to perceive their
- 17:56Speaker 3: kid expressing as much because of those differences.
- 17:59Speaker 4: That's exactly right, and this is one of the biggest
- 18:01Speaker 4: challenges that our field is dealing with from a practical
- 18:04Speaker 4: perspective now, is that when you have kids growing up
- 18:07Speaker 4: in very varied, multi lingual environments. You know, maybe they're
- 18:10Speaker 4: learning one language at school and the other at home,
- 18:12Speaker 4: Maybe they have one caregiver speaking one language. Maybe they've
- 18:16Speaker 4: got a whole distribution of languages and different circumstances. How
- 18:19Speaker 4: do you assess whether what looks like a smaller vocabulary
- 18:23Speaker 4: or small smaller comprehension ability even in one circumstance, whether
- 18:27Speaker 4: that's predictive of an actual language delay. So doing good
- 18:30Speaker 4: assessment in that kind of case is something that we're
- 18:33Speaker 4: working on and a bunch of other groups around the
- 18:34Speaker 4: world are working on because it's so critical to find out.
- 18:38Speaker 4: Is this child experiencing over a language delay where there
- 18:41Speaker 4: might be an intervention that we could do, or is
- 18:44Speaker 4: this just a natural consequence of Hey, like, there's a
- 18:46Speaker 4: lot of language input from different sources coming in. They're
- 18:48Speaker 4: different languages. I need to differentiate them. I need to,
- 18:51Speaker 4: you know, learn enough vocabulary to work with each independently.
- 18:55Speaker 3: So let me ask one other practical question before we
- 18:57Speaker 3: talk about data, which is one of the things parents
- 18:59Speaker 3: here a lot is you have to talk to your
- 19:01Speaker 3: kid all the time.
- 19:02Speaker 1: That the way to get your kid to.
- 19:03Speaker 3: Learn language is to narrate your entire life, beginning from birth.
- 19:07Speaker 3: You know, mommy is taking your diaper off. Now, oh,
- 19:09Speaker 3: you had such a big poopy in your diaper, Now
- 19:12Speaker 3: mommy is putting your diaper back on.
- 19:14Speaker 1: Et cetera.
- 19:15Speaker 3: That your whole life needs to be narrated. Then that
- 19:17Speaker 3: is how you get your kid to learn to talk.
- 19:20Speaker 1: Is that true?
- 19:20Speaker 4: Please tell me now. So that's that's the most extreme
- 19:25Speaker 4: version of it. So where that comes from, I'll tell
- 19:27Speaker 4: you you know, this is sort of a maybe a
- 19:29Speaker 4: good data story, right. Where it comes from is that
- 19:31Speaker 4: there have been studies looking at relations between kids language input,
- 19:36Speaker 4: and that could be how much they hear at home,
- 19:39Speaker 4: both in terms of the quantity and also the quality
- 19:41Speaker 4: of the input. And then there's a correlation with some contemporaneous,
- 19:45Speaker 4: some you know, outcome measure like how much they speak,
- 19:48Speaker 4: or maybe some later outcome measure like you know, how
- 19:52Speaker 4: big their vocabulary is, or maybe even how they do
- 19:54Speaker 4: eventually when they get to school. And so those correlations
- 19:57Speaker 4: do exist, their a distant size, in part because any
- 20:01Speaker 4: correlation between you know, parent and child has a lot
- 20:04Speaker 4: going on. There's measurement error, so forth. Then there's there's
- 20:08Speaker 4: also the question of how much those are forced by.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Are they necessarily causal? Yeah, not necessarily right?
- 20:13Speaker 4: Are they forced by genetics? Are there other aspects that
- 20:17Speaker 4: that are you know, that are causally hodogenous there? So
- 20:22Speaker 4: there's a lot going on. So there are some studies
- 20:26Speaker 4: where you can intervene on the parents to try to
- 20:30Speaker 4: get them to talk more to the kids. Not very many,
- 20:33Speaker 4: not very big, but there are some, and you do
- 20:35Speaker 4: find gains in the child's vocabulary Now the next question
- 20:40Speaker 4: is can we then estimate like how big an effect
- 20:42Speaker 4: that is? How it lines up. There's a lot of
- 20:45Speaker 4: you know, kind of complicated research questions about the causal
- 20:47Speaker 4: inference there that's good that are not well worked out.
- 20:50Speaker 4: So that's all to say there is some effect. Does
- 20:54Speaker 4: that mean that you then should go and intervene in
- 20:56Speaker 4: your own house in this kind of uncontrolled way, I
- 20:58Speaker 4: would say no. What you should do maybe is think
- 21:03Speaker 4: from first principles, like, okay, you know, what's a good
- 21:07Speaker 4: like high quality, fun, language, rich thing you can do
- 21:10Speaker 4: with your kid? You know, reading a book is one
- 21:14Speaker 4: kind of having a conversation or a kind of in
- 21:16Speaker 4: depth play session. So a lot of the ways that
- 21:18Speaker 4: we think of relating in a high quality way to
- 21:21Speaker 4: our kids actually provide really good what we call grounded language,
- 21:26Speaker 4: where we're talking about the here and now in some
- 21:27Speaker 4: way that they understand and maybe that those are typically
- 21:31Speaker 4: the moments that are most predictive also in these studies.
- 21:36Speaker 4: So it's not about constantly talking and jamming the Wall
- 21:39Speaker 4: Street Journal in their ear. It's about creating moments that
- 21:43Speaker 4: are high quality and fun and interactive and motivating. And
- 21:46Speaker 4: you know that's often what we encourage parents to do
- 21:49Speaker 4: even when we're not really thinking about language per se.
- 21:54Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm hearing that it's good to talk to
- 21:56Speaker 3: your kid, but you don't need toenerate the diaper change.
- 21:58Speaker 3: That's what I That's what I got, or you could
- 22:01Speaker 3: if it was enjoyable.
- 22:02Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, if that's the way you relate your kid.
- 22:04Speaker 4: I mean, I you know, for me, it's kind of
- 22:07Speaker 4: more fun to chat with a baby or a kid,
- 22:09Speaker 4: you know, even if they're not chatting back. But yeah,
- 22:12Speaker 4: certainly there are probably some seiling effects there. You don't
- 22:16Speaker 4: need to narrate everything. And also the kind of language
- 22:19Speaker 4: that's most important for the kid is the kind that's
- 22:21Speaker 4: about what they care about, embedded in a fun and
- 22:24Speaker 4: interesting interaction. So that's the kind of language that's going
- 22:28Speaker 4: to be most impactful if you're really aiming in that direction.
- 22:34Speaker 3: So a lot of people have talked about the language
- 22:36Speaker 3: learning loss during COVID, whether it's because of laugh exposure
- 22:40Speaker 3: to other people in a young age, whether it's because
- 22:42Speaker 3: of masks. Do we how much do we know about
- 22:44Speaker 3: even whether there was a COVID effect on language development
- 22:48Speaker 3: for little kids.
- 22:50Speaker 4: Not so much. I would say, right, what we have
- 22:55Speaker 4: are some very incomplete observational data sets. And you know,
- 23:01Speaker 4: I was part of a big cross national consortium that
- 23:03Speaker 4: jumped into action and tried to study language effects during lockdown.
- 23:07Speaker 4: And maybe there were some tiny little effects, and maybe
- 23:10Speaker 4: they were related a bit to things that the parents
- 23:13Speaker 4: said they did or didn't do with the kids, Like
- 23:15Speaker 4: maybe they said there's more screen time and then they
- 23:17Speaker 4: reported less language. Methodological fans of your show or other
- 23:23Speaker 4: critics would note immediately that, and we said this in
- 23:26Speaker 4: the paper. I think we're very upfront about it, Like
- 23:28Speaker 4: if your kid is more on screens during the pandemic
- 23:30Speaker 4: lockdown because you got to work, and then you report
- 23:33Speaker 4: they have less language, you both know they were on
- 23:35Speaker 4: screens and you were also not hanging out with them
- 23:37Speaker 4: and seeing what they knew about language. So it's very,
- 23:40Speaker 4: very tough to figure this out, and we don't have
- 23:42Speaker 4: a lot of direct assessment, like we weren't it was
- 23:44Speaker 4: the pandemic. We weren't going into people's homes and you know,
- 23:46Speaker 4: showing the ball in the box and the you know,
- 23:49Speaker 4: so it's really tricky. I would say from first principles,
- 23:55Speaker 4: I am not worried about masking as a key source
- 23:58Speaker 4: of issues and language comprehension and language learning. I think
- 24:04Speaker 4: there are momentary issues. It's hard to understand somebody when
- 24:07Speaker 4: a mask is on, and that's that's gonna be true,
- 24:09Speaker 4: you know, multi modal language input, meaning like when you
- 24:12Speaker 4: can see the face and the lips moving that actually
- 24:15Speaker 4: you know, that's obviously that really does help. And lots
- 24:17Speaker 4: of experiments, so understanding what you're saying in the moment
- 24:20Speaker 4: with a mask on is harder than with the mask off.
- 24:23Speaker 4: But nobody or almost nobody was growing up for more
- 24:27Speaker 4: than you know, if you know, for for a long
- 24:31Speaker 4: time with everyone around them with a mask on. They
- 24:33Speaker 4: were just growing up with sometimes some people with masks on.
- 24:37Speaker 4: My kid was probably you know, the most masked of
- 24:40Speaker 4: anybody in the Bay Area. Was super intense about this,
- 24:42Speaker 4: and they had masks on outdoors for a very long time.
- 24:46Speaker 4: You could shake your head at that. You know, they'll
- 24:48Speaker 4: still have masks on if there's a you know, a
- 24:50Speaker 4: whiff of COVID in a the next county. So there's sorry,
- 24:53Speaker 4: but there's still very very intense about these things. And
- 24:57Speaker 4: even so, what was he getting, Okay, six seven hours
- 25:00Speaker 4: a day of massed input and then he comes home
- 25:02Speaker 4: and we're talking to him on the weekend. You know,
- 25:04Speaker 4: in terms of hours a day, it's not all the time,
- 25:08Speaker 4: it's not so.
- 25:08Speaker 3: Much, all right, all right, So I want to talk
- 25:11Speaker 3: now about the big data, about the value of big
- 25:14Speaker 3: data in this space, And I actually want to tell
- 25:16Speaker 3: you that I am personally small data. So when I
- 25:19Speaker 3: was a baby, my mom put a tape recorder under
- 25:23Speaker 3: my crib on the hest of a language development specialist
- 25:27Speaker 3: named Katherine Nelson, and she recorded me for many years
- 25:29Speaker 3: talking to myself, and these a bunch of people wrote
- 25:32Speaker 3: this entire book about like my individual personal language development
- 25:37Speaker 3: as a child. Obviously, your approach is very different because
- 25:41Speaker 3: you have more than one child in many of your studies,
- 25:45Speaker 3: And so I'm curious how you think about the value.
- 25:48Speaker 3: I mean, first, it might be useful to hear a
- 25:50Speaker 3: little bit about kind of what one means here by
- 25:52Speaker 3: big data, But also then how do you think about
- 25:55Speaker 3: the value of that versus the kind of intensive study
- 25:57Speaker 3: of say one individual kid.
- 26:01Speaker 4: So I think I actually have that book Narratives from.
- 26:04Speaker 3: The Crib Yep, yeah, there it is.
- 26:07Speaker 4: I remember looking at it, and then somebody at at
- 26:08Speaker 4: one point told me that that was you in the crib.
- 26:12Speaker 4: I'm also, you know, good friends with my colleague Eve Clark,
- 26:15Speaker 4: and I also am friends with her son, who's the
- 26:18Speaker 4: subject of her.
- 26:18Speaker 1: Mind another end of one.
- 26:20Speaker 4: Yeah, I only once brought that up in a social
- 26:23Speaker 4: situation where he was placed, So so yeah, I think
- 26:28Speaker 4: the first thing I'd say is, there's this been this
- 26:30Speaker 4: custom and psychology of doing experimental studies where you get
- 26:33Speaker 4: really kind of tight experimental control over something in the lab.
- 26:37Speaker 4: And a lot of those studies historically have had like
- 26:39Speaker 4: sixteen kids, and each kid has contributed just a handful
- 26:42Speaker 4: of data points, and I think of that as really
- 26:45Speaker 4: small data. The kinds of things you learn from that
- 26:48Speaker 4: it can be very interesting, but typically the estimates you get,
- 26:51Speaker 4: the measurements you get are very noisy. They don't tell
- 26:53Speaker 4: you much about any one kid, and they don't tell
- 26:56Speaker 4: you that much about exactly what this experiment does. So
- 26:59Speaker 4: I think you could either go deeper on one kid
- 27:02Speaker 4: or broader with many, many kids. Both of those are
- 27:05Speaker 4: actually very useful and appealing from my perspective. So when
- 27:09Speaker 4: I got started, one of the things that I was
- 27:11Speaker 4: doing was collaborating with Deb Roy at the MIT Media Lab,
- 27:14Speaker 4: who studied his kid by recording about seventy percent of
- 27:18Speaker 4: his child's waking hours. And then his collaborator named Brandon Roy. Unfortunately,
- 27:24Speaker 4: because they weren't related at all, it wasn't his son
- 27:26Speaker 4: that was the collaborator, It was just another guy that
- 27:28Speaker 4: happened to have the name Roy. But anyway, Brandon led
- 27:31Speaker 4: like sixty transcribers to transcribe millions of words of this
- 27:34Speaker 4: one child's daily life, everything you said, everything you heard.
- 27:38Speaker 4: And that's an incredibly fascinating data source that we've worked
- 27:40Speaker 4: on a lot. So you learn a lot from that
- 27:43Speaker 4: kind of big data, not big n as like the number.
- 27:48Speaker 3: We would say like big T for like many time
- 27:50Speaker 3: periods in economics.
- 27:52Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I think that that can be fascinating.
- 27:55Speaker 4: But like I said, language is so variable that learning
- 27:59Speaker 4: about one kid's development really tells you a lot about
- 28:02Speaker 4: that kid's development a little bit about other kids development.
- 28:05Speaker 4: So the opposite approach has been to look at very
- 28:10Speaker 4: very large samples, and so that's what we've done in
- 28:13Speaker 4: the Word Bank project, where we gather together surveys of
- 28:16Speaker 4: parents about their kids language. Those are quite detailed surveys
- 28:19Speaker 4: where we get them to check off what words their
- 28:20Speaker 4: kid says or what words their kid they think understands,
- 28:24Speaker 4: and then we compile those in a big data database
- 28:28Speaker 4: that represents, you know, not all of the world's languages,
- 28:31Speaker 4: of course, nor even all of the world's regions, but
- 28:34Speaker 4: maybe a broader and more diverse set than what typically
- 28:37Speaker 4: gets studied in lab studies. And so that gives us
- 28:40Speaker 4: a window into that big and variability, how different kids
- 28:44Speaker 4: are from one another, and also gives us a really
- 28:46Speaker 4: important window into the acquisition of different languages in different
- 28:49Speaker 4: cultural contexts, because there's so much about language and culture
- 28:53Speaker 4: that we've talked about here implicitly right, like how we
- 28:55Speaker 4: think we're supposed to talk to kids, what we think
- 28:57Speaker 4: the goal is that we want to get our kids
- 28:59Speaker 4: to succeed at school, and we want to talk to
- 29:01Speaker 4: them a lot grit. That's all very culturally conditioned. So
- 29:06Speaker 4: that approach has really been to look at variability and
- 29:09Speaker 4: to try to understand the sources of variability in kids
- 29:11Speaker 4: language and how those relate both within individual kids and
- 29:16Speaker 4: across cultures.
- 29:17Speaker 3: Are there some languages that are more difficult to learn
- 29:21Speaker 3: or take longer? I mean, I know there's a lot
- 29:24Speaker 3: of variability across kids, but is there something systematic across languages?
- 29:27Speaker 4: You know, this is one of these questions that people
- 29:29Speaker 4: always ask linguists, and the lagualis are always like, no,
- 29:31Speaker 4: it's universal, you know, the language acquisition device. Could it
- 29:34Speaker 4: turns out there it's not completely. There is one language
- 29:38Speaker 4: that we know empirically is really horrible for kids to learn,
- 29:40Speaker 4: and it's Danish.
- 29:42Speaker 1: Huh.
- 29:42Speaker 4: Danish has a lot of sounds in it, and the
- 29:45Speaker 4: sounds are all kind of slurred together and not well articulated,
- 29:47Speaker 4: and there's all these ways that they drop the sounds.
- 29:50Speaker 3: So Danish listeners, We're sorry, he's not being critical.
- 29:53Speaker 4: I you know. So I know this because of a
- 29:56Speaker 4: bunch of really fabulous Danish researchers who have this long
- 29:59Speaker 4: running study called the Puzzle of Danish. And the Puzzle
- 30:02Speaker 4: of Danish is like, why is it so hard to
- 30:04Speaker 4: learn our poor old language? We speak it just fine,
- 30:07Speaker 4: but like, man, these kids are struggling.
- 30:09Speaker 1: That's so interesting.
- 30:11Speaker 4: A lot of the things that can make a language
- 30:13Speaker 4: hard for second language learners, well, some of the things
- 30:16Speaker 4: that can make the sounds, especially of a language, hard
- 30:19Speaker 4: for second language learners, like when you reduce them or
- 30:21Speaker 4: you know, kind of they're not as well articulated, or
- 30:24Speaker 4: they're slurred together or changed when they're next to each other.
- 30:26Speaker 4: That really can make a language harder to learn. Other things,
- 30:30Speaker 4: it turns out, you know, kids are remarkably good at
- 30:32Speaker 4: learning all those word endings, and you know, in the
- 30:35Speaker 4: what we call the morphology, the little bits and pieces
- 30:38Speaker 4: that aren't themselves words, all that stuff. Especially English speakers
- 30:42Speaker 4: we struggle with. Kids don't have as hard a time with.
- 30:45Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, that's such an interesting aspect of learning
- 30:48Speaker 3: to talk and learning to read in English, which both
- 30:51Speaker 3: of which seemed a little magical to me. Is this
- 30:53Speaker 3: idea that in English there are so many weird endings.
- 30:56Speaker 3: There are so many you know, why is the k silent?
- 30:59Speaker 3: You know, like when you learn to read, like it's ridiculous,
- 31:03Speaker 3: and yet somehow people sort of pick it up, don't.
- 31:08Speaker 4: Well, here, English is actually the hard one, right or
- 31:11Speaker 4: a hard one. So if you're in an English school,
- 31:14Speaker 4: they're all, you know, kids learning to read, they're going
- 31:17Speaker 4: to be a lot of kids that are having trouble
- 31:19Speaker 4: with all of those complexities of English orthography. That's not
- 31:23Speaker 4: English language per se, it's how we write the darn thing. Down.
- 31:27Speaker 3: In contrast, Spanish, every it's completely phonetic, like what you
- 31:31Speaker 3: see is what you get. You read the sounds and
- 31:33Speaker 3: then the sound. Everything is totally finetic.
- 31:36Speaker 4: Yeah, So you can go into an English speaking elementary
- 31:39Speaker 4: school and find out how good a reader is, like
- 31:41Speaker 4: how well kid is doing it at reading by having
- 31:44Speaker 4: them just read out words and if they can actually
- 31:46Speaker 4: pronounce a bunch of the words, that's a really good
- 31:48Speaker 4: measure of their overall reading success. In a Spanish speaking school,
- 31:52Speaker 4: that measure is going to top out at like six
- 31:54Speaker 4: or seven or eight because kids are just like, yeah,
- 31:56Speaker 4: you say the sounds, like what's the big deal? Because
- 31:58Speaker 4: my language makes sense? And English speaking kids are like,
- 32:01Speaker 4: my language doesn't make sense. I have to read hundreds
- 32:03Speaker 4: of books and get explicit phonics training to third or
- 32:06Speaker 4: fourth grade in order to just figure this thing out.
- 32:08Speaker 5: Now.
- 32:09Speaker 3: I think the low when I was teaching my daughter
- 32:10Speaker 3: to read it was the word no, because it was
- 32:13Speaker 3: just like, why are there these extra letters?
- 32:15Speaker 1: Like there's two extra letters.
- 32:17Speaker 3: It's just like not not no, like yes no, but no,
- 32:20Speaker 3: like I know it, It's just like why are there
- 32:21Speaker 3: these extra letters?
- 32:22Speaker 1: Who knows?
- 32:23Speaker 4: My son Jonah loves to get everything explained. He's like
- 32:26Speaker 4: been in the y phase for two and a half
- 32:28Speaker 4: years now, and we're trying He's right at the point
- 32:31Speaker 4: where he's interested in letters and we're playing you know,
- 32:33Speaker 4: letter games in the car, like you know an animal
- 32:35Speaker 4: that starts with and we're just like, let's just skip
- 32:38Speaker 4: see because we're gonna get stuck on scene. He's just
- 32:40Speaker 4: gonna be like, why c make K Like what's the
- 32:44Speaker 4: deal here? Like you got to explain this something like okay,
- 32:46Speaker 4: it starts with the Norman invasion.
- 32:48Speaker 3: It's like how far back do we need to go?
- 32:53Speaker 2: All right?
- 32:54Speaker 3: So I want to end by asking you about this
- 32:55Speaker 3: extremely interesting new paper you wrote about AI. So, so
- 33:00Speaker 3: your abstract starts by saying the following. Large language models
- 33:05Speaker 3: show intriguing, emergent behaviors, yet they receive about four to
- 33:09Speaker 3: five orders of bagneto more language data than human children.
- 33:12Speaker 3: What accounts for this vast difference in sample efficiency? My
- 33:16Speaker 3: read of this in lay terms is that in these
- 33:19Speaker 3: large language AI models, like chatch ept is built on
- 33:22Speaker 3: top of they're able to do these incredibly impressive things,
- 33:25Speaker 3: like you ask them to write a poem in the
- 33:27Speaker 3: style of William Shakespeare about you know farts and they
- 33:31Speaker 3: do a great job.
- 33:32Speaker 1: That's my kids like to ask that question.
- 33:34Speaker 3: But in order to get to that, they have to
- 33:37Speaker 3: be fed in an unbelievable amount of data, say like
- 33:40Speaker 3: ten thousand times more than a kid will here to
- 33:43Speaker 3: get to the same ability to write not a very
- 33:47Speaker 3: good poem about farts, but some original generated poem about farts.
- 33:51Speaker 1: So what is why is that?
- 33:55Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the big question.
- 33:57Speaker 3: Unfortunately the paper doesn't answer that. It just says this
- 33:59Speaker 3: is very hard, but I'm curious. You had some ideas,
- 34:02Speaker 3: so I was curious.
- 34:03Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, there are a couple ideas there. And let
- 34:05Speaker 4: me clarify what I mean by kind of intriguing emergent property,
- 34:08Speaker 4: like the fart Shakespeare is something that you might take
- 34:14Speaker 4: somebody a lot of reading and writing and practice to
- 34:16Speaker 4: get good at. But my example that I think is like,
- 34:19Speaker 4: hopefully it easier and maybe more appropriate for the This is.
- 34:25Speaker 3: An adult podcast, so it's fine to say farts.
- 34:29Speaker 4: Well. So the thought experiment I do a lot is
- 34:32Speaker 4: like when a kid comes home from kindergarten and you
- 34:35Speaker 4: know it's a rainy day on their board and can
- 34:37Speaker 4: be like, hey, let's play UNO. Here's the rules. Of Uno.
- 34:39Speaker 4: I'm gonna explain them and now we're going to play Uno.
- 34:42Speaker 4: And for a lot of kids that works totally fine.
- 34:44Speaker 4: You can just explain the rules of a game, give
- 34:46Speaker 4: them like two examples, and then you're off to the
- 34:48Speaker 4: races and they're immediately starting to argue with you about
- 34:50Speaker 4: wild cards or whatever. For AI, that's kind of what
- 34:54Speaker 4: I meant by intriguing emergent capacities is that you could
- 34:57Speaker 4: give instructions and provide examples and they could learn from that.
- 35:00Speaker 4: And that's the thing that popped out after gazillions of examples.
- 35:03Speaker 4: You know, they have to read kind of a third
- 35:05Speaker 4: of the entire Internet in order to be able to
- 35:07Speaker 4: figure that out. So one big difference is the kind
- 35:13Speaker 4: of data that the AI is getting. It's getting decontextualized language.
- 35:16Speaker 4: It's basically like imagine just printing out all of Wikipedia
- 35:19Speaker 4: in a single stream with no formatting and shoving that
- 35:22Speaker 4: into a learning machine. It's very hard to figure out
- 35:26Speaker 4: what's going on there. In contrast, what kids get is
- 35:29Speaker 4: this very social language that's built up in conversation, in
- 35:33Speaker 4: context they understand. It's accompanied often by other cues, like
- 35:38Speaker 4: you know, you might be looking at the UNO cards,
- 35:41Speaker 4: it's you know, within you know, a set of conventions
- 35:45Speaker 4: and practices that they understand, like now we're going to play.
- 35:49Speaker 4: So there's all these other structures that allow the child
- 35:52Speaker 4: to make much more of the data they get. And
- 35:55Speaker 4: I think it's an open question exactly which of those
- 35:58Speaker 4: matters is that the social stuff? Is the that there's
- 36:00Speaker 4: grounded visual input or other kinds of input? Is it
- 36:03Speaker 4: the contexts? Like that's the kind of thing that we're
- 36:06Speaker 4: as a scientific community working on figuring out. People are
- 36:09Speaker 4: trying to train models on videos instead of written text,
- 36:13Speaker 4: they're trying to train models in more social ways and
- 36:15Speaker 4: so forth. But that's the general puzzle is like, Okay,
- 36:19Speaker 4: what would you do if you had much more enriched
- 36:21Speaker 4: data like a kid? How much does that make a difference?
- 36:23Speaker 4: And why?
- 36:29Speaker 1: All right, this is amazing. Thank you so much. I
- 36:32Speaker 1: really appreciate your time.
- 36:33Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you for having me a big fan of
- 36:35Speaker 4: your work. Thank you.
- 36:45Speaker 6: After the break more parent data.
- 37:15Speaker 7: The first many weeks of nursing my son were extremely painful.
- 37:19Speaker 7: My husband joked that his first word was going to
- 37:22Speaker 7: be because I said it so often when he was
- 37:24Speaker 7: an infant.
- 37:29Speaker 5: My daughter is currently fifteen months.
- 37:32Speaker 1: My daughter is fourteen months.
- 37:33Speaker 8: Old, and his first word was when he was around
- 37:37Speaker 8: twenty months.
- 37:39Speaker 4: And she said her first word eventually when she was
- 37:42Speaker 4: twenty months old.
- 37:44Speaker 5: And the first word that she said and has been
- 37:46Speaker 5: saying repeatedly has been doggy.
- 37:49Speaker 4: Her first word wasn't mama or dada. That word was
- 37:52Speaker 4: not mama or dada, but it was our cat's name,
- 37:55Speaker 4: which is olive.
- 37:56Speaker 5: About is Stan, and Stan is the dog, even her dog,
- 38:01Speaker 5: my mother in law's dog.
- 38:05Speaker 8: I could not find one of his shoes for the
- 38:07Speaker 8: wife of me, and then he brings me the shoe
- 38:09Speaker 8: and he goes, shoe, OHK to him, and I was
- 38:12Speaker 8: just like you could speak.
- 38:15Speaker 5: My husband grew up in New York City.
- 38:17Speaker 8: His first word was TAXI loved shouting it as the
- 38:21Speaker 8: taxis went by.
- 38:22Speaker 5: And so now every dog she sees, she, you know,
- 38:25Speaker 5: yells out doggie. But that also means that every other
- 38:29Speaker 5: animal she sees she thinks is a dog, also including
- 38:32Speaker 5: seals at the aquarium.
- 38:34Speaker 1: When she sees a clock, she goes.
- 38:38Speaker 5: But every time we try to get her to say mama,
- 38:41Speaker 5: she looks at me straight in the face, pauses, and
- 38:44Speaker 5: then says dead.
- 38:45Speaker 6: Dead.
- 38:57Speaker 3: Parent data is produced by Tamar Avishai, support from the
- 39:00Speaker 3: parent Data team and PI Rex. Also special thanks to
- 39:04Speaker 3: our house violinist, my daughter Penelope.
- 39:06Speaker 6: No problem Mom.
- 39:08Speaker 3: If you have thoughts on this episode, please join the
- 39:10Speaker 3: conversation on my Instagram at prof Emily Oster. And if
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