Latest / What's on Your Riste? A Watch Podcast / S01E21*: The "Sharing Episode." Why We’re Like This: A Bonus Ep. for People Who Love Watch People
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- 0:00It's a weekend dinner. There's a handful of folks and
- 0:02family around the table again, mostly family, friends, kids,
- 0:07couple of, you know, outsiders have shown up and drinks are
- 0:10open, food is good. Conversation is a typical
- 0:13weekend conversation, kids, jobs, the weather, folks stay
- 0:17away from politics and so on. And then somebody, it doesn't
- 0:20matter who, because you know what, every dinner there's
- 0:22usually eventually somebody asks something along the lines of,
- 0:25you know, looking at your wrist and they tilt their head and
- 0:27they say something along the lines of how many of those do
- 0:30you actually have? And then you freeze because the
- 0:32honest answer is going to make the room probably laugh because
- 0:35the number is ridiculous. And the dishonest answer is
- 0:38going to make you or whomever is responding to this feel strange
- 0:42as well because you're being disingenuous, right?
- 0:44And so the, the real answer, the actual true, like 10:15 30-40
- 0:50years of doing this real life answer, it would take like a 45
- 0:53minute explanation and the food's getting cold.
- 0:56So I say this as a joke, you know, maybe I'll deflect if it
- 1:00was me, and maybe you'll deflect as well.
- 1:03And you move the conversation along and then you think, for
- 1:05the 100th time, man, I just wish I could just hand them an
- 1:08episode of something and answer it for him.
- 1:09So this is that episode. If somebody sent this to you,
- 1:13it's because they love you and they would like for you to
- 1:15understand the thing about them that they have not been able to
- 1:19explain. And they're not asking you to
- 1:21take up this strange hobby. They're not even asking you to
- 1:24like it. They're just asking you to
- 1:26understand for a handful of minutes why this is important to
- 1:30them. So pour something if you drink
- 1:32stuff, grab something. If you need snacks, get
- 1:34comfortable and let me do my best to explain why US watch.
- 1:38People are like. This my name is Wachovsky, and
- 1:42this is what's on your Reese day.
- 1:54What's on your wrist today? All right, a few things before
- 2:00we start. This is a bonus episode of a
- 2:02podcast that's normally aimed at people who already love
- 2:06wristwatches, watches, things that go on your wrist that tell
- 2:11time, typically mechanical and or automatic, they're hand
- 2:15wound. Occasionally we talk about
- 2:17quartz watches as well. OK.
- 2:19And we we talk about watchmakers in like small Swiss villages.
- 2:23We talk about people who hand finish movements in the 19th
- 2:26century and these chronometers and the history of wristwatches.
- 2:30And we get it. We are weird.
- 2:32And by any normal reasonable measure, this is a very niche
- 2:36show. I totally get that I am the
- 2:39niche of all niches, but this episode is different.
- 2:43This one is for people who are adjacent to the hobby.
- 2:46The partners, the siblings, the parents, the friends, the in
- 2:50laws, whomever, right coworkers and the friends who've sat
- 2:54through one too many monologues about I don't know the
- 2:57difference between the two shades of blue on a dial that
- 3:00nobody else can see. This one's for you.
- 3:03I'm going to try to do three things in the next handful of
- 3:05minutes. One, I'm going to make the
- 3:07actual case for the hobby. Not like a joke case like the
- 3:10real one, because there is a real case for this and it
- 3:14deserves to be heard now Two, I'm going to make fun of us.
- 3:16Specifically, I'm going to make fun of myself.
- 3:19And in turn, I'm also going to be making fun of the person who
- 3:22sent this to you. Or if you're just the listener
- 3:24of my regular podcast, I'm going to make fun of you as well.
- 3:27Because you and I are in the same boat, brothers and sisters.
- 3:29And again, we deserve. That because if we're going to
- 3:31take this seriously and you want to take us seriously, we have
- 3:35the right to laugh at ourselves. 1st and 3rd, I'm going to tell
- 3:38you about the part of this hobby that almost nobody on the
- 3:41outside knows the thing that is the actual reason we keep doing
- 3:46this, even though almost none of us could actually tell you the
- 3:49reason. And so we're going to get there.
- 3:50So settle in segment one. Let's get into the first part,
- 3:53which is the easy answer and why this easy answer isn't enough.
- 3:58And so the first thing every non watch person says eventually is
- 4:02but like, dude, isn't your phone like a clock?
- 4:05And I would say, yes, my phone is a clock.
- 4:08My microwave is also a clock. My car is also a clock.
- 4:12A little display on my coffee maker, also a clock.
- 4:14The world is full of clocks. I do not in any practical sense
- 4:18need a watch to tell me what time it is.
- 4:20So why do I wear one? Here's the question I want to
- 4:23ask back. Again, I love asking questions
- 4:25and people who listen to my podcast know that the question I
- 4:28asked back back is something along lines of, and again, I
- 4:31want you to sit with this for a second.
- 4:32Why do you have a wedding ring? Why do people wear wedding
- 4:35rings? Well, the wedding ring in pure
- 4:38function is just a small loop of metal that you wear on your
- 4:41finger. It does nothing.
- 4:44It does not perform any single task.
- 4:47It's not necessary for being married.
- 4:49You can. Be married without one.
- 4:50Plenty of people are. And yet.
- 4:52Almost universally, across cultures, across centuries, when
- 4:56two people get married, they put rings on each other's fingers.
- 4:59And they wear those rings every day.
- 5:01They wear them in the shower. They wear them while they sleep
- 5:04and wear them while they change diapers of their children.
- 5:06When they show up, they wear them for decades.
- 5:08And if they ever lose 1, it's it's a bit of a small disaster.
- 5:11Trust me, I lost my first one five days into my marriage,
- 5:14which was, you know, going on almost 20 years ago.
- 5:16And since then, I've lost four additional rings.
- 5:19And every single time I lose a ring, they progressively get
- 5:22less expensive and tighter. So, so far, so good thus far.
- 5:26Now, a wedding ring is not a piece of jewelry.
- 5:29It's it's a wedding ring. It carries meaning that has
- 5:32nothing to do with its function. Now, the watch, the kind of
- 5:36watch we're talking about on this show is the same kind of
- 5:39object. It does technically tell time,
- 5:42but that's not what it's for. It's for what it carries.
- 5:45I'll give you a more concrete version of this kind of same
- 5:48idea. Let's say you you own a chair.
- 5:50You probably own a chair at home, right?
- 5:51Lots of chairs, probably several.
- 5:53Most of them are functional chairs.
- 5:55They do a. Chairs job, but maybe somewhere
- 5:58in your house there's one chair that belonged to your
- 5:59grandmother, or one that you or your partner saved up for in
- 6:03your first apartment, or one that you bought on a trip and
- 6:06that you shipped home. That chair is also.
- 6:08It's just a chair. It also does the chair job for
- 6:11example, but you would never. Never just throw it out.
- 6:14I know this because my wife, for example, has a crib.
- 6:19May you just say it's just a baby crib, no big deal.
- 6:21Our kids, you know, they've used them when they were, they were
- 6:23their babies. Well, it's the same crib that my
- 6:25wife used when she was a child, so that's just a crib, but it's
- 6:28also a very important piece of. Furniture in our home.
- 6:31Now, a watch in this scenario is just a chair or it's just a
- 6:34crib. But some watches are beyond
- 6:37that. They are functional and some
- 6:39watches are the ones that belonged to your grandmother or
- 6:42your grandfather. And so that's the easy answer.
- 6:44It's also true, but it's not the whole answer.
- 6:47And I think the rest of this episode, I'm going to try to
- 6:49give you the rest of it. The part that I think a lot of
- 6:51folks have difficulty articulating, the segment 2
- 6:53we're going to call is the art part.
- 6:55So here's something that most people don't know about how
- 6:59watches are and and how we care about them and the fact that we
- 7:02actually care about how they're made.
- 7:03So in a small workshop somewhere in Switzerland or Germany or
- 7:06Japan, and increasingly a few other places around the world,
- 7:09including the the US. There are people right now,
- 7:13today, who spend their entire lives working on hand polishing
- 7:17tiny pieces of metal. Like little teeny tiny pieces of
- 7:20metal, pieces of metal that can be smaller than a grain of rice
- 7:24and screws that are smaller than a grain of rice.
- 7:26And they sit in a bench with a loop, and that's a little teeny
- 7:29tiny magnifying glass that goes over their eyes.
- 7:31And they make and they take these tiny little pieces of
- 7:34metal and they Polish them again, not with a machine, but
- 7:37by hand. They hold them.
- 7:38With a tool that they made themselves because the tool that
- 7:42they need doesn't commercially exist, and that tool itself is
- 7:45typically a piece of wood. That's usually.
- 7:47Grown on their property that's designated specifically for this
- 7:51one task which is to Polish pieces of metal.
- 7:53And some of do this do some people do this for 8 hours a
- 7:56day, some of them do it for years, and some of them do it
- 7:59for their entire. Career.
- 8:01And here's the part. The first time you hear it is
- 8:03going to sound insane. A lot of what they're going to
- 8:06Polish, most actually of what they're going to Polish in the
- 8:09wash. Based on the where the movement
- 8:11is in the architecture, inside the things that they're
- 8:14polishing will never be seen by the person who actually buys the
- 8:17watch. It's actually inside the
- 8:19movement. It's behind sometimes a solid
- 8:21metal case back and so the. Owner will wear the watch for 30
- 8:25years and never once look at the parts inside that these
- 8:29Craftsman spent days or weeks. Or months or years finishing.
- 8:33The Craftsman, though, polished it anyways, and they didn't.
- 8:37Have to. It doesn't change the function
- 8:39of the watch. So why?
- 8:40Well, there's a there's a Japanese word for this.
- 8:43It's spelled SH OK U. NIN Shokunin and it's hard to
- 8:48translate but the English. Or the closest.
- 8:51English version of this is the Craftsman who's the excellence.
- 8:54Is actually its own reward, so it's the idea of that.
- 8:58The work of doing something perfectly is the actual point.
- 9:02The reward isn't praise or. Attention or money, the reward
- 9:06is actually doing it. And so when we or you or they
- 9:10buy one of these watches, and I'm not just talking about like
- 9:13the expensive ones, this idea scales way down.
- 9:16When they buy a watch that has been made this way, they're
- 9:20buying the inside of the movement as well, and they're
- 9:23buying a part of something that they will never see.
- 9:26But they're buying the fact that someone, somewhere polished the
- 9:29piece of metal that they will never look at because they, the
- 9:32person making the watch, couldn't bring themselves not to
- 9:35Polish that piece of metal because they knew that when it
- 9:38was going out of. Their shop that it had.
- 9:40Their name associated with it, and there's an honor and pride
- 9:43in what they were doing. Now.
- 9:44Most of what humans make, especially in this decade, in
- 9:48this era, is the exact opposite of this.
- 9:50Most of what we. By today is designed to look
- 9:53good in photos survive a few years and then we know what
- 9:56happens, right most of it is engineered down to the last cent
- 10:00of value. We call this value engineering
- 10:02Most of it's made by a robot in a factory by a process that's
- 10:05optimized to remove any human attention from the equation.
- 10:09And a handmade watch is the exact opposite of that.
- 10:12It's an object of human attention, and it's.
- 10:15Full. Of human attention.
- 10:17Attention that you can actually feel and sometimes even though
- 10:21you can't see it, you know it's there.
- 10:23And the first time that I understood this, the first time
- 10:25I held a watch and I knew in my hands I was holding the result
- 10:29of someones life, that was the moment that the hobby stopped
- 10:31being just a hobby and it became something else for me.
- 10:34And I'm assuming that if someone sending this to you, they're
- 10:37probably in the same boat as I am.
- 10:39Or if you're. One of my listeners, that's
- 10:41probably something that's resonating with you right now.
- 10:43So hold on to that. We're going to come back to that
- 10:45as well. Now, segment 3, I'm going to
- 10:47call the history part, the very short history part because I'm a
- 10:50history nerd and most of my listeners enjoy history, but you
- 10:52may not. So I'll I'll get to the point.
- 10:54I want to do the history part as quickly as I can because again,
- 10:57history part is where the watch people can get kind of carried.
- 11:00Away and I do the same thing and the the second part kind of the
- 11:03second thing your friend or sibling or partner or whomever
- 11:05sent this to you can kind of get it carried away with as well and
- 11:08so. I'm going to put down this
- 11:11episode and never finish it. So really, there's three things
- 11:14quickly, right? One, for most of human history,
- 11:17knowing what time it was accurately was the hardest
- 11:21technical problem on Earth. In the 1700s, sailors literally
- 11:24could not figure out where they were in the ocean, and they
- 11:27didn't know what time it was. And so as a result, ships sank,
- 11:30empires lost wars, money was offered.
- 11:33British government in 1714 put up a prize equivalent to
- 11:36millions of dollars today for anyone that could.
- 11:39Solve this problem and it was solved by a self.
- 11:42Taught English Carpenter named John Harrison.
- 11:45He spent 40 years of his life building 4 versions of what
- 11:48would become the Marine chronometer.
- 11:50And it's basically a watch that was so precise that they could
- 11:53they could be carried on a ship. And still tell time accurately.
- 11:57And when he finished and he finally got it right, it
- 12:00effectively given the world the ability to know where it was.
- 12:03Anywhere watchmaking didn't start as a luxury, it started as
- 12:06science 2 the wristwatch, the thing that's on your wrist right
- 12:09now, the form factor comes from. War soldiers in the First World
- 12:14War needed both hands free in trenches.
- 12:16And reaching for a pocket watch in combat was an absolute
- 12:20problem. So they strap these things to
- 12:23their wrists and the wristwatch is actually a.
- 12:25Soldiers invention and it still has in its DNA the idea that it
- 12:29should be tough and reliable and readable, especially when your
- 12:33life. Depends on it now.
- 12:34Three, the watch we associate with the moon.
- 12:37The Omega Speedmaster was on Buzz Aldrin's wrist when he
- 12:40walked on the moon In 1969. NASA tested every chronograph on
- 12:44the market for the Apollo program and Omega's product.
- 12:47One. That watch today is still in
- 12:49production. You can literally buy one in
- 12:52whatever year. This is. 2026 at the time of
- 12:54this recording that functions identical to the same watch that
- 12:58went on to the moon. It's the same caliber, the
- 13:00company Omega that makes that watch, they make that with the
- 13:03same hand movement, the same hand wound, the same case
- 13:07architecture, the same dial, the same hands.
- 13:10And so nothing needed to change. And that's the history.
- 13:12Part. So from there I'm going to move
- 13:14on, but I want to leave you with something mechanical watches are
- 13:17the longest continuously produced complex object in human
- 13:21history. They predate cars.
- 13:23They predate electricity. They predate most of the modern
- 13:27world and in their fundamental design.
- 13:30Gear, train, balance, wheel escapement.
- 13:32They have not changed in any essential way in 300 years.
- 13:35There are very few things humans make in this.
- 13:38World that are that old, that still work, that are still made
- 13:42by hand by the same methods in the same towns.
- 13:45So when you put one on, you're putting on a piece of this
- 13:48unbroken chain. And when they are designed,
- 13:51doesn't matter where they're coming from, Switzerland,
- 13:54Germany, the United States, Japan, when they come out of
- 13:58these countries from these workshops, they are not designed
- 14:01for anything but to be. Reliable, accurate and durable
- 14:06their. Goal is that these watches don't
- 14:08come back to the factory needing repair.
- 14:09The exact opposite of what we have with this planned
- 14:13obsolescence. World that we live in.
- 14:14They are designed to be passed down second before we're going
- 14:17to get into the psychology part. It's also, I would say that it's
- 14:20the important part. Now we're going to get into the
- 14:22actual reason. As I build up to that, the I'm
- 14:24going to give you 3 kind of threads and they're all
- 14:27connected. So let's talk about thread one.
- 14:29Collecting is a human universal. Every culture, every era has
- 14:34collectors. Romans collected coins, medieval
- 14:36monks collected manuscripts. The Victorians collected
- 14:40basically everything that they could fit on a shelf like
- 14:42fossils and butterflies and exotic shells.
- 14:45Children, from the moment that they can line up their Hot
- 14:48Wheels in a row by color or their Legos or whatever else
- 14:51that they've built, they're stuffed animals in our house.
- 14:54We call them stuffies. They're Pokémon cards, whatever
- 14:57it is. They're train sets.
- 14:59They organize them. This is not a personality flaw.
- 15:02Collecting is one of the oldest things humans do.
- 15:05There are arguments, evolutionary biologists make
- 15:08some of these, that the instinct together to categorize and to
- 15:12master a small domain is part of what makes our species what it
- 15:17is. We are pattern recognizers.
- 15:19We are completionists, and the kid who lined up their Hot
- 15:22Wheels grew up to be an adult who has opinions about
- 15:26wristwatches or stamps or vinyl or rocks or other varied
- 15:31hobbies. The instinct doesn't change.
- 15:34The hobby will vary, of course, but the instinct doesn't.
- 15:37So the first thing I want you to know is that this is not weird.
- 15:40It's the one. It is one of the most human
- 15:43things that a person can do. Now, the object, the watches, is
- 15:47incidental. If we were born in 1818,
- 15:50eighties, for example, we might be collecting butterflies.
- 15:52Thread two. There are two kinds of
- 15:55pleasures. Aristotle, of all people, drew a
- 15:58distinction. And that is, I think, the most
- 16:00useful framework we're going to use to understand this hobby.
- 16:02So he talked about two kinds of happiness.
- 16:05The first kind is called hedonia.
- 16:06It's a simple pleasure. It's like a good meal, warm
- 16:09bath, the first cup of sip of coffee or tea in the morning.
- 16:12Hedonic pleasures are easy. They're immediate.
- 16:15They don't require any work to enjoy.
- 16:17And honestly, hedonic measures typically are sitting on your
- 16:19phone all the time, drawing your attention away from what you
- 16:22probably should be doing. The second, the second one we're
- 16:24going to talk about is eudaimonia or eudaimonia.
- 16:27And it's kind of this deeper kind.
- 16:29It's the the pleasure of having done something well, the
- 16:32pleasure of mastery, the pleasure of an object that
- 16:34connects you to a memory or a person or a longer life.
- 16:37But this is slower and it requires attention and it can
- 16:40compound over time. So piece of Candy, for example,
- 16:43might be hedonic for you, but the book you're one of your
- 16:47parents read to you when you were small, and now that you're
- 16:49reading that book to your children, that's you demonic.
- 16:52And most modern consumer culture is endo.
- 16:56It's kind of engineered around hedonic pleasure.
- 16:58It's that buy a thing, get a hit, the fade, the hit fades,
- 17:02and then you buy another thing, right?
- 17:03That's the loop. And the loop is most of our
- 17:06economy basically depending on it.
- 17:08But a watch, a watch can be hedonic.
- 17:10Sure, there's that moment of pleasure when they unbox a new
- 17:12one or they sit down with an authorized dealer and they put
- 17:15it on their wrist for the first time.
- 17:16But the the watches that stick, the ones that become the one
- 17:20watch that someone's collection that they were never going to
- 17:23sell, those become eudemonic watches.
- 17:25They become eudemonic. Objects and they.
- 17:28Get better the longer they own them.
- 17:30That means that they get better as they get beat up and
- 17:33scratched. And the dial might change colors
- 17:35and the bezel may change colors because of, you know, that trip
- 17:39that they went on and they had, you know, they, they went into a
- 17:41pool at a resort and the, the chlorine levels were too high
- 17:45and it faded out their bezel that was aluminum or whatever.
- 17:48And again, as these things get more worn, they mean more, not
- 17:53less as the years pass. And so this this distinction
- 17:56there is, I think, the the philosophical core of what
- 17:59people talk about in this hobby. We are starved in modern society
- 18:03for objects that get better with time.
- 18:05Almost everything we buy gets worse.
- 18:08Our phones get slower. Our clothes wear out.
- 18:11Typically most of the time our cars depreciate the second we
- 18:15drive them off the lot. But a good watch, it does the
- 18:17opposite. It builds patina, the story
- 18:20builds, the relationships build and our our memories with those
- 18:23those those watches as we go through life build example of
- 18:29that would be, you know, the moment that I held my child for
- 18:32the first time, right? The the watch that I was wearing
- 18:35when I cut the cord for my daughter and and so on.
- 18:38So those those moments are significant in what we're what,
- 18:42what pieces of art that we're wearing on our wrists.
- 18:45OK, now thread 3. And this is the one I want you
- 18:47to kind of really hear. I want you to do something for
- 18:49me. I want you to think about the
- 18:50photos that matter most in your life, not like the daily ones,
- 18:54not the ones on your phone right now that you'll never look at
- 18:56again. Not the picture of like the the
- 18:59salad or the lasagna that you took at the restaurant.
- 19:01You know, not those ones. Like I want you to think about
- 19:04the forever images. The ones that will be on a
- 19:07frame, possibly on your kids night stand someday.
- 19:10The ones that will last or exist in 50 years.
- 19:13The ones that might get passed down.
- 19:15The one of you holding your child for the first time or
- 19:18pushing them on a swing. Maybe it's the photo of you
- 19:21walking your daughter down the aisle.
- 19:24Or maybe it's that Christmas morning when your kids were
- 19:27still. Small And they came down and
- 19:28they saw the tree and the presents for the first time.
- 19:31Maybe it was a Hanukkah day, maybe it was.
- 19:33And then you can kind of fill in the blank, right?
- 19:35Maybe it's the portrait of your parents 50th anniversary, maybe
- 19:38your graduation. If it's a photo in the hospital,
- 19:41maybe the sun sometimes the the moment that you met someone for
- 19:44the first time or the moment that you had to say goodbye.
- 19:46Any of those images, right? Maybe both of them, the one of
- 19:50you when you were born, the one with your child in your arms
- 19:54maybe 30 years later. In every single one of those
- 19:57photos, some people are wearing something on their wrist.
- 20:00And here's the question almost nobody asks until they're in
- 20:02this hobby. What do you want it to be?
- 20:04Do you want it to be a piece of plastic that will be obsolete in
- 20:07three years, whose battery will be dead by the time your
- 20:10daughter or your son has their own children that nobody will
- 20:13recognize and nobody will inherit.
- 20:15And essentially that that object on your wrist will date you.
- 20:18A big giant screen that's sitting on your wrist.
- 20:21Nobody's going to want to inherit that.
- 20:23Nobody will recognize it. Or.
- 20:25It's something that will still be working, still be beautiful,
- 20:28still keeping time at their wedding, at your daughter's
- 20:31wedding, your son's wedding, in the moment that you can't
- 20:34imagine yet, or in photos that haven't even been taken yet.
- 20:37Something that can be repaired if broken and will last
- 20:41lifetimes. Watches are one of those objects
- 20:44that we own that are designed to outlive us.
- 20:47A mechanical watch, if it's properly cared for, will run for
- 20:50centuries, centuries. Patek Philippe has an
- 20:53advertising line, and I know that this is just a marketing
- 20:55line and I'm aware of that. They say something along the
- 20:58lines of you never actually own a Petek Philippe, you merely
- 21:01look after it for the next generation.
- 21:03And yeah, that's marketing, but it's also true.
- 21:05And it's not just true of Petek, it's true of Seiko and Tudor.
- 21:09It's true of all of the small luxury brands, and it's also
- 21:13true of all the micro and independent brands.
- 21:16A brand with a single person in a workshop who makes one watch a
- 21:19year. It's true of this vintage
- 21:21Hamilton that you, maybe your grandfather got when they
- 21:23retired in 1964 and now it's in a drawer of your mother's house.
- 21:27Mechanical objects that were made with dignity, to be
- 21:30repaired, passed down and live with.
- 21:32Photos are forever. The thing on your wrist should
- 21:35be as well. That, I think, is the deepest
- 21:38reason for this hobby. We are choosing very
- 21:40deliberately what gets to be in the pictures with us.
- 21:43We are choosing what gets to be on the wrist of the day is that
- 21:46we are going to be remembered when we're gone and something
- 21:49that we, when we're gone, will be able to be held and
- 21:53cherished, but also worn and used in the way that it was
- 21:56intended by people that we care about, that we will pass them
- 21:59to. And so we're choosing it now
- 22:01while we still can. And again, this is one of the
- 22:04very few decisions that we get to make in this world about the
- 22:07things that get passed on and the things that we're remembered
- 22:10for. Now, Segment 5.
- 22:11Yes, we know how we sound. Let me get into the funny part.
- 22:14Or at least I think it's funny because I laugh at myself and my
- 22:17wife thinks I'm insane. OK, the heavy section was done.
- 22:20Let's bring this down. I want to make fun of myself for
- 22:22a little bit because again, I think we and I deserve it.
- 22:25And because if you've made it this far in the episode, you've
- 22:28earned it as well. I'm going to say this straight
- 22:29faced watch people are ridiculous.
- 22:32I know I am one. I have a podcast for niche
- 22:36people around the world that listen to this podcast and we
- 22:39realize that we are somewhat ridiculous and we accept it and
- 22:43actually be kind of enjoy it. We have opinions about lug width
- 22:47and that's the part of the watch where the strap attaches to the
- 22:50actual watch head. We will argue about it.
- 22:53We'll say the things like the lugs on this one are too long on
- 22:56my wrist in front of you with no awareness that we are speaking
- 22:59completely different languages and and speaking in tongues to
- 23:02you understand that we also use phrases like wrist presence,
- 23:05like with a straight face, we'll say wrist presence and wrist
- 23:09presence is the the watch communities way of saying, how
- 23:11does it look on your arm? We've invented a special term
- 23:15for it because regular words weren't fancy enough.
- 23:18We know what a hairspring is and we'll tell you about it
- 23:20unprompted. I'm sorry.
- 23:22I apologize for for your friends as well.
- 23:24The hairspring is a tiny coiled spring that's inside the watch
- 23:27and it controls time keeping. And we learn this at some point
- 23:30and we will not stop sharing this knowledge with everyone in
- 23:32the world. I'm sorry we learned how to
- 23:34pronounce some words. Atom RP gay.
- 23:36Basharan Konstantan, Elonga and Zon.
- 23:39And if you listen to my podcast, they laugh at me because I.
- 23:42Go around the world incorrectly pronouncing tons of words in
- 23:45tons of different languages because again, I'm from Southern
- 23:48California. And then we silently judge each
- 23:51other for getting them wrong. And I'll give you a little hint
- 23:53into my podcast as well. Sometimes I pronounce words
- 23:56incorrectly on purpose just cuz, well, I think it's funny.
- 23:59So you'll hear me in one podcast say it correctly and then the
- 24:01other ones I won't just cuz I think it's a good.
- 24:03It's a moment to make my listeners cringe sometimes.
- 24:07And again, we will judge people for saying words incorrectly,
- 24:10but we won't ever tell them. We'll just, you know, know that
- 24:12we're judging them and that's part of our code.
- 24:14And we have a watch box and some of us have watch winders and we
- 24:17have watch rolls and we have a watch pouch and a watch travel
- 24:20case. And we don't see a problem with
- 24:21that. And we will defend with passion
- 24:23a $200 micro brand against a $200,000 independent watchmaker.
- 24:28And we'll do this in the same conversation, sometimes even in
- 24:30the same. Sentence like I just did and
- 24:32it'll make no sense to anybody outside of this hobby.
- 24:34And it makes perfect sense to us, even though sometimes we
- 24:37kind of realize that we're being ridiculous and we'll use the
- 24:39word patina approvingly. Patina is where this watch gets
- 24:43aged and it is another context. In other parts of the world it
- 24:46would be considered damaged, but we celebrate it.
- 24:49We actually pay extra the things that are damaged.
- 24:51We pay more for the watch that is more damaged.
- 24:54I know that this doesn't make sense to defend, but I'm going
- 24:57to try this anyhow. Some people, there used to be a
- 25:00time where you would pay extra money to have your jeans look
- 25:02like they were already worn as opposed to just wearing your
- 25:04jeans. We have a text group, you know
- 25:06about this one probably. We text watches to each other
- 25:10and friends inside of it and we do do it every day and we've
- 25:13done this for like years and we continue to do it every day,
- 25:15presumably until we die because if one of us misses a day, the
- 25:19others will check in and make sure that they're OK.
- 25:21We can identify a watch on someone's wrist from across a
- 25:24restaurant. And this is a real skill.
- 25:25It's not a useful skill in any way, shape or form, but but we
- 25:28have that skill anyhow. And we can produce and pronounce
- 25:31words like a guy O'Shea and we know what it means.
- 25:34And this is fancy word for it's kind of a decorative engraving
- 25:37on a watch style and it's done with these antique machines.
- 25:40And there may be like 100 people in the whole world who can do
- 25:42this professionally. And we know like 2 of their
- 25:44names. And we will tell you both of
- 25:46their names if you give us the opportunity.
- 25:47So give us the opportunity and let us, you know, tell you about
- 25:50those two things. And we say things like, I'm
- 25:52thinking about my next acquisition.
- 25:54Acquisition is like, like we're at a museum.
- 25:57Look, we're not a museum. We're a guy or a girl in their
- 26:00kitchen at like 11:30 at night looking at watches on the
- 26:02Internet. But we say acquisition.
- 26:04I could keep going, but I'm going to stop.
- 26:06Look, we, we're a lot. I know, we know, and this
- 26:10attract, this hobby attracts a very particular type of person.
- 26:14We are detail oriented. We are obsessive.
- 26:17I would say slightly obsessive, but I'm going to say straight up
- 26:19obsessive. We're willing to read 15,000
- 26:22word forum threads about a discontinued movement from 1972.
- 26:26We are not as a community known for our restraint.
- 26:29You can check out Reddit for that.
- 26:30There is 0 restraint on that, on that format.
- 26:33We have opinions about things that you might have never
- 26:36thought about. We have spent money on watches
- 26:38that we have never told our partners the real price of.
- 26:41We have all of us at some point use the phrase grail watch
- 26:46unironically. And so you are allowed to laugh
- 26:48at us because we are laughing at us.
- 26:50The first sign of a serious watch person is the ability to
- 26:53make fun of being a watch person.
- 26:55So if your friend or your partner or someone that you care
- 26:58about sibling can't laugh at themselves about this, maybe you
- 27:01send them this episode. If you're a watch person and you
- 27:03have another watch person, that's might be who you're going
- 27:05to send it to as well because they probably need it more than
- 27:07you do. Okay, one more section, and this
- 27:10is kind of an important one. Let's talk about the community
- 27:12segment 6. I'm going to tell you something
- 27:14that I think is the most important thing about this hobby
- 27:17and almost nobody outside of it talks about.
- 27:19Most of the people on the inside don't even really fully
- 27:22understand it, but yet they live with it every single day.
- 27:26The community is the point, the watches, and I'm being
- 27:29completely honest with you here, the watches are kind of the
- 27:32excuse to let me explain what I mean.
- 27:34I'm going to text group. This text group is amazing, and
- 27:37I won't tell you who's in it exactly, but I'll tell you the
- 27:40composition. There are different people from
- 27:42different races is in this group different religions, devout,
- 27:45observant, conflicted, lapsed, atheist.
- 27:48There's different genders, there's different sexual
- 27:50orientations. There's different generations.
- 27:52You know, there's an age range of decades.
- 27:55There's different professions, right?
- 27:56There are people with terminal degrees.
- 27:59There are people who work in specific fields, are people who
- 28:02work with with, you know, people who are at risk.
- 28:05It's a remarkable field and community that that I get to
- 28:09work with and chat with. And they come from different
- 28:11places and our cultures come from different places and very
- 28:15different political views. And you could pick any other
- 28:18topic in the world and this group would statistically
- 28:21disagree about it almost violently sometimes on a few of
- 28:25the topics. And every day for years, we text
- 28:28each other pictures of watches. And we disagree about watches
- 28:31too, by the way, we disagree all the time.
- 28:33One person and loves a model, another person finds it
- 28:36atrocious and sometimes we start to calibrate with each other of
- 28:38these two folks will probably like this watch and the other
- 28:41folks may not. Someone might be going through a
- 28:43vintage phase and other person's going through exclusively into
- 28:46modern or indie watchmaking. A third person might only wear
- 28:49dive watches. They may wear larger watches or
- 28:51smaller watches. And we tease one another and I'm
- 28:54going to give you kind of real generalized examples that, you
- 28:56know, last, you know, week. For example, there may be a
- 29:00famous watch that's coming out and we will argue over a
- 29:02particular brand or whether they're overrated or underrated.
- 29:06Or maybe this is a new masterpiece and the argument
- 29:08goes exactly nowhere and nobody has convinced anyone of anything
- 29:12but the. But by the end, you know, one or
- 29:14two people have actually bought that watch and one person is
- 29:17probably going to be returning theirs or selling it or a catch
- 29:19and release, which is where we get a watch and then we wear it
- 29:22for a day or two and realize, man, this isn't the watch that I
- 29:24wanted. And then we move it on and we're
- 29:25all laughing about it. And nobody won and nobody had to
- 29:29win. And I want you to think about
- 29:31this in your own life. How many groups of people that
- 29:34you know can you still do this with who disagree daily across
- 29:38many lines of differences and still show up the next morning
- 29:42after mourning, after mourning 4 years.
- 29:45There are families that can't do that.
- 29:47And the honest answer is for many of us, not many, maybe
- 29:50none. The watch hobby is, I think, a
- 29:53true lot of deep enthusiasts. But watches in particular has a
- 29:58few features, or they have a few features that make it work in
- 30:00this way, and I want to walk you through them because I think
- 30:03they're interesting in their own right.
- 30:04One, watches are a neutral object.
- 30:07Look, cars carry status. Wine carries class, sports carry
- 30:12this kind of tribalism. Watches are weirdly free of all
- 30:16of that. A $200 Seiko diver is welcome in
- 30:19the same conversation as a $200,000 Patek Philippe.
- 30:22The discussion isn't about which is better, it's about which one
- 30:26and would what each watch is. The hobby has somehow evolved
- 30:30past the obvious status hierarchy in a way that most
- 30:34luxury objects and anything that's luxury adjacent adjacent
- 30:37hobbies haven't. And I'm not exactly sure why
- 30:40that is, but it's true. The only time you're going to
- 30:42see people kind of ranking this kind of stuff or people that are
- 30:45typically new in the hobby that are going on and just created a
- 30:48Reddit account and we'll go and hate it on one another, but for
- 30:51the most part, people who've been in this enthusiast circle
- 30:54for a long time, there's a massive amount of respect for
- 30:57every watch that's going to be coming out.
- 30:59Now there's a thankful that we we all kind of make fun of
- 31:02together, but even in that case, we're still respectful.
- 31:05Now to the hobby rewards earnestness and earnestness
- 31:09alone. You can't fake enthusiasm for
- 31:12the things that this community cares about.
- 31:14You can't pretend to be excited about hand finishing on a
- 31:16movement that you've never looked at.
- 31:18The community can tell the reward in this hobby is genuine
- 31:21knowledge plus genuine love, and there are no shortcuts for that.
- 31:25But it also means that when someone doesn't know something
- 31:28and they're interested, we are more than willing to share and
- 31:31be kind and ask questions and actually engage honest questions
- 31:36about certain things. How do I size a bracelet?
- 31:38How do I use a timing bezel? What is the GMT feature on a
- 31:42watch and how do I use this right?
- 31:44There's again, no shortcuts. But this means that everyone in
- 31:47the room, on the some level, has earned their way by paying
- 31:50attention for this for a long time, and that produces this
- 31:53unusual respect for one another. And it also means that there's a
- 31:57respect for people who have just come into the hobby. 3 The
- 32:02object is the focal point, not the person, And this is huge.
- 32:05When the conversation is about the watch, the person disappears
- 32:09for a moment. The thing that usually divides
- 32:12us in modern life identity, opinion, status, ideology, they
- 32:16recede. What's on the table is a small
- 32:19mechanical object. We are all looking at it
- 32:21together. We're trying to understand it
- 32:24together. The shared object becomes a kind
- 32:27of neutral ground that almost no other topic provides.
- 32:30And I'll give you an example. I've been to meetups where there
- 32:33were celebrities there and the celebrity status of someone
- 32:36slides away when they geek out about about someone that they've
- 32:41never met before, who's in a field that's not exciting, pulls
- 32:44out a watch that they've never seen before.
- 32:46And that celebrity is now enamored with someone that you
- 32:51would immediately look at and go, what is happening in this
- 32:53space right now? And what's happening is the
- 32:56entire room is realizing this person has a piece unique, which
- 33:00is a one-of-a-kind watch that came from.
- 33:02And you can fill in the blank with whatever master watchmaker
- 33:05that you might want to fill in that you're excited about.
- 33:08And they all stop and they all recognize that this is something
- 33:10very special and they may not ever get the opportunity to see
- 33:13this again. And that ties them all together.
- 33:16The celebrity status goes away when we realize that what we're
- 33:19looking at has more to do with the art.
- 33:22And so that's a very, very different space that we get to
- 33:24play in. Four.
- 33:26The hobby has a pretty long learning curve and there are no
- 33:29shortcuts. You can't speed up and you can't
- 33:32speed run. Watch collecting.
- 33:34Look, you can Google your way to understanding what a chronometer
- 33:36is and you can. You'll have to spend some years,
- 33:39you're going to make some mistakes.
- 33:40You have to buy the wrong watches and you'll sell them and
- 33:43you'll buy another wrong watch and they'll sell those too.
- 33:45And everyone in the community has done this.
- 33:47Everyone has been a beginner, which means that when a new
- 33:50person shows up, they're welcomed because we all remember
- 33:54what it was like to be them. These 4 features, they add up to
- 33:57a community that has an, in my experience, almost no
- 34:00equivalent. There have been a lot of groups
- 34:02in my life. Sports teams, work groups,
- 34:05faith-based communities, neighborhood groups, hot work,
- 34:08hobbies. There are no hobby groups for
- 34:12things other than watches, None of them that have looked like
- 34:16this. I've been to watch meetups.
- 34:17And again, these events are real, by the way, there where
- 34:20people get together and they show up in person and they show
- 34:24each other their watches and then they talk about them.
- 34:26And I've been at meetups that contained a Catholic priest and
- 34:29software engineers and teachers and a dude who worked on an oil
- 34:32rig and doctors and surgeons. And on paper, they have like
- 34:36nothing in common. And they have everything in
- 34:38common. They're there for the same same
- 34:40reason. And they all left as friends,
- 34:42exchanging numbers, adding people to text groups.
- 34:45And I have, through this hobby, met people that I would have
- 34:47never met otherwise. I have, through this hobby, had
- 34:50conversations that I would have never had otherwise.
- 34:53I have, through this hobby, become friends with people whose
- 34:56lives look nothing like mine, and who, through the lens of
- 35:00every other category in the world, would be categories that
- 35:03I was told should not cross. But the watches are the excuse,
- 35:07and the community is the point. And if I had to give the single
- 35:10most honest reason for why I do this, for why I keep doing this
- 35:14decades in with no sign of stopping, and the fact that I
- 35:17have a podcast about it, that's the reason.
- 35:19Not the craftsmanship, not the although the craftsmanship is
- 35:23real. Not the history, although the
- 35:25history is real and I love history.
- 35:27And not the wedding photos, although that is real and it's
- 35:30true. And genuinely that that does
- 35:32pull at the the eudemonic aspect, the whole world in this
- 35:35space. But the real reason the hobby
- 35:37has given me this, it's giving me this group of friends who in
- 35:40a fragmented and very divided world, they can sit down at a
- 35:43table every day, virtually mostly, and sometimes
- 35:46physically, and pay attention to the same small beautiful objects
- 35:50together. And I think that is rare than
- 35:52than it should be. And it is, I think one of the
- 35:54most important things that is in my life.
- 35:57And now segment 7, we're going to talk about why, you know,
- 35:59what we're actually doing. OK, so let's pull this whole
- 36:01thing together because the hobby really isn't about watches.
- 36:04And I mean, yeah, it is. The watches are wonderful.
- 36:06We've what we've talked about, the craftsmanship is real, the
- 36:10history is real, the art is real.
- 36:11The photo argument is real. All that's true.
- 36:14But underneath the watch is what we're actually doing.
- 36:17And I think most of us don't even know we're doing this, even
- 36:20though we we, we do it everyday. What we're actually doing is
- 36:23practicing a set of things that modern life makes very hard to
- 36:26practice. We're practicing patience.
- 36:28We are giving up or saving up for years, possibly for specific
- 36:33objects. We're sitting on a wait list for
- 36:35watches that may take decades to arrive.
- 36:38We're waiting for the right one to come up at the right price
- 36:40and saying no 100 times before we say yes.
- 36:44In a world where everything is a one click instant moment
- 36:48gratification, this is a strange discipline to learn.
- 36:51But it's a discipline. We're practicing patience and
- 36:54practicing attention. We're looking at small things
- 36:57carefully for very long periods, and we're noticing details
- 37:00caring about a chamfer on a bridge or a particular shade of
- 37:03blue on a dial. In a world where attention is
- 37:06the scarcest resource in the economy, watch people are
- 37:09weirdly training themselves to pay attention and we practice
- 37:12care. Watches are objects that you
- 37:14maintain, you wind them, you service them, you learn how they
- 37:17work, you take care of them, and at last they get better.
- 37:21In a world built around disposability, this is almost
- 37:23like a countercultural act. We're practicing conversation
- 37:27across differences, just as we talked about people who disagree
- 37:31basically about almost everything can sit at the same
- 37:33group and talk about the same object and walk away as friends.
- 37:37This is something humans used to be much better AT and have
- 37:40somewhat lost. The watch community has
- 37:42accidentally kept us alive and we're practicing.
- 37:45I think the deepest one. We're practicing caring about
- 37:48something so deeply without it needing to pay off.
- 37:51The watch on your wrist will not get noticed by anything.
- 37:54The watch on your wrist will not get you a promotion.
- 37:58It will not impress most people you meet.
- 38:00Most people won't even notice it.
- 38:02It will not improve any social standing in any way that most
- 38:06people would recognize. We are caring for it because of
- 38:09our own sake, for ourselves, for possibly the next generation.
- 38:13We're doing the human thing of finding a thing that we love and
- 38:16we're loving it, and that's all. And in a culture that's obsessed
- 38:20with optimization and output and ROI, doing something purely
- 38:24because you love it, I think is one of the most radical
- 38:26practices a person can do. And that's what we're really
- 38:29doing. We're collecting reasons to pay
- 38:31attention. We're collecting reasons to
- 38:33care. We're collecting people who care
- 38:35about the same things in a world where it's getting harder and
- 38:38harder to find them. And we use watches as an excuse
- 38:41for that. Now, Segment 8, I'm going to
- 38:43talk about what to say next time.
- 38:45So OK, we're at the end. You've done well.
- 38:47I want to leave you with something practical.
- 38:49The next time the watch person in your life starts to lose it
- 38:52at dinner, gets that particular gleam in their eye and opens
- 38:55their mouth and starts to explain a thing that nobody
- 38:58asked about, here's what I want you to try to say.
- 39:00Try, try this instead. Show me the one you're wearing
- 39:03today. Those are some magical words
- 39:05persons probably going to light up.
- 39:06They'll tell you a story. The story will probably take a
- 39:08couple of minutes and probably involve a specific person or a
- 39:12specific moment or a specific reason they chose to wear that
- 39:15watch on that date. Let them tell you.
- 39:17You don't have to remember it, just they need to tell it.
- 39:19Another question you might want to ask is something along lines
- 39:21of like what's the story behind this one?
- 39:24The variation on the theme. Every watch person has a story
- 39:28of their own. They've been waiting to tell it
- 39:30and here's their opportunity. Or maybe you ask, you know, I
- 39:33don't get it. But but I love that you love it,
- 39:35right? It's kind of the gold standard
- 39:36response when you're responding to them.
- 39:38It's kind of the perfect sentence.
- 39:39It says, you know, I'm not pretending to understand.
- 39:41I'm I'm also not making fun of you.
- 39:43I'll, I'll there's moments for that.
- 39:46I'm acknowledging that this matters to you.
- 39:47And because you matter to me, you're caring about this matters
- 39:51to me. And if you're remembering
- 39:53nothing from this episode, remember this one.
- 39:55It works for watches. It works for almost any anything
- 39:59someone you love is into. Maybe the response of something
- 40:02like, hey, I'm sorry. I rolled my eyes at the
- 40:04Christmas present, right? This one's for the partners.
- 40:06You know who you are. He knew what you were doing.
- 40:08They they picked it out for months.
- 40:09This wasn't a generic gift. They saw it and they thought of
- 40:12you and they spent the money and they wrapped it and they were
- 40:14excited to give it to you. And they tell them your story
- 40:17and they forgive you. And hopefully they're probably
- 40:18have and maybe one more. All right, maybe the statement
- 40:21of tell me about the people in your text group.
- 40:24It's a secret one. This is a question that almost
- 40:26no non watch person ever asks, but it's the one for most of us
- 40:31that opens up everything. The watches are wonderful.
- 40:34The watches are the excuse, but the people are the point.
- 40:37So ask about the people. All right, let's end this thing.
- 40:40You got stuff to do. If you're a watch person, you
- 40:42made it this far. Thank you for listening.
- 40:44I hope this episode is useful. Send it to people that that
- 40:47maybe you think might want to listen to it.
- 40:50Send it to the ones that are in your watch group that maybe
- 40:52probably should listen to it and maybe it's your way of saying
- 40:54that you appreciate them. Maybe send it to your
- 40:56mother-in-law or your mother. Those have been confused about
- 41:00what you've been doing for the past couple of decades.
- 41:02Or maybe you're brand new and you're just looking for a reason
- 41:04of why you're in this hobby and you can't explain it.
- 41:07We made this for you. If you're a non watch person and
- 41:09you've made it this far, thank you honestly for sitting through
- 41:11it. You didn't have to.
- 41:13The fact that you did say something about who you are and
- 41:15your character, and it also says something about the person who
- 41:19sent it to you and about what you're willing to do for those
- 41:22people. And guess what?
- 41:23That that's love. Whether you're a tough guy and
- 41:25military brothers and sisters that we have out there.
- 41:28I know who you are. You're big squishies on the
- 41:29inside. I've seen you around your kids.
- 41:31That is itself the answer to a lot of these questions about a
- 41:35lot of these things. They're not just about watches
- 41:37and and one last thing. The next time you're at a
- 41:39wedding or a holiday or graduation or any moment your
- 41:42family raises a camera or a phone and someone says to get
- 41:46everybody together, look at the risks and the room.
- 41:48Look what people chose to wear on the day that they want to be
- 41:51remembered. So that's what we're doing.
- 41:53That's that's all we're doing. We're choosing what gets to be
- 41:55in the picture with us. I'm watch Offski.
- 41:57Take care of yourselves and wear something good, whatever good
- 42:01means to you. Thanks for listening.
- 42:03Hey. What's on your wrist?
- 42:19Under 3 hander, stainless steel on my skin.
- 42:23I want a daily driver, not a shrine.
- 42:26I can't fit in Casio on Monday mornings.
- 42:31Ella's got me saying stop Topper Friday in the group chat and my
- 42:36budget just got dropped. I can't afford that.
- 42:39Still. I stare at it. 80 can suck it.
- 42:42I'm in love with a habit. Lauren's group chat going to
- 42:44make me broke. One more shot swap and I swear
- 42:47it's solid joke. What's on your wrist day?
- 42:51What's on your wrist day? What's on your wrist day?
- 43:01What's on your wrist day? I just can't resist wash up.
- 43:05Wash up. Popped out, crown on the wrist,
- 43:09third swap of the day. I know, I know, Brown on
- 43:12leather, steel on steel. Then I change it for the show.
- 43:14Got on my wish list, but I'm not acting rich.
- 43:17Ready Bros? Gonna fry as if I call this one
- 43:19a grill and switch. I can't afford that.
- 43:21Stare at it and suck it. I didn't mean that I'm in love
- 43:25with a habit shot back in the comments.
- 43:28Got me losing sleep but I laugh it off because we don't take it
- 43:31too deep. What's on your wrist day?
- 43:34What's? On your wristy The daily driver,
- 43:39baby. What's on your wrist day?
- 43:44What's on your wrist day? I just.
- 43:47Can't reason what's up? What's up on the crap?
- 43:51The rest Perpetual calendar, freehander and a dream.
- 43:58Stainless steel. A scratch or two.
- 44:00Still the king of the scene. Sell us new drop stop that.
- 44:06I click and then I flinch. Then I post.
- 44:10Just browsing and I buy it in a pinch.
- 44:12What's on your wrist? Say what's on your wrist.
- 44:20Hey, daily driver baby. Why?
- 44:30What's on your wrist? Say I just can't resist.
- 44:32What's up? What's up on the crap?
- 44:34What's? On your wrist?
- 44:37What's on your? Wrist what's on me?
- 44:39Broke again? What's?
- 44:48On your wrist, say hey, what's? On your wrist.
- 44:51What's up, Ski? Let's go.
- 44:54We don't take ourselves too seriously.