Latest / Let's Ask the Mamas! / Nosey
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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question in for American Mamas. Dear Mamas,
- 0:02Speaker 1: how nosy are you?
- 0:03Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American Mamas.
- 0:18Speaker 1: Joining us now are American Mamas Terry Nedival and Kimberly Burleson.
- 0:22Speaker 1: This seems like a really personal question. I don't think
- 0:24Speaker 1: we should be asking how nosy other people are. That
- 0:26Speaker 1: just seems way too nosy.
- 0:29Speaker 3: Oh, I'm nosy.
- 0:31Speaker 4: I am nosy. I saw the other day on Instagram
- 0:34Speaker 4: where this guy... This guy and his wife are getting divorced. Yeah.
- 0:37Speaker 4: So he put up there an FAQ page. Okay. Where
- 0:41Speaker 4: people could ask him anything.
- 0:42Speaker 1: All right.
- 0:43Speaker 4: So the questions were flying.
- 0:45Speaker 1: Over his divorce.
- 0:45Speaker 2: Over his divorce.
- 0:46Speaker 4: You could ask people like, what happened?
- 0:48Speaker 3: Wow.
- 0:48Speaker 4: Who wanted it?
- 0:49Speaker 2: You know, that kind of thing. Was she okay with this?
- 0:51Speaker 4: Well, I don't know.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Okay.
- 0:52Speaker 4: But he did it.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Okay.
- 0:53Speaker 4: And I thought, we need to normalize this.
- 0:56Speaker 3: Okay.
- 0:58Speaker 4: So when people put on social media, you know, like
- 1:02Speaker 4: unspoken prayers, I'm like, what is the, like what?
- 1:06Speaker 3: What do you need?
- 1:07Speaker 4: When someone says RIP, I'm like, what happened? Please tell
- 1:11Speaker 4: me what happened. I just want to know. When you
- 1:13Speaker 4: break up, I want to know.
- 1:14Speaker 2: Why did you break up?
- 1:15Speaker 4: Like what's going on? I wish people would normalize.
- 1:18Speaker 2: That's hilarious.
- 1:18Speaker 1: But why do you need to know?
- 1:20Speaker 4: I don't know. Why do you got to tell me?
- 1:22Speaker 2: Would you do it?
- 1:23Speaker 4: Would you do it? Yeah, I tell you. So if
- 1:26Speaker 4: I ever put anything on Facebook, I will explain why
- 1:29Speaker 4: I'm putting it on Facebook. I feel like you're attention-seeking
- 1:32Speaker 4: if you just want unspoken prayer. I'm like, girl, tell
- 1:37Speaker 4: us what happened. Because then you've got people saying, what happened?
- 1:40Speaker 4: Please DM me. And then you've got other people going,
- 1:43Speaker 4: if she wanted to, she would have told you, let
- 1:45Speaker 4: her have her moment. You know, you had these little
- 1:47Speaker 4: back and forth and I'm like, she knew exactly what
- 1:49Speaker 4: she was doing. People need to speak up and share
- 1:52Speaker 4: with all of us what's happening in your life.
- 1:56Speaker 2: When you lost your.
- 1:59Speaker 4: Weight, were you on the job or did you do
- 2:03Speaker 4: it naturally? I need to know. How are you so skinny?
- 2:07Speaker 2: How can you afford that trip? How did you do that?
- 2:11Speaker 2: I know what you do for a living.
- 2:12Speaker 4: How did you afford that trip?
- 2:13Speaker 3: I need to know.
- 2:14Speaker 1: That's a good question.
- 2:15Speaker 2: That is so funny. There are a lot of people that.
- 2:17Speaker 3: Like, wouldn't you love, like, these little bubbles above everybody's heads?
- 2:20Speaker 1: There are a lot of people I've seen posting a
- 2:22Speaker 1: lot of trips, and I'm like.
- 2:23Speaker 2: I don't... How do you do that? I don't know how...
- 2:25Speaker 2: How do you do it? I don't know how people
- 2:26Speaker 2: fly as much as they do.
- 2:27Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:28Speaker 3: Kevin and I go to Knoxville to see our grandson,
- 2:30Speaker 3: and we're, like, looking around, like, how.
- 2:33Speaker 2: They're in pajamas.
- 2:35Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 2:35Speaker 3: How?
- 2:36Speaker 2: How are you.
- 2:37Speaker 3: Like.
- 2:38Speaker 2: we're in our Sunday best because this cost a fortune.
- 2:40Speaker 4: I know.
- 2:40Speaker 3: Like, what?
- 2:41Speaker 2: How is everybody doing this?
- 2:43Speaker 3: Oh, when's Kevin if he had another family? Because I
- 2:45Speaker 3: was like, all these other ER wives are going around
- 2:48Speaker 3: the world, and they're buying all the name brand things,
- 2:51Speaker 3: and I'm having to cut corners here and there. And
- 2:53Speaker 3: I said, is there another family that you are supporting?
- 2:57Speaker 3: Because how are they doing this, and we're doing this?
- 3:01Speaker 3: But when you mentioned the Ozempic or the jab or whatever. Yeah.
- 3:07Speaker 3: That is interesting because you'll have some people that you
- 3:09Speaker 3: know are on it, and they'll say, this is what.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Hard work looks like.
- 3:13Speaker 4: Oh.
- 3:13Speaker 2: I just cut out sugar. I went on a broth
- 3:16Speaker 2: diet for nine months. And you know you're like, girl.
- 3:19Speaker 2: You liar. Stop. Just say you got it.
- 3:23Speaker 3: I love people who go, I have a friend that
- 3:25Speaker 3: was like, I'm not doing it, but I'm doing this.
- 3:27Speaker 2: It's not, you know, this is actually healthier food. It's like, yeah,
- 3:30Speaker 2: own it. Because it does work. They do feel better.
- 3:33Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with it. It is cheaper than Ozempic.
- 3:35Speaker 2: When they say that, I'm like, let's high five, girl.
- 3:39Speaker 2: Do what you need to do.
- 3:40Speaker 3: When they try to pretend like, I just drink water,
- 3:43Speaker 3: more water now, less Coke, and I get more sleep.
- 3:46Speaker 3: And you know, you're like, just don't say anything at all.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Don't say anything at all.
- 3:51Speaker 1: So you guys are nosy about other things.
- 3:56Speaker 4: I'm nosy about everything.
- 3:57Speaker 3: Do you?
- 3:59Speaker 1: So some of this is kind of my, my journalism
- 4:01Speaker 1: background too, because when I was a reporter, uh, I, I,
- 4:05Speaker 1: I was trained to be nosy. Um, but I think it's,
- 4:08Speaker 1: it's not necessarily on a personal basis. Like if I
- 4:11Speaker 1: just see somebody post something on Facebook, I'm like, okay,
- 4:13Speaker 1: I'll move on. But if I get into a news story.
- 4:17Speaker 1: I now have to go know everything about that story
- 4:19Speaker 1: and I have to dig and I have to follow
- 4:21Speaker 1: all the trails.
- 4:21Speaker 3: I do too.
- 4:22Speaker 1: So when it's a new story, I will absolutely be
- 4:24Speaker 1: nosy on that.
- 4:25Speaker 4: Well, a new story, a friend story, I'm digging. Yeah.
- 4:29Speaker 4: I'm digging. Like when I'm the person that a friend says, well,
- 4:32Speaker 4: my daughter is seeing somebody, but I don't know who
- 4:35Speaker 4: he is. I'm like, oh, I'll find him.
- 4:37Speaker 3: Yeah. I will find him.
- 4:39Speaker 2: She's the one that will say, hey.
- 4:42Speaker 3: Something's going on with so-and-so's marriage. She just changed her profile.
- 4:46Speaker 3: I just went back, and she has deleted all of
- 4:48Speaker 3: her husband's pictures.
- 4:49Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, what? Like, I'm so clueless. I don't
- 4:52Speaker 2: even know what AI is anymore.
- 4:54Speaker 3: I'm not sending anything else to my children that's inspirational
- 4:56Speaker 3: because they all send back laughing emojis. Mom.
- 5:01Speaker 2: That 95-year-old woman did not do a high jump. Stop.
- 5:04Speaker 2: Stop believing everything. I don't believe anything anymore.
- 5:07Speaker 4: I don't believe you.
- 5:08Speaker 2: I don't believe anybody on Facebook.
- 5:09Speaker 3: I don't believe that anybody lost weight anymore naturally. I
- 5:14Speaker 3: don't believe anything or anybody or what I see because
- 5:16Speaker 3: everything is AI and AI looks very real.
- 5:19Speaker 2: So I'm that person. Kimberly's like... Okay, here's what happened.
- 5:23Speaker 3: This is about the point when things started getting uneasy
- 5:26Speaker 3: with them.
- 5:27Speaker 4: It was in 2023.
- 5:28Speaker 3: You start seeing the cryptic messages and these quotes they're
- 5:30Speaker 3: putting down. And then this is when they actually split.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Yeah, she's good.
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- 5:42Speaker 1: Terry Nederville, Kimberly Berthelsen, thank you so much. Thanks.