Latest / The Bob Lefsetz Podcast / Pat Monahan
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Welcome, welcome, Welcome back to the Bob Left Chats podcasts.
- 0:12Speaker 1: My Yesterday's Hot on a hand of Twain. That band
- 0:17Speaker 1: is going on the road with Bare Naked Ladies and
- 0:20Speaker 1: Matt Nathanson and have a new single, The Weekend Pat.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I read the lyrics of the Weekend. I listened to
- 0:28Speaker 1: the song, and it seems like there's a message tell
- 0:31Speaker 1: me what the song is about.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Well, Hi, Bob, thank you for having me on your program.
- 0:38Speaker 2: I really am a big fan of your work. You're
- 0:40Speaker 2: seeming to be the smartest guy in the music industry,
- 0:44Speaker 2: and I've read many, many, many of your articles that
- 0:48Speaker 2: I adore. So the weekend is I started singing, I
- 0:54Speaker 2: don't talk about the weekend while playing on a piano
- 0:59Speaker 2: because my life and I we we noticed that on
- 1:03Speaker 2: the internet everyone is living this incredibly ideal lifestyle and
- 1:12Speaker 2: it seems to be false. And my wife and I
- 1:15Speaker 2: don't really brag about our lives, so we essentially don't
- 1:20Speaker 2: talk about the weekend. We just make memories and don't
- 1:24Speaker 2: post about it. We don't, you know. Some of the
- 1:28Speaker 2: lyrics are like, if you have to show the world,
- 1:31Speaker 2: if you need the world to see you, you know,
- 1:33Speaker 2: think about what other people are going through. If you've
- 1:35Speaker 2: got to tell somebody you're a boss, man, chances are
- 1:38Speaker 2: you ain't a boss then, because it just seems like
- 1:42Speaker 2: a whole lot of what is the Lady doth protest
- 1:46Speaker 2: too much? Where you would see so much good and
- 1:50Speaker 2: then two weeks later you find out that are going
- 1:53Speaker 2: through a divorce or whatever. And my idea was the
- 1:57Speaker 2: people who come to a training concert were making memories together, Like,
- 2:02Speaker 2: it's not about what you post to your friends or
- 2:07Speaker 2: try to show the world what you have and how
- 2:10Speaker 2: good life is. It's just about having a good life.
- 2:15Speaker 1: You know, I got that. But there's also the line
- 2:19Speaker 1: go on and find yourself a watergate, And there's also
- 2:24Speaker 1: the issue of I don't talk about the weekend. You'd
- 2:26Speaker 1: already know if you're a good friend. I thought that
- 2:29Speaker 1: maybe this was like a TMZ type reference where Hey,
- 2:34Speaker 1: you know I've been burned. This is my regular life.
- 2:38Speaker 1: You know that the tabloids and people online are looking
- 2:42Speaker 1: to get me in a situation and publicize that. Is
- 2:45Speaker 1: that a pure fantasy eater is at the song at all?
- 2:48Speaker 2: It's definitely in the song. I think everybody's always looking
- 2:51Speaker 2: for a way to take somebody down. And I'm not
- 2:55Speaker 2: really a famous guy, so I'm not really on people's radar.
- 3:00Speaker 2: But if you are looking for somebody to lover hate,
- 3:03Speaker 2: go find something because I'm not it for you, you know,
- 3:06Speaker 2: Like that's all I'm saying.
- 3:09Speaker 1: Okay, to what degree are you on social media? I mean,
- 3:12Speaker 1: not posting, but spending time going through TikTok Instagram.
- 3:16Speaker 2: Whatever I post, I post on Instagram and TikTok, and
- 3:22Speaker 2: it's all very positive. You know. I have four children
- 3:28Speaker 2: and have seen the negatives of what social media can do,
- 3:33Speaker 2: and I just try to keep things super up and
- 3:38Speaker 2: I definitely page through social media, Instagram and TikTok for
- 3:44Speaker 2: comedy and golf, like those are my two things that
- 3:48Speaker 2: I look for.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Okay, let's start at the beginning. Just by posting online,
- 3:55Speaker 1: you get hate. Of course, have you experienced hat and
- 3:59Speaker 1: how do you hope with that?
- 4:01Speaker 2: Well, it's changed over the years because you know, I've
- 4:05Speaker 2: never been in the biggest nor the most popular band
- 4:08Speaker 2: in the world, and so people have found many things
- 4:11Speaker 2: to dislike about what I do and you just don't
- 4:14Speaker 2: read it. Like I have friends that are in the
- 4:17Speaker 2: industry and bands similar to mine, and they read it
- 4:21Speaker 2: and it's terrible. It's terrible for them. Nothing is real,
- 4:26Speaker 2: you know, Like if you're adored by five million likes
- 4:31Speaker 2: and you have five thousand hates, like none of it's real.
- 4:35Speaker 2: Like you just have to remember, I've gotten to the
- 4:38Speaker 2: age where reading any opinions of me doesn't really matter anymore.
- 4:44Speaker 2: I don't take any of it personally. It's not about me.
- 4:50Speaker 1: So how good a golfer are you.
- 4:53Speaker 2: I've played some good golf, I've played some bad golf.
- 4:57Speaker 2: My indexes at around a six right now. And I
- 5:02Speaker 2: just had a lesson from a good friend of mine
- 5:05Speaker 2: who's an older gentleman who has played in six Masters.
- 5:11Speaker 2: His name is Rick Fair, and he really helped me
- 5:14Speaker 2: with some things. I think I might be getting there.
- 5:17Speaker 2: Do you play?
- 5:21Speaker 1: What I always tell people is I got a hold
- 5:23Speaker 1: in one and I gave up.
- 5:24Speaker 2: Oh wow, I still don't have one of those.
- 5:27Speaker 1: Well that's a lucky shot. But I played as a kid.
- 5:32Speaker 1: I was never good. And the problem with playing as
- 5:35Speaker 1: an adult, I found is people take it so seriously. Yeah,
- 5:40Speaker 1: I mean, you know if you're dealing with that coach
- 5:43Speaker 1: that the pros play a completely different game yep than
- 5:47Speaker 1: the average person, the way they worked the ball, etc.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Unless you started at a really young age, you can't
- 5:54Speaker 1: accomplish what they're doing. But I have friends and they're
- 5:59Speaker 1: so compared. I guess my mother was really played a
- 6:02Speaker 1: lot of golf, so I played some too, and it
- 6:06Speaker 1: was about you know, doing the right thing ethically. And
- 6:11Speaker 1: but as I say, people people are so competitive that
- 6:15Speaker 1: I stopped playing.
- 6:16Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard something today. I was talking to a
- 6:19Speaker 2: friend and he said his brother started playing before him,
- 6:24Speaker 2: and his brother gave him one piece of advice when
- 6:28Speaker 2: he started, and that nobody wants to be around an
- 6:33Speaker 2: angry golfer. And I think that's great advice, Like just
- 6:37Speaker 2: go out there and enjoy it and be happy that
- 6:40Speaker 2: you're with your people.
- 6:42Speaker 1: Absolutely. The other thing is I don't have the patience
- 6:48Speaker 1: to work on chipping and sand shots to the degree
- 6:51Speaker 1: that you need to.
- 6:53Speaker 2: That's the grind.
- 6:55Speaker 1: So do you practice at that level?
- 6:58Speaker 2: I have started to because I It was recently in
- 7:00Speaker 2: the Pebble Beach per the at and T prom at
- 7:05Speaker 2: Pebble Beach and it was my seventh one and I
- 7:07Speaker 2: played terribly. And I played with a kid named Jake Knapp,
- 7:13Speaker 2: who's a really beautiful golfer, wonderful kid, and he said
- 7:18Speaker 2: he gets the most joy out of practice, and I
- 7:23Speaker 2: was like, huh, that's really interesting because I can only
- 7:29Speaker 2: equate that to music, and music for me, I don't
- 7:33Speaker 2: practice anymore. I write songs. But I think that's practice, right,
- 7:37Speaker 2: So we write songs until we get to until we
- 7:42Speaker 2: hit oil. Like I have way more terrible songs that
- 7:46Speaker 2: no one has ever heard than I have songs that
- 7:48Speaker 2: people like that they have heard. And I think that's
- 7:51Speaker 2: what practice is. I think that's what golf is. You
- 7:53Speaker 2: leave all the bad shots out there so that when
- 7:56Speaker 2: you get to the tournament, you have done all the work.
- 8:01Speaker 1: So have you played with you know, supposedly Vince Gill
- 8:04Speaker 1: is an amazing golfer and he was friends with Arnold Palmer.
- 8:08Speaker 1: Have you played with any really good people from the
- 8:12Speaker 1: music business on either side of the stage?
- 8:15Speaker 2: You know. I'm actually good pals with Vince, and we
- 8:18Speaker 2: threatened to play golf every summer because this guy is
- 8:22Speaker 2: like shooting his age and he's sixty seven now and
- 8:26Speaker 2: that's insane, Like that's a different level of golf. So
- 8:31Speaker 2: I'm hoping that I do get to play with Vince.
- 8:33Speaker 2: But I played with a lot of really good athletes,
- 8:38Speaker 2: really good professional golfers. Some Klay Walker have played with,
- 8:43Speaker 2: who's a country artist. He plays good golf. There's a
- 8:48Speaker 2: bunch of them out there that are really good.
- 8:51Speaker 1: So you had this lesson with fair Give me one
- 8:55Speaker 1: tip that he gave you that was an insight.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Just to to narrow my stance. I've been told that
- 9:04Speaker 2: for a long time, to narrow my stance, and I
- 9:07Speaker 2: never really put all the pieces together because it doesn't
- 9:10Speaker 2: end there. You have to move the ball a little
- 9:12Speaker 2: further away, so you're reaching and I hit a fade,
- 9:16Speaker 2: and narrowing my stance and moving the ball a little
- 9:19Speaker 2: further away will help me draw the ball, and so
- 9:23Speaker 2: you put the little pieces together. But it really helps
- 9:26Speaker 2: a lot because I took that lesson to Augusta National
- 9:30Speaker 2: and played really good golf.
- 9:33Speaker 1: And how often do you play.
- 9:36Speaker 2: It depends, you know. Sometimes it'll be three times in
- 9:39Speaker 2: a week and sometimes it'll be three times in four months.
- 9:42Speaker 2: It just depends on I try to take every year
- 9:45Speaker 2: off of music, and every year I don't get off,
- 9:49Speaker 2: so eventually I'll play some golf.
- 9:54Speaker 1: Are you a member of a club.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm at a club outside of Seattle. My wife
- 9:59Speaker 2: is from Seattle. So I'm at a place called Aldera.
- 10:04Speaker 1: Okay, what was the other thing that you said you
- 10:07Speaker 1: looked for on social media besides golf?
- 10:10Speaker 2: Comedy?
- 10:11Speaker 1: Okay, so who's funny? In your book?
- 10:15Speaker 2: Comedy is the most important thing to me and my bandmates.
- 10:19Speaker 2: Like you know, no one's interested in who's the new
- 10:22Speaker 2: band or anything where, Like you got any gags for me,
- 10:26Speaker 2: any jokes? Like I think our music is very much
- 10:30Speaker 2: a romantic comedy. And so we do a cruise every
- 10:35Speaker 2: other year and we always have a comedian on. And
- 10:39Speaker 2: my new favorite living comedian is a guy named Rory
- 10:43Speaker 2: Scovel and so he's going to perform on the cruise
- 10:47Speaker 2: with us this year. He's absolutely incredibly talented and maybe
- 10:53Speaker 2: a genius when it comes to comedy. George Lopez is
- 10:57Speaker 2: a good friend of mine, and Ken Jong is a
- 11:01Speaker 2: good friend. Like when I meet comedians, there's something that
- 11:05Speaker 2: I just inherently love and admire about them. I think
- 11:09Speaker 2: the bravery of getting up there and starting from nothing
- 11:14Speaker 2: and then having an hour long show is got to
- 11:17Speaker 2: be the most difficult thing that you could ever do,
- 11:19Speaker 2: because you're all by.
- 11:20Speaker 1: Yourself and you know there are a lot of comedians
- 11:24Speaker 1: on social media. Are you on social media both to
- 11:28Speaker 1: entertain yourself and trolling for new comedians?
- 11:32Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but I'm also I'm on social media to
- 11:36Speaker 2: send the message of you know, like we have a
- 11:38Speaker 2: new single, we'll have a new album and a new
- 11:41Speaker 2: a new tour. So like I'm in Los Angeles now
- 11:44Speaker 2: doing TikTok videos with kids that have millions of followers,
- 11:49Speaker 2: because that's part of today's promotion or promoting what it
- 11:55Speaker 2: is you're trying to promote. It used to be you
- 11:59Speaker 2: write a on that maybe people will care about. You,
- 12:02Speaker 2: try to get some key radio stations to play it,
- 12:05Speaker 2: you have call out which you don't have anymore, and
- 12:09Speaker 2: hope that it creates a buzz, and other channels start
- 12:12Speaker 2: to add it, and the record president is yelling at
- 12:16Speaker 2: all of his staff to get that thing played, and
- 12:19Speaker 2: its are and now it's.
- 12:21Speaker 1: TikTok Okay, So your managers found these people. Have you
- 12:28Speaker 1: done any yet?
- 12:30Speaker 2: Yeah? Yesterday I did one where I was on the
- 12:33Speaker 2: back of a bicycle singing karaoke to my own songs
- 12:38Speaker 2: in a neighborhood in Los Angeles. Earlier today I did
- 12:43Speaker 2: one where I sat in these two kids kitchen and
- 12:49Speaker 2: sang a couple of songs with them. It's just, you know,
- 12:54Speaker 2: all these people have many millions of followers, and in
- 12:57Speaker 2: New York I just did week of it. It's a
- 13:02Speaker 2: whole new way of promoting. It's a wild game.
- 13:07Speaker 1: So since all these people are successful, do you have
- 13:11Speaker 1: any insight into who these people are, what makes them successful,
- 13:16Speaker 1: whether there's something there.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Yeah, there was one particular guy who does. He was
- 13:23Speaker 2: in New York and he does he's incredibly good at
- 13:27Speaker 2: Guitar Hero. And so here's a kid who grew up
- 13:31Speaker 2: I think it was Denver. I can't remember where he
- 13:32Speaker 2: grew up, but he grew up not in New York,
- 13:36Speaker 2: and he was so good at Guitar Hero that he
- 13:38Speaker 2: was like, I got to figure out what to do
- 13:40Speaker 2: with this. So he goes on the streets of New
- 13:43Speaker 2: York and gets people to play Guitar Hero to their
- 13:47Speaker 2: own music. And then he actually is so good at
- 13:50Speaker 2: it that he creates the program for that song if
- 13:54Speaker 2: it's not already part of Guitar Hero. And you know
- 13:59Speaker 2: what we did, and we did a little over the
- 14:01Speaker 2: weekend and drops of Jupiter. Since it's the twenty fifth
- 14:04Speaker 2: anniversary and that thing's got over a million views already
- 14:08Speaker 2: and I think it just went up yesterday. So some
- 14:10Speaker 2: of these people have this really interesting take on how
- 14:17Speaker 2: to connect with people through the Internet, and like, I
- 14:20Speaker 2: don't have that gift, but this particular guy did.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Okay, But a lot of people have been around a
- 14:27Speaker 1: long time poo pooh the influencers, And there's a lot
- 14:31Speaker 1: of influencers are just in it trying to make money.
- 14:35Speaker 1: But some of them are very creative with good ideas.
- 14:39Speaker 1: Have you encountered any of that.
- 14:43Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, they're not life changing ideas by any means. Actually,
- 14:47Speaker 2: you know what, I there was one kid in New
- 14:51Speaker 2: York that really was a very wonderful you could tell
- 14:58Speaker 2: what a deep soul. He was prob twenty four years
- 15:01Speaker 2: old and he just has one question, and that question
- 15:06Speaker 2: is what makes you confident? And and it's a it's
- 15:12Speaker 2: a pretty interesting question. He has a lot of people
- 15:15Speaker 2: following because you know, he talks to people on the
- 15:19Speaker 2: street that are not trying to pitch anything and people
- 15:22Speaker 2: like me that are, and and we all kind of,
- 15:27Speaker 2: you know, stumble through the answer. And I think he
- 15:31Speaker 2: hit something very human about you know, because what makes
- 15:35Speaker 2: you confident, and you're like, oh shit, it's a fleeting thing.
- 15:38Speaker 2: It doesn't happen all the time. But when I am confident,
- 15:40Speaker 2: it's maybe because of these few things. You know, that
- 15:44Speaker 2: kid I think is he's doing something extraordinary because he's
- 15:49Speaker 2: maybe helping people, you know.
- 15:52Speaker 1: Okay, as you've referenced, the business has completely changed. So song,
- 16:00Speaker 1: let's focus on this because you're going on tour, etc.
- 16:04Speaker 1: How long ago did you write this song?
- 16:08Speaker 2: You know, it's maybe been five months. Sometimes I have
- 16:12Speaker 2: a song for a year before anybody hears it.
- 16:15Speaker 1: Okay, So in this particular case, you write the song
- 16:19Speaker 1: in five months, five months ago. In the back of
- 16:22Speaker 1: your mind, are you saying, I'm going to use this
- 16:25Speaker 1: to promote the tour?
- 16:28Speaker 2: Well, you know, the truth is I I wrote you know,
- 16:33Speaker 2: seventy or eighty songs and hence the practice, right, So,
- 16:40Speaker 2: and then I finally hit the weekend and that felt
- 16:44Speaker 2: like this is the record I'm supposed to make. So
- 16:47Speaker 2: once that song happened, it was It wasn't this is
- 16:51Speaker 2: the song. It was I finally found where I can
- 16:57Speaker 2: drill now for oil like and that happens with a
- 17:01Speaker 2: lot of records, like when we made Save me San Francisco.
- 17:06Speaker 2: It was a song called I Got You because I
- 17:09Speaker 2: wrote Forever and Ever and I wrote a song with
- 17:13Speaker 2: a guy named Kevin who is in better than Ezra,
- 17:17Speaker 2: and we wrote this song I Got You, and I
- 17:19Speaker 2: knew this is now where I'm supposed to drill. And
- 17:23Speaker 2: so soon after that I was able to write Hey,
- 17:25Speaker 2: Soul's Sister, and a couple of other songs that people
- 17:28Speaker 2: ended up caring about. The Weekend was the same thing,
- 17:31Speaker 2: except it's lasted this long through other songs that I've written.
- 17:36Speaker 2: So it became let's start here and then see where
- 17:40Speaker 2: we go.
- 17:41Speaker 1: Okay, you're one of the few acts its started in
- 17:45Speaker 1: the last century who was still with their major label.
- 17:48Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so a lot.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Of people go independent.
- 17:54Speaker 2: You know.
- 17:54Speaker 1: The nature of deals is they need to get renewed.
- 17:57Speaker 1: Usually when the act has a mile on them, the
- 18:01Speaker 1: label doesn't want to renew it. So you talked about
- 18:03Speaker 1: the old yelling record company head in the old days.
- 18:07Speaker 1: How do you still end up on Columbia? What is
- 18:10Speaker 1: that experience today?
- 18:13Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's a pretty positive relationship because I
- 18:18Speaker 2: don't want their money. They don't have to write me
- 18:22Speaker 2: a big check for me to give them music. The
- 18:25Speaker 2: only thing that I need them for is to get
- 18:28Speaker 2: my music out there to people. And that's a very
- 18:33Speaker 2: positive relationship for them as well, because they have the
- 18:37Speaker 2: resources to help me if they believe in what I'm doing.
- 18:41Speaker 2: And so they continue to believe in what I'm doing,
- 18:44Speaker 2: they can try to expose this music because it's to
- 18:49Speaker 2: their advantage as well. And then I don't really need
- 18:54Speaker 2: their money. Like if I'm a young artist and I
- 18:58Speaker 2: really need to get through with a month or the
- 19:01Speaker 2: year and I'm asking for money all the time or whatever,
- 19:04Speaker 2: or if I'm the kind of guy that wants to
- 19:07Speaker 2: make a million dollar album, like those days are not
- 19:10Speaker 2: here anymore. There's no reason to spend a million dollars
- 19:13Speaker 2: making an album. And so I'm just I'm a practical guy,
- 19:18Speaker 2: and I think that practicality is probably refreshing to a
- 19:24Speaker 2: record label. And we have a great relationship because we
- 19:27Speaker 2: know what we expect from one another because we're all
- 19:29Speaker 2: grown ups.
- 19:31Speaker 1: However, there is a sales minimum that they like to see.
- 19:37Speaker 1: It's not a specific number, it's more of a vibe. Yeah,
- 19:42Speaker 1: do you feel any pressure there?
- 19:44Speaker 2: No, because you know, in the last in the last year,
- 19:50Speaker 2: we've reached like two billion streams on Hayesol's Sister, over
- 19:56Speaker 2: a billion on Drops of Jupiter, and just recently over
- 20:00Speaker 2: a billion on Drive By. So they have they have
- 20:04Speaker 2: great revenue coming in, or at least better than many
- 20:08Speaker 2: other artists, and so they're I think, I think they
- 20:12Speaker 2: feel very confident in what they're already receiving from taking
- 20:19Speaker 2: a chance on us earlier to like, you know, my
- 20:23Speaker 2: manager always says, never count Monahan out, like you never
- 20:28Speaker 2: know when something's gonna go.
- 20:37Speaker 1: Okay. And your personal view on streaming as opposed to
- 20:42Speaker 1: the old model.
- 20:44Speaker 2: I've never criticized any change in the music industry from
- 20:52Speaker 2: albums to cassettes to CDs to downloads to streaming. I'm
- 20:59Speaker 2: very fortunate that I started when I started. You know,
- 21:02Speaker 2: we just did a Billy Joel tribute concert and Billy
- 21:05Speaker 2: was there. And you know, Billy started at a time
- 21:07Speaker 2: when if you sold ten million records, that's a whole
- 21:10Speaker 2: hell of a lot of money. I've sold ten million records,
- 21:14Speaker 2: but it didn't equate into that kind of thing, and
- 21:19Speaker 2: and downloads were you know, that's a different kind of math,
- 21:22Speaker 2: and streaming is a different kind of math. But the
- 21:27Speaker 2: more I bitch about things, the less time I have
- 21:30Speaker 2: to actually go do the work. And so I just
- 21:34Speaker 2: feel for younger people who are debating whether being an
- 21:39Speaker 2: artist is their future or not, and making a living
- 21:43Speaker 2: is part of a choice for life. And I feel
- 21:47Speaker 2: like the world of streaming and not making money from
- 21:52Speaker 2: hard copies of things may keep us from getting some
- 21:57Speaker 2: of the artists that we would have gotten otherwise. That's
- 22:00Speaker 2: my only complaint.
- 22:02Speaker 1: You signed an original deal, did you have a manager
- 22:07Speaker 1: or a lawyer who renegotiated rates? If streaming, if you
- 22:12Speaker 1: own the track, you have to pay a small fee,
- 22:15Speaker 1: and if you wrote the song, you get all the money.
- 22:17Speaker 1: Someone may not listen to you don't get any money now.
- 22:20Speaker 1: Or you know, if a new act that's got a
- 22:24Speaker 1: lot of social media viewership, they might sign a deal
- 22:28Speaker 1: where they get fifty percent of the net. Has your
- 22:31Speaker 1: deal been renegotiated?
- 22:33Speaker 2: My manager, Jonathan Daniel, who I think you know, has
- 22:37Speaker 2: continued to renegotiate And the only reason we would continue
- 22:41Speaker 2: to have a relationship with a record company at this
- 22:44Speaker 2: point would be is if it's advantageous to me. And
- 22:48Speaker 2: so I feel really confident that you know I have
- 22:55Speaker 2: I have a deal with Columbia Records. That's fitting for
- 23:00Speaker 2: where I am in my career. If anyone ever asked
- 23:04Speaker 2: me to do like a three sixty deal and get
- 23:06Speaker 2: a piece of my merchandise and touring, and we just
- 23:09Speaker 2: never would have continued a relationship in that matter.
- 23:15Speaker 1: Are you a student of the business.
- 23:18Speaker 2: No, not really. I'm a man of faith in the
- 23:22Speaker 2: people who represent me. And there's no one more wonderful
- 23:28Speaker 2: and brilliant really than Jonathan Daniel. He's a very smart man,
- 23:33Speaker 2: and his partner Bob mclenn is lovely and smart, and
- 23:37Speaker 2: I just always feel like I'm being protected all the time.
- 23:41Speaker 1: Okay, you get a deal with Columbia Records just before
- 23:45Speaker 1: the turn of the entry, Is anybody still working there
- 23:49Speaker 1: who was there when you signed?
- 23:51Speaker 2: I was just there as funny, I was just there
- 23:55Speaker 2: about a week and a half ago. And there were
- 23:58Speaker 2: like two women that were there early days, but everybody else,
- 24:03Speaker 2: everybody else has changed, and there were some people there
- 24:08Speaker 2: twenty years ago, but not twenty eight years ago. So yeah,
- 24:13Speaker 2: there were like two women that were there in the beginning,
- 24:16Speaker 2: and then one radio guy and one radio girl who's
- 24:20Speaker 2: been there for at least twenty years. Lisa Sonken and
- 24:24Speaker 2: it's fun, fun seeing them, and you know, there were
- 24:27Speaker 2: very few survivors, me included.
- 24:32Speaker 1: Isn't it weird though, that you have a longer tenure
- 24:35Speaker 1: than the people run in the company.
- 24:38Speaker 2: No, I think that that makes me want to be
- 24:41Speaker 2: there even better, even more. I think as time moves
- 24:46Speaker 2: on and changes, so does the people. You know, Like
- 24:51Speaker 2: the thing that I think inspires me mostly about making
- 24:55Speaker 2: music is young artists and even not young artists. But
- 25:00Speaker 2: you know, I always mentioned Jay Cole's he's the best
- 25:04Speaker 2: hip hop guy out there to me because I love
- 25:06Speaker 2: him so much, but he keeps making great work. That's
- 25:10Speaker 2: an inspiring to me. And you know, at some point
- 25:15Speaker 2: young people won't want to hear him, They'll want to
- 25:17Speaker 2: hear the new hip hop guy. And the same goes
- 25:21Speaker 2: for a record company. You know, it's not going to
- 25:23Speaker 2: be run the same way now as it was when
- 25:26Speaker 2: you were selling hard albums. This is streaming. So these
- 25:30Speaker 2: are kids that graduated with like computer science degrees, Like
- 25:34Speaker 2: it's a different game. So I think they need to keep,
- 25:38Speaker 2: you know, making sure that the people that are sitting
- 25:40Speaker 2: in those pubicles or in those chairs are going to
- 25:43Speaker 2: shows and communicating with artists are hip to what's happening
- 25:48Speaker 2: in their world?
- 25:49Speaker 1: And what do you find interesting intriguing about j Cole.
- 25:54Speaker 2: I just think he's so smart, he's so good at
- 25:57Speaker 2: what he does, and I don't know, he just seems
- 26:04Speaker 2: like my kind of guy, like I'd want to be
- 26:06Speaker 2: friends with him.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Many rockers are anti hip hop. Why is it just
- 26:14Speaker 1: Ja Pole or are you really into hip hop?
- 26:17Speaker 2: No? I love Kendrick and Drake, and I mean there's
- 26:20Speaker 2: so many of them, but you know, those three in particular,
- 26:26Speaker 2: I think are just very gifted. Twenty one Savage is great.
- 26:31Speaker 2: I don't know what there is to dislike about hip hop.
- 26:36Speaker 1: Well did you get into hip hop your own way
- 26:38Speaker 1: or did one of your kids really turn you.
- 26:41Speaker 2: On to it? No, it was definitely me because when
- 26:44Speaker 2: we do workouts, I make them listen to it. Like
- 26:47Speaker 2: my son, who's fourteen, he just wants to listen to
- 26:51Speaker 2: every heavy metal band around, like we listened to We
- 26:56Speaker 2: just went and saw a Black Label Society. His favorite
- 26:59Speaker 2: guitar player is Zach Wilde, like he's he's not in
- 27:03Speaker 2: my world of hip hop. So I definitely found my
- 27:06Speaker 2: own way.
- 27:09Speaker 1: Okay, so many acts who started in the last century
- 27:14Speaker 1: who can sell out arenas. Most of them don't even
- 27:19Speaker 1: make new music. Okay, Doobie Brothers put out a record
- 27:23Speaker 1: every couple of years, but most of them they find
- 27:28Speaker 1: it too frustrating in that there used to be a
- 27:32Speaker 1: level of ubiquity and you have had that level, you know,
- 27:37Speaker 1: you talk Drops of Jupiter, Marry Me, etc. We're people
- 27:41Speaker 1: probably know Meat Virginia than any Taylor Swift saw and
- 27:46Speaker 1: that's because it's a different era maybe. So to what
- 27:51Speaker 1: degree when you sit down is it to write? Is
- 27:55Speaker 1: it frustrating knowing that in the tower of Babel Society
- 27:59Speaker 1: the reach will probably be limited.
- 28:04Speaker 2: Well, you know, we do really good business, but it's
- 28:09Speaker 2: never big enough. You know when I hear about people
- 28:12Speaker 2: playing stadiums and I long for that, you know, someone
- 28:16Speaker 2: like Billy Joel, Like I was, just like I said,
- 28:18Speaker 2: in New York doing Billy Joel tribute. And when he
- 28:22Speaker 2: was out with Elton, Elton kept making new records and
- 28:25Speaker 2: he was like, Billy, you should make more records, and
- 28:28Speaker 2: he said, Elton, you should make less. But Billy Joel
- 28:31Speaker 2: and Elton John wrote two hundred number one. Like it's
- 28:35Speaker 2: kind of like Paul McCartney making a new record right now.
- 28:38Speaker 2: It's like he doesn't have to. He can go play
- 28:41Speaker 2: an arena or a stadium or whatever he likes. I
- 28:44Speaker 2: don't really have that. I don't have that level of
- 28:48Speaker 2: what they've got. So, first of all, there's a part
- 28:52Speaker 2: of me that's competitive enough with me and perhaps that
- 28:56Speaker 2: something I do can still break through and somehow, maybe
- 29:01Speaker 2: there's a way for me to sell out Wembley one day.
- 29:05Speaker 2: I have to keep believing that because it's helped me
- 29:08Speaker 2: continue since the whole band started. The second reason that
- 29:12Speaker 2: I want to keep creating is I started this band
- 29:16Speaker 2: with four guys. We weren't close friends. None of those
- 29:21Speaker 2: guys are in this band anymore, and for much of
- 29:25Speaker 2: the big moments of the band, they were here. And
- 29:28Speaker 2: now I'm with my closest friends and I think I'm
- 29:32Speaker 2: making really good work. Unfortunately for them, I'm much older
- 29:36Speaker 2: than when those other songs hit, but I still feel
- 29:40Speaker 2: like I want them to experience what I got to experience,
- 29:45Speaker 2: and that's an important part of this for me.
- 29:48Speaker 1: So the dream is still there. Oh yeah, you're not saying,
- 29:52Speaker 1: you know, I got to pay for my boat, so
- 29:54Speaker 1: I got to do now dates this summer, no let's
- 29:58Speaker 1: go back to an earlier thing. You say you wanted
- 30:00Speaker 1: to be positive optimism. Are you an even killed guide?
- 30:05Speaker 1: Do you ever get depressed? Oh yeah.
- 30:08Speaker 2: I'm originally from Erie, Pennsylvania, So I have as much
- 30:13Speaker 2: rage inside me as you ever want to pull out,
- 30:16Speaker 2: Like it's an endless well. But I've also got the
- 30:21Speaker 2: most amazing wife in the world, who's like, what's there
- 30:26Speaker 2: to be mad about? Like, you're not a kid anymore,
- 30:29Speaker 2: you don't you don't have to be mad at anybody,
- 30:31Speaker 2: And she's right. So I just try to be psyched
- 30:36Speaker 2: as much as I can, Like I hittingly complain all
- 30:41Speaker 2: the time to my band, but they know that it's
- 30:44Speaker 2: a it's a joke because like what a great life
- 30:47Speaker 2: I have. So I definitely get upset and disappointed and depressed,
- 30:53Speaker 2: and I just try to leave. I try to leave
- 30:57Speaker 2: very little room to get bummed out. Like my expectations
- 31:04Speaker 2: have changed so much since I started this career. I
- 31:09Speaker 2: don't really expect Columbia Records is going to make the
- 31:12Speaker 2: weekend a huge hit. It would be a beautiful surprise.
- 31:17Speaker 2: But I've also got to go out there on TikTok
- 31:19Speaker 2: and do all that. So the fact that I'm not expecting.
- 31:22Speaker 2: Really anything from them helps me not be disappointed in them,
- 31:27Speaker 2: because I have to go do the work anyway, and
- 31:30Speaker 2: so I might as well enjoy it.
- 31:33Speaker 1: So tell me about this rage being from Erie, Pennsylvania.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Well, you know, I was the last of seven kids,
- 31:43Speaker 2: and in a town like that at the time, if
- 31:47Speaker 2: you weren't an elite athlete or an elite student, there
- 31:54Speaker 2: was very little opportunity for you. And that doesn't feel
- 31:58Speaker 2: good to who is, you know, a creative sort. And
- 32:05Speaker 2: so then I moved to Los Angeles and I was
- 32:09Speaker 2: in a bad relationship and we had a child, and
- 32:13Speaker 2: you know, then the anger just continues to move forward.
- 32:16Speaker 2: How frustrating it is to try to raise a family,
- 32:19Speaker 2: have a full time job as a house painter in
- 32:22Speaker 2: San Francisco, and try to play every free show you
- 32:26Speaker 2: can to get noticed. And so that anger for no
- 32:32Speaker 2: one paying attention builds up for a long time, from
- 32:37Speaker 2: childhood through early adultism and until I finally meet my
- 32:42Speaker 2: wife and she was like, you gotta be less mad
- 32:46Speaker 2: about stuff. You're gonna be all right.
- 32:50Speaker 1: Well, your wife helped you. Did you go to therapy too?
- 32:53Speaker 2: I did a lot of that early days. Yep, I
- 32:57Speaker 2: went to a great therapist for many years who helped
- 33:02Speaker 2: me kind of appreciate what I've got instead of what
- 33:05Speaker 2: I don't.
- 33:07Speaker 1: And what was the motivation to go to the therapist.
- 33:11Speaker 2: Well, I knew that I needed to leave a marriage
- 33:16Speaker 2: and didn't have the tools to do it in a
- 33:18Speaker 2: way that would protect my children. And secondly, one of
- 33:22Speaker 2: the first things I said to her was I am
- 33:24Speaker 2: currently a successful musician, which is what I always dreamt about,
- 33:29Speaker 2: and I am never happy. And so she made me
- 33:32Speaker 2: stand up and she goes now bend over and then
- 33:36Speaker 2: she started clapping. She just said, you just to you
- 33:39Speaker 2: just took your first bow, and I was like, yeah,
- 33:42Speaker 2: I kind of needed to do that, I think. So
- 33:45Speaker 2: she helped me with a lot of those things, and
- 33:48Speaker 2: I still use her to get through certain things.
- 33:53Speaker 1: Okay, you talk about this time in your personal life,
- 33:57Speaker 1: which obviously had turmoil in it. Were you also not
- 34:01Speaker 1: happy with your business life?
- 34:04Speaker 2: No, I was not happy in the band that we
- 34:07Speaker 2: were in. It was you know, we had a lot
- 34:10Speaker 2: of rules to protect each other, but I wasn't being protected.
- 34:14Speaker 2: The biggest rule was we cannot right outside of the band,
- 34:19Speaker 2: and that was not a rule to protect me. That
- 34:23Speaker 2: was a rule to protect everybody else. And so as
- 34:27Speaker 2: time moved on, I became more resenting these guys, and
- 34:33Speaker 2: so that being in a bad relationship, trying to raise kids,
- 34:39Speaker 2: moving from a full time painting job to a full
- 34:42Speaker 2: time touring job, which was rutal because you know, you're
- 34:46Speaker 2: not making any money, being in a van with guys
- 34:51Speaker 2: that excuse me, I felt it very difficult to be
- 34:55Speaker 2: with most times. There was not a lot of joy
- 34:59Speaker 2: going on. And I was sober for all those years,
- 35:04Speaker 2: so everything was crystal clear to me, and I could
- 35:08Speaker 2: see all the problems and felt like I wasn't in
- 35:11Speaker 2: control to fix them.
- 35:15Speaker 1: Was part of the therapy, learning how to adjust your
- 35:20Speaker 1: band situation, whether it be writing out or getting rid
- 35:24Speaker 1: of members or anything like that.
- 35:28Speaker 2: Well, you know it. I naturally started to write by myself,
- 35:42Speaker 2: and one member removed himself because he felt like he
- 35:47Speaker 2: wasn't being paid attention, paid enough attention to writing wise,
- 35:52Speaker 2: And then the next person had to be removed because
- 35:55Speaker 2: he was creating a big problem within the band. So
- 36:00Speaker 2: now there's just three of us.
- 36:02Speaker 1: A big problem because of drugs, ratitude or ability.
- 36:05Speaker 2: Yeah, it was it was addiction stuff, and it was
- 36:10Speaker 2: just it was becoming too much for us. So now
- 36:13Speaker 2: there's three of us left. When we get new people
- 36:15Speaker 2: to come in, new managers and new everything, and it was, boy,
- 36:21Speaker 2: it was just a rocky, rocky road. So I mean,
- 36:26Speaker 2: there's so much story to it. But the therapy helped
- 36:32Speaker 2: me to try to work on me, because I was
- 36:36Speaker 2: really wanting everybody else to work on themselves to fix
- 36:40Speaker 2: my problem. And I think the closer I got to
- 36:44Speaker 2: like fixing my problem, which was end a relationship, be
- 36:50Speaker 2: okay with success, be okay with who you surround yourselves with,
- 36:56Speaker 2: knowing that you have a choice. And so I went
- 36:59Speaker 2: and made a solo record, which was my way of
- 37:03Speaker 2: putting the band in time out. And it was not
- 37:05Speaker 2: the right solo record and it was not the right move.
- 37:09Speaker 2: Had I, you know, had Jonathan Daniel in my life,
- 37:12Speaker 2: he would have definitely kept me from doing that. But
- 37:16Speaker 2: I did it, and that was a good opening for
- 37:19Speaker 2: me to start writing with other people. And that's when
- 37:21Speaker 2: I started to really spread out. And so all those
- 37:24Speaker 2: songs on all those records, it was me writing with
- 37:27Speaker 2: people in New York and London and you know, all
- 37:31Speaker 2: over the country, all over the world. And then I
- 37:35Speaker 2: was happier and the band was successful, so they were
- 37:40Speaker 2: not upset because they were having a good life. But
- 37:46Speaker 2: then other resentment comes in and on all sides, and
- 37:52Speaker 2: so eventually, you know, it was just like, you guys
- 37:56Speaker 2: are not going down the same road I want to
- 37:58Speaker 2: go down, so let's not be together in the best
- 38:03Speaker 2: possible way. And so I think everyone was paid handsomely
- 38:10Speaker 2: to go their own way, and I continued to have
- 38:15Speaker 2: the time of my life trying to create things that
- 38:17Speaker 2: people care about and maybe it matters to their lives.
- 38:21Speaker 1: Going back to the solo album, was it the wrong
- 38:25Speaker 1: solo album or you shouldn't have made a solo album?
- 38:28Speaker 2: Addle I was it was I needed to make a
- 38:33Speaker 2: solo album. I don't I don't think I would have
- 38:35Speaker 2: been kept from that. But it was the wrong album.
- 38:39Speaker 2: It was it was basically like a little bit more
- 38:42Speaker 2: of an R and B train record, which was like
- 38:46Speaker 2: why why? What was the purpose? And the purpose really
- 38:50Speaker 2: was to get away from the band, But that's a
- 38:53Speaker 2: terrible reason to spend a half a million dollars to
- 38:56Speaker 2: make a record that you know doesn't do well. Like
- 38:59Speaker 2: it was useful thinking and the right record might have
- 39:04Speaker 2: done some good but I know in Europe, you know,
- 39:07Speaker 2: people really still love that record, but there's you know,
- 39:10Speaker 2: forty of them, so I feel like it was just
- 39:15Speaker 2: I needed some guidance.
- 39:17Speaker 1: So when that record failed commercially, how did you handle
- 39:20Speaker 1: it emotionally?
- 39:22Speaker 2: Not well? Hm, he's not good. But then I picked
- 39:27Speaker 2: up the pieces and started writing the Save Me San
- 39:30Speaker 2: Francisco album. And the people that I was writing with
- 39:34Speaker 2: were in the Crush office, just like using space in
- 39:38Speaker 2: the Crush office.
- 39:39Speaker 1: Crush Management, that's your management company. Yeah, just for those
- 39:43Speaker 1: people who don't know, Yeah, Crushes.
- 39:46Speaker 2: Our management company. And I ended up writing with a
- 39:49Speaker 2: guy named Sam Hollander. Loved Sam. He's a dear friend.
- 39:54Speaker 2: And I also wrote with Butch Walker, who's now playing
- 39:58Speaker 2: and Train. He's been a dear friend for a long
- 40:00Speaker 2: time and has been managed by Jonathan and Crush for
- 40:03Speaker 2: since the beginning. He was their first client. And I
- 40:07Speaker 2: think both Butcher and Sam started talking to Jonathan and saying, hey,
- 40:13Speaker 2: that that's one of us, and I think he's writing
- 40:16Speaker 2: a really great record, so you should help him out
- 40:20Speaker 2: a little bit. And Jonathan never comes in he's like
- 40:22Speaker 2: I'll manage you. He's always more like, maybe I could
- 40:25Speaker 2: listen to some of your songs. And because I would
- 40:27Speaker 2: pull him aside at the water cooler and be like, man,
- 40:30Speaker 2: I could use any help you can give me because
- 40:34Speaker 2: I had just left a manager and needed to figure
- 40:38Speaker 2: out where to go. And he was like, well, let's
- 40:43Speaker 2: listen to your songs. So he listened to seventy two
- 40:45Speaker 2: songs and one of them was Hey, Soul's Sister, and
- 40:48Speaker 2: he was like, this song's pretty interesting. He's like, let's
- 40:53Speaker 2: let's let's get somebody to, you know, help you finish this.
- 40:56Speaker 2: And and then he was like, if you get a
- 40:58Speaker 2: haircut like Pete Wentz, maybe I'll even manage you. And
- 41:04Speaker 2: so Train was the first band that they took on
- 41:07Speaker 2: that was, you know, a seasoned or not in the
- 41:13Speaker 2: genre of music that that Fall Up Boy and Panic
- 41:18Speaker 2: at the Disco and Boys like Girls. That was a
- 41:21Speaker 2: very specific region of music and age. So we were
- 41:26Speaker 2: the first things that they took on, and they really
- 41:28Speaker 2: revived our career and then you know, the rest has
- 41:33Speaker 2: just been kind of fun.
- 41:43Speaker 1: Okay, you justified about Jonathan Daniel a few times, and
- 41:47Speaker 1: without making it specific, what's it there between a good
- 41:51Speaker 1: manager and a bad manager? I?
- 42:03Speaker 2: Well, I have a specific story, but I'm not sure
- 42:05Speaker 2: if it will get me in trouble. Okay, I'll just
- 42:12Speaker 2: focus on the positive. Jonathan is someone who I've shared
- 42:22Speaker 2: stories with about other people who have managed my career
- 42:30Speaker 2: and the way they went about it, how lost I was,
- 42:35Speaker 2: and that I just really needed, you know, kind of
- 42:39Speaker 2: an emotional hug. And he has such a good way
- 42:46Speaker 2: of when he sees that you're in trouble, whether it's
- 42:51Speaker 2: business or personal, he makes it his mission to solve
- 42:57Speaker 2: the puzzle. It's he would never make an artist feel like, well, look,
- 43:06Speaker 2: this is what you asked for. And he and I
- 43:11Speaker 2: have had many conversations about all of the ways that
- 43:16Speaker 2: you can handle people, and the way he handles people
- 43:22Speaker 2: is with, you know, a very fatherly yet close friendship
- 43:31Speaker 2: type of manner where he almost thrives on the problem
- 43:39Speaker 2: only because he knows he can fix it or solve
- 43:42Speaker 2: it or help you solve it. And that's a wonderful
- 43:48Speaker 2: cat to have in your life. Somebody who if you
- 43:51Speaker 2: complain about something, doesn't take the complaint and think less
- 43:57Speaker 2: of you. He just tries to change the way you're thinking.
- 44:02Speaker 2: Like I remember one time I was in CSI, New York,
- 44:06Speaker 2: Soul's sister who was on the show. I was an
- 44:09Speaker 2: actor in the show, and Kim Kardashian was in the
- 44:12Speaker 2: show with me, and Kim put this at the time
- 44:17Speaker 2: as Twitter put this tweet out and named almost everybody
- 44:21Speaker 2: in the show who was going to be in it
- 44:24Speaker 2: with her except for Train and I Paul Jonathan, and
- 44:29Speaker 2: I was just so hurt by it. I was so
- 44:32Speaker 2: bummed out. And he just said, man, you just think
- 44:35Speaker 2: about the wrong shit. I needed to hear simply that,
- 44:40Speaker 2: and I do. I think about the wrong shit sometimes.
- 44:44Speaker 2: But he never made me feel bad for it. He
- 44:46Speaker 2: was just like, that's dumb. Move on, let's go. We
- 44:48Speaker 2: got more stuff to do. I need that kind of guidance,
- 44:52Speaker 2: like you can't follow yourself down a rabbit hole of
- 44:59Speaker 2: like self loathing or disappointment, Like there's more fun to have.
- 45:04Speaker 2: Let's go.
- 45:07Speaker 1: Okay, let's go back to Eerie. What did your parents
- 45:09Speaker 1: do for a living?
- 45:11Speaker 2: My mom was she worked for a place called Erie's Magnetics,
- 45:16Speaker 2: which was a huge magnetic company, and she was she
- 45:21Speaker 2: was in like the buying and selling of products and
- 45:27Speaker 2: she but she raised six kids before she got a job,
- 45:31Speaker 2: and then I was born, and she got a job.
- 45:33Speaker 2: My father was a clothing salesman and a haberdasher haberdasher,
- 45:38Speaker 2: and he was a very funny man, and I learned
- 45:43Speaker 2: a lot of great things from both of them.
- 45:45Speaker 1: So what's the age range? If you're the youngest, your
- 45:49Speaker 1: oldest sibling gets how much older than you?
- 45:53Speaker 2: My brother who passed away, I think would be seventy two,
- 45:57Speaker 2: he was the oldest, and then I have a brother
- 45:59Speaker 2: seventy one, seventy and then my sisters I think are
- 46:05Speaker 2: like sixty eight, sixty five, and sixty two.
- 46:17Speaker 1: Okay, you have there's a lot of kids. Whenever you
- 46:21Speaker 1: have more than one, especially three, frequently the youngest is
- 46:26Speaker 1: the baby treated differently in multiple ways. Was that a
- 46:31Speaker 1: factor you're growing up?
- 46:33Speaker 2: Yeah, My sisters babied me and took care of me
- 46:38Speaker 2: and my second brother, second oldest brother, Jackie. He's still
- 46:44Speaker 2: a very very close friend of mine who he was
- 46:47Speaker 2: a father figure to me, so like he was the
- 46:51Speaker 2: one playing catch with me and buying me baseball gloves,
- 46:55Speaker 2: and when he went to college, it was that was
- 46:58Speaker 2: my first taste of heartbreak, like having that guy leave
- 47:01Speaker 2: the house.
- 47:04Speaker 1: Okay, so you're going to school. What kind of kid
- 47:09Speaker 1: are you? You know you're one of the group. You
- 47:11Speaker 1: play in sports? Are you the loner?
- 47:14Speaker 2: No? I was obsessed with sports. I wanted to be
- 47:17Speaker 2: a professional baseball player. I loved Steve Garvey as my
- 47:20Speaker 2: favorite baseball player, and I, you know, I was okay
- 47:26Speaker 2: at it. I was, you know, pretty good at it
- 47:29Speaker 2: until you know, you're fourteen, everybody's growing and you get
- 47:33Speaker 2: into high school and I'm like, okay, I can't compete anymore.
- 47:36Speaker 2: Basketball was never gray up, but I played all through
- 47:39Speaker 2: high school or grade school. And I played football through
- 47:43Speaker 2: my tenth year of high school and just got my
- 47:46Speaker 2: ass handed to me. So sports was out. I started
- 47:51Speaker 2: playing drums when I was in eighth grade, and you know,
- 47:56Speaker 2: no boys wanted to sing in front of girls, so
- 48:00Speaker 2: I had to start singing until we could find a singer.
- 48:03Speaker 2: And then it ended up being that I was pretty
- 48:06Speaker 2: all right at it. So and I found out that
- 48:09Speaker 2: girls liked singers anyway, So it worked out.
- 48:13Speaker 1: Well. You were in high school. Were you a popular guy?
- 48:15Speaker 1: Were you the music guy? Oh that's the singer, that's
- 48:18Speaker 1: the guy in the band. Were you class president? I mean,
- 48:21Speaker 1: how did work?
- 48:22Speaker 2: No? I wasn't all those I was my one claim
- 48:25Speaker 2: to fame is that when I went from a Catholic
- 48:30Speaker 2: high school after tenth grade to a public high school,
- 48:34Speaker 2: I just got to meet so many different people that
- 48:37Speaker 2: I never had access to because at a Catholic all
- 48:41Speaker 2: boys high school, you know, you're dealing with kids that are,
- 48:44Speaker 2: you know, playing every sport at a high level. They're
- 48:48Speaker 2: academic at a high level, and they're also you know,
- 48:52Speaker 2: very sweet at a high level and very shitty at
- 48:55Speaker 2: a high level. So when I went to a public school,
- 48:58Speaker 2: I got to see so many any variations of kids
- 49:01Speaker 2: that I didn't get to see at an all boys
- 49:03Speaker 2: Catholic school. And I just kind of liked everybody, and
- 49:07Speaker 2: I got on with everybody. Whether you were an athlete
- 49:10Speaker 2: or a musician, or you know, you were a chess
- 49:13Speaker 2: player or a cheerleader, it didn't really matter to me.
- 49:16Speaker 2: I would sing songs in class for everybody until the
- 49:19Speaker 2: teacher came in. And so my one claim to fame
- 49:22Speaker 2: is that they voted me prom king in my senior year.
- 49:25Speaker 2: So that was it was my big high school moment.
- 49:30Speaker 1: Okay, did you have a band in high school that
- 49:34Speaker 1: played out?
- 49:36Speaker 2: We started in high school and then you know those
- 49:41Speaker 2: guys in high school ended up, you know, having different
- 49:45Speaker 2: things to focus on, and by then older kids in
- 49:50Speaker 2: Eerie started to see me sing. So I was in
- 49:53Speaker 2: bands with twenty five year olds at seventeen, and you know,
- 49:57Speaker 2: the like twenty five thirty year olds. They seemed ancient
- 50:01Speaker 2: at the time, but they were five to ten ten
- 50:06Speaker 2: years older than me. And that's when I really got
- 50:08Speaker 2: my start. And the reason that I ever moved to
- 50:11Speaker 2: LA was because I knew so badly I needed to
- 50:14Speaker 2: get out of Erie. And I was in a cover
- 50:16Speaker 2: band called Rogue's Gallery. We were playing a bar called Sherlocks,
- 50:21Speaker 2: and that evening Cher played the small arena in town
- 50:26Speaker 2: and Cher's band came in after the show and saw
- 50:29Speaker 2: us play, and a guy named David Shelley, who has
- 50:33Speaker 2: passed away a few years ago. He was for a
- 50:35Speaker 2: guitar player and he pulled me aside and he gave
- 50:37Speaker 2: me his phone number and he said, you got the thing,
- 50:41Speaker 2: so when you get to LA, give me a call.
- 50:43Speaker 2: So I packed my shit went to LA and I
- 50:46Speaker 2: never connected with him, not once, but he got me
- 50:50Speaker 2: motivated enough to go because it was the first time
- 50:53Speaker 2: somebody that knew on some level what they were talking
- 50:57Speaker 2: about had faith in what I did, and that was
- 51:00Speaker 2: all I needed.
- 51:02Speaker 1: So you graduate from high school, where does that leave
- 51:05Speaker 1: you with school?
- 51:07Speaker 2: I went to a college class for about a month,
- 51:12Speaker 2: and one day I looked at the teacher and I said,
- 51:15Speaker 2: I think I gotta go to I think I gotta
- 51:19Speaker 2: leap down. I don't think I can be here anymore.
- 51:22Speaker 2: And she was super nice. She was like, well, you
- 51:24Speaker 2: can always come back. You're good at it, because I
- 51:27Speaker 2: think I would have taken college much more seriously than
- 51:29Speaker 2: high school. And I just I needed a move. And
- 51:34Speaker 2: music was too. It was just too uh, it was
- 51:39Speaker 2: too big in my art to pretend it wasn't there.
- 51:44Speaker 1: So how long after you graduate from high school do
- 51:46Speaker 1: you move to La.
- 51:48Speaker 2: I was nineteen, so I had been out of high
- 51:51Speaker 2: school for a year, and I literally like, I, Yeah,
- 51:55Speaker 2: I got out of high school and waited a year.
- 51:57Speaker 2: I went to La. I was there from nineteen caned
- 52:00Speaker 2: twenty two, moved back to Erie to have a baby,
- 52:05Speaker 2: and I just like.
- 52:06Speaker 1: That this woman you had the baby with, did you
- 52:09Speaker 1: meet her in Erie or did you meet her in La?
- 52:12Speaker 2: Here?
- 52:14Speaker 1: And so when you went to La did she come
- 52:16Speaker 1: with you?
- 52:17Speaker 2: Yes?
- 52:19Speaker 1: So you moved to La the only person you know
- 52:23Speaker 1: you don't contact. Hey, you got to have a car,
- 52:28Speaker 1: and b you have to have money. So you were
- 52:31Speaker 1: making enough money as a musician to get out.
- 52:36Speaker 2: I literally went to Los Angeles on an airplane with
- 52:42Speaker 2: four hundred dollars and a friend who moved there a
- 52:50Speaker 2: year before I did, who He said I could stay
- 52:54Speaker 2: with him until I found an apartment. I also had
- 53:01Speaker 2: my brother in law. His stepfather was working a construction
- 53:07Speaker 2: site in Los Angeles. So I begged the guy for
- 53:10Speaker 2: a job, not knowing how to do anything, and so
- 53:13Speaker 2: I worked at a construction site, slept on this kid's
- 53:16Speaker 2: floor for like two minutes, and found an apartment in Hollywood,
- 53:20Speaker 2: where gunfire and helicopters were a many.
- 53:29Speaker 1: Okay, let's go back a step before this guitarist in
- 53:32Speaker 1: Shares Band says, you have the thing. Were you just
- 53:36Speaker 1: playing in a band or did you have a dream
- 53:39Speaker 1: to play at the level you're now at.
- 53:42Speaker 2: I had a dream always to get to another level,
- 53:45Speaker 2: So moving to LA was a chance to, like, you know,
- 53:49Speaker 2: I can't remember all the magazines that I would put
- 53:51Speaker 2: my name in or look at, like Music Weekly or
- 53:55Speaker 2: I mean there were four or five of them.
- 54:00Speaker 1: The recycler, music connection.
- 54:02Speaker 2: Music connection, that's the big one that I used. Yeah,
- 54:05Speaker 2: And so you know, I would meet all kinds of people.
- 54:10Speaker 2: Finally got a car, so I was driving to every
- 54:15Speaker 2: audition with kids that you know. You know, it was
- 54:20Speaker 2: just really really hard thinking that somebody out there is
- 54:24Speaker 2: going to be who I'm supposed to do this with.
- 54:27Speaker 2: And it didn't work. So the reason I met, the
- 54:32Speaker 2: reason train started is that my ex wife was a
- 54:35Speaker 2: school teacher and my first the guy started the band
- 54:39Speaker 2: with was a sign musician in La and his wife
- 54:45Speaker 2: was a school teacher, and the girls met and introduced us,
- 54:49Speaker 2: and his record contract was not going very well, and
- 54:53Speaker 2: so we hung out a couple of times. Not you know,
- 54:57Speaker 2: I went and saw his band and I thought they
- 54:59Speaker 2: were good. I moved back to eerie and he calls
- 55:02Speaker 2: me and he's like, let's move to San Francisco and
- 55:05Speaker 2: see if the two of us can get this thing going.
- 55:08Speaker 2: And I got it going, and so you know, I'm
- 55:11Speaker 2: grateful that I got to meet him and start to think.
- 55:14Speaker 1: Out, Okay, how long were you in La.
- 55:18Speaker 2: And it's like two and a half years, and of.
- 55:21Speaker 1: That time, how long was the woman you married in La?
- 55:28Speaker 2: That amount of time.
- 55:29Speaker 1: Okay, you spent this time in Los Angeles, although ultimately
- 55:33Speaker 1: you connected with the musician through your ex wife and
- 55:37Speaker 1: her friend. What was your state of mind for two
- 55:41Speaker 1: and a half years.
- 55:43Speaker 2: Oh, man, Like this is hard, Like I thought I
- 55:49Speaker 2: knew how to work hard, but this is hard hard.
- 55:51Speaker 2: But it was nothing compared to living it like then
- 55:56Speaker 2: moving to San Francisco, finding a paint job, having a
- 56:05Speaker 2: shoot one year old, and then playing music at night,
- 56:10Speaker 2: every single night for free so that people would pay attention.
- 56:16Speaker 2: That's another level of working hard. So I just you know,
- 56:20Speaker 2: if you have a plan B, you'll take it. If
- 56:25Speaker 2: I had a plan B, I would have taken it
- 56:27Speaker 2: a hundred times.
- 56:30Speaker 1: Okay. When you were in LA, were you in any
- 56:33Speaker 1: bands or nothing ever? Worked?
- 56:35Speaker 2: Yeah? I had a friend named Kevin who we would
- 56:38Speaker 2: write songs and get together all the time, but he
- 56:41Speaker 2: was always looking for like a bigger you know, everybody
- 56:45Speaker 2: the thing with LA sometime well at that time, because
- 56:48Speaker 2: everybody is like, you know, you'll do the thing with you,
- 56:52Speaker 2: but they're always looking for a better thing, and and
- 56:56Speaker 2: so it just it was just hard to find drummer
- 57:00Speaker 2: and bass players. And then those guys are they all
- 57:04Speaker 2: have three other bands that they're in, so I would
- 57:06Speaker 2: at least go see other bands so I could meet
- 57:09Speaker 2: other musicians. And I fell in love with the several
- 57:12Speaker 2: of them and stayed friends with several of them over
- 57:14Speaker 2: the years, but none of them ever wanted me to
- 57:17Speaker 2: be their singer. And that's you know, it was like,
- 57:21Speaker 2: that's it was. It was tough. It felt like a
- 57:23Speaker 2: huge fail leaving Los Angeles.
- 57:27Speaker 1: And how long were you back in Eerie before you
- 57:30Speaker 1: went to San Francisco?
- 57:32Speaker 2: Maybe a year or if.
- 57:34Speaker 1: That, and you were doing what during that year?
- 57:38Speaker 2: Yeah, it might have been a year. I was hanging
- 57:43Speaker 2: wallpaper and painting and trying to raise a little boy
- 57:47Speaker 2: and and just grind men.
- 57:51Speaker 1: Were you playing music?
- 57:53Speaker 2: I started to sing with some friends of mine in
- 57:56Speaker 2: a band called Exit, and that was that was like whatever,
- 58:02Speaker 2: So no, no, not really, I just knew that I
- 58:04Speaker 2: needed At that point, I'm like twenty two years old
- 58:09Speaker 2: and thinking that I moved back to Erie and such
- 58:12Speaker 2: a small town and they're like, well, the best singer
- 58:15Speaker 2: of our time couldn't make it, and now he's back
- 58:22Speaker 2: and he probably thinks he's a big shot because he
- 58:24Speaker 2: went to LA And I was like, I need to
- 58:26Speaker 2: get out of here as soon as I can. This
- 58:29Speaker 2: is very un fun and so you know, moving to
- 58:34Speaker 2: San Francisco. I don't think there was another option for.
- 58:37Speaker 1: Me, Okay, because at the time and to this day,
- 58:41Speaker 1: little things have changed in the twenty first century. San
- 58:44Speaker 1: Francisco is the eppisiteer of music in the sixties. You're
- 58:49Speaker 1: now moving there much later. When you went to La
- 58:52Speaker 1: that's where it was happening. Didn't happen for you, that's right,
- 58:56Speaker 1: But you must have really wanted to get out of
- 58:58Speaker 1: Erie because going to San France Cisco was kind of
- 59:00Speaker 1: going sideways.
- 59:02Speaker 2: Yes, But here's this is the interesting part of my
- 59:05Speaker 2: observation of Los Angeles and San Francisco. Los Angeles is
- 59:10Speaker 2: now when I was there, like the peak of hair
- 59:18Speaker 2: dress up rock, right like Cinderella and Rat and like
- 59:24Speaker 2: all the stuff is blowing up right before a grunge
- 59:28Speaker 2: destroys it. And I moved to San Francisco, where the
- 59:33Speaker 2: scene really isn't anywhere except coffee houses are like the
- 59:40Speaker 2: big thing, and on every corner is a coffee house
- 59:46Speaker 2: with somebody playing guitar for free because there's so many
- 59:51Speaker 2: places to do it. And the coffee shop owner or
- 59:54Speaker 2: the little pub. They want entertainment for free and they
- 59:58Speaker 2: can have open mic nights and everything. So that was
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: a huge trend at the time. The open mic night.
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: It was like the peak when we got to San Francisco,
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: like we could walk two blocks and play five places,
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: and we did.
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: So you're there. It's just you and that guy. Is
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: it a duo at that point?
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it's me and a guy named Rob Hotchkiss. Yeah,
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: we're a duo. So I played percussion, he plays guitar.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: We're writing all the songs. We're singing his songs and
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: the other songs that we wrote together. And then the
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: other guy who was in his band in La comes.
- 1:00:36Speaker 2: His name is Jimmy Stafford, so he joins us them
- 1:00:39Speaker 2: we're a trio. Then his bass player from the previous
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: band brings a drummer from Durango, Colorado that they were
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: in a band together, so they join us, and now
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: we're a five piece band. And that was Trent.
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: Okay, like time, it's a five piece band? Are you
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: still playing for?
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: Yes, we got after a couple of months, we got
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: like a couple of paying gigs for like five hundred bucks.
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: We'd have to bring all of our own stuff. They
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: would have a pa for us, they would mix us,
- 1:01:15Speaker 2: we'd play for an hour or whatever, and then we
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: would you know, still play for free, like go play
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: wherever you can for free and try to get paid
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: whenever you can. At the time, we're also making demos
- 1:01:28Speaker 2: all the time, and some of the guys are friends
- 1:01:31Speaker 2: with a few of the fellas in the Count and Crows,
- 1:01:36Speaker 2: so we ask if we can use their storage facility
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: to like rehearse in in East Bay, and they say yeah,
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: And so like Dave Bryson is still a Palamine and
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: Jim Bojess who was not in the Drummer at the time,
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: he's he is now, but he's a good friend of mine,
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: And so those guys let us use their facilities. So
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: we would write songs, and then the more demos we had,
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: the more opportunity we have to make money, because we
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: would send the demos to places and we'd start playing
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: places like the Sweetwater in Mill Valley. Still no shot
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: at all of playing the filmore yet, but we'd play
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: Slims and then we start to get a big enough
- 1:02:17Speaker 2: following that now we have songs, enough demos and songs
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: and a following that, we can start looking for a manager.
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: And so the Count and Crows guys put us in
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: touch with their lawyer, and the lawyer takes us on
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: as a lawyer because you know, there's no there's nothing
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: you can't fail because you're not really spending any money
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: until you make money. And so he tries to connect
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: us with managers from every walk of life, and no
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: one wanted anything to do with us except for a
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: guy named Arnie Postelnik, and he was at Bill Grahant Management,
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: so he was a local man. I took a song.
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: Okay, when there's no money, it's usually very hard to
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: keep the band together. Yep, Well it was your experience.
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: I had a full time job as a house painter
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: until I left that job to make my own house
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: painting company, and it was very successful. I bought a house.
- 1:03:33Speaker 2: I had two children at the time. Well maybe she
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: wasn't born yet, so I still have one. So I'm
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: hiring my band to paint houses with me. None of
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: them were good painters.
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: When you're cutting these demos, who's the engineer and producer?
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: Well, you know, early days, Dave Bryson from the Count
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: Crows helped us out a few times he had a studio.
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: We'd go to places like tiny telephone and you know,
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: any anywhere that we could. Producers were like, we found
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: a great sound guy that we loved, Egyptian guy named
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: Hannie who I think he mixed us live and tried
- 1:04:23Speaker 2: to engineer some stuff a couple of times. So whoever,
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: Like it didn't matter, Like we just wanted to get
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: songs on tape.
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: Okay, the band is togethered now from the time of
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: high school on. Are you always writing songs or you
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: only writing songs really when you're in San Francisco.
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: No, I'm writing early, but they're bad. I mean that
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: whole ten thousand hours thing. It's no lie. You got
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: to get it in. So I've written many, many bad songs,
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: but didn't start to get better at it until I
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: was in San Francisco. I started to So when I
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: was in high school, the only thing I was good
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: at is writing poetry. Like I was not very good
- 1:05:13Speaker 2: at class. My grades were not excellent. But when my
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: English teacher would read my poetry, she'd be like, this
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: is there's thing, like this is a thing you should write,
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: like whatever you have to do to write, and so
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: that ended up being songs because I cared so much
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: about feeling something, and my father was obsessed with great
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: lyric writers like Johnny Mercer was his favorite writer. He
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: might be my favorite lyric writer because of how unusual
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: he wrote. And so I cared so much about the
- 1:05:46Speaker 2: English language that that was the one thing I would
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: put time into. So by the time I went to
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: San Francisco, I had already cared as much as you
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: can care about wanting to write something beautiful. So I
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: just had to do the work.
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: Okay, irrelevant of the well the credits. Let's say, in
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: the first album, is that a way for people to
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: get paid? And you really wrote the songs or did
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: everybody really contribute the first album?
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: Everyone definitely contributed. I have always written all the melodies
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: and lyrics, but all that music was definitely written by
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: those guys.
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: Okay, So if you get this guy as a manager
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: with Bill Graham, he's the manager, how long till it
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: becomes something more?
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: Till the band becomes something more?
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: Yeah, let's try to put a day down. If you
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: can remember, what's the year we're in When you get.
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: The manager, Oh boy, I would say, man ninety ninety five.
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: Let me ask a different way. How long from the
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: time you get the manager to the first album was released?
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: Maybe three years because Arnie could not get us a
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: record deal. He nobody was interested and we didn't sound
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: like anybody else. Yeah, grunge was really popular, but then
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: all of a sudden, like Hoodie and the Blowfish and
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: Dave Matthews start to come out, so there is a
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: trend towards singer songwriter more. But nobody wanted anything to
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: do with us. But we had a friend at Columbia
- 1:07:34Speaker 2: Records who was in the He was in the promotion department,
- 1:07:38Speaker 2: he wasn't in the A and R department, and he
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: pitched us to Columbia and they were like, okay, let's
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: get him here. From San Francisco to New York. They
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: flew us to New York. We did a show, thinking
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: the next day we'd wake up and go cide a
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: record deal, and they were like, Don Einer was the president,
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: and he said, I didn't say anything special last night,
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: So we go home. My parents have flown from Erie,
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: Pennsylvania to San Francisco to basically congratulate me on my
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: new record contract that I did not go home with
- 1:08:18Speaker 2: and then we had rehearsal the next week and I said,
- 1:08:25Speaker 2: I don't know why we're a band. We're not from
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: high school together or friends or any of that shit.
- 1:08:31Speaker 2: So we got to figure out what we want out
- 1:08:33Speaker 2: of this, and we need a common goal. So he
- 1:08:38Speaker 2: wrote on this chalkboard it was you know, pretty whatever,
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: and everybody would write their goal down, and one common
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: goal was we want to make a record. We might
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: want to make an album, so we all had different
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: jobs to go borrow money, go find a producer, go
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: find a place to record, and we raised twenty five
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: thousand dollars from friends and family. Our manager was not
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: able to help us do that, and we went and
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: made our own album with those songs and an A
- 1:09:19Speaker 2: and R guy at Columbia Records ford it so, the
- 1:09:22Speaker 2: same label that said they didn't see anything special. So
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: he had to pitch this new album to Don Einer,
- 1:09:29Speaker 2: who didn't really care about us, so he pitched it
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: as Project X so he would relabel everything Project X,
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: and finally Don agreed to give us a chance and
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: put us at Aware Records, so they started a relationship
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: with the Greg Latterman at a Ware Records. So Greg
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: was going to be the quarterback. Columbia Records would be
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: the umbrella label. My manager hated this idea because he
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: wanted us to be on a major label, and we
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: didn't care one bit. And so they were able to
- 1:10:05Speaker 2: get Meet Virginia and a song called Free on a
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: bunch of college compilations, and they started working Meet Virginia
- 1:10:15Speaker 2: at radio and it took them forever, but we sold
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: a million albums and it gave us a chance to
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: keep going.
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: Okay, the album that you recorded for twenty grand twenty five, yeah,
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: is the identical album that Columbia puts out.
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: We added one song with Matt. I don't remember Matt's
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: last name, Matt. He was such a big producer back then,
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: Matt Wallace, So Matt Wallace Records a new song that
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: we wrote because Columbia wanted a little more tempo on
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: the record. I don't even remember what the name of
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: the song is. So we added one song to it.
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: Other than that, it's the ex album.
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: Okay, I love that album. That album doesn't sound like
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: it's cut for twenty grand, you know, it sounds like
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: it is a major label album. Why did it end
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: up being of such quality?
- 1:11:19Speaker 2: You know, there was no auto tune back then. I
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: had to re sing. I wanted to quit during that
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: record so bad. I mean, the guy producing us, you know,
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: he had never done it before, and he was as
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: lovely as he could have been. Uh, but I would
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: sing and before I would even sing the third word,
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: he'd be like, pitchy, stop tape, man, this is visery.
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: So we just worked so hard, man, I mean every
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: bit of this. I'm exhausted from telling you this story,
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: like this is this is so hard, and we just
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: cared so much. We we would like put pennies on
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: snare drums and you know, try to get everything out
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: of everything we could.
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: Did you believe these songs were good?
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: Well? I think we believed from watching our audience that
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: we had something. I'm never sure of anything, Like I'm
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: not a very confident fellow when it comes to creating.
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: Like if I create something, I need a lot of backup.
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: You know, if I play something for my wife and
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: she's like I love this, I need fifteen other people
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: to say the same thing before I believe it. And
- 1:12:42Speaker 2: so people were loving those songs, so I felt like
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: there had to be something special there.
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: So for me, the two best songs out of the
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: record are Free and I Am.
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: I Am. Yeah, that was the first song we ever wrote. Really. Yeah.
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: Did you think Meet Virginia was a single or did
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: the people on the business side say it was a single?
- 1:13:08Speaker 2: I think maybe we thought it was a single because
- 1:13:11Speaker 2: it was so weird and weird Wins. We didn't really
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: put those pieces together, that weird Wins, but like, hey,
- 1:13:19Speaker 2: Soul Sisters, that sounds weird, man, and I think that
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: was the beginning of us finding a thing, a lane
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: of like we're not anybody else, Like Meet Virginia is
- 1:13:31Speaker 2: just different. It's weird.
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: Okay. Do you think going with ladder Men helped or
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: didn't help?
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: No, it helped im mentally, like he cared a lot Greg.
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: Greg had a lot of other projects going on, so
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: much of that time. I was not a fan of
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: Greg because I felt like he wasn't keeping his eye
- 1:14:03Speaker 2: on the real prize, which was trained. I feel like
- 1:14:06Speaker 2: he was wanting some of his other things to exceed
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: where we were going, and that bummed me out. So
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: I felt like he needed to be managed a little bit.
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: Now that I know Greg better, I know that he's
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: a methodical guy and he cares a lot about everything
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: that he puts his hands on, and I know that
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: he really cared a lot about my band and the
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: project and making sure it was successful because it was
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: not going to just be successful for us, It was
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: going to be successful for him. He needed to have
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: a good relationship with Columbia Records to have a future
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: with them.
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: When we met previously, which I mentioned before we started
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: the podcast, we were on the street in front of
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: the Viper Room where Tim Divine. Tim Vine said, who
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: signed you? Because I knew, I mean, I know Divine forever,
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: but let latterman it hype me that it was his record,
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: and Divine this little pissed off and he brought you.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: There were two other members of the band, z Dio
- 1:15:08Speaker 1: who signed you? That is Jim Okay, this first record happens?
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: Does the same manager continue? Yes, the first record, as
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: I say, it was worked a long time. Ultimately gets
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: on MDV. I got to ask two questions. One, why
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: is the band named train?
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: Rob? When we started the band, you know, thinking about names,
- 1:15:34Speaker 2: he listened to an interview one of the members of
- 1:15:37Speaker 2: Echo and the Bunnyman said there was nothing romantic about America,
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: and Rob said, I feel like the most romantic thing
- 1:15:45Speaker 2: about America is the locomotive. Uh. And he was right.
- 1:15:49Speaker 2: It's a romantic, beautiful image. And so we just worked
- 1:15:55Speaker 2: with Train for a while and didn't think we'd ever
- 1:15:56Speaker 2: get the name. But there was no other band called Train.
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: Okay, the artwork from the first album, that theme continues.
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: Tell me about that.
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: Yeah, the theme. Uh. So the artist was from Orange County.
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: His name is Tommy Doherty. Kind of a crazy person,
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: but a beautiful artist like this guy's work was just tremendous.
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: And Charlie, our bass player at the time, found this
- 1:16:23Speaker 2: piece of art, which is a massive like it was
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: probably twelve by ten this painting, and it the boy
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: looked like a king and a jester at the same time.
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: And we felt like that's who we are as a band.
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: We feel like we're special and royal, but were also
- 1:16:46Speaker 2: really stupid and full of gags. And it was a
- 1:16:52Speaker 2: great combination that represented who we were.
- 1:16:56Speaker 1: And how did you decide to continue? It is to
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: be in You know, a lot of people don't.
- 1:17:01Speaker 2: Well, the second record has a boy with a crown
- 1:17:04Speaker 2: because we Brendan O'Brien took on that record to produce it.
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: Because Limp Biscuit bailed on it the last minute, so
- 1:17:12Speaker 2: he had a spot open for us, and it was
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: just good timing. And we had dinner at his house
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: and we saw a piece of art that was hanging
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: in his dining room and it was the same artist
- 1:17:23Speaker 2: who the cover of Drops of Jupiter that he created,
- 1:17:30Speaker 2: Hernandez I think his last name is, and he was
- 1:17:33Speaker 2: Tony Hernandez from Atlanta, and so we looked at all
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: of his art and we were like, Oh, there's a
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: boy in a crown. This will be perfect for the
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: theme moving forward.
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: And that's why, Okay, first record, Little Engine that could. Hey,
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: how much you're gigging? And did you make any money?
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: You know, when I got a record advance, I paid
- 1:17:58Speaker 2: off all my credit card. That was it. But I
- 1:18:02Speaker 2: was losing tons of money on that tour because I
- 1:18:05Speaker 2: went from owning a painting company to making four hundred
- 1:18:09Speaker 2: dollars a week. That was not sustainable and it caused
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: a lot of problems financially and personally. And that record
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: advance was long gone because I had so much debt
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: by the time the record went out. And like I said,
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: we sold a million copies, but that money is you know,
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: a long term streamline that takes a while to get
- 1:18:35Speaker 2: to you, and these gigs, these tours were like, you know,
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: we were trying to just break even and try not
- 1:18:46Speaker 2: to make Columbia Records pay for us to be on
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: the road, which a lot of record companies did at
- 1:18:50Speaker 2: the time, and now I don't know if they still
- 1:18:53Speaker 2: even do that. They probably do, but they probably want
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: a piece of the merch and everything else that comes
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: with it. But we just we didn't make much money,
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: and we gigged a lot a lot, and every radio
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: station in the country. We'd be there at six in
- 1:19:08Speaker 2: the morning. We'd do a show that night and drive
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: to the next place to do the same thing. There's
- 1:19:14Speaker 2: a really interesting story that I'll share with you quickly
- 1:19:17Speaker 2: about Meet Virginia breaking So Meet Virginia starts being played
- 1:19:25Speaker 2: on Alice in San Francisco, and it started to get
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: a buzz and it started to go, but we couldn't
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: get the more important stations on the East coast to
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: take it on, like ninety nine next in Atlanta wouldn't
- 1:19:39Speaker 2: take it. But there was another one called the X
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: and that was in Birmingham, Alabama, and the program director's
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: name was Dave. I can't think of Dave's last name.
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: Dave had a guy working for him named Scott Register.
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: So Scott has stercle you know Scott Register, of course.
- 1:20:03Speaker 2: So reg has a show on Sundays only called Regis
- 1:20:08Speaker 2: Coffee House. Absolutely, so he's like, hey, can you guys
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: come in? Because we played Birmingham on a Saturday. He
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: was like, can you come into my show tomorrow and
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: play live on Regis Coffee House. They're like, no, we
- 1:20:20Speaker 2: have to be in New Orleans that evening. Katrina is
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: heading towards New Orleans, so we can't go to New Orleans.
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: And we're like, Reg, we can come in to play
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: Regis Coffee House. He's like awesome, So we all go in.
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: It's early in the morning, it's all taped, so he's
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: he can't get the gear to work, so he has
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: to call his boss, Dave, who doesn't want anything to
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: do with train, to come in and set him up.
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: So he comes in. We do a bunch of songs
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: from the record, a bunch of Lead Zeppelin songs, and
- 1:20:53Speaker 2: Dave's like, I fucking love these guys. So he adds
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: meat Virginia and that's where it broke is Burnham, Alabama,
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: because that guy was breaking records every month, and without
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: that serendipitous thing happening, Katrina being a Sunday, him not
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: being able to get the gear to work. All of
- 1:21:14Speaker 2: that paid a huge part of me still being here.
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: Okay, at what point do you decide it's time for
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: a new album? Is it the manager, is it the band,
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: is the label? Have you been writing songs? How does
- 1:21:37Speaker 1: that go down?
- 1:21:38Speaker 2: Yeah, all of the above. Like, you know, the more
- 1:21:41Speaker 2: music you can get out and the sooner you can
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: get it out, you know, you can capitalize on whatever
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: momentum you have. And we had an album done, you know,
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: after a while with Brendan, and it was called something
- 1:21:53Speaker 2: More that we had written on tour and then after
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: tour and drops the Jupiter is not on that record
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: because it hadn't been written. And Don Einer was like,
- 1:22:03Speaker 2: we don't have a first single, and you're like, we
- 1:22:06Speaker 2: have five erst singles. This is a great album, you know,
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: because we're all full of our own shit. And he's like,
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: you don't know a song that I can start this
- 1:22:14Speaker 2: out with. So my mother had passed away. I'm not
- 1:22:19Speaker 2: in a good place in my life at all grinding
- 1:22:22Speaker 2: to try to write songs. I go back to visit
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: in Erie, Pennsylvania. Don calls a meeting. He's about to
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: call me to New York because he wants to tell
- 1:22:34Speaker 2: me I have to start writing with other people. So
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: whatever your band rules are, they don't I don't care anymore.
- 1:22:42Speaker 2: So I go to bed one night and fifteen minutes
- 1:22:46Speaker 2: later I wake up, I go downstairs and I write
- 1:22:48Speaker 2: all of Drops of Jupiter in fifteen minutes. I go
- 1:22:51Speaker 2: to a friend's house and cut a demo the next day.
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: The following day, I have to fly to New York.
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: My friend brings the CD over. He's like, there's something
- 1:23:01Speaker 2: special about this song. I go to New York. Don
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: starts giving me the talk, like, listen to these guys.
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: This is you know, if you had this song or whatever.
- 1:23:10Speaker 2: And he's gearing me up to tell me he's gonna
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: put me in a room with some people, and I go,
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: I wrote this song. I woke up from a dream.
- 1:23:19Speaker 2: If you want to hear this, And he was like,
- 1:23:21Speaker 2: this is where the magic ones come from. So he
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: puts it in, turns it up real loud, and by
- 1:23:28Speaker 2: the time it gets to plain Old Jane told a
- 1:23:31Speaker 2: story about a man he just lifts up his arms
- 1:23:33Speaker 2: and he goes fucking song of the Year. And that
- 1:23:37Speaker 2: was his first single.
- 1:23:40Speaker 1: How close was the demo to the finished record?
- 1:23:44Speaker 2: Very very close, except Chuck Levell on piano, He's a
- 1:23:48Speaker 2: whole other animal, like he gave it the bound bound
- 1:23:51Speaker 2: down like you know he he plays piano like a
- 1:23:55Speaker 2: drummer like he should, and uh, he gave it life.
- 1:23:59Speaker 2: How did Chuck get well his his recording abilities? He's
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: an incredible engineer, like he makes things sound incredibly good.
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: But the song was already arranged and done and the
- 1:24:13Speaker 2: Nona nons and everything. So the only change was that
- 1:24:18Speaker 2: this was when Almost Famous was out and a huge hit,
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: and all of Elton's songs were being reloved all over again,
- 1:24:27Speaker 2: and Paul Buckmaster did all those string arrangements. So Don
- 1:24:30Speaker 2: Einer was like, Paul Buckmaster has to be on this,
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: and so Paul, that string line was all Paul and
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: really important to it.
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: I want to go back a step. Mead Virginia ends
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: up on MTV. What was it like when you saw
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: the video for Mead Virginia? You know, it's like hearing
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: your song on the radio.
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: It just always felt like a you know, a little
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: song in a big world. Like the video was little,
- 1:25:02Speaker 2: the concept of the song was little. It wasn't like
- 1:25:05Speaker 2: a you know, it's a beautiful day, you know, like
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: not one of those kind of songs it was. It
- 1:25:12Speaker 2: was just a quirky little song that just popped through
- 1:25:15Speaker 2: the surface.
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: Okay, Donnie says old song of the year. Are you
- 1:25:23Speaker 1: on the Train? Are you a believer or you a cynical?
- 1:25:26Speaker 2: Guy?
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: Said, well, at least I don't have to write with
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: other people.
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: Or what I am. I'm like, wow, I'm so relieved
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: that he thinks this is the song. And then I'm like,
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: this is so not the song. Like there's no song
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: out there like this song. This is not the song.
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: And so the first time I heard it, I was
- 1:25:47Speaker 2: actually in eerie driving home and I heard it on
- 1:25:51Speaker 2: a like a college radio station and it was four
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: minutes long, and I was like, no one's gonna like this.
- 1:26:01Speaker 2: And then the girl came on afterwards and she was like,
- 1:26:04Speaker 2: that's my new favorite song from Train. I think you're
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: gonna be hearing a lot of that one, and I
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: was like what And then and then it kind of
- 1:26:11Speaker 2: started to.
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: Go Okay, drops. The Jubiter was gigantic. Did you feel
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: that the band had made it? Did it change the
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: perception on the inside it?
- 1:26:26Speaker 2: You know, there was a moment where I felt like
- 1:26:30Speaker 2: maybe we had made it. We were in we were
- 1:26:34Speaker 2: in Oslo, and there was a festival happening, and we
- 1:26:38Speaker 2: were scheduled to play, you know, and at the time
- 1:26:40Speaker 2: of year, the sun doesn't go down, so it might
- 1:26:43Speaker 2: have been like midnight and I'm walking to my hotel
- 1:26:46Speaker 2: and I see Chris Martin and he's standing outside of
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: the hotel and I keep to myself because nobody knows
- 1:26:57Speaker 2: me and I don't want to gush all over the guy.
- 1:26:59Speaker 2: But I was loving the Coldplay stuff and I was
- 1:27:04Speaker 2: about to walk past him, and he just grabbed my
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: arm and he goes, hey, man, beautiful song. And I
- 1:27:09Speaker 2: was like, that's so cool. So instead of me going
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: beautiful song to him, he got me. And I was like,
- 1:27:15Speaker 2: should have done it first. So that's when I felt like,
- 1:27:19Speaker 2: maybe this is something okay.
- 1:27:21Speaker 1: The next album, Man's Calling Old Angels, How's that written?
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: Calling Old Angels was through my therapist because while I
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: was in there telling her how unhappy I was in
- 1:27:34Speaker 2: my success, she said we all are made up of
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: two things, and that's traders and angels. So it's time
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: to call your angels. And I was like, consider it stolen.
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: And then I wrote a song about trying to call
- 1:27:51Speaker 2: angels to help us through this stuff. Okay, we need
- 1:27:57Speaker 2: more than angels now, Bob.
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: That's true. Sure, that's a separate subject. So when do
- 1:28:03Speaker 1: you see any money?
- 1:28:07Speaker 2: Donnie helped us. He found a manager that he liked
- 1:28:11Speaker 2: to help us move forward.
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: Okay, first wife, you say she gets all the money
- 1:28:20Speaker 1: other than child support? Was it one lump sum and
- 1:28:23Speaker 1: then going on? Or do you have to pay her forever?
- 1:28:26Speaker 1: It was for a very long time. Yeah, how do
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: you meet your second wife?
- 1:28:34Speaker 2: I left my marriage in October of two thousand and
- 1:28:39Speaker 2: three and we did a residency tour where we were
- 1:28:46Speaker 2: playing like three nights and like a dozen cities, and
- 1:28:54Speaker 2: we went to Seattle and played a place called the Crocodile.
- 1:28:59Speaker 2: This isn't May now. So I left my marriage in October,
- 1:29:03Speaker 2: went right to Australia, toured, came back and that's to May.
- 1:29:07Speaker 2: We're doing this residency tour. My last thing on my
- 1:29:10Speaker 2: mind is ever meeting anyone ever again ever? And my
- 1:29:15Speaker 2: tour manager comes in and before we go on and says, Hey,
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: there's a beautiful woman outside trying to get a ticket
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: for the show, but it's sold out. You want me
- 1:29:24Speaker 2: to let her in? And I was like, sure, I've
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: never done that before. That sounds fun. And so he
- 1:29:31Speaker 2: come back. He came back in and he's like, yeah,
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: she's with her mom, I think, but she's got a
- 1:29:38Speaker 2: ring on her finger. So I was like, okay, well,
- 1:29:40Speaker 2: at least I got to see the show. Like I'm
- 1:29:43Speaker 2: I'm I'm good, you know what I mean, Like, I've
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: been through it.
- 1:29:46Speaker 1: Sure.
- 1:29:47Speaker 2: So it was actually her mom that made her go
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: to the show. She's like, we're going in, and my
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: wife was like, I don't want to go to the show,
- 1:29:56Speaker 2: Let's just go to dinner. She's like, no, we have
- 1:29:58Speaker 2: to go see the show tonight. There's no tickets, Mom,
- 1:30:01Speaker 2: it's sold out. Doesn't matter, We'll find tickets. And the
- 1:30:04Speaker 2: only reason my wife was in town at the time,
- 1:30:06Speaker 2: she was living in San Diego, is because it was
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: her parents' anniversary. So they get in and I decide
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: after the first set of our show, I was like,
- 1:30:17Speaker 2: I don't care about the girl with the ring on
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: her finger. There's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: out there. I want to talk to her anyway. So
- 1:30:25Speaker 2: I asked a friend of mine to go, I've never
- 1:30:28Speaker 2: done this in my career, to go ask her if
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: I could just say hi afterwards. So my friend sees her,
- 1:30:37Speaker 2: brings her to see me. I say hi to her
- 1:30:40Speaker 2: and her mom, same girl with the ring on her finger,
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, boy, you got you're engaged.
- 1:30:48Speaker 2: And she's like h and I was like I just
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: She was like, aren't you married with kids? And I
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: was like, I'm not married with kids, but I definitely
- 1:30:57Speaker 2: have kids. And I was like, I'd love to talk
- 1:31:00Speaker 2: yeah to getting married. Is there a week you could
- 1:31:02Speaker 2: give me three days? And we laughed a little bit
- 1:31:06Speaker 2: and we exchanged phone numbers, and I found out the
- 1:31:12Speaker 2: next day when or a couple of days later actually,
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: that she was trying on wedding dresses that day, crying
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: in the dressing room, telling her mom something wasn't right
- 1:31:23Speaker 2: and she didn't want to marry this guy. So when
- 1:31:26Speaker 2: I said I want to talk to you out of
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: getting married, it was all like this wave of whatever.
- 1:31:31Speaker 2: And so we had coffee and she came to the
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: show the next night. I got to spend a little
- 1:31:39Speaker 2: time with her after the show, and I try to
- 1:31:42Speaker 2: see her every single minute of every day after that.
- 1:31:46Speaker 2: So she went home and packed her stuff from San Diego,
- 1:31:50Speaker 2: moved back with her parents, and then we ended up
- 1:31:55Speaker 2: getting an apartment in Santa Monica.
- 1:31:58Speaker 1: How long after you that gig at the Crocodile do
- 1:32:02Speaker 1: you get the apartment in Santa Monica?
- 1:32:04Speaker 2: It was just a few months. I because I had
- 1:32:07Speaker 2: to be in Eerie to be with my children, and
- 1:32:12Speaker 2: I decided because of how unhappy I was with the band,
- 1:32:16Speaker 2: I wanted to pursue acting. So I was like, why
- 1:32:19Speaker 2: don't we move to La so I can pursue acting
- 1:32:23Speaker 2: take acting lessons. I have enough money that I can
- 1:32:27Speaker 2: pay all my debt and we can have an apartment
- 1:32:29Speaker 2: there and live an okay life while I figure shit out.
- 1:32:36Speaker 2: And so we lived there for a year and then
- 1:32:39Speaker 2: bought a house close to where her parents live.
- 1:32:42Speaker 1: Okay, where do you live today?
- 1:32:45Speaker 2: I live in Washington State, right across the street from
- 1:32:48Speaker 2: her parents, literally fifty fish and they're they're like my
- 1:32:55Speaker 2: closest friends. It's a really.
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: Okay two kids from your first they're out of the house.
- 1:33:01Speaker 1: What are they up to?
- 1:33:02Speaker 2: So my son lives with his mom in Erie, Pennsylvania,
- 1:33:05Speaker 2: and my daughter lives in Washington State, a couple miles
- 1:33:09Speaker 2: from me, and she's she's over a lot.
- 1:33:14Speaker 1: You live in Santa Monica taking acting lessons? What'd you
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: learn about the other side of the fence? Not music
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: but acting TV movies.
- 1:33:26Speaker 2: It's really hard. It's really hard because I can pretend
- 1:33:31Speaker 2: with the best of them, and I can remember what
- 1:33:34Speaker 2: I write, but trying to remember what somebody else wrote
- 1:33:38Speaker 2: is really hard for me. I don't have a photographic
- 1:33:42Speaker 2: memory or anything. But I got pretty good at it,
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: and I ended up in a couple of TV shows,
- 1:33:47Speaker 2: but that was after Hey Soul Sister, and like I was,
- 1:33:51Speaker 2: you know, back on the horse of you know, doing
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: business again. But I don't, you know, the acting thing.
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: Nobody ever beat my door down to try to get
- 1:34:03Speaker 2: my tried. I auditioned for several things and didn't get them.
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: And it's hard. You have to be a full time actor.
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: I think, like you have to really commit. Very few
- 1:34:12Speaker 2: people can do what Cherry Letto does, you know, and
- 1:34:14Speaker 2: be good at both.
- 1:34:16Speaker 1: Okay, you make another album. There really isn't a hit
- 1:34:20Speaker 1: on it. How does that feel terrible?
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: That was I didn't want to make that record. I
- 1:34:30Speaker 2: didn't want to make that record in Atlanta. We did
- 1:34:35Speaker 2: not have the goods at all, and it was very disappointing.
- 1:34:39Speaker 2: We don't play any songs from that record. It was
- 1:34:42Speaker 2: the end of the band for me. It's You happens
- 1:34:46Speaker 2: to be a few of my friend's favorite album, not mine.
- 1:34:50Speaker 2: It's a period of failure and like leftover sadness. You know,
- 1:34:58Speaker 2: I needed to move on.
- 1:35:00Speaker 1: Okay, when you go back to the studio again, you
- 1:35:03Speaker 1: make another record, You're working with a ton of different people.
- 1:35:07Speaker 1: What's going on there?
- 1:35:10Speaker 2: You mean my solo record?
- 1:35:11Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about Save Me San Francisco.
- 1:35:15Speaker 2: Oh, save Me San Francisco. That so, yeah, we go
- 1:35:17Speaker 2: from we go from for me, It's You to my
- 1:35:20Speaker 2: solo record that doesn't you know it wasn't the right record,
- 1:35:24Speaker 2: and then sam Me San Francisco. Then it's like the
- 1:35:29Speaker 2: rules of you can't write in the band are way over,
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: Like we got to get back or this is over forever.
- 1:35:38Speaker 2: And so I wrote with every person that would meet
- 1:35:41Speaker 2: with me, and two times a day if I could
- 1:35:46Speaker 2: get the time, and you know, through that, I wrote
- 1:35:50Speaker 2: with the Espionage guys and wrote Hey Soul Sister, drive
- 1:35:54Speaker 2: by other songs that I love, Bruises and my friend
- 1:36:00Speaker 2: Mark Wattenberg Like. It was all a period of this
- 1:36:03Speaker 2: is good for me to go meet people like they
- 1:36:06Speaker 2: liked what I did. I didn't know what they did,
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: but together we could somehow make something magical. So I
- 1:36:11Speaker 2: wrote with everybody, I could.
- 1:36:14Speaker 1: You have your career. But alongside of that, the business
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: is changing dramatically. Okay, it's consolidation in labels. We have
- 1:36:25Speaker 1: Napster or ultimately Spotify comes along and rescues the business.
- 1:36:29Speaker 1: But as we stated earlier, nothing is ubiquitous in the
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: same way is at the beginning of your career? Is
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: that palpable? Do you feel the game has changed or
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: are you still saying, hey man, you know I got
- 1:36:46Speaker 1: to write a hit that's going to get out every
- 1:36:48Speaker 1: radio for about etc.
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: So a radio hit, I don't even know if that's
- 1:36:53Speaker 2: the thing anymore. What you really need to do is
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: focus on social media and if a piece of your
- 1:37:01Speaker 2: song gets viral, then radio stations will start to play it.
- 1:37:07Speaker 2: But do people listen to radio? I mean, I listen
- 1:37:10Speaker 2: to like Serious XM, but it's rare that I would
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: listen to a channel that would play what I'm creating.
- 1:37:19Speaker 2: I don't know what does. I don't know what the
- 1:37:21Speaker 2: chances of success are. I think at this phase it's
- 1:37:25Speaker 2: more like the way I make a living is through
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: live performance. And if I have songs, new songs that
- 1:37:36Speaker 2: matter to the same people that Drops of Jupiter matter to,
- 1:37:40Speaker 2: that's a success for me. That's a win. That's a hit.
- 1:37:43Speaker 2: If people that love train love something new that I
- 1:37:47Speaker 2: did or that I'm doing, that's a success. What I
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: would hope for business wise from it, like hit radio
- 1:37:57Speaker 2: or TikTok or anything, a very low expections of that.
- 1:38:00Speaker 2: It's mostly I'm writing songs for train fans and future
- 1:38:07Speaker 2: train fans. That's it.
- 1:38:10Speaker 1: Who are train fans?
- 1:38:12Speaker 2: You know, they're pretty great, normal, loving, wonderful humans. And
- 1:38:20Speaker 2: we do a cruise every other year so I can
- 1:38:22Speaker 2: be closer to them, like many of them have my
- 1:38:24Speaker 2: phone number and email, and we support each other. They
- 1:38:28Speaker 2: are responsible for me having a great life, and I'm
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: responsible for the music of some of their greatest memories.
- 1:38:38Speaker 1: In terms of gaining new fans, can you feel it?
- 1:38:44Speaker 1: How do you do it? I mean, obviously we talked
- 1:38:45Speaker 1: earlier doing all these TikTok things. Do these work or
- 1:38:49Speaker 1: is it the same core who grew up with you?
- 1:38:53Speaker 2: No, it's it is. So this is an interesting thing
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: that's happening. So, you know, heavy metal and hard rock
- 1:39:02Speaker 2: is making a huge resurgence, Like my fourteen year old
- 1:39:05Speaker 2: son is obsessed with all of it. And there's also
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: what train does. There's a nostalgia movement where kids who
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: grew up in car seats listening to their moms and
- 1:39:18Speaker 2: music are falling in love with it as teenagers and
- 1:39:24Speaker 2: twenty year olds. So we find that every tour we
- 1:39:27Speaker 2: have more and more high school and college kids. And
- 1:39:30Speaker 2: I saw this happen with Tom Petty a long time ago.
- 1:39:34Speaker 2: Like Tom, you know, has far more amazing songs than
- 1:39:39Speaker 2: I do, but he there was a lull in all
- 1:39:42Speaker 2: of a sudden, there was a massive boom in the
- 1:39:45Speaker 2: Tom Petty world where young people were embracing Tom Petty.
- 1:39:49Speaker 2: I remember my sister in law, who at the time
- 1:39:51Speaker 2: was sixteen, couldn't wait to go see Tom at the
- 1:39:54Speaker 2: Gorge in Washington State, And like, I feel like that
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: is happening right now and we could be a part
- 1:40:02Speaker 2: of that. I'd like to be a part of that.
- 1:40:03Speaker 2: It'd be more fun for me for a teenager to
- 1:40:08Speaker 2: hear a song like the Weekend and go that song's amazing,
- 1:40:13Speaker 2: and then they come and see us and they're like,
- 1:40:15Speaker 2: holy shit, they do that and that and not have
- 1:40:19Speaker 2: any idea.
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: Okay, you became a favorite of Howard Stern and you
- 1:40:25Speaker 1: did ramble on on Howard Stern. That's a cool thing.
- 1:40:30Speaker 1: Do you think that enlarged your audience Howard?
- 1:40:34Speaker 2: Definitely. I mean I still go to many places, and
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: we haven't been on Howard in a long time. I
- 1:40:42Speaker 2: was on when Ralph passed away briefly, but we haven't
- 1:40:45Speaker 2: been on for like a new album or anything in
- 1:40:47Speaker 2: a while or had a long conversation. But so many
- 1:40:50Speaker 2: people are like, I love you on Howard. You know,
- 1:40:54Speaker 2: when I met Howard, he was still on k Rock,
- 1:40:59Speaker 2: and then years later when he was on Serious, we
- 1:41:02Speaker 2: got to be pretty good pals. And he and I
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: are very similar in our love for LED's Uplin, but
- 1:41:08Speaker 2: also as people like he's smarter than I am and
- 1:41:11Speaker 2: funnier than I am, but I think we care about
- 1:41:13Speaker 2: the same stuff and so we had that in common.
- 1:41:16Speaker 2: And I know that you've said incredible, great things about Howard,
- 1:41:20Speaker 2: and he's a big fan of yours. So when you
- 1:41:22Speaker 2: know him a little bit, you realize that you know
- 1:41:25Speaker 2: you're talking to one of the smartest people you'll ever
- 1:41:27Speaker 2: be around, and clever and interesting.
- 1:41:31Speaker 1: Okay, you know Fred Astaire famously really had no friends.
- 1:41:37Speaker 1: Then there are other people Sammy Hagar. He knows everybody
- 1:41:41Speaker 1: and stays in contact with everybody. Where do you fit
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: on that continuum?
- 1:41:46Speaker 2: I'm I think I'm closer to Sammy, like Sammy's palmine,
- 1:41:54Speaker 2: but I'm way more careful about who I would want
- 1:41:58Speaker 2: to be friends with, especially in the music world. I
- 1:42:03Speaker 2: my closest friends are through Golf. I love and trust them.
- 1:42:08Speaker 2: We come from different things. We want nothing from one
- 1:42:12Speaker 2: another other than friendship. Sammy wants nothing from you other
- 1:42:16Speaker 2: than like, come and sing with me because it's fun.
- 1:42:19Speaker 2: And he's Sammy Hagar, So that kind of relationship musically,
- 1:42:24Speaker 2: I love, like, we don't need anything from each other,
- 1:42:27Speaker 2: Let's just be friends and support each other. And I
- 1:42:29Speaker 2: have that with with several artists like Mark Roberts from Oar.
- 1:42:34Speaker 2: I love that kid. You know, there are Kat Tunstall
- 1:42:41Speaker 2: I think is just absolutely tremendous Sammy. I love like
- 1:42:46Speaker 2: there's you know, there's a handful of musicians that I
- 1:42:49Speaker 2: want to stay close with forever, But then there's a
- 1:42:51Speaker 2: handful of musicians that I'm good like. I'm more like
- 1:42:55Speaker 2: Fred Astaire.
- 1:42:58Speaker 1: On a tip of day. Are you in contact with
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: other high profile celebrities musical celebrities we leave the golf
- 1:43:09Speaker 1: people aside? Or is that more of a rare thing.
- 1:43:12Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not a celebrity. I'm
- 1:43:16Speaker 2: not really in contact with a bunch of celebrities. Like
- 1:43:20Speaker 2: I probably know more professional athletes than I know, like
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: I don't.
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: I know a.
- 1:43:27Speaker 2: Couple of actors, But like same lost its interest to
- 1:43:32Speaker 2: me a long time ago, Like I used to long
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: for it, And when Chris Martin's career was going like
- 1:43:39Speaker 2: this and he was getting famous, I was jealous of
- 1:43:41Speaker 2: it because I thought I want that. And now that
- 1:43:44Speaker 2: I'm not famous and I don't have to deal with
- 1:43:47Speaker 2: all that, I don't really want anything to do with it.
- 1:43:50Speaker 2: And I don't like seek famous people out to hang
- 1:43:53Speaker 2: out with them. I'd love to be friends with Killian
- 1:43:56Speaker 2: Murphy because he seems like just such a cool guy
- 1:44:00Speaker 2: and so real. But yeah, there's nothing about I don't
- 1:44:05Speaker 2: keep in touch with a lot of eye profile. I
- 1:44:07Speaker 2: keep in touch with George Lopez because he's one of
- 1:44:09Speaker 2: my favorite people, but that's not because of anything other
- 1:44:13Speaker 2: than I love him.
- 1:44:15Speaker 1: Will you email or text with Howard or just when
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: you know Gary reaches out in order to have you
- 1:44:22Speaker 1: do something, No.
- 1:44:23Speaker 2: I definitely I will rarely because I know that he
- 1:44:28Speaker 2: complains about you know, like I. He talked about Drop's
- 1:44:33Speaker 2: Jupiter turning twenty five the other day, and so I
- 1:44:35Speaker 2: just sent him a note saying, don't respond, thank you
- 1:44:40Speaker 2: for the love. I hope you guys are great. I
- 1:44:42Speaker 2: love you, And then he didn't respond, so I let
- 1:44:46Speaker 2: him off the hook.
- 1:44:47Speaker 1: So he's, like Chris said, doctor Respot, he's got a
- 1:44:49Speaker 1: lot of people looking for He's got his own life.
- 1:44:52Speaker 1: What's your favorite led Zeppelins?
- 1:44:54Speaker 2: You know, I talked to my son about this because
- 1:44:57Speaker 2: we debate about it, and I think it has to
- 1:44:59Speaker 2: be the Rain song. Really Yeah, It's just got so
- 1:45:05Speaker 2: many different layers to it, and the vocals are great.
- 1:45:09Speaker 2: I love the lyrics, the everything Jimmy Page is. It's
- 1:45:12Speaker 2: it's just a magical song. How about you ten years gone?
- 1:45:17Speaker 2: Oh wow? Interesting. Is that a physical graffiti?
- 1:45:22Speaker 1: Yeah, you know they got those all those they got
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: Cashmere ins one side back in the vinyl days yea,
- 1:45:29Speaker 1: in my time of dying, yeah, ten years. I love
- 1:45:32Speaker 1: how it goes from quiet to loud, which ultimately Boston
- 1:45:37Speaker 1: I won't say Ripped Off was influenced by, and that's
- 1:45:40Speaker 1: how they created Long Time. I know it soars and
- 1:45:43Speaker 1: then it goes acoustic, etc.
- 1:45:46Speaker 2: A great song. Yeah.
- 1:45:49Speaker 1: So basically at this point you're training, you call all
- 1:45:52Speaker 1: the shots.
- 1:45:53Speaker 2: Yeah. And I have great friends that share the stage
- 1:45:56Speaker 2: with me that I try to be as generous as
- 1:45:58Speaker 2: I can too. And but you know, having a business partner,
- 1:46:03Speaker 2: I've learned just the hard way that there's resentment and
- 1:46:07Speaker 2: other things that come into play that I don't want
- 1:46:10Speaker 2: to deal with and I don't want them to have
- 1:46:12Speaker 2: to deal with it. So just allow me to be
- 1:46:15Speaker 2: generous and don't ask me to be a partner because
- 1:46:21Speaker 2: that kind of relationship I've not been very successful at.
- 1:46:27Speaker 1: So how many dates do you want to do a year?
- 1:46:30Speaker 2: I want to do none. That's not true, you know,
- 1:46:36Speaker 2: I think one hundred dates is quite a lot. I
- 1:46:40Speaker 2: think will be about one hundred this year. I'd like
- 1:46:43Speaker 2: to I'd like to work less and make more money.
- 1:46:46Speaker 2: Like to be honest, i'd like to play who would
- 1:46:49Speaker 2: I know? I want to play bigger venues and play
- 1:46:53Speaker 2: less of them, like I think having fifty, we'll see
- 1:47:00Speaker 2: I need more than fifty. If you're going to play
- 1:47:01Speaker 2: Europe in Australia, if I could play seventy shows, I
- 1:47:04Speaker 2: think I'd be psyched.
- 1:47:06Speaker 1: Who's your agent?
- 1:47:09Speaker 2: It's CIA. Now we just went back to Rob Light
- 1:47:12Speaker 2: and the guys at CIA.
- 1:47:14Speaker 1: Okay, so listen, it's a business. So like you're going
- 1:47:19Speaker 1: out with beer naked ladies and Matt Nathanson. How does
- 1:47:23Speaker 1: that come together?
- 1:47:26Speaker 2: It usually starts with Jonathan's partner Bob McLynn. Like Bob,
- 1:47:31Speaker 2: they'll they'll run a bunch of people by me and
- 1:47:35Speaker 2: ask you know what I think of this? Like we
- 1:47:37Speaker 2: went with Rio and that was very strange to me,
- 1:47:40Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, I mean I love their music.
- 1:47:42Speaker 2: Let's see what it's like. And I had the time
- 1:47:45Speaker 2: of my life out there with those guys. And I
- 1:47:46Speaker 2: know the bear naked lady guys. I know they're great guys.
- 1:47:49Speaker 2: So the more I know people, the better. Because I'm
- 1:47:53Speaker 2: fifty seven years old and like I don't have time
- 1:47:56Speaker 2: for a bunch of bullshit, like I want people to
- 1:47:59Speaker 2: get on like family. Our goal is to make everybody
- 1:48:03Speaker 2: in those seats happy that they came. And you know,
- 1:48:07Speaker 2: we should perform together on stage and and get on
- 1:48:11Speaker 2: well with each other, because this time we have on
- 1:48:14Speaker 2: this planet is fleeting.
- 1:48:16Speaker 1: Okay, you do the cruise every other year, do you
- 1:48:20Speaker 1: have any problems selling? Do you have to work to
- 1:48:22Speaker 1: sell the tickets? Or you got these fans, they're coming.
- 1:48:25Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about selling.
- 1:48:26Speaker 2: No, they sell in pre sale. Like. I don't even
- 1:48:29Speaker 2: think we would need to put a roster of performers up.
- 1:48:34Speaker 2: It's just become something that people want to do every
- 1:48:38Speaker 2: other year. Every year would be a little harder because
- 1:48:41Speaker 2: you know, you do have to keep in mind that
- 1:48:43Speaker 2: it takes time. You got to fly to Florida, you
- 1:48:46Speaker 2: need to save money to do these vacations, and so
- 1:48:49Speaker 2: every other year has it's been easy for it to sell.
- 1:48:52Speaker 2: I don't have to do any work. Well.
- 1:48:54Speaker 1: A friend of mine managed kid Rock. Let's not get
- 1:48:57Speaker 1: into the politics. Kid Rock. Hit Rock did a cruise
- 1:49:03Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, everybody would get to meet him,
- 1:49:08Speaker 1: and then he said never again. Because he hit you know,
- 1:49:11Speaker 1: the whole time. He's the star of the cruise. He
- 1:49:13Speaker 1: could never sleep.
- 1:49:14Speaker 2: What's your experience, my experiences, We've we've figured out a
- 1:49:18Speaker 2: way and this is a real thing that if you see,
- 1:49:25Speaker 2: we got away with it for a couple of years.
- 1:49:27Speaker 2: If you sign up on the pre sale, you get
- 1:49:31Speaker 2: a picture with the band, and plus we're working our
- 1:49:34Speaker 2: asses off this whole time. Man, I'm like game shows
- 1:49:37Speaker 2: and judging things and everything you could think of and
- 1:49:41Speaker 2: the shows that we perform. So if you sign up
- 1:49:43Speaker 2: in pre sale, you get to take a picture with
- 1:49:45Speaker 2: the band on the third morning of whatever. And now
- 1:49:49Speaker 2: the whole boat sells out in pre sale, So we
- 1:49:51Speaker 2: meet every cruiser, every cruise, and you know it and
- 1:49:57Speaker 2: it's worth worth every second of it.
- 1:50:02Speaker 1: Okay, you've mentioned you recently did the Carnegie Hall Billy
- 1:50:05Speaker 1: Joel thing. Do you feel like, oh, yeah, you know
- 1:50:10Speaker 1: I'm going through you know, my manager calls me, I
- 1:50:13Speaker 1: have an oping I'll go, or you have some imposter syndrome,
- 1:50:17Speaker 1: saying wow, I can't believe they called me. This is great.
- 1:50:21Speaker 2: I have two great stories. Bill. Billy and I sat
- 1:50:23Speaker 2: together at Howard in Best Wedding and I didn't really
- 1:50:26Speaker 2: talk much to Billy because I'm such a big fan.
- 1:50:29Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anything stupid, but I love
- 1:50:32Speaker 2: being with him, and I was like, Billy, if you
- 1:50:33Speaker 2: went and sang always a woman at this wedding right now,
- 1:50:37Speaker 2: this place would go ape shit. So he's like, you know,
- 1:50:42Speaker 2: So he finally went up and sang, and I heard
- 1:50:45Speaker 2: him or watched him talk to the band leader, and
- 1:50:49Speaker 2: then he sang a James Taylor song because he's so
- 1:50:52Speaker 2: he's so not presumptuous that he would be like, yeah,
- 1:50:55Speaker 2: they want to hear a Billy Joel song. So I
- 1:50:58Speaker 2: wanted to go to Billy's so I could sing that
- 1:51:01Speaker 2: song that he wouldn't sing at Howard in Best Wedding.
- 1:51:05Speaker 2: But I have this really funny story about Paul Simon.
- 1:51:10Speaker 2: So I got a phone call like fifteen years ago,
- 1:51:15Speaker 2: when Paul Simon's going to be inducted into the Songwriting
- 1:51:17Speaker 2: Hall of Fame. Phone call comes from one of the
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: guys working at my publishing company, Guy goes Hey. Paul
- 1:51:25Speaker 2: Simon specifically asked for you to induct him into the
- 1:51:30Speaker 2: Songwriting Hall of Fame. I was like, holy shit, that's
- 1:51:34Speaker 2: the greatest thing I've ever heard in my life. I
- 1:51:36Speaker 2: can't do it. I'm going to be in Europe. But
- 1:51:38Speaker 2: please tell Paul. I'm such a huge fan. What an honor?
- 1:51:43Speaker 2: Years ago by I have a little spot in Maui
- 1:51:48Speaker 2: and Shep Gordon is a friend and Shep has a
- 1:51:52Speaker 2: charity show every year and it gives to the homeless.
- 1:51:55Speaker 2: It's some beautiful thing that he does. And he tells
- 1:51:58Speaker 2: me because I'm going to perform there. Sammy does it
- 1:52:01Speaker 2: every year and he's like, hey, Paul's gonna be here.
- 1:52:03Speaker 2: I was like, ah, Sep, when Paul's here, can you
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: please introduce me. I have a question for him. It's
- 1:52:09Speaker 2: been killing me for so long. He was like yep.
- 1:52:12Speaker 2: So he comes over. He's like, Pat, Paul just showed up.
- 1:52:15Speaker 2: So I go over and I'm like, mister Simon went
- 1:52:17Speaker 2: an honor? Min is Pat Monahan? Whatever? And I goes, hey,
- 1:52:20Speaker 2: I asked you a question. A few years ago. My
- 1:52:23Speaker 2: publicist called me when you were being inducted into the
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: Songwriting Hall of Fame and said that you specifically asked
- 1:52:29Speaker 2: for me to induct you by name. And I've been
- 1:52:31Speaker 2: dying all these years to ask you if that's true.
- 1:52:33Speaker 2: And he put his hand on my shoulder and he said, Pat,
- 1:52:36Speaker 2: I'm going to put your mind at ease. I never
- 1:52:39Speaker 2: asked for you. It's the greatest, Like, what a great thing.
- 1:52:50Speaker 2: And I get to have that all.
- 1:52:53Speaker 1: And that's his personality. Okay, you're a songwriter, but you're
- 1:53:00Speaker 1: rademark is your voice. There are people like Paul Anka
- 1:53:04Speaker 1: he could still sing the way he did. There are
- 1:53:07Speaker 1: a lot of people household names really can't hit the notes. Yeah,
- 1:53:11Speaker 1: are you fearful? How do you tweet your voice? You
- 1:53:15Speaker 1: fearful of losing it?
- 1:53:17Speaker 2: No? I mean, you know it's gonna be here as
- 1:53:20Speaker 2: long as it'll be here, and I just have to
- 1:53:22Speaker 2: keep doing. But I do to take care of it. Exercise, esteem,
- 1:53:26Speaker 2: the stuff that you can control. Stress, I think is
- 1:53:29Speaker 2: what really. You know. I had some vocal cord surgery
- 1:53:32Speaker 2: years ago. It was all stress related like that and
- 1:53:35Speaker 2: singing too many of Zeppelin songs.
- 1:53:39Speaker 1: Okay, what song do you enjoy most playing on stage?
- 1:53:45Speaker 2: You know, drops to Jupiter just because my mom sent
- 1:53:48Speaker 2: me that song and probably wrote it for me. It's
- 1:53:52Speaker 2: always gonna be the most important, But right now I
- 1:53:55Speaker 2: love performing the weekend. It's a song. People don't they're
- 1:53:59Speaker 2: not all that familiar with yet, but they seem to
- 1:54:01Speaker 2: love it. Live and new is always fun for me.
- 1:54:06Speaker 1: Okay, Pat, I think we've come to the end of
- 1:54:09Speaker 1: the feeling we've known. You've been very honest and forthcoming.
- 1:54:13Speaker 1: You're a sharp guy. I want to thank you for
- 1:54:15Speaker 1: taking this time with my audience.
- 1:54:18Speaker 2: Thank you, Bob. You're great at what you do. Man,
- 1:54:21Speaker 2: I appreciate all the questions. You're good at it.
- 1:54:24Speaker 1: Until next time. This is Bob Left Sense.