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Love Island Love Lesson (EP 27): MAJOR Girl Code Violation, Amora Needs A Citation · I Do, Part 2

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Hey, that folks did it Saturday July for and last
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: night I learned something very interesting girl code. I didn't
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: recognize it when it happened on Love Island, but the
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  Speaker 1: girls on the couch with me as I was watching,
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  Speaker 1: damn near jumped through the TV screen and with that,
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  Speaker 1: welcome to this episode of Amy and TJ. A girl
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  Speaker 1: code violation? How high on the list was the one
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  Speaker 1: that Amora violated last night?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: She shattered, Really, she shattered girl code.
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  Speaker 2: Look she's already look and maybe she felt okay doing
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  Speaker 2: it because she was a bombshell coming in from Casa
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  Speaker 2: Amore and might not have felt any allegiance towards the
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: Villa girls, and that could have played into it a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. But it was just I couldn't believe she
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  Speaker 2: went there. It was self serving and it was underhanded backstabbing.
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  Speaker 3: You name it.
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  Speaker 1: Let me let me state no, I'm saying, you stated,
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  Speaker 1: what is the particular girl code violation that we're talking about?
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  Speaker 1: What rule was violated?
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  Speaker 2: You do not throw another girl under the bus to
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  Speaker 2: a guy, especially when you benefit you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay, you don't throw another Okay you said, especially
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  Speaker 1: when you benefit. Let's take that out of it. Even
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  Speaker 1: if she wasn't a it wasn't a romantic rival situation,
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  Speaker 1: this was still a violation.
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  Speaker 3: Still a violation.
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  Speaker 2: Look, girl code basically, let me try to sum it
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  Speaker 2: up as best I can.
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  Speaker 3: All Right, So.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, what did they say? And they guys have
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  Speaker 2: it too, They have all these crude walls. No no, no,
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  Speaker 2: well no, I'm saying, like they what is it? Bitches
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  Speaker 2: before they have like a whole rose rose before hose.
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  Speaker 3: And then there's all these these ways.
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  Speaker 2: Of splaying of saying it. So there's a guy code,
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  Speaker 2: there's a girl guy. I gotta come up with the
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  Speaker 2: phrase that girls use. Oh yeah, but so yes, Basically,
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  Speaker 2: you stick with each other before you throw anyone under
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  Speaker 2: the bus. And breaking girl code is a violation you
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  Speaker 2: cannot come back from for.
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  Speaker 3: The sake of a guy.
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  Speaker 2: Like that's friendship ending and that is just something you
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  Speaker 2: don't do.
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  Speaker 1: You don't talk.
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  Speaker 2: Shit about your girl to a guy, especially if you
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  Speaker 2: have your sights set on him.
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  Speaker 3: That is horrific. And also there's all this girl code
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  Speaker 3: about can you date a guy?
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  Speaker 2: And this is all having to be explored in love
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  Speaker 2: violent because everybody's swapping spit with one another. But you
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  Speaker 2: don't go after your girl's guy either. So that's Kenzy
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  Speaker 2: broke girl code plenty of times because she's kissing Jen
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  Speaker 2: was her best friend in the villa, and she goes
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  Speaker 2: and starts kissing the guy who she's coupled up with
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  Speaker 2: because she's exploring.
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  Speaker 3: But she broke girl code.
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  Speaker 2: And Jen called her on it and they were able,
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  Speaker 2: they were able to actually make amends on television. Who
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  Speaker 2: knows if it's actually real or not. But Amora went low.
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  Speaker 2: She went way low last night when she goes to
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  Speaker 2: Gal and tells him something that happens in that dressing room.
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  Speaker 2: Look what happens in the bathroom with a girl when
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  Speaker 2: they go and we all talk in the bathroom. What
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  Speaker 2: happens when you're having a girl's night out. You don't
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  Speaker 2: then go and tell a guy what happened on a girls'
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  Speaker 2: night or in the dressing room at the villa, or
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  Speaker 2: when girls go to the bathroom together and discuss who
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  Speaker 2: they like or what they want or what they feel
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  Speaker 2: or what they need.
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  Speaker 3: You don't go then share that with the guy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, how high up are there anything? What else can
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  Speaker 1: you name? What else can you pick that is on
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  Speaker 1: this level of violation for girl code. I have heard
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  Speaker 1: about this, and what you're saying makes sense. I was
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  Speaker 1: I was taken. How immediately you and Sabine reacted to
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  Speaker 1: what Amora did. I asked everybody listened to us nuts,
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  Speaker 1: you're now watching the show and you're familiar with what
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  Speaker 1: we were talking about. I thought she was just playing the game.
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  Speaker 1: I thought she was trying to stay in the game.
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  Speaker 1: But even that you all said that, ain't that's not
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  Speaker 1: a good enough excuse.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she tries, she's trying to stay in the game,
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  Speaker 2: and you see where it got her kicked off the villa,
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  Speaker 2: which everybody was applauding for after they saw what she
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  Speaker 2: said to Gal. And obviously, if you're listening to this,
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  Speaker 2: we're assuming you saw the episode. But just to sum
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  Speaker 2: it up, basically, Gall had the choice to pick Jen
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  Speaker 2: or Amora, and Jen before she knew that the guys
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  Speaker 2: were gonna be able to pick and there was a
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  Speaker 2: recoupling was kind of trash talking Gall, but for real reasons.
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  Speaker 3: He was a jerk, he was.
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  Speaker 2: Manipulative, he was gaslighting her, and so yeah, she was
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  Speaker 2: annoyed by him and kind of over him. But obviously
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  Speaker 2: when the recoupling came up. She knew he had to
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  Speaker 2: pick her or she was gone. So then she tries
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  Speaker 2: to have a conversation with him about, you know, just
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  Speaker 2: where they could take the relationship because she's trying to
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  Speaker 2: stay on Love Island understandable. So then he goes to
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  Speaker 2: have amura to have a conversation with her because he
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  Speaker 2: knows and they both know they have to pick. He
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  Speaker 2: has to pick between them, and he's like, man, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know whether or not to take Jen for real?
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  Speaker 2: Is she just trying to stay on the villa? Or
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  Speaker 2: does she actually really have feelings for me? And then
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  Speaker 2: she's like, bro, I gotta be honest. She's trash talking
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  Speaker 2: you in the dressing room as much as she possibly can.
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  Speaker 2: And he's like, oh wow, and that is the reason
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  Speaker 2: why he picked a mora up.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, real question is that not though robes can can
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  Speaker 1: I be dismissed? Are you saying, even in the in
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  Speaker 1: the context of this competition, you won't forgive her for
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  Speaker 1: what she's doing.
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  Speaker 2: I just think women would look at her and say, wow,
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  Speaker 2: I would never want her to be around me because
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  Speaker 2: we know now what she's willing to do to either
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  Speaker 2: get with a guy or stay on top and she's
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  Speaker 2: willing to throw another girl under the bus. That's way worse.
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  Speaker 2: Just let gall pick who's gonna pick. And the fact
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  Speaker 2: that she told him something that happened privately in a
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  Speaker 2: dressing room, that is that is absolute broken girl code
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  Speaker 2: one on one.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so guys, excuse me, at least I was watching this.
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  Speaker 1: Is there nothing to I guess taking this in a
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  Speaker 1: in a very practical manner. Can you not look at
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  Speaker 1: this in any way that she thought she was doing
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  Speaker 1: a service of any kind for him and being honest
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  Speaker 1: with him.
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  Speaker 3: He didn't deserve it?
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  Speaker 1: Is that The problem is she benefits by what she's doing,
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  Speaker 1: so it doesn't come off as all I think.
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  Speaker 3: She really liked Gold. Do you think she really wanted
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  Speaker 3: to be in a relationship?
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  Speaker 1: You wanted to stay on the island.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly, and so did Jen.
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  Speaker 2: But Jen didn't throw Amura under the bus to get
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  Speaker 2: him to pick her.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't have way to.
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  Speaker 3: She could have said, like, do you really think Amra
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  Speaker 3: likes you?
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  Speaker 2: She could have started like planting seeds of doubt that
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  Speaker 2: he had any shot of having any real relationship.
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  Speaker 1: That's manipulation versus violation or a girl code.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that would still be violation. It would be.
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  Speaker 1: Both because you're dalking your girl.
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  Speaker 2: You're still to get ahead, so it would be manipulation
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  Speaker 2: and violation.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, I thought, this is this is all girls do?
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  Speaker 1: What isn't this what girl do all the time? Aren't
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  Speaker 1: girls went behind other girls backs and talking ish.
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  Speaker 3: To other girls? Maybe, but to do it to a guy,
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  Speaker 3: that's the girl code break.
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  Speaker 2: Yes we've gossip, Yes, and that's not great either, And
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  Speaker 2: but you can get over that. You can get through
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  Speaker 2: that because you're talking to one another about each other.
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  Speaker 2: So because you're right, I shouldn't have said that, and
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  Speaker 2: all can be forgiven because girls gossip.
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  Speaker 3: That does happen within a girl group.
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  Speaker 2: Now you take it outside the girls and you take
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  Speaker 2: it to a guy who you are actually.
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  Speaker 3: Interested in, and they go tell something to a guy.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's unforgiven.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, wait a second way, A second way. Second, you
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  Speaker 1: just I'm having a reality show moment, a real housewife
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  Speaker 1: type moment. We see it all the time on these shows.
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  Speaker 1: Women All they do is go behind he does backs,
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  Speaker 1: They backstab each other. Then they can hug it out
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  Speaker 1: and they talk trash about each other and they find
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  Speaker 1: some secrets out and they go tell another girl. We
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  Speaker 1: see this all the time. Absolutely, you're telling me that's fine.
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  Speaker 3: It's not fine, forgivable because we all do it.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying in this in the context that's accepted
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  Speaker 1: girl behavior that is not relationship or friendship ending on
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  Speaker 1: the same level of if you said that same information
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  Speaker 1: to guys, Now, it's a violation. Is that right? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, you can work it out if you
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  Speaker 2: keep it in the girl circle.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, this is where I get. I got Okay, you're
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  Speaker 1: blowing my mind. But it makes sense now that you're
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  Speaker 1: saying I didn't understand how I'm like, I'm looking at
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  Speaker 1: behavior that I'm used to seeing all the time on
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  Speaker 1: reality TV.
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  Speaker 3: Don't take it to the other gender.
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  Speaker 1: Other gender. Ah wow, it took us nine minutes to
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  Speaker 1: have this breakthrough.
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  Speaker 3: You know what, Wait, this is funny.
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  Speaker 2: So I actually looked up what is the female equivalent
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  Speaker 2: of bros before host? There are so many funny ones
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  Speaker 2: that aren't really that well known, but people have tried
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  Speaker 2: to come up with it because truthfully, I guess that
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  Speaker 2: is more of the that's the phrase.
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  Speaker 3: We all know bros before hoss, right.
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  Speaker 2: But they have chicks before dis I that one okay
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  Speaker 2: before balls that penis shall never get between us.
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  Speaker 1: No, that's not that's let's end that one.
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  Speaker 3: Bros before bros before them.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously, it's not good.
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  Speaker 3: Holes before polls. That's kind of funny.
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  Speaker 1: That's both before tubes. That's so terrible.
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  Speaker 3: Besties over testes stop?
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  Speaker 1: Okay then misters no bros.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah damn it, y'all even got that phrase better than
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  Speaker 2: us Illinois.
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  Speaker 3: I guess chicks before dix is the best.
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  Speaker 1: But you can't use it in public, No, because it's no.
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  Speaker 2: It's offensive, But like bros before host should be offensive
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  Speaker 2: as well, it should be.
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  Speaker 1: It's awesome, but it rhymes for some reason, people think
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  Speaker 1: it's cute. But yes, that same concept. Guys.
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  Speaker 2: Well, can we get to the break because I actually
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  Speaker 2: have a question that I'm going to pose and we
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  Speaker 2: can tease it do men? Yes, you have bros before hose,
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  Speaker 2: but do you follow those rules?
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  Speaker 3: Is is bro code broken?
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  Speaker 2: What does it take for guys to feel like their
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  Speaker 2: code has broken so much that they can can no
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  Speaker 2: longer be friends?
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  Speaker 3: Welcome back everyone.
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  Speaker 2: We're having a very lively discussion, and I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how you're going to answer this because yes, as we
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  Speaker 2: said before the break Rose.
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  Speaker 3: Before Hose. We hear it all the time.
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  Speaker 2: And while we're talking about girl code, is there a
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  Speaker 2: guy code and what does it take to break it?
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  Speaker 1: The gut? No, there was nothing on this level because
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  Speaker 1: guys just don't talk this way. We don't gossip this way.
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  Speaker 1: We don't go behind people's we don't do that. We
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  Speaker 1: say stuff right to each other's face, we fight it out,
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  Speaker 1: we talk. It's just not on this level. We're not
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  Speaker 1: a gossipy type thing. Now, guys will hold on. You know.
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  Speaker 1: I think this was Chris Rock. I'll give him credit
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  Speaker 1: for this. But the way we go about it, a
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  Speaker 1: woman will see another guy see her woman with a guy.
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  Speaker 1: Let's see me a guy. I see a good friend
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  Speaker 1: of mine has a wonderful girlfriend, and I think, wow,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta get a girl like her. A woman sees
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  Speaker 1: her friend with a great guy and goes, I gotta
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  Speaker 1: get him. The different mindset is how we view romantic competition.
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  Speaker 1: Women will see another guy and they're after the same guy.
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  Speaker 1: The competition is for that guy. It's all about that guy.
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  Speaker 1: Men see their guy with another girl and don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like there's a competition. We're not after the same girl.
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  Speaker 1: It just it's a handoff, hands off situation.
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  Speaker 3: But what if have you ever seen?
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  Speaker 2: And I'm actually trying to go back to Love Island
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  Speaker 2: even because it is fascinating to see the guys handle
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  Speaker 2: competition for the same girl very differently than the girls
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  Speaker 2: handle competition for the same guy.
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  Speaker 1: You said once in one of the episodes where I
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  Speaker 1: was like, wow, these guys are like the best man win.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Corbyn and Caleb exhibit a. They literally almost did
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  Speaker 3: they high five.
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  Speaker 2: And then when Caleb found himself in another threesome with
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  Speaker 2: Corbyn again with Parmida. So first it was Kenzie, then
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  Speaker 2: it was Parmida, and honestly Caleb lost both of those,
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  Speaker 2: but he actually laughed it off again. They're like here
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  Speaker 2: we are again and just laughed it off.
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  Speaker 1: Women would never do that.
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  Speaker 2: No, really, no, especially if you have the same women
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  Speaker 2: twice in a triangle competing for the same guy.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, look at what Soul and Melanie went through.
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  Speaker 2: Think about how those two handled it versus how Corbin
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  Speaker 2: and Caleb handled it. And Caleb was a bombshell that
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  Speaker 2: came in just like Soul was a bombshell. They came
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  Speaker 2: in at the same time, so It's not like there
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  Speaker 2: was a different period of time in which they had
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  Speaker 2: to get to know each other. Caleb and Soul came
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  Speaker 2: in at the exact same time. How Melanie and Soul
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  Speaker 2: handled it and how Corbin and Caleb handled it were
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  Speaker 2: night and day.
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  Speaker 3: But what is bro code?
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  Speaker 1: We see it as a loyalty to Broco can be
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  Speaker 1: a matter of Okay, wait a minute, we have a
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  Speaker 1: game to go to tonight and you want to go
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  Speaker 1: spend it with your girl doing something else. It's almost
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  Speaker 1: like you don't in any way, it's not even that deep.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't do anything and put this woman above
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  Speaker 1: the partnership and the friendship you have with your guys
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  Speaker 1: to where you're showing a little softness or weakness or
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  Speaker 1: preference to spending time with her than with your guys.
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  Speaker 1: You put in your bros before hose. That's one way
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  Speaker 1: to look at it. The other way to look at
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  Speaker 1: it is no woman is going to come between us.
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  Speaker 1: There is no way that some girl, that some woman
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  Speaker 1: in this group with my guys. No, even if it
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  Speaker 1: kind of comes up like you saw at Corbyn and Caleb.
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  Speaker 1: That's how we handle all right now, you said I
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  Speaker 1: do do you think like, we don't get hurt or offended.
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  Speaker 1: And maybe it's our mindset that man, there's so many
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  Speaker 1: women out here, knock yourself out.
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  Speaker 2: But if you're competing for the same girls, why don't
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  Speaker 2: you feel competition between the.
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  Speaker 1: Two of you. Because we don't compete. We generally, generally speaking,
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  Speaker 1: don't compete. Oh you got your eye on her.
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  Speaker 3: Cool, We may the best man win. No woman would
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  Speaker 3: say that to another woman made the best.
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  Speaker 1: One, And the only reason they said it is because
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  Speaker 1: they end up in this competition on this show. In
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  Speaker 1: real life, they would look at each other and go,
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  Speaker 1: you all right, dude, you were there first. Man, knock
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  Speaker 1: yourself out. We wouldn't be a competition. We just don't generally.
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  Speaker 2: No. But but I have seen, and you have seen
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  Speaker 2: in plenty in my personal life and just generally speaking,
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  Speaker 2: men getting into fist fights over a woman, like going
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  Speaker 2: to blows, physically attacking each other because they both like
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  Speaker 2: the same girl.
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  Speaker 3: Where'd you see this in my personal life?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I've never seen that. Really, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Is that a white guy thing versus a black guy thing?
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  Speaker 1: But there is nothing. Now I've seen guys defend a woman.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen fights happen over right, just a disrespect to
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  Speaker 1: a woman or something like that. But there is never
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  Speaker 1: one woman standing here that two guys. Excuse me, I'm
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  Speaker 1: saying in general that we are not fighting over her.
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  Speaker 1: She can pick who she wants. Knock yourself out. There's
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  Speaker 1: one hundred other women in the club that I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: in general. I know there's different in different generations.
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  Speaker 3: Why is that so offensive to me?
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  Speaker 1: It's funny.
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  Speaker 2: I actually felt my chests that you would just be like,
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: she's nothing special. There's plenty of other fish in the
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  Speaker 2: sea that actually feels offensive.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but it's offensive robes. But I'm not fighting another
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  Speaker 1: guy over you. We have history. If there is a
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  Speaker 1: woman that I need to fight over, I am a
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  Speaker 1: grown ass man. I don't need to fight over her.
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  Speaker 1: She makes the decision. What are we talking about? This
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  Speaker 1: is adulthood, baby? What am I? I'm gonna whoop his ass.
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  Speaker 1: I won the fight. She still gets to pick who
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  Speaker 1: she wants. This is some barbarian old school meant male
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  Speaker 1: mentality that in some way we decide who she is
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  Speaker 1: going to be with. What the fuck are we talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Obviously not, she chooses if you have that mindset, Robes,
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  Speaker 1: there is no I don't need to fight anybody over you. Hey, robes,
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  Speaker 1: who you want to be with him? All right? That sucks.
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  Speaker 1: I don't need to fight him for you and decide
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  Speaker 1: her fate. You decide your fate. Now when I say
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  Speaker 1: this to you, doesn't that make sense?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? And you know I think about all girls, and
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: you'll think about most girl fights.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: When they say cat fights, it's over a man. We
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: will fight each other rather than the man.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, but what we're fighting interesting, What we're all fighting
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: over really is our own ego and our own that
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: we're just trying to win some it's just a pride,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: it's a but you're not winning the prize. It's not
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: there for you to win. So maybe a guy thinks
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: that in the mindset you got, isn't that crazy? He said,
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: that's offensive to hear. Yeah, But then on our end,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: doesn't that make sense. I don't own you, I can't
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: win you. I can win your heart. But that has
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with fist fighting.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: When you explain it, it does make sense.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Just it's so funny how we think versus how you.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Are and why you can need a heterosexual group.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: That's another episode, But no girl code is real, and
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: it's just been fun to understand it better and seeing
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: it through your eyes and you seeing it through all
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: of ours is just creating a deeper understanding of how
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: different we are and respecting that and using that when
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: we react to real life situations, we can maybe have
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: a little bit more understanding, a little less reactivity if
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: you have that.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, I see where he's coming from. And this
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: show truly is it. I think it pulls back the curtains.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: This has been one of the more fun ones in
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: terms of the dynamics and deeping and diving a little
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: deep into relationships. This has been a very good love
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: lesson episode.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: This last one was and there was hardly any makeout sessions,
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: thank god, Thank.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: God, nobody wanted to make out after that one.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, certainly this has I mean, this series
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: has just given so many I opening We've had so
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: many good conversations on the Couch after the Couch and
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: certainly on this podcast, and there will be more to
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: come as we continue to watch these islanders look for
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: love and see.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: If it's lasting love, right, That'll be the big question.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: We're always rooting for that and we always appreciate you
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: listening to us. Everyone. I made me roboch alongside TJ. Holmes.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: We'll talk to you soon.