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Reactive Abuse: Why Survivors of Covert Narcissism Eventually Snap

You didn’t just wake up one day and decide to slap them.

That moment — the one that now fills you with shame and self-blame — didn’t come out of nowhere. It’s been building for a long time.

In this episode, Renee Swanson explores what happens when years of emotional invalidation, manipulation, and gaslighting finally push you past your breaking point. When your calm exterior cracks, and your reaction — whether yelling, slamming a door, or even lashing out — leaves you wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”

With deep compassion and truth, Renee explains the nervous system’s response to chronic…

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