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Split The Bill · Second Date Update

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  Ooh ah, we're going to Oh we're going to avon this morning. You
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  guys nice, you can make a love connection. I think James is on
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  the Lawni's getting ghosted after first date. Good morning, James, Hey,
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  good morning, Hey, welcome to the show. Welcome to second date update.
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  Obviously you know what we're all about. Yes, yeah, we're gonna
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  try and get some answers because I know you went on a great first date
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  and I need you to tell us about it before we can find out why
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  you're getting ghosted. Tell us about this first date. Sure, Well,
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  like you said, I thought it was great. It was with a girl
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  named Samantha, and I planned a nice night. We went to a fancy
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  Italian restaurant and you know, we had great conversations throughout the night, and
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  you know, the whole thing went great, you know, better than I
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  even thought it would. And basically since then, I've kind of been ghosted.
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  So you have no idea. So you felt a connection? Did you
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  feel like she felt a connection for you two? Like it was mutual?
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  Okay, yeah, James, don't take this the wrong way. I know
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  you Samantha's and they're both high maintenance. So this actually might be a good
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  thing for you with her ghosting you because you don't want you don't want to
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  be with like a high maintenance woman. Why would she be high maintenance?
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  What makes you think she's highmaien? Her name is Samantha. I have one
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  friend named Samantha who's high maintenance, and then the other Samantha I know from
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  Sex and the City. That girl seems like she's high maidenance got am I
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  right? James? No, you're not right, James. Did you get
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  the feeling that she was high maintenance at all? No? I appreciate that,
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  but no, I did not get that vibe whatsoever. Okay, excellent,
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  And so you've reached out to her and there's like you're getting ghosted.
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  Yeah, I mean there was a little bit of contact like right after,
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  like just short and brief, but like as far as like trying to set
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  up a second date. Since then, yeah, I know, it's just
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  kind of been nothing. Okay, that's weird. And listen, is this
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  we're gonna do, James, you know, second date update. You're gonna
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  be on hold, You're gonna be listening, and we're gonna call Samantha your
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  date. We're gonna ask her about the date, and I'm just gonna come
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  right down and say, why are you ghosting them? What's happening? And
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  we're gonna ask her what the heck has happened. Hopefully we can it's a
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  misunderstanding, and we can make a second date for you, make that connection.
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  Okay, Okay, awesome, appreciate it, all right, James,
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  hang tight, we're gonna call his date Samantha. We'll do that next all
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  right, we're back. Oh my gosh, we're an avon this morning.
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  Second date update. James is on the line getting ready to call his date
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  Samantha. Basically, James, you took her to a nice restaurant for a
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  first date. You said you felt a connection. Conversation was great, you
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  had a little bit of communication after the date, but as far as setting
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  up a second date, she's kind of ghosting you, right, So bizarre.
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  That's so bizarre because you have a little bit of communication, but then
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  when it came to the second date, she's like not interested. So hold
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  on, James, we're gonna call Samantha. You're gonna be listening and feel
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  free to jump in whenever you want. Okay, Okay, thanks for Okay,
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  all right, I'm actually now I'm craving really nice food at a nice
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  restaurant and a dirty Martini. You want to go, Savannah? Yeah?
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  Can we go get lunch? Are you craving the food or the dirty Martine?
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  Because I think it's the dirty Martine? Shut up? Both happy tried.
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  January? Hello, yay me Hi Samantha. H Yeah, Hi,
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  Samantha, it's Coordinay. Hey, Sam, it's Walmart Jeff. Hey,
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  what's up at Savannah? We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I
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  have to let you know you're on the radio this morning. Okay, Okay,
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  Well then I'll just fill you in. You're on the radio because we
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  do something called second Date Update. Hopefully you've heard of it. If not,
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  that's when somebody calls us if they got ghosted after a first date,
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  like maybe they're feeling a connection and they want to go on a second date
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  but they're not getting a response and they want to know why they call us,
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  And so you're on second Date Update because James called us. Okay,
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  remember your Okay, So then let me tell you what he said. Okay,
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  so obviously James told us it was a great first date. You guys
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  went out to a nice romantic restaurant. You had a great meal. But
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  he also said the conversation was great. He felt like there was some flirting
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  going on and there was like a little bit of a connection. He also
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  said that like after the date, you might have had a little bit of
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  conversation, like he reached out to you and there was a little bit of
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  conversation. But when it came to the second date, you know topic,
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  you've been completely ghosting him for a second date. So how was this date
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  for you? What is going on? Yeah, well, I mean I
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  would say the date was mostly good. Like he suggested we go to this
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  like really nice restaurant, and it's super easy to talk to, Like the
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  conversation flowed. But then when like the check came, he said we should
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  split it. And the only reason like that kind of threw me off was
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  because as we were eating, he was like, order whatever you want,
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  it's like a date. And I ordered a salad and a drink, and
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  he like ordered the lobster and was pounding three drinks. And so I don't
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  know, I just don't really want to be dating like somebody who's cheap,
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  you know, Like so he asked me out, and I don't know the
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  fact that he kept saying to you know, to me. When you go
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  out on a date and the guy says, I want you to order whatever
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  you want. This is a date, Please get the lobster, get several
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  drinks, and you don't he does, and then he wants you to pay
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  for his meal. It's that rubs me the wrong way to that's like so
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  rude. Wait because now you're paying frist date. Right at that point,
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  I'd rather just pay for my own meal, right, yeah, I hit
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  up market grill. Samantha. Oh gosh, I dangs. Hello. So
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  first of all, I just want to completely apologize because what she's saying is
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  one hundred percent accurate. But I promise you I wasn't trying to be cheap.
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  It's just I don't know, it was kind of weird, like I
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  don't want to be like I don't know, some people get offended if you
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  try to pay the bill or like just nowadays, like you pull out the
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  chair, Like I don't know, it's just kind of weird and like even
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  like splitting the bill, like the you know, the surfer came over and
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  asked, you know, if it was one check or two, And you
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  know, I said two. I didn't mean like, you're totally right,
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  you only ordered a couple of things, like I should you shouldn't have had
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  to pay for half the bill. That's just how they did it. But
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  by that point everything was so awkward, so I should have spoke up or
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  whatever. But yeah, no, I swear I wasn't trying to be cheap
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  or anything like that. I was just you know, I don't know.
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  I'm sorry about that. So Samantha, do you understand what you're saying?
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  Okay, so you accept as you accept his apology, and basically, James,
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  what you're saying is you just feel like, you know, you didn't
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  know what to do, like do you pull out the chair and maybe she'll
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  get offended you open the door? Or do you pay them? I guess
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  it can get confusing. Yeah, yeah, I mean I like, as
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  he's explaining it, like I understand a little. Yeah. I mean I
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  really did enjoy like chatting and stuff with you, James, and like,
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  yeah, just like that, the end part of the date was like oh
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  yeah, okay, all right, listen, we obviously all have different thoughts
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  on this. This is what I think we need to do. Samantha and
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  James, we want you to go on a second date because I think that
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  you both said the you know, even Samantha said the beginning of the day,
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  it was great. There was a good connection, great conversation. I
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  want you to go on a second date, and we will pick up the
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  tab Go wherever you want, do whatever you want. But let's not make
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  it like around like a meal where you split the bill. I'm let's do
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  I don't know, ice skate, go for a hike, do something that
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  doesn't involve like bringing money into it. Let's see how it goes. What
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  do you guys think? Well, that sounds great to me. If Samantha's
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  up for it, I mean yeah, I mean you went to all this
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  trouble to get me on a second date, so let's try it. Yes,
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  yes, yes, he did, Samantha. All right, then that's
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  that's what we're gonna do. You guys are going on a second date.
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  We'll pick up the tab. If you end up doing something that doesn't cost
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  money and then you go to like lunch or something, we're going to pick
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  up the tabs. So don't even let it stress you out. Take money
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  out of the equation. Let's see if there's a match. Okay, okay,
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  okay awesome, Thank you so much.