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- 0:00We are privileged and honored to be here today with a power
- 0:03couple, and I'm excited to have you guys here because I've known
- 0:05both of you for a very, very long time.
- 0:08Let's just get right into it. Why don't you guys introduce
- 0:10yourself? Who's going to who's going to
- 0:11take the lead here? Let's see, I think I'm going to
- 0:13take the lead. Wow, that was quick that.
- 0:15Didn't take a whole lot of time. We're used to this already.
- 0:18Sammy and Cheryl from Rushing Promotions.
- 0:20Hi, how are you? Thanks for having us.
- 0:22Go ahead. I'm Sammy.
- 0:23Go ahead. That's it.
- 0:25You're done. We're here, we're done.
- 0:26You're finished. We've been working together for
- 0:2920 years in November. We know Michael and the Prime
- 0:31Source team from the beginning of time.
- 0:33We've been working together with our Prime Source contract
- 0:36probably from the beginning. We've been doing a lot of stuff
- 0:38together and we're happy to be here.
- 0:41Wow, that's, that's quite an introduction.
- 0:43We got to get right into it because I have to tell you that
- 0:46I'm a big fan of partnerships and we talk about this all the
- 0:49time, or at least I do. And I always say partnerships
- 0:52can be the best thing or the worst thing, right?
- 0:55But in terms of business, the minute you realize that it's
- 0:58like a marriage and that you have to put the work into it,
- 1:01that's when you can potentially have success in partnerships and
- 1:04it could be the best thing in the world.
- 1:05You guys stepped it up a notch. You took not only your
- 1:08partnership on a personal level, but on a business level.
- 1:11I know there's a lot of people listening that have partnerships
- 1:13with their spouses, a lot of people listening that broke up
- 1:16partnerships, a lot of people listening that want to break up
- 1:20their partnerships both personally and professionally.
- 1:22I have to ask you guys, what is the secret?
- 1:25It's not for the faint of heart and that's what we tell our
- 1:27children. We have grown children now and
- 1:29we tell them don't do this. It's not for the faint of heart.
- 1:32We happen to be very different as you can tell.
- 1:35We have very different personalities.
- 1:36We do very different parts of the business.
- 1:39Sammy's on the back end with purchasing and with our website
- 1:41and with development on that. And I'm more on the sale side
- 1:44and with our staff and selling and handling customers.
- 1:47So we don't actually work together all day.
- 1:50We don't even sit near each other.
- 1:52That's a healthy thing. He sits in his office, I sit in
- 1:54mine. And it's funny, sometimes the
- 1:56customers or some of our staff will say, can you ask Sammy this
- 1:59or that? I said you could ask him just
- 2:00like I can ask him. Because we don't actually sit
- 2:03next to each other. We've learned ways to balance
- 2:05ourselves. We've learned ways to work
- 2:08together that are healthy and we've learned different things
- 2:11that should not be done. And can you?
- 2:13Share some of those things I'm so.
- 2:15Throw things in the office because they might break.
- 2:19Don't fight in front of the employees, like don't fight in
- 2:21front of your children. Don't fight in front of the
- 2:23employees. Who has executive decision
- 2:26making power when it comes down to it and there's a decision
- 2:28that needs to be made right or left, Who's making that final
- 2:31call between the? Two, I'm interested in hearing.
- 2:33I want to hear his answer. I want to hear his answer.
- 2:36I will try to encourage Cheryl to make the decision, but many
- 2:38times you will force me to say you decide.
- 2:41Wow, so it's not like any of you want to even make the decision.
- 2:43You really want the other person to make the decision.
- 2:46We're we're on the same page with a lot of.
- 2:48Things with a lot of things, we also have different outlooks, so
- 2:51we can bounce things off in different ways.
- 2:54Just for example, we're here at the ECAP conference.
- 2:56It's a very expensive conference for us.
- 2:58A lot of money that goes into this is a lot of work that we do
- 3:01in the back end for this conference.
- 3:03And we always talk about, you know, how to do this in the
- 3:05right way, how to do this in the smart way, how to spend the
- 3:07money in the best way possible. And we'll bounce things off of
- 3:10each other because we're so different and we think about
- 3:12things so differently that he'll come up with some ideas that I
- 3:16might not necessarily have. Sammy, I want to hear it from
- 3:18you. Give me an argument that you
- 3:19guys had recently. Tell me something that you guys
- 3:22like had it out and you had to make the executive decision.
- 3:25But I want to hear those petty ones.
- 3:27Put your foot down. I want to hear the dramatic one.
- 3:29I want to. There had to have been.
- 3:30How many years are you doing this business together?
- 3:3320 years, 20 years. So in 20, it's a lifetime. 20
- 3:36years. A long time, you know?
- 3:37Yeah. 2. That's two centuries.
- 3:40Two decades. Yeah. 3 decades. 2 centuries.
- 3:43My God. Yeah.
- 3:43Two decades is long enough. Like.
- 3:45Two, yeah, feels like 2 centuries, yeah.
- 3:47So in the last 20 years, as far as you can remember, what was
- 3:51the biggest? Did you ever have an argument,
- 3:52like, in front of people? Like, did it get really ugly?
- 3:55Like you guys had to, you know, just stop it right there?
- 3:57Do you remember something like that so.
- 3:59I don't think you'll remember. All of the other.
- 4:02Yeah, that's an every wife. Yeah, of course.
- 4:05Right, I don't know that there was something we we really tried
- 4:07to behave in front of. Sammy, let it out.
- 4:10That makes sense. Do you bring your work home with
- 4:13you? Do you guys ever talk about work
- 4:14at home? Yes, certainly you do.
- 4:16Certainly. Yes, absolutely.
- 4:18Which is why we try to invite Shabbos guests.
- 4:19We try to have a lot of people around our tables so that we
- 4:22have other things going on. Because if it's just us, then we
- 4:25just go from one conversation to the next and then there's no
- 4:27beginning, there's no end, there's no anything else.
- 4:29Going, we hang out a lot, Michael and I and with with
- 4:31other partners as well. And we tend to talk a lot about
- 4:35business when we're together on our own free time.
- 4:38Somehow conversations just always veer in that direction.
- 4:40But you guys are passionate about what you do.
- 4:43Like, after all these years, you still love this.
- 4:45Are you still like excited about it or has it started wearing off
- 4:49and it's becoming a chore? Every day is an adventure for
- 4:52us. Every day is different.
- 4:54The clients are different, the projects are different.
- 4:57To me, every day is just still as interesting as it was 20
- 5:00years ago. Keep in mind, we're the promo
- 5:02people. We do fun stuff, we do
- 5:04interesting stuff. You don't just do the same thing
- 5:06day in and day out. If we are doing the same thing
- 5:08day in and day out, we have to change it up.
- 5:10It's my job to change it up. Because when you come to us and
- 5:12you say, Cheryl, can you give me an idea of something that we can
- 5:15recommend to a facility to give out?
- 5:17You don't want to hear pens and sticking.
- 5:18No, no. We've done that already it.
- 5:19Was a good idea that you did recently.
- 5:21Just go for it because. You're something creative,
- 5:22something someone did that really stood out.
- 5:24Yeah. First, tell us about your
- 5:26business. Tell us what you guys really do.
- 5:28What does Rush King do? You guys have a pretty solid
- 5:30name. You've been around the industry
- 5:31for a long time, so a lot of our listeners know about Rush King.
- 5:35But for those who don't know, when you talk about a
- 5:36promotional company, like what does that entail?
- 5:39What do you guys typically offer?
- 5:40What type of services? Tell us a little bit about your
- 5:42business. OK, so want me to take it from
- 5:45here? So we do obviously print and
- 5:47promotional items. So we're going to do anything
- 5:49that has a logo printed on it. So we can do the basic stuff,
- 5:52pen, sticky notes, T-shirts, mugs, caps, anything that you
- 5:55can think of off the top of your head.
- 5:57But we also have customers that will come to us and say want
- 5:59something a little bit more unique, but little bit something
- 6:01more creative. We have customers that we do
- 6:04their things completely done overseas.
- 6:06They have a concept, they have their theme, they have their
- 6:08logo, and then we'll work on something for months on end with
- 6:12factories that we we work with overseas and we come up with
- 6:15designed items that are unique and interesting day-to-day.
- 6:19Customers can't handle orders like that because we have to get
- 6:21that done months in advance. There's a lot of back and forth.
- 6:24A lot of what Sammy does is work with the factories overnight
- 6:26because China has to be done overnight and the customers have
- 6:29to be handled during the day. So there's a lot of give and
- 6:31take that we do most unique things, definitely the things
- 6:33that we're doing overseas. Overseas.
- 6:35That we're doing that are. How many people in the company,
- 6:38in the business? So right now we have about 22, I
- 6:41think we're at 22 people. We actually hired somebody this
- 6:43week. We have a few different offices.
- 6:46Once we hit COVID and we started getting the people, like we
- 6:49heard last night talking about people working remote or Mr.
- 6:52Wonderful, we learned that people don't necessarily have to
- 6:55come into the office. So while I was always rigid and
- 6:57I wanted everyone to be part of a team and I like the team
- 7:00building and the brainstorming and the working together and I
- 7:02love that atmosphere. Once we hit COVID and we started
- 7:05telling people to work from home, we said, hey, you know,
- 7:07this is not so bad either. We kind of brought back our
- 7:10teams a little bit to the office.
- 7:11We have an office in Brooklyn, NY where we are.
- 7:13We have an office in Lakewood where we have a whole bunch of
- 7:15people and then we have people that work in their home offices
- 7:18across the country remotely, remotely and.
- 7:20They're being productive. You're finding that it's working
- 7:22out. We love it A.
- 7:24Large employee pool for us from all different parts of the
- 7:26country. Sure.
- 7:27You got a bigger market where you have that kind of allowance
- 7:30when people who work from home. Right.
- 7:32We have great people that we're able to hire.
- 7:34They come in. We do have different
- 7:37opportunities that we like to put the team together.
- 7:39I love having people meet each other and be able to sit next to
- 7:42each other and rest or evening out.
- 7:44We do a lot of that to just keep people going together.
- 7:47But other than that, people are working remote.
- 7:49We have the technology for it. We have great team.
- 7:51And that brings me back to your original question.
- 7:53What's rushing? Rushing is the promo company
- 7:56with feeling, with the heart behind it, with how to take care
- 7:59of the customers the right way. We're automated, we have the
- 8:02technology behind it, but we're still people behind the phone
- 8:06will say we're still here for you.
- 8:07We're going to give you advice, we're going to hold your hand
- 8:09through the process. You have other things that you
- 8:11need to do and that's always my mantra.
- 8:13You guys, everybody has their other businesses to run.
- 8:16Ordering promotional items shouldn't be your full time job.
- 8:19It's my full time job. I need to know what's out there.
- 8:21I need to know the price point. I need to know what to suggest
- 8:24to you and I need my team to stand behind and say these are
- 8:27good ideas. These are not good ideas.
- 8:29You handle what you need to handle.
- 8:30You do your job, you feel your or whatever else is your job.
- 8:33We'll do the rest and we'll do it simply easy and not
- 8:36expensively. That's a beautiful thing.
- 8:38That's a beautiful thing. Definitely the human element.
- 8:41It's not just so much about your company, it's about you guys.
- 8:44That's really what's going to sell.
- 8:45That's what people are going to come back to you again is
- 8:47because they like dealing with you.
- 8:48I don't know. I mean, I feel like more, I feel
- 8:50like promotional items is, I'm not going to say commodity.
- 8:54That sounds a little bit cheap, but there's a lot of companies
- 8:57that do this kind of thing and it's got to be hard for you to
- 8:59stick out and, you know, be top of mind for people.
- 9:02And what is it that you try to do to attract people that
- 9:05separates you from all the competitors?
- 9:08The items themselves are commodities.
- 9:10It is it is a commodity. We mentioned sticky notes in the
- 9:12pen. They are a commodity finding the
- 9:14right item for you and the right budget.
- 9:16But the way we handle it, the service that we provide, the
- 9:19people that we are, the just the way we interact with the client
- 9:23and their team, making sure it's there.
- 9:25It's taking all of the surprise and all the whatever else might
- 9:30be uncomfortable about the process.
- 9:32We take that out. We take the brunt of it.
- 9:34Most of my customers know shoot an e-mail to Cheryl.
- 9:37It will be taken care of. We're not spending any.
- 9:39Money. Who's Cheryl?
- 9:40Me. OK.
- 9:41And it'll you go by Cheryl Handel.
- 9:43What's your Hebrew name? Cheryl.
- 9:45Interesting, right? Is that a common thing?
- 9:48Cheryl's always Cheryl or you just.
- 9:49No, it was my grandmother's name, my parents named after my
- 9:52grandmother, and my parents like the name Cheryl, so they gave me
- 9:55an English. Where'd you guys grow up, by the
- 9:56way? I grew up in Brooklyn.
- 9:58And you're Elizabeth, NJ. Elizabeth.
- 10:01And now you live in Brooklyn. Brooklyn.
- 10:04We spoke about this earlier. So I just want to reiterate this
- 10:07idea. I love Brooklyn.
- 10:08I grew up in Brooklyn, but I also love that I got out of
- 10:10Brooklyn in many ways, although I do miss it.
- 10:13So you guys? Our suitcases are packed, we
- 10:16just haven't yet left. Any day, any day, it's
- 10:19happening. It's a quite dusty suitcase.
- 10:22We're one foot out. How long did you plan on living
- 10:24in Brooklyn for? One year.
- 10:25One year. We said one year we were both in
- 10:28college, we had to finish up our stuff.
- 10:30We both had jobs and we had things that we were doing.
- 10:32We're going to live here one year, but we're not raising our
- 10:33children in Brooklyn. I would never even date any guy
- 10:36that was from Brooklyn, other than Sammy over here who
- 10:39promised me. He's not a Brooklyn guy.
- 10:41He's so nice, he's so genuine, He's so warm.
- 10:44He's not a real Brooklyn. Whoa.
- 10:45Whoa, I'm from Brooklyn. I'm nice, I'm warm, I'm genuine.
- 10:48How did you guys meet? So we know a lot of the same
- 10:50people. Yeah.
- 10:51And a cousin of mine was friends with his brother and they
- 10:54suggested the idea and I said a Brooklyn guy.
- 10:57Not for me. I'm from New Jersey.
- 10:59I'm an out of town girl. I went to Darfing Bean in
- 11:01Israel. I'm not the typical Brooklyn
- 11:02girl. I.
- 11:03Don't know, but out of town you're like 20 miles.
- 11:05Yeah, relax. Yeah, OK.
- 11:07Have you a bit right? Have you been to Elizabeth?
- 11:09Sure. Many times.
- 11:10Yeah, Yeah. Yeah, for their food.
- 11:11It does have an out of town mentality I hear.
- 11:14I hear what you're saying. Yeah, we actually talked about
- 11:17living there also and just it just didn't workout for us.
- 11:20We talked about living in a bunch of different places.
- 11:22But once you have kids and you get kids settled and you have a
- 11:24life and you have a busy things going on and everyone's doing
- 11:27well where they are starts to get hard.
- 11:29To change, it's hard to change. So when did you guys come with
- 11:31the idea that you wanna do a promotional item company?
- 11:35Like when did it start? How did it happen?
- 11:36Was the first thing you guys did.
- 11:38That was the first thing we did together.
- 11:39Yes, right. We both.
- 11:40How did you come up with this idea?
- 11:41Why did you go into this? I am a computer programmer by
- 11:43trade, went to college for that. I have my master's degree in
- 11:46that, and I wrote a computer program for a company that
- 11:49actually sold promotional products.
- 11:51You might remember the company and.
- 11:54All in one. What was it out-of-the-box?
- 11:57Wow, out-of-the-box promo. I feel left out over here.
- 12:00I. Mean we knew each other for over
- 12:012 decades. Yeah, yeah.
- 12:03And. We worked on more.
- 12:04Than that even. Was it the Wynn Hotel back then
- 12:07that we were working on? Yeah, yeah, even before the Wynn
- 12:09Hotel. I remember, I remember knowing
- 12:10you then. And like, you know, Steve Wynn
- 12:12and his wife decided to, like, change the way Vegas works and
- 12:16they wanted to keep people in the rooms upstairs where until
- 12:18then everyone was going downstairs.
- 12:20And he changed the model. That's right.
- 12:21And he went to, he went out to bid and he said, who can help me
- 12:25make A room, room that is inviting for people to stay in
- 12:28the room? Yeah.
- 12:29And you guys worked on that project.
- 12:30I remember being involved in that.
- 12:32It was. It was a fun project then.
- 12:33What are some of the really big projects you've done that you're
- 12:36very proud of? Any any big names like you
- 12:38service, you know, Google, Amazon, I don't know who do you
- 12:42Nigeria. Right.
- 12:43That's a great story. Have you ever heard that story
- 12:45from us? I mean, Bank of Nigeria always
- 12:47contacts me for money, yes. Right.
- 12:49But this time it was real. What happened?
- 12:51It's a great story. Who's going to tell it?
- 12:54I could take it. I love this, Sammy.
- 12:58You're dismissed. We'll call you back later.
- 13:00You didn't want to be here. Better than I, OK.
- 13:03That's a great story. This is going back many years.
- 13:06We get a phone call from Bank of Nigeria that they have cash to
- 13:09pay for a blank, travel bags, duffel bags.
- 13:13That's screaming fraud. The Bank of.
- 13:15The phone call they called you. They called on the phone.
- 13:18This is back. What's going back when you?
- 13:20Spoke to, kept on calling back. I was like the Bank of Nigeria,
- 13:23you don't take an order from the bank.
- 13:24Of course not. Yeah.
- 13:25And #1 what we do is print it. Why do you want blank things
- 13:28from us? We don't do blank things.
- 13:30Go to Amazon, go online. Yeah.
- 13:31That's where they wanted to buy the item from you.
- 13:33Want to buy the item? We need them blank and we need
- 13:35them delivered to an airport. Interesting.
- 13:37OK. What is that screen to you?
- 13:39Yeah. And leather bags not printed.
- 13:43Not printed. Very shady, you rush.
- 13:44Very shady. Came to rush.
- 13:46Very. Continue.
- 13:48Go ahead. So like, thank you, but we'll
- 13:50pass. They called back again, called
- 13:53back again, we told them thank you, but we're really not
- 13:56interested. I get a call on my cell phone
- 13:58from and this before we use cell phones for anything other than
- 14:01like, you know, personal to, you know.
- 14:03Phone calls back when it was an actual phone.
- 14:05And it's my bank. It's Chase.
- 14:08I bank with Chase. And they're on the phone and
- 14:10like, did you get a call from the Bank of Nigeria?
- 14:12Yes. OK.
- 14:13Who are you Like, well, I'm not your regular banker, but I'm
- 14:15someone else that Chase. Perhaps you'd like to take this
- 14:18order from the Bank of Nigeria. I'm like, why are you calling
- 14:20me? Have my banker call me, if that,
- 14:23if it's really something. Sure enough, 10 minutes later,
- 14:25my phone rings. It's the branch manager of my
- 14:27local branch in Brooklyn who I have a relationship with,
- 14:30calling me and saying, please, you're embarrassing us.
- 14:33The Bank of Nigeria would like to place an order and you guys
- 14:36are not taking the order. We recommended you at a meeting
- 14:39with the Bank of Nigeria, who happens to be 1 of at that time,
- 14:42I don't know today, but at that time was Chase's largest
- 14:45commercial client and they were real people and we were
- 14:48recommended at a meeting in Chase.
- 14:50And here I am, Sammy from Rushking is turning down the
- 14:53order. I'm embarrassing my bank.
- 14:56Why didn't they mention up front that they got a referral from
- 14:58from Chase Bank? They should have started with it
- 15:01off. The phone, it's like, yeah, Bank
- 15:02of Nigeria, right? He's saying why didn't Chase?
- 15:04Tell you they give you or somebody tell you, I'll give you
- 15:06a heads up. Because when you refer someone,
- 15:08you expect them to take. That's it.
- 15:09Yeah, Take the order. Yeah, they didn't.
- 15:11For people. And they're being relentless.
- 15:13They're going at that back. They're just harassing him.
- 15:15Whatever you. Actually did the order then.
- 15:16And they wanted to send a wire transfer, so they needed our
- 15:19bank account. Information.
- 15:20Did you go to Nigeria to deliver it, I'm assuming?
- 15:22Delivered it to an airport. We've had a lot of fun stores,
- 15:24those things that had to get delivered.
- 15:25Did you find out what they needed this stuff for?
- 15:27Why they was? A meeting and there was a
- 15:29meeting with other bankers and our bank had recommended the.
- 15:32Anniversary of the Bank of Nigeria.
- 15:33Right, so there was a meeting and they.
- 15:35Was it a big order or was it like?
- 15:36$65,000 it was 65 more $80,000 it.
- 15:41Was over. Yeah, yeah.
- 15:42Wow, 20 years ago now it was basically all profit because we
- 15:46gave them some bogus price when they started calling us because
- 15:48we're like, you don't want this. And they took that price.
- 15:50And they took the price. We made a.
- 15:54By the way, the Bank of Nigeria didn't call you.
- 15:56God called you. He sent you.
- 15:59The Bank of Nigeria was the messenger.
- 16:01But that's what happened, right? You realize that it away A.
- 16:03Few times and we kept saying no, we don't want the order.
- 16:05We don't want the order. Stop calling.
- 16:07Stop calling. We don't want.
- 16:09Like, listen, we're going to make you get this order whether
- 16:11you like it or not. And they just kept them coming
- 16:13back. Unbelievable.
- 16:14Yeah. So we, we should start taking
- 16:16these things seriously or I gotta go back to the e-mail.
- 16:19I gotta check my spam really quickly.
- 16:21Right. Right.
- 16:23By the way, these people in Nigeria, like these Americans
- 16:24were just trying to give them money and they're just not
- 16:26taking it from that right. But still, we were hesitant.
- 16:29We opened a separate bank account for them to wire
- 16:31transfer in the payment. I still didn't want them
- 16:34touching our bank account. Wow.
- 16:35I still didn't trust the extra cautious and I was still very
- 16:38careful because it just felt. Did it take the time for you
- 16:40guys to touch that money? Like, were you nervous?
- 16:42It was very scared. Yeah.
- 16:44Doesn't feel right. They pay all the years.
- 16:46The 100 grand is just sitting in the account and you're like, oh,
- 16:49oh. No, we're not touching it.
- 16:50It took us a very. You said you renting airports
- 16:53for other delivery. We've had situations that
- 16:56certain things got delivered to the wrong place.
- 16:58When you order with rushing, we will hold your hand and take
- 17:02care of things back in the day. I'm just going to remind you of
- 17:04the story with the drug company that was in Chicago.
- 17:07We were doing some samples with the drug company.
- 17:09Back then, drug reps were able to give out a lot of promotional
- 17:12items. Now that's more regulated and
- 17:13they can't just give out the amount of stuff that they used
- 17:15to give out and the samples mistakenly.
- 17:18Remember the story came to us instead of going to Chicago.
- 17:21Well, guess what? It needed to be in Chicago that
- 17:24day. What do you do about samples
- 17:26that we're holding that were like custom items that we were
- 17:28doing for them? You get it on a plane to Chicago
- 17:31because there is no other way to get it there.
- 17:33And we figured it out. Same day.
- 17:35Same day, within an hour, you just go to the airport and you
- 17:39get it on the next flight and you have somebody meet it on the
- 17:42other way. There's always ways to figure
- 17:45things out and that's what we tell the customer.
- 17:47We don't want those terrible stories to happen.
- 17:48We did. Let you check luggage onto a
- 17:51flight if you're not flying. No, you have to give it to
- 17:53someone. Oh.
- 17:54Yeah, someone, somebody asked me.
- 17:55How did you find someone? You just go where there's a
- 17:57will, there's a way. So you found someone, you paid
- 17:59them. Take this in.
- 18:00Right, He said. Can you do me a favor and take
- 18:01this bomb for me? I mean, you didn't say that,
- 18:03right? Right.
- 18:04Somebody trusted you to think about really trust the Chicago,
- 18:06yes. And they are put on the other
- 18:08side. Did they open the box to see
- 18:10what it was? It's just samples of promo
- 18:11items. It was actually.
- 18:12Sure, Yeah, sure. See.
- 18:14We're still here and we haven't, you know, gotten arrested.
- 18:16So, you know, I had that on a plane.
- 18:17By the way, this guy that comes over to me is you're you're
- 18:20flying business. You're allowed to suitcase.
- 18:22I see you don't have suitcases. Do me a favor.
- 18:23Can you take these few suitcases for me?
- 18:24I'm like, wow, are you crazy? I'm flying El Al to Israel.
- 18:28I'm not taking suitcases. And he says no, no, no.
- 18:30I'll bring you the head of security of El Al.
- 18:32I said you could bring the president of Israel.
- 18:33I'm not taking this. Sure enough, though, by the way,
- 18:36he bought the head of security. He worked for a newspaper called
- 18:39the Ediot Agronaut and his job was to get the printed version
- 18:43in America, an Israeli paper, the printed version in America
- 18:48every week and ship it to Israel because it was cheaper that way.
- 18:52Find people in business class had a little connection.
- 18:55It was before El Al was, you know, in the the right hand.
- 18:59Yeah, right. And people used to do that all
- 19:01the time. So it's it's interesting.
- 19:02We had that also with an umbrella order.
- 19:04Do you remember there was a facility in New Jersey they
- 19:06ordered clear umbrellas for Nurses Day?
- 19:08Nurses Day is a very big time that people order giveaways.
- 19:11When is nurses day? May something or.
- 19:14Thank God it stretches for weeks now.
- 19:16OK. Good Nurses Month.
- 19:17Thank God for Hallmark, right? It made business.
- 19:19That's right, you know. What does a nursing home
- 19:21typically buy from you? What are those go to things that
- 19:24every nursing home will buy? Like what's that residual thing?
- 19:27So. Definitely the place to start is
- 19:30admission kits. Some type of a bag with a couple
- 19:32of an items that they give as they get new.
- 19:34When the patient gets admitted, they give them a welcome kit.
- 19:37What's in that kit with? About 10 items, deck of cards,
- 19:40slippers, pens, a toothbrush. Toothbrush could be basic stuff,
- 19:44Cops, pill cases, whatever it is that they need that they need,
- 19:47whether it's an assisted living or a different.
- 19:49Type of. So they must do a lot of those.
- 19:50They're ordering those almost weekly or monthly.
- 19:52Stock, a lot of those. We have certain customers that
- 19:54will order a project like that and they say, well, we want to
- 19:57order this in bulk and we'll get better pricing and we'll work on
- 19:59projects like that, but we don't need them all.
- 20:01Send us, you know, a box of 35 at a time.
- 20:04We offer warehousing, we offer shipping.
- 20:06We try to be very user friendly and easy.
- 20:09Don't start working. Just shoot us an e-mail as you
- 20:12need more of your admissions because we have them stocked
- 20:14here. We'll just shoot it out.
- 20:15We keep it on a spreadsheet. We make things super comfortable
- 20:18and super easy and super. Top line service.
- 20:22What about retail you guys do to, you know, direct to
- 20:25consumers or you're selling only to businesses?
- 20:27No, we can do to consumers too. Like do you have a website?
- 20:30Yeah, of course, we have a website.
- 20:32We're talking about the healthcare arm of our business.
- 20:34Yeah. But another huge arm of our
- 20:35business is our website business.
- 20:37What's the percentage? That's my bread and butter of
- 20:39what we do. I don't know what is our
- 20:40percentage of our website business.
- 20:42Percentage between business to business and direct to consumer.
- 20:45Yeah, that I wouldn't know that we'd have to it's.
- 20:46Got to be 95% direct to business.
- 20:48Right. So that's your main footprint is
- 20:50selling to? The consumer who someone's
- 20:53ordering to for bar mitzvah or Bosmetz for Sweet 16 or
- 20:56something like that. Yeah, those.
- 20:57Smaller type of AD orders. Right.
- 20:59I mean there we, we do them there.
- 21:01Yeah, but those are small party business.
- 21:02Small party, What was like the most interesting thing?
- 21:05Interesting type of client that you?
- 21:06But I'm actually going to interrupt you for one second.
- 21:08Tell your acne story. We were dealing with somebody
- 21:11who was extremely annoying. Needed mugs for her husbands
- 21:15retirement party. You notice like dealing with
- 21:17people who want mugs for a retirement party.
- 21:19Put it like this. Put it like that I'll do 72 I'll
- 21:21do 71 I'll do 73 I'll do 75. No, I like it red no, I like it
- 21:25blue. There's a lot of back and forth
- 21:26and those customers we have to deal with, but it's not.
- 21:28Like much time, yes. A lot of time and we have to
- 21:31deal with that. She was difficult to deal with.
- 21:34And then to top it all off, she lives way out in the middle of
- 21:37the country somewhere. UPS can't get to wherever she
- 21:39lives in her barn somewhere. So UPS had to then meet her at
- 21:43the bottom of her hill. There was a lot of coordinating
- 21:45with her silly order of the mugs.
- 21:47Sammy was the Rep back then. We didn't have so many people.
- 21:49He was the Rep back then. Lived through that order.
- 21:52Got the mugs for her husband's retirement party. 2 weeks later
- 21:54she calls and. And I actually took a call and
- 21:58she tells me how wonderful it was, how wonderful it was
- 22:00dealing with me. And you know, by the way, my day
- 22:01job is I am the head purchaser to Acme Foods.
- 22:05Stop it, stop it. What a story this is, by the
- 22:10way, we should have started the podcast with this.
- 22:12This is this is like a this is I'm so happy that this how did
- 22:15you think of the story all the sudden?
- 22:16What did we say that triggered you?
- 22:17Remember this? This is like I think.
- 22:19We're talking about the small customers.
- 22:21Yeah, small customer, not so small anymore, right?
- 22:23Because I was thinking like, at what point did you like just
- 22:26decide we can never do this again or like not call this
- 22:28person back or, and you didn't, you went through with it.
- 22:31And then she's telling you that she's the director of purchasing
- 22:34for Acme Foods. I'm not that excited yet.
- 22:37I want to hear what happened. I.
- 22:39Met a lot of people. After we got through her
- 22:41husband's retirement party, we got through the purchasing
- 22:45through Acme Market. Then we became one of their
- 22:47vendors and one of their approved vendors and their group
- 22:49purchasing vendors. And then we opened the door to
- 22:52lots of other wow that she was able to open the that's.
- 22:55Amazing. Are you still doing business
- 22:56with them? Kept on coming.
- 22:57I don't think so. Like.
- 22:58This is years ago. Yeah, a lot of these.
- 23:01Things. Michael, what do you learn from
- 23:02this? I mean, you never know, right?
- 23:04You have to treat everything. Nothing from them?
- 23:07No, really, because each customer is really the same.
- 23:10They're all people. They're all people that we're
- 23:12that came to us. You said the Bank of Nigeria
- 23:14came from God. You're saying that that this
- 23:16other lady, you know, I have to treat her Well, we really treat
- 23:18all customers until they teach us to do it.
- 23:21Otherwise, we really treat all customers the same.
- 23:24It's a beautiful thing. I love it.
- 23:25You're, you're answering his question.
- 23:26That's what he's saying. He's saying the answer is you
- 23:28treat each person as its own individual.
- 23:31You give them the attention. Yep.
- 23:33You really never know what's going to be that window and that
- 23:35or that opportunity. But at the same token, I don't
- 23:36want to lose sight that sometimes strategically it does
- 23:40make sense that we have to align our resources properly or.
- 23:43Sometimes teach us, yeah, don't spend so much resource on this
- 23:46right or this person is, you know, we've had to fire a
- 23:49client. Right, you know, right.
- 23:50And we do, and we do with. You please find, you know, yeah.
- 23:54It's not a match, it's not working out a.
- 23:55Good communication with all of our staff at the end of each
- 23:58week. We might not necessarily meet
- 23:59with them, but we have them shoot us an e-mail with ups and
- 24:02downs of their week so that we can be involved.
- 24:04And there was one of our sales reps last week sent us an e-mail
- 24:07that there was a particular customer who orders this time
- 24:10every year and she just can't handle this lady.
- 24:13She's very difficult. She's very demanding.
- 24:15At the end of a million ups and downs, she ended up with pens
- 24:17and we told her this is the last order that you're going to take
- 24:20for her, please send her elsewhere at a certain point of.
- 24:23Time she. Cannot work with them and she's
- 24:26you're giving it your all and she's being difficult please
- 24:29take your business elsewhere there's.
- 24:31OK. I respect that you can do what
- 24:32is the next advancement for this business, what's coming, what is
- 24:38the next big thing. There was technologies advancing
- 24:41and where is this going? What direction, What, what
- 24:45should we get excited about? So what happens to us day-to-day
- 24:47is we get very involved in the day-to-day, which is, you know,
- 24:51every day, as Sammy said, is a new adventure.
- 24:53We don't know what's going to happen.
- 24:54And as we train in our people, you think you're going to work
- 24:56on a few things today. Phones ring, emails come in, it
- 24:58gets super busy. We're doing over 100 orders a
- 25:01day. And sometimes it could be small
- 25:03basic orders and sometimes it could be very rush orders.
- 25:05We could have orders for today that they need by Friday.
- 25:08We have a lot of upside down topsy turvy.
- 25:10Definitely what's on our agenda now is getting our social media
- 25:13up there, and we know we're not up there and we know we're not
- 25:15good about it. We know that.
- 25:16What? Are you doing about that?
- 25:17What are you doing They're. Coming on our pods, yeah.
- 25:19We're sitting here. It's not enough, though.
- 25:21Guys, I'm very proud of you that you're getting out of your
- 25:22comfort. No, this wasn't easy.
- 25:24Python. Yeah, this is a good this was.
- 25:25A2 hour sales. TV here for something.
- 25:27For others. Yes, yes, but you, you got to
- 25:30bring somebody who gets it, you know, maybe somebody young and
- 25:33somebody who's in tune with, you know, because social media is
- 25:36the wave of the future. I mean, that's the form of
- 25:38communication, legacy media. Media is pretty much over with.
- 25:41And now the way we communicate with one another is through our
- 25:44own platforms, right? So you got to find someone who's
- 25:47going to make it more cool, is going to make it more hip and
- 25:49you're going to have to put a content, you know, you got to
- 25:51keep the name top of mind for people.
- 25:54And it's not necessarily about a better product, but it's who you
- 25:57are sharing yours. I think the fact that you 2 are
- 25:59married and you've been in business for a long time, maybe
- 26:02you can think about sharing tips with other business owners that
- 26:05are also married and share your experiences.
- 26:08If you're willing to get a little vulnerable, if you're
- 26:11willing to open up, you'll, you'll see real quickly.
- 26:14People will resonate with you. People will realize, oh, they're
- 26:16just like me who I want to hear more about what they have to
- 26:18say. So if you take that step and
- 26:20it's difficult, it's not easy, but you bring somebody in, must
- 26:24then do it by don't forget everything, someone who knows
- 26:25the space and figure it out because that is where the future
- 26:29was going. Right.
- 26:30You know. You guys really wanna tap into
- 26:32that? You don't wanna get
- 26:33blockbusters. Remember Blockbuster?
- 26:35Yeah, right now. Yeah, we remember.
- 26:36That Continental airplanes, we keep saying.
- 26:38Our kids have no idea who blockbusters.
- 26:40I'll never know, right? Because they fail to still.
- 26:42Have the card in your wallet. No, no, I do.
- 26:44You never know when they're gonna show up again.
- 26:46Yeah, yeah. Blockbuster, by the way, was
- 26:48thrilling for many reasons, but it wasn't, like, so acceptable,
- 26:51like, you know, in our community, you know, to go
- 26:54Saturday night, not to Shabbos and get still out the door and
- 26:56get a move. But somehow everybody was still
- 26:58there. Yeah.
- 26:59You saw all your neighbors. Met at video Rama in the corner
- 27:02of 18th Ave. Video Rama, I remember that
- 27:04place Yeah, yeah, yeah, you just.
- 27:06Didn't go to the back when everyone?
- 27:08No, of course not. Of course not.
- 27:11Probably a bank, urgent care bank.
- 27:14That's what's all over bar park these days.
- 27:16That's that's the truth. Take me back guys to when you
- 27:18started. You know, she asked this
- 27:20question yesterday and I love this question and you were
- 27:23saying that there's someone going around to different
- 27:25business entrepreneur. Yes.
- 27:27Tell us when you were not able to make it and you were like
- 27:31struggling and thinking like, what are we doing?
- 27:33Like, you know. The way he phrases it very
- 27:35simply is, Were you ever broke before COVID and what did you do
- 27:39during that time? Right.
- 27:40So we hit COVID, nobody's ordering anything.
- 27:42Nursing homes are really struggling and that's a big arm
- 27:44in my business. Phone stopped, can't pay
- 27:48payroll, can't hit what we need to do.
- 27:50And we said, OK, we need a pivot.
- 27:52We put everybody on whatever that was, unemployment or
- 27:55whatever we needed to do at the time.
- 27:57Also, I was going through some personal stuff.
- 27:59My father ended up in a hospital.
- 28:00We couldn't find him. We lost him.
- 28:01So I was, you know, dealing with.
- 28:03Lost him. Physically lost him.
- 28:05Oh my God. Yeah.
- 28:07He walked out of the hospital. My father fell.
- 28:09He was an older man. He fell at home.
- 28:11He ended up breaking his hip. Unfortunately, I ended up the
- 28:15one talking to us, although he was in New Jersey, I was in New
- 28:17York and I said I think he needs to go to a hospital because a
- 28:21full with a broken hip at home for an elderly man is not your
- 28:23risk. Straight away.
- 28:24In a hospital. So I drove over there, got to
- 28:27the hospital. They won't let me in.
- 28:29My mother happened to have been in with him.
- 28:31They made me and the security guard bring my mother out.
- 28:34He needed hip surgery and they said they're going to give him
- 28:37some hip surgery and in two days we can pick him up and take him
- 28:39home. But he needs to stay here now.
- 28:41We never heard from him again. This is a man who had a
- 28:43smartphone, who was an elderly man, but he was not dying.
- 28:47He certainly didn't have COVID. He ended up getting transferred
- 28:51to a COVID ward. We don't know where he ended up
- 28:53in that hospital. They wouldn't let us in.
- 28:54They wouldn't answer the phone. We had a lot of, you know,
- 28:57contacts that I have in the nursing home arena who have
- 29:01representatives in the hospital tried to figure out where is he,
- 29:04what's. He was transferred somewhere,
- 29:06but there was a trail of. Somewhere, maybe the closets, we
- 29:09don't know the. Chaos of COVID.
- 29:12So he vanished. So he died in the hospital.
- 29:16We got the phone call that his care is going down.
- 29:18I said, has he been getting his medications?
- 29:19Have you been feeding him? Yeah, because he hasn't answered
- 29:22his phone. How many days later is this
- 29:24that? So it was a full week A.
- 29:25Week, a week, but for a week you don't even know where he is.
- 29:28And then they locate him and. And then we actually, if we want
- 29:32to take this to Hash Kaka process story, we can go on that
- 29:35little tangent. It's a great story.
- 29:37We couldn't find him. We had no idea where he was.
- 29:39We had couldn't get people on the phone.
- 29:41All of a sudden somebody who happens to be a distant relative
- 29:44of ours, but was in medical school.
- 29:45I have a niece that went to medical school in Israel who was
- 29:47in medical school with a niece in Israel.
- 29:49He was a radiologist. Somehow he ended up on the floor
- 29:52that my father was and he saw a name on the chart, which
- 29:55happened to be my niece's name because she was the
- 29:58representative that we put on in case they had medical things, in
- 30:01case they would actually call us.
- 30:03They should call my niece. So maybe they had a professional
- 30:05courtesy to a fellow Dr. We put her on.
- 30:07He walks by, notices a file. He didn't belong on the floor.
- 30:10It was a COVID floor at that point.
- 30:12He was a radiologist. Somehow his head turned.
- 30:15He noticed my niece's name written on a paper.
- 30:17And he called my niece and said, why is your name?
- 30:20You live in Baltimore. Why is your name on a chart in
- 30:22New Jersey in a hospital? And she says, what are you doing
- 30:26there? He was a radiologist.
- 30:28He's like, my mother will kill me.
- 30:29I don't know why I ended up on this floor.
- 30:31I'm on a COVID floor. But I saw your name, and I
- 30:34wondered what you're doing there.
- 30:34She says our grandfather is lost in that hospital.
- 30:38We have no idea where he is. We have no idea what he's up to.
- 30:41Can you check on him? He said, yeah.
- 30:43He got himself all garbed up. He found the room.
- 30:45He went in, and he gave us such a sense of relief.
- 30:50He found my father. He found him there.
- 30:53He said Vidoy, because we knew we're losing him.
- 30:55We we don't even know what's going on with him.
- 30:57He he opened his phone. We all talked out loud at that
- 31:00point. My father was sedated or out or
- 31:03we don't know what. We all said goodbye.
- 31:05We didn't know where he was. We said we're here with you.
- 31:08We can't get in, but we're behind you.
- 31:10And he said he's away with our father.
- 31:12My father passed away that night.
- 31:14But some kind of an amazing process.
- 31:16He's like. There was somebody there in his
- 31:18final moment to. That floor, he's like, but I
- 31:21noticed the name on the chart and I was like, God send like
- 31:25Elias Navi or something to walk through that floor and say I saw
- 31:29him. I said he's away with him.
- 31:31I put the phone on so that you can talk to him and say your
- 31:34goodbyes. I mean, it's not that much, you
- 31:37know, my heart that why was he doing there?
- 31:40And we should have gotten him out and we couldn't get him out.
- 31:42But at that time, bringing us back to that, to that story is I
- 31:46was losing my father. You see my personality.
- 31:48I was throwing everything. I'm going to get into that.
- 31:50I'm going to go in, I'm going to put on doctor clothes.
- 31:52I will find somebody who's on that board in that hospital.
- 31:55I will find this nursing home owner who I know who's on the
- 31:58board in that house. I will get in there and I will
- 32:00get my father out. I couldn't.
- 32:02Do that. This is a crazy story.
- 32:04First of all, I'm terribly sorry for you.
- 32:06Yeah, this must have. Been thank you.
- 32:08An excruciating experience. I mean not knowing where someone
- 32:11is is the worst thing in the world.
- 32:13It's just like not not knowing is what is unsettling.
- 32:16You know, it's very difficult. So that's that's crazy.
- 32:19And during Covic, we forget it's been 4 years, but it was
- 32:23madness. It was chaotic.
- 32:24And thinking back a lot of things that we did and how we,
- 32:28you know, rules that were in place that in hindsight made no
- 32:31sense. And unfortunately there are
- 32:33probably more stories like this and and this is heart wrenching.
- 32:36Yeah. And we think he's a carbon of
- 32:38corona. Yeah.
- 32:39Yeah, because of Corona. We lost them.
- 32:40That's crazy. That's that's terrible.
- 32:42But that brings us back to the business took a nosedive and
- 32:46after I got up from Shiva, I said, OK, we're going to have to
- 32:48put this together because this is our whole life here.
- 32:50You know, I call it my fifth child.
- 32:52We have four children and my business is my fifth child, IT.
- 32:55May be one of your oldest children.
- 32:56How old is your oldest child? No, actually.
- 32:58OK, but it's up there, right? It could be 2-3.
- 33:00Yeah, it's pretty old. I mean, but you know what we
- 33:02did? We cut up T-shirts and we turned
- 33:04them into face masks with a print on it.
- 33:06And before they did all the masks, we said we're going to
- 33:08have to sell something that people need to buy.
- 33:10Yep. What are we going to do, go back
- 33:12there arranged with AT shirt company to cut up.
- 33:15This is before the printed face face masks and that turns into a
- 33:17business on its own, he said. Can you cut us T-shirts today?
- 33:21And we started selling the. Very nice rectangles with.
- 33:24Little right out of a T-shirt. And that's before it took a new.
- 33:28Business, by the way. What a move.
- 33:30And it went on fire. And then we did the Healthcare
- 33:32Hero T-shirts and that went on fire.
- 33:34And everyone was ordering it for their facilities and they were
- 33:37giving gifts and they were, I said, I hope we're going to be
- 33:39able to get paid for all this business because, you know,
- 33:41there's no money going around. But we did it and we stood tall
- 33:45and we hired our staff right back because we were dealing
- 33:47with all these mask orders and these T-shirt orders and look at
- 33:52you developed. Ourselves, you're in the
- 33:53creative type of business and even in the business model, you
- 33:57got creative as well. And you pivoted into something
- 34:00and, you know, you kept yourselves afloat and you did a
- 34:03service for the people that you hired back because, you know,
- 34:06they also need jobs. Yeah.
- 34:07So that's that's really amazing. Yeah, at the time when we put
- 34:10them on their unemployment, I have people that work for us.
- 34:13They have families. They're depending on.
- 34:15You. Yeah, I have people that, you
- 34:16know, unfortunately are divorced and there is no other income
- 34:18there that, you know, we're going to do our best.
- 34:21But we also told them we're putting them on unemployment,
- 34:23but we need them to work. We need them every single day
- 34:26because the only way we're going to get ourselves to keep going
- 34:29with this is by putting in the hard work.
- 34:31We were just sitting with our feet up in a hotel somewhere in
- 34:33Florida like something. You guys sounds like you're in
- 34:35the trenches. You guys are right there with
- 34:37who's your, how long is your longest tenured employee by you
- 34:41working by you. The full 20 years. 20 to
- 34:43somebody that's with you from the beginning, you, a few people
- 34:46you. Remember Jackie from the out of?
- 34:48The days, of course, she's still working with you.
- 34:51You bet. What?
- 34:52A Wow, that says a lot about you guys.
- 34:54Remember Michael MO back then? I'm still getting over the fact
- 34:57that Jackie's. Still with you?
- 34:59That's great. She's part of our family when we
- 35:01hire people. We tell them hi, Jackie.
- 35:04For a life sentence, you're never leaving.
- 35:07We hold on to good health. That's phenomenal.
- 35:10Part of our life and part of our family.
- 35:12And change your name, by the way, to rush King and Queen.
- 35:14I mean, you guys are. Michael, it's right there on the
- 35:16shirt. I I didn't see.
- 35:18It There it is. See it?
- 35:19Yeah. You're the rush queen amazing
- 35:21wow it's I did not expect this type of story like we see you
- 35:25everywhere we go. You guys are amazing partnered
- 35:28vendors with Prime Source and just knowing that you're in the
- 35:31room here with us telling the story, it just, it makes it all
- 35:35worth it seeing you running around your shirts.
- 35:37I feel like I want to bring them business like tomorrow.
- 35:40I don't know. I just like I feel like I I
- 35:42should give them a little parting gift before they leave.
- 35:45They're such nice people. You're very pleasant people.
- 35:47I have to say. Yes, good conversationalists.
- 35:50OK. And you have really a lot of
- 35:52stories to share. And you know, in any which way,
- 35:55as long as you just open your eyes, there's really a story of
- 35:58hash Kaka practice like like you pointed out.
- 36:00And I was like to say this line is that coincidences is God's
- 36:05way of reminding you that he exists.
- 36:06That's all it's that's all what it is, right?
- 36:08And you have a lot of these stories to share in you in a, in
- 36:11a promotional item business, like, you know, who would have
- 36:14thought like God's hands would would be visible and he's
- 36:17delivering to you, you know, just regular people is moving
- 36:20chess boards and everybody's purse is being moved.
- 36:22And you guys have that. I'm so happy you shared that
- 36:25with us. This was phenomenal.
- 36:26We appreciate it guys. This has been another amazing
- 36:28episode of our Trade Secret series brought to you by the
- 36:32Prime Source Production team. Before we let you go, guys, we
- 36:35always like to ask one or two staple questions.
- 36:37And I'm just thinking one that I'm thinking of.
- 36:39You guys have been through so much.
- 36:40There's so many young people trying to get into industries,
- 36:42whether it's, you know, sales, promotions from a woman's
- 36:45perspective, from a couples perspective, from just an
- 36:48entrepreneurship perspective. What would you tell those young
- 36:51people? What would you tell your younger
- 36:52self? What is that?
- 36:53You know, that secret sauce that kept you going and that kept you
- 36:56so strong throughout all these years?
- 36:58I was actually talking to another much younger lady just
- 37:01at the breakfast yesterday and I was telling her, hold on to your
- 37:04vision, don't feel them. Sometimes mothers have guilt.
- 37:07I shouldn't be working so hard. I shouldn't be going to
- 37:09conferences. I should be home with my kids.
- 37:11I feel bad I'm not there when they come home with their
- 37:13homework. Don't hold the guilt so strong.
- 37:16You're doing your best and everyone's really doing their
- 37:18best. But hold on to your vision cuz
- 37:21this person had a vision and she was a hard worker and she had
- 37:24it. Hold on to your vision.
- 37:26I love that. What about you, Sam?
- 37:27I do love that. Any parting words?
- 37:28Yeah, find something that you like, something that you enjoy,
- 37:31but put your entire self into it.
- 37:33Just really just do it. Do it with your all.
- 37:36Carol's favorite thing is when you do it, do it all the way.
- 37:39Do it all the way, but really put yourself into it.
- 37:41Become an expert, become a go to, become something that you
- 37:45can be proud of. I love that guys.
- 37:47Thank you. Thank you.
- 37:48Thank you. This was wonderful.
- 37:49You guys are amazed. It was really beautiful.
- 37:51I. Appreciate.