Latest / Wedding Pros who are ready to grow - with Becca Pountney / Create an overwhelm squashing marketing plan - with Heidi Thompson
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- 0:00Heidi: Why did they decide to work with you?
- 0:02What did they see in you that they didn't see in other people in the space?
- 0:07Because they had their options available to them.
- 0:10They chose to work with you.
- 0:12So digging more into that actually makes this whole thing a lot easier
- 0:17because they will tell you how to find.
- 0:21More people just like them.
- 0:25Becca: I'm Becca Pountney, wedding business marketing
- 0:27expert, speaker, and blogger.
- 0:28And you are listening to the wedding pros who are ready to grow podcast.
- 0:32I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and real life
- 0:36examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level.
- 0:39If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion
- 0:43and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business, doing what you
- 0:46love, then you're in the right place.
- 0:48Let's get going with today's.
- 0:52Today, I'm joined from the other side of the world by Heidi Thompson,
- 0:55a self-proclaimed marketing nerd podcaster, and the founder of the book.
- 0:59More wedding summit.
- 1:00Heidi is on a mission to help you build a business that gives you the
- 1:03freedom to do what you love, both inside and outside of your business.
- 1:07And I'm thrilled to have her on the podcast today.
- 1:09Heidi.
- 1:10Welcome.
- 1:11It's great to have you here.
- 1:12Why don't you just start by telling people who are listening
- 1:14a little bit more about yourself.
- 1:17Heidi: Thank you so much for having me.
- 1:19I'm so excited to be here.
- 1:21So as Becca said, I'm Heidi.
- 1:24Um, let's see.
- 1:24I'm originally from Detroit, Michigan.
- 1:27Then I lived in Cambridge, not super crazy far from you for about six years.
- 1:32And now I'm based in San Diego where I am absolutely loving it.
- 1:38I can't lie.
- 1:39Like we moved here for the weather.
- 1:41We stay here for the weather and.
- 1:43It's pretty
- 1:44Becca: amazing.
- 1:45Awesome.
- 1:45Well, you definitely didn't come to Cambridge in the UK for the weather.
- 1:49So what brought you to the UK?
- 1:50Like why were you here?
- 1:52Heidi: My husband is from Cambridgeshire.
- 1:55Becca: Oh, awesome.
- 1:56So you are married to a Brit?
- 1:59Heidi: I am.
- 2:00And we moved to his anybody little village, smallest place I've ever lived.
- 2:05And, uh, it was, I liked it.
- 2:07I liked living there, but it got to a point that we were both like.
- 2:11I wanna live in a city and I want it to not be cloudy.
- 2:13Becca: So yeah, I get that.
- 2:15We're ready to go.
- 2:16I would much prefer to live in the sunshine.
- 2:19Well, next time you're in Cambridge.
- 2:20Let me know and we'll have to go for a drink.
- 2:22So why marketing then you talked at the beginning or when I introduced
- 2:26you about being a marketing nerd.
- 2:28So what got you into marketing?
- 2:30Why marketing in the first place?
- 2:32What's your background?
- 2:34Heidi: Yeah, I fell into marketing.
- 2:36I didn't study marketing in college.
- 2:38I studied political science in college.
- 2:40I was gonna work like on the hill in DC.
- 2:43That was the plan or go to law school, but I absolutely fell out of
- 2:49love with that plan and, um, I was working with, uh, some nonprofit.
- 2:56In my college town and working on their fundraising events and
- 3:01unbeknownst to me, the way that you have to get people to come to these
- 3:07events and care and donate money.
- 3:11That's marketing.
- 3:13So I got a really interesting crash course in marketing that way, and
- 3:20then found my way into the wedding industry, working as an assistant
- 3:25wedding planner, doing planning myself, and then deciding I love this industry.
- 3:33Don't love having to deal with the people all the time.
- 3:37if I like do this without the people ideal world.
- 3:39Right.
- 3:40But, um, yeah.
- 3:42And then like when I moved to the UK, I noticed because I, I had
- 3:46always kind of still kept, uh, an eye on the wedding industry.
- 3:50This was.
- 3:52Let's see, I moved in 2009 and this was around 20 11, 20 12.
- 3:58Like the height of like the rock and roll bride offbeat bride shift in the industry.
- 4:05But no one in the UK market was.
- 4:09Doing anything about it?
- 4:10So everything was still like big white, fluffy ethereal.
- 4:15So I put together a wedding fair to bring together, you know, these awesome, you
- 4:21know, wedding professionals that are like still some of the most creative
- 4:25people I've ever dealt with in my life and the people who wanted to book them.
- 4:31And I totally took for granted.
- 4:32That I had just been in this marketing world.
- 4:36Like I had been, I worked at Cambridge university in marketing.
- 4:39I worked for a fecal transplant clinic as their marketing manager.
- 4:44Like I'd just been immersed in this and I enjoy marketing cause it's so.
- 4:48Tied to psychology, but I found myself having to spend a lot of time
- 4:54coaching these vendors to make sure they got a good return on investment.
- 4:59And that's when it made me realize, yeah, I not everybody's super into this.
- 5:04And you could help people in the wedding industry.
- 5:08Make a lot more money build, you know, more successful businesses
- 5:12if they knew how to do this better.
- 5:15Becca: So interesting.
- 5:16So a kind of a roundabout way where you find yourself in the
- 5:19wedding industry, but here you are.
- 5:21I'd love to know, actually, before we move on to a few
- 5:23more tips and pieces of advice.
- 5:26You talked about coming to the UK and seeing a gap in the market.
- 5:29Obviously now you're back in the us.
- 5:30I believe that the UK wedding market is quite far behind the us wedding
- 5:34market in terms of what we do and the ideas that we put out there.
- 5:37So what are you seeing that's big out in the us right now that you might, that
- 5:42we might see coming over to the UK soon.
- 5:45That's a really
- 5:46Heidi: good question.
- 5:47I'm still seeing a.
- 5:49Very strong commitment to small, but not necessarily cheap.
- 5:55So it could be, you know, we have the same budget, but we have 25 guests.
- 5:59So we go all.
- 6:01You know, we have a five course meal for everybody.
- 6:04It's like super Luxe, but it's small.
- 6:07I think COVID gave people a really good excuse to lean into not
- 6:14inviting everyone they've ever met.
- 6:16To their wedding.
- 6:17And I still see people like still going hard into that.
- 6:23Becca: Yeah, that's so true.
- 6:24We definitely saw smaller weddings off of the back of COVID, but I feel
- 6:27like we are kind of, everyone's just flipped back to the big wedding again.
- 6:29So there's definitely a market there to go for the super Luxe, small wedding.
- 6:33You heard it here first.
- 6:35Let's get ahead of the rest of the UK and catch up with the American market.
- 6:38Everyone.
- 6:39Okay.
- 6:39So one of the things you love talking about Heidi is all about marketing
- 6:43and how to create marketing plans in a way that doesn't create overwhelm.
- 6:47because we know that all wedding pros are super busy and super overwhelmed.
- 6:51So let's first of all, talk about the mistakes you see
- 6:55people making in their marketing.
- 6:58What mistakes are you seeing commonly with wedding business owners?
- 7:01What have you seen previously?
- 7:02And is there a pattern.
- 7:04Heidi: Ooh, this is such a juicy question.
- 7:08so, um, I think the biggest mistake I see people make is diving head first
- 7:13into doing stuff before ever really thinking about it, having a strategy,
- 7:21having a plan, knowing who you're talking to, knowing what they care about.
- 7:26That's definitely the biggest mistake.
- 7:29I see people make, and that's probably not even exclusive to the wedding industry
- 7:34because we all, you know, wanna dive in and get moving and bring in clients.
- 7:38So it makes sense that that's what people would do.
- 7:42Um, another thing I see people do is copying what other people are doing,
- 7:48but not realizing that marketing that works well is kind of like an iceberg
- 7:54and what you can see above the water.
- 7:57Is like such a small component to what's actually going on so you can copy what
- 8:04somebody's doing and not get the same results because you don't have that
- 8:08like 80% of the iceberg that's under the
- 8:12Becca: water.
- 8:12That is so.
- 8:14True.
- 8:14And you are right.
- 8:15People do do it by accident.
- 8:16They don't mean to do it.
- 8:17They're not trying to do it maliciously, but they see something they like,
- 8:20and then they just do another version of it or a poorer version of it.
- 8:23And actually it's so much better when they just find their own
- 8:27unique voice and do it themselves.
- 8:29So you talk about the needing more of a marketing plan.
- 8:32We know, I see it all the time.
- 8:33I'm sure you do that.
- 8:34Often.
- 8:35People kind of just have this hit and miss approach where.
- 8:38Try a little bit of everything, nothing works.
- 8:40Then they give up.
- 8:41Then they say they hate marketing, then they try something else.
- 8:43Uh, so you talk a little bit more about having a plan.
- 8:46So what is a marketing plan?
- 8:48What does your idea of marketing plan look like?
- 8:51And why do you think that wedding professionals need one?
- 8:54Heidi: So the way I teach creating a marketing plan, it's five parts.
- 8:58First, you have your goal.
- 8:59What are you even trying to accomplish here in being specific about it?
- 9:03Because we can say, I wanna book more weddings, but.
- 9:06We all know that there's like a specific number that you really want to go for.
- 9:11So we have to have something measurable.
- 9:14The second part is your research, and this is that bottom of the iceberg.
- 9:20This is.
- 9:22getting to know your ideal client, deciding who you wanna be, the
- 9:25go-to person for actually talking to them and finding out, like, why
- 9:30did they decide to work with you?
- 9:32What did they see in you that they didn't see in other people in the space because
- 9:37they had their options available to them.
- 9:40They chose to work with you.
- 9:42So digging more into that actually.
- 9:46Makes this whole thing a lot easier because they will tell you how to
- 9:50find more people just like them.
- 9:53Then we have part three, which is your messaging.
- 9:56So based on what you just found out, what do you need to be talking about?
- 10:01In your marketing, what actually matters to them?
- 10:04What are they concerned about?
- 10:05What do you need to address then?
- 10:08It's not even until part four, the how that we get to.
- 10:11Okay.
- 10:12Where am I marketing?
- 10:13What am I doing in each of these places?
- 10:15Because unless that's fed by who am I talking to?
- 10:20What do they care about?
- 10:21What's really important to them.
- 10:23How can I stand out as the go-to person for them?
- 10:26It doesn't matter how good you are at any of the marketing tactics.
- 10:30It doesn't work, because it all comes down to the psychology that it's rooted in.
- 10:36And then part five is your data.
- 10:39You know, we look at measuring, so we always wanna be making marketing easier.
- 10:45It should get perpetually easier.
- 10:47The longer you're in business.
- 10:49And if it's not it's because you're not letting your data make decisions for you.
- 10:54So your data should be telling you what to do more of what to do, less of
- 10:58what to change, what to quit entirely.
- 11:02So it really is a framework that makes all of these marketing decisions so
- 11:08much simpler because you're not just, you know, choosing things at random.
- 11:15Becca: I'm sure you see this as well, where people skip most of those steps
- 11:20because they just either don't have time or they don't have the inclination and
- 11:23they just wanna get to the good part.
- 11:24And so instead of planning ahead, they take a phone call.
- 11:27Someone says, do you wanna advertise in my magazine?
- 11:29They get excited.
- 11:30They say yes.
- 11:31And then it doesn't work.
- 11:33How do you encourage, how do you motivate people to do those initial steps?
- 11:38And what difference will it make for them?
- 11:41Heidi: So the way I teach it is very step by step in my membership.
- 11:45So it's like, you don't have an excuse of not knowing what to do next.
- 11:49This is all super step by step.
- 11:50So that's a big component of it.
- 11:53But another is that I tell people this is work you're gonna
- 11:56have to do from scratch once.
- 11:59One time, unless you completely change your business, unless you completely
- 12:04change your ideal client, your market, but you're never gonna have
- 12:08to start from this zero point again.
- 12:11And usually for people in the membership, they get it done within
- 12:1630 days, along with all the other work that they have going on.
- 12:20So it's not the biggest thing in the world.
- 12:25Yes.
- 12:25It takes some time.
- 12:26Yes, it takes some work, but it.
- 12:28Everything after it so much easier and it ensures.
- 12:33It actually works, which is what we want our marketing
- 12:36Becca: to do.
- 12:37So do the work people because it will pay off and it's better to do the
- 12:41work and then make the right decisions rather than making random decisions
- 12:45and then realizing it doesn't work.
- 12:46And then still having to do the work at the end.
- 12:49Now, the other thing exactly that I see people doing.
- 12:51All of the time, is there like, right, I'm gonna post on Instagram, I'm gonna
- 12:54post on Facebook and then something new gets released or someone else is
- 12:58using a different platform and they get that kind of shiny object syndrome.
- 13:02They get really excited about something else.
- 13:04How do we avoid doing that?
- 13:06How do we stay focused on what we're doing?
- 13:09Heidi: so the process that I go through in how is you commit to no
- 13:16more than three marketing channels and you commit to that for the next 90
- 13:20days, it's long enough to see results.
- 13:22It's short enough to allow you to make changes so you can
- 13:27have three marketing channels.
- 13:29And I'll talk more about that in a sec.
- 13:31And you can have one experiment.
- 13:32You're only allowed one experiment per 90 day period, and it has to be an.
- 13:37Experiment like in biology class in eighth grade, you have to have a hypothesis.
- 13:42You have to test it.
- 13:43You have to look at the results or.
- 13:46It wasn't worth it.
- 13:47So when I say marketing channels, I mean any way in which you are putting
- 13:53effort into getting more clients, so your marketing channels could be
- 13:59referrals, it could be networking.
- 14:01It could be SEO.
- 14:02It could be Instagram, it could be wedding fairs.
- 14:05It could be.
- 14:05Pinterest.
- 14:07There's lots of different ways you can do it, but by committing to
- 14:11just three tops, you don't have to have three but three tops.
- 14:16It allows you to then go further into, okay, what am I doing in each of these?
- 14:22What does that mean?
- 14:23I need to be doing three weeks from now.
- 14:26What does that mean?
- 14:26I need to be doing a month from now in order to make sure I have all of this.
- 14:32And I'm for lack of a better word, like whole assing it, instead of
- 14:35half-assing it and not getting, you know, any of the results because.
- 14:41You know, you're not going full out with your plan.
- 14:44So we really break the plan down into the nitty gritty.
- 14:47What are you doing in each of these, but you're limited to no
- 14:50more than three in a 90 day period.
- 14:53So when things come up, you decide.
- 14:56Where you're gonna have your parking lot.
- 14:58Is it gonna be a Google doc?
- 15:00Is it gonna be a note on your phone?
- 15:02Just things you wanna try later.
- 15:04And then when you come into your 90 day planning, which we have sessions
- 15:08for my membership, we look at, okay, what do I wanna do in the next 90 days?
- 15:14Do I wanna pick up one of these things from the parking lot?
- 15:16Do I wanna let go of one of these things that I've been doing so
- 15:19that you are making that decision from a place of intention and not.
- 15:27Randomly doing things.
- 15:29Becca: Yes.
- 15:29There is so much randomness in the wedding industry.
- 15:32Heidi, you are so right.
- 15:33People are very random and it's good to get some order going on.
- 15:37So I'm really pleased to hear that's what you are doing.
- 15:39Now.
- 15:39You talked as well about one of your steps being.
- 15:42Data, I'm sure we could probably do a whole half an hour training
- 15:45session just on the data alone, but just top line, if people are looking
- 15:48at what's working for them, what kind of data are you looking at?
- 15:51Are you looking at social media, statistics, enquiries,
- 15:55sales, or all of the above?
- 15:57Heidi: So all of the above, really what we're trying to look for is which of these
- 16:01things that you're doing are working.
- 16:04and which of them aren't.
- 16:06So when we look at things that are working, where are you getting
- 16:10most of your inquiries from?
- 16:12Where are you getting the best quality inquiries from?
- 16:15Becayse that can be different from, you know, the amount.
- 16:19Maybe you're getting a ton from Instagram, but your best quality comes from.
- 16:24Referrals or something like that.
- 16:25So that tells you, okay.
- 16:27If I want more quality, then I can shift my focus to taking specific
- 16:33actions toward getting more referrals.
- 16:36So it orients you as opposed to just feeling like you have to do all the
- 16:41things all the time, because I feel like what we all tend to do naturally.
- 16:46You know, tend to the things that aren't doing as well.
- 16:50You know, the plants that are dying, like we're trying to give them as
- 16:53much love and care as we can, but in marketing, I mean, a lot of
- 16:58times you just gotta cut them loose.
- 16:59You just have to put more of your attention into things
- 17:05that are already working.
- 17:06Because if it's already working for you, it's probably going to be pretty easy to.
- 17:1310%, 20% more out of something that's already working by
- 17:19being more intentional about
- 17:21Becca: it.
- 17:21Yeah.
- 17:22So being focused and looking at that data and you're right.
- 17:25Sometimes it's knowing when to let stuff go and that's hard, is it because our
- 17:28businesses become our babies and we feel like, no, we don't wanna let go of this.
- 17:32We put so much time into it, but sometimes you're better off to let it go.
- 17:36Now, Heidi, one of the other reasons that I got you on the podcast this
- 17:40week specifically is because you have something really exciting.
- 17:43Coming up next week.
- 17:44So if you're listening to this in real time, next week, um, Heidi has her summit
- 17:49coming up, which I'm actually gonna be speaking at as part of that summit this
- 17:53year, which I'm really excited about.
- 17:54So do you wanna just tell us a little bit more about the summit,
- 17:58where it came from, why you do it and what's gonna be happening.
- 18:02Yeah.
- 18:03Heidi: So the Book more wedding summit started unintentionally
- 18:07at the beginning of the pandemic.
- 18:08I had intended to do it.
- 18:10I didn't intend to do it at the beginning of a pandemic,
- 18:13but that's kinda what happened.
- 18:15So it's a completely online conference.
- 18:19We have more than 20 amazing people like Becca speaking on different topics, all of
- 18:26which are related to how you can attract and book more of your ideal client.
- 18:32So that is the entire focus of the event.
- 18:36It is jam packed with so many awesome people talking on
- 18:39so many incredible topics.
- 18:41We've got some fun live sessions lined up and.
- 18:45It's really just a, like, I, I was expecting it to be fun, but
- 18:49it's so much more fun than I was expecting the first time around.
- 18:53And it's why I continue to do it.
- 18:54You know, it, it's just really, really exciting to come together
- 19:00with people in the wedding industry, from literally all over the world,
- 19:05like six continents represented in this event and just people sharing,
- 19:11you know what they're trying, what they're doing, what's working for them.
- 19:15And learning and taking action.
- 19:18That's my favorite part is seeing people actually like, hang on, I'm
- 19:21gonna go do this thing I just learned.
- 19:23And then two days later being like, oh my God, it's working.
- 19:26This is amazing.
- 19:28Becca: yes.
- 19:28I love that.
- 19:29And I love that the pandemic did that.
- 19:31Didn't it, it kind of shrunk the world.
- 19:32I've definitely worked with more people from around
- 19:35different corners of the globe.
- 19:36Post pandemic than I did pre pandemic because the world, all of a sudden
- 19:40feels so much smaller online, and I've seen the lineup of speakers.
- 19:43You've got an incredible lineup.
- 19:45So I'm gonna be there speaking all about how to book more at a wedding
- 19:49expo, or if you're in the wedding, uh, industry in the UK, a wedding
- 19:52fair as we like to call them.
- 19:54Uh, I know you've got the fabulous Kelly.
- 19:55Mortimer, who's a great friend of mine.
- 19:57She's gonna be speaking as well.
- 19:59Who else have you got in the lineup?
- 20:00This.
- 20:02. Ooh.
- 20:02Heidi: Okay.
- 20:02Let's see.
- 20:03Here.
- 20:04We have, uh, Amber Anderson talking about the power of
- 20:07working with a wedding planner.
- 20:10So if you're not a planner, this is like how to work better with a wedding planner.
- 20:17Uh, one I'm really excited about is Anya from Maru is talking about how gen
- 20:23Z is shaping the future wedding world.
- 20:25I feel like our industry.
- 20:28Loves talking about millennials, but, uh, I'm, I'm 35 and I'm a millennial.
- 20:34And like I'm not our target demo anymore.
- 20:37So we need to be talking about gen Z, which I'm really excited about.
- 20:42Uh, we have.
- 20:45Laura Cannon from Australia, talking about how to use Instagram
- 20:49stories to make more sales.
- 20:52We have Julie Rothnovak from party slate talking about SEO.
- 20:57Like we are covering.
- 20:59So many different corners of marketing and sales in this
- 21:03Becca: event.
- 21:04So exciting, so many great speakers, so many great topics
- 21:07from all corners of the world.
- 21:09So if people are listening and they wanna get involved, they can
- 21:12get involved upfront for free.
- 21:13Is that right?
- 21:14How's it all gonna work?
- 21:15. Heidi: Yeah, absolutely.
- 21:16So you can register for free.
- 21:18It's a totally free event.
- 21:20Uh, the way it works is with a free ticket.
- 21:22Every day, presentations are released.
- 21:25You have 24 hours to watch them until the next day when the next
- 21:29batch of presentations gets released.
- 21:31And then you also have the option to purchase one of
- 21:34our upgrades, which either.
- 21:36The recordings, the workbooks, the transcripts, or all of that, plus
- 21:42a ton of incredible bonuses from our speakers, as well as live V I
- 21:49P networking sessions, co-working session and, uh, Q and A with myself.
- 21:54So you get the choice between those if you do want to choose an upgrade and they are.
- 22:02Super super low priced.
- 22:04Becca: They are incredibly low price.
- 22:05I've put together.
- 22:06Um, my bundles, my speaker package for the bundle and, uh, that's
- 22:11worth 249 pounds on its own.
- 22:13So you need to go and check that out.
- 22:15Now I'm gonna put all the links for the summit in the show notes,
- 22:18but basically you can get the sessions for free for 24 hours.
- 22:22But if you want the replays and all those bundles and things like that, there's
- 22:24a low cost price on there as well.
- 22:26I'm glad you're giving people 24 hours rather than just expecting people to
- 22:30watch live because here in the UK, our time difference means that a lot of the
- 22:34things are happening in the nighttime.
- 22:35So book those days out, if you wanna be part of the summit, Just have a
- 22:39look at the dates that's coming out.
- 22:40The 22nd of August is when it starts book those days out in the diary
- 22:44so that you can catch up on those replays and catch the sessions
- 22:46that you want to catch as well.
- 22:48And will everyone get a timetable of what's happening when.
- 22:52Yeah,
- 22:52Heidi: you can go to bookmoreweddingssummit.com/schedule.
- 22:56We've got everything broken down there for you.
- 22:59And every day, you'll see which presentations are being released,
- 23:03which live sessions we've got going on.
- 23:06And of course, when you register, you'll get an email each day
- 23:08letting you know what's happening.
- 23:10So you
- 23:10Becca: don't miss anything.
- 23:11It's going to be so good.
- 23:12So if you guys wanna learn, if you wanna hear from those incredible
- 23:16speakers from all around the world, then check out the link in my show
- 23:19notes and you can get into that summit.
- 23:21And of course go and watch my session and let me know what you think as well.
- 23:25Now we've talked a little bit about overwhelm Heidi, and I think sometimes
- 23:28when it comes to something like a summit and there's so many great training
- 23:31sessions, people can feel overwhelmed.
- 23:34By it.
- 23:34So do you have any kind of pro tips about how people should approach the summit?
- 23:38How they should come to it?
- 23:40Because I think sometimes off the back of a summit is when you get that shiny
- 23:43object syndrome, because they hear so many great talks and they get so
- 23:46inspired by the things they've heard that they go and try everything at once.
- 23:50So how do you think people should approach the summit?
- 23:54Heidi: I encourage people to think about what they need currently,
- 23:58like what's going on for you.
- 24:00Do you need a way to better reach your ideal clients or do you need better
- 24:05ways to sell to your ideal clients?
- 24:08Are you already thinking about, you know, starting a YouTube channel,
- 24:12I would lean into the things that you already know that you need and
- 24:17really focus on that and allow.
- 24:20These sessions to be a way of addressing that.
- 24:24And then, you know, what a lot of people tell me if they pick up the upgrades
- 24:28is that they treat them like a library.
- 24:31And when they get to a point where it's like, okay, I'm finally gonna
- 24:35get around to working on my SEO.
- 24:39I can go back to that training.
- 24:40I can go back to this bonus and dig into that because you have lifetime
- 24:44access available, but if you're just gonna stick with the free ticket, I
- 24:48would say, prioritize, what are you going to be able to take action on?
- 24:54What are you?
- 24:55It's.
- 24:55There's this philosophy called just in time learning.
- 24:58So what do you need to learn right now based on what's going on in your
- 25:02world, what's going on in your business that you can implement, not something
- 25:05you think you wanna do, like three years down the road, but like what
- 25:10you can actually take action on today.
- 25:13I would say focus on those things.
- 25:16Becca: Yeah, really helpful advice.
- 25:17And I also would encourage everyone to leave space for a random pick.
- 25:22And the reason I'm gonna say that is because I've been to so many
- 25:24conferences where I look through the schedule and I see sessions and
- 25:28I think that's gonna be terrible.
- 25:29I'm not interested in that.
- 25:31That's not one I'm gonna be interested in and every single time it's the best one.
- 25:35I'm like, yeah, this was so good.
- 25:36I'm so glad I came to that.
- 25:37Do you have that experience?
- 25:38I always find.
- 25:40Heidi: That I'm really glad you brought that up.
- 25:43Because I really have had that experience too, where it's like, I don't need this.
- 25:48And then you're like, oh, I didn't realize how much I needed this this is
- 25:51Becca: really huge.
- 25:52It's so true.
- 25:53And the best thing for you as the host of the summit, I guess is you get to
- 25:57watch most, if not all of the sessions, like when I host my own training, always
- 26:01think that's the best bit about it.
- 26:02I get all the training myself because I'm there for all of it.
- 26:05So you are gonna have a great week next week as well.
- 26:08Aren't you Heidi?
- 26:10Heidi: Oh, absolutely.
- 26:11I've been, you know, we've been working on transcripts and going through things
- 26:14and it's like, Ooh, this stuff's juicy.
- 26:16I need to
- 26:17Becca: come back to this.
- 26:18Well, it's gonna be an awesome week.
- 26:20So do go to the show notes, find that link, sign up, get that free training
- 26:24and take a look at the bundle of.
- 26:26stuff as well, because there is some incredible things in there now,
- 26:29Heidi, before I let you go, because I know you're super busy with all
- 26:32the promo for your summit this week.
- 26:34We always end the podcast with the same question, whoever the guest is,
- 26:37which is, is there something you wish you'd known sooner in your business?
- 26:42I feel
- 26:43Heidi: like it's something I have to continue to learn for
- 26:45myself and it's to let things be.
- 26:50It's really easy to just the way we're trained, the way we work to
- 26:57look for like the hardest way possible to do things for whatever reason.
- 27:02And.
- 27:03I swear like nine times out of 10, there's a much, much easier way of doing things.
- 27:10So I lean into the lazy, I look for ways of making things easier,
- 27:17but like definitely when I first.
- 27:19Started my business.
- 27:20It was like, this doesn't feel right.
- 27:21This doesn't feel like I'm working hard enough.
- 27:23This doesn't feel like I'm like, I don't know suffering enough or whatever
- 27:28we're supposed to do in our own minds.
- 27:31And just learning to let things be easy, just allows for so much more simplicity
- 27:39because we don't need to design our businesses to be these difficult things
- 27:44that we have to fight with every.
- 27:46Becca: Yes.
- 27:47I'm so glad you said that because I often think of myself as a bit of a
- 27:51lazy entrepreneur, because I'm always trying to find the simplest easiest,
- 27:55lowest hard work way of doing everything.
- 27:58And that is okay.
- 27:59So thanks Heidi for reminding me that it's oh, okay.
- 28:02Heidi.
- 28:03I can't wait to see what you've got coming up for the summit next week.
- 28:06I know there's gonna be some incredible sessions.
- 28:08I'm definitely gonna be tuning into some myself.
- 28:10If people wanna find out more about you, about your membership, about the summit.
- 28:13All things, Heidi and your podcast, where should people go to find you?
- 28:18Best place to
- 28:19Heidi: go is my website, evolve your wedding, business.com and I'm Evolve
- 28:24your Wedding business on Instagram.
- 28:26And my DMS are always open to talk about this stuff,
- 28:29because I'm a huge nerd for it.
- 28:30So don't be shy.
- 28:32Shoot me a DM.
- 28:33Becca: Fabulous.
- 28:33I'll make sure all of the links to all of Heidi's things are in the show notes.
- 28:37So you can find her podcast, find the summit and find her Instagram
- 28:40and drop her a DM as well.
- 28:42Heidi, I hope you're coming back to the UK soon.
- 28:44I would love to hang out if you are, if you've got any.
- 28:48Heidi: I might be back in
- 28:49Becca: April.
- 28:50Ooh, exciting.
- 28:51Well, yeah, keep me, keep me posted because I'm only 30 minutes from Cambridge
- 28:55and I'd love to hang out and talk all things, wedding and marketing with you.
- 29:00Absolutely will take care and I'll see you soon.
- 29:04I love chatting to Heidi.
- 29:05It's an incredible how the internet and COVID really has brought people
- 29:09together from all across the world.
- 29:10Heidi's done such an amazing job curating next week's summit.
- 29:13She's got some incredible speakers.
- 29:15So do go to the show notes and check out the links in there.
- 29:18And I'll be back to talk more things weddings with you all next week.