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BONUS: It's a surprise COUPLES THERAPY! · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Broadcasting live across the world right now.
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  Speaker 2: This is the John Jay and Rich radio program.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome in to another edition of Couple's Therapy, a delayed
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  Speaker 1: version of Couple's Therapy, because if I want to give
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  Speaker 1: a peak behind the scenes, we have recorded one before.
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  Speaker 1: This is Nick, my wife Caitlin is here and I
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  Speaker 1: ended up nixing it, not Nick sing nixing because I
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  Speaker 1: just didn't We usually use these like almost lava leer
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  Speaker 1: mics at home and just do it after an evening
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  Speaker 1: after the kids go to bed, but I didn't like
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  Speaker 1: the way it sounded, and so it's just like I
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  Speaker 1: and I feel like I wasted I wasted our time
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  Speaker 1: when we did it. But it's okay because here we
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  Speaker 1: sit on Monday, almost afternoon, and you're here and you're
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  Speaker 1: hanging out a.
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  Speaker 3: Little bit of an audio snob you are, so let's.
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  Speaker 2: Do it the right way and you look beautiful today.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: First things, first, I do want to thank you. I
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  Speaker 1: had such a lovely Father's Day. It was just such
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  Speaker 1: a nice, a nice calm day get to spend with
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  Speaker 1: the fam, and you obviously are a huge part of that,
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  Speaker 1: because a you were the other half in helping create
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  Speaker 1: me being a father, and then second and then secondly,
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  Speaker 1: you're just you're just like a fabulous human being.
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  Speaker 4: That oh well, thank you. You don't think our kids
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  Speaker 4: planned all that by themselves?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, weirdly, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe so. So every year for Father's Day
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  Speaker 1: since twenty twenty, yeah, it would have been since twenty two. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: was We've gotten up early, and I've been pleasantly awakened
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  Speaker 1: by the scent of beer biscuits and beer gravy, and
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  Speaker 1: it is one of my favorite meals of all time,
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  Speaker 1: probably my favorite meal of the year, just given the circumstances,
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  Speaker 1: and that's a Father's Day tradition. I hope we can
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  Speaker 1: continue for a very long time. Then go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: No, I was going to say, I really botched the
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  Speaker 4: gravy this year, a little bit too much milk, But
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  Speaker 4: I will do better next year.
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  Speaker 1: You are, you are beating yourself up over this gravy.
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  Speaker 2: But it wasn't the flavor. No, it's not the flavor. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the consistency was a little off, but that's okay.
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  Speaker 3: People follow my gut next.
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  Speaker 2: Some people like a thinner gravy anyway.
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  Speaker 4: And this was the first year that I think that
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  Speaker 4: our kids actually recognized that there was beer in it
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  Speaker 4: and that they shouldn't eat it. But they alcohol like
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  Speaker 4: burns out so they can. But our daughter was grossed No,
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  Speaker 4: she was.
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  Speaker 1: And it was weird that she was grossed out by
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  Speaker 1: it because it's not like you were putting pickle juice
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  Speaker 1: and the gravy, you know, like you're supposed to. And
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  Speaker 1: she was adamant and she was not going to try it.
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  Speaker 1: She was not gonna do anything about it. But that's
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  Speaker 1: just fine. Uh So we we did that, and then
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  Speaker 1: we saw Toy Story five, which will be the biggest
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  Speaker 1: movie of the year.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, I know, I think it'll be the biggest
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  Speaker 2: movie of the year.
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  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, not to get off on a tangent,
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  Speaker 1: but I like, this is probably going to be a
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  Speaker 1: record breaking year for Disney because you think about it,
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  Speaker 1: They've already had Hoppers, They've already had the Mandalorin and Grogu.
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  Speaker 1: You've got uh, Toy Story five, then Spider Man. They
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  Speaker 1: get a cut of Spider Man, even though it's a
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  Speaker 1: sony picture, and then Avengers Doomsday.
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  Speaker 2: By the end of the.
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  Speaker 1: Year, y'all throw in the devil Wares product two, Like
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  Speaker 1: all these movies, I think it's gonna make the Mouse
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  Speaker 1: House a whole bunch of money.
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  Speaker 4: So I just want to clarify you didn't want to
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  Speaker 4: get off on a tangent.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It's what I do.
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  Speaker 1: It's what I do in normal conversation.
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  Speaker 3: Just wanted to just wanted to clarify that.
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  Speaker 2: So in Toy Story was such an emotional roller coaster.
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  Speaker 3: I was great.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think whoever it picksar Disney, whoever was like,
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  Speaker 4: let's release this on Father's Day Week and was genius.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean it was a full theater at
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  Speaker 1: eleven forty five in the morning, and so there's some
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  Speaker 1: fun things that happened during the film. My our daughter
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  Speaker 1: is the most inquisitive character in the history of mankind,
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  Speaker 1: and all her questions are like out loud.
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  Speaker 2: It's never like dad, what's what are you doing?
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  Speaker 4: Now?
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  Speaker 1: It's dad? Why is what he wearing? That poncho? When
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  Speaker 1: is he gonna take it off? Is he going to
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  Speaker 1: take it off? Is someone going to take it off
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  Speaker 1: of him? Is it gonna burn off? And it's just
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  Speaker 1: like these these a series of questions out loud during
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  Speaker 1: the theater or during the movie. But there is I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to spoil anything. There's a several emotional parts
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  Speaker 1: during the movie. And this child did.
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  Speaker 4: What during the sweet thing she did? Yeah, well she
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  Speaker 4: has learned she's sick. She just turned six in May,
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  Speaker 4: and she has learned what makes mommy cry, Like, like
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  Speaker 4: not in a bad way, but like I get emotional
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  Speaker 4: about certain things, like I can't listen to like Taylor
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  Speaker 4: Swift Never Grow Up.
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  Speaker 2: I cry.
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  Speaker 3: So like there's a.
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  Speaker 4: Part that's, you know, an emotional part, and she just
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  Speaker 4: knew that that part was gonna make mommy cry. And
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  Speaker 4: she got up and she came over and just like
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  Speaker 4: hugged me. It was the sweetest thing. Like she didn't
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  Speaker 4: even see me cry. She just knew, Oh, this part's
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  Speaker 4: gonna get mom and then.
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  Speaker 3: She hugged me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So she came over and did that to you. And
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  Speaker 1: then she after that, she came back to me and
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  Speaker 1: I was holding back my tears and she was like, Dad,
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  Speaker 1: are you crying? Like, no, babe, you're good, she goes.
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  Speaker 1: Mommy was She's not wrong, that's fine.
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  Speaker 3: It was so sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Where So I think I have my definitive because over
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  Speaker 1: the last couple of weeks, we have paraded through the
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  Speaker 1: four previous Toy Story movies. You have not necessarily been
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  Speaker 1: there when this has happened.
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  Speaker 4: I've watched a decent amount. Yeah, I feel like I
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  Speaker 4: have a ranking, But do you you go first?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? So mine was three?
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  Speaker 3: Is your number one?
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  Speaker 2: Is my number one?
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  Speaker 1: The original Toy Story is my number two because and
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  Speaker 1: not because the story is so great because you, but
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  Speaker 1: more because you have to have the origin right to
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  Speaker 1: to have to set up the future projects. I put
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  Speaker 1: number five as three, then Toy Story two, and then
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  Speaker 1: Toy Story four.
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  Speaker 3: I think might not be similar, but.
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  Speaker 2: So mine went three, one, five, two four.
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  Speaker 4: The problem I have with three is it's just too emotional,
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  Speaker 4: like it's good. Though I feel like three would have
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  Speaker 4: been a great ending, so I probably would be three, one, five,
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  Speaker 4: But then I think.
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  Speaker 3: Did you to weight? Did you do two? Four? Two?
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  Speaker 2: For you?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Actually I might be the same four. I just don't
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  Speaker 4: really think there was a need to and two. I
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  Speaker 4: don't like that prospector.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't love jesse In too, but I like jesse
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  Speaker 3: and five.
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  Speaker 1: But I think Toy Story two is probably a better
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  Speaker 1: movie than Toy Story one because you do get a little.
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  Speaker 2: More emotional levity to it.
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  Speaker 1: But like I said, I think that one just holds that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, grip on your on your heart, because that's
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  Speaker 1: where these characters came from.
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  Speaker 2: And then I read today that there.
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  Speaker 1: Is Toy Story six because of course, and it's going
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  Speaker 1: to close out the Bonnie trilogy. So if you look
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  Speaker 1: at the first three, it's the Andy trilogy, then four, five,
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  Speaker 1: six would be the Bonnie Trilogy.
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  Speaker 4: So you know, one thing that I think about is
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  Speaker 4: like these toys, like where were they manufactured? Because like,
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  Speaker 4: there's no damage on these toys after all these years.
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  Speaker 2: Well there's there are.
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  Speaker 4: Jesse was a toy that was built in like the
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  Speaker 4: fifties and look at her, Yeah, as a scuff.
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  Speaker 2: There are ways to take care of your toys.
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  Speaker 4: If I'm just saying they have been through it and back, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: into the incinerator, I mean, just flying all around town.
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  Speaker 1: I image I would argue, and I said this on
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  Speaker 1: the air today too, that I could make the argument
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  Speaker 1: that all five Toy Story movies are in my top
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  Speaker 1: ten animated movies of all time, Like and then I
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  Speaker 1: was trying to think of what the other five would be,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like a goofy movie. But then I then
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  Speaker 1: I started getting in the whole thing and I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't wrestle myself.
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  Speaker 3: Back down is a fascinating place to be.
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  Speaker 2: It's not It's not a lot of fun for me
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  Speaker 2: most of the time.
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  Speaker 1: What happened yesterday, we were we were were we when
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  Speaker 1: we were at the ice cream shop?
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  Speaker 3: Oh the joke that I laughed at?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So, like I think Caitlin and I have been together
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  Speaker 1: a very long time and she understands my personality. And
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  Speaker 1: while she recognizes that sometimes I can be funny, she's
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  Speaker 1: not always laughing.
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  Speaker 4: Jokes always follow the same formula, and I feel like
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  Speaker 4: I've heard them all.
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  Speaker 3: So when you give me something a little bit new.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, it gets me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and this one got you good.
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  Speaker 3: It was so dumb.
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to remember the exact scenario because they.
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  Speaker 4: THEO dropped a cone on the floor. Yes, so we
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  Speaker 4: got the floor cone? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's what it was.
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  Speaker 1: So our son is if if our daughters the most
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  Speaker 1: inquisitive person ever, our son could be like the most
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  Speaker 1: accident prone kid ever. And I knew it as soon
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  Speaker 1: as he got this ice cream cone that he was
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  Speaker 1: going to drop it, like because any other time we've
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  Speaker 1: got him in ice cream cone, he's dropped it sure enough,
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  Speaker 1: as soon as he sits as soon as he sits down,
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  Speaker 1: he takes one bite of his ice cream and the
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  Speaker 1: cone just flies out of his hand, face like ice.
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  Speaker 2: Cream side down to the floor and pick it up.
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  Speaker 1: And whenever we get it, they get him a new cone.
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  Speaker 1: That the ice cream place was nice enough to give
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  Speaker 1: him a new cone for free. He then is, you know,
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  Speaker 1: he's a little more careful now. But the remaining ice
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  Speaker 1: cream cone was on the floor and I don't know
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  Speaker 1: why I'm telling the story.
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  Speaker 3: And I thought about a floor I called it a
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  Speaker 3: floor cone.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he said, he said, oh, because Caroline was like,
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  Speaker 1: where did you get your ice cream cone from?
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  Speaker 2: And she's, oh, it's thea's floor floor.
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  Speaker 1: Cone And I go flog cone and seven years ago,
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  Speaker 1: and you would have thought Jerry Seinfield was right and
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  Speaker 1: right next to me.
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  Speaker 2: It was very funny, and she was like the again.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, your brain is just the weirdest place
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  Speaker 4: to be that that's like.
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  Speaker 3: And it was so fast, so fast you got there and.
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  Speaker 1: I and I can't explain it. It's just it's a
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  Speaker 1: it's a curse that I that I have. I want
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  Speaker 1: to bring up my fitness journey.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wait, you're on a fittest journey.
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  Speaker 1: I want to I want to bring this up because
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  Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's so funny from your perspective,
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  Speaker 1: because it so what has happened is that I have
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  Speaker 1: joined Orange Theory fitness.
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  Speaker 3: You're just trying to find another way to like drop Orange.
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  Speaker 1: No I'm not, because it's so it's like the silliest thing,
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  Speaker 1: Like now now you're just not stopping like what Oh yeah, no,
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  Speaker 1: Well here's the thing I wanted. I would lie I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to go today, but I feel like a uh.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, you're letting down the bran.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd feel like I'm a dick if I don't go.
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  Speaker 1: So so from your side, I've casually brought up on
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  Speaker 1: the air this Orange Theory thing and it's not it
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  Speaker 1: was never intended to be anything other than I've I've
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  Speaker 1: gone and I don't like working out, Like that's that's
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  Speaker 1: the intention, But it is kind of spiraled into something
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  Speaker 1: a little different, and I think it's hilarious from my side.
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  Speaker 1: From your side, what do you what do you think
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  Speaker 1: about me? Uh, pretend influencing.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, here's the thing, there's a lot about this situation.
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  Speaker 4: So for the two people listening, we have a bunch
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  Speaker 4: of friends that go to an Orange Theory and I
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  Speaker 4: started going with another friend, a bunch of us, and
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  Speaker 4: then like another dad came. It's a big group of
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  Speaker 4: us now that go. And I've been trying to get
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  Speaker 4: Nick to join, but he's like, oh money and won't go. Well,
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  Speaker 4: then one of my friends Ni, Yeah, another dad in
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  Speaker 4: the group signed him up, and then Nick winn and
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  Speaker 4: Nick got the other dad the fifty dollars referral code.
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  Speaker 4: So when Nick joins, I don't even get the referral code.
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  Speaker 4: Our other friend does. Then Nick decided that Orange Theory
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  Speaker 4: is literally his entire like personality. And if you talk
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  Speaker 4: to anyone now, he's like, oh, I don't know if
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  Speaker 4: you recognize me. I've had a six Orange Theory classes.
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  Speaker 4: Oh I'm sorry, can you see me over here? Am
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  Speaker 4: I disappearing? Because you know I'm fit and just telling
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  Speaker 4: everyone how fit he is?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? No, well that's the thing everybody asked me about it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean's he's just I mean, all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 4: just jacked.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And so here's the thing like you're talking about on
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  Speaker 3: the air.
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  Speaker 4: Does not surprise me because you don't stop talking about
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  Speaker 4: it now.
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  Speaker 1: Like with it it well, yeah, because it was brought
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  Speaker 1: up because off the air, I do the same thing
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  Speaker 1: to people here that I do it to our friend group,
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  Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I should have I should have reintroduced myself because you
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  Speaker 1: probably don't recognize me because I I'm I'm kind of
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  Speaker 1: on a fitness journey right now. And so so that
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  Speaker 1: is transpired into like, we're trying to work out a
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  Speaker 1: John Jaye Rich specific class.
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  Speaker 3: Which is gonna be fun.
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  Speaker 1: And I think I and I think it's I think
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  Speaker 1: it's fun. I think it's hilarious. I think the pitch
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  Speaker 1: is dad rock. And so I mean right in my
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  Speaker 1: right in my wheelhouse.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I have loved going. I think it's been
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  Speaker 4: super fun. I'm glad you're doing it too. It's something
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  Speaker 4: fun to do together. A bunch of our friends go.
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  Speaker 4: Typically when we go, there's somebody we know if making
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  Speaker 4: light of the making jokes about it motivates you, and
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  Speaker 4: you know what they're seizing their opportunity to get you know,
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  Speaker 4: you and the crew in.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's fun.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I that that just makes me like them even more,
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  Speaker 4: that they're like, hey, this guy's fun and let's let's
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  Speaker 4: all work together and spread the word.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's fun.
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  Speaker 1: It's like everything surrounding it. I like, it's actually like
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  Speaker 1: doing classes. I'm like, oh my god, I have to
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  Speaker 1: work out again.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know you're forty. Now, I know you turned forty.
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  Speaker 4: I just turned into like the portrait of fitness.
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  Speaker 2: Well it was, and it was funny.
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  Speaker 1: The other day, I took you know, Theodore Walmart and
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  Speaker 1: I brought I came back and I did have several
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  Speaker 1: like us, like what do you call.
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  Speaker 2: Health assistant assistance?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, things, I bought creatine, I bought a shaker from
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  Speaker 1: my Protein.
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  Speaker 2: Shake, and you were like all in.
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  Speaker 1: You were like somehow you have dove all in on this,
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  Speaker 1: and I mean, but you kind of it feels like this.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you do it or you don't.
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  Speaker 1: Like well, I think at some point I also recognize that,
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  Speaker 1: like I can't just not be active, you know, especially
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  Speaker 1: with the kids getting older, it's it's nice to be
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  Speaker 1: able to be like Okay, I can run around with
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  Speaker 1: you without feeling like I'm going to pass out.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I like to think I motivated you a little.
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  Speaker 2: No you did, No, you No, you certainly have.
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  Speaker 1: But you know that's that's probably the larger part of it,
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  Speaker 1: I guess is if I'm being completely honest.
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  Speaker 4: Well, because our kids would be like, Mommy goes to
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  Speaker 4: the gym, why don't you, daddy?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, and then the constant daddy's got a chubby belly.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I know, I don't like when they talk chubby.
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  Speaker 4: We don't like to use that word.
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't like it either.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't know why she said that the other day.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, like they're kids. That's what they that's
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  Speaker 2: what they do.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm proud of you, and you know what, I
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  Speaker 4: think it makes me like Orange theory more that they
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  Speaker 4: have embraced this random little boost.
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  Speaker 1: Of the weirdest free promotion, the weirdest human being that
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  Speaker 1: they've ever worked with the target audience.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you think so, I would say, so.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know people are there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't say it like just just human beings. Yeah,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: it's probably right.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: In the eternal battle of Morning show supremacy. We are
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: one of them. It's john Jay and Rich