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- 0:01Hello and welcome to the No God Coach
- 0:03Huddle for December 5th, 2025. Your
- 0:06two-minute play of the day for applying
- 0:07God's word in your life. So, let's
- 0:09huddle up and hear today's play from
- 0:11Proverbs 5, which says, "Drink water
- 0:13from your own sister water running water
- 0:16from your own well. Let them be yours
- 0:19alone. [snorts] May your fountain be
- 0:21blessed and may you rejoice in the wife
- 0:23of your youth. May her breath satisfy
- 0:25you always. May you ever be intoxicated
- 0:28with her love? Why, my son, be
- 0:30intoxicated with another man's wife? Why
- 0:33embrace the bosom of a weward woman?
- 0:37Brother, God's not embarrassed by your
- 0:39desire for intimacy. He made you that
- 0:41way. He wired you with a drive that when
- 0:44directed toward your wife creates
- 0:46security, strength, and joy inside your
- 0:49home. But here's the battle. When
- 0:52intimacy dries up in the marriage bed,
- 0:54the enemy goes hunting. Pornography
- 0:57whispers false promises. Fantasies creep
- 1:00in. Discontent grows. And a man who
- 1:02loses intimacy often loses purpose,
- 1:05passion, and presence. Scripture gives
- 1:08us the antidote. Guard your well.
- 1:11Protect the marriage bed. Fight for
- 1:13covenant intimacy. Keep your desire
- 1:16pointed toward the wife of your youth.
- 1:19Let's be honest, many men are hurting
- 1:21here. Some of you are in marriages where
- 1:23intimacy has faded or disappeared. Your
- 1:26wife is distant, tired, uninterested, or
- 1:28even using intimacy as leverage. And you
- 1:32feel trapped between soulcrushing
- 1:34celibacy and soul destroying infidelity.
- 1:38But hear me, God calls you to something
- 1:41higher. You don't get to run to
- 1:43pornography. You don't get to check out.
- 1:45You don't get to abandon the woman you
- 1:47covenanted before God to love. You're
- 1:50called to love her as Christ loves his
- 1:52church, sacrificially, patiently,
- 1:55truthfully, and without compromising
- 1:57holiness. That means you keep
- 1:59communicating. You keep leading calmly
- 2:02and courageously. You keep expressing
- 2:04your need respectfully. You keep
- 2:06pursuing unity, not with harshness, but
- 2:08with spiritual strength. And wives, if
- 2:11any of you are listening, hear this
- 2:13truth anchored in scripture. Your
- 2:15willingness to engage your husband
- 2:17intimately intimately is not a small
- 2:20thing. It's one of the greatest gifts
- 2:21you give your marriage. It strengthens
- 2:24him. It blesses him and it draws his
- 2:26heart toward home. So men, here's
- 2:28today's play. Step toward your wife.
- 2:31Schedule the conversation. Speak openly
- 2:34and gently about your need. Commit to
- 2:36purity, not porn, not fantasy, not a
- 2:39wandering heart. Fight for the covenant
- 2:42God gave you. Guard your will. Protect
- 2:45your marriage. Pursue your wife and
- 2:47honor God with your desire. This is how
- 2:49we live like Jesus. And this is how our
- 2:51marriages go the distance. Thanks for
- 2:54joining the huddle. If this encouraged
- 2:55you, share it with another man who wants
- 2:58to know God better so he can love and
- 3:00obey God