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JENAE's friend is SINGLE and BOUGIE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Hi'd you day, you're on the air. Good morning. What's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 2: So my friend just got out of a relationship, which
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  Speaker 2: it's totally fine, of course, but now she's suddenly blowing
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  Speaker 2: up my phone like she wants to hang out every
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  Speaker 2: single night, but when she was with her ex, like
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  Speaker 2: she barely made time for me, and then like now
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  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, he's playing this spens of trips
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  Speaker 2: and dinners and I'm what, like, supposed to draw everything
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  Speaker 2: for her, and it's super frustrating because she still lives
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  Speaker 2: at home, she doesn't pay rent, she like doesn't get
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  Speaker 2: how tight money is for the rest of the people
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  Speaker 2: in her life, and like, I don't want to sound mean,
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  Speaker 2: but it's starting to get really noying. So I'm just wondering, like,
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  Speaker 2: how do I even bring this up to her without
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  Speaker 2: sounding like a bad friend.
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  Speaker 3: That's tough because it's like she's she's obviously wanting to
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  Speaker 3: get back out there and get her mind off of
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  Speaker 3: this breakup. I don't know if it was like a
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  Speaker 3: messy one or not, but I can completely understand your frustration.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, dang, girl, you didn't want to hang out
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  Speaker 3: with me when you had your man but now all
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  Speaker 3: of a sudden, you want to be in my phone
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  Speaker 3: all the time. What else that does happen?
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  Speaker 4: It happens?
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  Speaker 3: Does it happened?
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  Speaker 1: Life?
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  Speaker 3: So it's like it's a weird that's.
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  Speaker 4: A truck, she's available.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, is it more? Is your problem more that
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  Speaker 5: she wants to hang out all the time now or
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  Speaker 5: that she wants to do really expensive stuff that she's
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  Speaker 5: like insensitive to, like the budget.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of both, like I feel a little like
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  Speaker 2: I understand when she was with her ex that she
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  Speaker 2: didn't like she had to make time for him and
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  Speaker 2: there was lost time for her other friends. But it's
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  Speaker 2: still like, wow, I'm you know, the first person you dropped,
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  Speaker 2: Like you come to when you've been dropped like that,
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  Speaker 2: it's like, okay, well where was I when when you
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  Speaker 2: were with your man? But yeah, the other part is, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she's doing all these expensive things. Like I say like expensive,
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  Speaker 2: I really mean like expensive. And I'm like, girl, like
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  Speaker 2: no one else has this kind of money, Like what
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  Speaker 2: are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that's so relatable that this
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  Speaker 1: happened the other day. My sister was telling me the
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  Speaker 1: story very so, first of all, the boyfriend thing I think,
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  Speaker 1: like Kyle said, that's part of that happens, that's part
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  Speaker 1: of life, that's so common. But the money thing. So,
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  Speaker 1: my sister has this group of friends to these women
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  Speaker 1: that have all she works in Hollywood and with she's
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  Speaker 1: got deals with Netflix and stuff, and all these women.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say there's five women. They've all sold their companies
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  Speaker 1: in media for millions, thirty forty million dollars. Yes, And
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  Speaker 1: but before they sold their companies, they were this close
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  Speaker 1: group of friends and they would go to dinner like
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  Speaker 1: once some months out like how you and your friends, see, right,
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  Speaker 1: But now these women have made so much money, so
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  Speaker 1: they'll go to dinner and my sister goes and they
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  Speaker 1: order four or five bottles of wine, They eat whatever
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  Speaker 1: they want. They go to fancy restaurants in LA. They
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  Speaker 1: split the bill and my sisters Like last time I
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  Speaker 1: wore my bill was four hundred dollars. It was just
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  Speaker 1: for me. So the last one they had my sisters,
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  Speaker 1: I canceled and she thinks they all got mad at her.
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  Speaker 1: I can't do that. I can't go to dinner. It's
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  Speaker 1: spend four hundred dollars, right.
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  Speaker 3: I would think that you would be like good enough
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  Speaker 3: friends with your friends though, to be able to be like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: can we like go to zips instead?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I really want to hang out with you. Can
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  Speaker 5: we do X Y Z instead?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: I think you do. Like I think it is a
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  Speaker 5: bummer that happens in relationships where you get ditch when
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  Speaker 5: they start dating someone new. But that does happen, and
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  Speaker 5: you do like to be a good friend. You do
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  Speaker 5: still just need to be there for your friend because
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  Speaker 5: now they're looking for that support. And that's the greatest
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  Speaker 5: thing about friendship is be there to support each other.
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  Speaker 5: But also, like I think also if they are that
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  Speaker 5: good of a friend, they will understand that your budget
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  Speaker 5: is different than theirs and if you want to hang out,
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  Speaker 5: we got to do something different, or.
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  Speaker 4: They can cover for you if they want to cover
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  Speaker 4: for you. If they offer, then may okay. If you're buying,
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  Speaker 4: no problem.
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  Speaker 3: I love it when one of my friends says that.
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  Speaker 4: I'll pick up the tab.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, big baller, I'm gonna argue with you.
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  Speaker 1: You ever go to dinner with a friend that's got
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  Speaker 1: a lot of money and then they want to split it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes's time all the time.
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  Speaker 3: That's my brother, Jalen. I'm like your rich uncle over here.
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean I have to pay.
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  Speaker 4: For my bill? You're my brother.
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  Speaker 3: Why aren't you paying for me?
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  Speaker 4: Do you remember when I talked about going out to
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  Speaker 4: dinner with my multime million dollar friend and they got
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  Speaker 4: like the really good steak I bought dinner, and I
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  Speaker 4: talked about on the show because I didn't know it
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  Speaker 4: was going to be that expensive. It was like a
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  Speaker 4: nine hundred dollars dinner. Oh it's terrible. I talked about
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  Speaker 4: the year. He must have heard about it because he
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  Speaker 4: sent me a gift cards. That dam a little bad
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  Speaker 4: about that man.
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  Speaker 1: All right, get well, thanks for sure that without it.
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  Speaker 1: Be a good friend.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, thanks so much for your health.
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  Speaker 4: That was a great thing.