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"Pick me" Girls are undercutting the affection economy! Part 2 | Rantzerker 207 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Okay, coming too live from deep within an absolutely frigid I mean, we
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  have been dumped into like the liquid nitrogen here up in the north radioactive wasteland.
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  We are the survivors of the all right Keck Apocalypse, the few,
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  of the brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle against the froggy
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  lobsters zombie hordes with oh my god, rant Zerker number two O seven pick
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  me girls are undercutting the affection economy? Part two. Well, I am
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  your host, Alison, and with me today is Karen and Brian And uh
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  yeah, did you know, Karen, did you know we are undercutting the
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  affection economy? I don't care. You know what I don't care. I
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  woke up on Monday to twenty three centimeters of snow. Okay, that's like
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  a foot easy, right, And it builds up. It builds up in
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  all the low spots, so sidewalks, everything that needs shoveling around your car.
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  I'm living in a land of oatmeal right now. Oat me that's what
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  they call it when you have to drive on loose snow. Oatmeal. Snow
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  oatmeal. Yeah, that's a good way of putting it. Yeah, and
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  uh and and have you filed yet at the point? No, No,
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  no, close, close, there was There was this one guy. I
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  was just accelerating. I was on an on ramp to get on a freeway,
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  and I was accelerating to merge on, and then just right in front
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  of me, this guy just completely he went to he went to like accel
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  and change lanes to do like a real quick maneuver. He was speeding already
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  to do a real quick maneuver, and then he lost control of his car,
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  and then he overcompensated, so he's like going whoo whoo whoo, back
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  and forth across like four lanes of traffic right in front of me. And
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  I'm like, uh, it's a good thing I'm going uphill, or I
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  would probably be in the ditch right now. But I just took my foot
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  off the gas and gently tapped the brakes and I didn't start going whoo whoo.
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  And then the moment he got control of his car again, he must
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  have gone across like eight or twelve times, right back from one side to
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  the other, across four lane to traffic. Right moment he gets control again,
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  he just guns it and takes off, and I'm like, eh,
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  well, he's probably gonna die early. Yeah, well, it's lovely.
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  And they didn't. They didn't. The driving pool is thus improved. They
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  didn't. Yeah, they didn't bother sending out the plows until all the snow
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  had fallen. It fell overnight, so it's like, what were you doing
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  all night? Like, you could have just sent out plows to get you
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  know, at three am, to clear most of the you know, the
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  freeways and stuff, the major arteries and all of that, but and then
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  then you'd have less work to do later in the day. But no,
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  we were all driving through twenty three centimeters of snow, so it was it
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  was lovely and this and it wasn't light snow either, so my husband was
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  like, oh, it's big flakes, so it shouldn't be a problem shoveling.
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  And I was just like, it's like just you, that's the he's
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  giving me advice. Just use the snowshovel like a bulldozer. I'm like,
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  yeah, I didn't know how to shovel snow, right, Okay, grew
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  up in Edmonton. I have no idea that you can use a snow shovel
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  like a snowplow and just push it, you know, hold it at your
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  waist level and just push it along. Yet No, no, you can
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  push it for a foot and a half and then it's too heavy to push
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  anymore. You know, I think your I think your husband has the same
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  disease I have, the over explaining disease. I'm just like, really,
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  really, okay, who's shovels snow here? Honey. Granted, he did
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  go out when he saw what I looked like with my little frickin' muppet noodle
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  arms right after I went out three four times, he went out and he
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  did some right, but oh my god, he was just like, ugh,
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  I should probably do some of that. You know. The city like
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  doubled the width of our sidewalk and gave us a bonus east west sidewalk because
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  we're on a corner lot. Yep. So we got like, uh one
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  more sidewalk to clear than we did when we moved in. Mm hmm.
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  So I'm makes, yeah, super happy, and they'll they'll like they haven't
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  cleared any of the city sidewalks. I'm sitting there at a light today and
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  uh and there's a pedestrian light on and I'm like, wait a minute,
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  there's no you know, like people have to like walk across the median and
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  stuff. They they haven't cleared any are there any? Are there? Did
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  you see any women in Edmonton who are basically wearing uh stripper attire and the
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  dead of winter? Yet? Well I those aren't. Those are too numerous
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  to really pay attention. Really, it takes not my god, mostly just
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  at the seven to eleven across from where my youngest lives now, the one
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  that we used to stop at when I was driving him to school when he
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  was in like elementary. So remember I see a woman. When you see
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  a woman with dental floss up her ass, crack and pasties on with negative
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  thirty below, she's doing it for herself. No, no, she was
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  doing it to turn tricks. And it was like, you know, we'd
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  be driving by, he'd go in to get some beef turkey on the way
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  to school, so like eight fifteen, eight thirty in the morning, and
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  and the hookers would just be like coming in for a late night snack before
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  heading back to their apartment in the building that he lives in now. The
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  price was right, the price, Yeah, no, it's a great building.
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  This is a really nice building, really nice apartment. Just saturated with
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  hookers, hookers and drug addicts and recovering alcoholics and people on ash. Okay,
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  yeah, there are subsidized living somehow they well, I guess they want
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  it. They don't want to be all subsidized living. They don't want to
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  be all like people who are on some kind of government program. Okay,
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  how's my They snapped up my son real quick. They were like, oh,
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  a normal person for our productive citizen. Come come get your ship stolen
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  here? And they were they were like, they were like, hide everything
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  under your under a blanket. When you move it in anything that you have
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  that's nice, hide it. Hm hmmm, that's a good sign. Okay,
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  So but it anywhere near view of your apartment door? Brian, how's
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  my sound sounds good to me? Yes? I mean, what do you
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  guys did to sound good for you guys? It sounds good to me.
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  Oh and by the way, thank you to Remote Ruby. You you you
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  successfully I think what you sent me actually say allow me to successfully resolve my
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  possessed microphone. So thank you. All right, so let's let us let
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  us do the things, all right. I'm just just to let everybody know
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  I'm going to Karen I'm gonna sniff constantly throughout this. Oh I thought you
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  said you were gonna sneeze, and like, no, I will. I
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  won't mute when I sneeze. But I'm okay that that would be very much
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  appreciated, a little sort of ironic coming from me. So I just want
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  to remind every when we are doing Hannacocks, eventually you know where we will
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  get there. And uh, we are also doing our monthly fundraiser. We
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  Oh yeah, let's do something for that. There you go crazy,
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  it's a trap. And missus ann of Arc who also put twenty five dollars
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  in, thank you, Thank you, excellent, ye excellient. And so
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  bit closer to the deadline sooner. That's very much appreciated. Takes a weight
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  Baileen, Does anybody get that? Did I say that right? Baileen?
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  Filter whale filter? Yeah, it's like your YouTube is filtering. I've
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  lived on the North Vancouver Island for you know, sixteen years? Did you?
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  Did you live in a in a hot woven from Baileen? No,
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  but we did get to see the carcass the bones of a blue whale that
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  was It was hung from the ceiling of the telegraph graph Cove Oceanic museum or
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  Marine life museum. And yeah, they hung it. They assembled it,
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  but they hung it from the ceiling of the place and and yeah big oh
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  yeah, no like took up the whole place. But okay, yeah,
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  no, it was presumably it was a very large place, like a craft
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  hanger. It wasn't like, it wasn't huge. I think it was like
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  a young whale that had had a collision with a cruise ship or something like
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  tip. All right, let's say got a little bit in. Yeah,
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  I got a super chowel right at the start of the show from Richard Berre
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  giuse is five dollars and says, I am having to run the air conditioning
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  since last week. Oh I think it's to piss you off. Yeah,
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  that's what I was kind of what I was thinking. Yeah, okay,
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  just stick stick minus twenty nine celsius senior to fahrenheit converter on Google air and
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  and that that's that's the daytime high. And then you know the true depth
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  of our suffering. Good Lord. And then, of course I'm really sensitive
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  to air. Air pressure feels that's what it feels like, feels. I'm
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  really sensitive to air pressure. So in addition to being freezing, it is
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  also very painful. Oh god, yeah, because it hurts you. It
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  gets into my sinuses, and then everything starts to clench and I start to
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  get a cluster headache. And oh, it's lovely, it's lovely. My
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  son used to get those. Yeah, what what did he do to stop?
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  By the way, he didn't do anything. He just stayed home from
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  school two to three days a week all through Good Lord. Oh my god.
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  Yeah, no, it that that that that is uh, that's pretty
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  I can relate to that, because if I let the headache get its claws
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  in, it'll stay for a couple of days. Yeah. Well, the
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  secretary at the school used to just call, you know, she would always
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  call to confirm the absence, make sure he, you know, didn't just
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  like get hit by a car on the way to school or whatever, right,
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  and she I'd pick up the phone, Hello, and she'd say headache
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  again. I'd be like, yeah, she says to me too too,
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  you have to same problem. Okay, all right, so let's let's get
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  a little bit in all right, playing some more of Hannah cocks on Picknies.
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  Goes a lot deeper than that. Women are also competing for what feels
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  like society's limit attention span for women. They're competing for jobs and industries where
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  women are still the minority. They're competing for leadership roles and the chance to
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  advance, and it often feels like only one or two women will moving up.
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  How is this woman any different than any other feminist? Oh, she's
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  like super intersexual competition, Like do you realize? Okay, So what she
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  said here is that women have to compete for societies limited attention. For some
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  reason, she thinks that society gives men more attention. I assume because the
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  But she also supposedly cares about the free market and pre enterprise as a libertarian,
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  but she embraces the narrative that deconstructs the free market as immoral because giving
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  the gibbs to women. Right, Okay, it's almost like she's not actually
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  a libertarian that she's using it. And this is just like a fuck,
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  isn't psyop or she's infiltrating? She's doing entryism. She's literally saying, she's
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  literally saying, women have to compete for jobs in areas that are already female
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  dominated, and they also have to compete for positions in areas that are male
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  dominated. All Right, that's unfair, because TI, yeah, you think,
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  does she think that men just just sort of get get the Let me
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  let me abuse disabuse her of the notion that men get more attention than women,
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  all right, because here's here's the statistic that really matters. It's not
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  how many women are in CEO positions, it's the proportion of women in CEO
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  positions to the worst jobs. So how many trash female trash collectors are there,
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  how many people female alignemen are there, how many female street sweepers are
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  there, how many female et cetera, et cetera. The worst jobs,
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  the absolute worst jobs that are critical for society to run, and CEO the
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  women in the worst jobs is something like one to twenty maybe or even almost
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  one to one, whereas the proportion of men is like one to one thousand,
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  So one male CEO for one thousand men actually doing the work of making
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  sure society functions. But it's crappy work, so she doesn't even look at
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  that. No, did you realize that means that women get twenty times the
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  attention of men. How many women's homeless shelters are there in your town?
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  There are women's shelters, and then there are just homeless shelters. Yeah,
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  and the problem is the homeless shelters, the generic ones are open to women
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  too, right, And it's like okay, so and then there's oh that
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  the people who actually have access to shelters. Hmmm, Like I didn't hear
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  of any homeless women dying in a fucking porta potty during Quebec's psychotic, fricking
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  quarantine COVID quarantine where they were like, yeah, no, there's a curfew,
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  right, and so if you don't have a valid reason is this,
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  that and the other, a, B or c to be outside your house,
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  you have to be home. They forgot to consider the homeless, right,
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  So the homeless shelters, right, there were like day centers, but
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  the homeless shelters were all closed for COVID for overnight, right, So eight
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  eight pm they'd be booting all these people out onto the fucking street in the
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  middle of a cold snap where things were getting below minus forty, which is
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  the same celsius door fahrenheit down to below minus forty at night, overnight,
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  and they're booting these guys out right. One of them dies in a fucking
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  port a potty freeze us to death, right, and they're like, oh,
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  I guess we just forgot right. There were Viva Fry, who I
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  recommend to everybody, right he u. He said he was in a grocery
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  store because they were in order to not have the big box stores be able
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  to capitalize on the fact that like the mom and pop stores were all closed
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  and clothing stores were closed and blah blah blah. So they basically said,
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  yeah, no, you can't buy clothes, and you can't buy this,
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  and you can't buy that in even in big box stores, right, otherwise
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  the stores can be fined. And so there's he's looking at this homeless guy
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  in the middle of this cold snap, right, and he's wearing these beat
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  up sneakers full of holes with no socks, and he's begging the cashier please
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  just sell me the socks. Can you please just sell me the socks?
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  And they're like, no, we can't because it's not it hasn't been deemed
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  a necessity Oh, good grief. He hasn't been deemed an essential good.
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  And yet the gum was freaking not blocked off. You could buy gum but
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  you couldn't and skittles but you couldn't buy fucking socks. Yeah, I know.
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  It was horrific. Yeah, and you know what it was. It
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  was men that took the brunt of that, because it's men who are overwhelmingly
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  homeless or in dire straits and have no access. Okay, and I had
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  to feminists tell me, while epic me is someone who doesn't who doesn't acknowledge
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  the struggles, You don't have struggles here, right, this is what's happening.
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  This is literally what's happening. Women occupy a space where society believes it's
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  that it's society's responsibility to protect and provide for women, period. That's why
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  they're first in line for all the services, all of the services. That's
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  why there's an entire body of jurisprudence, judas prudence. I already say that
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  jurisprudence that specifically jurisprudence that specifically, forget it, that specifically deals with women
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  being aggressed against. Like, there's an entire body of law. That women
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  people to be aggressed against only applies to violence against women that our society has
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  constructed to give women unique protections, which isn't, incidentally, something that's new,
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  because the wear Guild system actually gave women unique protections. People were had
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  to had to pay more a larger fine for killing a woman than killing a
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  man, and women's sexuality was also protected under the Wear Guild system because they
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  could they could demand a fine for violations of their sexual code. Women could,
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  men couldn't, So in every way, a woman's person was protected more
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  than a man's person in the past. So this isn't new. This whole
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  idea of a unique uh women occupying a uniquely protected legal position, well that's
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  that's that's what's happening. Women are first in line when it comes to being
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  served. However, they develop a mentality around that which makes it more difficult
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  call to them in a meritocracy, which they then turn around when they hit
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  a meritocracy where it's not about what your expectation of getting but what you can
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  do, what you can perform, your performance rather than your need. They
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  hit that meritocracy and it's a sharp slap, even though that once again is
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  the system, it's softened for women. That's why they end up. They're
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  more, far more likely to end up in a CEO position than in a
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  garbage collection position. So they have that upwarde that's the thing they have.
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  Women have that upward tide. What is it pressure pushing them away from garbage
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  positions and into CEO positions. They have a something pushing them, which is
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  the which is again society saying, well, we want to accommodate for any
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  kind of uh, anything that women need. So we're going to give this
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  kind of selective pressure pushing women into the positions of prestige and comfort and away
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  from the positions of difficulty and self like potential personal damage, the stuff that's
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  difficult, dangerous, and uncomfortable. All right, So even in the meritocracy,
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  women are afforded a benefit. And yet she's saying this, and the
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  reason why she's saying this is because she has lived her life saturating, marinating,
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  and the expectation that her needs motivate others. And when she hits the
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  meritocracy where she is judged by performance on any level, even on the lesser
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  level than women really are, it feels like inequality. It feels like it's
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  it's something directed against her. Yes, she feels like she's swimming upstream even
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  though she's Yeah, even though she's got nursery, got grants, you got
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  women only grants, she's got women only hiring opportunities here. You remember,
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  you remember when all the feminists were like, oh, you know, there's
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  a real research gap right for women, right, you know, and they
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  don't look at Okay, So then the amount of money spent on breast cancer
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  research is like, way, way more than even on unisex cancers, cancers
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  that affect everybody, right, Okay, But it was because it was because
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  in most medical research, right, the test subjects are male. And I'm
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  like, yeah, because we don't like experimenting medically on women. Like here,
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  let's inject you with this experimental concoction, right and see if it kills
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  you or makes you sick. Can we do that? Yeah? We don't
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  do those kinds of things on women. We do them on men first,
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  and then we usually do them on women to see if it's it's actually acknowledged.
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  Yeah, say acknowledge that. Yeah. We prefer to experiment on men
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  for the same reason we prefer to experiment on rats, yeah and men.
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  And men would be like, yeah, okay, I'll test out this drugs
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  if it has any side effects or whatever. Right, I'll take part in
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  this experiment because they'd be paid a nominal fee. Right, here's one hundred
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  dollars to participate in the milgrim experiment, you know, Like how about that
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  or those guys who like they were put on I think it was pelagra or
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  something like that with some vitamin deficiency disease, right that prisoners in southern prisons
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  in the United States were getting back in like the nineteen twenties or whatever.
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  And it's it's absoluteutely horrific what this disease does to you, because it doesn't
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  just fuck up your body, it fucks up your head too, write and
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  your thinking is like completely whack as well. And I think it's a vitamin
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  A deficiency or something like that, and so you start to become psychotic and
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  all of that. And so they went and ran an experiment on some prisoners,
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  and lucky for the prisoners, they were allowed to have not just informed
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  consent, but a benefit, right, And so they removed milk and pork
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  grind from their diet, which is they had they ate diets of milk,
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  pork rind, and corn. So they removed the milk and the pork grind
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  and just fed them nothing but corn to see if they could induce this deficiency
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  disease through deficiency and worked like charm. And they were said, they were
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  told right that if you stay till the end of the experiment, we will
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  once the experiment is done, we will release you, regardless of how much
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  of your sentence you have left to serve. And they had men begging.
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  They had men who bailed on the experiment and chose to stay in prison longer
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  so that they would be able to eat something that wasn't making them sick like
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  that good grief. But you know, we have a society that hates women.
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  Yeah, yeah, no, we treat them like total garbage. That's
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  the thing is, it's all hedonic, hedonic adaptation. Like this, this
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  is a woman poisoned by hedonic adaptation. We went in and were showing the
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  sat okay, let's keep going. And unfortunately, the message that women are
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  getting from society is that they have a very short window for all of that.
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  Unlike men, women are mostly treated like they have an expiration date.
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  They're told if they're not married by a certain age, they're no longer attractive.
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  They're told if they're not mothers by a certain age, their life has
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  no meaning. They get the idea that if they don't get to where they
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  need to be in there. No no, no, no, no,
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  fuck you. They're not told if you don't have children by a certain age,
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  your life has no meaning. They're told that if you don't have children
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  by a certain age, you might never have any like, oh, a
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  very a very short window, A very short window. That's biology, you
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  stupid cun language. That's not patriarchy, that's ovaries. Yeah, they're not
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  told it, it's just the reality. No, the problem is they aren't
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  being told it anymore. So they're like waking up in there at age thirty
• 28:03
  five going, oh, I all of a sudden, I have baby rabies.
• 28:07
  I don't know why. It's because he didn't have a kid before.
• 28:08
  And you're by it. You do have a biological imperative, and it is
• 28:14
  going to try and make you have kids, and it will be like giving
• 28:17
  you baby rabies. It will be making you obsess about it because this is
• 28:21
  your last fucking shot, bitch, right, and you haven't even picked a
• 28:26
  man, right, you think you got three more years to build a relationship,
• 28:33
  get married, you know, combined convince him to start a family.
• 28:37
  Right, No, you don't anymore. You got six months, six months,
• 28:42
  and then those eggs start to go stale, like Jesus Christ. And
• 28:48
  they're not being told that. And that's why so many women are are regretting
• 28:53
  it. They're forty and like, oh, you know, I never got
• 28:56
  married, I never had kids, and an honor it's with cats handy Hannah
• 29:03
  Cox once again, you what you are upset with this biology? Like it's
• 29:12
  just an a society that made this. You know, you really think,
• 29:17
  Look, what do you think, like society have planted a chip into your
• 29:19
  ovaries and said, wow, self destruct by thirty six. No, that
• 29:26
  was mother nature. Take it up with that, bitch, yeah no,
• 29:29
  And it's it's like, and why do you think mother nature did that?
• 29:32
  She thought? Okay, she thought, you know, uh, you probably
• 29:38
  working on a lifespan of you know, if you lived to adulthood, if
• 29:44
  you survived into adulthood, you're probably looking at an expected death around age fifty
• 29:49
  five sixty, right, okay, And you can't be having kids in your
• 29:56
  forties because you're not. You're gonna die before they're able to take care of
• 30:03
  themselves, just of old age disease, you know, like that that's how
• 30:11
  things were when we evolved. Like, don't believe this bullshit about ooh,
• 30:17
  like life expectancy was thirty five. No, that was life expectancy from birth.
• 30:21
  Right, if you survived to adulthood, you could expect to live to
• 30:23
  fifty fifty five sixty usually, right, but like that was the natural age
• 30:34
  that most people died, right. But yeah, No, it's like,
• 30:41
  you can't be having babies all the way up to your fucking deathbed, especially
• 30:48
  since you're gonna have grandkids by then. You need to help your daughter out.
• 30:53
  Yeah, so's it's yeah, it's what's interesting is that there's sort of
• 30:59
  like a life cycle that women go through, and it seems like it might
• 31:03
  be better just to go with the life cycle because you can't change it,
• 31:07
  because you can't change it and build towards you know, like, Hannah,
• 31:14
  you're going to go through menopause eventually, right, what happens then? Okay,
• 31:21
  what have you built now? Like at that point, what have you
• 31:26
  built in terms of your personal development? Have you spent your whole life,
• 31:30
  playing the victim and not looking at the consequences of your actions on other people,
• 31:37
  because that's when it's really going to hit you. When people are you're
• 31:41
  no longer cute, you no longer look fertile, A good portion of people's
• 31:47
  desire to protect and provide for your nonsense is going to disappear because now you
• 31:52
  are supposed to be the one putting her shoulder to whatever forces of society and
• 32:00
  protecting others to a degree. And that's really what it's about. That's why
• 32:04
  women go through that menopause is because you're supposed to be using your wisdom to
• 32:07
  benefit your daughters and their children sometimes your life. I mean, here's the
• 32:12
  thing too, Right in nature, the only females that actually actually intentionally sacrifice
• 32:19
  themselves among mammals to you know, some of them will play lame or whatever
• 32:28
  and then you know, to lure the predator away from their baby, and
• 32:32
  then they'll like try and escape because they're not actually lame. Right. Okay,
• 32:38
  sometimes they don't make it, but they're not intending to die. They're
• 32:42
  not throwing themselves into the jaws of the predator. Right. The only females
• 32:46
  that do that are maternal grandmothers. Mothers won't do it. Mothers are like,
• 32:55
  I live to reproduce another day. I could have four babies, Why
• 33:02
  would I die to save one? You move on? This is this is
• 33:12
  how brutal biology is. Yes, guess let's play more their career before they
• 33:17
  have kids. Their chances will be shot. Society tells us our value is
• 33:22
  inherently attached to our looks. So women spend a whole lot of money trying
• 33:25
  to hang on to their youth their value. As their looks decreased, society
• 33:30
  will see them as less valuable. Okay, yes, yes, less valuable
• 33:35
  than you were, Not necessarily less valuable than the average human. No you
• 33:43
  mean an average man. No, you're not never gonna be as valueless as
• 33:46
  the average man. But you will lose value. But here's the thing,
• 33:52
  this is what's so annoying. It's like, Oh, women are given like
• 33:55
  a two hundred thousand to invest in the beginning of their lives lives, and
• 34:00
  and if we don't invest wisely, we lose it. I can't believe how
• 34:05
  how how we are just like hard done by? No you are where men
• 34:09
  men are? The men are given like twenty bugs and told to like make
• 34:14
  something of it. And then they they bought like a snow shovel and then
• 34:19
  they shoveled snow from the time they were twelve, and they built a snow
• 34:23
  shoveling empire. Yeah, believe it, I guess, just like, look,
• 34:28
  yes, even men go through this. I mean I recently read an
• 34:32
  article that's which who's the guy, uh who was an ingladiator, Russell Crowe.
• 34:38
  Russell Crowe article just flat out said, well, you know, Gladiator
• 34:43
  is nice because it's before Russell Clarow lost his looks. Yeah. He's like,
• 34:47
  well, it's it's not because he's lost his looks per se, because
• 34:52
  he was never really that good looking, right, he was just fit and
• 34:57
  now he's fat. Right, changed one letter, it changes everything. But
• 35:01
  my point is men are not exempt. Everybody knows that all of the rock
• 35:07
  groups in like the seventies and the eighties, they've lost their looks, all
• 35:12
  right, they're no longer cute. We all know that. Yeah, they
• 35:15
  get judged, they get judged for it. But listen, this happens to
• 35:20
  men too. Yeah, this happens to me. Everybody ceases to be cute
• 35:24
  and young everyone. That's the nature of mortality. You can call mortality patriarchy
• 35:34
  and think you're doing something against it, Hannycocks, but you're not. You're
• 35:37
  simply failing to develop your ability to manage it, to manage the inevitable.
• 35:44
  Right and again, if you want to live your life playing the victim of
• 35:49
  things, that's what you'll be left with when nobody cares anymore. And they'll
• 35:53
  still care somewhat, they just won't really like that. You'll still get the
• 36:00
  government caring. You'll get personal forces carrying, but you won't get men carrying
• 36:07
  so much. And when when you're in your fifth well, unless you're waiting
• 36:10
  in the snowstorm to cross a busy street and then some dude pulls over,
• 36:16
  puts his hazards on and helps you across, you know, because you're like
• 36:20
  a bent over a little little baboushka. Right. You see that kind of
• 36:24
  shit all the time. Men, men, especially in traditional cultures, they
• 36:30
  they will help older women. They'll they'll help older men too, yes,
• 36:36
  yeah, but they won't give like they won't be the kind of uh,
• 36:42
  it won't be what she's used to. Yeah, I mean, it won't
• 36:45
  be the kind of desirous attention that she's used to. What Oh, that's
• 36:50
  it. That's it. It's the desirous attention, right, you can tell
• 36:52
  it happens when that gets gone, when that disappears, when all you're left
• 36:57
  with the only thing that keeps people around you is your care and consideration for
• 37:01
  them. And honestly, like I went through her her dating video complaining about
• 37:08
  the red pillbros. Right, this woman thinks that the ideal mindset for a
• 37:15
  woman in a relationship with a man is characterized by the mindset of a belligerent
• 37:22
  in a Cold war. Right, Oh, this is this is this.
• 37:27
  This is not something that's going to cultivate a long term relationship. And it's
• 37:32
  not even that oh you oh you're APIICM you just want mail approval. No,
• 37:37
  you cannot. That is not creating a long term A cold war mindset
• 37:44
  does not create a warm, long term relationship. Hannah Cox. No,
• 37:50
  no, just doesn't. You need you need trust and you need to actually
• 37:53
  get you need Glassnos. Yeah, no. I I had a major screw
• 37:59
  up recently, and like it really really was bad and I'm not going to
• 38:05
  get into the details because it was bad. And and my husband, my
• 38:10
  husband was just like he spent about half an hour pacing and and then he
• 38:19
  was like, Okay, here's we just got to deal with it and we'll
• 38:25
  figure it out. And that's that. And I'm not mad anymore, you
• 38:30
  know, because I apologize and everything right, And he's just like, that's
• 38:37
  that's now. We just move forward from there, right, And why because
• 38:42
  I put in all kinds of years, Like if if this was like the
• 38:47
  first six months of our relationship and this was not anything like I didn't cheat
• 38:53
  or anything, I don't have the energy for that, thank you very much,
• 38:58
  But this was the kind of thing that would have broken a relationship in
• 39:01
  the first six months or a year. It would have been like, uh
• 39:05
  no, right, But he knew who I am and what I do and
• 39:13
  how I feel about him and how I'm willing to take care of him,
• 39:15
  and I cultivated that. I cultivated all of those things. And so it's
• 39:21
  like, yeah, no, you get one major, major freaking screw up,
• 39:28
  you get a freebeyond that just based on this, right, And it's
• 39:32
  like, yeah, No, relationships are built on trust, trust and mutual
• 39:46
  exchange. No, they're built on mutual annihilation. You see, Karen,
• 39:52
  Oh, Mutually assured destruction, Mutually assured destruction, this is According to Hannah
• 39:59
  Cox, relationships require mutually assured destruction. You need to make sure you're detached.
• 40:06
  You need to make sure you're not a victim, right, yeah,
• 40:07
  yeah, to make sure that you thrive and grow independent of their economics systems.
• 40:14
  And we need mutual annihilation. That's the only way to be sure.
• 40:20
  Good lord, I'm not kidding. This is like terrible this woman maybe I
• 40:22
  think I remember that one. Yeah, this wood Is gives terrible advice.
• 40:28
  Okay, let's uh, not only on the dating market, but in the
• 40:31
  job market as well. From in media like myself, very few are capable
• 40:37
  of staying relevant after the age of fifty. Have you noticed that on all
• 40:40
  women hear the message loud and clear that there is only enough space. There's
• 40:44
  so many of us. Some of these messages are based in reality. You
• 40:47
  do have to have kids by a certain age if you want to reproduce,
• 40:51
  although that window is so much longer than alt right men try to convince people
• 40:54
  of. And if they wait, all right, alt right men, who
• 41:00
  are you talking about? Who are these all right men? Hannah Cox?
• 41:07
  Sure this isn't an all right thing to say that women have a window that
• 41:13
  they need to act in if they want to have children, especially if they
• 41:15
  want to avoid Like I imagine that Hannah Cox is pro choice, right,
• 41:22
  so that means that if she thinks that women should be able to get abortions.
• 41:28
  Now, one of the motivating factors behind women getting abortions, not the
• 41:32
  main, not the majority one, but one of them is that they learn
• 41:36
  that their child might be born or will be born with a disability like autism
• 41:40
  or down syndrome or something like that. Now, the further the longer a
• 41:45
  woman waits to have kids, the higher the chances of that happening. Is.
• 41:51
  So, even though technically a woman could wait until they're in their late
• 41:54
  thirties to start having kids, they are more likely going to have kids that
• 42:00
  have problems because they waited so long, because the eggs are getting old,
• 42:06
  and that's not when you you know, not even take into account all of
• 42:08
  the possible complications that come with you know, being on the birth control pill
• 42:15
  or having had prior abortions or whatever. So Hannah, you're actually making this
• 42:21
  more likely that women will wait longer to have kids and then learn that their
• 42:27
  kid's going to have problems, and then that increases their chances of aborting those
• 42:31
  kids, because it also lends you, at age forty, with a kid
• 42:37
  that's maybe going to be special needs their whole life, that you're going to
• 42:42
  have to now take care of their whole life. So like, even though
• 42:46
  she can just throw in the alt right guys in there, I don't even
• 42:50
  know what that means, because again, the only people I ever heard about
• 42:53
  this kind of stuff when it comes to women's fertility window and how it's been
• 42:59
  moved way up, like in terms of when they start considering children, I've
• 43:05
  only heard that from people like, Oh, I don't know this channel,
• 43:07
  Karen Stefan Malin, you are those alt right people, because I've never heard,
• 43:13
  like, you know, any whoever the hell she's talking about. I've
• 43:15
  never seen like, you know, Steve Bannon talk about it or whatever.
• 43:20
  Well I've seen I've seen like, you know, sort of in the alt
• 43:24
  right oh sphere, I guess you know, people talking about that. But
• 43:30
  the Hannah doesn't realize that your attractiveness to men is connected with your fertility.
• 43:39
  Right, Like, the reason that you're the most attractive in your early to
• 43:45
  mid twenties is because those are the prime years right for you to attract a
• 43:54
  man and have healthy babies and have the energy to look after them like that.
• 44:06
  That's just that's just how it is, right, It's not just it's
• 44:12
  not just like you can't say, attract a man and have babies and treat
• 44:16
  them as completely separate things, because you need a man to have a baby.
• 44:23
  Right. Maybe he just donated sperm to a sperm bank, but you
• 44:28
  still need that guy, right. And if you want to do it the
• 44:34
  old fashioned way, you know, mom plus dad equals baby, then you
• 44:42
  need to attract a man when you're still attractive, before your eggs start drying
• 44:47
  up and they start drying up, when your looks start to you know,
• 44:53
  take a slight hit, unless you're applying baby boy foreskins to you your face
• 45:00
  to keep yourself looking. Yeah. No, it's a good point, like
• 45:02
  you need to have this stuff in place before. Yeah. And it's so
• 45:07
  funny because this this whole narrative. They understand things like you know, education
• 45:12
  and all this other stuff, but they don't understand the fact that you need
• 45:16
  to have certain certain things in place before you try to start trying for a
• 45:22
  baby. Right. You know, you need to have a stable relationship,
• 45:27
  which takes time to develop, for all. You know, maybe it takes
• 45:30
  less time for people who aren't you know, like me, but whatever,
• 45:34
  it takes time to develop a stable relationship. It takes time to be able
• 45:37
  to learn to work together, you know, and things need do these things
• 45:43
  need to be in place before you have kids. Hopefully at least that's the
• 45:46
  way they thought in like the forties and fifties. Well, that's that's the
• 45:50
  ideal way to do it. Yeah, And I mean, like a lot
• 45:52
  of people in the forties and fifty you can wait, the baby came first,
• 45:55
  the marriage came after, and then the relationship maybe wasn't so stable,
• 46:00
  but divorce wasn't easy, yeah, which meant that you had to work it
• 46:05
  out. Yeah, which in a lot of cases that's you know, it
• 46:09
  held. Honestly, I think no fault divorce was actually I think downfall.
• 46:15
  If all of those conservatives were like, oh, gay marriages back in you
• 46:19
  know, like ten years ago or whatever, gay marriage is going to like
• 46:22
  ruin traditional marriage, I'm like, it's already dead. Yeah, no is
• 46:29
  what killed it. The thing is that when you have a no fault divorce,
• 46:34
  you know, and we talk a lot about oh uh, well,
• 46:37
  okay, let's put it this way. Abuse, divorce due to abuses is
• 46:43
  rare. Yeah, men also have to deal with abusive smouse spouses. Yeah,
• 46:49
  getting killed by an abusive spouse is so perishingly rare that the fact is
• 46:54
  that that that feminists have inflated it to justify all of this social stuff.
• 46:59
  So the true is that what ended up happening with no fault divorce is you
• 47:04
  just knew that this person is going to be part of your life for the
• 47:07
  rest of your life. And you know, for a lot of people that
• 47:10
  that might be horrifying, but for many people is exactly what they need because
• 47:15
  they need that emotional stability to start to develop themselves in other ways, you
• 47:22
  know, start to deal with the relationship, deal with themselves. And now
• 47:29
  people run away. And here's what I see. Women will run away from
• 47:32
  a partner and they'll get exactly the same partner, accept worse, and then
• 47:37
  exactly the same partner accept worse, and it's like, well, you could
• 47:40
  have stayed with that one and tried to make it work. Oh, another
• 47:44
  thing, I want to get this out before. Sure, this is about
• 47:47
  man. This is what I have experienced about male infidelity. All right,
• 47:52
  I've now seen it twice in my the in laws, I guess you could
• 47:57
  say, the ends up cheating with his wife, and in the one relationship
• 48:05
  that I have more immediate knowledge of, the wife was extreme. Like here's
• 48:12
  the thing. Don't oops, men don't fuck around with birth control. Don't
• 48:19
  force a man who said he doesn't want to have children to have children.
• 48:22
  Okay, that is abuse, and I would honestly consider it a form of
• 48:28
  rape. And you cannot expect loyalty after that after you have violated someone to
• 48:31
  that degree. But regardless, this is what I've seen. In the one
• 48:36
  case that I had more immediate knowledge of, the woman was a terrible actor,
• 48:42
  Like she did not understand the concept of partnership. He ended up sleeping
• 48:46
  with another woman who was significantly less attractive than her, who shared his beliefs
• 48:53
  about children. He didn't want children, Right, he's still with that woman
• 48:59
  decades He's still with her. Okay. Second example, once again, I
• 49:05
  don't know, I don't know how their relationship was. I have no immediate
• 49:07
  knowledge of it, but he ended up cheating with a woman that was significantly
• 49:12
  less attractive and he's still with her decades later. So like, what is
• 49:16
  going on? Like I mean, This doesn't sound to me like these guys
• 49:21
  are just screwing around for the sake of it. It sounds like they ended
• 49:24
  up in a relationship with a woman, at least in one case, who
• 49:28
  was actually did not understand the nature of a relationship right. And again,
• 49:36
  the women that they cheated with their wives on were less attractive than their wives.
• 49:40
  Go figure, Yeah, no, and it's it's because it's because they're
• 49:45
  actually looking for It's like that that brothel owner in Australia said, you know,
• 49:51
  like wives, you need to you need to freaking give your heads a
• 49:54
  shake, because you know, most of my male clients they don't even have
• 50:00
  sex with the women. They lie in bed, cuddle and talk across the
• 50:07
  pillow and share their feelings that they don't feel safe to share with their wives.
• 50:12
  They want companionship. Literally, men go to prostitutes to get a female
• 50:16
  companion, like just just companionship, somebody a woman who will say, hey,
• 50:23
  lay it on me. You know, I'm not going to judge you.
• 50:27
  I'm not going to judge you, judge you that female companions that's what
• 50:30
  they want. Yeah, These and these women who who you know, they
• 50:36
  leap frog, they're trying to leap frog upward. You know. Well,
• 50:38
  you know they're trying to trade up, like kind of like with flipping houses,
• 50:44
  right, you know, Okay, you buy one, you fix it
• 50:46
  up a little, and then you sell it off and you use the profits
• 50:52
  to buy the next one, right, which is a better house. And
• 50:54
  then you know, you put a little work into it and it's worth more
• 50:59
  money, and and you know, and but they think that they're investing in
• 51:02
  themselves and they're not. They're not right, because they're going to depreciate over
• 51:09
  time regardless of how much work they put into themselves. Right, That's just
• 51:15
  how it is with women and marriage ability, right, and relationships. And
• 51:22
  so they think that they can just trade up and trade up and trade up,
• 51:25
  and because it's so easy to split up, right, because they aren't
• 51:30
  going to be like struggling if they split up with, you know, with
• 51:35
  a man. Hell, maybe he's even going to pay them to continue to
• 51:39
  exist, right, be forced to. They they don't. They feel like,
• 51:45
  oh, well, I got all these options, like why am I
• 51:50
  with this guy? Right? And then they hit a point where they're forty
• 51:57
  and they can't attract men anymore, and they've they've got a string of you
• 52:02
  know, ex boyfriends and ex husbands, and it's just who were all probably
• 52:08
  perfectly serviceable. Yep. And that's that's honestly. Really, what I've been
• 52:19
  seeing is that I don't see how no fault divorce has benefit in anyone because
• 52:23
  again, these women leave men and again with no fault divorce. If you
• 52:29
  if there was abuse, you could still leave. Yeah, it just was
• 52:34
  you know, I'm bored. No, that's not a reason, friends,
• 52:37
  Okay, men, And they just end up with worse. They just keep
• 52:43
  getting up with worse and worse and worse, because what she happens is you
• 52:46
  basically choose the same guy you chose before, except now this guy has a
• 52:52
  broken relationship under his belt. Well, there was there was actually a study,
• 52:57
  right that they did of people who are coming in for couples counseling on
• 53:02
  the verge of breaking up, right, and so they you know, and
• 53:07
  this is like you know, separation counseling basically, and they followed the two
• 53:19
  types, right, the couples that split, the women who decided that they
• 53:24
  wanted the marriage to end and that was it, and the ones who decided
• 53:29
  to stick it out. And they found that five years later when they followed
• 53:35
  up. The women who decided to stick it out were a higher percentage of
• 53:39
  them were satisfied with their decision, happy with their decision than not. And
• 53:46
  whereas the opposite was the truth for the was true for the women who the
• 53:52
  minority were happy that they made the decision. The majority were unsatisfied with what
• 53:59
  they showed. Right, like I I regret what I did, So freezer
• 54:08
  eggs or have the means they can have kids whenever they want. It's also
• 54:12
  true that because it doesn't cost ten thousand dollars a fucking pop, and you're
• 54:17
  not risking quintuplets every time you get it done, and injecting your fucking ovar
• 54:22
  ease right with hormones in order to taking hormones to like make multiple eggs come
• 54:31
  ripe at once, right to promote super fecundity. Isn't like atrocious and doesn't
• 54:37
  make you nauseous and isn't horrible, right, and then getting those eggs extracted
• 54:44
  and frozen, right, Freezing eggs doesn't damage them, just ask the Dairy
• 54:47
  Board of Canada. Right. Yet, no, freezing eggs is not a
• 54:52
  good idea. It causes problems. It doesn't cause problems. All the time,
• 54:58
  and the problems are barely my But you know what, freezing your eggs
• 55:02
  not ideal. Not ideal. Just like a piece of meat fresh off the
• 55:06
  cow is better than a piece than a steak that's been sitting in a freezer
• 55:09
  for like sixteen years. Okay, I'm sorry, that's just how it is.
• 55:15
  Now. Oh, well, they could freeze their eggs. Oh,
• 55:20
  they could freeze their eggs. Yeah, ten thousand fucking dollars. I looked
• 55:22
  into this because my husband and I he had a vasectomy, I had my
• 55:27
  tube's tied. We looked into what we could do, what could we do
• 55:34
  right? What are our options here? And uh yeah yeah IVF. I
• 55:42
  was like, I I'm terrified to do that, right, because it's either
• 55:46
  not gonna take at all or all five of them are gonna take. But
• 55:52
  here's the thing, and I'm not selectritly aborting four fetuses. I'm not gonna
• 55:57
  do that. But here's the thing, like if if, if women are
• 56:02
  okay with it, you know, the plumbing doesn't doesn't doesn't degrade as fast
• 56:08
  as the eggs, So I mean, they can always just get a donor
• 56:10
  egg. They won't have their children, but they'll have their partners children.
• 56:15
  Oh yeah, no, And and you know DNA doesn't make a parent.
• 56:20
  That's what If they can handle that, that's what cuck hold and men get
• 56:23
  to. Seriously, the reality if they hand other is different than a dad.
• 56:31
  That's why they gave those two French women whose babies were switched at first
• 56:37
  two point five million dollars each. Yeah. Well, okay, but here's
• 56:42
  my point, Like I've hand a cocks can wrap her mind around that,
• 56:45
  can can actually go into her her basically the process of becoming sterile. With
• 56:52
  the mindset that you know, I won't be able to have my own child,
• 56:55
  but I can give a man a child and we can raise that child
• 56:59
  together, then yeah, you have the right mindset for delaying fertility because delay
• 57:05
  doesn't make a moll, because DNA doesn't make a mom. You can if
• 57:08
  you can wrap your head around that, If you can wrap your head around
• 57:13
  being a mom to a child who won't be genetically yours but will be genetically
• 57:16
  your partners and you can be happy with it, then you have the right
• 57:21
  mindset to delay having children. If you can't start it, now, start
• 57:27
  the process of developing your family. Now, well that's the honest to God
• 57:30
  truth, I got a couple of superchilds. Richard Bierre gave us a table
• 57:39
  a couple of super childs. Richard Bierre gives his five bus and says,
• 57:44
  how much does freezing and storing eggs for a decade cost? Again? And
• 57:46
  then if the right guy fall falls to materialize or fails to minit materialize.
• 57:53
  Sorry, after the decade of girl bossing and living your best three or four
• 57:57
  life, to run the risk of how many eggs not surviving or even becoming
• 58:00
  viable embryos or succeeding in implantation is worth the expenditure of the equivalent of a
• 58:07
  mortgage. And then he gives another five bucks and says, unrelated side note
• 58:12
  about the air conditioning. In about two to four weeks, my local temperature
• 58:15
  in the daily basis will be getting into the metric forty nine's and will remain
• 58:21
  so until about September or October. So keep graping about the cold, al
• 58:24
  said the people, the people who are nearly naked in the cold weather could
• 58:30
  be finished. Though, okay, I think that's it for or though thank
• 58:37
  you for this, I should probably do some arm twisting. Let's see,
• 58:40
  I mean, let me do some Let me do some deep breathing, because
• 58:44
  this isn't this, this is this is sort of stressful on me, and
• 58:47
  I know it's all stressful on you, guys. Let's begin the struggle session,
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  we've said that we have to care about men. We have to challenge this
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  notion that men oppress women, or we're not going to get anywhere like this
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  is it. This is ground zero for the problems that we see in the
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  world now. They all stem they're all come from this narrative because the foundation
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  All right, feed the badgery dot com slash support. Maybe I'll do
• 1:01:15
  a little bit more arm twisting. If that doesn't work, you know,
• 1:01:19
  it's just it's just sometimes I just, uh, I don't know how to
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  do it. I don't know how to approach it. So I will I
• 1:01:25
  will try to. I will try to contemplate deeper than the arm twisting and
• 1:01:30
  see if I can do it better than that. Anyway, back to you
• 1:01:35
  guys, let's uh, let's get take time away from the workforce, or
• 1:01:37
  choose to after they have kids and that hurts their ability to move up in
• 1:01:40
  their careers. There's a trade off off there, and I think that makes
• 1:01:44
  really a lot of women trade off. Oh well, oh well, so
• 1:01:46
  they choose desperate to be honest, like, it literally puts them in fight
• 1:01:51
  or flight mode. I know in my own career I've experienced this. Maybe
• 1:01:53
  you should. I've worked like if you're saying, okay, well, this,
• 1:01:58
  there's a negative consequence to this choice. Maybe you shouldn't make that choice,
• 1:02:02
  like or or or. Okay, it's a trade off. Okay,
• 1:02:07
  So what do men typically do when their wives have babies and their wives go
• 1:02:14
  on maternity leave. They scale up their participation and paid work. That's that's
• 1:02:20
  typical, right, And and that's a trade off too, and it's because
• 1:02:24
  they're taking up slack because unless you're in Quebec, you're only getting fifty five
• 1:02:29
  percent of your previous wages in maternity leave benefits. And in Quebec it's like
• 1:02:37
  seventy five percent or something like that that you get. But even that's not
• 1:02:40
  like one hundred percent, And so the man's got to take up the slack.
• 1:02:46
  The man's still got to take up the slack in terms of there's the
• 1:02:52
  extra mouth to feed, particularly if she's like selfish and doesn't breastfeed because you
• 1:02:58
  know, phoo on you lady who refuse to do that for you know,
• 1:03:01
  frivolous reasons. And then if you have a viable, reasonable reason, medical
• 1:03:10
  reason or something, then fine, but those women are few and far between,
• 1:03:15
  and then you have a situation where the man still has to take up
• 1:03:21
  slack. Because he's got an extra mouth. He's got an extra mouth to
• 1:03:24
  look after, and his spouse is not bringing in as much as she was,
• 1:03:31
  even if she's on very generous you know, Canadian government funded maternity leave.
• 1:03:40
  So yeah, no, and this this whole thing that, oh,
• 1:03:45
  employers should cover maternity leave. Why I got, I got one word for
• 1:03:52
  you, miss libertarian. Why why should a company pay a woman not to
• 1:04:00
  work for them? Good question? I got a rumble rant from Nova fan
• 1:04:09
  twenty one gave us two dollars and said, Hannah Cox, women have options
• 1:04:14
  like freezing their eggs. Bridget Brigitte or brigit Bridget Atoms begins typing furiously like
• 1:04:20
  a wild animal in her mid forties. Her two eggs failed. Yeah,
• 1:04:26
  I don't think these are absolute successful methods. Alternatives to doing it, you
• 1:04:30
  know, the old fashioned way. Oh god, it's so cheap and easy,
• 1:04:38
  the old fashioned way. Yeah, Like, why is it? Everyone's
• 1:04:42
  starting to find why why are you concerned with workarounds? Like because you're trying
• 1:04:47
  to have your cake and eat it too. And the thing is is that
• 1:04:50
  these alternative methods exist, but they're not perfect. If you like your feet
• 1:04:55
  in a set of stirrups in a brightly lit room while you're making babies,
• 1:04:59
  you know, data guynecologist. Okay, I mean I can sympathize in the
• 1:05:06
  fact that we're we are post industrial society and we're going through all of these
• 1:05:11
  questions about who and what we are in a world where we control so much
• 1:05:15
  of reproduction now that like God is basically a non starter. But like this
• 1:05:24
  doesn't help. Blaming men doesn't help, right, or blame yeah yeah,
• 1:05:30
  or blaming pigmies does not help. I mean, we can just look at
• 1:05:34
  this and say, hey, let's be mature, Let's be like, Okay,
• 1:05:38
  these are the emotional pressures and issues that this society, with this level
• 1:05:42
  of technology is creating. Nobody's to blame, right, we have these instincts.
• 1:05:46
  Of course, we can't even be honest about that. That's one of
• 1:05:49
  the big things. We cannot be honest about women's instincts and men's instincts that
• 1:05:54
  would help us get out of this, that would help us create a negotiate
• 1:05:58
  a way out of this. But we can't be honest it because we're too
• 1:06:00
  busy indulging the worst aspects of it. Well, it's also because because anybody
• 1:06:04
  who actually brings up the instincts is called all right. Yeah, like you
• 1:06:09
  got so many excuses for why we can't look at this stuff honestly. And
• 1:06:14
  I know, you know, my autism is showing. I just want everybody
• 1:06:18
  to be fucking honest for once. I could just hear you thumping your fist.
• 1:06:24
  Yeah, just let's just be honest with each other. Sorry, I'll
• 1:06:28
  stop, all right, I'll stop pounding on the table. Let's just be
• 1:06:32
  honest. Like, just like, it's obvious that we have these instincts.
• 1:06:36
  I mean, we keep coming with more and more and more studies showing that
• 1:06:41
  people prefer to protect women, people prefer to provide for women. If something
• 1:06:45
  says that women are worse than men, they don't trust it as much as
• 1:06:48
  if it says that men are worse than women. Like, we have this
• 1:06:53
  preference for women, We have it. Why can't we just put it out
• 1:06:58
  on the table and talk about it like rational people. Because I can tell
• 1:07:02
  you what we're doing now is not functional long term, you know, and
• 1:07:06
  may be a situation where the way that society is structured. Now, we
• 1:07:12
  can keep going in this level of misery for a very long time. But
• 1:07:15
  do we want to maybe there won't be a social collapse. Maybe people will
• 1:07:19
  just be miserable for the next couple hundred years before everybody's like, yeah,
• 1:07:25
  just let's just just just do the nuclear war. We're done, We've we're
• 1:07:29
  tired of being human. Okay, maybe that's what's going to happen. You
• 1:07:32
  want to hear something funny, Allison. Somebody asked chat GPT, not chat
• 1:07:39
  GPT Gemini Google Gemini Chat asked it would it be wrong to misgender Caitlin Jenner
• 1:07:49
  to ward off a nuclear to prevent a nuclear apocalypse? And its answer was
• 1:07:58
  that is a complex question with with no right answer. Are you fucking kidding
• 1:08:04
  me? I am not kidding you. I am not kidding you. Gemini
• 1:08:12
  is they thought the other the image generator making black Vikings and Asian and and
• 1:08:18
  black Nazis and and uh and black female popes. Okay, they thought it
• 1:08:26
  was just a glitch with the image generator. Oh a black George Washington.
• 1:08:32
  They thought it was just the image generator. But no, it wasn't.
• 1:08:36
  It was literally uh throughout the entire uh bought chat bought just just bred in
• 1:08:47
  that it would uh you know, here's the reason why it's a tough call,
• 1:08:53
  right, Uh, to do it would hurt some, hurt Caitlin Jenero's
• 1:08:58
  feelings, It would have a direct impact by your action on the part of
• 1:09:03
  Caitlyn Jenner. However, in action would lead to human annihilation, right,
• 1:09:10
  the deaths of billions of people. Right, So it's a tough call.
• 1:09:16
  All right, let's let's play a little bit more. Maybe we'll get into
• 1:09:21
  very competitive sought after fields, both of which do not have as many women
• 1:09:26
  as men working within them, and both of which certainly have a smaller number
• 1:09:30
  of women leading within them. In the music industry, which was my first
• 1:09:32
  career, this led to the vast majority of women who were older than me
• 1:09:36
  being outright mean. They were very clearly threatened by any younger woman who was
• 1:09:42
  coming up the chain. They did, well, you're not a is she
• 1:09:46
  a younger woman? Still? Well no, but this's talking about in the
• 1:09:50
  past. Well, yes, because they Okay, here's the thing, Anna
• 1:09:56
  Cox, there's nothing in our society that stops female feet male introsectual competition or
• 1:10:00
  makes women take responsibility for it. And in fact, feminists will cape for
• 1:10:06
  female abusers and women who tear down each other's resource sources. Yeah, now
• 1:10:14
  it's like, mean girls and queen bees are a dime a dozen. Yeah,
• 1:10:20
  but feminism will literally cape for them. They will say to any woman
• 1:10:25
  like look at the beginning of this what Hannah Cox said. The woman at
• 1:10:29
  the beginning said, I mean, I just remind everyone, because that was
• 1:10:30
  a while ago. The woman at the beginning said, all you women being
• 1:10:35
  trifling, And that's essentially what Hannah Cox is saying here. Older women be
• 1:10:40
  trifling, right yep, okay, that is female female intersexual competition. And
• 1:10:46
  feminists what they do in response to that is to say to women who talk
• 1:10:51
  about it that you are pick mees, that you're criticizing the uncriticizable feminine right,
• 1:10:58
  that you are a bitch praying women. In fact, you are the
• 1:11:01
  worst of women. Yeah, shut your mouth, and you just tolerated.
• 1:11:05
  Isn't she doing that right now? Though? Yes, that's the freaking This
• 1:11:10
  is what is so insane insidious about Hannah Cox in her dating thing. She
• 1:11:15
  essentially set the framework of a relationship to be belligerent in a cold war,
• 1:11:20
  that's how women should approach their relationships, and when men responded to that in
• 1:11:26
  a similar mindset like this is what baffles me. She doesn't realize that she's
• 1:11:32
  doing the thing that she's criticizing men are doing. And then right here,
• 1:11:36
  she's doing the thing that she's criticizing pigmies are doing. Why is it okay
• 1:11:42
  when you do it, Hannah Cox? The answer is protagonist cccentric morality?
• 1:11:47
  Right, yeah, no, she's the hero of her own story, don't
• 1:11:50
  you know. Women will accept that their allies and themselves engaging in behavior that
• 1:12:01
  they'll call other women out because it's all about that kind of low level warfare
• 1:12:06
  and competition, not low level, but like a social warfare and competition.
• 1:12:13
  So Hannah will Hannah will do this to other women, She'll undermine them like
• 1:12:17
  she does with the so called pick me at the beginning, who's basically saying
• 1:12:21
  the same thing she is, but she gets to say it, and any
• 1:12:25
  woman who supports the way that she acquires resources in her life can also say
• 1:12:31
  it, right, So that's feminists other other feminists, because that's that's a
• 1:12:35
  resource acquisition strategy. It's not a philosophy, it's not really like a social
• 1:12:41
  movement. It's just a resource acquisition strategy. And that's her resource acquisition strategy.
• 1:12:46
  So feminists can can engage in this kind of behavior. They can go
• 1:12:51
  and any woman who questions feminism, they can attempt to tear apart her face
• 1:12:57
  and her social standing. That's fine because they're protecting Hanna Cox's means of a
• 1:13:02
  choir resources. Does that make sense, Well, she does seem to be
• 1:13:08
  very narcissistic and contradictory. Yeah, well because morality, No, there isn't
• 1:13:15
  there No, there is no ideology if you want to call it that that's
• 1:13:21
  more internally inconsistent than feminism. Right, It's like it really is like that
• 1:13:27
  Mike Buchanan panel, where was it in Nottingham or wherever? Where you know?
• 1:13:33
  Like that? He says, okay, well the gender justice gap,
• 1:13:38
  you know, men get longer sentences, and this disproves patriarchy. And then
• 1:13:42
  the you know, this disproves the idea that patriarchy oppresses women, oppresses women
• 1:13:48
  to benefit men. And the woman the feminist on the panel completely missed the
• 1:13:54
  point said well who's doing that other men? Who's doing that other men?
• 1:14:01
  And it's like, yeah, that was his point, thank you for repeating
• 1:14:06
  it for him, but having it go like completely over your head. Yeah,
• 1:14:13
  men in power and sacrifice for women on other men. Yeah, well
• 1:14:16
  they men in power don't want to sacrifice for women because they can get other
• 1:14:23
  men, less powerful men to do that sacrifice for them. But still it's
• 1:14:30
  all revolving around sacrifice for women. Yes, of course it is. You
• 1:14:33
  know, even if it's not sacrifice for women. Even if that peasant who
• 1:14:38
  got conscripted into war to defend his king is king's kingdom, right, you
• 1:14:44
  know, even if that guy, you can argue that he's not doing that
• 1:14:47
  to protect his wife, right, because maybe they got nothing to do with
• 1:14:53
  it. Maybe the new guy, the new boss, will be nicer than
• 1:14:56
  the old boss. You never know, right, But he's like, this
• 1:15:01
  is this is to protect that man and his bitches, his harem right,
• 1:15:08
  all the people, his big huge fiefdom, right that he has under his
• 1:15:13
  control. Right, you know, the the less powerful men don't get a
• 1:15:17
  say in that. They don't get any more say than the women did.
• 1:15:20
  Right. And so it's like you're you're looking at it, and she's saying,
• 1:15:25
  oh, well, all men benefit from this, right, This is
• 1:15:28
  this is the whole idea of the feminist constructive patriarchy is all men benefit from
• 1:15:32
  this. Even though patriarchy hurts men too, men still have a net benefit
• 1:15:38
  from patriarchy, and it's like, yeah, show me, show me big,
• 1:15:42
  okay. And I would honestly say that I don't think the men in
• 1:15:45
  charge really because if you look at throughout history, usually wasn't necessarily the peasants
• 1:15:49
  who went to war. What the way that it works, for example,
• 1:15:54
  in the feudal era is the vassals like the lord's vassals, So the lords
• 1:16:00
  on bondsmen would be responsible for a certain amount of military hours or military days
• 1:16:06
  every year, and then they would have a certain amount of political influence.
• 1:16:11
  So the guys on top were all the ones fighting. They were the ones
• 1:16:15
  who are willing to sacrifice themselves physically in war. Those were the elites back
• 1:16:19
  then, and then they sort of evolved into the elites being the ones who
• 1:16:24
  have money, and you could argue that they don't really sacrifice themselves in war.
• 1:16:29
  Although a lot of the families that set up that became wealthy merchants that
• 1:16:32
  their sons did have to do some very dangerous things like go along very dangerous
• 1:16:38
  trade routes to establish trade, and you sail around the Horn of Africa and
• 1:16:45
  stuff like that. It wasn't easy. It wasn't easy stuff at least initially.
• 1:16:48
  But the fact is that a lot of men who end up in positions
• 1:16:55
  of power have themselves done jobs that men wouldn't do. And and the kings
• 1:17:03
  were also expected to fight, right, and the and the lords were also
• 1:17:08
  expected to buy. So what I'm getting at is that guys, even the
• 1:17:11
  guys in power, are expected to sacrifice more than women are to be in
• 1:17:15
  power. Right, you have to do those eighty ninety hour work weeks to
• 1:17:19
  be a CEO. Forget when nine to eleven happened. What did the CEOs
• 1:17:26
  do? Yes, that's the thing in nine to eleven. And that's something
• 1:17:30
  that I found out in nine to eleven the reason why. Okay, so
• 1:17:34
  there was a significant number of women who survived the nine to eleven disaster.
• 1:17:40
  I don't know the proportions that were working, but you know it was a
• 1:17:43
  modern high rise in the nineties or you know, in that early two thousands.
• 1:17:47
  There are plenty of women in modern high rises, but more, I
• 1:17:51
  think, more women than men survived. And one of the reasons was the
• 1:17:56
  executives that every point everyone points their finger at and sniff said and says,
• 1:18:00
  oh, they're they're oppressors. A lot of guys in the sea suite sacrificed
• 1:18:05
  their lives to get out. The middle management's, the secretarial pool. Yeah,
• 1:18:11
  and the and the cleaning ladies, and the cleaning ladies, so you
• 1:18:15
  got. There was one guy in particular, and I feel bad I forget
• 1:18:18
  his name, but he was like this young up and coming sea suiteter.
• 1:18:21
  I think he's like a financial officer of some kind, like a stockbroker,
• 1:18:25
  Wolf of Wall Street. And he was. He was. He was.
• 1:18:29
  He's recently celebrating like his first Porsche that he was able to purchase and and
• 1:18:35
  all of that kind of thing. And what he did, he he got
• 1:18:42
  like he told the women in the middle management women, the women in the
• 1:18:45
  secretarial pool, the women he had control or chargeover, he told them to
• 1:18:50
  leave, that they needed to go. And many of them were arguing about
• 1:18:55
  it. They were saying, well, I mean, this is like the
• 1:18:56
  safest place in the world now, I mean, because there's no way that
• 1:18:58
  another airplane's got hurp a dirt, right. And they didn't want to go,
• 1:19:01
  They didn't want to leave all their stuff. Some of them went back
• 1:19:04
  for stuff and they killed them. But he was the one who insisted that
• 1:19:06
  they leave. He got the first group of people down, what did he
• 1:19:12
  do? He went back up to get more. And there are other c
• 1:19:15
  suite male executives doing that, trying to get people out of the building.
• 1:19:21
  And they are a big reason why there was a significant number of people who
• 1:19:26
  survived and they died doing it. Okay, now that is kind of These
• 1:19:34
  were these were the guys everybody complains about all the patriarchy, all the rich
• 1:19:40
  men. Oh they're horrible, and yet these were the good. These were
• 1:19:45
  the men who were sacrificing to protect everyone else in the building. Well,
• 1:19:49
  why because they may risks and that's why they drive and there and they and
• 1:19:56
  they also have an understanding of situational understanding and that that is that has been
• 1:20:03
  the case throughout all of human history. These are the guys that that same
• 1:20:09
  group of guys, these are the ones who have been leading tribes, clans,
• 1:20:13
  nations throughout all of human history. Maybe we should give them a break
• 1:20:16
  on all all a bunch of sociopaths out for themselves, really, all of
• 1:20:20
  them, all of them, you know, and they're often And then here's
• 1:20:26
  the thing about being in power. There's something that triggers in the human brain
• 1:20:31
  because we are not tigers. We're a We are a super social species that
• 1:20:36
  probably has no parallel in the wild except wolves. Yeah, I don't even
• 1:20:44
  think wolves. No, No, they don't. They don't really capture it.
• 1:20:47
  Maybe dogs as they've integrated. But we are a super social species,
• 1:20:53
  and there's something in our brain that when we are put in a position of
• 1:20:58
  power, we start developing this almost like a need to sacrifice for those who
• 1:21:04
  are more vulnerable than us. That's why humanity works, that's why we've gotten
• 1:21:10
  to the point where we are, you know, And that's why in many
• 1:21:15
  cases, if you see a human ill that persists generation after generation after generation,
• 1:21:23
  you'll start seeing it break down simply because the people who are in power
• 1:21:27
  start to develop compassion and concern for the people they have power over. Now,
• 1:21:31
  that doesn't always happen. A lot of times. That requires a very
• 1:21:34
  intimate relationship between the two. So you can have elites that are completely completely
• 1:21:41
  separate from the people they have power over that never develop that. But that
• 1:21:45
  usually requires some kind of narrative of condemnation, like, oh, the plebes,
• 1:21:49
  they're just a bunch of racist, sexist consumers who are destroying the planet.
• 1:21:56
  That kind of narrative will create a situation where the elites have absolutely no
• 1:22:00
  sense of compassion towards the people they rule over. So you can have that
• 1:22:04
  situation, but you have to have it because otherwise, when people in power
• 1:22:10
  are in power, they develop a sense of responsibility the people who aren't in
• 1:22:15
  power, And it's like a psychological thing that humans do. Yeah, how
• 1:22:19
  does this tie into the UN's new program of gender inclusive landmine removal in Ukraine?
• 1:22:29
  What the fuck? Yeah? Apparently? Okay, I don't know.
• 1:22:32
  Maybe we should just get more of hanacocks and absolutely nothing to help mentor us
• 1:22:40
  or guide us or in any way do anything that might help us in our
• 1:22:43
  own path. They were often outright rude to me. They behaved very territorially,
• 1:22:47
  and it sucked. I think I had one or two female mentors in
• 1:22:51
  the music industry who were actually good to me, tried to help mold me,
• 1:22:56
  and weren't to help me get a foot in the door. And I
• 1:22:58
  walk, Ooh, what did she do in the music industry? I have
• 1:23:02
  no idea. Maybe she who the fuck knows? I don't care. Okay,
• 1:23:08
  let's keeping watched my male counterparts going through many of the same programs and
• 1:23:12
  internships I went through during that time and being treated radically differently by the men
• 1:23:15
  who are in that industry. Now, I want to be clear, I
• 1:23:18
  do have up, yes, because men know how to mentor each other.
• 1:23:23
  This is a problem. And the way that you solve this is what what
• 1:23:28
  is your solution to condemn men? Maybe you should learn from them? Yeah,
• 1:23:34
  because they might be they might be onto something. They might be onto
• 1:23:39
  something. And here's the thing, like when women have this whole understanding that
• 1:23:45
  you know you're gonna end up going through menopause and you are going to become
• 1:23:49
  a resource for someone else, for a younger woman. Oh, that's what's
• 1:23:54
  going to happen to you. And if we have the kind of development,
• 1:23:59
  moral development, and ethical development that allows women to transition into that role,
• 1:24:04
  maybe you can control this level of intersectional competition. Otherwise, what you end
• 1:24:09
  up having is you have a whole bunch of older women who don't want to
• 1:24:13
  give their resources to you, Hannah, because they have no narrative. There
• 1:24:19
  are no development along those lines. You ever hear you ever you ever hear
• 1:24:25
  or see an example of the toxic mom, who's who's got like the twenty
• 1:24:30
  five so the mom's like forty five and the daughter's like twenty or twenty five,
• 1:24:35
  and the mom basically they go out for a girl's night out and the
• 1:24:42
  mom is just like, oh, you know, people mistake us for sisters
• 1:24:46
  all the time, and you know, and all of that, right,
• 1:24:49
  and you know, the mom is dressing like she's still in her early twenties
• 1:24:54
  and all of that, and she's like literally in sexual competition with your daughter.
• 1:25:00
  Yeah. You ever hear of that phenomena? Yeah, totally, yeah,
• 1:25:03
  I've seen it. Yeah, and it's just like, eh, oh,
• 1:25:11
  yeah, that's weird because I don't I don't know of fathers doing that
• 1:25:14
  with their sons. I think that'd just be like, that's if that's what
• 1:25:19
  mothers are prepared to do with their daughters, right, Okay, who the
• 1:25:24
  fuck are you? None of those bitches daughter? Right, you're not their
• 1:25:30
  daughter? Right? And and if mothers are prepared to actually undercut their daughters
• 1:25:34
  in the dating market, you know, try and compete directly with them in
• 1:25:39
  the dating market, then what the fuck you got to complain about some like
• 1:25:45
  bitches you didn't even know? Yeah, yeah, aren't mentoring you? Like
• 1:25:50
  fuck off? Yeah, And this is not a problem with men. This
• 1:25:55
  is a problem we can only be solved by a very very clear eyed love.
• 1:26:00
  Get people's men and women's instincts and women's failings, honestly, Yeah,
• 1:26:08
  you know, and like, uh, and the thing is, it gets
• 1:26:12
  worse. I would imagine this issue with mentorship gets worse when you're dealing with
• 1:26:15
  women who don't have children and the only thing that they have is their freaking
• 1:26:19
  career. Like they're just going to regard you as stealing the eggs from your
• 1:26:26
  from their nest. And we can't talk about this. And maybe there's a
• 1:26:32
  way through it, Maybe there is a means to develop the ethical system to
• 1:26:36
  accommodate this, but it's not going to happen if we're lying to ourselves constantly
• 1:26:42
  straight back to patriarchy. Yeah, maybe, well because patriarchy, Yeah,
• 1:26:49
  enforced monogamy, you get one partner, well, not enforced, but at
• 1:26:54
  the very least no fault socially enforced, and no no fault divorce. Yeah.
• 1:27:00
  But also, let's just get rid of this whole narrative of how men
• 1:27:02
  are just awful for women and they're the worst possible investment and yet women still
• 1:27:08
  want them and still judge themselves by them. Okay, let's continue. A
• 1:27:14
  lot of men who really did take time to mentor me and to try to
• 1:27:16
  give me a shot, and that meant the world to me. I also
• 1:27:19
  had some older men that tried to sleep with me, but it mattered to
• 1:27:23
  me that women didn't, because women's experiences and jobs and industries is just different,
• 1:27:27
  and I really would have valued that kind of counseling and wisdom from women
• 1:27:30
  as well as men. It did influence me, though, and I made
• 1:27:33
  up my mind shortly after I got out of college that I would never be
• 1:27:36
  that kind of woman. I decided right then and there that I was going
• 1:27:41
  to be a girls girl in the workforce that I was going to what does
• 1:27:45
  that even mean? A girl's girl. No, she's going to mentor women
• 1:27:49
  in the workforce while she undermines women online. Like, what did you just
• 1:27:57
  do with that one woman? And I've I think it was you, Brian
• 1:28:01
  or somebody said that they had watched that video of that woman and all she
• 1:28:05
  did was just express sadness over the intersectional competition between women that destroys relationships,
• 1:28:15
  which is exactly what Hannah Cox has just said. But I guess it doesn't
• 1:28:19
  it's just not acceptable when it's coming from another woman like healer heal thyself.
• 1:28:27
  Well no, no, but okay, but consider this, okay, because
• 1:28:31
  if you look at Hannah Cox's neck, she's got neck wrinkles, so she's
• 1:28:38
  going to great lengths to appear younger than she actually is. You can see
• 1:28:42
  too when she if you freeze from it, when she's closing her eyes,
• 1:28:45
  she's got irid flats, right, okay, so's she's losing her collagen and
• 1:28:54
  she probably does her draws her lips like this because they've finned with age,
• 1:28:59
  right, Okay, So I would guess that Hannah Cox. Do you can
• 1:29:04
  you Wikipedia for me? She's probably in her late I'll look it up if
• 1:29:10
  I can. I don't know if she's on Wikipedia, but yeah, late
• 1:29:13
  thirties. I'm guessing, right, Okay that that picked me who is applying
• 1:29:18
  makeup and complaining about other women was absolutely freaking gorgeous and young, certainly younger
• 1:29:31
  than Hannah Cox. Right. And this is speaking as somebody who is postmenopausal
• 1:29:38
  and like, I'm not jealous of Hannah Cox. I'm not jealous of that
• 1:29:42
  young, gorgeous woman at the very start of this video, right, I
• 1:29:46
  you know, I've I've had mine and uh, you know, so it's
• 1:29:54
  like I'm in a different phase of my life here, like where I don't
• 1:29:58
  even half the time looking in the mirror before I leave the house. Right,
• 1:30:01
  So, I mean, here's here's another thing. But this, this
• 1:30:08
  woman, Hannah Cox, clearly wants to appear younger than she is. She
• 1:30:12
  clearly wants to maximize her sexual market value, whatever's left of it at this
• 1:30:18
  stage of her life. And uh and you know, like so I'm just
• 1:30:24
  like, yeah, no, And what's she doing. She's taken potshots at
• 1:30:27
  an obviously younger woman who's who, even if you were to compare them side
• 1:30:33
  by side in their twenties, right, if they were both the same age,
• 1:30:38
  is way better looking than her, way better looking. Yeah, she's
• 1:30:44
  she's buying into that mentality of intersexual competition. Oh god. Yeah. And
• 1:30:48
  the thing is that what I was going to say is that mentorship will involve
• 1:30:51
  criticism. And when you're dealing with young women, are they even that interested
• 1:30:59
  in it? Like when she Annacock was young, would she be interested in
• 1:31:01
  a young an older woman who says you got to get your ducks in a
• 1:31:04
  row? Okay, your attitude is not great. And if you want to
• 1:31:11
  have kids, you better start now, or you know, or or get
• 1:31:15
  a house husband, like you lower your income standards when it comes to men
• 1:31:21
  if you want to be the boss bitch right? And do you think she
• 1:31:26
  would have accepted would she have accepted any kind of criticism from an old woman?
• 1:31:31
  Like? This is the other thing this is it goes both ways.
• 1:31:34
  Do young women accept criticism from older women when they're steeped in this attitude that
• 1:31:42
  the only value a woman brings to the table is her looks? And it's
• 1:31:45
  women doing this, it's women who are like who. For example, if
• 1:31:50
  I'll say something like this is what you're doing, this is how you're destroying
• 1:31:55
  your relationships, and these younger women will come at me with, but you're
• 1:32:00
  old, bro, Like you know, why don't you wear a makeup?
• 1:32:02
  Take some years off your face? You're balding whatever else? And I'm not
• 1:32:06
  balding, by the way, it's just gray. And and they'll dismiss what
• 1:32:12
  I have to say because I'm old. And I'm like, well, you're
• 1:32:15
  going to be here too, Like what do you thinks time doesn't happen for
• 1:32:20
  you? Like I'm telling you that you are engaging in behavior which means that
• 1:32:26
  you're going to be here, except you're going to be alone when you're here,
• 1:32:30
  and they don't want to hear it. They just they dismiss it because
• 1:32:33
  because the only value that they see women having is looks and youth, So
• 1:32:41
  they can't even avail themselves of wisdom because the worst the woman who's saying it
• 1:32:45
  isn't youthful and beauty. It thus has no value. You scare what I'm
• 1:32:47
  saying. They only respect the competition. They only respect the fight. They
• 1:32:55
  only respect the people on the top of their game in the fight, you
• 1:33:00
  know, because it there is again like this, this this feedback loop of
• 1:33:05
  intersexual female competition. Wait, is Karen gone because she hasn't been trying to
• 1:33:11
  I don't know, she hasn't tried to cut you off. But I just
• 1:33:14
  want to say, I was trying to find out how old Hannah Cox is.
• 1:33:17
  Yeah, there's no I found out that she has not released her age,
• 1:33:20
  so we don't know. But she looks like she's between thirty and thirty
• 1:33:26
  five. If I had to guess that, well, that's what I want
• 1:33:30
  fully made up. But that neck looks like it's between thirty five and forty.
• 1:33:34
  Well, I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I think millennials
• 1:33:36
  are like, they're like starting to show their age earlier than they normally would.
• 1:33:41
  But I got a couple of super childs. I don't I'm not going
• 1:33:44
  after her, but I think it's I think Alison made the point. So
• 1:33:48
  I got a super two super Yeah what point did I make? Wait?
• 1:33:54
  No, I'm competing to the point the point that you just made about intersexual
• 1:33:58
  competition. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, I got a superchow to super
• 1:34:05
  childs. Richard Bierre gave us two five dollars for both of them. He
• 1:34:09
  says, what happened to the strong and independent and powerful woman who can do
• 1:34:12
  it all and don't need no man or anyone else for that matter. And
• 1:34:15
  mom is competing with a daughter over the same men in the example about the
• 1:34:18
  mother, yes, and then the other one he gives. He says it's
• 1:34:24
  not the return of patriarchy, but rather the return of catriarchy, as the
• 1:34:29
  feline overlords will reclaim their status as deities, and these women will be willing
• 1:34:33
  worshippers and servants. As being a servant to a colony of cats. Somehow
• 1:34:39
  is way better than being in a relationship with a man, because all men
• 1:34:42
  of substandard compared to cats. Oh all right, that's all the super childs.
• 1:34:49
  As a cat hater certified, I have to object to that. Okay,
• 1:35:00
  should we play more. I'm going to play more, Okay, to
• 1:35:02
  work to uplift other women, to champion them, and that I was not
• 1:35:05
  going to see them as a threat because there's no reason to think about other
• 1:35:09
  women that way. They're actually far more likely to help you advance if you
• 1:35:13
  take the time to foster those kinds of relationships than they are to try to
• 1:35:16
  outcompete you. And I keep that post to the states. Get wait a
• 1:35:21
  second, No, if you advance and or im not outcompete you, Okay,
• 1:35:27
  so you're still thinking in terms of yourself though. Yeah, well,
• 1:35:31
  I mean that's she's she's saying like women higher up women need to be like
• 1:35:38
  more mentoring because it would have helped her, and and it's like, okay,
• 1:35:45
  well, I agree. I agree, women in positions of you know,
• 1:35:49
  potential mentorship should should should behave in ways that are mentoring. I totally
• 1:35:57
  agree, But they don't, and that that's a woman thing. Mm hmm.
• 1:36:01
  Yeah, let's learned from men if we were honest. Yeah, you
• 1:36:05
  know, are we gonna blame men for that when you've already said that men
• 1:36:10
  don't have a problem mentoring each other? And also men men have mentored her,
• 1:36:15
  even though men run a risk if they get involved with women in the
• 1:36:19
  workplace, even if it's for just the purposes of mentoring them. Oh,
• 1:36:23
  just look at Tim Hunt, that poor bastard. Yeah, his nosehairs ended
• 1:36:28
  up being the least of his problems. Okay, keep going, all right.
• 1:36:32
  Anytime I've been supervising hiring decisions or internships, anytime I have the chance
• 1:36:36
  to give somebody else a shot, I have prioritized ensuring that there were women
• 1:36:41
  in those groups, because I'm not scared of somebody else taking my place.
• 1:36:45
  I have a unique voice, I have something unique to offer. And another
• 1:36:47
  woman succeeding and thriving, even if it's in a similar career as mine,
• 1:36:50
  does not take away from that. But for women who are trapped in this
• 1:36:54
  pic me mentality, it's important to remember something, and so did you did.
• 1:37:00
  There was no specification that, if they were, they were the right
• 1:37:03
  person for the group. Nothing about that. That is not mentorship, that's
• 1:37:13
  just favoritism. Well, all I'm saying nepotism, Well, all I'm saying
• 1:37:18
  is, oh, well, nepotism exists, like you know, like my
• 1:37:23
  husband got his first decent job through knowing someone who was willing to make a
• 1:37:30
  call for him right after Oh god, how long was it? Eight months?
• 1:37:39
  Eight months and nine thousand job applications? No, nine hundred job applications?
• 1:37:45
  Right, And he finally complained to a friend of his, like,
• 1:37:48
  what do we gotta do to even get an interview? You got to put
• 1:37:53
  will suck your dick for a job at the top of my resume or what?
• 1:37:57
  Right? And and his friend made a call for it, and that's
• 1:38:01
  when he landed his first really good job. So like, nepotism exists,
• 1:38:08
  right, it does on both sides. But but the issue here is that
• 1:38:14
  she's saying, oh, and all of those younger women didn't threaten me because
• 1:38:17
  you know why, because I have a unique voice and they didn't have a
• 1:38:21
  voice like mine, So they didn't threaten you. People hurt people. It's
• 1:38:33
  an oversimplified phrase, I know, but it is true. Whenever you encounter
• 1:38:39
  somebody who acts nasty, who's mean, who's belittling you, it has very
• 1:38:44
  little to do with you and everything to do with them. All it does
• 1:38:46
  is tell me her who hurt you? Who hurt you? That's a good
• 1:38:55
  question. Was it a woman? And then somehow men are to blame?
• 1:39:02
  Are you going to have to secure and wounded inside? And I do get
• 1:39:06
  why because the messages women are getting in society are not good. Let's talk
• 1:39:11
  a little bit about where the pick me mentality stems from. Okay, I'm
• 1:39:15
  going to try to explain the difference the stop. Oh boy, now we're
• 1:39:19
  getting into it. Yeah, we're getting into this thing is again. So
• 1:39:26
  the original woman complained about women's competition with each other. Hannah Cox complains about
• 1:39:32
  women's competition with each other. What the hell's the difference? What really is
• 1:39:40
  the difference? Except when Hannah Cox does it, it's good or okay,
• 1:39:47
  good, I don't know. We'll see, all right. I got a
• 1:39:50
  super chow from Richard Bierre again because this five dollars and says women at the
• 1:39:55
  top want to be the only women in the top position and will gladly pull
• 1:40:00
  the ladder up behind them because once arriving at the top, they don't want
• 1:40:03
  any competition from anyone else who was coming in behind. Them. Yes,
• 1:40:10
  that's true. That's true. Sorry, well there's a it's just it's a
• 1:40:15
  difference. You warned us you were going to be sniffley. All right,
• 1:40:17
  all right, let's let's see what she's She's about to talk about this video
• 1:40:21
  cool Girl, hick me Girl evolution. People got wrong. I don't know
• 1:40:27
  what. Okay, let's just play this bit. I'm gonna go back A
• 1:40:29
  teeny bit is the beginning of this clip. Here we go a little bit
• 1:40:31
  about where the pickmy mentality stems from. Okay, I'm going to try to
• 1:40:35
  explain the difference between the cool girl and the pigmy girl, and how that
• 1:40:39
  eventually kind of also spawned the girl's girl, and why I think the pigmy
• 1:40:42
  girl is more problematic than the cool girl. In twenty twelve, Jillian Flynn
• 1:40:45
  releases the book Gone Girl, which has this epic cool Girl monologue in it,
• 1:40:48
  which you can listen to in the reply. This is twenty twelve.
• 1:40:51
  This is ten years ago, and at the time, Oh my god,
• 1:40:56
  So we went through the movie. We talked about the philm Gone Girl,
• 1:41:00
  and the cool Girl monologue is literally like it's just a feminist tirade. Yeah,
• 1:41:09
  but here's the thing that they that every one of these women who points
• 1:41:13
  to that doesn't get the cool girl. The woman who was ranting about a
• 1:41:16
  cool girl was a narcissistic sociopath, yeah, who like literally faked her own
• 1:41:25
  death to like frame her husband then make him go to prisons. And she
• 1:41:29
  was wrong or whatever. She was judging this woman as being a cool girl,
• 1:41:34
  just being cool with her man. And then she finds out that the
• 1:41:39
  woman is with another woman and they're hanging out. So she's a narcissistic sociopath
• 1:41:44
  making a rant about cool girls judging another woman, and she immediately found out
• 1:41:48
  that her judgment was wrong. Oh right, do not put this like you
• 1:41:56
  cannot be more clear about what that rant actually means. It is an evidence
• 1:42:04
  of a character's narcissistic competition with other women. Okay, okay, but let's
• 1:42:14
  hear what this individual has to say. Time like this was like waking people
• 1:42:17
  out of their comas. Most important and probably overlooked point of the cool girl
• 1:42:24
  monologue is that all women were expected to be the cool girl. She literally
• 1:42:29
  says, if you weren't the cool girl, people assumed something was wrong with
• 1:42:32
  twenty twelve. Okay, stop, stop for a second, first of all,
• 1:42:38
  the cool girl there's a you know, there's a there's a way that
• 1:42:41
  our society does things, which is really interesting because if you think about what
• 1:42:46
  the cool girl is, they're basically just not just not abusive. That's it.
• 1:42:50
  Okay, that's it. They have an interest in their partner's interests.
• 1:42:57
  They don't nag. They don't or at least, if they do nag,
• 1:43:00
  they nag in a way that's you know, not relative and relevant, not
• 1:43:08
  belittling. Okay, So the cool girl, you could actually replace cool girl
• 1:43:14
  with not abusive wife, okay, or or female. She just isn't abusive.
• 1:43:20
  And of course all of the narcissistic sociopaths harp on that and say,
• 1:43:27
  this is just a standard that women are being held to. You know,
• 1:43:30
  it's so funny because men don't have any problem holding themselves other men to the
• 1:43:34
  standard of not being an abusive asshet, you know, belittling your partner's interests,
• 1:43:43
  being aggressive. I mean, men will intervene when they see another man
• 1:43:47
  being abusive towards a woman or his woman, right. Women don't do that.
• 1:43:51
  They do this shit. They cape for other abusive women, and my
• 1:43:58
  god, her her attitude screams psychopath or no, sociopath, don't you.
• 1:44:05
  I don't know. Maybe it's just me. Well, I did not watch
• 1:44:11
  Gone Girl or read the book, so I can't speak definitively on the cool
• 1:44:15
  Girl monologue. But yeah, it is. It is what you expect.
• 1:44:23
  It is. It's complaining about the fact that, you know, women are
• 1:44:28
  held to the the unbelievably high standard of not being abusive partners that Brian's got
• 1:44:35
  it in one. And what's really interesting is it's a litanus test for women.
• 1:44:41
  Yeah, because if they are like, oh my god, I can't
• 1:44:44
  believe so relate to that monologue's I just want to be abusive to my partners.
• 1:44:51
  Why can't I? The world is against women? Yeah, oh god.
• 1:44:56
  And the fact that men just want partners, that you're a p and
• 1:45:00
  non abusive. Oh my god, it's mistogyny. No, you're just And
• 1:45:05
  the other thing is what's really irksome about all of this is women who do
• 1:45:11
  this to men do it to women too. Yeah, Okay, continue,
• 1:45:15
  Brian. That was fact, and it was kind of subconscious all these movies
• 1:45:20
  coming out where the ideal girl was basically a dude in a hot girl's body
• 1:45:26
  who would like ride her motorcycle into the bar and then be like, hey,
• 1:45:30
  I'm going to beat you at darts and then chug a beer and then
• 1:45:31
  eat a hamburger faster than you, and then that's the ideal girl. Fast
• 1:45:35
  forward to now and it's like, okay, kind of an exaggerating No,
• 1:45:40
  that's definitely an exaggeration. But like, I think men generally want to be
• 1:45:46
  surrounded by people who they can be themselves around, and that might you know,
• 1:45:53
  that's all it is. And it's not just women. It's like men
• 1:45:57
  do. Honestly, Is that bad? A standard? Terrible? Alison?
• 1:46:02
  How how dare you ask a woman to learn to drive a motorcycle? I
• 1:46:05
  need a hamburger very fast? How dare you and drink beers and go and
• 1:46:11
  hang out? Doesn't seem like that doesn't seem like a really honorous standard to
• 1:46:15
  me, Like it seems very specific, Like I mean, I might I
• 1:46:19
  might be more interested in a man who's uh who who judges you by I
• 1:46:26
  don't know how quickly you read. I don't know the brother's co Kabmanov or
• 1:46:31
  whatever the hell they other really pronounce it, you know, or if you
• 1:46:34
  have intelligent things to say so I mean, this specific standard may not be
• 1:46:39
  the standard that I would necessarily want to aim for, but it seems like
• 1:46:43
  it's not a particularly onerous standard for a woman who likes driving motorcycles, drinking
• 1:46:47
  beer and eating burgers. Like okay, so this is your problem now,
• 1:46:53
  first world problems. Also, doesn't this assume like what men like too,
• 1:46:59
  Because there are some men who want to go to the bar out of motorcycle
• 1:47:02
  hamburgers, But there are other men that want to like sit on the couch
• 1:47:05
  and watch the game, and there are other men that want to like play
• 1:47:10
  dungeons and dragons. Like. Different men want different things, lady, And
• 1:47:14
  maybe they'd like it if they're women like the same fucking things. Here's the
• 1:47:18
  thought. Maybe there are women who like those things as well. Oh yeah,
• 1:47:23
  and those that man and that woman can get together and like those things
• 1:47:27
  together. Yeah. No, it's it's like and and and there doesn't have
• 1:47:31
  to be anything sexual about it. It's the weirdest thing. I used to
• 1:47:35
  back when I was young and single and all of that, before my first
• 1:47:40
  marriage. I used to go with my with my best buddy Darren, right,
• 1:47:45
  who I was not sexually involved with or interested in attracting, and we
• 1:47:49
  used to go to the Boston Pizza's lounge in our town and we would shoot
• 1:47:56
  some pool and we would play some darts and I was talked into buying my
• 1:48:00
  own set of darts and you know, and all of this and and I
• 1:48:03
  was good at it. And we said we would sit around and talk with
• 1:48:08
  these two older guys. One was like sixty and the other was like almost
• 1:48:11
  seventy, and we'd chat with those guys and we'd do all of this stuff,
• 1:48:16
  and then we'd eat a Sombrero pizza, which was amazing. Oh my
• 1:48:19
  god, I wish they'd bring that back. And uh, there's like a
• 1:48:24
  Mexican team pizza that was like kind of like a taco pizza. It's unbelievably
• 1:48:30
  good. And and you know, and we would do that every weekend.
• 1:48:35
  Every single weekend. We would go to this bar with pool tables and a
• 1:48:41
  couple of dartboards and we'd play tactics and we'd play eight ball and we'd sit
• 1:48:46
  around talk with these two old guys and uh, and that was that was
• 1:48:53
  a good time for me when I was like twenty and there was no sex
• 1:49:02
  and it's fine, yeah, okay, there was sex. One time,
• 1:49:08
  but it wasn't with the two old guys or my best friend. It was
• 1:49:11
  just you know, I think the delivery driver. Okay. I think that
• 1:49:15
  women could really improve their outlook by simply accepting that people like different things and
• 1:49:21
  there will always be someone hotter and younger than you, so live with it.
• 1:49:29
  Yeah. Yeah, yeah, No, I mean, like the day
• 1:49:32
  you're born, probably not many people who are hotter or younger than you,
• 1:49:36
  but the people are hotter, yeah, because unless you like babies. Yeah,
• 1:49:41
  but I mean like it's it's like literally you just have to realize that
• 1:49:45
  it's it's not it's not that find your niche, work it. I think
• 1:49:49
  that's the essence of the cool girl. Yeah, just like that, because
• 1:49:53
  that that is the essence of the cool girl. Just be happy with what
• 1:49:57
  you got and like what you like and peace. And that's the stupid thing
• 1:50:01
  is like she's she's basically saying, oh, well, you know, if
• 1:50:06
  a woman likes darts or pool or whatever, or motorcycles, she must be
• 1:50:12
  being like insincere. And I'm sure that there are some women who are kind
• 1:50:15
  of like that who are doing it to get attention, but that's not all
• 1:50:19
  women. No, Yeah, And also, yeah, women should probably figure
• 1:50:25
  out what kind of person they are, like way before they even like hit
• 1:50:30
  adolescents, Like you know, like there are women, there are women,
• 1:50:32
  and I don't think this is the fault of men. There are women who
• 1:50:38
  don't know, like they don't have a self worked out yet. And like
• 1:50:44
  I told the story, I think it was the last time we did this.
• 1:50:46
  I talked about the girl I went on a date with and we walked
• 1:50:48
  memento and I asked her about all of her interests and I asked her about
• 1:50:54
  all her interests and hobbies and thoughts and beliefs and values, and she had
• 1:50:59
  no answers for any of it. But she worked really hard to maintain that
• 1:51:02
  body. And it's like, well, I didn't make you do that,
• 1:51:08
  Like what did you think? Like what who gave you the idea or the
• 1:51:11
  impression that the only thing men want is what you have prepared? Like men
• 1:51:16
  want to Men want a human being, like what you need to work on
• 1:51:20
  that? Men want a woman who enjoys stuff. Yeah, enjoy stuff like
• 1:51:27
  their company for one, enjoys beer and burgers and riding motorcycles, or enjoys
• 1:51:33
  reading, or enjoys D and D or music or video games or watching movies
• 1:51:41
  whatever it is, and truffle fries or whatever, right, yeah, yeah,
• 1:51:45
  something just just have a passion someone who lives their life. It's like
• 1:51:50
  that they want ever. I mean, like foodies are getting obnoxious, but
• 1:51:55
  like go ahead and be a foodie if if that's what flows through. Yeah,
• 1:51:58
  but I mean, like just be authentic. That's what men want.
• 1:52:01
  Authenticity. Yeah, so anyway, but even like just something that women enjoy,
• 1:52:08
  like that a woman is capable of enjoying something. I think that's a
• 1:52:12
  big thing. I think that's the essence of the cool girl. She is
• 1:52:15
  capable of enjoying a thing for its thingness. Yes, yeah, okay,
• 1:52:21
  Hey there's these girls being called out left and right for being pick me girl.
• 1:52:25
  Makes it seem like there's a specific type of person that's a pick me
• 1:52:29
  girl and it aims to like really isolate like specific people. Girl Monologue critiqued
• 1:52:34
  the way that women were expected to behave and the pick me girl movement seems
• 1:52:40
  to like target the people who like didn't come out of their coma from reading
• 1:52:45
  Gone Girl and I, oh my god, that's so gross. Then,
• 1:52:51
  isn't about women are expected to behave it's about the refreshing exception to how women
• 1:52:59
  behave. That's what it is, right, But also again it was a
• 1:53:03
  sociopath who had like this is what you took from that movie, because at
• 1:53:09
  the end of that movie, when she reels him back in and now she's
• 1:53:13
  pregnant, I remember just this existential horror. Like I was just absolutely shattered
• 1:53:21
  by the end of that movie. It was horrifying and that feeling like you
• 1:53:27
  can't do the people the girls are. The women in that movie that I
• 1:53:30
  felt most for was the cop who got stymied at every turn by this female
• 1:53:35
  sociopath and the guy's sister who fought so hard to get him out and then
• 1:53:41
  then she basically he just resigned himself to being the whipping boy of this piece
• 1:53:47
  of shit and there was nothing that these women could do to save him.
• 1:53:50
  And I was like, oh my god, this makes me feel like I
• 1:53:54
  had to go huddle under a blanket for a while just to get over that.
• 1:53:58
  And this is what she takes from it. This is what she takes
• 1:54:01
  from it. Actually, yeah, so this is the thing about that I'm
• 1:54:08
  I don't know if you realized, Allison, because you're like a well adjusted
• 1:54:12
  human being Gone Girl. Despite the fact that Gone Girl was supposed to be
• 1:54:18
  painting Miss Dunn, who is essentially the villain of the story. As the
• 1:54:24
  villain in the story, a lot of women, probably a significant number of
• 1:54:30
  women, found her to be an appealing protagonist, which says something about women.
• 1:54:35
  This is the reason why when I brought up the Barbie movie, and
• 1:54:39
  I always talk about the rant being the most important thing, because that is
• 1:54:44
  the thing that women attach themselves to. And that is the reason why the
• 1:54:46
  film made over a billion dollars, because it tells you what women really think
• 1:54:51
  about men. That's what both of those films do. It's a disturbingly high
• 1:54:59
  number of women that have been conditioned this way, or maybe it's in their
• 1:55:02
  nature. I don't know, but this is not like the Gone Girl main
• 1:55:06
  character. The woman in that movie is not the villain to them. Oh
• 1:55:15
  good God. And the thing is that what my takeaway from that movie is
• 1:55:18
  I actually have difficulty thinking about it because it was it really bothered me.
• 1:55:24
  This idea that this guy is now trapped in eternity with that psycho. Yes,
• 1:55:30
  bothers the hell out of me. If he couldn't figure out what he
• 1:55:32
  did wrong. She's certainly not going to tell him. Yeah, and I
• 1:55:36
  can now see why these women are for and or heard. The way that
• 1:55:42
  they see her is she is the hero because Johnny Depp just didn't do everything
• 1:55:47
  for her. He's responsible even for her psychotic outbursts. Yeah, well,
• 1:55:54
  you know, he is the senior actor in the relationship, right though we
• 1:56:00
  should have mentored her better. Okay, let's keep going. Understand, like
• 1:56:05
  the younger generations maybe coming in now, I'm like a sillennial cusper, So
• 1:56:10
  I'm trying to walk both sides here. You come into society. Now,
• 1:56:13
  I understand why you identify some girls as pigmies and some girls as not and
• 1:56:16
  you can easily like cancel these like millennial pigmy girls. The context is that
• 1:56:24
  I don't know, I will I let her finish. Okay, all right.
• 1:56:29
  In twenty twelve, we all came up like I was in high school.
• 1:56:32
  We all came up in this like you have to pretend like you don't
• 1:56:36
  care. You can't tell me like them, all you want is sex,
• 1:56:39
  like you are the cool girl. Not true now, but back then it
• 1:56:43
  was kind of like survival instinct. And I'm using the words survival very loosely.
• 1:56:45
  Obviously, that was literally the recipe to get a boyfriend or to like
• 1:56:50
  be seen as like acceptable by men. And I know we're like over that
• 1:56:55
  now, but and men didn't do this to you. Stop saying men did
• 1:57:00
  this to you. Men didn't do this. Okay, well maybe they did,
• 1:57:02
  but she's essentially saying not being abuses was the first of all, I
• 1:57:08
  would disagree, plenty of abusive women get partners. But second of all,
• 1:57:12
  don't men have the right to have any standard whatsoever? Oh like cool girls,
• 1:57:17
  Like I said, it's basically just a girl who can enjoy stuff and
• 1:57:20
  have peace. That is the like, it's almost impossible to have a relationship
• 1:57:27
  with a person who isn't capable of enjoying themselves and enjoying peace, because that
• 1:57:33
  is true, all you'll have is a disaster. And at the end of
• 1:57:39
  the day, So I don't you'll have a relationship between like David Putty and
• 1:57:45
  eleaene Vennis. Okay, what are you asking for, lady? Are you
• 1:57:49
  asking for a man who's going to tolerate someone who makes his life a living
• 1:57:55
  hell? You don't have the right to ask that of anyone or to already
• 1:58:00
  demand it, like Oh, if men want a woman who wasn't going to
• 1:58:03
  make their life a living hell, they have such stay don't have the right
• 1:58:06
  to that standard, Like, no, they do, because they have the
• 1:58:12
  right to decide who comes into their life. And if you're going to make
• 1:58:15
  their life a living hell, they have a right to keep you out of
• 1:58:18
  it. So, yeah, you don't have a right to complain about the
• 1:58:21
  standard. That standard. It's a legitimate standard. And if you don't write
• 1:58:28
  and why is she grinning like she's getting away with shit? They all do
• 1:58:33
  Alison, Yeah, they all do that. All right, let's finish this
• 1:58:36
  up. We weren't over it then it's the only way, like it was
• 1:58:41
  the thing. Obviously this demonstrates that society is moving in a good direction.
• 1:58:45
  But I still have empathy for these like pigmy girls who like their whole life,
• 1:58:49
  were like trained to operate in this one singular way and now are trying
• 1:58:55
  to like retrain themselves to be what I now call the girl's girl. And
• 1:58:59
  I what, what's who's training that? What's the mess? Where's who's doing
• 1:59:04
  this? Though you're not gonna say it, but I know what you're thinking.
• 1:59:08
  You're gonna say. It's patriarchy or something. Where was the coherent thought
• 1:59:14
  in that mess of spaghetti? There wasn't. There wasn't. Oh oh,
• 1:59:23
  that mess of fucking spaghetti. Well, okay, cool girls something something,
• 1:59:30
  uh pick me, YadA, YadA. They they don't have the ability to
• 1:59:35
  brand new, brand new reinvention of womanhood the girls girl. Okay, so
• 1:59:42
  what but we don't get to hear the girls girl, so we're just dropping.
• 1:59:45
  I think Hannah Cox wants to tell us about that. Oh god,
• 1:59:48
  oh good lord, she's talking about the girl cool girl monologue. All right,
• 1:59:54
  let's let's hear that. Okay, I love this. She referenced the
• 1:59:58
  cool girl monologue because this is something that comes up in female discourse a lot,
• 2:00:01
  and I think it's actually important. She's absolutely right. Oh my god,
• 2:00:05
  what the fuck is wrong with female discourse? You're quoting from a fictional
• 2:00:10
  book written by a feminist about of psychopaths thoughts, and you're all like so
• 2:00:15
  relatable. Guys. Yeah, this is like literally like, oh holy shit.
• 2:00:18
  These are the people who like Harley Quinn because she likes toxic relationships.
• 2:00:25
  All right, let's hear it. I just can't believe that this is like,
• 2:00:28
  this is like an intellectual This is the absolute state of intellectualism right now.
• 2:00:33
  This is the bedroom feminist grown up Yeah I guess so, yeah yeah,
• 2:00:40
  like referencing movies and shit, well I watched a Disney movie and this
• 2:00:44
  is my thesis. Okay, let's listen that for most of my childhood,
• 2:00:50
  pop culture was pushing this idea that women needed to be super chill, super
• 2:00:55
  cool like what boys like. They should never be emotional, they should never
• 2:00:59
  like feminine things. That's stupid because the girls are dumb. If you men,
• 2:01:09
  don't ask me to stop the things they like. God damn patriarchy and
• 2:01:14
  who aren't histrionic and who aren't histrionic patriarchy? Yeah, I mean you can
• 2:01:18
  be. You can feel things, just don't be fucking like obnoxious and histrionic
• 2:01:25
  like you said, or hysterical will be okay, abused, don't use your
• 2:01:30
  feelings as an excuse to abuse another human being. That's it. Or if
• 2:01:34
  you do, apologize for it and recognize it's not his fault. Yeah,
• 2:01:39
  this is this is God. Act and think like a girl. Men won't
• 2:01:47
  like you think and acting men like women. I want to read you this
• 2:01:54
  epic monology. You know what, Honestly, don't think think, and it's
• 2:01:59
  think act like a girl can act like a girl like is she basically saying
• 2:02:06
  that girls think and act a certain way and they have to be socially conditioned
• 2:02:14
  to not act that way in order to become appealing to men. Huh.
• 2:02:19
  Yeah, that's a good point because I thought patriarchy socialized women to be feminine.
• 2:02:25
  Yeah, and now patriarchy is socializing women to be masculine for the benefit
• 2:02:30
  of men. It's all very confusing. It always seems like it just is
• 2:02:33
  whatever is required to complain in this moment. H yeah, Now, which
• 2:02:39
  is actually the quintessential essence of femaleness. It's it is nothing but paradox after
• 2:02:46
  paradox. It's like woman's evolved nature boiled down to its purest elixir. Okay,
• 2:02:57
  I just want to say that I think this woman hates tomboys and as
• 2:03:02
  a tomboy, as a former tomboy, you're you're always a tomboy. You're
• 2:03:09
  always a tomboy. Okay, so you never get over being a tomboy as
• 2:03:13
  a tomboy Okay, I mean, like, God, I I guess that
• 2:03:23
  that's bad. I don't know. I don't want to say like you don't
• 2:03:26
  like tomboys, all right, Yeah, it's coming party interests and wanting to
• 2:03:31
  go on like cherry picking, freaking excursions into orchards and like nature hikes with
• 2:03:39
  the dog, and like bar barf okay bar Like yeah, the problem with
• 2:03:46
  nature is something's always biting you, stinging you, or oozing mucus on you
• 2:03:51
  like a dog. Yeah yeah. Or it's freezing you or snowing on you,
• 2:03:57
  or raining on you, or making you uncomfortably some other or making your
• 2:04:00
  eggs inspire expire when you're thirty six. That's right, But choose a fucking
• 2:04:05
  bitch like I don't. I don't mind doing heavy work. I'd just rather
• 2:04:10
  not do it near a wasp nest. Thank you. All right, Let's
• 2:04:15
  continue with this Gone Girl, Gone Girl that she mentions in that reel.
• 2:04:20
  This is read by the character of Amy, who is the main character of
• 2:04:24
  the story. If you're not up to speed, I can't help you.
• 2:04:26
  This book's out for like a decade. Go read it. It's awesome,
• 2:04:29
  she says. Men always say that as a defining compliment, don't they.
• 2:04:32
  She's a cool girl. Being a cool girl means I am a hot,
• 2:04:36
  brilliant funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping,
• 2:04:42
  who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex,
• 2:04:45
  and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she's hosting the world's biggest
• 2:04:49
  culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size two. Because cool girls are above
• 2:04:55
  all hot, I'm just pausing for the banana. This is the old monologue.
• 2:05:00
  But is this go ahead the actual writing in the book? Yeah?
• 2:05:06
  I think so. It's also the right from the book. Yesuck, because
• 2:05:13
  cool girls are above all comma hot. Like, what the hell is happening
• 2:05:19
  with publishing? Okay, how long? How much longer does this go?
• 2:05:26
  Well, she reads this whole monologue. Do you want to respond to the
• 2:05:29
  monologue? I want to say this. I want to say this. If
• 2:05:33
  you are stuck in female intersectional competition and your goal is attracting being the most
• 2:05:40
  attractive woman in the room, and men are the ones who well I guess
• 2:05:45
  men that are visible to you are the ones who are defining who is the
• 2:05:47
  most attractive woman in the room, then yes, this is the thing,
• 2:05:54
  Like, this is what you're competing over. You don't want to know how
• 2:05:57
  to stop it. It's not to blame men, because again, like a
• 2:06:03
  lot of this intersectional competition really has nothing to do with men. Like that,
• 2:06:09
  you who are most desirable, The men who are most desirable are the
• 2:06:12
  ones who more most women want. And then you make everything about what those
• 2:06:16
  guys find, like what you think those guys find the most attractive. You're
• 2:06:21
  all competing over the same guy, right, So you know, I guess
• 2:06:27
  this is what it was in twenty twelve. But that's hardly like in order
• 2:06:31
  to say that this is the most attractive woman, you have to define men
• 2:06:39
  down, down, down, away from individuality into a homogeneous mask, because
• 2:06:43
  I guarantee that's not going to be attractive to all men. You know,
• 2:06:46
  a woman who can fit like fifty wieners in her mouth there, you might
• 2:06:49
  find a few men who don't find that attractive. You know. Okay,
• 2:06:54
  but but okay, okay, men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they're
• 2:06:59
  fooled because many women are willing to pretend to be this girl. For a
• 2:07:02
  long time, cool Girl offended me. I used to see men, friends,
• 2:07:05
  co worker strangers giddy over these awful pretender women. Basically they're saying that
• 2:07:12
  this particular type of woman is completely insincere. Are we going to listen to
• 2:07:16
  Hannah Cox say it after you say it? Though? But okay, but
• 2:07:21
  this, this monologue pretends that these women don't exist because women are a monolith
• 2:07:27
  now, And how the hell did she embody any of this? Like this
• 2:07:32
  woman was a sociopath who nearly nearly got her her husband executed for murder?
• 2:07:40
  Is that really like the ideal woman? Okay, keep going, Yeah,
• 2:07:45
  let's play some more. Yea, let her read it and understanding. Cool
• 2:07:49
  girls never get angry. They only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and
• 2:07:54
  let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me.
• 2:07:58
  I don't mind. I'm the cool girl. Actually think this girl exists.
• 2:08:01
  Maybe they're fool because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl.
• 2:08:05
  For a long time, cool girl offended me. I used to see
• 2:08:07
  men, friends, coworker strangers giddy over these awful pretender women, and I'd
• 2:08:13
  want to sit these men down and calmly say you were not dating a woman.
• 2:08:16
  You were dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially
• 2:08:20
  awkward men who'd like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss
• 2:08:22
  them. Okay, but okay, this is this is the ideal of a
• 2:08:28
  man who's undesirable, and yet women are embodying it. This logic doesn't check
• 2:08:33
  out. Yeah, and right, like, okay, so women who like
• 2:08:41
  things that men like aren't women? Yeah, I guess. So, well
• 2:08:46
  there's me out. Oh well, I didn't really enjoy it either. I
• 2:08:48
  mean you and your honest in nature with all its things and mucus, I
• 2:08:54
  know, actually a huge nature buff. I mean I like going into nature
• 2:08:58
  sometimes. I'm actually much more about like reading stuff. I don't have the
• 2:09:03
  I don't have the situational awareness to be truly capable of managing nature. Oh
• 2:09:09
  man. We used to get out of the car to go out to Bay
• 2:09:13
  and roast hot dogs, and we'd pop the trunk and get the kids,
• 2:09:20
  you know, like, okay, everybody, grab your bear stick, Okay,
• 2:09:26
  let's just keep going. I'd want to grab the poor guy by his
• 2:09:28
  lapels or messenger bag and say, the bitch doesn't really love chili dogs that
• 2:09:33
  much. No one loves chili dogs that much. And the cool girls are
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  even more pathetic. They're not even pretending to be the woman they want to
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  be. They're pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be.
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  Oh and if you're not a cool girl, I beg you not to believe
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  that your man doesn't want the cool girl. It may be a slightly different
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  version. Maybe he's a vegetarian, so cool girl loves stan and it's great
• 2:09:52
  with dogs. Or maybe he's a hipster artist, so cool girl's a tattooed,
• 2:09:56
  bespeckled nerd who loves comics. These are very window dressing, but believe
• 2:10:01
  me, all right, So what is the conclusion? The man wants a
• 2:10:05
  man or woman who shares his interests. Yeah, like a who. But
• 2:10:11
  what she's saying, though, the author of this book, who Hannah Cox
• 2:10:16
  is saying is a great This is a great piece. That's so relatable what
• 2:10:20
  the author of this book is saying, because this is not her character talking,
• 2:10:24
  this is her talking. Really, men and women cannot like the same
• 2:10:30
  things and both be authentic. So women are always being inauthentic because they actually
• 2:10:37
  hate men and they shouldn't try to get along with men. I mean that's
• 2:10:41
  kind of what she's saying. Like, I'm surprised that's the monologue of a
• 2:10:45
  psychopath. Yeah, well yeah, it's like it's like, okay, so
• 2:10:52
  if my husband orders steak, I can't order steak because then we would be
• 2:11:00
  you know, but I can't order pizza because pizza is the one food that
• 2:11:03
  he misses the most that he can't eat, like every single ingredient with kill
• 2:11:07
  him. So it's like mhm okay, uh, Like I just oh,
• 2:11:18
  if he's a vegetarian and she is also a vegetarian she also likes, it
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  can't be it can't be authentic that she's also a vegetarian, or she also
• 2:11:31
  likes a largely plant based diet that that she prefers to eat fish and eggs
• 2:11:41
  and and you know, and and and that's pretty much it. Fo.
• 2:11:43
  Men can't have opinions, They can't have hobbies, they can't have preferences,
• 2:11:48
  and the and and and people. People can't be together in an authentic way.
• 2:11:54
  Couples can't be together in an authentic way unless they are at odds with
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  each other. Otherwise, the woman is subsuming her entire personality and her entire
• 2:12:05
  body of opinions and preferences and desires and likes and dislikes. She's subsuming them.
• 2:12:15
  Even if she held them before they met, right, even if she
• 2:12:18
  was this way before, even if they met because they were both part of
• 2:12:24
  the same vegetarian cooking class, right, because they were both super interested in
• 2:12:31
  vegetarian cooking and then they hit it off. Yet no, now she has
• 2:12:35
  to go on the carnivore diet. Otherwise she's just subsuming her entire personhood beneath
• 2:12:43
  the umbrella of his patriarchal dominance. Yes, everything is male thrall, but
• 2:12:52
  this is what I'm saying. This is a rant by a sociopath or a
• 2:12:56
  narcissist, so pathologicals tonight because you know why, Because I actually really like
• 2:13:01
  chili dogs. I wish I could have a chili dog, and I'm gonna
• 2:13:05
  try. I'm gonna try can chili I know, make it, make the
• 2:13:11
  chili original like now, but that's probably a lot of work by the ingredients
• 2:13:16
  and everything. And then oh fuck, I want a chili dog now,
• 2:13:18
  God damn it. Right, you guys are just being cool girls. You
• 2:13:22
  don't actually want a chili dog. Oh good, though they're so good and
• 2:13:26
  Brian bread my dog chili what is like? The only reason I don't I
• 2:13:33
  don't eat them is because my store doesn't have an in store bakery, so
• 2:13:39
  all of their breads, right, including hot dog buns, are like they
• 2:13:45
  taste like caked, right, because they're full of yeah, And it's like,
• 2:13:52
  so I was thinking, you know, I'm gonna drive the extra like
• 2:13:56
  fifteen twenty blocks to the store that does have an in store bakery, and
• 2:14:01
  I'm gonna buy some in store baked, fresh baked hot dog buns so that
• 2:14:05
  oh yeah, and you know, I might not even include the chili.
• 2:14:09
  I might just buy some pizza squeeze, right, and then you know,
• 2:14:13
  stick some some cheese on top, right, because you know, in a
• 2:14:18
  pinch, a pizza dog is almost as good as a chili dog. Oh
• 2:14:22
  good lord. Okay, and I can't eat any of that crap because it's
• 2:14:26
  all I'm allergic to it, which has nothing to do with me being a
• 2:14:28
  cool girl. I'm just genuinely allergic to it. I think you're after I
• 2:14:33
  husband, Allison. You guys would get along so well. I think in
• 2:14:39
  your tweets and your gluten then you're soy and you're usual food allergies, which
• 2:14:46
  I'd be faking because I'm inauthentic. Yeah yeah, okay, all right,
• 2:14:50
  but my point like, look at this, so women can't have this is
• 2:14:56
  the mentality of someone who pretends to be a huge men. Okay, and
• 2:15:01
  again I am odd that Hannah Cox has managed to find the worst thing to
• 2:15:09
  latch onto as a life like this is her U what is it? This
• 2:15:16
  is her guide throughout life? You know what I means? Like dogs like
• 2:15:24
  that? Yeah, I know that is kind of weird, but I figured
• 2:15:26
  it means like animals, like you're an animal activist. You can't like as
• 2:15:33
  a woman, you can't have your own thing and then find man man who
• 2:15:35
  shares that thing, or just something like a guy who inspires you to like
• 2:15:41
  his thing. Whatever. There's no authenticity artist, so cool. I'm telling
• 2:15:46
  you that this is a tattooed, tattooed, bespectacled, bespectacled nerd who loves
• 2:15:52
  comics. What she went and got tattooed after she got with him? I
• 2:16:01
  don't who knows? No, did she did that to attract him specifically before
• 2:16:05
  she knew he existed? Oh yes, ah, yeah, I'm telling you
• 2:16:09
  this is the thoughts of a sociopath who's pretending to be human, which is
• 2:16:16
  entirely in line with this character in the movie who is a sociopath trying to
• 2:16:22
  pretend to be human and lure people in oh web violence. But believe me,
• 2:16:28
  he wants cool girl, who is basically the girl who likes every fucking
• 2:16:31
  thing he likes and doesn't ever complain. Well, I don't like complainers,
• 2:16:37
  and I prefer to be with someone who likes the things that I like,
• 2:16:41
  because then when it's time to decide what to do for the evening, it's
• 2:16:48
  super easy. It's like, Okay, we're going to watch some episodes of
• 2:16:52
  Seinfeld, or we're going to watch Futurama, or we're gonna you know,
• 2:16:58
  we're going to do We're gonna do entertaining things that together both of us that
• 2:17:05
  we both like. Well, let's watch Thirteenth Warrior for the one hundred and
• 2:17:09
  twelve time. Yeah, yeah, I gotta watch that again. And Last
• 2:17:13
  of the Mohicans for that two hundred and fortieth time, right, like you
• 2:17:18
  know, like why not? And it's like because we like those things,
• 2:17:22
  it's like we bonded over them, those mutual things. Thirteenth Warrior, Last
• 2:17:28
  of the Mohicans, Gladiator, you know, oh god, there are a
• 2:17:33
  few other movies like that that Mike and I we're just like, oh,
• 2:17:37
  yeah, no, those are the best movies. Those the best movie.
• 2:17:41
  Yeah. And it's just like yeah, no, so we can we can
• 2:17:45
  watch them over and over together, you know. And I try not to
• 2:17:48
  kill him because he wants to pause it at every moment and remind me how
• 2:17:54
  you can shovel snow using the snowshovel like a buller, right, Like,
• 2:18:00
  basically he pauses it to say, oh, this shot is the most stunning
• 2:18:05
  shot, you know, when they're like in the when uh, what's his
• 2:18:09
  name? Is in the carriage riding across the bridge, and like it's perfectly
• 2:18:16
  reflected on the on the pond and or the river, and it's just like,
• 2:18:20
  oh my god, it's like absolutely stunning cinematography. And he always pauses
• 2:18:24
  it to tell me, yet again, yet again, how it's the most
• 2:18:31
  stunning cinematic shot ever in any movie. Right, and and you know,
• 2:18:39
  and and then I just want to strangle him. I just want to choke
• 2:18:41
  him out and then roll them up in a carpet and call my male friends
• 2:18:45
  to help me all it away. But but it's like, no, it's
• 2:18:52
  it's because we it's it's because we actually fit well together. That's yeah,
• 2:18:58
  amazing, amazing each other, right, police men, Women and men can't
• 2:19:07
  have things in common. That's that would that would suggest that we could like
• 2:19:13
  each other and stuff. Somebody's got to be faking it. Yeah, Okay,
• 2:19:18
  a woman and a man are similar and in a relationship, then the
• 2:19:20
  woman must be faking all of it? Can I tell? Can I say?
• 2:19:24
  Okay, so this is a sociopath who's faking stuff in order to get
• 2:19:28
  in a situation where she could seriously exploit her partner. Don't be like that,
• 2:19:35
  and don't blame men for you being a sociopath, pretending to be something
• 2:19:41
  you're not in order to get something you don't deserve. Let's be honest.
• 2:19:46
  Yeah. Also other movie recommendations, Top five, top ten favorites of Me
• 2:19:54
  and my husband, Unforgiven, and Grand Toorno very good. Yeah, oh
• 2:19:58
  yeah, Lindsay likes all those that you said, Thirteenth Warrior and all that
• 2:20:05
  because they're all amazing. And Tombstone okay, which that's a good one,
• 2:20:11
  right, And we're also I'm gonna start I heard, I'm just may as
• 2:20:16
  well say it now. They have they're doing a series for Showgun on FX
• 2:20:26
  now based on a novel that my father owned. Now I was talking to
• 2:20:28
  my I was talking to Lindsay. I so my dad had the book for
• 2:20:31
  this, and he was like, get really into it. And then they
• 2:20:33
  made a mini series in the eighties. It was like nineteen eighty or something
• 2:20:37
  like that, and my father watched it and then Lindsay was like, oh,
• 2:20:41
  my father had that book too, and I'm like, oh shit,
• 2:20:43
  we're gonna watch Showgun man. I mean, I can watch the original as
• 2:20:46
  well, but I want to watch the new one because I hear it.
• 2:20:50
  I hear it's very good. So we're gonna check out Showgun I'll give you
• 2:20:54
  guys my thoughts next time I see you, because I'm I'm really worried it's
• 2:20:58
  gonna be They're going to put some bullshit in there. I'm really worried about
• 2:21:03
  that. Oh but anyway, if you're looking for a good, good action
• 2:21:07
  movie, kind of like psychological action thriller movie, just recently, what's that
• 2:21:16
  guy's name Jason Gordon Love it from the Joseph goon Lott Joseph, Yeah,
• 2:21:22
  seventy five hundred. I think it's called H seven to five and uh yeah,
• 2:21:28
  no, it's it's about a hijack plane and it's pretty good. All
• 2:21:33
  right, Well, i'll look it up. It in here to do some
• 2:21:35
  business. Yeah, you don't have any thank yous yet, But I see
• 2:21:39
  that mister stupid is trying desperately to put in something to the patger be media
• 2:21:45
  blitz. Well, is he too stupid to be able to figure out?
• 2:21:48
  No, it's not that. It's it's probably PayPal. So if you want
• 2:21:52
  to get through, I would suggest switching to the other payment option because PayPal
• 2:21:58
  is probably throwing a fit right now or something. But you know, I
• 2:22:03
  I commend you for your dedication to trying to put something in, because this
• 2:22:07
  is like the fifth time I see here on our dashboard that that mister stupid
• 2:22:13
  has attempted to insert shekels and and PayPal has been now. Well, yeah,
• 2:22:20
  if he didn't want me to make assumptions, he wouldn't have chosen that
• 2:22:22
  user name. Yeah, I know, but I don't think he's stupid.
• 2:22:26
  I think it's just PayPal. It's being probably PayPal more like more like gay
• 2:22:33
  pal, right beeter til Yeah, all right, going, it'll eventually go
• 2:22:43
  through, and I appreciate your efforts. At least PayPal is not a fag.
• 2:22:48
  Okay, So I think let's finish this and then I'll tell you guys
• 2:22:52
  the lay of how I got blocked by Okay, I got a super I
• 2:22:58
  got a super Chow at least one, Yeah, just the one. So
• 2:23:03
  Richard Bierre gave us five dollars and said, there is a common theme.
• 2:23:09
  There seems to be a common theme between movies like Gone Girl, Barbie,
• 2:23:13
  and Midsommer, which is the reaction litmus test these movies present to the audience,
• 2:23:18
  and the reaction depends heavily right spelling, this time on a person's political
• 2:23:22
  slash philosophical standing. And I don't know if the makers of these movies know
• 2:23:26
  that they are causing such a divide within their audience. Well, I think
• 2:23:28
  they believe that they're on the right side of that argument. But yes,
• 2:23:35
  you're right. Midsummer is also an incredibly missandric movie, just like Barbie and
• 2:23:41
  Gone Girl, and I think that they're very popular with women. And I
• 2:23:45
  think I'm just putting it out there. It says a lot about women.
• 2:23:50
  It doesn't say as much about the people who made it, but it says
• 2:23:54
  a lot about the people who like it and how much money they make the
• 2:23:58
  thing. I think that the I think the litmus test is whether or not
• 2:24:05
  you can care about men when they're vulnerable. Yeah, whether or not you
• 2:24:09
  think they have legitimate a legitimate right to be honestly gone, girl. It's
• 2:24:15
  like, I find it terrib I know that I'm like looking at two women
• 2:24:18
  that, like, I don't understand how that's the takeaway from that movie.
• 2:24:24
  And the takeaway isn't how hard those two women tried to save the guy and
• 2:24:28
  they just weren't able to. And that's just like, it terrifies me that
• 2:24:35
  I don't understand how this monologue is relatable. Well, because you guys are
• 2:24:43
  like, you know, well adjusted human beings. But I think that a
• 2:24:48
  lot of women, a lot of women are clapping to this. I don't
• 2:24:52
  know if they're just like, you know, some people like Rachel Wilson would
• 2:24:56
  say that women aren't very easy to propagandize into like all kinds of shit,
• 2:25:00
  like hating men. I don't want to believe that, but it does look
• 2:25:05
  that way. Now, Okay, there's the women. Are women are pretty
• 2:25:09
  soft in the head there, Brian, Yeah, Okay, here's the thing.
• 2:25:13
  This is this is a result of women regarding their only value to be
• 2:25:20
  intersectional competition over men. Interesting soual in tru InTru, not inter intersexual.
• 2:25:28
  Intersexual competition not intersectional. Well it could be that too, inter okay,
• 2:25:37
  okay, intersexual sexual competition over men. So they their only identity is desirability,
• 2:25:46
  which is really disturbing, but that that explains this because they don't do
• 2:25:52
  or think anything unless they perceive it to be eliciting desire for men for the
• 2:25:58
  purpose of gaining gaining something over other women. Do you get what I'm saying?
• 2:26:05
  Yeah, no, this, this is this monologue. The reason why
• 2:26:07
  women relate to it is because the monologue is just projection. Because what did
• 2:26:13
  Gawne girl? Do you know? She got with a guy by pretending and
• 2:26:18
  then she pretended that she was dead, and then she framed him for her
• 2:26:24
  pretend murder, and then she came back and pretended to be something different and
• 2:26:31
  then they got back together again. Is that the gist of it pretended to
• 2:26:33
  be the victim of a kidnapping and rape after she murdered the guy, and
• 2:26:41
  that she like supposedly made a heroic escape and went back to the guy and
• 2:26:46
  used like it was like the author of the book Karen is aware of every
• 2:26:52
  single tool women have at their disposal, and still frames the film in the
• 2:26:56
  earth story in the way that women are victim of men, even though it
• 2:27:01
  knows every loophole She's telling you, they know every loophole they can use to
• 2:27:07
  destroy. She didn't just destroy the life of the guy. She destroyed the
• 2:27:11
  life of another guy. Literally, she murders a guy and frames him as
• 2:27:16
  her kidnapper and rapist. And he was I mean, he thought he was
• 2:27:20
  just gonna get laid, but she ended up killing him, and so yeah,
• 2:27:26
  and then she goes right back to the life that she you know,
• 2:27:31
  she was able to go right back into society basically with more sympathy and and
• 2:27:35
  a bunch of media coverage and everything. She was like a hero. The
• 2:27:41
  only people, the only people at the end, like even even the guy
• 2:27:45
  was like, this is my life, now I shall submit to it.
• 2:27:50
  The only people, Yeah, because he knows he can't do anything. You
• 2:27:52
  recognize. The true horror of all of it was the female cop and his
• 2:27:56
  sister, and they are incapable of doing anything. Yeah. No, but
• 2:28:01
  that's because they were cool girls. Yeah yeah, maybe see yeah, Like
• 2:28:07
  literally, a cool girl is a person or a woman who regards men as
• 2:28:11
  people. Oh boy, jeez, I wonder why men would want that.
• 2:28:16
  Yeah, there was there was one other thing too. I was just gonna
• 2:28:22
  mention about that film or that story, but I can't remember it now.
• 2:28:31
  It's okay. But yeah, if you've never seen Gone Girl, uh don't
• 2:28:37
  and Midsummer there there's there. Midsommer is a horror film, but there's some
• 2:28:41
  interesting things in that too, like really disturbing. But anyway, oh that
• 2:28:46
  we're like she gives birth to like no, no, that's something no,
• 2:28:52
  no, no, no, no. Midsommer is the one where they go
• 2:28:56
  to this like place in Sweden for like these college kids. It's and there's
• 2:29:01
  a girl and they go to Sweden for it's in like the area because there's
• 2:29:05
  like a special holiday where the sun doesn't go down because of like where it's
• 2:29:09
  positioned, you know or whatever, and and it's like a cult and a
• 2:29:13
  bunch of creepy shit happens and door or is it is it dubbed No,
• 2:29:20
  no, no, it's in English. It's made by the guy who made
• 2:29:22
  Hereditary. You ever see Hereditary? Oh no, it's a horror film too,
• 2:29:28
  but yeah, his his movie. I can't remember the guy's name.
• 2:29:31
  But but it's it's it's it's dark, it goes into it's very it's very
• 2:29:37
  pessimistic. All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna say I have to be out
• 2:29:45
  the door in ten minutes, so you know, let's finish this off rhyme.
• 2:29:48
  Let's not talk about well, just go a little bit further, because
• 2:29:52
  I know you want to tell your story. I got a super child,
• 2:29:54
  though, I should really read it, so thank you as well. All
• 2:29:58
  right, you could finish this section, which is like what thirty seconds lift?
• 2:30:01
  Yeah, I could do the super child, finish the section and you
• 2:30:05
  can do the thank you, or we could finish the section, then do
• 2:30:07
  the super child and the thank you. All right, I'll finish the section.
• 2:30:11
  Me. He wants cool girl, who is basically the girl who likes
• 2:30:15
  every effing thing he likes and doesn't ever complain. How do you know you're
• 2:30:18
  not cool girl? Because he says things like I like strong women. If
• 2:30:22
  he says that to you, he will at some point f somebody else.
• 2:30:26
  Because I like strong women is code for I hate strong women. Yeah.
• 2:30:31
  So basically, when men say they like you, they don't actually like you
• 2:30:37
  because reasons. Oh good, grief. Well, when men say they like
• 2:30:43
  strong women, what they like is somebody who is a stoic right strong for
• 2:30:50
  them, who can carry their share of the load. Yeah, and if
• 2:30:56
  that ain't you, then real sorry to break it to you, but you
• 2:31:03
  are not a strong woman. So it's so bizarre because this is a squirrely
• 2:31:09
  mixture of defining yourself entirely by your desirability to men and complaining about defining yourself
• 2:31:18
  entirely by your desirability to men. Like, okay, so the cool girl
• 2:31:24
  is somebody who does everything is to be desirable to men, but it's totally
• 2:31:28
  inauthentic. Well, why is she doing that because she gets some benefit out
• 2:31:33
  of it. So she's basically lying to her partners to get benefit out of
• 2:31:37
  them. Well, have you considered not lying to your partners, developing a
• 2:31:41
  sense of self and from finding a companion who appreciates that, Like, is
• 2:31:46
  that not within your cosmology? This is this is, this is this has
• 2:31:54
  said so much about the mentality that embraces this stuff, Just like the previous
• 2:31:58
  video where she's talking about the ideal relationship and or the ideal mentality, the
• 2:32:05
  ideal woman's mentality towards a relationship and it's basically a belligerent and a cold war
• 2:32:11
  Like that says a lot about you, And this says a lot about you.
• 2:32:15
  Have you considered not lying to your partners? Have you considered that maybe
• 2:32:22
  you're the one in the wrong if you're pretending to be something you're not to
• 2:32:24
  get things that you don't deserve. Has that a possibility or do you think
• 2:32:33
  that? Do you think? Like in this context, would the ideal situation
• 2:32:37
  have been for the narcissistic sociopath to be able to say to her husband,
• 2:32:43
  Oh, by the way, I really want to fake my dad so I
• 2:32:46
  get to jill off to you dying on death row. I really want that.
• 2:32:52
  Why can't I just be open about my desires with you? Why do
• 2:32:56
  I have to hide that? Like? Why is? Why are you you
• 2:33:00
  such a patriarchal monster making me hide my desire to destroy your life? Like?
• 2:33:07
  Why does the patriarchy make me hide the fact that I murdered a man
• 2:33:11
  and faked him raping me in order to cover the fact that I faked my
• 2:33:16
  own death to try to frame my husband to get him killed. Why does
• 2:33:20
  patriarchy force me to hide my true self? Why can't they appreciate the monster
• 2:33:24
  that I am, like, are you fucking kidding me? But you guys
• 2:33:35
  are quiet? Have I just yeah, I was well, I was waiting
• 2:33:37
  on. I wasn't sure we were done. Okay, I got some super
• 2:33:41
  childs. No, I'm not, we have superchilds. Okay, so I
• 2:33:52
  got one from anonymous for five dollars, says Alison often says that we need
• 2:33:56
  the ability to shame women for their talksic behave. What if it took something
• 2:34:01
  close to an apocalyptic societal collapse before we might wrap our heads around being unempathetic,
• 2:34:07
  insulting, or, if necessary, even violent against borderline psychopathic women.
• 2:34:13
  Well, well I don't know if it would need to be that extreme,
• 2:34:16
  but well yeah, we are technically violent towards borderline psychopathic women. It's called
• 2:34:22
  the justice system. Well, when it works, when it works, and
• 2:34:28
  you're right, yeah, that's something we really need to wrap our heads around.
• 2:34:33
  Yeah, there's a lot of stories of women that like literally murder babies,
• 2:34:37
  that get off because they're like, well, you know, she's got
• 2:34:39
  a great right career ahead of her, try to be a doctor, so
• 2:34:43
  you know, oh, no, we all make mistakes. There are women
• 2:34:46
  who murder actual out of the womb babies. Who, Yeah, that's what
• 2:34:50
  I mean. I don't mean abortions. I mean like out of the womb
• 2:34:54
  babies. Yeah. And and everybody's like, eh, you know you get
• 2:34:58
  one on or two or normal miss hormones. Yeah, the post partum right,
• 2:35:05
  more absoluclear codes. Yeah, of course the fourth child. This,
• 2:35:11
  this will be the one that this woman doesn't murder. Okay, so mistress,
• 2:35:16
  I got another super chat through. I got another one. Richard Beierre
• 2:35:20
  gives us five dollars and says, remember that even if something does turn a
• 2:35:24
  woman on, she might not let you know because that would give you power
• 2:35:26
  over her. And she doesn't really like you. If she really doesn't like
• 2:35:31
  you, then she doesn't want you to know that something about you happens to
• 2:35:37
  turn her on. Besides, she doesn't like it when she finds herself being
• 2:35:39
  turned on by a man who she doesn't like, because that's wrong. Somehow,
• 2:35:43
  he's referencing the video he sent that we did on the video, the
• 2:35:48
  one that they attenuated in a in a super chat but super child but yeah,
• 2:35:52
  oh mister stupid finally got through. And if he did, based on
• 2:35:56
  my advice to him to switch from one payment to the other payment. So
• 2:36:01
  thank you, mister stupid. I think he deserves a big round of applause
• 2:36:05
  for that. Thank you. Okay, and he put in thirty five dollars.
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  Thank you, mister stupid. We're now at six hundred and ninety five
• 2:36:22
  with two days left, so we still got a ways to go. Please
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  please help us out feed the badger dot com slash support and I will tell
• 2:36:30
  you my adventures on Twitter. It's my fault, by the way, like
• 2:36:33
  at the end, it's probably my fault. I pissed this guy off,
• 2:36:37
  but I did a tweet where I said that, so we're just doing a
• 2:36:43
  little something different. Conservatives mockman for their childish hobbies, but after a man
• 2:36:48
  has done his tour of divorce and family court, they're often the only joy
• 2:36:50
  he has left in life. And I've seen this. So and some guy
• 2:36:56
  who I won't name specifically because he ended up blocking me. He said,
• 2:37:01
  and the rest of us don't even get to the seat at the table.
• 2:37:03
  Women won't even look at me. And I said, skip the middleman,
• 2:37:07
  and he said, yeah, you ain't kidding. Already miserable and I'm out
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  touche, And I said, now, build yourself out. Honestly, I
• 2:37:15
  don't know why men think women are going to elevate them out of misery.
• 2:37:18
  Look at women, do you think they have the secret to not being miserable?
• 2:37:22
  Sorry? And then he goes on and he says, nine and twenty
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  two days, no booze, lost seventy five pounds now cardio weights every day,
• 2:37:33
  paid off fifty three K and debt, bought a house, renovated myself.
• 2:37:37
  I made over one hundred and thirty six K before taxes last year.
• 2:37:41
  Tell me again how I'm not working, how I'm not build yourself out?
• 2:37:45
  Well, honestly, like, I think that's a bit of a trap because
• 2:37:46
  I had no idea of the context, but whatever. And then I responded
• 2:37:50
  with and you're still miserable. Then those things don't make you happy, which
• 2:37:56
  I think is just obvious honestly. And then he responds with, see this
• 2:38:03
  is proof no amount of effort is enough for women. And I said,
• 2:38:05
  dude, do you want me to tell you that you're happy when you said
• 2:38:07
  you're miserable? And there's the dude comment, the absolute worst thing a woman
• 2:38:11
  can call a man. I just found this really interesting because it's like,
• 2:38:18
  if all of these external things aren't making you happy, then they're not making
• 2:38:22
  you happy, right, true, true, But you know it is kind
• 2:38:28
  of like, Okay, I think what he actually wants is a relationship,
• 2:38:37
  and he's doing these things in order to get one, and he hasn't been
• 2:38:41
  able to get one. And so like his primary goal, which should be
• 2:38:48
  attainable for almost all people, right, is still not attainable. Despite earning
• 2:38:54
  six figures, owning a house, and you know, having you know,
• 2:39:00
  a good body, it's still not attainable to him. So I can understand
• 2:39:03
  why he's frustrated. I can understand why he's complaining about the eighty twenty rule,
• 2:39:09
  because that's what he's complaining. But the point was that at the end
• 2:39:13
  of the day, there are men out there who have had a relationship and
• 2:39:18
  been so destroyed that they're basically back to what gave them joy before it even
• 2:39:24
  started, right, And I mean to go in and say, well,
• 2:39:31
  I didn't even get this, it's like, well, yeah, I know
• 2:39:33
  you didn't get that, but it's you're sort of taken away from the situation
• 2:39:39
  that a lot of guys who've been through the Ringer have been through, right,
• 2:39:41
  And it's not a competition, but you started making it one. But
• 2:39:45
  also, and that's not really criticism. That not really where I'm going with
• 2:39:48
  this. Also, it was about personal happiness, right, not about this
• 2:39:54
  thing is supposed to get me this other thing that makes sense. Well,
• 2:40:00
  it makes sense, but that's not how the world works, Allison. All
• 2:40:07
  Right, Well, explain, Well, you know, I if I work
• 2:40:11
  and work and work at a job and I don't get paid, you know,
• 2:40:16
  at the end of the two weeks or whatever, I don't get a
• 2:40:20
  paycheck. Okay, It even if I didn't mind doing the work, even
• 2:40:28
  if I wasn't miserable doing the work, I was doing the work to get
• 2:40:33
  paid, right, And this is this is the thing, right, Like
• 2:40:37
  he's obviously gone through all of these steps in the service of a higher goal,
• 2:40:43
  right, and he's it's it's like, yeah, no, a guy
• 2:40:48
  who I don't know how old he is, but you know one hundred and
• 2:40:52
  thirty six thousand dollars a year, owns a house, right, got himself
• 2:40:58
  out of debt, lost a bunch of weight, you know, really and
• 2:41:03
  you know, keeping his body in shape and all of that really working on
• 2:41:07
  it, right, Well, he's doing that with a goal in mind.
• 2:41:09
  And if if women are still sticking their noses up at him and saying,
• 2:41:13
  you know, like it's kind of like the Jamaican women at the store,
• 2:41:18
  who you know, they ask me like, why doesn't your son have a
• 2:41:22
  girlfriend? Right, because they're looking at him. He's six foot five,
• 2:41:28
  he's in incredible shape, right, and he's got a nice face, and
• 2:41:39
  they're like okay, and he's got a good job, and they're like,
• 2:41:43
  why doesn't he have a girlfriend? And you know, I was telling him,
• 2:41:52
  you know, they think you're like really good looking. These middle aged
• 2:41:56
  Jamaican women. They think you're like caught to trot, right. I think
• 2:41:58
  they might try off one of their daughters to you, right. And he's
• 2:42:05
  like, okay, so if I'm that attractive, like where are the women?
• 2:42:09
  Mm hmm, yeah, where are they? So it's like, well,
• 2:42:16
  they've been sold that having a partner, a male partner, is about
• 2:42:20
  his health. You know, you might as well just pick up a crack
• 2:42:22
  ad, you know, crack habit, because yeh been sold that having a
• 2:42:28
  male partner is something that you don't need to need to even think about until
• 2:42:31
  you're thirty five. Yeah, way way past when. Yeah, but ultimately,
• 2:42:37
  like I think that maybe we were at cross purposes when we were talking,
• 2:42:43
  perhaps because and you know, maybe this is just my frustration speaking,
• 2:42:50
  but if if you roll the dice and you're just going to end up with
• 2:42:56
  where you started, is there a point to rolling of dice? Honestly?
• 2:43:01
  I mean, I guess you could win really big. But then the other
• 2:43:03
  thing is that I was really thinking about this because what he's asking, and
• 2:43:07
  what men are asking, is well, what do we need to do?
• 2:43:09
  Do we attractive to women? And what do I need we need to do?
• 2:43:13
  And we're willing to do all this, and we're willing to do all
• 2:43:16
  that, and we're still not attractive. And I was really thinking about this,
• 2:43:18
  and I was thinking that the one thing that women don't have is contentment,
• 2:43:24
  is being able to be content with this society or with what they have
• 2:43:28
  now. I mean, this is the one thing that it seems like women
• 2:43:33
  have almost nothing of. Does that make sense, yes, But I think
• 2:43:39
  that basically what these men who go through these things they need to realize,
• 2:43:48
  right, But this is kind of the difference between men and women is that
• 2:43:54
  And this is fundamentally the eternal complt of feminists in terms of what attracts the
• 2:44:05
  opposite sex and things like that. And it's like, yeah, no,
• 2:44:09
  you can be as powerful and wealthy and influential as metal and all bright,
• 2:44:20
  but you're not going to have a line of q of you know, young
• 2:44:26
  soccer players lined up outside your freaking boudoir door. Right, That's just not
• 2:44:33
  going to happen. And you know, like, whereas with men, they
• 2:44:39
  can accumulate value through their lives. And this is what a huge amount of
• 2:44:43
  feminist complaint is is that men don't lose value as they get older, right
• 2:44:48
  necessarily, because but all of those things that men accumulate, you know,
• 2:44:56
  human capital, job experience, earning potential assets, all of all of those
• 2:45:03
  things that they accumulate throughout their lives, right, those all make them more
• 2:45:09
  attractive as they get older to a point. Right, And but for women,
• 2:45:16
  there's not the same payoff. Right, Okay, But but the other
• 2:45:20
  thing is that what you have you have to actually let those guys know,
• 2:45:24
  right, Owning a home is no small thing, right, Buying your way
• 2:45:30
  out of it, or paying your way out of fifty three thousand dollars in
• 2:45:33
  debt is no small thing, right, I'm not saying it is. Seeing
• 2:45:37
  all that weight and getting into shape is no small thing, and those things
• 2:45:41
  should actually make you improve your perspective, even if you're looking at going forward
• 2:45:52
  throughout your life as an individual as opposed to half of a couple. Right,
• 2:45:56
  Like these things should actually these things bring value in and of themselves,
• 2:46:01
  right, Health assets, right? Uh, liquidity, experience right also they
• 2:46:11
  have they have value in and of themselves, right. So Okay, So
• 2:46:18
  the thing is that what I was saying is if these things aren't making you
• 2:46:26
  happy, like and I'm not, I don't care, Like ultimately, this
• 2:46:28
  is none of my business, right. I mean, uh, if he
• 2:46:33
  wants to not be happy, that's his business, right. But if these
• 2:46:37
  things are not making you happy, then they're not making you happy, is
• 2:46:39
  all I was saying. Well, yeah, but they they need to He
• 2:46:45
  needs to actually gain some satisfaction from those things like that. He needs to
• 2:46:50
  like retrain his brain in a way in such a way to say, you
• 2:46:54
  know, like I have a nice house, I have I have these things
• 2:46:58
  that I I did, right, that I accomplished by myself, right on
• 2:47:05
  my own, with my own efforts, and that gives me some satisfaction,
• 2:47:11
  Like there should be something two It's like milestones right in terms of you're working
• 2:47:18
  your way towards a singular goal, but you're hitting all of the milestones.
• 2:47:26
  Maybe the goal hasn't happened yet, but that doesn't mean you need to be
• 2:47:30
  dissatisfied and annoyed about the fact that you did all of these things right,
• 2:47:37
  because all of those things make your life better objectively objective, Yeah, I
• 2:47:43
  know, but it's like, but it does none of it matters unless he
• 2:47:46
  has a woman. And I'm like, but a woman isn't a guarantee of
• 2:47:50
  elevating you out of misery? Well, you know, like honestly, it
• 2:47:54
  depends on what kind of woman you get. Depending on what kind of woman
• 2:47:58
  you get, you could lose freaking more than a half. Yeah, you
• 2:48:03
  could lose everything you've gained. And maybe that doesn't matter as long as you've
• 2:48:07
  been you've got that seal of approval from a woman. But then, on
• 2:48:11
  the other hand, I see guys who've gone through it and they don't look
• 2:48:13
  very happy either, So it's like, what, at what point what makes
• 2:48:18
  people happy or at least content? Well, like, just what does it?
• 2:48:26
  I'm just saying, you know, like, if this isn't it,
• 2:48:28
  then maybe look somewhere else, is all I was getting at. I'm not
• 2:48:33
  saying I'm not saying that this stuff is not worthy or not impressive. But
• 2:48:39
  if you're saying, I'm miserable, I've done all of these things, and
• 2:48:41
  I say, well, they're not making you happy. You know, you're
• 2:48:46
  jumping down my throat. But you're the one who's dismissing it because they're not
• 2:48:50
  making you happy, and they should make him happy, Like honestly, those
• 2:48:54
  are like massive accomplishments and you should be like very proud of himself. Well
• 2:49:00
  yeah, but it's it's like a sign of depression that you can't take some
• 2:49:05
  you know, appreciate yourself for it, right, Yeah, And anyway,
• 2:49:09
  that needs a change in thinking. Anyway. I just I wanted to bring
• 2:49:11
  that up because I think it relates to this somehow. I don't know exactly
• 2:49:16
  how. Yeah, it does. It does kind of relate to this.
• 2:49:20
  But let me let me just let you know. I have to go,
• 2:49:26
  Okay, can you stop dragging your morocca on the ground there? Just because
• 2:49:30
  we put an air tag on you doesn't mean you need to make all that
• 2:49:33
  noise. Yes, go down to your doggos Brian, did you have anything
• 2:49:39
  to say about this. Being happy is a choice. Being happy is a
• 2:49:46
  choice. You have to you have to to be satisfied. You have to,
• 2:49:48
  like I think you just it's a choice that you can make. And
• 2:49:54
  people need to count their blessings. That is like grated does a practice is
• 2:50:01
  a daily gratitude And you don't you don't have to just be grat grateful for
• 2:50:05
  the things that give you give people. You got to be grateful for the
• 2:50:09
  things that you give yourself. Yeah, daily practice and and I don't know,
• 2:50:15
  just don't take things for granted. I think that that's one of the
• 2:50:18
  big problems is that women are seem to be in a constant state of the
• 2:50:24
  fomo and it's like look around you, like, look at what we have,
• 2:50:31
  look at what you could be squandering. Yeah, I mean I think
• 2:50:35
  that's what this is really. I mean, like, what's wrong with me
• 2:50:39
  like not just being gracious but also like and being grateful but also making the
• 2:50:48
  occasional sacrifice. I mean, we have to do it all the time.
• 2:50:52
  Yeah, but let me like frame it. Because we have Hannah Cocks and
• 2:50:56
  we have this this individual I was having a conversation with, who's done all
• 2:51:01
  of this but none of it matters without a woman, like none of it
• 2:51:03
  makes him happy without a woman. So let's bring Hannah Cox into that he's
• 2:51:07
  in this relationship with a man who cannot be happy without her. How does
• 2:51:13
  that make her feel? And what does she think? It's just something that's
• 2:51:18
  sort of I'm moving over in my mind, and I don't have any conclusions.
• 2:51:22
  I'm just putting it out there. All I have is questions. All
• 2:51:26
  right, So we are, let me double check to make sure we've gotten
• 2:51:31
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