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The Real Husbands · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy melancants and camera judge. Hi, guys,
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  Speaker 1: welcome to to cheese in a pod from Las Vegas
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  Speaker 1: at the Heart Radio Music Festival. Last night was a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a blur, but I am here and
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  Speaker 1: I am so excited to be with a very special
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  Speaker 1: co host, drew a, Sdora, our favorite from real housewives
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  Speaker 1: of Atlanta, and then you guys loved her so much
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  Speaker 1: we had to fly her into Vegas for her hot
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  Speaker 1: takes on all things Beverly Hills. God, so you're all
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  Speaker 1: caught up right like. I mean, look at the fact
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  Speaker 1: I look like a mad scientist here with all of
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  Speaker 1: my notes. It's like chicken scratch. My husband's like you
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  Speaker 1: have an illness when he sees me like prepping for this.
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  Speaker 1: It's the workstation. But all right, so let's start off.
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  Speaker 1: I doing well. I also want to tease that at
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  Speaker 1: the end of this we're gonna be bringing on our
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  Speaker 1: husband's Ralph and Edwin we've got some we've got some
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  Speaker 1: tough questions asked them. It's gonna get spicy. We're also
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  Speaker 1: going to do a little um tequila tasting and wine tasting.
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  Speaker 1: Of all, housewife beverages look okay. Oh well, maybe we will,
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  Speaker 1: maybe we won't. Let's get through this recap and see
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  Speaker 1: what happens Um all right. So we'll start off with
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  Speaker 1: housewife headlines. Erica Jane dismissed from lawsuit over attorney fees
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  Speaker 1: and this l a MAG article. Here a judge has
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  Speaker 1: formerly dismissed Erica Jane as defendant and the lawsuit brought
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  Speaker 1: by two attorneys against her, as well as her strange husband,
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  Speaker 1: Tom Girardi and his former law firm, Girardi and keys,
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  Speaker 1: in a dispute over attorneys millions and Gerardi keys never
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  Speaker 1: gave their share to a sheldon and fan they were
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  Speaker 1: suing over for nine thousand dollars l a Superior Court
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  Speaker 1: Ruan signed a judgment in favor of Jane on Friday,
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  Speaker 1: affirming his August twenty nine ruling removing her as a
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  Speaker 1: defendant in the case. Listen, I've got to say first off,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that the court is working with real housewives
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  Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills episode drops on where and I knew that. Well,
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  Speaker 1: look the president we had, he came from reality. So
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  Speaker 1: things in America. I mean it's true, like the act,
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  Speaker 1: that like she was able to put on Wednesday, the
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  Speaker 1: day that the episode dropped, that this happened. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that's a little bit of that's a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: good luck here, but I'm happy for our girl. Like
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  Speaker 1: I like I said before when we were talking last time,
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  Speaker 1: that I believe like I've been in that situation. So
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  Speaker 1: my heart went out to her. So I'm glad the
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  Speaker 1: court ruled. I'm this way. I mean I think there's
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  Speaker 1: a lot more court suits, a lot more suits to come,
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  Speaker 1: but I think the fact that every win showing that
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  Speaker 1: she wasn't a part of it, it's got to feel
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  Speaker 1: good for her mental state feelings. Absolutely. It's hard to fathom,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because you're like, well, you were with him,
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  Speaker 1: that's your husband, like you should know everything, but you'd
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  Speaker 1: be surprised, you know. I mean, do you know everything
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  Speaker 1: about your husband? Well, you guys know I don't. You.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even live. I want to do it. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I mean still trying to figure out. Well, he did
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  Speaker 1: show me recess about Tampa, you know, but there's things
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  Speaker 1: and now I'm reading the book, so you know I'm learning,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know. Is it a mean thing? Maybe
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  Speaker 1: we'll save those questions. Well, well, we'll dig into the
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  Speaker 1: husband's later. I mean, let's be honest, like I'm on
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  Speaker 1: my husband's eye cloud right now. It's just how the
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  Speaker 1: passwords to the eye cloud. You know what, thirteen years later,
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  Speaker 1: that's how you get through years. Goals. Um, okay. Then
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  Speaker 1: this one. You gave shared a little tea on this,
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  Speaker 1: which I didn't realize. Lisa rennas seeking two million for
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  Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hill, season thirteen, demands to be
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  Speaker 1: the highest paid housewife. Lea's Sorenna is currently renegotiating her
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  Speaker 1: contract with Bravo, demanding that she'd be the highest paid
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  Speaker 1: real housewife ever or she won't come back. Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: First off, this is on radar online, which I take
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  Speaker 1: the articles on radar online with a grain of salt.
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  Speaker 1: We know that history and yeah, click, but is there
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  Speaker 1: any other housewives that make two know? Well, I mean hello,
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  Speaker 1: housewives of Atlanta, Stark Candy, the candy bars. She is
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  Speaker 1: now crossed the two million dollar mark. Four season, fifteen million.
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  Speaker 1: Two million, which hold on, what season are you ont?
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  Speaker 1: We're coming up on season fifteen. No, but you're on
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  Speaker 1: season three. So like you're you're still spending more than
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  Speaker 1: you make. I'm still just like in the red a
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  Speaker 1: little bit actually, like it's really bad where. My husband
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  Speaker 1: will have a lot to say about that. He's got
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  Speaker 1: the whole remember I told you the spreadsheet. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: every dime. Next level. People that are like, oh well,
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  Speaker 1: you take so much. Right, I'm like your first season
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  Speaker 1: on how that's why if you paid to beyond. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I didn't know that, because you know, I'm an actor,
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  Speaker 1: so you know where we come from, right. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: Glam is taken care of. Like, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I make money right. So when I came on the show,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what? I have to pay for
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  Speaker 1: every like Glam, every day glam clothes. You can't ever
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  Speaker 1: wear the same thing. And you know in Atlanta it's hot,
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  Speaker 1: like you can't show up with the same back twice.
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  Speaker 1: That's just what it is. And I'm like, wait, what?
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  Speaker 1: So everything is an investment, every and people think that
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  Speaker 1: when we do events, that you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: they give us money. Yeah, don't know. That's our event
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  Speaker 1: and that's it period. Yeah, no, there. And the only
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  Speaker 1: thing that's a little bit scute is when they say
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  Speaker 1: the trips and they're like Oh, it's I crack up
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  Speaker 1: every time for the setup when it's like my trip
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like yeah, my trip. It's like everybody rotates
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  Speaker 1: whose trip it is. That's the only thing. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you end up, yes, you're you get paid your first
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  Speaker 1: couple of seasons, but it's so minimal that you end
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  Speaker 1: up spending more. But do you so, do you think
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  Speaker 1: that she'll be back? I mean I thought, well, she
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  Speaker 1: had taken like real house with Beverly Hills off her
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  Speaker 1: instagram page and like it was looking like she was leaving.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm actually shocked when she's like now I'm coming
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  Speaker 1: in strong and demanding two million. You know, that's I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if that's necessarily true that she's doing that.
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  Speaker 1: I do think that she removed all it. Just this
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  Speaker 1: is me guessing, but I do think she removed everything
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  Speaker 1: to kind of as like a you guys better show
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  Speaker 1: it's actually really going down on this show. Um. But
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  Speaker 1: I do also know, like you don't want to have
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  Speaker 1: with Bravo hello, because I'm still looking for me. I know,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm like, I don't I know one person not
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  Speaker 1: to mess up to. I'm not even on the show
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  Speaker 1: anymore and I'm like, would bravo prove this? So many things.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we'll see what happens. This is like a
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  Speaker 1: stay tuned situation. Um, so I don't know. And then
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  Speaker 1: on Radio Andy show he said a housewife walked out
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  Speaker 1: of the reunion. I already know who it is. I
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  Speaker 1: can't say. Come on, but what the t I'm giving
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  Speaker 1: is that I already know, because it's obviously someone I
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  Speaker 1: am I know. Is it o g? So it's an
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  Speaker 1: o G. Okay, so we know that. So if you
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  Speaker 1: were to guess out here, if you were to guess,
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  Speaker 1: who do you think? Somebody that I probably have communication with. Oh, Kyle.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, dad, I think wait a minute, I
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  Speaker 1: looked in your eyes. You're looking down. Okay, look me
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  Speaker 1: in my eyes. Three Kyle. I think it's Kyle. I'M
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  Speaker 1: gonna say it's Kyle. I'M gonna say it's Kyle. I
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  Speaker 1: cannot confirm or deny. I'm gonna text you after I watch.
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  Speaker 1: But what Hendy said, it is true. Somebody does walk off,
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  Speaker 1: and I think it's more than once. Well, because I
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  Speaker 1: feel like kyle is kind of fed up this season
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  Speaker 1: with certain things. You know what I mean so I
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  Speaker 1: could see her just I can see it being kyle
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  Speaker 1: and just be like, you know, you know who's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be here tomorrow. So you can ask her yourself. But
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  Speaker 1: I do know that the reunion was in tense, lots
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  Speaker 1: of tears, lots of drama. Um. And then so post Reunion,
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  Speaker 1: Kathy Hilton is going off on instagram stories about Renna.
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  Speaker 1: Here are some of the shots. Uh, I mean the
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  Speaker 1: fact that she like doesn't even know how to use
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  Speaker 1: instagram and like rights on people's instagram her phone number
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  Speaker 1: call me, but like as knows how to do a repost.
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  Speaker 1: It's hilarious. Lisa Renna. It's the most appalling violent behavior
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  Speaker 1: I've ever seen. Also Lisa Renna, and it's like her
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  Speaker 1: flipping out and Renna's attacks Kim Richard's like all the
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  Speaker 1: she's posting Renna's past behavior. Um, which here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Thou who protests too hard, that you know, this is
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  Speaker 1: why they pay me the big box, like thou who
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  Speaker 1: who protests too much. Like, I think the fact if
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  Speaker 1: you're going out of your way to do if you're
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  Speaker 1: Kathy Hilton and you're going out of your way to
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  Speaker 1: do reposts, to like dog out Lista Reno when you
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  Speaker 1: already have the fans on your side. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I love it, because Kathy was like not really here,
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  Speaker 1: like if, like, we've seen the progression of Kathy Hilton, right,
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  Speaker 1: so I feel like you're seeing, we're seeing the real
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  Speaker 1: Cathy Hilton come out like she is now. She needs
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  Speaker 1: to hold like the diamonds. Yeah, I mean because she there's, there's, uh,
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  Speaker 1: I think. I think when you have too much of
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  Speaker 1: control over a show, like when you get lawyers involved,
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  Speaker 1: I personally think your time will be limited. Really, like,
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  Speaker 1: have you ever Sued Bravo? Well, not Bravo, but I
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  Speaker 1: did want to see a couple of people on the show.
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  Speaker 1: You did see that. I wanted to. We didn't, but
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to because the reason I felt. I know,
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  Speaker 1: but you thought I strongly disagree with housewife suing each other.
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  Speaker 1: You come on a show to to talk ship, but
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  Speaker 1: my husband, I know. But for me all you want
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  Speaker 1: my husband. Right, but did he show up to film?
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  Speaker 1: He's fair game. What about? What about when they talk
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  Speaker 1: about your husband when he's not even there? Because but
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  Speaker 1: he's already if you never brought your husband on the
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  Speaker 1: show and they didn't talk about him. Fine, but he's there.
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  Speaker 1: He's an active per system and he walks in with
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  Speaker 1: his shirt off. He does, he does, he does, so
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  Speaker 1: he I'm sorry. If you that's the same thing, like yes,
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  Speaker 1: of course kids are off limits, but if your kids
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  Speaker 1: become a storyline because of something that you've brought them into, see,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, because I feel like in Atlanta there's
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  Speaker 1: certain moments that are missed. I feel like in Beverly Hills,
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  Speaker 1: you guys do corral. You know what I mean, you guys.
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  Speaker 1: You guys have the heart to know, like, all right,
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  Speaker 1: my sister is he you're hurting or she's going through
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  Speaker 1: something real, so we're going to support her in this moment,
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  Speaker 1: even if I don't like her. I feel like in Atlanta,
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  Speaker 1: when it came to like my body and my health issues,
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to children, I feel like with husbands,
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  Speaker 1: certain things should be off limits. I don't think you
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  Speaker 1: should attack children. I don't. I have women in their
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  Speaker 1: body and that was something I talked about. Like I'm
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  Speaker 1: opening up about my healthier my hys directed me and
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  Speaker 1: you guys are still like, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: throwing shade in that and I just felt like some things,
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  Speaker 1: when it goes below the bell, you kind of get
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  Speaker 1: need to put people in their place. I do too,
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  Speaker 1: but I I also think like a lawsuit really isn't
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  Speaker 1: going to get anybody anywhere. Order. Yeah, I mean Indian,
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  Speaker 1: I mean they're gonna find because then the problem is
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  Speaker 1: they're going to find something else and then it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: Piss you off more, and then when does it stop?
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  Speaker 1: I wish I knew you before, but I didn't. We
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  Speaker 1: didn't file. So we're gonna hold off. We're gonna hold off,
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  Speaker 1: hold off, because here's the thing, because it's gonna come
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  Speaker 1: full circle, because I'm you know you're you're messy too.
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  Speaker 1: So that boy, you are going to do something that's
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: going to ultimately piss somebody off and it's a waste
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  Speaker 1: of money. And that's the real reason. Because, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I did how to apologize a couple of times because
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, yeah, let me just
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  Speaker 1: not and Ralph, I think he did a great job.
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  Speaker 1: You know, watch the reunion. Tell me Um, but he
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  Speaker 1: did a good job in setting terre, you know straight. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and ultimately you know who he is, if you know
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  Speaker 1: the marriage that you're in, you know the relationship you're in.
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  Speaker 1: I think yes, kids one million percent should be off limits.
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  Speaker 1: But if kids come up because you've had them somewhere,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna come up. You need to come to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I think you guys would eat me a way. Are
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  Speaker 1: you serious? I don't know. I feel like they would
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  Speaker 1: be like, Oh God, Teddy's here. I don't know. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be a pravo con so I'll be grilling all
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  Speaker 1: of you guys and I'm excited to talk to Sonya.
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  Speaker 1: Let's yeah, a lot of questions, right? I have a
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  Speaker 1: lot of questions. Also, I didn't know she was on
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  Speaker 1: a reality show before for one season. I know, but yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we can't really get into it Atlanta right now. But Um,
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hill Star Shari's Zampino dishes on
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  Speaker 1: all her bravo cast meats. I mean I'm glad she's
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  Speaker 1: dishing now because she doesn't talk on the show. I oh,
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  Speaker 1: she's trying to find her way. I'm sorry. Yeah, US
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  Speaker 1: this episode was Hilarious when she signed the card like
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  Speaker 1: on the gift like she does little funny thing next moments.
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  Speaker 1: But I need her more and I need, especially my
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  Speaker 1: friends of I need my friends of fighting for that diamond,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't think she fought for that diamond. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think it's coming. Yeah, I was like, does she
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  Speaker 1: even want to be here? I mean I think, I
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  Speaker 1: really feel like she was here for Garcea, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like I got your bag, you know, vint to me,
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  Speaker 1: we can kick he or whatever, but in the long
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  Speaker 1: run I think she'll have to open up a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more, because she does. I mean I've I've known
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  Speaker 1: her just from the l a days and she's showing
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  Speaker 1: her true colors. Yeah, I feel like she's being a
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  Speaker 1: little more reserved, a little more timid, trying to find
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  Speaker 1: her way because she's she's she's funny. You can definitely
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  Speaker 1: tell that she's funny. This interview she pretty much says
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  Speaker 1: Um some of the ladies that I didn't think I
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  Speaker 1: would like in terms of what characters they were giving and,
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  Speaker 1: in my opinions, were based on what I saw as
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  Speaker 1: a fan, which I do like, is she admits to
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  Speaker 1: being a fan. I hate when housewives come on housewives
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, I never watched the show, and they
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  Speaker 1: clearly did. Right Um. So I like that she keeps
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  Speaker 1: it real. Um, she says. Like with Erica, I actually
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  Speaker 1: thought she was fun. I had a good time with her.
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  Speaker 1: I saw her realness from New York, and so I
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  Speaker 1: love her. And Lisa, Rinna, she's a soap opera star
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  Speaker 1: and wife of actor Harry Hamlin. I also found her
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  Speaker 1: to be very nurturing, UM, which I agree with her
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  Speaker 1: on that. Renna, like, yes, you guys see like Renna
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram, who goes off the handle, but she is
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  Speaker 1: a good friend and you know, she kind of breaks
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  Speaker 1: it down. Then she says something about Kyle, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she who she would not tell a secret or something
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  Speaker 1: like that, and it's Kyle, because she's like she basically
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  Speaker 1: produces the show, which is not no, but are you kidding?
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  Speaker 1: Don't you think she would have edited herself a little
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  Speaker 1: better the season? Because in Atlanta we have people that
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  Speaker 1: definitely produce themselves. So well, producing themselves and then producing
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  Speaker 1: that like people have always like. They love to say,
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  Speaker 1: oh well, kyle is practically a producer of real housewives.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, absolutely not. She moves story the same way
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  Speaker 1: that Garcel moves story. See, I got so much to learn.
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  Speaker 1: I saw the Newbie so I'm like, I think I
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  Speaker 1: just am a little, probably two out there with everything
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  Speaker 1: you know there. I think what happens is is you're
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: sitting at a dinner and you realize this dinner is
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  Speaker 1: not going to be shown. I spent five dollars on Glam.
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  Speaker 1: I spoke about it, I thought on this dress and
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  Speaker 1: my good time and I realized that nobody gives a
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  Speaker 1: crap about the weather or what television shows were watching
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  Speaker 1: and something needs to happen. So we got to move
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  Speaker 1: things along. So I look at any shipster as they're
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: doing a favor to us. Got It by keeping it going.
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  Speaker 1: Got It. Um. The last thing that I'm seeing is
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  Speaker 1: Bravo instagram or claims. What was really edited out of
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  Speaker 1: real housewives of Beverly Hills. Oh, I didn't read this
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  Speaker 1: on the rundown prior Um. This is from your mom's
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  Speaker 1: are watching. So Bravo told the ladies they cannot mention
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  Speaker 1: the fact that Kathy called the DJ and old effing
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  Speaker 1: F A G M M GE UH Huh. And then
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  Speaker 1: on camera and they cut out all the confessionals that
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  Speaker 1: dealt with it specifically, and it wasn't just Erica and
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  Speaker 1: Lisa and Diana talking about some of the things Kathy
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  Speaker 1: says in the club. What we are left with is
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: a bizarre cut that makes it seem like the women
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: are overreacting about a woman's rant against her sister. No
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  Speaker 1: wonder every single Bravo site is fawning all over Kathy.
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  Speaker 1: The truth is not out there never will be. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if this is true. I I you know,
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  Speaker 1: I I know certain things, but I don't know the
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  Speaker 1: magnitude that goes into but what I can say when
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: fans like you, you can do no wrong, they love you,
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: they want to see the best in you continuously. And
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: when fans don't like you, you can do no right. Ever. Well,
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: that was me first season, so I'm experienced both sides now.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: So very, very true, Um, and I'm loving the fact that,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: you know, people obviously are giving me a second chance.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like some of this is true,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: like do you feel like? We don't know if it's
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: true or not, but it sounds like I feel like
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: when you see I never want to I was not there.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I was not personally there, but I think you can
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: tell by the level of how upset a lot of
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: these women are and also the level that other women
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: are going to protect something bad wine and the fact
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: that it's happened when they were off camera. And then
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: people are like if also when they were in the
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: Sprinter van, why weren't cameras on? I want to point
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: out something. When, I don't know if you guys are
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: the same, when we break for the night, they don't
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: leave the cameras in your car. In a sprinter, people
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: will steal the equipment. So, like, if you go down,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: they take the cameras out. Well, we all saw that. Well,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: in the house at least. Yeah, they left the cameras
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: up in the house. Not Not a sprinter, but in
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: the house. See, we don't have Beverly Hills doesn't have that. Well,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: you remember the epic stripper. Yeah, Beverly Hills has never,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: never had cameras up, and that if a producer isn't
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: their cameras aren't rolling. Yeah, see, that was what was
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: so crazy about that season. That was season what thirteen,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: because no one ever in the history experienced that. So
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: when the producers left, no one knew that they left
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: the cameras and the audio. Yeah, which was crazy. That
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I mean. Well, that's like girls trip. Yeah, I mean,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: which that makes for good TV, but also a lot
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: of drama, especially it's happening. So we'll never know safe
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: to say. We'll never know safe. Oh, this is another
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: real doozy. So, Shannon Badoer, you watch OSI, of course. Okay,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: so Shannon Badoer's ex husband calls office divorce. Last week, Tam. Well,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Tam wasn't with me, but last week I reported that
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: he filed for divorce for reconcilable differences. And then Leslie,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: who one? Why did she have to tag this three times?
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Like why? Why? Why? So she tags it three times
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: and she said, my husband filed a request for dismissal
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: a few days ago. Now back to your regular scheduled
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: performing programming. But then she tagged herself three times, and
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: that's solely because she wants to know that anyone that
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: picks this up is going to post her name. And
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, and listen, I'm as dehydrated as they come,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: but like, that is next level. I'M ANA only tag
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: ship once, like three times, but she needs a little water.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but this is what happens. I mean,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: but she's never even been on the show and I'm sorry,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: you're not going to be on the show, honey, and
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: then somebody posted. What is this? Honey? Leslie Badour claims
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: her husband, David Badour, has withdrawn his divorce petition after
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: filing the paper last week, but public information officer for
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: the Superior Court of California in Orange County tells page
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: six there hasn't been any requests to dismiss at this time.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: The spokesource and also verified on Wednesday that request was
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: in the queue to be filed, as there was also
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: no evidence of the alleged dismissal request in the case
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: docket per online records. I need another drink after that,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: like don't you if you're in the world of housewives
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: in any capacity and on the public form, people are
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: going to sleuth it out, publish records. Just yeah, storyline,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: like it's a giving storyline. Is it giving? Like there's
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: you're still not friends with anybody on the current cast.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: You're not coming in, you're taking Shannon spot. People really
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: go all out, like it's it's real life. People like
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: people want your reality. You don't have to go this far,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: especially when you're not even on the show. But you
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: know what, there are people in Atlanta. It's hot like
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: people have actually moved in my neighborhood just to have
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: a run in with me, to rump to producers, like
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: we heard so and so lives in your and I'm
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: like they do, and I'm like, I just thought she
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: was a nice neighbor. So, I mean, I understand, but
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: the lengths people go to, it's it's pretty ridiculous to me.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I mean it's a little bit. Now I gotta Watch
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I go to the bus stop. I used to go
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: out my bonnet and my clear still, like you know,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: and I gotta be fabulous when I go to the
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: bus stop just in case this white strip and I'm here.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: All right, let's take a little break and then we
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: will talk about the actual episode. Okay, so we are
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: back to discuss the actual episode. Now I feel like
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: the housewife. Headlines is a full time job just putting
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: them all together. So going on all the time, so
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: many everybody doing the most on social media. Um. So
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: it starts off with Renna is in shock about what
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: happened at the club with Kathy, and then Kathy won't
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: come out of her room, which to me I was like,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: did she ever come out of the room with she's
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: in her room with her fan alone like she that's
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: this isn't uncommon to me. Um, and then Kyle can
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: already feel that she's going to take the blame, which
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: made me sad. I mean, I think what what we
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: have to I have to say as a precursor to
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: this is I understand that these two women are sisters.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: They have, you know, a lifetime worth of drama and
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: trauma and who knows what else has gone on in
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: their relationship. But we've watched, even publicly, just the ups
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: and downs of it. But as I review this, I
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: have to separate the fact that how much I, you know,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Love Kyle and how anyone that hurts her and separate
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: the fact that this is her sister. I have to
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: look at it just as two cast mates on the show,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: or else I can't even recap it because, um, but
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: we saw how upset Kathy was about the eight one
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: eight last week and made it all about Kyle, so
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I can only imagine what the next thing was. Yeah, UM,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: then they're they're all crammed on that private jet again.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Such a set up, such a setup, like you know.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: So it's not surprising, you know, that then we got Erica,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: and Erica comes on and she says Erica tells sutton
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to fight with her. When she screams,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: it's out of anger and Sutton cries from being moved
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: by Erica. I'm so confused with relationship. I feel like
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: we've been here before. At this point, I feel like
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I I just want Sutton to be who she is
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and her confessionals and scene. But you know what, it's
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: really hard because I I relate to sutton. It's hard
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: when you feel like you're having a gang up situation
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: and I feel like Sutton is often placed in those
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: positions where it feels like everyone's coming at her. But
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: and so those are unwarranted. I just feel like Sutton
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: doesn't always pick the best words and like I feel
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: like I understand what she's trying to say just to
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: come out that way. So I feel like she's misunderstood
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: and I feel like people need just to have a
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: little grace and she needs support because I feel I
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: could honestly watch and see her crumbling as she feels
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: like all this heat come in her way, you know
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: what I mean? And that's just what I take. So
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: when she's in her confessional, she's by herself and she's giving,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: but in those moments I just feel like everyone's so
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: up and down with her. Yeah, I mean I think ultimately,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: and I mean I'm judgmental as well, but I think
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: her level of judginess wears off. You know, like what
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: what what makes it hard for me is if you're
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: on a show where you know that it's to create drama,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: there's nothing worse than being with a housewife that's like, guys,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: let's all get along right now, like you know why
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you're here. You signed up for this job. Not only
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: did you not get your dime in your first year,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: you then step chup of your game and now you're here,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: so double down. And I still can't get with that
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: because I'm the girl that's like, can we all get along,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: like one time, can we just have fun? And I
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: understand it's the assignment right, but it's like a lot sometimes.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like Sutton gets it a lot more right,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: but then you will go have fun. When have we
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: seen Sun was she shopping? When, Um, that one time
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: with Rena and they went to the fact that you
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: have to say that one time, that one time she
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: was fun in the three years her and Garzella have
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: fun her and Garcella have fun moments. I like their
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: little key moments. I really do. You know what I'm saying?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I live for their little moment. I love. I love
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Garcella on the show. I do. I loved. I think
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: she does good show. I I think she's funny all
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: the and she will say things and seeing that you
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: know she's shady and her confessionals and she's funny, but
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: she still will. But what I did notice, especially this episode,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: is any time that garcelle admits to being in the wrong,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: she shuts that down real quick. She is and immediately
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you're right time because she doesn't want that
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: storyline about her and she does it very well. I'm
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: actually learning mark shut it down forever. She shuts it
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: down quickly, which is great for her, but also not
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: great for the fact that we are still on the
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Erica Jane storyline another season. We're two years inter but
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: it's so much there and it's so juicy and I
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I want to I still have so many questions. I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: mean it's never ending. We're just getting started. I feel
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: like yeah, so then you know Cathy isn't on the plane. Uh,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Sutton said she had a breakdown in the club because
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: nobody wanted to do the Congo Line Um, which, here's
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: the part that I find interesting, is this isn't really
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: the truth because it I never heard anything about any
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Congo line. I do like that at this moment, Sutton
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: is at least owning up to the fact that there
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: was a breakdown at the club, whereas like crystals, pretending
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: she didn't see it. But it was because she went
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: up to the DJ and asked him to play Billy Jean,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: and he you know, you know how djs are, especially
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: famous djs, when they're in the middle of a set.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: They don't want some random or or even some famous socialite,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, coming and telling them what to play.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: So he said no and that set her off. She
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: wanted that Vibe, she needed that song, she had moves,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: she wanted to leave on that floor. Yeah, and then,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: you know what they're also not really saying is, because
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: people love the narrative to hate Renna is Renna was
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: being nice by taking cathy out of the situation, because
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: she was blowing up not only on the DJ, on
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: everybody involved and flipping out in the same way that
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Renna took Erica out of the situation when she was
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: losing her ship. I was doing the same thing here,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: because you have to also remember this isn't being filmed.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Renna doesn't gain anything from getting her out and like like. No,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: I think. I think that she gains some trust and
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: some good points with some people. I can go easy
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: on her on the confessionals, well, I don't. I don't.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I guess I can see that, but I think it's
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: more just like one. Renna doesn't really like to stay
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: out late in party and to, you know, stuff and
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: to like she's seeing somebody come unhinge and she's seeing who,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: somebody she loves, Kyle, getting reamed out at a club because,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: once again, the fact that the DJ won't play a
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: song that Kathy wants. It's Kyle's fault again, and I'm like,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: are we really is this really an issue? ME, personally,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like wait, what, this really isn't are we really
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: doing this, guys? So the fact that things get that
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: ugly over not playing, I mean, you didn't get that
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: upset when your husband was accused of cheating on you,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: like you thank you. So we're I don't know. You
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. I think there's some imbalances here
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: and I think the the walls are starting to come
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: down and I think, yeah, and I think you know
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: it's a little bit rough, but all the women were
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: present except Garcell and Shari were not at the club.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Just want to make that clear, because this wasn't filmed.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: Garcella and Shari saw none of it. However, crystal was there.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: So I don't know why, when we flashed forward to
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: the end of the episode, Why Crystal is acting like
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: she didn't see it happened. Once she was supposed to
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: go in the car and couldn't get her cop from
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: coach check. She called the sprinter for Renna and Kathy
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: and the only thing I can think is crystal's probably
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: of the group the most socialite and she doesn't want
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: to not get that Kathy Hilton Christmas party and he
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: and I felt like since crystal came on the show
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: she's always been very protective, like of her her family,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: you know, her husband. She's one that's kind of like,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I want to just remain, you know, clean, as clean
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: as but she didn't when it came to Erica. She
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: was thrilled to be thrown that immediately into the into
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: the fire. Yeah, but I just still, out of all
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: the ladies, though, I feel like she's the most clean. Well,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: I think. I don't think she wants to mess with
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: her relationship with Kathy, but she was a there Um.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: So you see something. The fact that Sutton even admitted
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: it a little bit shows how bad it actually was,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: because Sutton's going to tell the truth. One thing you know.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Sutton's gonna tell it as much as she can. Yeah,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: she's gonna tell it as much as she can. She
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: may not go into the detail and maybe maybe there
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: was a mention of a Congo line, but that's not
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: what I heard from anybody else. Um. Then renaissays Cathy
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: was saying she would take down the show, Bravo, ruin
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: you all and destroy Kyle and her family. It's the
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: last thing she does, which what I can't even imagine
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: my sister justice being saying something like that about me.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: And where I think people started to get up in
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: arms was when and Rena's confessional, she says something along
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: the lines of like Kathy is jealous because Kyle is
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: the more famous one, and people were like no, she's not.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows the name Kathy Hilton. I agree, everybody knows
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: the name Kathy Hilton, but here's the difference that people
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: aren't actually recognizing. Kathy has been married into the Hilton family,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: started dating him when she was fifteen years old and
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: it is a very it's a different situation when you
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: marry into a family and they have the money than
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: it is when you make your own. So I think,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: in my opinion, Kathy has full, I mean Kyle has
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: full financial freedom. Her and Mauricio are self made, whether
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: it's through the show or not, and have that financial ability,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: whereas you know, I looked up on line and you know,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: there's One Hilton in highland. How many agencies are there? See?
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: That's so interesting. That's an interesting perspective because I definitely
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: always looked at Cathy as like I don't really care,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: she just has this like nonchalant I'm here, or maybe
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not here and I'm I'm fabulous over here. I
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: never thought about the fact that she may actually want
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: a desire the spotlight or to have her own independence.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, did you have to think about it? Like
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I was the most miserable I ever was in my
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: marriage with Edwin when I didn't have a job and
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I would have he wouldn't. He would come home from
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: work and he'd be like what do you do today,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: and I was pissed that he'd even ask me that
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: question with the kids. I'd be like I did this
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: and that, and he'd be like Oh, would. Where'd you
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: guys go for lunch? And I'd be like Sushi? Why?
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Like it was so defensive and he wasn't even being
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: a jerk, he was trying to talk to me. But
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: because I didn't have my own financial yeah, I felt
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: like I had to like validate myself to him, and
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: I get that. So I'm the same way. Like I
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: definitely because I've been independent my whole life. So obviously,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: when I had children I couldn't work anymore. It was
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: hard because I became financially dependent on my husband. But
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not that type of girl. But I and I
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: don't know Kathy, but from the outside I felt like
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: she was just like a kept woman. That because I
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: do have friends that love being kept. I always thought
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Kathy was a kept woman and she loved being kept.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I think that you can love being kept, but you
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: can also admire which then can turn into jealousy that
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: it's not that way. I mean you have to understand it.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: There are times, at being an independent woman and making
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: my own money myself, that I'm like, this is a
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: lot of work, I wish I could. Yeah, always it's
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: like if you have straight hair, you want hair. You
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: want what you don't have, you want. But the tricky
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: part is that this is her sister. Yeah, and and
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: and Kyle and Marico worked really hard and, whether you
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: like it or not, your sister was the beginning of
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: this show and she wanted you on because she loved
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: you and she wanted something that you wanted. It's not
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: like Kathy didn't want you. Don't go on that show.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: If you don't want to because you're forced. There's no
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: one holding a gun to your head saying you have
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: to go on the real housewives of Beverly Hills, it's
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: because you were missing something. Wow, whether you want fame, validation, money,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: whatever it is. I mean, is that not why you
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: joined the show? I mean, I definitely I wanted to
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: do something different from my family, you know, and build legacy,
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: but there are women that try to find identity on
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: the platform. I just never saw Kathy as that. So,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: to your point what you've been saying, it's very it's
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: a very sticky place because now we are just seeing
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the beginning of what could happen because, like you said,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: jealousy and all that. It's not going to end well
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna have to watch that. Yeah, I mean
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: because I believe the line was Rennas says I have
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: seen the devil and her name is Kathy Hilton. Um,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you think it, feel it, say it
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: about the things Kathy said, like I I you can.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: I think that Rena is a good actress. I don't
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: think she's this good of an actress. I think she
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: was shook by the things that were said and done.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: And listen, it's not that I have huge issue with Kathy.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: I have huge issue with anybody that pretends to be
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: somebody that they're not. Like my o C D and
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: my like type A, like, I I need to see
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: you who who you are. And you know, I joke
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: with my husband repeatedly, like he sees everybody as their
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: best self. That's me, like he sees the light and
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: everybody and I I think because of like the way
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I grew up and like I see the worst first
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: and then you have to earn my trust. You have
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: to earn it. That is Ralph. So yeah, type A,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Ralph's type A in it and the way he was
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: brought up, it is a tough thing to trust, but
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I do. I see people's potential always, so I'm always
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: looking at them as that. So, you know, that's that's
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: I can relate to. It went in that in that regard.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: But I just feel bad because, like, at the end
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: of the day, Um, you know, this is the spiral
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: that we're witnessing and when you put out words like that,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: the devil it's not going to get better anytime soon. Yeah,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: it was. It's pretty brittle. Um, then it's a lot
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: about durt playing both sides with Erica and Kyle. How
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: did you feel about I don't like it. I don't
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: like it. I feel like, well, I'm big on loyalty,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: so I was really shocked to even see Kyle and
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Durte at it anyway, because Dorit has been super loyal
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: and they have been, you know, basically bffs tied to
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: the hip. So this was different and I'm trying to
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: find understanding in in Erica and deret because last season
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: we saw derite and Kyle, P K right ICO, and
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: they were all like teaming injury. was constantly last week
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: talking about the orphans and the victims and the like.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: She she was the one, she was the one leading it.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: But this is I think it's because she really is
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: trying to play both sides. She I think this is
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: the problem I'm having. I love to read. I say
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: this before I say anything negative about her, because she
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: is one of my friends. But dried is trying to
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: be the voice of reason and she's not a voice
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: of reason. Don't you know what had to be? Don't
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: try to be something you're not like. It's not working.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: It's making you look super messy, super backstabby, to to Kyle,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you know, untrustworthy. It's just it's not a good look.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: So I you know. And then you see this is
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: you know, Erica starts to make good points, but she
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: makes them with the tone in her voice. Is it
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: just it makes you sleepy. Hold on, did you did
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you hear the difference in her voice between her first
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: season when they did the flashback? Yes, because Carlos King, actually,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I know if you watch this podcast, was speaking to that.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: You know, when she first came in hi, but then
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: I started thinking. I'm like, Oh, this is when she
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: was a Stepford wife. Think about it. She came on
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: and everything was perfect and this is my great life.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: And now she's she's tired. She's tired. She Ain't got
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: time to put on a show anymore. We it's no
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: longer expensive to her be her. It's exhausting. She still
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: looks good, you know, but on the inside she is sleepy,
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: tems to go to night. And then she did h
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: one of those after shows with deride where she definitely
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: gave the business a little bit to Garcel. She's like,
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: you know, I I don't want to sit there and
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: at every event, talk about my earrings and do this
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: and Blah, blah blah, especially when it comes to Garcel's
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: canceled television show. was like yes, I mean it was canceled,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: but the shade of it all, like I think she's
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: gone to the point where she's like, if you can
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: dish it out, you can take it. Because then when
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: she confronted Garce sell and said, listen, you know, we
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: we are close, we are friends, not we're clothes, but
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: we had a good time together, I thought we'd moved
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: past this. You didn't mention anything to me about the
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: real and Garcella knew she'd done up, because then she
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: didn't even Yep. You're right. Sorry, I mean, but at
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, when your show gets canceled,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: is that's something that you're like? No, but the fact
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: that she talked about the earrings on the show and
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: didn't say anything to Erica when they were I didn't
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: necessarily think they were bonding and I didn't believe I
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: was like they are coexisting, coexisting, which we do, which
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: you do, but I don't look at them and get
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: this warm fuzzy field. I don't. So I wouldn't even
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: have the expectation. Um, then we get to shri adding
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: her name to the highlight with highlighter to Garcela's Card
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: for Crystals Party. But honestly, was the crystals party or
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: crystal's funeral? It was the most oppressing birthday. That was
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: worse than you're the one in Atlanta who had it.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Was it Sonia Oh says, Part Day party, the Party
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: City Party. It was. It was dreadful. It was dreadful.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: It was and I know you can't have music on
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: housewives but it was like everybody looked like they were
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: board and uncomfortable and you could tell when Kathy entered
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: she was nervous. She was like Shit, and then she
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: comes over like there Eric's like talking about like I
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: went and drove and sat outside my old house and Blah, blah,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: like she's getting emotional, as emotional as Erica gets on
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: that end. You know she can yell, but seeing like
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: that type of emotion, and then Kathy walks up and
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: she's like so, do you overline your lip or what
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: lip for? It was like that was the comic relief.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: That was probably the best I know. But you don't
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: think that. That's all part of the that's what that's
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: what she's trying to give, as opposed to coming in
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: and being like I would feel completely different about the
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: situation if she came in and said, Hey, guys, I
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: was such an ASS soall in Vegas. I wasn't expecting that.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: If I'm an as like after I was an Asshole
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: in Provence, the next day woke up in a puddle
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: of shame and said I am so sorry, you guys,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: like I was an asshole. I wouldn't expect it, though,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: not from meant certain things from certain people. You know,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: I her to go in and pretend that nothing happened. Well,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: that's just I just felt like that was being true
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: to self. For me, I wasn't expecting it. She did
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: exactly what I expected. Right, but do you think that
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: that's the right way to know? That's not me. But see,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: that's not me. But some people, like you said, they're
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: not able to be their authentic self and they kind
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: of and I believe that she's done so many of
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: those types of things that people love that she's leaning
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: into that. Yeahs herself. Yeah, the quirkiness. So I'm like, okay,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: here we go again, you know, I'm just waiting for
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: somebody to call it out. And then at the Twenties Party,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Renna says she has PTSD. That was yeah, I was
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: that's a big word. Um, that's the that's the word, though,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: that's the word trauma. Um. And then Crystal Criticizes Sutton
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: as not being twenties. Um, and then, you know, whatever,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: the energy is off at the entire Party. Um. Then
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: this is now I need to ask because I don't
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: want to show my bias, but when crystal comes back
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: and acts shocked to the group why Renna left when
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: one she was just hugging Renna and in that moment,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: I know I can tell that you're not fully team Renna,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: as you'd gulp your champagne out of a wine glass,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: but I can feel it. But she just had the conversation.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: You know what happened. You know why she was upset.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: So why are you pretending you don't if you're going
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: to come back and to liver news? Like she sat down,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: like she's like. So she's upset, like she saw a ghost.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I have no idea why. I'm like, you know exactly why.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: She just told you hello. But back to protecting, right
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: to protecting. That's what I I that's what I see. So,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, here we go, here we go, Um,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: and then that's when Renna delivers her line about I
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: have seen the devil and her name is Cathy Hilton. Um.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: And then something that I've seen online, as people are saying,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: why isn't Renna, Rennyng here like why isn't she going
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: off like in her normal terms? And you tell me
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: your opinion first. Why do you think Renna isn't going off?
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: In this moment? She's removing herself. Yeah, you gotta. I'll
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: tell my reason why I want to hear your because
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: you know, you know them. No, but I want to
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: hear your unbiased, non hearing Teddy's opinion. I just feel
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: like Renna has been in a tight spot and I
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: just feel like she's cleaning up. See, I think she's
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: not rendating because she's also scared. Okay, so we agree.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my God, I'm cleaning up, like you need to
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: fix something. I think she's not just but not scared
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: because of the audience. I think everybody's scared of the
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: wrath of Kathy Hilton. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, like the wrath
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: of Kathy Hilton is scarier than the wrath of Lisa Rerenna.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Lisa Renna may go off on her social media, but
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: there's like different types of Brath. But then I also
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: saw Rena watch what happens live and Renault was like,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I mean, she was completely falling
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: on the sward and I was like what, because, oh
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: my God, I mean, I'm just trying, guys, I mean,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: forgive me forgetting, like no, but it's not that easy, man.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: I think it's hard after a certain amount of years
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: and you get the heat. It just you know that
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: it starts to it starts to happen, Um, and then
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: what else goes on in this happen if you oh
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: to me like Diana. The fact that I'm even saying
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Diana's name now after forty five minutes, so much she's
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: a part of which I think she's got to be gone,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: right if you're fully edited out of the episodes at
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: this point. I was never a Diana fan, though. Yeah,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: and honestly so, Um, but she so I thought you're
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: holding up, and I also feel like they're editing her
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: out more too, because the fans were just so. But
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: also know what she's doing. A lot of lawsuits. Yeah,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: and that back to your don't if you're a housewife,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: don't do laws. Right. Yes, but Diana says Kathy was
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: raging at the club. She'd never seen her like this.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Erica just wants Kathy to admit her behavior, apologize and
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: move on. And then Renna says it got worse. Um,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: and then Diana. I actually didn't mind Diana in this moment.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: She starts quacking and calling uh, calling Renna a chicken
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: for not bringing it up. But you have to remember
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: there is backstory between Kyle and Renna and her sisters.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: So she's in her in her defense. I don't think
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: that Renna thought she was going to go home and
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: it was going to be to the point that Kathy
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Hilton slamming things, breaking her glasses and losing her ship
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: about her sister and after what was allegedly reported to
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: be set at the club about the DJ, like all
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: of those things. I don't think she was ready for
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: that and I think that you're whenever anything happens off camera.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: I mean even Salt Lake City. Think about that hot
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: mic moment. Like I don't think Lisa Barlow really felt
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: what she was saying about Meredith. She was losing her
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: ship to producers, as we do at times, at which
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: we all do, but I stn't know that I go
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: to that level and say those things. But the fact
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: that there's no cameras, there's no nothing, and Renna had
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to take that and carry it on her own Um.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: And then, yeah, then Erica fails to eat and about
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: what happened with Renna and Kathy after the club. And
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: then Erica said be careful of those who have a
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: lot to protect. And then dery says the person who
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: will suffer the most is kyle. And Yeah, then previous
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: for next week are pretty mess hair. Um, the Kyle, Kathy,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: you're going to sit down. Can wait. You can see
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: it in Kathy's face in that moment when she's like Kyle, Kyle,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: it's coming out, it's coming out. Um. The tone is
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: like don't blow this here or you're gonna pay. I'm scared,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I'm scared. What, what? What's coming? And then that was
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: pretty much the episode. I think there was some fill
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: in this episode and I don't know how much we'll
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: ever find out. Well, I don't feel like we'll ever
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. I think we won't
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: get to the bottom of all the things that were
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: said until the reunion. I think then there'll be some accusations,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: but they're still there. Will never be proof. Um, the
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: questions from hands. All right, so I'll ask you. Would
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: you guys agree with Renna that Kyle is more successful
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: than Kathy? Lots of people on twitter we're making jokes
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: about Kathy Hilton is way richer than Kyle, but I
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: took it as in terms of career, which Kyle has
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: definitely made a name for herself outside of her husband
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: much more than Kathy. This is twitter. You guys. I
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: did not say this. I already gave my point of view. Disclaim. Honestly,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, as far as career goes
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: in independence, obviously kyle, but I feel like as far
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: as the wealth, Kathy Hilton, you know, I feel like
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: they gotta go tea for tea. It's Kathy all day. Well,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: we also have to keep in mind we really don't
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: know anybody's net worth. It's all network and I was
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: like I would where showed me the money. I had
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: it up and it said sixteen million. I was like, Damn,
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know that. I'd be podcast if I had
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: that network. Listen, I would be on a beach somewhere
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: with my net sixteen million. And then I started looking
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: at Ed when I'm like, what's in your bank account?
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Together I was like we're sixteen millions on the Internet. Um,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: and then Um Teddy. So I have a question. Are
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: you privy to Kathy Hilton enjoying a good old I
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: have never done a Congo line. I've gone to a
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: bunch of Kathy's parties and what I have seen that
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: she loves doing is prank phone calling and she's prank
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: phone called the same person for like years, like she
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: loves it. Everyone sits around and we listen to her
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: prank phone calling. And she loves Karaoke. So those two
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: things I have witnessed. I've never been a part of
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: a Congo line, but you never know. She's venturing with things.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: And then do you. We already talked about that. Um. Oh.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: And lastly, for drew, as someone who has a large team,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: how do you know the people around you, especially new employees,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: aren't looking for their fifteen minutes? Oh my God, by
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: the way, drew is here with a team. I mean
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: she's got one. She has Ralph here, who we're going
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: to get into with Edwin Shortley. She has Ralph here,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: and there's an additional person, yes, my good old manager,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: George Robert Fuller. I mean you know, so the team
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: is important. You know when they say team work makes
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: the dream work, and there's no I in team. Clap
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: it up for the team, you know. You know what
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I'm catching a lot of. I'm about to be sending
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: text messages to my manager, like I don't see you here.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: I was laying it myself for KT l a last
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: not slaying it. You know, it's a good team. I'm grateful,
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: but it is very, very scary. You know, I was
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: just having this conversation with candy about, you know, the
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: people that will come around and appear to be for
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: you and want to be there to help you and
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: just really get on camera and like completely. So from
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: what I've learned, you need to actually ask Ralph if
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: they're good people, because we trust either we see the
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: worst in everybody and they see and you guys see
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: the best. My husband similar, like I have to go
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: to job interviews with him and I'm like you're absolutely
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: not hiring that person. Like how could you possibly think that?
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: That is I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, but
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: we're all fies put in like processes now, like background checks,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: and like Oh, we gotta, we gotta get into that,
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: because I do have some questions regarding those things. So
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: on watch what happens live. They do a work the
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: polls game. Do you think Cathy's meltdown was as bad
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: as when it claims? Of course, Garcella Says No. We'll
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: never know because she wasn't there. And as much as
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I love Garcel as much as I love Sutton. They
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: pander to twitter. They do. They know what their fans
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: want and they will be giving on twitter. They will.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Um Dere says yes, she does think Kathy had a
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: little bit of the meltdown. Um, and the audience is
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: saying no, because once again, if you don't see it, yeah,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: you're gonna you choose your favorite. Um. Should of Garcel
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: given Erica heads up about the real dereit says she
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: thinks she should have. Garcella Says No. I say no,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: you say no, I say I mean you sure just
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: got canceled. I'm not running to go and tell but
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: at this point it had not been canceled when they
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: were in Aspen. She had talked about it a week
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: prior on the show. Then she goes to Aspen. Has
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: that coexisting to Erica, though? I don't see it for Erica.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: But that is my point, which is always the point,
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: which is fine. Whenever Garcella is talking about Erica, it's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: not out of concern, it's not because she's trying to
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: be a friend and not trying to connect, because she
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: wants she's going to throw her ship around because then
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: she doesn't have to talk about her own stuff, which
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: is fine, which I don't mind it, but that's what
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: it is, Um. So I say no, what do you say?
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: So you say yes, she should have uh, I think
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: it's if it's going to come back to bite your masks.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: But she shuts it down so quickly when she is confronted.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: She's a champ at it. So she doesn't have to.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: She don't want to be involved in the drama. She
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: can carry it Um. And then people asking about treat
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: being a flip flopper, stuck in the middle. Then Andy
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: asked another shady boots question where he says to Garcel
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: do you still think that you are closer to Kathy
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: Than Kyle and Kathy are? And Garcella says yes. Would
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: you also have to imagine the magnitude of this? And
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: I also want you to think. Could you image if
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Renna said that? RENNA would be burned at the stake
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: like but Garcela can get away with it, just like
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Garcela can get away with calling herself iconic. I can't
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: these iconic, I know, but let other people call you iconic.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: You call it a self iconic. And she was in
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: coming to America. So it's like, you know, I get it,
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: get to wear that crown, that crown around. I live
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: for a moment. Like, you know, put some respect on
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: my name. You gotta sometimes let people know. See, I
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: am just not that way. I'm happy. Granted, no one's
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: ever calling me iconic, ever, but like your iconic. Say it,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: say your chest, the Teddy. I. You know I'm messy,
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: but I I you'll own the messy, but not I.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Just I don't like. I also don't call people. I
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: also wouldn't like call myself a queen, like I'm just
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: not that. I don't have that in me. You got to, though,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I got to. You gotta Say Your Queen. Say it.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: I can't. Honestly, I'm read. I taking out Rosatia, like
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I can't do it. I'm flushed. But then what we
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: the part that we that made me sad, and I
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: said this on my instagram, was to read's ability to
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: completely shade Kyle repeatedly through out. Watch what happens by
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: like I want to understand because I know we were
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: all hanging out, I mean this year, last year at
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: this time, we were in Vegas together watching my dad perform,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: having the best time. So I've seen them at their
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: closest and I feel like this year you're seeing every
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: chance that dreck gets she's throwing kyle under the bus
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: and because she knows Kyle's not having the best season. Yeah,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: and I don't and I don't like a strategic to read.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: I like a you know, like just the free flowing,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: free flowing making mistakes, never shed a tear to read.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: Looking beautiful. But reunion is going to be juicy, because
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: then we'll understand why she was going so hard. Yeah, because,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: I mean she every chance she got, she she took it.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: So that's really where we are, and that is so much,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: so much. Yeah. So that is end of this portion.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: But let's take a little break and then let's talk
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: to the husband. I'm the heavy race. Guys, we were
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: just talking. We're here now with Ralph Pittman Jr. Thank you.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Not to be confused. Not to be confused, and Edwin
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: Ari Ave just on his own. My husband and we
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: were talking about she's said something. What did you even
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: say that brought it up? Who knows? We're a couple
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: of champagne thing to Tequila, and I said you wouldn't
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: let me drink on the show, but you want me
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to drink now. Okay, so I'm going to give you
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: guys a little tea on why he had to stop
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: drinking on the show, which I've never said because I
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: didn't want him to be hated, but now, obviously I
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: don't care anymore. I also thought we were going to
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: be perfect back in the day and we're just not. Um.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: So our first filmed date, this is gonna make you
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: feel better, rough, because I feel like this is some
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: ship you would do our very first film date. You
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: know how they give you like talking points, so like
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: talk about if you'd have another baby or talk about whatever,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: and Edwin was so nervous, like and when Edwin gets nervous,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: he gets into like a full sweat, like he can't
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: play it off. So he's decided he's going to drink Tequila.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: But like, when I say Tequila, it's not like US
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: drinking the champagne right now. It's to the point where, like,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like the at this point, you drink. What
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: did you drink back then, Cassim goes, you weren't. We
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: weren't nineteen at the time. I remember because you filled
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: my nine water. Yeah, because I was pissed and I
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: was pissed because she watered down my nine. I was well,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: once you hear what happened, because they saved us, because
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: you know, men just say and you watch all of them,
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: don't just say dumb shit like don't say that. So anyways,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: one of the talking points is when are you going
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: to have another kid? And also, Edwin focusing while filming
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: is like a real struggle, like so it's like we're
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: at a date. Everyone's looking at us and he's like,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's just pounding drinks and they're like
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: can you get through the talking points? And I'm like
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: you have to ask you have to ask me about
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: the kids. Just asking about the kids, and he's like
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: so do you think you want to have any more kids?
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I don't know. I never
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: say never, and he goes, but then you get all
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: big word yes, he did. I we have issues having
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: sex because I'm not, as you know, worse where you worse,
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: and I am like sitting there and I'm like what
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: in the hell do I actually do right now? I
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: kicked him under the table and I started and I
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: was like, because I'm like I've got a lot of
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: this isn't kissing me up because also, like, I've struggled
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: with weight my entire life. I understand. And I was
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: like the fact that one he would think this is
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: a funny thing just and I'm like it's because he
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: thinks he's being funny, but he's not funny. Yeah, so, wow,
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: that's interesting because that sounds like something my husband actually say,
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: because it's the same sentiment. And I'm happy. Do you
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: know that? It's not just you, Mab, but it's like men.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: They get on camera and I'm like who is this person? Like,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: quit trying to tell jokes. You're funny to laugh at.
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: You're not a funny person. Yeah, like you're not a comedian,
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm meanwhile, I'm saying I'm like, Oh my God,
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: it is so hard to film because you say things
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: you can't take it back and it's like why did
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: you just say that on camera? And then if you
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: fight in that moment, like my my natural response in
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: real life was like go yourself, like what do you
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: of course I'm carrying a baby, and like I'm sorry that, like,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: your penis isn't as turned on by me in that
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: moment your child, because I'm carrying your child and I'm miserable.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: But Um, and also like don't just the word big
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: pisses me off, all the things Um. But instead I
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: sat there and I laughed because I was like I
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: don't want to make a big deal of it, and
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, if they air this and it's me just
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: laughing at my but housewives messed up is if we
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: would have had car camps that night, they would have
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: gotten a whole show, because I got in the car
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: and I was like you will never film with me
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: again you do that like the my Erica Jane came
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: out like and I was like I cannot, absolutely not.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: You will never drink on camera again. You are cut
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: off like rage. And I waited all season long for
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: them to air it and they didn't because I was
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: they wanted people to like me my first season and
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: like him. Oh well, that's I would take your hand
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: any day. That's the way to start out because, like
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: for us, they were like we're gonna cut every bad thing.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: We're like, we didn't have chance. I know, I knew
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: you were gonna I knew you were going to go there. Yeah,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: she took the moment and was like yeah, well, yeah,
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: because that was my real response. I mean I had
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: I faked it. I should have, but I didn't know.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: Like here's the thing, in hindsight it would have been
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: a much more because that is things that I think
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: men do say to women in real life. But I
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: was so wanting to be perfect and wanting to give
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: the illusion that we were perfect that I was editing myself, Teddy.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: That's what we're opposites in that. So I've lived the
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: other way and I can't say it's much better on
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: the other side. We literally lived just being so realist
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: one like, you know what, there could have been a
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: better way I could have responded, because by me responding
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: in that real way is two seasons of us just
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: having storylines of just marital issues upon marital issues. So
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: oftentimes Ralph has said like could you have responded differently,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wish I could rewind and be,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: you know, take a page out of your book. What
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: I mean, I do have to ask one question. This
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: is my one shady question. Okay, what's really for Edwin?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: But and if you say yes, you're actually going to
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: be dead, like actually there will be women who kill
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: episode and I'll be the start, have you ever asked
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: an assistant to give you a massage? No, Rabb how
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: in the right answered. I need to understand, and I
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: love you. He does dumb other ships, like even if
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: he hurts somebody's message. I'm like you, absolutely do not
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: put a heart Emoji because the heart means, you know,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: like even the heart a message. No, don't respond to
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: D m. So my question is I need to know,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: and you're I need to know that did you have
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: a background and massage therapy? So, so, I never asked
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: her to give me a massage. That never really been asked.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: Thing ever didn't didn't happen. She Or said she should
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: have given you a massage. So Laham Talk. Sorry, Miss Producer,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: but the reality is. The reality is is that I
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: never I never asked her to give me a massage.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: That never actually took place. What happened was I was
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: having some real bad back issues. Little literally he could
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: barely walk. He was gonna be hospitalized. So, yeah, instead
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: of asking a professional, so we're not available. So No, no,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: so she actually so, this is my assistant at the time.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: She actually sent a massage therapist to my house that
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: was licensed and she came and gave me a massage.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: I just could not find one. But my sister. I
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: never asked my sister to give me a massage. That
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: never happened. So you know, I took care of the situation,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: got the massage I needed, got the CBD oil rubbed
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: on me the way I needed to, and I was
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: back in motion. That too. You know, I'm taking care
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: of business. But then, what is the text that created
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: all the drama? The text that created all the dramas
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: when she said that I should have well, she said
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: I should have gave you more a massage, and that
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: was it. But in your opinion, do you think she
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: was flirting with you? In my opinion, Oh God, look
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: at the eyes, Jesus, and I have to say I'm
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: a little bit upset. I never got a visual on
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: the show. Can you show me? Okay, yeah, I need
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: visuals of every human being found you fast. I mean
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: she's like you know, she can she can find anything.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: And I have to ask you a question. If you
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: were to actually, if she were really to hit the
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: fan with I talked about the Swed one too, would
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: you prefer whoever your husband were to step out with
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: be attractive or unattractive. Oh my God, she better be
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: a bad one. I will be like, oh no, she
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: better be hot. Right, that's hot, that is hot, that
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: is hot. Yeah, English is my second legged bad one
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: is a hottie. She's a yeah, you need a chance,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: because it's like, I mean, if you do this, is
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: disrespectful to me, like really, see, I'm the opposite. I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: want the person to be slightly dog heinous, because I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: want to know it's just my husband's like insecurity issues,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: like trying to feed something, and like I want to
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: be like, well, obviously, like she can't top this. I
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: want to be like, don't degrade me in that way.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: But I did read something with all hates when I
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: say that women are wife material versus dating material. Not
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: dating material, but like wanna don't sugarcoat it, okay, like
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: there's a difference between a girl that you just want
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: to f versus somebody, somebody want to marry. Okay, and
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: this kisses me typically the girls that I've that I've
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: wanted to F I did not want to marry, but
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: he'll always like I knew, I knew you were the
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: one because you were wife material. Go kick rocks, Dude,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: wife material. White material, and I'm like, so the girl
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: that I found online that you dated before me, that
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: was part of the Texas Round Up. I did not
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: know that round up. Just so you know, like I'm
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: you really came up with me, like I was like
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: we were fighting about something back in a million years ago,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: and I was like, and he goes, the reason that
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: we got married is because your wife material. You're and
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: like he's using as a compliment, but I'm like, I
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: also feel like it's not a compliment, like you're not
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: saying I'm hot, because life sounds like Yo, she's UH.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: And then, yeah, wifey, like I'm going to Tuck you
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: in the bed and medicine. Good night night. But so
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: then I took I took the liberty to Google. Yeah, like, wifey,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: you were going to go to dinner and you know,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: it's the worst thing you could say, but what if
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: somebody you want to stay with the then I started quizzing,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: like who else's wife material? And he'll like name people
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, Teddy, that was a set up, though.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like not what, like he didn't say Jennifer Lopez.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. I want to be like all
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: those would be everything. I thought wifey was everything, like
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: j Lo on down. Yeah, you know what I mean. Wife.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: He's like, you know, you're you're okay for her to
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: show up to the PTA meeting. Yeah, like, what's the
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: worst thing that you have ever said about drew on housewives?
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: His worst thing to me that got aired was everybody
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: went around and said, what's your favorite thing about your
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: significant other? Do you want to know what Ed one
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: said about me? I was ready for anything, funny, hot,
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: good and bad, any any kind of compliment, and Ricio
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: went first. So of course his was like a love
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: Diet tribe to kyle first, which is I mean I
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: would have gone, but trying to imagine the first possible
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: thing somebody could say about you as a compliment. Okay,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: he said, Um, she's organized. It is a great quality.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: It's a great quality's organized. That sounds like a compliment
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: to okay, I'm trying to really compliment all of that.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: So organized, because why, please, get she plans. Her tripped,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: she's just planning. Oh, it's not sexy. swoon. She's a planner.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: I've never been a planner. So she's you know, she
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: compliments that F and I like that. I think there's
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: a lot of value. And so I can't say that
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: because he says she's not organized. So I wish I
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: was more organized, because he's like, but if he said
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: that was your best quality and I can't wait to
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: go home and make life to my wifee. That's organized
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: in our organized house, Baby, well organized wife, say, because
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: you said okay, I mean it's not. Doesn't get much better. Yeah,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, remember what? I don't know, the one where
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: you're I'm like they what am I? Good? Well, you
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: said two disrespectful things, the lunchables being one. Well, tell
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: me about the lunchables. I forget when he told me
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't deserve like steaking lobster, but I deserved lunchables. Yeah,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: was that supposed to be a joke, because I thought
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: we were having a good time? Said shot to kill.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: Where is it? Where is it? Laugh so that he
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: doesn't have to like no, no, no, think about it.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you. Let me let you guys in
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: on something. When you hand, he's trying to sell you
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: on it. So if you see the hand going and
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: he's like, I'm about to sell you, foremost lunchables is
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: not a bad thing at all, and we my four
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: year old, my four year olds for lunch. But I
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: need to know is that the lunchable with like the
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: Turkey and the cheese, or the lunchable ty and Turkey
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: and cheese the best with the pieces like you got
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: to make it the right way and stack it up,
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: you know, put piece of cheese Turkey in the middle.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: You can make it a double. You know. Oh my God,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: a little. So were you trying to be funny there? Yeah,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: I thought it was. I don't know, I'm I don't know.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: My humor sometimes could come across the wrong way, but
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: I did think, you know, it was. I gave drew
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: this amazing he's adding a lot of words and it's
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of it's a little wordy. I gave drew dry.
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  Speaker 1: I gave you this amazing, amazing, amazing dinner where I
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: went all out for I had a Tuxedo on this night.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: You know, I saw it over it. You know, I
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: mean you guys are experiencing it live. Not It's not gaslighting,
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: but literally. Well, I'm gonna asking about the definition after
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: we don't even know what gains. I just found because
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: guys are so good at it, I looked at the
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: definition I was like, Oh, this is my life. But no,
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: I thought then, you know, I gave her this great
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  Speaker 1: night and I just told her that, you know, instead
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: of the staking laughter and she I should have gave
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: her a lunchable. And then it was a lunchable coming.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: One seems to have understanding on that. You see it right.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: She started crying and was upset. He wasn't crying conseling session.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: He brought it up like I had never heard that before.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: It's all the delivery in an hour. I was smiling her.
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  Speaker 1: Give it to me, look at me in my eyes
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  Speaker 1: and give it to me the way you gave it
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: to her. No, you weren't smiling. I know all your
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: pearly whites today. It was it was just, it was
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: it was just a statement, you know. It wasn't something
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: that was supposed to hurt anyone's feelings or anything like that.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: It was a throwaway like hey, you know what, I
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: gave you all of this right here at that moment.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: It probably wasn't the best, you know. So you said,
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  Speaker 1: I gave you all these things that you actually deserve,
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: eligible because it was like all the eyebrows and everything,
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: but which one up? You don't get Botox. I just
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: told him that I was going to just stay like that. Okay,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: I now need to ask you, guys, what is the
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: definition in your minds of gas lighting? Um, gaslighting? My
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: definition is when you um take some lighter fluid and
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: blow up your marriage. To know what is gas? I
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: never heard of a gas until somebody using on the show.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: That's not a word that I've ever heard of in
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: my life. Have you heard of it? No, okay, no, sick.
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  Speaker 1: This is what I mean. The wink is really a
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  Speaker 1: problem for gaslighting. I'll give you an example. When you
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  Speaker 1: Gaso late me, first day of school for the kids,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: I say you need to be home because they has
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: to do is pilates class, whatever. This Day it was pilates.
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  Speaker 1: I remember it. I'll carry it to my grave with rage.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: And I say we're leaving at seven, it's the first
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: day of school. And so I have the kids ready
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: to all the pictures before school, excited, organized. I was
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: gonna working on my sexiness being organized, and I have
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: them fully ready to do the before school photos. They
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: hold the thing like all the stuff. It's already annoying
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: to me that he chose this day to go work
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: out in the class when like all of these things
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: are happening. But I let it be granted. I had
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: the kids in the car at seven thirty five and
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: the second that he didn't pull in that gate at
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: seven thirty five, I was like out the door, like
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, you go kick rocks because, like, honestly,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: the selfishness, I cannot but instead of him saying hey, sorry,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: I was late, which I checked. No, it was seven
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: thirty nine. I checked the security footage. Yeah, we have
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: a bone to pick with you guys. You need to
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: have skyline, not vivent. Yes, we love N ambassadors here.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: So anyways, uh, then he calls me and I'm in
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: the car with the kids and he's annoyed. He's like
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: why would you, and that is so selfish of you
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  Speaker 1: to leave the first day of school and not let
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: me see the kids. I am and I'm like one,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: I'm in the car with the kids, so can you
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  Speaker 1: kindly not talk to me in this tone and reel
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: it in and realized that you were late. I told
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  Speaker 1: you the exact time and you weren't here, and then
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: he just went on and on and on, so mad
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: to the point he took my ring light that he
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: knew I needed. You didn't get Patty, that my that was.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Why do I always take rings? Why did they do
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: the only one that's like this is my ring light.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: He doesn't let me even use that's crazy. So not
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: only do I have at that day he took my
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: all my stuff for the podcast, everything. Took it. It
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: was mine first of all, but that is so quick.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: So you were late and then you rose up and
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: then you took the ring light and then he took all.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: It was late by two minutes, which means she had
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: like literally deliberately leave. It's testing you and you failed
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: to test. But the fact is, instead of just saying
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: gaslighting is instead of saying hey, babe, I'm sorry, I
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: was like, I do think it was a little bit
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: of an asshole move for you to leave at the
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: second maybe you could have called me to see where
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: I was. But, truth be told, whether he knows it
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: or not, I have him on find my phone, so
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: I knew exactly where he was and I was like Hey,
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: put me on, I'll do it when he when he
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: isn't looking. I had it. I had a comerce commission
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: like one day Jenn and cut my friend Jen and
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: Kyle and I were hanging out and I was like
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: get Edwin's phone. It's code is Blah Blah, blah, Blah Blah.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: Let's get it on there. And then one day he's
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: like why does I why do I have this thing?
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you're on. Find my phone now, because
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: he knows all the technology stuff ed one doesn't know
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: how to turn it off. But I checked it and
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: then I saw him and I was like whatever, but
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: he never apologized. He went on and on and on
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: for two days and then finally I had to get
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: to the point where I had to cry and say, listen,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: when I was younger, people didn't show up for me,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: and now I need to know that, like you're when
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: something to port and you have to show up and
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: be on time. And that's who it is. And what
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: did you say? Why? Just paid the bill for school.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: This is gas lighting things. You are wrong. GASLIGHTING is
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: you're wrong on top of your wrong, and you're just
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: the wrong. You're wrong gaslighting. It was a little bit
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: of the victim on that. I was like, I just
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: paid for this damn school. So anyway, see, you see,
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: that's justification when you're wrong. Don't. Don't women gaslight US also, though,
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: because for some reason I feel like in this moment here,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: the gaslighting is coming. That's not the topic of the table.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: I think the women as well. You know all the time.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: Really well, no, because we're gaslighting is when you're trying
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: to pretend that something is different than what it is.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: We're being transparent and the fact that we are saying
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: y'all are doing the wrong thing. We're not trying to
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: stuggarcoat it. It was wrong for her to send a
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: message and you know, there's a certain things you have
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: to own. I think the owning and the following on
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: the sport is it's missing. So didn't you just guess
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: like me yesterday? Why? I know we're running out of time,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: but we need we need really trying to remember. What.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: What do I want to know? Yes, that we got
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: along all day. Yes, we were eight day. We did,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: but like you know, so your responsive. Go ahead. No, no,
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: you got it. You think about what you tell me,
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: because you got it. Dr Teddy's here, reporting for reporting,
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: here for duty. Really, I really don't remember. So you gasolate. She,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: guess likes me a lot, you know, every time you
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: make an excuse about why you're late or not on time.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: If we're doing things, you create this whole entire song
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: and a dance. And you're saying yesterday about the flight. Yes,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: you gaslate me, though, because you made it all about
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: something else, when it really was all that moment in
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: the car. What do you say? Go ahead, we only
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: have two minutes left. So so we missed our flight yesterday.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: It wasn't my fault. My make my makeup and people
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: on the team. They were late, which kind of then
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: pushed us behind and my mom had surgery and I
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: had to take her to the doctor. So the day
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: just kind of fell behind. Um. So, yeah, so he
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: got mad because when we got in the car, so
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: he was telling the driver, who doesn't even know us,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: like yeah, it's a wife, a woman, let me tell you, man,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: she's making us missed our flight, and I'm sitting there
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: like let's keep a positive attitude. I think we can
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: still make it, you know, and I did a prayer,
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: like let's touch and agree, but we didn't make that's
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: that's why I went taking self at the airport, in
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: the airport. Yeah, Tequila shots, actually. So, so, you both
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: are a touch of gaslighters. Say. I'm not a gaslighter,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: I'm a manipulator. Oh well, I look at these definitions.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: I am aware of my behavior, but I am intentional
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: with my words, like I think he he's not intentional.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: He his intent when he's upset, which rebably happens like
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: once every six months, is to say something that like
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: he will forget and then that night he'll come in
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: and I'm like no, no, I'll carry this around for
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: months understanding. Yeah, so, but like I'll never, I'll never hit,
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: I'll never hit below the belt and say something that
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: I can't take back. He will, and then I'll be like,
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I mean this is another podcast
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: called a couple's therapy that you're gonna have to all join.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: But guys, we gotta go for a little tequila tasting.
• 1:20:34
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• 1:20:38
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• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: no bias here. Thanks true for day. Thank you for
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: having me. Thank you, rob what's your new book called?
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: The step in parenting? Um, you guys have to get
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: it Edwin. If you were to have a book, what
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: would you call it awkward pod. I really want to
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: know now. So many things came to my mind. I
• 1:21:10
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• 1:21:15
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• 1:21:22
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• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: the line of it? He produced it. Um, Oh God,
• 1:21:31
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• 1:21:45
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• 1:21:50
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