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5 Habits That Annoy Your Spouse · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Ah.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Marriage is often an exercise and tolerating whatever habits
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  Speaker 2: annoy you about your spouse. Still, there are scientific reasons
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  Speaker 2: that some pet peeves feel like nails on the chalkboard
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  Speaker 2: of intimacy. According to researchers, these are the five habits
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  Speaker 2: that annoy spouse is the most.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready I'm about to get into trouble here.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Number one is the way you chew. That doesn't really
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  Speaker 2: bother me at all. I think one time recently, Coco
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  Speaker 2: was very close to me on the couch eating and
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  Speaker 2: I heard her chewing, but it didn't bother me. I don't.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't come up a lot. What about you and chewing?
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  Speaker 2: And Eric Christine? No, we're good, We're good.
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  Speaker 1: We're good.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's not a thing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. I'm thinking of a coworker once whose husband was
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  Speaker 1: annoyed because she was breathing.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that happens to me all the time. Why are
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  Speaker 2: you breathing? Why did you open the door and come
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  Speaker 2: in the house? Why are you here? All right? So
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  Speaker 2: the way you choose up there, we're okay on that? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: looking at your phone is number two.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's big.
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  Speaker 3: That should be number one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that should be number one, right, really be number one,
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  Speaker 2: because I've been in trouble for looking at my phone
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  Speaker 2: and not listening. Christine, you've caught Eric. He not listening.
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  Speaker 1: Claims that he can multitask and be scrolling while I
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  Speaker 1: tell him something, But then when he puts down the phone,
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  Speaker 1: he goes, okay, so what now I know there's no
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  Speaker 1: multitasking happening. So now when he's on the phone and
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  Speaker 1: I want to tell him something, I start to talk
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  Speaker 1: and he's like, and he's looking at the phone, and
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  Speaker 1: I just say, I'll hold and I stop talking. So
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  Speaker 1: he puts the phone down.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gouse. He usually put the phone down right
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  Speaker 2: away when you hold me, he does, And do you
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  Speaker 2: do the pop quiz? All right? What did I say?
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  Speaker 1: Well? Not at that point.
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  Speaker 2: Well then you know he's listening.
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  Speaker 1: But if I have a follow up question after the scrolling,
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  Speaker 1: then then we've got a thing. And I have to
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  Speaker 1: do the same thing for him. You know, when he's
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  Speaker 1: talking to me, I have to pick the phone down. Right,
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  Speaker 1: feels better for both of.
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  Speaker 2: Us, goes both ways, christ In your house, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's hard.
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  Speaker 3: In my house because my husband Ryan, he owns his
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  Speaker 3: own business, so a lot is done on his phone,
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  Speaker 3: and I totally understand that he has to work just
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  Speaker 3: like I come to work. Sometimes there are you know,
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  Speaker 3: there are times where I'm like, you know, you're not
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  Speaker 3: supposed to be on your phone, or we need to
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  Speaker 3: get something done. And it happened last week where I
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  Speaker 3: explained something three times on what the plan was for
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  Speaker 3: a certain day, and a couple hours later he came
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  Speaker 3: up to me and he goes, Okay, so what's going
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  Speaker 3: on now? And I looked at him and went, Nope,
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  Speaker 3: figure it out. Oh I'm not repeating myself. I said
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  Speaker 3: it three times, Why don't I say it a fourth?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? See, I feel like I'm at home now. My
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  Speaker 2: heart's racing. I've been there many times.
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  Speaker 1: You're okay, And to Christen's point, I need to give
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  Speaker 1: Eric a little bit of a pass because being a
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  Speaker 1: drummer and freelance work, he does need to be on
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  Speaker 1: top of the phone because he's getting gigs. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: want to cost him a gig, of course, but if
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  Speaker 1: it's something like you're saying, where I need like to
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  Speaker 1: give you information, I'll wait so you can put it down.
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  Speaker 2: Can I tell you the best feeling in the world.
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  Speaker 2: My wife says, did you hear me? And I go, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I did, and she goes, okay, what did you say?
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  Speaker 2: And I get it right? Who when I get it right?
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  Speaker 2: Oh dude, I'm throwing gatorade on myself. I'm high five
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  Speaker 2: in like the kids. Yeah all right. So wait the
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  Speaker 2: way you choose number one looking at your phone. Number
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  Speaker 2: two five habits and annoy your spouse. Number three is
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  Speaker 2: bragging about yourself. Oh that's not a thing. Yeah, not
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  Speaker 2: a thing with us either, a thing spending money irresponsibly.
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  Speaker 2: Number four. Money always comes up. And finally keeping score
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  Speaker 2: in the relationship. Oh well, I did the cat litter
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  Speaker 2: last night. Oh that maybe that.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of thing, maybe like a friendly like Ryan and
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  Speaker 3: I sometimes do that in a friendly manner, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like we'll rock paper, sister on who's going to change
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  Speaker 3: the baby's diaper? You know, like something like that.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, okay, So the biggest for us, the
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  Speaker 1: biggest uh looking at your phone here is the phone
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  Speaker 1: we can all relate to. We want to put the
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  Speaker 1: phone down. Also, just as a side note, there's a
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  Speaker 1: thermstat Wars is a big thing too. I know it's
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  Speaker 1: not in the top five but it's a big thing
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  Speaker 1: at home in the office. Science has an answer for
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  Speaker 1: They say the ideal sweet spot for both comfort and
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  Speaker 1: brain power is between seventy and seventy two degrees.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, wonder, this show sometimes goes off the rails.
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  Speaker 2: It's seventy eight in here right now.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay right now, but sometimes it's freezing. And what
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  Speaker 1: happens is if it's two hot or too cold, your
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  Speaker 1: brain is distracted by discomfort and it also affects your mood.
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  Speaker 2: All right, So the temperature we should all agree on
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  Speaker 2: is seventy.
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  Speaker 1: Two, between seventy and seventy two.
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  Speaker 2: All right, so seventy one are you listening, Oh my gosh, listening.
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  Speaker 1: It down your phone?
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  Speaker 2: By please