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- 0:00Speaker 1: Wow.
- 0:00Speaker 2: This morning show in Boston.
- 0:02Speaker 3: Billy and Lisa in the morning.
- 0:04Speaker 2: It's just a great start to my day.
- 0:05Speaker 4: On good morning everybody. Welcome in to a Monday, the
- 0:12Speaker 4: Billy and Lisa Show. I would say happy Monday, but
- 0:15Speaker 4: our Monday is really that happy. I mean, I guess
- 0:18Speaker 4: it depends on how well your weekend went, which I
- 0:20Speaker 4: hope you had a great one. But welcome into a
- 0:22Speaker 4: brand new week on the show. I'm justin. Billy's here,
- 0:24Speaker 4: Lisa's here. Then heads up, coming up nine to ten
- 0:27Speaker 4: this morning, you're gonna want to be here. We're giving
- 0:29Speaker 4: away a trip to Las Vegas the iHeartRadio Music Festival.
- 0:33Speaker 4: What a lineup this is Benson Boone, Bts, Zara Larson,
- 0:37Speaker 4: and so many more. Nine ten you're winning not just
- 0:40Speaker 4: a trip, but one thousand dollars as well, So good
- 0:43Speaker 4: luck with that. Something else going on in Boston that's
- 0:46Speaker 4: really really cool, the Great Elephant Migration. You may have
- 0:49Speaker 4: seen the elephants. They're out on commav and the person
- 0:52Speaker 4: that actually brought the elephants to Boston, Ruthkenesh, is in
- 0:56Speaker 4: studio right now.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Welcome, Thank you very much.
- 1:00Speaker 5: We are responsible for bringing the Great Elephant migration to
- 1:03Speaker 5: the Commonwealth Avenue Mall in Boston through September thirteenth, Right.
- 1:08Speaker 6: That's right, yep, well not just me me, three hundred
- 1:11Speaker 6: Indian artisans and the Quinn and the great City of
- 1:14Speaker 6: Boston have brought the herd and the Lenox Hotel, right yeah,
- 1:18Speaker 6: that so many friends in Boston for elephants right now.
- 1:21Speaker 7: Oh, my buddy Dan at the Lenox Hotel, always doing
- 1:23Speaker 7: the right thing. So this is one of the most
- 1:26Speaker 7: amazing things to see. Even from a distance. I can't
- 1:29Speaker 7: even imagine up close how many elephants.
- 1:32Speaker 6: Well, we started with the vision of one hundred and
- 1:34Speaker 6: it keeps growing. I think we have about one hundred
- 1:36Speaker 6: and thirty in Boston right now.
- 1:38Speaker 3: I can't believe that they're for sale too.
- 1:40Speaker 6: Yes, yes, and my goodness, are like little hotcakes. Everybody
- 1:44Speaker 6: seems to want one. I think I'm already twenty five
- 1:47Speaker 6: have gone.
- 1:48Speaker 2: So wait a minute.
- 1:49Speaker 7: If you started with a are they having children?
- 1:53Speaker 6: Like? We have to keep making more, which are actually
- 1:58Speaker 6: part of the beauty of the story because they're made
- 2:00Speaker 6: out of this invasive weed that's really bad for their
- 2:03Speaker 6: habitats Lantana camera. It's pushing all the animals out. It's
- 2:06Speaker 6: a terrible invasive So the more we make the more
- 2:10Speaker 6: landana we remove.
- 2:11Speaker 5: And these are based that these are elephants from India.
- 2:14Speaker 5: That's the story behind it, that.
- 2:17Speaker 6: They're all Indian elephants. Although Billy, you'll be happy to know,
- 2:20Speaker 6: knowing your love of animals, there are three African elephants
- 2:23Speaker 6: in this herd and they are also helping you. They
- 2:27Speaker 6: have we are here for all elephants.
- 2:30Speaker 2: So what is this weed?
- 2:31Speaker 7: Because to look at the elephants from a distance, they
- 2:34Speaker 7: actually look very real. They do.
- 2:36Speaker 6: Yes, well, each elephant is based on a real elephant
- 2:40Speaker 6: that's currently alive and wandering the Nilgury Hills in southern India,
- 2:44Speaker 6: So they are very real and they're real to their makers.
- 2:47Speaker 6: They all know them by name and personality. And then
- 2:50Speaker 6: the weed is you know, something that British deep plant
- 2:53Speaker 6: has actually introduced to India to plant around their bungalows
- 2:56Speaker 6: as a decorative plant. And now it's just gone at
- 3:00Speaker 6: absolutely mental. It's like forty percent of the protected areas
- 3:03Speaker 6: and the south of India is overrun and it's happening
- 3:06Speaker 6: all over India. So it's actually the second most invasive
- 3:09Speaker 6: in the whole world. Of Lontana.
- 3:11Speaker 3: Wow.
- 3:11Speaker 5: But to see them in mass as a grouping on
- 3:13Speaker 5: the Commonwealth Avenue mall is it's like magical.
- 3:16Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 3:16Speaker 7: The commav mall, you have to understand divides commab so
- 3:19Speaker 7: it's right in the middle of two weigh roads.
- 3:23Speaker 6: Yes, I mean, I have to say, sitting in the
- 3:24Speaker 6: quinn and having a cup of tea and looking it
- 3:27Speaker 6: down at that whole herd is one of the most
- 3:29Speaker 6: joyful sights. And it's as close as you're going to
- 3:31Speaker 6: get to feeling like you're in the middle of a huge.
- 3:34Speaker 5: Herd, right and you can just come down and look
- 3:36Speaker 5: at them. It's free, it's open to the public. It's
- 3:38Speaker 5: such a lovely thing to bring your children to.
- 3:40Speaker 2: You can kiss them.
- 3:41Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 3:42Speaker 2: Wow, they're so sweet. So I'm trying to imagine.
- 3:45Speaker 7: Now, let's say you go out to dinner, you have
- 3:47Speaker 7: a couple of cocktails, and you don't know anything about
- 3:50Speaker 7: the elephant migration, and all of a sudden you step
- 3:53Speaker 7: out of the restaurant and you're in the middle of
- 3:54Speaker 7: a herd of elephants.
- 3:55Speaker 2: That's going to be shocking, I hope.
- 3:57Speaker 6: So I hope people feel a sense of family because
- 4:01Speaker 6: you know, they're so famous for their family links, and
- 4:04Speaker 6: that's their message is that we are actually all connected
- 4:07Speaker 6: to each other, and we are all you know, we
- 4:10Speaker 6: have our dogs and our pets that we love and
- 4:11Speaker 6: consider family members. But actually, whether it's a snowy owl
- 4:15Speaker 6: or a king crab or a whale, we're helping the
- 4:18Speaker 6: North Atlantic right well with the New England Aquarium. We
- 4:21Speaker 6: are all part of a family, and we need to
- 4:24Speaker 6: figure out how to share space.
- 4:25Speaker 2: Right.
- 4:25Speaker 3: It's the human animal coexistence and raising.
- 4:29Speaker 7: A lot of money with this migration, and the money
- 4:31Speaker 7: is going to a very good cast.
- 4:33Speaker 2: That's it.
- 4:33Speaker 6: Thanks for saying that. Since we started off on July fourth,
- 4:38Speaker 6: twenty twenty four, we have I mean it's been millions
- 4:42Speaker 6: and hundreds and hundreds of elephants have found homes in America.
- 4:45Speaker 6: We thought we just do the journey from east to
- 4:48Speaker 6: west coast, and now it's the whole world that seems
- 4:50Speaker 6: to want them.
- 4:50Speaker 3: Right.
- 4:51Speaker 5: So you've been in Miami at ar Basel, You've been
- 4:53Speaker 5: in La New York City.
- 4:55Speaker 6: Yes, Sleat packing was awesome. We did Newport, Rhode Island
- 4:59Speaker 6: on kliff War and we also went to Montana. Actually
- 5:02Speaker 6: not many people.
- 5:02Speaker 2: Wow.
- 5:03Speaker 6: We went to Blackfeet Nation but because they're made by
- 5:06Speaker 6: indigenous communities in India. We wanted to meet indigenous communities
- 5:10Speaker 6: in America because they have such a beautiful way of
- 5:13Speaker 6: relating to animals as relatives.
- 5:15Speaker 7: So we're talking to Ruth Kenesh, otherwise known as the
- 5:18Speaker 7: Elephant Lady. No, you're here to talk about the migration
- 5:22Speaker 7: of elephants in Boston.
- 5:24Speaker 2: I just have a question.
- 5:24Speaker 3: How do you move them around? Like, what's the process?
- 5:27Speaker 2: It's so logistical.
- 5:29Speaker 6: We move them around with trucks the sides of blue
- 5:32Speaker 6: whales with our friends from coadecan Tate and also.
- 5:36Speaker 2: Ibi who do it all for free.
- 5:39Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 5:39Speaker 6: We have many, many, many men and trucks and a
- 5:42Speaker 6: few women pointing, a lot of partners.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Wow.
- 5:45Speaker 7: And people can go see them up close anytime of
- 5:49Speaker 7: the day or night.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Right, that's right. It's not like you have to go
- 5:51Speaker 2: through a gate or an admission around.
- 5:53Speaker 6: No, we ask everyone to come and co exist with them, so.
- 5:56Speaker 3: Part of the environment. Yes, yeah that one.
- 5:58Speaker 2: Did you say? You can kiss the elephant and if
- 6:00Speaker 2: you feel like.
- 6:00Speaker 6: It, kisses and huggers are very welcome, but just don't
- 6:03Speaker 6: climb on them.
- 6:05Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a question, Ruth. I'm looking at the
- 6:07Speaker 4: picture of the elephants. There are baby elephants, giant elephants.
- 6:11Speaker 4: The people that are buying them. Are they buying the babies,
- 6:14Speaker 4: Are they buying the giant elephants too.
- 6:16Speaker 2: All sorts.
- 6:17Speaker 6: They are buying the big ones. They want them in
- 6:19Speaker 6: their back gardens. Some people are putting them in lobbies
- 6:22Speaker 6: to symbolize strength and the values of their companies. And
- 6:25Speaker 6: then yes, the babies are very popular. People like having
- 6:28Speaker 6: a little baby on the balcony. Sometimes it's the elephant
- 6:31Speaker 6: in the room and your living room.
- 6:32Speaker 7: You know, I'm thinking Ernie Bartchu and your needs a
- 6:35Speaker 7: couple of elephants on the lawn down there in Martha's vineyards.
- 6:38Speaker 3: And I also think maybe your wife Michelle needs one
- 6:40Speaker 3: on the way.
- 6:41Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 6:41Speaker 7: You know what is there a family rate for friends
- 6:45Speaker 7: and family right on the elephant side. I don't know
- 6:47Speaker 7: that it's a going rate. I don't even know where to.
- 6:51Speaker 6: So half of the amount is a straight donation, and
- 6:54Speaker 6: the baby start at eight and a half, and then
- 6:56Speaker 6: you go up gradually in increments until you get to
- 6:59Speaker 6: the tuskers, which are twenty.
- 7:00Speaker 5: Two right, twenty two thousand? Can you started eighty five
- 7:04Speaker 5: hundred for the babies.
- 7:06Speaker 2: Eighty five hundred.
- 7:07Speaker 7: You get a little baby elephant, that's it, that's never
- 7:09Speaker 7: going to grow, which.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Is a plus, right, I mean you don't have to
- 7:13Speaker 2: feed them.
- 7:15Speaker 3: Wow, this is lovely.
- 7:16Speaker 7: Yeah, tell more about what exactly gets done with all
- 7:19Speaker 7: the money, because I think this is such a great story.
- 7:22Speaker 7: How they find homes that they never would have added otherwise.
- 7:24Speaker 2: That's it.
- 7:25Speaker 6: So the majority of the funds go back to India
- 7:28Speaker 6: to their creators, and it's a livelihood project for that
- 7:31Speaker 6: community who would normally otherwise be picking tea and working
- 7:33Speaker 6: in coffee plantations. So that's fantastic. And into the removal
- 7:37Speaker 6: of lantana AT's scale, which is also so helpful. And
- 7:40Speaker 6: then we've also given out grants to now twenty one
- 7:44Speaker 6: different conservation organizations in America and around the world. So
- 7:49Speaker 6: I think we've given Yeah, it's one point four million
- 7:51Speaker 6: dollars that has been granted since this began. And in Boston,
- 7:56Speaker 6: our partner is the New England Aquarium. With that with
- 7:59Speaker 6: help from the An Impact Fund, who are doing wonderful
- 8:02Speaker 6: work to help us coexist with the North Atlantic right whale,
- 8:06Speaker 6: who is an animal that's.
- 8:08Speaker 2: You know, very endangered.
- 8:09Speaker 6: Only three hundred and seventy left on ship strikes with
- 8:12Speaker 6: the Big Threat.
- 8:13Speaker 2: My god.
- 8:14Speaker 7: Yeah, on the middle of the ocean. Hello, yes, how
- 8:17Speaker 7: long are they here.
- 8:19Speaker 6: They're here until the thirteenth of September, so we have.
- 8:22Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, almost a month.
- 8:24Speaker 2: So oh, we should do like a day trip to Billy.
- 8:29Speaker 2: Babies are so cute.
- 8:32Speaker 3: Just bring bring the family, bring your friends down and
- 8:34Speaker 3: see them mother.
- 8:35Speaker 5: While they're here again, they're on the Commonwealth Avenue Mall
- 8:37Speaker 5: in the back.
- 8:39Speaker 8: From the Planet Fitness Kids One Away Studios. We're back
- 8:43Speaker 8: with Billy and Lisa in the morning.
- 8:45Speaker 4: All right, good morning everybody. Welcome back to Justin's here
- 8:48Speaker 4: Billy and Lisa. Let's sound some fun. Why not little
- 8:51Speaker 4: game of would you rather? Would you rather talk like
- 8:55Speaker 4: Yoda or breathe like Darth Vader? Oh?
- 8:59Speaker 3: I want to breathe like Darth Pader.
- 9:01Speaker 2: Oh that was quick.
- 9:02Speaker 3: Really Yeah, he's kind of like Yeah, I guess.
- 9:05Speaker 4: Like talking and talking like like Yoda.
- 9:08Speaker 2: I can get old.
- 9:09Speaker 3: Yeah, I think breathing like dath Pader is kind of cool.
- 9:11Speaker 2: You give me an example of Darth breathing, because so
- 9:14Speaker 2: I get an idea. What's going on?
- 9:15Speaker 4: Why don't have Lisa down to demonstrate what it is
- 9:18Speaker 4: first that Well, it's a little bit more aggressive.
- 9:24Speaker 3: But I know, I'm I'm trying my.
- 9:31Speaker 4: But you gotta remember you're breathing like that all the time.
- 9:34Speaker 4: If you pick that, you either talk like Yoda NonStop
- 9:37Speaker 4: or breathe Darth.
- 9:39Speaker 3: What's Yoda talk like?
- 9:41Speaker 2: Like?
- 9:41Speaker 3: How does.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Yoda Yoda? I gotta I gotta pull it out. She
- 9:45Speaker 2: could be better at Yoda than she was breathing like Darth.
- 9:48Speaker 3: No, I think I'll just breathe like, make it my own,
- 9:51Speaker 3: go with it.
- 9:52Speaker 2: Like that one. Yeah, okay, all right, Bill fresh Things
- 9:56Speaker 2: are going wrong? They say breathe, Yeah, they do. You
- 10:00Speaker 2: know what that's true? They do.
- 10:02Speaker 3: Oh, you don't want to be like a shallow breather.
- 10:05Speaker 2: It's a form of meditation, right, Think about that.
- 10:07Speaker 4: When you're trying to go to sleep, you breathe, focus
- 10:09Speaker 4: on the breathing, working out breathe. I bet Darth was
- 10:12Speaker 4: very relaxed. I don't think he was relaxed. I think
- 10:14Speaker 4: he was not the best. Okay guy, all right, Bill Freshman, Paris,
- 10:19Speaker 4: welcome back. Would you rather sneeze every time you say hi?
- 10:23Speaker 4: Or have the urge to pee every time you ask
- 10:26Speaker 4: a question. Oh, so every time you say hi, you sneeze,
- 10:35Speaker 4: or you have the urge to pee every time you
- 10:38Speaker 4: ask a question, and you do ask a lot of questions.
- 10:40Speaker 2: Yeah, I would.
- 10:41Speaker 7: I think I'd rather the urge to pee, you know,
- 10:47Speaker 7: because I have these sneezing jags, so I don't need
- 10:51Speaker 7: any more sneezing.
- 10:52Speaker 5: You know what I'm talking about, like fifteen in a
- 10:54Speaker 5: row sometimes, especially.
- 10:55Speaker 4: When I first get into the morning. And you also
- 10:58Speaker 4: are a host of so many things.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Think about that.
- 11:00Speaker 4: You have two television shows, two radio shows, and you
- 11:03Speaker 4: host a lot of gallas. So I say hi a log. Yes,
- 11:05Speaker 4: so it would be non stop sneezing.
- 11:08Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll go with the pee. Okay, I don't want
- 11:11Speaker 2: to what my pants or anything but the urge, and
- 11:13Speaker 2: then I'll know I gotta get to the bath.
- 11:15Speaker 4: See that's not fun either. Because you were a bedweather
- 11:18Speaker 4: when you were a child. You had to bring that
- 11:20Speaker 4: up again. Well, no, I know what you mean, because
- 11:22Speaker 4: you've talked about you can't go to sleep at night
- 11:24Speaker 4: without going pee first, if you have any urge.
- 11:27Speaker 2: I think most people pee before bed, right.
- 11:30Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I know, but you have talked about you
- 11:33Speaker 4: you cannot fall asleep unless you go pee, you can't
- 11:36Speaker 4: have any urge.
- 11:37Speaker 2: So well, because I have a history, I know you
- 11:40Speaker 2: way back. Okay, let it go.
- 11:42Speaker 4: Yeah, when's the last time you went to bed in
- 11:44Speaker 4: the last ten years?
- 11:45Speaker 2: Are no? O? When you were a little kid?
- 11:48Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 11:48Speaker 2: Well, sometimes it's stick and stick with you. I don't.
- 11:52Speaker 7: I think out of fear because my brother wanted to
- 11:54Speaker 7: kill me because we shared a bed.
- 11:56Speaker 2: We were very poor, so I peed on him every night.
- 11:59Speaker 3: Yeah that's not good.
- 12:00Speaker 2: And now you know, all right, you wanted to go there,
- 12:02Speaker 2: and now you know you know what. I'm a proud
- 12:04Speaker 2: bed weather.
- 12:07Speaker 4: I'm just trying to add to the conversation.
- 12:10Speaker 2: That's all. Okay, all right, Producer Riley, you want to
- 12:12Speaker 2: put one in on this.
- 12:13Speaker 9: Sure?
- 12:14Speaker 4: Would you rather wear a clown wig or clown shoes
- 12:18Speaker 4: every day for the rest of your life?
- 12:21Speaker 2: Oh? Can I change up the wig?
- 12:26Speaker 3: Is it just like a colorful one?
- 12:28Speaker 2: It's just a colorful wig. It has to be. Would
- 12:31Speaker 2: you rather it's like one or the other?
- 12:33Speaker 10: Sometimes multiple make adjustments. Okay, Bill, I think I'd do
- 12:37Speaker 10: the wig and I'd make it my own.
- 12:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:40Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the shoes could be kind of cumbersome.
- 12:42Speaker 5: After a while, trip over yourself exactly, like go to
- 12:48Speaker 5: like run like a full sprint.
- 12:50Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, see I would go shoes there would
- 12:54Speaker 4: I would go shoes?
- 12:55Speaker 2: You can't walk?
- 12:57Speaker 9: Uh?
- 12:57Speaker 4: Yeah, because the clown that's the first thing you see.
- 12:59Speaker 4: Think about it. When you meet somebody, you look at
- 13:01Speaker 4: their their face and their head, you would see the wig.
- 13:04Speaker 4: I feel like the clown shoes made maybe not as quick.
- 13:06Speaker 7: How did you know there could be somebody on only
- 13:08Speaker 7: fans that only wears clown clothes or baby clothes?
- 13:12Speaker 6: Yes?
- 13:12Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure I'll be watching that today when I
- 13:16Speaker 4: get home too.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Alright, Lisa, would.
- 13:19Speaker 4: You rather wear jeans one size too small or shoes
- 13:22Speaker 4: two sizes too big?
- 13:24Speaker 2: Is a good one for you?
- 13:27Speaker 3: Well, I don't.
- 13:28Speaker 5: I think I'd have to wear jeans one size too
- 13:29Speaker 5: small because if you wore shoes two sizes too big,
- 13:32Speaker 5: you could.
- 13:32Speaker 4: Never walk right, You would be a clown.
- 13:35Speaker 3: You literally couldn't walk.
- 13:36Speaker 2: Well, you have to wear a few extra pair of socks.
- 13:38Speaker 5: Or you'd have to you just have to take them
- 13:40Speaker 5: off and farefoot.
- 13:42Speaker 2: There you go.
- 13:42Speaker 4: So jeans one size too small, yeah, that could be
- 13:45Speaker 4: uncomfortable too, I know.
- 13:46Speaker 5: But yeah, but shoes two sizes too big. You literally
- 13:49Speaker 5: can't walk.
- 13:50Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, these are tough, These are tough, all right, Bill?
- 13:54Speaker 2: Okay you ready? Yeah, I'm smelling a good one here. Yeah.
- 14:02Speaker 4: Would you rather have a head the size of a
- 14:05Speaker 4: tennis ball or the size of a watermelon?
- 14:15Speaker 7: So?
- 14:15Speaker 4: Would you rather look like the Beetlejuice guy or the
- 14:18Speaker 4: kid from Hey Arnold?
- 14:22Speaker 2: That's a hard one. I'm gonna go size of a watermelon.
- 14:29Speaker 2: My brain will be bigger. I thought you were going pinhead. No,
- 14:33Speaker 2: that looks scares me. That's the freakiest costume of this
- 14:36Speaker 2: past Halloween. Oh, the Beetlejuice guy, Yeah, with the tiny
- 14:39Speaker 2: little head.
- 14:39Speaker 4: Yeah, he sprinkles a little magic dust on him and
- 14:42Speaker 4: his watermelon head?
- 14:44Speaker 2: Interesting?
- 14:45Speaker 4: Interesting, all right, Producer Riley? Would you rather be in
- 14:51Speaker 4: a real life version of The Walking Dead or Jurassic Park?
- 14:57Speaker 4: This is this is my favorite one.
- 14:59Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go.
- 15:00Speaker 10: Oh, I see I wouldn't survive in either universe.
- 15:03Speaker 4: Okay, But how would you rather die? Is the question
- 15:07Speaker 4: you should be asking yourself.
- 15:08Speaker 10: I think I think it'd be cooler to see a dinosaur. Yeah, yeah,
- 15:13Speaker 10: than be eaten by a zombie.
- 15:14Speaker 2: You have seen Jurassic Park?
- 15:16Speaker 3: No, but I'd rather be eaten by a dinosaur too.
- 15:19Speaker 2: Yeah, because at least you will have seen a dinosaur
- 15:21Speaker 2: before you die. And then I also stay dead, come back.
- 15:24Speaker 4: As a zombie, Devil's advocate the walking dead. You can
- 15:28Speaker 4: kill the zombies. You got to put something through their head.
- 15:30Speaker 4: How are you going to kill a t rex or
- 15:32Speaker 4: a velociraptor.
- 15:33Speaker 2: Doesn't matter.
- 15:34Speaker 7: At least you saw a dinosaur before you died.
- 15:38Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, is that more important than living? Don't you
- 15:42Speaker 4: want to live? I'd want to fight back.
- 15:43Speaker 10: I don't think i'd survive in the walking neither way
- 15:46Speaker 10: you never do.
- 15:47Speaker 4: Yeah, all you would all pick Jurassic Park. Absolutely, It's
- 15:51Speaker 4: Jurassic Park going walking dead.
- 15:53Speaker 2: Well you seem like a walking days. Well that was
- 15:56Speaker 2: the old days, not the current Thank you for that.
- 15:59Speaker 8: From the Planet Fitness Kids one o eight Studios, we're
- 16:03Speaker 8: back with Villy and Lisa in the morning.
- 16:05Speaker 7: So, Lisa, was a report that came out this morning
- 16:08Speaker 7: on gen z ers and dating and what they're doing and.
- 16:10Speaker 2: Not doing exactly.
- 16:12Speaker 5: So it was actually a New York Times article and
- 16:14Speaker 5: they're saying that between the ages of like twenty two
- 16:17Speaker 5: and thirty five, gen z ers cannot afford a first
- 16:20Speaker 5: date anymore, especially like in cities like New York, Boston,
- 16:23Speaker 5: the upwards of two hundred dollars.
- 16:25Speaker 7: Yeah, everything is so damn expensive. Let's start with Steve.
- 16:29Speaker 7: Is he ninety three years old? Or is he actually
- 16:32Speaker 7: en route ninety three?
- 16:34Speaker 2: Okay, that's solarious. Actually, Steve, I gotta be.
- 16:39Speaker 7: Honest, it would be so cool if you were ninety
- 16:41Speaker 7: three years old and calling us because you're looking for
- 16:44Speaker 7: love on their cheap.
- 16:45Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Steve, how you doing, buddy good? How
- 16:49Speaker 2: are you good? What do you want to add to
- 16:51Speaker 2: this conversation?
- 16:52Speaker 11: I want to tell you that I listened to the
- 16:54Speaker 11: show every morning ex since in the nineteen eighty whoa
- 16:58Speaker 11: a little I'm a well passed a z mm hmmmm.
- 17:01Speaker 5: Wow.
- 17:02Speaker 7: I thought you were ninety three.
- 17:06Speaker 11: I'm on ninety three drive.
- 17:08Speaker 2: Okay, So your thoughts on the dating thing, Well.
- 17:11Speaker 11: I have kids that age and my daughter. You know,
- 17:17Speaker 11: if if the guy is asking the girl out, he's.
- 17:20Speaker 6: Got to pay.
- 17:21Speaker 11: If he's gonna skip a cop payment, then he's gonna
- 17:24Speaker 11: skip a cop payment.
- 17:26Speaker 6: Wow.
- 17:29Speaker 11: Yeah, Well it is what it is that don't ask her?
- 17:31Speaker 11: And I don't know what happened to chivalry. But they
- 17:36Speaker 11: beat the horn for my daughter, and I tell my daughter,
- 17:38Speaker 11: you don't go out there.
- 17:40Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, no.
- 17:44Speaker 5: No, like like that, he's there to pick her up,
- 17:46Speaker 5: like instead of what funking.
- 17:49Speaker 2: The car horn outside? What are you gonna do to
- 17:51Speaker 2: next day? Whistle? Hey, you're coming, like Steve, I'm with you, bud.
- 17:58Speaker 2: Chivalry It can't it.
- 18:00Speaker 5: Can't go to one of the only things we still
- 18:02Speaker 5: have left right, and.
- 18:04Speaker 2: Dads love it too.
- 18:05Speaker 7: When the guy comes walking up to me, if the
- 18:07Speaker 7: dad kind of wants to torture him just a little bit, Yeah,
- 18:11Speaker 7: why don't you come.
- 18:11Speaker 2: In, let's talk for a couple of minutes. I show
- 18:14Speaker 2: be right out.
- 18:17Speaker 7: If he was beeping for my daughter, she would not be.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Let out of the house.
- 18:23Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not going anywhere.
- 18:25Speaker 2: You're not getting in that car now. You got to
- 18:27Speaker 2: walk up to the door. Yeah.
- 18:29Speaker 4: Although I don't know Steve. Steve sounds like a pretty
- 18:32Speaker 4: tough guy. He's afraid of him. Yeah, he's got out
- 18:35Speaker 4: of here.
- 18:35Speaker 2: You gotta skip a cop hay, and just skip a
- 18:37Speaker 2: copy that. I love Steven. He's like one of my uncles.
- 18:43Speaker 3: Why is takeout for two people now? Always fifty or
- 18:46Speaker 3: sixty bucks.
- 18:47Speaker 5: You off before tip, whether it's Chinese food, pizza, Chipotle,
- 18:51Speaker 5: salad place.
- 18:53Speaker 3: Always yeah, it's right. It's like you're going to everything
- 18:56Speaker 3: sixty dollars.
- 18:57Speaker 4: Everything is expensive. Well, I love Chipotle and so mimmy
- 19:01Speaker 4: my Chipotle. Oh it is very expensive because they get
- 19:03Speaker 4: a double and triple meats. Sure, but everything, it's just
- 19:06Speaker 4: the it's the way of the world.
- 19:08Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 19:08Speaker 7: And even if you're getting takeout, you're gonna tip, you know,
- 19:11Speaker 7: cause it's not they're going to be giving a look
- 19:13Speaker 7: as you're.
- 19:14Speaker 2: Heading out the door. Really may think I'm standing here
- 19:17Speaker 2: for free.
- 19:18Speaker 4: Oh see, yeah, that's this is a discussion the difference
- 19:21Speaker 4: because you don't pay tips for take Well, if they're
- 19:23Speaker 4: just the food sitting there on the corner and I
- 19:25Speaker 4: walk in and she rings me up, I don't tip there.
- 19:28Speaker 2: Oh I always did, even more I'd like because I
- 19:30Speaker 2: like to see the working there. Oh thank you, right, yeah,
- 19:32Speaker 2: I say thank you. But if you're ordering online, you
- 19:35Speaker 2: put a tip online? Oh yeah, yeah, sure.
- 19:37Speaker 12: Good morning moy and crew on this whole topic. Honestly,
- 19:41Speaker 12: I am completely rely just in you pay. That was
- 19:46Speaker 12: my wife for twenty years. We've been married sixteen and
- 19:49Speaker 12: even going hanging out as friends. I pay for the mail,
- 19:55Speaker 12: not even thinking we were going to be dating or
- 19:58Speaker 12: laid and married with two kids. But I always pay
- 20:02Speaker 12: for the mail.
- 20:03Speaker 2: But see, that was then and this is now.
- 20:06Speaker 3: I know the expectations are all over the place. They are,
- 20:10Speaker 3: that's the problem.
- 20:11Speaker 4: Yeah, just to reiterate my point, say you're going on
- 20:14Speaker 4: a date, first date.
- 20:16Speaker 2: She could be the one, exactly.
- 20:18Speaker 4: You could have such a great connection, and you could
- 20:20Speaker 4: mess it up by saying, hey, that's what the bill.
- 20:23Speaker 7: I just never think you should, ever, under any circumstances
- 20:27Speaker 7: say that. I think you could be jeopardizing what could
- 20:31Speaker 7: be a wonderful future.
- 20:32Speaker 4: I asked for people to call in that, you know,
- 20:34Speaker 4: have that school of thought.
- 20:35Speaker 2: Yeah, no one call him really.
- 20:37Speaker 5: But again, like if you are on a limited budget
- 20:40Speaker 5: and you still want to.
- 20:41Speaker 3: Go out, like there are other things you can do that.
- 20:44Speaker 2: Exactly doesn't have to be around dinner.
- 20:46Speaker 5: That's exprehensive, right, or just a nice walk and yeah whatever.
- 20:49Speaker 4: Although I did think it was you know my friend
- 20:51Speaker 4: that went on the he went to coffee and then
- 20:53Speaker 4: he went on like a short hike. I thought that
- 20:56Speaker 4: was a little weird, because you know, she doesn't know him.
- 20:59Speaker 4: I mean, he's a great guy. But then she's walking
- 21:02Speaker 4: into the woods with the sky ran through my head,
- 21:06Speaker 4: you know, but always good see.
- 21:08Speaker 13: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost nine
- 21:11Speaker 13: years now, and we don't go on expensive days often.
- 21:16Speaker 13: We did it for like our five year anniversary, like
- 21:19Speaker 13: maybe the one year anniversary, but we.
- 21:21Speaker 2: Don't go on expensive dates. We go to like the mall.
- 21:25Speaker 13: You know, we go walk around a park, you know,
- 21:27Speaker 13: we just hang out.
- 21:28Speaker 4: We go grocery shopping.
- 21:29Speaker 2: Now, like that's our dates. You know, it's the simple things.
- 21:32Speaker 7: But if you're not looking to spend a lot of money,
- 21:34Speaker 7: what are you doing at the mall?
- 21:36Speaker 2: Window shopping?
- 21:38Speaker 7: Just looking just walk around on a date looking, just
- 21:42Speaker 7: window shopping.
- 21:43Speaker 2: Here's the irony, okay, because when you really think about it,
- 21:47Speaker 2: it's the.
- 21:47Speaker 7: Inexpensive things, like Lisa says, take a walk or you know,
- 21:51Speaker 7: like your body went on a hike. You can actually
- 21:54Speaker 7: have better conversations and get to know each other more
- 21:58Speaker 7: than sitting across from.
- 21:59Speaker 2: Each other at a table and a loud restaurant. Yeah,
- 22:02Speaker 2: with wait people coming in and out, like just yeah, I.
- 22:05Speaker 3: Mean, it's about togetherness.
- 22:07Speaker 2: That's a bill. Just walk around Boston. That's a great point.
- 22:11Speaker 2: That's you know, we're helping people today.
- 22:12Speaker 14: On the first date with my ex boyfriend, I went
- 22:16Speaker 14: and I picked up pizza for the two of us.
- 22:18Speaker 13: And when he came over, he only gave me twenty
- 22:22Speaker 13: dollars and that didn't even cover his portion of the pizza.
- 22:27Speaker 15: Needless to say, we're no longer together.
- 22:29Speaker 2: See that's another no note. Well she went out and
- 22:32Speaker 2: got pizza.
- 22:34Speaker 7: Just say how much was it and cover the tack.
- 22:37Speaker 7: She went and got it right. That was very thoughtful.
- 22:40Speaker 7: That's almost very good move.
- 22:41Speaker 4: Oh that's almost as bad as this.
- 22:44Speaker 7: That's that was my favorite call.
- 22:50Speaker 13: Steve calls back and he's beeping.
- 22:53Speaker 16: Hey, this is George on the topic call a beating
- 22:59Speaker 16: and paying actively the dating team. I'm gay, so maybe
- 23:04Speaker 16: it looks a little different, but.
- 23:07Speaker 2: The day typing on the pretty much split.
- 23:10Speaker 7: Uh.
- 23:11Speaker 2: Otherwise I agree.
- 23:14Speaker 16: At least for the first couple.
- 23:16Speaker 7: Uh.
- 23:17Speaker 4: But then you know, one pigs hopping and the other
- 23:19Speaker 4: pigs happen.
- 23:19Speaker 14: He keeps going, but everything is so game expensive.
- 23:24Speaker 2: Like dollars.
- 23:25Speaker 4: I didn't even think of that. The team, Yeah, if
- 23:29Speaker 4: they're on a first day.
- 23:29Speaker 7: Yeah, it seems okay, right to mention money and for
- 23:32Speaker 7: it's two guys.
- 23:33Speaker 2: Isn't that weird? Yeah, so they switch off at seem.
- 23:36Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you're just saying I'll get this one, you
- 23:38Speaker 7: get the next one. Yeah, that's very calm.
- 23:40Speaker 2: I like, thanks George for that. I like that.
- 23:41Speaker 17: Talking about chivalry, I've always wondered about these two things
- 23:45Speaker 17: when on a date getting in a cab, does the
- 23:47Speaker 17: gentleman get in first and have to scoot? Or do
- 23:50Speaker 17: you make the woman get in first and scoot? And
- 23:52Speaker 17: the second one is what about a revolving door? Again,
- 23:55Speaker 17: is it courteous to let the woman in first? Or
- 23:58Speaker 17: does the gentleman go in first and push the door?
- 24:01Speaker 2: Thanks? Guys, always, I think the woman first.
- 24:04Speaker 7: You want to make sure she gets in the car safely,
- 24:08Speaker 7: and you want to make sure it doesn't break an
- 24:11Speaker 7: arm in the revolving door.
- 24:12Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know it doesn't hurt to give her
- 24:14Speaker 4: the door test too.
- 24:17Speaker 1: Yeah, to give her a door test before you get
- 24:19Speaker 1: out of the car, you lock both doors. You get
- 24:22Speaker 1: out of the car, you walk over to her. You
- 24:25Speaker 1: bring her over to the car, You take out the key,
- 24:27Speaker 1: put it in the lock, open the door, phon. Then
- 24:30Speaker 1: you let her get in then you close the door far.
- 24:32Speaker 1: Then you walk around the back of the car. You
- 24:34Speaker 1: look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over,
- 24:36Speaker 1: looked up that bun for you so you can get in.
- 24:39Speaker 1: That means she's her selfish broad and all you've seen
- 24:41Speaker 1: is the tippet the iceberg.
- 24:42Speaker 2: You dump, but you dump her fast if they still
- 24:46Speaker 2: have the button in the door. It's kind of like
- 24:51Speaker 2: the horn. Yeah, exactly, the movie Kissed One.
- 25:05Speaker 3: Await.
- 25:05Speaker 5: This is a guide for things that people should never
- 25:09Speaker 5: say on a first date when they first meet.
- 25:11Speaker 3: So maybe if you're walking into this.
- 25:13Speaker 5: Event on August nine, just keep these things in mind, right, This.
- 25:16Speaker 2: Is kind of like a do's and don't kind of.
- 25:18Speaker 3: Yeah, just keep it in mind. This is one that
- 25:21Speaker 3: comes up.
- 25:21Speaker 5: Tell me about your ex clearly an indication that you
- 25:24Speaker 5: were prone to jealousy. Never talk about your ex on
- 25:28Speaker 5: a first date, like in a big, big way.
- 25:30Speaker 3: You can mention it, right, But yeah, God.
- 25:33Speaker 4: I'm so lucky that you know, my my wife saw
- 25:36Speaker 4: past that, because that's.
- 25:37Speaker 2: All I wanted to know.
- 25:39Speaker 4: Really well, when you're insecure, you know, you want to
- 25:42Speaker 4: compare yourself. So I would ask questions, what was he like,
- 25:45Speaker 4: what did he look like, where'd you meet him?
- 25:48Speaker 1: Oh?
- 25:48Speaker 2: Thank god? She kind of like let that way.
- 25:50Speaker 5: I think they're saying it's okay, but just don't get
- 25:52Speaker 5: like stuck on it. But maybe like not on a
- 25:54Speaker 5: first date as much.
- 25:56Speaker 2: I would say, just don't go there.
- 25:58Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah.
- 25:59Speaker 2: The other big.
- 26:00Speaker 5: One is that you shouldn't say is you don't look
- 26:03Speaker 5: like your photo.
- 26:04Speaker 4: Oh glaringly, so you can think it, Just don't say,
- 26:10Speaker 4: imagine is this really you?
- 26:12Speaker 5: Don't say I'm surprised anybody actually recognizes their own filter
- 26:16Speaker 5: free reflection in the mirror.
- 26:17Speaker 2: Don't say that.
- 26:18Speaker 3: Don't say it.
- 26:20Speaker 4: Just last week, one of my friends met a girl
- 26:22Speaker 4: on I think Facebook dating. That's the popping one Facebook
- 26:25Speaker 4: dating anyway, he met her and she showed up to
- 26:27Speaker 4: the to the date. He said, it was like, just like,
- 26:31Speaker 4: who is this miles apart? The way she looked so
- 26:34Speaker 4: much different.
- 26:35Speaker 7: You keep looking for them where you're supposed to meet
- 26:37Speaker 7: and said, I didn't see you any Oh it's you.
- 26:40Speaker 4: Well they'll put the crazy filters on, right, so and
- 26:43Speaker 4: then you have to watch that and then sometimes like
- 26:45Speaker 4: you know, whatever their you know, shape is, you can
- 26:48Speaker 4: position the camera so you can't really see, you.
- 26:50Speaker 5: Know, Another big one everyone out there is you can't
- 26:54Speaker 5: call them by the wrong name, Like that's true, that
- 26:58Speaker 5: would be really.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Yeah, yes you're coming off or another exactly great.
- 27:03Speaker 4: That actually probably happens more times than not, especially if
- 27:06Speaker 4: you're you know, going on multiple dates.
- 27:09Speaker 2: Right yeah, you know.
- 27:10Speaker 3: So just watch that if you're coming on Sunday, make.
- 27:13Speaker 4: A little like, may maybe write the name on your hand,
- 27:17Speaker 4: like Brittany, have a little cheat.
- 27:19Speaker 2: Do you think anyone does several of them in one
- 27:21Speaker 2: day or night? Yes? Really? Yes?
- 27:24Speaker 3: Why do you have a friend that did that?
- 27:26Speaker 2: Uh?
- 27:27Speaker 4: Yeah, Actually one of my friends went on a date
- 27:30Speaker 4: and then when the date ended, another girl that he
- 27:32Speaker 4: was talking to was like freed up, so he did
- 27:35Speaker 4: two dates in one night.
- 27:37Speaker 7: Or if he made arrangements to meet somebody like a
- 27:39Speaker 7: block away from where you're meeting the first person, you're like.
- 27:41Speaker 3: Wow, oh he's a busy dude. All right.
- 27:44Speaker 5: Another one is you never should say this. You're paying
- 27:47Speaker 5: for this right?
- 27:48Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's kind of awkward.
- 27:51Speaker 2: You know.
- 27:52Speaker 4: The first thought there is who would say that, but
- 27:54Speaker 4: you know there are people that would absolutely yep, yeah,
- 27:59Speaker 4: the bill should ever come up, not even split it.
- 28:03Speaker 4: I mean, that's a separate topic just.
- 28:04Speaker 5: Is that it should just be It should just be
- 28:07Speaker 5: something that just like happens organically at the end of
- 28:11Speaker 5: the night. It shouldn't be like front and center. I
- 28:13Speaker 5: think that's weird. The other thing you should say you
- 28:16Speaker 5: should not say is my family are crazy.
- 28:19Speaker 3: You shouldn't lead with that.
- 28:20Speaker 2: Yeah, really, well, I don't know.
- 28:24Speaker 7: A lot of people want to know that you're tight
- 28:26Speaker 7: with your family, right they use that.
- 28:28Speaker 2: It's a good sign.
- 28:29Speaker 4: I guess you could say I love my family, but
- 28:31Speaker 4: they're crazy a little bit.
- 28:33Speaker 3: Yeah they could be crazy, right, yeah, lovable? Yeah, crazy? Yeah,
- 28:38Speaker 3: Like on how you say it?
- 28:40Speaker 4: Like my mother in law, for example, you know, she's crazy.
- 28:43Speaker 4: I love her. I'd want to give fair warning to
- 28:45Speaker 4: somebody that was going to come over, like, hey, she's
- 28:47Speaker 4: the best ever, but she's a little off the rocker.
- 28:50Speaker 2: Yeah, nany we just went over this.
- 28:53Speaker 5: The other little hot tip is never say I've got
- 28:55Speaker 5: another date after this one?
- 28:57Speaker 2: Oh no again? Who would say that? That kind of
- 29:01Speaker 2: confirmed that people are doing exact multiple dating in one night.
- 29:06Speaker 5: Another thing that you probably shouldn't say is or ask,
- 29:09Speaker 5: is what do you think of me on the first date?
- 29:13Speaker 2: That screams and it's.
- 29:16Speaker 4: Like screams, I just don't like myself. Yeah, I'm unsure.
- 29:20Speaker 4: And you know what, especially women, they don't want they
- 29:22Speaker 4: want confidence is Yeah.
- 29:24Speaker 3: It's like you don't need anyone else's approval.
- 29:27Speaker 2: You can make me feel better about myself.
- 29:29Speaker 4: Okay, no, right, what are we going to do at
- 29:32Speaker 4: the stupid dating One of the people says, one of
- 29:34Speaker 4: these things that would be a moment.
- 29:37Speaker 2: That would be all you should have, like a loud
- 29:39Speaker 2: buzzer to.
- 29:40Speaker 5: Call the person outright, just start screaming out.
- 29:49Speaker 4: So this is good, This is good. This is a
- 29:51Speaker 4: good little like you know what to do, what not to.
- 29:53Speaker 3: Do, it's a little guide.
- 29:55Speaker 8: Now it's topic Time with Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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- 30:15Speaker 2: We're giving them some advice and do as you will. Yeah,
- 30:19Speaker 2: a first date.
- 30:20Speaker 3: Things not to do, Yeah, don't screw it up.
- 30:23Speaker 4: Well, especially at the stupid dating event you're going to
- 30:25Speaker 4: be in front of people, I'll embarrass yourself.
- 30:27Speaker 3: Well, we're going to be live on stage with at
- 30:29Speaker 3: least one cup a.
- 30:30Speaker 4: So yeah, so you want to be very careful. And
- 30:34Speaker 4: I mean this goes for anybody that's dating, right. There
- 30:36Speaker 4: are things you do when you don't do on a
- 30:38Speaker 4: first date. We're more focused on what you don't say
- 30:41Speaker 4: or do.
- 30:41Speaker 14: Yeah, my first dates, it was going okay, but the
- 30:45Speaker 14: guy decided to try and convince me that I should
- 30:48Speaker 14: date him because he had a really stable for one
- 30:52Speaker 14: k and he had all these investments. It was the
- 30:54Speaker 14: biggest turn off.
- 30:58Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's a good idea a first date.
- 31:01Speaker 4: Because you want to find love, you know.
- 31:03Speaker 5: I mean money is important, right, Yeah, you gotta find
- 31:05Speaker 5: the connection first.
- 31:06Speaker 7: And you're meeting each other. You're not planning your lives
- 31:09Speaker 7: together on a first date, right.
- 31:11Speaker 2: It's more it's like one of those look at me and.
- 31:13Speaker 3: Me or it's like yeah, he's like trying to talk
- 31:15Speaker 3: you into it.
- 31:16Speaker 2: Yeah, although a good four to one k is nice.
- 31:18Speaker 3: Yeah, or even a pension, it's important.
- 31:20Speaker 2: They still even make those pensions some people. Yeah, civil
- 31:24Speaker 2: service workers get pensions. My mom has a school teachers
- 31:27Speaker 2: from Mass General. So I have a bit of a
- 31:29Speaker 2: wild one.
- 31:30Speaker 9: I was on a date years ago and the guy
- 31:34Speaker 9: seemed okay, and then he's like, do you have any secrets?
- 31:38Speaker 9: And I was like, well, I don't know you enough
- 31:40Speaker 9: to tell you my secrets. And he's like, well, I
- 31:42Speaker 9: have one. I'm wearing pink sop. I enjoy wearing women.
- 31:50Speaker 9: Needless to say, you do, your dude, but no.
- 31:54Speaker 3: Oh, at least he tells you on the first date.
- 31:57Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I mean I think you want to our listeners. Well,
- 32:01Speaker 4: I think he belongs on a fetish app. I don't
- 32:03Speaker 4: know where she met him, but yeah, that's yeah, yeah,
- 32:05Speaker 4: they make apps for that.
- 32:06Speaker 2: But one hello, Hello, by the way, I would like
- 32:11Speaker 2: to wear Okay, no joke.
- 32:16Speaker 15: I don't know how we got on this topic. But
- 32:19Speaker 15: on one of my first days, a guy asked me
- 32:21Speaker 15: if I got the COVID shot and I responded yes,
- 32:25Speaker 15: I did, and he's like, oh, my gosh, you're chipped.
- 32:29Speaker 15: They're watching you, they're tracking you. You are now part
- 32:33Speaker 15: of the government. You're being tracked everywhere you go. What
- 32:38Speaker 15: what are we?
- 32:39Speaker 18: What are we doing?
- 32:42Speaker 3: Weird?
- 32:43Speaker 12: Now?
- 32:43Speaker 2: What? Yeah, this guy's too paranoid for anyone.
- 32:49Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you might want to save the COVID shot
- 32:51Speaker 4: for like, you know, date number three the government after
- 32:54Speaker 4: what god? COVID shots. I dressed in women's clothes. I
- 32:59Speaker 4: dressed it.
- 32:59Speaker 2: Who does that? All right? I dressed up to lucy online.
- 33:07Speaker 2: One's say, give us a good one? Did you have
- 33:11Speaker 2: a good one?
- 33:14Speaker 3: I do.
- 33:14Speaker 2: I believe I do.
- 33:16Speaker 3: So nice to hear you guys.
- 33:18Speaker 4: So sorry, okay, okay, sorry, I okay, you there.
- 33:25Speaker 2: I'm here. I'm here, I'm here, Okay, go ahead, I'm home.
- 33:29Speaker 4: I'm home.
- 33:30Speaker 2: Okay. So I am this guy. I knew he would
- 33:33Speaker 2: wait out. I asked him why how did his wife
- 33:37Speaker 2: pass away?
- 33:38Speaker 3: And he said, well.
- 33:40Speaker 9: The that story for especially for my children.
- 33:43Speaker 2: Her car was found at the Southbury Reservation, but her
- 33:47Speaker 2: body was never recovered. Oh that was my time to
- 33:52Speaker 2: leave the date.
- 33:54Speaker 9: I got a little scared.
- 33:55Speaker 3: Well that's a that's a tragic story.
- 33:58Speaker 2: Do you think that he did something with her? Well?
- 34:01Speaker 2: I know, yeah, I don't know. I don't know, but
- 34:04Speaker 2: he was Yeah.
- 34:06Speaker 19: I think he should have saved that story for some
- 34:09Speaker 19: other times.
- 34:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 34:12Speaker 9: I don't really want to talk about it, but I
- 34:15Speaker 9: got a little scared.
- 34:17Speaker 2: We were at a date by a river, okay, by
- 34:20Speaker 2: the river. Oh god, they took into the river.
- 34:28Speaker 3: She was not feeling comfortable.
- 34:30Speaker 2: Yeah, these are several crazy calls. This is really going
- 34:34Speaker 2: on out there.
- 34:35Speaker 4: Just imagine poor Lucy, right, the guy tells her that
- 34:38Speaker 4: and she's like, there's a body of.
- 34:42Speaker 7: And typically in a situation like that, the husband is
- 34:45Speaker 7: always the first suspect.
- 34:47Speaker 2: You know, is he thinking, I don't know, they never
- 34:51Speaker 2: found the body? We want to hang with?
- 34:53Speaker 4: The Mayor of the South End has to say on
- 34:54Speaker 4: you get a little nervous sometimes with them.
- 34:57Speaker 19: Good morning, it's the Mayor of the South End calling
- 35:00Speaker 19: from my bathroom. I may have an echo. Well things
- 35:03Speaker 19: you never asked on a date. Never talk about your ex,
- 35:06Speaker 19: Never ask someone how much money they have.
- 35:09Speaker 2: And the rule, the game rule.
- 35:11Speaker 19: They never get a second date with me when they
- 35:13Speaker 19: asked that age old question, are you a top or
- 35:16Speaker 19: a bottom?
- 35:17Speaker 2: Have a great date? I run here. This is I'm
- 35:26Speaker 2: afraid to go out. I was a little hesitant there
- 35:28Speaker 2: with the mayor. I don't even know. I'm a little
- 35:30Speaker 2: nervous here.
- 35:31Speaker 18: So there's so much more to this story. But I
- 35:33Speaker 18: went on a date with a guy who lied about
- 35:36Speaker 18: his height by like four inches and we went to dinner,
- 35:40Speaker 18: and I just wasn't impressed.
- 35:41Speaker 3: With him at all from the start.
- 35:44Speaker 18: He ordered a dish with muscles in it, and during
- 35:47Speaker 18: the meal, all of a sudden, he took one of
- 35:50Speaker 18: the shells and started slurping up the broth, and I
- 35:56Speaker 18: glared at him, and he.
- 35:57Speaker 3: Was like, what don't you think this is cute?
- 36:02Speaker 2: I like muscles as much as the.
- 36:07Speaker 3: Next person, but I would never do that.
- 36:08Speaker 2: No, you don't slurp from the show.
- 36:11Speaker 3: You don't.
- 36:11Speaker 2: It's messy enough.
- 36:13Speaker 4: You just got to be aware of of those things.
- 36:16Speaker 3: Yeah, don't get to comfortable on the first day.
- 36:19Speaker 4: I remember when I first started dating my wife. I
- 36:21Speaker 4: was so careful and everything I said or did, for
- 36:23Speaker 4: the most part, out to eat. Now, you know she'll
- 36:27Speaker 4: catch me chewing loudly. You know we're more comfortable, but
- 36:30Speaker 4: early on you got to be aware of these things.
- 36:32Speaker 7: My wife just the other day said, I chew loud.
- 36:34Speaker 7: I never thought of myself as a loud Sure.
- 36:37Speaker 3: Really, you're chewing loud.
- 36:38Speaker 2: I don't think so, because I chew with my mouth closed.
- 36:43Speaker 4: Well, sometimes you just forget. I guess that's what it is.
- 36:46Speaker 4: I'm bad with the gum. I'm one of those snapping
- 36:49Speaker 4: the gum.
- 36:50Speaker 16: Yeah, hey guys, it's chill. So I'm happily engaged now.
- 36:55Speaker 16: But back when I was still dating, I went on
- 36:58Speaker 16: this date.
- 36:58Speaker 2: With this guy.
- 36:59Speaker 16: He had like a sick six sixth tattoo on his neck,
- 37:01Speaker 16: and I was like, you know what, maybe it's like
- 37:02Speaker 16: a bad eighteen year old mistake. We're having dinner and
- 37:07Speaker 16: then he tells me that he's part of Hell's Angels.
- 37:10Speaker 16: So I block him right there at dinner and get
- 37:12Speaker 16: a free meal.
- 37:12Speaker 4: So yeah, okay, six six sick tattoo. Yeah, that's a
- 37:18Speaker 4: lot that should have been that.
- 37:19Speaker 7: That's more concerning than being a Hell's Angel when you
- 37:23Speaker 7: have a neck tattoo.
- 37:24Speaker 2: That's yeah. Oh boy, there's some crazy stuff going on out.
- 37:30Speaker 2: It's a good thing Lida is having.
- 37:31Speaker 5: Stup dating, Yeah, because we're going to set this all
- 37:33Speaker 5: up for you.
- 37:34Speaker 3: We're trying to make it easy for you.
- 37:36Speaker 5: To like come out, have some fun, meet people, bring
- 37:39Speaker 5: a friend who might be single.
- 37:40Speaker 4: Whatever.
- 37:41Speaker 3: Yeah, get a workout in to work out in rose.
- 37:44Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 37:46Speaker 9: Something that was said more done.
- 37:50Speaker 3: We were at.
- 37:50Speaker 15: Dinner and I didn't quite finish my meal and when
- 37:55Speaker 15: the waitress came over to like.
- 37:56Speaker 14: Grab our dishes, because clearly I was finished and he
- 37:59Speaker 14: was bully finished. She took our plates, but then she
- 38:03Speaker 14: grabbed the plate that was mine and said that he
- 38:06Speaker 14: would finish my meal.
- 38:07Speaker 4: For me.
- 38:09Speaker 7: A big eater, even if it's something you're thinking, right,
- 38:15Speaker 7: you know, I'd finish her meal.
- 38:16Speaker 4: It looks good, right, you don't do it on a
- 38:18Speaker 4: first okay, Okay, let me ask you this though. Okay,
- 38:20Speaker 4: let me ask you this. Okay, he grabbed her food
- 38:23Speaker 4: and ate it. What if at the end she says,
- 38:26Speaker 4: I don't want any more of this?
- 38:27Speaker 2: Do you want it? Then exactly? Okay, I'd still say no,
- 38:31Speaker 2: thank you.
- 38:31Speaker 4: I'd smash the rest of her food. Yeah, no problem.
- 38:34Speaker 3: I think that's fine, right, yeah, just.
- 38:36Speaker 4: Grabbing it once. Once the servers taking the plates away,
- 38:39Speaker 4: it's done. Took it away from the wait per craft.
- 38:42Speaker 4: You know what, I'll finish that. Okay, I'm done with you.
- 38:45Speaker 2: That's a little a little aggressive red flag. Oh god,