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Episode #292: Early Morning Stillness is the Gateway to Divine Guidance · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tease.
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Speaker 2: I'm with Amien Bab. We're back, We're back.
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Speaker 3: We were kind of chatting a little bit, just kind
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Speaker 3: of none It wasn't really any information to share or
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Speaker 3: not share. But it reminded me that recently, because I've
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Speaker 3: been waking up in the middle of the night. I'll
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Speaker 3: wake up around two, three o'clock whatever, and i might
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Speaker 3: be up for a couple hours. And I'm okay with that.
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Speaker 3: Before I used to be bothered by that. But it's
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Speaker 3: my opportunity for my quietness, it's my opportunity for another meditation,
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Speaker 3: it's my opportunity for so many different things. And the
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Speaker 3: other night I was laying in there and then I
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Speaker 3: was like hearing, like I wrote it on the board,
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Speaker 3: I have such abundance. I have such abundance that I
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Speaker 3: can do this, I can do that, and I can
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Speaker 3: do that, and it's like it was such a flow
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Speaker 3: of things, and I'm like feeling like I got.
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Speaker 2: To go right to this down and I'm like, you know,
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Speaker 2: it's hard to go to bed.
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Speaker 3: It's cold outside, so it's like and my bed's all
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Speaker 3: nice and comfy, cozy, so I didn't want to go
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Speaker 3: to bed. And all of a sudden, I body got
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Speaker 3: really hot and I was like, okay, I'm getting out
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Speaker 3: of bed.
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Speaker 2: So I came in the office.
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Speaker 3: And I sat and wrote, and then I wrote stuff
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Speaker 3: on the board and stuff like that.
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Speaker 2: But it was like, it was so much fun, Like
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Speaker 2: I have.
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Speaker 3: So much abundance that I can I can do whatever
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Speaker 3: I want. I can sit out and just do my garden,
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Speaker 3: I can whatever it was. And it just felt good
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Speaker 3: to be in that space of that creativity. So being
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Speaker 3: in the flow of things. Typically I would have ignored
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Speaker 3: that and not wrote it down. I wouldn't have wrote
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Speaker 3: it down, and I would have hoped that I would
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Speaker 3: have listened to and remembered it.
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Speaker 2: And so I really that night, I really milked it.
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Speaker 3: I really stayed in that space and kept constantly building
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Speaker 3: and stuff like that, because that's where our creativity comes from.
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Speaker 3: It comes from it comes from right now. It comes
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Speaker 3: from me imagining the things, not the experiences that I've
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Speaker 3: already had. Because I've already had that experience, why would
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Speaker 3: I want to create the same experience. I'm in a
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Speaker 3: different space now and it's just having fun with all that.
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Speaker 1: Well, that was one of the way and dire things
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Speaker 1: is that I don't remember is where don't go back
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Speaker 1: to sleep. That's along the lines like I don't know,
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna quote him exactly, but the along the
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Speaker 1: lines of don't go back to sleep, because in those
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Speaker 1: early hours is when the messages are coming, because there
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Speaker 1: is so much stillness and quiet that that's when it's like,
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Speaker 1: that's when the veil between us and spirit or us
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Speaker 1: in the universe, us and God is thinner because there
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Speaker 1: is so much peace and quiet at that time that
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Speaker 1: the information is easily accessible. And then it's it's like, okay,
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Speaker 1: you got short straws, you're turning to get up and
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Speaker 1: receive this information type of thing, right, But.
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Speaker 3: It was such a blessing. It was such a blessing
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Speaker 3: to receive that. The flow was so good and it
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Speaker 3: felt so great, and it's not a space that I
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Speaker 3: was common to me to be in that just even
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Speaker 3: in the energy of how it felt and to be
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Speaker 3: like on a rampage like you know Esther Hicks would
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Speaker 3: talk about. So it's just was being in that space
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Speaker 3: and it was so so uplifting and it felt so
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Speaker 3: good and so if I wanted to it's just stopping
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Speaker 3: to feel that it's just stopping to recognize. I can
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Speaker 3: feel that we kind of touched on the feeling of
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Speaker 3: things last time.
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Speaker 2: How we can pick up on people's energy so easily.
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Speaker 3: And I've noticed that I do that with I can
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Speaker 3: do that with anybody. I can do it with a trench,
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Speaker 3: I can do I can do it with anything, and
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Speaker 3: so can everybody else. It's a matter of being quiet
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Speaker 3: enough to be able to tune in to that to
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Speaker 3: be able, and it's tuning in is focused.
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Speaker 2: I'm just focused in on it.
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Speaker 3: And so now with that being I started asking myself, well,
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Speaker 3: how come I don't do that with God?
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Speaker 2: How come I don't do that with the creator of
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Speaker 2: all that is? Why?
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Speaker 3: Why do Why do I think that it has to
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Speaker 3: go through somebody else or there has to be a
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Speaker 3: third party between me and and Creator.
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Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be.
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Speaker 3: But that's you know, it's like, well, I'm not going
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Speaker 3: to go talk to Dab, but I'll go talk to
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Speaker 3: my aunt, or I'll go talk to my mom or whatever.
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Speaker 3: But it's like I'm going to go directly to Father.
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Speaker 3: I'm going to go directly to Creator. And so it's
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Speaker 3: it's learning for me, it's learning a whole different perspective
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Speaker 3: on things. And it's knowing that I deserve to have
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Speaker 3: those conversations and I'm safe to be in that space
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Speaker 3: and not cutting myself off from something anymore that I've
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Speaker 3: been doing my whole life because I thought I knew better.
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Speaker 3: I don't know better because somebody else thought they knew
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Speaker 3: better when that's how they taught me. It's just a
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Speaker 3: different experience.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was thinking that.
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Speaker 1: When I said the messages come that early because it's
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Speaker 1: so quiet and the veil is thinner, that it's not
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Speaker 1: just a person receiving that information. It could be hundreds
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Speaker 1: or thousands or millions of people receiving that information. It's
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Speaker 1: who's going to take the time to receive it and
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Speaker 1: process it and share it or listen to it, just
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Speaker 1: even just receive it and listen to it and implement it.
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Speaker 1: Because it's this information that's helping guide us in this
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Speaker 1: life journey. Well, only certain people are going to take
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Speaker 1: it and receive it and implement it. So it's like
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Speaker 1: I hear this quite often in the spiritual teaching world,
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Speaker 1: that you know, information is given to you, but it's
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Speaker 1: also being given to somebody around on the other side
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Speaker 1: of the world, because I could deliver it in a
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Speaker 1: space or teach or share the information from the perspective
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Speaker 1: of living in this country, but I don't speak the
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Speaker 1: language or relate to somebody who lives in another country,
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Speaker 1: and so somebody in that country is going to be
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Speaker 1: receiving the same information, probably at the same time, and
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Speaker 1: then they could take it and do with it and
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Speaker 1: teach it and share it to people that they can
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Speaker 1: relate to in a way that they can understand it.
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm not the only one
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Speaker 1: in this country receiving the information. There's multiple people receiving it.
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Speaker 1: But who's going to take it. It's like it's like
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Speaker 1: who's going to take the baton and keep running? Who's
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Speaker 1: going to take that information and share it? So I
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Speaker 1: just find that, you know, we think, we think we're
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Speaker 1: the chosen one, and we're the one that got it first,
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Speaker 1: not necessarily. If other people are tapped into it, they're
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Speaker 1: going to receive it.
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Speaker 3: Also one hundred percent through their filtration system, through their understanding,
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Speaker 3: through their terminologies, through and then it reaches out to
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Speaker 3: people that are around them in the way that it
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Speaker 3: could be.
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Speaker 2: Sent out.
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Speaker 3: So I'd like to be in that receiving mode. So
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Speaker 3: that's why I get into that. I like that space.
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Speaker 3: It's quiet, there's no distractions, you're not typically you're not
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Speaker 3: on your devices, you know, looking at apps or doing
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Speaker 3: any of that kind of stuff that's not your typical thing.
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Speaker 3: And that's an easy to go Back in the day,
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Speaker 3: I probably would have gotten up and gotten to watch
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Speaker 3: some TV or whatever because I couldn't sleep or whatever.
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Speaker 2: I don't do that anymore.
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Speaker 3: I was reading something this morning and it was talking
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Speaker 3: about if your ViBe's low, don't go pick up your devices,
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Speaker 3: because then you're only going to what you talked about.
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Speaker 3: We're only going to get more of what we're putting out, basically,
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Speaker 3: in so many words, but we're going to get more
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Speaker 3: of what we're putting out or where where our mindset
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Speaker 3: is at currently.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to attract what you're resonating with, and
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Speaker 1: then it's just going to be a validation of how
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Speaker 1: you're feeling right now, and then just keep compounding the
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Speaker 1: sensation and then then now you're stuck in it unless
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Speaker 1: you do something different.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so.
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Speaker 3: We're just learning how to do something different before it
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Speaker 3: ever gets to that point. It's just speaking in a
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Speaker 3: different space prior to and that was for me. That's
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Speaker 3: been a learning process for sure. It wasn't something that
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Speaker 3: just happened overnight because I had so much old programming,
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Speaker 3: so I had to reprogram in a lot of ways
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Speaker 3: and still am program Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So it's similar to like you said, you used to
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Speaker 1: go watch TV be the same as somebody. Well, I'm
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Speaker 1: feeling stressed, I need a cigarette. I'm feeling stressed. I
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Speaker 1: need a drink of alcohol. I am feeling stressed. I
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Speaker 1: need something out outside of me to take care of
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Speaker 1: the way I'm feeling. Whereas instead of changing that programming
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Speaker 1: of reaching for a drink or cigarette or some other.
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Speaker 2: What do you call it? Vice?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, if I just sat with this and and notice, well,
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Speaker 1: why do I feel like I need that? Why am
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Speaker 1: I feeling start asking the question why am I feeling stressed?
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Speaker 1: Why am I why do I feel like? That's the
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Speaker 1: answer that that external source. Why do I feel that's
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Speaker 1: the answer. If I sat here with it and just
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Speaker 1: felt the way I felt. What if I just feel
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Speaker 1: the stress and then start asking am I really stressed
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Speaker 1: or am I just perceiving this in a way that's
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Speaker 1: contributing to me thinking I'm stressed. Right, So sitting with
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Speaker 1: yourself is so interesting. You find out so much about
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Speaker 1: yourself and then when you figure it out, well, I'm
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Speaker 1: still figuring it out, but I know a lot more
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Speaker 1: about myself now than I used to. But when I
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Speaker 1: know more about myself than I have more of an
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Speaker 1: understanding about other people, so I have I have more
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Speaker 1: ease and grace for them because they don't know themselves.
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Speaker 1: Then they're just doing what they think they need to
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Speaker 1: do for themselves to cope with life, and they're not
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Speaker 1: They're not in a space to do anything different. And
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Speaker 1: one of those things, like what Beb did is she's
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Speaker 1: you know what, I got up and I just started writing,
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Speaker 1: and I learned a lot. If she hadn't done that,
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Speaker 1: if she would have got up and went and watched TV,
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Speaker 1: she would have never got that information or or wisdom
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Speaker 1: if you will, to help her to do to stay
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Speaker 1: on track when doing different things.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was a benefit for me.
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Speaker 1: It was.
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Speaker 2: It was a benefit for me and my thought processes.
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Speaker 3: It really helped me out, helped me to see things
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Speaker 3: from a different perspective and then feel things from a
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Speaker 3: different perspective. So I've had experience in the last couple
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Speaker 3: of weeks where the vices cannot they I cannot have
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Speaker 3: the vices, I cannot have the sugar, I cannot have
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Speaker 3: the things because the body responds not good with it.
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Speaker 3: And it's that was the way things has been, I
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Speaker 3: would say changed in my life because I no longer
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Speaker 3: have that as the way of it an escape, so
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Speaker 3: that I was finding myself escaping thing, even using the devices,
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Speaker 3: but the vite, even going on to apps and stuff
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Speaker 3: like that, they weren't bringing the satisfaction that I would
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Speaker 3: look for because I was looking for something outside of myself.
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Speaker 3: Just as you had said, I had that experience and
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Speaker 3: now I'm in that space for Okay, Well, I don't
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Speaker 3: need those things anyways.
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Speaker 2: I never needed them anyways. The only thing I need
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Speaker 2: is all withinside of me. That's it.
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Speaker 3: But I didn't realize that, and I wouldn't have realized
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Speaker 3: that if I still had those escapes. Because I had escapes,
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Speaker 3: I had escape plans. There is an emergency switch right there.
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Speaker 3: Just get off the real quick, and it's like I
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Speaker 3: don't have to I don't Now it's not that way,
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Speaker 3: but it is exactly what you said is citying and
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Speaker 3: feeling those things, and it reminds me of us being
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Speaker 3: the little kids. We weren't allowed to ask questions. I
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Speaker 3: wasn't allowed to ask. You know, kids asked too much questions.
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Speaker 3: You're asking too many questions, and so a lot of
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Speaker 3: times I shut that down. And it's like crazy, I
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Speaker 3: could have been asking inside my head all the time
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Speaker 3: instead of asking outside of me. But we had learned
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Speaker 3: outside of it. We had learned to really on something
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Speaker 3: outside of us. We had learned to our parents that
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Speaker 3: were telling us, we need to do this so we
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Speaker 3: don't get hurt. Sometimes the parents weren't around, and so
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Speaker 3: you got hurt because we weren't trusting in our what
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Speaker 3: was inside of us, our own intuition, our own guidance,
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Speaker 3: our own fields, and then became afraid of the fields
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Speaker 3: because the people that were raising us, that were around us,
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Speaker 3: were afraid of their own feelings. And so we've learned.
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Speaker 3: I've learned so much. I was about to say, we've
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Speaker 3: learned so much. I know you have learned so much too,
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Speaker 3: but we have. There's been so there's been a lot
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Speaker 3: of growth from all that, and it's just recognizing I
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Speaker 3: don't have to operate from that kid anymore, which is
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Speaker 3: kind of unfolded in such a way because there was
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Speaker 3: a time you would talk about this stuff and I
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Speaker 3: would understand from the level that I could understand it.
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Speaker 3: And now I understand it so differently now than I
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Speaker 3: ever could have possibly understood it then, and it makes
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Speaker 3: that even much a deeper.
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Speaker 2: Sense inside of me.
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Speaker 3: And I am asking a lot of those questions, but
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Speaker 3: then you ask some more questions, and it's like that helps.
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Speaker 3: We need to hear people saying those kind of things
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Speaker 3: and talking about out loud, because it helps us.
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Speaker 2: You know that didn't have that.
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Speaker 3: Opportunity to be able to express ourselves and be able
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Speaker 3: to ask questions, to be able to learn how to
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Speaker 3: start opening up and asking questions. And now when I
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Speaker 3: ask questions, I'll ask questions outside of me and from
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Speaker 3: someone else. Before I would never have asked a question,
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Speaker 3: what do you mean?
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Speaker 2: What is that about?
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Speaker 3: Before I was thought well, I felt that I had
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Speaker 3: to know everything. You have to know these things, and
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Speaker 3: there was no way in hell that I could know
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Speaker 3: all those things. It's not possible. Just like you said
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Speaker 3: in the last recording, I didn't go to school to
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Speaker 3: be a doctor, So how could I teach people that way?
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Speaker 2: I didn't go to school to be a veterinarian, so
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Speaker 2: how could I be that way?
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Speaker 3: I don't have that knowledge that they have, but I
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Speaker 3: have my own knowledge and I have my own connection
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Speaker 3: with inside of me that brings forth whatever I need
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Speaker 3: in the moment. So it's just really it's BacT you
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Speaker 3: being reliant upon self, But it's not reliant upon self
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Speaker 3: because it's relying on a bigger There's so much something
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Speaker 3: bigger there than it is just the self. It's so
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Speaker 3: much bigger than the ego. We're so much more than
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Speaker 3: all those things. And then when we think in all
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Speaker 3: those in those ways from the ego, it's very limited.
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Speaker 3: The solutions are limited.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm.
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Speaker 1: I love the solutions when they're coming to me because
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Speaker 1: I've I've allowed myself to be in that space of
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Speaker 1: instead of focusing so much on the problem, what is
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Speaker 1: the solution? Well, if I think there's a problem, why
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Speaker 1: am I perceiving it as a problems? First of all, right,
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Speaker 1: start asking those questions and then okay, well what's a solution?
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Speaker 1: Because I'm not going to get anywhere with just focusing
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Speaker 1: on the problem. But This also comes to well, get
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Speaker 1: a pen and paper and start writing, because when you
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Speaker 1: when you start writing, information comes because you're right here,
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Speaker 1: right now, in this moment, asking.
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Speaker 2: For a solution.
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Speaker 1: And when I say ask, I'm asking Universe, God, angels, spirit.
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Speaker 1: It helped me with a solution, but I have to
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Speaker 1: be open to that solution. I have to be open
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Speaker 1: to receiving solutions to begin with. And if I'm too
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Speaker 1: far into the problem, then I'm not going to receive
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Speaker 1: a solution. And even if a solution came, I would
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Speaker 1: deny it because I'm still focused on the problem. I
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Speaker 1: can't receive the solution. So it just we just keep
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Speaker 1: coming back to it.
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Speaker 2: Just being right.
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Speaker 1: Now, be here, right now, and and being focused on
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Speaker 1: the problem is being stuck in my head.
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Speaker 3: It's being stuck in your head like you're being you're
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Speaker 3: you're operating from the old programming right.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, which it served its purpose at the time because
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Speaker 1: it didn't feel good, and we know that the way
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Speaker 1: the way we were before didn't feel good. And being
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Speaker 1: in the being problem focused, I'm being victim focused and saying, really,
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Speaker 1: there's no hope for me. There's no hope for me
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Speaker 1: because I can't get it right.
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Speaker 2: I'm not good enough.
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Speaker 1: This keeps happening, nothing goes right. How do I get
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Speaker 1: myself out of this? Well, I'm still focused on what's
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Speaker 1: wrong when really all of it in a sense, and
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Speaker 1: this may not resonate with some people right now, it
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Speaker 1: wouldn't have resonated with me if I had heard this
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Speaker 1: twenty or thirty years ago.
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Speaker 2: But in a.
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Speaker 1: Sense, all of it is relevant, all of it because
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't know any different unless I went through all
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Speaker 1: this crap stuff and the healing, but learning to be
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Speaker 1: in the present moment with myself and learn about myself
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Speaker 1: and grow in myself and listen. Like if I hadn't
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Speaker 1: done all of those things, of course we wouldn't be
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Speaker 1: having BEV would not be having this conversation with me.
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Speaker 1: Let's put it that way. I wouldn't be part of
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Speaker 1: this conversation.
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Speaker 2: Me neither. But that power is.
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Speaker 1: Within you, nobody. This is the most difficult thing. People
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Speaker 1: don't understand, and it took me a long time to
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Speaker 1: grasp it too. Nobody can do it for you. You
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Speaker 1: have to take the steps. You have to take the initiative.
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Speaker 1: Bev has to be the one to get up out
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Speaker 1: of bed. To grab a pen and paper and start
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Speaker 1: writing whatever's coming to her that's on her. Nobody's gonna
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Speaker 1: do it for her, and the benefits that she got
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Speaker 1: from doing it goes above and beyond her just staying
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Speaker 1: comfy in her bed. She got out of the box.
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Speaker 1: She's like, you know, I need to get up. I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna go do this.
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Speaker 2: She had to do.
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Speaker 1: That wasn't her partner laying in bed saying honey, go
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Speaker 1: write that stuff down that you're thinking about, because he
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Speaker 1: didn't know.
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Speaker 2: What she's doing.
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Speaker 1: So it's it's having the strength within yourself to make
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Speaker 1: the decisions the choices to it's just time to do
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Speaker 1: something different.
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Speaker 3: And we're so we get caught up in the princess
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Speaker 3: story right that someone's gonna come save us, and someone's
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Speaker 3: and that's that keeps us in a on a hamster
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Speaker 3: will because because nobody's gonna come save you, we.
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Speaker 2: Have to be the one to save ourselves.
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Speaker 3: And when you were saying that, my partner, Freeman is
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Speaker 3: not going to be like, oh, I'll go write that
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Speaker 3: down for you. Yeah, tell me what it was, I'll
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Speaker 3: write it down for you, because things get lost in translation.
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Speaker 3: So I was to conduit at that moment for the
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Speaker 3: information that I needed for me at that moment. That's
18:50
Speaker 3: what it was for. And we share the information and
18:54
Speaker 3: if someone needs it, or if someone wants to practice out,
18:57
Speaker 3: or they or maybe they take a spin off on
18:59
Speaker 3: it and figure out how to do something a little
19:01
Speaker 3: bit differently.
19:02
Speaker 2: It's perfect. It's everything as exactly as it's supposed to be.
19:05
Speaker 3: Even as you were saying all this stuff that we've experienced,
19:10
Speaker 3: I had to experience all that stuff. That's how I
19:12
Speaker 3: decided what feels good and what doesn't feel good. I
19:16
Speaker 3: think I've said this before. My my newest grandson brand
19:21
Speaker 3: the mom mom tells them, don't touch that it's hot, Well,
19:24
Speaker 3: he walks right over and touches it because he wants to,
19:27
Speaker 3: because it's his experience. He's not going to take the
19:29
Speaker 3: word of somebody else. He's going to have the experience.
19:31
Speaker 3: And now that he knows, Okay, that's what hot, that's
19:34
Speaker 3: what she's talking about. Okay, i'll bee it. I'll see
19:37
Speaker 3: how I manage things in the future. Still might touch
19:39
Speaker 3: something that's hot.
19:40
Speaker 1: It's okay, and we keep doing it throughout our life.
19:47
Speaker 2: It's true.
19:48
Speaker 1: We got to learn.
19:51
Speaker 3: And it's just the feeling part. That the feeling part
19:53
Speaker 3: is such a big deal to me. It's so it's
19:56
Speaker 3: so important, And I thought before, oh great, I can
19:59
Speaker 3: feel things. Who cares my feeling things is so important?
20:03
Speaker 3: I feel like I can. I can recognize if one
20:05
Speaker 3: of my animals are hurting, I can tune into them
20:07
Speaker 3: and feel those kind of things and then kind of
20:09
Speaker 3: figure out, okay, spirit what needs to be done, like
20:12
Speaker 3: how what's the what's the solution? Right, because now I'm
20:14
Speaker 3: open for solutions. I'm not staring at the problem. So
20:17
Speaker 3: it's useful and all aspects of our lives. It's not
20:20
Speaker 3: just useful in our conversation, and it's it's a matter
20:24
Speaker 3: of practicing it and just doing it.
20:28
Speaker 1: No matter how much you think you're going to get
20:30
Speaker 1: away from yourself, you're not.
20:33
Speaker 2: I've tried.
20:35
Speaker 3: Every time I like go, I'd go running off someplace
20:38
Speaker 3: and next thing you know, there she is again.
20:41
Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, you take you with you wherever you go.
20:44
Speaker 1: So if you think, if you think the cigarette is
20:48
Speaker 1: going to be the solution, no, as soon as you're
20:50
Speaker 1: not even through the entire process of smoking a cigarette,
20:55
Speaker 1: it's still all there, you and all the stuff, all
21:00
Speaker 1: the life experiences are still there if you think that
21:03
Speaker 1: the alcohol is going to be the solution now, because
21:09
Speaker 1: when you sober up, it's all still there.
21:12
Speaker 2: Like nothing changes.
21:14
Speaker 1: This is what they say, right, nothing changes till you change.
21:19
Speaker 2: You can't get away from it.
21:22
Speaker 3: And it feels so daunting that process, like you're as
21:25
Speaker 3: you're describing it, it feels so daunting. But when you actually
21:27
Speaker 3: when I actually got up and wrote, I felt great.
21:30
Speaker 3: I felt exhilarated, I felt uplifted, And when I went
21:33
Speaker 3: back to bed, I went back to sleep.
21:35
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was not a big deal.
21:36
Speaker 3: Otherwise would have I would have still probably been playing
21:38
Speaker 3: with the story in my head, or playing with the
21:41
Speaker 3: new words I found and creating and stuff like that.
21:44
Speaker 2: But I went right fast back to sleep, no problem.
21:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would have. You would have laid there and
21:49
Speaker 1: then sift through the information that you were receiving and
21:54
Speaker 1: processing information like you wouldn't have gone to sleep anyway.
21:57
Speaker 1: You would have and then probably been more tired when
22:00
Speaker 1: you got up.
22:01
Speaker 2: Yeah.
22:01
Speaker 3: Or the process that I was doing is like, okay, spirit,
22:05
Speaker 3: do I really need to get out of bed right
22:06
Speaker 3: now and go write this?
22:07
Speaker 2: Do down? This is this? Really? That?
22:08
Speaker 3: Should I should I right now? Like I'm asking questions
22:10
Speaker 3: when I've already like they're like, listen, we just gave
22:12
Speaker 3: you some information. You can do what you want with it, right,
22:14
Speaker 3: And I took the an incentive to get up out
22:18
Speaker 3: of bed and go actually follow through on it.
22:20
Speaker 2: And it felt good.
22:22
Speaker 1: It felt great, Yeah, good, yep, and the information comes.
22:28
Speaker 1: But you gotta be. You got to be. You have
22:32
Speaker 1: to have less happening in your head than what you're
22:36
Speaker 1: used to.
22:38
Speaker 2: That is not easy, That is not.
22:44
Speaker 1: So.
22:45
Speaker 2: I spent my whole life in that position. I really do.
22:48
Speaker 3: I feel like I've spent all my life in that
22:49
Speaker 3: position for such a long time, and now it's now
22:53
Speaker 3: I'm like stepping away from it because it's not necessary anymore.
22:58
Speaker 3: It kept me safe for fifty something yours. I don't
23:01
Speaker 3: need it anymore to keep me safe because I am safe.
23:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like, okay, I have calmer weather now.
23:12
Speaker 1: And so when somebody else is in their storm and
23:14
Speaker 1: their chaos and they got a tornado happening, I'm just like,
23:17
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, this is yours.
23:21
Speaker 2: You don't need to suck me into it.
23:25
Speaker 1: This is the way you feel that you need to
23:29
Speaker 1: operate from this type of space this is your programming,
23:33
Speaker 1: this is what you're used to, and I'm no longer
23:38
Speaker 1: used to that. So you go, do you, You go
23:43
Speaker 1: have your chaos, and I'm going to stay over here
23:46
Speaker 1: on the sidelines and watch you do it, because you're
23:48
Speaker 1: not ready to listen. For one, you're not ready to
23:51
Speaker 1: do anything different. You're not ready to be in the
23:55
Speaker 1: now and be with yourself and sift through these emotions
24:01
Speaker 1: that you're carrying. You're not You're just not ready to
24:03
Speaker 1: do any of that, and so your mode of operation
24:06
Speaker 1: is chaos. Well you go, do you, boo, because I'm
24:10
Speaker 1: just gonna hang out over here and hope that you
24:13
Speaker 1: get out of this experience, which you need to for
24:16
Speaker 1: your own growth. And you're a reminder for me of
24:22
Speaker 1: how much I enjoy my calm. So thank you for
24:25
Speaker 1: showing up and reminding me that I'm okay.
24:29
Speaker 2: Because my m used to be chaos.
24:32
Speaker 1: My MO was drama, my MO was victimization, and now
24:37
Speaker 1: that I'm not in that space, it shows up every
24:40
Speaker 1: once in a while. But now I'm not in that
24:42
Speaker 1: frequent space and I'm sitting back and I'm watching other
24:44
Speaker 1: people do it. You you go, because you're you are
24:50
Speaker 1: excellent at it and I no longer am, so I'm
24:54
Speaker 1: just gonna sit back and you you you remind me
24:57
Speaker 1: of what I'm no longer doing.
25:00
Speaker 3: Yep, I like it, so I'm yeah, you're okay, sorry,
25:07
Speaker 3: and just reminds me of like it's asking like again,
25:10
Speaker 3: it's just such a simple thing, but asking why is
25:12
Speaker 3: it showing up for me?
25:14
Speaker 2: Why is it showing up in my experience? Asking those
25:16
Speaker 2: questions because that was.
25:17
Speaker 3: Something that you would you would prompt me to and
25:21
Speaker 3: it's like not always could I get there from there?
25:23
Speaker 3: But I can now and it took practice, but I
25:26
Speaker 3: just stayed with it. You planned a seed a long
25:28
Speaker 3: time ago, and it's like it's finally come to fruition
25:31
Speaker 3: where I use that all the time, like I'm asking
25:33
Speaker 3: why is it showing up for me? And then that's
25:35
Speaker 3: so beneficial for the people that are willing to listen
25:38
Speaker 3: to you when they're going through their experiences and you
25:41
Speaker 3: talk to them and you're letting them know you know,
25:44
Speaker 3: instead of well it just happened recently, And it's like
25:47
Speaker 3: I said, well, instead of coming from perhaps a victim standpoint, recognizing,
25:53
Speaker 3: you know, why is it showing up for you?
25:54
Speaker 2: Not why is it why is this happening to me?
25:57
Speaker 3: Because then then you it empowers you disempowers the problem,
26:03
Speaker 3: and it empowers us. So that's been something frequently. And
26:09
Speaker 3: I even heard someone that i'd followed for a while
26:12
Speaker 3: now and she said that she had gone to Peru
26:14
Speaker 3: and she had had this situation and she said that
26:18
Speaker 3: at first she was like, you know, like totally caught
26:21
Speaker 3: her off guard by these people that she thought were
26:24
Speaker 3: her friends, and it turned out not to be so,
26:26
Speaker 3: and she instead of being in the victim place, she
26:29
Speaker 3: stopped and felt all the things, not felt it from
26:32
Speaker 3: the victim's standpoint, but just felt the actual energy of
26:35
Speaker 3: what she was feeling. And then she's moved through it
26:37
Speaker 3: so quickly because we need to feel things and we've
26:41
Speaker 3: just learned not to feel things because it was scary
26:44
Speaker 3: because those feelings could be out of control, but it
26:47
Speaker 3: doesn't last that long, and it can only be out
26:49
Speaker 3: of control if you're feeding.
26:50
Speaker 2: It with the mind. Yeah.
26:53
Speaker 3: I heard a process recently and I didn't send it
26:56
Speaker 3: to you. I probably will, but it was actually a skitch.
26:59
Speaker 3: The guy was like in a song and it was
27:01
Speaker 3: written and stimpy, and what it was like this guy
27:04
Speaker 3: was having this conversation. So it's like we get all
27:07
Speaker 3: these we get these downloads of all this information to go,
27:09
Speaker 3: want to go do these things, and all of a sudden,
27:11
Speaker 3: our mind starts getting.
27:12
Speaker 2: Activated and says, you can't do that, you can't do that.
27:15
Speaker 3: And it's like, how many times did I stop and
27:18
Speaker 3: listen to that voice and then not do it because
27:21
Speaker 3: I didn't think I could because I let myself talk
27:25
Speaker 3: myself out of it. I let my mind talk myself
27:27
Speaker 3: out of information that was valuable that was flowing to me,
27:30
Speaker 3: just like I could have let my mind talk myself
27:32
Speaker 3: out of getting up and writing down that information that
27:35
Speaker 3: for me was valuable for me. Yeah, that's so crazy,
27:40
Speaker 3: and it's so crazy when we get into these spaces
27:42
Speaker 3: how it shows up for you to walk through the process,
27:45
Speaker 3: and then in when you're helping someone else through the process,
27:47
Speaker 3: you recognize how it benefited you when you went through
27:50
Speaker 3: the same situations.
27:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, we are we are interesting creatures, for sure, Yeah,
28:02
Speaker 1: for sure. And that the best part, though, is to
28:05
Speaker 1: be interested in your creature, be interested in yourself, Be
28:10
Speaker 1: interested in why you do the things you do, how
28:13
Speaker 1: you do the things you do, the emotions you feel,
28:17
Speaker 1: and when things happen. Why am I feeling this way
28:22
Speaker 1: about this experience that doesn't even affect me, and I'm
28:25
Speaker 1: not even involved in it, but it's affecting me. Say
28:27
Speaker 1: with that, because it's a reminder of something you did
28:30
Speaker 1: experience and you just haven't done your healing. You may
28:33
Speaker 1: not have done your healing around it yet. And so
28:37
Speaker 1: every experience gives us an opportunity for self reflection. Whether
28:41
Speaker 1: you're involved in the situation or you're an observer of
28:44
Speaker 1: the situation, there is something for you to reflect on
28:50
Speaker 1: for your own inner strength and growth and learning. And
28:56
Speaker 1: it's going to be what you decided it's going to be.
29:01
Speaker 1: And I say these things in a sense of am
29:03
Speaker 1: I walking around with every person I see in every
29:06
Speaker 1: conversation I have that, oh I'm going to learn something? No,
29:09
Speaker 1: I don't think that. But I am very observant as
29:12
Speaker 1: to how am I feeling, How is this person talking,
29:17
Speaker 1: what are they saying to me? What am I saying
29:19
Speaker 1: to them back? Because it might be something that I'm
29:21
Speaker 1: saying out loud to them that I need to hear
29:23
Speaker 1: from myself, but it's coming from me. And that happens
29:27
Speaker 1: a lot when we're having these conversations for the tea time.
29:33
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, yeah, I needed to hear that. I
29:35
Speaker 1: need to be reminded of that. But if I'm not
29:39
Speaker 1: present with Bev when we're having the conversation, I would
29:42
Speaker 1: not hear the words that would click to be go
29:45
Speaker 1: oh yeah, that needs my attention.
29:48
Speaker 2: Oh I remember now. Yeah.
29:50
Speaker 1: I just had that and didn't do anything with it.
29:52
Speaker 1: And now I'm being reminded that I need to do
29:55
Speaker 1: something with it, because I'm going to show up again
29:57
Speaker 1: and it's going to keep showing up until I do
30:00
Speaker 1: some work around it. So all of it's okay. Wherever
30:05
Speaker 1: you are in life with yourself, it's okay. It's a
30:08
Speaker 1: processed None of us are none of us are perfect.
30:10
Speaker 1: None of us are getting it right. Where you can
30:13
Speaker 1: just keep doing better. That's my goal, just keep doing better.
30:19
Speaker 1: And I am not perfect at that. I falter on
30:22
Speaker 1: many occasions, and I learn from it and I recognize
30:27
Speaker 1: it sooner than I did before, and I don't stay
30:29
Speaker 1: in it like I used to. And so it's just
30:33
Speaker 1: a matter of where you're at with yourself. And if
30:36
Speaker 1: you want something to be different.
30:39
Speaker 2: You have a habit.
30:41
Speaker 1: You're overweight, your finances, aren't great, your relationships aren't great.
30:45
Speaker 1: Whatever it is, then make do something to make a change,
30:50
Speaker 1: and just a little step in one direction is the
30:53
Speaker 1: best thing you can do.
30:57
Speaker 3: And it's another form of giving and receiving really, because
30:59
Speaker 3: that's what when I'm processing instead of giving information all
31:02
Speaker 3: the time, allowing yourself to receive the information that's coming in.
31:07
Speaker 1: Well, when you achieve it is you got to implement it.
31:10
Speaker 1: Though there's a second step. Yeah, I receive it and
31:12
Speaker 1: I hear it. What am I going to do with it?
31:15
Speaker 2: Though?
31:15
Speaker 1: Am I gonna just gloss over it and say, oh yeah,
31:18
Speaker 1: I know, Oh yeah, yeah, I probably should do that.
31:24
Speaker 1: I've done that many times too in my life.
31:26
Speaker 2: So it doesn't end, well, no, it doesn't. It keeps
31:32
Speaker 2: you on the same cycle. Yep.
31:37
Speaker 1: So friends, if you want something to change, you gotta
31:41
Speaker 1: change it, and it starts with you, doesn't. It's not
31:45
Speaker 1: changing others, it's changing you. So just take something whatever
31:50
Speaker 1: you are learning. If you learn something from this video,
31:53
Speaker 1: the next step is implement. Start somewhere, take a step
31:58
Speaker 1: in a different direction. You have to get that momentum
32:03
Speaker 1: going for you because nobody else is going to do it.
32:05
Speaker 1: Like Bev said, Nobody is going to come rescue you.
32:08
Speaker 1: Nobody is going to come solve your problems. Nobody's going
32:11
Speaker 1: to to make the changes necessary for you to feel better.
32:16
Speaker 1: It's your job to do it, and it's your responsibility.
32:20
Speaker 1: So you got to start somewhere, So take the take.
32:24
Speaker 1: Maybe the easiest or simplest thing that you can think
32:27
Speaker 1: of right now, if you heard it in this video
32:28
Speaker 1: or read it in a book or heard it from
32:30
Speaker 1: a different influencer, is what could I start right now?
32:34
Speaker 1: Could I start right now and start doing it?
32:41
Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry?
32:43
Speaker 3: Oh yes, final words, it's it's taking your power back,
32:48
Speaker 3: because otherwise you're giving your power to something that you
32:51
Speaker 3: think that's out there, that's going to come savior, that's
32:53
Speaker 3: going to come do something for you. It's you taking
32:55
Speaker 3: your power back, you stepping into your power, and you
32:58
Speaker 3: following through and doing the things that you need to
33:00
Speaker 3: for yourself.
33:02
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're all figuring it out. So nobody's perfect
33:07
Speaker 1: at it, but we're gonna do it with the best
33:08
Speaker 1: we can and keep getting better. So with that, friends,
33:13
Speaker 1: other people around these conversations, so be resourceful. Share the
33:17
Speaker 1: content from here, share the links, whether it's us a
33:21
Speaker 1: book you've read, or another podcast. Wherever you're getting your information,
33:27
Speaker 1: share it so you can find us on many platforms.
33:31
Speaker 1: Of course, we're here on YouTube, we're on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Spreaker, Spotify,
33:37
Speaker 1: and podcast attic and so we're kind of kind of everywhere.
33:45
Speaker 1: We're everywhere and nowhere all at the same time.
33:49
Speaker 2: That's right.
33:53
Speaker 1: Thanks for hanging out with this tea time with Amy
33:55
Speaker 1: and Bed. We appreciate you and we wish you well.
33:57
Speaker 2: Take care bye,