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#252 You Wanna Do WHAT To My Baby?! · Two Doting Dads with Matty J & Ash

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  Speaker 1: Okay, good question for you. Before we started recording, we
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  Speaker 1: were talking about shoes. We're talking about feet.
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  Speaker 2: I love feet. Algorithm is just feet, all feet.
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  Speaker 1: At the moment, and I bet it's all bottoms of feet.
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  Speaker 1: I saw someone putting their hand through the soles of
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  Speaker 1: their feet and it was like, lou Dark like, this
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  Speaker 1: is enough Internet for me today. That's not enough for
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  Speaker 1: me anyway, speaking of Louby feet, do you kids get blisters?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? I think Marley is the blistery girl.
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  Speaker 1: So here's a question for you. You put a band
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  Speaker 1: aid on a blister, right, just they put a band
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  Speaker 1: out in the blister. Do you then put like vasoline
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  Speaker 1: or purpor cream on that and then the sock and
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  Speaker 1: the shoe?
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  Speaker 2: No? No, sock. Soccer is just so we're talking sandals.
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  Speaker 2: We'll go crocs. My kids living crocs at the moment.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so I know.
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  Speaker 2: The soccer is just they're so censory that are just
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  Speaker 2: absolutely for a crock. It'd send them. What about at school?
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  Speaker 2: They got to wear sho once with with the band
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  Speaker 2: aid on, They're fine. They can handle a sock and
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  Speaker 2: a shoe. Yeah, okay, what's gone on your household? Well?
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  Speaker 2: I learned early doors. That from Who do you want
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  Speaker 2: to start the show? Yes, welcome back to two notting dads.
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  Speaker 2: I am Mattie Jay and I'm Ash And this is
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  Speaker 2: a podcast all about.
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  Speaker 3: Feet, feet two men, four feet.
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  Speaker 2: It's called and also parenting. It's the goods. I've said
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  Speaker 2: that yet good bad and the feet and the feet
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  Speaker 2: talk to me? What have you learned? So there's a
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  Speaker 2: hack that I don't give advice.
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  Speaker 1: We don't give advice, but we'll give a hack, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And it's an old soccer boy hack.
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  Speaker 3: Is what you do is you put the band aid on.
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  Speaker 1: Of course you want to keep that shit safe, maybe
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  Speaker 1: kill the germs something on underneath it, but it's embedding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.
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  Speaker 1: Or the powder, whatever your preference is. Powder, there's powder
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  Speaker 1: and then you go band aids sock and then vassoline
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  Speaker 1: and or poor pork cream on the sock on the
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  Speaker 1: sock so the sock does the slipping on the shoe
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  Speaker 1: and not the back of the foot. Before your poop
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  Speaker 1: poo me and shake your head.
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  Speaker 2: I know I would never poop poo. It fucking works.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, Like I remember when someone told me this a
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  Speaker 1: young whipper snapper to do that and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: and then I did it.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't had a blister. I haven't had a blister.
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  Speaker 2: It's twenty five years. Is it preventative or is it
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  Speaker 2: kenby both?
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  Speaker 1: If you've got new soccer cleats, you can, or if
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  Speaker 1: you've got new shoes and you're like, fuck, they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: give me a blister.
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  Speaker 2: Put a bit of vasso on the sock. Okay, let
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  Speaker 2: the sock do the slipping. Let the sock take the brunt.
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  Speaker 1: I've always said that, Let the sock do the slipping
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  Speaker 1: in the shoe and let the feet do the walking.
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  Speaker 2: There he is there, he is put a T shirt ashwicks,
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. We could wrap the show right now,
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  Speaker 2: Is it right?
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  Speaker 4: Up?
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  Speaker 2: Is that it?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think anyone's going to be what else we've
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  Speaker 2: got to talk about it?
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  Speaker 4: Then?
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  Speaker 2: All de side. Actually, I have to Vic. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want you to be worried here. I don't want you
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  Speaker 2: to be concerned however, but I'm going to be honest
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  Speaker 2: right now and let you know that your husband is
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  Speaker 2: at home with my mom right now.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And although it's post shoulder injury, so she's not as
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  Speaker 1: strong as she used to be.
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  Speaker 2: But then Dan has a bad knee, so I didn't
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  Speaker 2: get any footage of it. But Dan has been at
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  Speaker 2: my house for a couple of days now, last week,
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  Speaker 2: a few days back to back.
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  Speaker 3: You just look him up in the basement after them, and.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have to know he's having a good day ignoring.
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  Speaker 2: So my mom lives with us in case anyone is unfamiliar.
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  Speaker 2: And if there's one thing that she likes doing, it's
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  Speaker 2: just it's looking after other people. Not herself, but other people.
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  Speaker 2: And she offered down a cup of tea on day one,
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  Speaker 2: and then he accepted.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, you've set the bar.
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  Speaker 2: And then she offered another cup of tea. But she
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  Speaker 2: also accepted and also complimented my mum on her teamaking.
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  Speaker 2: She's she's well for English. So the tea for her
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  Speaker 2: is like life, right, It's one of the most important
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  Speaker 2: jobs imaginable. And so by him saying great cup of tea,
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  Speaker 2: he's happening six cups a day. That's an affair. And
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  Speaker 2: do you know what has happened after that? Then on
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  Speaker 2: top of the tea, she's added in biki banana bread.
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  Speaker 2: It's close, very close.
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  Speaker 4: I mean to say to someone like that that you're
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  Speaker 4: good at making a cup of tea is like the
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  Speaker 4: highest compliment, and Dan can drink like ten or twelve
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  Speaker 4: cups a day.
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  Speaker 3: I'm starting to think that they are like a perfect match.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm single now enjoy it. Maybe not now, but
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  Speaker 2: could happen soon. Could Yeah, he's got two more days
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  Speaker 2: at my house, and I think that's all he needs.
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  Speaker 2: It could be. Yeah, that's it. I said to Nada,
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  Speaker 2: Just be careful because he's you're going to be paying
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  Speaker 2: him to drink tea. You sit around and drink tea
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  Speaker 2: with your mum, I reckon.
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  Speaker 4: That's his favorite part of the job. He always comes
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  Speaker 4: home and tells me, guess what they gave me today?
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  Speaker 4: Not just the Johnson's, but whichever house is at because
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  Speaker 4: there's always an old lady or an old man or
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  Speaker 4: someone who loves to wait on him.
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  Speaker 2: And then do you know what happened on Friday? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: normally on a Friday, they'd be leftovers. On this occasion,
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  Speaker 2: it was chili konng khanni, which I was very excited
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  Speaker 2: for from the Thursday Thursday, I was gonna have that
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  Speaker 2: for my lunch. Come down the stairs. Who do I
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  Speaker 2: see sitting there outside? With a cup of tea, banana
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  Speaker 2: bread and a bot of chilikon Khannie and both of
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  Speaker 2: you need to watch out. And my mom was like,
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  Speaker 2: leve me with some yogurt on there a avocado. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, it's like a wrong con And then I
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  Speaker 2: look back and they're fucking there's a wrong com happened.
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  Speaker 2: So I've left them by themselves.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we better check in after this. I se if
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  Speaker 1: everyone's kept them hands for themselves.
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  Speaker 2: But he's doing a great job. Yeah, like I said,
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  Speaker 2: post surgery, she's not as strong as.
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  Speaker 4: She used to be. She probably is enjoying feeling wanted again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's it.
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  Speaker 1: If she likes to, if she likes to make sure
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  Speaker 1: everyone's okay having someone else there and be like tea.
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  Speaker 2: He cleaned some of the papers and it looked good,
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  Speaker 2: absolutely no question about it. It did look good. But
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  Speaker 2: my mom was like, it's the.
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  Speaker 1: Done.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, how did you do it? Did?
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  Speaker 1: He walk hero ound like this too with her eyes
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  Speaker 1: covered up and was like ready one, two, three.
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  Speaker 2: He got rid of a couple of leaves and she
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  Speaker 2: was like, I can't believe it's the same house. I know, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you've eliminated all the leaves in the neighborhood. It's crazy,
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  Speaker 2: you're amazing. Who taught you this? Dad? I can see
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  Speaker 2: her being like, who taught you how to do that?
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  Speaker 2: So he's doing a great job. Also did a great
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  Speaker 2: job at your house?
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  Speaker 3: He did, yes.
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  Speaker 1: So when April was away, he came finished the floors.
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  Speaker 1: There was some skirting that everyone seemed to point out
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  Speaker 1: in my videos that needed to be fixed. April said, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so glad they're not commenting that anymore.
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  Speaker 3: When she was away, I was like, Okay, what can
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  Speaker 3: I do for her?
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  Speaker 2: She's away?
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  Speaker 1: What can I do for Probably just the thing she's
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  Speaker 1: been asking me to do for ages, which is that
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  Speaker 1: got her card details. She came out to a clean
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  Speaker 1: household some fresh skirting boards.
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  Speaker 2: Can I just say? Brent in the Facebook group was like,
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  Speaker 2: those skirting boards are looking much better, mate, I know
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  Speaker 2: they're not actually attached. People were noticing that.
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  Speaker 4: Dan, I couldn't not notice after you pointed it out,
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  Speaker 4: it was the only thing I could look at it.
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  Speaker 2: To go back to the previous post, It's like, did
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  Speaker 2: you change locations because of the skirting?
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  Speaker 5: Because you did a couple of bedroom I need a bedroom,
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  Speaker 5: so Avery wouldn't see what I was doing the way anyway,
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  Speaker 5: the big hole in the ceiling behind everyone's like, oh
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  Speaker 5: my god, I can't watch these videos.
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  Speaker 1: No, it was the cord that what's not wrong in
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  Speaker 1: the fucking house. But the intercom that we have, because
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  Speaker 1: it's it is technically a unit, we have an intercom,
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  Speaker 1: but it hasn't been plugged in for so long that
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  Speaker 1: I've like lost it.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, do you need it?
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  Speaker 1: I'm quite enjoying my life without it, if I'm honest.
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  Speaker 1: Because it's so loud that the dog barks. I've tried
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  Speaker 1: to turn it down. It's down to its lowest. And
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  Speaker 1: then the front gate that it's actually attached to is nice.
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  Speaker 3: Of the time it's open.
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  Speaker 1: I went down there the other day because someone was
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  Speaker 1: delivering something and they're like, I'm out the front. I'm like, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: the gate's never locked. And also the fence you've seen
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  Speaker 1: the fence where the visitor parking is, it's up to
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  Speaker 1: like your knee you.
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  Speaker 2: Could just step over.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, I'll come down, and the
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  Speaker 3: gate was open.
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  Speaker 1: He was standing there, so come within the property, like
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  Speaker 1: I'm right here, and we're the first door is not
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  Speaker 1: that hard, but I'm enjoying not having it, especially because
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  Speaker 1: I eat quite late and it's always Uber Eats and
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  Speaker 1: if they dig the bar, the.
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  Speaker 3: Buzza fucking kids wake up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a nightmare. So you have to say delivery notes.
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  Speaker 2: I do have it on there, they ignore it.
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  Speaker 1: And also what happened is Uber Eats relocated my pickup
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  Speaker 1: pin and I can't change it. So now's to the
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  Speaker 1: back of the building and the driveway goes right around bustard.
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  Speaker 2: What are you ordering? What's your go to order?
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  Speaker 1: I just mixed between a few different things. Gusey, you
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  Speaker 1: Love's on the list, the Greek Place, Oh, that's right
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  Speaker 1: up there.
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  Speaker 2: At the moment, those two are a big pizza guy.
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  Speaker 1: Not all the time, because I because I put on
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  Speaker 1: like fucking like six kilos at the start of winter.
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  Speaker 2: From that sort of looking great.
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  Speaker 1: The moment I've lost April went away and came back
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  Speaker 1: and I've lost three and a half kilos.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was going to say, have you last weight?
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  Speaker 2: And you got a beanie and you got a beanie
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  Speaker 2: on today?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah it was the wind was cold.
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  Speaker 1: Wind was cold this morning, and I was like where anyway, No,
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  Speaker 1: one wants to hear about this ship. This is my
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  Speaker 1: general conversations. Guys, no one wants to We're recording this.
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  Speaker 2: For people to enjoy. No one's enjoying this, Yeah they are, okay.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, So I was just wearing a red little
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  Speaker 2: beanie not covering the ears I never cover the ears,
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  Speaker 2: and a black T shirt I have.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have the best hearing it the best of times.
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  Speaker 1: Little imagine covering my ears. Nightmare, A nightmare, like what
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  Speaker 1: you're like, Nana.
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  Speaker 2: Ash Ush's I know you don't want to hear the
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  Speaker 2: word sends a shiver down your spine. Just think it's
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  Speaker 2: taking over.
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  Speaker 3: I'm waiting, do you know what I'm waiting for? Hear
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  Speaker 3: me out?
• 9:36
  Speaker 2: These things have cycles? Yes, okay, where are we at
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  Speaker 2: the cycle?
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  Speaker 1: The cycle at the moment is where it's still kind
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  Speaker 1: of like, oh, the kids are having a good time
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  Speaker 1: until we get the news articles and it's like landfill
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  Speaker 1: overtaken by ushes.
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  Speaker 2: Surely Woolworths has to put out some kind of statement
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  Speaker 2: to say that it's made from recycled bags or like
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  Speaker 2: bottle caps or something, because I remember, I remember back
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  Speaker 2: in the day when she first came out the first,
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  Speaker 2: and we would have a couple in the house, the
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  Speaker 2: kids would have one or two. It was a beautiful time, right,
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  Speaker 2: it was great. We were enjoying it. Now the currency
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  Speaker 2: Now I've fucking opened my under drawers, or she's there in.
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  Speaker 1: The shower's there all through my bed.
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  Speaker 2: They're fucking everywhere in the car and even the kids
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  Speaker 2: are like, we're trying to get rid of the ushes. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Did you see any footage of the swap feet the
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  Speaker 1: met up?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they had the meet up at Willis.
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  Speaker 2: They had Big Wi and Woolworths. There was one on
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  Speaker 2: August eight, which was just gone one to two. It
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  Speaker 2: was heaving, heaving.
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: Did you see that Cole's sort of found a dead rat.
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: In the That's the last thing they need right now.
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  Speaker 2: I heard a picture of you was there? No?
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  Speaker 6: I was like, good protein cols are like, we can't
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  Speaker 6: compete with the ushes.
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  Speaker 2: What have we got? The dead rats in there? Literally
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  Speaker 2: in the packet. Yeah, that's how they're competing against the
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  Speaker 2: aushes collected dead rat.
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  Speaker 1: And they went the was it way, Let's just completely
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  Speaker 1: tank us then the people will come and.
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  Speaker 2: Feel sorry for us. Collect all dead rodents, get the
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  Speaker 2: full set. No, they just got like Bill b Rat
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  Speaker 2: what roads.
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  Speaker 1: Cook Flying Fox now or a sugar Gotter.
• 11:14
  Speaker 2: I don't want to sound like a legend here, but
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  Speaker 2: I got a message from Disney and they said, do
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  Speaker 2: you want do you want Sush's Disney? Yeah, because the
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  Speaker 2: Disney Disney Disney Ushy or she Disney, well they always
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  Speaker 2: or she Disney or she Disney Disney Ushy. Okay, they
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  Speaker 2: offered me a full set. That's just cheating. I know.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't accept it. I couldn't accept Oscar's like a
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  Speaker 2: couple off a full set.
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  Speaker 1: But it's that's what I mean. They're like turned into currency.
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  Speaker 1: They even breathe these fucking things.
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  Speaker 2: There's one that I don't know which one it is,
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  Speaker 2: but there's one that's really hard to get. It's forty
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  Speaker 2: five thousand dollars apparently, is what it's worth right now.
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  Speaker 4: Still for one hundred million.
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: No, that can't be right one hundred what wait in
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  Speaker 2: a second.
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  Speaker 4: An ultra rare Woolworth Disney Ushy, originally listed for thirty
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  Speaker 4: two thousand on eBay, is claiming a whole one hundred
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  Speaker 4: million dollars sale price and the online auctions closed.
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  Speaker 2: Guys, Come on, no, that's it's not true.
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  Speaker 4: The listing for an ushi rare bullseye flocked now states
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  Speaker 4: sold with a winning bid of AU one hundred million dollars.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if that's included in the little pack that
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: Disney were going to send me. Maybe I will accept it. Yeah, surely. Actually,
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: you know what, Disney, send it over, send us to
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  Speaker 2: go on.
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  Speaker 4: It's a little donkey Okay.
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: This is this is getting out of country.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: We need to all collectively as humans take one good
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  Speaker 1: look in the mirror and go what are we doing
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  Speaker 1: with ourselves? Because this that's ridiculous. That's condiculous.
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  Speaker 2: It's gone. It's like the la booboo little boo boo
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  Speaker 2: thing that came like that was just like what, like
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: what do we I think we're getting dumber?
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  Speaker 4: Sorry, if you've got a hundred million dollars, you should
• 12:45
  Speaker 4: be helping charity or.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, produce poverty or something, world peace. Thank you.
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: Someone's like, do you know what? Do you know what? Honey,
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  Speaker 2: all that money that I've made over the years, I
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: bought anushy Let's end world hunger. How have you seen
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  Speaker 2: this ushi fuck that?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, exactly, surely it can't go I get
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  Speaker 3: any more about it. What's the purpose of that?
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  Speaker 2: The kids were shocking to learn that you could put
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  Speaker 2: them on the end of a pencil.
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  Speaker 3: That's what they're for.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: I keep That's what I keep looking at.
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  Speaker 1: I know. And Oscar's like, no, it's not like bro,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thirty six, I know. I know a lot, Sun,
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  Speaker 1: I know that what goes in there and it's a pencil.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't go to that met chaos.
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  Speaker 2: Don't start accusing me. No, you didn't ask it. It
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  Speaker 2: wasn't accusing. You didn't go to the point me like that.
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  Speaker 2: I thought about it. Will I go to one? Probably?
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  Speaker 4: What?
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: Don't look at me like that? Fuck you guys. I
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  Speaker 2: can do what I want.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, you buy all means go?
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: But why would you want to?
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  Speaker 4: I thought you would just be too much crowds.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that makes me so angry.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like a disorganized Q think think of the
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  Speaker 2: memories of that. Yeah, just take snacks and talk me
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  Speaker 2: off the ledge. Take a shurpa.
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  Speaker 4: It'll be a very disorganized queue. It'll be chaos.
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  Speaker 3: Imagine the meltdown.
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  Speaker 2: Are you are you guys trying to go to one
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  Speaker 2: and make me not us? We got nonswer.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, the only thing I really like about him
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  Speaker 1: is using them to get the kids to do things.
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  Speaker 2: It is good for that. It is good for that.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: Moving right along, but sticking with big w Ash.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: When did we just created your own seguech can you
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: come and acknowledge that speaking with the overarching chain of willies,
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: I thought that was quite clever.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: Not as good as my tooth one?
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: Was?
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: That one was not my best I had. Yeah, I
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: had a saw tooth once. I'm not feeling well and
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: I was like.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: Yeaheah, yeah I can't. I genuinely can't pee well my tooth.
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: Thirds Have you got those results back?
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: I haven't been because I've been single parenting.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I plan to do it this week.
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: Actually, just before I talk about this message from Mattie Lloyd.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: It can wait. April's back.
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: It is good to have April back, but it is
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: it's that too, those pickies. It's been a big weekend,
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: was it No?
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Was it?
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: No? No, we're busy.
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: It is good to have it back, just because heaps
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: of reasons.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Everything is a team sport.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: It is a team sport.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: It's a team. Yeah, you need your team. And also
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: sex is pretty good. Sex is damn good.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: But also, yeah, I do feel for I do feel
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: how single parents do it. It's a lot, I will say,
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: but I guess you would also build up stamina. I
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: was faton towards the end, and I'll tell you on Wednesday,
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Wiles and some of the things.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: All right, this is from Mattie Lloyd Ash. I want
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: to hear a quick little shout out because she informed
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: us that not only the Big W pre sell had
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: sold out for your Kid's book, but went into Big
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: W and managed to get the very last book in
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: store because they have sold out again. Am I doing
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: a podcast with Taylor Swift ash Wicks.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: And I can't tell sarth the RAS tour? Honestly do
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: they check out the back?
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: I haven't been into a Big W yet. I've got
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: I've had a few futs.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: So yeah, First of all, thank you Maddie, I thank
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: you everyone that has purchased the book.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: Good feedback so far?
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: Is it flying up the book charts?
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Is there a book chart? Yeah?
• 15:58
  Speaker 7: What the fuck?
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Where have you know? I just think these things go
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: out to the ethos and I move on with my life.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Pay attention man, Well, honestly, I forgot that I was
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: even writing it at one stage.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: I don't know where the book chats are, but we'll
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: find out.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: I told you the other day I left the house
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: with no shoes on. Yes, still think how did I
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: do it? But anyway, the book, thank you, Yes it
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: does that. I literally got in the car halfway to
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: pick up a mate with Oscar.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: I was like, Oscar, you're not going to believe this.
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: What I don't have any shoes on?
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: But anyway, book Big w tembarks. I don't know where
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: else you can get it. You can get it from
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: Amazon allso and stuff. So thank you Utopia, but Big W'
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: is the cheapest for some reason. But I've had a
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: few photos of people buying it. So thank you, thank you,
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: thank you. Do you want to go into next yes,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: the next one, Matt. This is from a Dodor and
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: you are being officially warned before. This is from dev
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: Hi deb easy spelling easy short.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Now, as we often do, shout out to Jericha Jerica.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I think Debbie is short for Debrica. Debica could be
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: a bunch of things. Actually, can I just say quickly
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: if you have a weird name? Actually, sorry, Jerk, I's sorry.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: If you've got a weird name. If you sorry, if
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: you have to find weird Matthew, you have interesting spelling
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: of your names. Surprising spell Thank you, well said. Send
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: us a message, please not that we love the debs.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: We love the debs, We love the SAMs, love the toms.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: We thought about changing the the B to a different
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: letter like defica.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you are a Defica, We've got jericha defica.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: Send us in the rest.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you were being warned, Matthew.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Matt you scared me.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: If you're teaching your girls left right left when crossing
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: the road, as it's look right, left right, Look that's
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: an easy mistake to make, or we'll be honest, because.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: If they're looking left, you're right, they're looking the wrong.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Depends what is there left? My left? That depends which
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: way you're crossing? Which way am I looking for children? Okay,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I've got it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: Depends what country you're in.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Yes, depends, thank you, which am I looking at the
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: kid directly? Or am I behind the kid? Is it
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: there left or my life? We cross road, I'm upside down.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's look right left right makes a big difference,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: does it fair?
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Fair?
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Perhaps that's why they're not good at being your eyes
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: when on the bike.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: So now she's very accustive. That's enough. I've never commented
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: it on a pod before. I know why.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I know why, probably never do it again, but felt
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: like it was worth saying, well it love the podcast though.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: You guys are hilarious. Okay, thank you. That is very
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: valid feedback. Right, left right. I apologize.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because when you go to a different country,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: like I do it too, where I look the wrong way,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: especially in America, because I just think like they're just
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: like us, but they're not. And when it like in
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Vegas a few times, I was like going to step
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: up and then someone's beat to the other side.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: I'm my god. I have been riding the bike in
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Germany and I was going pretty fast and I went
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: to jump from the footpath onto the road and I
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: looked the wrong way and I jumped onto the road Uckily.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: There were no cars. But it was only when I
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: was on the road that I was like, holy fuck,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: if there was a car there, I would have been. Yeah,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: it's easy done. It's an easy mistake to make.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: So right, let me get this straight. Right left right, right, left, right, got.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: It moving along. Better feedback from our Brazilian listeners about
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: kids parties.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: If the Brazilian community, no, I think it's Matthias.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Here says, that's such a Brazilian name, is it German?
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Give me a more Brazilian name? There he is. But
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Mattia says, a party is a party.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: That's it, well well said.
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: Can't argue with that.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: You cannot argue with that. It's not just for the kids,
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: It's for the whole family and friends and everyone who's
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: meaningful to the child to come together. Laura also says
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: a lot of feedback on the Brazilian parties. My partner
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: is Brazilian. And make sure you were there for the
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: happy Birthday singing, as I think that's a requirement of
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: all children's birthday parties.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: I've never missed it.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: It's bad management if you're not there for the happy birthday.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Hate cutting. But she says in Portuguese it is epic.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: April did take Oscar to the Brazilian barbecue slash Portuguese
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: festival slash lasted all day party.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: And I remind people what was unique about it?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: It was like six hours long. Yeah, it was like
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: ten toll three or something nine three. I think there
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: was something like and obviously like they do celebrate in numbers.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Feedback from April, well, we were told.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: By others, yes, it's a long part, but you don't
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: have to be there for the whole thing.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: These are the ideal.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Was that is that a test though? It's like, you
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: don't have to save the whole thing, but we'll know
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: when you leave or not jump up.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: But April took Oscar. They did do the Portuguese Happy Birthday.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: April was like the kids pretended to sing it as
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: well because they wanted to fit in.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: So that's fair.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Should we have a listen? I'm not familiar so on
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: that my amazing thinks that she can speak Spanish because
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: she reckoned she can sing bad bunny. I have a
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: fake language that I speak with my kids. Oh, what's
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: the purpose of a fake language? Just a bit of fun, fun,
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: bit of fun.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: Real.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: It's like.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: That just sounds Russian.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: He's a bit Russian. It's very like. And they speak
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: to me and Laura is not in on it, and
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: she tries to like, well, can you just butt out
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: the conversation here? Did you guys see what you said?
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: And then I was like we kind of like, so
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: brush your teeth, I'd have to say your lola, I'd say.
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: Wow to a child is like brush you.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Anything to like it's giving taken, just to spice up
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: the routine. It's giving taken.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: One like the accent of the what do they call them? They?
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: I do sometimes wonder work with the park and I
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: we sometimes, you know, this fake language that we speak
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: is creeping out of the household into the public realm,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: and I do wonder we speak at it at the park.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I'm like, wonder if people think like they're European, wonder
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: what they're like from Bosnia. You're in the Bosnian daily Mail,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: one of the adultings. Here's every birthday. A Portuguese version.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Enjoy it, okay, instantly much better than our version. That's
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: as instantly much better than our version. If that's not
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: it to the Brazilian and Portuguese community, run with whatever
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: that So.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: We got this shitty We don't even have any instruments
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: for ourbum They've got Reaver.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: That was just they've got Reaver that was an ad
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: for some software. Anyway, this is es it and this
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: is the real version that's still way better. Wont they're happy? Yeah?
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: No matter six hours. I wonder how long the kick
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: ons go for ye, I'll fait it out hang on.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I feel like as a community we are lazy because
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: that like happy birthday for us in English is like, oh.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: That's better.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I will say for my next birthday, I want.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: That a little bit high pitched. It's like they've had
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: healing though the pre the pre ramble. I'm sure.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like to get people because if someone.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Was to sing it in full like traditional circumstance, not here,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: there's probably like more like more hyping up version.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Just before we move on away from happy birthdays. Apparently
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: no hip hip hoorahe In America, yeah, they aren't really
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: sure about it? Are they like not to be sure
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: about it? Is it? They don't want to be too gleeful.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you're American? What happened? Why is
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: it just American? Okay, here we go. Do the Canadians
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: do it?
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Because I feel like I'm sure we resonate more they
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: do it than they give you one of us.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Then they just give you the dick to their house.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we love Do you know what happened last night.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Too much sleep? What do you mean I fell asleep?
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Can I just stop you for one second? I don't
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: know if that's the right audience to complain about too
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: much sleep on. I don't know if we're sure the
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: one time. Are you going to get much sympathy? I
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: don't know, but take it away?
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: What do you?
• 24:31
  Speaker 7: No?
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: No, just there was there was an out, There was
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: an external complaint. I am too awake right now. I'm
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: not used to going to spend that early that I
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: woke up this morning. I was like, so frazzled. How
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: did you get to bed nice before nine? Should we
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: cut of done? Dilemmas? Now you need us more than ever.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Know that we still have each other.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: You can send doting dilemma, you canting dilemma. Ella Ella
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: ed emma emmabrella ella man.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I go first.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: This is from a Megan. I know this has probably
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: been it's a Megan Agan. Yeah, Omegan, welcome, Just Meghan,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: no a, This is from the Megan. I know this
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: has probably been ranted about before. In fact, I'm sure
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: someone has done this recently.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: But this happened to me twice today. This can't be good.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: If it happened twice.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Why do people feel the need to reach over me
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: or my prem to touch my baby. We definitely talked,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: We've definitely talked about this a few times, but it's
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: definitely worth reminding people.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: I hate when people reach over, but if they want
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: to reach around, I'm fine with that, very good. Because
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: of the hand job, Vic, that's a hand job joke.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: It is a handdog lots of spit. My initial.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Don't talk about sex jokes around me, big guy, don't
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: even started.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: It's a hobby of mine. My initial knee jerk reaction,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: she said, jerk, just make that up. That's Jesus.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: My initial knee jerk reaction is to swat the hand away,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: not mine. All right, we didn't get back on track,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: back on track, back on track, back on track.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Is seriously and Megan's flipping out right now, She's like,
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: I need answers.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: She does need answers.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: We'll get that.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Let us talking about jerking off. My initial knee jerk
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: off reaction is to swat the hand away. But today
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I settled for.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Just the head.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry guys, sorry, sorry, don't you apologize, but.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: My but today I settled for no, don't touch her.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know you? Thanks good for you or did
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: you say in your head like I do?
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Sadly, the second woman managed to grab a foot. Sadly,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: the second woman managed to grab a foot before I
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: could body block.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: Her from my pram. Now you're in the walls out here.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: But in my mind, if I walked.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Up to a stranger and grabbed their foot cheek without knowing,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: then I'd expect to be swatted or punched away.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: I know it's a generational thing. Am I being too precious?
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: No?
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: Do we know if that was an honor or not?
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: I bet you it was, the need to bet it was.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Actually credit to the honors, they've heard the message. Lola
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: was approached by an honor who we didn't know and
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: was like, oh good you, good you and didn't like it.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Since we out of the honors, they've been very good.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: How many honors you coming into contact.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: With a lot, a lot big Nona community in bond
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: I remember I remember going back a couple of years.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: We were down at the beach, but we're on a
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: park bench and you know when you're kind of like
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: packing up and you're like getting all the kids ready,
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: and we bumped into a one a Laura's friend had
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: a baby in a pram. So I was sitting there
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: with chatting I have a lovely time by the beach,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: and she had a beautiful baby in her pram and
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: a lady walked past and was like, oh my god,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: like such beautiful children, and we're like, oh, thank you
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: so much. And then she then picked up the kid
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: and the pram and was like, oh my god, like
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: held her and I just assumed they knew each other. Yeah,
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: I assume they were friends. Would and she assumed that
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: we were friends with her, and so then after a
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: couple of minutes, she was like, anyway, I gave the
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: baby back, and I was like, bye, guys, have a
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: good day, walked off, and we're both like she your friend. No,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: we're like much so fucking weird Raisin praising. Imagine just
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: walking into someone's house and being like, oh, that's a
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: nice dinner.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna for the record, I don't want to touch
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: any babies, just so you know, because like people was
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: a baby okay, cool, there's no urge for me.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: To be like k because I have the urge and
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: because we are friends, careful, I have the urge. If
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: you go to my house. I would get enjoyment of
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: you holding my child.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: You know it's you, Yeah, thank you, it's it's it's
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: someone if it's someone I'm not as close to or
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: don't even know, Like the last thing I want to
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: do is touch your baby.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm more inclined to touch your dog.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: You do, like I'm inclined to touch your penis. I'm
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: more inclined to turn to pat your dog. I think
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: does it stem from that people like like a pat
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: of dog, I'm a pat your baby. I don't know.
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: Maybe, I mean, I definitely get the urge to touch
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: people's babies, but I put my hands problem hands behind
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: my back, So then it's like it's a little assigned
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: to hey, like, don't get tempted.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow, you got a problem. You've got to
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: physically stop yourself from touching.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: You've got to physically stop yourself from touching babies.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: That sounds she travels with handcuffs and she's like, damn,
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: put them on. She's drooling.
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: It's like a physical cue I give to my brain
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: to like not touch because I really want to, and like,
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: if my hands are here, I'm just gonna want.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: To go like you just love kids. I love babies.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I photograph babies like job, part of your job. I
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: feel like paying you to take the photos.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: There's probably a good chance you're going to touch their baby.
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: That's probably why I settle the baby for them. So
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: that's why I love holding babies.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: You get a kick out of the settling. I just
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: love it. I don't hate.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: That's the worst part.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: Like not to sound weird, this is going to everyone
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: before this is I would never do this to a
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: child who I didn't know the parents. Why are you
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: winking at me?
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: But there is like.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: It's like the dog thing, you know, if they're like,
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: oh gosh, the dog normally barks and it hates men,
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: but it's loving you. It's like the child if you can, like,
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: if a child enjoys your being in your arms or
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: you're up to sue that child, you feel like a god.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: True it needs to be of someone close to me,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: of course. Yeah. Like no, someone's like, oh, they got
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: a baby, I'm like cool. I think it's the I
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: know we have a lot of boomers who listen and
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: they don't like it when I come for them. So
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: this is not attacking all boomers, but I do think
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: it is an older person thing.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Is how many men are doing this.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: It's a grandma thing, the grand grand marketing.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: But it's the grandpas that are making comments that they
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: shouldn't go on. So when I had Lily, I got
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: told by Grandpa, oh, you should have ear rings in
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: her ears or dress her in pink so that we
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: can tell she's a girl.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Wow. I was sorry.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: I didn't realize it was my responsibility to make you
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: feel good about you said that.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: No. I had the argument again in the shower later
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: on that night, and I won.
• 31:31
  Speaker 8: When you replay like, oh god if I had so
• 31:37
  Speaker 8: true in the moment, you're like, oh, I'll get them
• 31:41
  Speaker 8: piers tomorrow.
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: Because again that he doesn't mean any bad will buy it.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: But I was just like, fuck, I know, I know
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: we should on the boomers, but it's warranted.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: Once again a message out there to the whole, to
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: the world. Every few months, we've got to put this message.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: We have to if we don't do what no one
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: else will. The government's not going and touching other people's kids.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: You stop it right now. Stop it now. Unless you
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: know the mum and dad not touching, you're making us
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: all look bad. We all get grouped into human being humans.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Touch a dog, Touch a dog. Find a dog. If
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: you feel the urge and you can't put your hands
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: behind your back, like VIC, find a dog, touch it.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: If you start sniffing the dog, you've gone too far. Yes,
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: good question. Next one. Okay, this one is from Harrison.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Could be the same Harrison that I was on I'm
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: a celebrity with sure, He says, Hi, guys, I'm a
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: first time listener. First time listener. Flag it next. Next,
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: give us some decent first time listener and a dad
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: with a two year old son, and he's genuinely my world.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: That's cute, that's nice. I wanted to get some advice
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: around the idea of needing to let go of my
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: former self and how my friends view me and my
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: life now as a dad. The context in my friend group,
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: I am the only dad, and while the rest of
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: the group is still going out and doing things my
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: pre dad life would have entertained. I'm struggling to fit
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: in with them more so now, and I struggle to
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: communicate with them that my life and priorities have shifted
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: to be towards my son. I know it sounds obvious,
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: but I feel as though they are not understanding this
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: idea that I've needed to let go of my former
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: self and becoming a dad. I feel nervous about bringing
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: this up with any of them, as I don't know
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: how they would react. And although there are other dads
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: in my life through things like daycare, we don't have
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: a strong enough relationship to get deep into how we're
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: going mentally. It's more like conversational topics.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: It's tough because it would be we spoke about isolation,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: and then the fact is that you're the only one
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: in your's call them the og friend group because they
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: would have been before kids, obviously, and now he's got kids,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: they're obviously got different interests, so they're still your friends.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: But maybe maybe you just work on those relationships that
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: you're working on with the daycare dads to get to
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: the point where you feel comfortable. And then it's always
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: nice to have especially if they're no kid, they're not
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: gonna be talking about kids, so it could be nice
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: and refreshing to have two different friend groups. And also
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: if you're meeting you people and building those relationships, you
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: could find your best friend.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: It's funny with the relationships that you get from daycare
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: and also from school. It's easy for those to stay
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: really surface level because a lot of the interactions it's
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: just quick, yeah, drop off, pick up, your five ten
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: minute chat. Maybe you go for like a coffee or
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: ice cream. Maybe you go for ice cream with another man.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: No on Fridays when do pick up. Let's normalize that
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: actually for you absolutely, because there's in Bondi there's like
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: a thousand frozen yogurt and ice cream shops, so it
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: is very nice. Some shit cafe in an Ida, So
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: after school a lot of the kids walk getting ice
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: cream and you have like a quick like what are
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: you going on for the weekend? Blah blah blah blah
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: quick chat. It is so confronting. I think to be like, yeah, man,
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I'm really not doing too well. I'm not flying life
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: pretty tough. I don't want to burden anyone with that conversation.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: It's really hard. But like you said, I don't think
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: with his existing friends, I don't think he needs to
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: raise it is like, oh does he raise it?
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: No, they serve a different purpose because it's not their fault,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: like they just have different interest.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: It's sort of like, don't you feel can I just
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: be ondering, yeah, don't you think that, rather than kind
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: of thinking, oh, right, they're not interested, I'm just going
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: to phase him out. Should he not say like, hey, guys,
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: sometimes I feel like you're not as understanding of my
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: situation given that I'm the only one with the child
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: and you guys aren't because they might not even be
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: aware that they're doing it.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I would say that friendship that friendship groups for a
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: different purpose. You might get other things from that outside
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: of the conversation. But you made a good point with
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: the walking to go get ice cream. That's probably a
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: good opportunity to start to have those conversations because you're.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Walking side by side with his existing friends. If he's
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: unhappy about something.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: It depends what they've done, if they haven't done anything.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: If they're just not having conversations about that, then that's
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: it's hard to say that.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: But if they're like, hey, let's go play golf for
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: six hours and then get pissed, and that's like, oh,
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: definitely have that conversation, and then he should be like, hey, guys,
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: you know we're like, I'm kind of struggling because I'm
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: on the outer because I'm the only one's dad. Like,
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: I know, it's so easy for us to sit here
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: and be like, just have the conversation, because fuck having
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: those confrontational chats. But he should probably raise it, not
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: in a way of like you guys don't want to
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: hang out with me, anyea, why do you guys hate me? Yeah,
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: you're right.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Actually make a good point about the activities. That's probably
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: where you could find an in to have that conversation
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: because it'd be like, hey, we're going to go play
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: golf on Saturdays, Like, guys, I want to play golf
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: with you so fucking bad, but unfortunately I can't take
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: six hours.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: Is there anything else we can do?
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: So I think it's a good angle without it being
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: like no one cares about me.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: Because you don't want it.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: You want to be able to have a transparent conversation,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: but at the same time, you don't want to come
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: across as like me me me me me me me Mehan,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: you're the one who's just decided to become a parent,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: and depending on how people take that, But I.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: Say this, and there have been so many times where
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I've not taken my own advice and I've just been
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: in a situation where I've got the kids. I've had
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: friends that have come to Sydney either from overseas at
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: interstate for a little trip, and everything that they've suggested
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: has got no involved with the kids. And I'm like,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: don't you want to see you never met my kids yet?
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Do you not want to meet my kids? And instead
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: of me being like, hey, can we just have a
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: little chance or you can like we can all hang
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: out together and you can meet the kids, I've kind
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: of been like, no, fuck it, you go to the
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: pub and I just won't see it's tricky, which I know.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, I'm just I know how hard it
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: is to have these conversations as well.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Like that situation they've come to Sydney there, I've got
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: that little trip excitement too, right, and it's like, well,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: we don't want to do things with kids. It's like
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: you don't want to be like, can we just do
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: something that's going to suit me because then they might
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: think what about you? It's a tricky conversation. I think,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: don't just let the relationship fade.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's time to move on. I think
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: it's time to gain some friends for other purposes. And
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: I do want to give a shout out to I
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: didn't know this. I don't know if you know this, Sash,
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: but there is playgroups New South Wales. I didn't know. No,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: this was that thing they need to rebrand, that they
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: need to like get them. I mean, they don't have
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: a shitload of money to play with here. It's all
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: run by volunteers. But if you go to playgroups in
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: New South Wales dot com dot U, I think, yeah, yeah.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: Playgroupswells dot org.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, do you any register? It's a very good question.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you asked. If you actually if you just
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: Google playgroups and your state, you can you get on
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: this website and you can find playgroups that you can
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: be a part of with your child. And the ones
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: in Bondai, for example, they have Monday and Fridays and
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: I think it's like four bucks and they organize all
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: the materials and things that your kids can play with,
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: and you meet other parents. There's more dads that are
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: joining them now and annoyingly right now, Poppy is just
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: a little bit too young because it's nine to eleven
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: is the main time on a Friday, And I was like,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: fucking great. Then I go oh, that's nap time, so
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: I can't go. But as soon as she has that
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: middle nap and I can go in the mornings. It's
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: four bucks. You can meet other parents and you can
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: then build on those relationships to gain new friends. What
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: things do they do? So the one in BONDI they
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: do one there's a big park and they do like
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: build potions. They have these outdoor kitchen sets that you bring.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: So it's all like playing with nature, playing with marred sensories,
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: really sensory stuff.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I remember April went to a few of
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: those early doors.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: I had no idea, but I reckon the hardest window
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: for a parent is from when they're a newborn to
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: when they're about like two or three.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I start dropping them off from meeting other parents unless
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: you're actually actively going out. And I know for me,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: without April, for example, I would have just isolated.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know why.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I just think because we would go. It's just it's
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: just easier and like, especially in those times, because it's
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: so groundhole right though, because you never know. Every day
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: is different. You try and stick to a routine you
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: want to try and that so much so that all
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: that sort of stuff goes to the wayside. So it's like,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: don't ditch you mates. But then if you want to
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: find other people in similar situations, look at something like that.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: But then what's going to happen when they have kids?
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: And Matt, I've got a dilemma for you that I've
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: seen online today actually, which is Aussie mum sparks debate
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: after flying business class with one year old son.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: So we just flew into.
• 40:04
  Speaker 7: Singapore this morning and I wanted to let you know
• 40:07
  Speaker 7: about an incident we had on the plane where Freddie
• 40:11
  Speaker 7: was a little bit unsettled and crying a bit, and
• 40:14
  Speaker 7: this lady took it upon herself to scream across the
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: cabin at the top of her lungs.
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: Shut up.
• 40:21
  Speaker 7: Now, that same lady stood up and stared me down,
• 40:24
  Speaker 7: and I said, is everything okay? And she said, no,
• 40:27
  Speaker 7: your baby has been crying and I'm in business class.
• 40:31
  Speaker 7: And I said to this lady, well, you obviously haven't
• 40:34
  Speaker 7: had kids, otherwise you would understand what it's like to
• 40:37
  Speaker 7: have a child.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: All right, what's your take on that? Who do you
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: think is in the wrong here? Should babies be allowed
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: on business class flights? I mean, there are children in
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: economy class and they're allowed to be in business class
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: according to the airline or whatever it might be. But
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: do you think the person has a right to stand
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: up and say shut your baby up?
• 40:56
  Speaker 7: Yes?
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Really no, so far to argue with you on that.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, do you know what, like it would be disappointing.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: We can all admit if you've forked out the money
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: and you've paid for a business class fly thousands of
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: dollars and you're like, I'm going to enjoy this and
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: you look over and there's a screaming baby, that would suck. Okay,
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: there's no way of sugarcoating that situation. It's a bit shit. Yeah,
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: but it's also one of those things you keep to yourself. Absolutely.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: I say that and say that frustration is one hundred
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: percent internalized.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: You can only control what you can control. You can't
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: we're all out here living in the community. You can't
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: control who and who isn't going to be on a fly.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: There could have just been a really loud coffer on
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: the plane, or a snorer.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: It could be yeah, a fucking annoying, is it? When
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: someone's snoring on the plane, you're like, shut up.
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: I mean, I had a poor kid behind me on
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: the way home from Vietnam who couldn't stop throwing up,
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: like a baby can't stop crying just as much as
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: someone can't stop throwing up.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: It really goes to show how out of touch some
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: well off people are. The fact that you are willing
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: to stand up in a bit, you're making more distraction
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: than the fucking baby. You idiot like you want to
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: get up and cause a scene about a baby crying
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: that cannot control that and a mum trying to do
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: their absolute best to keep them at bay, and your
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: mature way of dealing with it is to stand up
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: and throw your toys out of the cot, You fucking idiot.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Hold a baby, I'll settle it.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: Like sitting on her hands, I would say, fucking baby
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: recognizes baby you baby I have this is.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: I know what you're going to say, Ash, But I
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: once was a business class flight.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Once, just the one time, always at the time you
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: were going to go on a business class and leave
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: me behind.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: That never happened to threaten you.
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: But didn't save Laura behind one.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Oh my Laura to me, I remember going on a
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: we were going We're doing a job in Europe many
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: years ago when Marley was three months old, and as
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: part of that job, we will find business class very lucky.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: So we had a three month old Marley and as
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: we were boarding the plane and Laura and I were
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: kind of like, oh, do you want to have it
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: for the first takeoff or not? Because if anyone who
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: is unfamiliar, if they're under the age of two, they
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: sit on your lap. And there was another woman who
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: rolled her eyes, being like at the side of a
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: newborn child, and I was also like, Marley's fucking great,
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: thank you very much, She's a great baby. But the
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: last thing any parent needs in a world where life
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: is just hard enough dealing with a newborn child to
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: then cop more criticism and pressure from another person who's
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: fucking childless childish, must be nice, Like that's not going
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: to help anyone, not anywhere. And I think vic I
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: wouldn't do it, but like, you know, if there was
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: a parent who was absolutely at their wits end with
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: a screaming baby and like, hey, you know I can
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: hold it. I'm a stranger, gives your baby.
• 44:09
  Speaker 6: I'm just going to my advice. Unless you're on a
• 44:15
  Speaker 6: plane national law, no one could prosecute you up there. No,
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: that's terrible advice, man.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I think those people are so unaware of fucking headphones
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: on and watch a movie.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Pull your head order of bloody. If I was working
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: on that airplane, I saw that I would kick.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: That lady out of business path one without the baby, like,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: guess what, we have an economy seat with your name
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: on it.
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry. Saying shut up to someone is so rude,
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: like no matter, like that's lessons a loved one.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: But you can't just say. You can't just cancer shut
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: up out. I love to tell my kids to shut up.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: It's endearing parents.
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: Like you guys know, getting on a flight with a
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: child is one of the most stress inducing you ever
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: have with the child. Then to have the compounded stress
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: coming from someone else on the other side, you take
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: compound like no parent needs that, Like that is so
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: the wrong way to go about it. I was on
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: a flight with Lily when she was a baby, and
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: I had her in the bassinette. I had the sleep
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: sounds going, and the air hostess had to come and say, hey,
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: can you turn your sleep sounds down because people in
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: the back are complaining about it?
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  Speaker 2: And I said, okay, Well, I think it reverb?
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Can you turn your sleep music down? The engines against jealous?
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: What was what was your go toro? The engines are jealous?
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: The ocean mixed with rain.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's so hard to hear, right, I put.
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: Your headphones on, I said to her, Okay, well that's fine,
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: I can turn it down. But if the baby wakes up,
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: she's going to start crying. So what would they prefer?
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: Sounds or crying baby? Yeah?
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Look, I'm so sorry, said at that time. These calming
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: noises are really irritating. Yeah, so I think the answer
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: is babies should be I mean, this is coming from parents.
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Baby should be a lot of business class flights in fact,
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: as long as that. Well, but it should be discounted. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: actually yeah, they're already free. Free. The parents should get
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  Speaker 2: it free as well. Ash, my good friend, we will
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  Speaker 2: get out of here because because I'm Dan's at my
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: house and who knows what he's up to with that
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: right now? And I heard the tea cups are getting empty.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: You know what they say, what happens after tea?
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: In that case, more tea?
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: Does that make us if oh wow? Oh well yeah,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: you'd be like step brother and sister.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, that's all right. You and would be your
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: dad stepdad, and then your.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: VI you'd be like like step mom removed stepmom, and
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: then your kids would be your step siblings step siblings,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: so you'd have.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: Seven Wow, I got seven seven siblings and two moms
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  Speaker 2: spanner and the works, wouldn't it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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