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What is a situation you CONFIDENTLY walked into? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: You want to know about the time you confidently walked
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  Speaker 1: into the wrong situation. Want, wrong room, wrong party, wrong conversation,
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  Speaker 1: and you didn't realize it right away. And I'll tell
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  Speaker 1: you there's something I'm going through right now that I
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  Speaker 1: will explain. We want to know about you, though, Raquel,
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  Speaker 1: good morning. Tell us what was the wrong situation? You
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  Speaker 1: felt good about it, but it was wrong?
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  Speaker 2: What happened?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: I was so confident that I saw my new sorority sister.
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  Speaker 2: I was in the grocery store and I saw this
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  Speaker 2: girl and I flagged her over.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like waving her and talking to her. I thought
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  Speaker 4: she was my sister Sarah.
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  Speaker 5: And a few minutes into it, she's being really polite,
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  Speaker 5: but she's like, actually, my name is Emily. And I
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  Speaker 5: didn't know her at all. Yeah, she was like a
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  Speaker 5: newer sorority.
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  Speaker 4: I thought she was a newer sorority sister and it wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: Her at all.
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  Speaker 3: I think I legitimately have facial blindness.
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  Speaker 5: It's really scary.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that.
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  Speaker 1: When I was a kid to my mom, we were
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  Speaker 1: staying like the zoo and I went up to my
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  Speaker 1: mom and put my hand around her really hard to
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  Speaker 1: grab her.
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  Speaker 2: Like this, and I'm just like eight. I look up
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  Speaker 2: and it's not my mom. Yes, terrible, terrible part. Like
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  Speaker 2: have you guys ever like accidentally called your teacher mom
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  Speaker 2: when you were a kid. You never talked to my teachers.
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  Speaker 1: I never said a word to any of my teachers
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  Speaker 1: the history of my life.
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  Speaker 2: I would tell thanks for calling, Thanks for sharing that
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  Speaker 2: with us.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks Peter, tell us about the time you felt pretty
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  Speaker 1: confident about it, but it was the wrong thing.
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  Speaker 2: Wrong. What happened?
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So back in college, I went into my enter
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  Speaker 6: at ap class. I was pretty confident, so on the
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  Speaker 6: front row, leaned back, and the teacher walks in and
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  Speaker 6: just starts speaking and fluent Spanish and started asking me
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  Speaker 6: questions because I'm right up front, and uh, I was
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  Speaker 6: really confused. Turns out I walked into the wrong classroom.
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  Speaker 1: That's funny, Thanks Peter, That's really funny, Peter. I have
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  Speaker 1: a great day, dog, Thank you you too for me.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's tonight, I gotta go. I'm on this panel
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  Speaker 1: at the Phoenix Suns game before the Sun's game with
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  Speaker 1: coach Molly Miller. The Issue Women's head coach Von Compton
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  Speaker 1: basketball coach, a skills coach, and a kicker Nick Lowry
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  Speaker 1: from the Kansas City Chiefs and me, And I'm actually
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  Speaker 1: a little bit different than I have zero confidence, and
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  Speaker 1: I am walking in the wrong situation, unconfidently, walking into
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  Speaker 1: the yes because I told you guys my news resolutions
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  Speaker 1: say yes and more things. And then they sent me
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  Speaker 1: the questions in advance.
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  Speaker 2: Well, at least you have that like to sort of prepare.
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  Speaker 2: What are I going to talk to you about, since
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  Speaker 2: you're not really the sports guy.
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  Speaker 1: From your experience in media, how does the mental game
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  Speaker 1: show up often on the field, especially under public pressure.
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  Speaker 1: From your perspective as a parent, what mental and emotional
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  Speaker 1: pressure are athletes facing today? And how do you support
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  Speaker 1: your kids without adding to the pressure. What have their
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  Speaker 1: athletic journeys taught you about resilience and identity? And I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be like, let's not get political in this identity stuffy.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want to lead in a certain way. I'm
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  Speaker 7: just gonna be like, can you hold on a second,
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna get up and walk out?
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  Speaker 1: Is so eight seven seven nine three seven one oh
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  Speaker 1: four seven? Also, this is what they say, they say,
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  Speaker 1: this will be a dynamic, accessible conversation, not clinical. Focus
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  Speaker 1: on how to high performers train their minds to navigate pressure,
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  Speaker 1: sustain excellence, and thrive beyond sport.
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  Speaker 2: The audience, who includes fans, professionals.
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  Speaker 1: Community leaders, have goals to keep the discussion engaging, practically relatable,
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  Speaker 1: will keep the tone conversational and authentic. There's no need
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  Speaker 1: to prepare formal remarks. Just come ready, thank you again
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  Speaker 1: for being part of this. I'm excited for the impact
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  Speaker 1: this series can have. It just sounds so, it sounds
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  Speaker 1: so serious.
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  Speaker 8: No, but that takes like a little bit of the
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  Speaker 8: pressure off.
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  Speaker 2: They're just saying, be yourself, which that's an easy thing
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  Speaker 2: for you. Ready, That's that's that's that's scary.
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  Speaker 1: Eight seven seven, nine three seven one oh four seven.
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  Speaker 1: You're confident, but you walked in the wrong situation. More
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  Speaker 1: of your calls. Next, it's John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 4: Kid granted to kiss l.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: It's John Jane Rich.
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  Speaker 1: You want to know about when you confidently walked into
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  Speaker 1: the wrong situation like me tonight, Stephanie, good morning, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, Hi.
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  Speaker 2: What happened to you?
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  Speaker 8: Oh my goodness? Okay, so very embarrassing. Back in twenty fifteen,
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  Speaker 8: my friend Joey had just boomed into a house with
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  Speaker 8: someone that we had known from high school, and I
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  Speaker 8: had been to this house. I helped him move in
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  Speaker 8: a little bit. Everything was good, and I remember he
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  Speaker 8: had mentioned that there was going to be another girl
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  Speaker 8: moving in and she had a boyfriend, and you know,
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  Speaker 8: that was kind of it. And a few days later
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  Speaker 8: we had decided we were going to hang out. So
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  Speaker 8: I drove over there to what I thought was his
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  Speaker 8: house and it was nighttime and I knocked on the
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  Speaker 8: door and this man answered. Had not seen him before,
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  Speaker 8: but he was at around in my age, so I
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  Speaker 8: automatically assumed, oh, this must be his roommate's boyfriend. So
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  Speaker 8: I confidently said, Hi, I'm stuff and I'm coming in,
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  Speaker 8: and I walked right cast him. He let me in,
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  Speaker 8: and I'm kind of looking around and calling out for
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  Speaker 8: my friend. I'm like, Joey, you know, Joey, where are you?
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  Speaker 8: And you know, since I had, you know, been to
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  Speaker 8: his house before, I walked to where his bedroom would
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  Speaker 8: have been and I opened the door and hitch black room,
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  Speaker 8: didn't see anything in there. And I turned to this
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  Speaker 8: guy and I'm like, you know, where's Joey and he
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  Speaker 8: was like, there, there's no Joey here, Oh my god.
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  Speaker 8: And then I start looking around and then it hit
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  Speaker 8: me like, oh my god, this is not this is
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  Speaker 8: not the house.
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  Speaker 2: Thank god you weren't in like a serial killer.
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  Speaker 8: So they were like, excellent, that could have gone south. Yeah,
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  Speaker 8: So I started apologizing. I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm
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  Speaker 8: so sorry, Like I thought this was my friend's house.
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  Speaker 8: And I ended up, you know, leaving obviously, and I
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  Speaker 8: see my friend Tudors down and he's just laughing. It
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  Speaker 8: was so embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: That's the way that guy was, like, Julie died five
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  Speaker 2: years ago, that's awesome, thanks for us, thank you, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: thank you, Jesse. Wrong situation, but you had all the
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  Speaker 2: confidence in the world. What happened.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So this is back in like twenty fifteen, and BOYC,
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  Speaker 3: that's how I started listening to you guys too when
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  Speaker 3: you were on there. But I volunteered for Habitat for
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  Speaker 3: Humanity and I was on the family selection committee. And
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  Speaker 3: the way it works is you can apply for a
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  Speaker 3: home for through Habitat and then they make sure you
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  Speaker 3: financially qualify, and then our team would go out and
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  Speaker 3: interview the family, and we had a little piece of
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  Speaker 3: paper we would ask all these questions, kind of get
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  Speaker 3: an idea of the family structure, why they applied, etc. Right.
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  Speaker 3: So it was one of the funnest things I've ever
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  Speaker 3: done because I got to interact with all these different
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  Speaker 3: families from all over the world, and mainly because Boise
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  Speaker 3: is a refugee center where people are come and so
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  Speaker 3: that was a lot of our families, if that makes sense, right. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: So we go to this family's house and we're sitting
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  Speaker 3: there for about twenty minutes asking them questions. We come in,
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  Speaker 3: we sit down, we introduce ourselves. They give us tea
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  Speaker 3: and cookies, and the twelve year old daughter is translating
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  Speaker 3: for us, because I think they were from Somalia, right,
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  Speaker 3: And then I'm kind of like getting these weird like
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  Speaker 3: looks from the mom and dad and and they're a
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  Speaker 3: little bit confused. And twenty minutes in, I go, did
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  Speaker 3: you guys apply to Habitat for Humanity for a house?
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  Speaker 3: And they were like, no. Cool there on the inside,
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  Speaker 3: they were so nice, and I had been in this
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  Speaker 3: situation so many times. We would go. They would give
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  Speaker 3: us tea and cookies, and we would sit and I
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  Speaker 3: often had a child translating or somebody else translating, and
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  Speaker 3: so I'm like okay, and then I'm trying to explain
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  Speaker 3: who we are and like why we're there, and you.
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  Speaker 2: Just went you went to the wrong house. Yes, it was.
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  Speaker 1: This kind family let you in their house and you're
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  Speaker 1: explaining to them the rules of living.
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  Speaker 2: In their house.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're interviewing them of how they want this habitat
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  Speaker 3: Free Humanity House. And what it was is it was
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  Speaker 3: a big apartment complex. I remember that address was like
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  Speaker 3: four sixty two or something, and come to find out
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  Speaker 3: there was on the other side of the street was
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  Speaker 3: the same number. So we just went to the wrong one.
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  Speaker 3: So you guys, listen. The worst part is we leave
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  Speaker 3: and then I'm at the other place for an hour,
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  Speaker 3: and then I realized I don't have my keys, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, I love my keys. I
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  Speaker 3: left my keys at the other place. And I'm like okay.
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  Speaker 3: So I go back and they're still there, and I
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  Speaker 3: knock on the door and they're like, yep, here's your keys.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm so sorry. And they also
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  Speaker 3: immediately left after giving me my keys. And I just
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  Speaker 3: died inside. I was like, these.
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  Speaker 5: Poor families has been waiting.
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  Speaker 3: For me to come back, to give me my keys. Ke.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that is definitely a lot of confidence. Wrong situation.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Jesse, thanks for sharing with us.
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  Speaker 8: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 3: Thank everybody.
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  Speaker 6: Bye, You're welcome.
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  Speaker 3: Bye.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Amaretts, good morning, good morning. Hey.
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  Speaker 1: Before we hear your story, I just want to say
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  Speaker 1: real quick that we do need to contest it from
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  Speaker 1: me to win at eight seven seven nine four seven
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  Speaker 1: after em moaret, what's your story?
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  Speaker 2: You walked into where?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So I had just started stating a new man.
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  Speaker 4: We went to the store. He didn't want to go inside.
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  Speaker 4: He wasn't feeling too good. So I was going into
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  Speaker 4: the store to get him some medicine. Walked in, got
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  Speaker 4: the stuff, came back out, same car. He he is
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  Speaker 4: a black man. A black man was sitting in the
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  Speaker 4: exact same car. So I confidently just hopped right into
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  Speaker 4: this car.
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  Speaker 3: As soon as I.
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  Speaker 4: Shut the door, I was fully in the car. I
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  Speaker 4: looked to my life us and I realized, oh my goodness,
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  Speaker 4: this is not my man.
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  Speaker 5: So I immediately started apologizing, hopped out of his vehicle
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  Speaker 5: and started saying my man has the same car. I'm
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  Speaker 5: so sorry, and shut the door. The guy's face was
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  Speaker 5: just in shocked.
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  Speaker 4: He didn't say nothing, he just he just sat there.
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  Speaker 1: You had to be like in and out before he
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  Speaker 1: even knew what happened, right exactly, Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Too bad?
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  Speaker 1: Was it like really quick on his head, on his
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  Speaker 1: brain and just like locked the locked the door.
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  Speaker 6: Scary, scary.
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  Speaker 2: Well, thanks for calling in. That's that's a good one
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  Speaker 2: to wrap it up.
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  Speaker 4: Thanks, you're welcome, Thank you you too.