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The Gambler · Second Date Update

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  All the Hands, Kiss ninety five seven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,
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  Savannah walmart Jeff, are you guys ready for second date updates? Absolutely?
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  Let's do it. Oh oh, okay, I guess. So. See,
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  you go on a great first date and you really want to see that
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  person, you make a connection, you'd like to go on a second date,
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  but you're getting ghosted. Call us. It happened to Michael in Farmington.
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  He's on the line to tell us about a great first date he had
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  and we want to find out why he's getting ghosted. Good morning, Michael
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  Marten. It's second date update. Obviously you know what second date update is
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  all about, because you called us tell us about this great first date.
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  Well, um, I mean we pretty much you know, went to the
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  movies, which was great, you know, just like a classic date,
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  and you know, I don't know, it's just we have said a really
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  good time. You know, I really like her and I thought we were
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  gonna see each other again. So I'm, you know, not sure why
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  she's just totally ghosting me and just not responding at all. Just pretty much
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  it. I mean, like I can't think of what happened that didn't go
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  well. You know, yeah, okay, and you're obviously attracted to her.
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  Do you feel like she was attracted to you a little bit of flirting
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  going on? Definitely definitely was attracted to her, and I thought it was
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  mutual. And yeah, let me ask you a question. Do you own
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  a boat? No? Okay, See that's the problem. You don't own
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  a boat. A lot of girls right now this time of year, they
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  like to get into relationships with guys with boats so they can bring their friends
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  on the boat and have an enjoyable summer. Now, it's nothing against you
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  that you don't own a boat. I'm just saying this is probably the reason
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  she didn't call you back. Wow, Okay, Well listen, I will
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  say Walmart Jeff is not far off, because I mean, that's sounds pretty
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  amazing to me. I don't think that's the reason. I don't think there's
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  a reason you're getting ghosted. But a guy with a boat, yeah,
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  definitely definitely a plus. All right, Well, listen, Michael, since
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  you have no idea why you're getting ghosted, We're gonna call up Lauren.
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  We're gonna ask her about the day. We're gonna ask her why she's ghosting
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  you. Okay, okay. You know, if they agree to a second
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  date, we should send him a little sailor that for his new boat.
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  You know what, maybe I'll give him my boat. I got a boat.
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  I'm not gonna take it out. Hey, can we go? No?
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  I don't. I Actually it's perfect dinghy. I'll give him my dinghy.
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  Hi. Hello is Lauren there? Yes, this is Lauren. Hey
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  Lauren, it's Courtney. What's up? It's a Walmart Jeff. Hey,
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  Lauren, it's Savannah. Hi. Hey, you're on Kiss ninety five seven
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  this morning, Laura, I probably want to know why. Oh my gosh.
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  Well, here's the deal, Lauren. We do something called second date
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  update. That's when if somebody goes on a first date and they have a
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  great time, but they're getting ghosted after reaching out for a second date,
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  we get answers. And you were on second date update because Michael called us
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  and told us he took you on a great date. He told us it
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  was fabulous, and he wants in a he's getting ghosted? Oh did he?
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  Okay? Um, no, we did not have a good date.
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  Oh okay, what happened? He said you went to the movies, went
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  out for drinks after what happened. Yeah, we went to the movies and
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  then he sat in the theater right next to me on his phone the entire
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  movie. He was playing some sort of card game or something. It looked
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  like he was gambling or something, and he was, you know, and
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  the lights on, Like I was. I was so so annoyed. I
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  should have just walked out right down and there, but I wanted to give
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  him another chance because afterwards we decided we were going to go get drinks at
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  the place next door, and we ended up getting over there, and I'm
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  thinking, Okay, he's gonna you know, engage with me a little bit
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  more. He might hold my hand a little bit. Nope, he was
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  on his phone again the whole time. And then the other person that he
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  talked to was the bartender. He went over and they were talking, you
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  know, more gambling stuff, and like this weird I don't know, card
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  app or something. Okay, okay, I can't even Lauren, you're telling
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  me he sat on the phone and played games or gambled through the whole movie
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  even yep, yep. It was like he wasn't even watching the film,
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  Like I was, like, why did you even take me if you didn't
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  on and goes like sit and do this thing together. Okay, Oh,
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  not a good first date. Well, since he was gambling the whole time,
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  I at least hope he picked up the tab he's making money on the
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  date. Hopefully he did. Um, but I have fire standards for that.
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  I'm not doing that again. That's right, Lauren, you know what.
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  Michael's on the line listening in. Michael, what do you I mean
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  seriously, you were gambling the entire night while you were on a date.
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  Absolutely not. That sounds like I can't believe that's what you're saying. That's
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  like not at all, Like I don't I don't even know what you're talking
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  about. Like I was watching the movie, and I mean I don't know,
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  like I might have checked like my draftings like like a couple of times,
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  just because I don't know Michael the whole time. What the heck?
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  No, you totally worry. You were on your phone, like the entire
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  time, you were not watching the film. You never like grab my hand
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  or anything. And then then when I was ready to give you a second
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  chance and like continue the date, you didn't want to continue it. You
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  didn't talk to me over dinner and drinks talking to the bartender over about gambling
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  and you're and you're getting I can't and your cards and your apps. Come
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  on, Michael, I don't remember that at all. I that it was
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  like said like one thing to the bartender. I that's so crazy, Like
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  that's not what I remember at all. Okay, Well you know what.
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  Here's Lauren. Usually we offered to pick up the tap for a second day.
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  Would you like to go on a second day with Michael if you leaves
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  his phone at home? No? What about if you had a boat,
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  would you consider it? If? If if if you owned the boat getting
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  it or no? If he sorts out his gambling stuff and then got a
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  boat, maybe Okay, all right, that's the goals for you, Michael.
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  Forget the gambling and get a bow. Walmart was right on the whole
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  time. Oh my god, all right, this is not how I thought
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  it was gonna go. Well, this is how it went, Michael.
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  I'm so sorry. I'm glad you reached out to us, and now i'd
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  get your answers. Lauren, thank you for being honest with us, and
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  good luck, good luck out there dating. He's out