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Black Don't Crack, But It Do Cost · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'all with your girl a j Holiday?
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  Speaker 2: What's up? Tam Bam y'all's official Tam Bam. I love
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  Speaker 2: y'all so so so very much. How you doing, girl?
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  Speaker 1: I am doing okay? It is today?
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  Speaker 2: What it is?
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  Speaker 1: It is today?
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  Speaker 2: And then wake.
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  Speaker 1: I went to the gym this morning. Musty per usual.
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  Speaker 1: About to say, what's a new girl, I'm bea taking
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  Speaker 1: shout as soon as we're done, but yeah, I'm good
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  Speaker 1: today chat.
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  Speaker 2: I went to New York over the weekend and I
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  Speaker 2: got my stuff, so I'm no longer New Yorker. A
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  Speaker 2: good had a good with seven eight months run.
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  Speaker 1: You're out of there. Yeah, stuff smell like New York. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I guess now you go to your grandmama house. Grandma
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  Speaker 1: house gotta smell to it. That's how New York smell
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  Speaker 1: like old mothball and football.
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  Speaker 2: They do have that old smell to it. I like
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  Speaker 2: it though. Moved. Yeah, so now trying to figure out
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  Speaker 2: where to nickt you know, just being like a GYPSYID. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: trying to find where I feel most at home. But
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  Speaker 2: I think it's in the South, So we'll see where
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  Speaker 2: that lands me. Maybe Atlanta. I don't know who.
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  Speaker 1: I Atlanta got some shit going on that my energy
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  Speaker 1: be two dreams when I go to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: You don't like Atlanta? Where you like Charleston?
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  Speaker 1: I really, I mean that's why I moved back home.
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  Speaker 1: There's really no place in Atlanta in America like I
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  Speaker 1: want to live at. Like I feel like my next
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  Speaker 1: move is gonna be out this goddamn country. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to get the fuck out of here. So
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  Speaker 1: I ain't really no place. I mean, as long as
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  Speaker 1: you got a airport, you can get to where you
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  Speaker 1: want to go at So really doesn't matter where you
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  Speaker 1: live at. The only other thing I consider is like
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  Speaker 1: cost of living, business taxes, Like where is that the
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  Speaker 1: cheapest at? Do I want to move to Houston? I
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  Speaker 1: would like to move to Texas. Texas might be already.
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  Speaker 2: I like Texas.
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  Speaker 1: I like it, Yeah, I like and Dallas but it
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  Speaker 1: just whatever at this point. And my my weekend was
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  Speaker 1: very chill, relaxed. Sunday finally wasn't raining, and then I
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  Speaker 1: just still stayed in the house all day on Sunday hiberning.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, I ain't do much this weekend. Tjmax Marshall's.
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  Speaker 2: I got to meet Taylor's baby. Oh oh, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I know he gorgeous. He is so gorgeous. He looked
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  Speaker 2: like a doll. It took everything for me not to
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  Speaker 2: punch them in their face and run out with their child.
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  Speaker 2: Like I just wanted to steal the baby so bad.
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  Speaker 2: Oh like, oh like, I don't even really like I
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  Speaker 2: love babies and all that, but holding this baby made
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  Speaker 2: me want a baby, like and I was like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, like I don't I typically don't feel like that.
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  Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, cute baby, I love this baby,
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  Speaker 2: give it back. But I did not want to give
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  Speaker 2: their baby back.
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  Speaker 1: Is he crying? Is he a good baby?
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  Speaker 2: You a good baby? Is sweet baby? Oh he's just
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  Speaker 2: staring up into my eyes like do you love me? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: That that baby is definitely perfect, man.
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  Speaker 2: Oh goodness, so perfect. Got long eyelashes, already six weeks old,
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  Speaker 2: with long, pretty eyelashes, those cutest little, tiny little features.
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  Speaker 1: Oh boy's always got the good features though, men, Like,
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  Speaker 1: how do you get to have these nice, thick ass
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  Speaker 1: eyebrows and lashes in curly edges. Jealous.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to steal that baby so bad, but I
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  Speaker 2: knew I would go to jail and.
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  Speaker 1: Go make your own. Go get your own, beggar.
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  Speaker 2: Boy, Right, that's what I gotta do.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get me sing, okay, y'all. Pro tennis player Sasha
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  Speaker 1: Vicary is it Vickery? Vickery says she requires a thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars deposit to take her out on a date, as
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  Speaker 1: she just competed for a spot in the US Open
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  Speaker 1: this week. So this is an American tennis player, Sasha Vickory.
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  Speaker 1: She's thirty, So she made headlines this week not for
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  Speaker 1: only competing in the US Open qualifiers, but also for
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  Speaker 1: candidly discussing her unusual dating policy. So during Instagram q
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  Speaker 1: and a victory reviews, she requires one thousand dollars pre
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  Speaker 1: date deposit, citing past negative experiences, she said, and this
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  Speaker 1: is quote, says, I no longer day for free due
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  Speaker 1: to the behavior of men, she said, later posting proof
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  Speaker 1: of receiving such a payment. So people people spend in
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  Speaker 1: the bag to take her out. Y'all want to do it?
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  Speaker 1: For jay z in it. Oh no, they want, they
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  Speaker 1: want fifty thousand order or dinner for jay Z. Did
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  Speaker 1: you see doctor Umar trying to sell dates for five hundred?
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  Speaker 1: He like shit, I got half the price for Chris
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  Speaker 1: Brown for five hundred dollars. We could go on a date.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to how far he's really They call him the
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  Speaker 1: panhandling princess, Prince, the pan handling prince, you know, some
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  Speaker 1: shit like that, but it says the Florida Bourne athlete,
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  Speaker 1: who reached the career high ranking of number seventy three
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  Speaker 1: and twenty eighteen, also defended her use of OnlyFans, calling
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  Speaker 1: it the easiest money I've ever made. Her rep clarify
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  Speaker 1: that while she shared suggestive content, she does not post
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  Speaker 1: nudity or sexual acts and join the platform during recard
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  Speaker 1: from an injury. Vickory, daughter of Guyanese immigrants and twenty
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  Speaker 1: thirteen USTA Junior national champion, won her opening qualifying match
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  Speaker 1: but was eliminated by Germany's Elia Sadel on Thursday. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she charged, she's charging one thousand dollars deposit. I ain't mad,
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  Speaker 1: me neither. And if the men are really willing to
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  Speaker 1: pay for it, like who complaining?
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  Speaker 2: Who complaining? For real, Well, Hickory Dickery doc Sasha Vickery
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  Speaker 2: on the clock.
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  Speaker 3: And I mean Chris Brown charged a twelve hundred okay, right,
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  Speaker 3: but you don't even get a date with him, no,
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  Speaker 3: which brings me to my next topic.
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  Speaker 1: You get dick on your butt.
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  Speaker 2: Right. So a woman says her boyfriend broke up with
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  Speaker 2: her after her meat and greet picture with Chris Brown. So,
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  Speaker 2: all right, this picture, y'all is really cute. They're hugged
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  Speaker 2: up like kind of like a prom picture. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: it don't look bad. It don't look bad. Don't like, no,
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't. It was kind of innocent. But it says,
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  Speaker 2: my boyfriend broke up with me because I allowed Chris
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  Speaker 2: Brown Brown to hold my waist during the meet and greet.
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  Speaker 2: After the picture went viral, my boyfriend immediately broke up
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  Speaker 2: with me. He told me Chris Brown was too close
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  Speaker 2: to me and I shouldn't have allowed him to hold
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  Speaker 2: me like that. But I don't care. I will trade
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  Speaker 2: my boyfriend for a meet and greet with Chris Brown
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  Speaker 2: one hundred more times.
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  Speaker 1: She said, and I'll do it again. I had that
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  Speaker 1: meet on her back. Her boyfriend ain't like that shit
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  Speaker 1: because he'd be seeing that damn that dance and how
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  Speaker 1: that should be jumping.
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  Speaker 2: I think every relationship should be allowed one celebrity crush
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  Speaker 2: that if they ever got the chance to fuck, they
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  Speaker 2: could no. Ah mean if my mom, if you ever
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  Speaker 2: get close to your celebrity crush, is she gonna let
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  Speaker 2: you do it? My boy? Because let me tell you happen.
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  Speaker 1: You don't let him do it. But but let Itrew's
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  Speaker 1: album come through or some ship like that. Them nigga's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be mad as hell in men's mind, there's no
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  Speaker 1: reason why you can't get that man, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like in their minds, like we got access
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  Speaker 1: to everybody if you wanted to, Like.
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  Speaker 2: We got to her kids. And it's probably right. And
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  Speaker 2: that's why it's horror, my boy, because when it's my
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  Speaker 2: third I'm probably gonna weird.
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  Speaker 1: But how are you mad? Because like it's a celebrity.
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  Speaker 1: She can't what's in a lifetime oftentime? Why you want
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  Speaker 1: to make a big fuss. She needs to get rid
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  Speaker 1: of him anyway, because he's probably jealous. Chris Brown Dick
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  Speaker 1: wasn't on his back.
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  Speaker 2: And it was probably just boys liked look at your
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  Speaker 2: girl boy exactly.
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  Speaker 1: That's all that ship was about doing a boy what
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  Speaker 1: your homeboys.
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  Speaker 2: Said, ego, it's ego. So she did, right, I mean
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  Speaker 2: we broke up with her, and it was for the
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  Speaker 2: best because you shouldn't really care that much.
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  Speaker 1: You shouldn't and I mean she went viral. Also that
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  Speaker 1: y'all could have used that as an opportunity to go
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  Speaker 1: do some other shit like great business, start selling some products,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know something, but instead you just became a
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  Speaker 1: hater overnight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Over, I'm pretty sure, I say, some worst pictures
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  Speaker 2: with Chris Brown.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he just is taking like a garter belt off
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  Speaker 1: one girl for ever. Not a garter belt. What is
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  Speaker 1: the thing thinking your thigh? Is that a garter belt?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just sliding one down. Somebody said it
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  Speaker 1: was panties and I'm like, that's a garter belt. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what's the problem.
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  Speaker 2: What is the problem. It's just all relax a little bit,
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  Speaker 2: all right.
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  Speaker 1: So study shows that women need forty seven minutes forty
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  Speaker 1: seven minutes of unbody a tension a day from their
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  Speaker 1: man to feel happy and fulfilled in their relationship. Research
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  Speaker 1: shows I don't know if these articles be real or not,
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  Speaker 1: but they always fun. And this is on black Billionaire's
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  Speaker 1: underscore Instagram. It says, fellas, you may be forty seven
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  Speaker 1: they says, fellas what this is? Definitely who the fuck
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  Speaker 1: wrote this? I'm gonna read how it says though, fellas,
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  Speaker 1: you may be forty minutes of daily attention away. Oh
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  Speaker 1: that does make sense. Daily attention away from keeping your
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  Speaker 1: women happy and fulfilling your relationship. In the fast paced
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  Speaker 1: world of modern relationships, emotional connection is more important than ever.
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  Speaker 1: According to fightings inspired by renowned relationship expert expert doctor
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  Speaker 1: John Gottman and studies published in Psychology Today, Pubman and
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  Speaker 1: very well mined, women thrive in relationships where they receive
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  Speaker 1: at least forty seven minutes of undivided attention each day
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  Speaker 1: each day from their partners. This is just about being
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  Speaker 1: in the same room or watching TV together. It's about intentional,
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  Speaker 1: focused time spent, listening, sharing, and being emotionally present. Research
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  Speaker 1: shows that when women feel seen and heard, their sense
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  Speaker 1: of fulfillment and a relationship increases significantly, boosting overall happiness
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  Speaker 1: and emotional security. Doctor Gotman, known for his ability to
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  Speaker 1: predict relationship success with remarkable accuracy, has long emphasized the
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  Speaker 1: importance of daily rituals of connection, small but meaningful moments
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  Speaker 1: like checking in, emotionally sharing stories, or simply enjoying uninterrupted conversation.
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  Speaker 1: When couples make time for these moments, they build a
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  Speaker 1: stronger emotional foundation. The forty seven minute mark might seem
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  Speaker 1: oddly specific, but it highlights the critical need for quality
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  Speaker 1: over quantity. Just under an hour of focused attention a
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  Speaker 1: day can lead to better communications, stronger intimacy, and increase
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  Speaker 1: satisfaction on both sides. And the waiter bitch is smiling
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  Speaker 1: at me across the camera. She's about to say, girl.
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  Speaker 2: You read that good, and then I might think about that,
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  Speaker 2: but you did. You did good. Though I'm probably you
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  Speaker 2: look out. It only took five years for you to
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  Speaker 2: be and not like you. What is happening girl? You
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  Speaker 2: know what's happening? Soundly?
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  Speaker 1: Don't my brain be moving faster than my damn mouth
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  Speaker 1: a lot of times or the other way around. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what be happening.
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  Speaker 2: But no, why I was smiling is because I was
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  Speaker 2: just thinking about Like was forty six minutes and the
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  Speaker 2: bitch was like, I'm still sad, you know, I feel
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  Speaker 2: long fulfilled and then after forty seven minutes, bitches was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: life is good. I'm so happy now, Like how did
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  Speaker 2: that get that exact number? Seconds? Like, yeah, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: break up with him. I just don't like this. I
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  Speaker 2: don't feel good. Forty seven minutes. They was like, he's
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  Speaker 2: a man of my dreams. He's so perfect.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I can I don't know why the forty
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  Speaker 1: seven minutes. And even when they talked about the forty
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  Speaker 1: seven minute mark, it still didn't like.
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  Speaker 2: It makes sense. See how they got to that exact number.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it just as critical need for quality over quantity.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how they got to forty seven minutes
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  Speaker 1: exact right there.
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  Speaker 2: If they could have said a little under an hour,
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  Speaker 2: if they would have just like that, but forty seven.
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  Speaker 1: Is crazy now, I want to know, like how Yeah, so,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, rather you're taking like a little walk or
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  Speaker 1: even like a forty seven minute phone call, like having
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  Speaker 1: like giving your woman that forty seven minutes of undivided attention.
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  Speaker 1: Especially I guess if you live in a house with
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  Speaker 1: a man with kids and all that shit, like y'all
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  Speaker 1: gotta gotta take time out for each other, because if
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  Speaker 1: you're not falling in love, you're falling out of love.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking to this guy and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I thought I liked him. And then I was driving
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  Speaker 2: through a storm and I told him I was on
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  Speaker 2: the phone with him. I was like, I'm really really scared.
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  Speaker 2: I feel very much in danger. I'm scared. I'ma I
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  Speaker 2: can't see anything in front of me. I'm gonna call
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  Speaker 2: you back when I get through it. I call him
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  Speaker 2: thirty minutes. I was driving terrified. I called him back.
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  Speaker 2: He ain't answered the phone, and then he didn't call
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  Speaker 2: me back until late that night and nothing was wrong
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  Speaker 2: with him, so I stopped talking to him. Was that?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 2: Was I like tripping for that?
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  Speaker 1: No, you were not overreacting. Like when I say I
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  Speaker 1: want a man that is concerned about me and considers me,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that. So, yeah, you were not concerned about
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  Speaker 1: me enough. You didn't check back on me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I make sure he ain't give a damn
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  Speaker 2: clearly scared. Yeah, and he did not check back on me.
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  Speaker 2: And that was a ooh that was a bound red flag.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I can't talk to you no more. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We I'm good, I'm cool. Yeah, okay, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: I'm cutting niggas off for less nowadays. So right, they
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  Speaker 1: they're like, nah, you you out of here?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, right about your business?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because a woman that you care about, you might
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  Speaker 1: not even let her get off the phone, like now
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: let that phone on speaker phone while you drive. Right,
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  Speaker 1: Men know what we expect, So me not doing the
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  Speaker 1: things because actually men expect the same things. Right, So
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  Speaker 1: if they're not doing the things, yeah, they're not fucking
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  Speaker 1: with you. They will show you. They may not stay
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  Speaker 1: out their mouth, but they will show you how much
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  Speaker 1: they fuck with you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's that what we're talking about today.
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  Speaker 1: How much money we'd be spending on the fucking stuff basically, So.
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  Speaker 2: The neighborhood, y'all. We call this black dog crack. But
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  Speaker 2: it is expensive, and that ain't no expensive.
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  Speaker 1: It do cost.
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  Speaker 2: It do cost. So we're gonna get into that, like
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  Speaker 2: what it costs for us. Listen. I was in the
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  Speaker 2: airport yesterday and I couldn't get in the lounge because
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  Speaker 2: I ain't have Miami's card on me, so I was
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: actually sitting down in the airport. So I was mad.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: I said, went to this little margarita spot in the server,
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  Speaker 2: check my ID for my drink. And he was like, well, damn.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, how y'all do that?
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  Speaker 1: He was white, He's like, how y'all do that?
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: You know? First he was like take your glasses off?
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Because I had my son glasses on. He was like, well, damn,
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  Speaker 2: you're nine months older than me. But he looked very much.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what people expect you to look like
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  Speaker 1: at what age like.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: I think they expect you to look like them and don't.
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  Speaker 2: But we're gonna get into it when we come back
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  Speaker 2: from this commercial.
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  Speaker 1: All right, y'all so black, don't crack, but it do cost.
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  Speaker 1: So what were you saying about this man in the airport?
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  Speaker 2: Town? So this man was taking my id. He took
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  Speaker 2: my order and then asked to get my ID and
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  Speaker 2: I gave it to him reluctantly because I don't really
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  Speaker 2: tell people how old I am, but I guess I
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  Speaker 2: had to at a restaurant and he was like, can
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  Speaker 2: you take your glasses off from me? Please? So I
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  Speaker 2: took my glasses off and he was like, dang, like
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  Speaker 2: don cheeto. So he was like, damn, you look you
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  Speaker 2: look half your age. God, damn, how do y'all do that?
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: What is it? Is? It? Skincare. What is it? I
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: was like, it's melanin. Maybe you're not made it, but
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  Speaker 2: it's also lots of money, lots of products. Also because
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: I just had some botox in my forehead. And let
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  Speaker 2: me tell you, I was watching our videos from not
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  Speaker 2: this last recording, but the recording earlier, and I was
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: like wrinkling my forehead and I seen lines in it,
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: and I said.
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  Speaker 1: Both of us, bitch because I definitely had my boltox
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  Speaker 1: after that first series of videos.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not all just meling it. It's also
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  Speaker 2: a little bit of nip tut facial structure. So we
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  Speaker 2: do a little something once you get to a certain
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  Speaker 2: level of maturity and bag.
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  Speaker 1: Because it costs money for upkeep, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: So that's really what this episode is about, Like how
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  Speaker 1: much money are we really spending on making sure this
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  Speaker 1: black doesn't crack? Right? I think there are a lot
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  Speaker 1: of black women who really don't get bulltox and stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and don't need it either. Mm hm.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm probably like averaging once a year. I've only
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  Speaker 1: had it three times, and actually the first time is shit.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: I did that Dice sports shit that did not work,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: and it gave me a lazy eye, so I never
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: did that shit again. So it's only my second time
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: getting boltox. I find a really really, really really good
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: girl to do it. But yeah, for that your forehead
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: and this little mad dog fat piece right here, like
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I need to go back, and that's how it happens,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: I know, but seeing I shouldn't be able to scratch
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: my face. I'm already able to scratch my face and
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: now I need to go again.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: Well, no, you don't want it so tight that you
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: can't you don't have no facial expressions. Yeah, but I
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: don't want to doing that. That's why y'all should keep
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: doing it. And then want to talk about why I
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: keep doing that because you keep doing that.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I can't help it because I naturally, like
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: when I smile and laugh and stuff, I ball my
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: whole face up. So I need the botox to like
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: keep my forehead stiff.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so how much is that?
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Every time you go the person?
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: This is actually the cheapest I've ever spent, and probably
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: the most units I've ever gotten. It was like three
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: point fifty.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Oh that wasn't mad, not at all. I'll go get
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: a whole facial balancing, so I'll get that right. So
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: I have, y'all, I have a receding chin. I think
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: that's from my I just found out that I'm eleven
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: percent Scottish, so I think that's from my Scottish side,
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: because I see it more common in white people where
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: the chin it doesn't line up with the face, it
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: goes back a little bit. So I get chin filler
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: to like make it like balance. So between the chin
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: filler the botox in my forehead, i'd be spending like
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: a stack at how often I don't go as often.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: I might go like once a year or two, because
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: I really don't have a thousand dollars twice a year
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: to be given. I don't think I got a bad face,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: it'll be okay. But once I start saying like a
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: little like but y'all, I'm not gonna lie, I'm gonna
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: be honest. I'm getting chin lightpo in October.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: So and what does that consist of? Are you gonna
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: have like one of those things wrapped around your face?
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Yep?
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Is it not chin light?
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Or it's like this this part underneath the chin because
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: that second chin, it don't matter how much weight I
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: lose how much it has to do with like just
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: I think, honestly getting older elasticity. Yeah, so I'm getting
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: my chin turkey neck. Yeah, I'm getting my turkey neck.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: I don't want it no more. And I'm tired of
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: looking at it. And we do our when we do
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: our videos, I can't even hear what we're saying because
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: I'm staring at that second chin so hard, like I can't.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I hate it so hard on ourselves, man, So I'm
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: doing that. So black dude, crack it, do fall it,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: just don't fall as fast as others.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Now, you know who don't be cracking either. The Asian girlies.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: They have that age that Asian Cosmetics is like right,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: like the that stuff is really really good. I use
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: a line, God damn, I forgot the name of it,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: but I buy it and boke every Thanksgiving on Black Friday.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: But I use some of their some of their products,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: like the snail sermonss uh yeah, yeah.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I like that too. And then another thing I have
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: going on. I have like when I was a teenager,
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I never went through like the acne puberty stage neither
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: never had a single ZiT my whole life until I
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: got older up in like, I ain't gonna tell you
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: how I am, but up in there. Once I started
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: getting up in there, I started developing adult acne, but
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: just on my jaw line.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: On the chin. That's me running jaw line. I had
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: gotten you remember those pictures that I sent you? How
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I got that? And this is why I don't do
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: a whole lot of nothing right. And it takes me
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: a long time to even be like, get the must
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: up the nerve to even go get a botox or
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: something like that, because I have very bad luck when
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: it comes to fucking with my body. I got a
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: chemical peel ones and I swear to god, I had
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: a fucking first degree burn.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: I wish I.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Heard whichever is the highest.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: She sent me the pictures of her her jaw, and
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: it was white raw meat. I'm talking about white raw meat.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: I could not believe my eyes. And it was like
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: black like burn. It looked like burnt skin, like straight up.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: It was and essentially it burnt like I don't know,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I hope that's not what it's supposed to look like.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know how people go get their whole face
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: done with a chemical peel but maybe this person did
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: burn me, but thank god, right my body was able
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: to heal and regenerate new skin because I do have
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: like light scarring like right here, but you can't see
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: it because it's you know, underneath.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: But I'm seeing like now, I'm seeing chemical pills that
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: are like that, that are like they be like they
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: whole face come off and like like a hard and
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: it's i mean mhmm, like a scab. Yeah, like a
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: big assa coming off. And then when the skin heels,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: it looks amazing. But you just got to go through this.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: I mean, if you ladies want to do that dude
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: around Halloween, so you fit in, because baby, that ship
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: looks crazy. That's really vasive.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah it's cray z mmm. But so's it's being pretty
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: making us broke, you know what I'm saying, Like, especially
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: with the social media area and people who are actually
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: trying to look like they're the filters. You know, to
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: what ends are people spending to look perfect online?
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing with these filters. You ain't got
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: to spend no money. At this point, you ain't got
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: to spend no money. You just ain't gonna look like
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: you're filtered in real life, you know, that's so you
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: don't have China. Yeah, but people are trying to do that.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: That ship gets it very expensive, even if it when
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: it comes down to like just skincare products, not like
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: actual procedures, but like their products are high too. Exactly,
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: I'll be going to Trader Joe's and getting their skincare shit.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: I like their You think is it organic?
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm, it's stuff. I like their stuff. So I
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: go get their their toner. I get their jail face
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: moisturizer and a face wash right out of Trader Joe's,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: some nacho, some salsa, and some skincare right out of
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Trader Joe's.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: So aside from like cosmetic type products, like tell me
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: about the time you like actually like splurreged super splurged
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: on an outfit or sounding like that for an event,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: And how much did you spend oko fat shoes now
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: all the things.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: I this was many many many years ago, so I
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: didn't even have the money to be spending. But I
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: was going to Miami. I mean I was in my
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: like twenties at this time, y'all. I was going to
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Miami and I want and we were going to live.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I gotta be a Babbage when
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I'm going to live. So I it was this website
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: where you could rent designer clothes.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Wrong, rent the one runway way yep.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Rent the runway, and I got these cute dress. I
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: can't remember who the designer was, but I probably spent
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: like two hundred dollars to rent it. But then I
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: got in a fight in the club and they ripped
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: all the sequence off my dress, so I couldn't return
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: it like that. I had to pay for the dress
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: and it was two thousand dollars. Two thousand dollars dress,
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: So I mean, I guess that's a splurge. I didn't
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: intend to splurge. Them bitches ripped me out my dress.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: That was definitely a splurge on clothes. And then I
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: went to like in twenty sixteen, I went to Sonabella
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: to get my back fat removed. Don't go to Sonobella, y'all.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I can't unless you like really fat. It ain't for
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: you because I feel like my back I came out
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: with the same back I went in with.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: I even well, one of my friends she went to
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Sonabella and she is not super big either, but she
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: got a fat back like and when I tell you,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: none of that shit went away exactly.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know what they're doing. Like so when people
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: like do you have have you had plastic surgery? No? Right?
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Or it didn't work because that looked the same fucking
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: way I did before came out.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: So but does Sonobella like offer like non evasive lipol.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's not like yeah, because they don't put
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: you to sleep. It's kind of like freezing the fat
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: McDonald's of LiPo.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: Huh is it like freezing the fat or what are
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: they doing?
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: No? I don't know what the fuck they doing. I
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: wish I would a little bit like more smart about
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: how it went about playing for surgery, because it was
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: a waste of money. They give you a bunch of
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: drugs that make you sleepy, and they put some numb
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: and agent inside your back and then they just like
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: I think that gave me a back massage, and then.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: It was back there with one of the little dough
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: rollers just rolling your shit out.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: And that was it. That's really what I think happened.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: The drugs that give you make you kind of sleepy
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: and not like coherent for real, and I just really
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: think that that's what they did they just was that
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: they're playing on my back, rubbing it, smacking it, playing
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: on your top, and then that was it. What about you?
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever spent like an astronomical amount
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: of money. First of all, I feel like I can
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: make I'm gonna make the things look good no matter
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: what it is, right, So it's not not you can
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: some really nice pieces and not spend a whole bunch
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: of money. So I think probably the most, like maybe
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: on some shoes possibly, but like on just full a
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: thousand dollar max. If I got to really go to
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: an event or something like that, I'm probably not spending
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: over a thousand dollars like I'm You're gonna get a
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: good dress, might be three hundred and something dollars some shoes.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to get my makeup done. I'm doing
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: that shit myself. I have followed Tam up multiple times.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: You will though, I've seen you pay for makeup. Yeah.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Now I was about to say, like, yeah, I have
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: followed you up multiple times and paid for makeup, and
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: every time I'm like, I could have did this shit,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: or this is too much shit. I can't wait to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: wash my face. I don't like it. It's just too much,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and then you gotta wash off one hundred and fifty
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of product.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you what time I got some biggest
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: utization on right, yep, last time I was in Atlanta,
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I went and got my makeup done for I can't remember.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: I think it was the No, I didn't do it
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: for the festival. I can't remember. But I could not
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: even pay for my service because I could not open
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: up my banking with my face.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I D no, you did you did get your makeup done?
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Because remember I had to pay for it.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: I could not get to my bank. It did not
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: recognize me. It kept saying, I do know that, ain't you? Bitch?
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Who is this? And the first thing I told her
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: is like, I don't like a lot of makeup because
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: I want to look like myself.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Right, I not cast get ready?
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't even get into my bank.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because the makeup girlies don't know how to do
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: a light beat. I don't think, like if you go
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: get makeup, they automatically assume, like even when you say
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: light beat, it's gonna be like face full of makeup,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: like it's your wedding day or something. And even then,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I guess that's.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: That people be going for because I remember one time
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: we went and I was like, gosh, this is a
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: lot of makeup. But by the time it's set, I
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: was like, Okay, this looks nice. You know, this does
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: look nice, but I just like my.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: Side out that hmm, right out the chair, you'd be
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: looking like somebody else. But it does set, but it
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: takes like an hour for it to like look like
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: it's supposed to look right.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: So I'm not a big makeup earlier like that. I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: love makeup, but not just too much. Good grief and
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: that shit is so.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: So what about the girls who get all the nails
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: that cry cause you get your nails done. I don't
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: even get my nails done. So how much y'all people
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: paying for like the bedazzle nails like a Cardi B nail.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even know. I don't go that far.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Just give me some polish, that's all. I don't do
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: a whole bunch of designs and stuffs and stones and
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: shit because I don't have time for that order money.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: I know they be paying like up words of almost
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: a hundred fifty hundred and seventy five dollars for they nails.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: I'll be paying my twenty five dollars.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Huh, twenty five dollars was a full set back.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: In the ready. No seventy dollars easy, easy.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: You look what pedicure. Your pedicure is like forty dollars
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: now plus a tip? Fifty dollars plus a tip.
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, plus more than that. My feet, my refeet, I
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: need more. I need the whole shebang.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Not buy refeet.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: It's just the left foot, the right foot, normal, right
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: that left foot, Like I go to this girl that
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: ain't Tiffany the foot surgeon for my feet.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I need to serious shout out to Tiffany.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: Shout out the Tiffany what she do?
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: So do we is this stuff?
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Is it self care or self sabotage?
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Are we doing too much? I know the men hate
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: the weave, right, I just be like, it's a whole disclaimer.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: When I start talking to somebody, like, listen, you met
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: me with this weed. I always wear weave.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Don't kind of.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: Harass me a year from now, Like, baby, when you're
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: gonna let me fuck you with your natural?
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Never?
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I mean you have fucked me with the natural, but
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: it's under a bonnet. Okay, do you let me see
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: your hair? He probably could have had a would have
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: had the opportunity to see it if he would have
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: just walked in the bathroom at some point. But no,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: I'd be putting on a bonnet if I don't have
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: my way going. I don't just be walking around with
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: my fucking braids. Do you have hair pretty?
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: No?
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I don't. It's just nothing though. It's not like my
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: hair is in style. You know, even if with natural
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: hair you can just you know, do two strand twists
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: or something like that to make it look cute. It's
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: fucking dry and breid it down. What am I showing?
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: So no, it's not insecurity. Maybe if I actually did
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: the hair, then it would be cool, but it's not
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: done like in nine times out of ten, Like these
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: braids underneath this fucking wig look crazy. Yeah, And I
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: feel like women need to keep something. I need to
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: keep something to myself, the illusion, right, you have to
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: style and experience.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Passing that out ahead?
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Sorry what you say because it'd be hidden?
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Go ahead? What were you saying?
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you gotta keep something to yourself, you know,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Like I don't think that men should wash their women
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: get dressed. I don't think so. I don't think you
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: should see me putting my makeup. I want to doing
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: all the things, putting my magic together. I don't think
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: it's your business.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I don't do too much walking around
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: like naked. I stay covered up, like you only get
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: to really see me naked until it's until you get
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: to see me naked.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I'm a naked person. I'd be walking like I hate clothes.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: As soon as I hit the door, I'm taking all
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: my clothes off. Can you just be walking around here
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: all the time, Yes, I do. I come from a
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: naked family. Like even the fun boys like niggas be naked.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I'd be naked, but when I'm with a man, I
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: be covered up because this is this is your price,
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: this is your surprise. You don't get to see it,
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: just all willy lilly.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Willy nilly. So I think it's I mean, I think
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: it's it's self love. I don't think it's you're sabotaging
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: in any type of way. I believe that you know,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: we should do whatever makes us feel good. Right, So
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: if and and men should be okay with their woman
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: make them feel good, Yeah, Yeah, my ex for example,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: he would always complain and then say he just wants
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: me to be comfortable. I am comfortable. I am not
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: the one complaining about the fucking weave. There's some ship
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: that you'd be doing. I could very well complain about
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: some things that you waste money on. I can complain
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: about like so you under the guys of control, right,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: that's control, but under the guys of just wanted me
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: to be comfortable, you're really making me uncomfortable. And now
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: I got to have a whole argument with you about
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: fucking weave. The point the one time this nigga called
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: his mom, and his mom was like, you're asking the
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: wrong person. I wear wigs right, because essentially he was
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: trying to say I wasn't me. I wouldn't be me
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: without the weave. And yes, I am talking about the
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: nigga who cut my wig up one time, okay, because
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: he thought he was removing some swag from me, and
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I just went and fucking sewed me up another one.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: I got so much weave, I can open the shop
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: right now. But yeah, he thought he was like taking
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: some swag away. No, I'm still mean with it, and
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: I still treat you good with or without weaves. So
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: what are we talking about.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I don't like when niggas be like spray paint in
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: their beer. I don't like that. But if that makes
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: you feel good, then who am I to tell you
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: not to do that? You know, but maybe let me
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: paint like I will even do the color for you, baby,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: don't put that like that hard line paint line. That's
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: what I don't like. I don't mind you coloring it.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: That's fine, do that, But that hard paint line be
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: making me real upset.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Called anxiety a little bit mm hmm, break that anxiety
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: a little bit, break that line up the fuck. So
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: let's do like a little let's go over like a
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: budget of some sort, like how much people be spending,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: like the high end, and maybe we could do like
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: a budget low wind to try to help some of
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: the listeners. And most of the most of our listeners
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: are younger women, right, And you don't.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Got to do much younger women. It's half and half.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: It's women younger and in the middle. Right yeah probably
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: your age, Yeah, your age too.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: So I just want to back it up a little bit,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: right because I know I mentioned like, was it like
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: self love or are we self sabotaging spending all this
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: fucking money on things and stuff and keeping out with
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: the joneses and keeping out with the trends? What do
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: you think? Do you think it's self love?
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: It's a little bit of both, honestly, because when you
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: look good, you feel good. You know, absolutely, when you
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: got on some new shit, your hair is all leg
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: you feel nice, you feel good inside. I don't know
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: if our self worth is attached to our outer appearance,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: but maybe so a little bit. So. I mean that's
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: self love to me. But at the same time, if
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: you eating ramen noodles to get your hair done, that's
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: not self love. You putting that portion into your body,
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: you know, and you.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Look like money.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: You sacrifice in your health to look good. It's people
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: who don't have a side tooth, but hair is laid
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: I lean more towards I understand like it is kind
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: of both. But I think when I think about the
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: black community and our culture, it is self sabotage because
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: niggas will wear the money instead of actually having it.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: You know, people will be spending a last damn dollar
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: on some shit and ain't paid a light bill. Your
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: lights off because we know black people are the number
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: one consumers around the world. Okay, we're gonna buy some shit.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Everybody markets to us. We move culture, we move style, fashion,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: all that stuff absolutely so they expect us to buy. Meanwhile,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: we put all our money out. We don't have much
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: coming in, right, And I know for a fact that
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: if a depression hits Mo, bitches is still going to
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: TAM's vanity they get their hair done right, it don't
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: even matter. So as a black woman, like the beauty
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: industry is the number one industry you should be in
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: because bitches don't have a dime left, but they're gonna
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: barter some Kucie or something to get there. So I
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: lean more towards it being a little bit self sabotaged.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, I just feel like other races of
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: people can show up for real, like truly their true
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: authentic self and an example of this. And I hate
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: that my ex par I be listening to this shit
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: and be like bitch fucking But when I met him,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: it would be like an equivalent in comparison to pictures
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: he would show me of him and how he had
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: like the gold teeth and all the things. It would
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: be like a a Gucci mane like three sixty right,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: completely different person. And he was in the hood, hustling
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: in the streets like he had to. Always super smart though,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: always an intellectual, but because of his environment, he couldn't
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: even show that part in him. This nigga liked to
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: make his own clothes. Like when I met him, he
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: had some crazy ass ban Dana shit on it, some
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: tank top he had sewed up hisself on the sewing machine,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Like that is the real hymn. Some shit he didn't
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: even have to go spend two three hundred dollars on,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Like that's really what he liked, but he was trying
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: to to he mastered it. Because of his environment, he
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: couldn't show how smart he was. He couln't show how
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: creative he was, you know, because we think everything is
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: whack and lame, like even like the glow up with
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the white men when they get with black women, Like
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: the glow up is that that's a real thing. And
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know they got anything to do with clothes
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: or just the energy of us, right, it could be
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: both a little combination of both, but they look like
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: they spending more money on clothes once they get with
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: a black woman.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: Right, But I think we culturally, not just black, but
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: even in Africa, like we've always been very aesthetic pleasing. Yeah,
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: like that's part of who we are, you know. I
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: went and did some research during a break, and I
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: found that the black in twenty twenty four, the black
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: consumers spent over nine point point four billion dollars on
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: beauty products, and it was expected ten point two billion
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: last year. I couldn't find last year's numbers, but in
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: two point three billion went to hair, cosmetic and nail
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: grooming one point nine billion, facial skincare one point one
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: billion dollars and in body one point two billion dollars,
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: in fragrance one point five billion dollars. And we are
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: the greatest spenders in the country, even though we make
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: up a fraction of it.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Right, So Bobo's always been lean, but we would stress
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: our parents out, not even realized they couldn't even afford
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: that bult that bullshit, right, stressing your parents out for
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Jordan's and not my mama because she ain't give a fuck. Girl.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I ain't getting no name brad sneakers for real until
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I started buying them in high school. I gets some
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: regulized nikes and that's it. But you know, and we
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: grew up in a house though, so her priorities was intact.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Bit motherfuckers was growing up in the hood, had all
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: of shit right, all the j's every time they came out.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: But some people, in their defense, they feel like they're
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: never going to be able to have that stuff, like
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: the big home, the big cars. The greatest thing they
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: have is the outward appearance of their esthetic. So they're
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: gonna pour into that because the house seems just outside
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: of what they will ever be able to get. But
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: I can look good, you know, I can drive a
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: nice car, and I can look good every day, you know,
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: And that's probably as far as I can go.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: But that's not true generally. Yeah, it's not true. But
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I understand the limiting mindset, right, the lack of mentality.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: And I think our generation millennials in particular, the way
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: we be sending these kids to school and to prom like,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: how are they going to keep up with that as adults?
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Like what the fuck was thinking about getting a Gucci
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: bag in high school?
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Right? Like?
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: These little kids want like real bags and parents are
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: affording these things. I don't know where they getting the
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: money from is it a real bag, is a canal street?
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: But I got a homegirl who daughter got like a
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: little Gucci bag to start school and goddamn elementary school.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: What is happening. I know, you get some little hand
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: me down, you get my little hand me down shit.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: But no, I'm not going to buy your brand new
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: anything for that type of money. It just doesn't make
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: sense to me.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I just don't have it because I would do it.
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: I know I would do it, you would do it.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I took I.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: Had this diamond bracelet that this guy brought me and
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: it was expensive bracelet, but needed to get some links
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: taken out because it didn't fit my wrists and tall.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I went to put them diamonds in my god baby ear, Okay,
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: and I do it, And I know it was expensive.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: So I know that I'm the type that will trick
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: off on some kids. I ain't gonna lie. I will Yeah, I'm.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Not buying no Gucci bags and shit for for kids
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: to lose kids. I mean, now, this little girl who
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, like she's at the age now where
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: like she likes fashion. You know, she's maybe fifth grade
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: or something like that. So if that's what they're into
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: and they know exactly what it is, like you ask
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: them what they want for Christmas and that's the actual
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: thing on their list, a Gucci bag.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Right. It's probably because of their parents. You know their
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: mom is into that kind of thing. But what I
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: don't like is when parents buy kids expensive stuff and
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: then get mad at them for ruining it. Like, man,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: if you're willing to pay for this stuff, remember your
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: kids still gets to be a kid. You know.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: I send this girl whipping her baby.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: Because he was squiffing up his shoes. He is three
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: years Oh, if you don't want exactly some shoes, get
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: him some little pokemons or something, you know like that,
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: if it matters that much, it's too small to be
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: especially spanking him for that.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, kids are gonna be kids. That's why you
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: should buy them bullshit. Okay, until they actually know what
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: it is and then they understand the value of things
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: and they can take care of it. But you can't
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: expect a kid to walk on water because that's your
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: big grown ass dude, because you like cherish these sneakers
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: and these things. You know what I'm saying. Over a
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: nice home, right, you know what I'm saying.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: And then people really don't be I mean, you get
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: that stuff and they feel good for a while, and
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: then you be fucking it. My best friend got a
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: Burken for her birthday last year, that expensive bag, and
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: it was a dirty diaper in there.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: The other day, I was like, oh my god, because
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: it's just a bag. Yeah, at that point, like it's
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: just I got it out.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, some snacks down in there,
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: like children's gonna be But you know, it's just a
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: bag at the end of the day.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: So shit, it's a diaper bag. And them bags ain't
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: even that damn Q. It's so many more like nicer,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: like lower end. I don't even want to call it
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: lower end, because bitch, what what what makes something designer?
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: It's not what I'm saying. It's about the mental status
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: that we give these things, not the actual thing most
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: of the time.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Not the actual value of it, right, because it don't
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: cost nothing to make a lot of this shit.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: I was looking at somebody posted yesterday are the cars
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: that we used to be driving in the earth like
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: not us guys, And they had, like you remember the cars,
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: the fruit loops, the Cinnamon House, Crush the eminem like
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: they will put all these brands on their cars and
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: design the car around that brand. That shit was hideous.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, you, opinion, did you get a check
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: from it?
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: No, nobody, none of those They got all that free
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: advertisement from your stupid ass. But who decided that that
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: was the shit? Somebody decided that was a look, and
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: then the mental consciousness around it decided that that was
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: what you needed to do to have a nice country
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: ass car, and then that's what you did.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, I don't know, man. I think we,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I think black people as a whole, we got to
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: like re calibrate. And it's yeah, because I just I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: prefer a nice home over stuff, you.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Like right now, I want a brand new car, and
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: I could go get one, but I do not want
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: a car payment, Like right now, the interest rates on
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: the loans, the insurance I my car, y'all, Why the
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: fuck am I paying like two hundred and fifty dollars
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: a month for car insurance? I don't even understand it.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: You'll have a brand new car, you know what I'm saying.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: So I even if I I want to be if
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: I can't buy a cash I don't want it, so
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: I keep it. I feel like it's gonna be some
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: old ass lady, right, some old ass couple go and
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: drop day fucking brand new Mercedes AMG sixty three on
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: a car, guru, and it's gonna be for me for
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: twenty five thousand dollars, and I'm gonna go slap them
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: in the face with a bag and drive off in
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: the car. That's what I just think is going to
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: happen for me, because that's what the fuck is going
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: to have to happen, because I do not believe in
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: paying fifteen a month for a car and insurance. That's
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: crazy to me.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: I don't pay that.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: I'll buy a cash car forever.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: I do pay it a lot, but not that much,
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: not that a.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Lot of people for what I want, You're gonna pay
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: by two thousand dollars a month for it, And that's like,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: that's nuts.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not playing nuts, not one. I got to
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: do everything by myself. If I lived in a dual
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: income house, I still wouldn't want to pay two thousand dollars.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Of me in the car, But because I would be
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: thinking about what else I I can do with that money,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Like that's vacation, you know what I'm saying.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: Well, maybe it's because we don't have a lot of money. People.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: It's probably somebody listening to us, Like two thousand dollars
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: a month, that's nothing. These girls are poor.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: You know, hey, look more power to you, because even
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: when I get this super duper bag, I still am not.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: I don't like paying a lot to live. And what
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: people need to realize is that rich people really don't
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: spend money. Okay, they get a lot of free shit.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah they do, especially if you're an influencer online, like
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: you will get all your free clothes. They don't spend money.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: We are the consumers. The middle class and below are
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: really the people who are consuming the most is not
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: rich people. And I even hate to see like people
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: always like to compare like how flashy people be in
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: comparison to how flashy like a billionaire these billionaires be
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: having on three thousand dollars T shirts. Right, it's because
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: it doesn't have a label on it doesn't mean it's
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: not cost a lot, right. You see, Black people could
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: tend to be labor labor label wars sometimes, right, But
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: white folks they have they little things that cost a
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: lot of money that may just not have a label
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: on it.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: I don't remember. Many many many years ago, o Cho
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: Sinko said to me, like, I get used the diamonds
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: out of Claires. Oh, let me tell you that part
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: out this guy said to me, because and I was
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: like Claire's. He's like mine from Claire's. He's like, because
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: people are gonna think they real because I'm me.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: Exactly exactly exactly. Yeah, So when your reputation precedes you,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: you can pull up with some fake shit on it.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody gonna question it, right.
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: But that ain't gonna work for me. Baby, These gonna
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: look like Claire's unless you upgrade my whole life. Now
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: just another bitch with Claire earing zone. Please stop?
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Where was this? I think this is that du ball day.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: The bitches is walking around with the diamond tester on.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: These dudes man testing niggas gold teeth. They was testing
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: their chains and shit. I'm like, why why black people
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: got to embarrass each other like that?
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: Like it looks nice, So what if it's really fake?
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: It looks nice, right, move around, like just be so
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: hard on each other when it comes to aesthetics.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: Asthetics, yeah, very hard. I was watching this video today.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: It was Nelly for Toto and she's gotten older and
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: she's put on some weight, you know, and there were
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: nick and a sick yeah she thicks, And it was
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: men in the comments like just tearing her up and
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: like just saying all the nastiest, meanest shit about her body.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: And then when you would go to their page, I
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: would just I just took about fifteen minutes out of
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: my life to read them down, like read.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Them you're good for that shit, that shit messing.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Ooh ooh. That makes me so angry because how dare
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: you over there with dirty fingernails, balding head, fucking stomach
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: hanging over your pants, cracks showing uh, dusty rusty ass
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: got the nerve to talk about this woman because she
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: put on way and look at you the fuck. That
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: shit pissed me so bad. And I will go and
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: look at your pictures and then read you down because
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: you deserve it.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: That's just like recently Charlamagne on Brian Idiots, they were
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: talking about what's uh, what's Monica's ex husband name? The
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: basketball player girl?
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't be keeping up with the
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: people marriage. Right.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: So recently he was on not he wasn't on, but
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: they had a clip he was recently on somebody's podcast
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: and he basically was saying, like, you need to get
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: you a man need to get paw peers. Yeah, said
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: that men need to men need to get them like
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: a strong five six to seven. Don't be getting these nines,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: eight nines and tens because you know, basically the eight
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: nines and tens know they're worth and attacks or right,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: So get you a strong five six seven who want
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: to put some elbow, grease and muscle in there with you?
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: Some bullshit? Basically, y'all want somebody that y'all can tower over, right,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: y'all want a bitch with self esteem issues and all
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: these things, right. And I commented on that post and
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I said, you know, all I said was men are
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: way more shallow than women. That's all I said. So
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: of course you're want to get the attacks and it's
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: just the truth because men are way more they're visual creatures, right,
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: So a three and if we're going to put people
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: on the scale, which I don't like doing shit like
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: that because you know it's beauty is in the eye
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: of the of the beholder, right, So if a man
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: is a three, he still thinks he deserves a ten.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: So that's why you see these threes commenting on Nelly's
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: for tato because in their mind they still should have
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: access to smash on the eight nines and tens. How
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: dare you not give me no pussy? And that's mental,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: that is crazy. So women, we find men attractive for
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: different reasons outside of just aesthetics. For men, it's straight
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: up how you look right, And a lot of men
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: are with women that they don't find aesthetically a please
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: and they really don't even like you. They really think
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: that they're supposed to have somebody else. Their their finances
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: probably just don't afford them to get the woman they
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: think they're supposed to have. But even if you get
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: the money, sir, you're probably still going to be lean.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: I remembers that part. I remember this guy saying. We
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: were all sitting around a table in a bar talking
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: and he said he compared his wife to a good Honda.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you said that.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: I'll never forget that shit. I will never. I was appalled.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: And was she there table? I think she went to
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: the bar to get another round or something like that.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: That's fucked up right there. Why are you a woman
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: going to get the drinks right? Well, I think we
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: all took turns getting rounds it with. I'm like, no,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: big dem, I don't know him saying some shit like that,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: but I feel like he really be mistreating her.
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: Oh whether or not they divorced eventually, but good, I
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: couldn't believe that, Like, please, God, don't ever send me
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: in love like that where the man considers me a
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: reliable Honda Cord and nothing's wrong with my Honda Cord. Girl,
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: is if you're driving the Honda, I want you to
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: hear this to think your car is less than because
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: it is not. They are nice cars, but if you're
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: using it as a comparison to what you your mate,
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: it just seems like insulting very much.
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: So, yes, a reliable Honda. That means you can dry
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: that motherfucker what Tuna say, Treatah said, we treating niggas
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: like rental cars, dogging them out with no dog gas.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Nothing you could talk about. So he just he just
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: gonna run through his fucking wife and she try just
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: be there, still working, because you know, you can put
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: about two hundred thousand miles on a Honda.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: Right, the good card. I mean, they're good, reliable.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: Good bitch ladies. Don't let don't let these dudes trick
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: you like that man, like don't listen, No, okay, hold on,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: I want to play a quick game, right quick though,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: sh you know, whenever we record again, like visuals. I
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: got a little website. I want you to take this
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: little test on. Were gonna both take the test. I
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: won't tell you exactly what it's along the lines of this,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: right or it's like how delusion are women? Really? It's
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: but would you spend or save?
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Game?
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: Basically? So are you going to spend nine hundred dollars
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: on a designer purse or three months worth their groceries?
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: I don't want to choose. If I gotta choose, I
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: can't do this, Like why we gotta choose?
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm I'm saying, like what it depends on
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: what's going on in my life? You know, Like.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Because grandmama, my grandmama, my grandmama sick.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: Right, it's grandma sick and she needs some money because
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: I want a bag and I want food? Like why
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: I got to choose? Right?
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: But it's online.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: If I don't have no food, obviously I'm gonna get food.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: You know that's not obvious though, because it's a lot
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: of people if they got some shit to do, they
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: might fuck around, don't eat for the week to look
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: like somebody on the weekend.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Right and say I'm fasting, bitch, you're broke.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Three hundred dollars sneakers versus emergency savings fund.
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: If I don't have any emergency savings, then I'm gonna
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: put the money in the fun But if I got something,
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: I'm getting me some shoes. I need some.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Shoes, right. I won't say this is really for us,
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: because I think we might be a little bit more.
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: We're older.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, because did you didn't have health care?
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: Right now, I'm gonna eat.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty dollars on lashes versus gas for
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: the month.
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: I listen, I don't believe in paying for lashes. I
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: done have so many bad lash experiences. Look as stupid
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: as fucking can't get that ship off my face because
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: I got really curly lashes. And I tell that girl,
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: please don't put a curly lash on because it'll just
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: roll back into my eye and you your eyes closed
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: so you can't see what the fuck is happening. So
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: when I opened my eyes and I looked in that
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: fucking mirror and cup care on my face, look at
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: God damn stupid, and then I had to ground immediately
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: after he was looking at me stupid, I was looking
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: at him stupid. I was like, I'm not paying for this.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: I's looking though, So I'm gonna get the gas every time,
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna put on a stripe the clusters that
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: go underneath. They're cheaper and they look just as good.
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: So there, mm.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: I like, like, I got a really good like list
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: of good lashes from Amazon, like somebody keeping rotation heavily
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: that looked like, you know, they look good like individuals. Yeah,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: it looks like men clashes. So I don't know, but
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: there's nothing like you just always look done with a
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: lash on, though, there's something about just having that last
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: you wake up in the morning. But then another thing
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: is I always feel like I cannot wash my face
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: good with them lashes on. Yeah, because you're gonna wash
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: them off, you.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: Gotta wash around them. And I just like going like
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: this is you know, just like scrubbing my face and
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: you can't do that with the lash. So what's next, bitch,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: because I'm gonna go with the gas.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: That was the last so basic bullshit, Like why anybody
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: would like buy some shit instead of eating. I don't know.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't know.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: And you looked at that game and thought it was
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: fun because.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: But there's some people listening right now who not even
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: listening right now, this is in my life. I begin
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: text messages I don't know, just because I don't have kids.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: People think I got all this excess money, and I'm
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: here to tell y'all ps a, I do not. Okay, there,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I like spending money on house shit on me first
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: of all, on me, oh me, Yeah. So now I
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: get these text messages for like real money, and I'm like,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: what what about me? Like what am I showing anybody
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: to make them think that I can just give this
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: out this month and not have to worry about it?
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: I don't. Yeah. I don't like people who you see
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: them living in excess and then asking to borrow shit.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: That's my exactly. It's like, oh, using me to supplicate supplement.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: They want to borrow my money to do the ship
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: you should have done with yours that I don't like.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what be happening because you see how
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: they be moving and then argument.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: Like they very very flashy, and then one of their
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: parents died and then they made a go fund me
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: to pay for it. And I'm like, really, because y'all
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: the way y'all live and buy expensive things and clothes
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: and designer everything, and all these lavish vacations and now
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: y'all can't afford to bury your parent is crazy.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: Nobody had life insurance.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: Right, Like, it's weird. You got to tell someone in
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: Bags Beach because I don't know what to tell.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: And that's the thing in the black community, like we
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: buying all the stuff and don't have life insurance on it, right,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like you can get a
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: real cheap policy on a young, healthy person, right, Ladies,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: you got baby daddies, put some life insurance on them, niggas.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: At least you get something in death.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Right and something don't get nothing in life.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: Hopefully it ain't soon and early in his life, but
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: at some point you're going to get paid back for
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: the heartache.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: Right, So okay, you got anything else to add? Because
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: I got a dumbitch story.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: No, no, that's it, and I want I did want
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: to go through like a little budget thing.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: But yeah, well go ahead, because that's probably the best
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: information that they would get from this today.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: It is not really even a budget for real. It's like,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know, is this time that you be spending
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: on shit? Wag install two hundred and fifty.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: I feel like this morning, Oh no, you just gonna
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: talk about how much bitch is spending though. I'm about
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: to do the dumb dist story. They know how, you know,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: they fucking up, Bunny up.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: We gotta tell them like before, like before we get
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: into the dumbest story. Y'all just noticed that our whole ship,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: the whole economy is about to change. You better start
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: saving it money. Yeah, that that is really the gist
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: of it's conversation. Save your fucking money. Stop spending money
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: on bullshit. Stop eating out all the time. Like the
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: restaurants can't cook better than me. I'm always disappointed when
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: I go eat out. I be pissed every fucking time. Okay,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: I took my uh people's out of his birthday. The
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: bill was almost like three hundred and fifty dollars or something.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Like that he didn't like his steak. He didn't like
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: his food. So that that bothers me because I know
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: I could have cooked a bomb ass steak at the house.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: It gets steaked in head, I mean eggs.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: No, you said it right, hour, go ahead, all right,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: this number story is from sig. I ain't gonna say
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: your dad. You thought I was gonna say your dad.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: Man here, all right, she said, keep my name confidenttional.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know these bitches, d.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Give my name your motherfucker moum.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: Okay. So hey, ladies, let me just start by saying
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: I absolutely love your podcast. I've been listening for a
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: little over a year now, but literally went back and
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: listened to every episode we talked to Your Girl. Only
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: reason I even listened to podcasts Now, I'll be bored
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: waiting until Thursday for a new episode. Lol. Thank you friend,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: We love you too.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: Homegirl, Home Girl.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the dirt. I remember when
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: I was in my early twenties. I'm at thirty now.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: I was very infatuated with this young lady. I had
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: been Facebook friends with her for years, and I was
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: just so interested in the life she portrayed. I ended
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: up running into her at a party of a mutual friend,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: and we actually hit it off. We hung out a
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: few more times with friends until she finally agreed to
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: let me take her out. We went out. She insisted
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: on picking me up. We had a great time. By
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: the end of the day we were being followed. The
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: repo man came and took her car. I wasn't approved
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: about it or anything. We went out again, We had
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: sex once, and I bought her a new car. She
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: stopped seeing me soon after I bought her the car. Standing,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: I was goddamn is bye bitch's car? Right? Standing? I
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: was two dollar but had gotten into a relationship with
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: a mutual mutual friend I met through her. I met
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: her through So the girl got into a relationship with
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: a mutual friend that this person met through the girl.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, I get it. Yeah.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: So after all that, I continue to be friends with her,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: giving her money now and then. And I'm the godmother
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: of her daughter. I'm a super simp bitch, but I
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 2: love my god baby. Lo ol.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: Girl, that's your god baby.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: Now, yep, that's her god baby. She got a baby.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: I guess the girl got with a man. And I
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: asked her to be the godmother. Yeah, because you simping
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: you buying chip? Yes, you a god bo nice? Yeah
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: cause nice. I need a car, Listen, I want one
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: of them twelve hundred dollars month cars that AJ was
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: talking about. Can you give me one?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Bitch said, you're giving out cars running Bitch, like, what right?
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: Let me find out. Let me find out. The ladies
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: be simpling the biggest tricks. Let me women are the
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: biggest tricks. That's why I don't want to stand what
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: men be talking about. Like and first of all, the
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: real gold diggers trick first. Obviously, I don't mind spending
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: money on the dude. I don't espectually.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: I like about ways to buy you ship, Yes, and
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 2: I want to see you and ship.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: I want to smell you a certain way, absolutely, like
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: I want to the same way men be wanting to
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: make your life easier when they actually love you. That's
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: exactly how women come through for men, or women can
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: come through for you, exactly. Bitch, go ahead and get
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: you a girlfriend.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: Girl just came through an email because I slid to
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: your das if you buy cards. Bitch, Hey, friends, I
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: love you.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: She ain't trying to be no motherfucking friend. She probably
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: fuck with niggas now, and she's like, man, these bitches
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: be using people right. She went to man to man,
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: I wonder you're fucking with men now?
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: Let us know, right, come back to the other side.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: It's rough over here too, though, bitch, I ain't gonna
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: hold you if you ain't came, just know it's rough
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: over here. What's your last list? Everywhere?
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: I think I already pretty much gave it right. Get
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: y'all some fucking life assurance. Stop spending money on bullshit.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: Get y'all some cryptocurrency. Okay, I think our financial I
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: work in the financial sector, so I could tell y'all
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: firsthand shit about to be different. By twenty thirty, it's
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: gonna look a whole lot different. And this year, damn
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: there over with so definitely setting us up for the
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: okie doke. If you think you're gonna keep putting money
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: under your mattress, that ain't gonna work. We're gonna be
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: wiping our ass on twenties. Okay.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: So okay, My thing is, you know, do the things
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: that definitely make you feel beautiful, but have balance. Don't
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: blow all your money on frivolous things. Don't blow all
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: your money on a Chloe belt. You don't need that belt.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: You can get just a regular chain bilt and then
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: you know, and then get something else that you know
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: makes you feel good, and then save some It's gotta
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: be some balance. That's all I'm saying, you know. So
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: that's what I because I don't say like, don't go
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 2: around here walking around looking crazy because AJ said save
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: your money. I still want you to look nice.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: Now you can look nice fashion over, don't put cotton
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: in it. Don't buy all that polyester.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 2: Bull say boom.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: You can get some nice stuff uf of fashion Over.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: You just gotta tell them what type of material you're
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: looking for it. That's how I shop a fashion over.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: I put cotton or linen. Everything else is polyester, and
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: I'm in a lot of the high end designer stuff
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: be polyester too.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: So you just got the good stuffs, not even it'll come.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 2: It's like the bitch on the picture look nice and
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: then it come to you and looking like some shit.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: You could have bought out the hairstore and.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: They be having irregular shit, Like I gotta jump suit
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: in there right now. One leg a longer than the other.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So That's why I'm just like go and Revolve.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: I like Revolve.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I love Revolved. I got so much shit in my man.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: I got like a million dollars worth of shit in
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: my little You need to have a yards.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 2: Hell, That's what I keep saying. I need to have, Like,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: I just need to find a way to sell all this.
• 1:10:08
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