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e. empathy - Anuskatzz asmr · Anuskatzz stays curious

• 0:00
  Speaker 0: Hey, so nice that you are around.
• 0:05
  Speaker 0: My name is ASMRCuts together with my cat Popel.
• 0:12
  Speaker 0: Popel is the German name for Buga.
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  Speaker 0: You clicked on my new series The ASMR Alphabet where I will talk today about E empathy.
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  Speaker 0: If your curious what ABC and D was already about, feel free to follow subscribe and click on the notification bell.
• 0:57
  Speaker 0: And check all my other videos because I have way more in stock for you!
• 1:18
  Speaker 0: Sadly i can't move the microphones closer otherwise he runs away... ...and there's nothing better to talk about empathy while having a cat on my lap.
• 1:36
  Speaker 0: Empathy.
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  Speaker 0: Without empathy, I would not be here right now speaking in front of the camera with you because then...I also wouldn't make ASMR!
• 1:56
  Speaker 0: ...I'd say that one of my secret weapons is empathy.
• 2:13
  Speaker 0: I know so many people need more empathy.
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  Speaker 0: Empathy comes from experience and empathy is, I think also something that you can fine-tune.
• 2:57
  Speaker 0: You have to practice it!
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  Speaker 0: I am one hundred percent thinking that every one of us has empathy in our hearts but a lot people are numbed against this empathy because they are so distracted from their own trouble.
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  Speaker 0: But still, I think we all experience kind of similar stories where we can grow in empathy and for me it was always very important to have a lot of empathy A lot of times, I wish... ...I would have a little bit less.
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  Speaker 0: But.. ..I directly feel the person who's directly in front of me.
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  Speaker 0: Even so ,the person say ''I'm fine''.
• 4:12
  Speaker 0: I feel when the person isn't Or When i see that a person carry something very heavy I know it is heavy and then want to help And think its good thing to do and learn, have more empathy.
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  Speaker 0: But what I lose in the same way is the empathy for myself – also speak out your own borders!
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  Speaker 0: A person with empathy has always tended to put everyone else first… And when you put everybody else first... You forget about yourself.
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  Speaker 0: What actually shouldn't be?
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  Speaker 0: because you are having the same value as anyone else, why not even more?
• 5:31
  Speaker 0: Because the longest relationship you have is a relationship to your self.
• 5:54
  Speaker 0: maybe You asked yourself how can practice empathy?
• 6:03
  Speaker 0: I would say Empathy always starts within yourselves to listen why you fear things and how you feel them.
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  Speaker 0: Why something making you so happy or why something is making your soul sad?
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  Speaker 0: Empathy for sure also comes from experiences, if you have a lot of arguments where you feel discomfort and that someone is stepping on your feet without letting you speak out or whatever.
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  Speaker 0: Then, when you see others in the same situation.
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  Speaker 0: You kind of know how they fear.
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  Speaker 0: And then...you are directly more empath.
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  Speaker 0: ...have directly more empathy.
• 7:41
  Speaker 0: I hope i explained it right.
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  Speaker 0: I studied social work and there, i had seen a lot of people with a lot empathy.
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  Speaker 0: And it was always similar because they were able to feel what someone else is feeling... ...and then they are very very caring persons.
• 8:35
  Speaker 0: What made me pretty happy because I think when you work with other humans, You should be able to have empathy.
• 8:48
  Speaker 0: I also know When i let the fine-tuning of empathy in my life And treated others With more empathy Very very good things happen To Me Because with Empathy I also had a weapon, I call it respect.
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  Speaker 0: And i was able to respect others the way they are because I knew that doesn't matter through what there is going on.
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  Speaker 0: They're this reason Because... ...they were treated in certain ways In the past.
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  Speaker 0: With empathy You can teach with all otherwise.
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  Speaker 0: With empathy, you can teach people so much.
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  Speaker 0: since I let empathy in my life... ...I am able to teach.
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  Speaker 0: when someone of my friends would want they will say yeah-yeah-yeah but i believe truly in it!
• 10:45
  Speaker 0: I believe truly because I have empathy know how someone else is feeling in a certain way, I can be able to share more love than others.
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  Speaker 0: Because i know what do you want?
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  Speaker 0: To show the person a lot of self-love and confidence through the power of empathy.
• 11:24
  Speaker 0: Think very simple!
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  Speaker 0: You are now on the fight And there's so many discussions about whatever, when you would stay there and say I know how you feel.
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  Speaker 0: And i'm sorry that this way because of these reasons and not like the reason why you invented it No!
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  Speaker 0: Because of reasons where a person in front really knows I understand and see, value.
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  Speaker 0: And know how the other person feels?
• 12:23
  Speaker 0: Then this person feels loved, valued... ...and feels good!
• 12:35
  Speaker 0: With that you can move mountains but only when you really know what the other persons kind of feel and therefore you had to go through these feelings before.
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  Speaker 0: Otherwise, You only can imagine for example I Can Feel a Lot Of Emotions But i Only Can Imagine How It Could Feel When Someone Lose A Very Close Family Member because I never lost a very close family member.
• 13:29
  Speaker 0: No person close to me died yet, but for sure can say that i absolutely know how it feels when your cat is running away from you for one month and don't know if its still alive?
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  Speaker 0: If its well or something happened because with Pope, he was now a few days ago coming back from one month's adventure where he just gone.
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  Speaker 0: And I was so worried and friends told me hey you have to let go maybe he comes back?
• 14:25
  Speaker 0: Maybe not...and i thought more!
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  Speaker 0: I want to treat everything around me good and want to show the universe that I wanted my Popel back.
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  Speaker 0: For example, short after Popel was gone –and i was very worried– a wild wild squirrel was running close to us!
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  Speaker 0: And he wasn't running away from me or my boyfriend…I put him in the garden... ...and he still was with us.
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  Speaker 0: And for sure It was cute, but I knew there's something off because usually no scribble will come to a person.
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  Speaker 0: They all run away!
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  Speaker 0: So i checked in Google and happily found this rescue number where I was calling But I needed to drive far far away To bring the scrabble There.
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  Speaker 0: No one else would do that.
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  Speaker 0: Some would not sit for hours in the car to bring a wild animal away.
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  Speaker 0: So I did and i was riding the rescue woman that, I hope that this girl will be fine And I hope That This good thing Will bring my cat back?
• 16:08
  Speaker 0: Here he sits after one month In My arm Melting because I cuddle him!
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  Speaker 0: such a thing to do, full of empathy will bring good in your life.
• 16:32
  Speaker 0: So I know now how it feels when very close animal is missing for one month and only on this experience i can bring up the empathy that should be brought up.
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  Speaker 0: And often see people speak with me where they don't made any experience, or brought them to the way of empathy I need in that moment.
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  Speaker 0: And i also often see That people need empathy from me!
• 17:21
  Speaker 0: I can give then because have an experienced it already and its fine but life is a teacher end at some point.
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  Speaker 0: You experience so much that you can for sure bring empathy, more empathy into your life or fine-tune the feelings about empathy.
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  Speaker 0: Let me think if I forgot some...I actually think that also empathy can make you drive crazy!
• 18:38
  Speaker 0: When are such an empath?
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  Speaker 0: people who have a very good empathy for poopy.
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  Speaker 0: He's falling soon, I need to change him!
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  Speaker 0: i know that a lot of people will have a lot Of empathy also are very sensitive and emotional Very distressed because they get so much emotions from the People around them.
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  Speaker 0: And then it is Also very important To actually Know How?
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  Speaker 0: To be in balance with the way of empathy and to don't let anyone take too much energy.
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  Speaker 0: And there I have to say, i need to learn a lot!
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  Speaker 0: A bit more calm to me and understand that I'm a bit more sensitive as maybe someone else.
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  Speaker 0: Because, i have the opportunity To be such an empath And I think it's also very important for you.
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  Speaker 0: if you see this You would consider yourself as an empath.
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  Speaker 0: Know your borders Speak them out properly Don't let them cross That you always can be An empath because When you not can be your empath anymore, because it destroys you.
• 20:47
  Speaker 0: It would so sad that such an important thing in our world to have a lot of empaths!
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  Speaker 0: So make sure the energy right.
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  Speaker 0: The right balance.
• 21:01
  Speaker 0: give and take.
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  Speaker 0: Lean back Get Energy Give Energy.
• 21:09
  Speaker 0: Thank You so much for listening.
• 21:12
  Speaker 0: My name is ASMRka.
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• 21:25
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• 21:43
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• 22:30
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  Speaker 0: Have a hampatic night no matter where are right now.