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Scotty is taking a risk on something he's been avoiding.... · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is jazz nur.
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  Speaker 2: Nine and welcome to another episode of Scottie and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 3: First off, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm seeing new reviews come in, more five star ratings,
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  Speaker 2: so thank you for that, as well as I have
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  Speaker 2: an update for everyone because I'm starting to get a
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  Speaker 2: lot of messages about the hair situation.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, are people giving you hairstylist recommendations.
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  Speaker 2: I have to say thank you to a lot of
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  Speaker 2: you that are in the hair industry because you've given
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  Speaker 2: me a lot of good tips.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So there's a lot of folks that work as barbers
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  Speaker 2: or insalons. A lot of them don't work locally, and
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  Speaker 2: so what you've been doing has been super helpful, just
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  Speaker 2: giving me guidance on how to talk to somebody about
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  Speaker 2: this whole mop that I have going on my head.
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  Speaker 2: So what I've noticed is a lot of people are like,
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  Speaker 2: trust your barber. Give them more credit than you're giving
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  Speaker 2: them on the podcast, And I'm like, really, I get that,
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  Speaker 2: but yeah, I did have a couple of messages that
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  Speaker 2: were like, look, barbers, just because you're used to having
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  Speaker 2: the fade, they know how to use shears, they know
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  Speaker 2: how to use the scissors to make you look like.
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  Speaker 3: You got the layers.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So are you gonna give your barberage, Barbara Chance.
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  Speaker 2: So what I am going to do is I actually
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  Speaker 2: am going in today barber to the person that was
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  Speaker 2: doing my hair this part of the year. So I
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  Speaker 2: had an original barber like last year. That's where I
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  Speaker 2: was getting my fade done. I was getting close to
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  Speaker 2: the skin. I was looking like a military haircut. When
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  Speaker 2: I started growing it out front, I was ready. But
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  Speaker 2: then I switched hair people and I went to more
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  Speaker 2: like a salon style because I wanted it to be longer,
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  Speaker 2: more full.
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  Speaker 3: And in this whole process, she got used.
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  Speaker 2: To using, like you know, the clippers, giving me kind
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  Speaker 2: of a not a fade, but shorter hair on the sides.
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  Speaker 2: But I was looking for something different, so I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to find something different. I wanted to find somebody that
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  Speaker 2: could literally do I don't know the hockey hair thing
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  Speaker 2: that we're talking about, the give me layers, whatever the
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  Speaker 2: hell that means.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: But I have a wedding this weekend, and as I've
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  Speaker 2: reached out to your hair person, Abbey, and then we
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  Speaker 2: reached out on the podcast to the other hair salon here.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe the other salon didn't say anything to you.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely, that is wild.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder if they just don't do men's cuts so
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  Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we're fine.
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  Speaker 3: I wonder if they just missed it.
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  Speaker 1: No, they didn't miss it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what kind of business is missing that?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think I should text them and see how
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  Speaker 1: long it takes for them to text me back, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I need an appointment?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you should. Honestly, that would be hilarious. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: now I'm curious because like, is it me? Because I
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  Speaker 2: am I the problem. But that's why I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I look a mess and I got
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  Speaker 2: a wedding this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta get it cleaned up.
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  Speaker 1: Your hair doesn't look bad. You just need to know
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  Speaker 1: how to style it now that it's longer. Correct, It's
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  Speaker 1: like getting for girls. It's like when you get bangs
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  Speaker 1: or if you get layers and you're not sure what
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  Speaker 1: styles now fit with your hair. You just need to
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  Speaker 1: know how to like push it to a certain side
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  Speaker 1: or use gel or whatever, because it will probably take
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more effort now that it's longer.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm down to do the effort. But I do
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  Speaker 2: need someone that's going to be able to talk me
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  Speaker 2: through it. And my hair person who I actually am
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  Speaker 2: going to the same person today, It's just going to
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  Speaker 2: be a different style.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna need her to talk me through because we
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  Speaker 3: were doing it short.
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  Speaker 2: She did teach me how to like I was using
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  Speaker 2: a hair a blow dryer this year. I've never done
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  Speaker 2: that in my life, to get it all scaled up
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  Speaker 2: and floppy. But I'm hoping that we're able to sit
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  Speaker 2: down today, get the layers, get an understanding of what
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  Speaker 2: we're going for. Because I did get on the phone
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  Speaker 2: yesterday and this is what kind of worries me, because
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  Speaker 2: I just called up the same place I've been going.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I just need to get in, like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: is so and so available.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the deal. I've gone to her before. She does
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  Speaker 2: a great job, but I'm looking for something different. I'm
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  Speaker 2: growing my hair out.
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  Speaker 3: Could you give me the hockey hair?
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  Speaker 2: And wait, you said that I did, And the person
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  Speaker 2: on the phone is like, I don't know what you're
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  Speaker 2: talking about, but they are phenomenal at cutting hair. I'm
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  Speaker 2: sure you could sit down and have a great conversation
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  Speaker 2: of what you're looking for.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna leave the faide tomorrow, Lord have mercy.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's like what I need is I need someone
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  Speaker 2: that sees the vision that I don't see.
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  Speaker 1: Have you asked other people with your haircut on what
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  Speaker 1: they asked for? Like, have you been like, oh, do
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  Speaker 1: you have a friend that has the haircut you're looking for?
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  Speaker 2: Nobody and my life has the hair that I'm looking for,
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  Speaker 2: because even the people we have people in the office
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  Speaker 2: that have great hair, but the problem is is they
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  Speaker 2: have a different style of hair.
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  Speaker 3: It's like wavy or it's curly. I have straight ass hair.
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  Speaker 2: So when I grew it out when I was younger,
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  Speaker 2: it was literally the Justin Bieber haircut boom. And that's
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  Speaker 2: what it's gonna do unless I style it like professionally,
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  Speaker 2: unless somebody knows how to give me some.
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  Speaker 3: Layers and tells me to slick it back. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So now my whole algorithm is men's haircuts, and it
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  Speaker 2: has all the different styles of men's cuts where it's
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  Speaker 2: you could do the the middle part or what do
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  Speaker 2: they call that, the drapes or something?
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  Speaker 3: I have the oh, like the.
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  Speaker 1: Nineties boy band hair, yes, yeah, yeah, or like there's
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  Speaker 1: one that's like like the English cut, like or the
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  Speaker 1: you definitely know this one, like the British cut. You
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  Speaker 1: know you've dated British.
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  Speaker 3: No, British guys.
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  Speaker 2: Well they have like a little bit of chop on
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  Speaker 2: the top, but then it's like shorter on the side.
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  Speaker 1: The Peaky Blinders cut. That's the Gummerment issued UK haircut.
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  Speaker 3: Definitely not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Do not do that.
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  Speaker 3: I want to get it, I think I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I've never thought of myself as a slickback kind of guy,
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  Speaker 2: but it looks like if it gets long enough, I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna have to slick it back.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know you're gonna get.
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  Speaker 1: You like a headband.
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  Speaker 3: It's just gonna look so stupid.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's not you. You just have to get used
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  Speaker 1: to how to style it. And I've gone through variations
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  Speaker 1: of this because every time I go get my hair cut,
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  Speaker 1: my hair looks a little bit different, and so then
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  Speaker 1: there's like a learning curve and then by the time
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  Speaker 1: you finally get it right, your hair goes out again
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  Speaker 1: and they have to get it cut again.
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  Speaker 3: Well, today is the day we're going to start. We're
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  Speaker 3: hopefully starting the process.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll figure it out. And if you don't. You
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  Speaker 1: can always get a little tipsy with Beatbox. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know if they're still a sponsor. Are these still
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  Speaker 1: a sponsor?
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  Speaker 3: I have no idea. We're going to talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: We have a meeting today, So let's the deadline for
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  Speaker 1: the Bonnaroo tickets.
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  Speaker 3: I believe, Well, if anything, it's it's now. I can
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  Speaker 3: check if it's on the website still. But you would
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  Speaker 3: want to make at our jobs.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know what, in our defense, it's not like
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  Speaker 2: what happens behind the scenes is we get told one
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  Speaker 2: time and then it's like all right, go and you're
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  Speaker 2: like all right.
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  Speaker 1: And then they tell you. They're like, why are you
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  Speaker 1: doing this? Stop?
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  Speaker 3: Like we've been done for a while. But we have
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  Speaker 3: no idea. It looks like it is not there anymore.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not even on the website anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Not anymore.
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  Speaker 1: So, actually, don't drink it. But here's where I'm confused,
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  Speaker 1: is it's still on our graphics.
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  Speaker 2: Well, then in that case, it's a conversation for today's
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  Speaker 2: meeting to see.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, maybe drink Beatbox.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're feeling like you want to have a
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  Speaker 2: nice strong bevy, why not have a Beatbox?
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  Speaker 1: Have a beatbox.
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  Speaker 3: There you go.
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  Speaker 2: So hopefully tomorrow when I come into the studio, it's
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  Speaker 2: this is where it's tough.
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  Speaker 3: Though.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so scared that, like I jumped the gun too quick.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to be bad. But again,
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to look good for the wedding. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 2: I'm doing everything. I'm doing a hair appointment today, I'm
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  Speaker 2: doing the dentist tomorrow. I'm trying to get everything ready
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  Speaker 2: to go.
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  Speaker 1: If anything, just have her show you how to style
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  Speaker 1: your hair, because your hair is not in a state
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  Speaker 1: of distress, like except for when you showed up to
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  Speaker 1: our office happy hour last.
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  Speaker 3: Week and I had my bangs down you like you.
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  Speaker 2: Like this.
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  Speaker 1: It looks horrible. It's giving full on you. You look
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  Speaker 1: like a lego, like because his bangs are so squared
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  Speaker 1: off that when you press them up against your forehead,
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  Speaker 1: it makes your head look very rectangular. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: giving lego when you do that.
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  Speaker 3: Because they have to think they're textured. Like one goes
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  Speaker 3: down to my eye.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's giving lego.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be in my eye soon. I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 3: like a rock star again. Yeah. Well, hopefully tomorrow when
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  Speaker 3: I come in. It looks decent and like, I here, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is where I become cheap.
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  Speaker 2: I know it's gonna be a little trim up and
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  Speaker 2: it's a little edge up, and I'm still gonna pay
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  Speaker 2: the full ass price today.
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  Speaker 3: Are it is gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Pain, but you're gonna get some priceles advice. She's gonna
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  Speaker 1: show you how to style it for the wedding suit
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  Speaker 1: as long as.
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  Speaker 2: She has the vision I think she does obviously, Like
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  Speaker 2: that's what I had to remind myself up this morning.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm probably the one of very few dudes
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  Speaker 2: that she sees. She's probably chopping up all these incredible
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  Speaker 2: women in their beautiful hairstyles all day long.
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  Speaker 3: So I gotta give some more credit where credit is due.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, if she can handle girls like me,
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  Speaker 1: she can handle lego hair like you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I will be getting myself all cut up today.
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  Speaker 2: So maybe when we have this video set up, well,
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  Speaker 2: I have it on the podcast where you could see
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  Speaker 2: the fresh dew, but it's in the process. It's not
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  Speaker 2: gonna be like where it is officially. It's just like
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  Speaker 2: setting it up. It's like trimming the bushes.
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  Speaker 3: Make sure.
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  Speaker 1: So I have you seen that trim on tick or
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  Speaker 1: that uh, that trend on TikTok where people are like,
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  Speaker 1: you shaved your bush, but it's supportive, disappointed, flirt shave
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  Speaker 1: you like support you shaved your bush. You shaved your bush.
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  Speaker 1: You shaved your bush. Stop it this weird or sarcastic. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you shaved your bush.
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  Speaker 2: Saved your bush. What is the trend that you see
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  Speaker 2: the most right now? That one on your social media?
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  Speaker 2: That one I told you I was getting a bunch
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  Speaker 2: of ads for hair transplants. But if I go to
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  Speaker 2: my Instagram, let's go ahead and see how different our
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  Speaker 2: algorithms are because I get that one and also, oh
• 8:36
  Speaker 2: my gosh, okay, so tangent. This is actually gonna lead
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  Speaker 2: into the social media content of we're talking about this
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  Speaker 2: on the show a lot with like Toy Story five
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  Speaker 2: coming out, and how it just seems like it's gonna
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  Speaker 2: be this emotional roller coaster it always is. Are you
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  Speaker 2: that kind of person that cries at movies?
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  Speaker 3: Because I feel like Abby, You're a tough cookie.
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  Speaker 1: I don't intentionally seek out pain. So if it's a
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  Speaker 1: movie that I know is going to be sad, I
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  Speaker 1: want to go see it so I haven't seen any
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  Speaker 1: of the toy stories past Toy Story too.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like so opposite where I'm like, I deliberately
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  Speaker 2: want to put the salt right in the womb because
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  Speaker 2: I feel like it's the only way for me to
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  Speaker 2: express feelings that I don't know how to express otherwise.
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  Speaker 1: Well, maybe you should talk about that in therapy instead
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  Speaker 1: of going to Toy Story five. You're gonna be sitting
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  Speaker 1: next to these small children and the parents are like,
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  Speaker 1: why did we is this man here?
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  Speaker 3: I just row an ass man crying?
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  Speaker 1: Why is this lego crying next to me?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I thought that's like a for me, like especially
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  Speaker 2: like if I'm driving in the car, like my therapy
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  Speaker 2: is like I'll listen to some sad ass songs and
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  Speaker 2: I'll just let it out. Yeah, not like like I'm
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  Speaker 2: bawling my eyes out, but it's like, oh, it just
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  Speaker 2: feels so good.
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  Speaker 3: I was thinking about that yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I was driving home and had like forty minutes and
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  Speaker 2: I just I feel like I sang the whole time
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  Speaker 2: and it just felt so good, like a full release
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  Speaker 2: of emotion, of lyrics, even things that I don't even
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  Speaker 2: relate to right now.
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  Speaker 3: It just felt good.
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  Speaker 2: So seeing the movie, even though it will be sad
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  Speaker 2: and a reminder of you know, getting older in childhood
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  Speaker 2: and memories, like, I look forward to that so much
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  Speaker 2: because I don't think it's that I avoid the pain.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's that it just reminds me of certain
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  Speaker 2: things that I wouldn't normally think about.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that's bad. I get that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, really, the only time I cry is in therapy.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't really cry barely at all, Like it
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  Speaker 2: takes a lot to get a tear to come out
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  Speaker 2: of my eye. But like a good movie scene or
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  Speaker 2: if you're on Instagram, you don't cry at any of
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  Speaker 2: the videos that you see on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: No, my my algorithm is very happy. It's off campus edits,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's Taylor Swift, conspiracy theories, it's clips from movies
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  Speaker 1: I watched fifteen years ago. It's a very joyful place.
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  Speaker 3: I like.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so mine is joyful, but there are emotional things
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  Speaker 2: that will get me. And we're talking about that. My
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  Speaker 2: girlfriend and I were yesterday. We're talking about the videos,
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  Speaker 2: like let's say I do it a lot with pets
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  Speaker 2: when I saw a video and this one actually really
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  Speaker 2: got me. It was this video of these people that
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  Speaker 2: were visiting the beach and there's like this tennis that's
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  Speaker 2: on the little park bench and next to it is
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  Speaker 2: a sign like, hey, Marlee and I used to love
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  Speaker 2: using this tennis ball at the beach and Marley's no
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  Speaker 2: longer with us, but we would love if we could
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  Speaker 2: continue spreading that joy around.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to know about that, see that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I love it though, because it's so it's
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  Speaker 2: so beautiful, but it like just punches you right.
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  Speaker 1: And see, Yeah, my life has enough trouble. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to think about Marlee and how she passed away, now,
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  Speaker 1: how you're sad about it. Like I was on TikTok
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  Speaker 1: and I wish I had never seen this video. But
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  Speaker 1: this girl in Chicago got married and so she hired
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  Speaker 1: a pet setter to watch her cat. And this pet setter,
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  Speaker 1: for whatever reason, let her cat out and was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's an outdoor cat. And so she texts the owner
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, when is it normal for your
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  Speaker 1: cat to be gone this long? It's like, what the hell?
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  Speaker 1: So long story show? Yeah, yeah, So here's a trigger warning,
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  Speaker 1: because it's very distressing about animals to make things happening
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  Speaker 1: to them. Anyway, the cat got out and they found
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  Speaker 1: the cat remains because they are allegedly the cat was eaten
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  Speaker 1: by coyotes. I'm like, I don't. Now I have to
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  Speaker 1: live with that. Now I have to know how how
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  Speaker 1: horrible people are and how sad this owner is. She
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  Speaker 1: thought she was having the best day of her life,
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  Speaker 1: getting married, going out on her honeymoon, and now she
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  Speaker 1: comes back to her cat of twelve years eaten by
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  Speaker 1: coyotes allegedly.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that sucks. That is not the kind of
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  Speaker 3: algorithm I'm looking at.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't want to know about that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't either.
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  Speaker 2: That deserves a trigger warning like that, likegit, you need
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  Speaker 2: to give me a heads up before you tell me
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  Speaker 2: some traumatic ass crap like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah that is okay.
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  Speaker 2: So No, mine's more of like a oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I got to spend a great day with my ninety
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  Speaker 2: eight year old grandmother and we had our beautiful full
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  Speaker 2: day or okay, my pet's last day, and they do
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  Speaker 2: all the fun things like go get a pup cup
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  Speaker 2: or go to the beach.
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  Speaker 3: Mine have a lot to.
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  Speaker 1: Do with pets and dying allegedly, but it's still beautiful.
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: It's not No, it's sad. I'm not interested in experiencing
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: more sadness. Life is hard enough. Everybody has their own
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: shit they gotta go through. I don't need everybody else's
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: sadness on my timeline.
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: So if it's like a sad song, you just avoid it.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: Well, Sad songs, I think are different because they help
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: you understand your emotions, and I think it's in some ways.
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: TV shows and movies can do that too, But like
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: I don't want to know about what you're going through,
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: Like I'm already going through stuff. We can't now share
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: each other's sadness, Like that's doubling the sadness.
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Yeah, I feel like for
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: me it's like I have pent up and again, not
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: because I'm like holding this stuff back, like I don't
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: think about it, but when a certain song or a
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: movie comes on and it's like, oh, yeah, here's your
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: you know, your reason to tear up boom, go ahead,
• 13:24
  Speaker 3: and it's like, oh god, I haven't done that in years.
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: Release I'm good for a couple of years now before
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: I do it again.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: See you in five years public commercials.
• 13:32
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. Did you cry at all with
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: or tear up at all with Off Campus?
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: No?
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: Because it was a haja left good time. I mean, yeah,
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: there were like some sad moments, but I know it's fake,
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I can kind of
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: distance myself from it where I'm like, oh, I know
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: that this storyline serves a greater purpose. I think that's
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: why I really love books and TV shows that aren't
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: like not like Leay mis or anything. But I love
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: books and TV shows because when bad things happen, I
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: feel like they serve some kind of purpose of the character.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: And I think that's the shitty thing about life is
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: sometimes when you go through hard things, I have a
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: hard time handling it because you don't know if it's
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: if it actually is serve me a greater purpose. But
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: in movies and TV shows, you can control the narrative
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: so everything works out and the end, even if it's
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: not a happy ending, there's always just meaning to everything. Mmmm.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: That's such a good point.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: Like when you're going through the s storm and you're
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: in the actual real life of it, you have no
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: idea where this is going to pay off.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you really have no idea. But watching a movie,
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, this really sucks, but I'm sure at
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: some point there's gonna either be a redemption arc or
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: we're gonna understand why this is happening to this character.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: See, I wasn't even thinking about the sad moments and
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: off campus, I was like, I get all kind of
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: like happy tearies. Like if I see like a very
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: romantic scene, I'm like, yes, love, and it gets to
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: me in a good way, in a beautiful way.
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: The sad stuff, well that usually doesn't do it to
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: me in like the dark stuff.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Yes, see, I'd rather just watch the happy stuff. You know,
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Like I find no one watching a sad movie, then yeah,
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: then you're in that place. But I like watching feel
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: good things.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Maybe I need a a new therapist because the last
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: time I was going to therapy, I just kind of left,
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: just like, eh, I could have.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: Done that on my own. Yeah.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: I think you have to find a good therapist that
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: knows where to poke you.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think it might be poked.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: Ye.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: I think my therapist knows exactly what questions ask me.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Or maybe I'm just like really traumatized.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe both, and maybe that's why you're there, yah,
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: and I think that is why I'm there.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: M Well, okay, in that case, then I guess I'll
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: just watch Toy Story five on my own and just
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: cry on my own and I'll love every single moment
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: of it. So one of the things I wanted to
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: run by you just kind of get your thoughts on
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: this is we were talking off the mics and I've
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: been meeting a lot of my girlfriends like friends, and
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: we've been going out meeting new friend groups. And I
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: had this realization of myself because I remember seeing some
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: stupid video on Instagram where it's like red flag if
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: he barely has any friends, And I thought to myself,
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: is that what it seems like? Because I've been meeting
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: so many of her friends and she has met a
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: handful of mine, like only a few, and I'm thinking,
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: wait a second, I hope this doesn't enter red flag
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: territory because a lot of my friends, and I think
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: a lot of people, especially listening, a lot of your
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: friends have moved across the state, new cities, across the country,
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: and that is the major case for me, like my
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: best friends, the ones that I would want her to
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: meet are around the country, Like I'm talking Seattle, Boston, Colorado,
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: no easy trip to go ahead and make an introduction.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: So I was talking to my buddy the other day,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: telling him all about this relationship and how great it's
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: been and all the fun things, and I was like, man,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: I just can't wait for y'all to meet. And he
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: brought up an idea and he was like, well, that'd
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: be awesome. We should do like a Zoom hangout. I
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: was like, that's interesting, so like an introduction through Zoom.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: And then I took it one step further and I said,
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: what if we did a Zoom double date? Because my
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: best friend has a girlfriend who I have never met
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: that I've only heard stories about. I now have a
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: girlfriend that he has never met. How awkward does it
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: seem if we set up like I don't know, an
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: iPad and did like a FaceTime dinner date as a
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: double date just across the entire country.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I think that's not awkward because I mean, realistically, when
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: will you get to see him next?
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: There is really nothing on the calendar that gives us
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: any time to make that kind of trip out.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: He lives in what Seattle?
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: You see Seattle?
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: So I mean, why not just do a weekend trip
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: to Seattle?
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: It's well because then it's finding the time to travel,
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: finding their schedule to make sure they're together. Yeah, finding
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: our schedule to make sure that you know, me and
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: Milady could actually make the trip out there.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Can you guys not text? You guys can't pick up
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: the phone call and be like, hey, when when's a
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: free weekend for you?
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Well, it's kind of like, well, yes, I guess you
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: could do that.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Is this also a great time to visit Seattle in
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: July when the weather is probably the least crazy. Mmmm?
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: That is true?
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Because he was like, you have up until about October.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: I was like, what happens after the October? It's like
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: you don't want to visit? Oh enough dreary, cold and miserable.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: And I thought, well, that's a good point. But it's
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I need to do a better job. This is my fault.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: This is completely my fault. And I know I'm not
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: alone in this about just asking for the time off.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: I always, for the past eight years that I've worked
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: in a full on job, I always get nervous about asking.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: For time Okay, that's really funny coming from you, because
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I think you had like four weeks planned out before
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I even started. You were supposed to be gone for
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: a week and a last.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: And I think that's what messed me up though, because
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: I took that week off. But in my head, I'm like,
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: I still have that week off, but that you know
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: how long that took me to ask for that week?
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah? But I mean now you can get like a
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: long weekend if you want to go to Seattle. Now, also,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: you don't even need a long weekend to go to Seattle.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Take a flight on Friday, come back Sunday night.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: But it's also, let's say again cheap. It's like six
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: hundred bucks to fly to Seattle.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: No, it's not. It has to be clearly, How have
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I done more research? Skirts are texting me something about
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Netflix anyway? Important things? Anyway, Tampa to Seattle flight?
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Why have I done more research for you to visit
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: your friend than you have? Because for you to fly July,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: let's say twenty six, that's a Thursday. Yeah, it's like
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: three hundred and thirty bucks each, I mean round trip.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, So okay, so realistically it can happen. It should happen.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: It needs to happen.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: It's your friend, not worth three hundred and thirty dollars.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: I think it's finding the weekends that I'm free. I
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: was just talking about this, like I'm traveling this weekend.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Good old friend's wedding. Fine, We're visiting a friend's engagement
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: party next weekend. We're working the weekend after that. Like
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: that's literally how these months go. So it's like, yes,
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: take the time off, but if you look at the calendar,
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: it's like work, work, work, work work. It's like Rihanna said,
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: that's literally the reality I'm living.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, find a weekender or do the zoom.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I think that's the age that we're living in.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I think the zoom it just reminded me of like
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: COVID times, where it's like you're sitting there on zoom
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: talking to family members across the country.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: But I didn't know if it would be a weird.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to think of it in my head,
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: and this is just the anxious thoughts of like the
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: timing of when to say something because you're through the
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: digital world and there's gonna be glitches and I don't
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: want it to be an awkward first encounter because I
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: haven't never met his lady, Yes, never met mine, but
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: there's gonna be a lot to talk about, and I
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: don't want to have that interaction over zoom, but it
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: might be the only option.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, if you're not going to make
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: the effort to go to Seattle, then we just I'm
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: just being candid with you. Either go to Seattle or
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: do the zoom.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: I'm going to Seattle, Damnit. I'm putting all the time, and.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: I feel like that would be a fun way to
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: travel with your lady. I mean, I know you're going
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: to Vero Beach, but I think I saw on TikTok
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: somewhere that you really get to see who it person
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: truly is when you travel with them, because things go
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: wrong and you know, flights get delayed and there's a
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: lot of stress, but it's also like there's a lot
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: of highs and there's a lot of lows when you travel.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: And I think you guys have made it to the
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: point where traveling would be really good for you guys.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, to be able to see that side of it. Well,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: there's been like many things, it's been like a mini staycation.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: This will be the longest one, going across the state,
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: visiting my hometown. And then we are going to like
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Diplow in July in Colorado. Okay, so we are making rounds.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: We are going to visit all my friends. Just having
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: made that try about to Seattle.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: You and her are going to Diplo.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: We're going to Diplo in July.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: So you made plans to go see Diplo before your
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: friend in Seattle.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, wait a second, let me take that. That's I
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: have friends in Colorado. Okay, Okay, that's what we're visiting
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: my other best friends. Okay, in Colorado. They invited us
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: to Diplow.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: That'll be fine. So that one we were able.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: To lock in. That one's going to be a quicker trip.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: But then I think after that, I guess I'll throw
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: it in today's meeting if I can get another weekend
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: off in July to go to Seattle.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I feel like getting a weekend off shouldn't be that crazy.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Like I will say, my one pet peeve is seeing
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: something randomly on the calendar. I'm like, you, guys, it's Friday,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Like you have to ask me if I can work
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: because a Friday is a weekend. I don't work seven days.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: A week, I know, but I'm so in the habit
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: of doing that right now where it's literally the past
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: couple months it's been Saturday event, Sunday event, Saturday event,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Sunday event.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: Not healthy, it's not but I'll fix it. I'm gonna go.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: You know what.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: This is why I talk it out, because I'd rather
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: go to Seattle than instead of sitting on Zoom having
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: some noodles, we try to have an awkward conversation.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and realistically, what is one weekend of work?
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: What are you really missing from one one paycheck? One
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: weekend paycheck?
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing. I don't even do it for
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: the paycheck. I think.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: What I've really come to realize over the past couple
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: months when I went on that retreat, my aahuasca retreat,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: which was not it was just a yoga retreat, I
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: was really coming to grips with myself with like I
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: just say yes to make other people comfortable before myself.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my God, Scot Jesus. When somebody
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: asked me to do something before I even run it
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: by myself, I'm like, oh, yeah, no, I could do
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: it because if I say no, I know that puts
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: more pressure on them and I know that's an uncomfortable
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: spot for them. And then I'm like, I feel bad
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: because now they got to go out of their way
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: to find the new route. And I'm like, wait a second, No, no, no,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: this is how you end up working seven days a
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: week for an entire month straight. Yeah, don't want to
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: do that anymore. So that's the thing I'm working on
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: for twenty twenty six.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Well, I think that's really good, and I think it's
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: interesting that you have a hard time thing no to
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: to just a weeken off, but like, yes to a
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: week of doing ayahuasca and in Mexico, you know what
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, Like if the Mexico want isn't more of
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: a commitment than just going to see your friends in
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Seattle for a weekend.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's I'm good at committing, especially when
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: a friends comes up with an idea. Because that's how
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: the retreat came up. I was like, it was their
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: first time putting on a retreat. I wanted to support.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: I said yes, I said, I'm all in. But it
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: took me a while to ask for that time.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: Off of work. I was like, oh god, oh god.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: And then I put it off and I put it
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: off and I put it off, and I'm like, oh
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: my god, we're a couple months away. This is where
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: I get in trouble. And that's what happens every single time.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: I wait until the last moment because I'm like, Okay,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: by the way, I'm going on this trip, but I
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: mean to make sure I got the time off because
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: they already book the flights. And then our boss is
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: always like, you know, I'm going.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: To accept it, but why do you book it before
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: I get to accept it, because now you put me
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: in a weird position if we have something. I'm like,
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, so I should probably just look at the
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: time get it off before I actually booked the flights
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: to Seattle.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we're literally in twenty minutes. We have
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: a meeting with our boss. Just be like, hey, I
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: really want to go take like a Friday off. And
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I feel like that should be no big to deal.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: Like in this industry, we can pre record. I think
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: it's still people that but we can prerecord.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Oh you can. It's technology.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: But I think it's a commitment issue of like committing
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: to like dates and having that locked in because then
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: something else always pops up. Like that's why I stopped.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I used to DJ a lot of weddings, yeah, but
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: they would book out like a year in advance, and
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: I was like, I can't do that anymore because there's
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: one coming up in December, and I'm like, if I
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: say yes to it, I know something really good is
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: going to happen that weekend and I'm gonna.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Be like, I'm sorry, I'm DJing.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: A wedding and I've done that for the past six
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: years of my life. I can't do that.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to do it anymore.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: I don't. It's nice money, it helps.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everything helps. But I mean I think we're at
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: the age where we've got to figure out how to
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: like condense our time because time is the only thing
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: we got left for thirty.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I was just thinking about that where it's like old,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: well no, but it is like that. The reality is
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: it's like, yes, you could work your ass off in
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: this time period, but this is also going to be
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: the time period that you're going to be reminiscing about
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: in the next decade twenty years, And do you want
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: the only memories to be that you worked the whole time, no,
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: or that you got to experience before this next chapter
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: of life happens.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: Whatever families and all the things and yes and all
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: those things.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: You can never get your youth back.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: And speaking of that is actually a good way to
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: segue into getting people into your trip.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Yes, Trampa Bay get Away. You can check out the
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: link in the episode description the Girlies The Girlies are
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: going to Tampa.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I saw there's some questions though on your Instagram of
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: like a confusion on how you're supposed to get in
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: on the trip.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah. This actually made me kind of sad because I
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, is this the reputation that
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I have for these trips or did I word something
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: weird on the description? But I got a message from
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: somebody on the website and I already emailed her back privately,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: but she said, Hey, I just want to like know
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: what the approval process is before I buy my flight,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Like what approval process? There is no approval process other
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: than like are you a woman? And did you fill
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: out your paperwork on time? Because I think I have
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: some kind of checkbox on the sign up thing for
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: the Tampa Bay getaway is like, do you recognize that
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: if you don't sign the paperwork, like you're gonna get
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: refunded and you can't come on the trip because that's
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: like like a legal thing. I have to be able
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: to cover you under my insurance. If the paperwork's not
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: filled out, then of course I'm going to refund you
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: and kick you off the trip. Me saying I'm getting
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: you off the trip isn't because they didn't think you
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: were cool enough. Is not the case. It's because I
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: need to be able to cover you from my insurance.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: And if you don't sign the paperwork, then yeah, I
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: am kicking you off the trip.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: That's okay.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: So that's good to know because it's not like you've
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: got to be this kind of person this kind of personality.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And to be fair, there's something in my community
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: guidelines that says if I feel like you're a danger
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: or if you're disrupting the group in any way even
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: before the trip, then yes, I can also kick you out,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: but I'm not going to do that unless I really
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: get the vibe that something's amiss. Yeah, and that's not
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: to be a mean girl. That's for the safety of
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: the group.
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Correct.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Because the other thing is and you guys who love
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: the Bird Show will get a kick out of this.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: But intern Blake, who's very very close with Bert, who
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: now works I think up in Minneapolis or something as
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: a news anchor. He texted me He's like, when are
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: you gonna let the Gaze come on? And I'm like, oh, well,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: I've always been interested in doing like a girl's and
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: a gauge in the Gaze trip. I've also been interested
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: in doing like a mixed trip as well, but uh,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: safety wise, I'm like, I feel like I can handle
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: women better than I can really handle like men, because
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: how do you prove that they're a well intentioned gay
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: man coming and not somebody who's coming to prey on women?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: And then also if there's only like one guy, how
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: does that change the dynamic? Do you know what I'm
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: trying to say. So I was like, I texted Blake.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, Blake, you know how sick it would
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: be if we could do like a collaborative trip to
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: where like we host one together. But he works as
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: a news anchor, so it's just it's just tough because
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: he's not he doesn't have as much freedom to just
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: do whatever he wants because those contracts are very strict,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: and I was like, well, we can't lose you off
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: your TV or off of our TVs, so maybe that'll
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: ever happen.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel like getting other people involved it
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: is it just adds to the liability of it. Yeah,
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: that part makes it really tough because even though it's
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: like it would be so weak. We talked about that,
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: like doing like guys coming on the trip, and then
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: it's gonna be like, oh, who knows, like maybe the little.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I know I want to do like a Love Island trip,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: but like I feel like, I know, you need some
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: kind of guy influencer who has lots of single connections
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: to be able to make it happen, because then otherwise
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: it's going to be like two dudes being like I
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: want to I want to do women.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: It's like no, then you got to do the whole
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: vetting process because it's like, yeah, it's kind of like
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: when you okay, prime example, like the podcast we did yesterday,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: go while guys and you're like your sus something's off
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: about you, and then you're like on a boat or something,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: you're new a country and it's like oh God, or
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: what happens is a lot of times, and this happens
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: a lot if you go out with a group of guys,
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: like one person will just get fucking wasted, like off
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: of his ass and then he makes it complete fool
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: of himself or he actually legit becomes a danger.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: And you're like, I ain't trying to be in charge
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: of you.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: We're adults. You're supposed to be responsible on this trip.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Like that would be the fear. But I don't know
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: how to bet somebody like that.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: I know, so I would have to invest in background checks,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: which you know, maybe I should be doing it anyway,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it just brings up a lot
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: of dangers that I don't know that as a new
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: small business owner, I'm prepared to do.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be like it would have to be very
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: small and niche.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: But we shall see. I'm stepping outside my comfort zone.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: In December, we're doing a trip to Quebec, Quebec City.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: You and your trips, I've you get it, girl, I
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: like it. I'm jealous.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I mean I didn't really travel, I mean I never
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: took pay time off. I mean talk about being afraid
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: to ask for paid time off. The only reason I
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: started traveling was because on the Bird Show we had
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: six weeks of planed, paid time off and it's not like, oh,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: we'll come into the office if you.
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: Want to, Like you just you literally couldn't you literally
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: like there's.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Nothing for you to do, Like Bird's taking off, so
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: like the show's not happening. So I was like, well,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: everyone's going to like Dubai and San Juan and the Keys.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't do anything interesting, but I also
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: don't have anybody to travel with. So that's how this
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: all got started.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: M Well, that would be cool.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: They actually have something that kind of conjoins with you
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: your business, the gals, but also eventually branching off and
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: baby doing something in the years to come where it
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: brings the whole community together.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we'll see. Maybe we'll take over the Calta
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Cruz when you were Tivers. We'll have the Magic Cruise,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: so you know, the Station on the Bone. The one
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: of the guys, the main guys on the the Bone,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: he's called Mike Caelta and he has the Celts Cruise
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: and they sold out like what four hundred tickets.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, insane.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I'm like, we could sell four.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, we'll start somewhere. That's what I said.
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: I wanted to just do what we should do.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: It is like a magic yacht, That's what I'm saying.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, because I was just on a yacht and I
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: was like, wait, we could get with that company and
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: we could just host twelve of our people and that's perfect.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: The magic catamaran. The thing is you do you also
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: just don't know who's signing up. So I'm like a
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: cruise is kind of good in the sense that, like,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: you know, you can kind of spread.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Out a little bit more, that's true, and everyone could
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: go do their own thing.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can vibe with who you want to vibe with,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: or vibe as a group. You can come together at
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: dinner and then kind of disperse.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know the horror stories that they've faced on
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: that cruise over the years.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I could only imagine because those I mean again,
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: and I'm sure this will this is gonna hit one
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: of their ears. But some of their listeners are buck
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: wild in what way, like just the most outrageous, drunk,
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: crazy people that you could run into.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: You have never been on a Girl's Gone Getaway kidding.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: The girls are great.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: I was like a lot of them are very nice
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: and can control themselves. But I remember when I was
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: getting started in radio, I do a lot of promo events,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: and I would do some promo events for their squad,
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: and for the most part nine good and then like
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: ten percent creepy and.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Weird, like the people you would see at the hard
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: rock casino. M interesting.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeahere you're kind of just like, hmmm, I feel
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: like this could be potentially dangerous.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Do you think we're gonna get to go on the Calta.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: Cruz if we want to?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Do you think we should ask to go on the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Celta Cruz?
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: I you know, I don't know where is the.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Calta Cruz too, Like, do we actually even want to
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: go on it?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Well, it's gonna be leaving out of Tampa, so why
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: are we promoting the Caltic Fuck?
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: No, go to Mexico.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: You can't even buy a ticket anymore, so it doesn't
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: even matter.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Oh that's true, Okay, So but yeah, I think it's
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: going to go to Mexico, which it would be fun.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: We should go.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: You know, I like that squad over there, and honestly,
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: I like cruising. That's fine, and here's the reality. I
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: would like to one support, but two also, I am
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: a student when it comes to getting the blueprint. I
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: would like to learn the blueprint. What are the activations,
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: what does it look like? So we could potentially bring
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: that to our people.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: So we could go on the Calta Cruz so that
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: we could have the magic Catemoran.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the magic yacht. Which how cool is that? A
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: yacht sounds kind of cooler than a cruise.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: You know what we should really do? Oh, this is
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: the other thing. Okay, I'm gonna put a pin in
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: this so I can just mention this really quick. Before
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I tell you my idea, we need to tell them
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: what we're going to do in Hyde Park.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah we could too.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Let's reveal what we were going to do in Hyde Park.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: But also the week of the Calta Cruise. If we
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: don't go on it, what we should do is we
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: should do like a bit where we're we're selling the
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: competing cruise, but it's just like the water limo. We're
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: selling like fairy tickets to the Saint Pete Fairy.
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: We're just getting across the Bay Fairy.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: We call it the Magic Cruise and we just get
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: a big group of Magic listeners to go from Tampa
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: to Saint Pete.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: And then we just do a bar crawl in Saint Pete.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: Now that would actually be that would.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Actually be a really fun We get a little.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: That'd be fun, like make it really Okay.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I'm breaking this up to Genic because I think they'd
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: be really fun. When is the cruise that is named
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: for that?
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: Man, I have no idea. Next March something like that.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty seven, it's gonna be in a while,
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: but it's their big one.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: It's like the I think it's.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: The twentieth anniversary, I want to say. But that's why
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: it's sold out so quick. I mean again, those listeners,
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: they're dedicated.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: I will say.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: It's like you listen to the podcast and rate it
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: and share it and message us about it. Thank you,
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: because that's the kind of stuff that like grows these ideas.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Without that, then our bosses are like, well, who's gonna
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: actually care?
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: People? Do people care?
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: They do?
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I think they'll care.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk about Hyde Park because this was I
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: love the idea. I'm actually kind of happy that it
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: didn't work out the way it's supposed to, yeah, because
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: it like life got way too busy at that time period.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I think it would have been fun.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: It would have been fun. It would have been.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: I think, a way bigger headache if we would have
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: followed through with it. Probably, So you need the support.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: If you're a longtime listener, and by longtime listener, I
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: mean have you been listening since March. We were kind
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: of teasing this idea that we had that We're like,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: we can't even say anything because the second we say something,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: someone's gonna steal our idea. And then we didn't even
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: freaking do it.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: I stand by that, and I'm glad we still didn't
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: say it because I still would have been mad if
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: somebody tried to take them.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I'm glad we didn't say anything, but we were like
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: really hyping up for like, you guys, do you want
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: to be on the news.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Well, on the show, we talked about how Pitbull wanted
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: to break the world record for the most amount of
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: people with bald caps, and so that show is actually
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: still coming up in England. He's gonna put on a
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: show and it's literally put out there. He wants to
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: break the world record most.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: In Hyde Park in England whatever that is London, I think.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: And so what we wanted to do well, first off,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Abby and I were like, hey, send us.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: No no, Scott was like send us and I was like
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: that's never happening.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: You gotta shoot for the moon, land the stars. But
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: I was like, send us to London or whatever. So
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: we could be a part of this, we could document it,
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: and we could have a whole thing on the air.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: And then our bosses were like, yeah, you know, love
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: love the creativity.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, but.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Where's the listener benefit? And I was like that's a
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: good point, so true, Bestie, that's a great point.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: I love that because I'd rather the listeners be involved.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: So my next great idea was we'll bring a listener.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: That didn't get approved either, So we tried to think
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: of the third best thing was you know what, screw
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: London or England or whatever it is, We'll do it
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: right here in Tampa Bay.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: If you don't know. In Tampa there's a park called
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Hyde Park. And so we had this idea that we
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: should do I don't know if we're gonna do it
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: a bar crass, oh, no, No, here's what we're gonna do.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: We were gonna try and set the record before pit
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Bull could set the record. So what Pitplell's trying to
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: do in Hyde Park is like the world's largest gathering
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: a bald caps, and so it was like, well, I
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: don't think there's a record set yet.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: So anything we would have done it would have been
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: the record, and we could have promoted it as like
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: we broke the world record, and then we could have
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: challenged quote unquote pit Bull to be like, oh see
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: if you could beat us, Yeah, we just took pit
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Bull's record.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Ten people could have shown up and we would have
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: set the Guinness World Record for the largest gathering of
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: bald caps. And so Scotty and I like this is
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: gonna be so sick and so awesome. And so's the
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: weeks go on. I'm like, Scott, are we are we
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: doing that? And then it just may came around and
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: we're like, I guess we're not.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: We're just not doing that.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Because what happens is like you spit out these ideas
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: and usually somebody kind of jumps on and they're like,
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: all right, we're gonna make it a sales opportunity. We're
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: gonna get Bars involved, but it wasn't getting any leeway,
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: like nobody was really biting yeah.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: And so at that point that I'm like, I didn't
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: see the vision, yeah, and I was like, I'm not
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: gonna fight for it, Like Okay, I can't be the
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: only one that's like, we're gonna do something and then
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: just trying.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: To figure it out along the way, because then it
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: gets such a headache of trying to promote it, trying
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: to get Bars involved, trying to get people involved.
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: I'm like, no, we need something to back it, and
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: nobody backed it. So the idea slowly just kind of
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: burned and fiver away, which you know what, it worked out.
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: I guess for the best. It would have been funny.
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: I liked the idea eventually, but now it's.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: On the No, now we can't because now they've set
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: the record we had a I mean, I guess we
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: could still do it.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: We could try to still beat it, because what I
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: would like to do is like a pit Bull night.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: Because I'll tell you what, when Pitbull came to Tampa,
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I didn't get to go to the show, but everybody
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: talked about how lit that show was. Yeah, So like
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: you could do an entire even if it's like a
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: two thousands party or a pit Bull night where it's
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: a DJ that plays the absolute biggest hits from the
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: two thousands of the twenty tens, and you set that
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: as the principle of like, all right, dress as pit Bull.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: I think it has the same effect.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I think people still what I'm noticing is people still
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: want to dress up and do something different, Like that's
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: why everybody just wants to have a reason to I guess,
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: dress up, costume something like. That's why like the sapphire
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: was so nice. Why because you finally have a reason
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: to kind of get nice. Yeah, get cleaned up, look
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: a little fancy. And that's why these banquets are have
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: been going to casino nights where people are getting all
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: fancy because you have no reason.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: To without it. So opposite of that, get a bald cap,
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: put on a suit, put on a.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Loraxst missed a three on five speaking of not dressing
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: up super fancy for events, maybe having like a bald
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: cap night or maybe not a bald cap knight. Maybe
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: wear a wig to this. But I posted on my story,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I told you this but I'm
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: very excited, so I posted on my story, I'm like,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: why is nobody in Tampa throwing an off campus slash
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: heated rivalry edits night? Because those are really big in
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: LA and they're starting to pop up in like Atlanta,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: New York, Dallas. I've seen one get posted for I'm like,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: why is nobody throwing an off campus soundtrack night?
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: Wasn't there there? Oh, that would be nice a soundtrack
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: nights too.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: They did the heated rivalry one here, but I never
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: It's interesting because it probably was big, but I didn't
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: see anything online about it.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: But maybe it wasn't big here, Like maybe it was
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: just really big in LA New York, where like the
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: girls in the gays are more apt to go out,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: and maybe it wouldn't be big here. I don't know,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm like, I would go to it. Off campus
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: is having a moment right now that if someone threw
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: something next weekend, the people would show up.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: I would be very curious to see if that would pop
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: off in Tampa.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: They haven't at a smaller bar, like we could do
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: it at like the Crafty Squirrel on like a Thursday.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Honestly, though, like it would be great, just to be
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: able to have something because I think if anybody, I
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: don't know if this actually happened, but with Heated Rivalry,
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: since that was more of like the gay scene that
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: probably popped off at like the gay bars an Eboor
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: or cocktail in Saint Pete, like that probably did happen,
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: just didn't miss it.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: The gays just didn't post. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well yeah, it's like we.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: Have our own thing, but I don't know how much
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: because I feel like half the people know about off
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: campus and the other half are like, I have no
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: idea what you're talking about.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: It is crazy how the biggest thing on your timeline
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: can be a total mystery to somebody else.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: That's the weird time we live in right now.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Because I was talking to Felicia, who watched it and
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: now she's obsessed with it. I'm now I've got her
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: on Heated Rivalry. She's like, oh, yeah, like none of
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: my friends are watching it, Like, how are none of
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: your friends watching it? It's like the number one show
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: on Prime right now.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: That's exactly like when I talk to my group of friends,
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: like I think nobody knows exactly what I'm talking about.
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you guys didn't watch off campus. Nobody Okay, cool.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: They're watching something else, like for example, then I brought
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: it up to packs in our digital gal and she's like, no,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: but have you seen the crash?
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what very dark? I watched that, remember that
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: was very different.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: But if that's like cause some people are just into
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: the true true crime doc kind of style shows where
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: you're not even going to dive into this whole fantasy
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: world and.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: There's just so many any other shows Like I mean,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: then I popped onto the Testaments. I'm still watching Rivals,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: but Rivals comes out weekly, so it's like I feel
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: like you can't binge it and get as obsessed because
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: you're gonna wait once a week for it to come out.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: Sad about this time period, it's like, yes, sometimes we
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: see okay, for example, sometimes we see videos on Instagram
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: that we've all seen, Like you see the girl is
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: like missing an arm, but she got pulled over and
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: pulled over for texting next seeing with her right arm
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: that she doesn't have. I think everybody saw that. Yes,
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: kind of a cool moment. I'm glad that she didn't
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: get the ticket. But with shows like when you're growing
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: up in the nineties, which we didn't really do.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: We kind of on the end of it.
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like we were like the early
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: two thousands or like c W shows. I feel like
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: everybody was watching the same shows because there were less shows. Correct,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: Like when I was growing up, Pretty Little Liars was
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: the show to watch, correct, And even if you weren't
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: watching it, I feel like you were still you still
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: knew about it.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was still the talk or of course
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: everyone talks still about like Friends or Seinfeld or Gray's
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Anatomy still pops off for some reason. I got to
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: like season seventeen, then gave up. But now we don't
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: have that every now and then we have a moment,
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: and it takes so much for a show to truly
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: be that. Like I think when Euphoria came out the
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: first time, that was like one of those moments.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but nothing really has had that moment, even though
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: shows could be massive, off campus massive.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: I do feel like binging the first season helps you
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: get started, and then I think once it becomes a phenomenon,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: Like the summer I turned pretty last summer, I remember
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: like every single week that was the thing to do
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: and kind of The same thing with Euphouri is the
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: people were tuning in and I kind of like that
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: because I kind of miss the community it brings, where
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: like you're all waiting for Sunday or whatever it is
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: and you're ready to discuss it.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: But I miss that.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: I want more of that. But that also gets frustrating
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: when you're like, I.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Don't want to wait a week. But then the patience
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: is good because then the people could come in on it.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Alexei, have you watched off campus yet? Oh?
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: Let me fight her up.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Well she hasn't. Wait Season't that crazy?
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: Oh you're on the mic really quick? Yeah, pully mic,
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: go over to you.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Hello, Yes, I have not What are you watching right now?
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: You're watching anything? You're just too busy working.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: House Real Housewives, the reality. Give us. Give us your
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: take on part two of the reunion it's tonight, Oh
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: it is?
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Your take on part one of the Excited. It was
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: very dramatic, very very over the top and.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: Dramatic, like in a good way or do you think
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: they overdid it? No?
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: It was juicy. A lot of drama, A lot of
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: good juicy drama that I'm into and I can't wait
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: to see.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: How it unfolds, So I can't get behind that stuff.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, Lexie has to come into her amazing
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: magic on the show.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: So Abby Working people find you at the Abby Murphy
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: and mine is that Scott Tavlin.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: All the station stuff, all the giveaways, everything on the
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Magic ninety four nine Instagram will be back tomorrow.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: Thank you for the ratings and the reviews.