Latest / Reality with The King / RHONJ: Namaste the Queen of New Jersey with Teresa Giudice & Melissa Pfeister
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I had Atlanta first.
- 0:01Speaker 2: But Teresa, how does it feel to know that you
- 0:04Speaker 2: made it on my top ten lists of the greatest
- 0:05Speaker 2: housewives of all time?
- 0:07Speaker 3: It feels good.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Stay tuned look into the conversation right after these quick ass, Hey,
- 0:23Speaker 2: rain Drop, I am so excited for today's guests.
- 0:27Speaker 1: One is a.
- 0:28Speaker 2: Stanford Medicine certified nutritionist and beautiful mom of two and baby.
- 0:34Speaker 2: The other is the undisputed Queen of New Jersey and
- 0:39Speaker 2: number two on my list of the greatest housewives of
- 0:43Speaker 2: all time. Yeah, Honey, I'm talking about Melissa Feaster and
- 0:47Speaker 2: the One the Only Teresa Judi.
- 0:52Speaker 1: They join me.
- 0:52Speaker 2: Today to talk about their podcast, Noma State Bitches and
- 0:56Speaker 2: their live shows on November tenth and eleventh.
- 0:59Speaker 1: If you and Philly or Silver Spring, Maryland. Honey, make
- 1:02Speaker 1: sure you get your ticket. Child.
- 1:05Speaker 2: We also get into the early days of New Jersey Housewives,
- 1:09Speaker 2: me working.
- 1:10Speaker 1: With Teresa for the very first time, and during that combo, Honey,
- 1:15Speaker 1: I reveal if.
- 1:16Speaker 2: Melissa Gorga was actually befriending producers to get on the show.
- 1:22Speaker 1: Oh yes, bitch, We're going there.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Finally, we discussed Teresa's dream New Jersey Housewives cast Honey
- 1:31Speaker 2: without further, Ado, let's get into my conversation with Melissa
- 1:36Speaker 2: Feaster and Teresa Judais. Teresa, obviously, you are one of
- 1:49Speaker 2: the loves of my life. You know that we started
- 1:54Speaker 2: out together. So Melissa, let me give you a quick
- 1:56Speaker 2: backstory on the Teresa and Carlos relationships. So, long story short,
- 2:03Speaker 2: I did one season of Atlanta Housewives. I get a
- 2:06Speaker 2: phone call that Bravo maybe doing over Housewives of New Jersey, right,
- 2:13Speaker 2: so then it was like, Okay, I'll do it. I
- 2:17Speaker 2: live in New York, so this should be fun, like
- 2:20Speaker 2: that was my thing, Like, this should be fun. Long
- 2:23Speaker 2: story short, Melissa, every producer gets assigned a housewife.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Guess who I had, Melissa, No.
- 2:30Speaker 4: Way, I'm hoping you say Teresa, not Danielle.
- 2:33Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna gonna gag.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I had Teresa and Danielle. Yes, yes, yes that Carlos.
- 2:44Speaker 4: You didn't get paid enough for that.
- 2:46Speaker 3: No.
- 2:47Speaker 2: I was this little whipper snapper, just tried to make
- 2:50Speaker 2: it in the business and the rest is history. So Teresa,
- 2:55Speaker 2: I am so happy.
- 2:57Speaker 3: I was easy. I was right at Carlos. I was easy.
- 3:00Speaker 2: I was super super easy, and you were super fun.
- 3:03Speaker 2: And one thing that I want the audience to know.
- 3:06Speaker 2: And you too, Melissa and Melissa, I'm sure you know
- 3:09Speaker 2: this now as well working with Teresa on your podcast.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Nowmna stay bitches.
- 3:14Speaker 2: Is the fact that Teresa is still down to earth.
- 3:19Speaker 2: She's always been the sweetest and I will always defend
- 3:23Speaker 2: Teresa because I know the real Teresa. She's a good girl,
- 3:27Speaker 2: she's a family girl, she's a great mom, and it's
- 3:31Speaker 2: time that the world really understands who you are, Teresa.
- 3:36Speaker 2: So I'm thankful that you and Melissa decided to come
- 3:39Speaker 2: on Reality with the King. This is a big deal
- 3:41Speaker 2: for me and we're just gonna have fun, big deal
- 3:45Speaker 2: for me.
- 3:45Speaker 4: That's amazing, Carlos, that was really nice. I mean, you know,
- 3:49Speaker 4: it's funny that you said that. Was amazing that you
- 3:51Speaker 4: said that, and too, I couldn't agree with you more.
- 3:55Speaker 4: And I say this all the time. People are like,
- 3:57Speaker 4: you know, you watch Jersey, you watch the Housewives, You've
- 4:00Speaker 4: seen Teresa on for a decade. What is Teresa like
- 4:06Speaker 4: that you don't see on the show. And it's exactly
- 4:09Speaker 4: what you were saying, Like, she is down to earth,
- 4:11Speaker 4: she's chill, she is not mistake. I mean, listen, for
- 4:16Speaker 4: the most part, we all get a little crazy, But
- 4:18Speaker 4: there are definitely more times where Teresa is telling me
- 4:23Speaker 4: to like chill the f out than I am telling
- 4:25Speaker 4: her to like why are you so crazy? Like she's
- 4:28Speaker 4: always like most why are you so like what's going on?
- 4:32Speaker 4: So it's definitely been. It's definitely been.
- 4:35Speaker 1: It is.
- 4:36Speaker 4: It's different working with her than what you see on
- 4:38Speaker 4: the Housewives, for sure.
- 4:40Speaker 1: Well.
- 4:40Speaker 5: The reason why you're like that, babe just you know,
- 4:43Speaker 5: because you have a little baby.
- 4:44Speaker 3: So it's hiptic.
- 4:45Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, listen, thank you. I appreciate you saying
- 4:48Speaker 4: that you have two. As I was selling Carlos, I
- 4:50Speaker 4: do have two little maniacs under five. So I'm a
- 4:54Speaker 4: lunas a lot. Again, let's just move throat on the kids.
- 4:58Speaker 4: Take the kids away. I'm still a luna, but we
- 5:01Speaker 4: can blame it on the fact that I have two
- 5:02Speaker 4: small children. But yes, I am. I am like that
- 5:07Speaker 4: and always here and Teresa's always like, just chill out,
- 5:11Speaker 4: just like not a mistae.
- 5:13Speaker 2: Yes, And that's the reason why I love the podcast
- 5:15Speaker 2: you guys have together, because again it's it's the Teresa
- 5:19Speaker 2: who I know. So to see you and Melissa have
- 5:22Speaker 2: these conversations, it's so great and Teresa. My first episode,
- 5:27Speaker 2: well one of my first episodes of the podcast, I
- 5:30Speaker 2: did my Greatest Housewives of All Time?
- 5:32Speaker 1: Ah, and you made the top ten list? Teresa? Did
- 5:36Speaker 1: you know this? No?
- 5:38Speaker 3: I didn't know that.
- 5:40Speaker 2: So you are number two Teresa one.
- 5:47Speaker 3: I know who's one?
- 5:48Speaker 1: Who do you think?
- 5:49Speaker 4: Ramona, Meini, Meani Meeanie.
- 5:54Speaker 3: I knew it.
- 5:55Speaker 1: I knew it.
- 5:55Speaker 3: Carlos, I knew it. Yeah, it was either between me
- 5:58Speaker 3: and her. I didn't know. Yeah, because you had them first?
- 6:00Speaker 3: Did you have them first?
- 6:01Speaker 1: I had Atlanta first?
- 6:03Speaker 2: But Theresa, how does it feel to know that you
- 6:05Speaker 2: made it on my top ten list of the Greatest
- 6:07Speaker 2: Housewives of All time?
- 6:08Speaker 3: It feels good, It feels really good. Thank you. I
- 6:11Speaker 3: love you.
- 6:12Speaker 5: No, because listen, you know I've been on Housewives Now
- 6:16Speaker 5: for a long time, going on to season thirteen, and
- 6:20Speaker 5: cause you know, I think, I think, I don't know
- 6:23Speaker 5: if you know, but it hasn't been fun for me.
- 6:25Speaker 3: Season one and two.
- 6:26Speaker 5: I was just getting my feet wet and then all
- 6:30Speaker 5: the darkness hit and so I've you know, this wasn't
- 6:34Speaker 5: fun for me.
- 6:35Speaker 3: It really wasn't.
- 6:36Speaker 5: So you know, I'm glad that you're here to shed
- 6:39Speaker 5: the light to say the truth of like who I
- 6:42Speaker 5: really am, because I feel like, you know, everyone thinks
- 6:45Speaker 5: they know me from the Housewives, but they don't really
- 6:47Speaker 5: know the real Teresa because season three on, I've been
- 6:51Speaker 5: you know, I've had people come after me, right, I mean,
- 6:54Speaker 5: you've watched it season three on, So it's like, so
- 6:58Speaker 5: I feel like everybody didn't get to real.
- 7:01Speaker 3: True teresaid that I wish they would have.
- 7:03Speaker 5: You know, listen, I know drama's gonna happen, but you know,
- 7:07Speaker 5: I was, like I said, I was just getting my
- 7:09Speaker 5: feet wet, and then unfortunately my family came on, and
- 7:14Speaker 5: I'm so happy that you've finally said the truth about
- 7:19Speaker 5: how that happened because I've been you know, I've been
- 7:23Speaker 5: wanting the truth to come out for over ten years.
- 7:26Speaker 3: Wow.
- 7:27Speaker 4: You know, she hasn't been saying stuff. I mean, we
- 7:29Speaker 4: have a podcast for her to talk about things, and
- 7:34Speaker 4: she's still not saying stuff. So all these people are like,
- 7:37Speaker 4: Teresa does this to them, and this to them. Teresa's
- 7:39Speaker 4: could have opened her mouth a long time ago about
- 7:42Speaker 4: certain things, things that I don't even know about, and
- 7:44Speaker 4: she hasn't even on our own podcast on Interviews on Everything,
- 7:49Speaker 4: so I think people need to understand that too. Like
- 7:51Speaker 4: she has a platform, she can definitely be vocal and
- 7:54Speaker 4: use it and to go against and say things against
- 7:59Speaker 4: others she has not, So I think that speaks to
- 8:03Speaker 4: her and who she is as well.
- 8:05Speaker 5: And So what what I wanted to say is I
- 8:08Speaker 5: always wanted the truth to come out because it was
- 8:11Speaker 5: I'll say it, it was my sister in law saying you
- 8:14Speaker 5: know her, you know, saying what she had to say,
- 8:16Speaker 5: and then it was me saying what I had to say.
- 8:18Speaker 5: But I needed someone to validate the truth because it
- 8:22Speaker 5: was her word against mine, so you know, and that's
- 8:25Speaker 5: why she got away with it all these years because
- 8:28Speaker 5: it was just, you know, it was between me and
- 8:30Speaker 5: me and her, so nobody knew.
- 8:32Speaker 3: Who was telling the truth.
- 8:33Speaker 5: And that's why it was so frustrating to me. And
- 8:37Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't even think to ask for Carlos.
- 8:39Speaker 5: I didn't even think like I should have, but I
- 8:42Speaker 5: knew Andy Cohens called me, and I guess he didn't
- 8:45Speaker 5: want to get involved or whatever, which I understand because
- 8:48Speaker 5: he was the one that called me to tell me
- 8:50Speaker 5: that they were coming on the show.
- 8:51Speaker 3: You know, you know, my sister or my cousin.
- 8:54Speaker 5: So but I remember, well, like I remember season two,
- 8:58Speaker 5: you kept telling me, You're like, your sister in law
- 9:01Speaker 5: keeps dming me.
- 9:02Speaker 3: And I was like, right, or was it Facebook? Facebook
- 9:05Speaker 3: or DM that she.
- 9:06Speaker 1: Kept contacting you?
- 9:07Speaker 3: All right, so Facebook because this is Facebook.
- 9:10Speaker 5: Time, and You're like, she keeps contacting me? And I
- 9:13Speaker 5: was like, why is she contacting you? That's so weird?
- 9:15Speaker 5: And I didn't even back then. That's how naive I was.
- 9:19Speaker 5: I wasn't putting two to two together that she was
- 9:21Speaker 5: trying to get herself on the show, like, and meanwhile
- 9:25Speaker 5: I was telling her everything that was happening on the show.
- 9:28Speaker 3: She knew everything about Danielle.
- 9:31Speaker 5: She like her and Kathy knew everything that was going
- 9:34Speaker 5: on because I was speaking to them. And then once
- 9:37Speaker 5: I got on the TV show, that's when I got
- 9:41Speaker 5: really busy. And then my family like, like what happened
- 9:44Speaker 5: to Teresa because I wasn't around as much as I was,
- 9:47Speaker 5: And then that's when all this jealousy happened.
- 9:49Speaker 3: I mean call it.
- 9:51Speaker 5: I'm calling a spade a spade because then they started.
- 9:55Speaker 3: Contacting Carlos King.
- 9:58Speaker 5: I don't and I don't know if Kathy was the
- 10:00Speaker 5: same thing because she her and Kathy, Melissa and Kathy
- 10:04Speaker 5: got cast it together. So I know that Melissa was
- 10:08Speaker 5: contacting Carlos King because he was telling me, you know,
- 10:12Speaker 5: he was telling me, he's like your sister laws, you know,
- 10:14Speaker 5: contacting me, and I'm like, and I didn't understand why,
- 10:17Speaker 5: you know.
- 10:17Speaker 3: And then afterwards after they got on the show, then
- 10:21Speaker 3: I was like, that's.
- 10:22Speaker 5: Why she was doing that. And then the whole sprinkle
- 10:26Speaker 5: cookie thing that was her way of getting herself on
- 10:29Speaker 5: the show. Like like everybody doesn't know the truth how
- 10:33Speaker 5: this all happened. This happened like you know, I was here,
- 10:37Speaker 5: I was, you know, I met you know, my sister
- 10:40Speaker 5: in law comes over. Now Joe's whole family's over my house.
- 10:44Speaker 5: And Joe's mother is the one that said who brought
- 10:47Speaker 5: these cookies? And I was like, you know, and she's like, oh,
- 10:52Speaker 5: your sister in law, like these are guys.
- 10:54Speaker 3: And then my mother in law is the one that
- 10:55Speaker 3: threw him in the garbage because.
- 10:56Speaker 5: She said nobody, you know, she was like, nobody.
- 10:59Speaker 3: East to these ship the cookies. You know, like the
- 11:01Speaker 3: way she.
- 11:01Speaker 4: Told her mother in law wanted to be a housewife.
- 11:03Speaker 4: Look at that she was plotting the whole time.
- 11:06Speaker 5: No, But my point is my mother in law was
- 11:08Speaker 5: saying like like, so here, I am trying to be
- 11:11Speaker 5: a good sister in law and I'm telling my you know,
- 11:13Speaker 5: I'm telling Melissa. I'm like because Joe Stailey was kind
- 11:16Speaker 5: of making fun of her because she brought sprinkle cookies
- 11:18Speaker 5: from from like you know, in that plastic container instead
- 11:22Speaker 5: of going to the bakery and getting you know, real pastries.
- 11:26Speaker 5: So here I am trying to be like a good
- 11:28Speaker 5: sister in law and telling her, you know, I'm trying
- 11:30Speaker 5: to give her advice, like next time you come over,
- 11:33Speaker 5: like if you're going to play the part, you know,
- 11:35Speaker 5: and have the nice house and and like dress nice
- 11:38Speaker 5: and have them.
- 11:38Speaker 2: You know, also you were you were you were helping
- 11:41Speaker 2: her to get a position on the show.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Wow, not a.
- 11:46Speaker 3: Position show, just a position in life. You get like
- 11:50Speaker 3: you're understand, Like.
- 11:52Speaker 5: I was just being a good sister in law to her,
- 11:54Speaker 5: like a position, like you know, like just giving her
- 11:57Speaker 5: good advice.
- 11:57Speaker 3: And I'm like, miss, if you're going to play the
- 11:59Speaker 3: like you know part, like have a nice house, dressed nice,
- 12:02Speaker 3: dress your kid nice, you gotta bring nice desserts. Do
- 12:05Speaker 3: you understand?
- 12:07Speaker 5: You know it like you get it because some people
- 12:10Speaker 5: understand my language. It's like you know you have to run,
- 12:13Speaker 5: don't you know, like complete it all the way around,
- 12:16Speaker 5: don't go halfway?
- 12:18Speaker 3: Do you understand?
- 12:19Speaker 1: Yes?
- 12:19Speaker 2: No, oh you are now listen, listen Teresa. I've been
- 12:24Speaker 2: with you since day one, which is two thousand and nine,
- 12:26Speaker 2: so I understand.
- 12:27Speaker 1: The language of Teresa. Don't you worry, don't you worry?
- 12:31Speaker 1: So this the true store just truth. Let's talk about
- 12:35Speaker 1: the truth. Let's talk about the truth.
- 12:37Speaker 2: So so he listen. This isn't to bash anybody.
- 12:41Speaker 1: I don't.
- 12:42Speaker 2: I don't have any I don't have any issues with
- 12:45Speaker 2: Melissa and Joe.
- 12:46Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know them personally.
- 12:48Speaker 2: This is this is just me and my friend Teresa,
- 12:50Speaker 2: along with our mutual friend now Melissa, having a conversation.
- 12:55Speaker 1: So this is the truth of the matter. It is true.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Me and Melissa are Facebook friends.
- 13:02Speaker 2: And the reason why we're Facebook friends is because in
- 13:04Speaker 2: two thousand and nine, twenty ten, she did friend request
- 13:08Speaker 2: me as a Facebook friend because she knew I was
- 13:11Speaker 2: a producer on The Real House Boss New Jersey.
- 13:14Speaker 1: And she would message me that is the truth, and.
- 13:17Speaker 2: That's no shade I'm not going to disclose what the
- 13:20Speaker 2: messages were because that's being messy. But Teresa is right,
- 13:24Speaker 2: And what I will say is this, after I left
- 13:29Speaker 2: season two, I was in Chicago working with Oprah Winfrey
- 13:33Speaker 2: behind the scenes for her network, right, and me and
- 13:37Speaker 2: me and Teresa are super close and I'm her producer,
- 13:40Speaker 2: so we're like very close.
- 13:42Speaker 1: And it is true.
- 13:43Speaker 2: Teresa did call me because she did receive a phone
- 13:46Speaker 2: call that her system law and brother were joining the show,
- 13:50Speaker 2: and she found out by the producers that that is
- 13:53Speaker 2: the truth, and Teresa was I don't want to get emotional,
- 13:57Speaker 2: but Teresa was very emotional and nervous because she didn't listen.
- 14:06Speaker 2: This is my opinion, Teresa, you can you can obviously
- 14:09Speaker 2: answer this. When you called me, I felt that you
- 14:12Speaker 2: were just hurt by not knowing about it.
- 14:16Speaker 1: And number two, you were just like what is going on?
- 14:22Speaker 2: Like I don't want to You kept saying to me,
- 14:24Speaker 2: I do not want to fight with my family, Carlos,
- 14:26Speaker 2: Like I don't that's my family, Like I don't want
- 14:28Speaker 2: to fight with them, because I think at that time
- 14:30Speaker 2: you knew, like, look, drama's drama.
- 14:33Speaker 1: I can listen. I can flip the table, Danielle, I
- 14:36Speaker 1: can go toe to toe with the best of them.
- 14:39Speaker 1: I do not want to go toe to toe with
- 14:40Speaker 1: my family.
- 14:41Speaker 2: And as an avid viewer of Jersey since I left,
- 14:45Speaker 2: I know for a fact, and I'm.
- 14:47Speaker 1: Not gonna cry. I know for a fact that your
- 14:50Speaker 1: mom and father this is not what they wanted.
- 14:54Speaker 3: To see exactly.
- 14:56Speaker 5: Yeah and never And that's why all these like past
- 15:01Speaker 5: over ten years, I kept my match up a lot.
- 15:04Speaker 5: I mean I could have you know, what do you
- 15:07Speaker 5: think I I mean, my nerves were like I could
- 15:09Speaker 5: have went more crazier than I than I was, because
- 15:12Speaker 5: I was like, what, this is not what my family's
- 15:15Speaker 5: really about. And I was like, I don't want to
- 15:18Speaker 5: show America this. Like if if my brother and Melissa
- 15:21Speaker 5: came on the right way, I would have loved to
- 15:23Speaker 5: show America help. It was when me and my brother
- 15:26Speaker 5: grew up. You remember, Carlos. I used to always tell
- 15:28Speaker 5: you me and my brother were best friends growing up. Yes, friends,
- 15:32Speaker 5: best friends. Everyone used to be so jealous of our relationship.
- 15:35Speaker 5: They used to ask my brother and I asked, and
- 15:38Speaker 5: then I'm sure he would vouch for that. They'll be like,
- 15:40Speaker 5: oh my god, like how come you and your brother
- 15:42Speaker 5: are so close, Like, how do you have that relationship?
- 15:45Speaker 3: And we just did. It's just we just always had
- 15:47Speaker 3: respect for each other.
- 15:49Speaker 5: My parents always used to tell us, you only have
- 15:52Speaker 5: the two you know each other, so you should always,
- 15:54Speaker 5: you know, respect and honor each other, which we always did.
- 15:58Speaker 3: And then this, I always.
- 15:59Speaker 5: Say like this, and I don't know if people understand
- 16:01Speaker 5: where everything went to shit? Was fame and money ruined
- 16:06Speaker 5: my family. I kept I said that brought boon. And
- 16:09Speaker 5: why I'm saying that is because fame and money because
- 16:13Speaker 5: my brother Melissa came on the show to become famous
- 16:18Speaker 5: and because they're getting a nice paycheck. So that's when
- 16:21Speaker 5: I say fame and money ruined our family, because that's
- 16:24Speaker 5: what ruined our family. Not that I ruined the family,
- 16:28Speaker 5: because I really didn't. Because when they came on the show,
- 16:31Speaker 5: like the Christening was the first episode, and that's when
- 16:35Speaker 5: my brother went crazy on me and I was like
- 16:37Speaker 5: for and I'm like and then I just recently saw
- 16:41Speaker 5: my friend and I'm gonna say it. I'm gonna say this.
- 16:45Speaker 5: I just saw my friend Lisa g that she was
- 16:49Speaker 5: there for my kids. I just put it on my Instagram.
- 16:51Speaker 5: She was really there. For my kids when I was
- 16:54Speaker 5: in jail, and she took my kids all over New
- 16:58Speaker 5: York City. She had an apartment in the city. They
- 17:00Speaker 5: spent time in her apartment. She like whined and diyned
- 17:04Speaker 5: my kids. She really did. She was the best. She
- 17:07Speaker 5: was an aunt that they never had. She really was.
- 17:10Speaker 5: And I wanted to praise her because you know, they're
- 17:15Speaker 5: you know. I just wanted her to know because I'm
- 17:17Speaker 5: indebted to her for life because she was there for
- 17:20Speaker 5: my kids when I was in jail.
- 17:21Speaker 3: She really was. And my mother was so close to her.
- 17:25Speaker 5: My mother was so close to her, and my mother
- 17:27Speaker 5: said to her, which the other night, she told me this,
- 17:30Speaker 5: and I started crying. She said, your mother told me
- 17:35Speaker 5: like after the christening, because my mother opened up to her,
- 17:38Speaker 5: Like my mother told her everything that you know, your
- 17:41Speaker 5: brother did that at the christening because he wanted to
- 17:43Speaker 5: be like you, like when you flipped the.
- 17:45Speaker 3: Table and I became so popular.
- 17:48Speaker 6: Yeah, And I was like, oh my god, I'm like,
- 17:52Speaker 6: that's so like I know my mother would say that
- 17:55Speaker 6: to like, I know that that's like my mother.
- 17:58Speaker 5: Never said that to me, Like, my mother never said
- 18:02Speaker 5: that to me, because you know why, my mother never
- 18:04Speaker 5: said that to me. My mother wanted to keep the peace.
- 18:07Speaker 5: She wanted to keep the peace between me.
- 18:10Speaker 3: And my brother.
- 18:11Speaker 5: So I'm Carlos, I swear to got to you. I
- 18:15Speaker 5: never watched the show. Everybody knows it. Everybody knows I
- 18:18Speaker 5: never watched the show because I couldn't stand watching. And
- 18:23Speaker 5: you know what, I think that was a blessing in
- 18:25Speaker 5: disguise for me not to watch the show because if
- 18:27Speaker 5: I would have watched, Because now I'm starting to watch
- 18:30Speaker 5: the show and I'm watching everything that my brother and
- 18:33Speaker 5: Melissa said about me, It's.
- 18:36Speaker 3: It's heart wrenching, devastating. It's the worst.
- 18:41Speaker 5: Like I can't even believe my brother and Melissa would
- 18:44Speaker 5: say things like that about me, Like I swear to God,
- 18:47Speaker 5: Like when I see it now then now that I'm
- 18:49Speaker 5: watching it, it's like it's like, that's why I think
- 18:53Speaker 5: I didn't watch it, because then I would have I
- 18:55Speaker 5: would have got more upset.
- 18:56Speaker 3: It would have been like more fighting, and it would
- 18:59Speaker 3: have hurt my parents. It's even more.
- 19:01Speaker 5: And you know when my brother says, my brother said
- 19:03Speaker 5: that my ex put my mother in the grave. No,
- 19:07Speaker 5: that took years away from my life. My parents seeing
- 19:11Speaker 5: me and my brother fighting. That took years away from
- 19:14Speaker 5: my parents' life because no parents want to see their brother.
- 19:17Speaker 3: No parents want to see their children.
- 19:19Speaker 5: Only two children fight. Yeah, and we only had it
- 19:22Speaker 5: was only the four of us.
- 19:24Speaker 3: We only had. It was a small family.
- 19:26Speaker 5: And then of course we had my father had that,
- 19:28Speaker 5: you know, his one sister, Kathy's mom that like you
- 19:33Speaker 5: saw what happened with that, you know again, fame and money,
- 19:37Speaker 5: and like, I don't need a cousin that you know
- 19:39Speaker 5: to do that to me either, you know, So.
- 19:41Speaker 3: We stopped talking to them.
- 19:43Speaker 5: So my only family was my parents and my brother
- 19:46Speaker 5: and I that's my only family.
- 19:48Speaker 3: And then, you know, to watch this now, it's like.
- 19:51Speaker 5: I'm really spilling my guts out right now, I'm spelling
- 19:54Speaker 5: my guts out because it's.
- 19:55Speaker 1: Just I think. I think it's import and I'm sure
- 19:58Speaker 1: that's about you. Melissa.
- 19:59Speaker 2: Feast are so close because one thing I know about you, Teresa,
- 20:04Speaker 2: and this is even going back I first met you.
- 20:06Speaker 2: You were you're hard in your sleep, and you're such
- 20:08Speaker 2: a good person. And I saw firsthand how your parents
- 20:11Speaker 2: adored you.
- 20:12Speaker 1: You did everything for.
- 20:13Speaker 2: Your mom and dad. I remember having a meeting with
- 20:16Speaker 2: your daughters. You probably don't remember this. I had a
- 20:20Speaker 2: meeting with your daughters in front of you, and I said,
- 20:22Speaker 2: stop being mean to your mom.
- 20:24Speaker 1: She's all you have and she's such.
- 20:26Speaker 2: A good mom, and you girls will grow up understanding
- 20:29Speaker 2: that your mom is the best thing in the world.
- 20:33Speaker 2: Stop being a brat, like cut your mom some slack
- 20:37Speaker 2: because I saw the relationship that you have with your mother.
- 20:40Speaker 2: And listen, Like I said, I'm not here to bash anybody.
- 20:43Speaker 2: This isn't for that, because it's not mistay bitches. Yes,
- 20:46Speaker 2: but I really want people to know that you've always
- 20:50Speaker 2: been a good girl. I remember the early days of
- 20:52Speaker 2: US shooting Season one. You and Jacqueline used to talk
- 20:55Speaker 2: every single day at six o'clock in the morning for
- 20:57Speaker 2: two hours. You would tell Jaqueline, hold on, I gotta
- 21:01Speaker 2: do something, and Jack lib will hold on for thirty minutes,
- 21:06Speaker 2: Melissa fee start. This is truly what happens. I understand
- 21:10Speaker 2: you is that your relationship now like you you went,
- 21:13Speaker 2: you went, Teresa.
- 21:14Speaker 4: Teresa and I are in a serious conversation the other
- 21:16Speaker 4: day and she's like, hold on, do you have that
- 21:19Speaker 4: in like a size eight? I'm like, what are you?
- 21:21Speaker 4: What are you doing? She's like, I have to get
- 21:23Speaker 4: shoes like.
- 21:27Speaker 3: Wait, like shoes from my kids?
- 21:29Speaker 4: Mean or Noah, you're doing this? Who?
- 21:36Speaker 1: I hate you interrupt, but stay tuned for more.
- 21:39Speaker 2: We'll be right back after these quick ads. This is
- 21:49Speaker 2: Reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get
- 21:53Speaker 2: back into the show.
- 21:58Speaker 1: Season one.
- 21:59Speaker 2: I remember Teresa just wanted to have fun. She was like, love, Carlos,
- 22:04Speaker 2: I'm here.
- 22:04Speaker 1: To have fun.
- 22:05Speaker 2: My best friend Dina's on the show. I love Jacqueline,
- 22:08Speaker 2: her sister Caroline's cool. You know, I don't know Danielle,
- 22:12Speaker 2: but hey, she's good TV. Like, it'll be fun and
- 22:16Speaker 2: fast forward to the infamous table flip. So, Melissa fe still,
- 22:20Speaker 2: let me tell you this because I never told anyone
- 22:22Speaker 2: of this. So, Teresa, you're going to be so.
- 22:25Speaker 4: You have both of them. These are your too.
- 22:27Speaker 1: I have both of them.
- 22:30Speaker 2: So after Teresa flipped the table, she calls me Melissa Feast,
- 22:36Speaker 2: and she said, so, what do you think?
- 22:39Speaker 1: I said, Teresa, you.
- 22:42Speaker 2: Are going to go down in history as one of
- 22:45Speaker 2: the best women in reality television. I said that table
- 22:50Speaker 2: flip is going to be the most iconic moment in
- 22:54Speaker 2: reality television.
- 22:56Speaker 1: And Teresa's like, you think? So you think.
- 23:00Speaker 3: Cause I was so upset that I didn't.
- 23:02Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 23:02Speaker 5: I was like, I was that's really is that. I
- 23:04Speaker 5: was like, I was, oh my god, Coach, I'm so
- 23:07Speaker 5: sorry I didn't. I didn't want to do that.
- 23:09Speaker 3: And I was.
- 23:09Speaker 5: Like like, I'm like, I never done did that before.
- 23:13Speaker 3: I'm like, but I got so angry, and I'm like,
- 23:16Speaker 3: I'm like, is that going to make me look bad?
- 23:18Speaker 5: I was asking him all this and then he was
- 23:20Speaker 5: saying and then right, because you're.
- 23:21Speaker 1: Missing all that?
- 23:22Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And I said you are going to be
- 23:27Speaker 2: the biggest star in the world.
- 23:29Speaker 1: And and Melissa, she was like, are you.
- 23:32Speaker 3: Like it did? I had been computing.
- 23:34Speaker 1: She was like, I don't know what you mean by that.
- 23:36Speaker 2: I said, oh, trust me, bitch, you are going to
- 23:38Speaker 2: be major. And fourteen what years later, you are still
- 23:44Speaker 2: the OG of the show. So let's talk about this
- 23:48Speaker 2: podcast Noma State Bitches, because I'm really I want my
- 23:51Speaker 2: audience to know to like, obviously your co host and
- 23:56Speaker 2: friend named Melissa, which I love the irony.
- 23:58Speaker 1: I mean, but how did this come about? This friendship?
- 24:02Speaker 3: Wait?
- 24:02Speaker 5: And I just before I want Melissa to answer this,
- 24:06Speaker 5: but I just want to also put out there because
- 24:09Speaker 5: I've been saving this for the right time, and this
- 24:11Speaker 5: is the right time because Carlos is on Melissa, and
- 24:14Speaker 5: you see how much he means to me.
- 24:16Speaker 3: There's two things.
- 24:17Speaker 5: First thing, Carlos, I already told you this. I'm so
- 24:20Speaker 5: sorry I did invite you to their wedding. He's so
- 24:24Speaker 5: He's someone that he was always in my mind that
- 24:27Speaker 5: I always wanted to invite. I was like, if I
- 24:29Speaker 5: ever got married again, and you say, I like, I
- 24:32Speaker 5: missed him, you.
- 24:32Speaker 3: Say, and I'm like, fuck, I'm so sorry. Can I say?
- 24:35Speaker 1: Fuck? Yes you can.
- 24:37Speaker 5: So, Carlos and everybody apologized to you the other day.
- 24:41Speaker 3: So I love you so much.
- 24:42Speaker 5: And so you were there in my in my soul
- 24:45Speaker 5: and spirit because you know, you know, I wanted you
- 24:47Speaker 5: to be there. And I wish you would have called
- 24:49Speaker 5: me because I would have said, oh my god. No.
- 24:51Speaker 2: And the think is this, I said to Teresa, I said,
- 24:55Speaker 2: our friendship is not predicated on me getting an invite
- 24:58Speaker 2: to your wedding. I said, I know that a bride
- 25:02Speaker 2: has a lot going on. I said, Teresa, you and
- 25:05Speaker 2: I are friends forever, and we don't have to talk
- 25:07Speaker 2: every single day for me to know that you love me.
- 25:10Speaker 2: So no, apologies needed, sister, And when you have your
- 25:14Speaker 2: one year wedding anniversary, bitch, I am coming to party.
- 25:18Speaker 3: Louis said he wants to renew our bounds every year.
- 25:20Speaker 3: So you're yes, okay, yes, yes, yeah, okay.
- 25:24Speaker 5: So then and then the next thing, and then Melissa
- 25:27Speaker 5: go into how we met. I just want to put
- 25:29Speaker 5: out there there's there is a god. There is a
- 25:32Speaker 5: god because look, I couldn't stand that name Melissa.
- 25:35Speaker 3: You know why, obviously because of my sister in law.
- 25:38Speaker 5: And look, God brought a beautiful Melissa into my world,
- 25:44Speaker 5: like a beautiful Melissa that I adore.
- 25:47Speaker 3: I love her best friend's sister, like we were meant
- 25:51Speaker 3: to be. And you see, and now I love saying
- 25:53Speaker 3: that name.
- 25:54Speaker 1: I love saying Melissa.
- 25:56Speaker 7: I don't mind it.
- 25:57Speaker 3: I I'm so at peace with it. I like love.
- 26:04Speaker 1: I love Melissa, I love I love, I love thank.
- 26:09Speaker 4: You, I love you both. That was so nice, Teresa,
- 26:12Speaker 4: all right, so tell him how we met? Well, I mean,
- 26:15Speaker 4: I don't even know how I follow that one up.
- 26:17Speaker 4: I mean, geez, yeah, so Melissa. Obviously Teresa was destined
- 26:23Speaker 4: to have a Melissa that she really loved in her life.
- 26:26Speaker 4: I my other podcast side piece. I had Teresa's attorney,
- 26:33Speaker 4: whom I love a lot. He's incredible. I had him
- 26:37Speaker 4: on and we just became friends. And you know, Carls,
- 26:41Speaker 4: like you do this like I like to do it
- 26:42Speaker 4: because I like to meet cool people and develop friendships
- 26:44Speaker 4: and all this stuff. So I like to be cool
- 26:47Speaker 4: with people I have on and get to know him
- 26:49Speaker 4: and we got close talking and like just forming a
- 26:53Speaker 4: cool relationship. And I said, I want to do more
- 26:57Speaker 4: like you work with Teresa. There's so much more to
- 26:59Speaker 4: tree then the freaking housewives. I think this is a
- 27:04Speaker 4: good time for her to do more than just the housewives.
- 27:08Speaker 4: Let's do this. I've been podcasting. I like to do this.
- 27:12Speaker 4: Let's go like, let's see make something happen with Teresa.
- 27:15Speaker 4: And you know how I mean. It takes forever, right,
- 27:17Speaker 4: there's lots of conversations. We met Teresa and I met
- 27:21Speaker 4: for the first time. I went to the Ultimate Girl's
- 27:23Speaker 4: Strip premiere here in La. I was Cynthia Bailey's date
- 27:27Speaker 4: because I got to know Cynthia well through having her
- 27:30Speaker 4: ex Mike Hill on my on my podcast. Mike couldn't go.
- 27:36Speaker 4: Cynthia called me last minute and said, will you be
- 27:38Speaker 4: my date my plus one. I go to Ultimate Girl's
- 27:41Speaker 4: Strip premiere. Teresa's attorney Gym calls me and says, listen,
- 27:45Speaker 4: Teresa's going to be there. This is you know, you
- 27:47Speaker 4: guys can meet talk, see how it goes. And then
- 27:50Speaker 4: I was like, oh shit, how's this bitch going to be?
- 27:52Speaker 4: Like cool? It's she going to be you know, I
- 27:55Speaker 4: don't know. You don't know, right, you don't know, you're
- 27:57Speaker 4: just watching somebody on TV. She and I'm not just
- 28:01Speaker 4: saying this because she's here. Teresa knows I'll say anything
- 28:04Speaker 4: to her face. She was so warm right from the
- 28:08Speaker 4: get go and genuine and caring and so nice to
- 28:11Speaker 4: meet you, and some others weren't okay, and she and
- 28:16Speaker 4: Louis both were beyond incredible. And then it just the
- 28:20Speaker 4: relationship with Teresa just started from there.
- 28:22Speaker 1: Then yeah, no, she's so listen.
- 28:26Speaker 2: Cynthia Bailly another one of my love It's like the
- 28:28Speaker 2: two degree separation of Carlos King. I got Teresa and
- 28:31Speaker 2: I love it. So Melissa, I'm now a part of
- 28:34Speaker 2: your life, so we're gonna be sisters too. So it's
- 28:36Speaker 2: the trifect that perfect. No, And I'm glad you shared
- 28:40Speaker 2: that because there's a lot of reality stars some I
- 28:43Speaker 2: worked with who aren't. Yes, they think they're Julia Robert's
- 28:48Speaker 2: level of celebrity, and they're just not nice people. And
- 28:53Speaker 2: one thing I will say that I'm glad you said,
- 28:55Speaker 2: Melissa is the fact.
- 28:57Speaker 1: That Theresa is a cool and.
- 29:02Speaker 2: I don't think Teresa, at least back then Teresa, but
- 29:05Speaker 2: I'm curious of what happened now. Back then, Teresa had
- 29:09Speaker 2: no idea how famous she was. She would still go
- 29:11Speaker 2: to the grocery store, go to the local shops, a
- 29:15Speaker 2: bouy her daughter's wardrobe.
- 29:17Speaker 1: And I'll be like, Teresa, you're like the biggest start
- 29:20Speaker 1: in New Jersey, bitch, you need to like get security.
- 29:22Speaker 1: She's like, no, Carlos, I like being myself.
- 29:25Speaker 2: Now, Teresa, do you still go to the supermarket?
- 29:30Speaker 1: Do you go to the mall by yourself? Do you
- 29:31Speaker 1: have a bodyguard?
- 29:32Speaker 2: Do you understand that you are a big fucking star now,
- 29:36Speaker 2: I still do.
- 29:36Speaker 3: The same thing. I get the store.
- 29:38Speaker 4: Yeah, she gets her granola at the local mall.
- 29:42Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, she's my favorite granola is at the
- 29:45Speaker 3: short house.
- 29:45Speaker 4: Mam.
- 29:46Speaker 3: Yes, I don't have security.
- 29:49Speaker 7: I just do everything on my Osio kids soccer games,
- 29:52Speaker 7: sits there, she calls me from the soccer games, calls
- 29:55Speaker 7: me from the mall, calls me eating her granola, the
- 29:58Speaker 7: same shit Carlos.
- 30:00Speaker 4: That you were with thirteen years ago.
- 30:03Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy to me because I mean it's crazy,
- 30:09Speaker 2: but also it's a good crazy because it also to
- 30:12Speaker 2: show you that, Yeah, she's the og of New Jersey.
- 30:15Speaker 2: She's one of the greatest house spots of all time.
- 30:17Speaker 2: She was on Dance with the Stars. You have achieved
- 30:20Speaker 2: so much success, a fucking super Bowl commercial, You've done everything,
- 30:24Speaker 2: but you are still the same old Teresa. Oh I'm sorry,
- 30:29Speaker 2: yea to super Bowl commercial.
- 30:32Speaker 4: Okay, my bad.
- 30:33Speaker 2: Not one bitch, but two bitches, two super Bowl commercials.
- 30:38Speaker 2: But you are still the same Teresa from Patterson.
- 30:41Speaker 3: I am, Yes, I am, but I don't.
- 30:44Speaker 5: I didn't.
- 30:45Speaker 3: I didn't forget where it came from, you know, and
- 30:47Speaker 3: I never will.
- 30:49Speaker 5: You know, Like going to the MTV Awards was you know,
- 30:52Speaker 5: it was cool, but I was saying, I never forget
- 30:56Speaker 5: where Teresa came from. I'll always be down to.
- 30:58Speaker 3: Earth, Like I don't act like exactly, I don't want
- 31:00Speaker 3: to like, Oh I'm Teresa, you know, I'm a diba.
- 31:03Speaker 5: No I mean, I just act, you know, I want,
- 31:06Speaker 5: I act like I want I want. I act like
- 31:09Speaker 5: I want other you know, like people to treat me,
- 31:11Speaker 5: and that's how I treat.
- 31:12Speaker 2: Them, right, yes, yes, no, it's who you are and
- 31:16Speaker 2: that's how Melissa was able to see that. And you
- 31:18Speaker 2: guys have this amazing podcast. So tell us what is
- 31:22Speaker 2: Noma Stay Bitch is about? Because there's a lot of
- 31:25Speaker 2: podcasts on the world, and my listeners are huge fans
- 31:28Speaker 2: of reality TV but also pop culture, so you have
- 31:31Speaker 2: a wide audience of listeners. Explain to them what Nama
- 31:35Speaker 2: Stay Bitches is about and exactly what you two are
- 31:38Speaker 2: providing for our listeners.
- 31:39Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I mean, listen, it's it's what initially what
- 31:42Speaker 4: we started. There's so much more. Why are we doing
- 31:45Speaker 4: a podcast together?
- 31:46Speaker 3: Why?
- 31:47Speaker 4: Teresa? I think there's so much people a don't know
- 31:50Speaker 4: who I am unless they listen to my former or
- 31:53Speaker 4: to my other podcast side piece, and then there's so
- 31:55Speaker 4: much more to Teresa, Like, there's so much more. The
- 31:58Speaker 4: Housewives is a Smidget and of her life. There's so
- 32:01Speaker 4: much more to that. You don't know the behind the
- 32:03Speaker 4: scenes and all this stuff mom life relationship, like the
- 32:07Speaker 4: every day in and out and just real life, like
- 32:11Speaker 4: the Housewives is not real life. It's real, but it's
- 32:14Speaker 4: not real life, right, So what is the life like
- 32:17Speaker 4: without the cameras, without the glam, without all this That's
- 32:22Speaker 4: what we're giving like being a mom, being in a relationship, health,
- 32:26Speaker 4: working out, you know, all these things.
- 32:30Speaker 3: Life, just life, life, life like life. Yeah.
- 32:33Speaker 5: I mean, of course I'm always going to touch on
- 32:36Speaker 5: you know, if there's out something out there in the
- 32:38Speaker 5: press that I need to talk about, I have no
- 32:40Speaker 5: problem always addressing it, like when the season comes out,
- 32:43Speaker 5: if you know, of course I'll talk about Housewives, you know,
- 32:47Speaker 5: like we'll give each other's opinion about what's going on
- 32:49Speaker 5: in the other reality TV worlds. But I also want
- 32:53Speaker 5: people to get to know the real me, the real Teresa,
- 32:56Speaker 5: And like we we're going to take questions from you know,
- 32:59Speaker 5: from everyone that you know, any questions that they want
- 33:01Speaker 5: to ask us.
- 33:02Speaker 3: Like I want to get back on the podcast.
- 33:05Speaker 5: With you, Carlos, and you know, I talk some more
- 33:08Speaker 5: like you know, and I like I want us to
- 33:10Speaker 5: talk about life, like what's what's going on in the world,
- 33:13Speaker 5: Like if you want to ask us an opinion about something,
- 33:15Speaker 5: if we want to ask you an opinion about something.
- 33:17Speaker 3: Like, I think that's great because knowledge is power.
- 33:20Speaker 4: Do people know you know that there's four girls, Louis
- 33:23Speaker 4: has two boys. What Louis deals with one of his
- 33:26Speaker 4: sons with autism? How the two boys get along with
- 33:29Speaker 4: her four girls? Like you guys, Like nobody knows that?
- 33:31Speaker 3: Right?
- 33:32Speaker 4: Does anybody know I have two kids under five? That
- 33:34Speaker 4: I'm a certified stand for nutritionist, that you know all
- 33:38Speaker 4: these things? Right, So it's just glimpses into who we are.
- 33:41Speaker 4: That's relatable real life, you know, real moms, real wifes,
- 33:45Speaker 4: all those types of things.
- 33:47Speaker 1: I love that.
- 33:48Speaker 2: And you guys also have a tour coming up, so
- 33:52Speaker 2: let us know about this tour. What can we expect
- 33:56Speaker 2: and how can people get tickets?
- 33:58Speaker 5: Okay, before that one, let's go to back to one
- 34:01Speaker 5: more thing about the.
- 34:02Speaker 3: Ultimate Girl's Trip. Do you like Kenya? Is Kenya when
- 34:04Speaker 3: your girl?
- 34:05Speaker 1: Oh, she's one of my best friends.
- 34:07Speaker 5: Okay, so I love her too, And I love Kenya.
- 34:11Speaker 5: She had my back against Ramona, So that girl I have, like,
- 34:16Speaker 5: I have her back for life because nobody, Carlos, you know,
- 34:19Speaker 5: nobody ever sticks up for me and Kenya?
- 34:21Speaker 3: Yes, and Kenya had my back on the Ultimate Girl's Trip.
- 34:24Speaker 3: So I love, love, love Kenya.
- 34:26Speaker 5: Anyway, Ultimate Girl's Trip, it comes up again like how
- 34:31Speaker 5: Melissa got on the show my sister in law, and
- 34:34Speaker 5: again it was her word against my word, and and
- 34:38Speaker 5: like here's you know, Cynthia Bailey and Kenya and I
- 34:43Speaker 5: was like, oh, man, like I want to tell them,
- 34:46Speaker 5: Like Cynthia, I think she knows the truth because I
- 34:49Speaker 5: sent her.
- 34:50Speaker 3: I sent her what you put out there with what
- 34:53Speaker 3: was her.
- 34:53Speaker 1: Name, Heathereath McDonald, Heather.
- 34:55Speaker 5: McDonald, And I didn't send it to Kenya. I wanted to,
- 34:59Speaker 5: but I think ken I think she knows what I'm
- 35:02Speaker 5: all about. So again on the Ultimate Girls Trip, it
- 35:06Speaker 5: was brought up again.
- 35:07Speaker 8: And again yes and again she lied, she lied again,
- 35:13Speaker 8: and I was just like, I would have let this
- 35:15Speaker 8: go a long time ago if she would have and listen,
- 35:19Speaker 8: and it's it's look, you see how the truth always
- 35:22Speaker 8: comes out.
- 35:22Speaker 3: And I did forgot, you know.
- 35:24Speaker 5: I mean whatever, I don't care because they're not in
- 35:26Speaker 5: my life anymore and I'm really at peace now. But
- 35:30Speaker 5: my thing is if they would have said, like if
- 35:33Speaker 5: Melissa would have owned up to it a long time
- 35:35Speaker 5: ago and said, you know what, I'm sorry I did
- 35:38Speaker 5: do that behind your back. You know, I did. You
- 35:40Speaker 5: know I was writing shit emails to Danielle. I was
- 35:43Speaker 5: contacting your producers. I did put out the sprinkle cookie
- 35:48Speaker 5: thing on Facebook because you know, I was trying to
- 35:50Speaker 5: you know, I.
- 35:51Speaker 3: Wanted to get on the show.
- 35:52Speaker 5: If she would have just admitted it to me, I
- 35:55Speaker 5: maybe back when it happened like years ago, like when
- 35:58Speaker 5: she first came on, maybe our relationship would have blossomed
- 36:03Speaker 5: into something beautiful. But no, it was like that was
- 36:06Speaker 5: their way to stay on the show by bashing me
- 36:09Speaker 5: every season, which to me, I don't need family like that,
- 36:13Speaker 5: you know. And then I thought when I met Louis,
- 36:15Speaker 5: it was gonna be totally different. I'm like, all right,
- 36:18Speaker 5: and I was excited. I was like, oh my god,
- 36:20Speaker 5: all right, fine, Joe's out of the picture.
- 36:21Speaker 3: Let's see now if it changes with Louie, and then wait.
- 36:25Speaker 5: Till everybody sees the next season. It's gonna be freaking
- 36:29Speaker 5: mind blowing.
- 36:31Speaker 3: And I'm gonna leave it at that. Yeah, I'm gonna
- 36:32Speaker 3: leave it.
- 36:33Speaker 4: To get a little more at our Philly Carlos. We're
- 36:38Speaker 4: going to Philly. We're going next Thursday. The tenth of Philly.
- 36:42Speaker 4: There might be some surprise guests, Carlos, there's you know,
- 36:47Speaker 4: there's always gonna be some tea come on, yes, so
- 36:51Speaker 4: it's fun. It's gonna be a night of fun again
- 36:53Speaker 4: more just like nom sake bitches, behind the scenes, fun laughs,
- 36:59Speaker 4: you know, some tea east pillage and maybe some surprise guests.
- 37:03Speaker 4: And that is Philly next Thursday, the tenth. And they
- 37:07Speaker 4: can get tickets at Access dot com.
- 37:11Speaker 1: Yes, I love that.
- 37:13Speaker 2: Okay, So if you bore, I let you, ladies go.
- 37:15Speaker 2: We gotta take a trip down memory lane.
- 37:17Speaker 1: Okay.
- 37:18Speaker 2: So these are my favorite moments Melissa Feaster of me
- 37:21Speaker 2: and Teresa working together season one and two. I'm gonna
- 37:25Speaker 2: give you my top three favorite moments of all time
- 37:28Speaker 2: of me and Teresa worked together on The Royal Housewives
- 37:31Speaker 2: of New Jersey.
- 37:32Speaker 1: You ready, okay, Teresa? Do you remember this is one
- 37:40Speaker 1: of my top three favorite moments. Number three is when.
- 37:48Speaker 3: I love your laugh.
- 37:50Speaker 2: You chased Danielle down the country club hall.
- 37:54Speaker 1: Do you remember how that came about? Teresa?
- 37:59Speaker 5: Yes, because she called me honey, right, She's like, she
- 38:02Speaker 5: called me honey, She's like, and I said, I was like,
- 38:05Speaker 5: don't call me honey. And then she's like I could
- 38:08Speaker 5: and whatever she said, and I said it was bitch better, right,
- 38:12Speaker 5: and then I bitch better and then and then she
- 38:15Speaker 5: starts walking. Oh and then she said my house was
- 38:17Speaker 5: in foreclosure, yes, and I'm like, come over here I was.
- 38:20Speaker 5: And then I wanted to finish talking to her, and
- 38:22Speaker 5: she ran away from me. So then I started running
- 38:24Speaker 5: after her because I was like, this is not going
- 38:25Speaker 5: to end this way, like my house is not in foreclosure,
- 38:28Speaker 5: and like you need to tell me, like why you're
- 38:30Speaker 5: saying this. So that's why I started it, but I
- 38:32Speaker 5: didn't going to finish it, but I wanted to finish
- 38:36Speaker 5: talking to her, like why are you saying this? You know,
- 38:39Speaker 5: and like she ran away from me, so that's why
- 38:41Speaker 5: I chased her.
- 38:43Speaker 1: Yeah, good memory and yeahs up? Would you like Danielle
- 38:47Speaker 1: back on the show?
- 38:51Speaker 3: Listen? She made great TV.
- 38:53Speaker 1: She's great, she's great TV.
- 38:57Speaker 5: And and I'm glad that she finally spoke out and
- 39:00Speaker 5: said the truth that Melissa was, you know, contacting her
- 39:04Speaker 5: like season two, which I didn't know. And and Carlos,
- 39:08Speaker 5: you know, when when I pushed Andy, I didn't know
- 39:13Speaker 5: that she got that from my sister, in law that
- 39:17Speaker 5: when Danielle said you didn't go see your nephew in
- 39:19Speaker 5: the hospital, I didn't put two or two together till like,
- 39:24Speaker 5: like I said recently, like yes, like because I swear
- 39:29Speaker 5: to God, you don't understand. It's been like it's yeah,
- 39:32Speaker 5: because you know what, I didn't want to think that
- 39:35Speaker 5: my family did that to me, Like I didn't want.
- 39:38Speaker 3: To believe it. And now and now like all.
- 39:42Speaker 5: These like the truth is coming out, like every you know,
- 39:45Speaker 5: what's it saying, like all the like everything's like coming out.
- 39:51Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's that.
- 39:53Speaker 3: All the skeletons are coming. It's like mind blowing to me.
- 39:58Speaker 5: It's like both it's like but I really feel at
- 40:01Speaker 5: peace because I got to the peace part already, but
- 40:05Speaker 5: now that all the truth is unveiling, and it's like
- 40:09Speaker 5: because God wants.
- 40:10Speaker 2: Me to be able, and so your parents, your parents
- 40:13Speaker 2: do too, there's always you have there, your guardian angel
- 40:16Speaker 2: and listen. I want the world to know I was.
- 40:19Speaker 2: I was witnessed to Teresa taking care of her mom
- 40:23Speaker 2: and dad. And after we were wrapping, see Melissa, your
- 40:28Speaker 2: then husband Joe, who I who I still love obviously,
- 40:31Speaker 2: Hey Joe, Yes, Teresa and Joe would tell the crew, Hey,
- 40:38Speaker 2: stay over, have dinner with us, Let's sit at the.
- 40:42Speaker 1: Table and talk.
- 40:43Speaker 2: And every no, Melissa, every time we would wrap, it
- 40:48Speaker 2: was mandatory that Joe would say, no, sit down, put
- 40:52Speaker 2: the cameras down.
- 40:53Speaker 1: Carlos let the teams because off the boss.
- 40:56Speaker 2: Carlos let the Let the camera crew stay and let's
- 41:00Speaker 2: have dinner together.
- 41:01Speaker 4: Amazing.
- 41:02Speaker 1: That's what the Judaces were.
- 41:04Speaker 2: At the home and sometimes when your mom and dad
- 41:09Speaker 2: were there, they will do the same thing. And I'm
- 41:12Speaker 2: not gonna cry, but they are. There were so good
- 41:16Speaker 2: people and they raise a good girl. And I want
- 41:20Speaker 2: you to know that at the end of the day,
- 41:21Speaker 2: your parents are smiling down on you and they want
- 41:24Speaker 2: you to be happy and sometimes and I want the
- 41:27Speaker 2: world to know this. And Kyle Richards is going through
- 41:30Speaker 2: this on the Beverly Hills Housewives.
- 41:33Speaker 1: Listen.
- 41:34Speaker 2: In a perfect world, your siblings will always be your
- 41:37Speaker 2: life as best friends.
- 41:38Speaker 1: But one thing I know for sure is sometimes you
- 41:42Speaker 1: have to.
- 41:45Speaker 2: Accept the fact that the person you grew up with
- 41:47Speaker 2: no longer is the person that you remember, and the
- 41:51Speaker 2: only thing that you need to mourn is the loss
- 41:56Speaker 2: of who that person was when y'all were growing up
- 41:59Speaker 2: and accept the fact that this person, as an adult,
- 42:02Speaker 2: chooses to be this person.
- 42:04Speaker 1: And I have to accept the fact that I don't
- 42:06Speaker 1: recognize you anymore.
- 42:08Speaker 2: And I am a grown person, and I'm going to
- 42:10Speaker 2: focus on my family and my my my, my own situation.
- 42:15Speaker 1: You're right, thank you look at me, and I'm gonna
- 42:19Speaker 1: say I'm good, I'm good, I'm good. It all up,
- 42:25Speaker 1: See girl, I got something to offer to you.
- 42:27Speaker 3: Made me cry laugh. I love you, Carlos. It feels
- 42:31Speaker 3: I love you.
- 42:32Speaker 5: I love you, okay, and I and I love anybody
- 42:35Speaker 5: else that loves my parents because I missed them tremendously,
- 42:39Speaker 5: and just hearing that brings back memories.
- 42:43Speaker 3: I know you weren't at my wedding day, but Melissa
- 42:46Speaker 3: was there when we were.
- 42:47Speaker 5: Getting married, Louie and I, like I wasn't sure if
- 42:50Speaker 5: it was gonna rain. Carlos, I swear to go. When
- 42:53Speaker 5: we said I do to each other. My psychic was
- 42:56Speaker 5: in the audience. She's my friend.
- 42:58Speaker 3: She circled it were the cloud, two ray of lights
- 43:02Speaker 3: of sun were.
- 43:03Speaker 5: Coming through it and she and she sent it to
- 43:06Speaker 5: me like afterwards, like your parents were there with youss
- 43:12Speaker 5: like it was amazing, so they were there.
- 43:14Speaker 2: Yeah, and that'll and that'll that'll constantly happen to you
- 43:17Speaker 2: haven't notice it that your parents will remind you, whether
- 43:20Speaker 2: it's a smell, a light, or a memory.
- 43:22Speaker 1: So just know that and I love them. Okay. Number
- 43:26Speaker 1: two favorite moment is when you and Jacqueline stepped on grapes.
- 43:32Speaker 3: They never showed that.
- 43:34Speaker 1: I know I.
- 43:36Speaker 3: Can get that clip because I would, I would post that.
- 43:39Speaker 1: We got to talk to Farbus media, but.
- 43:43Speaker 5: To post that that was a I love Lucy, Yes
- 43:47Speaker 5: it was Lucy and Ethol.
- 43:48Speaker 3: Yes a moment.
- 43:49Speaker 1: Yes, it was such a good moment. And do you
- 43:53Speaker 1: miss your friendship with Jacqueline?
- 43:55Speaker 3: I mean, listen, our friendship was like amazing.
- 43:58Speaker 5: It really was, like you remember when one we stopped talking,
- 44:01Speaker 5: it was like I Melissa was like I got divorced,
- 44:05Speaker 5: Like I was getting divorced like from my from my wife,
- 44:08Speaker 5: you know, like like my best friend.
- 44:10Speaker 3: Like yeah, it was really devastating to me.
- 44:14Speaker 5: So like listen, I wish her well, but I don't,
- 44:18Speaker 5: you know, we can never go back to where it
- 44:20Speaker 5: was because you know, unfortunately we just can't because you know,
- 44:24Speaker 5: but I do wish her well, like no ill feelings
- 44:27Speaker 5: or anything. You know, that was like that was the
- 44:30Speaker 5: part of my journey back then. So I mean, now
- 44:33Speaker 5: you know, now I have Melissa, I have Melissa Feaster,
- 44:35Speaker 5: you know.
- 44:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 44:37Speaker 3: And loyalties why.
- 44:43Speaker 5: It's like anything else, Like once you break that loyalty,
- 44:46Speaker 5: it's like, how do you go back to that?
- 44:48Speaker 3: It's hard. I mean listen, some people could and God
- 44:51Speaker 3: bless them.
- 44:52Speaker 5: I'm just made little differently. You know, I was born
- 44:56Speaker 5: in the Godfather years that, you.
- 44:58Speaker 1: Know, I was born years and to me, I would.
- 45:03Speaker 3: Never do that to someone, So I don't expect them
- 45:05Speaker 3: to do that to me.
- 45:06Speaker 1: Okay, Now I get that.
- 45:07Speaker 2: I get that, Okay. And Number one, obviously, my favorite
- 45:11Speaker 2: moment is a table flip. We already talked about the
- 45:13Speaker 2: table flip, but but based on the fact that the
- 45:16Speaker 2: table flip was season one and we had Teresa, Danielle, Dina, Caroline,
- 45:21Speaker 2: and Jacqueline. So Melissa Feaster, I'm gonna start with you,
- 45:25Speaker 2: and then I'm gonna start with myself and we're gonna
- 45:27Speaker 2: aim it. Teresa, Melissa Feaster, name your all time dreamcast
- 45:34Speaker 2: of the Royal Housewives of New Jersey. If we had
- 45:37Speaker 2: a legacy addition past or present name five Jersey Housewives
- 45:43Speaker 2: you would love to see in the show together.
- 45:45Speaker 4: Oo oh okay.
- 45:48Speaker 1: Jersey only past or present five only your dream.
- 45:52Speaker 4: Cast, Teresa, I would say, listen from a producer, good TV?
- 45:59Speaker 4: Sure is it? Is it realistic?
- 46:01Speaker 5: No?
- 46:01Speaker 4: Good TV? Teresa, Caroline, Danielle, uh, Jacqueline and Margaret.
- 46:12Speaker 3: Dolores.
- 46:13Speaker 2: Okay, okay, laws, no Margarets, Okay, okay, okay, Okay, here's
- 46:21Speaker 2: my and Teresa.
- 46:22Speaker 1: You go last.
- 46:22Speaker 2: Okay, this is Carlinds King's dream Jersey Housewife cast past
- 46:28Speaker 2: or President, Teresa, Danielle, Caroline, Dina.
- 46:39Speaker 1: And Jacqueline.
- 46:39Speaker 4: Okay, you go. I want, I want, I want to
- 46:44Speaker 4: you at the legacy, I.
- 46:46Speaker 2: Want the I want the o gs and Melissa Feesa.
- 46:49Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this to you and Teresa, do your listen.
- 46:51Speaker 2: They were done because as somebody who did the first
- 46:54Speaker 2: two seasons and Teresa can attest to this, it was natural.
- 46:59Speaker 2: It was It wasn't fake. It was it was super real.
- 47:03Speaker 2: It wasn't an alliance about like we're gonna go against
- 47:06Speaker 2: this personal step. It was it was so natural and
- 47:11Speaker 2: I will forever be grateful to Dina, Caroline, Teresa, Jacqueline, Danielle,
- 47:18Speaker 2: for two fucking years because they proved what an organic friendship,
- 47:26Speaker 2: whether it's bad or good, but it was real reality TV.
- 47:32Speaker 2: And my issue with some some newer seasons of shows
- 47:37Speaker 2: is a lot of people are playing to the camera
- 47:40Speaker 2: being fake, and they're playing to the audience versus being
- 47:43Speaker 2: real in the moment. So I will, I will have
- 47:47Speaker 2: my in my perfect dreamcast, it would be the original five.
- 47:51Speaker 5: Okay, go ahead to your turn, all right, you know
- 47:56Speaker 5: what I have to say, I'm gonna agree with you
- 48:00Speaker 5: because yes, because you know I season three on was
- 48:07Speaker 5: it was just hell for me.
- 48:08Speaker 3: It really was. It was like living in hell. It
- 48:10Speaker 3: really was so and I didn't have fun.
- 48:14Speaker 5: If there was no fun at all, it's been it's
- 48:16Speaker 5: been so dark and and like a lot of people
- 48:21Speaker 5: have been acting up on.
- 48:22Speaker 3: The camera and I don't even like my thing is.
- 48:25Speaker 5: It's just it's it's not what I ever expect the
- 48:29Speaker 5: reality TV to be because a lot.
- 48:31Speaker 3: Of people exactly act up for the cameras and do
- 48:34Speaker 3: this and do that. But whatever, we don't want to
- 48:35Speaker 3: get into that. So yeah, I would. I would love
- 48:37Speaker 3: the first the first the way the way we started
- 48:41Speaker 3: one season too.
- 48:42Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and look at them.
- 48:47Speaker 5: Yes, definitely, Carlos back, Yes, definitely.
- 48:51Speaker 1: Go have a little Yes as a friend.
- 48:56Speaker 5: Another thing member callus when I said to you, I
- 48:59Speaker 5: don't want to fight with my family because I was
- 49:01Speaker 5: seeing what was going on between Jacqueline, Dina, and Caroline. Yeah,
- 49:06Speaker 5: and it was about their family, and I was like,
- 49:08Speaker 5: I was like, I don't want what's happening to them
- 49:11Speaker 5: to happen to me. I was like, I didn't want that.
- 49:15Speaker 5: And at least I didn't want to give Caroline props.
- 49:18Speaker 5: But I will give Caroline and Dina and Jack well
- 49:21Speaker 5: all of them. But it was more because Caroline.
- 49:24Speaker 3: The Bravo con so I will give them props.
- 49:28Speaker 5: One thing I have to say about their family they
- 49:31Speaker 5: never aired their dirty laundry out there.
- 49:35Speaker 2: No, And the fact that Caroline Season one finale when
- 49:39Speaker 2: she told Danielle, I'm the one that brought the book up,
- 49:43Speaker 2: like like, at the end of the day, say what
- 49:45Speaker 2: you want about the family, and I'm not here to
- 49:47Speaker 2: say you know, whether it was true or not, that's
- 49:49Speaker 2: not my place. What I will say is, at the
- 49:52Speaker 2: end of the day, you saw families stick together.
- 49:55Speaker 1: Yes, and.
- 49:57Speaker 2: That love that I as someone with nine siblings, I
- 50:02Speaker 2: love that too, Teresa. Last question for you. You've been
- 50:06Speaker 2: on the show for almost fifteen years. How long do
- 50:10Speaker 2: you see yourself continuing on Jersey until the end?
- 50:13Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, I'm not. Nobody's gonna scare me away.
- 50:19Speaker 5: I'm gonna be here. I started it, I'm gonna finish it. Yes,
- 50:25Speaker 5: Bravo wants to me.
- 50:26Speaker 3: I know, of course.
- 50:27Speaker 5: I'm married to them until they want to I'm married
- 50:30Speaker 5: to them for life, you know.
- 50:31Speaker 1: I love it.
- 50:33Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, Melissa Feast, Thank you, Teresa, my baby,
- 50:37Speaker 2: thank you.
- 50:37Speaker 1: Let the I love you so.
- 50:39Speaker 2: Let the world know where they can find you, follow
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- 50:43Speaker 4: Need to come out Tom Say Bitches. We have a
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- 51:00Speaker 3: At Teresa Juduys. Can't wait to see everybody in Philly.
- 51:04Speaker 3: Love love, love you guys. Make sure you listen to
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- 51:16Speaker 2: I love you, o baby, I love that conversation. I
- 51:25Speaker 2: can talk to Teresa and Melissa all day. But look
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