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- 0:00If you could turn in your scriptures with me
- 0:02this morning to Deuteronomy chapter 28. I want
- 0:08to try to communicate something to you that I
- 0:11believe is going to break some things off of
- 0:13some people today, that is going to help some
- 0:17people. You might see some things that you've
- 0:20never seen before about relationships and about
- 0:24how they operate, but you and I know That God
- 0:31wants us to walk in blessing Amen God wants us
- 0:37to walk in his blessing and Deuteronomy 28 I'm
- 0:42only gonna pull one verse out of this but Deuteronomy
- 0:4628 is the chapter of blessing the first 14 verses
- 0:52and then the larger part of the chapter the curses
- 0:59for disobedience it's it's not really rocket
- 1:03science blessing for obedience cursing for disobedience
- 1:11you know it's just like when you when you were
- 1:14a kid if if you I guess I can't always say that
- 1:18a blanket statement if you had a home that was
- 1:21functioning well then what did you get You got
- 1:25blessing for obedience and you got and you got
- 1:30corrected for disobedience. Right. And that's
- 1:35what God is saying. You're my sons and my daughters.
- 1:38There is blessing in the place of obedience and
- 1:42there is trouble in the place of disobedience.
- 1:46So I just encourage you read that whole entire
- 1:49chapter on your own. I want to read from verse
- 1:5613 and it says this and the Lord will make you
- 2:01the head and not the tail you shall be above
- 2:08only and not beneath if You heed the command
- 2:16of the Lord your God Which I commanded you today
- 2:20and are careful to observe them. Hallelujah.
- 2:26Father, I just thank you for your word this morning.
- 2:30And I ask that it would just go down into the
- 2:32deep places of our hearts in Jesus' mighty name.
- 2:37Amen. Amen. Praise God. Wasn't the Hayride Saturday
- 2:45night awesome? If you had an awesome time, just
- 2:49clap your hands right now. Praise God we want
- 2:53to thank Dennis and Linda for opening up their
- 2:56home And it was an awesome awesome time we Had
- 3:02in August and what made me think of this is Linda
- 3:06led in this as well, but we had a dog show and
- 3:12so a guy Sat down in a movie theater and noticed
- 3:22that the man in front of him brought his dog
- 3:26and was sitting in the seat next to him. He thought
- 3:30it was unusual but he liked dogs so he didn't
- 3:33say anything. And the movie started and pretty
- 3:40soon there was a funny part and the dog made
- 3:44some low woofing noises. the man was astonished
- 3:52because it sounded like laughter and then there
- 3:58was a sad part and the dog started whimpering
- 4:05and it continued throughout the film the dog
- 4:11at all the right places gave all the right emotions
- 4:15and When the lights came up He tapped the owner
- 4:21on the shoulder and he said I gotta say this
- 4:25sounds weird but it seemed like your dog really
- 4:29enjoyed the movie and The owner looked back at
- 4:36him and nodded and he said yeah, it is really
- 4:38weird because he absolutely hated the book Oh,
- 4:52Dale even liked it. One time I watched my dog,
- 5:02I had a dog chase her tail for 10 minutes. How
- 5:08many of you had a dog that chased their tail?
- 5:11And I thought, what a dumb dog. And then I thought,
- 5:17well, I just watched that dog for 10 minutes.
- 5:32I want to answer a question today. I want to
- 5:37ask you, are you chasing your tail? God has said
- 5:51that he has called us to be the head and not
- 5:59the tail. And I want to ask you, are you living
- 6:07as the head and not the tail? My commentary,
- 6:14Jameson Fawcett Brown said that this phrase,
- 6:17the head and not the tail, came from, it was
- 6:20an oriental form of expression that Moses incorporated,
- 6:26and it indicated the possession of independent
- 6:31power and great dignity and acknowledged excellence.
- 6:39God wants his people to possess independent power
- 6:46and great dignity and walk with Excellent. Isn't
- 6:52that good? I like the message in this trans.
- 6:56It's a transliteration. It says God will make
- 6:59you the head, not the tail. You'll always be
- 7:02the top dog. Never the underdog. As you obediently
- 7:07listen to and diligently keep the command of
- 7:12God. Amen. You know, the counterpart is found
- 7:16in verse 44. it's talking in fact if you if you
- 7:20read verse verse 12 it would it would talk about
- 7:25lending you will be the one that lends and they
- 7:29will borrow from you but the counterpart says
- 7:33that you will always be borrowing that you will
- 7:37never lend because you're the tail and you're
- 7:40not the head when you disobey and so in the analogy
- 7:46Being the head is the blessing for obedience
- 7:51Being the tail is the curse for disobedience
- 7:56and I just want to start by saying this if you
- 8:03have sin in your life that you have not regarded
- 8:07before God that you know about and You have tolerated
- 8:12it in your life there is There is grace for a
- 8:19season for you to repent, but if you refuse,
- 8:28if you refuse, then the blessing of God will
- 8:31begin to come off of your life. That's the way
- 8:35that it works. The Word of God speaks to us.
- 8:42If you're the head, you're the leader. You are
- 8:45deciding where to go in life The tail gets dragged
- 8:51along always unprepared at the mercy of every
- 8:59situation never in control I Want to give you
- 9:05some signs that you are chasing your tail? Number
- 9:09one You fear the opinions of man You fear men
- 9:18rather than God We live in a culture right now
- 9:24that calls good evil and evil good and Some of
- 9:29the things that you stand up for as a believer
- 9:31you will take ridicule for You post truth on
- 9:35your Facebook page, and I'm not I'm not telling
- 9:38anybody here, I don't think anybody here should
- 9:40be obnoxious and be tearing others down. We can
- 9:43we can say right. We can say things that are
- 9:47true and still not be speaking the way Jesus
- 9:51wants us to be speaking. Do you hear what I'm
- 9:53saying? But there are truths that if you stand
- 9:58up for in this culture, you will be shot down.
- 10:03You will be crucified. on social media Because
- 10:11it isn't politically correct But you have a decision
- 10:17to make Am I gonna fear God or am I going to
- 10:22fear man? Jesus said do not fear the one that
- 10:27can only hurt your body He said I'll tell you
- 10:31whom you should fear and that means have great
- 10:34respect for even tremble for You should fear
- 10:39the one that when it's all said and done can
- 10:42cast you into hell That's the one you should
- 10:46fear and tremble before But when you fear man,
- 10:51you are chasing your tail You are not leading
- 10:56the way You are responding to what everybody
- 11:00else thinks. Some of you, when you're in a room
- 11:03before you decide what to say, you stick your
- 11:07finger up in the air and see which direction
- 11:09the wind is blowing. How do the people in this
- 11:12room talk? Well, then you become a chameleon
- 11:16and you begin to talk like everybody else in
- 11:18the room. You come to church and you stick your
- 11:22finger up in the air. How do the people at church
- 11:25talk? and you can fit in wherever you go. But
- 11:31the truth is, you are living the life of a hypocrite.
- 11:37Because in one crowd, you are saying all the
- 11:40right things, and in the other crowd, you're
- 11:43saying all the things they want you to hear to
- 11:45be accepted. God wants us to stand up for Him.
- 11:51Amen? He wants us to not cave to the fear of
- 11:57man, he wants us to live in the fear of God.
- 12:03Hallelujah. To not fear the opinions of man.
- 12:10This is where peer pressure comes in. Some of
- 12:13you young people, you're tempted to engage in
- 12:16life in ways that you never would have thought
- 12:19you would, but you're hanging with people that
- 12:21do those things. And the funny thing is, those
- 12:25people probably never would have done those things,
- 12:28but peer pressure works together to move the
- 12:30entire crowd where you never thought you would
- 12:33once go. I wanna call you back to standing up
- 12:38for Jesus. Hallelujah. Young people, take a stand.
- 12:45It is good to say, no, I'm not gonna go there.
- 12:49I'm not going to speak like that. I'm not going
- 12:52to talk like that. I'm not going to engage with
- 12:56the world like that. Fear God. Number two, you
- 13:02are comfortable in chaos. In fact, chaos is swirling
- 13:13around you. Why? because you never draw a line
- 13:19in the sand. You'd rather have the moment and
- 13:25the situation make the decision for you because
- 13:29you're not comfortable making decisions. And
- 13:34so you are led by every whim and fancy that comes
- 13:38along and life is always swirling around you
- 13:42in a chaotic mess. Because you never draw a line
- 13:47in the sand But first Corinthians 14 33 says
- 13:54this God is not the author of confusion He is
- 14:01the author of peace Isn't that good now Paul
- 14:07was specifically addressing how Gathering should
- 14:11flow when he said that But it is true nonetheless
- 14:16for your own life that God is not the author
- 14:21of confusion when everything in your life is
- 14:25chaos when everything in your life feels feels
- 14:29like it is just controlling you and pulling you
- 14:32here and there it is time to stop and It is time
- 14:37to to lift up your eyes above the situation and
- 14:42say Jesus This situation, these situations in
- 14:47my life, they are not from you. They are confusion
- 14:51and they are a wind that is blowing. But just
- 14:54as Jesus spoke to the wind, you can speak to
- 14:58the confusion and you can say, peace, be still.
- 15:02And why can you do that? Because you are the
- 15:05head and you are not the tail. You are in control
- 15:10as the Holy Spirit is in control of you. Praise
- 15:16God. Is this speaking to where anybody is at?
- 15:20When your finances get pulled every direction,
- 15:23you just need to stop a moment. And you need
- 15:27to say, God, I just thank you that you are in
- 15:31control of my finances. I have given you my tithe.
- 15:35I have paid. I have worshipped you with my financial
- 15:41life. I have put you first. And so God, I speak
- 15:46peace to my finances in the name of Jesus. And
- 15:50I thank you that you are in control in the name
- 15:56of the Lord. Oh, hallelujah. God is not the author
- 16:01of confusion. He is the author of peace. Glory
- 16:09to God. Do you know that word for confusion could
- 16:15be translated instability? God is not the author
- 16:22of instability. He is the author of peace. I'm
- 16:29not preaching on finances this morning. but there
- 16:33is a prescription in the Word of God to bring
- 16:37peace to your finances and when we Obey the Lord
- 16:44in that prescription for our lives Then peace
- 16:49comes in his peace comes in to our finances.
- 16:53Hallelujah. I want to say praise God for that
- 16:57glory to God number three You are prone to deception
- 17:05You are prone to deception you are chasing your
- 17:10tail if you are prone to deception in Luke chapter
- 17:1621 in verse 8 Jesus said take heed that you are
- 17:21not deceived deceived In fact, there are seven
- 17:26or eight times in the New Testament alone where
- 17:29the Bible says, do not be deceived. And one of
- 17:34the primary tools of darkness of the enemy is
- 17:39to deceive God's people. When we're prone to
- 17:44deception, it veers us away from the Word of
- 17:49God. Now, the enemy doesn't come in, you know,
- 17:54dressed up Dressed up with horns and a tail and
- 17:57say here. I am I'm trying to deceive you It doesn't
- 18:01work that way the enemy masquerades the Bible
- 18:05says as an angel of light and he will speak something
- 18:10to you that is partially true and partial truths
- 18:16can lead you in the wrong direction and it's
- 18:22why You and I need to know the word of God. Amen.
- 18:29Somebody shared with me last week that said,
- 18:33you're not supposed to seek gifts from God. You're
- 18:39only supposed to seek the giver. How many of
- 18:44you have heard that? Did you know it's not true?
- 18:50It sounds good, but it is not true. I am seeking
- 18:58the giver. I'm in love with Jesus. But he came
- 19:05to give us gifts. And he wants his sons and daughters
- 19:10to ask him for gifts. Every good and perfect
- 19:15gift comes from the Father of heavenly lights,
- 19:18who does not change like shifting shadows. Your
- 19:22children don't come to you and say, I don't want
- 19:24anything from you, I just want you. No, they
- 19:29don't do that. I'm hungry, Mom. I'm hungry, Dad.
- 19:34I need some money. I need the car. When they
- 19:37get older, I need the car. You're like, get your
- 19:39own car. What do they do they ask you for things
- 19:48and did you know that that is not wrong? In Ephesians
- 19:554 the Bible says that Jesus descended Specifically
- 20:00to give gifts to the church Gifts in first Corinthians
- 20:08in first Corinthians 12 it ends and it says it
- 20:12says covet that you should prophesy. That means
- 20:17you should want the gift of prophecy. Praise
- 20:22God. Now, he goes on and he says, now I will
- 20:26show you a more excellent way. How many of you
- 20:28appreciated the message Pastor Ben preached a
- 20:30couple of weeks ago? Wasn't that awesome on love?
- 20:33If you are not here, you need to go and you need
- 20:35to listen to it on our YouTube channel on the
- 20:39love of God. But how many of you would say, I
- 20:42don't need your love, Lord. I just need you.
- 20:46That is ridiculous. We need the love of the Father.
- 20:51It is a gift from Him. We need everything that
- 20:55He has. We need the giver. We need the gift.
- 21:02When we don't know the Word of God, we're prone
- 21:05to deception. And we get on the wrong track.
- 21:10Oh, I'm not supposed to ask for healing. I'm
- 21:13just supposed to seek God. Well, you are supposed
- 21:18to seek God, but it is okay to ask Him for healing.
- 21:22It is okay to ask Him. In fact, He said that
- 21:25one of the gifts is the baptism of the Holy Spirit.
- 21:28And Jesus said that we should ask Him for the
- 21:33Holy Spirit. And He will give it to us. Praise
- 21:38God. Don't be deceived. Deception can happen
- 21:43when some things are wrong in our life. Deception
- 21:47can happen when we're in love with the spirit
- 21:50of the world. Deception can happen when we put
- 21:55our feelings above the Word of God. Our generation
- 22:02right now in America is proclaiming certain things
- 22:08to be good or evil based upon how they feel about
- 22:13them. When feelings are your basis, you are prone
- 22:21to deception. We need to learn the Word of God
- 22:26because morality is never dictated by the feelings
- 22:32of a culture. Morality is dictated by what the
- 22:38Word of God says. And His morality through the
- 22:45Old and New Testament is consistent. He never
- 22:48changes. And so, friend, while I thank God for
- 22:53feelings, I love feelings. I love to feel His
- 22:56presence. I love to, you know what I love? I
- 23:01love... See, I leave here sometimes, and I like
- 23:06to watch movies where they shoot people. I'm
- 23:13sorry, it's just true. I like to watch movies
- 23:18where things blow up. Where people punch each
- 23:25other. Is that terrible for a pastor to admit?
- 23:32I'm just being honest with you. Why? Because
- 23:35I like how it makes me feel. I like it how it
- 23:41makes me feel when the Cubs win. I don't like
- 23:47how I feel when the Cubs lose. But I thank God
- 23:55for feelings. God has feelings. We have feelings
- 24:02because God has feelings and we're made in His
- 24:04image. But we are not led by our feelings. We
- 24:12are led by the eternal Word of God. And if you
- 24:17want to be blown about by every wind of doctrine
- 24:20and every internet teacher that comes along,
- 24:24you will be prone to deception. In the end times,
- 24:30Jesus said that many teachers will come and they
- 24:34will preach things that are not of God. They
- 24:38will get you majoring on things that God does
- 24:41not major on. They will get your life in the
- 24:45wrong direction and it will steal from your calling.
- 24:50The enemy really doesn't care if you're deceived
- 24:53or not. Do you know what the enemy cares about?
- 24:56whether you are effective or not and He wants
- 25:01to deceive you so that you're no longer effective
- 25:05in your calling Get you focused on the wrong
- 25:10things If you're deceived you're chasing your
- 25:17tail You find yourself trying to convince people
- 25:22of things that don't even matter Ephesians 4
- 25:34Right after he talks about the fivefold ministry
- 25:37apostle prophet pastor teacher evangelist He
- 25:41says that the church should be trained up no
- 25:45longer children tossed to and fro and carried
- 25:50about with every wind of doctrine by the trickery
- 25:53of men in the cunning craftiness of deceitful
- 25:56plotting. But speaking the truth in love may
- 26:00grow up in all things into him who is the head,
- 26:05Christ. from whom the whole body joined and knit
- 26:08together by what every joint supplies according
- 26:11to the effective working by which every part
- 26:15does its share causes growth of the body for
- 26:19the edifying of itself in love. Hallelujah. Isn't
- 26:24that a good word? And so he wants you to grow
- 26:30up in Christ. Amen. How many of you have got
- 26:34growing up to do in Christ? My hand is up. I'm
- 26:36going to grow up in Christ. I'm going to learn.
- 26:38I'm going to give myself to the Word of God.
- 26:42I'm going to become what God wants me to be.
- 26:45You need to know the truth, not because the pastor
- 26:48said it, not because somebody on Facebook said
- 26:52it. You need to know the truth because God said
- 26:55it and His Word said it. Amen? Number four, this
- 27:00is the one. This is my last point on chasing
- 27:05your tail, and then I've got a few remarks to
- 27:08conclude with. You're chasing your tail when
- 27:13you subject yourself to the control of others.
- 27:23The spirit of manipulation. Manipulation is a
- 27:37demonic tool to get others to do your will. It
- 27:47is power hungry. It's rooted in deception, often
- 27:53fear -based. Manipulation manifests relationships
- 28:02of all kinds. God has not called us to be manipulated.
- 28:14I always cringe when I... See certain people
- 28:21receive the offering because I believe in generosity
- 28:24and I believe in tithing and I believe in giving
- 28:26But sometimes the people taking the offering
- 28:29are operating in a spirit of manipulation Trying
- 28:35to manipulate people into giving Does anybody
- 28:40here appreciate being manipulated? No If you
- 28:46give, you wanna give because you're a cheerful
- 28:49giver. And it is out of the abundance of your
- 28:52own heart and generosity, amen? Because nobody
- 28:58likes being manipulated. If you are the tail
- 29:03and not the head, you will open yourself up to
- 29:07being manipulated. Romans chapter 12. Verse 9
- 29:15says let love be without hypocrisy Let love be
- 29:25without hypocrisy some translations say let it
- 29:29be genuine Marriage is often a breeding ground
- 29:38for manipulation Am I telling the truth? But
- 29:47God wants love that we have for one another to
- 29:51be genuine, to be sincere, to be open. My wife
- 30:01and I joke about each other a lot from the pulpit.
- 30:04I hope that you don't take that as if we despise
- 30:08each other. It's our it is actually a form of
- 30:14wonderful affection Love is genuine and honest
- 30:21and that's what marriage should be free communication
- 30:28Perhaps you are in a situation where you feel
- 30:33like you are always walking on eggshells and
- 30:36I cannot communicate in my own marriage. It might
- 30:42be because of a spirit of manipulation. You are
- 30:49afraid that you are going to offend your partner.
- 30:56God wants us to have open and honest sharing.
- 31:01I am not afraid to say anything to my wife. She
- 31:10is not afraid to say anything to me The peanut
- 31:16gallery speaks again Love is to be without hypocrisy
- 31:25First John 418 says there is no fear in love
- 31:32I Want to say that again there is no fear love.
- 31:39I want to call the husbands in the room to foster
- 31:42an atmosphere where your wife never is afraid
- 31:47to speak. Somebody say amen. Foster an atmosphere
- 31:53in your home where there is a freedom of expression.
- 31:59Hallelujah. In fact it goes on and says perfect
- 32:02love casts out fear. Because fear involves torment
- 32:09He who fears has not been made perfect in love
- 32:13if you operate in a spirit of manipulation You
- 32:18are operating in the spirit of fear and the enemy
- 32:21is actually using you He who fears has not been
- 32:28made perfect in love I Read a children's track
- 32:36Actually, my wife read it to me. She said, this
- 32:40is a children's track. It said this, if you haven't
- 32:47prayed the prayer to receive Jesus Christ, you're
- 32:50going to burn in hell forever. It said that on
- 32:55the children's track. Remember when I said you
- 33:00can say true things? But not be sharing the heart
- 33:06of God Jesus doesn't want us to serve him because
- 33:13we're afraid He has went to the cross inviting
- 33:21us to come to deliver us We cannot manipulate
- 33:30people into the kingdom of God Well, how does
- 33:37manipulation what does it look like what does
- 33:39manipulation look like guilt -tripping Now I
- 33:47know none of you have ever been guilty of this
- 33:51Guilt -tripping putting a guilt trip on people
- 33:57for not doing what you want them to do Silent
- 34:04treatment That is the spirit of manipulation.
- 34:12Silent treatment. Some of you are laughing. Some
- 34:18of you are squirming. Belittling. Constantly
- 34:28tearing down. The withholding of affection. It's
- 34:42the spirit of manipulation The withholding of
- 34:48affection Talking about your spouse with your
- 34:56friends So that you can have more ammunition
- 35:03Am I telling the truth this is the spirit of
- 35:11manipulation. Blame shifting and never taking
- 35:19personal responsibility. It is all manipulation.
- 35:25Now, if you have ever been used in manipulation,
- 35:29then I call you to come under the conviction
- 35:33of the Holy Spirit and repent in Jesus' name.
- 35:39Honey, I am sorry for the way. I treated you
- 35:43isn't that an awesome thing to say Okay, everybody
- 35:48repeat after me honey. I am sorry for the way.
- 35:53I treated you That is an awesome thing to say
- 35:58You know what we need we need marriages that
- 36:01have freedom and open communication Do you know
- 36:05that my wife does not believe everything that
- 36:07I believe? I know it's hard for you to believe
- 36:11that, but it is true. There are things that we
- 36:18can have very nice discussions about that we
- 36:23don't see eye to eye on. And do you know what?
- 36:26She is free to believe differently than me about
- 36:32some things. We're not talking about major things
- 36:36our people is you know our people saved through
- 36:39the name of Jesus Of course she believes that
- 36:41do people need to be filled with the Holy Spirit
- 36:43of course she believes that but there there are
- 36:46some things That that I consider to be important
- 36:50that she does not consider to be important imagine
- 36:54that Do you know what we are still in love with
- 36:59each other? and it's good. I've only had one
- 37:11person ever come to me and say, pastor, thank
- 37:17you for preaching on manipulation. Do you know
- 37:20the master manipulator in the Old Testament was
- 37:23Jezebel? She controlled her husband Ahab. He
- 37:30had no spine. He was he was in stable insecure
- 37:37and She is the queen manipulator of the Old Testament
- 37:45and Only one time in my whole ministry of 30
- 37:49years has anybody ever come up to me and say
- 37:51Thank you pastor for preaching on that because
- 37:54I have been a manipulator Would you pray for
- 37:57me? That I would be free manipulation. Normally,
- 38:08when we hear this kind of a message, we're thinking
- 38:12of somebody else. But who in here will say, God
- 38:19search my heart. God deliver me. God have your
- 38:27way in me. Want to go to one verse It's not in
- 38:37my notes That I believe the Lord has dropped
- 38:41in my heart in first Corinthians chapter 7 Would
- 38:48you go there with me and I'm gonna close with
- 38:50this this is an awesome passage for married couples
- 38:55Not just married couples, this is Paul talking
- 38:59about marriage Commandments that he gives to
- 39:06single people, to married people. But let's look
- 39:12at verse 10. Now to the married I command, yet
- 39:24not I but the Lord, a wife is not to depart from
- 39:27her husband. But even if she does depart let
- 39:31her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her
- 39:34husband The husband is not to divorce his wife
- 39:38But to the rest I not the Lord say now listen
- 39:43to this It's in the Word of God. I believe it's
- 39:47very important even though Paul Paul is saying
- 39:50this is more my feeling but listen to this If
- 39:54any brother has a wife who does not believe and
- 40:01She is willing to live with him let him not divorce
- 40:05her and so Men if your wife is not a believer
- 40:12and she's willing that the the Gist of what Paul
- 40:19is saying is she is willing to allow you to live
- 40:27the lifestyle of a believer without contingencies.
- 40:37It means she's not going to put pressure on you
- 40:42when you go to church, when you put God first.
- 40:50If she's willing to live with you, as you follow
- 40:56Christ, even though she doesn't, then the two
- 41:02of you are to walk together through life. And
- 41:08then vice versa. If a woman has a husband who
- 41:14does not follow Christ, if he is willing to live
- 41:23with her Let her not divorce him Now I ask you
- 41:33who in this situation is the head The believer
- 41:40is the head The believer is the one that sets
- 41:48the tone Honey, I gave my life to Christ last
- 41:53night. I know you're not ready to follow Jesus
- 41:55yet But I want you to know that Jesus is now
- 41:58first in my life I'm gonna be gathering with
- 42:01God's people. You're gonna have to be okay with
- 42:04that I'm gonna lay my life down for Jesus. He's
- 42:08first When he speaks to me, I'm gonna follow
- 42:12him You have to be okay with that. Are you okay
- 42:17with that? And if your spouse says no, are you
- 42:25supposed to just do what the spouse says? No,
- 42:30you are supposed to follow Jesus with your whole
- 42:34heart. Your spouse is free to go. It's difficult.
- 42:39It's tough. But you are a follower of Jesus Christ.
- 42:44You are the head and you are not the tail. Married
- 42:49couple. If your spouse backslides, it is not
- 42:53permission for you to backslide with her, with
- 42:57him. You keep pressing into God. Why? Because
- 43:02you are the tail. Do you know how many husbands
- 43:05and wives I've seen backslide together? They
- 43:09move away from God together. They influence each
- 43:14other. But I guarantee you this, if I backslide,
- 43:17my wife will not. If I backslide, she will keep
- 43:23serving God. I guarantee you this, if she backslides,
- 43:27I will keep serving God. I will keep going after
- 43:31God with my whole heart because Jesus is first
- 43:35in my life. I'm not going to become the tail
- 43:38and chase everything around. God has made me
- 43:45the head because I'm following Him. You are the
- 43:52head and not the tail. I'm sorry that serving
- 44:01Jesus upsets you, honey. But you're gonna have
- 44:07to find a way to deal with it because I'm gonna
- 44:11keep serving Jesus. Come on, somebody give God
- 44:16praise. I'm going to keep putting Him first.
- 44:22Now does this mean there's never any reasonable
- 44:24compromise? I'm not saying that. But in general,
- 44:30you go after God. Is this okay this morning?
- 44:41How many of you want to be the head and not the
- 44:43tail? We've got to embrace it. We've got to start
- 44:59rising up in who's God called us to be. We've
- 45:06got to become the men and women of God. He's
- 45:14giving us that opportunity. To follow Jesus I
- 45:28have decided To follow Jesus I have decided To
- 45:43follow Jesus No turning back Though none go with
- 45:57me Still I will follow Though none go with me
- 46:10Still I will follow Though none go with me Still
- 46:20I will follow turning back the cross before me
- 46:38the world beyond me the cross before me the world
- 46:50behind me the cross before me the world Now if
- 47:13you want to be the head and not the tail, it
- 47:19starts with obedience. It doesn't mean you're
- 47:21perfect. It doesn't mean that you will never
- 47:28fail. It just means that with everything in me,
- 47:32I'm gonna be a follower of Christ. I want you
- 47:38to just stand up, join these that are standing
- 47:40all over this place. And just say, God, that's
- 47:46my desire. Lord, all over this place, as people
- 47:52are standing before you, they're wanting to step
- 47:57into the call. call of God in their lives to
- 48:03please Jesus. Lord, deliver us from the fear
- 48:11of man. If you've been under the fear of man,
- 48:17just repent of that right now in the name of
- 48:20Jesus. If you've been under the fear of your
- 48:24friend, you've been under the fear of your spouse,
- 48:27you've been under the fear of anybody, just repent
- 48:31of that in the name of Jesus. God, you're the
- 48:34one that I should fear. I'm gonna live for you.
- 48:39Hallelujah. Hallelujah. God, just put your hand
- 48:45over your heart right now. Lord, I am asking
- 48:49that you would keep us from deception. You said
- 48:53for us to pray, deliver us from the evil one.
- 48:58And he speaks the language of deception. We don't
- 49:00have to be afraid that somehow we're gonna be
- 49:03deceived. We just have to keep our eyes on Jesus,
- 49:07keep our heart in the word of God, and keep our
- 49:11lives. Moving your direction God and so I pray
- 49:15that you would deliver us from deception and
- 49:18keep our hearts clean and pure God in this world
- 49:22where everybody is so hardened by the deceitfulness
- 49:25of sin Keep our hearts pliable and moldable in
- 49:30the name of Jesus and soft before you God keep
- 49:35us tender hearted toward you in Jesus name God,
- 49:43I ask right now that you would set this church
- 49:47free from manipulation Hallelujah. Oh my god.
- 49:52I pray that you would set homes free in Jesus
- 49:55name I pray that you would set marriages free
- 49:59in the name of Jesus. Hallelujah God, I thank
- 50:03you that we are that we are free as sons and
- 50:07daughters We don't use our freedom as an opportunity
- 50:10to indulge in the flesh, but we use it to to
- 50:14choose to serve one another God I thank you for
- 50:20freedom in conversation and how we feel God I
- 50:27thank you for atmospheres of freedom in our homes
- 50:32God I pray in Jesus name That the spirit of manipulation
- 50:40will come off of your church Hallelujah God you've
- 50:47called your people to be the head and not the
- 50:51tail engaging in triumphal procession Going about
- 50:57from victory to victory In Jesus name we give
- 51:05ourselves to you And everybody said, Amen. Friends,
- 51:12the work of God is happening in hearts around
- 51:15this room right now. Embrace His Word. Let His
- 51:20Word get inside of you and set you free. In Jesus'
- 51:27name.