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Ain't I a Woman? · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 2: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you ninjas and
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  Speaker 2: these pros.
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  Speaker 1: And everything in between.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, we back. What's up, Tam? I have.
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  Speaker 1: It's common in black women. I have fibroids removed over
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  Speaker 1: the weekend, and I took a girl out pretty much.
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  Speaker 1: I've been out the game. And I'm such not a homebody,
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  Speaker 1: so this is also very much hard for me just
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  Speaker 1: being in the house this much.
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  Speaker 2: Sit your ass down.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no choice. I barely can get up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to take it easy. I've never had
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  Speaker 2: fibro surgery, but I've definitely had a woman's surgery. And
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  Speaker 2: that shit is no joke. Man. When they have to
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  Speaker 2: cut you open.
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  Speaker 1: I underestimated. Yeah. I underestimated this shit. I ain't going
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  Speaker 1: to lie. I thought three days and I was going
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  Speaker 1: to be back outside.
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  Speaker 2: Wrong. No, if you have a baby, you're going to
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  Speaker 2: be smashing before them six weeks. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. This shit is humbling.
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad I'm pregnant again.
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  Speaker 1: When my mama had to pull my drawers up and
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  Speaker 1: down for me this weekend, it's definitely humbling.
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  Speaker 2: You remember we did that episode with, uh, we was
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  Speaker 2: talking about, it was a white girl who had a
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  Speaker 2: surgery coming up and she was talking about like how
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  Speaker 2: now she needs a mate now more than ever because
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  Speaker 2: she has like surgery coming up. And what I said,
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  Speaker 2: this shit, even if you have somebody, you really can't
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  Speaker 2: depend on men to do those things. Like, of course
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  Speaker 2: you need somebody in the house with you for sure.
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  Speaker 2: But mamas and sisters, they're going to come through. Yep.
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  Speaker 1: My mama was here all weekend. She was so good.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't have done it without her. One of my
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  Speaker 1: neighbors came and took my trash out today, so that
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  Speaker 1: was good.
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  Speaker 2: How nice is that? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then the Instacart lady put my groceries away from me.
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  Speaker 2: Uh-uh. Yeah. Wow. Did you give her a tip?
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  Speaker 1: I sure did. I sure did. I was like, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. Oh, that's nice. You need to make sure
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  Speaker 2: she get a 10-star review. All right?
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  Speaker 1: I definitely gave her a good tip.
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  Speaker 2: All heroes have a cape.
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  Speaker 1: What about your weekend?
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  Speaker 2: Shit, my weekend was, you know, I just hung out
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  Speaker 2: a little bit. Dinner. Date weekend, basically. You know, it's
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  Speaker 2: always nice when niggas take their bitches for walks.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I said I was going to stop saying nigga. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to try real hard. Real hard. You know, but.
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  Speaker 1: You done said that for the past couple new years.
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  Speaker 2: I know. But listen, fellas, you have to take your
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  Speaker 2: bitch for a walk. Okay. If you don't take her
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  Speaker 2: for a walk, somebody else going to take her for
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  Speaker 2: a walk. Just like dogs.
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  Speaker 1: In other terms, what she means is take your girl
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  Speaker 1: on dates.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Take her on dates. Even if it's to the park. Literally.
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  Speaker 2: Take her for a walk. Bike ride. Something. Yes. I
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  Speaker 2: got outside a little bit. That's about it. Good weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Good weekend. It's cold outside. I don't know what the
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  Speaker 2: hell is happening. You ain't missing nothing. It's cold outside.
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  Speaker 2: It's like Charleston is never this cold. In March. Absolutely not.
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  Speaker 2: And tomorrow, like the lowest 39 or 36, I think.
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  Speaker 2: That is freezing.
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  Speaker 1: Is it really that cold outside right now?
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  Speaker 2: Right now, it's probably like 50. But this is not
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  Speaker 2: normal weather. This shit is different.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nice. It's getting warmer.
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  Speaker 2: I heard it was snowing in L.A. or some shit.
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  Speaker 1: Get your house in order, folks.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Look, let's jump right into stupid internet news, okay?
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  Speaker 2: Because y'all see what's going on with these banks, okay?
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  Speaker 2: Like Tam said, get your house in order. This is
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  Speaker 2: a small sample size of what we could see on
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  Speaker 2: a larger scale because, you know, they want to get
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  Speaker 2: us on a central banking system, right? But they got
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  Speaker 2: to make the U.S. dollar fail first. So this Silicon
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  Speaker 2: Valley Bank in California, they went under, right? Obama just,
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  Speaker 2: excuse me, what the hell? So now.
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  Speaker 1: Now he like, now how I get it?
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  Speaker 2: Damn! Shit, same people. So Biden, Biden basically has bailed
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  Speaker 2: them out. And it's not like a bailout like from
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  Speaker 2: 2008 where taxpayers paid for it. This one is going
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  Speaker 2: to be paid for by the bank fees, essentially like
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  Speaker 2: the insurance that they have. And he's also calling for
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  Speaker 2: the top executives to be fired from the bank. Apparently,
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  Speaker 2: the CEO actually sold all his stock the day before
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  Speaker 2: this actually happened.
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  Speaker 1: To protect his own interests.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. So I wonder, you know, he knew what the
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  Speaker 2: hell was going to happen. And this bank in particular,
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  Speaker 2: they said that the median deposit is like $ 250, 000. So.
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  Speaker 2: At this bank, the median account balance is like $ 250, 000.
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  Speaker 2: These are rich people's money y'all playing with. And these
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  Speaker 2: people were pulling up at the bank for their money,
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  Speaker 2: and they got the police called on them.
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  Speaker 1: Right. They can't get it.
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  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Because isn't it like only a certain amount of your money, like,
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  Speaker 1: insured that you can get? Through the FDIC.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, through the FDIC, it's $ 250, 000. After that, that's it.
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  Speaker 2: So that's why now the government is stepping in.
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  Speaker 1: It makes me think of my great grandmother because of
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  Speaker 1: the stock market crash in the 1930s. She put all
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  Speaker 1: her money in coffee cans and buried it in the backyard.
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  Speaker 1: She said she would never put her money back in
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  Speaker 1: the bank because of that.
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  Speaker 2: That's not smart either. Like tomorrow, the way it's looking
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  Speaker 2: like we will be wiping our asses with $ 100 bills
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  Speaker 2: in a minute.
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  Speaker 1: You need gold.
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  Speaker 2: You have to make actual investments in tangible assets, land, houses.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say stock market for real, even though I
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  Speaker 2: fuck with the stock market, because that's the same as
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  Speaker 2: a bank.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it could crash too.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely natural resources. Those things aren't going anywhere, but they're
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  Speaker 2: definitely trying to get us on a cryptocurrency type platform.
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  Speaker 2: And my thing, my only problem with that is like,
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  Speaker 2: what's the conversion going to be? You know, what's the
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  Speaker 2: conversion from my US dollar to whatever crypto going to be?
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  Speaker 2: Is it going to be like, will I lose half
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  Speaker 2: of my money?
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  Speaker 1: So you might get me. I thought crypto went under.
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  Speaker 2: It is going under. All of this shit is going under.
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  Speaker 2: But I think it's, they're trying to, I think the
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  Speaker 2: government is trying to get more regulation done around cryptocurrency
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  Speaker 2: because if they get everybody on crypto, like if everybody
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  Speaker 2: had to do Bitcoin instead of the U.S. dollar, whatever,
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  Speaker 2: you know, country currency, there's more control involved with that.
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  Speaker 2: They can turn your finances off when they want to
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  Speaker 2: because it's all digitized. But it's essentially still the same
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  Speaker 2: thing even with fiat currency as far as I'm concerned.
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  Speaker 1: What I don't understand is how they can do that
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  Speaker 1: but we still voting in an election booth with a
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  Speaker 1: goddamn piece of paper. But okay.
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  Speaker 2: But really, we don't, though. It's kind of like, some
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  Speaker 2: of those machines are electronic. What is it, Dominion? Not
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  Speaker 2: all of them. But a lot of places have electronic ones,
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  Speaker 2: which I think can have a little bit more manipulation. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: people can throw pieces of paper out, but I can
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  Speaker 2: literally program your shit to change. It's a little bit different.
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  Speaker 2: So I would prefer to keep the paper out.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, as I was sitting around, hurting,
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  Speaker 1: I was scrolling my social media and I saw everybody
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  Speaker 1: upset that Angela Bassett was snubbed by the Academy for
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  Speaker 1: the Oscar that she was nominated for for Best Supporting
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  Speaker 1: Actress in Wakanda Forever. And she, I mean, if we're
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  Speaker 1: going to be honest about it, she been should have
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  Speaker 1: got an Oscar.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: If we relying on white people to give us our awards.
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  Speaker 1: But she definitely should have been got a.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, Angela Bassett didn't get the Oscar and niggas
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  Speaker 1: was mad as fuck. I was upset too.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: But I just feel like, why do we care what
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  Speaker 1: white people think? Why do we need these awards that
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  Speaker 1: was never meant for us to validate us in our careers?
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  Speaker 1: Because she should have been had that. Everybody knows it.
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  Speaker 1: Jamie knows it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and so Jamie Lee Curtis, she won Best Supporting
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  Speaker 2: Actress for Everything, Everywhere, All at Once. It's an alright movie.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of on the esoteric side of things, but
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  Speaker 2: good movie nonetheless. But come on, Wakanda Forever? All of
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  Speaker 2: these great movies, she's one of the best actresses out here,
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  Speaker 2: and this is only even her second time even being nominated.
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  Speaker 2: The first time she was nominated was for Best Actress
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  Speaker 2: in 2004. So here it is now, 20 years later,
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  Speaker 2: and she's finally nominated again, only not to get the
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  Speaker 2: award again.
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  Speaker 1: I hate that for her.
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  Speaker 2: Me too. I hate that because, you know, to us,
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  Speaker 2: she's one of the best. Who's better than Angela Bassett?
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  Speaker 2: Let's be clear. Who? I don't know anybody better than
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  Speaker 2: Angela Bassett.
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  Speaker 1: And if I hear you had my kids around that
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  Speaker 1: tramp bitch, you were going to regret it for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of your life.
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  Speaker 2: Get your shit! Get your shit! And get out! Yo,
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  Speaker 2: the way she was talking, that's how black women be
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  Speaker 2: for real. You be talking yourself into a rut, okay? Right.
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  Speaker 1: We love you. Angela Bassett, if you're a fan of
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  Speaker 1: We Talk Back, we love you. Girl, I wish. You
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  Speaker 1: have been an Oscar award winner in our hearts since
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of time.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Still waking up to shit this morning. So speaking
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  Speaker 2: of the Oscars, the internet, again, the internets are in
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  Speaker 2: an uproar. Comparing Ciara to Savannah James. today because of
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  Speaker 2: her choice of attire for the awards. She wore a
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  Speaker 2: barely there naked dress straight out the runway.
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  Speaker 1: That was the after party.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was the after party. And several women were
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  Speaker 2: dressed the same way. But for whatever reason in our community,
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  Speaker 2: it's almost like Ciara isn't worthy of the life she
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  Speaker 2: has to some people. It's like she's just this super
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  Speaker 2: chicken head that only deserves a man-like future. you know,
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  Speaker 2: like stay in your place, chicken head, baby mama. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what the energy is. She is a married woman.
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  Speaker 2: She does have children. She's still fine as hell. I'm confused.
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  Speaker 2: And this is entertainment.
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  Speaker 1: Why do people care so much what other people got on?
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  Speaker 1: If her husband was happily standing next to her, what
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  Speaker 1: does it matter to y'all? I'm so confused.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. I don't get the hate and disdain nowadays for Ciara.
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  Speaker 2: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 1: It be people who ain't got the first husband or
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  Speaker 1: wife or the potential for one that's got the most
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  Speaker 1: horrible things to say about Ciara. Like, relax. Mind your business. Right.
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  Speaker 2: It's not really mind your business per se, but it's
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  Speaker 2: almost like, okay, these people are in entertainment. I talk
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  Speaker 2: more shit about the bitches I see at the club
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  Speaker 2: dressed like that because let's be clear. People be outside
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  Speaker 2: looking like that, like they're a celebrity.
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  Speaker 1: Soon as I heal, I got that same dress Sierra got,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to put it on.
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  Speaker 2: That dress is going to look a little bit different
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  Speaker 2: on you, bitch. A little bit. Oh, it hurts so
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  Speaker 2: bad to laugh. That dress is going to look a
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  Speaker 2: little bit different. I don't think you should.
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  Speaker 1: Shame.
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  Speaker 2: But leave Sierra alone. Let that lady do what she
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  Speaker 2: want to do now. One thing, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 2: have a problem, like, just, I don't know. I guess
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  Speaker 2: if I were married and had kids, I wouldn't wear that.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't, personally. Yeah. I wouldn't, personally. But I'm not
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  Speaker 2: here to judge her. She probably felt empowered to wear that.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Honestly, I wouldn't wear that now just because of
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  Speaker 1: my body type. She's slim, though. I feel like she
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  Speaker 1: can get away with it and it'd be okay. I'd
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  Speaker 1: wear that as a beach cover-up without a problem.
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  Speaker 2: What thong they the suit underneath but there were several
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  Speaker 2: several several you know she was only black woman dressed
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  Speaker 2: like that but there were there were a lot of
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  Speaker 2: model uh uh victoria's secret models a lot of different
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  Speaker 2: people it's almost like that was like the theme for
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  Speaker 2: the after party as far as i'm concerned because i
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  Speaker 2: i literally just wanted to make sure like is Is
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  Speaker 2: Ciara the only naked bitch at the whole thing?
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  Speaker 1: But, I mean, it's been dresses like that at these
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  Speaker 1: awards for years and years and years.
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  Speaker 2: But it's just like when a black woman does anything,
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  Speaker 2: it's a problem.
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  Speaker 1: It's a problem. And then trying to compare Savannah James
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  Speaker 1: and hers, like, why did y'all pick this one woman
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  Speaker 1: against this one woman?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: It was a lot of women with fully clothed dresses
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of women who were naked in their dresses. So,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what's the difference? Mind your business.
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  Speaker 2: Right. I guess it's just like the athlete husband thing.
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  Speaker 2: You know, that's probably what it boils down to.
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  Speaker 1: They don't even play the same sport. Right. If y'all
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  Speaker 1: want to be that particular, find somebody in the NFL. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Just leave it alone altogether. Right. Moving right along. Blac
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  Speaker 1: Chyna took to the Internet this past weekend, and she
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  Speaker 1: had a message for everyone that she was getting her
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  Speaker 1: butt reduced to a normal size. And her breasts reduced
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  Speaker 1: to a normal size. And she also said that her
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: face fillers would be next to be removed. So I
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  Speaker 1: think the era of over-exaggerated asses and titties and faces
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  Speaker 1: kind of dwindling down. What you think?
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy for it. So we're going to have an
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  Speaker 2: episode soon where we actually talk about body dysmorphia and
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: maybe some of the mental health shit that surrounds that.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she's been going through therapy. Maybe she is now
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  Speaker 2: more accepting of who she really is. Maybe she has
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  Speaker 2: this stuff caused life threatening issues, you know. Yeah. Especially
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  Speaker 2: with the butt.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's just not, no longer trending.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I remember, um, when Cardi B first
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  Speaker 2: came out, well, not first came out once she started like,
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  Speaker 2: cause you know, to me, Cardi B is one of
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  Speaker 2: the best dress in the industry when she got to
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  Speaker 2: hit the runway. I mean like hit a red carpet
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  Speaker 2: or something. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She'd be fly as fuck.
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  Speaker 2: Period. And I remember her saying like, you know, she
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  Speaker 2: wished she didn't get the butt shots because now she
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: wants to fit in those nice dresses and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: And she can't always fit into things. So, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. If your body is naturally like that,
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  Speaker 2: then it's... But to add all of that shit, it
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  Speaker 2: does look crazy. And I feel like doctors should be
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: held responsible for some of the botched shit you see
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  Speaker 2: on the internet.
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  Speaker 1: Because it don't be matching oftentimes. Right. It look crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I would suggest against it. I have a friend who's
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  Speaker 2: a cosmetic surgeon, and she does a lot of reconstruction,
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  Speaker 2: like people after breast cancer, stuff like that. But she
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  Speaker 2: doesn't do BBLs.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And BBLs is really dangerous from what I understand. Putting
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  Speaker 1: that fat in your butt. Yeah. Like they can hit
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  Speaker 1: like a major artery and it could go bad.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I had my little cousin who actually got a BBL.
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  Speaker 2: And her body, the butt rejected the fat transfer. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And so she ended up with all type of infections
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  Speaker 2: and shit. Had a hole in the top of her ass.
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  Speaker 2: They had to pack with gauze. and all type of shit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot to go through. You know what?
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  Speaker 1: I think social media, when we have that episode, I
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  Speaker 1: think we need to go into how social media plays
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  Speaker 1: a huge role in people's body image.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely. Absolutely. So would you say the Kardashians kind of
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  Speaker 2: started this thing? What we see now? People been getting surgery.
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  Speaker 2: I know people who have had surgery 15 years ago,
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  Speaker 2: but it ramped up.
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  Speaker 1: I can't say they started it, but I think their
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  Speaker 1: huge platform made it seem very socially okay to do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because I'm trying to figure out even the teeth.
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  Speaker 2: Regular people wasn't getting the teeth done and all that
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: shit 10 years ago.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Well, they made it so affordable now. You can fly
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  Speaker 1: out the Somewhere and get you a new set of teeth.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: A 32-pack.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: And a dinner for $ 600.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: I don't want no $ 600 teeth. And then when you
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: get back to the U.S., ain't no dentist going to
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: fuck with them when they mess up. Just get your
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: money up and get the shit at home so you
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: can get the best care.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Get the right ones because... Some of the cheese, I
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  Speaker 1: don't even think they like separate. I think it's just
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: one long piece they put in your mouth.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of y'all look like y'all bite. Okay. I'm scared.
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  Speaker 1: I hate that shit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm scared.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Love yourself. God damn it. Shit. I
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: know it's hard sometimes. Yeah. Yeah. It's, you know, everybody
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: has like things they would like to fix. Like, bitch,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely going to get me some lipo. I've been
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: saying that shit for years. I want my bra fat gone.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: And I feel like no matter how much shit I
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: do in the gym, it's just not going anywhere.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: So I definitely want some light pull on my back.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: But other than that, I don't want nobody fucking my
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: shape up.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: I want my double chin gone. I want the second
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: one gone. But I know it's probably like if I
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: just lost maybe like 20 pounds, it'll go.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: That's really what it boils down to. Shit.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: You got all these bitches taking this.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: We go V and O's and peak this diabetic shot
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: now for rapid.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I have some friends that are doing it and I,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: and I did the research. Right. And I advised against it. No,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I'm not a licensed physician, but that shit causes thyroid cancer.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: What else did I say? It was a lot of
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: different side effects. You know what I'm saying? Like, no,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: you may not be affected, but it's not worth it.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: To me, it's not. Anyway, do what y'all want to do.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Moving along. This month, March, is Women's History Month. So
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: what we would like to do today is talk about
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: what a woman is exactly for the month of March.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Let's get into it.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all, so listen. It is National Women's History Month,
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: March 1st through March 31st. And, you know, with it being,
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: you know, this national holiday that actually was invented, I
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: think I read it was 1970-something or 1960-something is when
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: different states start adopting just to try to, um, um,
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: you know, showcase the women who have contributed to American history,
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: essentially women.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: So with this being a national holiday, it kind of
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: gets me in the mind of, you know, in this day, 2023,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: what is a woman is an actual question.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: People ask, um, Which is crazy because I thought I
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: knew I had to Google it for this episode. I
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: wasn't sure, bitch. All right, so I Googled it and
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: it had two separate definitions.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Yo, I can't.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: So it said a biological definition of a woman is
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: when sperm fertilizes an egg, it's X or Y chromosomes
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: combined with the X chromosome of the egg. A person
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: with XX chromosomes is... usually has a female sex and
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: reproductive organs and is therefore usually assigned biologically female. You
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: see how they done? Biologically.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So, you know, this could be a joke. Like,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: men could possibly just be a broken ex.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: So is everybody woman? I know there has been things
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: in the past where people say, like, everybody is born.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Start out woman.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the man... So who knows? The phallus goes.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: So basically, maybe being a man is a deformity.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Of a woman? Yo.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Jokes.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: They don't want to hear that shit. Don't kill me, guys.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: These are all jokes. I was just arguing with somebody
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: online about how women used to, like... As, you know,
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: we evolved, but I believe it started female. Like, there
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: had to be a woman, right? Because men cannot, you cannot, like,
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: procreate with a sock. Okay? So, parthiogenesis is a process
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: of a female organism reproducing by itself.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Like a seahorse.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Like female seahorses.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. They still do it. Yeah. Different animals in the wild.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy? Yeah.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: But I believe women did it at one point.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Y'all better hope we don't learn how to do that
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: shit again.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Look, man, women, like, men aren't being born. I looked
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: at some data, and there's a lot of women being born, like,
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: this last decade.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: But, you know, I feel like women have always outnumbered men. Mm-hmm. Crazy.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: It also said that a female human being, a person
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: assigned a female sex at birth, or a person who
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: identifies herself as a woman.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: That's a female.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: That is a woman. But if you look up man.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Clear cut dry, huh?
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Adult male human being.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: So you would have to, one would have to try
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: and figure out why is it that it seems like
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: there is an attack on the Y? Excuse me, on
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: the X. Why is there an attack on women? Why
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: is it like a clear cut definition for man? Because
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: I've said this before. It's almost like this is the
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: ultimate form of patriarchy. When a man can say, bitch,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I'm you because I feel like it.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: And people don't see this as patriarchy, but it is
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Because, you know, the men who were born female, they
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: don't be pushing their gender.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: Yes, you don't even hear from them. No. Where are y'all?
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: All right, so also, I Googled one other word.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: What, sis?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Hey, sis. Gender identity.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: So gender identity is a person's innate sense of their gender,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: chiefly used in contexts where it is contrasted with the
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: sex registered for them at birth.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: But now you have a judicial system which legalizes people
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: changing their sex. Can they put it now on their
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: birth certificates? Can they change a birth certificate? Can they
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: change a driver's license? Or what's showing up on these
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: official documents? Is it what you were at birth? Because
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: now you're going to have to ask people, what chromosome
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: are you?
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Or what were you on your birth certificate?
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Right. And, you know, a lot of.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: When you were born.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of trans people feel like they don't
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: have to disclose that they're trans. Like, that's the whole thing.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Somebody seeing you physically and thinking that you're a woman.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: That's what they go for. You ever seen that video
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: on Instagram? It was a Hispanic guy. and maybe the
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: lady was in the car Hispanic too, but it looked
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: like a white woman or man, right?
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: He was arguing.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: He was, listen, the guy, the woman in the car
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: was arguing with a Hispanic man outside the car. And
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: she was like, well, what do I look like to you?
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: And she turns the camera on herself and transsexual. I don't,
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: they don't like the word transsexual, right?
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. I can't really, I wish
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: we had like a trans person on with us who
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: could just talk.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: We need a hand pamphlet or a booklet. We all
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: do that shit. To make sure we, you know.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but listen, nothing we say here is meant to
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: be offensive. It's meant to be funny. That's it.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Not even funny. We're trying to understand.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but also, I want to tell jokes.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it need to be funny, too. I make light
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: of everything, though, so don't take it personal.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Right, so the guy was like, you look like a man.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: And she was so upset.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Because they want us to see them in the way
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: that they see themselves.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: And that's fair, right?
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: No, it's not fair because I'm not going to be
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: delusional with you. Because you, maybe you don't have enough
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: money to actually look like a woman in the way
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: you want to. You're six foot and you're walking in
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: and look like a man to me.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: But it's fair to want people to see you as
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you see yourself is what I'm saying.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Not in this case, Tammy. Do you see what I'm saying?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: No, I get what you're saying. You physically present as
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: a man dressed as a woman. Right. And then you're
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: upset with people who don't see you as a woman.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Exactly. How am I now being disrespectful to you because
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: I can't trick my mind to see what you see?
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: I told you once before, my homegirl, she's a chiropractor, right?
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: She has a client who is.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: A woman, born a woman, XX. She presents as a woman, right?
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: She's in a relationship with a trans woman, white trans woman,
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: which is a man, right?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: A woman who's not a man.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Genetically a man. A trans woman is genetically a man, right?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: But she wants to be addressed as sir, him, he, right? Right?
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: but she doesn't dress up like a man. She presents
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: as a woman. But I, in my mind, have to
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: go by your pronouns, but you look like a woman
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: and you present like a woman. It's not like she's
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: presenting like a man to where I can, you know,
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: my mind, it might click in my mind to make
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: sure I call him sir and stuff, call her sir.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: It's like, ah.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: It is hard.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: And it's an adjustment that, it's a new adjustment that
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I feel like But, I mean, call people what they
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: want to be called, right?
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I don't have a lot of those
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: people in my life. And if I were to run
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: into somebody and they let you know what it is,
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: of course I'm going to do my due diligence to
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: make sure I'm being respectful to them. But the thing is,
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I believe, like, just publicly, online, the different conversations I see,
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: it gets to be disrespectful to actual women.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Just don't be angry with me if
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: you see me trying, you know. It's one thing to
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: be blatantly, like, just, like, Fuck how you feel. You
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: a nigga.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Right. You know?
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: It's one thing to be like this.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Like Boosie.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: We ain't Boosie-ing.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Right. We ain't Boosie-ing.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: But if I'm out here trying to get it right,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: but I'm fucking up because it's new, don't be mean
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: to me about it. That's not fair.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not being mean to you about your shit. So,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: I get what you're saying.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: And as an actual woman, if I say, I don't
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: want to be called sis.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: See, like an actual woman, they would be offended by
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: saying that.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: That's their business. Yeah. As an actual woman... I don't
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: want to be called sis. So at what point do
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: you respect my, my, um, my stance?
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't like bitches in my jeans. Tell my,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: you my favorite auntie girl. Fuck you. I'm not your auntie.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Trans auntie. That's your mama sister. Not me, bitch. Listen,
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: I met this girl and her, uh, her Instagram was auntie.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to say her whole shit, but it's,
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: it starts off like auntie such as such. I said, girl,
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: if you don't change your goddamn Instagram name, Like, imagine
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: your shit, Auntie Tam.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I don't play like that.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: And you're in your 30s.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Only bitches who only, like, just turned 30 call theyself Auntie.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Once you're getting closer to 40, that is, like, offensive.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Who you talking to? Yeah. If I'm not, your Auntie
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: is offensive.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Right. Who you talking to?
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I don't even like, my nieces call me that. Call
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: me Tammy, bitch, when we in public.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Y'all can cuss and do what the fuck you
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: want because you're not my kid.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: No, I don't let my nieces cuss and show off.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: A little bit, but you're going to have to keep
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: it cute around me because you will respect me like
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: my sister.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Y'all be power trippin'. Black mamas and black aunties be
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: power tripping.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: We not going to do that.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I was talking to my homegirl today and she was like, yeah,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: the kids was mad because they had to go to
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: school and it's snowing. She was like, we live in
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: New Jersey. It snows here all the time type shit.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: I said, but you don't remember not wanting to go
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: to school? It's like work. They need a break. Those
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: kids be tired. She was like, well, they just was
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: off on Monday. I'm like, okay, have you never wanted
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: five days off from work for free? Just because you
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: won it don't mean you get it.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: So you need to learn how it is in real life.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: As a grown person, stop acting like you don't remember
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: not wanting to go to school.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: I remember not wanting and I remember also still having
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: to go.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Right. But they can still... I guess my thing is
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: that I'm not about to challenge my kid on some
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: shit that I did too. As a child. You know
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying?
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Like complaining?
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: No, shut the fuck up. shut the fuck.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Up and go to school that's the 11th commandment thou
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: should not complain let's back to back to women yeah
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: um i don't know i wish things were much simpler
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: like how they were you know.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Some things are offensive being born a biological woman like
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: given caitlin gender woman of the year last.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Year was aya It's hurtful. I don't think she got
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: woman of the year, but she did have like a
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: sit down with Michelle Obama last year.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: During Women's History Month. Yeah. It's just kind of like,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, I understand like things are changing, but what
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: about me? Can I be woman of something?
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: They're going to say y'all been women for all of
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: this time. Now let us. That's where we at.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: It's crazy it's a lot of things that I just
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: don't understand like I don't understand trans women participating in
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: sports with biological women when we know biologically that trans
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: women would be stronger physically.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: Than a woman but are they stronger than the men
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: that they're competing with so now they couldn't compete with
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: the men so you throwing with the women to beat
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: up on the women.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: And win like fuck.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: That is wild.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: That's not fair. We all can sit and act like
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: this is normal, but it is not okay.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: No, I think maybe they should have their own league
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: to compete. And then they would think that's disrespectful because
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: they identify as a woman. But genetically, a woman can't
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: compete with you.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Not physically, yeah. In sports, when it comes to wrestling
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: and These trans bitches is beating our ass. Watch it now.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: It's not fair.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I said it. It's not fair.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: It's not fair. And again, we should be able to
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: talk about it.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: And not be mad at us for saying what everybody's thinking.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Everybody's thinking it.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Okay. I said it.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Fuck it.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: So because it is National Women's History Month, let's get
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: some history on exactly what that is. So as recently
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: as 1970s, women's history was virtually an unknown topic in
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: the K-12 curriculum or in general public consciousness. To address
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: this situation, the Education Task Force for Sonoma County, California
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: Commission on the Status of Women initiated a Women's History
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Week celebration for 1978. So this is how long. Mm-hmm.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: I feel like I've only heard about maybe, I don't know,
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: last five years or so that I actually heard about
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Women's History Month.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Since we've been podcasting, that's when I've been hearing about it.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: The day, March 8th, International Women's Day was chosen as
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: a focal point for the observance. So, Tammy, what is
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: a woman to you?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: A woman to me is my mama and my grandmother. Okay.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I can speak to black women. I won't just say
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: a woman. I'll speak to a black woman. Unfortunately, I
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: hate to say strong black women because I hate the
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: term strong for a black woman. But I feel like
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: my mother and my grandmother had to be that. They
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: were resilient, loving, and hard at the same time. They
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: bled every month, and you knew it sometimes because they
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: were bitches during that time. I ain't going to lie.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: A woman is birthing life to this earth. You know,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I think that's what a woman is. A woman is
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: a mother. A woman is a sister, an auntie. A
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: woman is you. A woman is me.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Right. A woman is who gave birth to you. Yeah.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people, not to go back
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: to the same topic, but you would not exist if
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: it weren't for a woman.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Right. So to be dismissive of what an actual woman is,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: it's kind of wild. So when I think about women,
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: I definitely think about myself. I think about my aunts,
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: my mother, the actual women in my life. Don't get
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: mad at the word actual. Again, I don't like the
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: strong black woman throat. I feel like it's not exclusive
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: to just black women, women throughout every culture. have had
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: times where they had to be super resilient. We're not
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: in those groups, so we may not see it.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: But I don't hear other groups use that word to
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: describe the women of their culture.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: And it's kind of like... A strong black woman. The
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: reason why I hate it is because... You know, this is...
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: It was an Indian guy on YouTube a while ago,
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: a video I listened to. And he was talking shit
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: about black women and how we like to say we
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: strong black women. And he was like, yeah, just because
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: you can have a bunch of kids... With no fathers
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: and struggle to take care of them and persevere doesn't
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: make you a strong black woman. So you put yourself
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: in a situation to have to struggle.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: What does that make you then? It definitely makes you
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: a strong black woman.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: It definitely makes you strong if you.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Had to persevere. And he was talking about how other
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: women from other groups, their husbands are wealthy, this and
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: the third. The people they choose to have children with
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: are not just leaving them with kids and stuff like that. So-
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: His whole stance was you put yourself in a position
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: to have to be strong.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, and? And what the fuck you saying? Strong is strong.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I just don't want us to have to be strong.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I want us to live a soft life. I want
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: black women to reside in their feminine energy and not
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: have to.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, even if the soft life you're providing yourself.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: And I think saying that, women are a strong black woman,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: then other cultures view that. And then now when you're
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: in the hospital in pain, they be like, but you
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: a strong black woman.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: But other black people do that to black people, black
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: women as well. You realize that, right?
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: It's not even just other groups of people. It's everybody
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: just does that to black women. We do it to
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: each other.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But now you're in the hospital hurting and nobody
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: recognizes your pain because.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: You're supposed to be so strong. I mean, because the
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: medical system was actually built off of us and how
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: much You can endure. Exactly. It's some bullshit. Which, we
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: be in pain. Yeah. But, yeah, so for me, yes.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: An actual woman, you have to be able... Even if
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: something happened and you haven't procreated, right? There's a lot
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: of science going on right now. You can have a child.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: So you have to have a womb to be a woman.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: May it be functioning or not. If you don't have
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: a womb.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: You know, to me and my definition of what a
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: woman is. You couldn't be a woman. And that's okay.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: It's okay.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. It's fine, you know. How can we
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: celebrate Women's History Month if we talk back?
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: I guess it just, you know, comes right after Black
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: History Month where we celebrate the different baddies. We can
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: continue to celebrate awesome-ass women in the month of March.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I have somebody that I would like to
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: celebrate for women's history. And I found this girl on
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Lil Duval's page earlier. She is a pilot, a young pilot.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: That's my bucket list. Her name is Shania Noel. And
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: her Instagram, y'all should follow her, is I-A-M-N-Y-A-N-O-E-L-L-E. I am
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Naya Noel. And this is a young, young girl. And baby,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: she is flying these big ass planes. Look at this girl.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Y'all can't, you can't see her, but y'all go look
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: at her Instagram page.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: How old is she?
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I can't tell. She got the baby's little face. She
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: looks very, very young. And she is a pilot. And
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: she just flew across country. And she is a beautiful
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: young black woman. And she is getting to it. And
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I love to see it. And she started a little
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: group called Pretty Pink Pilots.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: I love that I love that even getting into air
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: traffic control if you're under 30 years old because there's
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: an age limit to be in air traffic control so
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: I think you have to be younger than 30 so
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: if any of our listeners that is a job if
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: you are into you know working for somebody for the
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: rest of your damn life you're already going to do
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: it get that job because usually people will start that
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: and then they, that's what they, you know, retire from,
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: but there's an age limit. I feel like more black
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: people need to get into air traffic control. They make
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: a lot of money as well. And also into, um,
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: being pilots. Is there any.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Black person that's not exactly celebrated? Like not someone that's
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: a celebrity, a black woman that you are, any woman,
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: let me not say just black that you would like
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: to celebrate today.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Um, Not off the top of my head. I ain't
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: happen to see nobody flying a plane this morning.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Well, maybe not nobody. Maybe somebody that you know personally
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: that just, like, did something great that you just want
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: to celebrate.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: You know, my best friend Priscilla. I'd like to celebrate her.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: Priscilla had two kids when we were in high school.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: And when I tell you, like, this is, like, a
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: lot of people's stories, and I kind of use her oftentimes, like,
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: over the years for people, when I hear them complaining
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: about certain shit, like Priscilla did it. I really be
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: feeling like that about her because the way she set
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: her life up, even with having little small kids is
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: a fucking amazing. So I don't want to call her
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: like the strong black woman, but she would be that. Yeah.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? And actually her oldest child
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: is my little cousin. Essentially his, her dad is my
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: cousin and he's not the, like she really did it
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: by herself. out here I'm here for a lot of
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: black women so I want to celebrate my bestie so y'all.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: If y'all know a woman that you love and you
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: see her doing her thing we challenge you to celebrate
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: her send her a lunch cash app or send her
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: just coffee money right some good words of encouragement just
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: to let her know that you see her or just
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: this one say hi to every woman you see like
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: stop walking past each other not speaking yeah eye contact.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Hey girl you look good girl.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Give a bitch a compliment yeah yes I'm definitely one
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: of those I'm always like I will stop a girl
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: in the street like okay girl I see okay curls
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: okay eyebrows okay baby hair I will say all of that.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah you make people day right.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Celebrate each other so I challenge y'all to do that
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: watching this episode Celebrate your sisters outside. Whatever gender your
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: sisters is, celebrate them. I'm here for that.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: So when we come back from break, I do have
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: a dumb bitch story. Oh, okay.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to get into it.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: All right. We'll be right back. Dumb bitch story. You
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: are so dumb.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: Because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: or twice.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: All right, so, and look, this girl sent me a
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: damn picture and all, so I know what the people
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: look like. So she says, been with this guy for
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: about 16 months. Me and his youngest BM have had
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: words on two occasions. Their youngest kid is almost five.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: She posted on Facebook an old video and pic from
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: last year saying, happy 16 years, happy birthday, baby daddy.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Y'all want him so bad. I'm Creshawn. I'm not going nowhere.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: That's the whole caption of the post for his birthday. Right?
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: She said, I told him today he needs to tell
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: her we are together and the back and forth Facebook
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: subliminal and BS need to stop if he is serious
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: about me or go be with her because I'm not
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: going through this shit anymore. He says he has no
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: problem with that. So we shall see. But I feel
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: like I'm right to give him an ultimatum after 16 months.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: I've expressed the importance of boundaries before with their relationship,
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: and I'm ready to walk away if he doesn't make
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: this right, even though I really want to be with him.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: What do you think? And then she sends a picture
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: of the guy with the post from the BM. So
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: I asked her, how many kids, how many BMs? He
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: has three baby moms, five kids. Last two are four
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: and 12 years old.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: With that lady.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, must be with the youngest then.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: First of all, what grown woman?
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Or maybe they just got the one, the five-year-old.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: 16 years in, and you out here talking about you,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Chris Sean?
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: 16, wait, is that what it said? 16 years.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: That is her post, yes. First of all, you a grown,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: you a old-ass lady, because you've been fucking with somebody
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: for 16 years. How dare you call yourself Chris Sean?
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: Chris Sean? That's who you was.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: They 35, both her and the girl.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: How you talking about you, Chris Sean? There is a
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: young girl who's trying to figure it out out here.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: She got a lot of trauma and a lot of,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: you know. And that's what you're talking about?
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: Look, I asked her how the hell does she see
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: the post. She basically said the girl has her blocked
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: or they have each other blocked. But, you know, she
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: obviously if you want to see. My thing is, why
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: are you lurking? If you weren't lurking, you would have
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: never seen her post that. Oh, so it's on her page.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: It's on the baby mama's page. Yeah.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't post my nigga talking about you, Creshawn.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: That's her baby daddy.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Don't post my nigga talking about you, Creshawn.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Girl, we know what it is. Like, so, okay, you
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: have a decision to make. You don't have any kids
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: with this guy. He has three baby mamas. Are you
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: strapping up? Are you trying to be the fourth baby
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: mama with the sixth child?
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Like, really, is that what you want your life to
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: be at 35?
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: It sounds like that's what she wants. She says she
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: wants to be with him. So that's what she's signing
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: up for. But there is a thing called boundaries, and
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: don't disrespect my relationship. He need to check her.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: Right, absolutely. So, you know, you can't fault anybody outside
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: the relationship.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: So definitely, if it's a situation, he definitely needs to
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: handle it.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Right. I don't like men who can't control their hoes.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: What you want me to do?
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: I don't like those type of dudes, man. What you
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: want me to do about it? You know what I
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: want you to do. You know exactly what the same
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: shit you would want me to do if my baby
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: daddy was doing that.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, control your people.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: Because she wouldn't be accepting that bullshit either.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Right, exactly.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So, I don't know.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: And he must be still sleeping with her.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're her nigga. Her man would probably be like,
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: why are you posting that?
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: See? No BMs, no mamas, no sisters. No problems.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: No baby mama, no sister, no mother.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Damn, who you trying to... I agree with men.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: This bitch want to fuck Antoine Fisher.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Shut up. He fine, too.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he is.
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: That actor.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Derek Luke.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Yes, he fine, too.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Where is Derek Luke? We done said that in the
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: last couple episodes.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Pull up on us.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Where is Derek Luke? We want Derek Luke on the show.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Come talk to us, Derek. We want to see where
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: you've been at.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: I'm with men when they say women are out here
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: having kids with men who already have kids. Because I'm
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: finding that there are some single men out here who
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: don't have kids, who haven't started a family, who you
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: can start a family with. You don't necessarily have to
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: be with somebody who already has kids. But the older
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: we get, you know.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: The more difficult it becomes.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Right. Yeah. So I told my guy friend, he said
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: he doesn't want any more kids. And I was like,
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: you know, most women have kids. So you're going to
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: end up with somebody with kids helping take care of
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: a kid that isn't yours.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Well, depending on how old he is, them kids might be.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Out the house.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, grown, big kids. Yeah. They still... They'll always be
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: a child, but they not.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: Let me let him... Let me let him keep thinking
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: that he gotta be with a bitch with little kids, okay? Okay.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Because why not be with somebody who has your kid?
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: I'm confused.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: It don't work out like that always.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: Anyway. Girl, run. Run. He's still fucking his baby mama.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: That's what I think, too.
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: Get up out of there.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: They still fucking.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Don't get that man no ultimatum. Grown people don't do
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: well with ultimatums. They are who they gonna be.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: That situation was going on prior to you, even though
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: you've been there for 16 months now.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: It may never change.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: Right. And she Chris Sean, bitch. So that means she
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: want to fight about that nigga.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: You hear me?
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to fight.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: Right. You trying to fight? Can you fight? That's my question.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Can you fight?
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: Can you fight? Because that girl said she'll fight. She'll
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: beat your ass about her baby daddy.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: Can you fight?
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to fight. At this age in my life,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to fight by nobody.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Bitch, you fuck around and fight and can't get up
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: the next day. You know, like how shocked.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Your body would be. The last time I got in
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: a fight, y'all, I was in live in Miami of
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: all places in the club. And we whooped at a
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: bitch ass. But the next day, I felt everything. That
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: whole donkey kicked me. In my shin, I was limping
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: through the airport trying to get back to Charlotte. She
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: kicked backwards like that? Backward, yeah, because I was hot, hot,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: hot in the back of the head. Y'all, we do
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: not condone violence on this show. I was very young
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: when that happened.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Violence is sometimes necessary.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: And I was attacked, so I was defending myself. I
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: did not start anything. Let me just put that out there.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: It's necessary sometimes.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: I was attacked in a rental dress.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: I was so mad. I was so mad. I had
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: rented this $ 2, 000 dress for the night so I could
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: be a bad bitch for the night in that dress.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: And it was one of my friends beef.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't even know these girls. They were actually girls
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: from New York. And my friend was like, oh, yeah,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: me and this girl got a situation or whatever. We
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: don't get along. We're in a VIP, chilling, having a
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: good time. I'm sparkly in my little rental dress. And
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: the girl and her friend walk up. And, you know,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I'm watching because I know it's smoke between them. And, y'all,
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: this is a long time ago. Okay, so we're in
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: the promoter section or whatever. They come over. They talking
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: to the promoter. We're sitting on the top of the couch.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: One of them climbs up into the couch. The other
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: one is on the floor. So she keeps bumping into
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: my friend, like, on purpose, for real. So my friend
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: was like, please stop bumping me. Nothing disrespectful. Please stop
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: bumping into me. So then I stood up. But not
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: stood up like on no aggressive shit. I just stood
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: up because there's a lot going on. So I stood
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: up because I was I was vulnerable sitting right when
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: I stood up. The friend that was standing on the
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: floor punched me in the face as soon as I
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: stood up.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: God damn on go on go.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: Just as soon as I stood up, the bitch hit
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: me in my face. But little did they know they
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: thought it was just me and my homegirl in the section.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: It was six of us.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: We just, like, me and my homegirl were sitting next
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: to the promoter. My sister was right next to me
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: sitting on the couch. And then I had four homegirls
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: sitting on the other. It was a big-ass couch.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: So I got hit.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: I turned. I got hit.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: My sister was like.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: You hit my sister, bitch.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Boom. Right in the side of her face. And it
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: was just on. It was a melee in that bitch.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: The promoter just got up and walked away. He's just like.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: This is ratchet.
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: I'm disgusted.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was disgusted because that's not why I came.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: I came to have a good time.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: Did you fuck them people dress up though? Yes.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Did you return it fucked up? I had to pay
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: for it. It was ruined. It was ruined.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: You should have took them to court for that dress.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: That would have been a nice ass Judge Joe Brown
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: or one of them judges. I should have. I should have.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Because I think the girl actually was like an executive
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: for Hennessy or something like that.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, no. Girl, I would have ran a muck on
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: her ass. You hear me?
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I should have.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: The girl who hit you? Yeah. Oh, no. Bitch, when
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: I tell you. The man letter. I would have sent
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: that bitch a demand letter so fucking fast.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: And I think she got on Twitter talking about like, oh, yeah,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: her red bottle was fake because it was rubbing off.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, ho, I rubbed that shit off
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: on your forehead, bitch.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: The red bottom?
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: The red was rubbing off on her ass. Yeah.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: Red bottom comes off the shoe. That doesn't stay that way.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: We talking about beating bitches up for Women's History Month.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: This is awesome. It's a part of women's history. All
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: my life I had to fight. Why, Ayanna?
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: We don't do that anymore here at We Talk Back.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: That is a story from very early, like late 20s
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: in Miami, so.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: Shit, I love stories. That was funny as hell, man.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: But girl, leave that nigga. Right. Man, we need to
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: do like a little speed dating. Speed friends. We're going
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: to do a speed dating and speed friends.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: What's the speed friends? Like making girlfriends?
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, that would be nice.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: We can host that in Charlotte.
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: Fuck a date.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Let's do speed friends for Women's History Month. I'm here
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: It's lit.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Do you have any last words? I feel like that's
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: a new segment we need to add to the show.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: Like since we talk back and we always got to
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: have the last word.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: Last words. Love your sisters. Love your women. Love the
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: women in your life. Call them today and give them
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: some nice words of encouragement because we be going through it.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: We be going through it. Call your friends. Call your mama.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: Call your aunt who been fucking with her baby daddy
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: for the last 35 years. You mean shit like Call
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: all the women you love. That's my last word.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: Call your homegirl that's still shouting her baby daddy out.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: Talking about 16 years and she could shine. Call her.
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: She needs some love. And rock her ass.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: She needs some love. And also, show love to our
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: trans women. Because I have friends who are trans women.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: And I love y'all. So, you know, I'm still trying
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: to understand. I don't get it all the way yet.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: And that's okay. I want to. And we got love
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: for y'all too. So, love everybody out here. Women's mom.
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: Yay. That was nice. You're so smart. Anyway, y'all, I
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: enjoyed this episode. If you enjoyed this episode, please tune
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: in every Thursday on your iHeartRadio app or wherever the
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: fuck you get your podcast at. It's your co-host, AJ Holiday.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: Y'all follow me on Instagram. It's AJHoliday2. 0. Check out wetalkbackent.com.
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: What do you got, Tam?
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: What else? I'm OfficialTamBam on Instagram. Y'all follow me. I
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: love y'all. Once again, I want y'all to know that
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: I really do love y'all. And I appreciate y'all so
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: much for tuning in every week and talking shit with
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: us and trying to learn and understand with us. I
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. Remember to speak now.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace. Deuces.