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Season 2 - Episode 140 - Doubt and forcing an outcome · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Who voices of Doubt. Boy, these are an interesting
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  little thing and I hadn't experienced myself this week
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  with it. Because, you know, you think you
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  have some of these handled, you're in the middle of some
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  pressure project, we are trying to put together, some new and
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  exciting things that are going to be coming out in about a
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  month and I had to come up. I was tasked with the assignment
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  of coming up with a domain name for something and I was just
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  like, okay I'm diving in. I'm excited, I sat down at the
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  counter, I was ready to do it. I had my papers all spread out
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  and six hours later, I'm still sitting there and I'm ready to
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  rip my hair out by the roots. I'm saying, oh my God, there's a
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  stream of - like things coming out of my mouth including
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  something that sounded like I certainly need to kill it at
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  this point which was so Not like me to get like that but I didn't
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  anticipate. When I sat down to do it, the
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  amount of energy, it was going to take to come up with
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  something because everything that I came up with that I liked
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  was either already taken or it was it parked domain with a
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  ridiculous name and they are charging premiums for it, which
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  I just hop on principle. It's the wrong thing to do, but
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  they do it and there's no way I'm going to partake in it.
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  So needless to say, six hours later I'm sitting there,
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  Frustrated swearing really irritated that I can't come up
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  with something and I couldn't tell you if I was more irritated
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  with the situation myself, I couldn't tell you particularly
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  what was causing that level but I could just tell you overall it
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  was not a great feeling and then I was like, okay pause I get up
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  like okay, what can I learn in this moment?
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  What do I need to do? I need to shake this off.
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  I need to go somewhere. I need to get out of here for a
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  little while. So we went out, we had some
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  Mexican food which is awesome and came back, get on the phone
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  with my friend. And I'm like, okay, I'm thinking
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  she starts brainstorming With Me.
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  Now, mind you anytime I talk to my friends about this stuff, I
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  feel better because they typically I keep a very tight
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  Circle and I don't discuss things with people.
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  As I've said many times on here unless they're trusted resources
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  and the ladies, I talked to our trusted resources, they're not
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  coming at anything negatively. That being said, she starts with
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  me, we keep going back and forth and we can't get it.
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  Everything that we come up with is taken or it's like meth.
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  It's not great. So, in this situation and we've
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  all been there, it doesn't matter if we're talking about a
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  domain name or what not. The thing that I recognized the
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  thing that I kept doing was going.
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  Ah. So this was demonstrating the
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  energy. I was at because once I got into
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  it I had been in this state for so long.
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  I'm not used to being in that state.
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  It's not a place. I go to regularly and as I'm
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  doing it it's not getting any better.
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  My friends. It's just getting worse and
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  worse and worse. So I'm sitting there and I'm
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  repeating the same things that are the problem over and over
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  and over again. Which we know is not going to
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  Into success. So finally, I say to her,
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  listen, we'll take care of the kids.
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  I'm going to just get up, I'm gonna go take a shower, I'm
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  gonna break my state, I'm going to come up with something and
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  then I sat there, I hung up with her.
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  And I sat there for a second. I was like, my state is so far
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  off. It's, it's like, I my got off my
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  bus and I ran down the street because I was so frustrated.
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  So, I picked up. I said, you know what?
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  I'm just going to read a little bit and I picked up and I
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  grabbed a book from Neville Goddard and I Started reading it
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  which I've read bazillion times but it doesn't matter.
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  It always resets me. So I started reading it, just
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  random Pages flipping, random Pages, random Pages, got myself
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  to feel better. This is the key, I started to
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  like okay the chatter in my head started to diminish and then I
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  started to feel somewhat better so then I went and I took the
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  shower, I came back from taking the shower, I felt much better
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  because I was out of my head that whole time.
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  So I was just Nope, I'm not thinking about it.
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  Every time I had would start to spin I go.
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  No, I'm not thinking about it. No, I'm not thinking about it.
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  Nope, I'm not going to think about this.
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  I'm not going to think about this.
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  What I'm going to do is focus on seeing it as if it's done,
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  seeing it as if it's done, seeing the project as if it's
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  done. But at this point it was not as
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  hard as it was earlier and I had a little bit more control over
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  that chatter the - chatter of doubt.
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  And then all of a sudden, boom, something popped into my head.
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  I Checked. It it was available.
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  I texted my friend. She's like oh when you know,
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  when you get the ooh text, you're like, all right, I'm on
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  to something so needless to say, I broke the pattern but nothing
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  was going to happen. While I was in that pattern.
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  Nothing was going to happen. I wasn't going to come up with
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  something because you can't force it that phrase when
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  someone says oh you know you just can't think about don't
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  force it and we agree with that principally but the As we go off
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  and we keep trying to force trying to force and all
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  afternoon for about of those six hours that I sat and worked on
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  it. I will tell you without question
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  about five of them maybe four and a half of them were me
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  trying to force it because I had I was already frustrated because
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  I have a tendency to be able to walk in and go.
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  Boom, I got it. Boom, I got it and this time I
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  didn't have it. So it was really freaking me out
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  that I couldn't get it. At pissing me off more than
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  freaking me out. But well, actually, it was a
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  little bit freaking me out because I was so I was in a
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  hurry. I wanted to get it done.
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  I wasn't in the right state of mind.
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  Everything I was doing was wrong, and that's why I wasn't
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  getting it. So once I relaxed and I was able
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  to do it, we were there. So I just want to point out to
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  you even when you think, you know, this stuff.
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  Even when you think you have it you have to still shake off the
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  negative energy. Listen to the doubt, listen to
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  doubt when doubt shows up like that and it keeps coming.
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  And your voice is like, I'm never gonna get this, I'm never
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  gonna get this. Oh my God.
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  What the hell is going on, right?
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  When you start doing those things, that's the sign for.
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  Go take a break. Don't be a dumbass.
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  So hopefully, this is helpful. Hopefully, you got my point and
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  don't have any doubtful thoughts today like that.
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  Just don't let them wear you down.
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  All right, my friends. I will see you tomorrow.
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  Bye.