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Family Fighting Over Property & Money - The Alobas & The Okafors · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Bouncer
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  Laurencia. How are you doing?
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  Hope you're doing great. Now for today's episode I want
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  to talk about two issues or give to update regarding the story of
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  Mobad and the story of Nollywood actor ailing actor John Okafor
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  also known as Mr Ibu. Now let me tell you more bad As
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  we all know, I think this is one of the most controversial
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  passing of a young person. He was 27 years old when he
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  passed and ever since the day he was announced that he passed on,
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  it has been from 1 controversy to the other.
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  He went from Naira Mali and Sam Larry to Prime Boy to now the
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  family fighting over. I don't know if it's property.
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  I don't know if it's like listen family Matawalu they finish now.
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  Well that's that has been accusing the wife of infidelity.
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  According to him his son Mobad before his passing told him that
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  the wife has been sleeping with Malian group or Malian members
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  as in huge she would drop in and then go and have fun with other
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  people. So the man or mobile's father is
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  demanding for a DNA test on the son's seven month old son.
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  He was 5 when mobile passed. So for the past two months
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  Mubarak's father has been demanding for a DNA test on the
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  son Liam. Now people, I think one of the
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  the people that brought this to the forefront was the very dark
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  black man who came out and said we have to look at everything.
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  We have to look at the fact that more bad complain about his
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  wife. There were voice messages or
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  chats online that was released online saying that mobile
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  complained about his wife's infidelity.
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  Now the father took it with different level and said that
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  she has been sleeping around like he granted interviews.
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  You know, talking about how bashing her, basically saying
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  that she has been sleeping, drugging her son, sleeping in
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  different people. He was so raw in that interview
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  and people were thinking this man, your son died, you buried
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  him within 24 hours. You didn't even talk about
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  getting justice for your son. Now you're talking about his
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  wife. So people narrowed it down to
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  property because he has always talked about property, mobile
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  property, and they bought properties in the wives, mothers
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  name. Now this has been going on both
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  on social media, in the police station, in the courtroom where
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  everybody's mudslinging mobas. Dad is complaining about the
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  wife. In fact, the latest court
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  hearing Mubarak's dads girlfriend was kind of detained
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  because according to them, she was disrupting the whole course
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  process. So as this whole thing was going
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  on, Nollywood actress, yeah, And Mubarak's best friend Bella was
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  asking for him to be released. Because like you all know some
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  Larry and Naira Marley, they've been granted bail.
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  They are free now while Prime Boy, the auxiliary nurse,
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  they're still in detention. So since Naira Mali and Sam
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  Larry has been released Total decay and he Abuja plus Bella
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  tweeted that they should release Mubarak's body for burial.
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  That since the autopsy has been concluded, they should release
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  the body for burial. Now as this whole thing was
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  going on, Mubarak Stad released a video saying that nobody
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  should touch his son. Nobody should bury his son
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  without his content That and he was.
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  He's almost get justice before he's buried.
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  That's a DNA test must be conducted before his son is
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  buried. So you could see there is a
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  whole lot of issues going on internally in their family.
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  Before you could say Jack Roberts wives sister came out
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  and gave her own interview. She said that and they should
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  ask Mobas that. I said everybody is just
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  pointing accusing fingers at everybody.
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  She is insinuating that Mubarak's dad knew something
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  that happened because he he buried him within 24 hours.
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  Now why would he do that? So we are just sitting down
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  spectators looking at this whole thing thinking the whole bone of
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  contention here is just prophecy.
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  Because according to Mumbai's father, the properties were
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  bought in Mobiles Wives mums name.
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  But now they are saying that the property is in Liam's name.
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  Now Mubarak's dad wants a DNA test to be conducted before his
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  son is buried just to make sure that we all know what was going
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  on. Now the Nigerian police released
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  a statement saying that they have asked mobiles that to come
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  and carry the body for burial and since then that he has not
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  shown up. Mombasa on the other hand, he's
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  saying that he's not going to bury his son until he DNA test
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  is being conducted. Now you see now look at this
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  whole thing that you'll be like, OK, eat this money saying that
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  the DNA tests should be conducted.
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  I mean DNA tests, I don't think it's over 250,000 naira, you
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  know, for a DNA test and it's just Liam.
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  So it's not like they have five children.
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  So why not conduct a DNA test? We know that previously it's
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  been reported that Women, which is Mubarak's wife, has done a
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  journey test. I understand, you know, some
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  people are saying that this has got nothing to do with the case,
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  but if everybody is now saying, OK, the case has been concluded
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  or the autopsy has been concluded, they should bury
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  Mubarak. He should not be lying there.
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  And the father is saying that because according to the story,
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  the father was the one that has to sign for the release of the
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  body. And Mobile's mother made a video
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  saying that she had asked the father to release the body for
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  burial and he's refusing. So my own thought is, if the
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  bone of contention is a DNA test, why wouldn't Woomi just do
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  it in a test if there's nothing to hide?
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  If the child actually belongs to more bad, I know people are
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  saying that OK, she doesn't want him to have access to the child.
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  Just get a DNA body. We did a company or a DNA
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  hospital. I don't know how he's being
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  condoned, but just you can contract these things.
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  Somebody, a professional medical professional, can come take
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  samples from Leah. We already have samples from
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  Mubarak. Or if they don't want to take
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  samples from Murbad, they can take from the dad and conduct a
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  DNA test. Or take sample from Mumbai's mum
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  and conduct a DNA test so that this can be ascertained.
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  Now if a DNA test is being conducted and the result is out
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  and Mubarak's dad is still insisting on not burying his
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  son, then I can understand he has all that it's ulterior
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  motive. But at this present time, he is
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  saying that a DNA test should be conducted before his son is
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  being buried now. Mubarak's wife on the other hand
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  were me three DNA tests to avoid all this.
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  You know it is just ridiculous at this point because this guy
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  suffered when he was alive and now you guys are just dragging
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  the whole thing for your for your own mental health, for your
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  own sanity, do it in a test. You don't have to get him
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  involved. You can get a different
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  conducted PR company or a lawyer or whatever.
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  I don't know how it's being done, but just make sure that
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  you are not in contact with him. Mubarak body is there, he
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  generates is being conducted. Make it transparent.
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  Tell everybody yes, we've done a DNA test.
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  This is the result of the DNA test.
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  If the man wants to choose the hospital, he can choose the
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  hospital. But there has to be a second
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  confirmation and the fact that more bats autopsies already in
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  America. You guys can do the DNA test in
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  America just to just to make sure that nobody, there's no
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  fishy, nothing fishy going on. So I would say do it in a test
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  just to avoid all this whole drama.
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  Anyway, that is that a mobile case.
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  Now the next topic I'm going to be talking about is the topic of
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  John Okafor, Mr Ibu and his family drama.
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  Now as we all know, so he poo is currently in the hospital
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  receiving medical care. His one leg, I don't know if
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  he's the right, right or the left one, has been cut off
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  because of the challenges that he's been having.
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  And according to the story, every two days his medical bill
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  is about 5-4 or five million naira.
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  So it's kind of a real occurring thing and people have donated
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  money. Now Mr Iqbal's wife wants access
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  to the money or wants transparency.
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  According to what she's saying. She says she doesn't want access
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  to the money but she wants transparency.
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  Jasmine, on the other hand, is saying that the reason why she
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  wants access to this money is because she wants to do BBL.
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  She wants to buy a car so that she can be going through to the
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  hospital. She wants to leave baby girl
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  life because she's saying that she's too young and all that.
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  Now a lot of people came online and debunked that, saying that
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  oh, why is Jasmine inserting herself in a family that she
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  doesn't have any right to? Yes, she's an adopted daughter,
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  but according to the story, Mr Ibu actually gave rights or
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  signed the rights to his son to manage the donation.
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  So Jasmine, on the other hand, doesn't have access to that
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  money. But according to what we're
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  hearing, Jasmine has married Mr Abu Son.
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  Oh, oh. Now the reason for the marriage,
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  according to what they're saying, is that Jasmine wants to
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  travel out and they need, you know, she needs to travel with
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  somebody, let's say as independence or something.
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  And because she draw, she trusts, according to the story,
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  she trusts Mr Abel son. So they came together and said
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  OK, let's just get married as he let's get married and travel as
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  a couple that will help them, you know settle in their new
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  location or whatever. Now according to this story
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  again the money that they're going to use for this travel is
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  the money donated for Mr Ibus health or medical bills.
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  Now the wife is angry because she's saying that why is she
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  being left out? She doesn't have access to this
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  money. She needs access.
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  She too, she needs to play her life because she's a baby girl.
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  That said this is her husband. She needs access to the money
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  that where she's staying in the house.
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  She she actually complained about the house Mr Abuse house
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  like last year or something when they had the issue with Shea and
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  herself and her husband. So now another video surface
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  where she's claiming that she doesn't have accommodation.
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  She's now requesting for 300 million from the money donated
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  to buy a house. According to her Jasmine and Mr
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  Abel son Devin bezzle 300 million and she has arrested
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  them basically so that they can give her access to the money
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  because according to her Jasmine and Mr Ibbotson, they're just
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  spending the money. According to her they've spent
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  300 million. So she needs her own share of
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  that money so that she can buy a house that she's homeless.
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  She needs. Please Nollywood actor, which is
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  in media who kinda don't know surname, recorded a video where
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  she was. According to them, she is
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  homeless, sleeping in the hospital chairs.
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  So she needs money from the donation to go and buy a house.
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  Looking at this whole thing is just so ridiculous that this man
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  is still sick in the hospital. People are still donating,
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  praying for him to get well while the families are just
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  sitting down arguing over money, poverty mentality.
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  Now the reason why I want to marry these two kids, mobiles
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  case and Mr Abuse case is because it is poverty mentality.
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  Especially when you come from a humble background and then
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  somebody one person start making money.
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  What happens is every other person relax and expect that
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  person to be responsible for all their upkeep.
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  You know, emergencies and all that.
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  They expect you to do this and do that for them not minding
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  that. OK.
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  There is a possibility that this person won't.
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  They will not be there. Well, I think in Mubarak's case,
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  nobody. He's 27 years old, so nobody was
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  thinking that he's going to pass on that soon.
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  Now the father is fighting his wife for property.
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  Mr Ibu is still alive, though he cannot earn more money because
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  his craft, he needs to work to earn money.
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  Now he's not earning any money and he's currently sick.
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  So people are donating money for him to even get well.
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  Now the family, because they are all reliant on his money, are
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  still trying to get whatever they can from the monies that
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  people have donated for him to use and pay his mental medical
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  bills. Poverty mentality.
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  Poverty. Now, if the only lessons that
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  anybody is going to learn from this thing is that regardless of
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  who is successful in your family, go out there and get
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  something for yourself. Because if you don't, whether
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  parents, whether siblings, whether cousins, you're going to
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  wake up one day. That person is not going to be
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  there. So what do you do?
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  Are you going to come out online and start fighting your
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  children's husband or your children's wife or, you know,
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  fighting for money when somebody is still alive?
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  In Mr's case, how is that going to play out?
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  People shoot this, you know, it's not even about money.
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  It's not even about having money.
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  It's not even about not having money.
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  It's the mindset that you are supposed to inherit somebody
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  else's money. It's the mindset that somebody,
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  even a sick person, is supposed to take care of you is the
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  mindset of Mr Abbott's wife. That's OK.
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  My husband is sick. They've donated money for my
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  husband. I need that money to do BBL.
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  I need that money to buy a house.
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  I need that money to still maintain my lifestyle,
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  regardless of whether he's sick, regardless of how, how his
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  health. He's not even he's still here.
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  He still need medical attention. Nobody knows how long or
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  everybody just wants to grab what they can at the moment,
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  regardless of the situation at hand.
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  Poverty mentality. The worst thing that can happen
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  to anybody is to have a poverty mindset.
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  Poverty mindset is when you think that somebody has made it
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  from your family. You don't need to do anything.
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  You're supposed to just take care of you.
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  What if something happens to that person?
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  What are you going to do? Pre Against Poverty mindsets he
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