Latest / Anchored by the Sword / A Love Letter to Redemption: Daniel Roebuck on Faith, Hollywood & The Hail Mary!
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- 0:00Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Anchor by the
- 0:02Sword podcast. I pray that today's episode will
- 0:05leave you encouraged and also challenged in your faith.
- 0:08And I pray that. You would take the stories.
- 0:12That are talked about here today and share them with other
- 0:16people. Thank you so much for joining me
- 0:19and enjoy today's episode. Hey guys, welcome to this
- 0:23episode, the Anchor by the Sword podcast.
- 0:25I am excited today to introduce you guys to Daniel Roebuck and
- 0:29he has a movie that just recently came out called Hail
- 0:32Mary, and you may recognize him from some other TV movies and
- 0:39other fun stuff. So I'm so excited to hear your
- 0:42story. Daniel, thank you for joining me
- 0:43today. Thank you, Gina.
- 0:46I'm so happy to be here. I'm very excited.
- 0:49Yeah. Can you tell my listeners a
- 0:50little bit about yourself? Well, I'm a father of two
- 0:55wonderful kids, a husband of a wonderful wife.
- 0:58I am a practicing Catholic and this movie we're talking about
- 1:02today is my love letter to the nuns who helped raise me.
- 1:06And I just, you know, I've done 4 movies that have a faith
- 1:11element and I do believe, Tina, that God led me through all the
- 1:16success that I've had so that I could be here today telling his
- 1:20stories. Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:23So let's talk about your personal testimony.
- 1:27Sure. I, I mean, generally I, I kind
- 1:30of lead with my faith. Hopefully.
- 1:32I used to say my, I hope my face is familiar to you because I've
- 1:36been in hundreds and hundreds of movies, the television show.
- 1:39But lately my faith might be familiar as well.
- 1:42When you grow up in Catholic school, you know, you're, you
- 1:44grow up in a ritual of, of worshipping specifically praying
- 1:52constantly. And as I got older, I moved to
- 1:57Hollywood. You know, sometimes it's hard to
- 1:59get to church every week. But whenever I've been single,
- 2:02I've had all the churches. So when I wake up Sunday
- 2:05morning, I'd have the bulletins. I'd be like, what?
- 2:08OK, I'll go to this one. You know this one today.
- 2:12So I've just, I've always found a great peacefulness in my
- 2:18faith. And I'll say lately as I get
- 2:21older, communion to me is such a, a fascinating enterprise, so
- 2:26unique in the, in the Catholic tradition.
- 2:29And I, I find it so gratifying that I can take communion and
- 2:33it, I, I do feel like there is a, a really great change that
- 2:38happens. So, you know, and now I make
- 2:43these movies like I don't have a pulpit because I wasn't chosen
- 2:47to be a priest or pastor as chosen to be a filmmaker.
- 2:51And that's, I think a desire God's put in me to be a
- 2:55storyteller since I was a very little boy.
- 2:57So now I use the movies to exemplify God's great love for
- 3:05all of us. I love it.
- 3:07Have you always walked in your faith?
- 3:12Well, I certainly try to. I, I think with these are
- 3:14conversations we could have on this, although I'm not afraid to
- 3:17have them elsewhere. I think demons are very much I,
- 3:22you know, I remember being on the set, I was hearing an actor
- 3:26with a serious regular time, you know how I'm doing.
- 3:28These idiots, you know, they believe in the devil.
- 3:32And he was going to make a documentary with his money about
- 3:34how believing in the devil is stupid.
- 3:37And all I kept thinking is, could you spend a lot of time
- 3:39with your guest on a show? I kept thinking, yeah, but the
- 3:42devil's stupid. And he's, he's got you right
- 3:45where you want you, boy, Especially if you're going to
- 3:48spend your money to, to, you know, tell people he doesn't
- 3:52exist. Do I always live my faith, boy,
- 3:57I try and I fail. I am a Sinner.
- 4:01I am a Sinner and then I try to fix it as I get older.
- 4:07What happens, Gina, is you don't don't you start saying I want, I
- 4:11don't want that person to feel bad.
- 4:13So I'll fib about that. And then, you know, then you're
- 4:17fibbing and then you're fibbing in business and then free.
- 4:20And and it doesn't always, you know, lead to degradation, but
- 4:24it leads to degradation of you, right?
- 4:27It leads to your, your diminishing your, your
- 4:31godliness, that or the, the God within you.
- 4:36So, yeah, as I've gotten older, I've really even, no matter
- 4:40sometimes it's hard to tell people the truth.
- 4:41It's hard to say I'm not coming to your play because the last
- 4:46three plays I went to were terrible.
- 4:48And you know, you have no understanding of what's good and
- 4:52what's bad. So I can't give you another
- 4:54three hours from my life. Sometimes it's hard to say that
- 4:58to people and nobody wants to hear the truth sometimes.
- 5:01But can I tell you an interesting story?
- 5:06And this is not throwing a guy under a bus, but especially in
- 5:09terms of your faith in Hollywood.
- 5:11So what you have to know is a Christian person or person of
- 5:15faith, you know, you're a Jewish person or whatever.
- 5:21If you lead with your faith, that is exactly how you will be
- 5:26judged. So if you're going to lead with
- 5:28your faith, man, you better be 100% committed to it.
- 5:33So we're we're one day like enough time on the location
- 5:38scout of the Munsters and now the Munsters for me, a little
- 5:42boy who grew up loving universal monster movies and loving the
- 5:46actors in them and then loving the Munsters on TV.
- 5:49And that was our daily routine. That I'm in the Munsters is
- 5:54proof that God loves me beyond a shadow of a doubt.
- 5:58He let me live my dreams. You, you might be living your
- 6:01dreams on living my dreams. So we're on a location scout and
- 6:07we're in a cemetery in Budapest. And there's a very specific
- 6:11sculpture of Jesus. And Rob Zombie made a comment
- 6:14about it. And I said, you know what?
- 6:16We're not going to have to make lightning and Thunder.
- 6:18It's just going to fall down from heaven on top of us, you
- 6:21know, because he he made a joke. Well, we're walking along and I
- 6:27say, dude, am I the only Christian on the set?
- 6:32He said, Dan, you're the only Christian we know and we study
- 6:36you like a Zulu. Now, when I told him that
- 6:40comments later, he said that is so rude.
- 6:43I hope I really didn't say that. I'm not telling the story to out
- 6:47him, telling the story to remind everyone that if you're going to
- 6:53be like a person of God, they're always watching, always, always
- 6:59someone else on the show. You know, I'm a Catholic and you
- 7:03know, it's Lent. Like now we shot at 20 Lent.
- 7:05But I have a very specific palette.
- 7:08So I've been given dispensation. I eat meat on Fridays, but I've
- 7:12given up something equally as important to me.
- 7:16And whenever the other performer said, oh, you're a Catholic, but
- 7:21I see you're reading meat on Friday like they're always
- 7:25watching you is the point of this.
- 7:28And I love these people I'm talking about and I love Rob
- 7:31Zombie. I love his creativity.
- 7:34I love his talent. God obviously loves him too.
- 7:38And I always say, you know, he doesn't really worship the
- 7:40devil, but I see his next album is called Hail Satan.
- 7:44But I, I think it's, you know, it's just a money making thing,
- 7:49although I can't, you know, it's not my place to speak.
- 7:52But I can say this about Rob Zombie.
- 7:54He's a good person and he's a kind man.
- 8:00And that's, you know, that's important to me in the long run
- 8:06when things are going bad. And one person was always like,
- 8:13dude, we're doing with the monsters.
- 8:16Dude, me and you were dreams are coming true when things were
- 8:20hard. And it is hard when you make a
- 8:22movie and the studio made it hard and whatnot.
- 8:24But the point I'm making, when we're done and done, maybe,
- 8:27maybe Rob thinks, jeez, what did Roebuck have that made him happy
- 8:34all the time? And it might occur to what I
- 8:37have. Right.
- 8:38Yeah, I don't. I don't want to cast.
- 8:41There's no aspersions, aspersions on Rob Zombie.
- 8:43He's a good guy. I'm giving exempt exemplary
- 8:47stories, but there's 100 exemplars.
- 8:50I spent a lot of time on Hollywood sets looking at my
- 8:52shoes because people talk and you can't.
- 8:56You know what? By the way, I something that's
- 8:59very important is you're sometimes called to witness and
- 9:04not be a witness. You're in your in your
- 9:08witnessing. You're showing vehement
- 9:10disagreement with their point of view by just listening proves
- 9:16that you're one step ahead. And so it's important.
- 9:21Others might argue that you always have to push back.
- 9:24No, I don't believe that's true. I think sometimes you have to
- 9:27let the truth out and let it lie there and let them boil in the
- 9:33absurdity of it. You don't always have to say
- 9:38Jesus, God, Jesus, God. Sometimes you just listen and
- 9:41say thank you for explaining that.
- 9:43I'm, I'm hearing what you're saying, yeah.
- 9:47Does that make sense? Yeah, it does, because sometimes
- 9:51you can be so forceful that it can turn people away.
- 9:55Right and then and then you're doing the opposite of what he
- 9:57needs you to do. What he needs you to do is to be
- 10:01a witness and to and to and have people go well, he's acting like
- 10:06Jesus would act. You know, we only have all the
- 10:09conversations in the Bible, in the New Testament, Jesus is only
- 10:15rebuking people very few times He's correcting people, but he's
- 10:21only rebuking them in the temple when they're selling things.
- 10:24He's correcting, He's reminding, but he's not yelling at them.
- 10:28Nobody, nobody learns anything by being young, Brad.
- 10:31No, I wish all every father in America knew that.
- 10:35Yeah, I, I agree with that. So when you're going through a
- 10:41different trial or you're at the point where you're kind of
- 10:45thinking about you're on a set and you're like, OK, I need to
- 10:49stay anchored to this verse. What would that verse be?
- 10:54Those who humble themselves will be exalted.
- 10:59That's extraordinarily important as an actor because in the 1st
- 11:06place, you're already, well, you're an actor, so you're
- 11:09already nuts, right? And then you're arguing on
- 11:13behalf of a person who's not you, who doesn't really exist.
- 11:20And you're like, no, my guy, this is what my guy would do.
- 11:25But your guy doesn't exist. And you know, as a director, you
- 11:31know, I spent a lot of time letting actors kind of find and
- 11:36it's important that they define the person to the extent that
- 11:40they want to play them because they can only be believable if
- 11:43they're comfortable playing the character.
- 11:45Even even an awful evil character as I played many you,
- 11:48you've got to be comfortable playing him or it's going to
- 11:51reek of self sabotage and you won't feel it's authentic.
- 11:57But I the hardest thing for an actor to do is to know when not
- 12:04to speak because you're there and this guy's saying this and
- 12:10this guy's saying that and they're talking and it's got
- 12:14nothing to do with you. And eventually an actor will
- 12:18just start saying, let me tell you what I think, but nobody
- 12:22needs their opinion. That's not how it works.
- 12:27And I'm constantly saying to people, hold up, let this is
- 12:31between that and brother. And sometimes you're an actor
- 12:33and you're in the center of the tornado and you're listening to
- 12:37the DP, the director of photography say, you know, I
- 12:41want that light 10 feet lower. And the gaffer saying I I've
- 12:51only got 3 yards and maybe 1 little other piece to lower it.
- 12:57And you're like, well, that's the same gosh darn thing, you 2
- 13:01idiots, you know, but they're fighting about it.
- 13:05And you're hearing that. I mean, that's a really dumb
- 13:07example, but you know, you're, you're hearing everything.
- 13:12And so for the 40 years that God put me literally in the in front
- 13:18of the greatest directors in the last 50 years of Hollywood, in
- 13:21front of the greatest screenwriters, in front of the
- 13:23greatest actors, I've I've stood in the middle of the maelstrom
- 13:28and I've watched them all and I've learned from them all.
- 13:31And the mistakes they make, I don't make.
- 13:34And the all the grand stuff they do, I steal.
- 13:39I steal all their good ideas and I take none of their screaming
- 13:42and yelling. There you go.
- 13:45I've, I've learned to do that as a nurse as well because I'm a
- 13:48nurse by trade. So I have learned that as well.
- 13:51When you get when you get doctors arguing with each other,
- 13:55you just kind of sit there and go, I'm not going to get in the
- 13:57middle of this because I want nothing to do with this unless
- 13:59they ask me. And then you get rid of the bad
- 14:03stuff that they said and everything.
- 14:05And then just try and remember the good and steal it for your
- 14:07own practice what you can do. Right.
- 14:10Steal. Well, thank you for your
- 14:12service. We have our daughter-in-law to
- 14:14be just became a nurse. We're very proud of her.
- 14:17That's awesome. My, my, my, my son's lady.
- 14:21Yeah. Especially doctors, you know,
- 14:23they have egos like actors. So, you know, you can't tell.
- 14:28Tell them that they're wrong. Yeah.
- 14:32That it's just funny when you're in the middle and you're hearing
- 14:35stuff. What an interesting life we
- 14:38have. You know, the everybody has a
- 14:40minefield. Actors aren't the only ones.
- 14:42Directors aren't the only ones. Look, a nurse, you know, a guy
- 14:46working at Arby's. We all have like these.
- 14:49We've got to we navigate and negotiate our way through life.
- 14:53Guess what? There is a playbook.
- 14:55It's called the Bible. If you read it, it will teach
- 14:58you how exactly to navigate these difficult situations and
- 15:04how also to navigate the really great ones.
- 15:07Because it's so easy to think, you know, I did it, you know,
- 15:14and do you guys have kids? No, I have 5 nephews. 5 nephews
- 15:20is probably you've and they're all boys.
- 15:22Yeah, that's God. God is God's telling you
- 15:25something. What?
- 15:28Boys. Boys, there's something wrong
- 15:30with boys. And I know that as one.
- 15:34And all this crazy thing that's been going on where these kids
- 15:38want to think they're a different sex.
- 15:40You know, a girl who says that it should be solved this way.
- 15:45A girl who says, I think I'm really a boy.
- 15:47You should say, yeah. Have you said or thought
- 15:49something really stupid 50 times a day, every day of your life?
- 15:54No. Then you're not a boy with it.
- 15:58You know, we're, we're not there's something about us.
- 16:01We're not. I mean, I and I and my new
- 16:03argument to all that, by the way, as I, I say now, have you
- 16:07ever made a child? Oh, you've never made a child,
- 16:10but you have an opinion on this. Well, I've made two of them.
- 16:13You know, I raised them, I paid for them.
- 16:15And I can tell you they're they're they're as different as
- 16:18night and day. And you, you, you will never
- 16:21convince me otherwise after. Yeah, I know with the five boys,
- 16:25they are 24 to 13 now and they do some similar things and the
- 16:32similar things that they do are stupid, but they each have their
- 16:36own. Like my night, soon to be 19
- 16:39year old. He's very intelligent, like an
- 16:41old soul, but he does stupid stuff.
- 16:44And you're just sitting there going, how can you be so smart
- 16:46yet so stupid at the same time? Like I love the head of your
- 16:50butt. I know no, my, my nephew, who's
- 16:53probably got an IQ of 220 was at the at the glasses store and and
- 17:00his mom goes, those look nice and he goes, well, I don't, I
- 17:02don't think so. She goes when he goes, well,
- 17:05like it says Perry Ellis, like I'm going to have to look
- 17:07through there she goes, She goes, don't they take that off,
- 17:12honey? You know, like, you know, I
- 17:15mean, this kid, this kid will be running Universal Studios one
- 17:19day, But that's always been him. You know, you're like, and on
- 17:25the other side of that is my son, who was not blessed with
- 17:29that, that size of an intellect is very good at reading people.
- 17:35And, and he's, he works with kids all day and he's very good
- 17:39at, you know, getting kids to compromise and understand
- 17:42because, because that's another part of the brain that's
- 17:46necessary. But yeah, yeah, boys are boys
- 17:50are nuts. I I had one of the women who
- 17:52plays one of the nuns in the Hail Mary was actually, she was
- 17:56a student teacher when I was in fifth grade.
- 17:59It's so amazing making movies in your hometown where you're
- 18:03putting this wide swath of people from your life.
- 18:06And she goes, have you ever been diagnosed with ADHD?
- 18:10And I said no, but man, would that answer a lot of questions
- 18:16why she goes? Because when you were in fifth
- 18:18grade, I wanted to shove a pencil in your head.
- 18:23So Can you imagine what kind of crazy nut I was in fifth grade?
- 18:32I, I, you know, I, I can. And I feel bad for them.
- 18:35I feel bad for them all. But those nuns stuck with me.
- 18:39Oh, that's, that's funny that I, I went to catechism when I was
- 18:44younger and I always remembered Sister Coletta.
- 18:48She was so sweet. But man, she could go.
- 18:52If somebody was giving her a hard time and it was normally
- 18:55the boys, she could knock them down a few pegs.
- 18:59Oh, yeah, it's, it's funny, when I was saying, how would I
- 19:03remember one of the boys took a swing at one of the nuns in 4th
- 19:06grade. And then we never saw him again.
- 19:09We were like, well, they took him somewhere.
- 19:12They took him somewhere and killed him.
- 19:13You know what's funny? You, you kids use catechism CCD,
- 19:18right? And I, I even, I've, I've taught
- 19:21Sunday school, I've taught CCD over the course of my life.
- 19:25And to us who went to Catholic school, the, the CCD kids.
- 19:31And, and by the way, I want to just, I'm going to say we read
- 19:34Mass the other night for Ash Wednesday and there were a lot
- 19:37of kids there at the four O clock mass.
- 19:39And I said to my sister, is this the CCD kid?
- 19:41She goes, yeah. And I I went eraser Steelers.
- 19:45That's all they are. Because you would have in your
- 19:49desk, you know, you're, it's hard because you're younger.
- 19:52You'd have your Feto bandido eraser and you'd have the thing
- 19:56you got out of Captain Crunch and you'd have your little quiz
- 19:59mobile and they'd be all on your desk.
- 20:01So, you know, you can lift your desk.
- 20:03And they were like, oh, there's my stuff.
- 20:06You put it down. And then CCD was Tuesday,
- 20:09Wednesday morning. You were always like, what did
- 20:12they take? And they always took something
- 20:16CCD Have you ever stolen some kids?
- 20:19Frito Bandido Eraser. Not no.
- 20:23You no. I I still remember the desks
- 20:26though, when you're talking about the desks that pulled up
- 20:29like that. So I'm I'm 46 so I still
- 20:32remember. Those OK, you're.
- 20:36Look, that's funny. When you said you had a nephew,
- 20:39I thought that he must be young. You look young, Gina.
- 20:41Well. Thank you.
- 20:42I'll take it. Keep it up.
- 20:45Thank you. So let's talk about Hail Mary.
- 20:49The Hail Mary filmed in my hometown, filmed in my even some
- 20:53of it at my alma mater, and the the team that my fictitious team
- 20:58plays is my high school football team.
- 21:01Oh, that's awesome. So let's talk about what the
- 21:04movie is about and what you hope people get out of the movie.
- 21:09Oh, well, the the movie is about a guy who's so down on his luck.
- 21:14He is, he is down and out and this religious sister, this nun,
- 21:22you know, he, they run into each other and she decides that he's
- 21:27her project and she's going to lead him toward his redemption
- 21:31by counting him into creating a football team for her all boys
- 21:35Catholic school. And so he's the it's he
- 21:40inadvertently puts the ID in her head and then she kind of makes
- 21:45him bring it to fulfillment. And it's, it's a buddy comedy.
- 21:50The the the religious sister and the guy are very are very
- 21:54different people, very diametrically opposed, hit heads
- 21:57a lot. And that's obviously where the
- 22:00humor is. And then, you know, it's a
- 22:05movie. So things they try to work
- 22:07things out and there's great football in it.
- 22:10We have a great young cast playing the football players, a
- 22:14great overcast playing the other nuns and the, you know, the his
- 22:18various friends and people there at school.
- 22:22And you know, what do I want people to take from it?
- 22:28Well, it's a redemption story. So I, you know, what I hope is
- 22:33people realize no matter how far you fall, our God is there to
- 22:40pick you up and he is there to hold you up and he is there to
- 22:43raise you up. And you know, you just have to
- 22:47meet him halfway. You know, you just got to come
- 22:50with, come with humility and gratitude and anything is
- 22:55possible and love of God because he doesn't ask a lot from us,
- 22:58but he does say you, you've got to remind yourself that I am
- 23:03God. I, I figured that out, by the
- 23:05way, when I was a kid. I want to talk about that.
- 23:07Can I? I always thought that was weird
- 23:09because they talked about God. God needs you to love him.
- 23:13God needs you to worship him. And I didn't get it.
- 23:17You know, he loves you no matter what.
- 23:18It's he loves you, but you have to give him this.
- 23:21Well, now we're in a world where the whole world's divided.
- 23:25Because what what this Internet social media has done is it's
- 23:31made everyone their own God. It's made them their own
- 23:34storyteller. It's made them their own
- 23:38manufacturer of false truths. Oh, look how great my life is.
- 23:43Oh, look how I live. Oh, this is the food I
- 23:46everybody's lying on the Internet.
- 23:48And God, why he did that is he wanted to remind you that you
- 23:51could not make a God of yourself.
- 23:54He is the only one true God. And I didn't get it.
- 23:58And now I get it, because now I see what people do.
- 24:02Look, I'm on the Internet and that's expected of me.
- 24:06And of course I'm there promoting the Hail Mary.
- 24:08What am I, an idiot? I spent five years making it.
- 24:12I don't get paid anything to do it.
- 24:14You bet. I want people to see it.
- 24:16I want eyes on it. But but I am not my own God.
- 24:22I am not. I am not someone who does
- 24:24anything on his own in the 1st place.
- 24:27I have a a flanks of producers that help me.
- 24:30I have a wife who does if I do 4 things she does 12 and she's not
- 24:36one to remind me of that often. Only when I need the 13th thing
- 24:40she'll tell me she's done 12. But, you know, I don't do any of
- 24:47it on my own. But then I certainly don't do
- 24:49any of it without without God himself, you know, guiding me
- 24:54and being a force of positivity and good for me.
- 24:58Absolutely, I love that and that is such a great reminder today.
- 25:03I've watched part of the movie and I'm excited to finish it.
- 25:07So when does it come out and where can people see it at?
- 25:12Yes, please. So it'll be out nationwide on
- 25:16the 27th of February. And you know, we're riding more
- 25:23theaters every day. Very hard to get an independent
- 25:25movie out. But I'll tell you who loves the
- 25:30movie, Angel Studios. So I think something good is
- 25:36going to happen there and we'll be on everywhere else, Amazon
- 25:40Prime or Apple, you know, wherever you buy movies.
- 25:44But this movie, I've made 4 faith-based Movies Now.
- 25:50I think this is our best movie and I think this is our biggest
- 25:54gut punch movie because I think this idea that you're unworthy
- 26:00of God's love is rampant. And I think that a lot of people
- 26:06really don't want the responsibility of God's love
- 26:10because they want to have an opinion.
- 26:12That's so stupid. But if there's a God, you can't
- 26:15kill a baby in a wall, you know, that's one.
- 26:19But if there's a God, you can only do that if you don't
- 26:23believe in him, if you don't believe in everything that that
- 26:26he's told us, that he's given us the value of life, the
- 26:30consideration of life, you know, I mean, and that might get me
- 26:355000 emails of people telling me I'm sexist piece of crap.
- 26:40But you know what? It's It's undeniable.
- 26:46Life is precious. It's precious.
- 26:49It is absolutely, absolutely. And I've had people on here who
- 26:54who are post abortive and the first thing they say is they
- 26:59regret it. That's the first thing every
- 27:02single person has said. And you know, and people who can
- 27:07go out there and grave the flags and say all this stuff and brag
- 27:11about having fourteen of them. And I'm like, God, just be with
- 27:14them and show them the way. Show them what?
- 27:19What is wrong with this picture? Well, imagine, and this is kind
- 27:23of what I'm talking about when we can get back to our movie
- 27:26here because it it's not a terrible Segway.
- 27:30Imagine how far they'll fall when they understand the truth.
- 27:37So, and granted, they all won't understand the truth, but once
- 27:43you do look, I, I, you know, I've, as I said in the beginning
- 27:47of this, I am a Sinner man. Once I realized how much that
- 27:53that not only was no doubt an embarrassment to God And you
- 27:57know what helped me understand it was having my own kids and
- 28:01loving them like God the Father loves us because because when
- 28:07they when they fall, if you kick them when they're down, they're
- 28:11not getting up. You have when they falter, you
- 28:19know, you can only love them like God the Father loves us or
- 28:23you lose them. And, you know, I've been in that
- 28:27situation and, you know, especially with my boy, and, you
- 28:33know, our relationship is stronger than ever because, you
- 28:37know, when things were terrible, I said your father's here.
- 28:43Yeah, and I've had to do that. It's a lesson I've had to learn
- 28:47with the boys too, because especially because they're my
- 28:49nephews and I don't have a direct hand in raising them.
- 28:53And so I've had, I've walked through times where I've been a
- 28:57little judge mental and like getting on them.
- 29:01And then I've really in the last however many years I've had to
- 29:08realize, hey, there's nothing I can do.
- 29:11My job is to pray for them. My job is to be there for them.
- 29:14And when they fall, just say, hey, what did you learn?
- 29:19And let's, let's figure this out.
- 29:21And, you know, just to just to guide them and to help them.
- 29:26Hopefully maybe someday they'll grow out of everything that
- 29:29they're doing right now. I can only pray and hope that
- 29:34someday they will grow out of it, that they'll understand just
- 29:37how much God does love them and just how much myself and my
- 29:41husband love them. Yeah.
- 29:44Yeah, people fall into crisis and and it's, it's so because
- 29:49nobody wants to be part of crisis.
- 29:50I don't, I don't like drama in my life.
- 29:54You don't like drama, but but you know, just saying, I think
- 29:59you're in crisis and I'm here when you're ready to talk and
- 30:05then something else is a psychiatrist told me once that
- 30:10I've taken and I remember this so well.
- 30:12Do not offer to help if you are not in a position to help.
- 30:18Don't say call me anytime if you can't answer the phone anytime.
- 30:21Don't say if you need money if you don't have money to give
- 30:25them. Don't, don't offer to help
- 30:27unless you can help because you're going to do more damage
- 30:31than so. You know, it's good to be in a
- 30:35position where you can help, but it's important to not over
- 30:40promise. Just an interesting thing I
- 30:42never thought about. I've really taken that to this
- 30:45day. If I'm somebody's in crisis and
- 30:47I'm going out of town, my call is I'm going to be out of town.
- 30:51I'll be back in two weeks. If you still need me, I'll come
- 30:55over. You know what I mean?
- 30:56But you don't say I can come over anytime I need you right
- 30:59now. I'm not available.
- 31:01I'm not in town. Yeah, I'm not in town.
- 31:04So. But it's interesting, isn't it?
- 31:07I mean, that's kind of the joy gene of these things.
- 31:11You know, I want want the Hail Mary to create conversation.
- 31:17That's what that's what any director would want with this
- 31:19movie. He'd want people talking about
- 31:21it, thinking about it, wondering about it.
- 31:23And that's most importantly going back again and again to to
- 31:27review it and to say, oh, I did hear that right.
- 31:30That is what he meant. But you know, so that would be
- 31:36great if that that could happen. But I love even this interaction
- 31:39you and I are having, man. It's there's nothing like
- 31:43getting to know somebody. It's and you just got to
- 31:46sometimes step out out of yourself to have conversations
- 31:52like this. But you know, I can tell you
- 31:56this also about the Hail Mary and you saw it last night.
- 31:58You will laugh, and you may not have gotten that far, but you
- 32:02will cry eventually. And, and why do I make movies
- 32:06like that? Because that's how our lives
- 32:08are. Because sometimes we laugh and
- 32:11sometimes we cry and sometimes we cry while we're laughing or
- 32:15laugh while we're crying. You know, that's just human
- 32:19nature. Absolutely.
- 32:22So I have really enjoyed our conversation today, like we
- 32:26could continue this for quite a while.
- 32:30Well, you. You you're welcome to call me
- 32:32anytime or put put me on and I'll talk about somebody else's
- 32:37movie. But but I am grateful and I, I
- 32:42to your listeners, please keep us in your prayers.
- 32:45We make these movies through a not-for-profit and this ain't
- 32:48one of them. Minnesota, not for profits.
- 32:50This is a not-for-profit where those of us who make it don't
- 32:56take any profit. Again, I don't know that that's
- 32:59a sustainable ideology, but up till this point it happened.
- 33:05But we you go to achannelofpeace.org, you can
- 33:09donate to help us make these movies.
- 33:12The next movie Gina, we're going to make.
- 33:14I'm so excited. My daughter and I are writing it
- 33:17together and it's called Men of Granite and it's about four
- 33:22grumpy old men who do the honor guard at a local cemetery and a
- 33:2620 year old kid who gets thrown into their mix because the judge
- 33:31makes him do his community service there.
- 33:34Oh, that sounds good. Of course, they don't get along
- 33:37and then everybody kind of helps everybody change.
- 33:41I think it's going to be a great move.
- 33:44That sounds awesome. Where can people keep up with
- 33:46you so that that way they don't miss that?
- 33:50So thank you. Please follow me on Instagram.
- 33:52I'm Mr. Daniel Roebuck. I'm Daniel Roebuck on Facebook.
- 33:55And because I'm old, I'm usually on Facebook more and they can
- 33:59also follow our channel of peace on Facebook and and go to
- 34:04achannelofpeace.org anytime. And there's you can see we've we
- 34:09have built an infrastructure here in the Lehigh Valley.
- 34:11We've taken kids from PAS and we made them first ADS.
- 34:15We raise everybody up. We give kids an opportunity to
- 34:19learn about film makers, to raise them up and would it be
- 34:21great if one day they all go make their own faith-based
- 34:24movies? Think of that.
- 34:26We're planting our seeds so all of that comes with the help of
- 34:30others. I can't do it alone, although I
- 34:35do as much as I can, but I definitely need help.
- 34:37And being honest and saying I need help, that's that's a fact.
- 34:41So I'm grateful. Thank you so much for taking the
- 34:44time to learn about the Hail Mary.
- 34:46And there's another movie coming out called Project Hail Mary.
- 34:49And just if you wanted to figure out which is which, theirs is a
- 34:53$300 million movie about saving Earth.
- 34:58Mine is a much less expensive movie about saving a soul, so
- 35:04that's how you can delineate them.
- 35:07Awesome. So thank you so much again for
- 35:09talking with me today. And yeah, and I look forward to
- 35:11talking again soon, and you guys have a great rest of the week.
- 35:15May God bless you and your husband and your nephews.
- 35:17Thanks, Gina. Thank you so much for joining me
- 35:21for this episode, the Anchor by the Sword podcast.
- 35:24I pray that the story. That you heard.
- 35:25Today will encourage your faith, challenge your faith, and also
- 35:29help you as you walk in your daily life.
- 35:32If this episode has done that, please.
- 35:34Feel free to. Leave a five star rating and
- 35:36review wherever you listen to this podcast so that others can
- 35:40find it and grow as well. Have a blessed week and I'll
- 35:44talk to you next episode.