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BONUS: Biggest Fears · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hello, My loves It is Wali Kent, Jessica Walter needs
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Speaker 1: to Burningham back on the mic, or the bonus episode
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Speaker 1: of Give Them a Hello, Boner Bonner. We ask you
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Speaker 1: guys what your biggest fears are for this episode, and
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Speaker 1: when we decided to use this as like the theme
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Speaker 1: of today's episode, it got me to thinking, what is
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Speaker 1: my biggest fear? Because it's like, yes, I have a
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Speaker 1: fear of spiders or like someone breaking into the house.
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Speaker 1: But you want to know my ultimate fear. I have
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Speaker 1: two My daughter becoming a drug addict, okay, or my
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Speaker 1: kids right, or my kids murdering someone.
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Speaker 2: Murdering purposely like becoming a murderer, or accidental murder or either.
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Speaker 1: Either just having Well, if you're like a murderer, we
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Speaker 1: need to talk. Yeah, well, but if you accidentally killed someone,
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Speaker 1: because I do know.
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Speaker 3: Unfortunately I know a family member that got well, not
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Speaker 3: a family member, a family a friend and their family
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Speaker 3: member was struck by a car and he passed away
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Speaker 3: and it was the driver drunk. No, he just he
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Speaker 3: was walking at night, couldn't see him and hit him.
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Speaker 3: And it's an I think it went down as just
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Speaker 3: an accidental.
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Speaker 1: Well that's not murder I'm talking about.
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Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: I'm talking about one with him.
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Speaker 4: Accidental death is even crazy.
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Speaker 1: No that, But can I tell you I have We've
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Speaker 1: talked about this before. I had a friend who in
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Speaker 1: high school was drunk driving, hit a family and killed
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Speaker 1: everybody but two people. And living with something like that
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Speaker 1: I think would be extremely difficult. But then I think
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Speaker 1: you tap into now he goes around to schools and
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Speaker 1: talks about like the importance of not drinking and driving,
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Speaker 1: not doing drugs, and it's like, okay, you paid your dues.
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Speaker 1: He definitely went to jail, and now he's come out
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Speaker 1: and he's starting to like make a difference and you know,
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Speaker 1: trying to make as much right as he possibly can.
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Speaker 1: But I'm talking about cold blooded killers. If I gave
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Speaker 1: birth to a cold blooded killer, first of all, I'd
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Speaker 1: give them my hit list. If you're gonna give it,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna do it.
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Speaker 4: Let's get.
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Speaker 1: After you take care of this list.
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Speaker 4: And I'm just kidding.
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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, but that would really shake me up,
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Speaker 1: I would think.
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Speaker 2: So my biggest fear ever, that's those are two great fears.
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Speaker 1: Could you imagine sitting in a courtroom as your child
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Speaker 1: is up there and they go through all this stuff,
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Speaker 1: like and then she put a butcher's knife into him
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Speaker 1: fifty seven times. And you're like, I just couldn't imagine
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Speaker 1: you doing this as you were calling me a stupid
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Speaker 1: bitch at the age of two. This just wasn't where
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Speaker 1: my head went.
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Speaker 3: No, I guess if Ocean goes, it's gonna be foring
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Speaker 3: off men.
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Speaker 1: This is not manifestation, by the way, We're just talking
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Speaker 1: about fears.
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Speaker 4: God.
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Speaker 1: It is very imperative universe because everything I've manifested comes
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Speaker 1: that I into the universe comes true. Got mom's calling.
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Speaker 1: We've been beefing today. You're the favorite today.
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Speaker 5: Take your winds where you can get them to.
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Speaker 1: You're the favorite today as today. Okay, what are where
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Speaker 1: were we?
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Speaker 2: We were talking about murder, ocean becoming a murderer, and
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Speaker 2: you're not man.
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Speaker 4: Any of them.
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Speaker 1: No, I'm not manifesting it. And it's imperative that God
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Speaker 1: in the universe know that I'm simply talking about my fears,
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Speaker 1: not a manifestation.
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Speaker 3: Another fear, just but being just seeing her go to
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Speaker 3: tap class. And if she's the bully, that is not
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Speaker 3: the She's not the bully, but I will that.
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Speaker 1: Is a if my kid's a bully, I think I
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Speaker 1: have a bigger fear of my kid being bullied, okay,
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Speaker 1: because then I'm gonna have to boss up on other kids.
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Speaker 1: Whereas if my daughter's the bully, like I can check
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Speaker 1: her real quick, I know how to handle it. My
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Speaker 1: fear is my kid's bullied and parents don't handle it
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Speaker 1: the way I think that they should. And now I
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Speaker 1: gotta fucking hand with your kid. And guess what, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna win your kids to be tall and I will him.
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Speaker 4: No, I will absolutely not. But even at.
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Speaker 1: At the playground, it gets intent sometimes because there's these
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Speaker 1: kids that will like bring their giant bikes up the
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Speaker 1: slide and my daughter wants to go down, and they'll sit,
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Speaker 1: you know, like the older kids. They'll just sit there
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Speaker 1: while my kid wants to go down. And then I
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Speaker 1: got a boss up. I gotta say move and then
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Speaker 1: they look at me like I'm rude, and I say,
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Speaker 1: go up or go down? Move please, my kid's going
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Speaker 1: down the side, and move your bike and I'll pick
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Speaker 1: up the bike and note it doesn't belong on the playground.
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Speaker 1: And then I look around like I hope their mom
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Speaker 1: is not like a WWE wrestler or something.
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Speaker 2: You know what, No, because that's sometimes you have to do.
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Speaker 2: That's the shittiest thing. When I used to do it
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Speaker 2: nanny all the time, I'm sitting there, especially in the
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Speaker 2: rich town I used to nanny, and I'm sitting there,
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Speaker 2: your kid is doing something obnoxious and you're just sitting
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Speaker 2: there gabbing away, or you're looking like, oh, he's so silly.
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Speaker 2: I started, like three four years in a nannying. I
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Speaker 2: would go and I'd walk up to the kid and
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Speaker 2: I'd say, that's not very nice of you to say.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know that, so you can keep going.
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Speaker 2: And the mom was right there and say something, yeah.
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Speaker 1: No, that's why I don't. I'd rather have my kid
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Speaker 1: be the bully because I can. I will check you right.
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Speaker 1: I've seen my kid not act right on the playground
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Speaker 1: and I tell her we don't act that way. So
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Speaker 1: and so wants to get up the slide, So move ocean.
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Speaker 5: So you're the moms, you're the type of mom I
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Speaker 5: appreciate it.
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Speaker 1: I was like, bravo, thank god, I don't mess around. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: contrary to what you guys se.
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Speaker 5: No, I feel like that's what we see. You don't
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Speaker 5: mess around.
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Speaker 1: I don't mess around, but I go toes and I
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Speaker 1: say really crazy shit sometimes and people love to be like,
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Speaker 1: she's such a bully, and I'm like, wow, you've seen
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Speaker 1: me fifteen hours at most, that's of an entire episode,
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Speaker 1: and suddenly you think.
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Speaker 4: You know me.
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Speaker 1: May may you don't know shit. In fact, it's really
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Speaker 1: crazy because anytime there's people who come for me in
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Speaker 1: the comments section, like on other pages, because people are
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Speaker 1: really nice and like the podcast, love reading the podcast,
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Speaker 1: But anyone who listens to the podcast really goes toes
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Speaker 1: with anybody who has something negative to say based on
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Speaker 1: what they've seen on vander Pump. So I really love
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Speaker 1: you guys for listening.
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Speaker 5: You guys are the shit. You go toes.
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Speaker 2: You freaking I've had you come to my defense, which
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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm gonna.
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Speaker 4: Need some defense. Probably I'm seeing a.
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Speaker 5: Lot of defense.
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Speaker 2: In the podcast reviews, someone said all you fucking assholes
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Speaker 2: who are calling Jessica's voice annoying And it was literally
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Speaker 2: right above a comment that was like the subject line
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Speaker 2: was Jess's voice and it was two stars, and it
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Speaker 2: just put so annoying, and the person above said, all
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Speaker 2: you trolls coming after Jess's voice, I hope she jiu
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Speaker 2: jitsues all of you.
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Speaker 4: I'll get them. I might need.
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Speaker 1: Really, people in New York came up to me talking
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Speaker 1: about your jiu jitsu and getting a kick out of it.
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Speaker 5: Get it, No, that's moy ti, But that's okay. I
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Speaker 5: get a lot of Are you.
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Speaker 4: Going to get into moy tie once you got no? I?
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Speaker 5: Oh really, I'll get into that's striking and kicking.
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Speaker 3: Because then now she knows how to you'll know how
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Speaker 3: to roll if they're like on that, and then you
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Speaker 3: get to do moy thi before they get to you
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Speaker 3: get to smack them in a so now you know both,
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Speaker 3: so like you can fight and if they get you,
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Speaker 3: you now have the ground access.
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Speaker 5: I'm up to seven mm. I literally counted this last night.
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Speaker 2: I'm up to seven or eight dms of women saying
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Speaker 2: I've tried jiu jitsu.
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Speaker 5: I'm obsessed. Thank you so much?
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Speaker 1: Do you think at the house I should put down
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Speaker 1: flooring and have someone come in and teach us. You
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Speaker 1: could be pretty slamming bodies with that stuff, right.
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Speaker 4: Also boxing, just like boxing boxing.
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Speaker 2: I want to do like a one thousand percent I
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Speaker 2: know in Okay, no, one thousand percent.
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Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.
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Speaker 4: Somebody come to the gym.
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Speaker 2: We could either go to a gym, or we can
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Speaker 2: have someone come to the house.
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Speaker 1: And we saw someone come to the house and and
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Speaker 1: set up that room and can.
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Speaker 2: We and makee hundred we're doing this.
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Speaker 4: You guys would like to know.
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Speaker 2: It's amazing your fears or fear, I guess biggest fear.
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Speaker 3: It's a huge fear and I feel like everybody has it,
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Speaker 3: but you don't know it until you're on your last breath.
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Speaker 4: It's like not reaching your full potential.
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Speaker 3: Oh you know, like looking back at it or like
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Speaker 3: have you ever heard of somebody like or the story
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Speaker 3: of when they're like when you die, you meet buddy
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Speaker 3: and like they show what your potential was that you could.
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Speaker 4: Have reached if you weren't too afraid to do.
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Speaker 1: That, or that it sounds like you're going to help.
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Speaker 5: No, I have goosebumps. It's a way shared thing of
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Speaker 5: people who have died.
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Speaker 2: And you see the flash of your life and then
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Speaker 2: you're able to see a lot of people say you see.
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Speaker 5: What you could have done? It like you're what you
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Speaker 5: did that.
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Speaker 3: You you had the thought of starting whatever brand or
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Speaker 3: this or that or doing that.
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Speaker 4: You were you were afraid failure, so you kept your
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Speaker 4: nine to five.
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Speaker 3: And then when you die, you look back and it's like,
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Speaker 3: you would have taken that chance.
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Speaker 1: You could have done this crazy Yeah, but that's what's
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Speaker 1: so hard about life is because you have bills to pay.
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Speaker 1: You know, like, people aren't going to sit around and
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Speaker 1: be like, well, we know that you have really big
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Speaker 1: goals and we think you can fulfill them, so we're
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Speaker 1: going to put this aside. You don't have to pay
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Speaker 1: anything until you reach your full potential. Not how life works.
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Speaker 1: It's freaking hard. People have all of these goals, but
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Speaker 1: they have to afford their living situation. They got to
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Speaker 1: keep the lights on, keep food on the table. It's
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Speaker 1: a lot of fucking work. So I personally don't think
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Speaker 1: that when you're on your deathbed, I just don't feel
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Speaker 1: my higher power would be like, look at how much
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Speaker 1: no found. I'm not saying I think that.
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Speaker 4: I don't think that either.
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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that's what scares me is like, will
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Speaker 3: I in my life reach my full potential? And that's
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Speaker 3: why I'm going to keep doing the things that I
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Speaker 3: want to do, and I'm not going to be afraid
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Speaker 3: of failure.
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something real quick, and I wholeheartedly
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Speaker 1: believe this as someone who is used to be afraid
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Speaker 1: of saying I am driven by money, and now I
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Speaker 1: just it is what it is. I'm driven by money.
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, when you're on your deathbed,
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Speaker 1: there's not going to be one thing that fucking matters. Okay,
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Speaker 1: whether you're my homeboy who sits outside of seven to eleven,
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Speaker 1: who is without a home, or you're Kim Kardashian, you
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Speaker 1: all are going to the same place death. Okay, it
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Speaker 1: does not matter. Sure you are. It doesn't mean you
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Speaker 1: get to go to a cooler place or live a
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Speaker 1: little longer. It just doesn't. So guess what the one
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Speaker 1: thing you need to fixate on is get the dollar
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Speaker 1: amount out of your head.
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Speaker 4: I didn't die, I'm.
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Speaker 1: Not even But you said your goals. You could have
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Speaker 1: reached your highest potential. No, what difference did you make
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Speaker 1: on this plant potential?
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Speaker 4: What I didn't bring up dollars?
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Speaker 1: You just said a brand. You just said what I.
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Speaker 4: Could have created a mark.
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Speaker 2: You could have left the mark on the world because
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Speaker 2: I'm I'm exact created.
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Speaker 3: That's why I thought you were saying, like your brand,
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Speaker 3: I don't care about money or anything.
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Speaker 4: I'm just saying what brand. I'm saying, go start a nonprofit.
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Speaker 3: The potential that you could put out into your community
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Speaker 3: that can make a mark, That's what I'm I don't
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Speaker 3: care about money. I'm saying, will my potential be reached?
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Speaker 3: And how many people can I touch with the potential
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Speaker 3: I'm giving leaving your mark on the world, that's what. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: dollar amounts away. I was using that as just a thing.
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Speaker 1: But like you were saying, like brands and ship just.
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Speaker 5: Like no, no, no, no, but sometimes brands leave the market.
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Speaker 3: Brands I mean like right, shout out to Landing Career
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Speaker 3: and you know, love Loud and all of that. Like
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Speaker 3: that is a nonprofit, but that left a huge mark
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Speaker 3: and so many people are getting amazing things out of it, right,
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Speaker 3: and like that is potential and those are the things
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Speaker 3: that like I don't want to be afraid to start
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Speaker 3: something like that because the potential could be so magnificent
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Speaker 3: for kids or people on the truck.
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Speaker 1: But do you under because you've always you've always had
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Speaker 1: this in you where like you and I love this
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Speaker 1: about you and I share this with you. We always
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Speaker 1: think so grand and if it's not grand, it doesn't
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Speaker 1: mean anything. But then you start to to think about
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Speaker 1: the like if I can just leave a mark on
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Speaker 1: a few people who then take what they learned from me,
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Speaker 1: and then they can they can start spreading, you know,
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Speaker 1: the roots a little bit further out, and it just
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Speaker 1: is like this ripple effect where you may have only
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Speaker 1: affected a handful of people, but because of the how
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Speaker 1: you affected them, they spread your word for years and
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Speaker 1: years to come.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great way.
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Speaker 2: I mean one person, you affect one person's life truly,
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Speaker 2: and also but.
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Speaker 4: I can that's purpose and that's the thing.
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Speaker 3: And if I do that, you know, that's I'm not
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Speaker 3: saying like it has to be extravagant.
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Speaker 4: My purpose is to.
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Speaker 3: Help one person and if that is one person throughout
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Speaker 3: my whole life, that's great.
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Speaker 4: I did something well, even you Easton.
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Speaker 1: I'm very proud of you because for every I want
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Speaker 1: to say, you've had many aches of the week that
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Speaker 1: have to do with animals and captivity. And I know
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Speaker 1: that we get a lot of DMS saying that you
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Speaker 1: made people deep dive into this who never would have
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Speaker 1: known what this, what that world was like before, and
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Speaker 1: now they do because you spoke about it and they
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Speaker 1: now know. We're not to places like that.
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Speaker 4: Yep.
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Speaker 1: So you are making a mark.
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Speaker 4: And shout out to the wal.
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Speaker 1: Whisper, But he's doing he's boots on the fucking ground.
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Speaker 2: People like that, like those people, the farm animal rescuers,
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Speaker 2: the dog rescuers.
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Speaker 1: God's work, God's work. What's your fear?
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Speaker 2: The same same as Eason? Not it's the same exact thing.
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Speaker 2: Like when you said I got these bumps. Not I
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Speaker 2: don't think I'll ever this will happen, but not like
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Speaker 2: being on my deathbed and being like, oh I didn't
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Speaker 2: leave a mark on the world, or I didn't live
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Speaker 2: to my potential and mine is not mine? Is really
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Speaker 2: just like when I think about what do I want
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Speaker 2: out of life, I just want to like make people
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Speaker 2: laugh and bring happiness and like bring some sort of
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Speaker 2: escapism through creative works like as of now that might change,
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Speaker 2: but and then also just like want a core group
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Speaker 2: of people, like a family and people. I'm on my
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Speaker 2: deathbed and I can be like this is these are
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Speaker 2: my people, you.
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Speaker 1: Know, But I have to imagine that when people are
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Speaker 1: on their deathbed, they're not thinking about the mark they
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Speaker 1: left on the world. I think that. I think it's
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Speaker 1: more like, did I spend enough time with with my
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Speaker 1: loved ones? There was a meaning now that I love them?
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Speaker 1: Did I say I love you enough?
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Speaker 4: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Are they going to hold on to like the fights
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Speaker 1: that we had or are they gonna hold on to
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Speaker 1: the good times? Like I feel like those are going
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Speaker 1: to be the things you fixate on because that's the
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Speaker 1: core of who you are, right, I.
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Speaker 4: Can think that as well.
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Speaker 3: But like for you on like Ocean being the bully, Yeah,
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Speaker 3: people will know, like you know because you'll check her
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Speaker 3: for me, like I'm going to say I love you enough,
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Speaker 3: So those won't be my thoughts on a deathbed, you know,
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Speaker 3: Like I know those basis.
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Speaker 1: Well, that's because we said a lot.
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Speaker 4: Well.
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Speaker 2: It's interesting because there was a meme going around that
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Speaker 2: said like all these people on their deathbed whatever were
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Speaker 2: interviewed and like, what are the things you're thinking of?
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Speaker 5: And one of the main things was.
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Speaker 2: Like I wish I didn't focus on work so much
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Speaker 2: and focused more on family.
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Speaker 5: I wish. So it is I think it's just like
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Speaker 5: that's life. Have you guys heard that.
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Speaker 2: This is a really quick off topic, but the theory
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Speaker 2: that a lot of people who have died they all
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Speaker 2: see the same light, but then they don't see anything
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Speaker 2: after it. There's a theory that after it and God
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Speaker 2: in higher power is you, and so you are basically
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Speaker 2: we're all beings in this higher power and we've all
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Speaker 2: been given the opportunity the choice do you want to
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Speaker 2: go to this? Do you want to get this experience?
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Speaker 2: It's like a second, it's split second of your life,
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Speaker 2: this human experience. You're going to feel all the emotions, pain, suffering, happiness, joy,
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Speaker 2: You're going to get this experience. In the grand scheme
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Speaker 2: of things, it's the blink of an eye, but you
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Speaker 2: get to experience this thing called life and like it's
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Speaker 2: going to be painful, amazing, and you get to experience
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Speaker 2: it as a human. And then when you die, you're
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Speaker 2: back here and we're all in the same place, and
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Speaker 2: all of us who are here.
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Speaker 5: Said, yes, this is so we don't know that.
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Speaker 2: But then afterwards, when we're we die and we're back
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Speaker 2: in this we come to realize, like this was a
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Speaker 2: choice we made, and then we get to see what
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Speaker 2: we did in the.
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Speaker 5: Short amount of time. It's like a really it's going
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Speaker 5: around TikTok.
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Speaker 2: It's a really beautiful and like Lily Reiner said something
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Speaker 2: about it, I kind of believe that where like your.
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Speaker 1: Whole life flashes before your eyes, like everything you've been through, Like.
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Speaker 2: We're all beings and we chose like me, I am,
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Speaker 2: I exist somewhere and I and I was given the
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Speaker 2: choice to like, do you want to experience this thing
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Speaker 2: of being a human And you're gonna feel pain and suffering,
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Speaker 2: but you're gonna like love and heartbreak. And I'm like,
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Speaker 2: but it's a blip of your of your existence and yes, yeah, and.
17:44
Speaker 4: Then it's just the computer shutting down.
17:46
Speaker 1: Yeah.
17:46
Speaker 5: And then you're back in wherever and you're like, why
17:49
Speaker 5: back home?
17:50
Speaker 4: Yeah?
17:50
Speaker 5: Home, And you're like, look what.
17:51
Speaker 4: I did with I believe in the high and I
17:55
Speaker 4: hope I.
17:55
Speaker 2: Make that being proud. That's what I want. I want
17:58
Speaker 2: to be able to be like good for me. You know,
18:01
Speaker 2: I think you will just I think I think that's.
18:04
Speaker 5: About the mark on the world thing, you.
18:05
Speaker 1: Know, purpose, purpose, I love it. Yeah, what are other
18:09
Speaker 1: people's fears? Sorry, I mean to cut you off.
18:12
Speaker 3: No, I was just gonna say, you know, I feel
18:14
Speaker 3: like at the very end, when you do go on
18:16
Speaker 3: to the next and that all happens and the light
18:19
Speaker 3: flashes and you see you, I feel like you see
18:20
Speaker 3: everybody in my world. You see everybody that you loved
18:25
Speaker 3: as in the best position that they were in. So
18:28
Speaker 3: Mom will see Dad very differently than I do. Right,
18:31
Speaker 3: you do, That's how I feel.
18:34
Speaker 1: I agree, Right, Yeah, That's why I can't understand when
18:37
Speaker 1: people which it's to each his own, but people who
18:41
Speaker 1: think that we just die and go into the ground,
18:43
Speaker 1: I'm like, so you think all this is for nothing?
18:45
Speaker 1: You think we experience things like childbirth or like relationships.
18:51
Speaker 1: But then again, I'm coming from a place of like
18:53
Speaker 1: having a very beautiful life, and there are people who
18:55
Speaker 1: have had very rough goes, so I could understand if
18:58
Speaker 1: people who haven't had a privileged life like I have
19:04
Speaker 1: would think there's nothing right looking out for me. So
19:08
Speaker 1: I think it depends on where you come from. That's
19:11
Speaker 1: one hundred percent tro All right, what are other people's fears?
19:14
Speaker 5: This one cracks me up.
19:15
Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna say this is real, though there's
19:17
Speaker 2: a lot of deep ones. Cracking an egg and a
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Speaker 2: chicken coming out ah.
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Speaker 5: Could you imagine that being a fear? That's horrifying.
19:27
Speaker 1: I think he's kind of cute.
19:28
Speaker 4: Kase I knew, well now you're yeah, now you got
19:30
Speaker 4: to get an incubator.
19:32
Speaker 1: Kiss Sanderson.
19:32
Speaker 4: You're a mother to this thing that's.
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Speaker 5: A fear cracking an egg.
19:36
Speaker 1: And I was, I'm like, chicken coming out. I'm obsessed
19:38
Speaker 1: with this.
19:38
Speaker 5: I'm obsessed.
19:39
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with this person.
19:41
Speaker 4: Remember when we had chickens in elementary school pets?
19:45
Speaker 2: I remember when I put in grabbed an egg from
19:47
Speaker 2: the fridge at six years old and ran it upstairs
19:49
Speaker 2: and tried to hatch it. I kept it in my
19:51
Speaker 2: room for a month. My dad found He's like, what
19:54
Speaker 2: is this? And I was like, I'm trying to hatch
19:56
Speaker 2: it because I saw it fly away home. Okay, there
20:00
Speaker 2: are a lot of dying before my kids are grown.
20:04
Speaker 2: Single mom, My biggest fear is something happening to me
20:06
Speaker 2: before my kids are adults. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Well
20:11
Speaker 2: those are deep, those are deep.
20:14
Speaker 4: You can really put yourself in that, Yeah I can't.
20:18
Speaker 2: There are funny ones too, like you losing my youth,
20:21
Speaker 2: losing my youth and metabolism.
20:23
Speaker 5: I guess that's not funny, but like, hey, that's a fear.
20:26
Speaker 5: That's a fear.
20:27
Speaker 1: I still think I'm more afraid of having my kid
20:30
Speaker 1: be a murderer.
20:31
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh this is a good one. Windows at night,
20:38
Speaker 2: people can see in, but you can't see out. Yes,
20:42
Speaker 2: How do you guys feel about those houses? Hate them
20:44
Speaker 2: with the giant windows?
20:46
Speaker 1: No desire?
20:48
Speaker 4: Here's the thing, I love them?
20:50
Speaker 5: Three yea.
20:52
Speaker 3: What I mean like mirror, So like when you're looking
20:54
Speaker 3: at the house, it's reflected, but when you're in the house,
20:57
Speaker 3: you can look at.
20:58
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know why. That's genius because all of these
21:00
Speaker 1: like super modern and stuff, and everyone's like it's beautiful,
21:06
Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty degree views. I'm like, yeah, perfect
21:09
Speaker 1: for me to like be in a horror film.
21:11
Speaker 3: Yeah, and or for somebody to see all everything that
21:14
Speaker 3: earned sixty.
21:15
Speaker 4: Angles of my horrible body naked. Ah, could you imagine,
21:19
Speaker 4: Oh you're welcome.
21:20
Speaker 1: What if you get to see my entire body naked?
21:24
Speaker 4: You're not mine? Running towel on all A lot.
21:31
Speaker 2: Of the ones we said east and feeling like I
21:33
Speaker 2: never made it or succeeded in life, feeling worthless.
21:36
Speaker 5: So those are just like that's the thing.
21:38
Speaker 3: It's just like and that's it's the fear of not
21:41
Speaker 3: like you have this idea or something that you want
21:45
Speaker 3: to you know, accomplish or achieve, but you're too afraid
21:48
Speaker 3: of the failure, or you're nine to five is getting
21:50
Speaker 3: in a way and you're too lazy.
21:52
Speaker 4: It's just like.
21:53
Speaker 1: Those our society that people's biggest fears are that I
21:56
Speaker 1: didn't make it in life or I didn't fulfill Like
22:00
Speaker 1: think about back in the day where it's like people
22:03
Speaker 1: were dying in their forties and I was like, we're
22:06
Speaker 1: so happy that you made it to your forties. I
22:07
Speaker 1: mean we're talking pioneers, fucking haul and ass through the plane,
22:13
Speaker 1: you know, giving.
22:15
Speaker 5: Birth on the Orgon trail.
22:17
Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know you think at the end of
22:19
Speaker 1: their life they're thinking, oh my potential. No, they're just
22:23
Speaker 1: sitting there, orgon organ organ Organ.
22:28
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking doing it.
22:30
Speaker 1: No, honestly, that's why I didn't. I'm like, we're gonna
22:34
Speaker 1: get into an orinary ornery thing, and I don't want
22:36
Speaker 1: to do.
22:38
Speaker 4: Like maybe she's right, I'm not saying anything. I'm about
22:41
Speaker 4: to go home and be like how and.
22:43
Speaker 1: Here come the Oregon du.
22:47
Speaker 4: I don't know anymore.
22:49
Speaker 1: It's definitely organ No society has fucked us all up.
22:54
Speaker 2: I hear you, but I think that there is something
22:57
Speaker 2: to say. These are just two different viewpoints. There's people
23:01
Speaker 2: like us who and I think you but in a
23:04
Speaker 2: different sense, who are like, we have this need to
23:06
Speaker 2: leave the mark on the world, and it's just bigger
23:08
Speaker 2: than like.
23:09
Speaker 1: I Was Here by Beyonce.
23:11
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, exactly.
23:14
Speaker 1: That songs me sob every time I listen.
23:17
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that I.
23:21
Speaker 5: It's what you don't like it, it's beautiful.
23:24
Speaker 1: My dad pulled that ship up on YouTube when she
23:27
Speaker 1: preferred the u N. My dad tears in the car and.
23:33
Speaker 4: He'd just be like, you should you should play that
23:35
Speaker 4: one song, and you go, I hate every other song
23:38
Speaker 4: by her, but I love this.
23:39
Speaker 1: No, it can't never say that to anybody, really cut
23:43
Speaker 1: your bald.
23:44
Speaker 4: You didn't love Beyonce, but he sure loved I Was Here.
23:46
Speaker 2: If you can cover that song Willie Spence, which fucking
23:51
Speaker 2: just iconic ri ip from the season of American Idol
23:54
Speaker 2: I worked on covered I Was Here and he passed
23:57
Speaker 2: away as pipes, Oh my godness, pipes for days. Okay,
24:02
Speaker 2: this is damn. This like just gave me anxiety. Crashing
24:06
Speaker 2: my car with my kids inside into a body of water.
24:09
Speaker 2: Do you guys have a fear of crashing your car
24:11
Speaker 2: into a body of water?
24:12
Speaker 1: And no?
24:12
Speaker 5: Do you think you could get out in time? Many people?
24:14
Speaker 5: I can get out easy.
24:15
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Do you know how much pressure comes
24:19
Speaker 1: with going underwater?
24:20
Speaker 3: No?
24:20
Speaker 4: I would. I think you're I mean, you guys, you're dying.
24:24
Speaker 4: Are giving me all these fears that you're dying.
24:27
Speaker 1: I don't think of anything because.
24:29
Speaker 3: When the car sinks, the windows are shatter. Now it's
24:33
Speaker 3: gonna suck you in. You're gonna be sucked into a vortex.
24:36
Speaker 3: You can't get your kids out. I've tried to get
24:37
Speaker 3: ocean out while she's just kind of moving, and what
24:40
Speaker 3: a nightmare that is.
24:41
Speaker 5: Do you guys have the thing? I have the thing
24:43
Speaker 5: on my keys. I took it off sh say. It's
24:46
Speaker 5: a tool.
24:47
Speaker 2: It's got a seatbelt cutter and a shatter, a window
24:50
Speaker 2: shadow shatter.
24:51
Speaker 5: So if I were in water and it's you.
24:53
Speaker 1: Need to absolutely, not that I'm driving by water really ever,
24:57
Speaker 1: but I want one of those, right.
24:59
Speaker 2: And then there's you know, a lot of dying. A
25:02
Speaker 2: lot of people have a fear of dying. There was
25:06
Speaker 2: a good one.
25:06
Speaker 1: I saw. Are we just talking about like dying where
25:09
Speaker 1: it's like time to have? Yeah, I'm telling you what.
25:12
Speaker 1: I'm thirty three and I'm fucking exhausted when that day comes.
25:15
Speaker 3: Do you want to know another fear of mine been real,
25:17
Speaker 3: honestly talking about it.
25:19
Speaker 1: I'm coming, Huh, I'm coming the world that I'm coming
25:27
Speaker 1: cheated on?
25:28
Speaker 4: Is that it's a fear.
25:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you've never been cheated on?
25:32
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know.
25:33
Speaker 1: You know, it sucks, but it's not earth shattering, It isn't.
25:36
Speaker 4: But it is a fear giving somebody your.
25:38
Speaker 3: All and not being given that back, and then you
25:41
Speaker 3: being scarred for every other relationship you go into.
25:44
Speaker 5: What is the fear?
25:46
Speaker 1: You're right?
25:46
Speaker 4: I mean it's fear, man, because I am fucked.
25:51
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've never been cheated on?
25:53
Speaker 3: I think I have, and that's why I just don't
25:56
Speaker 3: know about it.
25:57
Speaker 4: Many of us do cheated on me eat dick.
26:01
Speaker 5: I remember finding out years later from one of.
26:03
Speaker 1: The guy I already did. That's why they're cheating. They
26:06
Speaker 1: already ate a dick.
26:07
Speaker 4: Can I go eat another one? Horror, not hor.
26:15
Speaker 3: I have to show you the greatest Seinfeld ever. Speaking
26:18
Speaker 3: of ri I p to Joe Devola. Joe Devola, Yes, oh, no,
26:27
Speaker 3: Crazy Joe Devola has passed away.
26:29
Speaker 1: He did.
26:31
Speaker 3: I have to look up his name if we can
26:32
Speaker 3: get a good cut. I just had it in my
26:34
Speaker 3: notes because I saw it quickly.
26:38
Speaker 1: You have to you don't watch Seinfelds. But I don't
26:40
Speaker 1: know his real name.
26:41
Speaker 4: Okay, he's actor.
26:43
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was in seinfeld and he uh, crazy Joe Devola.
26:49
Speaker 4: Peter Crombie.
26:50
Speaker 1: When did he pass away?
26:52
Speaker 4: He passed away? Let's see.
26:57
Speaker 1: He's like, I have a hair on my tongue. Do
27:00
Speaker 1: you remember Eaton? You've got to watch Seinfeld No, I
27:08
Speaker 1: have to have watched it.
27:09
Speaker 4: I watched it all.
27:10
Speaker 3: What is it early January? See, I saw it a
27:14
Speaker 3: while ago. It's just never had time to really bring
27:16
Speaker 3: it up.
27:17
Speaker 1: Shout out January.
27:19
Speaker 4: I finished it all, FYI.
27:21
Speaker 1: He died in Palm Springs.
27:23
Speaker 4: Oh beautiful place.
27:26
Speaker 1: Peter Crombie, Crazy Joe Devola, Thank you for making Seinfeld.
27:31
Speaker 1: Thank you for giving us many episodes make.
27:33
Speaker 4: Me thank you for your purpose? Is That's what I'm saying,
27:36
Speaker 4: joy to the world. And it does.
27:38
Speaker 1: Yeah.
27:39
Speaker 3: Five six episodes are just crazy Joe Devola.
27:44
Speaker 1: The whole thing we talked about it. How could he
27:46
Speaker 1: not like you?
27:47
Speaker 4: I like how he meets Elaine outside. I met a
27:50
Speaker 4: beautiful woman. What's her name? Elaine? What?
27:55
Speaker 3: Because she's calling him Joey yeah, and.
28:00
Speaker 1: So no one puts that it's crazy. And she goes
28:04
Speaker 1: into his apartment and he's got thousands of photos her.
28:09
Speaker 5: I have to watch that.
28:11
Speaker 1: I like what he does. What does he say, Hey, Jerry,
28:14
Speaker 1: I got it, I got a hair on my Tongue's
28:19
Speaker 1: how annoyed he is. And then he's gonna bash his
28:21
Speaker 1: head in and then Kramer has to come in with
28:22
Speaker 1: a helmet. I got kicked in the head by.
28:26
Speaker 3: Crazy Joel and he goes, I hate to tell you, buddy,
28:29
Speaker 3: but you're next.
28:32
Speaker 1: Everybody likes you. I could see why people don't like him, Jerry,
28:36
Speaker 1: don't say that you did see?
28:42
Speaker 5: Okay?
28:43
Speaker 2: Elevators so I know a lot of people have a
28:45
Speaker 2: lot of fear of elevators and escalators.
28:47
Speaker 5: Do either of you have that.
28:49
Speaker 1: I have a fear of being in a small elevator
28:52
Speaker 1: crammed and getting stuck.
28:54
Speaker 5: Agreed.
28:55
Speaker 2: I one of my biggest fears for a long time
28:57
Speaker 2: was being in an elevator in Grand Central Station.
28:59
Speaker 5: I'm the only rat air.
29:01
Speaker 2: It crashes, it's the cable snap. It crashes to the
29:05
Speaker 2: basement of Grand Central where no one is. I'm stuck
29:09
Speaker 2: in there, but the doors are open just enough for
29:12
Speaker 2: rats to come in, and then they squeeze in and
29:14
Speaker 2: eat me alive.
29:15
Speaker 4: Oh I hope you die on the fall.
29:18
Speaker 1: You're like, God, Jessicay, you really do have a fear
29:21
Speaker 1: of rats.
29:22
Speaker 5: Right disgusting.
29:23
Speaker 2: And I had such a fear of rats that I
29:26
Speaker 2: never wanted to say it on things like podcasts because
29:28
Speaker 2: I thought, if someone wants to kill me and torture me,
29:30
Speaker 2: now they know how.
29:31
Speaker 4: To do it.
29:31
Speaker 3: And if we get a we should put up a pole,
29:33
Speaker 3: and if we get enough likes or something like that,
29:35
Speaker 3: we should be able to put a rat.
29:36
Speaker 4: On you in the podcast.
29:37
Speaker 1: No, no, it's a phobia. No I would.
29:40
Speaker 4: I would.
29:40
Speaker 2: This is what I do because I've seen it. I
29:42
Speaker 2: get stiff and I get and then I can't.
29:44
Speaker 4: I want to find a phobia.
29:46
Speaker 1: Fine, No, but it could also like I feel like
29:48
Speaker 1: you could have a heart attack, Like if you have
29:50
Speaker 1: a true fear like that, I would never do that.
29:52
Speaker 5: Well, my breath is like it's wild.
29:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how people die is when they start stopping breathing, Like,
29:58
Speaker 1: when they start to stop breathing, you can die. So
30:01
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that.
30:03
Speaker 5: People give me idea though, good pitch.
30:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna abort that one.
30:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, rats give you that. People give me that.
30:12
Speaker 1: On the same page.
30:14
Speaker 4: That's why I just sit.
30:14
Speaker 1: At home same. I hope you enjoyed this episode. It
30:19
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30:22
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30:24
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30:28
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30:30
Speaker 1: leaving our mark that we wanted to. But you know
30:33
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30:38
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30:40
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30:43
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