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- 0:02Speaker 1: With Alexia Napola and Marisa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Oh yeah, look at you.
- 0:10Speaker 3: How are you, my friend?
- 0:12Speaker 2: I'm really good?
- 0:17Speaker 3: Thank you. I have an event after this, so I
- 0:19Speaker 3: wanted to do Mike Glam before talking to you.
- 0:22Speaker 2: Are you gonna go hell raised in the streets of Miami?
- 0:25Speaker 3: Oh no, not really.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Well that sounds boring.
- 0:28Speaker 3: I got some places to go, some things to do.
- 0:31Speaker 3: But before we talk about that, I feel like we
- 0:35Speaker 3: need to talk about Bravo Kon.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you like Las Vegas.
- 0:40Speaker 3: I thought the whole experience at Bravo Con in Vegas
- 0:42Speaker 3: was amazing and spectacular. It was a great city, so
- 0:45Speaker 3: thank you Vegas for hosting us. And I just think
- 0:49Speaker 3: it was like so much fun. I felt like the
- 0:51Speaker 3: energy this year was a lot happier and everyone was
- 0:56Speaker 3: like nice, Everybody was happy to be there, everybody wanted
- 0:59Speaker 3: to have fun. I think Vegas is a great city
- 1:01Speaker 3: to host it. So it was New York, and I
- 1:02Speaker 3: think maybe even Miami would be like really amazing. So
- 1:06Speaker 3: I just think it's a fun event.
- 1:08Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 1:09Speaker 1: If it was in Miami, we didn't have to get
- 1:10Speaker 1: on a plane and we had our great Glam that
- 1:12Speaker 1: would be ideal for me.
- 1:14Speaker 3: Yeah, that definitely would be convenient. And I think that
- 1:16Speaker 3: all of our fans would love to come to Miami.
- 1:18Speaker 3: Like who doesn't want to come to Miami, right.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Yeah, like nobody does not want to come to Miami,
- 1:23Speaker 1: does not not want to come to Miami.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Well, speaking of fans, I want to give a shout
- 1:26Speaker 3: out to all the Latinos that were Bravo con I
- 1:29Speaker 3: was so impressed this year.
- 1:31Speaker 2: It was overwhelming.
- 1:32Speaker 3: It was so nice to see so many Spanish speaking people,
- 1:36Speaker 3: you know, watching us on Bravo and watching Miami, and
- 1:39Speaker 3: I thank you for your love and support. It was
- 1:41Speaker 3: so happy to see that. And like so many fans
- 1:44Speaker 3: also of iPort Forward, we had the T shirts. Yes,
- 1:49Speaker 3: I actually posted on my instagram, So whoever, I didn't
- 1:51Speaker 3: get your names, but you can go to my instagram
- 1:53Speaker 3: and you can see the picture you took with Marathol
- 1:56Speaker 3: and I on my Instagram wearing your iple forward T shirts.
- 1:59Speaker 3: We actually have to work on. We need some merch,
- 2:02Speaker 3: we need some words for I put forward.
- 2:04Speaker 1: Listen, my cocky shirts flew out like hotcakes. People were
- 2:09Speaker 1: yelling at me that they were disco snacks and everybody
- 2:12Speaker 1: else was saying, I pulled forward. We knew that the
- 2:15Speaker 1: few things that came out of our mouth would become
- 2:17Speaker 1: too iconic.
- 2:20Speaker 2: It's like such a thing.
- 2:21Speaker 3: And people just like to see us having fun. And
- 2:23Speaker 3: I believe you know, you do bring out the fun
- 2:25Speaker 3: in me and you make me laugh. So yeah, so
- 2:29Speaker 3: we had. We had a lot of fun a brabo con.
- 2:31Speaker 1: So our feet aside, my feet were so sore, like
- 2:34Speaker 1: that was the downfall of the whole thing.
- 2:36Speaker 3: Everything was great, but my feet, like I could for us,
- 2:41Speaker 3: I took off my heels.
- 2:43Speaker 1: When here's the problem when you put on a chunk leta.
- 2:46Speaker 1: So when you pull your foot out of a tiny
- 2:49Speaker 1: compressed space like pointy pumps, and then you let them
- 2:52Speaker 1: stretch out in a chunk leta, they get really big
- 2:56Speaker 1: like friends, and then you can't shove it back in
- 2:59Speaker 1: your shoe.
- 3:00Speaker 3: So then I've seen your little cute feet, bro like
- 3:05Speaker 3: that feels anywhere. That doesn't even get swollen, Trust me,
- 3:09Speaker 3: got swollen. I saw it that last day, did Yeah,
- 3:11Speaker 3: the last day she was not fitting Okay, Cinderella. Well,
- 3:16Speaker 3: first of all, I want to say a special thank
- 3:19Speaker 3: you to our colleagues Tamra and Teddy for being such
- 3:24Speaker 3: great host, for being so personable and so much fun,
- 3:29Speaker 3: so sweet. You know, I'm so happy that we got
- 3:32Speaker 3: to spend a little time with them. And we know
- 3:34Speaker 3: a lot of people actually discovered that or heard about
- 3:37Speaker 3: a lot of people not liking Teddy. I have a
- 3:39Speaker 3: different opinion. So I thought she was She was very nice,
- 3:42Speaker 3: She was very personable and you know that like that's
- 3:45Speaker 3: her job and she's really good at what she does.
- 3:48Speaker 3: And Tamra was just incredible. Honestly, I feel like I
- 3:52Speaker 3: have like a new best friend. She's very friendly, she
- 3:54Speaker 3: makes you feel very comfortable and and anyways, I was
- 3:59Speaker 3: like really surprised by both of them. And next year,
- 4:01Speaker 3: you and I have to have our Eyebrow Followers podcast.
- 4:04Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, well we can relieve them when they're on
- 4:08Speaker 3: their breaks. Then we do it for far Ward because
- 4:09Speaker 3: they're not in there all the time doing their podcast. Well,
- 4:13Speaker 3: Teddy and I had a little bit of a different experience.
- 4:16Speaker 3: We started a little rocky. I think that we were
- 4:20Speaker 3: crossing vibes. I feel like she has that experience with
- 4:23Speaker 3: a lot of people. Well, how the people can That's
- 4:26Speaker 3: what I heard, and I'm probably like I never knew
- 4:28Speaker 3: that actually when she was on Beverly Hills. She was
- 4:31Speaker 3: always one of the ones I liked because you know,
- 4:32Speaker 3: I really don't watch the show. I just like who
- 4:34Speaker 3: she was, right, And I followed her on Instagram, and
- 4:38Speaker 3: I liked her story. I liked her journey. But you know,
- 4:41Speaker 3: apparently a lot of people didn't have that same experience
- 4:44Speaker 3: with her as you as your saying now.
- 4:47Speaker 2: So so.
- 4:50Speaker 1: I mean over you know, the past couple of years
- 4:52Speaker 1: that we've been on I didn't really know her, and
- 4:55Speaker 1: she liked to beat up on me on the pod.
- 4:56Speaker 1: And that's okay, that's worth. That's her job, and that's
- 4:59Speaker 1: what she does. What you want, Yeah, right, that's what
- 5:01Speaker 1: she does. So we finally meet in person, and you know,
- 5:07Speaker 1: I'm feeding off her vibe, and her vibe is kind
- 5:09Speaker 1: of like, you know, not that friendly little aloof so
- 5:12Speaker 1: I'm mirroring that vibe, you know, and Tom's very happy
- 5:15Speaker 1: and huggy, and so I'm mirroring that vibe. So I
- 5:18Speaker 1: guess she thought that I didn't like her, and of
- 5:20Speaker 1: course I don't dislike her at all, absolutely. So I
- 5:25Speaker 1: wrote her and I said, hey, man, I think our
- 5:27Speaker 1: wires are getting crossed here because I have nothing against you,
- 5:29Speaker 1: and she said to me, you know, I'm a little
- 5:31Speaker 1: bit of an introvert, so you know, you know, maybe
- 5:34Speaker 1: I should can take a little blame for that. So
- 5:36Speaker 1: you know, I said, I was just mirroring your vibe.
- 5:38Speaker 1: But I you know, I like, you know, I was
- 5:40Speaker 1: excited to go to your party and to hang out,
- 5:42Speaker 1: you know, and connect like a girl because I'm a
- 5:44Speaker 1: girl's girl. And I think that's probably what a lot
- 5:47Speaker 1: of other people are feeling.
- 5:49Speaker 3: You're just scared. You didn't want her to talk shit
- 5:51Speaker 3: about you.
- 5:52Speaker 2: She already did. It's too lay.
- 5:55Speaker 3: So well, I didn't get that vibe from her. She
- 5:58Speaker 3: was very nice and personal, unfriendly with me. She broke
- 6:00Speaker 3: the eyes. She told me she's it's seeing me. I
- 6:02Speaker 3: watch what happens live, and she congratulated me for doing that,
- 6:05Speaker 3: and you know it was for me. It was a
- 6:07Speaker 3: great experience with both of them, and I'm so proud
- 6:10Speaker 3: that they're on the same platform as us. Right, Well, that's.
- 6:14Speaker 1: Important that you know, we all were on the same
- 6:16Speaker 1: platform together, that we all meet and hang out and everything.
- 6:19Speaker 2: So anyway, we squashed that beef.
- 6:21Speaker 3: You hash that beef. I love squashed a beef with
- 6:25Speaker 3: Vicky Vicky and her were supposed to squash that beef
- 6:29Speaker 3: and they didn't.
- 6:30Speaker 2: Well that tbd on that. I don't want to touch that.
- 6:33Speaker 3: I like that too. I mean I like that too.
- 6:35Speaker 3: You don't always have to squash that beef.
- 6:38Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.
- 6:39Speaker 1: Right, Well, now we know she's an introvert, and perhaps
- 6:43Speaker 1: that's the vibe that people are getting and then they
- 6:45Speaker 1: think that, you know, she's rude or whatever.
- 6:47Speaker 3: It would that be? So would that be the Brabo
- 6:50Speaker 3: lab that was unpleasant towards you, a Brabo con or
- 6:54Speaker 3: did you didn't?
- 6:55Speaker 1: I know, I didn't think she was unpleasant. I just
- 6:57Speaker 1: kind of was, you know. It wasn't like fireworks, that's all.
- 7:01Speaker 1: And she took it like even worse. So no, no,
- 7:05Speaker 1: I didn't have an experience with anyone this year.
- 7:08Speaker 3: Right because I've seen her last year. You had a
- 7:10Speaker 3: few of those.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, can you just ow yeah, yeah you did.
- 7:17Speaker 2: I think when I said yeah, I met yeah.
- 7:20Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you say I thought you were making no,
- 7:23Speaker 3: I said, yeah, I thought it was a cat. I
- 7:25Speaker 3: thought it was a cat making meals on it and
- 7:28Speaker 3: you were trying to saty. Can you just say see yes?
- 7:31Speaker 3: I did?
- 7:31Speaker 2: Uh huh, All right, we's moving on.
- 7:34Speaker 3: But bro, you're on a show with me, you have
- 7:38Speaker 3: to say speak your mind and say what you're really feeling.
- 7:42Speaker 2: I did I care five times.
- 7:44Speaker 3: Okay, but can you share who you didn't have such
- 7:46Speaker 3: a pleasant experience with last year?
- 7:50Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 7:50Speaker 1: With Kenya, Yeah, she's she's uh And at my Watch
- 7:55Speaker 1: what Happens Live, I noticed they edited out every morning.
- 7:58Speaker 3: Was not yeah you have to yeah, we're talking just
- 8:04Speaker 3: to watch what happens like was New York.
- 8:06Speaker 2: Anyway, everyone had a problem with her, and I thought, oh, okay,
- 8:08Speaker 2: this is not.
- 8:09Speaker 3: Just you see that's another one that I don't have
- 8:10Speaker 3: a problem with. She can you actually invited me to
- 8:13Speaker 3: go to the Usher concert with her, which I was
- 8:15Speaker 3: super bommed that I didn't get to go because I
- 8:19Speaker 3: was working at Ravo Con so it conflicted with the time.
- 8:23Speaker 3: But then I saw that Usher serenaded her. So I
- 8:26Speaker 3: guess I'm I guess I'm friendly, or I guess I
- 8:28Speaker 3: get along with like all the tough girls, Yeah, maybe yeah,
- 8:32Speaker 3: because you know, I see beyond I see beyond their toughness.
- 8:35Speaker 3: You know, I think that a lot of these girls
- 8:37Speaker 3: that are kind of tough on the outside, they're really
- 8:39Speaker 3: sweet and nice in the inside. And that's the part
- 8:41Speaker 3: that I know about them and I love about them.
- 8:43Speaker 2: Well, if somebody has to like them, I'm glad it's you.
- 8:46Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, any highs and he lows a Bravo con just.
- 8:51Speaker 1: My sore feet. I was the low and seeing the
- 8:53Speaker 1: fans was the high pretty much.
- 8:55Speaker 2: And having.
- 8:59Speaker 3: I mean truthful are fans. I mean, this is why
- 9:01Speaker 3: we're back on Bravo because we have so much love
- 9:05Speaker 3: and support from all the fans that really follow our
- 9:07Speaker 3: journeys and follow the stories and follow the show and
- 9:11Speaker 3: are rooting for us. That to me, that was like
- 9:13Speaker 3: the biggest high definitely as well the fans and just
- 9:17Speaker 3: seeing everybody together, right, I mean a lot of times
- 9:20Speaker 3: I got on see these shows. So the fact that means, yes,
- 9:23Speaker 3: I know them from social media and I know about
- 9:25Speaker 3: their shows, but the fact that they're there and you
- 9:27Speaker 3: get to see some of these people that you see
- 9:29Speaker 3: on TV. You just get to see them and hang
- 9:31Speaker 3: out and talk and you get to know them a
- 9:33Speaker 3: little bit more.
- 9:35Speaker 1: What I really love is the people that I always
- 9:37Speaker 1: think are fighting because of what I've seen, and then
- 9:39Speaker 1: they're buddy buddy and kissing and taking photos together and
- 9:42Speaker 1: they're actually good friends, even though on TV it seems
- 9:44Speaker 1: like they're not.
- 9:46Speaker 3: They've already resolved you're probably wrong episode. Well, sometimes you'll
- 9:49Speaker 3: see that on one episode, right, like you're fighting one
- 9:51Speaker 3: episode and then then the episodes later you know they're
- 9:55Speaker 3: like best friends. Well so you're reading that press, I
- 9:58Speaker 3: was really happy to see and Whitney you know that
- 10:02Speaker 3: they've you know, come together and they're you know, friendly again.
- 10:05Speaker 3: And Lisa Barlow Yeah, so I was like, I'm very
- 10:08Speaker 3: happy to see that. You know this, That's what happens
- 10:10Speaker 3: with these shows. You know, one season, you know you
- 10:13Speaker 3: can be you know, enemies, and the other season you
- 10:16Speaker 3: know you could be friends. And that's the beauty of it.
- 10:19Speaker 3: You know, you want to see growth, right or.
- 10:21Speaker 2: When you're in the moment and you in your shows
- 10:23Speaker 2: filming and you're arguing, but you've resolved it. By the
- 10:26Speaker 2: time seven months later comes and then the airs and
- 10:29Speaker 2: then Bravo con comes, you've already resolved on those issues.
- 10:32Speaker 2: So that's you know, we're a little behind. So when
- 10:34Speaker 2: we see people together lovey dovey, and it's you know,
- 10:38Speaker 2: I like it, I love it. You know, I love
- 10:39Speaker 2: a resolution.
- 10:41Speaker 4: I love a solution. You love a resolution. I love
- 10:44Speaker 4: like a resolution. I've been reading a lot about you
- 10:56Speaker 4: and Melissa Gorga and this Louis Royes and Terre the thing,
- 11:01Speaker 4: what's going on?
- 11:02Speaker 2: Because you can tell the story.
- 11:04Speaker 3: First of all, it's like so stupid and dumb at
- 11:06Speaker 3: this point already. And it's something that apparently Melissa Gorga
- 11:11Speaker 3: started that rumor about Louis trying to date me before Teresa,
- 11:16Speaker 3: and that is not true. What happened was that obviously
- 11:21Speaker 3: Louie watches these shows, as do many men that don't
- 11:24Speaker 3: want to own it and say it.
- 11:26Speaker 2: So a lot of men, they never want to own it.
- 11:28Speaker 3: No, of course, not because it's supposed to be like,
- 11:30Speaker 3: you know, show for women, but a lot of men
- 11:33Speaker 3: do watch these shows as well. And he obviously knew
- 11:36Speaker 3: who I was. He had seen Miami, and if I
- 11:39Speaker 3: haven't mentioned, this is new information here. So Louie actually
- 11:43Speaker 3: watched Miami. Besides that, he liked our franchise and he
- 11:47Speaker 3: liked the show. He his sister was dating Frederick before
- 11:51Speaker 3: Frederick married Adriana. How about that for Gen? How about
- 11:55Speaker 3: that for Ja? How about that for I got uh huh?
- 11:59Speaker 3: So that sister way back. Louis's sister was Frederick's girlfriend
- 12:05Speaker 3: for three years.
- 12:06Speaker 1: But this was things are they got married, I mean
- 12:09Speaker 1: the real time, not the fake time on our show.
- 12:11Speaker 3: But they knows about them, say, because everything is fake
- 12:14Speaker 3: about her and everything is a lie. So you know,
- 12:15Speaker 3: we don't you know, we don't know which is real.
- 12:17Speaker 3: We're just fake. But supposedly she was married to Frederick,
- 12:20Speaker 3: so after louis sister dating him for three years. So
- 12:24Speaker 3: of course Louis knows Frederick. So he was watching the
- 12:27Speaker 3: show to see like Frederick and his new relationship with
- 12:29Speaker 3: you know, I Adrianna, and just watching the show in general,
- 12:32Speaker 3: and so of course he recognized me. We're in Barcelona.
- 12:35Speaker 3: I'm with Todd. We're walking down you know, Lacaye for Barcelona,
- 12:40Speaker 3: and he happened to be there. I don't even really
- 12:42Speaker 3: remember who he is with because you don't remember, you know, sometimes,
- 12:45Speaker 3: at least for me, I forget who I am and
- 12:47Speaker 3: I forget people know me. So I you know, I'm
- 12:50Speaker 3: always like in my especially when I'm traveling, I totally forget,
- 12:53Speaker 3: especially when I'm in Europe. You know. Here in the States,
- 12:55Speaker 3: I realized that a lot of people do watch these shows.
- 12:58Speaker 3: But when I'm in Europe then that's one of the
- 13:00Speaker 3: reasons where I really love to go is because I
- 13:01Speaker 3: feel that nobody knows us and nobody's you know, is
- 13:05Speaker 3: going to come up to me or whatever. But in
- 13:07Speaker 3: this case, he was walking. We're both staying at the
- 13:09Speaker 3: same hotel, at the w Hotel in Barcelona, and we
- 13:12Speaker 3: were walking towards the hotel and he noticed me. So
- 13:14Speaker 3: he was very nice, he was very friendly, and he said, hey, Alexia, how.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Long was this?
- 13:20Speaker 3: This?
- 13:21Speaker 2: How ago?
- 13:22Speaker 3: I'll tell you what year it was, two thousand seventeen
- 13:25Speaker 3: or twenty eighteen. I was. I was just dating Todd.
- 13:29Speaker 3: You know, here's my boyfriend, and we were on a
- 13:31Speaker 3: trip to Barcelona, were waving so many years ago, and
- 13:35Speaker 3: the fact that we're still talking about it today is stupid.
- 13:38Speaker 2: A So who brought up that the press knows?
- 13:40Speaker 3: Oh, probably Melissa because she did. You know, she wants
- 13:43Speaker 3: to keep on talking about it to make it a thing.
- 13:46Speaker 3: But there's no thing. As you see, Teresa, Louis Todd
- 13:50Speaker 3: and I are very good friends. And again, I you know,
- 13:55Speaker 3: think about it. You know, Louis was watching the show.
- 13:58Speaker 3: He has a son that's autistic, you know, he's seeing
- 14:01Speaker 3: my journey with Frankie having the accident and you know
- 14:04Speaker 3: what I'm going through, you know, as a mom with Frankie,
- 14:08Speaker 3: and he was watching. That was one of the things
- 14:10Speaker 3: he told me, like, I love that you're a great mom.
- 14:12Speaker 3: You know, I have a son that's autistic, and I
- 14:15Speaker 3: know how difficult it can get. So that's what the
- 14:18Speaker 3: conversation was about. He wasn't like trying to pick me up,
- 14:20Speaker 3: and I was like with Todd. So that happened, and
- 14:23Speaker 3: then you say, get started, Miami, tell me about rumors.
- 14:27Speaker 3: I mean, just like the one day Jianna's trying to
- 14:30Speaker 3: start about Todd and I in my marriage. Yeah, so anyways,
- 14:34Speaker 3: so yes, those are rumors, and so anyways that happens,
- 14:38Speaker 3: and then I think, I don't remember because like I
- 14:40Speaker 3: told you, you know, I never know if people know me,
- 14:42Speaker 3: like for me, like my real friends, which I have
- 14:44Speaker 3: a lot of friends, or they're a fan so and
- 14:47Speaker 3: I too. So I meet so many people and I
- 14:51Speaker 3: and I love people, so I'm an overshare and I
- 14:53Speaker 3: talk to everyone. I'm very friendly and when I and
- 14:56Speaker 3: that's what I do. So I never know. It's because
- 14:58Speaker 3: if you know me or you know my story.
- 15:01Speaker 2: Or the show before with your business my business.
- 15:05Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean so, I mean I was someone before
- 15:07Speaker 3: the show, obviously not at a national level, but like
- 15:10Speaker 3: when I'm traveling, I usually think it's obviously because of
- 15:12Speaker 3: the show. But with that being said, when I saw Louis,
- 15:16Speaker 3: I wasn't on TV. Our show was not on TV
- 15:19Speaker 3: in twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen. Yes, of course he
- 15:23Speaker 3: knew that I had been on the show for seasons one, two,
- 15:26Speaker 3: and three, but my show was not on the air.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Fast forward. I don't know where else because I don't remember,
- 15:31Speaker 3: actually need to ask Todd. Todd said that we were
- 15:34Speaker 3: in another country or in another airport or something and
- 15:37Speaker 3: we saw each other again with Todd, you know, Todd,
- 15:39Speaker 3: me and him, and we just said like hello, well,
- 15:41Speaker 3: you know what, we go to all the good places,
- 15:43Speaker 3: I mean, everybody goes to, like Mikono's in Barcelona, Paris,
- 15:47Speaker 3: it's the land you know, You're right, Saint Trope. I mean,
- 15:51Speaker 3: those are the places that we go to. So I
- 15:53Speaker 3: mean it's not unusual, you know, to see each other again.
- 15:57Speaker 3: But again, I was with Todd in that point. I
- 16:00Speaker 3: don't even think there was conversation involved. It was just
- 16:02Speaker 3: like hi, bye, good to see you, whatever, and that's it.
- 16:06Speaker 3: What does that have to do with him meeting Teresa?
- 16:10Speaker 3: He lives in Jersey. Of course everybody knows who Teresa
- 16:13Speaker 3: is as well. And think about him, Yami, Like everybody
- 16:17Speaker 3: knows who we are, so we can always say that
- 16:19Speaker 3: the guy is trying to date us because we're on
- 16:21Speaker 3: a TV show. I mean, is that what she's trying
- 16:24Speaker 3: to say? That you know that the guys are trying
- 16:26Speaker 3: you know that Louis was trying to date Teresa or
- 16:28Speaker 3: me because we're on a TV show. I mean it's
- 16:31Speaker 3: just like the rich guy that has money and he
- 16:33Speaker 3: thinks the girl's trying to date him because he has
- 16:35Speaker 3: money or does he really like her for him? You know?
- 16:38Speaker 3: So it's the same thing. Like I totally understand that
- 16:40Speaker 3: he can't fall in love with Teresa because she's amazing.
- 16:43Speaker 3: She's beautiful, she's a great mom, she's a great wife,
- 16:45Speaker 3: she's a good friend. She just so many good qualities.
- 16:48Speaker 3: So and on top of that, she's famous, so you know,
- 16:51Speaker 3: make who knows? Like that's what I'm saying. Who am
- 16:53Speaker 3: I to say anything?
- 16:55Speaker 2: Just have to trust she just has to trust everybody
- 16:57Speaker 2: has to just trust.
- 16:57Speaker 3: We can say that about everybody, right, Like Lisa da Jody.
- 17:00Speaker 3: Now does Jody really like Lisa for who she is?
- 17:02Speaker 3: Or is he dating her because he wants fame? You know? Marcus,
- 17:06Speaker 3: you know, Marcus with Larsa the same thing, you know
- 17:08Speaker 3: what I mean? Yeah, I mean, Marcus's father is famous,
- 17:11Speaker 3: but Marcus wasn't famous. So is Marcus dating Larca because
- 17:15Speaker 3: she's famous and wants to be on the show? You know?
- 17:17Speaker 3: I mean this is something that we're always going to
- 17:19Speaker 3: have to you know, we're always gonna have to deal with.
- 17:24Speaker 3: You know. Luckily, for me, when I met Todd, I
- 17:26Speaker 3: wasn't on TV, but he knew obviously, he knew who
- 17:30Speaker 3: I was, and all his friends made she was his mother,
- 17:32Speaker 3: my mother in law, I now, which is amazing, was
- 17:34Speaker 3: a huge.
- 17:35Speaker 2: She were a legend.
- 17:37Speaker 3: It was still a legend. So anyway, so she knew
- 17:40Speaker 3: about it. But you know what, I don't want to
- 17:43Speaker 3: think that Todd dated me or wanted to date me
- 17:45Speaker 3: just because I was on a TV show. I mean,
- 17:47Speaker 3: how pathetic is that? I mean, what kind of a
- 17:49Speaker 3: guy is going to date a woman, especially in Housewives?
- 17:52Speaker 3: If I was a guy yo goro, I would like
- 17:54Speaker 3: run okay, I would not be like, oh.
- 17:57Speaker 1: I want to do like that of course away from hello.
- 18:03Speaker 3: My husband now, Todd does not like it. So and
- 18:06Speaker 3: you know, I think he was excited about the idea
- 18:08Speaker 3: when the show came back. He was excited for me
- 18:10Speaker 3: because he knows like how good I am on it
- 18:12Speaker 3: and you know how much I love it. But he
- 18:16Speaker 3: does not feel comfortable, you know, in front of the camera,
- 18:19Speaker 3: and and he doesn't like it. He likes it for me,
- 18:21Speaker 3: but you know, but he doesn't like it.
- 18:23Speaker 2: So that's what I try. That damn camera. I make
- 18:25Speaker 2: love to it every time I see it.
- 18:27Speaker 3: But anyways, I really want to put it to rest.
- 18:29Speaker 3: I mean, I honestly I would love to do a
- 18:31Speaker 3: podcast with Teresa were right now, No, well, let me
- 18:36Speaker 3: finish with Teresa and Louis and Todd and I. I mean,
- 18:40Speaker 3: the only thing is that Teresa is on a different
- 18:42Speaker 3: she's not with iHeart, so I don't know how that
- 18:44Speaker 3: would work out. But you know, to like finally shut
- 18:47Speaker 3: this down, it's like it's really it's it's really upsetting
- 18:50Speaker 3: and dumb.
- 18:50Speaker 2: At the time has come because I need to do
- 18:53Speaker 2: it and.
- 18:53Speaker 3: Went nowhere and people want to keep on talking about
- 18:55Speaker 3: it and talking about it. And again, every woman that's
- 18:59Speaker 3: on this platform, on this show, any guy that comes
- 19:02Speaker 3: to her is gonna know who she is. And if
- 19:04Speaker 3: he doesn't, in the next ten minutes after he starts dating,
- 19:08Speaker 3: people are going to tell him. So again, you know,
- 19:12Speaker 3: I don't think it's just like the guy that's a millionaire.
- 19:15Speaker 3: You know, let's say Jeff Bezos, is Laurence Sanchez dating
- 19:18Speaker 3: him just because he's a billionaire or just you really
- 19:20Speaker 3: like him? You know, so the very wealthy man is
- 19:22Speaker 3: going to happen.
- 19:23Speaker 2: To say that aforementioned.
- 19:27Speaker 3: No, you can have it all, you know. I mean
- 19:29Speaker 3: Tom wanted to day me because I have it all
- 19:31Speaker 3: right and what and you know, and I'm just like
- 19:33Speaker 3: that person that thinks that I'm not going to be
- 19:35Speaker 3: the woman that thinks, oh, the guy wants to date
- 19:36Speaker 3: me just because he wants to be famous. I think
- 19:39Speaker 3: that that's like really, like, I mean, does it happen, yes,
- 19:43Speaker 3: But I think as a woman, we're all adults, and
- 19:45Speaker 3: at my age now, it's like like you can tell, yeah,
- 19:49Speaker 3: for you to tell. And I think that louis already
- 19:52Speaker 3: proven his love to Teresa and has proven himself, but
- 19:55Speaker 3: the rest of the girls on the show, you know,
- 19:57Speaker 3: keep on, you know, like for him, and it's it's
- 20:01Speaker 3: it's really you know, not fair. But you know what,
- 20:04Speaker 3: don't bring me, you know, don't drag me into this
- 20:05Speaker 3: because I think they've dragged me into this way too long.
- 20:10Speaker 2: Will you go on their podcast and put it to rest?
- 20:13Speaker 3: Right?
- 20:14Speaker 2: Put it to rest?
- 20:16Speaker 3: No? I mean I think I've tried. I'm trying. I
- 20:18Speaker 3: keep on and keep on, but they keep on talking
- 20:19Speaker 3: about it. They're like fascinating with that.
- 20:21Speaker 2: Well, it's a hot topic, my friend. What can I
- 20:24Speaker 2: tell you?
- 20:24Speaker 3: Okay, I guess you know.
- 20:30Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, you know, things are slow in
- 20:34Speaker 1: their lives. What can I tell you?
- 20:35Speaker 3: And they want to if anything more than that. I mean,
- 20:38Speaker 3: we're all friends, The four of us are friends.
- 20:40Speaker 1: I well, not everybody knows that. And I think a
- 20:42Speaker 1: lot of people want to see the worst in Louis.
- 20:45Speaker 1: They're not they're not giving him the benefit of the doubt,
- 20:47Speaker 1: and so they're looking for anything to jump on, right.
- 20:49Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's hard when these guys that
- 20:51Speaker 3: don't sign up to me on the show, but you know,
- 20:53Speaker 3: fall in love with a woman that's on these shows.
- 20:57Speaker 3: I think they have it really hard because everybody. Not
- 21:00Speaker 3: only are the castmates and the people on the show
- 21:02Speaker 3: hard on them, but so are the viewers. You know
- 21:06Speaker 3: the show a lot. Well, he sounded my love, but
- 21:08Speaker 3: when he came in season one, he was just a boyfriend.
- 21:10Speaker 3: It's kind of like Jodie and Marcus. Then after they
- 21:13Speaker 3: got married, so obviously, like he's on full time. And
- 21:16Speaker 3: the Jersey franchise also has a different model. You know,
- 21:18Speaker 3: their husbands are very involved, so you know that that's
- 21:22Speaker 3: very different.
- 21:23Speaker 2: But you know, I like Super Joe Margaret's husband.
- 21:27Speaker 3: He's okay, Super He's a sweetheart. He's a sweetheart.
- 21:30Speaker 2: He's so sweet. You know, he likes a lot of
- 21:32Speaker 2: boo Bear. They're like the same time, really nice, so
- 21:35Speaker 2: sweet and nice. By the way, think me bou bear
- 21:38Speaker 2: that he took such good care of me. Oh yeah,
- 21:50Speaker 2: guess what.
- 21:50Speaker 1: I have tons of questions with tons of questions from.
- 21:55Speaker 3: I saw we have some best related questions.
- 21:58Speaker 2: Yeah we like those, yes.
- 22:02Speaker 1: Yeah, So you know how memoirs are really hot right now.
- 22:06Speaker 1: It seems like everybody hot.
- 22:08Speaker 3: And I've been waiting for you to write. I've been,
- 22:10Speaker 3: I've been, You've been waiting for mine. Like I've been
- 22:13Speaker 3: on this, I've.
- 22:14Speaker 2: Been telling you for three years, call a ghost writer.
- 22:17Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm agguing, Okay, I'm aging. Is there anybody
- 22:20Speaker 3: out there that would love to that would like to
- 22:22Speaker 3: work with me and write my memoir?
- 22:24Speaker 2: Oh god, but.
- 22:25Speaker 1: You're gonna have to check your DM if you ask
- 22:27Speaker 1: questions like that, as.
- 22:28Speaker 3: Can I just for them to you. No, don't tell
- 22:31Speaker 3: them to.
- 22:32Speaker 2: Send things to me.
- 22:33Speaker 1: I'm so tired of people writing me and say, can
- 22:35Speaker 1: you ask Alecta and Lisa blah blah blah, and then I.
- 22:38Speaker 3: Just ignore them because I'm a I'm your friends.
- 22:42Speaker 1: They asked me for both of you because neither of
- 22:44Speaker 1: you look at your d ms. Okay, So anyway, if
- 22:48Speaker 1: you had a memoir, well, actually.
- 22:53Speaker 3: One of the questions I have one.
- 22:55Speaker 2: One of the questions was what would you title each
- 22:57Speaker 2: other's memoir? So if I had one, what would you title?
- 23:00Speaker 3: Mind m. You know, I'm not so good with coming
- 23:05Speaker 3: up with names like that. In that clever trait that
- 23:10Speaker 3: you have that you're very clever, I think you can
- 23:13Speaker 3: name your own memoir. It would be well, I mean
- 23:17Speaker 3: I don't want to be it would be.
- 23:22Speaker 2: I have no idea.
- 23:23Speaker 1: Well, I had so many for you, because no I do,
- 23:27Speaker 1: because like your life is like unbelievable, so it would
- 23:31Speaker 1: be like believe it.
- 23:32Speaker 2: Or not, Alexanda Pole is life or a star is born.
- 23:38Speaker 3: It's so it's something born. I love that one.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually I think that's it.
- 23:48Speaker 3: I'm gonna start writing it already because I love the title.
- 23:50Speaker 1: Somebody already trademark that. I'm sure, Oh yeah, that bitch
- 23:58Speaker 1: is English? Do it to play n no le Trea
- 24:04Speaker 1: is born exactly. But definitely I think that that everyone
- 24:10Speaker 1: is writing a memoir. I think it's it's a great
- 24:13Speaker 1: way to just release you know, a lot of emotions
- 24:18Speaker 1: and things you know. And like I said, I always
- 24:19Speaker 1: read women memoirs. I don't know if any men that
- 24:21Speaker 1: have memoirs. I'm sure they do, but I'm just not
- 24:24Speaker 1: interested in them. But as a woman, I love to
- 24:27Speaker 1: read other powerful, strong women that have had a very
- 24:32Speaker 1: complete and like fulfilled life. I just love to know
- 24:35Speaker 1: how they started and how their how their journey was.
- 24:39Speaker 1: I haven't read Britney's yet.
- 24:40Speaker 2: What would be one of the stories you would share
- 24:42Speaker 2: in your memoir? Something different?
- 24:45Speaker 3: Many stories I know, and I know I'm not I'm
- 24:48Speaker 3: not going to give it here and I put forward
- 24:49Speaker 3: because you know, nobody's gonna buy it. Just you know,
- 24:52Speaker 3: I'm going to do like Brittany and I'm going to
- 24:54Speaker 3: shock people. And I'm going to do like Jada, and
- 24:57Speaker 3: I'm going to shock people. And my book is number
- 25:00Speaker 3: one bestseller. Yes, no, I'm not. I mean, I wouldn't say.
- 25:03Speaker 3: I think I have so many stories. I think I
- 25:04Speaker 3: would like to start, and I think it's important to
- 25:06Speaker 3: start since I was a child, because that kind of
- 25:09Speaker 3: like determines.
- 25:10Speaker 2: How you got here. Yeah, I think a lot of
- 25:13Speaker 2: that has.
- 25:13Speaker 3: To do with it. But I would like people to
- 25:15Speaker 3: know more about my childhood, my upbringing, and you know,
- 25:19Speaker 3: about my parents that I adored so much and howick
- 25:23Speaker 3: influential they were in my life. And yeah, I think
- 25:27Speaker 3: that as I'm writing, there's going to be so many stories,
- 25:31Speaker 3: you know.
- 25:31Speaker 1: Yeah, because things come from to the surface that you
- 25:34Speaker 1: forgot about. When you're talking about things, they just start
- 25:37Speaker 1: to bubble up and happen.
- 25:39Speaker 2: You know, been there, done that. It would also be
- 25:41Speaker 2: a good name for a book for you, if anyone
- 25:44Speaker 2: else is known.
- 25:46Speaker 3: I should have Okay, you simp I should have I
- 25:49Speaker 3: should have done that if I would have done that,
- 25:51Speaker 3: I should have done that.
- 25:52Speaker 2: I feel like you've already done everything.
- 25:54Speaker 3: There's still there's still a lot of years, hopefully, you know.
- 25:58Speaker 1: Hopefully calm ones no more so rises you had enough surprises.
- 26:02Speaker 2: I'm done with surprises.
- 26:05Speaker 1: Yes, I have a story that I would tell in
- 26:07Speaker 1: my memoir that I already. I told you this one
- 26:11Speaker 1: this weekend because it was so funny when we went
- 26:13Speaker 1: to redecorate my office.
- 26:15Speaker 3: Oh, I love it. You have so many anecdotes like
- 26:17Speaker 3: with your mom that are so incredible.
- 26:21Speaker 2: So funny. Yeah, I know, everyone said you need to
- 26:26Speaker 2: write a book. What am I talking about?
- 26:28Speaker 3: Your mom? Your mom?
- 26:30Speaker 2: So, my old business partner was telling me the other
- 26:33Speaker 2: day that she had gone to look at desks while
- 26:37Speaker 2: we were decorating the office when we had the PR firm,
- 26:40Speaker 2: and Carol said.
- 26:42Speaker 1: She really wanted a glass top desk and they were
- 26:45Speaker 1: looking at one and that my mother said to her.
- 26:47Speaker 2: I you come buy a lat top desk. How are
- 26:51Speaker 2: you going to crash your peepy? Everyone will see you.
- 26:56Speaker 3: Who even think of that? You see, Elsa would come
- 26:59Speaker 3: up with those things because if it see through, you know,
- 27:02Speaker 3: if you could see clear glass, you can't.
- 27:05Speaker 2: Do anything, everyone will see you. It was so funny.
- 27:08Speaker 2: She always came up with funny things like that, who thinks.
- 27:11Speaker 3: Do you think? Do you think that that's why men
- 27:13Speaker 3: don't have see you know, like clear glass desks. They
- 27:16Speaker 3: usually have like a wooden desk. Coming you noticed, Oh,
- 27:20Speaker 3: what do you think they're doing underneath the that's where
- 27:23Speaker 3: the secretary goes? Don't exactly does I wonder if Bill
- 27:26Speaker 3: Clinton had one? Oh?
- 27:28Speaker 1: Yeah, clear, it was I think the Oval Office has
- 27:31Speaker 1: a wood desk, yes, you know vintage, Yeah, yeah, an
- 27:35Speaker 1: old English wood desk.
- 27:36Speaker 2: My moral of the.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Story you should get your husband. And if you cheat
- 27:44Speaker 3: at cards, don't have a glass desk a table. Don't
- 27:47Speaker 3: play cards on a glass table if you're gonna cheat.
- 27:49Speaker 3: We busted my mother cheating all the time. She would
- 27:52Speaker 3: hide cards under her butt when we were playing and
- 27:54Speaker 3: be like mom, and she'd.
- 27:55Speaker 1: Be like, how do you know like the tables glass,
- 27:58Speaker 1: we can see you, we can see what?
- 28:00Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so good. So we have another
- 28:03Speaker 3: question here and they're asking us what can we expect
- 28:07Speaker 3: for live with Marisol and Alexia. I'm so excited. I'm
- 28:10Speaker 3: driving down from Detroit. Oh what an honor.
- 28:14Speaker 2: That's what an honor.
- 28:15Speaker 3: I want you to say who you are once you're there,
- 28:17Speaker 3: because we're gonna remember you.
- 28:19Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna call you up, call you up to
- 28:22Speaker 2: the stage, and have a cocky made by me, because
- 28:25Speaker 2: one of the things we're gonna do is make some cockies.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Yeah, because we need cockies to have even more fun.
- 28:30Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:31Speaker 1: So yeah, we're gonna play games, and we're gonna gossip,
- 28:34Speaker 1: and we're gonna do Q and a's and we're going
- 28:36Speaker 1: to have a meet and greet that stage.
- 28:39Speaker 2: We're gonna do a lot of things.
- 28:39Speaker 3: That night's fun. It's gonna be fun. It's just kind
- 28:42Speaker 3: of you girls are going to be and guys because
- 28:43Speaker 3: I'm sure there's gonna be guys there as well. It's
- 28:46Speaker 3: just gonna be like a night to hang out, hang
- 28:48Speaker 3: out with us, and we're just gonna talk about everything
- 28:51Speaker 3: you guys want to talk about. Ask us questions, play games,
- 28:54Speaker 3: have fun, you know, just like Marathon I do with
- 28:57Speaker 3: you know, if I teach them some Spanglish right tum
- 29:00Speaker 3: being see, everybody likes a little bit of Spanish.
- 29:04Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Another question here is how does your friendship
- 29:08Speaker 2: help each other? I like this one. I like this
- 29:11Speaker 2: one because we have a really good dynamic.
- 29:14Speaker 3: I like.
- 29:15Speaker 1: What I love about you is you always give great advice.
- 29:19Speaker 1: You give good advice, and you're always good about giving
- 29:22Speaker 1: me for like, because you know, I'm very so I'm
- 29:26Speaker 1: very calm. I'm very calm, and I try to keep
- 29:29Speaker 1: myself very relaxed. So I'm very good at relaxing and
- 29:32Speaker 1: soothing you, I think, and you're so riled up. And
- 29:36Speaker 1: when I need riling up, she riles me up, and
- 29:40Speaker 1: you give me good advice and you rile me up
- 29:41Speaker 1: and then I calm you down. I think that's the
- 29:44Speaker 1: circle of our.
- 29:45Speaker 3: Cares no, I mean, and I think that that's why
- 29:47Speaker 3: our friendship works, because we really help each other with everything,
- 29:52Speaker 3: you know, like when I think that you know you
- 29:54Speaker 3: need me to give you that, I'm there to give
- 29:57Speaker 3: it to you, you know, and you think I need to,
- 29:59Speaker 3: you know, calm me down or just like just listen. Yeah,
- 30:04Speaker 3: you're you're there for me. So I think we just
- 30:06Speaker 3: kind of like figured it out and we and we
- 30:09Speaker 3: help each other like not take life so serious and
- 30:12Speaker 3: just have fun with it. And I think that's also
- 30:14Speaker 3: been like with age and with our friendship of so
- 30:17Speaker 3: many years, right, Like we were at a different stage
- 30:20Speaker 3: in our lives when we first met, and then we
- 30:22Speaker 3: went into a second stage, and now I feel like,
- 30:24Speaker 3: you know, we're in our third stage of our friendship,
- 30:27Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
- 30:28Speaker 1: Yeah, But like, honestly, I look back and I reflect
- 30:33Speaker 1: on how anxious and how worried I get about things
- 30:35Speaker 1: in my past, and now I don't worry about anything
- 30:37Speaker 1: because I know how temporary everything is. But then sometimes
- 30:40Speaker 1: you're like, you didn't want you know, and you did
- 30:43Speaker 1: give me my.
- 30:45Speaker 3: I worry about the things you have to worry. I
- 30:47Speaker 3: don't worry about silly stuff. And I also love that,
- 30:50Speaker 3: like not to sweat the small stuff and things you
- 30:53Speaker 3: have no control over. But you know, sometimes I think
- 30:56Speaker 3: we just keep each other on our toes between and
- 31:00Speaker 3: giving each other advice and just being there for each other,
- 31:04Speaker 3: and we just really enjoy each other. Yeah, I think
- 31:07Speaker 3: that that's very secret.
- 31:08Speaker 2: And you make me laugh because you're funny.
- 31:10Speaker 3: So are you? You're funnier, bro, You're funny different.
- 31:13Speaker 1: It's totally different and both thoroughly entertaining. That's all I
- 31:18Speaker 1: have to say about that. Yeah, Well, that being said,
- 31:22Speaker 1: are you different in real life? From how you are
- 31:24Speaker 1: on rhl M and do you ever hold back because
- 31:27Speaker 1: you're worried about how it looks on TV?
- 31:28Speaker 2: Why I know you?
- 31:29Speaker 3: My god? No, Okay, so I'm going to answer that
- 31:31Speaker 3: question because exactly why I am on TV is who
- 31:35Speaker 3: I am my real life and whoever I am in
- 31:37Speaker 3: my real life, that's who you guys see on TV.
- 31:39Speaker 3: And what I love about it is that my friends
- 31:41Speaker 3: and family that really know me, they're like, oh my god,
- 31:44Speaker 3: that's so Alexia, because that's how I really am. And
- 31:47Speaker 3: you know, I'm never going to lose that. And I
- 31:49Speaker 3: think that's the best advice that I can give to
- 31:51Speaker 3: any woman out there that wants to cast for these
- 31:54Speaker 3: kind of shows. Be authentic, be yourself and never change
- 31:59Speaker 3: you know you to be you. Don't try to like
- 32:01Speaker 3: imitate anyone else on any other show or do anything else.
- 32:05Speaker 3: Just be authentic and be you. And I think that's
- 32:07Speaker 3: been part of my success and why people like me
- 32:10Speaker 3: on the show. And No, I never hold myself back.
- 32:12Speaker 3: I actually maybe sometimes, like in Miami this weekend, I
- 32:15Speaker 3: mean sorry, in Brabo Con this weekend, in the Miami panel,
- 32:19Speaker 3: like Memordila linguis a couple of times I was Alexiano, okay,
- 32:23Speaker 3: Alexia no, because you know, everybody was like being like
- 32:27Speaker 3: to kumbaya moment. Everybody was love. It was a LoveFest.
- 32:32Speaker 3: I was like, it was an apology tour. It was
- 32:34Speaker 3: a love fest. It was kumbaya. I was like, what's
- 32:37Speaker 3: wrong with you women? Like why are you all lying?
- 32:39Speaker 3: Like I know you don't all feel this way, but
- 32:41Speaker 3: you know what, Alexa was not going to start it,
- 32:43Speaker 3: so I was like, okay.
- 32:45Speaker 2: We kept looking at each other.
- 32:46Speaker 1: You and I always look at each other and during
- 32:48Speaker 1: awkward moments and we can read each other's eyes.
- 32:50Speaker 2: It's so funny even.
- 32:51Speaker 3: But you see where you caught me down because I
- 32:54Speaker 3: looked at you and you just want like that. And
- 32:55Speaker 3: I was like, okay, she's not coming on me because
- 32:59Speaker 3: you know what exactly, but you know it was Honestly,
- 33:02Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you're all lying because I really
- 33:06Speaker 3: know how you feel about each other and and you
- 33:08Speaker 3: just guys are playing it safe. You know, what do
- 33:10Speaker 3: you think happened? Do you think everybody was just like scared.
- 33:14Speaker 2: Or I don't know, I don't know. I honestly it
- 33:19Speaker 2: was really odd. And then I think once.
- 33:21Speaker 3: By the way, guys we're talking about our panel, our
- 33:24Speaker 3: Miami panel in at brabocon.
- 33:27Speaker 1: Where they released the second well they actually but they
- 33:31Speaker 1: didn't was going to get but that's not important.
- 33:34Speaker 3: That's not important whether they released the trailer or not,
- 33:37Speaker 3: and whether producers were there or not.
- 33:39Speaker 2: We need to.
- 33:42Speaker 3: You know, we need to talk about it, and nobody
- 33:44Speaker 3: showed up to talk about it. But you know I'm
- 33:47Speaker 3: talking about it now.
- 33:49Speaker 1: Yeah, the tone took a really weird direction. So someone
- 34:00Speaker 1: wants to know how we navigate and maintain our strong
- 34:03Speaker 1: friendship during filming.
- 34:05Speaker 3: We don't, not at all times. So we Marithol and
- 34:11Speaker 3: I tend to disagree a lot when it comes to filming.
- 34:14Speaker 3: Everything else, like in our personal day to day life
- 34:17Speaker 3: and stuff, we're good. We really don't argue about anything.
- 34:20Speaker 3: We get along. It's all like chill and good and
- 34:22Speaker 3: and fun moments. I think that our hardest moments have
- 34:27Speaker 3: been while we have been filming, because we have different
- 34:31Speaker 3: styles and we disagree on a lot of things. The
- 34:34Speaker 3: kind of person that I when when I know, when
- 34:37Speaker 3: I know you did something to me, I need to
- 34:39Speaker 3: tell you, and I need to confront you, and I'm
- 34:41Speaker 3: going to say it in your face. I'm going to
- 34:42Speaker 3: go to you and I'm gonna say in your face.
- 34:44Speaker 3: And I think that Marathol has a different style. You know, Marisol,
- 34:47Speaker 3: you can answer that. She's not confrontational and you know
- 34:50Speaker 3: it makes her feel uncomfortable, so she doesn't do that.
- 34:53Speaker 3: She rather like not talk about it or you know,
- 34:57Speaker 3: you know, tell girls in.
- 34:59Speaker 1: Different style my styles. Your style is not my style.
- 35:03Speaker 1: But what they're saying is how do we maintain a
- 35:05Speaker 1: strong friendship right during filming? And I think that we
- 35:09Speaker 1: get through all of that because we communicate constantly and openly.
- 35:14Speaker 1: We're constantly communicating and speaking you and I and that
- 35:17Speaker 1: kind of keeps open lines and and it helps maintain the.
- 35:21Speaker 3: Friendship, right Yeah, I mean it's really not right. I
- 35:25Speaker 3: mean sometimes and we and we've always established that we
- 35:28Speaker 3: were not going to let this show ruin our friendship
- 35:31Speaker 3: or any of the other ladies you know, come between us.
- 35:34Speaker 3: So we've always like established that and we know, you know,
- 35:36Speaker 3: like you know that this is a show and shows
- 35:38Speaker 3: are you know, sometimes temporary, and you know our friendship
- 35:42Speaker 3: is going to be forever.
- 35:44Speaker 1: Well we actually, I actually think it's funny when they
- 35:47Speaker 1: when the girls think that they're coming between us we actually.
- 35:50Speaker 3: Laugh about it like this, We laugh a lot like
- 35:54Speaker 3: they stupid, like they don't even understand if they want,
- 35:58Speaker 3: you know, how much they would want that, but that's
- 36:00Speaker 3: never going to happen. So you see, it's something like
- 36:02Speaker 3: Marathon I have talked about and say, you know what
- 36:04Speaker 3: these ladies would love for us not to be as
- 36:07Speaker 3: close as we are and have each other's back.
- 36:09Speaker 1: And if this far, if I made it this far,
- 36:12Speaker 1: I'm not out and it's not happening. It's nothing's going
- 36:15Speaker 1: to get me out.
- 36:15Speaker 2: Of this friendship. I mean we've made it this far.
- 36:18Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's how we feel. You know, we have
- 36:20Speaker 3: this special bond that you know, no, no show and
- 36:24Speaker 3: nobody else is going to come between us. So I
- 36:26Speaker 3: think that that's you know, what keeps us here together.
- 36:30Speaker 3: And you know our friendship is just stronger every day.
- 36:32Speaker 1: Really yeah, I mean there's only two things that would really,
- 36:36Speaker 1: you know, come between me and a friend is if
- 36:38Speaker 1: you try to steal my manner, steal my money.
- 36:40Speaker 2: And I don't see that happening. So you know, no, no,
- 36:44Speaker 2: it's not.
- 36:45Speaker 3: Your bird doesn't have to worry about me. You don't
- 36:47Speaker 3: have to worry about it.
- 36:48Speaker 2: I mean anyone.
- 36:49Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't do that, nor you know, we
- 36:52Speaker 1: don't have you know, yeah, not concerned mm hmmm, because
- 36:57Speaker 1: they're just deal breakers. Yeah. And will we see more
- 37:02Speaker 1: of Todd's daughters on the show.
- 37:05Speaker 3: No. So Todd's daughters are my stepdaughters, and they're very
- 37:10Speaker 3: smart and they don't want to be part of the show.
- 37:13Speaker 3: And you know, we discussed it as a family, and
- 37:16Speaker 3: you know, they determined that, you know, that was the
- 37:18Speaker 3: best decision, you know, for them. You know, they're they're
- 37:22Speaker 3: young girls, and you know, it's it's really scary, you know,
- 37:25Speaker 3: these kind of shows. You know, they can either you know,
- 37:29Speaker 3: make you really popular and you can have a career
- 37:31Speaker 3: out of it like some of the Daughters and other
- 37:34Speaker 3: franchises I've done, and it can also hurt you. So
- 37:38Speaker 3: you know, we decided to protect them and also make
- 37:41Speaker 3: the decision with them, not for them. And you know,
- 37:44Speaker 3: they decided on their own that they didn't want to be,
- 37:47Speaker 3: you know, part of it. And my stepdaughter Gabby is
- 37:50Speaker 3: in college now, so she's not even here right now,
- 37:52Speaker 3: and Sophia, that's a senior, will be leaving for college.
- 37:57Speaker 3: So you know, during an idea, Yeah, but you know,
- 38:01Speaker 3: I still have Peter and Frankie.
- 38:03Speaker 2: So, but Peter doesn't live with you.
- 38:06Speaker 3: No, no he doesn't, but I mean he's very much
- 38:07Speaker 3: involved in my life. Yeah, and Frankie too, so you know,
- 38:11Speaker 3: you guys, you know get to see that, you know,
- 38:12Speaker 3: which is nice because I think that's something more like
- 38:15Speaker 3: us Latina moms. Do you know that even if they
- 38:18Speaker 3: go away, you know, they always come back. You know,
- 38:20Speaker 3: Peter did go away also to Paris for school, but
- 38:22Speaker 3: then he came back and he moved close to me.
- 38:24Speaker 3: So it's like I'd like to have him here. Like today,
- 38:26Speaker 3: for example, I'm doing this, he went to pick up
- 38:28Speaker 3: Frankie at work and you know, and they're having lunch together.
- 38:32Speaker 3: So you know, I to meet my family and my
- 38:34Speaker 3: children have always been very important and I need to
- 38:37Speaker 3: know that they're okay and they're close to me. So
- 38:42Speaker 3: but yeah, you know, again, when my kids were smaller,
- 38:45Speaker 3: you know, they were smaller when Frankie and Peter started
- 38:48Speaker 3: to show and I made that decision for them. Today,
- 38:53Speaker 3: I would have done it different today, I would have
- 38:55Speaker 3: asked them because I mean, today the kids are so
- 38:57Speaker 3: much more advanced and you know, so much more and
- 39:00Speaker 3: we have social media. Now, when my kids when I
- 39:02Speaker 3: did the show in twenty ten that I brought in
- 39:06Speaker 3: season one and I brought my kids, we even had
- 39:10Speaker 3: I didn't even have Facebook, No, I had nothing that
- 39:12Speaker 3: they made me get Facebook at that point. I didn't
- 39:14Speaker 3: even have Facebook. But my kids were not in social media.
- 39:16Speaker 3: There was no social media. That's what I'm trying to say,
- 39:18Speaker 3: because that's what really upsets me and really hurts me.
- 39:21Speaker 3: You know that these kids that are so young, and
- 39:24Speaker 3: you know they're part of these shows, and then you
- 39:26Speaker 3: know all these angry people and haters, you know, go
- 39:29Speaker 3: on their social media to leave nasty comments. And you know,
- 39:33Speaker 3: I think we did the right thing by, you know,
- 39:35Speaker 3: as a family, making the decision that you know, they
- 39:38Speaker 3: weren't going to be on because we wanted to protect them.
- 39:41Speaker 3: Like I said, my kids back then, maybe if it
- 39:44Speaker 3: would be now, I would have done the same thing
- 39:46Speaker 3: for Peter and Frankie. But now it's too late. So
- 39:48Speaker 3: you're going to keep on seeing Peter and Frankie cool.
- 39:51Speaker 2: They're not going anywhere. Mm hmm. So this is an
- 39:55Speaker 2: interesting question. How is our relationship with Nicole currently? I
- 40:00Speaker 2: think we just we talked about this a couple of
- 40:02Speaker 2: ways ago. Yeah, that it's kind of like kind of like.
- 40:08Speaker 1: It's it's it's weird, it's awkward, Like I'm always like, hey,
- 40:12Speaker 1: how are you, and I always get like a, it's
- 40:14Speaker 1: just like this very apprehensive fake response that it just
- 40:19Speaker 1: feels just very non authentic, not you know, it's hard
- 40:23Speaker 1: to talk with her.
- 40:23Speaker 2: It's like a weird vibe.
- 40:25Speaker 3: Well, I don't think she's forgiven you, my friend. I
- 40:28Speaker 3: think that she holds on to her grudges, you know.
- 40:30Speaker 3: I think even and we saw that in her story
- 40:33Speaker 3: that you know, she's had a really difficult time to
- 40:36Speaker 3: forgive her father, and you know, her father is her father.
- 40:39Speaker 3: So in Mahinade, if she's like has a hard time
- 40:41Speaker 3: forgiving her father, she's going to have a hard time
- 40:43Speaker 3: forgiving you and forgiving others. So that's how I see it.
- 40:48Speaker 3: You know. I want to say that this season, I
- 40:50Speaker 3: went in, you know, trying to bring all the ladies together,
- 40:53Speaker 3: and I thought that, you know, me setting the tone
- 40:57Speaker 3: and me meeting with the girls separately and individual because
- 41:00Speaker 3: I have a history with all of you, and even
- 41:02Speaker 3: the new girls, you know, I thought, even you know,
- 41:05Speaker 3: before we all started hanging out together, I met with
- 41:08Speaker 3: him and I would have lunch with them, So I
- 41:10Speaker 3: felt like in the group, if anybody can bring us together,
- 41:13Speaker 3: it was me, and I set the tone and I
- 41:15Speaker 3: tried and and you guys will have to watch and see.
- 41:18Speaker 3: You know, there's highs and lows, you know, so you're
- 41:20Speaker 3: you're you get to see a little bit of everything.
- 41:23Speaker 3: But as far as Nicole goes, I think that I've tried,
- 41:26Speaker 3: and she keeps on disappointing me. That's all I gotta say.
- 41:29Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, do solid okay? More disappointment questions? How
- 41:34Speaker 2: are things with Adriana? Would you to a podcast?
- 41:41Speaker 3: You know what you guys are gonna have to see
- 41:43Speaker 3: because you know, we really don't talk about our show here,
- 41:47Speaker 3: so you guys are just gonna have to watch and
- 41:49Speaker 3: see and and see. But you know, I again, we
- 41:54Speaker 3: can't talk, so I can't even answer that. But how
- 41:56Speaker 3: are things are there Juanna? I wanted to think that
- 42:00Speaker 3: they were okay? And after I watched episode two, you
- 42:06Speaker 3: guys answer it. I want you guys to watch episode
- 42:09Speaker 3: two and tell me if I should be friends with Adriana. Yeah,
- 42:14Speaker 3: so if you could join any other franchise, which one
- 42:17Speaker 3: would that be Marasoon.
- 42:19Speaker 1: Well, we've answered this question many times over the years,
- 42:21Speaker 1: and I know where you want to go, and then
- 42:23Speaker 1: you know where I want to go. So I know
- 42:25Speaker 1: you want to go to Beverly Hills, right.
- 42:27Speaker 3: Yes, we need a Latina and Beverly Hills in californ.
- 42:36Speaker 2: I mean, you know where I always wanted to go.
- 42:38Speaker 3: You always wanted to go to New York, the old
- 42:41Speaker 3: New York cast, the legendaries.
- 42:44Speaker 2: Yeah, I love them, old friends.
- 42:46Speaker 3: You know, it would have fit very well with that group.
- 42:52Speaker 2: Okay, so we have some personal questions. Now, let's see,
- 42:56Speaker 2: what's the biggest thing you wish people understood about you? Hmmmm?
- 43:01Speaker 1: All right, you're thinking I'll answer mine. I don't drink
- 43:04Speaker 1: as much as it looks like I do. I mean,
- 43:08Speaker 1: it's honestly, I really don't. That's just me marketing.
- 43:12Speaker 2: I mean I think you could tell if I was
- 43:13Speaker 2: getting lit, it'd be pretty obvious.
- 43:16Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's a yeah, ay doo good. What's the
- 43:22Speaker 3: biggest thing that I wish people knew about me? I
- 43:25Speaker 3: would understand about me. I would understand about me. You know,
- 43:29Speaker 3: I guess that I'm very like passionate, you know, when
- 43:33Speaker 3: I when I speak, and you know, a lot of
- 43:36Speaker 3: times I gets lost in translation, you know, as being
- 43:40Speaker 3: like mean, because I scream like once I get it
- 43:43Speaker 3: all out. But my delivery a lot of times is
- 43:45Speaker 3: like strong because I'm a screamer and I yell and
- 43:48Speaker 3: I'm passionate because when I feel something that's like my
- 43:52Speaker 3: delivery that's like how I have to say it. But
- 43:54Speaker 3: like inside, you know, it's all coming from a good
- 43:56Speaker 3: place because I have a really soft heart.
- 44:00Speaker 2: So just that, yeah, I agree with that. I agree
- 44:03Speaker 2: with that.
- 44:04Speaker 1: You're always coming from a good place. Your delivery is strong. Yeah,
- 44:08Speaker 1: and then it gets confused as angry, but you're because.
- 44:11Speaker 3: The ladies aren't passionate. Yeah, they want they want to
- 44:13Speaker 3: confuse it. They want to change the storyline. Yeah, they
- 44:16Speaker 3: want to make me look a turn away that I'm not.
- 44:18Speaker 3: So yeah. How would you help someone radiate the confidence
- 44:24Speaker 3: that you have? H That's a really good question, Marisoon
- 44:29Speaker 3: will give you a drink which is called liquid courage.
- 44:32Speaker 3: And you think you're superwoman.
- 44:35Speaker 1: I'm going to help you relax and then I'm going
- 44:37Speaker 1: to talk to you into fabulousness, right, you.
- 44:40Speaker 3: Know, And for me, you know, for me, it's just
- 44:43Speaker 3: like you know, I'm so fortunate that I do have
- 44:47Speaker 3: that like instilled inside of me. By the way I
- 44:50Speaker 3: got to meet, I thought this was going to be
- 44:52Speaker 3: one of our questions. I think we said if we
- 44:54Speaker 3: had a brabo lab that was unpleasant to us so
- 44:58Speaker 3: that we didn't like, but we and ask which I
- 45:01Speaker 3: would have asked, was who was your favorite brabo leb
- 45:04Speaker 3: that you got to meet this weekend. So I met Obviously,
- 45:08Speaker 3: I know a lot of the housewives already and we
- 45:09Speaker 3: know each other and all that, but I met someone
- 45:12Speaker 3: from a different franchise, actually from a different show altogether,
- 45:15Speaker 3: and that's Madison from Southern Charm and I was so
- 45:22Speaker 3: amazed by her. And I had just watched Coming Back
- 45:25Speaker 3: from New York on the Plane her episode, and she
- 45:29Speaker 3: had such a strong episode and I got to see
- 45:31Speaker 3: that on the show, and then I got to meet her,
- 45:34Speaker 3: and she was so sweet and she was so nice.
- 45:36Speaker 3: First of all, they confused me with her, so for
- 45:39Speaker 3: me it was a huge compliment because she was he
- 45:41Speaker 3: was younger than me, and so that was that. And
- 45:45Speaker 3: then we got to talk and we hit it off.
- 45:47Speaker 3: So I think me just speaking to her and just
- 45:50Speaker 3: telling her how great she was and because I'm older
- 45:53Speaker 3: than her, and you know, she I was like, you know,
- 45:55Speaker 3: obviously my kids are older. She has a six year
- 45:57Speaker 3: old son and all of these things. I think just
- 46:00Speaker 3: by our conversation, you know, I gave her that confidence.
- 46:03Speaker 3: You know. I feel like sometimes me being like older
- 46:06Speaker 3: and wiser and got through so many lessons in my
- 46:09Speaker 3: life even without trying to. I sit next to someone
- 46:12Speaker 3: and I shine that light and that knowledge on them,
- 46:16Speaker 3: and I empower them. And I love that I can
- 46:18Speaker 3: do that and that I and I do it without
- 46:20Speaker 3: even trying. Like that's like how it was, you know.
- 46:23Speaker 3: And I see young women, you know, and like you
- 46:25Speaker 3: know that they're insecure about things, you know, and I
- 46:28Speaker 3: just want to like grab them and say, you know
- 46:29Speaker 3: what you're feeling amazing, keep on shining. You're great only
- 46:33Speaker 3: you know. So I feel like that I do that,
- 46:36Speaker 3: and I think that that's how I help people without
- 46:38Speaker 3: even trying.
- 46:39Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the problem is a lot of a
- 46:41Speaker 1: lot of girls, women, men try to compare themselves to
- 46:45Speaker 1: people they idolize or someone else.
- 46:47Speaker 2: And you can't do that because you are.
- 46:50Speaker 1: Unique and different in your own way, and there are
- 46:53Speaker 1: people that love you for who you are and what
- 46:56Speaker 1: you bring to the table, and you just kind of
- 46:58Speaker 1: have to accept them. Love who you are because you're
- 47:01Speaker 1: never going to be anybody else. You have to be
- 47:03Speaker 1: great at you. You know, you can be a great you,
- 47:07Speaker 1: then you will love you.
- 47:10Speaker 3: No, that's really good advice. I think that's one of
- 47:12Speaker 3: the questions that that's next, Like what advice would you
- 47:15Speaker 3: give women entering their thirties. Women in their thirties should
- 47:18Speaker 3: know that it's never too late, you know. I feel
- 47:21Speaker 3: like I did so much in my life in the
- 47:23Speaker 3: last ten years, and it's never too late. Like, you know,
- 47:26Speaker 3: I don't want them to take that, you know. Oh
- 47:28Speaker 3: my god, I'm in my thirties. I'm getting old. I
- 47:30Speaker 3: don't have enough time. No, like, take your time, you know,
- 47:33Speaker 3: work on yourself, and it's never too late, you know,
- 47:37Speaker 3: to be who you want to be and do what
- 47:38Speaker 3: you want to do.
- 47:40Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, don't be afraid to do anything. I started
- 47:42Speaker 1: my PR firm in my thirties. I jumped on it
- 47:45Speaker 1: and I had the energy and I had the desire.
- 47:48Speaker 1: Do I have it now?
- 47:49Speaker 2: No, So do it in your thirties because afterwards you
- 47:52Speaker 2: get really turned out.
- 47:53Speaker 3: The thirty really important years for women because like I said,
- 47:56Speaker 3: it's usually you're getting married, you're starting a family, and
- 47:59Speaker 3: then your career. So it's hard being a woman in
- 48:02Speaker 3: the thirties because they have to juggle all these different
- 48:04Speaker 3: hats and they're kind of new at it and it's scary.
- 48:08Speaker 3: But you know, don't be scared, like, you know, you
- 48:10Speaker 3: got this, and it's never too late. You know, you can,
- 48:14Speaker 3: you know, And even for the women that can't they
- 48:15Speaker 3: don't have children in the thirties, it's never too late.
- 48:17Speaker 3: You can have them in your forties. If your career isn't,
- 48:20Speaker 3: you know, blosshoming in your thirties, you know, it's never
- 48:22Speaker 3: too late. In your forties, you can do it.
- 48:24Speaker 2: Maybe you don't have kids at all, like men, you
- 48:26Speaker 2: can still have a great fulfilling life and be happy,
- 48:29Speaker 2: you know, you just it's just different generally.
- 48:32Speaker 3: Absolutely.
- 48:33Speaker 1: So I want to end because we have a question.
- 48:37Speaker 1: This is my favorite question of the day. What are
- 48:39Speaker 1: your favorite Cuban sayings?
- 48:40Speaker 2: And why? To wrap up the show? There's so many
- 48:44Speaker 2: good ones. I was all lost. I feel like when
- 48:46Speaker 2: we're talking you and me, they just come out. When
- 48:49Speaker 2: I had to think about them, I couldn't think of them.
- 48:52Speaker 2: I got a little stumped, but I still have. One
- 48:55Speaker 2: of my favorites is being bompboom, mm hmm bump boom
- 49:00Speaker 2: a car.
- 49:00Speaker 3: It's a car, and I know what it is, my love.
- 49:02Speaker 3: I know, pampoom.
- 49:08Speaker 2: It's a car. You know the ones that you open
- 49:11Speaker 2: up and sleep in.
- 49:12Speaker 1: But the Cubans love to say that it's pin bampoom
- 49:16Speaker 1: because when you open it up, it goes pink pompom.
- 49:18Speaker 2: When you open and it hits the floor.
- 49:20Speaker 3: Is a word. But one of my favorite Cuban sayings
- 49:24Speaker 3: is a roco mango no no no from Mango, and
- 49:29Speaker 3: that basically just means it's like a big mess. But
- 49:34Speaker 3: it's just funny because it's like a saying. And like
- 49:36Speaker 3: you said, there's so many sayings like.
- 49:40Speaker 2: I love when you say that makes me laugh when
- 49:44Speaker 2: you someone.
- 49:45Speaker 3: You take off your shoes, Yes, when your shoes and
- 49:48Speaker 3: you're in public and you're walking all over the lobby
- 49:51Speaker 3: or all over the street with no shoes on and
- 49:53Speaker 3: you're the bottom of your feet are dirty. So when
- 49:56Speaker 3: I see somebody with the shoes off, I say, Batasusa.
- 49:59Speaker 2: That makes me laugh.
- 50:00Speaker 1: Or junk someone that where's does flip flops and they
- 50:04Speaker 1: smack them on the floor.
- 50:06Speaker 3: You know. By the way, if we're gonna have we're
- 50:10Speaker 3: gonna have a little segment like this at our live
- 50:13Speaker 3: show where we talk about our favorite Cuban sayings and
- 50:18Speaker 3: and we want the audience, you know, to all get involved.
- 50:20Speaker 3: I mean, just like Spanish, you know, I feel like
- 50:22Speaker 3: not only Cuban, but I think a lot of the
- 50:23Speaker 3: Cubans can also translate into like other Spanish languages or cultures.
- 50:29Speaker 3: So you don't have He're in Miami, you know the
- 50:32Speaker 3: human chains.
- 50:33Speaker 2: M h m hmmm mmm. Yeah, so I hope everyone
- 50:37Speaker 2: comes to see us. That's December ninth, right.
- 50:39Speaker 3: Yes, in Boca. Can you give them the details?
- 50:42Speaker 1: Yes, it's at the Meisner Park, Boca, Meisner Park Theater
- 50:47Speaker 1: December ninth. The tickets are for sale ticket Master. You
- 50:51Speaker 1: can click the link in my bio. Do you have
- 50:53Speaker 1: it in your bio too to buy tickets? Alect No thing?
- 50:56Speaker 2: Okay, why have the link?
- 50:58Speaker 3: Maybe I do? Maybe I don't don't around those techy things.
- 51:01Speaker 3: But yeah, I'll just show up.
- 51:03Speaker 2: Trust me, I had help with that. I don't do
- 51:05Speaker 2: that me. That'll help. So, yeah, my tickets comes here,
- 51:09Speaker 2: So it's gonna be so fun.
- 51:11Speaker 3: Yes, yes, can't wait to see you guys. Thank you
- 51:14Speaker 3: for listening. Like always, it's such a pleasure and blessed
- 51:19Speaker 3: and until next time, Mi amiga. All right, love you bro,
- 51:24Speaker 3: have fun tonight, Love you mesitos. Thank you guys, so bye.
- 51:29Speaker 3: Thanks for listening.
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