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🎙️ Episode 12: Why Being a ‘Nice Guy’ Will Always Fail · Financial Survival Network

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  Speaker 1: Why being a nice guy will always fail. This is
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  Speaker 1: Johnny Depth, author of one thousand First Dates Portrait of
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  Speaker 1: a Palm Beach Player. Welcome to the truth most men
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  Speaker 1: learn too late. Modern society trains men to fail with women.
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  Speaker 1: We're taught to be agreeable, sensitive, accommodating, basically emotional butlers,
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  Speaker 1: and it backfires because women don't fall for approval seekers.
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  Speaker 1: They fall for men who lead with strength, confidence and direction.
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  Speaker 1: When you suppress your masculine edge, she'll test you, disrespect you,
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  Speaker 1: and eventually leave you. Not because you weren't nice, but
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  Speaker 1: because you weren't strong. If you're ready to stop losing
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  Speaker 1: and start leading, click the link or go to Palm
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  Speaker 1: Beach Player dot com and grab your copy of one
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  Speaker 1: thousand first Dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player. I've
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  Speaker 1: lived it, so you don't have to. Welcome back to
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  Speaker 1: one thousand first Dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Johnny Depp And if you've ever wondered why your
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  Speaker 1: relationships don't last, men lose interest, or why being a
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  Speaker 1: good guy keeps getting you nowhere, this video will flip
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  Speaker 1: the script. Let's be clear, I had a father in
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  Speaker 1: the house. I didn't come from dysfunction, but even with
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  Speaker 1: strong male presence, the world still tried to reprogram me
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  Speaker 1: school media relationships. They all teach men one dangerous lie,
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  Speaker 1: suppress your masculinity and women will love you for it.
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  Speaker 1: Be sensitive, be vulnerable, be safe, don't lead, collaborate, don't challenge, validate,
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  Speaker 1: don't be strong, be soft. You know what that created
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  Speaker 1: a generation of men afraid to be meant So I
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  Speaker 1: lived it. I showed up with charm, conversation and kindness,
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  Speaker 1: but underneath that no edge, no tension, no fire, and
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  Speaker 1: women felt it. They didn't say it out loud, but
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  Speaker 1: their actions told the truth. They tested me that they
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  Speaker 1: ran the show, and eventually they walked away. Because being
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  Speaker 1: nice doesn't spark desire. Being grounded in your masculine power does.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what most men never get taught. Women crave par
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  Speaker 1: masculine and feminine leader and follower. They don't want a partnership,
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  Speaker 1: they want a dynamic. When you show up passive, hesitant,
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  Speaker 1: or overly accommodating, she starts doing your job, and when
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  Speaker 1: she's forced to lead, she starts to resent you for it.
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  Speaker 1: That resentment that's the beginning of the end. When I
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  Speaker 1: stopped playing it safe. Everything changed. I started speaking my mind,
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  Speaker 1: I started setting boundaries, I started walking away from bad behavior.
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  Speaker 1: And suddenly women leaned in because now they could feel
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  Speaker 1: my presence, my strength, my leadership did They didn't want
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  Speaker 1: a yes man, they wanted a man with standards. That's
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  Speaker 1: the transformation I share in one thousand First Date. This
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  Speaker 1: isn't about blaming women. It's about understanding them and then
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  Speaker 1: becoming the kind of man they instinctively desire but rarely meet.
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  Speaker 1: If you're tired of being confused, heartbroken, or stuck in
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  Speaker 1: the loop of short term flings and failed relationships, there's
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  Speaker 1: a better way. Click the link or go to Palm
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  Speaker 1: Beach player dot com. Get the book, read it, apply it,
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  Speaker 1: and stop being the man women tolerate, and start being
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  Speaker 1: the man they can't forget. This is Johnny Depth. You've
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  Speaker 1: been taught to play small. Now it's time to play real.
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  Speaker 1: Like Share, subscribe and grab one thousand First Dates. Portrait
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  Speaker 1: of a Palm Beach Player at Palm Beach player dot com.
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  Speaker 1: I've lived it, so you don't have to