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- 0:03Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
- 0:07Speaker 1: talk back.
- 0:10Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for our
- 0:12Speaker 2: new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to
- 0:15Speaker 2: you niggas in these hoes. It's your co-host, AJ Holiday.
- 0:19Speaker 2: What's up, Tam? Hey, y'all. It's me, Tam Bam. I
- 0:22Speaker 2: love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. This show is
- 0:24Speaker 2: also dedicated to everything in between you niggas in these hoes.
- 0:28Speaker 2: Let's not forget them. Let's be inclusive. How you doing?
- 0:32Speaker 2: I'm good, girl. What's been up? Nothing. Just tearing up
- 0:37Speaker 2: these ATL streets. Not for real. I went to, I
- 0:41Speaker 2: went to, damn, I can't think of a name of it.
- 0:45Speaker 1: You know, Atlanta got so many black owned restaurants with vibes.
- 0:50Speaker 1: I went to this one Jamaican spot, had dinner there.
- 0:52Speaker 1: With a nice young man. And it was a good time.
- 0:56Speaker 1: You had time to eat since we've been here?
- 0:58Speaker 2: Shit. I'm going to find time to eat if I
- 1:00Speaker 2: don't find time for nothing else. I had some brunch.
- 1:03Speaker 2: I had a gaucher. Two days in a row. And
- 1:08Speaker 2: a nice ass seafood omelet over there. Yeah.
- 1:12Speaker 1: I had the snapper at this place.
- 1:13Speaker 2: And I ate out the nigga plate. It was the
- 1:17Speaker 2: first day. Greedy ass. He had a lamb shank. That
- 1:20Speaker 2: shit was delicious. You look frustrated too. Yeah, because bitch,
- 1:28Speaker 2: why you ain't order what you want? Get off my plate. Get.
- 1:31Speaker 1: I mean, I could have ordered both, but that would
- 1:32Speaker 1: have been very expensive for him. So let me just
- 1:35Speaker 1: taste it. You can have a piece of my fish
- 1:38Speaker 1: on the plate.
- 1:44Speaker 2: I don't like people eating off my plate. Like, please
- 1:45Speaker 2: order what you want. You can have a little tiny piece,
- 1:48Speaker 2: but I don't just be sticking my fork in people's
- 1:50Speaker 2: shit either because I don't like it. I don't just
- 1:52Speaker 2: stick it in there. I ask, you know? I need consent.
- 1:56Speaker 2: But if he was clearly aggravated because you asked, that
- 1:59Speaker 2: nigga's greedy. Who's greedy, you or him?
- 2:02Speaker 1: Him.
- 2:03Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? Sharing is sharing,
- 2:06Speaker 2: my nigga. You greedy bitch. Eat your food. That's why
- 2:12Speaker 2: I'm thick up. No, child. Listen, y'all, we trying to
- 2:16Speaker 2: get fined by the time this goddamn live show ends.
- 2:21Speaker 2: April 22nd. I got a hot two pounds for you.
- 2:26Speaker 2: Pull me yards, y'all. Pull up.
- 2:28Speaker 1: We coming out first. Y'all get there early if y'all
- 2:30Speaker 1: want to see us. Don't be like, damn, we came
- 2:32Speaker 1: to see We Talk Bad, but we didn't get there.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Till 4 o'clock. Doors open at 11. Be on time. Okay?
- 2:40Speaker 2: Be on time. I'm pretty sure parking going to be
- 2:42Speaker 2: crazy because this is a pretty decent sized venue, but
- 2:46Speaker 2: they're expecting at least 3,000 people, y'all. So, yeah. Come early.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Pull up.
- 2:51Speaker 2: And participate.
- 2:52Speaker 1: We look forward to seeing all of you. It's going
- 2:55Speaker 1: to be a time. We're going to have a time.
- 2:57Speaker 1: I'm glad we're going on first. So now we can
- 2:59Speaker 1: just chill and watch all the shows and cut up
- 3:02Speaker 1: with our fans in the audience.
- 3:04Speaker 2: Yep. We're going to be pulling up on y'all. And listen,
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- 3:21Speaker 2: participation you guys what we what we got going on
- 3:24Speaker 2: this week as stupid internet news sins.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Of the week all right so for the first time
- 3:31Speaker 1: since love and basketball people are paying attention to women's
- 3:35Speaker 1: basketball in real life and um we had a beef
- 3:40Speaker 1: like this is citra and uh monica Remember Citra?
- 3:45Speaker 2: I love it. I love it for them, man. Yeah,
- 3:47Speaker 2: me too.
- 3:48Speaker 1: So, um, Caitlin Clark, which is a badass white girl.
- 3:51Speaker 1: We not going to play with Caitlin Clark. She, uh,
- 3:53Speaker 1: was killing it the whole season and taking niggas down.
- 3:56Speaker 1: But when she met with LSU, they gave her the
- 3:59Speaker 1: same energy back and they lost. And people were upset
- 4:03Speaker 1: because Caitlin Clark was doing the, uh, the John Cena
- 4:08Speaker 1: wrestler gesture, like, you can't see me throughout the season.
- 4:13Speaker 2: And then when Angel Reese from LSU.
- 4:16Speaker 1: A young, beautiful black woman, did it back, there was
- 4:19Speaker 1: a lot of negative energy.
- 4:22Speaker 2: Toward her doing the same exact gesture.
- 4:25Speaker 1: And that's crazy because it literally is the same exact gesture.
- 4:29Speaker 1: People were calling her classless and an idiot and all
- 4:33Speaker 1: these different names that they just did not give. uh
- 4:36Speaker 1: kaitlyn clark they said it was uh her stunting they
- 4:41Speaker 1: said it was you know just the sport and there's
- 4:45Speaker 1: trash talking in the sport you know but when a
- 4:47Speaker 1: black girl did it you know i don't know i
- 4:50Speaker 1: can't think of what rapper it was but when he
- 4:52Speaker 1: said it's cool when they do it it's a problem
- 4:54Speaker 1: when i do it fuck them like that's two times
- 4:57Speaker 1: in it yeah baby that shit's so real.
- 5:00Speaker 2: Yeah, and she was really holding her hand up, like,
- 5:02Speaker 2: pointing to her ring finger, like, we about to get
- 5:05Speaker 2: this ring. We about to win. Right. Okay? Also, my
- 5:09Speaker 2: thing is, it makes no sense for us to continue
- 5:12Speaker 2: to do the comparison thing. Like, oh, they did it,
- 5:14Speaker 2: and then now we did it, and it's a problem.
- 5:16Speaker 2: We already know anything we do is going to be
- 5:19Speaker 2: a fucking problem.
- 5:20Speaker 1: But it's cool, you know? We found the victor, and
- 5:24Speaker 1: it was LSU. Congratulations to those ladies. Jill Biden went
- 5:28Speaker 1: on to say that she wanted to have both teams
- 5:34Speaker 1: come to the White House to celebrate LSU's win.
- 5:38Speaker 2: And I thought that was, yeah, I thought that was wild.
- 5:41Speaker 1: And Reese tweeted like, I think the fuck not.
- 5:45Speaker 2: I mean, not in those words, but basically. Because why
- 5:48Speaker 2: are we sharing this?
- 5:49Speaker 1: This is an accolade that only the national champion gets.
- 5:53Speaker 1: Why are we, why y'all trying this like that? We're
- 5:56Speaker 1: not going to share. Are we not coming?
- 5:58Speaker 2: Right. And I also saw that LSU's Alexis Morris requested
- 6:04Speaker 2: to celebrate with Michelle Obama instead if they were to
- 6:07Speaker 2: come to the White House. Right.
- 6:10Speaker 1: And I hate that, you know, it turned into a
- 6:13Speaker 1: race thing instead of a sports thing, you know. It
- 6:16Speaker 1: took away from, like, the sport, really, honestly. Because we're
- 6:22Speaker 1: talking more about that than the stats.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Exactly. And so also Don Stanley, the coach from USC.
- 6:30Speaker 2: She has some words for critics, too, and for the media.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Because it's like this, oh, they're thugs playing basketball. First
- 6:38Speaker 2: of all, this our shit. Black people dominate sports, period.
- 6:43Speaker 2: At what point do you think you're supposed to win?
- 6:46Speaker 2: I'm confused. You know what I'm saying? Especially basketball. So now, yeah.
- 6:50Speaker 2: It's some sports that white people dominate, like ice hockey. Golf.
- 6:54Speaker 2: Ice hockey. Hockey. Yeah, baseball. Women. Not even baseball because
- 6:58Speaker 2: they bring the Hispanics in for baseball and shit like that. Women.
- 7:04Speaker 2: We're supposed to win. Lacrosse. Yes, y'all got y'all shit.
- 7:08Speaker 2: We got our shit. Basketball is just one of those things. Yeah.
- 7:11Speaker 2: So it should be expected. But I feel like they
- 7:14Speaker 2: are actually sore losers. They do not need to be
- 7:17Speaker 2: going to the White House because that's just not how
- 7:20Speaker 2: it goes. So why are y'all catering to Iowa? Right. Interesting.
- 7:25Speaker 2: We know why. We know why.
- 7:29Speaker 1: They was thriving seeing that white girl busting niggas ass
- 7:32Speaker 1: on that court.
- 7:34Speaker 2: They was like, oh, yes. Eminem, now this. You know,
- 7:40Speaker 2: so they was happy about that shit. All right. Yep,
- 7:46Speaker 2: an angel came out there with her foot in they necks.
- 7:48Speaker 2: That shit over with. Yep.
- 7:50Speaker 1: So NLE Choppa and Sukiyana did a music video, and
- 7:57Speaker 1: it was pretty explicit some of the images that I saw.
- 7:59Speaker 2: The song is called Slut Me Out. Let's be clear.
- 8:03Speaker 1: Okay, so I guess the images from the video matches
- 8:07Speaker 1: the art. If y'all didn't see it over the weekend,
- 8:09Speaker 1: NLE Choppa is walking Sukiyana walking It's her and another girl,
- 8:16Speaker 1: and they walking him like a dog. And when you
- 8:18Speaker 1: be saying, take his bitch for a walk, he took
- 8:21Speaker 1: me for a walk, that's what I think of, bitch.
- 8:22Speaker 2: You need to stop saying that. You know what the
- 8:26Speaker 2: hell I mean, though. Like, just take your woman outside.
- 8:28Speaker 2: I'm definitely not saying walk me like a dog by
- 8:33Speaker 2: my goddamn 24 to 30-inch weave. Like, what the hell
- 8:35Speaker 2: is going on, man? Yeah, like the hair was a chain,
- 8:38Speaker 2: and they were on their knees walking on the ground.
- 8:40Speaker 2: You know what? It's so funny because... Never mind. I
- 8:43Speaker 2: ain't about to tell y'all my business like that. Do it. Okay.
- 8:48Speaker 1: So my friend had, this is my guy friend. We're
- 8:53Speaker 1: not like intimate. Like this is my homeboy. But I
- 8:56Speaker 1: was at his house and I was like, I went
- 8:59Speaker 1: in his room and I saw like a leash in
- 9:01Speaker 1: that motherfucker.
- 9:02Speaker 2: And I was like, what? You ain't got no dog.
- 9:04Speaker 2: What is this? And it had spikes on it. And
- 9:06Speaker 2: he was like, oh, that's just for Mr. Nasty time.
- 9:09Speaker 2: So I put it on. And I was like being silly, though.
- 9:13Speaker 2: You know I'm stupid.
- 9:14Speaker 1: And he was walking me around his bedroom. I was like,
- 9:16Speaker 1: you be really having bitches in here like this? And
- 9:19Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, you one of them now.
- 9:21Speaker 2: But I was like, no, it's different because I'm not
- 9:25Speaker 2: doing nothing sexual with you.
- 9:26Speaker 1: But people really be into that. So, I mean, it
- 9:31Speaker 1: is a reflection of art in a way, right?
- 9:33Speaker 2: Because this is a real lifestyle that people live. Or
- 9:36Speaker 2: BDSM type shit. Yeah, people really be into that. So
- 9:39Speaker 2: I get it.
- 9:40Speaker 1: But I suffered from secondhand embarrassment when I saw it.
- 9:45Speaker 1: When I saw it.
- 9:46Speaker 2: So did I. And I think either last year or
- 9:48Speaker 2: the year before it was a Colombian singer, J Balvin.
- 9:52Speaker 2: He was also walking two black women on a leash
- 9:55Speaker 2: and women was black women were an uproar.
- 9:59Speaker 3: What?
- 10:00Speaker 2: Is this how there's some people cheering it on you
- 10:02Speaker 2: know I have a love hate relationship with Sukiyan I
- 10:05Speaker 2: like Suki Because I think Suki is actually very intelligent.
- 10:08Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? I said this a couple
- 10:10Speaker 2: weeks ago. She'll put different books and shit she's reading
- 10:12Speaker 2: in her story and stuff like that. And I have
- 10:14Speaker 2: hope for her. And all of a sudden, she just
- 10:17Speaker 2: do some extra disgusting shit. I'm like, unfollow. It's just
- 10:24Speaker 2: too much for my timeline. I just can't. And then
- 10:26Speaker 2: you got a little girl. You got kids. What happens
- 10:29Speaker 2: when they see this? Did you see her little spat
- 10:31Speaker 2: with little mama? Yeah. But here's the thing.
- 10:35Speaker 1: Right now, I just feel like Sukiana, you don't want
- 10:38Speaker 1: to go back and forth with her because she's just
- 10:41Speaker 1: in a space where she's free and she don't care
- 10:44Speaker 1: about the opinions of others at all, which I can appreciate.
- 10:47Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like maybe you got
- 10:49Speaker 1: to get a little older and get a little bit
- 10:51Speaker 1: more wisdom before you understand that some of these things
- 10:54Speaker 1: are detrimental to, you know, your child got to grow up,
- 10:58Speaker 1: you know, and how are you going.
- 10:59Speaker 2: To explain this to them? I mean, this is her lifestyle,
- 11:03Speaker 2: so I'm assuming that her child would have, you know,
- 11:05Speaker 2: probably followed the same footsteps, and she's okay with that. Yeah. Well,
- 11:10Speaker 2: more power to me. I'll be safe out here. Who
- 11:12Speaker 2: am I? Listen, it's a judgment-free zone, psych. I'd definitely
- 11:17Speaker 2: be judging bitches. I don't want little mama on this shit, man.
- 11:22Speaker 2: You can say it's, like, artistic expression all you want. Dog,
- 11:27Speaker 2: it's kind of... Some of this shit does not belong
- 11:30Speaker 2: on TV, on the internet. It should be behind a
- 11:33Speaker 2: paid wall. But you know what? Some people would say
- 11:36Speaker 2: the same thing about our show. Our show is not
- 11:40Speaker 2: like that. What the hell? We talk nasty.
- 11:42Speaker 1: We talk about sex. We talk about dicks and balls
- 11:45Speaker 1: and eating booty. And people would be like.
- 11:48Speaker 2: They just give anybody a microphone, you know? So it's
- 11:51Speaker 2: just like... Look, I seen it. Somebody was like, bring
- 11:54Speaker 2: back shame. Bitch, I'm a hypocrite today. And what? Nah,
- 11:59Speaker 2: just dang it. That's what... Dang it. Yeah, I mean,
- 12:04Speaker 2: it's pushing the envelope. And look, and speaking of booty eating,
- 12:08Speaker 2: because it seems like we've been talking about booty eating
- 12:10Speaker 2: the last couple weeks. This chaotic 305 was on that...
- 12:15Speaker 2: that show off the porch, like the, it's like an online. Yeah.
- 12:20Speaker 2: Isn't it off the porch, right?
- 12:21Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:21Speaker 2: Yeah. Girl, he's surrounded by his five girlfriends, he says,
- 12:25Speaker 2: and they all motivate him. So they're his muse, right?
- 12:28Speaker 2: And in addition to, you know, being his muse, they
- 12:32Speaker 2: all eat his booty, he says. I'm just like, where
- 12:38Speaker 2: the fuck did that come from? You know what? And
- 12:40Speaker 2: this is the real stupid internet news for the week, y'all.
- 12:43Speaker 2: And they keep him motivated. But you got to have
- 12:47Speaker 2: money to keep five women happy. But here's the thing. Dr.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Fauci need to get and do a public service announcement
- 12:54Speaker 1: at this point. He need to get on there and
- 12:56Speaker 1: tell everybody, like, stop eating booty. It's out of control
- 13:00Speaker 1: right now.
- 13:00Speaker 2: It's an epidemic. Yes. Dog, you are eating. People matter. Right.
- 13:06Speaker 2: Who get E. coli in the throat need to do
- 13:08Speaker 2: an infomercial.
- 13:09Speaker 1: I ate booty and now I can't breathe through my nose.
- 13:14Speaker 2: Please stop eating booty. Oh, somebody gonna get mad at
- 13:17Speaker 2: me for that, ain't it? I'm sorry, y'all. I tell jokes.
- 13:21Speaker 2: But it can happen. You be done. Eat your damn
- 13:24Speaker 2: esophagus up with some goddamn fecal matter. Right. E. coli.
- 13:29Speaker 2: Come on, man. Salmonella down the throat. Ooh. Yeah. Child, listen.
- 13:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Now I do enjoy a good booty looking, looking, uh,
- 13:38Speaker 2: every once in a while. Okay. It was just the
- 13:40Speaker 2: act of it. It doesn't really actually feel good. It's
- 13:43Speaker 2: just like, just this super, I don't even, is it intimate?
- 13:47Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just a super nasty thing, but.
- 13:49Speaker 2: I think it's something about submission.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Like somebody completely submitting to you in the most, uh,
- 13:59Speaker 1: degrading way.
- 14:00Speaker 2: Right. Yeah. Think about animals. Animals be licking each other's booty.
- 14:04Speaker 1: All the time. They be licking their own butt. But
- 14:06Speaker 1: they also can't drive cars or read books. So they
- 14:10Speaker 1: get a pass.
- 14:10Speaker 2: We just sophisticated animals. Nah, we just sophisticated animals. That's
- 14:13Speaker 2: why we should know better than licking each other's butthole. Well,
- 14:18Speaker 2: I guess dogs have different bacteria in their mouth to
- 14:21Speaker 2: help fight certain diseases and shit like that that humans
- 14:24Speaker 2: don't have. And that's why you can let your dog
- 14:26Speaker 2: lick you in the mouth and you fuck around and die.
- 14:29Speaker 2: from letting your dog lick you in the mouth because
- 14:31Speaker 2: they lick their ass and other people's ass and shit
- 14:33Speaker 2: on the ground.
- 14:34Speaker 1: That's what I mean the other day that said that's
- 14:37Speaker 1: what I love about humans we'll lick each other buttholes
- 14:39Speaker 1: but ask for another fork at a restaurant if there's
- 14:43Speaker 1: a small stain.
- 14:48Speaker 2: On it can't use each other's straw so listen Larsa
- 14:57Speaker 2: Pippen has been catching a lot of heat. I actually
- 15:00Speaker 2: had a text argument with one of my homeboys, but
- 15:03Speaker 2: he was basically calling her a pedophile for being with
- 15:07Speaker 2: Michael Jordan's son. So Michael Jordan's son is 32. Larsa
- 15:11Speaker 2: Pippen is 49, right? He's basically saying she watched him
- 15:16Speaker 2: grow up. First of all, Scottie Pippen and Michael Jordan
- 15:20Speaker 2: are not friends like that. They probably cool, but she
- 15:22Speaker 2: did not watch him grow up. Because let's be clear,
- 15:25Speaker 2: she's a whole 10 years younger than Scottie Pippen. And
- 15:29Speaker 2: he was like, I'm not bringing up sex. You brought
- 15:31Speaker 2: up sex, the sex of the person. He was like,
- 15:33Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if it was a man or a female.
- 15:35Speaker 2: It's still wrong. I mean, a woman or a man
- 15:37Speaker 2: is still wrong. And I'm like, you are talking about
- 15:40Speaker 2: this because it's a woman doing it. Because Scottie Pippen's
- 15:44Speaker 2: new girlfriend, guess how old she is? Twenty-five. Nobody said
- 15:50Speaker 2: shit about it. 32 years younger than him. And ain't
- 15:53Speaker 2: nobody talking nothing about it. Michael Jordan's wife, I mean,
- 15:57Speaker 2: she's probably about 15 years younger than him. 15, 20
- 16:00Speaker 2: years younger than him. But when it's a... It's cool
- 16:04Speaker 2: when they do it. It's a problem when I do it. Right. Now,
- 16:08Speaker 2: it's not my cup of tea. It's not something that
- 16:10Speaker 2: I would be interested in doing, especially if I was 49.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Look at Tammy. She's a 32-year-old, but... That's their business.
- 16:18Speaker 2: These are grown people. He's not a child. He's not
- 16:22Speaker 2: a child.
- 16:23Speaker 1: When me and my husband get into like 15, 16
- 16:26Speaker 1: years of marriage and we decide to have an open marriage,
- 16:28Speaker 1: I'm giving me a young one.
- 16:30Speaker 2: He going to be hating. He going to have him
- 16:34Speaker 2: a young one too.
- 16:35Speaker 1: We going to live forever because we just going to
- 16:37Speaker 1: be feeding off the energy of these young people.
- 16:39Speaker 2: The only difference is you going to still be able.
- 16:42Speaker 2: He might not be able to please that young one.
- 16:43Speaker 2: And that's the shit that kills me about older men
- 16:47Speaker 2: dating younger women. Y'all can't keep up with them. Y'all
- 16:50Speaker 2: can barely keep up with women. Like, we in our
- 16:53Speaker 2: prime as far as sex. You know what I'm saying? Like, bitch,
- 16:57Speaker 2: I be in heat like a puppy. Yeah. Like a
- 17:00Speaker 2: grown-ass dog, okay? Definitely be in heat. So, you 40, 50,
- 17:06Speaker 2: 60-year-old trying to get on shit. Well, here's the thing.
- 17:10Speaker 2: 25 to 40. You want to have a run for
- 17:12Speaker 2: your money.
- 17:13Speaker 1: With women young, I don't think they're looking for physical
- 17:17Speaker 1: satisfaction from older men. I think they're looking for financial satisfaction.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Absolutely. But Viagra done fucked the game up. So they
- 17:23Speaker 2: don't want to just hold hands anymore. They actually want
- 17:26Speaker 2: to put meat in you. Viagra done fucked the game up. Cialis,
- 17:34Speaker 2: Honey Pack, the Blue Chew, all those things.
- 17:37Speaker 1: Yep.
- 17:39Speaker 2: Where's the stuff for women's libido? They be hating on us. Yeah,
- 17:42Speaker 2: they don't. They don't have that really.
- 17:46Speaker 1: Oh, no, they do have this thing, not for libido,
- 17:49Speaker 1: but it's this lady who has a suite and one
- 17:53Speaker 1: of my friends, she owns a salon suites and she
- 17:56Speaker 1: does like this procedure. It's not a really like a procedure,
- 18:00Speaker 1: but it's like a wand that go on your coochie
- 18:01Speaker 1: and tighten it.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Oh, so it's like rejuvenation. yeah yeah yeah so when
- 18:06Speaker 2: we had uh the dick doc on tiktok and um
- 18:10Speaker 2: dr mills the urologist we talked about that stuff like
- 18:13Speaker 2: there are things like medical procedures that women can do
- 18:17Speaker 2: to um to you know tighten the muscles maybe add
- 18:21Speaker 2: more moisture shit like that but as far as like
- 18:24Speaker 2: libido i guess aside from doing like hormonal treatments yeah
- 18:30Speaker 2: Men have all of these things that they can, because
- 18:33Speaker 2: they just expected to fuck forever, basically, when really y'all can't.
- 18:37Speaker 1: More power to them, because I want y'all to be
- 18:39Speaker 1: able to fuck forever. You live longer when you're still fucking,
- 18:42Speaker 1: I feel like.
- 18:43Speaker 2: Right. You got to be heart healthy and take any
- 18:45Speaker 2: of those pills anyway. Yeah, that part. Yeah. So that's
- 18:49Speaker 2: what we want to talk about today, y'all. How low
- 18:51Speaker 2: can you go? How young is too young? How old
- 18:56Speaker 2: is too old? I like them in between. Okay. I
- 18:58Speaker 2: like it like a little salt and pepper, a little zaddy.
- 19:01Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? And I like a nigga
- 19:03Speaker 2: that's going to teach me a new TikTok. Shame, bitch.
- 19:11Speaker 2: Get your life. Y'all stay tuned. We'll be right back.
- 19:19Speaker 2: We back, y'all. I'm Luke. Can you go? Hey, how's love?
- 19:24Speaker 2: Can you go? Bitch, I got a gritty penis. Okay,
- 19:27Speaker 2: let's be clear. These memes can't go too fucking low.
- 19:30Speaker 1: Listen, how young is too young for you to date?
- 19:39Speaker 2: I would say... My preference is, like, 47-year-old. But, okay,
- 19:47Speaker 2: I'll go, like, 30... that's a good number. 33. 33
- 19:53Speaker 2: is the youngest. Yes. All right. And that might be
- 19:58Speaker 2: too young, but maybe. Three stars suggest that younger men
- 20:03Speaker 2: are seeking older women. One survey found that 81% of
- 20:06Speaker 2: women Are open to dating a man 10 years younger.
- 20:10Speaker 2: 10 years? Nah. So I'm 38. No, I'm not trans age. Okay?
- 20:17Speaker 2: I am not dating a man who is 28 years old.
- 20:21Speaker 2: I'm just not. Dating? I'll try to stay in the 30s, right? Well,
- 20:31Speaker 2: I can. I might go younger. Because listen. Men reach
- 20:37Speaker 2: their sexual peak in their 20s. You know that, right?
- 20:41Speaker 2: So you're saying by the time they are to the
- 20:44Speaker 2: age I like, it's over with? I don't think that's true.
- 20:47Speaker 2: It's a dick from 47-year-old niggas, okay? And you feel
- 20:52Speaker 2: like it's better? Yes. They know what the fuck is
- 20:56Speaker 2: going on.
- 20:57Speaker 1: So why do they say that men reach their sexual
- 21:00Speaker 1: peak in their 20s versus women?
- 21:03Speaker 2: Who reached their sexual peak in their 30s and 40s.
- 21:06Speaker 2: I think we talked about this last week a little
- 21:07Speaker 2: bit because I do have some friends who have not
- 21:09Speaker 2: been getting dick from their significant others. Are they younger men? No. Well,
- 21:14Speaker 2: a little bit. A little bit younger than them. And
- 21:16Speaker 2: the women are like around my age, kind of. And
- 21:20Speaker 2: the men that they are with are a little bit younger.
- 21:23Speaker 2: And they're not getting as much sex as they want
- 21:26Speaker 2: from the men. See? So that might be a thing.
- 21:30Speaker 2: But I don't know. I've never tested it. I've never
- 21:33Speaker 2: been with a super. I think the youngest dude at
- 21:35Speaker 2: this age I'm currently at that I've been with is
- 21:38Speaker 2: like 35. The youngest guy that I've held out or smashed.
- 21:43Speaker 2: You're my alien.
- 21:47Speaker 1: He was like 27 at the time.
- 21:51Speaker 2: And I'm trans-aged, so he was foolish. So he's not
- 21:55Speaker 2: 10 years younger than you.
- 21:57Speaker 1: I'm give a take i'm trans age so my age
- 22:00Speaker 1: is very fluid sir so i don't know if it
- 22:04Speaker 1: was teenage could have been somewhere in there and listen
- 22:09Speaker 1: this is all right this is a few years back
- 22:11Speaker 1: so this is like when tiktok first came out like
- 22:13Speaker 1: let's make a tiktok of course right so we have
- 22:16Speaker 1: a house trying to make a tiktok and i couldn't
- 22:19Speaker 1: pick a song he was like hurry up and pick
- 22:20Speaker 1: a song and i was.
- 22:21Speaker 2: Like i don't know he was like It ain't going
- 22:24Speaker 2: to be no Luther Vance. But there was Luther on there.
- 22:27Speaker 2: We used this. Maybe I like younger men because I
- 22:30Speaker 2: have like a fear of death.
- 22:32Speaker 1: And getting older, older men make me feel closer to death.
- 22:35Speaker 1: And younger men make me feel closer to life. I
- 22:40Speaker 1: think that's maybe what it is. I don't think it
- 22:44Speaker 1: has anything to do with the man. I think it's
- 22:46Speaker 1: just my mortality.
- 22:48Speaker 2: So if you date an older man, you feel like
- 22:51Speaker 2: you're going to die in a year? I feel like
- 22:53Speaker 2: I'm going to get older quicker. You know, that might
- 22:57Speaker 2: be what, you know, I talk about Diddy ass a lot. Like,
- 23:00Speaker 2: I really feel like Diddy be ciphering the energy of
- 23:03Speaker 2: these young women. Like, because did y'all, did you see him? Like,
- 23:06Speaker 2: did y'all see him during a pandemic? Like, Diddy has
- 23:10Speaker 2: some hair and shit. Soon as like, what, 2021? Like,
- 23:16Speaker 2: pandemic kind of over, 2022? He had his black hair
- 23:19Speaker 2: back and he's with Carisha. And you just got this
- 23:22Speaker 2: young-ass girl you just had a baby with. And now he's, like,
- 23:25Speaker 2: looking all young and vibrant all over. But think about it.
- 23:28Speaker 2: Think about where am I supposed to keep that grandkid?
- 23:31Speaker 2: They stay younger. They stay youthful, right? Do they? They, like,
- 23:35Speaker 2: back broke, tired of them fucking kids. Oh, they be
- 23:37Speaker 2: tired of the kids, but they know what TikTok is.
- 23:40Speaker 2: Get on that motherfucking TikTok. They know what it is.
- 23:44Speaker 2: They stay youthful. I don't know. Something about older dudes
- 23:48Speaker 2: just be making me feel... I don't know. You know, honestly,
- 23:53Speaker 2: I don't know. I've never even dated an older dude.
- 23:55Speaker 2: So you've never dated anybody, like, five years older than you? No. Ever?
- 24:01Speaker 1: No.
- 24:02Speaker 3: Oh, when the fuck was that? We in a room
- 24:07Speaker 3: with some young niggas, okay? Let's be clear. My lucky number's, like, 47.
- 24:12Speaker 3: They are, like, established.
- 24:15Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Like, they can take you
- 24:17Speaker 2: to do whatever you want to do. You're not picking
- 24:21Speaker 2: dick up and dropping dick off. You're not packing any
- 24:23Speaker 2: bagel inches. I can do it. I cannot fuck with
- 24:29Speaker 2: a young, like, a dude that's super young. Like, what
- 24:33Speaker 2: do we really have in common? What do you have
- 24:36Speaker 2: in common with the younger men?
- 24:38Speaker 1: All right, so I love to tell jokes. It's always
- 24:41Speaker 1: a good, funny-ass time. I'm cracking jokes.
- 24:44Speaker 2: I like, so you're childish.
- 24:46Speaker 1: Yes.
- 24:47Speaker 2: I like to smoke. We smoke together. And then I
- 24:52Speaker 2: like to educate. And I feel like younger men are
- 24:57Speaker 2: more pliable, like putty, whereas these older men are more
- 25:03Speaker 2: like cement. So, you know, I was talking to this
- 25:07Speaker 2: guy at some point. I felt like it was always
- 25:11Speaker 2: like a tug of war with information with him. Like
- 25:14Speaker 2: he would tell me about some shit and I already
- 25:16Speaker 2: know about it. So it's almost like some like wearing energy.
- 25:19Speaker 2: Like he, I think men do want to be able
- 25:22Speaker 2: to teach women something. So like if you already act,
- 25:26Speaker 2: you got to kind of act, got to act stupid
- 25:29Speaker 2: a little bit. Like, oh really? I didn't know. But
- 25:31Speaker 2: I have a, I'm not a fucking nimble. I'm not
- 25:34Speaker 2: pretending like I don't know some shit. So like I don't,
- 25:36Speaker 2: we would be exchanging information. Like I'm sending him shit. Like,
- 25:39Speaker 2: you know, like esoteric shit, like just stuff I'm into. Right.
- 25:44Speaker 2: And it was always almost like it was like a
- 25:47Speaker 2: battle of fucking information with this nigga. So, yeah, I
- 25:51Speaker 2: will act like I don't know some stuff. I will pretend.
- 25:54Speaker 2: Teach me how to shoot pool. How do you hold
- 25:58Speaker 2: a stick? Bitch, you a blonde. Meanwhile, I'll push your ass, boy.
- 26:04Speaker 2: I'm not fucking gay. See, I don't know how to
- 26:09Speaker 2: play with people like that, but maybe I can't... And
- 26:13Speaker 2: then I be thinking about people's mamas, too. Like, I
- 26:15Speaker 2: already don't like niggas with mamas. I hate that you
- 26:18Speaker 2: say that. Please stop saying that.
- 26:20Speaker 1: Why?
- 26:20Speaker 2: It's the truth.
- 26:21Speaker 1: Why do you hate niggas with mamas? You want a
- 26:24Speaker 1: nigga whose mom is dead? I want a man whose
- 26:30Speaker 1: mom is in a healthy relationship. If you get with
- 26:33Speaker 1: a man who has a single mom, it's a whole
- 26:37Speaker 1: fucking problem because this man has been her man Since
- 26:41Speaker 1: he was a child, essentially, probably.
- 26:44Speaker 2: To her son. Yes. Yes. So that's why I prefer men.
- 26:48Speaker 2: And I mean, I say it like it's a joke,
- 26:50Speaker 2: but I'm really fucking dead ass serious. Or like maybe
- 26:53Speaker 2: I have like a strange relationship. Like maybe she lives
- 26:56Speaker 2: across the fucking country or some shit like that. You
- 26:58Speaker 2: don't really see your mama. Like I'm your motherfucking mama.
- 27:03Speaker 2: That's toxic, Fran. How is that toxic? Because you want...
- 27:06Speaker 2: Y'all think it's toxic that you want a young-ass nigga
- 27:08Speaker 2: that you can fucking teach some shit? That's toxic. You
- 27:12Speaker 2: want somebody... I don't want to know you later. Girl, I...
- 27:15Speaker 2: I don't want to teach you nothing wrong. I love mamas.
- 27:27Speaker 2: I'm not married with Lama. Yeah, because you want to
- 27:29Speaker 2: use the mom to manipulate the son. I do not.
- 27:33Speaker 2: I'm appalled. You don't even sound like you're telling the truth. No,
- 27:38Speaker 2: I don't want to use their mom to manipulate.
- 27:40Speaker 1: I always want the mom to love me.
- 27:44Speaker 2: I want to have a healthy relationship.
- 27:46Speaker 1: I want to have a good love and dynamic between
- 27:48Speaker 1: my man and his mom.
- 27:50Speaker 2: Yeah, but like, all right, let me ask you this.
- 27:52Speaker 2: All right. Because I've seen this, a power struggle between
- 27:55Speaker 2: the girlfriend. Because it sounds like that's what you be having,
- 27:58Speaker 2: like a power struggle. No, it's only actually happened once
- 28:01Speaker 2: with a mom and once with a sister. So, you know,
- 28:04Speaker 2: I would see a car and you go to pick
- 28:06Speaker 2: up the mom and you're in a passenger seat. Will
- 28:10Speaker 2: you let the mom get in the front? No, I'm
- 28:12Speaker 2: not getting out the front seat and getting in the
- 28:14Speaker 2: back seat for your mom. Why not? Why? Just get
- 28:18Speaker 2: in the car and let's ride. Like, what's the problem?
- 28:20Speaker 2: Because that's his mother. Okay, but it's just a car.
- 28:24Speaker 2: It's a car. Why am I getting out the car?
- 28:26Speaker 2: It's not a boy anymore. This is a grown man,
- 28:29Speaker 2: and here I am. I'm his woman. I'm his wife. Mom,
- 28:32Speaker 2: you're not sucking his dick. Like, I'm sitting in the
- 28:34Speaker 2: front seat. She birthed the dick for you to suck. No.
- 28:38Speaker 1: I would totally get out, and if she didn't help
- 28:40Speaker 1: getting in the car, I'm helping your mama in the car.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Because I love you so much that I respect your
- 28:46Speaker 1: mama the.
- 28:46Speaker 2: Way you do. No, if I was a mom... and
- 28:50Speaker 2: my son was with his woman, I would not overstep
- 28:55Speaker 2: my boundaries, right? Because you have to have some with parents,
- 28:59Speaker 2: because if you don't, they'll be trying to run your
- 29:01Speaker 2: fucking relationship. You know, and that's what I try to
- 29:04Speaker 2: avoid when in relationships with men. I would not require
- 29:10Speaker 2: her to get out the front seat and get in
- 29:13Speaker 2: the back. Like, that's fucking weird.
- 29:15Speaker 1: I don't think about requiring me. I just think about
- 29:18Speaker 1: I'm going to treat your mother the way I treat
- 29:20Speaker 1: my mother. My mom is not riding in the back.
- 29:24Speaker 2: Why? Like, my mom would probably want to ride in
- 29:26Speaker 2: the back. If she wanted to ride in the back,
- 29:28Speaker 2: that's cool, but. So you want to ask, hey, mom,
- 29:31Speaker 2: you want to get in the front? Yeah, I'm that one.
- 29:34Speaker 2: But what is the difference between the front and the back?
- 29:36Speaker 2: I feel like for a backseat, you'll be chauffeured around.
- 29:40Speaker 2: To me, that's the queen spot, really, in the backseat. Like,
- 29:44Speaker 2: what you want to be in front of when you
- 29:45Speaker 2: want to die first so we get in an accident?
- 29:47Speaker 3: I think you be power struggling with your mama.
- 29:52Speaker 2: No, I've never actually had an issue with a man's mom.
- 29:57Speaker 2: The only time I actually had like a kind of
- 29:59Speaker 2: weird exchange with my ex's mom is like, I'm like, listen,
- 30:04Speaker 2: your fucking son is coming to my house unexpectedly every
- 30:09Speaker 2: fucking day for the last couple of days. If you
- 30:11Speaker 2: don't get him to stop, I'm going to have to
- 30:13Speaker 2: call the police on him. So it was really to
- 30:14Speaker 2: save his fucking life. And you know what she said?
- 30:17Speaker 2: I'm not getting involved. So from that point on, I
- 30:20Speaker 2: didn't talk to her no more. Like, that was it.
- 30:23Speaker 2: But did y'all continue the deal? You know, shortly thereafter,
- 30:27Speaker 2: I finally, like, cut it off completely. But, like, what
- 30:30Speaker 2: kind of shit is that? I'm trying to help you
- 30:31Speaker 2: save your son's life. Because at this point, I might
- 30:33Speaker 2: shoot him. Bitch, you don't even know. Excuse me. Not
- 30:37Speaker 2: to call your mom a bitch if you listening, nigga. Whatever.
- 30:40Speaker 2: It's too late. I'll fuck with them people no way.
- 30:45Speaker 2: I'm not disrespectful with the moms. Mamas usually level, but
- 30:49Speaker 2: I don't. I just don't. And even the sisters, like
- 30:53Speaker 2: another ex of mine, like his sister is like on
- 30:55Speaker 2: my beat the fuck up list before I get off
- 30:57Speaker 2: this planet. You know what I'm saying? Like she like
- 31:01Speaker 2: stole on my hit list.
- 31:03Speaker 1: See, I be making them homegirls. I make the sisters
- 31:06Speaker 1: my homegirls. I make the mom trick the mom like
- 31:09Speaker 1: my mom. Like, I was so good with one of
- 31:12Speaker 1: my niggas' mom and family that when they broke up,
- 31:15Speaker 1: when we broke up, his mom tried to hook me
- 31:17Speaker 1: up with her doctor.
- 31:18Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good mama.
- 31:20Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 31:21Speaker 2: See, I can deal with that type of mama. The
- 31:22Speaker 2: mama knew herself as a shit. She was like, man,
- 31:25Speaker 2: she don't even, like, he don't even deserve her, man.
- 31:27Speaker 2: I'm about to hook her ass up with my motherfucking gynecologist. Right.
- 31:32Speaker 2: That's how it went. But that's how it should be.
- 31:34Speaker 2: You don't feel like, it just has to be a
- 31:36Speaker 2: happy mama. It has to be a happy mom and
- 31:39Speaker 2: happy sister. If them bitches are single, I'm not fucking
- 31:41Speaker 2: with you. If your mama and your sister are single,
- 31:45Speaker 2: I'm not fucking with you. That's just what it is.
- 31:48Speaker 2: You're going to count out a lot of good fuckers.
- 31:50Speaker 2: Fuck them. They're not quality. They come from a lot
- 31:54Speaker 2: of toxicity. That's like you selling the bitches. No, I'm
- 31:59Speaker 2: not with them niggas. Lord have mercy. Back on topic.
- 32:03Speaker 2: We got off topic.
- 32:10Speaker 1: All right, dating younger men. So do you feel like
- 32:14Speaker 1: there's a double standard with the age gap? Like, are
- 32:19Speaker 1: women not, like, if a woman is dating a younger man.
- 32:23Speaker 2: We'd be like, yeah, sis, get that shit. But an old, like,
- 32:28Speaker 2: my dad is 71 or 72. His wife like 45.
- 32:34Speaker 2: She is as old as my baby. She's keeping him youthful. Look,
- 32:38Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck what I care about is
- 32:40Speaker 2: when this nigga get real sick and who gonna take
- 32:42Speaker 2: care of him. Like, I appreciate her being there. Because now,
- 32:47Speaker 2: I may not have to be. Right. For it to
- 32:50Speaker 2: get real. Like, I really appreciate her as my dad's
- 32:55Speaker 2: wife slash stepmother who's damn near the same age as me.
- 32:59Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:59Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 33:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate her. So do you feel like there
- 33:03Speaker 1: is a difference between the way we treat men who
- 33:05Speaker 1: date younger women?
- 33:06Speaker 2: Yeah, because I understand why men want younger women, but
- 33:11Speaker 2: I do not understand why women want older men.
- 33:16Speaker 1: Older?
- 33:16Speaker 2: Not that old. Like, you know a nigga old when
- 33:20Speaker 2: they got that, like, gray line around their fucking pupil.
- 33:23Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 33:24Speaker 2: I had an old man try to lie to me
- 33:25Speaker 2: one time, so I was 45. I'm like.
- 33:29Speaker 2: I don't know, 28 or 25. He's like, I'm 24.
- 33:31Speaker 2: I'm like, you're blind. It's like a giant eye. You're
- 33:35Speaker 2: fucking cataract. It's like, in my face, I see you
- 33:38Speaker 2: need surgery. So they be lying.
- 33:44Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, all right, so what's too high?
- 33:49Speaker 2: The dick has to work. I think Viagra has fucked
- 33:53Speaker 2: the game up a little bit. Like, you know, when
- 33:55Speaker 2: you're just out here outside, you might date older men.
- 33:58Speaker 2: Like I said, because they're established and they might got
- 34:01Speaker 2: a nice little check, maybe their wife, life insurance. Who knows? Right.
- 34:05Speaker 2: They used to just want to hold your hand. Now they, like,
- 34:08Speaker 2: really want to put dick in you. Right. Because of Viagra.
- 34:13Speaker 2: But if that's your man, wouldn't you want him to
- 34:15Speaker 2: put dick in you? Unless she's just there for a...
- 34:17Speaker 2: I don't want an old dick now. Okay, so I
- 34:20Speaker 2: said my lucky number. Let me just say this. One
- 34:23Speaker 2: of my friends, we went to... All-Star weekend one year.
- 34:27Speaker 2: And the Jordan, we got, I don't know, we were
- 34:29Speaker 2: at the Jordan party, right? It was just a pretty
- 34:31Speaker 2: exclusive little party. And she met this much older man
- 34:36Speaker 2: that you wouldn't know, right? Tell me afterward. Yeah. All right.
- 34:41Speaker 2: And she was dealing with him, but he was like
- 34:43Speaker 2: in his 70s.
- 34:44Speaker 1: He was like, he was like, girl, she was watching.
- 34:50Speaker 2: She was fighting balls. It was like, Back at her
- 34:56Speaker 2: in the front. From the back. Swing and lobe. I
- 35:05Speaker 2: can't do this. I can't do this the worst. Like,
- 35:09Speaker 2: who else is in here? Like, who the fuck's snacking
- 35:11Speaker 2: my pussy? Why don't they walk in and leave from
- 35:13Speaker 2: the back? What the fuck else? I mean, it was
- 35:18Speaker 2: like doing all the things for her.
- 35:20Speaker 1: Like, very, very present financially. private flights, like, just on
- 35:25Speaker 1: the PJ and all these things. But your coochie got
- 35:28Speaker 1: to get hit in the front with a rat by
- 35:30Speaker 1: some balls.
- 35:32Speaker 2: And she hit that lifeline if it wasn't for her.
- 35:36Speaker 1: But I can give you, like, if you want that
- 35:40Speaker 1: type of lifestyle and that's, like, more important to you,
- 35:42Speaker 1: then you will stay with that.
- 35:45Speaker 2: I know when I was living in Charlotte, I had
- 35:46Speaker 2: met this guy, and he was probably, like, 65 at
- 35:49Speaker 2: the time. Ride around, shawling a Porsche. Nigga never had
- 35:53Speaker 2: any kids. He was married and divorced once. And he
- 35:56Speaker 2: was outside like a young nigga. And I went to
- 35:59Speaker 2: his place one time. I could not let him put
- 36:01Speaker 2: dick in me, dog. I just couldn't do it. It
- 36:03Speaker 2: was just too old. I feel like he probably would
- 36:06Speaker 2: have fucked the shit out of me. I really feel
- 36:08Speaker 2: like that. But it's like, do I want to deal
- 36:11Speaker 2: with an old, young nigga? That's what he was. Like,
- 36:15Speaker 2: why are you still outside like this? You got a girlfriend.
- 36:17Speaker 2: What was the appeal that made you talk to him?
- 36:22Speaker 2: Because I know he had that check. I'm just going
- 36:24Speaker 2: to be fucking honest. Because I knew he had the bag.
- 36:29Speaker 2: So there wasn't enough? No. I have to like you.
- 36:33Speaker 2: I can't really fuck with somebody because. Yeah, that's how
- 36:36Speaker 2: I have to like you. Yeah, I have to like you.
- 36:37Speaker 2: I can't like. Listen, I've tried. And it just, I
- 36:41Speaker 2: couldn't do it. I can't pretend but so long. Like.
- 36:45Speaker 2: Why are you breathing? Nigga, I'm annoyed. That's mean. That
- 36:51Speaker 2: is not mean. Like, it's the truth. Why are you talking? Why?
- 36:57Speaker 2: Why you walk like that? Why you eat like that?
- 36:58Speaker 2: I don't get hella annoyed. So, no, I can't play
- 37:00Speaker 2: with somebody for money. I don't know. I mean, I
- 37:03Speaker 2: guess fun girls, that's what they were born for. I
- 37:06Speaker 2: don't know. But I can't play with somebody I don't
- 37:09Speaker 2: like like that. Now, there was a time. And I did.
- 37:13Speaker 2: He wasn't old. He was young. There was a guy.
- 37:16Speaker 2: I was so poor, though. And I was like a
- 37:19Speaker 2: college student. I was a college student. This is shameful, though.
- 37:25Speaker 2: Judge me, you guys.
- 37:26Speaker 1: But I did deal with someone because of what he
- 37:29Speaker 1: could provide for me at the time. I was so poor, though.
- 37:33Speaker 1: I was like a student. And he was doing all
- 37:37Speaker 1: the things.
- 37:38Speaker 2: And I mean, I'm not laughing at you saying you
- 37:40Speaker 2: was poor. It just felt like. I was so hard.
- 37:44Speaker 2: I was. I was a college student.
- 37:46Speaker 1: I didn't have anything, and I just, like, picked up
- 37:48Speaker 1: all my stuff and moved to Atlanta. And I did
- 37:52Speaker 1: deal with, but even his approach, like, all right, so niggas.
- 37:55Speaker 2: Be mad at women for wanting for them, but your
- 37:59Speaker 2: approach can't be mad. That's what you lead with, shit.
- 38:02Speaker 2: That's what I was doing.
- 38:04Speaker 1: Like, we were, I was out somewhere at a bar,
- 38:06Speaker 1: and he was like, go, and I'm super young, so
- 38:09Speaker 1: I'm drinking Amarillo Sours. I'm just an eight elf. It's
- 38:12Speaker 1: too low.
- 38:13Speaker 2: He was like, go get whatever. He's like, what you drinking?
- 38:16Speaker 2: I was like, I'm a random style.
- 38:19Speaker 1: He gave me a $ 100 bill.
- 38:20Speaker 2: He's like, go get you something to drink. And then
- 38:21Speaker 2: I came back with his change because.
- 38:23Speaker 1: I wasn't like the type of girl that would pocket
- 38:25Speaker 1: anybody's money.
- 38:25Speaker 2: And he was like, put it in your pocket. Hook, line,
- 38:31Speaker 2: and sinker.
- 38:32Speaker 1: I was there right after that as a little young
- 38:34Speaker 1: 19-year-old girl.
- 38:35Speaker 2: Right. You know, and he got shit. How old was
- 38:39Speaker 2: the guy I deserved? He couldn't have been no more.
- 38:42Speaker 2: He was older than me, but he couldn't have been
- 38:44Speaker 2: no more than 23. Oh, that's not old, though. No,
- 38:47Speaker 2: it wasn't that. He was older than me, but he
- 38:49Speaker 2: wasn't an older guy. Right. But I was dealing with
- 38:52Speaker 2: him for stuff because, you know, let's say, all right,
- 38:57Speaker 2: he might have caught me with that.
- 38:58Speaker 1: But, like, typically I would like to know how your
- 39:01Speaker 1: personality is. If it's bad, I'm going to go the
- 39:04Speaker 1: opposite direction. It don't matter how much money you got.
- 39:06Speaker 1: If I don't vibe with you, I'm going the other way.
- 39:10Speaker 1: But during that time, I stayed, even though I didn't
- 39:14Speaker 1: like who he was as a person, because he was
- 39:18Speaker 1: paying my rent.
- 39:19Speaker 2: That's what it is. Listen, you got.
- 39:21Speaker 1: To do what you got to do.
- 39:22Speaker 2: I don't suggest any young girl to be in any situation,
- 39:26Speaker 2: especially with older men, because you don't want to get
- 39:31Speaker 2: manipulated into some shit. You know what I'm saying? Into
- 39:35Speaker 2: a bad situation.
- 39:37Speaker 1: And he just, all right, so the crazy part was
- 39:39Speaker 1: he got me to go into this apartment that I
- 39:42Speaker 1: couldn't afford without him.
- 39:44Speaker 2: You know, like, oh, this $ 1, 000 a month.
- 39:48Speaker 1: I'm a young girl. I'm in school, so I can't
- 39:51Speaker 1: work full-time. All right, so this is right after Benedict.
- 39:55Speaker 1: I can't work full-time, and I'm in school, and I.
- 40:00Speaker 2: Can't afford this by myself. So it's like, I got
- 40:02Speaker 2: to be nice to you right now.
- 40:04Speaker 1: I got to do all these things because I done
- 40:06Speaker 1: put some shit in my name that I can't afford
- 40:08Speaker 1: without you.
- 40:09Speaker 2: And I think he did that shit on purpose. Some
- 40:12Speaker 2: of the things that he did was just kind of like,
- 40:15Speaker 2: You know, like control money. I don't think older women
- 40:18Speaker 2: do that to men, but for sure, older men, they
- 40:22Speaker 2: get younger women so they can control her. I remember
- 40:24Speaker 2: seeing this post a lot. It was saying, if a
- 40:27Speaker 2: woman is over 35, don't fuck with her. She already
- 40:30Speaker 2: stuck up. Now, mind you, this is an old ass
- 40:32Speaker 2: nigga saying this shit. So where's your bitches? Like, what
- 40:34Speaker 2: they looking like? I be wanting these men to post
- 40:36Speaker 2: their bitches. I want to see who letting you sweat
- 40:39Speaker 2: on them. Because, nigga, you could never sweat on them.
- 40:44Speaker 2: I be bought in the fucking seat. But he was like, yeah,
- 40:47Speaker 2: if you over 35, she's stuck in her way. So
- 40:49Speaker 2: what you're telling the public is, you want a woman
- 40:53Speaker 2: who don't know the better. This girl let you do
- 40:56Speaker 2: whatever you want to do to them. Don't have no
- 40:58Speaker 2: say so because she got to fuck with you. Right. Like,
- 41:01Speaker 2: what type of... And that's where I was, you know, like,
- 41:03Speaker 2: I feel trapped. But not for long.
- 41:06Speaker 1: I got quickly about that shit.
- 41:09Speaker 2: It got me a roommate. Oh, this is 450 of mine.
- 41:12Speaker 2: Now we're at.
- 41:18Speaker 2: But that's when I learned that I could not be with... Well,
- 41:21Speaker 2: there are people who can be with people for the things.
- 41:23Speaker 2: And if you are one of those people, cool. You know,
- 41:26Speaker 2: I'm not knocking it, but... So there's a study that
- 41:29Speaker 2: says 14.8% of women are married to men as young
- 41:33Speaker 2: as 20 years their... 20-year.
- 41:37Speaker 1: Junior. Junior.
- 41:39Speaker 2: Yes, that was, I don't know. I don't know. I
- 41:42Speaker 2: could do it. What did I share? Everybody's judging Claire and, um...
- 41:48Speaker 2: Amber Rose. Amber Rose.
- 41:49Speaker 1: Daddy.
- 41:49Speaker 2: Big black husband. I don't know if they were married
- 41:51Speaker 2: or not. They're judging her.
- 41:53Speaker 1: And they're saying that, like, her friends are saying, like, oh, he's, like,
- 41:57Speaker 1: squandering some of her wealth.
- 41:59Speaker 2: So what? I'm pretty sure Cher has unlimited money. Like, okay,
- 42:03Speaker 2: if I was a super old bitch like Cher, I'd
- 42:05Speaker 2: have five of them. Super old? I'd have five of
- 42:08Speaker 2: them young niggas, okay?
- 42:10Speaker 1: Right.
- 42:10Speaker 2: You at the very, I don't know, maybe she's ciphering
- 42:14Speaker 2: energy too. But I would say that she's like.
- 42:17Speaker 1: She's keeping her youthful in the back.
- 42:19Speaker 2: Yes, I would have five of them. Could you imagine
- 42:21Speaker 2: if she was young ass? She's like 80, yeah? She's
- 42:25Speaker 2: about 80 years old. She might have got a... She
- 42:26Speaker 2: might get fucked by a 30-something-year-old nigga. But she might
- 42:29Speaker 2: have got a pussy transplant. She might have got a
- 42:31Speaker 2: new pussy. Ah, listen. She got no money to get
- 42:34Speaker 2: a new pussy. Like, old and, like, not doing what
- 42:39Speaker 2: she used to. I'm getting a new pussy. I'm getting
- 42:43Speaker 2: a new pussy. I'm trading them in. I definitely want
- 42:48Speaker 2: a new pussy. I'm not mad at Cher. It's kind
- 42:51Speaker 2: of like for... And Rose, it's kind of embarrassing a
- 42:56Speaker 2: little bit.
- 42:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine that. Your man left me in
- 43:00Speaker 1: the 90s with an 80-year-old. But it's not any 80-year-old,
- 43:03Speaker 1: his Cher, though.
- 43:05Speaker 2: That's any 80-year-old. No, it's not. That's Cher. City boy
- 43:11Speaker 2: is up. He's fucking nasty. Now, that's someone who could, like,
- 43:16Speaker 2: maybe he really do like her, and I'm just judging.
- 43:18Speaker 2: But that's somebody who could be with someone for the stuff.
- 43:22Speaker 2: You know? I feel like that, right? For stuff?
- 43:25Speaker 1: Yeah, like, for what they can provide. She provides a
- 43:28Speaker 1: lifestyle that she's getting publicity, that's for sure. And I'm sure, like,
- 43:33Speaker 1: all the fruits of being Cher.
- 43:36Speaker 2: You know, that comes with a lot. I'm sure she's
- 43:39Speaker 2: been famous for a long time and rich for a
- 43:41Speaker 2: long time. Nasty. That pussy don't look the same no more.
- 43:46Speaker 2: How do you know? She probably got refurbished. Nah, that
- 43:49Speaker 2: shit is folded.
- 43:50Speaker 1: That's an iPhone 14, girl.
- 43:56Speaker 2: So I guess younger men probably date older women for money.
- 44:03Speaker 2: The same reason women do it. So who's judging, though?
- 44:07Speaker 2: Are men judging other men for dating older women? Like,
- 44:15Speaker 2: I think that we kind of judge younger women. Yeah,
- 44:21Speaker 2: I do. A little bit. I don't think, you know what,
- 44:25Speaker 2: I don't judge.
- 44:26Speaker 1: I just be like, I see you, but I don't
- 44:31Speaker 1: necessarily judge them.
- 44:32Speaker 2: Like, do what you do or I'll be thinking about it. Like,
- 44:35Speaker 2: I really want to have an conversation with my daddy's wife.
- 44:37Speaker 2: I want to know, like, how did you meet this nigga? Like, why?
- 44:42Speaker 2: And I know she listens to our podcast, but she
- 44:45Speaker 2: texts me some shit. But I never asked, like, how
- 44:47Speaker 2: did you meet him? Like, were you seeking him? Because
- 44:51Speaker 2: she's not from South Carolina. So, like, did you come
- 44:54Speaker 2: here specifically looking for an old nigga? Like, my daddy's
- 44:57Speaker 2: a handsome man, so I can understand. So maybe he
- 44:58Speaker 2: provided security because a lot of women want protection. She
- 45:01Speaker 2: still work. If I get an old nigga, like, I'm
- 45:03Speaker 2: not working. I'm not working anywhere. I'm working on his nerves.
- 45:07Speaker 2: That's it. Right. I'm not working anywhere. Like my, my, um,
- 45:13Speaker 2: all his nerves. What is his? That's a lot right here.
- 45:17Speaker 2: They like that shit, girl. Don't nobody like no calm shit.
- 45:20Speaker 2: But if I were to get an older man, like,
- 45:24Speaker 2: like a real older one, I would not be working anywhere.
- 45:27Speaker 2: I think she probably provide him with peace. Not being
- 45:31Speaker 2: on his nerves. Niggas don't like peace. Niggas love peace. No,
- 45:36Speaker 2: they say that, but they don't really like peace. They do.
- 45:40Speaker 2: A lot of these niggas are not fucking peaceful. They
- 45:42Speaker 2: may not be peaceful, but they want peace from you. Oh,
- 45:44Speaker 2: so they don't want to be the one to come
- 45:46Speaker 2: in to serve my peace. No, nigga, I'm giving you
- 45:48Speaker 2: fucking hell. I'm giving you something to deal with until
- 45:51Speaker 2: the fuck I get up off this planet. That's what
- 45:53Speaker 2: I'm doing. No, I don't think that men want peace.
- 45:56Speaker 2: I think men like the drama. That's probably part of
- 46:00Speaker 2: making them feel you want some boundaries, but you don't
- 46:02Speaker 2: want nobody there every time. It's just always... turmoil. Like,
- 46:06Speaker 2: we be feeling it in our bones that a nigga
- 46:08Speaker 2: fucking somebody else. You done, like, you done fucked a
- 46:10Speaker 2: nigga before? Absolutely fucking not. Cause don't come up at
- 46:13Speaker 2: my house or I'ma shoot you. I don't play that. God,
- 46:16Speaker 2: but I never, never pop up on you. No, I've
- 46:19Speaker 2: never done that, but I have been in a relationship
- 46:21Speaker 2: where a bitch kept popping up. And it's like, do
- 46:24Speaker 2: you live here? Like, is this your second place? Like,
- 46:28Speaker 2: why do you keep popping up at this man's house?
- 46:30Speaker 2: And I'm like, you keep putting dick in this girl.
- 46:32Speaker 2: That's why she keep popping up at absolutely my house.
- 46:35Speaker 2: When you're not there, she's there. Yeah, but this ain't
- 46:38Speaker 2: your nigga. Like, I've been here for two weeks, bitch. Like,
- 46:41Speaker 2: where were you for the last two weeks? She was
- 46:43Speaker 2: there the two weeks prior to you, bitch. Nah, nigga.
- 46:46Speaker 2: Maybe one night before. One night after. But you definitely
- 46:51Speaker 2: ain't been here for fucking two weeks. Yeah, I don't
- 46:55Speaker 2: do that type of shit. I don't play them type
- 46:56Speaker 2: of games. I don't touch my phone. I won't touch
- 46:58Speaker 2: your phone. I think all niggas be going through phones.
- 47:02Speaker 2: All niggas will hack your computer. They'll have all your passwords.
- 47:08Speaker 2: They ain't good with your mama. They ain't good with
- 47:11Speaker 2: your mama? Yes. Your mama love them. Because they know
- 47:14Speaker 2: how to do shit. Yeah, I want niggas to build
- 47:16Speaker 2: you a house from scratch.
- 47:17Speaker 1: Old niggas.
- 47:18Speaker 2: Old niggas will build you a house from scratch. Your
- 47:20Speaker 2: mama love them. Young niggas just lame bitch. Yes. Outside
- 47:25Speaker 2: with the wood. Yes. From fucking scratch. They just wear
- 47:29Speaker 2: dirty clothes all day long and they be at Home
- 47:31Speaker 2: Depot all the time. That's what you like. I like
- 47:34Speaker 2: dirty niggas. Dirty? Yeah. Musty balls? Not musty balls. I
- 47:38Speaker 2: like men who can do shit with their hands. Yeah.
- 47:42Speaker 2: Young men nowadays are not trying to do shit with
- 47:44Speaker 2: their hands. They're fucking scamming. Okay? They're stealing my social
- 47:48Speaker 2: security number.
- 47:49Speaker 1: I don't mind if you know how to build it
- 47:51Speaker 1: as long as you can pay somebody to build it.
- 47:54Speaker 2: What, the house?
- 47:55Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 47:55Speaker 2: You ain't got to know how to build it yourself.
- 47:57Speaker 2: But I be liking to do some things myself. So
- 47:59Speaker 2: I don't want somebody who's always just want to pay somebody. Like,
- 48:02Speaker 2: I want to, let's do this thing together. That's cool.
- 48:05Speaker 2: I know how to get money. So is it really
- 48:09Speaker 2: the age or how much money they got? Well, younger
- 48:13Speaker 2: men typically don't have more money. Younger men are still
- 48:17Speaker 2: trying to get established oftentimes. So it can be about
- 48:22Speaker 2: the money. Older men usually have created more wealth for themselves.
- 48:28Speaker 2: So it's not money for me. So you just want
- 48:31Speaker 2: a nigga you can laugh with. I just want to
- 48:33Speaker 2: have a good time. I don't want to be in
- 48:36Speaker 2: the house. Old niggas, I feel like old niggas just
- 48:39Speaker 2: want to stay in the house. That is not true. Like,
- 48:41Speaker 2: they want to go outside. I go outside with old niggas.
- 48:44Speaker 2: What time you have to be home? Nigga, I only
- 48:48Speaker 2: want to go outside from 6 to 10. Eight, drunk,
- 48:51Speaker 2: and fucking by 10. I want to do that. And
- 48:53Speaker 2: in the bed. Yes, nigga. Just brought it on. I
- 48:57Speaker 2: try to do good outside. No, like, my body don't
- 49:00Speaker 2: work like that no more. Bitch, you young. I'm middle
- 49:06Speaker 2: aged I need to be out the house by 6
- 49:10Speaker 2: home by 10 and that's it like I don't want
- 49:14Speaker 2: to be played up in nobody's face past 10 o'clock
- 49:16Speaker 2: 10 11 o'clock like I really start turning into a
- 49:19Speaker 2: pumpkin bitch lost her fucking sandal I'm still outside Like,
- 49:25Speaker 2: I'm not really into, like, being in the clubs no more, though. Like,
- 49:28Speaker 2: I'm over that. Like, standing on couches, I still will
- 49:31Speaker 2: do it. But this is not for me anymore. But
- 49:35Speaker 2: I do want to be out. Like, I don't want
- 49:36Speaker 2: to be in the house just watching BMF. BMF on, baby,
- 49:40Speaker 2: turn on.
- 49:41Speaker 1: That's cool, but I don't want to do that. Like,
- 49:42Speaker 1: that's the highlight. I feel like when people get older, like,
- 49:46Speaker 1: TV is the highlight.
- 49:49Speaker 2: I don't watch TV like that. Um, the only other
- 49:52Speaker 2: issue I do, I would say I have with, like,
- 49:54Speaker 2: older men is, like, health issues. Like, if you are older,
- 49:58Speaker 2: you got to be going to the gym. You know
- 50:00Speaker 2: what I'm saying? Um, you got to be eating a
- 50:03Speaker 2: certain type of diet. Well, you should start a gym, though.
- 50:05Speaker 2: Because I'm not about to be taking care of no
- 50:07Speaker 2: old nigga with a bunch of health issues. That is
- 50:09Speaker 2: where you go to the gym and do all the
- 50:11Speaker 2: things right and still have health issues. We all got
- 50:13Speaker 2: to die. Absolutely. But I feel like young niggas, like,
- 50:16Speaker 2: probably pee is really, really, really yellow. You know, y'all
- 50:21Speaker 2: ain't drinking no fucking water. Just drink your Casamigos. That's
- 50:28Speaker 2: your own. Like, we fucks don't drink your Patron. I
- 50:31Speaker 2: do like, I like an older health conscious man.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Yes.
- 50:40Speaker 2: Well, maybe I, you know what? I'm still single probably
- 50:42Speaker 2: because I'm fucking with younger men. So maybe I swear
- 50:45Speaker 2: I ain't trying to fucking settle down.
- 50:46Speaker 3: Right.
- 50:47Speaker 1: But then it's probably be good because there's a.
- 50:50Speaker 2: Big part of me that wasn't trying to commit either.
- 50:54Speaker 2: Maybe that's the actual conversation. That's fair. So obviously, you know,
- 51:01Speaker 2: some of this should be pre-recorded and all that good stuff.
- 51:03Speaker 2: Y'all got to tune into our YouTube page and check
- 51:05Speaker 2: out us doing the limbo for this fucking episode.
- 51:07Speaker 1: Right, seeing how low kill we go. And honestly, neither
- 51:12Speaker 1: one of us could get really that low. I think
- 51:16Speaker 1: I could go lower. I just have a handicap right now.
- 51:20Speaker 1: So I could get a little lower. I think so.
- 51:22Speaker 2: Child, listen, the way these knees set up, I need
- 51:24Speaker 2: a kickstand. I need a kickstand. Y'all, this is a
- 51:31Speaker 2: good time. I'm not going that low. Like I said,
- 51:35Speaker 2: my lucky number is like, I like 43 to 47,
- 51:39Speaker 2: something like that. Now I'll go as low as 35.
- 51:41Speaker 2: That might be my, that's like, The minimum. That's as
- 51:48Speaker 2: low as you'll go? Yes, 35 at this point. Yeah, 38, 35.
- 51:52Speaker 2: You mean like as your dude? As my guy. As
- 51:55Speaker 2: my man. Somebody I would marry. 35 is going to be... Okay, okay.
- 52:00Speaker 2: I mean, I don't be... You know what?
- 52:02Speaker 1: That's my problem because I don't be considering marriage when
- 52:05Speaker 1: I be picking these niggas.
- 52:07Speaker 2: Bitch. That's something for me to work on though. It's
- 52:10Speaker 2: an area of opportunity for me.
- 52:13Speaker 1: Okay.
- 52:16Speaker 2: A learning opportunity. Yeah, that's what I be thinking about. Like, damn, like,
- 52:20Speaker 2: what's the life cycle I'm on? Where he at? You
- 52:22Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? That's what I be thinking about.
- 52:25Speaker 2: Because I had a conversation with a young man last
- 52:28Speaker 2: night and nigga, you're how old? Like, you not on
- 52:32Speaker 2: the same type of time I'm on. You just not.
- 52:35Speaker 2: So I'm not interested at this point in my life
- 52:38Speaker 2: just be having fucking casual sex just to I mean... Yeah, no,
- 52:43Speaker 2: me neither. I don't want to... Look, kinda, it depends
- 52:45Speaker 2: if you're going to... I want to go to Thailand,
- 52:47Speaker 2: so who the fuck taking me there?
- 52:50Speaker 1: Right, if a fine-ass 29-year-old was like, let me take
- 52:53Speaker 1: you to Thailand and fuck you in Phuket.
- 52:56Speaker 2: Yep, I'm there. Yeah, you going. I'm flying 24 hours
- 53:00Speaker 2: about that dick. I ain't crazy. It just all depends.
- 53:05Speaker 2: It all depends. Y'all, again, April 22nd, Pullman Yard, Atlanta, Georgia.
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- 53:35Speaker 1: I'm a little nervous, I ain't going to lie, because
- 53:37Speaker 1: this is our first live show, but I'm more excited
- 53:39Speaker 1: than I am nervous.
- 53:40Speaker 2: Yeah, man. We're going to do well. We're going to
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- 54:16Speaker 1: Just even the name of the show, they be mad like,
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- 54:27Speaker 1: bitch stories. I guess, I mean, we might as well
- 54:30Speaker 1: go ask a black friend because these niggas is just
- 54:33Speaker 1: not our friend apparently.
- 54:35Speaker 2: I don't know. But if you ever ask a black
- 54:38Speaker 2: friend question, even as a black person.
- 54:39Speaker 1: You want to know some shit, understand our blackness better.
- 54:42Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. Yeah, that's it.
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