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Winning Women Back to the Right Side of Culture | Episode 6 · Sincerely American

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  No, I'm not going to be ashamed for being white.
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  I'm not going to be ashamed for being pretty and looking my
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  best. Screw you, I'm not even going to
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  answer that because you're not even worth my time.
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  If you want to go be insane and if you want to go, you know,
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  suck and have a meltdown and be a lunatic, then that's your
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  problem. That's not my problem.
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  I'm not apologizing for your insanity.
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  The left and progressives pretend that they stand for all
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  women, women's empowerment, women to stand strong and true
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  in their values and stuff. That's what they pretend that
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  they believe. The minute that a woman and is
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  conservative or goes in a slightly different direction
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  than their radical leftist ideology, they are the first to
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  come out and ruthlessly tear down women, attack them and
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  bring them down to the ground. There's a lot of propaganda that
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  is really, you know, focused on getting these young women.
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  And so it does make me concerned for the future of the country,
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  honestly, because, you know, you have men, young men who are
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  going a little bit more, right. But we have these young women
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  that we really need to start working on.
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  They are. Dominating in new media, they're
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  dominating in Hollywood, they're dominating in these female led
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  magazines like Vogue, like Elle. And so we're seeing this really
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  play out where they've really tackled the culture and they've
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  won in that way. And so, like Jamie noted, that's
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  really where we come into play. We want women to look their best
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  and be their best, and I think that's what the conservative
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  movement needs to be about. Hi, sincerely sisters, and
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  welcome back to Sincerely American.
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  We're so happy to have you guys back.
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  We love you as always. We've had a really fun week.
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  Cameron and I just got back from New York.
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  We went on like a whole press tour again this week.
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  We're very thankful for all the opportunities, honestly.
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  But definitely we're I, I feel like we've just been go, go, go,
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  go, go. So we were on Fox and friends on
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  Saturday and it was so incredible.
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  We had the best time there. We were doing Tik Toks on set.
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  We had their whole social media team like filming us.
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  We like we were here. Though they were so kind to us,
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  you guys, I, I really can't even stress like how good our their
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  team was to us and filming our tik Toks and they loved it.
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  They started filming their tik Toks like the the day after that
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  they had Rachel and then who was it Griff?
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  Yeah, Griff. Yeah, Yeah, it.
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  Was just such like a fun and light hearted environment
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  honestly and being able to talk to the other guests and being in
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  person like honestly after COVID and like being isolated in your
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  homes and like having to work online.
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  It's just so nice, like we get to go in person, we have these
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  conversations. It's much more organic that way.
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  And so we're just so thankful for this opportunity.
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  And the fact that we get to do it together is just truly
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  something to remember. You know, us five years ago, we
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  would have died if we thought even knew that five years later
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  we were going to be doing national television with each
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  other on like our favorite network.
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  It's just truly a dream. It's a dream come true and we're
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  just so thankful for every opportunity.
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  And Speaking of New York. A Fox News voter analysis
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  reveals that Soran Mandani, the communist when 84, 4% of the
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  female vote from ages 18 to 29 in the New York mayoral race.
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  That is the highest of any gender and age group.
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  So how can Republicans keep making gains with young women?
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  Well, obviously we have a lot to do with young women.
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  And one thing that was so incredible that President Trump
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  was able to do on the campaign was really appeal to Gen.
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  Z men. We saw him utilizing these new
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  forms of media. He was going on shows like Joe
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  Rogan, like Theo Von, and really meeting where men were and what
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  they were listening to. And we can do the same for
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  women. We can emulate this.
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  We saw where Gen. Z men ultimately met where
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  President Trump needed them, which was the polls.
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  But we have to start appealing to women through their
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  interests. Why did women like Mondami?
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  And then what can Republicans put forward instead, Jamie?
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  So I think for Gen. Z, politics and culture are so
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  intertwined and I will give the Democratic Party this and Zoran
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  this. They have embedded these far
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  left progressive values into our media, especially women's media.
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  Look at the top podcast for women.
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  Look at our TV shows, look at our movies, our magazines.
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  They have this feminist agenda and propaganda where they're
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  telling women that marriage and motherhood oppressive.
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  Yes, abortion is the highest virtue.
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  America is a patriarchal country.
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  So what we need to do as conservatives is that we need to
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  get involved in these cultural battles.
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  And I think we need young woman to get out there on social
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  media, podcasts or any form of media and fight this and bring
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  traditional and conservative issues to the forefront and show
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  it's an inspirational lifestyle that will deliver happiness and
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  real fulfillment. And the more we win women on
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  culture, the more you're going to see that they move in the
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  voting booth. I.
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  Couldn't agree with you guys more on this.
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  There's a lot of propaganda that is really, you know, focused on
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  getting these young women. And so it does make me concerned
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  for the future of the country, honestly, because, you know, you
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  have men, a young men who are going a little bit more, right.
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  But we have these young women that we really need to start
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  working on. And that's why I hate to like,
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  you know, pitch us in this, but I think Sincerely American is so
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  important. And my organization,
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  Conservatory, is so important because we need to be tackling
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  culture like no one is tackling women's culture in the way I
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  think that we are, to be quite honest.
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  And I think that's so important if we want to change hearts and
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  minds for upcoming elections. They are dominating in new
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  media, they're dominating in Hollywood, they're dominating in
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  these female led magazines like Vogue, like Elle.
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  And so we're seeing this really play out where they've really
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  tackled the culture and they've won in that way.
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  And so, like Jamie noted, that's really where we come into play.
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  And look, this progressive lifestyle has become this
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  aspirational lifestyle for girls on the left.
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  It's like, you know, they're kind of anti culture.
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  It's like be this single woman, get the doodle tattoos, wear the
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  combat boots, wear the baggy jeans and stuff and, you know,
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  be liberal. And so that's been kind of cool
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  in places like New York City, especially a lot of cosmopolitan
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  areas of the country. And So what we need to do is
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  create an aspirational lifestyle for conservatism.
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  And I think conservatism is beautiful.
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  I could talk day and night about how marriage, going back to
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  church, having kids, and living the that beautiful life does
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  real does lead to real happiness and fulfillment.
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  What people do on the left that they actually don't realize,
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  they put women in a box where it's like you have to only climb
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  the corporate ladder in order to be successful, and they end up
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  so much more empty in the end. And it's actually the opposite
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  for conservatism. We're embracing values where
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  it's like, you're not going to be put in a box, whatever it
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  looks like success to you, like carrying these values.
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  You're like, it's almost virtuous in a way where we are
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  on the right side of history. You can embrace the American
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  dream. You can have at all, you can
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  have a family and a beautiful lifestyle.
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  And that actually needs to be talked about more how the left
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  tries to put women in a box. Conservatism, on the other hand,
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  like there's just so much to do. I just think the left is so
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  negative. They're so nihilistic.
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  Everything is, you know, crapping on this, crapping on
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  that. We're oppressed, This is
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  patriarchal, this is terrible, this is problematic.
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  And so I think what we want to be is positive, fun, upbeat.
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  We want women to look their best and be their best.
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  And I think that's what the conservative movement needs to
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  be about. If you felt lost by the culture
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  and they're embracing obviously these far left progressive
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  values that have just left women more empty, especially, you may
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  not agree with everything that we're saying, but if you're over
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  the fear mongering and all of these tactics that are leaving
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  you like more fearful, more empty in the end, then you have
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  a place here. I love that.
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  And Speaking of fear mongering, we would be remiss if we didn't
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  bring up this Sydney Swaney interview that went absolutely
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  viral. Brianna, Let's roll the clip to
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  to refresh our viewers memories because I'm sure you guys have
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  all seen it. The criticism of the content,
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  which was basically that maybe specifically in this political
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  climate, like white people shouldn't joke about genetic
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  superiority, like that was kind of like the criticism, broadly
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  speaking. And since you are talking about
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  this, I just wanted to give you an opportunity to talk about
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  that specifically. I think that when I have an
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  issue that I want to speak about, people will hear, OK, A
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  couple things with this episode that I would like to point out.
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  One, I wish I was as media trained as Sydney Sweeney.
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  I have had to learn myself throughout the years being an
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  OAN, White House correspondent, political reporter.
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  And it was honestly like, they put me into the deep end and it
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  was sink or swim. You can tell that she really
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  navigated this very, very well for her age.
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  She was playing chess, not checkers with this interviewer.
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  And so I don't know. And also the Gen.
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  Z's stare. You guys like the fact that
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  she's this unbothered. I'm like what a queen, honestly.
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  Like the way she navigated that question and was basically like
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  no, I'm not going to be ashamed for being white.
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  I'm not going to be ashamed for being pretty and looking my
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  best. Screw you.
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  I'm not even going to answer that because you're not even
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  worth my time. I love this energy from her.
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  I could not agree with more with you.
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  I saw this obviously last week and I immediately like tweeted
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  something out because I was like, I just was so happy to see
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  this one. She has so much courage because
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  every other, even conservatives a lot of times will back down an
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  apology to the left nonstop. So I love that she's like, no,
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  I'm good. I don't even need to give you an
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  answer because here's the thing. The whole outrage over her
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  American Eagle ad was absolutely insane.
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  It was just leftist insanity. Them running along with this
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  like stupid white supremacist narrative over a freaking gene
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  ad, you guys. And so I am so sick of kowtowing
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  to this is what they do. They create a controversy out of
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  absolutely nothing and then they want you to back down, kowtow to
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  them out of control, and have you apologize.
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  And no, we're not apologizing. If you want to go be insane and
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  if you want to go, you know, suck and have a meltdown and be
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  a lunatic, then that's your problem.
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  That's not my problem. I'm not apologizing for your
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  insanity. And I just love that from
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  Sydney. She was just taking no prisoners
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  and she's like Nope. Yeah, I completely agree with
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  you. Let's put up this B roll.
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  It's this woman. I think this perfectly
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  encapsulates the Sydney Sweeney hate.
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  I have Liberal fatigue, you guys.
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  I'm so done with this. The fact that the fact that
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  Sydney Denise Sweeney's looking her best, feeling her best,
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  she's in her prime. She is so successful.
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  She is truly that all American beauty and she's not backing
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  down. I love this because of course
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  the woman hating on her is not looking her best.
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  She probably would have been embraced during like the obesity
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  culture of Vogue when they were like the body positivity
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  movement. Whatever.
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  This is over. We're not embracing unhealthy
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  habits anymore. We're getting back to true
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  beauty in this country that's objectively beautiful.
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  I'm so sick of this subjective beauty where it's like, stop
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  calling that beauty. It's actually not.
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  It's so unhealthy for you. And so, I don't know, I just
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  love the attention on Sydney Sweeney right now because one,
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  she's unbothered, 2, she's navigating this so well.
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  She's not backing down. And you can tell she has a very
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  strong sense of self as well. Yeah, you know, I am just so
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  sick and this has been for the last few years.
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  I am so sick of catering society to the most offended and
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  insecure people. And that is truly what these
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  haters are. They're offended and insecure
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  and being offended is not a virtue.
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  People in this day and age think that this is so virtuous to be
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  offended and it makes them get on their high horse that I'm
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  better because I have better morals than you.
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  No, it's actually not. It shows you're a very weak
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  person mentally. It shows you're a weak person
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  emotionally because I don't go around and live my life
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  offended. Strong people don't live their
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  life offended. If people want to do something
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  differently or believe in things differently, then I do fine.
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  They have every right to do so and I just don't want to cater
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  society anymore towards these people.
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  It's like we should shame people who do that.
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  If you're going to have a meltdown, then you can go have a
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  meltdown in the corner and we're going to continue on because
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  we've just catered this way too much to them.
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  We've given these people so much power that they don't deserve,
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  and society's worse off because of us.
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  You have to. Imagine put yourself in Sydney
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  Sweeney shoes. She is acting with the most far
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  left voices in the movement. Like you think of what she's
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  been on, like Euphoria. Different, you know, different
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  shows where we've seen these actresses and actors come out
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  embracing, you know, people like Obama, like Joe Biden, Kamala
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  Harris, things like that. And she has to show her face
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  every single day on set. Confront these people, navigate
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  media situations like that on top of dealing with the
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  backlash. Imagine how strong of a person
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  you have to be. That should be inspirational to
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  all you girls, that if she can confront that and do all of
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  that, then you can confront the people on your college campuses.
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  You can stand strong to the people in your family who are
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  disagreeing with you, friends, whomever and be stronger of a
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  person is the perfect person for you to look up to in my opinion.
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  Yeah, I actually really would agree with that.
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  I'm also going to call out you feminists because you guys are
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  hypocrites. The left and progressives
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  pretend that they stand for all women, women's empowerment,
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  women to stand strong and true in their values and stuff.
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  That's what they pretend that they believe.
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  The minute that a woman is conservative or goes in a
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  slightly different direction than their radical leftist
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  ideology, they are the first to come out and ruthlessly tear
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  down women, attack them and bring them down to the ground.
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  These people are not for all women.
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  They're only for their progressive ideology.
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  And I'm, I'm like, you guys are hypocrites.
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  All you fake people that I'm a feminist.
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  I'm just for all these women. No, you're not.
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  Just admit it. You're not.
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  You guys are hypocrites. These are the same feminists who
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  have like, propped up only fans chicks and they're like, we made
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  the right person famous. Yet you're going to tear down
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  Sidney Sweeney, who's like been an entrepreneur.
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  She obviously, like embraces family values.
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  She came out and talked about how, like she wants to
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  destigmatize being a mother and being a wife in Hollywood, that
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  you can have it all. And I'm just so sick of this.
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  Like, I scroll online, I'm like, you made the wrong people
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  famous. They come out, they're like
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  disgusting degenerates who are like terrible for young women to
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  look up to. Yet this girl, she's made a life
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  for herself. She wants to start a family.
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  She embraces great values, and she's capitalized on the
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  opportunities given to her in this country.
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  And you're going to shame her? Literally.
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  Screw you. Screw you.
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  At this point, you're not resonating with anybody.
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  You just look bitter. Yeah, these people are just
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  anyone who hates Sweeney is bitter and jealous because she's
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  beautiful and she's actually strong.
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  Speaking of cancellation, this is the perfect segue into our
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  last topic of Yappy Hour. OK, I just saw this a little bit
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  earlier. So Jimmy Kimmel's wife, I feel
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  like people in our generation do not follow Jimmy Kimmel's wife,
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  but this connects to something bigger.
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  Jimmy Kimmel's wife says she is losing relationships with her
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  Trump voting family. And what I loved about this is
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  Greg Gutfeld. As we were talking about Fox, he
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  responded to this. And I thought this actually
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  perfectly encapsulated something.
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  Why does the estrangement only ever go in One Direction?
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  Any stories ever about Trump supporters disowning liberal
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  relatives? Rare at best.
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  Says something about how politics for the left is
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  hopelessly intertwined with ego and self worth.
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  And it's also intertwined with emotion too much.
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  They try to play on people's emotions and try to fear monger
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  and put them down, try to socially manipulate the
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  situation as if you're the person without the moral roles
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  in the value set. You're advocating for killing
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  babies. You're advocating for people to
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  put things in their body that haven't been properly tested.
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  You're the ones that are trying to fear monger society.
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  So enough with this. I relate to this on such a deep
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  level because I have had friends in college or even family
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  members like quite frankly, and I've had to navigate really
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  unfortunate situations and circumstances with.
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  And this is so true. You will never see a
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  conservative try to cut off a liberal or somebody who voted
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  Democrat. I have only had instances
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  growing up where I have been friends with Democrats, I have
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  been friends with leftist women and they have cut me off because
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  I'm the one speaking out or have like having a completely
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  different value set or ideological perspective on
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  things than them and their. They've gotten rid of our
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  friendship or they've cut ties in my family.
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  It's just so sad in my opinion. I can't even think of an
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  instance off the top of my head. I'm sure there has been one for
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  the fact checkers out there, but it's very rare you hear of
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  someone who voted for Trump cutting off liberals.
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  It's always in One Direction. And it's so cliche to say at
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  this point, but the left is not tolerant.
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  They're actually some of the most intolerant people I've ever
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  met in my entire life. They have caricatures of what
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  Trump voters are in their minds. And you know, I will say,
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  growing up in California and going to UC Berkeley, I was
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  surrounded by liberals my entire life.
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  I went to obviously one of the most liberal college campuses in
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  the entire world. And I, you know, people kind of
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  knew that I was conservative on campus.
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  I never pretended I was anything I wasn't.
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  But I got really into politics, especially towards the end and
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  after graduating in 2020 and BLM happened and I launched the
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  Conservatory, I ended up going and working in the Trump White
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  House where I met Cameron. There was so many people who
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  like, like one cancelled me, posted terrible things about me
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  online saying I was like a white supremacist for no reason, just
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  like literally no evidence because I voted for Trump, I
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  guess, and I was working for him.
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  I had people calling me saying I just can't even affiliate with
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  you anymore because you're conservative.
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  And I just think it speaks a lot to these people that they can't
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  have anyone in their life who disagrees with them.
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  And I truly mean this. I like to have people in my life
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  who disagree with me. I think it makes things more
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  interesting. I never want to be in a bubble.
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  That's why, you know, as much as like living in a blue area of
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  the country, I've only ever lived in California, DC and New
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  York. Living in a blue areas of the
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  country does come with its downsides.
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  I do like being challenged in my beliefs on a regular basis.
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  And I just think it makes you a more educated and informed
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  person. And I think a lot of these
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  liberals live in these very blue areas in in these major cities
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  and they don't know a single conservative.
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  Like maybe even the conservative people are private about being
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  conservative. And so I, I just think they're
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  really uneducated and informed about what we actually believe.
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  And they have like all these fake things that we believe in
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  that we really don't. They think we're like radical in
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  this insane direction. And I'm like, no, we're just
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  normal people that like are pro-life, are Christian.
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  We want free speech, We want criminals to be locked up.
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  We, we don't want the government in our lives every day.
• 17:44
  We don't believe in drag queen story hour for children.
• 17:47
  It's, it's pretty, we want, we want better education.
• 17:50
  It's like it's very simple things that we believe in.
• 17:52
  And I think it just speaks a lot that this, that these group of
• 17:55
  people are always looking to oust their relatives.
• 17:58
  It's just so toxic. It exposes the holes in their
• 18:01
  logic and the hypocrisy behind it all as well.
• 18:03
  Because these are the same people, like you said, who claim
• 18:06
  to be the tolerant, loving voices of the party.
• 18:10
  Yet they're the the ones like tearing other people down,
• 18:13
  weaponizing boundaries, trying to get rid of family members
• 18:16
  when also to like these aren't virtuous things to look up to
• 18:20
  and like values that you should have.
• 18:22
  Just cutting people off completely, like being so
• 18:25
  intolerant to a difference in thought.
• 18:27
  You have to understand not everybody's going to agree with
• 18:31
  you on everything. There are things that Jamie and
• 18:33
  I disagree with. That doesn't mean that we're
• 18:35
  going to get rid of each other and take each other out of our
• 18:37
  lives. That is so selfish and short
• 18:39
  sighted and just not a way that you should conduct yourself in
• 18:43
  life. It's so funny to me.
• 18:44
  The number one hate comment I get from liberals is that I look
• 18:48
  trans and like I thought you guys actually were tolerant and
• 18:51
  you were accepting of everyone yet you're going to use trans as
• 18:55
  an insult? I don't think that was supposed
• 18:56
  to be an insult you guys. I thought we were supposed to be
• 18:59
  welcoming and actually embracing their beauty.
• 19:01
  That is so funny, Yeah. What does that mean to look
• 19:03
  trans? What is that about?
• 19:06
  It's so funny. And you know, if you also look
• 19:08
  like basically everything we believe if like was like
• 19:12
  mainstream in 2010, like genuinely, it's like, oh, we
• 19:15
  want a secure border. And you know, Barack Obama was
• 19:18
  against gay marriage until like 10 years ago as well.
• 19:21
  Gay marriage wasn't even legalized until 2016.
• 19:24
  And so they're the ones that have gone so insane.
• 19:27
  They're the ones that are like men can become woman.
• 19:30
  They're the ones that become so radical.
• 19:32
  They're the ones that are like trans, the children open up the
• 19:35
  borders. Anyone can come through here.
• 19:37
  Like it's insane. They're the ones that are like,
• 19:39
  let's socialize the entire our economy.
• 19:41
  Let's vote in Zora Mandani and Jay Jones, the whack jobs like,
• 19:45
  and still, even with that, if you believe in all of that
• 19:48
  stuff, they're like third term abortion.
• 19:50
  Like it's, it's crazy what they believe in.
• 19:52
  And even at that, I, I'm still willing to be friends with you.
• 19:55
  I, I want to hear your point of view.
• 19:57
  I want to hear how you think differently than me.
• 19:59
  I don't like this like purity test.
• 20:02
  And I just think it's insane how we're always painted as
• 20:04
  radicals. Meanwhile, like I said in in
• 20:06
  2010, everyone agreed on these things.
• 20:08
  It's only till recently are these far left.
• 20:11
  Values like pushed to the Overton window has moved so far
• 20:15
  left that like you're crazy for being like, yeah, I just believe
• 20:18
  in like a traditional value of family structure and just like
• 20:21
  more, you know, Christian values.
• 20:23
  It's it's crazy and but don't cut people off, you guys.
• 20:26
  It's like you can learn from one another and it's I think it's
• 20:28
  fun to have someone that disagrees with you can spar.
• 20:31
  Have. That's another thing too.
• 20:32
  When people like debate, some people take it like I've had
• 20:35
  this with some members of family and stuff where they take it so
• 20:37
  personally, they're like melting down.
• 20:39
  And it's like, I don't know, maybe because I work in politics
• 20:42
  and I'm in DC, I just don't take things that personally.
• 20:44
  If someone disagrees with me, I'm like, oh, that's great,
• 20:46
  anyway, have a fun debate and then move on and let's go get a
• 20:48
  drink, Let's go get lunch and have a good time.
• 20:50
  Like I, I'm not personally offended if you.
• 20:52
  I almost think that shows that you're not strong in your own
• 20:55
  beliefs because I'm at least strong in my own beliefs.
• 20:57
  So it doesn't offend me if someone disagrees with me.
• 20:59
  Yeah. I don't take it personally
• 21:01
  either. And also it makes you more of
• 21:02
  like an intelligent and thought provoking person when you know
• 21:05
  know the other person's like opinion in the other side and
• 21:07
  you're able to argue your case because you're so strong in your
• 21:10
  opinion and you're so strong in like your set of beliefs, that
• 21:13
  actually makes you like a more intelligent human being.
• 21:16
  And so you should actually want to embrace difference and and
• 21:19
  thought sometimes and that will make you stronger in your
• 21:22
  beliefs and as a person, if you're able to know the other
• 21:24
  side, how do you think people on our side know how to debate?
• 21:27
  It's because they know the other person's opinion and what
• 21:31
  they're going to say and and their value set.
• 21:33
  And so if you can't be able to argue that effectively, then
• 21:36
  that just goes to show the holes in your logic, like
• 21:39
  ideologically not making sense, being hypocritical and cutting
• 21:43
  people off too. It shows that you're whiny.
• 21:46
  Like that's why we always coin the term like liberal meltdown.
• 21:49
  It's because you're like, just not a strong person in our
• 21:52
  opinion. Yeah, I completely agree with
• 21:53
  that, Cam. Anyway, you guys, let's move on
• 21:55
  to our next segment. I have no words where we always
• 21:58
  have a lot of words. Ironically, Vogue, British Vogue
• 22:04
  in particular, publish an article saying it's embarrassing
• 22:07
  to have a boyfriend and we'll throw that up on the screen in
• 22:10
  case you guys missed it. Why do I agree with this?
• 22:13
  Like you're either single or you're married.
• 22:15
  There's like no in between with me.
• 22:16
  And also, I think a lot of because, listen, I was this girl
• 22:20
  too. I used to post boyfriends and
• 22:22
  play, you know, into the wifely things on a girlfriend's salary.
• 22:26
  And quite frankly, I think it's embarrassing.
• 22:28
  And if your social media like is centered around like your brand
• 22:31
  and monetizing that, then it should be about about you if
• 22:33
  people are following you. So I honestly don't think that
• 22:37
  you should be posting a boyfriend as much if that person
• 22:39
  is your husband. You're building a life and a
• 22:41
  family together. That's different.
• 22:43
  But I do think women need to actually decenter boyfriends
• 22:46
  from their life more. And that's something that I
• 22:48
  would take that advice from five years ago.
• 22:50
  I wish that I had somebody telling me this.
• 22:53
  That is so interesting, Karen. I love that take.
• 22:56
  But your take is almost coming from like an Uber traditional
• 22:58
  like lens. Like you're you're agreeing with
• 23:01
  it through a traditional way versus like after reading the
• 23:04
  full article I think that they are trying to push people not to
• 23:07
  date or get married to be honest.
• 23:09
  Well, and because they actually put in the article having a
• 23:11
  boyfriend is conservative coded, they said something like or is
• 23:15
  giving Republican they actually quoted to New York.
• 23:18
  I I think based podcasters. So that does make sense.
• 23:21
  But based on the headline, that was my take.
• 23:23
  But yes, if you actually read the article, they were they were
• 23:25
  saying something a little bit different.
• 23:27
  Yeah, I mean, I think nowadays it's, you know, it is like
• 23:30
  conservative coded or whatever to be dating and like wanting to
• 23:33
  pursue marriage and stuff. And we talked about this last
• 23:35
  week with the Shane Mitchell thing.
• 23:37
  So I don't want to repeat myself too much on that.
• 23:40
  But I do think that they they don't want women getting
• 23:43
  married. They don't want women forming
• 23:44
  relationships because, you know, ultimately, and the data bears
• 23:48
  this out. It's funny.
• 23:48
  Like you look at the data from the last election and Kamala
• 23:52
  Harris won married woman by 40 points.
• 23:55
  You guys versus married woman went for Trump +2 points.
• 23:59
  And you know, I think there's a lot of reasons for that.
• 24:01
  But I do think when you do get married and you have kids,
• 24:03
  you're ultimately going to be more conservative because you
• 24:05
  just start valuing things and not these like social random
• 24:08
  progressive trends that. You value like kitchen table
• 24:11
  issues that are affecting your family.
• 24:12
  Yeah, end of the day. And you become very protective
• 24:14
  over your kids and that leads to, you know, wanting like
• 24:16
  stronger borders, safer communities, better schools,
• 24:20
  Yeah, better education, you know, on indoctrination in the
• 24:22
  classroom stuff. I just think ultimately leads
• 24:24
  you in a more conservative direction.
• 24:26
  So I think that was more of the point of the article.
• 24:28
  But you know, I, I agree. I think, you know, speaking
• 24:30
  about it just like you said, I do think like there are a lot of
• 24:34
  women nowadays that are in these relationships.
• 24:36
  We talk about it all the time, these situation ships that are
• 24:38
  going on five years, no ring or whatever.
• 24:42
  And I'm like, yeah, maybe that guy does not deserve to be on
• 24:44
  your Instagram if he's been leading you on for that long.
• 24:46
  Yeah, because here's the problem with this, Jamie, is I have
• 24:49
  followed. I'm very loyal and who I follow
• 24:51
  and the type of influencers that I follow.
• 24:53
  And over the years, obviously like, you know, there's
• 24:56
  different style trends and stuff that I'll, I'll follow and
• 24:59
  things like that. But ultimately I have followed a
• 25:01
  lot of the same influencers since college.
• 25:03
  And they will be in these relationships that you're
• 25:05
  talking about. And then one day out of the
• 25:07
  blue, they break up and everybody's treating it like a
• 25:10
  divorce. And I'm like, this is not stop
• 25:12
  giving these people such a hard time when it's literally a
• 25:16
  breakup. But when you're treating it like
• 25:18
  a marriage and you're living together and your brands and
• 25:20
  your lives are so a mesh, that becomes so too hard on your
• 25:24
  audience too. And I think that and like
• 25:26
  partially they're talking about this like in the substance of
• 25:30
  this article where it's like these women have like propped up
• 25:33
  their boyfriends on their social media.
• 25:36
  And I do think, listen, there's something so beautiful about
• 25:38
  like celebrating a relationship and coming together.
• 25:40
  Jamie and I, we have like a typical love stories where we
• 25:43
  got married like almost immediately, like we blinked and
• 25:46
  we were married. So we get it, ladies, like you
• 25:48
  didn't normally you did in today's dating culture, you
• 25:51
  date, you get proposed to and then you get so we obviously
• 25:54
  know that we have like a hotter take on this, but stop treating
• 25:58
  these men like you're married. But All in all, I mean, I kind
• 26:01
  of agree with the headline. Like it is embarrassing to an
• 26:04
  extent where if you're treating that man like your husband, that
• 26:08
  to me is embarrassing. I would rather have like an an
• 26:10
  older sis have told me this, you know, years ago because I feel
• 26:14
  like the culture now embraces, you know, a boyfriend,
• 26:17
  girlfriend relationship, like a husband and wife and it's just
• 26:19
  not. So another interesting component
• 26:22
  of this article, and I was one of the unfortunate people that
• 26:24
  read through the whole thing. They brought up this term that
• 26:27
  had to do some research on. It's called heterophatalism,
• 26:31
  which basically means that it's these feminist women who hate
• 26:36
  men. Like, you know, we always hear
• 26:37
  the all men suck type culture, the patriarchy, all of this
• 26:41
  stuff. So it's that group of women, but
• 26:43
  they're sexually attracted to men.
• 26:45
  So they're facing these issues because they're like, I want to
• 26:48
  have sex with men, but I actually hate men at the same
• 26:50
  time. And so I guess it's the mental
• 26:53
  gymnastics they do to still be these raging feminists, but
• 26:55
  ultimately fall into a traditional relationship that is
• 26:58
  conservative coded. I thought that was pretty funny
• 27:01
  because I always wonder how these women deal with that And
• 27:04
  they are they kept bringing up throughout the article, straight
• 27:07
  woman, straight woman, because I'm telling you, they are
• 27:09
  pushing women towards like being bisexual and not they don't like
• 27:13
  like the progressive movement. The bane of the progressive
• 27:16
  movement is men and women coming together, getting married and
• 27:19
  having a family. That's truly what they are fully
• 27:21
  against. That's why they don't want you
• 27:22
  to have kids. They're very anti natalist.
• 27:25
  They're for the whole feminist agenda, convincing woman that
• 27:28
  motherhood and marriage is going to be oppressive.
• 27:30
  And it's because the minute you come together, people get more
• 27:32
  conservative. So this is kind of one of those
• 27:34
  very far left progressive ideology embedding itself so
• 27:38
  well into women's media to kind of put this in their brain, even
• 27:41
  this heterophatalism like putting that into women's brains
• 27:44
  as. Well, they try to blur the lines
• 27:46
  with sexuality, They try to blur the lines, you know, obviously
• 27:49
  advocating for women to climb the corporate ladder, don't
• 27:52
  focus on on getting married. And ultimately that's so
• 27:54
  detrimental for women because we do have a biological clock that,
• 27:58
  you know, men don't. So we do have to actually focus
• 28:00
  on that and prioritize that. And that's not talked about
• 28:02
  enough that it's biological, not cultural as we're not fighting
• 28:06
  you on that. But I do think ultimately,
• 28:09
  obviously This is why they want women out of the home.
• 28:12
  So obviously, like you can tax each other more because you're
• 28:15
  you're filing as individuals. The government obviously wants
• 28:18
  to indoctrinate your children. So they're like, get the mom out
• 28:21
  of the home, put them in school. So they're not, you know,
• 28:23
  focusing on any of the education or daycare education or any of
• 28:28
  the values that are being instilled in them.
• 28:29
  They have 100% authority over that.
• 28:33
  And ultimately it's so detrimental for society.
• 28:36
  It is not natural, it is not biological to embrace these
• 28:41
  values. And they know that.
• 28:42
  That's why they always come back to conservative values.
• 28:45
  If you're getting married, you become more conservative.
• 28:48
  Ultimately, if you are paying taxes, you're going to become
• 28:52
  more conservative and economically, fiscally more
• 28:55
  conservative. And so, yeah, that's exactly why
• 28:58
  they want to push people out of the homes.
• 29:00
  They want them to climb the corporate ladder.
• 29:01
  They don't want them to have kids because then they're not
• 29:03
  thinking in that way. That's not so self-centered, you
• 29:06
  know what I mean? Because a lot of the leftist
• 29:08
  ideology is very, very self-centered at the end of the
• 29:11
  day. Once again, we had a lot of
• 29:13
  words for the I have no words section.
• 29:15
  Very Jamie and Camcor. All right, you guys, we'll keep
• 29:18
  this episode moving. Let's go on to non-toxic advice.
• 29:22
  As always, you guys write in great questions.
• 29:24
  We'd love to hear from you. If you haven't written a
• 29:26
  question in or you want to write in another one, make sure you go
• 29:28
  to sincerelyamerican.com slash ask a question.
• 29:31
  We'd love to hear from you. OK?
• 29:37
  Our first one is from Nicole in South Dakota.
• 29:40
  And she said, what advice would you give yourself five years
• 29:44
  ago? Wow, so five years ago I would
• 29:46
  have been 20. I would have just moved to DCI,
• 29:50
  would have been friends with Jamie, meeting her for the first
• 29:53
  time, meeting our friend Bryson for the first time, working for
• 29:56
  President Trump in the White House, which it was a it was a
• 29:58
  lot of life steps in a very short amount of time for a very
• 30:02
  young individual. I guess one thing that I will
• 30:05
  note that I could have done better at was not people
• 30:10
  pleasing. I spent so much time trying to
• 30:14
  socially navigate and appeal to people who ultimately just
• 30:18
  weren't going to like me. That is OK.
• 30:20
  It is OK to not people please to stand your ground.
• 30:23
  It gives you a stronger sense of self.
• 30:25
  If you're constantly trying to cater and people please and
• 30:28
  explain yourself, then ultimately you're not going to
• 30:31
  have a strong sense of self. You're going to constantly be
• 30:34
  questioning your decision making.
• 30:35
  Am I going to piss this person and off?
• 30:37
  Am I going to turn this person off from liking me?
• 30:40
  Stop giving an F. If we can learn anything from
• 30:43
  earlier in this segment about the Sydney Sweeney stuff, stop
• 30:46
  giving an F. Because at the end of the day,
• 30:49
  it is going to be the right people are going to understand
• 30:52
  you. The right people are going to
• 30:53
  know who you are inside and out and are going to love you
• 30:56
  through that. And so I would have told myself
• 30:58
  five years ago, do not waste your time.
• 31:00
  It is OK to not go to everything, to put boundaries in
• 31:03
  place, to not protect your piece.
• 31:05
  You guys be a good friend, be a good family member, but stop
• 31:09
  people pleasing and try to cater yourself to other people.
• 31:11
  You're going to lose yourself in the end doing that.
• 31:13
  I would say for my advice would be, you know, I look back at 22
• 31:17
  and I think I was out there a lot.
• 31:19
  So I'm very happy with what I was doing at 22, honestly.
• 31:22
  But I will say you don't recognize that sometimes in the
• 31:24
  moment because you'll look back and it's gone by really fast.
• 31:29
  But I would say just get out there, e-mail everyone, go
• 31:33
  hustle in your job at that time. This is like when you're just
• 31:35
  coming at 22 for me, like you were just coming out of college
• 31:38
  and stuff and you know, make all of those connections.
• 31:41
  You guys get out there, hustle, work the crazy hours at that
• 31:45
  time, e-mail everybody, go to every event that you possibly
• 31:48
  can, meet everyone and be kind to everybody and make like
• 31:51
  really great networking connections.
• 31:53
  And I something I love about you, Cameron, is we were talking
• 31:56
  earlier, it was a private discussion.
• 31:58
  I won't share, but you're like, why not be delusional?
• 32:00
  Like just e-mail them. And I'm like, yeah, I love that.
• 32:03
  Like we're like, if you think something's out of your reach,
• 32:05
  who cares? Have the confidence and just
• 32:08
  e-mail and, you know, request what you want, whether that be a
• 32:10
  job, whether that be some type of opportunity, like put
• 32:12
  yourself out there. I think it's such a like
• 32:14
  important season of life. And I know like a lot of
• 32:16
  especially young Christian women are like worried about getting
• 32:19
  married at 20 two and stuff. And I will say I met my husband
• 32:21
  at 22 and I was married by 23, which was crazy.
• 32:24
  But if you're putting yourself out there and you're meeting a
• 32:26
  ton of people for your career, you're ultimately going to
• 32:27
  probably meet your husband as well.
• 32:29
  Yeah, if you're in your 20s, take the risk.
• 32:31
  These are the years to fall on your eyes to, you know, make
• 32:35
  mistakes, learn from them, ultimately become wiser because
• 32:38
  of it. Like I said to Jamie earlier in
• 32:41
  a private combo, be delusional. The most successful people in
• 32:44
  society believe in themselves to like a delusional degree.
• 32:48
  And if you're able to see it, God would never put that image
• 32:52
  in your mind if He wasn't going to create it for you.
• 32:55
  And that wasn't the life trajectory He was going to put
• 32:57
  you on. Be delusional, take the risk,
• 33:00
  get married, have kids, become successful.
• 33:03
  This is what we're all about. Here and the other point I'll
• 33:05
  add too is get out of your regular hometown.
• 33:08
  Like this is the time in your life.
• 33:10
  Like I said, when you're married and have kids, that is not the
• 33:12
  time in the life for this, but this is the time in your life to
• 33:15
  move somewhere crazy. Move to your dream city, even if
• 33:18
  it's expensive, make it work, find a roommate, ask for the
• 33:21
  promotion or whatever. And like go achieve your dreams.
• 33:25
  Like I think 22 is such a fun time in your life.
• 33:27
  I guess this is my five years ago advice, but if you're just
• 33:29
  graduating college. Yeah, like Jamie said, you're
• 33:32
  not going to have these same opportunities when, you know,
• 33:34
  you're married, you're considering another person,
• 33:36
  especially when you have kids, you're considering multiple
• 33:38
  people. So this is the time you guys
• 33:41
  jump on the opportunities, take the risk, start the business,
• 33:44
  have the children. It's going to make you more
• 33:47
  fulfilled. You don't want to look back and
• 33:49
  think, why didn't I do that? Why didn't I do that when I was
• 33:52
  younger? I'm so scared of ever thinking
• 33:53
  that. That's why I always take the
• 33:54
  risk, even if it's, you know, I learned something forward or I
• 33:57
  make a mistake that ultimately is going to make me smarter,
• 34:00
  make me more stronger in the end.
• 34:02
  Yeah, you guys, it flies by so quick.
• 34:04
  OK, next question. Abby from Texas says what are
• 34:09
  qualities in the people you surround yourself with that make
• 34:12
  you a better person and help you become more successful?
• 34:15
  I would honestly say one of, because I was thinking about
• 34:17
  this earlier and one of the commonalities between all of my
• 34:20
  friends, they all come from such diverse backgrounds.
• 34:23
  I'm from Kentucky, Jamie's from California, the Bay Area, our
• 34:27
  friend Bryson's from Virginia. I've got friends, you know, out
• 34:31
  in other areas of California as well.
• 34:34
  All of them have wanted to be the best versions themselves.
• 34:37
  And I can say this directly to you, Jamie, you are constantly
• 34:40
  asking like, what can I do better?
• 34:42
  You and I, after we do ATV hit, we're asking each other what
• 34:46
  what could I have said? What could have sparked a
• 34:48
  different conversation? Or how could we have, you know,
• 34:51
  socially navigated this better and feed off of each other in
• 34:54
  that way. And I do that with every single
• 34:56
  friend I have. You guys pay attention to the
• 34:59
  conversations you're having at dinner as well, because the
• 35:01
  conversations that we're having is how can we actually scale our
• 35:05
  business? How can we become better wives
• 35:08
  at the end of the day and getting advice from each other?
• 35:10
  How can we actually incorporate prayer more into our daily
• 35:13
  lives? Like if you aren't having
• 35:14
  substantive conversations with your friends, your family, what
• 35:18
  what the content you're consuming, you need to really
• 35:22
  take a look at that and decide for yourself.
• 35:24
  Is this helping me? Is this helping me at the end of
• 35:27
  the day become better? Or is this just bringing me down
• 35:29
  to somebody's level? Is this bringing me down
• 35:31
  emotionally? Because you do not want that
• 35:33
  toxicity in your life. You want to constantly be moving
• 35:37
  towards a goal. Yeah, it's so funny as we were
• 35:39
  sitting here and I was like thinking of all my girlfriends
• 35:41
  that I love and adore, like so many of them I'm in business
• 35:44
  with. And it's because I respect them
• 35:45
  so much as people. And I think you are who you
• 35:47
  surround yourself with. I think there's a lot of reality
• 35:50
  towards that something in my life that I always look to.
• 35:52
  I want to be friends with successful, go getter people.
• 35:55
  I want to be friends with people who are prettier than me, more
• 35:58
  successful than I am, are better at this than me.
• 36:01
  Because I think that you can learn a lot from your friends.
• 36:03
  Like I don't get people who surround themselves with people
• 36:05
  who I feel like are lower. I think some people do that to
• 36:08
  make themselves feel better. And I, I always like, want to
• 36:10
  surround myself with like strong, confident, beautiful and
• 36:12
  ambitious woman because I, that's exactly who I want to be.
• 36:15
  And so I, I think that that's the most important, like your
• 36:19
  friends. I don't think your friends need
• 36:20
  to be perfect in every single way.
• 36:22
  Like I think, you know, I don't like that either where you're a
• 36:24
  Puritan and they need to be perfect in every single way.
• 36:26
  But I think every friendship that you should have has some
• 36:28
  add value in your life. And I love what you said about
• 36:31
  the having discussions with each other, because I think it's very
• 36:33
  important to have friends that you can have like intellectual
• 36:35
  debates about like, I love that. Like we can talk about the most
• 36:38
  brain wrought stuff. And then we can also have like a
• 36:40
  whole debate about like foreign policy and the.
• 36:42
  Duality of a woman. Yeah, the duality of a woman.
• 36:44
  And then we'll have the Mimosa brunch and discuss like how
• 36:47
  we're doing business venture together.
• 36:48
  So I think it's important to have like intelligent and smart
• 36:51
  and well spoken people in your life that you actually have like
• 36:53
  great conversations with and that you can learn stuff from.
• 36:55
  Do what you do best, delegate the rest do that in business but
• 36:59
  and also with friendships as well.
• 37:01
  I have noticed that every single one of my friends is better than
• 37:05
  me at something. I was talking to my friend Kirby
• 37:07
  and I really pride myself on emotional intelligence.
• 37:10
  This girl's very emotionally intelligent, very situationally
• 37:13
  aware. You are so book smart.
• 37:15
  You carry yourself so well and you're value set is like
• 37:18
  inspiring to agree where I wanted to get married young and
• 37:21
  I wanted to be serious about my life in that way.
• 37:24
  Obviously we were two ambitious girls in our careers and
• 37:27
  everything, but you taking the time to prioritize your personal
• 37:30
  life with something that was inspiring to me and the list
• 37:32
  goes on. So you guys surround yourself
• 37:35
  with people who you want to emulate, who you want to be like
• 37:37
  because ultimately it's going to propel you in life, whatever
• 37:41
  you're trying to prioritize, whether that's your career, your
• 37:43
  personal life, your family. So pay attention to that.
• 37:46
  Also just. Are under some of people that
• 37:48
  you genuinely enjoy hanging out with?
• 37:49
  Like now that I'm a mom, I just feel like I have and I'm so busy
• 37:52
  with stuff with the, you know, the podcast and my media stuff.
• 37:55
  I really have to devote time to my friends and stuff and I have
• 37:59
  to be very intentional with that time.
• 38:01
  And so I think surround yourself with people that you genuinely
• 38:03
  enjoy hanging out with and that you have a good time and you
• 38:05
  laugh with because I think people need girls really need
• 38:08
  that outlet in life. Like I noticed that about woman
• 38:10
  like we need to have like that outlet.
• 38:11
  We need to have that friendship in a way I think guys don't
• 38:13
  need. So you know, you don't need to
• 38:15
  be mean to anyone. I don't believe in like cutting
• 38:17
  off of people or whatever, but I think you'll be intentional of
• 38:20
  where you're spending time in the friendships that you're
• 38:21
  looking to continue to build. OK, Next we have our last
• 38:25
  question today, Brittany from I'm going to pronounce this
• 38:27
  wrong Louisville. Yeah, you always want to sound
• 38:30
  like you have something in your mouth, like you're chewing on
• 38:31
  something Louisville, like you're spitting something our.
• 38:34
  Kentucky girl knows. OK I love this question.
• 38:38
  This is interesting. How to navigate supporting a
• 38:41
  friend who is dating a complete loser.
• 38:45
  My best friend is dating a guy who has no ambition, smokes weed
• 38:50
  all the time, plays video games He does.
• 38:53
  He does have a great high demand job and is successful.
• 38:56
  She says this is his outlet to decompress after work.
• 39:00
  He is sweet to her but she's amazing and deserves someone who
• 39:03
  prioritize her and doesn't invite her over to spend time
• 39:07
  watching him. Game help.
• 39:09
  She loves him and is blinded by how his lifestyle isn't
• 39:12
  benefiting her. I can tell this girl is very
• 39:15
  passionately hating this guy. I'm laughing.
• 39:17
  And I kind of love that because that just proves that you're a
• 39:19
  really good friend and you want the best for your friend at the
• 39:22
  end of the day. That is so true.
• 39:23
  This guy needs better outlets. And you should tell her that.
• 39:26
  And honestly, if you guys are close enough, this is going to
• 39:29
  make you your friendship stronger because you are
• 39:31
  confronting this. Like Jamie and I always know we
• 39:33
  are not yes friends. If something is going wrong in
• 39:36
  our life or we disagree, we tell each other, trust me.
• 39:39
  And so I do think that you should confront this.
• 39:41
  And she also needs to tell him to have better outlets.
• 39:45
  And if she's trying to pursue this long term.
• 39:46
  And it's really taking a toll on her.
• 39:48
  She needs to take a risk assessment and evaluate if this
• 39:51
  is going to lead her to the life that she wants to live
• 39:54
  ultimately one day and start taking this more seriously,
• 39:56
  especially if they've been in a long term relationship.
• 39:59
  And so you should tell her this and you should come at it from a
• 40:02
  non judgmental perspective. Do not judge him.
• 40:06
  Do not even say the reasons why you hate him.
• 40:08
  Focus it towards her and her well-being and what she
• 40:13
  ultimately wants for her life because you've been there in
• 40:16
  those private moments where she. She's probably shared that with
• 40:18
  you. Yeah, I love what you were
• 40:19
  saying about not having yes people in your life.
• 40:21
  I think that's so important. My mom has always said that my
• 40:24
  mom has always been hard on me my entire life, and I'm so
• 40:27
  thankful for that. My mom is like the best mom for
• 40:29
  that reason. I'm glad she wasn't the mom that
• 40:31
  like told me I'm great no matter what.
• 40:33
  Because guys, let's be honest, no one's great no matter what.
• 40:35
  You have to be great to be great.
• 40:37
  And so I think it's the same with friends.
• 40:39
  Like I love that you'll, I can always count on you to have an
• 40:41
  honest opinion and you should surround yourself with people
• 40:43
  who are genuinely able to give you critiques and make you
• 40:46
  better. That being said, I have been in
• 40:48
  this situation so many times, like starting in high school
• 40:50
  where I have hated some of my friends boyfriends.
• 40:53
  And I think that there is a line where you shouldn't get overly
• 40:55
  involved. If I'm being honest, if she
• 40:57
  comes and asks you for her for your opinion on things, I don't
• 41:00
  think you have to pretend to like him.
• 41:01
  Like I think you can give obvious signals that you're not
• 41:03
  a fan of this guy. But I think wait for her to come
• 41:06
  and ask for an opinion or you know, maybe drop some hints.
• 41:09
  But I don't think it's a place sometimes for friends to get
• 41:11
  like overly involved in like their girlfriends relationships,
• 41:15
  because that can cause a lot of issues in that friendship.
• 41:17
  It's balancing that line in my opinion, where you are not
• 41:20
  lying. I, I never just pump someone up
• 41:22
  or say he's great. That's not being a good friend,
• 41:24
  but also maintaining that boundary that, you know, it is,
• 41:27
  it is her relationship. She loves this guy.
• 41:30
  And you know, there is kind of this duality where it seems like
• 41:32
  he's smoking weed, which we hate, we've made clear and
• 41:35
  playing video games and stuff. But you know, if he does have
• 41:37
  this career that you're saying as well, I don't know, maybe I'm
• 41:40
  not one of those girls that's like, you can never fix a guy.
• 41:42
  I think you can. I think everyone can improve and
• 41:44
  be better versions of themselves.
• 41:45
  So I hate just cancelling people because like, you know, maybe
• 41:49
  they're not perfect right now, but I think Long story short,
• 41:52
  make sure you're balancing that line and not getting overly
• 41:54
  involved into their relationship.
• 41:56
  I think you have more legroom though, since they're dating and
• 41:58
  they're not married. That's true because when they're
• 42:00
  married, obviously she's going to have to take her spouse's
• 42:03
  side and there's just a different level of seriousness
• 42:06
  to that relationship. If she gives you a way in that
• 42:10
  is natural and organic, maybe she's bringing up a problem in
• 42:13
  their relationship. He does something to take her
• 42:16
  off. That's kind of your way.
• 42:17
  And if you just bring it up suddenly out of nowhere, that
• 42:19
  probably won't be a a good look. But ultimately, since they're
• 42:23
  dating girl, I think you should honestly say something because
• 42:25
  you don't want her making the wrong decision later down the
• 42:27
  line. And that's something that I
• 42:29
  value about our friendship. There's been guys that I have,
• 42:31
  you know, had as boyfriends that you've intervened because you
• 42:34
  were my better judgement. You were the Angel on my
• 42:36
  shoulder that I needed. And that's where I did not see
• 42:39
  the full picture from the outside from a bird's eye
• 42:42
  perspective. So I honestly I think since
• 42:44
  they're dating you have more room to speak your mind.
• 42:47
  And on that, yeah. And I think it also depends how
• 42:48
  close. Like we're sisters.
• 42:50
  So I think that's different than like, you know, having like the
• 42:53
  way I would speak to you about things, I wouldn't speak to like
• 42:56
  a lot of my other friends, if I'm just being honest.
• 42:58
  So like, we almost tell each other too much.
• 43:02
  So, but I like, it's kind of like when you're in the dressing
• 43:04
  dressing room and you can tell someone the dress is ugly, but
• 43:06
  if they bought the dress and they can't return it, then it's
• 43:09
  like, I don't know, we'd probably still tell each other
• 43:11
  it's ugly. Like sell it, Poshmark, that
• 43:13
  thing. But I like that.
• 43:14
  I think that's very true. All right, you guys this week
• 43:17
  instead of hot or not, Cameron had a great idea.
• 43:20
  I think we should do this or that rapid fire.
• 43:26
  That's what I'm thinking. OK, so we're both going to
• 43:29
  answer no explanation. You guys can like I guess guess
• 43:32
  why we think this. OK, Cameron, Yellow cabs or
• 43:35
  Uber? Uber Black, and I will not
• 43:38
  elaborate, Don't get regular Ubers.
• 43:40
  If you can afford it, get an Uber Black.
• 43:42
  It's safer, it's cleaner, it's a better experience.
• 43:45
  I love that we're like, we're one elaborate.
• 43:46
  And you know we will. I'm an Uber black girl too.
• 43:48
  Oh. Yeah, it's only I won't
• 43:50
  elaborate, but here's my 2 minute monologue on this effing
• 43:53
  topic. Yeah, no, literally same though
• 43:56
  I think it's fine. We can give a quick explanation.
• 43:58
  I'm also an Uber Black girl. The amount of money we spend on
• 44:00
  Uber Black, I'm sorry. I am not getting in the car
• 44:03
  though with like some weirdo that smells like weed at this
• 44:05
  point. Yeah, I will see if you're in
• 44:07
  New York. Cab sometimes can be better and
• 44:09
  faster. I will not lie.
• 44:10
  I I took a cab actually when we were up in New.
• 44:11
  York, especially at the airport, they're already there.
• 44:13
  OK, early bird or night owl? Early bird, you and I can't even
• 44:17
  stay up late with the amount of hits that we have.
• 44:19
  You've got to put Vivi to bed. I'm neither you guys really I I
• 44:24
  feel like my schedule is so insane.
• 44:26
  I'm either spoke. Up at 5:00 AM together.
• 44:28
  I know because like if I'm doing a media hit at 8 or whatever,
• 44:31
  then I'm getting up at 5:00, but then like I'll do like Trace's
• 44:33
  show on Fox at like 11 and I'm up till like 2:00 AM.
• 44:36
  So it just really depends for me right now on like where, what
• 44:39
  hit I have and then I just adjust my schedule accordingly.
• 44:42
  So I'm I'm neither. But in general I don't like
• 44:44
  staying out too late and I also don't like getting up too early
• 44:47
  either. I'll do it for for work and
• 44:48
  stuff. Baths are shower.
• 44:50
  Baths definitely calms me down more.
• 44:53
  I mean if I actually like need to do an everything shower I
• 44:56
  will. I don't just take baths but I
• 44:58
  will go with a bath. It's way more relaxing.
• 45:00
  I love a bubble bath you guys obviously like I as I'm saying
• 45:04
  this, I take a bath like almost once a time.
• 45:06
  It's like my relaxation I do. I don't just like rely on a bath
• 45:09
  though to clean me like a shower I take as well.
• 45:11
  I'm like a shower addict as well.
• 45:13
  Like I literally shower like 15 times a day as well, which is
• 45:16
  another thing. OK?
• 45:17
  Gloss or lipstick? Gloss, lipstick, wine or
• 45:20
  martini? I drink wine more, but I like a
• 45:23
  martini in certain I'm going to go martini.
• 45:27
  I only drink wine. I don't really get really any
• 45:28
  hard alcohol anymore. I like wine.
• 45:30
  LA or New York? New York, and this is coming
• 45:33
  from somebody who lives in LA. I'm still going to go LA because
• 45:37
  I think I don't. LA was in like it's amazing era
• 45:41
  back in like 2016. It's Tumblr era as everyone
• 45:43
  jokes like, you know that Kylie Jenner.
• 45:46
  What is that song called? Kylie, Yeah.
• 45:48
  Three strikes yeah, yeah, that song, like people do like that
• 45:52
  filter for it. So LA, I feel like it's in its
• 45:54
  flop era right now, but I will always be an LA girl.
• 45:56
  I love LA. Okay, book smart or street
• 45:58
  smart? Street smart.
• 46:00
  I'm way more book smart. I'm St. dumb.
• 46:07
  I can recite like some random geographic fact or like.
• 46:10
  Jamie will be like the Egyptians believe the most significant
• 46:13
  thing you could do in your life was die, and then I'll be over
• 46:15
  here being like this person socially manipulating you and
• 46:18
  you need to pay attention. That is our relationship to a
• 46:22
  court can't stop having I'm the most random facts that like are
• 46:28
  not even necessary in life and Cameron will like literally give
• 46:31
  me such a wake up call with a lot of things OK Christmas Eve
• 46:35
  or morning. Christmas Eve, because I listen,
• 46:40
  I'll watch the holiday, I'll get into my jammies, I'll have a
• 46:43
  night time tea. And then like the anticipation
• 46:46
  of opening the presents and then watching people who I, you know,
• 46:49
  I got their presents, I wrapped them.
• 46:50
  I put so much thought into it, open them.
• 46:52
  The thought of that gives me my dopamine rush.
• 46:55
  So I'm going to go with Christmas Eve.
• 46:56
  It's different. If I was a kid, I would have
• 46:58
  said Christmas morning because I remember being so impatient on
• 47:00
  Christmas Eve. I'm like, can we get through
• 47:02
  this time machine till the morning to open up my guests?
• 47:04
  But now being a mom, it's different because it's like fun
• 47:06
  prepping for all of that. I hope there's no one it alert
• 47:09
  if you have your kids in your car, but you know, like I like
• 47:12
  doing all the gifts and the stockings and stuff.
• 47:14
  So like you can let your kids listen now again.
• 47:17
  But yeah, so I think now Eve being a mom, OK, Hamptons or
• 47:21
  Palm Springs Hamptons. I'm going to go Hamptons too,
• 47:26
  even though I'm a California girl I love.
• 47:28
  Palm Springs too, don't get me wrong, but I there's something
• 47:31
  about the Hamptons. I'm from the East Coast.
• 47:33
  Like I just love the vibes there.
• 47:36
  I love the shopping, I love the relaxation, the beach.
• 47:39
  And it's normally like not a crazy climate like I've been to
• 47:43
  Palm Springs when it's so hot. So it's nice going to the
• 47:46
  Hamptons even before like rush season when it's a little bit
• 47:49
  chillier. We've done that, yeah.
• 47:50
  It's so much fun. You.
• 47:51
  Guys, I actually, I remember the first time I went to the
• 47:53
  Hamptons, it was so charming. Like I love the history and the
• 47:56
  charm. I'm actually the Hamptons are
• 47:57
  some of my favorite parts of the country.
• 47:59
  Like I literally love it there. OK, last one Hot girl summer or
• 48:03
  Frank Sinatra fall. I love Frank Sinatra fall.
• 48:06
  I want to be in a big faux fur coat with my sunglasses, no
• 48:11
  makeup, in a jazz bar, in a Speakeasy, at home with my
• 48:15
  freshly made martini, with my husband, listening to good
• 48:19
  music, good vibes. It's great weather.
• 48:20
  When I walk outside I'm like not dying of a heat stroke.
• 48:24
  And something about the charm of it.
• 48:25
  I love the like the low lightings in the restaurants.
• 48:28
  I just love the entire aesthetic of it.
• 48:30
  So I'm going to go Frank Sinatra fall.
• 48:32
  Well we all know I love Christian girl falls, so I'm
• 48:34
  definitely going fall as well. I love the fall season.
• 48:36
  That's why I love living on the East Coast now.
• 48:38
  It's like I just love all the vibes.
• 48:39
  I love football, love making my little soups, love the leaves
• 48:43
  falling, the pumpkins, all of it.
• 48:45
  Big fall girl now. OK you guys headed into our last
• 48:48
  section of the day. Propaganda we're not falling
• 48:50
  for. OK Cameron, what is the
• 48:55
  propaganda that you are not falling for this week?
• 48:57
  No shade of Hailey Bieber because I love her.
• 49:00
  Look at my Rd. case. I'm obsessed with her.
• 49:02
  I saw this photo of her the other day though where she was
• 49:05
  wearing a pimple patch out in public.
• 49:07
  I've seen so many people do this because I would much rather see
• 49:10
  the blemish on your face. I don't think it's that big of a
• 49:12
  deal. I think you should sleep in
• 49:13
  those in the comfort of your own home, in your own bed.
• 49:16
  Give yourself some. Give your skin some time to rest
• 49:18
  throughout the day. Hydrate, but don't wear those
• 49:21
  out in public. I just.
• 49:22
  I think it's tacky, honestly. Yeah, I, I, I agree with that.
• 49:26
  I see that all the time with the star patches.
• 49:28
  I, I'm not understanding that either.
• 49:29
  It's very weird. And it's kind of what we talked
• 49:31
  about. It's the breakdown of standards
• 49:33
  in our society. So I'm in agreement with that.
• 49:35
  That is propaganda I'm not falling for.
• 49:36
  OK, so usually I like to keep this light and fun, but I needed
• 49:39
  a forum for a rant and so this is it.
• 49:41
  So I live in Virginia, obviously we had this election last week
• 49:45
  and I am so disgusted that Jay Jones was elected and is our
• 49:50
  attorney general for Virginia. Truly everyone was talking about
• 49:53
  mom Donnie and like I get why people don't like Mehndani, I
• 49:55
  understand but Jay Jones is next level for me.
• 49:58
  It is disgusting. For those of you guys that are
• 50:00
  not aware of this, he literally had a scandal where people
• 50:03
  release his text messages where he was talking about killing the
• 50:07
  speaker of the house and his children and talking about that
• 50:10
  young children who were kids of Republicans were fascists and
• 50:14
  that they need to be killed and die.
• 50:16
  This is not for me. I'm not a politically correct
• 50:18
  person. If someone has some scandal
• 50:20
  where maybe they said something that was off color or whatever,
• 50:23
  I'm like one of those people that I'm not offended by stuff.
• 50:25
  This is truly offensive and disgusting.
• 50:27
  And I, I cannot believe a single, and I will tell you this
• 50:30
  as a Republican, I if the, if the shoe was on the other foot,
• 50:34
  as conservative as I am and as like, as much as I believe in my
• 50:37
  conservative values and I vote Republican, I would never vote
• 50:40
  for this person. I'm not even saying you need to
• 50:42
  vote for the, the Republican Democrats here, but the fact
• 50:45
  that you guys put this on your voting record, I just think says
• 50:48
  a lot. I think it's absolutely
• 50:50
  atrocious and disgusting. And I will tell you too, when I
• 50:52
  was trick or treating of my daughter, I was going past
• 50:55
  houses that had Jay Jones signs that were they specifically just
• 50:59
  had that sign. I was just horrified by it.
• 51:01
  Like, what have we come to as a country?
• 51:03
  Like, I mean, you look back at people used to, you know, I
• 51:07
  think Joe Biden like couldn't get elected a few a few decades
• 51:10
  back because he's been in here forever because he like
• 51:12
  plagiarized something at one point.
• 51:14
  And now you can have these text messages.
• 51:15
  And because people are so partisan in this day and age, I
• 51:18
  just think we need to do better as a country.
• 51:20
  I think there's standards that we have to have and you can't
• 51:22
  let politics get completely to you.
• 51:24
  So that that's my rant. Shame on anyone who voted for
• 51:28
  that man. It's truly horrifying and
• 51:29
  disgusting. What is the propaganda that you
• 51:31
  are falling for, Cameron? Not going to everything you're
• 51:34
  invited to. I agree.
• 51:35
  Don't think you should put that stress on yourself.
• 51:39
  I think there's something actually like mysterious and fun
• 51:42
  about somebody who's not at everything or somebody who Irish
• 51:45
  exits. I do that too.
• 51:46
  But normally it's like people are talking about you like
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  where'd you go? Why didn't this person come?
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  Where is this person? It leaves a little mystery and
• 51:52
  gives you a little bit more aura, and that's my take on
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  that. I'm in full agreement with that.
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  I just, I'm going to use that as an excuse.
• 51:59
  I'm mysterious because I just don't feel like going out
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  Melania energy, OK? The propaganda that I'm falling
• 52:05
  for is having a thick skin. Everybody, you know, we kind of
• 52:08
  talked about this earlier, is offended.
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  They're outraged all the time. It's not a virtue to be like
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  that. I just think in this day and
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  age, more people just need to suck it up.
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  I'm sick about hearing about your trauma.
• 52:19
  People used to like literally go to war at 20 years old, die, be
• 52:23
  in a depression. Like life is not that difficult
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  nowadays. We live an incredibly cushy
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  life. That's why even when we're
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  talking about the news with the doomsday stuff, like things are
• 52:30
  not that bad. You guys suck it up and move on
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  with your life. You don't need to like dwell on
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  everything going bad. I think people that dwell on
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  everything, they're never going to be successful.
• 52:39
  I think successful people are ones that overcome obstacles and
• 52:43
  don't let that like drag them back in life.
• 52:45
  They just keep moving forward. And obviously, like this is part
• 52:49
  of the human existence. You're going to go through
• 52:50
  really hard points in your life. There's going to be something
• 52:52
  that terrible that happens at some point, unfortunately, like
• 52:56
  pray to God, you know, that that that doesn't happen anytime
• 52:59
  soon. But I think, you know, sometimes
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  you need to suck it up and keep moving.
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  And I just don't think in this day and age we say suck it up
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  enough so. Everybody's offended by
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  everything these days. They're cutting people off
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  because they've hurt their feelings and they don't have a
• 53:13
  strong backbone. Be stronger you guys.
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  Sometimes all you just need to have is like have a glass of
• 53:18
  wine and just relax. And get over.
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  It and just like be positive in life, do.
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  You, like God, was teaching me that for a reason.
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  This happened for a reason. Yeah, keep the glass half full.
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  People who are positive live happier lives.
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  And if you dwell on everything negative, you're never going to
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  be happy. So suck it up and get to it.
• 53:33
  All right, you guys, thank you so much for tuning into this
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  Bye, babes.