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Why relationships come to an end · Podcast - Big 98.7

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We were talking about Sean Mendez and Camila Caabayo breaking up again again. This
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is twice now, and I just need to know. I need to know
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so bad what the reason that they broke up is. Because we're talking about,
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like, what's the most common reason people break up? Gotta be cheating,
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Gotta be cheating. There's reasons people should break up, but I feel
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like they never have enough, like there's not enough for them to, you
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know, to push them to the breakup point. Well, I think too,
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Yeah, a lot of people are it's just like that tolerable or it's
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comfortable, or you just don't know what you would do, depending on the
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length of your relationship. I saw a study there was like seventeen percent of
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relationships are actually happy. I'm like, well, that's sad, that is
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bad geez. I did find this though, the top reasons that relationships do
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come to an end, and cheating was not on the list, but rather
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like, for example, the number at nine reason was just being somebody was
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being too messy. Now, this feels like it's more like early on in
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relationships, so being too messy or being too talkative. I totally get that
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one because for me, maybe it's just me. But I'm a real weirdo
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about like sort of some anxiety like in conversations. So if you're talking too
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much, especially in like a public setting like that would cringe me so hard.
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It's funny because you would think being on the radio just major extroverts,
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you know, and there is that. But we talk all day. So
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sometimes I come on my hus gonna like you in there. Yeah, I'm
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good. I'm just like I am shot, not my exhausted. Yeah,
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you don't have I just talk talk talk for example, A yeah, you
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don't hear intern gracing maybe at talking a ton on this show because we don't
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shut up. But when the mics are off, My god, you are
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a little motor mouth, aren't you. Yeah, And sometimes like hot,
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oh she's still just talking or whatever it may be. Amanda sent her third
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email while you're in the same story. Also, not liking a specific food
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like that could be a real deeper deal breaker, and that's ridiculous. It's
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not I would have broken up with laurenty years ago if she didn't like Chinese
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buffets. It just wouldn't work. That's absurd. I swear to God,
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like it would have never got to the point of, you know, being
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engaged in what and leaving together never never never never. What you and Nick
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enjoy the same food? Is there anything that he doesn't like that? Well?
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Good? See that's exactly why. Yeah, I guess maybe I don't
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know any different. Being too obsessed with their pet was the one of the
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top contributors the relationship. And see how there would be like a borderline.
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You should love your pet, you should do all of that. But I
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think there comes a point. Yeah, yeah, I mean then you get
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the couples who are both equally as obsessed and it's insufferable to be around.
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Like all they talk about, you know, man, no sense of humor
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or a different sense of humor. Yeah, that's gonna be for me.
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That would be a deal breaker one hundred percent, because that's what a relationship
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is all about. You gotta laugh together, have fun together. Even when
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that goes away, it's like, I'm good, honestly, no fun anymore.
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If Lauren and maybe she's like over time, like adapted to my sense
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of humor, but if she didn't find the stupid things I say funny,
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like she left a long time ago, you know, just a real funny
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guy. Yeah, I'm not saying I'm funny. I'm a weirdo, but
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especially at home. You know, everybody has their like at home personality.
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Yes, like you don't see it. I will tell you though, recently,
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and I don't know if it's just oh god, I'm starting to think
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I'm a problem. But husband is possible. My husband did say a couple
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of times recently, he's like, have you just lost like I'm joking,
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like, did you lose all sense of humor? Like I take things seriously?
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Yeah, Maybe it's just the kids, Like you say something that it
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didn't land right. Sure, And I think he looks at me, going,
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wow, lady. I don't know. Maybe Nick just needs to be
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funnier. Maybe that's what it is. He's not giving the jokes the way
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they need to be, Like, no, I'm open to jokes, it's
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just they're not landing a kid. Or hygiene another contributor to relationship sending.
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How far could it get? Like how long would you put up with somebody's
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bad hygiene before you're like, Okay, this is not The Jews ain't worth
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the stench. I wouldn't be able to I wouldn't be able to be around
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you if you're just gross. If a guy looking like Chris Hemsworth was interested
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in you and he smelled a little bit like, let's just go Matthew McConaughey
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style, where you're not worrying deodorant and stuff that's just gonna be disgusting.
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I'm not gonna I mean, they do say that pheromone or whatever it is
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was like an aphrodisiactors like a hey baby, I can't. I don't know
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if I could do it. It's true our English or English or high school?
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What was he a biology teacher? He swore he didn't work deodorant because
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women love the natural scent of a man. And this guy was fucking with
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chicks. I'm just kna. I think he lived with his mom. Great
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guy, but yeah, overuse of social media also contributed. That was number
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two. Yeah, I mean that would be so annoying. I mean,
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listen, you used a lot of social media. Does Nick ever go,
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hey, lady, can I just like eat a meal without a picture of
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me? Yeah? He also is more understanding these days, but right away
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it was kind of like you are a psycho. Yeah, now he gets
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I can imagine. And the top contributor to breakups was clinginess. I feel
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like, have you ever had an issue with him? I feel like I'm
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very yeah, I've only known you, like you know, two much?
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Yeah, I very much? So am Oh what are we gonna do about
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that? I don't know. Well, I haven't had a boyfriend since high
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school. So we'll work on it. We got you, Okay, got
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your girl. Just gotta act like you don't care. Call them names hard
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to get. Yeah, just a little bit. I tried that. This
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weekend didn't work out too hot for me. Nothing's working for you in the
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morning. Seven. All right, are we ready for the very exciting Thursday
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tradition. It's our hypothetical situation game. Really, we find out what we're
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all made of in these just brutal situations. It's called remember how to play
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Amanda? Huh? All right, it's called what do you do? Hypothetical
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Situation? Number one? Play along in your car. I mean you have
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the first one. Go ahead. It's Father's Day. Oh, you go
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hang with dad. You bought some amazing steaks. I mean we're talking the
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Tomahawk steak. I've never done that one is absolute favorite. You fire up
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the grill only to find out. Nope, not firing, grill dead.
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Do you think no, Big Deale Father's Day. Gonna hit up a local
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Chinese buffet bike they're closed. Oh my god, so bike with just striking
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out everywhere. I'm telling you a real predicament. What do I do?
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Well? I hope he likes his steaks rare. That's what we're doing.
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Wow. Alright, alright, going Flintstone style. Just a big old tomahawk.
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All right, Amanda, you're in downtown Fargo celebrating the RedHawks, big
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wind. Okay, all right, your friend suggests you stop at sports bar
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for shots because quote, this is the best night of our lives. First,
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you gotta stop into the bathroom, you know that, not the big
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one, the small one. There's the one. Yeah, yeah, you
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know the one. Well, you notice the person who was in there before
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obviously didn't flush. You reach out to flush for him, but you drop
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your phone. Oh no, and it is just swimming in it. So
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Amanda, Yeah, imagine poor little galaxy or whatever. What do you do?
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I know, we're just quivering. Yeah, I don't even I and
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we're talking. This is like a this is a mess. It's a mess.
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This isn't just a number one quick grab? No, no, no,
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Hopefully those shots hit soon, because do you know the pictures? You
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know the dada? Do you know the things I have on this phone I
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don't want to lose. Well, that's what cloud storage is for. You're
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really reaching in there, grab it and rinse everything, and I'm gonna have
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to go straight home. Gross When I save it in there, you walk
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out, You take the shot, and you pretend it never happened. You
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get a new phone and move. I guess not all right? All right?
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So, Pike, you took the Packers to win against the Vikings.
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Of course they lost, pretty typical how that works, but they usually the
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way it goes. You were determined they were gonna win, so you made
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a ridiculous bat You either sleep in a room that's filled with bats overnight or
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snakes overnight. So, Pike, this is such a weird bet to make.
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You picked the Packers Viking slaughter them again? Have I ever said anything?
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Have I ever said anybody being scared of bats? Meanwhile, every day,
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at some point I tell you how scared of snakes I am. I've
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called me Batman because I'm sleeping with those bats. All right, all right,
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all right, a man, a final one. You're at the grocery
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store. We'll call it Hornbockers. You see an old classmate in the hot
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dog aisle. Funny thing about this classmate. You remember they bullied you pretty
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bad back in school. You notice that they're actively stealing a pack of ballpark
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franks. You see it right there and got it. Okay, So I'm
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man, Yeah, what do you do? You know that phone? I
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dug out of the toilet. What are you calling the cors? I'm grabbing
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it, taking a video, getting a walk right by. Let them know
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I'm videotaping it. Gonna go rid up to the manager or hornbackers, because
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nobody should steal and say look at what this person? God rat rat total
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narm. Hopefully they get arrested. Wow, and man from Hornby really bullied?
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Yeah, this morning, this morning, Pike and Amanda in the morning.
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All right, let's prank somebody. It's their birthday. Very exciting.
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Everybody loves a birthday surprise, sure, Neil, But first the intro for
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Pike's Frank Gritten and recorded by my band Low Standards. Are you ready?
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Yes, you'll suspect a thing when you hear the telephone Fike Brand's fuck he
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never is listening Fice Brand, then you won't get arrested bikes. Friend,
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I get chills every time I hear that song. I don't know about you
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girls. Oh yeah, band girling over here. Anyway, this is gonna
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be fun because this guy's girlfriend told us that it's his birthday. We got
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a birthday boy, and not a big surprise guy. So why don't we
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just give him an extra special birthday treat? Not a surprise guy? Hi?
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Hello, Hey? Is this John? John speaking John the birthday boy.
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Yes, it's my birthday. I heard it was your birthday? John?
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How old are you today? Wait? Who is it? Well,
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this is Lebron over at Hanks Happy Birthday Services. Happy Birthday, Yeah,
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Hanks, Happy Birthday Service. We've been in town since nineteen thirty two and
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we're just calling to wish you a very special happy birthday. Somebody very close
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to you wanted you to have an extra special birthday, and so they hired
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us out to wish you happy birthday. Oh okay, and Hans, So
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you guys been around roughly one hundred years or closer to one of the oldest
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businesses in town. Obviously you've never had a Hanks happy birthday, No,
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I have it. That's unfortunately, this will be fun. First of all,
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I'm gonna go and I'm gonna tell you a few fun facts about your
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birthday. Okay, okay, John, did you know you share a birthday
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with Mary Kate Olsen from Full House? How exciting? Why do I hear
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something even crazier? You share a birthday with Ashley Olsen, also from Full
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House. Well, they're twins, right, I don't have that information.
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I just I just know both of their birthdays. Okay, okay. The
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last and best service we offer here at Hank's Happy Birthday Service, I'm gonna
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wish you a happy birthday in various celebrity voices. All right, okay,
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all right, here's Steve Irwin wishing you a happy birthday. Happy birthday,
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mate. That was that was Steve Burrow. It was Steve Irwin wishing you
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a happy birthday. It wasn't actually Steve. He's passed for some time now.
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Yeah, all right, And now here's Rocky giving you a happy birthday.
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Wish you know, John a happy birthday. Oh my gosh, thank
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you, Rocky. All right, all right, okay, thank you guys.
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John, Hey John, it's uh, it's Lebron again. We're good
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to go here. So we'll just need that credit card info or if you
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want to do Venmo, we accept that as well. But credit card info,
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credit card info for what? The birthday service? The happy birthday we're
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services? Oh absolutely not. Wait, well we don't. We don't work
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for free. I imagine you don't work for free. Yeah, I'm sure,
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but I didn't tell you guys to call me. And honestly, those
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impressions, but I loved the one. Obviously, did somebody offense those oppressions?
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The good brother. I'm not looking for feedback, John, just looking
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for that payment. So obviously somebody took the time out of their day to
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want a special birthday for you, and you're not going to pay, is
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that right? Yeah? Don't you get the money from them? It's my
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birthday? Why would I pay? In those impressions? I'm not like impressed,
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John. It's one hundred dollars. Okay, you obviously got are you
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special? Are you kidding me? Fifty dollars for those impressions? Please?
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What? Okay? Here, I'll give you one more. This one's on
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the house. All right. This is doctor Dre wishing you a happy birthday.
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You ready? You? Happy birthday? John? Oh? Hell no,
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I'm not paying for this one hundred bucks? Is this a joke?
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Who told you to call me? I'm not paying One more? One more
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if you don't like it, it's on the house. Okay, one more?
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Whatever. This is Mickey Mouse wishing you a happy birthday? All right?
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Whatever? Who? Happy birthday, John Man? Are you on drugs
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or something? Who is it? No? Are you kidding me? John
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Mouth? The doctor Dre and I don't even make sense? Who is it?
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John? It's Pike and Amanda on Big ninety your point seven. Happy
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birthday, birthday, Happy birthday. But you guys play for a service.
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How did you even get my number? It's not a radio program, it's
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not a happy birthday. There should be a happy birthday service, actually a
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million dollar idea if somebody wants to do it. But no, John,
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your girlfriend you hit us up, so it was your birthday. You don't
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like surprises. You want to give you a fun surprise, so we just
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decided to screw with you a little bit. Yeah. Oh oh, so
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you mean my ex girlfriend? Oh my gosh, stop We're not trying to
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break up households. Dude. Where with that Mickey Mouse? Mike? I
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think I kind of liked Mickey. I thought Mickey was your best version of
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Pike Amanda in the morning point set. We have four Red River Valley Fair
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tickets, but in order to win them, you need a step right on
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up and guess they won't wait of the Pike and Amanda in the Morning Show.
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Good morning, Hi, Hey, Hey, who's this? This is
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Satari? Satari? Ah, now, Safari or Satari. You can call
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me Safari. You wouldn't be the first, but it's Satari. Yeah.
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I think you maybe like a wild animal Safari. All right, Satari,
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here's the here's the deal. You have a chance to win four tickets to
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go out to the Red River Valley Fair the whole family, whoever you want
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to bring. But first you have to guess the weight of the Pike and
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Amanda in the Morning Show. Step right up. Oh my god, there's
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two of us. There's me, Pike and there's Amanda. Hey girl,
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hey, you need to get within fifty metric pounds in order to win the
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four tickets. Okay, so there's two of us. Have you seen either
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of us in person before I've seen Amanda. I mean, you just got
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back. I don't know. It's taking care of yourself, not really,
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not at the moment. No, how much calling have you done this summer
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at trust me, it's doing more harm than good when it comes to my
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way, I promise. Okay, So Satari, step on up and guess
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the way. What is your guess? Okay, let me do some math
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in my head for a second. Okay, how taller you kind of are
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you? Are you taller than you look? I'm We've all agreed and the
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consensus is I'm shorter than I sound. I'll tell you that. Okay,
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are you guys somewhere in the ballpark of like who seventy five? Two seventy
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five? Let me do some quick math here. She was a little too
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generous to us. I'm gonna say you're you're outside of the fifty pounds by
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a good twenty five pounds. Wow, Hey, you guys look great.
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Yeah, nope, the other way sight. We gotta move on. Thank
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you? All right, step right up. Contest number two to guess the
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total weight a Pike and Amanda in the morning. Who is this Christie?
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You have a fifty pound cushion one way or the other. But you need
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to guess the total weight of Pike and Amanda in the morning. That right
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up. Oh my gosh, um three fifty who three hundred and fifty pounds?
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You winngratulations, you got a family four pack of tickets to the Red
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River Valley Fair. And I gotta say you were only three pounds five because
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Pike and a man in the morning is weighing in at crisp three hundred and
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forty seven LB's old man. We want to break down who is taking up
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one part of that? Just divided by two guys, Pike and Amanda in
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the morning, big nutty eight point seven trending. Now here's what you need
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to know. Well, the Canada fires are definitely cramp in our summer style
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down in this city is yesterday they were closing a lot of different things because
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of the quality of the air being so bad. We're being told it was
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that that very unhealthy category. Just hit refresh. It looks like right here
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in the FM area it's just moderate. But you had mentioned like your nephew
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Sea Ball was canceled yesterday. No, it's serious. When t ball is
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getting canceled for the four year olds, and I saw, like you know,
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stopball was canceled. My golf league still was on because it's that serious.
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Happy to report picked up a dub. Yeah, despite the smoke,
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which is you know, in all seriousness. The American Lung Association recommended residence
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this was again in the Minneapolis area yesterday, to stay indoors, closed windows,
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turned the air conditioner on using the recirculation setting. They are expecting that
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this kind of dissipate today. But what would you say? It was only
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a moderate? She ain't moderate here. I can only imagine what the very
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unhealthy category is going to feel like. Yeah, like, if let's say,
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let's say I pass gas in the studio right now, what would you
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say the air quality would be? That'd be probably moderate, right, No
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worse, I'm gonna go very unhealthy. And when we are rooting for her.
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Holly Hassle, an English professor at NDSU, was the big winner on
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Jeopardy Lessons. It was her first night on there. She won about ten
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thousand, five hundred dollars. Another episode tonight exciting. They were even recorded
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this back in April, so somebody's got to know a little in town.
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Yeah, well I saw her like family and friends at a big watch party
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happening somewhere in town. I don't know, but yeah they know so great.
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Yeah, I just love being able to follow along with it. Is
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he any big mansions being built on the obscrits at town? Nine more women
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are accusing Bill Cosby I'm sexual assault in a lawsuit that alleges that he has
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enormous power, fame, and prestige to vic victimize them. This has been
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going on for a while. These nine ladies are saying it went down in
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I guess Vegas Reno like Taho homes Rising The Room hotel from nineteen seventy nine
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to nineteen ninety two. Still just shocks me that he is not locked up.
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Every time I see more people coming forward, I'm like, how is
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he not in prison? Still hard to believe? Oh you gross, you're
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ready? Ready? Let's he is typing hot today? Oh no, Amamanda
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stills the see see So yesterday we were kind of joking about the fact that
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Disney was moving some of these days around, and when the Avatar sequels come
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out, people are like, are we even gonna be alive? Of course
21:30
kidding, but Zoe Is Aldanna, who is in in the franchise. Yesterday
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jumped onto Twitter and she said, great, I'm gonna be fifty three when
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the last Avatar movie comes out. She was twenty seven when they first started
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this. I don't get it for a movie that I maybe it's just me.
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I don't ever hear anybody talk about it. I don't ever hear anybody
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say I love that movie. There's my favorite movie. It's just why,
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why is there so much about it? I don't know. There was so
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much hype about it, probably because it was the first of its kind.
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Blue people well that, but just the animation behind it, it was pretty
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cool. Crazy. I never saw it. Oh you gotta see it.
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Did you watch it? I fell asleep in theaters when the first one came
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out. Yeah. I saw the previews and I was crushed. I was
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super excited. Sean Mendees, Camila Cabeo, they met back up at Coachella
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after they broke up, and I thought, for sure, this is it.
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You know, you know when they say when somebody goes away and they
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come back, it's meant to be. It is not the saying no,
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it's if you love something, let it go if it comes. There might
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be two different says he could be. I think it's two in the bush,
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is one in the hand or something? Birds in the bird in the
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butt. I think we're just making anyway. What are they? Are they
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together or not? No, she's single, she's ready to mingle. And
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Sean is still growing and discovering himself. He needs time to do what makes
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him happy. He has a lot more living and learning in his future.
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I don't know. He's twenty four. That's pretty much it. But I
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also feel like that goes without saying he's just not ready to be in a
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relationship, is what that? He does feel a little immature, a little
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emotionally, just like well maybe just too emotional. Well you mentioned last hour.
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He's just sad like dad. I just can't a scene. When he
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was seventeen, he's just been writing sad breakup songs ever since. He really
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has about Camilla. I know, you get one. I mean there's a
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limit on how many breakup songs you can write about the same person. I
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think it's having to move on. You gonna move on. And Alec Baldwin
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is no longer a part of this lawsuit to our knowledge, but there are
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new reports about the Rust armorer Hannah Reid, who was the exact same charges
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were against Alec Baldwin as her she was likely hungover when she loaded the gun
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involved in the fatal shooting of cinematographer Helena Hutchins. Now witnesses are now telling
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prosecutors that she was drinking heavily and smoking marijuana in the evenings during the shooting
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of Rust marijuana. Now, the lawyer fired back yesterday and said, the
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prosecution has so mishandled this case and the case is so weak that now they're
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resorting to characterist as nation this is insane a hangover, like that's what slippery
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slope because now, oh, she didn't get enough breakfast, she didn't get
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a big enough breakfast, she didn't have her radies. Yeah,