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Be More Feminine & Let Go Of Masculine Energy! Date Like A Spartan G.L. Lambert · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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Grab your phone right now, go one by one through every man in your
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contacts and place a check next to those who you know for a fact will
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do the following things. Pick you up and take you up, and take
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you out to any restaurant you want. Pay at least half your rent.
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If you are in dire need, give you, not loan you more than
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two hundred dollars with no questions asked. If you've made it to the teas
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and the only guy you can put a check next to is daddy or granddad,
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then you need to erase your fucking sim car. Most of you will
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proudly proclaim that you don't need a man to do shit for you and list
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all your independent woman accomplishments. You can buy your own flowers and pay your
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own bills, but you shouldn't have to do that one hundred percent of the
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time. Every woman, no matter how high she climbs in life, should
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be able to experience what it's like to be taken care of without the pressure
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to pay a man back. There are women that get gifts, trips,
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tuition pay all without even having sex with these guys because they know how to
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seduce and destroy. What do I mean by seduce, turn him on sexually,
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but also mentally by being a woman who embodies softness. Men aren't hard
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to figure out. They want women who make them feel like men, soft,
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sexy and listens. Can you do that? No, because you are
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so busy trying to prove yourself, trying to compete, and it comes off
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as hard, masculine and unsexy. Listen to how you talk. You sound
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like you should be on a Zeus Network reality show because you use too much
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slang and curse too much. How to make them fall in love? The
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whole way. Sexual attraction is a shallow desire, which is why men lose
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interest so quickly after checking you off their busted open bucket list. As a
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woman, you may be confused as to why men spend so much of their
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waking life trying to get something that isn't even that serious. The same reason
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restaurants can charge ninety dollars for a steak and build their business around the fact
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that they have ninety dollars steaks. It's the allure of something bigger and better.
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Wanting to have sex with various types of women is the itch that can't
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be scratched. He's never had a girl with d cups, has never had
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a girl with acups, has never had a Spanish girl, has never had
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an Arab girl, has never had a girl with natural hair, has never
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had a girl with that Cassie side shaved shit going on. Men are in
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awe of anything that appears different and can't wait to experience it. Old pussy
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tastes just like new pussy, probably feels physically better than new pussy. But
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like the guy who eagerly makes reservations to try out that ninety dollars steak,
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men have a burning desire to try out new women just because it's on such
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a high pedestal. Your pussy is the bait, and the way you flirt
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and seduce will raise you to that high pedestal. Nevertheless, those things don't
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guarantee shopping spreeze or condominium down payments. The deep desire that makes you different
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from the average pussy is love. Men fall in lust quickly, and they
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fall in love even quicker if you know how to push the right buttons.
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Take a man that has a little sister. He will do anything to make
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sure she's taken care of and that she's not being taken advantage of. By
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men like him. It puts a smile on his face just to know that
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he's the one holding her down and sheltering her from this cold world. Men
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are protectors by nature. It's in the male's dna to hold down the fork.
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But it's not property that makes him so caring. It's the love of
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being needed by someone unspecial to him. Little sisters often don't want their big
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brothers to watch their backs, but they do it, and when that girl
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finally sees how he looked out, she embraces him with love. That's a
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special feeling that not even little brother or mother love can touch. Take family
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out of the equation, men still take certain women under their wings. Every
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man that I've ever known has had a sister that wasn't related to him.
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That relationship was deep, and other friends weren't allowed to talk to his play
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sister outside dudes had to be approved, and any time she was in need,
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he did what he had to in order to make her happy. Bitter
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women who have never experienced this level of platonic male love often turn their nose
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up when their boyfriends informed them of little sis. These women only see a
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man woman relationship that's not built and family, so it must be sexual.
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They are right and wrong. Not every man wants to fuck his play sister,
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but the kernel of romantic love is at the root. It's not the
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same as I want to marry you love. It's more of this, I
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want to keep you in my pocket and protect you selfish and conditional love terms
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of endearment. The same way men fall in love with their play sisters they
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fall in love with hoes. They provide that sisterly love where they look up
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to him, they need him, and they appreciate him for helping. These
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women also represent that be my daddy sexual fantasy. Daddy's gone, so big
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brother is there to guard her heart and facilitate her once. But at the
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core is the reality that unlike real family, he can have her sexually.
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A whole makes it clear that she is not his woman, but she also
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makes him feel as if she belongs to him. No other man is as
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embedded in her soul as he has become, and that emotional ownership makes her
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special. The one hole tactic that will solidify your relationship goes beyond flirting and
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seducing. Is all about being dependent like a little girl and making him feel
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as if he's your protector. Hip hop has promoted this you can't save a
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hoe or captain save a whole rhetoric, But the truth is most of the
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guys rapping about not loving hoes are obsessed with them. A man with money
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or status, treasures, or girl that he can have fun with, who
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doesn't bring romantic stress, and who always makes him feel like the only man
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in the world when they are together. That's the emotional jackpot. He doesn't
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have to commit to something scary, or grow up and take on a responsibility
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like marriage or a long term relationship. This hoe is a friend, a
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confidante, a lover, and best of all, she doesn't put any pressure
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on him. Women looking for marriage or a square relationship could never be happy
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with that self centered role in a man's life, But hose are built for
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concubine life. Earlier in this book, I went over the good Time girl
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traits. This is how you get there. When a woman like that needs
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help with a bill, wants to go on vacation with him, or needs
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a pair of eight hundred dollars shoes to match the dress she just bought,
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or it's going to ruin her night, that man will go into big brother
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mode. He takes care of that woman, not like it's his wife,
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but like she's his defenseless little sister. Men love hose because, unlike normal
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women, they don't scream I don't need a man. They squeeze him tight
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and say I wouldn't know what I would do without you. That feeling of
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genuine appreciation, even if it's sparked by what he does for her, is
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a real feeling. It is real love, and it completes a man on
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the deepest level. You can be his girlfriend, be there to hold him
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down through bad times, and party with him during good times, but what
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you have with your boyfriend is a partnership. You aren't indebted to him or
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owe him shit. You both do for each other in your own little ways.
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Ladies tend to fall into two categories, independent woman who does for herself,
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or a maternal lover that spoils a man, because that's how you were
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raised to love. Men do appreciate those women. They wife them, they
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love them, but they rarely trick on them. Many of you reading this
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have boyfriends or husbands that don't buy you shit, but you know they have
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it to spend. Your man is more likely to trick on a hole or
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his sister before he tricks on you, a loyal woman that gives him endless
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love. This developed because you have established that you don't need him to take
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care of you. A man gets comfortable in your independence to the point where
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he forgets that you are still a woman that has a need to be spoiled
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like a princess every now and then. Trophy wives and hoes usually have one
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thing in common. They need that man, are dependent on that man,
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and they stroke his ego in a way that plays to his fraternal caring side
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as well as his savage sexual desire. Girlfriends can't compete with hose because they
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are delivering two unique experiences. His girlfriend hopes that he will take care of
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her, but doesn't expect it. Whereas a hoe submits to a man and
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pleads for his help, the open mouth is the one that is fed.
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Read this over and over again until you understand this as the nature of every
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man. You were looking for the answer to why men take care of hose
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when they can find women who will do what they want for free, Well
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there it is. Oh example, Maria has sized up her mark perfectly.
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They've been on three dates, and he's proven that he doesn't mind treating or
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tricking a little. But how far will this man go? Maria calls at
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her regularly scheduled time, but she's not herself. She's feeling down and wants
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to see him right away. The Mark says he can come over or she
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can come over to his place, so Maria takes the opportunity to finally see
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how he's living. Maria comes over dressed down in jeans, yet still sexy.
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She immediately kisses him and holds him tight a reward for being there to
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talk. She opens up about how much she really likes him, but there's
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always a butt. She doesn't want things to get complicated. She's known guys
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who change when things get too serious. She wants him to promise that they'll
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keep it fun and not let bullshit like titles and lies get in the way.
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The Mark wasn't expecting a let's have fun conversation. He's used to what
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are we ultimatum. Maria pushes him down on the sofa and straddles him.
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She's saying that she doesn't want to be his girlfriend officially, but she's showing
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him that she is his girl. In a non friend zone way. The
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Mark is on his home turf and thinks that it's now or never. Maria
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smacks away his advances. She wants to talk about life. For the first
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time, Maria isn't just full of flirting or jokes. She talks about her
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situation and as if she's finally being honest, she tells her Mark what she
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wants to do, her goals, her dreams, all in more detail than
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she's done before. After an hour of talking about life, the Mark is
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feeling even more connected to Maria. He understands her story, her struggle,
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and she's hooking him even more by asking his opinion on things like her career
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or her relationship with her family. At this moment, he's the wise older
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brother who wants to help This. Mark isn't looking at Maria as new pussy.
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He sees her as a good girl who isn't ready for anything serious because
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she's been through a lot and who is still struggling. Maria tells the Mark
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how much she values their time together, and again she brings up sex.
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I'm going to fuck the shit out of you regardless. She mentions this casually,
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not Joe kingly and reminds him that she doesn't want that future event to
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change anything. This is music to any man's ears. It's getting late and
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Maria has to go. The Mark wants her to stay the night, but
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she has to get up early tomorrow. Power of excuses. But she will
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call him and maybe they'll have a movie night this week or make a movie
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all night. Maria kisses him again. She's now positioned herself as a non
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emotional threat in terms of being a girlfriend, has promised that pussy to him,
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and has shown that she's just a little girl lost looking for a real
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friend who won't use her. Maria exits back to her car, leaving the
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Mark feeling like a brother, guardian, and most importantly, as soon to
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be lover. Did you catch what Maria did? She went in for the
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kill, MTV unplug style, no fan, he date, no fancy clothes,
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and gave him a show that didn't even feel like a show because it
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was so intimate. Hose are people too. They are women with stories,
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scars, bad habits, and problems that they admit to. Unlike the average
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guarded woman, hoes own up to their dark side in order to garner sympathy.
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They don't hide. They lean on a man. They want to be
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saved, they want to be healed, and they want a daddy. Many
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women legitimately feel this way, but don't trust any man enough to reveal these
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things. Hose aren't worried about being hurt by exposing their daddy issues or abusive
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history. Some of these stories may not even be true or are exaggerated in
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order to sink those emotional fangs into a man. Girls like Maria show their
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vulnerability, knowing that men want to protect those they care about. If she
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had done this the first date or the first two weeks, he wouldn't have
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cared. This comes after three fun dates, epic phone sex, and a
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true bond that made him spend money he normally doesn't spend. Maria isn't a
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stranger. This is his baby, his homie, his fantasy, all wrapped
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in one pretty package. He wants to have sex, but it hasn't been
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that long where it feels as if she's gaming him, and now that he
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knows her backstory, he understands why she's hesitant about sex. The mark probably
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has other girls who fuck for free or a subscription to porn hub, so
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he will be fine with phone sex. He knows he's going to hit that
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eventually, but for now, he just wants to make sure this girl is
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okay and taken care of, because she deserves a dude to look out for
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her for change hoeing up. You don't have to be actress or have some
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tragic story that makes this man see you as a stray kitten. It helps
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if you can pull from things that are fucked up, but if not,
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just stretch the boring truth. Most women go through bad breakups, childhood drama,
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and things that have defined who they are. In order to make this
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man trust you, you have to give him something worth believing in. It's
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like filling out a scholarship application or trying to be admitted to a good college.
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There is always an essay that states why you deserve it. On a
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personal level, this trick may fund your business, your lifestyle, or your
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next two cars, so it's important that you give him a reason to fall
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in love with your soul. Men love bad girls trying to be good,
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or good girls who are one step away from relapsing. All of you have
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a story to tell, but let's make sure it hits the high notes that
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will make even a heartless man to invest in your girlfriend experience. There are
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women who men want to hide away and fuck, and then there are women
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they want to hang around with outside because she raises his stock and entertains his
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friends. Many of the best tricks will be men who are serial daters or
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long term bachelors. They miss out on things that couples do, like double
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dating, wedding dates, family cookouts because they don't want the attention or the
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question, so when are you going to settle down? Let them know that
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you're cool with going places with him and plan that role. Men like company
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in places where they aren't comfortable, so be his sidekick. He has to
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go watch his cousin's basketball game, but hates that side of his family.
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Tell him you'll roll with him. He has a trip out of town for
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a seminar and they're always boring. Tell him you'll roll with him. You
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aren't the girlfriend, but you deliver the girlfriend experience when needed. After a
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few times doing this, the lines will blur. At that moment, you've
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become the perfect woman and he will do anything to keep this going. Let's
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review the hustle so far. You went after a man and he passed your
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mister nice watch versus mister fake watch test. You flirted your ass off on
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the first date, seduced and destroyed on your second date, and made him
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buy you something small to bring to the third date. You keep him laughing,
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gas him with compliments, and the way you look at him with those
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eyes is an instant hard on him. Now you've lowered your false guard and
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let him in on the scared little girl part of you that just can't seem
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to catch a break. This all has taken place over the course of four
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to five weeks, and while he doesn't really know you, he loves what
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you bring to his life. You are his carefree, good time girl,
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but also a trusting little princess that has shared her deepest secrets with him.
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Unlike the other women he's probably dating, or even his girlfriend or wife,
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he sees value in you beyond your pussy. You are his baby, his
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homie, his sister, his bitch, and now he has to learn that
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it costs to keep you on his team. Listen to this over and over
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again, and if you're ready to stop being so masculine, read Whole Tactics
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by G. L. Lambert and change your life