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ONE DREAM, ONE DESTINY – Live for Your Purpose, Achieve Your Goals · Motivational Podcast

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Speaker 1: I feel so strongly that the reason I'm here is
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Speaker 1: I dreamed big dreams. I dreamed the kind of dreams
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Speaker 1: that other people said would not be possible. I'm also
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Speaker 1: living proof this isn't a Hollywood movie. I come literally
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Speaker 1: from the other side of the tracks. If you saw
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Speaker 1: where I grew up and we took a picture of it,
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Speaker 1: the neighborhood, the setting, you'd say, it's impossible that someone
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Speaker 1: could come from there and get here. That it is possible,
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Speaker 1: and not to sound too trite, it's possible because we
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Speaker 1: still live in a country where the entrepreneurial spirit is
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Speaker 1: so alive and so well and anyone in this country
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Speaker 1: if you dream big and surround yourself with great people
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Speaker 1: and leave your ego at the door, and share success
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Speaker 1: with others and have a little luck along the way,
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Speaker 1: you can do anything.
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Speaker 2: Anything you could think of.
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Speaker 3: Grow or die was the basic central premise that we
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Speaker 3: were working with, that if you don't grow, you will perish.
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Speaker 4: There's one relationship that you.
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Speaker 3: Have to maintain, and that's the one with you, right
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Speaker 3: And it's like, if you're not loving you, if you're
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Speaker 3: not taking care of you, everything and everybody is second
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Speaker 3: to you.
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Speaker 4: Taking care of you first and foremost.
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Speaker 3: When you are steady and calm in yourself, it makes
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Speaker 3: it easier to manage the insanity that other people are
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Speaker 3: going to bring to you. The core of how things
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Speaker 3: are created in the universe is through collision, you know,
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Speaker 3: so you got to be prepared to collide if you
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Speaker 3: want to create some only sustainable mission throughout your whole.
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Speaker 4: Existence is to improve lives.
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Speaker 3: And as soon as I made the shift in my
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Speaker 3: mind from trying to be big and trying to have
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Speaker 3: money and trying to be popular to making sure that
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Speaker 3: I improved the lives every step of the way on
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Speaker 3: this earth, then all of.
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Speaker 4: A sudden I started experiencing healing.
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Speaker 5: We passed safely through the darkest relay.
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Speaker 6: Dreams are the inner flames in your soul.
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Speaker 7: If you could actually think of it, it means you
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Speaker 7: can do it right. Does that make sense? You spend
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Speaker 7: so much time with other people. You spend so much
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Speaker 7: time time to get people to like you. You know
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Speaker 7: other people more than you know yourself. You study them,
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Speaker 7: you know about them, You want to hang out like them,
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Speaker 7: you want to be.
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Speaker 4: Just like them.
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Speaker 7: And you know what, You've invested so much time in them,
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Speaker 7: you don't know who you are? How challenge do you
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Speaker 7: spend time by yourself?
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Speaker 4: Why would you not go for it?
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Speaker 8: Why would you not take a chance At one point
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Speaker 8: in time you got to take a chance on you.
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Speaker 4: Do we dare to dream?
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Speaker 9: What is a dream?
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Speaker 6: Do you dare to dream when others say it's impossible?
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Speaker 6: Do you dare to dream when others live in.
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Speaker 4: Doubt and despair?
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Speaker 6: Jesus Christ, the Author and the finisher of our faith said,
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Speaker 6: all things say that with me, all things, what are.
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Speaker 10: You going to feel like in a year, five years,
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Speaker 10: ten years, twenty years when you die? What are you
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Speaker 10: going to be saying? Because I can promise you bro
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Speaker 10: that dream ain't going away. That dream was placed in
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Speaker 10: your heart and in your mind by God. It is
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Speaker 10: your purpose and you are obligated to go build it.
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Speaker 10: And for you to go build that, it's going to
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Speaker 10: require executing when you don't feel like it. So you
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Speaker 10: better just go out and figure this out right now.
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Speaker 10: It's discipline, it's not motivation.
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Speaker 4: Look around your life.
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Speaker 10: If you can't go from looking around your life, then
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Speaker 10: just expect your life to get worse and worse and
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Speaker 10: worse and worse and worse, and in twenty years, you're
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Speaker 10: gonna be saying I should have went.
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Speaker 4: It means that you have the ability to do it.
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Speaker 7: Why because the brain would never think of something that it.
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Speaker 11: Could not do it.
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Speaker 7: Why this young man coming the other day, he was
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Speaker 7: kind of discouraged a little bit.
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Speaker 12: You know, I've been.
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Speaker 13: Mentoring because by my office and he spend time together.
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Speaker 4: You know, I can tell you what scared.
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Speaker 2: I said, what's wrong?
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Speaker 14: He said?
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Speaker 7: He said, Man, my dream the too b et you
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Speaker 7: think you think you think my dreams are too big et?
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Speaker 15: I said, why do you say that?
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Speaker 16: And I can tell he was talking to a parent.
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Speaker 2: The only way you create change is changing what you
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Speaker 2: link pain and what you link pleasure to in your
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Speaker 2: nervous system, not just in your head, in your gut.
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Speaker 2: That's what controls you. Lots of times, in your head,
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Speaker 2: you know what you should do, but your gut takes
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Speaker 2: over your fear or your greed, or your desire or
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Speaker 2: your comfort or whatever.
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Speaker 17: I kept saying this to myself on repeat. There is
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Speaker 17: no way now, if you've worked this hard, that you
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Speaker 17: will not be rewarded. You have to believe that this
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Speaker 17: moment is preparing you for something amazing. That hasn't happened yet,
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Speaker 17: keep going. And so I repeated that over and over
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Speaker 17: and over and over and over again, as I wanted
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Speaker 17: to throw in the towel, as I would start to
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Speaker 17: bash myself, as I would start to feel sorry for
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Speaker 17: myself off and be like, Nope, there's just no way
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Speaker 17: I'm going to believe that something amazing isn't going to happen.
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Speaker 17: I've worked too hard. Something amazing that hasn't happened is coming.
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Speaker 18: Your success is deeply intertwined with your belief and your capabilities.
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Speaker 18: Our beliefs dictate our actions, and our actions dictate our results.
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Speaker 18: If you believe you can improve, succeed, or make a difference,
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Speaker 18: then you are more likely to take the necessary steps
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Speaker 18: to make that happen.
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Speaker 19: Take it personal, and my personal question to you is
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Speaker 19: why not you. You've got the brains, you can make decisions,
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Speaker 19: you can study the plan. You can change your life.
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Speaker 19: You can grow immensely in the next few years. You
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Speaker 19: can make your dreams come true. You can build a
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Speaker 19: financial wall around your family nothing can get through. You
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Speaker 19: can become healthy, you can become powerful. Why not you?
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Speaker 20: If you're going to be successful in creating the life
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Speaker 20: of your dreams. You have to believe that you are
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Speaker 20: capable of making it happen. You have to believe that
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Speaker 20: you have the right stuff and that you're able to
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Speaker 20: pull it off. Now, whether you call it self esteem,
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Speaker 20: self confidence, or self assurance, it's a deep seat of
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Speaker 20: belief that you have what it takes, the abilities, you know, resources,
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Speaker 20: the talents, and the skills to create your desired results. Now,
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Speaker 20: believing in yourself is simply an attitude. Believing in yourself
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Speaker 20: is a choice. You have to choose to believe that
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Speaker 20: you can do anything you set your mind to, anything
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Speaker 20: at all, because in fact, you can.
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Speaker 21: World really is a mirror and it reflects not what
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Speaker 21: we want, and it reflects who you are. When you continue
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Speaker 21: this inner work, install better beliefs, clean out emotional baggage
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Speaker 21: and trauma, and practice more of the higher emotions of
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Speaker 21: gratitude and enthusiasm, love and awe and wonder.
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Speaker 22: You say your future determines you are thinking today. You
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Speaker 22: are thinking today determines your performers today. Your performers today
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Speaker 22: a strong baring on what that.
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Speaker 23: Future is going to be.
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Speaker 22: The way you see the future is more important than
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Speaker 22: what has happened in the past. The day is a
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Speaker 22: brand new day. This is the day that you can
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Speaker 22: make the decisions that will make such an incredible difference
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Speaker 22: in your life. The way that you look at that
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Speaker 22: future is so important, But you got to plan for it.
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Speaker 24: You were born to.
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Speaker 22: Win, that's true, but not to be the winner you
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Speaker 22: were born to be. You got to plan to win.
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Speaker 22: You got to precare to win. And then in only
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Speaker 22: then can you legitimately expect to win.
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Speaker 19: As soon as you plant the garden, the busy bugs
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Speaker 19: and the noxious weeds are out to take it. And
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Speaker 19: you've got to learn not only to nourish your values,
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Speaker 19: you've got to learn to do battle with your enemies.
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Speaker 19: Is whatever threatens you, I'm asking you to threaten it back.
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Speaker 19: Take care of your responsibility, but don't take anything off anybody.
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Speaker 19: Somebody wants to destroy your chances for a good future
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Speaker 19: by their nigga tak negative thinking. Walk away if you
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Speaker 19: have to walk away.
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Speaker 5: Now.
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Speaker 19: Some of our enemies are on the outside.
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Speaker 10: But here's the.
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Speaker 19: Most important thing to understand. Some of our enemies are
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Speaker 19: on the inside. And then, to give you a quick list, indifference.
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Speaker 19: You've got to do battle with your own indifference, indecision.
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Speaker 19: You got to make those decisions, the ones that don't
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Speaker 19: turn out to be good. Gives you his experience to
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Speaker 19: make better decisions. The next one is doubt. Sure, there's
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Speaker 19: doubts on the outside. People doubt that America is going
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Speaker 19: to make it. I'm asking you to have some faith,
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Speaker 19: have some courage, believe. And here's the most important.
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Speaker 4: One of all.
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Speaker 25: Don't doubt yourself.
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Speaker 22: I'll do it or die.
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Speaker 12: See that's powerful.
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Speaker 19: That could be the day that turns your life forth.
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Speaker 19: The world has a strange way of stepping aside. When
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Speaker 19: somebody says I'll do it or die, the man says,
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Speaker 19: I will climb the mountain. They've told me it's too high,
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Speaker 19: it's too far, it's too rocky, it's too difficult, it's
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Speaker 19: never been done before. But it's mine and I will
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Speaker 19: claim it.
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Speaker 11: Pretty soon.
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Speaker 19: You'll see me waving from the top, or get on
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Speaker 19: the side because I ain't coming back.
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Speaker 22: You see, you are what you are and where you
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Speaker 22: are because of what's going into your mind. You can
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Speaker 22: change what you are. You can change where you are
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Speaker 22: by changing what goes into your mind. Ninety eight percent
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Speaker 22: of the people in our Western civilization have a picture
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Speaker 22: of themselves which is so narrow and so shallow that
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Speaker 22: it literally bears no resemblance to the real person who
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Speaker 22: is there. So many people have been told so many
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Speaker 22: times what they cannot do, that they have no idea
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Speaker 22: what they can do. They have no idea what they
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Speaker 22: want in life because they have no idea what is
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Speaker 22: available to them. The picture they have of themselves will
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Speaker 22: not permit themselves to see some of the magnificent things
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Speaker 22: that are available.
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Speaker 26: Beliefs to make any sense, are the beliefs that will
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Speaker 26: take you from where you are to where you want
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Speaker 26: to go. So what are the beliefs that successful people believe?
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Speaker 26: You know, look at Oprah Winfrey born into poverty, you know,
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Speaker 26: sexually abused as a child, but she believed that she
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Speaker 26: could get to where she wanted to go. Someone else
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Speaker 26: without that belief didn't try. So simply the belief. And
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Speaker 26: it's a choice. Everything is a binary choice. You're either
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Speaker 26: believing something that takes you where you want to go
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Speaker 26: or something that takes you away from where you want
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Speaker 26: to go.
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Speaker 1: I can't get apart, I can't get apart, I can't
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Speaker 1: get apart right, or.
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Speaker 9: I can't do this versus.
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Speaker 14: I'm going to keep doing this.
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Speaker 15: It's your choice how you choose to perceive your own career.
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Speaker 27: It's literally perspective.
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Speaker 19: See, you can do anything. You can get up any
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Speaker 19: hour or read any book, take any class, make any change,
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Speaker 19: develop any skill, do any discipline. I mean, you can
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Speaker 19: do it all. When this is how and the why,
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Speaker 19: or when the why starts to grow, the how gets simple.
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Speaker 28: I started taking my own advice and I said, I'm
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Speaker 28: getting out of the brokerage business. I've been telling people
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Speaker 28: for a long time. If you're doing something that you're
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Speaker 28: not passionate about or committed to, then you're compromising yourself.
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Speaker 24: Every day.
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Speaker 28: One day, all of us, we're going to get to
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Speaker 28: a stretch of road where there's no maps, no road science,
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Speaker 28: and no GPS. There's gonna be a fork in this road.
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Speaker 28: And one way is going to say I'm scared and
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Speaker 28: don't know what to do. The other way is going
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Speaker 28: to say, I'm scared, but I'm stepping out on faith.
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Speaker 28: That's the road you got to take. And when you
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Speaker 28: push your way, sometimes you just need to make a good,
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Speaker 28: clean break. You can't get to the next chapter without
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Speaker 28: turning some pages. I mean a lot of us are
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Speaker 28: just like to read like this.
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Speaker 2: It don't work like that.
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Speaker 29: The only difference in steam and ice is the state
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Speaker 29: of vibration of the water or the H two L.
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Speaker 29: Do you know the only difference and where you are
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Speaker 29: versus where you want to go is your state of vibration?
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Speaker 29: Do you know that everything to get you there is
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Speaker 29: already here? You know what it is you want? And
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Speaker 29: you ask yourself, what habits do I need to form
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Speaker 29: or develop to bridge the gap from where I now
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Speaker 29: find myself to the point I want to make this note.
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Speaker 19: Don't become a victim of yourself, even if you have
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Speaker 19: to fight the enemies that are within your self. Forget
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Speaker 19: the thief in the alley that's after your purse, what
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Speaker 19: about the thief in your mind that's after your promise.
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Speaker 30: They can be pretty easy to focus on the battle
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Speaker 30: that's right in the front of your face. And when
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Speaker 30: you're doing that sometimes you can lose track of the
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Speaker 30: long term goal.
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Speaker 31: But I want to have that law long term goal so.
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Speaker 30: Embedded in my mind that I never loose out of
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Speaker 30: it ever. And those little tasks and projects and short
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Speaker 30: term goals that you tackle, they need to lead toward
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Speaker 30: that strategic victory, the winning the long war.
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Speaker 7: If your daddy gotta be at gis, you can at
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Speaker 7: least do us. You can at least graduate in high school.
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Speaker 7: And let me tell you something. I told my son.
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Speaker 7: We got a lot riding on you.
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Speaker 16: And I'm telling you.
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Speaker 7: Greatness is here. But it ain't on cam shoulders no more.
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Speaker 7: It ain't dot falling shoulder no more. It ain't don't
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Speaker 7: grow Jackson's shoulder no more. Now, greatness is.
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Speaker 2: All whose shoulder.
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Speaker 7: That's why I wake up every morning at two o'clock,
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Speaker 7: two thirty. Because I got my mama kyo me. I
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Speaker 7: got my sister call on me.
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Speaker 4: I got my son and my daughter kyle on me.
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Speaker 7: I got a wall that gets up every morning and
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Speaker 7: watches me.
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Speaker 2: I got little kids who don't believe that.
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Speaker 9: They can do it.
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Speaker 7: When they saw me, they thought, now they can do it.
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Speaker 7: So I get up every morning at two thirty three o'clock.
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Speaker 7: Why because greatness is a part of me.
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Speaker 4: Doctor King is dead.
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Speaker 2: I'm not go next to day.
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Speaker 24: I'm that new guy.
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Speaker 4: I'm that new inspiration. I'm the guy and you look.
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Speaker 7: At when your daddy and in your life, when your
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Speaker 7: daddy in president, I'm that god that comes to your
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Speaker 7: high school.
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Speaker 4: In teient, you can make it happen quietness. As a partner,
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Speaker 4: you gotta act like it.
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Speaker 9: The first throat of success is to have a vision.
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Speaker 9: If you don't have a vision of where you go,
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Speaker 9: and if you don't have a goal where you go,
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Speaker 9: you drift around and you never end up anywhere. It's like,
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Speaker 9: you can have the best ship in the world, you
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Speaker 9: can have the best airplane in the world. If the
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Speaker 9: pilot or the captain doesn't know where to go, it
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Speaker 9: will just drift around. It will not end up anywhere
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Speaker 9: al most likely in the wrong place.
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Speaker 7: It's always the feeling when you're getting ready to you know,
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Speaker 7: people give up right before they get what they always
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Speaker 7: wanted to get.
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Speaker 4: People quit and they give up.
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Speaker 2: That's your moment.
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Speaker 32: That's your moment when you're feeling the most trapped and
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Speaker 32: down and nothing can't go right.
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Speaker 2: I feel like those are.
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Speaker 7: The moments that define just hold on, just endure, endure,
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Speaker 7: you know, look at things differently.
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Speaker 21: Challenge yourself to look at things as the glass half full.
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Speaker 27: I had a dream and I had goals that I
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Speaker 27: wanted to accomplish, right and if I don't accomplish those goals,
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Speaker 27: I have to ask myself why. Right, So, from my position,
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Speaker 27: the reason why I would not have accomplished those things
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Speaker 27: is poor leadership, a failure to communicate properly with my
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Speaker 27: teammates and put them in positions to be successful, lack
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Speaker 27: of preparation, you know, all those things would be reasons
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Speaker 27: why I don't win.
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Speaker 2: Right.
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Speaker 27: So, now, if that was the case, and in my career,
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Speaker 27: I have to sit and I have to analyze that,
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Speaker 27: and then as I move and I evolved, you know,
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Speaker 27: post basketball to business or whatever, those same weaknesses are
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Speaker 27: going to reveal themselves there.
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Speaker 4: Right.
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Speaker 27: So if I don't learn from that, I'm gonna I'm
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Speaker 27: gonna struggle here too, right. So I can take those
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Speaker 27: situations and learn from those and have them, you know,
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Speaker 27: make me a better person later in life. But if
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Speaker 27: I don't take that stuff and apply to someplace else,
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Speaker 27: then that is that's feeling, which.
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Speaker 4: To me is the worst. That is actually the dream.
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Speaker 4: That's the dream.
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Speaker 33: What do you say to these the men around the
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Speaker 33: world who are watching this interview from someone who is
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Speaker 33: their hero, regardless of it's from the screen.
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Speaker 34: Thank you, stay you on your knees, watch me, but
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Speaker 34: listen to God and listen to me. I hope that
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Speaker 34: the words in my mouth and the meditation of my
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Speaker 34: heart are pleasing in God's sight. But I'm human, I'm
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Speaker 34: just like you.
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Speaker 4: You know what I have.
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Speaker 34: Will not keep me on this earth for one more day.
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Speaker 34: I never looked at things as problems. I look at
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Speaker 34: them as opportunities.
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Speaker 5: Maybe.
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Speaker 4: Look, maybe that's something I can say. You know, someone eye.
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Speaker 14: Which he did this, and I'm well, what an opportunity
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Speaker 14: you at?
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Speaker 9: Yeah?
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Speaker 34: Well the world you know, because they is seeing that
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Speaker 34: said that. Yeah, well, well what an opportunity you have
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Speaker 34: to make a difference because you never know who's watching.
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Speaker 35: Every time you face a challenge, it's a chance to
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Speaker 35: give up or to get stronger, smarter, faster, tougher, and
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Speaker 35: more resilience. You need to find a reason to keep going.
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Speaker 35: If you can find that reason, you can push through anything,
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Speaker 35: because you're human and humans have the strength to overcome
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Speaker 35: whatever they face if they choose to push through it.
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Speaker 7: If there's anything in life that you don't currently have
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Speaker 7: right now is because.
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Speaker 18: Of who you are and how you think.
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Speaker 7: All right, what I need you to do is I
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Speaker 7: need you to find a reason to keep going. And
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Speaker 7: if you can find a reason to keep going. I
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Speaker 7: know you're strong enough to do it because you healm it.
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Speaker 7: And every human has what it takes to get past
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Speaker 7: whatever they're going through if.
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Speaker 14: They decide to push through it, push through it.
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Speaker 7: Tragedy and trials come to everybody.
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Speaker 16: Only the strong survive.
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Speaker 9: Or listen to me.
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Speaker 7: Very closely, y'all running from obstacles when in fact it's
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Speaker 7: the obstacle that's gonna take you to the next level.
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Speaker 7: I do want to say this to those of you
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Speaker 7: are watching who are not yet where you want to be.
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Speaker 4: Like keep going, Like keep going, don't quit.
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Speaker 7: You're already in pain, You're already struggling.
18:14
Speaker 16: Like get something for your pain. It doesn't make sense
18:16
Speaker 16: to go through pain and then not getting none on
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Speaker 16: the other side of it.
18:22
Speaker 31: When things go wrong, they always seem to happen at once,
18:28
Speaker 31: and they just compound on top of each other.
18:33
Speaker 4: And it's.
18:35
Speaker 31: Pretty easy sometimes to feel beaten when you're faced with
18:41
Speaker 31: all those issues and all those problems and they all
18:44
Speaker 31: hit you at the same time. But let me tell
18:49
Speaker 31: you that that doesn't.
18:51
Speaker 14: Mean give up. In fact, it means the opposite. It
19:00
Speaker 14: means it's time for you to fight harder, to dig
19:04
Speaker 14: in means it's time for you to go on.
19:08
Speaker 4: The war path.
19:10
Speaker 13: Because I realized was I was talking to myself the
19:14
Speaker 13: right way and all this shit wasn't in my mind.
19:17
Speaker 4: Wow.
19:19
Speaker 13: I went from this piece of shit keut who thought
19:22
Speaker 13: he was dumb, not successful, insecure, who stuttered when I
19:26
Speaker 13: first saw somebody, to a person who can now do
19:29
Speaker 13: all these things just because I now control.
19:31
Speaker 14: My own mind.
19:32
Speaker 36: So one of the things I encourage you is work fast,
19:36
Speaker 36: work intensely, work hard when you work, and then enjoy.
19:42
Speaker 14: Life and play.
19:44
Speaker 36: One of the things that a players do that leaders
19:47
Speaker 36: without titles do, that iconic human beings do, is they
19:51
Speaker 36: develop a resilience or heartiness in the face of fear.
19:55
Speaker 19: Everything changed for me when I understood this. Also, learn
19:59
Speaker 19: to work harder on yourself than you do on your job.
20:05
Speaker 19: You can have more than you've got because you can
20:08
Speaker 19: become more than you are. If you can multiply your
20:12
Speaker 19: value by three by five, you can easily multiply your
20:15
Speaker 19: income by three by five.
20:16
Speaker 37: I can.
20:17
Speaker 19: But the key to doing it is to work hard
20:19
Speaker 19: on yourself.
20:21
Speaker 36: A story I remember reading in an oh Show book
20:24
Speaker 36: a while ago. So there was this man and he
20:27
Speaker 36: was a mountain climber. So he climbed the mountain and
20:30
Speaker 36: he reached the summit, but he sort of misjudged the
20:34
Speaker 36: timing and it became dark, and so he made his
20:36
Speaker 36: way down the mountain as the sunset, but he got
20:40
Speaker 36: to a place where it became so dark he couldn't move,
20:43
Speaker 36: and he thought he was on this ledge and he
20:46
Speaker 36: just became paralyzed by fear. He just realized that, you know,
20:51
Speaker 36: if he moved a few inches over, he would fall
20:54
Speaker 36: thousands and thousands of meters or feet to his death.
20:58
Speaker 36: And so all night that was the most afying night
21:01
Speaker 36: of his life. He was on this ledge. He couldn't
21:04
Speaker 36: even move forward because he thought he fallt and he
21:07
Speaker 36: just stayed there, frozen for hours and hours and hours.
21:12
Speaker 36: Then with the first rays of daylight, he started laugh.
21:18
Speaker 36: And the reason he started to laugh was he realized
21:20
Speaker 36: just below the ledge there was this huge stone platform.
21:23
Speaker 36: There was no danger whatsoever. It was just this perception
21:27
Speaker 36: of fear that caused him to feel terrified.
21:30
Speaker 38: Talk about manifesting, it's fucking real. Man Manifesting is real
21:34
Speaker 38: when you figure out who you are and what you
21:37
Speaker 38: want to do, and you devote your life to it
21:39
Speaker 38: like a maniac like, you're all in on this stack
21:42
Speaker 38: and you manifest. Most of these people end up doing
21:45
Speaker 38: what they say they're going to do and being who
21:46
Speaker 38: they say they're going to become. It's real and there's
21:49
Speaker 38: no excuses, there's no not willing to grind, and everybody's
21:52
Speaker 38: against me. And this didn't happen for me because then
21:55
Speaker 38: all this wine and it is these people who dive
21:57
Speaker 38: in in their hardcore and they're focused, and they know
21:59
Speaker 38: what they want, they know they are and they lay
22:01
Speaker 38: out these short term goals and this roadmap on how
22:04
Speaker 38: to get there. Most of those people make it.
22:06
Speaker 19: It's working hard on yourself personality and temperament and mindset.
22:11
Speaker 19: Talked about culture, all the stuff necessary to individually be responsible,
22:18
Speaker 19: be a growing, attractive, powerful, skillful, communicating human being and
22:25
Speaker 19: the world belongs to you.
22:27
Speaker 25: When I was going through the darkest period of my
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Speaker 25: life in twenty twenty six months of sleep deprivation and
22:34
Speaker 25: hallucinations after three years of chemotherapy, I was in a bad, bad,
22:39
Speaker 25: bad place, very bad place, very darkly. What got me
22:43
Speaker 25: through it was one was gratitude and the other was perspective.
22:50
Speaker 25: And the perspective that I took is that it was.
22:55
Speaker 25: Oh maybe like every other experience in my life, life
23:00
Speaker 25: that was difficult, painful, seemingly unbearable, or insurmountable. Maybe what
23:06
Speaker 25: I'm going through now, and I want you to apply
23:09
Speaker 25: these words to your life right now. Maybe what I'm
23:13
Speaker 25: going through now is so that I can overcome this
23:19
Speaker 25: seemingly insurmountable challenge in service of my fellow human beings.
23:29
Speaker 14: Losing your temper is.
23:33
Speaker 28: Weak.
23:34
Speaker 31: It's actually weak. It's actually weak to lose your temper.
23:37
Speaker 31: It actually is a loss of control when you lose
23:40
Speaker 31: your temper. And losing control was also weak. So we
23:45
Speaker 31: don't we don't want to lose our temper. That's one
23:48
Speaker 31: of our goals. So again, just like prioritize and execute,
23:52
Speaker 31: what do you do when you start feeling yourself losing
23:53
Speaker 31: your temper? Stop, take a step back, detach from it, breathe,
23:58
Speaker 31: and then you got to think about the long term victory.
24:02
Speaker 14: And we've talked about this before.
24:04
Speaker 12: The guys that are just pure of brute strength and intimidation,
24:08
Speaker 12: most guys dot pretty much intimidated. They lost the fight
24:12
Speaker 12: before they even got hit. Most guys I knew the
24:15
Speaker 12: Audi scaduggery. These guys I knew how to beat these
24:17
Speaker 12: guys psychologically before I ever got in the ring with them.
24:21
Speaker 32: As soon as I come into the ring.
24:23
Speaker 4: As soon as I come into the ring, I'm gloved.
24:24
Speaker 4: No stop, that's not true.
24:27
Speaker 32: While I'm in the dressing room, five minutes before I
24:30
Speaker 32: come out, my gloves relay stuff, I'm breaking.
24:33
Speaker 4: My gloves down and broke.
24:34
Speaker 32: I'm pushing the level of the back of my rik
24:36
Speaker 32: in the middle of the glove for my knuckle piers
24:38
Speaker 32: to the level to feel my knuckle piercing against the
24:40
Speaker 32: type leather gloves.
24:41
Speaker 4: I'm at the last box from God.
24:43
Speaker 23: I come out.
24:44
Speaker 32: I have supreme confidence. I'm scared to death. I'm totally afraid.
24:48
Speaker 32: I'm afraid of everything. I'm afraid of losing. I'm afraid
24:50
Speaker 32: of being humiliated. But I'm totally confident. Close I get
24:53
Speaker 32: to the ring, more confident.
24:55
Speaker 4: I get my whole life.
24:56
Speaker 39: Growing up as a kid, everyone always told me that
24:58
Speaker 39: I can never and they were like, you never be
25:00
Speaker 39: an abencer, you know, until the time until I graduated,
25:03
Speaker 39: it's like you won't make it doing every meeting. No
25:05
Speaker 39: one can stop you from doing anything.
25:07
Speaker 4: Ever that you're committed to yourself.
25:10
Speaker 39: I got people coming up to me sometimes and just like,
25:12
Speaker 39: you know what, I can never do this or I
25:14
Speaker 39: couldn't do that, and I just want to If you
25:17
Speaker 39: come out of the gate telling yourself that you can't
25:19
Speaker 39: do something, then you're already You're already done.
25:22
Speaker 40: Once you start questioning yourself, you already lost. Once you
25:26
Speaker 40: start questioning yourself, once you start going into a state
25:29
Speaker 40: of depression and you start being by yourself and you
25:31
Speaker 40: start thinking and wondering, Once you start wondering, you already lost.
25:35
Speaker 40: Even if you don't believe.
25:36
Speaker 4: Believe, I'm the best right now.
25:38
Speaker 40: And if you want to go through motivational speaking, you
25:40
Speaker 40: got to go through me.
25:41
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody doing it like this?
25:42
Speaker 16: They almost shirt and tie.
25:44
Speaker 40: Ain't nobody bring hip hop to motivation.
25:46
Speaker 16: I must lead the greatest.
25:48
Speaker 40: I shook up motivational speaking. I've changed the whole genre.
25:52
Speaker 40: I must lead the greatest. Not because I'm cocky, but
25:55
Speaker 40: I gotta tell myself I'm the best.
25:57
Speaker 16: If I'm gonna be the best, I gotta believe in me.
26:00
Speaker 16: Anybody that's believed in me, you know, disappointment to me.
26:03
Speaker 16: To win, you got to lose.
26:04
Speaker 28: To be successful, you got to have something.
26:06
Speaker 14: That's not successful.
26:10
Speaker 16: To be happy, you got to have disappointment. So I
26:14
Speaker 16: think all of those things have evolved and happened to
26:17
Speaker 16: make me who I am and understand the benefits and
26:22
Speaker 16: the privileges I have from being who are. It sucks
26:25
Speaker 16: to lose, but at the same time, their answer is.
26:28
Speaker 28: There if you just look at them.
26:31
Speaker 33: I mean, the answers are there when you win, too,
26:33
Speaker 33: you just have to look at them.
26:34
Speaker 2: Yeah.
26:34
Speaker 28: Right, So it's a constant process. It's exciting when you win,
26:37
Speaker 28: it's exciting when you.
26:38
Speaker 27: Lose, because the process should be exactly.
26:40
Speaker 28: The same whether you win or you lose.
26:43
Speaker 41: I've never met a person who was not successful that
26:47
Speaker 41: didn't have a great amount of self discipline within their life.
26:50
Speaker 41: Self discipline and being able to perform and being able
26:54
Speaker 41: to keep your life on schedule, and being able to
26:57
Speaker 41: keep commitments and promises and be deadlines. It's essential to success.
27:01
Speaker 23: The plane needs motivation for breakfast. You don't need motivation.
27:04
Speaker 23: It's great if it writes, it's some extra fuel on
27:08
Speaker 23: the fire, But discipline is the thing that you need.
27:11
Speaker 23: What would you tomorrow want you today to do? You
27:13
Speaker 23: tomorrow would want you to keep that promise to I think.
27:16
Speaker 42: It's important to note that the Stokes are talking about
27:19
Speaker 42: self discipline. Discipline is not the marine sergeant telling everyone
27:24
Speaker 42: else what to do how to be. The Stokes are
27:26
Speaker 42: talking about the virtue of self discipline, which is you
27:29
Speaker 42: have your standard that you selected for yourself, that you
27:32
Speaker 42: are willing not to.
27:34
Speaker 16: Everything I've ever done in my life.
27:36
Speaker 13: I didn't want to do.
27:37
Speaker 16: Everything every day.
27:39
Speaker 21: I'm a lazy piece of shit and.
27:42
Speaker 18: I want the hardest brooking.
27:43
Speaker 13: People say every step cross plane Earth, and I'm saying.
27:46
Speaker 7: That very power because I know what I do.
27:47
Speaker 4: It's not cocky.
27:48
Speaker 16: I'll tell you how stupid, and I'll also tell.
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Speaker 13: You the exact opposite of what I've done.
27:53
Speaker 16: It's the truth.
27:54
Speaker 9: It is the truth.
27:56
Speaker 11: I fight against that, you know. It's it's the big challenge.
27:59
Speaker 11: It's when you're not willing to do something, but you
28:03
Speaker 11: have to do it. This is the main point. This
28:05
Speaker 11: is why I say it our minds. It's a box
28:09
Speaker 11: of surprises and you have to.
28:11
Speaker 43: Challenge yourself to be consistency. I retreat sometimes it's hard.
28:17
Speaker 43: It's what many people say, you like to go to
28:22
Speaker 43: the gym every day.
28:22
Speaker 14: Of course not.
28:24
Speaker 23: It's not true.
28:24
Speaker 11: Nobody like to go to the gym every day, but.
28:27
Speaker 23: You have to do it.
28:28
Speaker 11: Probably yes, because your mental strength is coming from that,
28:34
Speaker 11: from that moment that, in a hard moment, you know
28:38
Speaker 11: you should do it, so and.
28:41
Speaker 22: I do it.
28:42
Speaker 23: This is something that I've actually relied on a little
28:44
Speaker 23: bit myself. Whenever I get to a low point where
28:47
Speaker 23: I think why do I even bother? I just remind
28:49
Speaker 23: myself this is when most people stop, and this is
28:52
Speaker 23: why they don't win. And this relates to another one,
28:54
Speaker 23: which is a reminder of the gladiators in the arena
28:57
Speaker 23: who feel beat up and scarred with no hope and science.
28:59
Speaker 23: Building a business is hard. Heart feels shitty. This is
29:02
Speaker 23: what hard feels like, and this is why most people
29:05
Speaker 23: can't do it, but you can. This is what hard
29:08
Speaker 23: feels like. Is so fucking nice to Lina. It is
29:14
Speaker 23: so nice to Lena.
29:15
Speaker 7: You have to remember all success starts with self discipline.
29:21
Speaker 14: It starts with you.
29:22
Speaker 7: Abraham Lincoln said, discipline is choosing between what you won't
29:26
Speaker 7: now and what you won't.
29:28
Speaker 4: Most you only have two options.
29:31
Speaker 7: Suffer the pain of discipline, or suffer the pain of
29:34
Speaker 7: the great The chance is yours.
29:38
Speaker 44: Most men walk the earth with this.
29:40
Speaker 14: Lone Wolf mentality.
29:42
Speaker 44: Right, we view the lone wolf as strong. Right, The
29:46
Speaker 44: lone wolf is strong, he can handle everything on his own.
29:49
Speaker 44: I think most men really understood what happens to the
29:51
Speaker 44: lone wolf because his fate isn't pretty.
29:53
Speaker 4: The lone wolf dies.
29:55
Speaker 44: The pack is strong because of the wolf, and the
29:57
Speaker 44: wolf is strong because.
29:58
Speaker 30: Of the pack.
30:00
Speaker 44: Those men are living this quiet life of desperation and
30:02
Speaker 44: isolation where we're surrounded physically by other men, but mentally
30:06
Speaker 44: and emotionally and through conversation and learning. We don't have
30:09
Speaker 44: those iron sharp and iron relationships. We have like these
30:12
Speaker 44: more rusty relationships. So the Alliance, you know, it's a
30:16
Speaker 44: community we've had since twenty sixteen.
30:18
Speaker 9: And what it is is it's a community of.
30:20
Speaker 44: Men who are honorable, who are hungry, humble, and ungodly imperfect.
30:25
Speaker 44: We want to optimize our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health.
30:28
Speaker 44: You can't do that all by yourself.
30:30
Speaker 45: Before my car accident my teenage years, then the first
30:34
Speaker 45: woman I ever loved we had a big breakup, and
30:37
Speaker 45: that breakup set me down in depression and suicide of planning.
30:41
Speaker 45: And it's tough to dispense advice to people other than
30:47
Speaker 45: get help and I'll share why because that time in
30:50
Speaker 45: my life, I had so many people coming up to me.
30:53
Speaker 45: You know, my friends would come into my dorm room, Brennane,
30:56
Speaker 45: let's go do something, and you just there's just the
30:59
Speaker 45: hope is law lost. And what people, I think make
31:02
Speaker 45: the mistake of trying to do is hype people up.
31:05
Speaker 45: Everything's gonna be okay, You're gon be great.
31:08
Speaker 46: And what people need who.
31:09
Speaker 45: Are suicidal is serious psychological intervention. They need to seek
31:13
Speaker 45: support and help.
31:14
Speaker 46: Put the phone away for two minutes, literally two minutes.
31:17
Speaker 46: Just put across the room or in another room, sit down,
31:21
Speaker 46: pick a point on the wall, and just try and
31:24
Speaker 46: relax while maintaining visual focus for one hundred and twenty
31:28
Speaker 46: seconds on the location. You can blink if you want to.
31:31
Speaker 46: What you'll find is it's incredibly boring and agitating. Like
31:35
Speaker 46: most things, you need to focus on and have a
31:36
Speaker 46: hard time focusing on just a little bit of focus.
31:39
Speaker 46: Training for two three minutes every once in a while
31:41
Speaker 46: will teach you to recognize when you have that impulse
31:44
Speaker 46: to get up and move. And what you'll find is
31:45
Speaker 46: that it carries over to a really terrific ability to read,
31:49
Speaker 46: to study, to listen, and you start to know those
31:53
Speaker 46: internal signals there's something you need to do and you
31:55
Speaker 46: don't want to do it, or you can't focus. Chances
31:58
Speaker 46: are you just haven't really talked your brain how to focus.
32:01
Speaker 46: So start with your visual focus and then let your
32:04
Speaker 46: mental focus follow that.
32:06
Speaker 23: He said that male depression gets treated like female depression.
32:09
Speaker 23: Men are made to feel loved and accepted when they
32:12
Speaker 23: want to feel capable and powerful. And the problem that
32:15
Speaker 23: we had was that you were treating male depression and
32:18
Speaker 23: male mental health like female depression.
32:19
Speaker 47: And your brain is the most powerful weapon. I talk
32:23
Speaker 47: about that in one of these chapters. Your brain is
32:25
Speaker 47: the most powerful.
32:26
Speaker 4: Weapon in book world.
32:28
Speaker 47: Your brain is the only thing you have when you're
32:32
Speaker 47: going through depression, when you're going through hard times and
32:36
Speaker 47: going through.
32:37
Speaker 4: Death, real life shit. You can't google that shit. Man,
32:42
Speaker 4: You're alone. You're alone.
32:44
Speaker 47: You may have a shrink you're going to, you may
32:45
Speaker 47: have a best friend you're going to, but there's twenty
32:48
Speaker 47: four hours in the.
32:49
Speaker 14: Day where you're alone in this brain.
32:52
Speaker 47: And your brain is talking to you in all kinds
32:54
Speaker 47: of ways, and it wants to control. You'll call you
32:56
Speaker 47: these dip of pockets.
32:58
Speaker 4: If you can't control.
32:59
Speaker 13: Your old brain, and your brain controls you your fuck.
33:04
Speaker 13: You got to tell your brain where you want to
33:05
Speaker 13: go and how you want to go and how you want.
33:07
Speaker 2: To get there.
33:08
Speaker 13: You got to.
33:08
Speaker 2: Control and misticize them. And so the backup did nothing.
33:13
Speaker 2: A year later, this group, the group that had no surgery,
33:16
Speaker 2: had the least amount of pain, the most amount of flexibility,
33:19
Speaker 2: and most amount it. So they stopped funding those surgeries.
33:21
Speaker 2: Give me an idea, but that's how powerful it is.
33:23
Speaker 2: And so when you it's even more that Harvard did
33:26
Speaker 2: a study when they took barbituates. He made these big
33:29
Speaker 2: red pills and said this is an amphetamy, and you
33:32
Speaker 2: need to prepare your body and goes you're gonna speed up.
33:34
Speaker 2: It didn't give them something fake, They give them an
33:36
Speaker 2: actual Rugness slows the body down and the body sped up.
33:39
Speaker 2: So most people don't understand the power of the mind.
33:41
Speaker 2: And so what I tried to do is show people
33:43
Speaker 2: leave it. In this book. Here are the things that
33:45
Speaker 2: you can do to take control of your mind. Because
33:47
Speaker 2: if you take care of your body and then you
33:48
Speaker 2: don't take care of your mind and emotions, you give
33:50
Speaker 2: me miserable.
33:52
Speaker 48: It was hard to be an entrepreneur hard to build
33:54
Speaker 48: a business, try and build a brand, and it was
33:56
Speaker 48: a struggle. But one day someone encouraged me to god
34:00
Speaker 48: reading positive books. And I read The Power Positive Thinking,
34:03
Speaker 48: and I read Think and Grow Rich, and I read
34:07
Speaker 48: Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I read one book at Positive
34:10
Speaker 48: Thinking book after another. The Greatest Salesman in the World
34:12
Speaker 48: by Augment Dido, richest man in Babylon. I just started
34:15
Speaker 48: a reading campaign and my business started to change when
34:19
Speaker 48: I started reading, and things started happening when I go
34:21
Speaker 48: to seminars, I started going to investing in going to seminars,
34:25
Speaker 48: spending the money.
34:26
Speaker 4: I couldn't afford to spend it, but I couldn't afford
34:28
Speaker 4: not to send fit it. So I spent money and
34:29
Speaker 4: came to seminize.
34:30
Speaker 48: And that's why I encourage and I'm applaud all of
34:32
Speaker 48: you for taking time out of your business to come here, because.
34:35
Speaker 4: It makes a difference.
34:36
Speaker 48: And that bridge from being broken busted and discussed and
34:40
Speaker 48: started building. And I started building this bridge to success.
34:44
Speaker 49: The journey about life and understanding what the truth process
34:48
Speaker 49: is in life is understanding that you have to go
34:51
Speaker 49: through certain circumstances to get to a certain level in
34:54
Speaker 49: your life. Now, many people do not have the patience
34:57
Speaker 49: to go through this process.
34:58
Speaker 4: But you have to have the ability to.
35:00
Speaker 49: Trust the process instead of rushing the process.
35:03
Speaker 4: How much patience do you.
35:05
Speaker 7: Really have on your journey now, I'm not gonna lie
35:07
Speaker 7: to you.
35:08
Speaker 4: We all go through these changes where we.
35:10
Speaker 49: Want that now, we want that right now, we need
35:12
Speaker 49: it at that moment.
35:14
Speaker 4: Maybe you have to pay a bill, Maybe you need.
35:16
Speaker 49: That job that you've been working for so long trying
35:18
Speaker 49: to get it, but yet it hasn't happened yet.
35:21
Speaker 4: Maybe you work so hard in your life and everyone.
35:24
Speaker 49: Rejected you and you felt that you didn't have what
35:27
Speaker 49: it took to get to the level that you want
35:30
Speaker 49: in your life.
35:30
Speaker 4: This is the process that I'm talking about. Journey you're
35:33
Speaker 4: embarking on here.
35:34
Speaker 14: If it's not an easy path, it's not for the.
35:36
Speaker 4: Ill hearted or the week needs journey. It's the strong people.
35:39
Speaker 35: And before you embark on this journey, mentally, you have
35:41
Speaker 35: to compare yourself forward.
35:43
Speaker 10: No one's gonna get worse before it gets better.
35:45
Speaker 38: Every transformation always gets worse before it gets better.
35:48
Speaker 4: It's supposed to be that way.
35:50
Speaker 15: How long does it take to learn to ride a bicycle?
35:52
Speaker 15: No one knows, you know, it's impossible to guess. But
35:55
Speaker 15: it's a process. And if you follow the process, and
35:58
Speaker 15: you follow the regime and you have a little discipline,
36:00
Speaker 15: one hundred percent, you'll get into shape, but no one
36:04
Speaker 15: knows when. And business is the same, right, which is,
36:08
Speaker 15: if you follow the process, there's a few things that
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Speaker 15: are pretty stable and you go through the motions. Sometimes
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Speaker 15: it's quicker and sometimes it's slower, but don't worry if
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Speaker 15: it's not meeting arbitrary goals.
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Speaker 50: The trends, the trend data is much more important than
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Speaker 50: the absolute targets. If you're trending in the right direction,
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Speaker 50: be happy regardless whether you hit the goal or not.
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Speaker 50: It's a process, and I think business we have to remember.
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Speaker 15: For as much talent and you know, you know, beauty
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Speaker 15: that there is and creativity that there is in building.
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Speaker 50: A business, some of it's some of its discipline and
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Speaker 50: rigor you're.
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Speaker 23: Going to become ill or sick or destitute. Things are
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Speaker 23: going to happen you have to no control over. And
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Speaker 23: the only way that you can prepare yourself for unchosen
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Speaker 23: suffering is with chosen suffaraing. Right, you can elect to
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Speaker 23: put yourself into a position to become a stronger alloy
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Speaker 23: of what the metal is that you're made of, and
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Speaker 23: by purposefully choosing difficult things, you will army yourself against
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Speaker 23: that situation. It's still going to suck you, but think
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Speaker 23: about how much more fronto on you would be if
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Speaker 23: you hadn't go to come on with this stuff.
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Speaker 24: The third thing that I think is very important is
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Speaker 24: to enjoy the journey, not the destination. A lot of
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Speaker 24: us delay our happiness. When I get to this level,
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Speaker 24: when I get my degree, when I get the kids,
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Speaker 24: when I get married, I'm gonna be happy. Enjoy the journey,
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Speaker 24: enjoying the whole step, the whole process, every day that
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Speaker 24: you get up to strive for whatever it is you're after.
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Speaker 24: You know, I'm a goal oreate and saying you don't
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Speaker 24: celebrate when you get to the finished land. Celebrate all
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Speaker 24: along the way. Celebrate all along the way.
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Speaker 4: Do you all think about quittin?
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Speaker 2: It's talk.
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Speaker 13: It's hard to process information during pain because that pain
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Speaker 13: takes over.
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Speaker 4: And you can't think rational.
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Speaker 21: You're thinking about fight or flight, save yourself.
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Speaker 13: That's not a rational thought. It's not a thought that's
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Speaker 13: going to get you through hard times.
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Speaker 14: Most people feel that one second.
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Speaker 13: In that one second, I start thinking logically, I calm
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Speaker 13: my brain down, because your brains wants to kick out.
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Speaker 13: It's about gaining control of your mind, putting things back
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Speaker 13: in the proper perspective, and then saying, I really do
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Speaker 13: want to be here, and I'm going to have a
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Speaker 13: bunch of these one seconds, and I have to learn
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Speaker 13: to control these because if I fail one of these
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Speaker 13: one seconds, I would not be a seal. I would
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Speaker 13: not be a doctor, I would not be a lawyer,
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Speaker 13: I would not be whatever the fuck it is. It's
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Speaker 13: all about your mind tastes control of you.
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Speaker 9: You have to say you, I'm sorry.
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Speaker 3: If maybe this is getting to you a little late,
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Speaker 3: but what.
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Speaker 44: Are you worrying about?
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Speaker 39: What are you so stressed out about?
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Speaker 2: Life is too short.
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Speaker 14: Stop worrying.
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Speaker 50: It's okay.
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Speaker 14: Everything is supposed to be this way.
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Speaker 24: You're supposed to feel this.
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Speaker 4: It's part of the process.
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Speaker 25: Life is supposed to be a.
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Speaker 14: Journey, is it nuh?
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Speaker 24: This is part of it.
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Speaker 14: Take it, absorb it.
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Speaker 4: It's all part of the process.
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Speaker 15: Trust the process, my friend, Trust me when I say this.
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Speaker 50: Trust the process. It's so important.
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Speaker 3: Build your character and love yourself even.
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Speaker 2: When it's hard.
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Speaker 27: I love you to stay up.
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Speaker 42: Stay up.
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Speaker 2: Whenever we feel stressed for frustration, anger, worries, sadness, loneliness, whatever,
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Speaker 2: what most of us do is we try to focus
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Speaker 2: on the outside world to change something so that we
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Speaker 2: can feel good on the inside, when in reality, when
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Speaker 2: you just need to go work on the inside. When
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Speaker 2: life strikes us and we feel that internal reaction to
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Speaker 2: the external world, that's still what's going on inside.
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Speaker 8: In order to get through the next level, you have
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Speaker 8: to break through a glass seal and see you can
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Speaker 8: see stuff up here, but you got to break through
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Speaker 8: a glass seal to get to the next level. But
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Speaker 8: when you break through glass, there's going to be flourished
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Speaker 8: and the blood you shed is going to have to
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Speaker 8: be something who care deeply about.
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Speaker 6: And then what I've learned is there is every moment
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Speaker 6: of your life little things.
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Speaker 4: You will watch your.
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Speaker 46: Mind for us serious problems.
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Speaker 25: What's the cost benefit analysis of bothering myself about the
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Speaker 25: driver in front of me?
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Speaker 13: So you learn and there are lots of techniques.
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Speaker 45: My ultimate teaching and this res also over the sense
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Speaker 45: is you relax, It's okay, this is happening, and what
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Speaker 45: you're doing is allowing the energy to release.
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Speaker 46: The whole idea is you don't engage with.
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Speaker 51: It when I struggle, or I get tired, or when
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Speaker 51: I get burned out. I know that having other people
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Speaker 51: around me helps so much. You're looking at a hill
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Speaker 51: in front of you by yourself. If I'm perceiving a
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Speaker 51: hill after climb, my brain judges that hill as being
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Speaker 51: ten to twenty percent steeper than if I was doing
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Speaker 51: a hill at the exact same height but standing next
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Speaker 51: to a friend three feet apart from me. So even
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Speaker 51: the existence of somebody else in my world changes from
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Speaker 51: my perspective on that objective reality. It makes those challenges
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Speaker 51: I have in front of me seem less steep.
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Speaker 28: You want that connection.
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Speaker 51: You want to know that other people understand what you're
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Speaker 51: going through.
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Speaker 17: I think that when you're stuck, you think you're the
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Speaker 17: only one. One of the single biggest symptoms of depression
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Speaker 17: is rumination, which is talking to yourself about your problems,
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Speaker 17: which only makes it bigger. And I don't know if
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Speaker 17: you two are interested or into manifesting and the brain
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Speaker 17: science around that, or if as you're listening to us
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Speaker 17: right now, if you are, but it is very real
40:53
Speaker 17: like you are always manifesting your future. You're either doing
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Speaker 17: it in the negative by worrying, or you're doing it
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Speaker 17: in the positive, because manifesting is nothing more. If you're
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Speaker 17: doing it by the science and you're doing it correctly.
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Speaker 17: Is you wiring your brain to help you filter the
41:12
Speaker 17: world to see what you want to see more of?
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Speaker 17: That's all that it is. And so if you are
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Speaker 17: so stressed and stuck and isolated and in your thoughts,
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Speaker 17: then you're continuing to see a world that reflects all
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Speaker 17: of those things.
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Speaker 37: The biggest stuff you ask God full the greater that requirements.
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Speaker 37: That's a hard life, man. I live my life in
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Speaker 37: the expectation. Therefore, guess what He gives me. What I expect.
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Speaker 37: I expect the life of abundance. You think they take
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Speaker 37: this show from under me? Think you think i'mthing to crumble.
41:47
Speaker 37: Don't even worry about the y'all. Don't you know he
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Speaker 37: got something else from me? Some way, bigger, some way better.
41:52
Speaker 37: Do people make decisions?
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Speaker 26: They think they crumbling me all the time.
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Speaker 37: They've been making decision about me for years out here.
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Speaker 4: They can't do none with me. I keep showing up
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Speaker 4: over and over and over.
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Speaker 19: Your Number one wealth building tool is your income.
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Speaker 5: All of the millionaires that we interview, unless they inherited
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Speaker 5: the money, which is very very few of them, less
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Speaker 5: than ten percent of them in er did the money,
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Speaker 5: did it by saving and investing their income. They did
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Speaker 5: not give their income to Sally May. They did not
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Speaker 5: give their income to Best Buy. It's a mathematical thing.
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Speaker 40: When you give your income to someone else, you don't.
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Speaker 16: Have it anymore.
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Speaker 6: Don't let life fucked you up.
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Speaker 4: It's yours.
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Speaker 49: It's yours to drive, get up in the morning, write
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Speaker 49: down what you're going to do in a day. Be
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Speaker 49: happy on your way to your job, even if you
42:55
Speaker 49: don't like it,