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Your Words Stick Like HONEY 🍯 · Soul Salon with Ayandastood

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  Your words are sticky, babes.
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  Your words are sticky.
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  Your words stick in the hearts, in the
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  minds, in the consciousness of the collective.
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  It is a privilege to know you and it is a privilege
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  to see the world through your eyes, to feel the world through your senses, to taste the world
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  through your taste buds, okay?
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  It is an honor.
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  It's a privilege to be able to experience your
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  perspective and I want you to treat it as such, as something that is generous, as something that
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  is generative, as an ecosystem that someone gets to walk into and feel nourished, hydrated,
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  and given to by, okay?
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  I want to invite you to remember that the words you utter,
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  they're not just any words.
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  They carry an energy.
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  They carry a potency.
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  They carry a power that is
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  your gift to give in this lifetime.
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  And I know it takes courage.
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  It takes courage to be generous.
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  it takes courage to show up but when you think of yourself as a powerful speaker as a powerful
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  writer singer communicator giver as someone with gifts then what you start to think is oh my word
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  by me doubting myself I'm undermining my gifts do you want to say that again to me by me doubting
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  myself I'm undermining my gifts I'm like a peacock with fabulous feathers saying these feathers are
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  not big enough oh my goodness they are literally spectacular like they're a spectacle to behold
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  it's a gift it's breathtaking you are breathtaking your words stick like honey they stick to anyone
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  who has the privilege of tasting them of being soothed and nourished by your perspective there
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  are things you've said 10 years ago that are still reverberating in the skulls of the collective
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  echoing across conversations where people share you know once someone said to me that and i never
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  saw it the same way the way you see the world which you communicate through your writing or
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  through your language through your expression through your dancing however you express yourself
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  in this life, the way you tell stories, the way you write poems.
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  It is sticky and we want to stick
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  to you.
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  We want to get caught up by the way that you move us.
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  Your words are not just any words.
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  Your vibration is not just any vibration.
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  It is sacred.
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  It is manifested.
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  What are your words?
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  they are manifested they are longed for they are called in there is one sentence that you have to
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  say and we are using this metaphorically when we say sentence it could be a poem it could be a word
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  it could be a piece of advice it could be a story you tell it could be anything could be your humor
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  aha could be your way of taking up space there's a way a sentence one sentence for you it's just
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  going to be a runaway sentence you're going to think you're going off on a tangent
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  but that is going to be what someone takes what changes the game for someone
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  what it was their soul's journey to hear from you in this lifetime
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  so babes we are not going to allow doubt fear we are not going to allow doubt fear playing small
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  perfectionism waiting for the perfect conditions we're not going to allow that to stop us
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  from sharing our sticky magnetic infectious vibration with the collective
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  we're going to share our frequency and allow the resonance that is seeking to take hold through us
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  to unfold.
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  We're going to be generous.
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  We're going to be courageous because you, my love,
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  you are a privilege to know.
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  You are a gift to behold.
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  And you are not someone
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  that we just forget what they say or how they said it.
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  You are someone whose art,
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  whose heart, I like to say, whose heart work
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  resonates at the deepest level with the collective spirit and consciousness.
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  And we are calling on you to share what you feel called to share,
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  to share your gifts, to join the flea market of life
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  where we all say, you know what we all have is gifts to give.
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  And no one benefits from us hiding or hoarding these gifts.
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  And no one benefits from us playing a smaller game.
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  I don't even love the word game.
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  I don't love the metaphor.
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  It's not the best.
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  But no one benefits from us not taking up this space that we actually came to earth to expand into.
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  You are an expansive soul and we expand through you.
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  So know that what it is in your heart to express, it is in our hearts to receive from you.
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  Okay?
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  So what are you going to go and do to honor that your words have a stickiness,
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  a memorability you are memorable okay i just know that you came here to be remembered
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  by all the lives that you came here to touch okay i just know that waiting for the perfect moment
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  waiting for the perfect condition so for example my voice today it's not feeling the best but i
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  said okay so then just speak for five minutes speak for five minutes and don't say that you
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  can't because every time you try to do that you speak for 25 and 35 and 45 minutes don't say that
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  What does the past have to do with the present?
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  I mean a lot.
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  But right now we are writing new stories because we are storytellers.
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  So we're going to write stories that fortify, that free us rather than keep us small.
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  Okay?
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  We're going to write stories that liberate us and liberate through us because you are a walking permission slip.
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  So when you share your words which are sticky as F, okay, do we swear here?
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  I don't know.
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  i haven't decided but soul sibling okay because if you're here if you're resonating we're soul
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  siblings what does this mean we are resonating at a soul level i've come here to share things
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  that you've come here to receive but also there's a resonance in the collective field so there are
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  people that i attract that you are meant to attract in this life as well that's why we have
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  the soul salon collective and that's why we have live portal events so that we can gather the next
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  one i think is going to be the permission portal but let's talk about that another day you can sign
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  up just be on my newsletter list which you can go to i understood.com to sign up for but your words
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  babes okay that's the main point i want to i want you to walk away with think of something sticky
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  honey chewing gum but i don't think we should think of chewing gum let's think of honey okay
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  or let's think of something that when you watch it just lingers in your consciousness
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  you can't stop thinking about it it stays
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  you are that you are a lingering we don't just walk away from what you've shared with us
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  it reverberates and resonates within us
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  so what would you do if you believed you were a powerful communicator
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  you were a powerful expressor you were a powerful giver of words words are part of your craft in
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  this life things you say at conversations with friends at brunch at dinner at book club on a
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  zoom call in the zoom chat in the comment section things you say i've thought about comments not
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  even on my own videos that i've read and i've been like whoa wow that's stuck with me that has stuck
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  that has stayed that is doing its little rounds having its little ripple effect its big little
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  ripple effect in my heart and in my consciousness and therefore reverberating around me so we never
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  know our impact so we're not going to underestimate our impact okay we're going to assume that we are
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  generous we're going to assume that what we have to say is profound it is profound and it has found
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  the perfect vessel for it so we're going to honor the vessel that we are honor the fact that you are
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  a channel of divine light of divine wisdom of whatever you came here to channel of love of
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  truth of power of potency of play of pleasure of presence and we're not going to play small
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  by reducing how magnificent we are you have come here with a unique magnetism magnetism
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  let me just say that again you've come here with a unique magnetism what is the purpose of a magnet
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  to draw what is meant for it to it.
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  Not only for the magnet's sake, but for the drawing's sake.
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  For the fact that those that are attracted and drawn to the magnet
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  are expanded by the attraction.
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  So you are magnetic because us being attracted to you expands us.
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  So when you honor the ways that you are magnetic,
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  and all you need to do is think of the common thread in what people say to you.
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  The collective will give you all the clues you need.
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  If people always say to you,
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  Oh my God, you're such a good listener.
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  No one ever listens to me the way you just heard me.
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  If people always say to you, wow, I love the way you see things.
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  If people say to you, oh my word, when you share a recommendation with me, it's always so good.
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  If people always say to you, you just light up the room.
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  And maybe you don't have people in your life who are these loving mirrors.
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  I'm so grieving that because you deserve that.
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  But then that means you've come here in part to hold up that mirror for yourself and say,
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  what is the common thread that I see?
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  Because I'm also a witness.
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  I also know myself.
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  I know my gifts.
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  So what's the thread that I see?
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  Where is my stickiness?
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  Like I notice I feel most in flow or I notice that I resonate even with my own spirit.
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  When I am, when I am.
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  So babes, go forth.
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  Trust the potency of your spirit,
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  of the way the world occurs to you.
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  Never minimize.
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  Expand.
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  Never reduce.
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  Enlarge.
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  okay you know when you're on that computer and you're zooming in that's what we want to do with
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  your magnificence don't keep the font small because when you keep the font small the words
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  are not as significant as when you make the font bigger even though it's the same words oh my
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  goodness did that metaphor just drop in from nowhere thank you thank you sauce you could read
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  the same story at three font and not see a thing but then you magnetize the font and the story is
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  more potent to you it's more resonant to you simply because of a perspective shift so let's
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  zoom in on your gifts if you say oh i'm kind of good at listening you're gonna be like i'm the
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  best listener in the world if you're like oh you know when i write sometimes it's good you're gonna
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  be like you know what the fact that someone took the time out of their day to tell me they like my
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  writing people don't just do that i had a singing teacher who said this to me he said if people have
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  told you have a good singing voice believe them people don't just say that and I was like
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  thanks I received that you see what he said stuck with me because he's got his own magnetism love
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  him so and I'm at the beginning of that journey and I had to pause because of my voice but it is
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  unfolding so anyways babes your words are sticky take this with you I'm going to stop you know how
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  I never am able to stop recording as I keep summarizing but then starting all over again
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  So let's magnetize that font, okay?
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  On our magnificence, on our magic.
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  Let's actually like 10x, 20x, 30x, 100x how magnetic you believe you are.
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  Write down one statement of your being and let that be the whole universe for a second.
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  Okay?
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  Your words are sticky.
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  We want to stick to you.
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  We want to feel moved by you in a way we cannot forget.
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  We want to dance with the way you see the world.
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  We want to taste the flavors of your perspective that linger, you know, like a meal.
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  You had it five years ago.
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  It still sticks with you.
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  When you think of that place or you think of that memory, you think of the flavors.
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  And you know you can never fully relive that exact flavor profile.
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  You could remake the same recipe.
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  It's not going to be the same.
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  Maybe it's even going to be better.
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  Maybe that's your gift to give is your way that you bring life to ingredients.
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  to flavor, to texture, to taste.
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  So we're going to honor that there is a unique orchestra
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  of magnificence that is your being
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  that has come together despite and beyond all odds
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  and has come together to be expressed through you
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  and it is not your place to judge it,
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  but it is your gift to share it.
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  I'm sending so much love to you, Divine Soul.
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  you are so magnificent thank you for traveling with me today and i will see you on the next
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  soul session i love you bye my darling my love my soul sibling thank you for stepping into the
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  soul salon if you are still hearing or watching this we are soul siblings we are resonating on
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  the same frequency and so something you may struggle with that i struggle with is the fear
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  of being seen you know that visibility is involved in you living your creative purpose and being in
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  your power serving the collective through your gifts through your magic through your medicine
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  in order to do that you know you need to be more seen than you are allowing yourself to be right
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  now i have a gift just for you heart made for us on this frequency and it is a free ebook called
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  the soulful visibility guide that is soulful visibility like we don't just want to be seen
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  we want to be felt we want to be heard we want to move and be moved so i do have a free gift for you
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  and all you need to do is go to my website i understood.com and there you will be able to
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  input your email address and receive this directly to your inbox this is such a juicy and delicious
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  guide and i change the free offering every few months so you know get it while you can all the
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  links are in the show notes so thank you so much i love you and i will see you on the next soul
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  session.
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  Okay.
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  I love you.
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  Bye.