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Episode #259: Drown Out Their Voices of Limitation · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, Welcome to tea Time with Damien Bev. Hello. Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm still at work.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still.
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  Speaker 3: I'm still I'm still chilly. After it was even what
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  Speaker 3: sunny and pretty warm a.
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  Speaker 2: Few days ago.
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  Speaker 3: I'm running around, you know, watching the grandkids playing ball
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  Speaker 3: and stuff. Someone says, oh, you got some sun. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: oh yeah, I was out of the game, you know,
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  Speaker 3: watching the kids at the game.
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  Speaker 2: So which is fun. It gets me outside fresh air.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure fresh air can do for us.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 3: Being out in the outdoors is very beneficial and healthy
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  Speaker 3: for us. Putting your feet the dirt without shoes on.
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  Speaker 2: But it's worm. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I've had a couple of conversations this week about people
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  Speaker 1: getting out out in nature more often, and and since
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  Speaker 1: I'm having those conversations, it's probably for me too, because
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  Speaker 1: I've been doing a lot of hours at work and
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  Speaker 1: then leaving work and going home, and so I haven't
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  Speaker 1: been out much. I did when the weather got nice,
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  Speaker 1: I did start. I did go for a walk one
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  Speaker 1: day last week, and then the weather got crappy. My
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  Speaker 1: perspective got a little crappy for it to be for
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  Speaker 1: for walking, so anyway, it's the way it is.
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  Speaker 2: It's just the way it is, is the.
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  Speaker 1: Way it is. So I had a conversation with a
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  Speaker 1: coaching client the other day. It was it was it
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  Speaker 1: was interesting. She was mentioning that she has this pattern
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  Speaker 1: of staying at a job for about two years and
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  Speaker 1: then moving on to the next. And she's in a
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  Speaker 1: position right now where she's with the company where she's
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  Speaker 1: been there almost two years, and a situation at work happened,
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  Speaker 1: some shifting and dynamics changed, and now it's not.
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  Speaker 2: As enjoyable.
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  Speaker 1: She enjoyed her job, but since these things had changed,
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  Speaker 1: it's not as enjoyable and she kind of dreads going
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  Speaker 1: to work now. And this other door opened for her
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  Speaker 1: that is clearly on the other side of the spectrum
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  Speaker 1: of opportunities. It's not even in the same field. It's way, way,
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  Speaker 1: way different. So we were talking about it, and interesting enough,
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  Speaker 1: just prior the previous coaching call, we talked about career
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  Speaker 1: and and what she likes to do, what really lights
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  Speaker 1: her up, and she was telling me about it. That
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  Speaker 1: was the previous coaching call. Then we have this current
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  Speaker 1: coaching call, and a door opened in that field that
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  Speaker 1: we talked about and she started down. So this is
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  Speaker 1: the difference. So I just want people to hear as
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling the story, the difference between victim and student. Right,
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  Speaker 1: So the victim kicked in and said, well, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to feel like I'm running from this job in
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  Speaker 1: this situation. And I can hear my brother's voice in
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  Speaker 1: my head, who said at one time to me that
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  Speaker 1: you only stay at a job for about two years
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  Speaker 1: and then you ship, then you change. You're not a
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  Speaker 1: very you're not very steady in your employment. So she's
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  Speaker 1: got that little voice in her head. Then she's got
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  Speaker 1: this company she's with where things have gone a little south,
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  Speaker 1: not very enjoyable. They've done a lot for her, and obligation,
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  Speaker 1: so she's feeling obligated to stay. So victim side and
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  Speaker 1: I pointed out to her, I said, okay, let's back
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  Speaker 1: up to the previous conversation. The previous conversation we were
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  Speaker 1: talking about the subject of which this door has opened
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  Speaker 1: for this opportunity for you to walk towards, and let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you this side note. She said, it's more
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  Speaker 1: money as well, just saying which she said, she goes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm very motivated by money, and this is a great opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, okay, so you have this great opportunity
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  Speaker 1: more money in the field that you enjoy completely different
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  Speaker 1: from what you're at. So it's not like a lateral
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  Speaker 1: move to the same industry. It's way different. But yet
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  Speaker 1: you're hearing your brother's voice in your head and you're
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  Speaker 1: feeling obligated and you don't want to feel like you're
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  Speaker 1: running away from it. Interesting how we perceive things.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 3: It is because perspectively, I would say, in which I
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  Speaker 3: feel like you were kind of alluding to this door
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  Speaker 3: opened up for a reason. It doesn't matter if she leaves.
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  Speaker 3: From my perspective, it doesn't matter if you leave a
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  Speaker 3: job every two years, if you're leaving a job every
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  Speaker 3: two years, of course, unless it's a pattern, right when
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  Speaker 3: we're talking about a pattern, but maybe spirits like you've
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  Speaker 3: learned enough at this job, it's time for you to
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  Speaker 3: go to the next thing. And so it's like we
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  Speaker 3: can get so caught up and things and try to
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  Speaker 3: hold on to things and not let go of it,
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  Speaker 3: not allow it to.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of.
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  Speaker 3: Allow it to unfold like it was meant to unfold.
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  Speaker 3: But that's like controlling everything. And then like hearing the
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  Speaker 3: voice to me, we have to we really got to
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  Speaker 3: be aware of what are our first feelings when we
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  Speaker 3: feel the when we hear these things, do we get excited?
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  Speaker 3: Like what was the reaction if you heard something like
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  Speaker 3: if for me, I'd be super excited if another door
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  Speaker 3: opened up and it was on the other side of
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  Speaker 3: the spectrum of things and it was like it sounds
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  Speaker 3: like all this exciting stuff. I would probably my first
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  Speaker 3: feelings would be like, this is exciting, let's go do this.
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  Speaker 3: And then by brother's voice, and then the self doubt
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  Speaker 3: and then the self sabotage and all those thoughts come
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  Speaker 3: in because that keeps you right where you're at. And
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  Speaker 3: then it's like then you have to be curious about
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  Speaker 3: why are you punishing yourself keeping yourself in a place
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  Speaker 3: that you don't even want to go to work? So
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  Speaker 3: it's like there's so many different things that and of
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  Speaker 3: course that's just one perspective, right, that's just just just
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  Speaker 3: a perspective of what you're saying right now.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like there's so many things. And then it's
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  Speaker 2: like she could just take it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it's giving her the things that she wants,
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  Speaker 3: and to me, there's an incentive there that's like it
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  Speaker 3: reminds me of the thing like you know, God, there,
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  Speaker 3: someone's asking for help.
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  Speaker 2: They're hanging by a rope, right, and.
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  Speaker 3: God's like, well, just let go, and it's like I can't.
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  Speaker 3: And then they look down and they're only like a
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  Speaker 3: foot off the ground, just like they were. Nobody was
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  Speaker 3: ever going to get hurt. You got to have faith
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  Speaker 3: let go. Yeah, And I don't think we're in in
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  Speaker 3: time space reality that staying at a job for fifty
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  Speaker 3: years is a relevant thing. It's not even it's not
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  Speaker 3: even people staying in relationships that long, because there's been
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  Speaker 3: a lot of relationships I've seen that people have stayed
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  Speaker 3: together for years and years and years and they don't
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  Speaker 3: even like each other.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like it's just there's a process here, right, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Just learning how to kind of let go and just
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  Speaker 3: kind of like what we were talking about last time,
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  Speaker 3: it is a surrender. The surrender would be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to do this because it obviously showed up
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  Speaker 3: in my experience, or else i'd be with my pendul,
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  Speaker 3: I'd be with de pendulum, Like listen, and the thing is,
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  Speaker 3: I know exactly what the answer that I what I
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  Speaker 3: would what I would like. So it's like, we get
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  Speaker 3: so afraid of making a move. It's so easy to
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  Speaker 3: stay stuck.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, it is because you don't have to do anything.
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  Speaker 2: You can just stay there and be stuck.
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  Speaker 1: And the idea that one of the main things that
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  Speaker 1: was keeping her stuck was her brother's voice and I
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  Speaker 1: and I told her similar to what you were pointing
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  Speaker 1: out is I said, Okay, we just had a conversation
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  Speaker 1: about doing something different in a field that you would
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  Speaker 1: thoroughly enjoy. This door of opportunity has happened opened, and
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  Speaker 1: you're allowing a voice of somebody doesn't even live near
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  Speaker 1: you to have more power over your joy, your happiness
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  Speaker 1: of your life. I said, that will make much sense
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  Speaker 1: to me. I'm guilty of doing it. Yeah, but now
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the other side of that and understand it more.
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  Speaker 1: And so you're giving more power to him and letting
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  Speaker 1: that control your life. Then you taken the step to
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  Speaker 1: move towards something that makes you that contributes to your happiness.
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  Speaker 3: And fear right, fear is such a huge contributing factor
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  Speaker 3: for all that. And that's not how we were We
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  Speaker 3: were taught fear. We were taught fear. Be careful, you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna fall down, Be careful, you're gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Trip over that. You better watch what you're doing.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna break your nose, or you're gonna break your
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  Speaker 3: wrist or you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: There's all these things that we've been I've done it
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  Speaker 2: with my.
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  Speaker 3: Kids too, so you know, yeap, because I was so
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  Speaker 3: afraid of something happening to them. You know, something could
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  Speaker 3: happen to him and they could be taken away from me.
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  Speaker 3: But realizing I don't own them and they can't be
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  Speaker 3: taken away from me. I mean, honestly, they're we're connected,
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  Speaker 3: and that's something that I've been practicing.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's another story.
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I'm about to jump onto something else,
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  Speaker 3: going into telepathy, so we'll just.
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  Speaker 1: We'll take me that I do. But oh yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: what I what I guess my point is is that
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  Speaker 1: we give so much power to other people and their
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  Speaker 1: thoughts and their ideas of what our life should be like.
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  Speaker 1: She said, I said, let me ask you this, is
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  Speaker 1: he jealous or envious of you in any way? And
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  Speaker 1: she goes, oh yeah, I said, he is not speaking
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  Speaker 1: from a space of being concerned for you and your life.
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  Speaker 1: He is speaking from a space of being envious or
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  Speaker 1: jealous of your life because he hasn't chosen to make
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  Speaker 1: the changes that would benefit him to be happy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, which isn't always easy for men because they're the
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  Speaker 3: caretaker of the house. You know, there's a there's a
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  Speaker 3: lot of responsibility on their shoulders. But that's something that
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  Speaker 3: we're all learning right now to kind of like what
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  Speaker 3: do I really like?
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  Speaker 2: I'm still trying to figure that stuff out.
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  Speaker 3: So it's like it's the same thing, you know, it
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  Speaker 3: really is, And it's like you just like you said,
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  Speaker 3: you really can't.
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  Speaker 2: I mean she can.
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  Speaker 3: She can take on all that those feelings and listen
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  Speaker 3: to it and take it to heart. So afraid that
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  Speaker 3: she's going to do something wrong because what if he's right?
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  Speaker 3: And the whole thing is what if he is?
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  Speaker 2: Who cares? There's another job, that another door is going
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  Speaker 2: to open up. It's just it's just being free to
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  Speaker 2: make those decisions.
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  Speaker 1: And I totally said.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: And I was gonna say I had been struggling with
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  Speaker 3: this for the private last few years.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like it's I'll get there when I get there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I said it's not so. I said, all
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  Speaker 1: this stuff is transpired at your current place of employment.
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  Speaker 1: It's not enjoyable anymore. You kind of dread going in there.
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  Speaker 1: And this door opened, and it's like, here's a door
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  Speaker 1: that's opened of opportunity for you to walk through. I said,
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  Speaker 1: we already know not everything is permanent, everything is temporary.
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  Speaker 1: So this door opens. Now, mind you, it's like a
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  Speaker 1: forty five minute drive for her to take this opportunity,
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  Speaker 1: but there's also flexibility in it for her personal life.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, this door is opened for you to
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  Speaker 1: walk through, which would be probably way more enjoyable for you.
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  Speaker 1: And what if we already know it's temporary. What if
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  Speaker 1: it lasts a week and something else opens. What if
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  Speaker 1: it lasts five years and then something else. It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: The idea is you're not enjoying where you're at. We
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  Speaker 1: talked about this topic and you were excited about it.
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  Speaker 1: The door has opened. I said, sometimes we have we
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  Speaker 1: have this create We all have this creativity in us,
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  Speaker 1: and there is something in life that lights us up,
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  Speaker 1: and the universe will guide us to it if we
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  Speaker 1: walk through the doors, if we take the steps, and
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  Speaker 1: that's what the universe is doing. You're not happy where
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  Speaker 1: you are. You talked about this thing. They light you up,
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  Speaker 1: and the universe is choreographing all these things to guide
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  Speaker 1: you through this doorway so that things can blossom for you.
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  Speaker 1: And then I said, I'm going to be very facetious
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  Speaker 1: right now. And then and I wrote a word in
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  Speaker 1: capital letters on an eight and a half by eleven
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  Speaker 1: piece of paper and I showed it to her, and
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  Speaker 1: it's very I told her, this is very judgmental, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm being facetious. And I was laughing, and we were
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  Speaker 1: we were enjoying our conversation, and I just wrote dumbass
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  Speaker 1: on there and showed it to her and she cracked up.
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  Speaker 1: And she's like, I hear you. It's just letting your excitement,
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  Speaker 1: your passion, your fun, your enjoyment be the power over
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  Speaker 1: what everybody else is thinking or saying that your life
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  Speaker 1: should be like.
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  Speaker 3: Because we're letting someone else determine what's going to make
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  Speaker 3: us happy and what's not going to make us happy.
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  Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's being a child again. And then, and children
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  Speaker 3: don't like to be told what to do either. I've
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  Speaker 3: watched it and my grandson and nobody don't you don't
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  Speaker 3: take anything away from you. You'll be willingly hand me something,
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  Speaker 3: but don't take it away from it, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean, Just like we wouldn't like it either.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, there's just it's pretty obvious stuff. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it is.
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  Speaker 3: It is when we start paying attention to it, when
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  Speaker 3: we start honoring ourselves and allowing ourselves to make those
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  Speaker 3: those moves and changes, because those moves and changes are
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  Speaker 3: what changes our whole freaking life. We keep asking for change,
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  Speaker 3: and I've been that person. Keep asking for change. But
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  Speaker 3: if you're not willing to make the change, or you're
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  Speaker 3: not willing to put your left shoe on first before
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  Speaker 3: your right shoe, or you know, whatever it is, make
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  Speaker 3: a left turn instead of a right turn because maybe
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  Speaker 3: there was something pulling you past that way to go
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  Speaker 3: look at another property.
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  Speaker 2: Or you'll see you'll see someone that needs.
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  Speaker 3: Help and you help them and they tell you, hey,
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  Speaker 3: I really could use this, And I mean, it's just
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  Speaker 3: like this the whole process, right it's being excited about
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  Speaker 3: the adventure. It's being excited for the journey that we're
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  Speaker 3: taking right now. Oh well, that's interesting, you know spirits
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  Speaker 3: opened up a whole nother door for me again.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to go.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to go explore the store because if I
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  Speaker 3: want to, which I really don't want, you, I can
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  Speaker 3: always go back to something like that, but I don't,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't really want to. And that's the things
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  Speaker 3: to pay attention to, right It's like, what are your desires?
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to do something?
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  Speaker 3: Because I find myself talking myself into things a lot
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  Speaker 3: or talking myself out of it's mostly these days it's
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  Speaker 3: talking myself out of doing something. Spirit gives me information
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  Speaker 3: and I'll be like, no, I'm not going to say that.
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  Speaker 3: No I'm not going to do that, you know. Or
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  Speaker 3: I just ignore it and I'll do it in a
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  Speaker 3: few minutes and then I forget. So it's like Spirit
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  Speaker 3: wants us to listen to and respond that way, like
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  Speaker 3: pretty quick. Spirit's like, you know, on the ball. I
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  Speaker 3: remember there's a person I had had a reading a
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  Speaker 3: long time ago, and she's like, oh, you know, basically,
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  Speaker 3: Spirit's telling you got to get out, you gotta go,
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  Speaker 3: you gotta run.
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  Speaker 2: Now's time.
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  Speaker 3: But Spirit also knows that are they have a different
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  Speaker 3: time schedule because they don't have a time schedule.
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  Speaker 2: We have time here. We can't.
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  Speaker 3: We can't literally just make jumps. We can, but we
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  Speaker 3: think we can't because we've got our brother in our ear,
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  Speaker 3: or our dad or our mom or someone else that's
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  Speaker 3: made fun of you. Because it's like, am I gonna
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  Speaker 3: screw this up again? No, you're gonna screw it up
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  Speaker 3: by not doing it. No, you won't screw it up.
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  Speaker 1: And who cares if you do it because there's no.
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  Speaker 2: Such things doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no such thing. We came here to explore
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  Speaker 3: and try new things. I didn't come here to work
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  Speaker 3: as a cashier my whole life.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't come here to do, you know, working.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know some of the jobs that I've worked
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  Speaker 3: at come to do that my whole life.
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  Speaker 2: That's not what I intended.
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  Speaker 3: We gain whatever information and knowledge we need from that.
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  Speaker 3: And sometimes it's like learning how to communicate better. Sometimes
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  Speaker 3: that's learning how to listen better. Like it's all that,
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  Speaker 3: there's all these factors that come into play from each
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  Speaker 3: position that we take.
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  Speaker 1: Yep. And even if you feel like you messed it up,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't mess it up. It was it was a
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  Speaker 1: learning experience. It was just walking through it a door
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  Speaker 1: of opportunity that's going to lead you to the next
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  Speaker 1: It was an opportunity to learn more about yourself and
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  Speaker 1: your courage to do something different or move in a
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  Speaker 1: different direction. There's so much to be had by And
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  Speaker 1: this was another conversation I had had with her about
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  Speaker 1: another situation that was changing for her in her life,
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't know what to do. What
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  Speaker 1: if this happened, you know, the what if avenue of fear?
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  Speaker 2: Fear fear?
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  Speaker 1: And I just looked at her were we were on zoom,
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  Speaker 1: and I just looked at her and I said, and
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  Speaker 1: what if it's amazing? What if it's beyond your wildest expectations.
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  Speaker 1: What if it's really fun and really good and and
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  Speaker 1: things just turn out incredible? What if that? And I
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  Speaker 1: kind of had the reminder of that same conversation about
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  Speaker 1: this new position, And so, yeah, we just get caught
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  Speaker 1: up in the fear and everybody else's opinions and what
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  Speaker 1: they think is best for us, and we stifle our creativity,
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  Speaker 1: we stifle our abilities to make decisions and learn from
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  Speaker 1: them and standing more in your power and having the courage.
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  Speaker 1: And we've talked about this to trust and faith.
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  Speaker 2: It does take a lot of courage to do some
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  Speaker 2: of these things.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm saying that for myself, for everybody, it
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  Speaker 3: does take a lot of courage. You really have to
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: kind of step out of the box sometimes because we're
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: because we've been operating on the things that we know
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  Speaker 3: and we can't operate it that way anymore. So you
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  Speaker 3: have to be open to receive. And this is where
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: I'm at lately. I've got to be open to I
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  Speaker 3: don't have to be, but in.
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  Speaker 2: Order for me to keep drawing a blink on the words.
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  Speaker 3: In order to elevating banding for expanding yes, in order
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: for me to do all those things, I've got to
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: make that I've got to take a step out. I
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: have conversations and talk to people like you're getting like
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  Speaker 3: this person's talking to you. It's like really being aware
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  Speaker 3: of like all the things we just we restrict ourselves
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  Speaker 3: so much, and we have an expectation for ourselves to
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: be perfect at something on things we've never even tried before,
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  Speaker 3: and it's like we can't just be perfect on the
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  Speaker 3: first time that we go to do something. Just like
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: I was starting to say about art, someone didn't just
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: start out drawing this way. They it was something that
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: they cultivated. It was something that stuff it out like
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: with a desire of passion. And you can look at
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: it and say, I'm not I can't do this, I'm
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: doing a shitty job, but you still got a.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Little fire inside of you that's still wanting.
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  Speaker 3: To do this, and you just keep doing it because
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: you because you trust the journey to see how it's
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  Speaker 3: gonna just play out.
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  Speaker 2: How is the image going to turn out?
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  Speaker 3: Soone you know, it started with just that pencil you
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: were holding your hands, that amazing, wonderful pencil you were
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: holding the last video just to start that first line exactly,
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: and it's like, that's that step, right, that's that steff
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  Speaker 3: of being brave or or maybe taking an art class.
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  Speaker 2: To learn more about it, because it is your passion.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of the times I have an
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: expectation for things to come so naturally. I really expect
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  Speaker 3: them to, Like like I'm going to open up a
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: door and walk through a certain door and all of
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: a sudden something just turns on with it, flip flip
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: of a switch inside of me. Now I'm starting to
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: do that stuff. This is my thoughts who knows.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, because I.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: Don't know if it's been proven to me yet, but
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: but you know, I've got those I've got those feelings.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: And it's like, we got to trust these things that
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: we were this guidance that we're getting this, these nudges
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: that we get and the excitement of it, and recognize
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  Speaker 3: as soon as we start getting into that place of ooh,
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: this doesn't feel good, recognize when you're starting to talk
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  Speaker 3: to yourself. I'm hearing this voice and it's talking to
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  Speaker 3: me and it doesn't feel good, but it's telling me
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  Speaker 3: because it's telling me to go away from my dreams,
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: my hopes, and my desires.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep. And the more you lean into something that
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: contributes to your joy, your passions, your desires, your energy shifts,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: your external environment shifts, You have amazing conversations, You make
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: room for new and fresh energy in your environment, in
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: people that come and connect with you. It's there's a
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: lot of benefits to following those urges that feel good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's asking guy, like, get it. I was
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: just doing it while you were talking.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Not that I wasn't listening to you, but I was like,
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  Speaker 3: thank you, our angels for showing up tonight for me,
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: because it's like I didn't have anything.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to talk. I mean, I didn't have
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: anything to talk about.
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  Speaker 3: Like I just didn't think until we start talking, until something,
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  Speaker 3: you know, then I recognize something, I'll come out of it.
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  Speaker 3: But it's like I wasn't so I was just sitting
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: here being in an appreciation. I only told God and
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: the angel you know, only God, but only you know
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: God and the angels.
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  Speaker 2: And everybody for help and you showing up and all
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: that stuff.
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  Speaker 3: And I already started feeling like lighter and fuzzier and
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: you know, more capable and everything's possible. So it's just
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: it's just a shift, yep, and listening to ourselves and
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: not everybody else.
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  Speaker 1: Shift the ship, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: And if you're gonna listen to.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Someone else's advice, you know, kind of see what the
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: reflection of their life is around them exactly. You can
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: see what's going on, yeah, in the environment, because and
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: knowing whatever that looks like is what's going on the inside.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: If it's chaotic, then there's chaos on the inside. So
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: it's like it's just recognizing or are you taking this
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: information now? Someone that's like a billionaires that's happy all
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: the time, and there's like the every everything they touch
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: terms of gold. They're just joyful and happy. You're probably
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: gonna want to listen, take some notes. That's how you know,
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: because it feels good.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: You want to take advice from somebody who's sad and
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: depressed about how to be joyful, or take marriage advice
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: to somebody who's been divorced for three times? Or isn't
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: it a horrible, horrible marriage? Like pick and choose who
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: you're getting your advice from. Just saying, I'm just saying.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Yes, you're seeing the child psychologists that never had children.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, yes.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: All right, friends, So I'm gonna leave it a shift
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: the ship that's my ending and I love it. So
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: she's a ship shifter, ship shifted like say it ten
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  Speaker 1: times fast.
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  Speaker 2: Ready, No, I don't know what it's gonna try the
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Tuition show.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: All right, friends, thanks for hanging out with us, tea
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: time with Amy and Bev. Be courageous, have these conversations
• 24:10
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• 24:13
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• 24:18
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• 24:24
  Speaker 1: be resourceful and connect the people with the information that
• 24:28
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• 24:32
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  Speaker 1: Amyen BEV Community is our station. Or look up Tea
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Time with Amy and Bev. And with that, do you
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: have any final words? Have a magical week, have a
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: magical week, the infamous words of Beverly Brand, and we
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: thank you for that. We are.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: We are grateful.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Thanks for hanging out tea Time with Amy and Bev
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  Speaker 1: and we'll catch you next time.
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  Speaker 2: Bye.