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Ep 27. "Times Up" · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion to
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  Speaker 1: talk back. He Hello, mamma, let me whist that yeady
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  Speaker 1: sound good? You like damn got a sex as body?
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  Speaker 1: Oh what I like to hear? I like to hear.
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to come pay your rent? Why did I
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  Speaker 1: pay your rent? And I might eat that bussy? It
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  Speaker 1: was good you made me to pay your rent. Yes, Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back to a new episode that we talk back.
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  Speaker 1: It's your girl a j And it's me Tim Man.
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  Speaker 1: Hey y'all. I love y'all, everybody, you know all these
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  Speaker 1: I love all my whole and how it's How are
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  Speaker 1: you feeling, Tam, I honestly feel like ship right now.
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  Speaker 1: M hmm, I know so good. It was my birthday weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I was outside and that might have been of a
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  Speaker 1: stake because the bitch can't breathe through a nose. You
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  Speaker 1: might just have a cold. Everything is not COVID weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my weekend. Um, I don't do much. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I've been really learning how to do option trading. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if anybody out there, um, any of our
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  Speaker 1: listeners are in the stock market like that, But I've
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  Speaker 1: always been in the stock market, but bitch, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: learn how to option trade and if anybody interested, hit
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  Speaker 1: me up, but just been Yeah, man, I really just
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  Speaker 1: been looking at fucking stock charts all weekend and understanding
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  Speaker 1: trends and all that type of ship. So that's what
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  Speaker 1: I've been doing, making money. I'm not mad at that bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, he also lost a family member and I'm sorry, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: So I lost my dog, Bella last week, y'all, my
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  Speaker 1: whole kid, Bella, Bella, sweet lady Bella James. I had
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  Speaker 1: to put her down and I'm still debating, Um, I
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  Speaker 1: don't hate to stay put her down. I had to
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  Speaker 1: put her to sleep because she got extremely sick all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden within a week. And I just feel
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  Speaker 1: like I want to pull up and I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: like do a drive by on the fucking vet because
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  Speaker 1: this nick didn't call me back yet and I called
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  Speaker 1: him since last week Tuesday, and I don't get a
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  Speaker 1: call back yet. She was there the week before he
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  Speaker 1: gave he prescribed me some medicine that he probably should
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  Speaker 1: not have based on the vety she ended up at
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  Speaker 1: and I told a receptionist like, hey, I had to
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  Speaker 1: put my dog to sleep today? Can you have the
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  Speaker 1: vet call me back? No call back? So, y'all, I
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  Speaker 1: think I'm a fucking lawyer, right, it's already drafted up
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  Speaker 1: a demand letter. Bitch, you're gonna pay me for my
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  Speaker 1: pain and stuffing because I have been suffering the last week,
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  Speaker 1: like for real, for real, Like I never knew I
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  Speaker 1: could be that sad about my dog. I've had my
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  Speaker 1: dogs and she was just little, as little as my hand,
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  Speaker 1: eleven years old. That's my fucking kid dog. And I
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  Speaker 1: feel like somebody took her from me. So and if
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  Speaker 1: she was suffering, so I didn't have no choice because
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  Speaker 1: I would be being selfish if I would keep it here, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I would just literally she was barely breathing properly. She
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  Speaker 1: wasn't standing up girl that she was rough. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I want to put an event and I have yet
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  Speaker 1: to go pick up her remains because it's sad. I
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  Speaker 1: might go today because I don't want to get there
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  Speaker 1: one day and he'd be like, oh, we threw it
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  Speaker 1: out because then when every game like what now, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta knock over every fucking thing y'all office with my forearm,
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  Speaker 1: like so I'm trying to avoid violence. I ain't turning
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  Speaker 1: to switch on I hit the violence switch yet, but
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  Speaker 1: I really feel like fighting somebody but my fucking dog,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't think I'm gonna feel good until don't
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  Speaker 1: fight nobody. Yeah, so I have had a positive way.
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  Speaker 1: How go to like a boxing class? Oh, go to
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  Speaker 1: that place I'm going to next week where you go
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  Speaker 1: and you break shit. I do want to I've seen
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  Speaker 1: that place in Charlotte before. I do want to go something.
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  Speaker 1: You should come with me, come up here. We'll come
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  Speaker 1: to meet me and Columbia. We can go break ship together.
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  Speaker 1: And I have the face because that's what I wanna do. Alright.
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  Speaker 1: So for um this week's dumbass Internet Ship, we just
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  Speaker 1: like to talk about some of some of the current events,
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  Speaker 1: things that we're seeing online because you know, it's just
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  Speaker 1: social media is a bigger part of everybody fucking life. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to talk about a couple of things.
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  Speaker 1: So Keisha Cole's mother just passed the way, Frankie Peter,
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  Speaker 1: Frankie yeah Man and Bismarcki passed away. Every year been
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  Speaker 1: rough every year, rough of years since two thousand nineteen.
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  Speaker 1: Sending a lot of love and light to Kepsh your
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  Speaker 1: cold man. Yeah, and Nephi and all them. She had
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  Speaker 1: a lot of kids, man, it was just keep shows
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  Speaker 1: a lot of them. Man. You know, it's tough. You know,
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  Speaker 1: Kerom was on drugs for a very very long time
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  Speaker 1: and they're saying that she overdook at her birth. On
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  Speaker 1: her birth basically yeah, having a good time. M hmm. Also,
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  Speaker 1: bitch just sucking fitting off. I even already. But if
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  Speaker 1: somebody has been putting fitting on and got there in marijuana,
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  Speaker 1: you better be careful who the fuck you on your
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  Speaker 1: weed from out here? Like what is happening sitting all
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  Speaker 1: in the marijuana? It causes people to die essentially, it's
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  Speaker 1: been causing a lot of people to o D. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I'm wondering. I don't know what type of
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  Speaker 1: drugs she was on. They've been putting fitting all in
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  Speaker 1: the hero on in so you shoot that sh it
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  Speaker 1: up like you don't really have a high survival weight rate.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know what are we gonna do about
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  Speaker 1: drugs in our community? What can we do? Well? I
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  Speaker 1: know in as a Utah, they basically then legalize every drug.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what that really does. Um, I know
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  Speaker 1: since the um epidemic and the opioid epidemic and the
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  Speaker 1: methophetamine epidemic has hit the white community. There's more treatment
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  Speaker 1: centers for them now because it's being don't want a
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  Speaker 1: medical issue exactly. Essentially, it's being handled as a medical
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  Speaker 1: issue now. So that's one thing UM as opposed to,
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  Speaker 1: you know, UM addicts being treated as criminals for being
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  Speaker 1: sick essentially. Yeah, would you No, I don't want to.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I really didn't do what That's like. What's
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  Speaker 1: the movie that privilege it? What's the TV show Love
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  Speaker 1: of Country that they got nominated for eighteen Emmys? Is
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  Speaker 1: still they canceled it? You know why? Because they're exposing
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  Speaker 1: black magic. Yeah, they're exposing the magic that black people have.
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  Speaker 1: But that penot gland is so calcified. Yeah mm hmmm,
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  Speaker 1: you'll never be able to tap into it. Yeah. I know.
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  Speaker 1: That's why we can't have certain conversations. Bitch, you talking
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  Speaker 1: about one day you're gonna know and then you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be like girl. So just so I'm like, yeah, girl,
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  Speaker 1: now we had a conversation. Because I am not the
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  Speaker 1: type of person with the big gas ego who want
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  Speaker 1: to go around and beat my belief systems into people.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that. So whatever, we're just explained to
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  Speaker 1: our listeners what you mean by the penot gland being calcified.
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  Speaker 1: So there's a lot of things that's being put in food.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a third eye essentially, you know what I'm
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  Speaker 1: So you're saying I need to align my chop for us, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that could be a part of it, you know, because, um,
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  Speaker 1: what I noticed when having conversations with certain people, especially
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  Speaker 1: based on like the type of foods they eat, the
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  Speaker 1: conversation kind of be more aligned with my beliefs, Like
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  Speaker 1: people who are who are on more of a to me,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I've been noticing. People who are on
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  Speaker 1: more of a plant based diet, the conversations be different,
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  Speaker 1: Like we kind of have the same thoughts as opposed
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  Speaker 1: to people who consume a lot of pork, beef and ship.
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  Speaker 1: Like that is like they don't see the same ship
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  Speaker 1: we see somehow. So I attributed to the guet. I
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  Speaker 1: attributed to the diet. Why because you know, especially if
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  Speaker 1: you eat in pork, right, we're going in a hold
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  Speaker 1: some whole other ship. But let's just go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: go there right quick. If you were in pork unless
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  Speaker 1: you eat in wild boar like you shot that wild
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  Speaker 1: hog in the middle of the forest, like pigs that
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  Speaker 1: they keep like on a farm to kill and slaughter
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  Speaker 1: like a slaughterhouse. They were at least a chemical because
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  Speaker 1: like a chemical, they released this chemical into the meat,
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  Speaker 1: like when they're scared. So if they're killed in that
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  Speaker 1: way and then you're now you're ingesting that meat, you're
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  Speaker 1: taking on all types of stress that that pig was
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  Speaker 1: going through when it died. I really believe that you
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  Speaker 1: are what you eat. That's why that's where the whole
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  Speaker 1: thing comes from. So you feel like I got the
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  Speaker 1: sandwich wen yes, and like he must have been mad.
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  Speaker 1: He was magically delicious, So I don't know what his
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  Speaker 1: stress level was when he died. But thank you for
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  Speaker 1: giving your life. Bitch. I had a pork chop sandwich.
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  Speaker 1: Is I was like ten years old maybe, But my problem, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: I love bread and sugar, which is still some man
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  Speaker 1: made bullshit. Do you know illegal it should be. It's
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  Speaker 1: like cry because I like baked goods, I like I
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  Speaker 1: like sweet stuff, I like chocolate. I got a whole problem, child,
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  Speaker 1: and it ain't nothing wrong with the chocolate but it's
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  Speaker 1: like the sweetener. The sugar is the issue. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so look this one with the crack and the goddamn
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  Speaker 1: black community, all the ship we're addicted to in the
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  Speaker 1: black community. Um, I don't know what we can do
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  Speaker 1: about um. Definitely, passing more legislation is not the fucking solution.
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  Speaker 1: Passing legislation on people going to jail for drugs and
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  Speaker 1: ship like that. No, like, no, it doesn't. So the
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  Speaker 1: treatment centers, that's a that's a one way um intervention
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  Speaker 1: for family members. We gotta really, you know, be a
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  Speaker 1: family for real, for real. But here's how Black people
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  Speaker 1: handle our family drug addiction. They're grown. What I'm gonna do?
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  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Until they died and they got on the
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  Speaker 1: T shirt crimb ain't one Harver, No, No, I hope
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  Speaker 1: we've got life is yours on him? Right? That ship
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  Speaker 1: is magic. Crack especially is magic. Like that ship was
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  Speaker 1: a party drug during our parents time and then you know,
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  Speaker 1: you're just sitting at a party and somebody like, hey man,
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  Speaker 1: try this ship. Now you're just strung off for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of your life. Right, that ship is mad unless
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  Speaker 1: you can beat it. A lot of people don't beat it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess it all. You gotta love yourself.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't have an addictive personality aside from sugar.
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  Speaker 1: I'm addicted to marijuana. You may not be addicted to marijuana.
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  Speaker 1: You may be addicted to how you feel. You feel better?
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  Speaker 1: Is it the same thing? If something else to make
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  Speaker 1: you feel how to marijuana feel, would you still smoke?
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  Speaker 1: Did not be addicted to that too as well? I
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  Speaker 1: like brownies. I don't like that smoke in my fucking lungs.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like edibles because see, when you smoke weed,
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  Speaker 1: you go up and then you come down. Edibles you
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  Speaker 1: go up and you stayed the funk up. For That's
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  Speaker 1: why I only do any drugs right before I'm like
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  Speaker 1: to go to sleep. What's the point You're doing it
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  Speaker 1: before you go to sleep. I do it to go
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. I don't want to be high during the
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  Speaker 1: day when I got it to do, I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to be productive. Some people you might you could produce.
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  Speaker 1: I can't. Hi, Yeah, I just can't. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to stay high. I know eventually I'm coming down if
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  Speaker 1: I smoke, and it'll be soon. But when eating that ship,
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  Speaker 1: I remember one of the guys who worked in my
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  Speaker 1: who works in my building, he gave me a liquid
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  Speaker 1: marijuana right like juice. It was a juice and it
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  Speaker 1: was elimonade. So he didn't explain to me that I
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  Speaker 1: should just take a shot of it. You know, he
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  Speaker 1: didn't express that to me. I guess he just assumed,
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  Speaker 1: with me being such a connoisseur that I knew, but
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know. So I drink it with my sandwich
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  Speaker 1: on my lunch break. Baby, I couldn't need to come
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  Speaker 1: back to work. I was sitting on the floor Indian style, crying,
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  Speaker 1: freestyling to instrumental beats on YouTube. Bitch, I was he
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  Speaker 1: bit you made your creative? Wait a minute, you could
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  Speaker 1: have been the next mative Stallion bit you on the juice.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't good. It's terrible shame. But some people smoke away,
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  Speaker 1: they saying they some more creative. I do. I do
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  Speaker 1: feel like I am more creative while I'm high, But
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  Speaker 1: I don't like to use hot tools and scissors around
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  Speaker 1: people while I'm on drugs, so it doesn't work in
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  Speaker 1: that realm, right shame. So we went from we went
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  Speaker 1: from don't do drugs to here's the drugs that I do.
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  Speaker 1: It's not just like goodness. That that's all I do.
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  Speaker 1: I don't funk when nothing else like no lean or
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  Speaker 1: no pills or no none of that just just weak.
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  Speaker 1: We can come from the earth. We're just good and
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  Speaker 1: I just don't like. How do you funk? How do
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  Speaker 1: these people trying to profit off of weed? At this point? Nobody?
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  Speaker 1: I guess that's the whole thing surrounding it. Went in
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  Speaker 1: to the other side. They change the rules, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Now they're making billions and we can't even find an
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  Speaker 1: entry point to the weed business. Um, you know who
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  Speaker 1: else I want to talk about? Britney spears, bitch. It's
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  Speaker 1: Britney bitch. What do you think about that? Conservatorship bullshit?
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  Speaker 1: You imagine? I don't understand what it is. Could you
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  Speaker 1: imagine somebody else having control over your life forever? You
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  Speaker 1: mean like my mama? Yeah, well it's her daddy. So
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  Speaker 1: conservatorship is a legal agreement that gives a third party
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  Speaker 1: control over someone else. Like, how does the court assign
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  Speaker 1: somebody else to your life? Right? Um? It says they
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  Speaker 1: can be imposed. They can they can be a posed
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  Speaker 1: only by a court, and only a court can terminate them.
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  Speaker 1: The person put in charge of the person's affairs is
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  Speaker 1: called the conservatoire or the guardian in some states. So
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  Speaker 1: remember that movie that was on Netflix a little while
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  Speaker 1: ago where that white lady and it was like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: it was called I Care or something like that or
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  Speaker 1: I Care. Yeah, she and she was in charge. She
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  Speaker 1: was I guess she was a conservative for people. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: she was. I've seen that ship and they killed that
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  Speaker 1: that dude shot her in the head at the end.
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  Speaker 1: That was a really good movie. Yeah it was. That
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  Speaker 1: was a really good movie. So maybe some that's what
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  Speaker 1: Brittany got going on about to say something ugly, but
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say that. Why she need to shoot
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  Speaker 1: her daddy? Ned she wanted fast and jail, though she
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  Speaker 1: does want him in jail, like she's saying, she's been
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  Speaker 1: abused and basically she's been a sex a sex slave
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  Speaker 1: from what she's saying to her daddy for thirteen years.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe not for her daddy, but maybe he was pamping
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  Speaker 1: her out. Who knows, like you have control over somebody
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  Speaker 1: else's life. This is why she wants to retire, This
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  Speaker 1: is why she no longer wants to be an entertainer,
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  Speaker 1: and she hasn't been entertaining because he's been profiting off
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  Speaker 1: of her life and likeness for the last thirteen years
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  Speaker 1: because he has control over her. I guess once she
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  Speaker 1: becomes are you bigger than life? At that point, she's
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  Speaker 1: still her, right, She's still Britney Spears, but her likeness
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  Speaker 1: is actually now bigger than her her actual physical you
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  Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. So he has control over her brand, everything,
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  Speaker 1: And it's just weird to me. How and what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Why the court won't let her be in charge of herself?
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  Speaker 1: Is she not mentally capable? That's head At that time
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  Speaker 1: it was going a little They could have been a
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  Speaker 1: cry for help. They could have been doing stuff to
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  Speaker 1: her even at that time. And then you shave your
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  Speaker 1: head off, and now you really appair crazy to the
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  Speaker 1: courts and your daddy can just step right in. And
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  Speaker 1: you lost your kids to the to the dancer. She
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: don't have her kids, so she lost her kids. Remember
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  Speaker 1: her backup dancer her name was Yeah, she lost her
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  Speaker 1: kids to him. That was the beginning of the ship. Um,
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  Speaker 1: she wants to have more kids, she said, but she's
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  Speaker 1: been forced by her dad to keep an I U. D.
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  Speaker 1: How do you know Danny forced you because he has
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  Speaker 1: she no longer controls her life. She hasn't, So how
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  Speaker 1: she went to the doctor had to put it in?
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  Speaker 1: So did she could have just said I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to go right, but you are no longer in control
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  Speaker 1: of you. That's why I don't understand what kind of
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  Speaker 1: what kind of system is that? So is that only damn?
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  Speaker 1: My motherfucker said they got control ottle me. I wish
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  Speaker 1: you would put it. I come to come, try, come,
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  Speaker 1: try and put it. Or she might have put it
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  Speaker 1: in herself and then they wouldn't let her take it out. Maybe,
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  Speaker 1: but last about ten years, I don't know, but I
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  Speaker 1: never had that possible. I had one of them ships
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  Speaker 1: put in my arm and I had them take it
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  Speaker 1: out in the three months I couldn't pop my pussy,
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  Speaker 1: the saying I was like, let me take this up.
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  Speaker 1: I still could popp it. I'm gonna stay where are
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  Speaker 1: your arm? Wait ages in the cut of the arm.
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  Speaker 1: So what I had was it's called implant on and
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  Speaker 1: it went in my arm, but my period stayed on
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  Speaker 1: for like three months straight, so I had to So
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  Speaker 1: then it was like, we're gonna give you an oral
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  Speaker 1: birth control to take with that, and I was like, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not If this don't work, take it out. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna take a pill, and had a ship in
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  Speaker 1: my arm. Hell no, man, take this ship out of
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  Speaker 1: my arm. And that white lady she left a hole
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  Speaker 1: in my arm trying to joke that ship out. That
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  Speaker 1: ship is not natural. Like you got forty fifty year
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  Speaker 1: old women who have never experienced an orgasm for real,
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  Speaker 1: and they've been on birth control, birth control all all
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  Speaker 1: through the teenage years and twenties, and ship like that
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  Speaker 1: that should have stopping something stopping how your body is
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: normally supposed to be, right, mm hmm, I don't know.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: We can add that to the list of the pork
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: and chicken and beef. No pork sandwich, No, no, no
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: hard drugs. It's not crazy because I enjoyed all those
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: things except for the I D hard drugs. Pork sandwich.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: And if you have and you eat a per sandwich
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: while you own some hard drugs, no you're not. No,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: no taking any hard drugs, all right. The closest thing
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I've ever taken is more than weed is I took
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: a perkoce at one day. It was my birthday. I
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: was living in Europe. My friend was like, Papa heard
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: with me. It'll be fun, bitch. I was like the
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: coma on the couch all night. I didn't even make
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: it to the club. Everybody went out on my birthday
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: and I was when I woke up, I was nauseous.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I was sick for two days. Perko said, I've never
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: take another one. Shame. It'll be fun, they said, I
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: did an adderall before, and that just makes you want
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: to get up and go, Like, I feel like I
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: need that adderall. I don't feel like adderall is a
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: recreational drug. Adderall is like ah, it makes you focus, yeah,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: and make you focus like I probably need adderall. I
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: would want to like, all right, I wake up, I'm
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: gonna clean my house. I'm gonna fly to Africa and
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: save the children. I'm gonna come back and perform the
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: healthcare system. I'm gonna That's how it was. You know,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: he'll be on a lot of adderall. Oh yeah, yeah,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: yeah's to be excelling in school. It's like the what
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: was that movie that came out Limitless. Yes, that's the
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: closest thing to limitless Peel that we have. I might
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: need to trying to see if I can get a prescription. Like,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I just can't focus. I just can't beat y'all gonna
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: be a millionaire by December because my brain be everywhere.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: My brain be everywhere to wear like, I don't start
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: ship because my brain is just like, Okay, you need addition,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: need that exactly, So I'll pick one thing. Yeah, So
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: before we get into the topic, because we've just been
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: rambling bitch uh no on the topic, let's do it.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Let's do a dumb bitch story right quick. You know,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: you know what we should do real quick. Let's pay
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: some bills, all right. So today's dumb bitch story comes
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: from one of our Instagram listeners who would like to
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: remain anonymous. She says, Hi, I would like to remain
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: a non but I need some dumb bitch advice. So
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I met the guy i'm with through one of my
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: other guy friends. So I thought it was a solid
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: hook up. But I think this nigga is homeless. I've
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: never really, i've never really had in house dick, and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: it's been nice. But he's been at my house now
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: for two weeks and I don't know how to get
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: him to leave. I like him and still want to
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: deal with him, but I was under the impression that
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: he had his shipped together. Really I actually know the
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I g of the girl he was with before, and
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I almost want to message her to see what's really
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: up with him. What should I do? Well? First of all,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: how old is this child? Because because how you can't
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: get him motherfucking to leave your house. Ain't no way
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: staying for my house for two weeks without me being
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: like now, first the first night if I wanted him
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: to say okay, but then the next morning, I'll be like,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: so what you're about to do? Right? Easy? Because you
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: got to get the funk up out of here. I
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: gotta go to work. I got ship to do now,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: So audios, and like, when did you'll meet? And when
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: did y'all start sucking around? And why the fund can
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: you talk to? You want to message another bit instead
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: of just talking to the niked as right there in
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: your house? You are really God, wait for two weeks,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: so this naked just been waking up Washington and going
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: and coming back, and you want to talk to another
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: bit about him? Did you go to work? Do you
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: got a job where you living? What's your last name,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I want to go to your house. Period. That's an
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: easy way. Oh it's see, that's the submissive, very meek
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and mild manner type women who are afraid to ask
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: the real questions because how you just have a nigga
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: just sitting up in there for two weeks and you're
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: like home. And I also think it's a science for women.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Isn't really a science for a woman to figure out
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: how to talk to the man and be able to
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: ask what they want or ask questions at all. It's
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: like a skill set that some women just don't have.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: They don't know how to speak up when it comes
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: come to men, especially when they're getting dick down, because
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: it sounds like if E've been there for two weeks,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: she happy to just have a nigger there for the
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: first couple of days. Now, all of a sudden, it
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: turned into like when you're going home, but you're scared
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: to ask him when he's going home, do you want
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: him to go home? He wanted to stay right This
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: alligns you without a topic too. He probably still laying
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: up in there right now while we're talking, eating up
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: all your turkey sandwiches and ship he got kid to home.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Is he drinking your kids juicy juice? Right? Little nick
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Nate mad as well? Oh what go Wrome? I hate
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: mama all my daddy? Right, call your baby daddy if
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: you got one, call your baby daddy talking about But look,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: black women and women, we need to stop putting men
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: in the positions. Now, you got yourself and some dumb ship.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Now you wanna call your brother and uncle or somebody
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: over there assist snoop dog off parole. And he's staying
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: in your house, kicking over your son a little fort
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: in the living room, stupid ship. You're gonna write me
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: in front of my daughter. No, you're gonna ripe me
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: in front up front of my son to get out.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: He ain't got a job. She sounds like she just
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: wants to know if he can possibly even get out.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Do you have someplace else to go? Right? Don't message
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: that other woman though, whatever you do, do not message
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: that other woman. Whatever you do, please don't. She has
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: her life, she her age is growing back, and he
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: probably at your house because he can't go to hers.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: No more, no more cobo sexual. So what is it
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: time to leave a relationship? How do you know it's
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: time when you spend more time frowning and smiling. It's
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: time to go, but that's that's not something you can
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: determine for anyone else. When it's time for they don't
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: leave because you can talk to you blew in the
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: face to another bit by like girl, you just need
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: to go, But they ain't going nowhere until they're good
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: and god damn ready. Mm hmmm, hold on, tam, Let's
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: say some bills. So we said earlier is before, and
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: you want to hit that nigger reset button, but before
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: if you feel like you want to put your hands
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: on somebody, should probably leave before then too. You know,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: if you really love somebody, you're gonna want to kill
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: them at some point in the relationship. Right, I feel
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: like that's normal. Okay, keep going. But if you start
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: planning on how you're gonna kill them and how you're
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: gonna get away with it, that's when it's starting to leap. Yes,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: So when you start planning, that's when it's ready to go. Yeah,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: when you start calling your home girls and Google and
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: how to kill it get away with it? Watching Viola
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Davis or how to get Away with Murder right down
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: notes and ship how to just all of a body,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: that's when it's time to go. Yeah. Um, So I
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: think respect is definitely earned, but so it's disrespect. So
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: if you find yourself being like extremely disrespectful to your partner,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: if you weren't already like that, um, you're losing respect
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: for them because it's just sting. Certain things like love
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: won't allow you to say and do to somebody you
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: really in love with. So if you just start doing
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: a bunch of stupid ship to the person you with,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: it's probably time to go. Yeah. When you start ah
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: telling other your work husband about how much you hate
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: your it's time to go. Sid. But you know, a
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: lot of us we stay long, long, long past time ago,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: you know, long past expiration date. Yea. I think sometimes
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: sometimes people just need a break. Also, it may not
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: even be a permanent breakup, but that that could be
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: the reset though, to take some time apart and come
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: back together. How about this when you call my phone, like,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I always have a regular face, so I always add
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: to and to laughing. Right, it's always gonna be a
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: fun time when we talk to each other. If every
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: time your significant other hitting you up, it's like what
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: the funk? Now, Like you automatically get anxiety. Maybe just
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: maybe you need a break or it just maybe time
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: to go. So, my my father was here this weekend
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: for my birthday and he was saying that young people cool,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: we don't know how to stick it out. We don't
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: know how to fight through the good times the bad times,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Like we just want instant gratification and as soon as
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: it started being fun, then it's time to leave for us.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: He's like, y'all don't even stay on job. He's like,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: back in my day, I thinkus we'll stay on the
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: job fifty yells, y'all leave after thirty days, right, We're
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: just staying for abuse. We're not Why do we have to?
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: We got other options. I think we have options. We
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: feel like we have more options now and that's why.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: But when it comes to our relationships, do we check
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: out too soon? Especially when you've decided to get married
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: to take the bidder with the sweet? Are we checking
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: out too soon? I have had three relationships in the
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: last twelve years, twell, thirteen years, right, and I feel
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: like I may have overstayed too long. And at least
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: two of those relationships, you know what I'm saying. The
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: experience obviously, like they say, it's not like it's not
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: really a loss. But you use a lot of time
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: being someplace you're not supposed to be, and you've got
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: a lot of signs that told you, hey, what the
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: fund is up? So five years is that a little
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: bit of time? Oh no, that's not a little bit
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: of time. It just I guess it just depends on
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: the relationship. Mhm. I can he learned anything from it?
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I learned. I learned a lot of stuff from from
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: the relationships I've been in. I learned my likes, I
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: learned my dislikes. You yeah, boundaries, you know, with boundaries
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I want to establish in the next relationship. Um My
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: daddy told me I wasn't gonna never get nobody because
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: of my mouth. That's what he told me all the
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: day here. He said, You're never gonna get a man
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: because of your mouth. I know, I mean, I know
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: we always say men just want somebody who shut the
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: funk up. But I really believe like a strong man,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: they don't want that. They don't want a real man.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: Doesn't want a yes man or yes ma'am, somebody who
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: just never checks them when they're sucking up. Nobody really
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: wants that. That is that that's not genuine right. So
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: if y'all I feel like you're a weak man, if
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: you want a woman who doesn't have an opinion and
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: who can't check you when you're sucking up, like I'm
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: just supposed to just let you do. That's why I
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: blame white women for a lot of the things that's
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: happening and happening in the world, because they sit back
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: and they let their men do what the funk they
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: want to do, and they, you know, reap the benefits
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: on the back end um that because they want to
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: do it too. But we black bitches because we check people,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: you know. So they get to be like nice, little
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: timid because they don't see much, but they definitely do,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: they just may not do it publicly. So maybe we
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: need to learn learn that I only punch my nick
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: in the face one time in public. It was because
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: what I never hit it? They getting public, bitch, I
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: ain't trying to go to jail. I showed chin check
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: that nigga in public. He called me a hole in
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: front of everybody. Uh, I wasn't doing nothing. I was
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: we was at a club. Was all at the club
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: and we was in like the smoke section. My whole
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: girl smoked Newports. So he was in a smoke section,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: and I mean outside, you know, like outside on the pario,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: and it was these guys just came over and was
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: just chatting us up or whatever. And I was there
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: with my nigga. It wasn't like I was like trying
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: to pick up nobody. We were This is in Europe,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: so we're in London. They were like, oh, y'all Americans. Yeah,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: and you know how we talk, and we were just
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: chatting and he just saw some niggas standing there talking
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: to us instead of just coming over and talking to
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: He's like you out here being the hole, right, that's
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: a reflex. Actually, yeah, did he start acting? How did
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: he act after you hit him? He reset the fun
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: up talking about because I wasn't even doing the whole
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: ship like I'm gonna I have to talk to other
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: humans in this world, like you know, mm hmm damn. Yeah.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: That's the only time I ever hit. Yeah, I think
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: that's the only time. But now I see them if
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: he would have punched me back and then driving and
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: everybody would have been like, oh he wrong for then,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: so okay. So I never just straight up hit somebody
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: in front of people. But I definitely that smack niggas
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: in some cars before while I was driving, No like
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: park driving, yes, no, just both times were parked two
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: different people. Now, But this one in particular smacked one
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: of my ex boyfriends because the bitch was like stalking
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: me on Facebook about him, right, And I pulled up
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: to his job to talk to him about it while
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: he was on break, and the nigga said something when
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: he got like dog, I just smacked the funk out
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: of his ask girl, we got it back into the
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: day of job. Um, must be somebody saw me snack him. Obviously,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: somebody saw me hit the nigga in the car. And
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: the person told like the superfud was like, hey man,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: somebody out there snacking one of your employees. I snacked
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: the ship out that nigger in the car. Man, that's
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: not funny, y'all listen, we are knocking laughing, just funny.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, this wasn't I don't know is this considered
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: domestic violence because I didn't physically hit him, alright, I
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: had all right, this is living in Europe. This, I mean,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: all my boyfriend stories are from there, because that's the
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: last time I had a nigga. But I in the
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: hair salon all day. Right, I went in the hair
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: salon like eight that morning, and then I left there
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: at like seven and night went home shower eight and
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: then I bartended too. So I bartended till four in
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: the morning, right three thirty three thirty, I got off
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: and he was like, I can't drive home. I'm at
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: SO and so house. Come scoot me right. So I
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: was like, all right, but I'm tired. I've been working
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: all day. So I'm gonna let you know. When I
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: get close, I want you to come outside. So I
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: called him. Once I got close and he was like,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: all right, I'm coming. Two minutes later, I'm ready to
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: go home. What are you doing? I'm coming. I'm coming
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: another like almost two minutes. He got me sitting outside
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: for twenty minutes. So he finally came outside and he
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: had his cup in his hand and he was like
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: laughing with niggles out of there. I think it has
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: like everything all good. Right, So I'm sitting in a
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: carl like now I'm gonna fun this nick up. He did.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: So he gets in the car and I was like,
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: why would you do that? That's so rude, Like I
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: told you, I'm tired. I've been working all day. Why
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: would you have me sitting out here waiting that long?
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: He's like, man till the funk out. I had to
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: finish playing spade, and he had his little drink in
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: his hand and he was taking it up to his lip.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Wo I do it. I smacked back up out his
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: motherfucking hand, and liquor herenesse and lemonade start flying, and
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: his laugh or whatever he caught the cup or whatever.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: He's like mmmmmm. And then I was talking ship, like, see, motherfucker,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: you see how you make me act. I don't want
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: to do that ship to you, but you at disrespect
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: to me, had me out here all this motherfucking time.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: So then we pull up to the house because it's
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: not that far. He literally could have walked, you know,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: I could have should have left his ass. So we
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: get to the house and we get out of the car.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I'm still talking ship, and he hopped out the car
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: and he took what was left in the cup and
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: threw it in my face. It's time to leave. And
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, Nigga, when I can see again, that's
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: so toxic. Girl. Then nigga ran in the house and
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: lock themselfs in the bedroom because he knew I was
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: about to go on go to his ass. And then
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: he climbed out the bedroom window and went walking back
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: and had his homeboy pick up up from the street
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: because he already knew I was about to take it
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: to his ass. So before it even gets there, what
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: are some things that happened before it even gets physical
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: that are indicators that you need to get the fuck
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: up out of there, because I'm pretty sure there's a
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: lot of non physical things that happened before you start
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: putting your hands on each other and doing. Nigga, who
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: called you a hole for standing outside talking to people?
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Verbal abuse? He used to Yeah, anytime somebody's just disrespectful
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: at the mouth. I know y'all New Yorkers, that's how
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: y'all like to talk to each other. But it's not healthy.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I don't new people from New York were talking. They
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: scared me when they talk like you got grown women
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: telling grown men and suck they That is disrespectful. Probing
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: my pearls now. I did tell one man in life
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: to suck my dick. So I found out my ex
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: boyfriend had a whole baby out here that I just
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: found out about last year. Now he's away in college.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Dad's in college. You don't even know, but I couldn't.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: I really felt the way about it, like even though
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be with him, and you know,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: so I sent a message to his home, but I
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: was like, listen, you talk to your friend, you tell
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: our nigga suck my dick respectfully. You can't respectfully, I know.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: And he's like, disrespectful head, don't. They're like, sit on it. Yeah,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's that's that's not nice. And I was
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: trying to be blatantly as disrespectful as possible, especially because
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: he in prison. So how disrespectful is that to tell
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: man in prison that I knew exactly what I was doing.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: I don't talk to him, and I wanted to offend
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: him as much as possible. I don't, I like you
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: a fuck nigga. You I don't talk like that or
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: suthing my dick. That don't even sound right coming. It's terrible,
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: it's actually terrible. That's the first and last time, well
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I don't say last, that's a that's the first time
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: I ever used the term. But I what I say
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: is like I say ship, And this is what I'm
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: working on, trying to be a better person because I
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: won't cuss at you, but I don't say some ship
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: like that ain't even your baby anyway, you know, something
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: like that bit you me, I forgot every with the truth,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: you know what? That might be fighting words. That's words though, Yeah,
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: that's words. Yeah, I'd rather you say something I did
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: to tell me that my baby mama lied to me
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: about my kids. You straight just tapped that nigga in
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: with that. Yeah, that'sn't tapping. Yeah, you know, because the
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: podcast is to me, it's get toward you know, women,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: our age, younger women so they can just live like
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: curiously through all dumb ship. She's just like knowing when
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: when no one when to leave a situation that is
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: not is not serving you. You know. Um, I feel
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: like these young girls are you know, are growing the
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: value value and adding tax you know, in a way
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: that we did not growing up because we had, like
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Trina's telling you, like five or six best friends. But
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: she says she was getting paid for these houses. Now
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: at least they getting baid. China definitely was saying if
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: she knew what she knew now she'd be sucking by
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: the time she was tending because she was getting money
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: from niggas. Remember the time she was if I could,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: if I, if I could do it all again, I'll
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: be fucking by the time I'm ten. You remember that?
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: And who's bad is? Trina was definitely about getting that
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: check out about these niggas, like I feel like and
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: when listening to Trina when I was in high school,
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: like Trina really made me feel like, these niggas better
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: come with something if they want to sun on me,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Like if you have a car, I didn't grow up
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: listening to Trina. It's so crazy because I'll be in
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: a car with all my friends and treating song and
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: everybody rapping all the lyrics, and I'd be like, where
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: was I I missed it? I don't know. The only
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: song I know really was like pull over that as
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: too Fat? What was you listening to? I was listening
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: to jay Z, I was listening to Nash, was listening
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: to Tupac, I was listening to Big Gi, I was
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: listening to the NA But yeah, I feel like a lot.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: We have a way more female rappers out now than before,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: and all of them on the same you know, get
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: that it had to check that you want to see.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: That's not all the female rappers. That's just the ones
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: that they allowed to be mainstream. There's a lot of
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: other rappers out here. You're like, what about Rampsody, She's dope.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: You know, I've listened to her music and I couldn't
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: get it. And she's from the Carolina's I couldn't get
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: into it. Oh yeah, I like her, but I don't
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: some people I don't like their voice, like the delivery.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: The lyrics and what they're saying be sounding good, but
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: I don't like the delivery of it. Like that the
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: young girl Alma Redda from Atlanta, Like I like what
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: she'd be saying, but the delivery is annoying to me,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Like how her voice sounds the super duper Atlanta dialect
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: along with it. It just sounds so forced. I don't know,
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: I don't like it, Like it's you don't have from Charleston.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: So people be extra guchi, right, So it's like listening
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: to a song with a nigga rapping extra guchi. It's
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: almost annoying, like what are you saying? They don't even understand.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: But then maybe you're not gonna I'm not. So I listened,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: but I listened to what people say in lyrics, so
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I listened to the actual words what they're saying. And um,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: but if I don't like how it sounds, I don't
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: like the artist. I feel like it's more females are
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: here wrapping. Yeah, but they all want some get money.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Shpket better treat me like this. That a third, But
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: we also know that girls outside gird pussy and then
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: give me money. I used someone neck risks and my
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: hair stay done. I'm driving a fly as whip. The
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: fucking bitches, y'all haters, and this body is on sleek,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: designer body is go to them. You ain't go to
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: my surgeon. You can't afford him. That's it in teeth nowadays?
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: What's all with that? What is going on? So everybody
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: gonna bitch. Let me tell you a hundred two hundred
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: years from now when they're finding all of our not
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: a hundred, we'll say, wait further than that. What about
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: five six years from now, a thousand years from now,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: and they finding our fossils? Not even that far? Fake ass.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: The titties like they go like our bones gonna look
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: so fucked up. They're like, what is this? Like they
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: had everybody had all the women had little plastic bags
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: that laid upon their breastplate. We don't know what the
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: bags were for. Maybe this was something that they put
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: in the casket to help them transition to the next side.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: These these water bags right on the chest. We think
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: it held them down and tried to hold their soul down.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: And they all have these bags, uh not that nice
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: looking bags with them, like these big square bags, said
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: burking on them in the casket and the casket with them.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: We think these were offerings to God's women. They had
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: like some residue around the crowns up their heads, that
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: just residue because you bear me and my wig, don't
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: I gonna take my wig off? Apparently a lot of
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: them had hair dressed wigs, things glued to their scalps
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: and corn rolls underneath right there, real hair was corn
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: rolled like meek Mille mill fuzzy corn rolls. Yo. When
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: we get old, bitch, we're gonna be a lot of
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: bad back tattooed so weird eyelashes and wigs. We're just
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: gonna be granny bitches. In the church was sexy tatted
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: on our neck like they just got face tattoos. Do
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be We're gonna look crazy, but listen, imagine
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: what the kid's gonna be looking like. Though we're gonna
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: look we're gonna look conservative. But you know, if you
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: look at our ancestors, like you know how black people. Girl,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: we're all off topic, but we're about to wrap it
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: up in a second. But you know how our ancestors
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: when you see pictures of them, they had gold teeth,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: They had diamonds in their teeth. They wore a lot
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: of gold. Like we always been a flashy people, like
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: like gold dust. Gold is like the masculine, supposedly right,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: and silva is the feminine. So back in the Egyptian time,
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: like the men wore silver, women wore gold and they
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: couldn't men can't even wear gold like on the actual
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: skin because it's a chemical that that the gold actually releases.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: But um, we always been like this. We always moved
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: to the music. We just got all his soul and spirit.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Like it's just so tattered up like face tattoos and
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: all that ship people been doing. That tribe has always
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: been and they call it the face in your body now, right,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: But it's really not. It's really culture when you think
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: about it, Like people, what about that culture where they
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: take the women put these rings around their necks and
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: on the beauty over there, Like how I bet they
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: can suck. You're so fucking stupid, this loan nigger. The
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: fun you're gonna do with this nick? So stupid, go
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: with this nick. So just to close out what our
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: topic was about, UM, you know when it when is
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: it time to really leave? I think we all know
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: when it's time to leave. But again, like we said,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: people over extend mm hmm. The relationships that the expirasion date. Um,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: you know when to leave. And I think it's like
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you said, it's subjective to um the relationship, but especially
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: when it starts being physical, when it starts being a
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: lot of verbal um abuse, Um, you no longer respect
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: that person, it's time to go. Yeah, when it's easy
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: for you to disrespect them, it's time to go. I mean,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to say if you're just a
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: disrespectful person, because if it's a woman who was just
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: disrespectful to manas you leaver, so he's not he's not
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: ending the relationship because he may be used to that
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: type of disrespect. He might he might have been raised
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: raised by a bitch who knows right, because like like it.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: When you talk to him crazy thing, it's like a
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: get old foul mouth, fuck you, nigga. You're gonna eat
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: this chicken, motherfucking sandwich the way I made it, motherfucker,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna be happy. Bitch. Damn my little girl
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: right here, your mommy and my mama. Yo, that's abuse.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: These things don't know abuse when they see it. Man,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: a lot of us are will stick abuse for love
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: because that's how we grew up. Shane. My mom may
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: never talk to me fucking crazy. Nobody never talked to
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: me crazy. So when somebody talk to me crazy, I'd
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: be like, who then are you talking to? I know
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: the fuck got me fucked up. No, I didn't grow
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: up in the house with my mom talk crazy. She
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: did talk crazy, but not to us around us. Um okay,
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: So let's um go into Okay, let's go into our
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: random sex facts. So this random sex fact is brought
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: to you by meet mindful dot com. So here's an
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: interesting thing about contraceptives. Women who take hormonal contraceptives tend
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: to be more attracted to men with lower testosterone levels
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: and less super masculine physical characteristics, according to research, But
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: women tend to desire overtly masculine men during their most
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: fertile times in their cycle, and more likely to stray
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: during this time as well. That time period is also
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: the easiest time for women to reach orgasm. Let's break
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: this down right quick. So they're saying women who are
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: on birth control are attracted to men who are less masculine.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: It's because the birth control thriving certain hormones that make
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: you less feminine. So you're a tracted to the feminine
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: because you're becoming the masculine. Could that explain like the
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: ship we'll be talking about on Clubhouse right quick, like
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: the masculine women, women being more masculine, being in a
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: more masculine energy as opposed to being in their feminine energy.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: Could birth control be the reason for that? Perhaps interesting
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: m m mmmm. And then it also says that women
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: are more likely to stray. It says, but women tend
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: to desire overtly masculine men during their most fertile times.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: So say, for instance, this is how that reads to me.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: If you're a woman, and you're on birth control and
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: you're with a man who's more of a uh less
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: masculine man right during your times of fertility, you may
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: be more attracted at just running that time to a
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: more masculine Yeah, a masculine man. What's the fuck? Right now?
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: You're fucking a metro sexual kind of dude, a beta male.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: When you about to have your cycle, now you want
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: to d MX, So you you fucking Cavin Samuels or
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: your period right before your period, you wouldn't max, got it?
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: So look all right, but we really need to look
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: into that man, because that could really be that's you know,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: because a lot of women are on birth control. We
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: already know planned parenthood is mainly in black communities while
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: white people got fertility clinics. Mm hmm. In planned parenthood
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: is not just for abortions. Planned parenthood is for a
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: planned parenthood, like so they give contraceptives or if you're
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: having a baby, they counsel you on that too. But
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: birth control is a big part of planned parenthood. So
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: if you're so, if a lot of black women are
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: on birth control from the time they started started puberty
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: for the most part, because your mom would be wanting
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: to put you on that ship as soon as she
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: think you about to be fucking. My mama didn't, but
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of my friends mom did. My
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: mom saw it as a weight, like, bitch, if I
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: put you on birth control, I mean, you're gonna be
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: working without a condom. And that's not really what I'm
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: concerned about. It's std is more so than the pregnancy. Um.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: But that's a that's the real thing. That's that's kind
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: of that's weird to me that they actually did a
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: study on that that a woman that's on birth control
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: is more attracted to a feminine man. Oh no, exactly.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: That's real interesting. So could that explain also more women
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: on your pussy right now and the analysts who you're
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: fucking and why are you suing? It might be the
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: implant on in your arm, even if it's a lesbian,
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: even if you're in a lesbian relationship. Could it be
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: the birth control that puts push push you towards that
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: because you're not looking for my skilling at that point,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: or you could you could be the masculine, you're looking
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: for the feminine because of birth control. Yeah, that's crazy.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: Girls fucking with your chromosomes, that fucking with your DNA
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: that you know, I never bitch. That's an interesting ship.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah it is. So we're gonna wrap it up for
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: the day. We ramble on and on and on, but
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: here we are and we made it through. And we
• 54:32
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• 54:48
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• 54:51
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• 54:53
  Speaker 1: don't get scared like we do have one I would
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: like to explore on our next episode, so we'll go
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: in to that. Then we'll plan around a kind of disorder.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: But anyway, thank you guys for listening. Bye h