Latest / The Breakfast Club / A little bit of old mixed with new ( Lil Scrappy and Dr. Jess interview)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Fifty percent right every year fifty to sit down. Didn't
- 0:08Speaker 1: come to the most prominent form, wait your ass up
- 0:10Speaker 1: early in the morning, But they tell me it was y'all.
- 0:12Speaker 1: I said, hell yeah, I'm getting the small dangerous morning shot.
- 0:16Speaker 1: Few people's choice. Actually, sweet, I got you people. I
- 0:22Speaker 1: can't believe you guys are the basket? Did we know
- 0:24Speaker 1: that breakfast club? This is your time to get it
- 0:30Speaker 1: off your chests, whether you're mad or blast so we
- 0:32Speaker 1: better have the same. We want to hear from you
- 0:34Speaker 1: on the breakfast club. Hello, who's this? It's Erico. Ain't
- 0:39Speaker 1: good morning? My chance Mama. Yeah, I listened to y'all
- 0:44Speaker 1: every morning, and I'll be damn I'll be dripping out
- 0:47Speaker 1: on you in Shawl of Maine. I mean I'll be
- 0:49Speaker 1: laughing like crazy every morning at y'all. Well, thank you.
- 0:53Speaker 1: I don't know that's a good thing about it at us.
- 0:56Speaker 1: I don't know much, man. I listen to ull every
- 1:01Speaker 1: single morning, like every morning, everywhere. Very much. You appreciate
- 1:05Speaker 1: your support. Look, thank you so much. I have a
- 1:07Speaker 1: great and blessed day. Who are you from? I want
- 1:11Speaker 1: to say, y'all, we love you back. I love your
- 1:15Speaker 1: twain to that subric client. Hello, who's this Yo? It's Patrick.
- 1:19Speaker 1: Here's how are you doing today? Patrick pass? What what
- 1:21Speaker 1: are you calling from? Brother? No? No, not Patrick Zatrick.
- 1:25Speaker 1: It's like Patrick. But what is the exatric Your parents
- 1:28Speaker 1: thought they was Fanci? Yeah, definitely. What do you call
- 1:31Speaker 1: it from? My parents from Africa, from Sierra Leone. They
- 1:34Speaker 1: combined their names together and gave me zatric that it
- 1:38Speaker 1: is my birthday, by the way, So you know that's
- 1:40Speaker 1: really why I called up here. Hey, it is a
- 1:44Speaker 1: real brother house. It's a real teen holiday. I say
- 1:48Speaker 1: to Sierra Leone. You know, all my African ancestry goes
- 1:50Speaker 1: back to Sierra Leone, Guinea Bissau, and um, what's the
- 1:55Speaker 1: other country over there? I don't remember, but Sierra Leone,
- 1:58Speaker 1: Guinea Bissau. Definitely, Yo, that's what's up. I read it
- 2:01Speaker 1: in your book and I was actually gonna act because
- 2:03Speaker 1: you sing me another coffee so I could get to
- 2:05Speaker 1: my brother if possible. Which one I got you? I
- 2:08Speaker 1: got a bunch of mother also gonna say, can I
- 2:11Speaker 1: put my cash shop out there? You know? Just a
- 2:14Speaker 1: cake body in America? When the Blesser brothers with some
- 2:17Speaker 1: little change change for the birthday. That would be cool.
- 2:20Speaker 1: It is be one you eat once again, be one
- 2:26Speaker 1: you eat, and please just do something positive. I just brother,
- 2:29Speaker 1: don't have a story. He just wants some He wants
- 2:31Speaker 1: some change for birthday. That's all he wanted. And stay
- 2:33Speaker 1: on hold many get and give our producer day in
- 2:35Speaker 1: your address. I'm hospending you a copy of my um
- 2:38Speaker 1: my second book, Shocorn. I put him a hole. Hello,
- 2:40Speaker 1: who's this? Hello? Hey, what's your name? Hey? Kay? Look
- 2:45Speaker 1: them want to get it off your chests? Mama. Well,
- 2:47Speaker 1: I really didn't have much to say. I just want
- 2:50Speaker 1: to just congratulate y'all. Y'all doing good, and I thought
- 2:52Speaker 1: it was so sweet. How y'all games white money, because
- 2:55Speaker 1: it's really some broth. Stop calling people that end word.
- 3:05Speaker 1: Some unfortunate people when it comes to their pockets in America.
- 3:09Speaker 1: There you go. That's right, every sing. It's a financial
- 3:12Speaker 1: struggle out here for some for it. You got it?
- 3:14Speaker 1: You want you want to let you want to get
- 3:15Speaker 1: some money to some people. Hey, No, I just led
- 3:18Speaker 1: somebody ten dollars yesterday. No, I'm with you. Budget that's right,
- 3:23Speaker 1: budget that money, thank you, mama. It's just something about
- 3:26Speaker 1: that that's something about them two words together. Just do
- 3:28Speaker 1: something to me. Broke nick broke go dang Lord that
- 3:33Speaker 1: it felt like back in the day when you heard
- 3:34Speaker 1: scrubs for the first time that I get on my mama. Huh, Hello,
- 3:39Speaker 1: who's this hey? Institution from Texas? How y'all doing from Texas?
- 3:44Speaker 1: We're part of Texas, Dallas, Texas. So I have to
- 3:48Speaker 1: listen on the app. And I don't mind that at
- 3:50Speaker 1: all with the bum ass cowboys are from. I love Dallas.
- 3:53Speaker 1: You know I love my cowboys. Don't listen to envy. Okay,
- 3:57Speaker 1: So now Alas and congratulations in years. Thank you now
- 4:01Speaker 1: think you are an executive of my heart. I've got
- 4:05Speaker 1: to hear you said it, Lord have mercy. It's something
- 4:08Speaker 1: about the way you say that, darling that drives me
- 4:11Speaker 1: and saying I love it, and I laugh every time.
- 4:14Speaker 1: Boy Lord have mercy. I can't believe you'd like to
- 4:17Speaker 1: hear me say, Lord flirting with that man that man
- 4:19Speaker 1: married Mamma. No, no, no, oh no, I'm not flirting
- 4:22Speaker 1: with him. And I love it. When you say I'm
- 4:24Speaker 1: calling hr, I'm calling hry guys, drives me in faith.
- 4:31Speaker 1: I needed to hear I'm calling hyar at Lord him mercy,
- 4:35Speaker 1: But Charlomagne had more time for me, Lord him, Lord
- 4:38Speaker 1: have mercy. Why are you stressing me out? Early this morning?
- 4:41Speaker 1: Got me repeating that over and over. Yeah for good
- 4:43Speaker 1: morning about love you too, Get it off your chest
- 4:47Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If
- 4:50Speaker 1: you need to vent hit us up now it's the
- 4:51Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, I'm what's doing? If this is
- 4:58Speaker 1: your time to get it off your asked? Whether you're made?
- 5:04Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello?
- 5:07Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This is Nick? Nick? What up? Man?
- 5:10Speaker 1: Getting your chest? Nick on? You like rain there in
- 5:14Speaker 1: here up on the shelf, solo man the guard? What's up? Man? Okay,
- 5:20Speaker 1: a part aking? What's happening? Aging very much? Man, I'm
- 5:25Speaker 1: standing up here in Columbia. Uh uh, I'm sorry, I'm
- 5:28Speaker 1: standing up here and let's take the tucky right now. Okay, Yeah,
- 5:32Speaker 1: I was. I was trying to get some advice man,
- 5:34Speaker 1: because like I'm I've been standing up here since I
- 5:38Speaker 1: came home from prison. I was locked up for selling drugs,
- 5:41Speaker 1: but I wanted to change my life around. But I
- 5:45Speaker 1: say I came up here. Uh. The person that I
- 5:48Speaker 1: came up here with family, but me and the person
- 5:50Speaker 1: I'm talking no more. So it's like I wanted to
- 5:53Speaker 1: go back home, but Aton Top, Caroline ain't the place
- 5:56Speaker 1: to be, like basically trying to get a job like anyway.
- 6:01Speaker 1: But it's also hard for me up here because I
- 6:03Speaker 1: ain't got no financial support or nobody to help me
- 6:07Speaker 1: out of, no kind of for it. Well, it sounds
- 6:09Speaker 1: to me like you know, you already know you needed
- 6:11Speaker 1: a change of environment. So if you know, if you
- 6:13Speaker 1: know you don't need to be an aching, you can
- 6:15Speaker 1: scratch that off the list. That's not that's not a
- 6:17Speaker 1: that's that's not a thing, right, Yeah, So you just
- 6:19Speaker 1: gotta stay where you had and figure it out, make
- 6:21Speaker 1: it work. What is it? What is it that you
- 6:22Speaker 1: want to do. I like I've been I've been working
- 6:26Speaker 1: since i've been up to him. I'm working for the
- 6:29Speaker 1: SIMP service right now, but I could get him. I'm
- 6:32Speaker 1: gonna be hard doing soon. But uh it's it's hard
- 6:37Speaker 1: because like I had road y'all back a little while
- 6:40Speaker 1: ago because all right, my winter shield and got broke.
- 6:43Speaker 1: Uh it's like other things that I've been having to
- 6:46Speaker 1: deal with doing during this pandemic that's going on. But
- 6:50Speaker 1: it's like I said, this hard not having nobody there
- 6:54Speaker 1: and your corner for you. Well, listen, you're gonna be fine,
- 6:56Speaker 1: my brother. It just takes patience, all right, Yes, sir,
- 7:01Speaker 1: keep pushing. All right, Thank y'all, y'all have a good day,
- 7:04Speaker 1: you too. Hello? Who's this? What's up? Y'all? This is
- 7:07Speaker 1: James Indianapolis? What up? James? Get it up your chests? Brothers.
- 7:10Speaker 1: First of all, I want to congratulate y'all for ten
- 7:13Speaker 1: years man, a good content man, righteous and retch. Thank you, brothers.
- 7:17Speaker 1: And I want to share my favorite Breasfast Club moment.
- 7:20Speaker 1: What's that? Other than the birdman situation? The Beanie single
- 7:25Speaker 1: situation was funny too, man. Why y'all like to see
- 7:28Speaker 1: people trying to traumatize me? I thought that was pretty
- 7:32Speaker 1: hilarious myself. It was cool, man, It was cool. Charlomagne
- 7:36Speaker 1: and Bucklo hain't buckle. He didn't buckle, buckle. He showed,
- 7:40Speaker 1: didn't you right? He didn't He stood his ground? What
- 7:44Speaker 1: is buckling? Hello? Who's this? Good morning? It's just chili chill.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Good morning, Envy, Charlomagne and Jackie, Good morning to y'all. Man, Hey, Yang, listen, man,
- 7:57Speaker 1: I just it's a beautiful day for me. I ain't
- 8:00Speaker 1: called you on the wall because I knew the next
- 8:02Speaker 1: time I caught I wanted to have something to really
- 8:04Speaker 1: call about. My clothes on my house Friday grass bro
- 8:08Speaker 1: that Yeah. Man, It's been a hard, hard year already
- 8:11Speaker 1: with the coronavirus, and I've just been diligent, doing my due, diligent, uh,
- 8:15Speaker 1: the discipline myself, buckling down for my fiance and my son. Man.
- 8:20Speaker 1: Shout out to Erica Sibiley, I love you, baby. Shout
- 8:22Speaker 1: out to my son Royal nineteen months batting eighty nine
- 8:26Speaker 1: percent on the party. Yeah, I'm that's real, damn man
- 8:32Speaker 1: like Like I'm a young black man just trying to
- 8:34Speaker 1: make it in this crazy world. Man, and it's been hard.
- 8:37Speaker 1: But I don't let I don't let the struggles try
- 8:40Speaker 1: to defeat me, man, because the struggle is to survive.
- 8:43Speaker 1: But the survive is the past some meaning and the struggling.
- 8:46Speaker 1: And I lived by that. Um. Another thing, my my
- 8:49Speaker 1: little sister m Angela Wood Angela Annams now because she's married.
- 8:54Speaker 1: She moved out to Cali about eight eight nine years
- 8:57Speaker 1: ago and she's been thriving out there too. She lives
- 9:00Speaker 1: in Sacramento now and I just wanted to shout out
- 9:03Speaker 1: her her organization. Uh it's a Christian Christian Modeling association. Uh.
- 9:10Speaker 1: You can follow her uh at at six st I
- 9:15Speaker 1: k K S Modeling. She runs a modeling business to
- 9:19Speaker 1: help Christians enter the modeling industry without compromising her Christianity.
- 9:24Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And uh, Charlomagne, I know
- 9:27Speaker 1: you into self help books and stuff like that. So
- 9:30Speaker 1: she has a publish She has a published book called
- 9:33Speaker 1: This Can Help Someone. It's endorsed by Shaquille O'Neill. It
- 9:36Speaker 1: got the BMW Pay It Forward Award. Uh. That that's
- 9:40Speaker 1: thriving also, if if, if people can go check that out.
- 9:43Speaker 1: But man, it's a beautiful day for me in my world. Man,
- 9:46Speaker 1: and I just want to, uh just just put that
- 9:49Speaker 1: positivity out there. Man, we will do king all right,
- 9:53Speaker 1: great day, man, have a good man, guy, get it
- 9:56Speaker 1: off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one on
- 9:58Speaker 1: five one if you need to venty up now. It
- 10:00Speaker 1: was The Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. You're
- 10:07Speaker 1: checking out the world's most dangerous morning show. Yeah, it's
- 10:10Speaker 1: the world most Dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club, Charlomagne
- 10:13Speaker 1: and God Angelae. We got a special guest. He only
- 10:15Speaker 1: come up here when he got something to promote, even
- 10:18Speaker 1: though he could come up here anytime you want to.
- 10:20Speaker 1: But I used my friends he had the right time.
- 10:23Speaker 1: His name is little Duvall. What's out? I see you
- 10:25Speaker 1: cutting off your graves nowadays. No, I ain't got a
- 10:29Speaker 1: little lay face. I had let it a little bit
- 10:32Speaker 1: to be a great daddy for a little bit, but
- 10:34Speaker 1: now I'm I'm a zaddy now, little Zadi, I'm a
- 10:37Speaker 1: Zandie now because though I made to get another head
- 10:40Speaker 1: be cut, because now the white is growing back. You
- 10:41Speaker 1: see the white? What's wrong with that? You used to
- 10:43Speaker 1: get people a half of shaving their faith off. I
- 10:45Speaker 1: don't care. I still got the great right here now.
- 10:47Speaker 1: I don't get it twisted. I still got the nothing
- 10:49Speaker 1: might hear? And they should be here because not here
- 10:54Speaker 1: it great all the way. I think both of them
- 10:56Speaker 1: avoided you to day. To be honest, I think if
- 11:00Speaker 1: I wanted to see, because I could see in person,
- 11:03Speaker 1: like on camera all that look real, but in person
- 11:06Speaker 1: I wanted to see, like if you got painting your
- 11:07Speaker 1: facebo no, Vy, don't look real on camera, don't he
- 11:10Speaker 1: got the worst paint job in New York City? The
- 11:12Speaker 1: girls hair. I don't know, you know, I want to
- 11:15Speaker 1: been Envy. Five thousand dollars, Envy. If you listen to this,
- 11:18Speaker 1: I got five thousand dollars for you. If you let
- 11:21Speaker 1: your hair grow out to a decembol, you got a
- 11:23Speaker 1: better paint job, Envy. CALLI or Kevin Hart Kali ain't
- 11:28Speaker 1: no joke boy, super black black, he used like me
- 11:34Speaker 1: grows spiritual black. Well, let's talk about your special. This
- 11:40Speaker 1: is your first special, right, yeah, this is my first special.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Man like he's cheating to he ain't telling no jokes. Yeah,
- 11:46Speaker 1: I told. I told half jokes, half music. And I
- 11:48Speaker 1: put a lot of people on. That's just what my
- 11:49Speaker 1: comedy is. That's like, that's why I see what what
- 11:52Speaker 1: comedy is evolving into. It's like like a Vega show,
- 11:55Speaker 1: Like that's what I do my show. My show is comedy, music,
- 11:58Speaker 1: entertainment and fun. And you have who on that pretty
- 12:01Speaker 1: v on that on that you know, Jay Ski on that,
- 12:04Speaker 1: Jay Ski on that thing, Brecia Webb, she showed love
- 12:08Speaker 1: Navy Green, no host and he on that. So I
- 12:11Speaker 1: gotta not only I did my thing. I put a
- 12:13Speaker 1: lot of people on there to the show love. And
- 12:15Speaker 1: even though comedians have always been doing records, you got
- 12:18Speaker 1: every comedian trying to make a song. Now, even the
- 12:21Speaker 1: white people out noticed with making music. But I mean,
- 12:26Speaker 1: it is what it is. If it's making you, if
- 12:28Speaker 1: it's making you feel good and you're having a good
- 12:31Speaker 1: time withold it, do it. You know that's what I
- 12:32Speaker 1: did it. I didn't do it to blow up. I
- 12:34Speaker 1: did it because I loved it. Doing it just so
- 12:36Speaker 1: happened that song. Still, but you always been making music, Yeah,
- 12:39Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I've been doing it. That's how
- 12:41Speaker 1: I got in the comedy game. I was a musical
- 12:42Speaker 1: comedian when I first thought, they told me that wasn't comedy.
- 12:45Speaker 1: Now look everybody do it. Yeah, there's somebody in the
- 12:48Speaker 1: room that I won't argue with you, man, because you
- 12:50Speaker 1: know that tweets you put out when you said men
- 12:53Speaker 1: over thirties shouldn't have other men over thirty his roommates
- 12:56Speaker 1: really stung his soul dramas you've a roommate. Nah, until recently,
- 13:03Speaker 1: hit dogs be hollering, man, Honestly, I was just tweeting
- 13:08Speaker 1: I did not know it was people like this, especially man,
- 13:11Speaker 1: because you're when you talk about man, we just laughing.
- 13:15Speaker 1: But this resonat is so hard to y'all soul. I
- 13:18Speaker 1: didn't know it was that many thirty old roommate because
- 13:20Speaker 1: times it's hard out here, man. People gotta ain't hard
- 13:22Speaker 1: out here in the side because they're getting that p
- 13:24Speaker 1: P plow y'allo, but in out here shocking up man
- 13:28Speaker 1: for financial reasons. Man, And see what made me see
- 13:31Speaker 1: that I knew with my homeboy, they was down in
- 13:33Speaker 1: Miami stunting. Yeah, but they roommates, so you were on
- 13:36Speaker 1: one person, my person. I used to how all my
- 13:40Speaker 1: tweets be. They've be one person. Everybody else take the personal.
- 13:45Speaker 1: Stop taking my tweets personal in your own personal life.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Can't you most defend himself? I want to hear, tell yourself.
- 13:51Speaker 1: I don't care, but go ahead, because I think y'all
- 13:53Speaker 1: were old, so you don't understand what it's like from
- 13:56Speaker 1: the bottom, and you ain't you old to anything after
- 14:00Speaker 1: thirty years old, litten, But different generation bro jobs don't
- 14:03Speaker 1: pay what they used to. Cities They're expense was hell
- 14:05Speaker 1: to live in and first one y'all making signing some
- 14:07Speaker 1: sort of gay shocking up. That's a full played relationship,
- 14:20Speaker 1: it is, and the solence you live with somebody for
- 14:23Speaker 1: more than three years is common law marriage common man'll
- 14:26Speaker 1: be turning up. Can't kick you out, you know your
- 14:29Speaker 1: roommate can't really kick you out live legally. They can't
- 14:33Speaker 1: kill y'all together. Man, some advice just in case you
- 14:35Speaker 1: shocked up again. Bro, if me and my formal roommate
- 14:38Speaker 1: of dating, y'all too are definitely dating. What you mean
- 14:42Speaker 1: you spent New Year's vacation together? Yeah, with family and friends.
- 14:45Speaker 1: Let me tell you the whole up. Hold, let me
- 14:47Speaker 1: tell you different. Ahead. We ain't mad. What you said
- 14:50Speaker 1: you got, I didn't get you got. Tell how you officase.
- 14:54Speaker 1: We're talking about it now. I was old. I didn't
- 14:57Speaker 1: even realize y'all was offitted to the next day and
- 15:00Speaker 1: I went back on Twitter, was like, oh they man,
- 15:03Speaker 1: I did not know. Like, it ain't that serious. You
- 15:06Speaker 1: don't take nothing to say jas You should have just
- 15:10Speaker 1: left with you know, I just purchased the home recently.
- 15:12Speaker 1: I did. All right, it make you feel better. I
- 15:18Speaker 1: have a roommate in the twinnies, okay, for a couple
- 15:21Speaker 1: of years. And you know I lived with my mom
- 15:23Speaker 1: at thirty two. If it makes you feel bad, like
- 15:25Speaker 1: it's not that serious. I'm not upset. I'm not hurt.
- 15:27Speaker 1: That's why it's so hard to tell joke, because yeah,
- 15:31Speaker 1: joke you do. And the only thing I said it
- 15:33Speaker 1: is nothing wrong with two men living together, but they
- 15:35Speaker 1: gotta have two bathrooms. You can't share one. I'm sharing
- 15:37Speaker 1: the bathroom. Bro. You know you have you lived in
- 15:40Speaker 1: New York City. That's what moved Atlantic is. You can't
- 15:49Speaker 1: find because everybody would sense it is moving down south,
- 15:53Speaker 1: like certain stuff. If you can't afford it, move. I
- 15:56Speaker 1: saved my money. I bought a house, so I was
- 15:57Speaker 1: smart about it. What I'm saying is, you got a
- 15:59Speaker 1: lot of people, and listen, it's a joke. It's a joke.
- 16:01Speaker 1: I'm not really offended by it, but a lot of
- 16:03Speaker 1: people people do feel upset about He moved on from
- 16:07Speaker 1: sharing that toilet with that, he moved on, did you
- 16:10Speaker 1: share toilet that doing? You got a house now, so
- 16:15Speaker 1: it don't matter. This is your And he told me
- 16:18Speaker 1: behind the scenes how uncomfortable it was. Everybody got to
- 16:20Speaker 1: come up store. He told me. He told me he
- 16:23Speaker 1: sat on the toilet. See that this home boy one
- 16:24Speaker 1: time and it was warm. He was like, that was
- 16:26Speaker 1: the only time it was real uncomfortable. The same have
- 16:29Speaker 1: you never used a never used whenever in the last
- 16:33Speaker 1: twenty years, I've used my whole toilet. I never another
- 16:39Speaker 1: man's never said on my toilet, Bros. You travel another man,
- 16:43Speaker 1: it's never said, oh my toilet, not even in my
- 16:47Speaker 1: hotels and Jaki, they gotta go to a whole another
- 16:50Speaker 1: room if they got a peak, even if they got
- 16:54Speaker 1: a peek, even if they got a peek, to be
- 16:56Speaker 1: just peeing everywhere, That is truely like I do, like no,
- 17:02Speaker 1: I don't take a shower with my shower. I have
- 17:06Speaker 1: a question. I have a question. Why do you guys
- 17:08Speaker 1: pee on the toilet seat and not put it up
- 17:10Speaker 1: and not peat in the toilet? You don't care. I tried,
- 17:15Speaker 1: even when I'm aiming. My wife was complaining about after
- 17:18Speaker 1: you sometimes the peak go everywhere. So yeah, so you
- 17:22Speaker 1: know we got more over a little due vaull. When
- 17:25Speaker 1: we come back, it's the Breakfast Local Morning, the Breakfast
- 17:28Speaker 1: club pulling everybody as DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy.
- 17:35Speaker 1: We are the breakfast club was still kicking it with
- 17:36Speaker 1: a little Duke Vall Charlomagne. Now I want to ask
- 17:38Speaker 1: you some stuff you'd be asking people on Twitter. Man,
- 17:41Speaker 1: what's the dumbiest you ever did for a woman you
- 17:43Speaker 1: loved and now you regret it? Balled everything? I balled
- 17:47Speaker 1: him everything, and ever keep it after we break up,
- 17:49Speaker 1: like what they leave with a great severance package. He
- 17:53Speaker 1: can't take stuff, he can't take gifts back. But after
- 17:58Speaker 1: a while, you like, dam I must you the game
- 17:59Speaker 1: of this. What's the most expensive thing you bought? Tiffany
- 18:02Speaker 1: rain Uh? House? Cause house? You want somebody out that house?
- 18:09Speaker 1: You ain't never tell me that one. Now we'll talk house.
- 18:14Speaker 1: We're talking, she said, Man, we talk lat y'all won't
- 18:21Speaker 1: get that juice. God damn nice house. You ain't gonna
- 18:28Speaker 1: get modular home. I got the show coming. I live
- 18:32Speaker 1: in my best like I talk about show, y'all watch it.
- 18:36Speaker 1: It's on paper black, all black. It's an all black
- 18:40Speaker 1: network too. I went all black. I can't say I'm
- 18:43Speaker 1: not supporting all black. I went all black on my
- 18:46Speaker 1: first special, So support it. What about somebody kidnapped your
- 18:50Speaker 1: old lady and held up for one hundred thousand dollars ransom?
- 18:52Speaker 1: What you're doing? She held, Yeah, you talk about you're
- 18:58Speaker 1: not gonna pay for your old lady. I'm gonna give
- 19:00Speaker 1: a deep post, give a deep postally camping act like
- 19:05Speaker 1: I just missed it. I'm like, now, I was just
- 19:07Speaker 1: about to send the money. If she gonna how are
- 19:10Speaker 1: you gonna ask people the question? But that's your answer
- 19:13Speaker 1: for real? Yeah I asked it. It It could have gave
- 19:15Speaker 1: that quick answer too, but that's my answer. Me and
- 19:18Speaker 1: they talked about let him know what it is. Right
- 19:20Speaker 1: if we go to one of these times, you're getting
- 19:23Speaker 1: that if they Charlotte, what if they had Charlotta agne
- 19:30Speaker 1: for ransom for one hundred thousand, I give them five thousand.
- 19:33Speaker 1: We got to negotiate five thousand. I got five thousands. Man,
- 19:38Speaker 1: ain't nobody getting pass past ten? My daughter? That's it? Okay?
- 19:42Speaker 1: What about when you said, um, a lot of these
- 19:44Speaker 1: got a sugar daddy too? Who are you talking about?
- 19:51Speaker 1: I got a new show called Little Specially First Special
- 19:56Speaker 1: Albums Charlotte, not like, uh won't happen. I talked about
- 20:09Speaker 1: it Little My Special. Listen. I don't think it's nothing
- 20:12Speaker 1: wrong with having a sponsor. Man you call him a
- 20:14Speaker 1: sugar dad. I called my sponsor. Man. You know what
- 20:16Speaker 1: I'm talking Who I'm talking about? Man? What made you
- 20:20Speaker 1: put stars in your priests? Oh? Listen, but you didn't
- 20:30Speaker 1: put stars in the prince? Yeah? Man, let these know
- 20:32Speaker 1: it's gonna be a hot boy summer. See the boys
- 20:35Speaker 1: up and this one. I'm like my friends, man, they
- 20:40Speaker 1: will never do right. No, I just asked the question,
- 20:43Speaker 1: why are you sweating? Because it's hot in there? You
- 20:45Speaker 1: got I'm trying to figure out why you're not sweating.
- 20:47Speaker 1: You got an other pants on? Hey, because it's my
- 20:49Speaker 1: special pants like Nick, you see him? You know everything?
- 20:56Speaker 1: Whatever that I wasn't wondering. I wanted to be like
- 21:01Speaker 1: the rat pack man, how it is hell and how
- 21:03Speaker 1: they feel good? We up? It's still cold up here
- 21:05Speaker 1: in New York. Like I don't know why y'all still
- 21:07Speaker 1: up here, but you know the only two is left
- 21:11Speaker 1: up here that you might be right everybody else down
- 21:14Speaker 1: in the lamb Yeah nba here. I don't want to
- 21:19Speaker 1: hell NBA. I didn't told Charlemagne it's a thousand now,
- 21:21Speaker 1: Why don't y'all buy something in the islands? Like like me,
- 21:23Speaker 1: I didn't told y'all this a thousand times. I plan
- 21:26Speaker 1: to think about how much you then spunt vacation time
- 21:31Speaker 1: ten It is just going to the Caribbeans, and all
- 21:34Speaker 1: the Caribbeans is the same hit on each island, So
- 21:36Speaker 1: just pick an eye, don't you like the most? And
- 21:39Speaker 1: buy something. My thing is I want to if I
- 21:43Speaker 1: want to buy land and build something, or if I
- 21:45Speaker 1: want to buy something that's already Either way, do one
- 21:47Speaker 1: of the other. It depends on how much time you got.
- 21:50Speaker 1: If you got a lot of tackles. We deal with islands,
- 21:52Speaker 1: they slow us here. So if you got a lot
- 21:54Speaker 1: of time, then deal something. But if you don't just
- 21:56Speaker 1: buy something, you're gonna be doing seminar soon. Man. No,
- 22:00Speaker 1: I'm not that. I'm not envy. It's gonna be myself.
- 22:14Speaker 1: I loundspine. He renovated his body before I sold houses
- 22:25Speaker 1: hours knocking. Look at me. Here's another one. Here's another one.
- 22:35Speaker 1: You tweeted. Have you ever taken your advice and said,
- 22:38Speaker 1: mid argument, I see why your ex broke up with you. Yeah,
- 22:40Speaker 1: I do that all the time. You went up because
- 22:42Speaker 1: you never know, like you try to hear that point
- 22:45Speaker 1: of view, and then you'd be like you know what,
- 22:46Speaker 1: after like two weeks of hearing that, you're like, you
- 22:49Speaker 1: know what, I can definitely see where they're coming from.
- 22:52Speaker 1: Damn you stop, you stop answering the call. How did
- 22:55Speaker 1: you only have a friend like that? Right now? And
- 22:57Speaker 1: I see where you going, Charomagne, It don't work on me,
- 22:59Speaker 1: arm What did you talking? It's not gonna work. I
- 23:02Speaker 1: just gonna ask what would a woman shave? All your
- 23:05Speaker 1: tactics because we practicing the day before other people. It's
- 23:09Speaker 1: not gonna work. Move on to next tweet. I'm really
- 23:12Speaker 1: just trying to get you to tell one story, man,
- 23:14Speaker 1: that was so funny. Heaven, you know direct, what's the story?
- 23:19Speaker 1: What's the Story's living my best life? Hopefully put on
- 23:22Speaker 1: a special fun It won't be in this special being
- 23:25Speaker 1: a special lifeime, I tell you this, it's the funniest
- 23:27Speaker 1: little Duvall story of all time. And that says a lot.
- 23:30Speaker 1: I mean, whenever you were smoking, got me coughing already?
- 23:33Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I wish I could smoke on this show.
- 23:36Speaker 1: What the hell was you smoking? No good? Don't do
- 23:38Speaker 1: it good? What made you? Anybody smoked over here? Snoop, yes, okay,
- 23:44Speaker 1: Ray Ray smurn get over me. I can see snoop
- 23:50Speaker 1: ray up, bro. I think they just didn't you Chalomagne.
- 23:57Speaker 1: Charlemagne told them it was okay for them to smoke,
- 23:59Speaker 1: even though it was And that's what happens. Nobody about
- 24:01Speaker 1: asked can I smoke? I don't care. I don't. I mean,
- 24:06Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't know what the us I don't care.
- 24:08Speaker 1: It turned into what you know, the rules and it
- 24:10Speaker 1: turned into a whole thing. Yes, it did, yo popping.
- 24:14Speaker 1: Now you can do it you want to do now?
- 24:16Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, what made you decide to
- 24:18Speaker 1: do it special after all this time? Right? Because I'm
- 24:20Speaker 1: sure you had other opportunities to do something. But what
- 24:23Speaker 1: made you decide now is the right time? Because I
- 24:25Speaker 1: thought other things were more important at the time, you
- 24:27Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like and I mean, specials are
- 24:30Speaker 1: always gonna be there. But at the same time, specials
- 24:32Speaker 1: are like albums now, and do people really care about
- 24:35Speaker 1: albums like that anymore? Depends who it is, Yeah, depends
- 24:38Speaker 1: who it is exactly so, so I wanted to get
- 24:40Speaker 1: to a point where I was one of that. It
- 24:42Speaker 1: depend on who it was. What is your favorite stand
- 24:44Speaker 1: up special though that you've seen? Don't watch none of them.
- 24:47Speaker 1: I really don't. When you watch Bill Burr, I did,
- 24:50Speaker 1: but I didn't even watch all that, but Paul I
- 24:53Speaker 1: did watch. I like watching people that just don't give
- 24:55Speaker 1: a like me. But see the difference is they on
- 24:58Speaker 1: a whole other level too. Here at a point that's
- 25:01Speaker 1: where every commune want to be, at the point where
- 25:03Speaker 1: no matter what you say, they don't care. Yeah, And
- 25:06Speaker 1: I feel like I'm at that in my in my world.
- 25:08Speaker 1: But I wouldn't be there in all worlds. I think
- 25:11Speaker 1: that's impossible nowadays. I think even if they know you
- 25:13Speaker 1: to be that, they're gonna still find ways to be offended.
- 25:16Speaker 1: That's the thing, right to be able to if you
- 25:18Speaker 1: can say whatever it is you want to say, you
- 25:20Speaker 1: just got to be able to deal with whatever the backlash. Year.
- 25:21Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm like that because I'm so
- 25:23Speaker 1: immune and scoring to it, just just from being on
- 25:26Speaker 1: social media and me and you all. There ain't nobody
- 25:28Speaker 1: being through most stuff to me and you. I get
- 25:30Speaker 1: canceled every month yourself. It's so I'm so immune to
- 25:34Speaker 1: the book, it's it's almost like I'm scoring from it.
- 25:37Speaker 1: I don't even notice when I'm being being I don't
- 25:41Speaker 1: even be over there. People be hitting me like you know,
- 25:43Speaker 1: they're going in on you. I'm like, for real, we
- 25:45Speaker 1: got more over a little duvauld when we come back.
- 25:47Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Local Morning, So Breakfast Club, your mornings
- 25:50Speaker 1: will never be the same. Angela, you here, and did
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- 26:11Speaker 1: Everybody's dj n V Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we
- 26:15Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with a
- 26:17Speaker 1: little duval yee. You see they're upset about Prince Charming
- 26:20Speaker 1: now and bring me up. You know how he kisses
- 26:24Speaker 1: um to night. She did not give consent for Prince
- 26:27Speaker 1: Charming to kiss her and wake her up, sleeping beauty.
- 26:30Speaker 1: So now they're trying to say that's wrong, it's not
- 26:32Speaker 1: okay to kiss a woman. Oh you talk about the
- 26:37Speaker 1: real real yes man. So so that's a charge now,
- 26:46Speaker 1: yes man, And y'all wonder why I won't tell no
- 26:48Speaker 1: more stories about back in the day in Daytona. Yeah,
- 26:54Speaker 1: Disneyland's new snow White ride criticized when including Prince Charming's
- 26:58Speaker 1: non consensual kiss. Snow White was dead. The kiss brought
- 27:04Speaker 1: her back to life. She didn't ask for it though.
- 27:07Speaker 1: They saying that about CPR. You sitting me something, earliss
- 27:10Speaker 1: and you can't do people that get mad like that.
- 27:12Speaker 1: I'd be wanting to sit there and talk to them
- 27:13Speaker 1: like person, not what they post. I want to sit
- 27:16Speaker 1: there and ask them questions. And if you talk to them,
- 27:18Speaker 1: they don't realize they really ain't that big of a deal.
- 27:20Speaker 1: They just they just need something to talk to. Like,
- 27:23Speaker 1: but what they don't realize enough to society and care
- 27:26Speaker 1: about it more. You care about something that's not really
- 27:28Speaker 1: a big deal, and it makes the society feel like
- 27:31Speaker 1: it's a bigger deal and that we're making a big
- 27:33Speaker 1: deal because now people emotions get evolved in and then
- 27:37Speaker 1: it's not that like in my in my mind, I'd
- 27:39Speaker 1: be thinking, how privileged do you that the only thing
- 27:42Speaker 1: you got to complain about it in your life is
- 27:44Speaker 1: not Prince Charman's kiss was consensual with snow White. By way,
- 27:48Speaker 1: It's way worse things than snow White. By the way,
- 27:50Speaker 1: it's way. I don't want people forget snow on this
- 27:53Speaker 1: show because somebody's gonna correlate the world. No, I'm just
- 27:55Speaker 1: snow white. Mama died during the childbirth. Nobody want to
- 27:59Speaker 1: talk the maternal death rate. Nobody want to talk about
- 28:03Speaker 1: revenge the Nerds movies, we definitely want to talk about that. No,
- 28:08Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. Let's move on now. Would
- 28:10Speaker 1: you fight Floyd Mayweather for twenty to fifty dolland dollars?
- 28:12Speaker 1: You tweeted that too, man, let him knock my jaw
- 28:15Speaker 1: for two fifty That's no meal. I need a meal.
- 28:19Speaker 1: Oh Joe Sinkle getting the middle to fight. Yeah, he
- 28:21Speaker 1: fighting under the underco on the undercover Fight. I don't know.
- 28:25Speaker 1: I'll fight him for a meal for a man, Oh Joe,
- 28:28Speaker 1: you want to fight, That's gonna be a short ass fight.
- 28:31Speaker 1: I don't get y'all keep playing with boxing. The one
- 28:34Speaker 1: punch can't kill you fight, thank you. She'll be living
- 28:38Speaker 1: my best light to him. One punch can kill you
- 28:41Speaker 1: if you get hit the wrong way. Bro. Now, if
- 28:43Speaker 1: you know how the phone man I get people to watch,
- 28:48Speaker 1: you're gonna let him hit you, man, I know how
- 28:51Speaker 1: the funt what happens? Is it be the second hit
- 28:53Speaker 1: and the third is yeah, yeah, first hit. Boy, Ain't
- 28:56Speaker 1: nobody gonna spend like I spend. Trust, Put a couple
- 29:01Speaker 1: of ms in there, put a couple of ins and
- 29:03Speaker 1: throw some of them coins that everybody buying big coin yea,
- 29:09Speaker 1: and dudes, and I'm ready to fight. I'm gonna run
- 29:16Speaker 1: a couple of laps and couple of swimming. Get me
- 29:19Speaker 1: about it, right? How much time I got when the
- 29:23Speaker 1: fight it's in Miami in June. Oh nah, it's deep.
- 29:26Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're gonna be time. You gotta get more preparation.
- 29:29Speaker 1: But you already got an opponent though, But nobody want
- 29:33Speaker 1: to see you on. Nobody don't want to see Mayweather,
- 29:38Speaker 1: and I'm not watching it. I'm definitely Logan Paul Logan Paul, Yeah, yea,
- 29:42Speaker 1: Like this is how boyd the entertainment's got. Damn ain't
- 29:46Speaker 1: really watching Mayweather and Logan Paul or is it? Logan
- 29:49Speaker 1: Paul Logan Paul. Let the audience know, like we really
- 29:53Speaker 1: slow as the audience because this is all that we
- 29:55Speaker 1: see as entertainment. That's why Charlomne always tell me I
- 29:57Speaker 1: worked too hard, yes, because it's like it's too easy
- 30:01Speaker 1: to make money entertaining that, like you ain't even gotta
- 30:03Speaker 1: have that much sense, and I'd be overthinking that the company.
- 30:07Speaker 1: Then you see somebody do nothing and they make millions
- 30:09Speaker 1: of and you on, you on your living my best life,
- 30:11Speaker 1: special working, doing the pandemic, trying to make people happy, dance,
- 30:20Speaker 1: tap dancing, got a pyro and everything coming out by
- 30:25Speaker 1: the by the eighth Shotlotte man cut that Yeah, pyro too, man,
- 30:29Speaker 1: oh that. When I first started that too, I was like, man, boy,
- 30:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah. I realized that the boy the six
- 30:36Speaker 1: seven show. Did you make any money? Hell no, I ain't,
- 30:38Speaker 1: That's what man. I made less money on that tour
- 30:45Speaker 1: than I made just just before it. Hold on, so
- 30:48Speaker 1: whatn't the torch mat No, we wouldn't have. No, that's
- 30:52Speaker 1: what happened when you do independent. Yeah. Well I was
- 30:55Speaker 1: cool with it, Like I really enjoyed the tour, the
- 30:57Speaker 1: fact that I did my own tour and we did
- 30:59Speaker 1: all those and they was all sold out. I was
- 31:02Speaker 1: just happy to do that. And like I could say,
- 31:04Speaker 1: I did my own tour so and you said, I
- 31:06Speaker 1: mean I didn't go broke off of it. But the
- 31:08Speaker 1: fact that I took everybody on tour that was down
- 31:10Speaker 1: with me from day one, that was gratifying in itself.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Did they make any money? Yeah, they may even problem
- 31:15Speaker 1: more than me. Damn. And you still ain't gonna do
- 31:17Speaker 1: no album. Yeah, I'm gonna do album. A matter of fact,
- 31:19Speaker 1: I'm going out to us name and we're gonna work
- 31:21Speaker 1: on some new music. Now. I'm going out to the
- 31:23Speaker 1: Bay Area. And after I leave here, who's what's her
- 31:26Speaker 1: name with me and claim we're going out there, especially
- 31:34Speaker 1: living my best life. Specially where can they watch it?
- 31:36Speaker 1: Many perview and it's on all death I mean all
- 31:39Speaker 1: BLA A L L B l K and you can
- 31:42Speaker 1: watch it on pay per view, the video on demand.
- 31:46Speaker 1: It's available right now. It's available right now. All right,
- 31:49Speaker 1: this little dude balls the Breakfast Club. We this together,
- 31:53Speaker 1: but stay away from me the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody
- 31:59Speaker 1: is team j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We
- 32:03Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in
- 32:05Speaker 1: the building. Yes, indeed, little Scrappy. Yeah, I ain't calling
- 32:08Speaker 1: you a little him. I ain't call you a little
- 32:10Speaker 1: in Yeah, it's scrap scrap here, scrapping scrap man, you did.
- 32:15Speaker 1: I didn't know you were from Jersey, you know, all? No,
- 32:18Speaker 1: what are you talking about? It's at l all the day,
- 32:23Speaker 1: that great memorial downtown and I don't know what's going on.
- 32:29Speaker 1: Have you never heard? This is wrong with you? Little
- 32:32Speaker 1: scrappy was born? When say, nineteen eighty four? Where stop
- 32:38Speaker 1: listening to the internet. When y'all gonna learn. I'm just saying,
- 32:41Speaker 1: y'all just gonna put my age up. Everybody in here
- 32:45Speaker 1: way older than you. Okay, what you've been up to?
- 32:50Speaker 1: My Jersey guy, I never knew that because it's not true.
- 32:56Speaker 1: It's from a reputable place man, not Wikipedia, but sho.
- 33:00Speaker 1: I've been making music and babies, man, making me. That's
- 33:05Speaker 1: what it feel like. I'm gonna have a fourth one congratulations,
- 33:10Speaker 1: But you got all girls? One boy? Damn damn. So
- 33:15Speaker 1: what's what's fatherhood like for you? How has it changed
- 33:17Speaker 1: you as a man? Oh? Man? I mean that's the
- 33:20Speaker 1: best name of it happened to me. You know what
- 33:21Speaker 1: I'm saying. I feel like that's like half of my purpose. Uh,
- 33:25Speaker 1: because just being with my sixteen year old she you know,
- 33:28Speaker 1: she just turned sixteen in March, and just to get
- 33:31Speaker 1: her from a baby to there. I was just like, wow,
- 33:35Speaker 1: like it was a learning lesson, you know what I'm saying.
- 33:38Speaker 1: So now I'm like, I'm good. But it's all the time.
- 33:41Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, is all the time. It's
- 33:43Speaker 1: not like because I'm hands on, and it just made
- 33:46Speaker 1: me stay in the house more, you know what I'm saying,
- 33:49Speaker 1: Like when everybody else robbing and getting killed, i'd be
- 33:52Speaker 1: hearing about it. Now is everything for me? Though? How
- 33:56Speaker 1: would change your perception of just women in general? My
- 33:59Speaker 1: wife did that because I you know, my first baby
- 34:02Speaker 1: out one really at home to go through the whole
- 34:05Speaker 1: you know, pregnant thing. When when you you know, after
- 34:09Speaker 1: the baby, the you know, stayed up every day like
- 34:11Speaker 1: but I've seen it with this. It's like man, women
- 34:14Speaker 1: based on strong jokers. Man, Like they really like can
- 34:18Speaker 1: have a baby in you running around trying to catch
- 34:21Speaker 1: another one and trying to feed this one, hey man,
- 34:25Speaker 1: Like y'all some tough people. Because I don't woke up
- 34:28Speaker 1: like she were like, yeah, they were waking up all
- 34:30Speaker 1: through the night. I was like, when when when that happened?
- 34:34Speaker 1: Like you could have told me it's like, you like
- 34:37Speaker 1: what it's crazy though, that love and hip hop? What
- 34:40Speaker 1: made you do love hip hop? And did you ever
- 34:42Speaker 1: regretted at all? Now? I don't regret doing loving hip hop.
- 34:46Speaker 1: I feel like it tapped me back into the entertaining life,
- 34:50Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because I was, I was
- 34:52Speaker 1: lost for a minute. I was you know that one
- 34:54Speaker 1: little situation happened to me while I was going down
- 34:58Speaker 1: that the older x X of all exes, you know
- 35:01Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like when every time I came here,
- 35:03Speaker 1: we talked about it. You hear me all we only
- 35:05Speaker 1: got to talk about exactly and that's how I wanted
- 35:09Speaker 1: to be people like that. But it was like I
- 35:12Speaker 1: had like just painful years of just being stressed out,
- 35:17Speaker 1: and you know why, Like what am I doing? Know
- 35:19Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when I got with love and
- 35:21Speaker 1: hip hop, I ain't even I slick, didn't even want
- 35:23Speaker 1: to wrap no more. I was like the TV money,
- 35:26Speaker 1: but come come good, come way better than that, you
- 35:29Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Sending in the dangers at the club,
- 35:32Speaker 1: you know what. So I was like, yeah, I'm cool
- 35:34Speaker 1: with that, but you know it was just like you know, God,
- 35:37Speaker 1: told me, Jip be myself, everything else gonna work out,
- 35:40Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I ain't gotta be.
- 35:42Speaker 1: I feel like I was clowning, you know first for
- 35:46Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, seasons just clowning because I
- 35:48Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. I ain't know how to
- 35:49Speaker 1: use it. I ain't know how to be on TV
- 35:50Speaker 1: like that, you know what I'm saying, and or take
- 35:53Speaker 1: the criticism that the world giving me like that. So
- 35:56Speaker 1: when I when I was going through that, I was like,
- 35:58Speaker 1: damn man, Like it's famous man, but you know, you
- 36:02Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, ain't it ain't the same famous
- 36:04Speaker 1: rap either, Like it's like it's rapping I you know,
- 36:06Speaker 1: people scared to say had they standing over here you
- 36:08Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, but they you know, I'm looking
- 36:10Speaker 1: at that like damn bro. Like it did catapulte my situation.
- 36:16Speaker 1: It made people aware of who Scrappy was again because
- 36:19Speaker 1: at first people was like coho it right, I know
- 36:21Speaker 1: I know him so well, but I don't see him
- 36:23Speaker 1: so will beer fol And I'm like some weberfol when
- 36:26Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm rocking these concerts, these stages. Everybody
- 36:30Speaker 1: telling about they love me and all that bit. Folko,
- 36:33Speaker 1: y'all loving me, you know what I'm saying. But it
- 36:35Speaker 1: really put me back to where I could. I could
- 36:38Speaker 1: look you know, some of my my home is back
- 36:40Speaker 1: in the face again, like hey, what's up? What's happening?
- 36:43Speaker 1: If you have a plan though, Like you look at Candy,
- 36:45Speaker 1: she had a restaurant. He he leaks to the restaurant
- 36:48Speaker 1: one of the girls from the house while I've got
- 36:50Speaker 1: a skinny wine. When did you say, you know, I
- 36:52Speaker 1: need to come up with a plan because I need
- 36:54Speaker 1: to make this work for me. I just started doing
- 36:56Speaker 1: that like two years ago, now, like two to two
- 36:58Speaker 1: seasons ago. I started doing that, like you know, that's
- 37:02Speaker 1: why I said. I didn't know how to use it
- 37:03Speaker 1: to my for myself. I was just doing what they
- 37:06Speaker 1: needed me to do, making any money, because to me,
- 37:09Speaker 1: I feel like it's w wf w W. Like it's
- 37:13Speaker 1: really like entertainment added onto your real life, you know
- 37:17Speaker 1: what I'm saying, your real love life. I just looked
- 37:20Speaker 1: at I was like, hey, man, the women, my mama,
- 37:23Speaker 1: my wife, everybody day good. I'm good. You know what
- 37:26Speaker 1: I'm saying. My daughter is she good? That's all I
- 37:28Speaker 1: was caring about it for but then I was like,
- 37:30Speaker 1: hey man, listen, man, I need to hat like leave
- 37:33Speaker 1: them something. So when I started looking at that, and
- 37:36Speaker 1: I was aware of that, because I ain't always been
- 37:38Speaker 1: aware I always I said, I like to tell people,
- 37:40Speaker 1: I was always chasing a little scrapping you know what
- 37:42Speaker 1: I'm saying, the little guy. So when I stopped chasing
- 37:45Speaker 1: him and I came aware of what was really going on,
- 37:48Speaker 1: like two years ago, So what's the plan there? So what?
- 37:50Speaker 1: So what are you doing? I'm opening up a clothing spot,
- 37:53Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I'm I'm gonna do
- 37:55Speaker 1: a thirst store called scraps hell. Already it's already one
- 38:02Speaker 1: like that. Scraps I mean every city state I go
- 38:05Speaker 1: to it, some scrap metal place that's called scrap. Now,
- 38:07Speaker 1: I don't mean scrap. I'm talking like a thrift store.
- 38:09Speaker 1: So like all old clothes, like I think about all
- 38:12Speaker 1: old jeans you don't wear no more, and sneakers and
- 38:14Speaker 1: you get mad people to bring different stuff and it's
- 38:16Speaker 1: like a good will, but it would be called scraps
- 38:19Speaker 1: you don't like. That's just he's looking at the money
- 38:21Speaker 1: parts like I'm gonna make money over that. Yeah, it's
- 38:24Speaker 1: I just give my clothes away, you know what. I'm
- 38:27Speaker 1: dry cleaning and have a Yeah, I come up with
- 38:29Speaker 1: a with a like a gi yeah, like something like that,
- 38:33Speaker 1: and then y'all come pick old scrappy clothes up, you
- 38:35Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, or whoever clothes up. I do that,
- 38:38Speaker 1: but they ain't you know, I just give them my
- 38:40Speaker 1: own scrap. I'm looking for a score. Yeah. So I'm
- 38:43Speaker 1: gonna have an independent clothing store to where I opened
- 38:48Speaker 1: it up for independent people that are really trying to
- 38:51Speaker 1: get in. They fit in the game and really have
- 38:54Speaker 1: their stuff structured, you know what I'm saying. Like it
- 38:56Speaker 1: ain't just you don't have one just like a T
- 38:57Speaker 1: shirt or something. You got a whole line them clothing,
- 39:00Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And also I'm gonna have
- 39:02Speaker 1: a Cereal bar in now. You know what I'm saying,
- 39:05Speaker 1: Cereal bar, you know. And the reason I say that
- 39:07Speaker 1: because anybody can eat cereal. Old person, kids, I don't
- 39:12Speaker 1: care what you're into. You can eat Cyria, you know
- 39:14Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And as soon as soon as they
- 39:17Speaker 1: legalize marriage, Juana, I'm gonna flip it out, all right,
- 39:21Speaker 1: we got mover a little scrappy. When we come back,
- 39:23Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, holding everybody
- 39:26Speaker 1: as DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are
- 39:29Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with a little
- 39:31Speaker 1: scrappy Charlemagne. Did you ever think that, you know, you
- 39:33Speaker 1: being on reality TV with like Eclipse, people taking you
- 39:37Speaker 1: serious as anything else. Yeah, for a minute, they stopped
- 39:40Speaker 1: taking me serious. I swear they stopped taking me serious
- 39:43Speaker 1: like a joke. Like people see me and they just
- 39:46Speaker 1: laugh like that, you know what I'm saying. They see
- 39:49Speaker 1: they'd be like, what are you funny? You stupid? It'd
- 39:51Speaker 1: be like, and I've been saying that. Look, I'm like,
- 39:54Speaker 1: what's so funny? Like what is you laughing? I'm playing
- 39:57Speaker 1: like what's so funny? But know what it was, was
- 40:00Speaker 1: like I get it, you know what I'm saying, because
- 40:02Speaker 1: I I'm a little jokes till you know what I'm saying.
- 40:04Speaker 1: But and you know, when them cameras ain't known, you know,
- 40:07Speaker 1: I take my life real serious. You know what I'm saying,
- 40:09Speaker 1: But I try not to take it so serious that
- 40:11Speaker 1: I can't laugh. You know what I'm saying I hate
- 40:13Speaker 1: them type. You know what I'm saying, that type. I
- 40:16Speaker 1: like to laugh. I like the joke and all that.
- 40:17Speaker 1: But it's like when you got wrapped involved and I
- 40:21Speaker 1: know I left it alone. It's like that that kept me,
- 40:25Speaker 1: That kept people like I don't know, I don't know
- 40:27Speaker 1: if I should walk upon because and not like I
- 40:29Speaker 1: don't know because that part of me was gone. You know,
- 40:33Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna drive on. You know, we might have
- 40:35Speaker 1: the box out here, but on this side, you know,
- 40:37Speaker 1: you're looking round the TV. I'm with my woman, I'm
- 40:40Speaker 1: with my mama, like you see me in vulnerable positions.
- 40:43Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I can't really who I'm
- 40:46Speaker 1: in the box out right now? You know what I'm saying,
- 40:47Speaker 1: Who I'm in the fight and for what? You know
- 40:49Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's like they get that missing
- 40:52Speaker 1: screwed and mixed up thinking that you know, oh, hom
- 40:54Speaker 1: and just hes just a comedian. You know what I'm saying. Well, no,
- 40:57Speaker 1: I'm not jocked. You know what I'm saying. That's my
- 41:00Speaker 1: cus and liked dude. He actually like benched off and
- 41:03Speaker 1: in the comedy with radio personality. All that I'm not
- 41:06Speaker 1: that you know what I'm saying, Like the show you
- 41:08Speaker 1: it is, people would assume that it's soon. But but
- 41:11Speaker 1: that's what I tell people. It's only one part of me.
- 41:14Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. A human being got so
- 41:16Speaker 1: many mechanisms of their life, you know what I'm saying,
- 41:19Speaker 1: Like it break down in all kinds of ways, Like
- 41:22Speaker 1: this is how I act with my my woman, this
- 41:25Speaker 1: is I act with the street. This I act like
- 41:27Speaker 1: in the street, they do they see me? You know,
- 41:30Speaker 1: I'm I'm on an alert mode because I'm in the street.
- 41:33Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can't just walk up
- 41:34Speaker 1: on me and be like, hey lah, ain't none of
- 41:36Speaker 1: that because, like I don't know, you we complex individuals.
- 41:39Speaker 1: I was wishing TDJS did discernment about that yesterday, just
- 41:41Speaker 1: how humans are complex people. Yeah, and we but we
- 41:44Speaker 1: all got to understand that. We all got to understand
- 41:47Speaker 1: that the human that's sitting across from me is actually humans. Yeah,
- 41:51Speaker 1: we get you know, you know now, I was just
- 41:55Speaker 1: discussing that this morning because you know, just like sometimes
- 41:57Speaker 1: even we get on the radio and we don't really
- 42:00Speaker 1: we're talking. We're casually talking about other people's traumas. Yeah,
- 42:04Speaker 1: we casually like we triggering the lot of people, you
- 42:07Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, and you got like, as
- 42:10Speaker 1: black people, we think our trauma is okay. We really
- 42:15Speaker 1: it's dude freaky, but like we think everything is okay.
- 42:19Speaker 1: Like you you, uh, somebody get killed killed, somebody going
- 42:24Speaker 1: to hospital or everybody be like, oh that's cool. They
- 42:26Speaker 1: be out dang for real. He posted to forget about that.
- 42:33Speaker 1: But if he forget about it, then that's one more
- 42:36Speaker 1: thing added to his pain. Because you damn the dying
- 42:39Speaker 1: which pent up stress. Like you dine with stress, You
- 42:43Speaker 1: dine with pain that could be gone and you could
- 42:46Speaker 1: be moving on with life. You know what I'm saying.
- 42:48Speaker 1: But I talked to a shrink. I don't even care
- 42:51Speaker 1: like I call a shrink. I call a just a
- 42:55Speaker 1: mind releaser because because she would just released the mind
- 42:58Speaker 1: untangle it. You know what I'm saying, Lo've been going
- 43:00Speaker 1: to therapist scrapping it was. I want to say it
- 43:02Speaker 1: since I was married, because how long ago that eighteen
- 43:06Speaker 1: I started twenty sixteen. Yeah, yea, my wife putting me
- 43:10Speaker 1: on it that you like, you need to talk to
- 43:11Speaker 1: somebody because you got a lot of stories well me, Like,
- 43:15Speaker 1: what was it that finally made you say, ma, I'm
- 43:16Speaker 1: gonna sit down somebody. I know your wife was saying that,
- 43:18Speaker 1: But what was the moment, what was the breaking point?
- 43:20Speaker 1: Like man talk? Because because I just see I like,
- 43:24Speaker 1: you get into them a little dark places, man, and
- 43:26Speaker 1: it like if you stay there and you don't get
- 43:28Speaker 1: help or you don't you know, pray and have faith
- 43:31Speaker 1: or something like that, You're gonna go all the way down.
- 43:33Speaker 1: And I'm bent down. I said, O, let me just
- 43:35Speaker 1: before I get all the way down, let me get
- 43:38Speaker 1: catch up for a real quickly and go see if
- 43:40Speaker 1: this will work. I pray when and did that, and
- 43:44Speaker 1: it just started. And it seemed like even from the
- 43:46Speaker 1: first time, it was just stuff releasing. I feel released
- 43:49Speaker 1: every time, just a relief of I don't got that
- 43:52Speaker 1: on me no more, you know what I'm saying. So
- 43:54Speaker 1: after that it felt like crap for real, Like I
- 43:56Speaker 1: addicted to it, you know, just like working out on
- 44:00Speaker 1: the working out. I've never even been on it before.
- 44:02Speaker 1: I just going there for two weeks. I got my
- 44:05Speaker 1: little pump. Then I'm good. You know that. It's like
- 44:07Speaker 1: everyday thing like it's it helped my mental my physical
- 44:11Speaker 1: my spirit like it's all health. Yeah, it's all hell.
- 44:13Speaker 1: We talk about health like it's just the physical thing.
- 44:15Speaker 1: It's mental health. Yeah, Like like I had somebody, I
- 44:19Speaker 1: got into it to the to the gym because first
- 44:22Speaker 1: I got my mind right. You know what I'm saying
- 44:24Speaker 1: to myself. I gotta get my body right, because I
- 44:26Speaker 1: already had my spirit right when I got into that
- 44:28Speaker 1: accident a little minute ago and I almost died, I
- 44:31Speaker 1: was like, something, we gotta switch it up, you know
- 44:33Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I already had my spirit right,
- 44:36Speaker 1: had my mind right. So I was like, man, I
- 44:38Speaker 1: gotta get in there and get my body right. You
- 44:40Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It just waking. I can move
- 44:42Speaker 1: around and it and it moves stuff out the way.
- 44:45Speaker 1: You know, all the problems that I think A real
- 44:47Speaker 1: big is real light. You know what I'm saying. The
- 44:50Speaker 1: weed too, but you know that medicin. Yeah, I gave
- 44:56Speaker 1: it up. I mean because I ain't want to go
- 44:57Speaker 1: to jail, you know what I'm saying. I was playing
- 45:01Speaker 1: with them folks, Yeah, I was on. I was on
- 45:03Speaker 1: feeling the probation. I was just like, man, I'm playing
- 45:06Speaker 1: with the folks because I had friend that was on
- 45:08Speaker 1: regular probation, and I was seeing how they were handling there.
- 45:11Speaker 1: Put the little uh put put somebody else p in
- 45:14Speaker 1: the rub, but put it up mother day. And then
- 45:16Speaker 1: comes too much work, too much work because I got
- 45:20Speaker 1: caught one time, I got caught. I'm in there. He like,
- 45:24Speaker 1: now you gotta do that again because somethingthing wrong because
- 45:27Speaker 1: I came in there with I ain't had a common midstime,
- 45:29Speaker 1: had a peel jar and a peel jar don't consume
- 45:33Speaker 1: the warmth it just let it go. So I mean,
- 45:36Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, I ain't doing that again. I'm good.
- 45:38Speaker 1: He was like, oh, well, you ain't leaving the day.
- 45:40Speaker 1: I said, Oh, you're gonna have to lock me up. Bro,
- 45:42Speaker 1: I'm gone, I'm not the bit. Next day, I'm I'm
- 45:46Speaker 1: going out of town. I'm on seeing Then they're looking
- 45:50Speaker 1: for him. Oh my god, what just what a little
- 45:53Speaker 1: pee like? You know what I'm saying. So I like
- 45:56Speaker 1: when the judge looked at me, he said, hey, then
- 45:59Speaker 1: my lad, time talking to you, old white man too,
- 46:02Speaker 1: look like and he just sent it somebody to eighteen years.
- 46:04Speaker 1: I was like, oh, he canna get to me. He
- 46:06Speaker 1: gonna send me my whole thing. Huh. He was like,
- 46:09Speaker 1: look I see you doing. You know, you're doing a
- 46:12Speaker 1: little TV rap thing. You know, all that's said a
- 46:16Speaker 1: little TV a little TV rap thing. And he say,
- 46:19Speaker 1: you come back and here again, I see you again.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Before your probation is up, you're gonna do the whole thing.
- 46:25Speaker 1: And he said, you you you look young enough where
- 46:27Speaker 1: you can you know you'll still be okay when you
- 46:29Speaker 1: come back. I was like, wow, because that's two more years,
- 46:32Speaker 1: you know what. I'm so after that, I just stopped
- 46:34Speaker 1: playing because you also, I remember I saw you say
- 46:37Speaker 1: a reality TV ruined a lot of your relationships. Yeah, yeah,
- 46:40Speaker 1: all of them, all of them family not not not family?
- 46:46Speaker 1: So what because me and my mom will always be
- 46:48Speaker 1: at it. You know, we'd be at it without the TV.
- 46:52Speaker 1: I love it. But did she change once she got famous? No,
- 46:55Speaker 1: Mama always stayed the same. Okay, you just got like
- 46:58Speaker 1: people are wearing for her craziness and and they think,
- 47:04Speaker 1: you know, people think like Mama d be asking. But
- 47:07Speaker 1: that's that's how she always been. So what relationships got rude?
- 47:11Speaker 1: Like all the you know, like friends like home girls,
- 47:16Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Um almost run my late
- 47:20Speaker 1: relationship with my wife. You know what I'm saying, homies,
- 47:24Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying because I was I was
- 47:25Speaker 1: in that that mode. Like I said, I just wanted
- 47:28Speaker 1: to do reality TV because that was giving me that
- 47:31Speaker 1: that It was giving me that little scrappy field. You
- 47:33Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. How you know when I was
- 47:35Speaker 1: a little scrappy and I was you know, everybody was
- 47:37Speaker 1: like man, you know, they was giving me that adelation,
- 47:39Speaker 1: that love, and I was like, ah, because I always
- 47:41Speaker 1: wanted that back. You know what I'm saying. Just I
- 47:44Speaker 1: was like, man, if I can just get that one time,
- 47:46Speaker 1: one more time, because I didn't get it like how
- 47:48Speaker 1: it was supposed to being gotten. You know what I'm saying.
- 47:50Speaker 1: I was always I was as John artist he signed
- 47:53Speaker 1: with fifty of them or oh he would alluded. I'm like, no, bro,
- 47:56Speaker 1: I want I want this for myself. Bro, like I
- 47:58Speaker 1: need this, I need I need this for me. I
- 48:01Speaker 1: need I need to just be that guy. And I
- 48:04Speaker 1: don't know, man, I just rap rap. Just it brought
- 48:08Speaker 1: me out to the forefront because I was sitting there
- 48:11Speaker 1: looking at the reality TV and I'm like, if this
- 48:13Speaker 1: is gonna end all my my little friendships and relationship
- 48:17Speaker 1: because I'm looking at TV like this is what I
- 48:19Speaker 1: want to do, and then the home is like, man,
- 48:21Speaker 1: we you know acting like that for bro, come on
- 48:25Speaker 1: with y'all like real, cuse y'all in that other world.
- 48:28Speaker 1: I ain't into that world no more. All right, we
- 48:31Speaker 1: got more with a little Scrappy when we come back,
- 48:32Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody.
- 48:36Speaker 1: It's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are
- 48:40Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with a little
- 48:41Speaker 1: scrappy Charlemagne. You know, it's interesting because you mentioned all
- 48:44Speaker 1: the labels you was with, and I've heard people say, oh, man,
- 48:46Speaker 1: Scrappy is a clickhopper, But to me, it's like it's business.
- 48:50Speaker 1: It's all business with me. I came from the mud,
- 48:52Speaker 1: bro like straight mud, like, ain't no want nobody helping me,
- 48:56Speaker 1: Nobody give me no money. I had to get all
- 48:58Speaker 1: my by myself and have no no, no educated manager.
- 49:03Speaker 1: Everybody that knew I got it straight head for just
- 49:06Speaker 1: like I got probably a run dmc l COO J deal.
- 49:10Speaker 1: We were like the guinea pigs for the South, like
- 49:12Speaker 1: we were the first kids that was really from Atlanta,
- 49:16Speaker 1: that had a whole era that was that they was
- 49:19Speaker 1: up under and you know, you just want to you
- 49:23Speaker 1: just trying to get out the hood. When they say
- 49:24Speaker 1: click hoopper man, It's like my is business all the
- 49:28Speaker 1: way around, because everybody got to go through the up
- 49:30Speaker 1: and down. How you hand the Yosha down? Because I
- 49:33Speaker 1: always tell people it's gonna be a lot of hurt
- 49:37Speaker 1: young dudes in a minute, bro from this era, you
- 49:40Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, from the big money era, because
- 49:43Speaker 1: they don't even know what they're doing with all of it,
- 49:44Speaker 1: any financial literacy exactly. They don't even know what. They
- 49:47Speaker 1: don't even know it's occurred, it's gonna happen, and someone
- 49:50Speaker 1: so lit on drugs but they don't even know. Their
- 49:52Speaker 1: time is almost up, you know what I'm saying. And
- 49:54Speaker 1: now they got to find out what they're gonna do
- 49:57Speaker 1: to sustain what they've created. You know what I'm saying,
- 50:00Speaker 1: because once everything shut down wants a new person come.
- 50:03Speaker 1: Everybody focused on that new person. You can see it
- 50:06Speaker 1: with when when it comes to the different groups like
- 50:09Speaker 1: man Outcast was everything, you know what I'm saying, Goodie mobs, everything,
- 50:14Speaker 1: Little John east Side boy come in. They're like, hey man,
- 50:17Speaker 1: y'all cool man, but they turned the club buff over here,
- 50:21Speaker 1: over here, you know what I'm saying. And it's like,
- 50:23Speaker 1: you just got to understand the curve. You gotta know
- 50:25Speaker 1: how to deal with that, you know what I'm saying.
- 50:27Speaker 1: And everybody ain't gonna know how to deal with that.
- 50:29Speaker 1: Everybody not gonna be to deal with them losses because
- 50:31Speaker 1: they've been winning for so long. You know, it's crazive
- 50:33Speaker 1: you were signing the white people. They would never say
- 50:35Speaker 1: that if you had did, if you had did a
- 50:37Speaker 1: deal with a white label, they went to another white label,
- 50:40Speaker 1: they went to another one. They all white labels, all
- 50:44Speaker 1: of them. Don't give what black man is at the
- 50:46Speaker 1: head of it. It's somebody white that running. They don't
- 50:48Speaker 1: look at it his business. They look at his crews like,
- 50:50Speaker 1: oh he was with John, now with you. And I
- 50:52Speaker 1: would need the people to know it's business. These are labels, yeah,
- 50:54Speaker 1: and and and you can ask and one of them
- 50:57Speaker 1: people like the only crew that really took me in,
- 51:00Speaker 1: like a crew crew that was John them. I mean
- 51:03Speaker 1: that was the first name that was our that It
- 51:06Speaker 1: wasn't even a crew that was odd thing. That was
- 51:08Speaker 1: everybody where I'm from. Yeah, that's everybody in my in
- 51:14Speaker 1: my pot. You know what I'm saying. We all came
- 51:16Speaker 1: from the same pot. You know what I'm saying. So
- 51:18Speaker 1: it's like, you know, I wasn't jumping. I'm gonna tell
- 51:20Speaker 1: you what I did. Due though I seen the situation
- 51:24Speaker 1: with John them, it wasn't. I had had a little
- 51:27Speaker 1: situation in Palacca, Florida while you know, I got hit
- 51:30Speaker 1: with the balling So I seen that. I seen the
- 51:33Speaker 1: game changing on me, like want nobody with me? Because
- 51:36Speaker 1: I had my little situation. I was like, damn, what
- 51:38Speaker 1: is gonna go. But at the end of the day,
- 51:40Speaker 1: rest in peace, Chris Light it was my manager, you
- 51:42Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So Chris knew I was cool
- 51:45Speaker 1: with fifty and Buck. So he was like, I'm gonna
- 51:49Speaker 1: make something happened. If they're not gonna pit you, then
- 51:51Speaker 1: we gotta still keep moving. And so he just said,
- 51:54Speaker 1: we're gonna bridge the gap Atlanta, New York. Were donna
- 51:56Speaker 1: make it, make it makes sense. Then he can fit
- 51:59Speaker 1: to call me the Blue Hey, we're gonna We're gonna
- 52:01Speaker 1: make it make sense. Bro, We're gonna I'm gonna holiday, John,
- 52:03Speaker 1: We're gonna see what we canna do. I'm sitting in
- 52:06Speaker 1: Tom Wiley House, bro, and it's like a little food house.
- 52:09Speaker 1: They do dinner and stuff at me. Fifty sent John
- 52:13Speaker 1: like we all Chris Lighty, we all sent that the
- 52:15Speaker 1: having big meeting, bigger as meeting about me and my life.
- 52:20Speaker 1: And Fifty said it straight up. He said, scrappy towns
- 52:24Speaker 1: and I believe with me and John and Warner Brothers,
- 52:28Speaker 1: he can be the biggest rap dude ever, the bigger
- 52:31Speaker 1: than us. What happened from there? Because I mean they
- 52:33Speaker 1: thought you were gonna be the biggest artist, bigger than
- 52:35Speaker 1: fifth and then what happened? Well, you think the whole
- 52:40Speaker 1: Warner brother label just shut down, like pre album week,
- 52:45Speaker 1: like the same week could Like I've come out on Tuesday, Monday,
- 52:50Speaker 1: when you supposed to go make your little run through
- 52:52Speaker 1: the offices and shake hand kids babies, nobody is there.
- 52:55Speaker 1: I was like, damn on my own, like when my
- 52:58Speaker 1: diffendly come out, I ain't know nothing, I ain't know
- 53:02Speaker 1: what to do but to just do that myself. And
- 53:04Speaker 1: then and then you know, fifty he was like, yeah,
- 53:07Speaker 1: I did my part. You know what I'm saying, like,
- 53:10Speaker 1: you know what John gonna do. He can't. He's been
- 53:12Speaker 1: around you the whole time, but it didn't want to work.
- 53:15Speaker 1: They're about doing their own thing. I just chomped it
- 53:18Speaker 1: up though. I just would like, shit, it's part of
- 53:19Speaker 1: the game. You know. I ain't gonna cry about it.
- 53:21Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Just you gotta do it again?
- 53:24Speaker 1: Which was your relationship with john Nae minimum You know
- 53:27Speaker 1: what I'm saying, holt him or not? And then you
- 53:29Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, no love loss. You know you
- 53:31Speaker 1: think you get your proper respect as an atl artists?
- 53:34Speaker 1: Oh no, definitely not, definitely not. They don't. They don't
- 53:36Speaker 1: do that because if they did that, then they would
- 53:39Speaker 1: move some of the people that are popping out the way.
- 53:41Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like, I ain't gonna lie.
- 53:43Speaker 1: They when when certain people came in the game, and
- 53:46Speaker 1: I don't know which ones it was, bro, but it
- 53:49Speaker 1: had to be a feud that didn't like me, you
- 53:51Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, and I'm like, damn, always
- 53:53Speaker 1: looked out, Bro, I always jumped on, didn't care a little.
- 53:58Speaker 1: But it's that thing that I'm bigger than you now.
- 54:01Speaker 1: It bothered me at further, but then I looked at
- 54:04Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what I mean, like, I am me.
- 54:06Speaker 1: Are you gonna do more music? Yes? I got a
- 54:09Speaker 1: song out right now called Jordan the Florida. We're featuring
- 54:11Speaker 1: Tom G. But we were gonna play. But I got
- 54:14Speaker 1: a couple more questions, like, you know, did you know
- 54:16Speaker 1: Nucke if you Buck was the Negro spiritual? It was
- 54:19Speaker 1: when when y'all recorded it, Because people don't you're talking
- 54:22Speaker 1: on the intro. I don't know if people realized that, no,
- 54:23Speaker 1: they think it's my song. Uh, I knew it was
- 54:27Speaker 1: something amazing, bro. I never heard anything like it when
- 54:31Speaker 1: I first heard. I know, right the way let Jay
- 54:33Speaker 1: did the beat and the way they was rapping. It
- 54:36Speaker 1: was like how we wrapped at the lunch table. You
- 54:38Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I was like, damn, how we
- 54:40Speaker 1: wrapped at the lunch table. Y'all really doing it and
- 54:42Speaker 1: it was a whole style. I ain't even like it
- 54:45Speaker 1: at further, But you're like, Nook if you Buck, ain't
- 54:47Speaker 1: like the style the rap because I felt it was
- 54:50Speaker 1: like kind of Triple six is Memphis. I'm you know,
- 54:52Speaker 1: I'm Atlanta all the way you know what I'm saying.
- 54:54Speaker 1: So I was like, hey, I don't know. But then
- 54:57Speaker 1: one day my ear woke up. Kau John was like, nah,
- 54:59Speaker 1: like that's that new you know, that's the new flow,
- 55:02Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I'm listen. I'm like, oh,
- 55:05Speaker 1: might be right, you know what I'm saying. So once
- 55:07Speaker 1: we heard it after they got mixed and master, because
- 55:09Speaker 1: you know them two different sounds, you know, once it
- 55:11Speaker 1: got mixed and master, I was like, Wow, it's crazy.
- 55:14Speaker 1: Go back to the love of hip Hope. How did
- 55:16Speaker 1: you ever amend your wife and your baby mother together
- 55:19Speaker 1: where they have a good speaking relationship and things are good.
- 55:22Speaker 1: How did you get to that point? It's them, you know,
- 55:24Speaker 1: they had to come to that because I'm really not involved.
- 55:27Speaker 1: I don't hate nobody. I don't dislike nobody. They don't
- 55:30Speaker 1: dislike each other. I don't think you know what I'm saying.
- 55:32Speaker 1: It just took some growth. People had to grow up,
- 55:36Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. People had to understand that, Okay,
- 55:40Speaker 1: this is we're too old. We've been doing this for
- 55:43Speaker 1: a long time. Like it plays out on TV, that's
- 55:46Speaker 1: the that's the main they plead out everything on TV
- 55:49Speaker 1: and see me and my wife like we we literally
- 55:52Speaker 1: and people might you know, they thought I didn't want
- 55:54Speaker 1: to talk to my mother. That's what they said, that
- 55:56Speaker 1: you're not speaking to your I want speaking to it,
- 55:59Speaker 1: but I just don't. I didn't want to call no
- 56:01Speaker 1: trouble for my daughter, you know what I'm saying. She's sixteen, No,
- 56:04Speaker 1: she see all that, she got to go through all that.
- 56:06Speaker 1: So I'm like, I just really not even talk to her,
- 56:10Speaker 1: you know, discuss anything, because it's nothing anyway. It's like
- 56:12Speaker 1: you don't move on with your life. I don't move
- 56:14Speaker 1: on with my life. Everybody's moved on. Like it ain't
- 56:17Speaker 1: even a conversation no more. It's like I'm happy. Everybody happy.
- 56:22Speaker 1: Been waiting on this forever. I'm mighty here, you know
- 56:24Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And and and also come like I said,
- 56:27Speaker 1: it always also come with me, you know what I'm saying.
- 56:29Speaker 1: Being aware of the maneuvering you gotta do. You know
- 56:34Speaker 1: what I'm saying as a man, you know, Like like
- 56:37Speaker 1: my wife told me, she was like, hey, man, just
- 56:39Speaker 1: keep that thing one way, bro. Like first I was like,
- 56:42Speaker 1: what the it's one way? You know what I'm saying.
- 56:44Speaker 1: It can't nobody just be one way? You know? Like
- 56:46Speaker 1: I say, you all kind of people in anybody? You know?
- 56:48Speaker 1: So I got caught hold on too, and I'm like, man, listen,
- 56:54Speaker 1: we just we we good man. We got kids, everybody
- 56:57Speaker 1: grown happy. God bless you, God gonna bless me. Let's
- 57:02Speaker 1: keep it moving well scrapped when the album coming, I
- 57:07Speaker 1: don't know when the album okay, but you know I'm
- 57:09Speaker 1: gonna hit. I'm gonna be here y'all with music. Just
- 57:12Speaker 1: see record you say, music like you from Memphis Music.
- 57:16Speaker 1: Oh no, this is just how I talk. Yes, what
- 57:19Speaker 1: the song Georgia the Florida Man in my new heat, Man,
- 57:22Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about, featuring Tom g from Temple.
- 57:25Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Georgia Florida. Since we the
- 57:27Speaker 1: only ones always open, you know what I'm saying. I
- 57:29Speaker 1: always live. You know what I'm saying, Ain't never gonna
- 57:32Speaker 1: stop Jack and we always hot. Man. Listen to the
- 57:35Speaker 1: thing right now man, produced by Looney g all Right,
- 57:37Speaker 1: it's a little scrappy. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 57:40Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Hey,
- 57:46Speaker 1: it's Angela Yee by using brands like Dove and Helmets.
- 57:50Speaker 1: You're supporting Unilever and the everyday good they do, like
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- 58:03Speaker 1: by the pandemic. Make sure you're telling them to watch
- 58:07Speaker 1: out for Florida. The craziest people in America come from
- 58:12Speaker 1: the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey.
- 58:17Speaker 1: The Florida man a chap and ATM for a very
- 58:20Speaker 1: strange reason. It gave him too much money. Florida man
- 58:23Speaker 1: is arrested after definitely say he's rigged the door to
- 58:25Speaker 1: his home and an attempt to electric hit his crest.
- 58:27Speaker 1: White police arrested in Orlando man for talking a Familia
- 58:30Speaker 1: the breakfast club bitchy Donkey other day when Sharlom Haina, guy,
- 58:34Speaker 1: I don't know why y'all keep letting him get you elected?
- 58:36Speaker 1: A well, little dude ball. Okay, Not only am I
- 58:39Speaker 1: getting them like this, I gotta get Jacksonville to Day Okay.
- 58:42Speaker 1: Donkey to Day goes to a Jacksonville woman named ken
- 58:45Speaker 1: Yeta Gordon. Flute to everyone who listens to the Breakfast
- 58:47Speaker 1: Club on ninety three point three to beat in Jacksonville.
- 58:51Speaker 1: Salute to the young man Quail P. Okay that record
- 58:54Speaker 1: he got out titled Charlemagne when the world officially opens
- 58:56Speaker 1: back up, you know, not like Florida open. I mean,
- 58:59Speaker 1: you know, like open open, not. I don't give an
- 59:02Speaker 1: f open back up, but opens back up. So the
- 59:04Speaker 1: rest of us who don't take risks like you Floridians
- 59:06Speaker 1: can move around. When I come to the nine or four,
- 59:08Speaker 1: I want everybody to sing my name like Quail PR.
- 59:10Speaker 1: I'm not responding. Let's practice NV say my name, man,
- 59:16Speaker 1: Hey yo, Quail P. What's happening my brother? How you
- 59:20Speaker 1: young king? What's happening to nephew? See how I ignored
- 59:22Speaker 1: Envy because he didn't sing my name the way I
- 59:25Speaker 1: wanted him to. Okay, but Quail P did it right Now?
- 59:28Speaker 1: What did your uncle Charla always say about Florida? The
- 59:31Speaker 1: craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all
- 59:33Speaker 1: the Florida And today once again cruise all of us
- 59:36Speaker 1: who notice to be true correct see ken Yida. Gordon
- 59:39Speaker 1: was arrested and charged with strong arm robbery and use
- 59:44Speaker 1: possession with intent to use drug paraphernil. Yeah, I personally
- 59:48Speaker 1: don't think anyone who gets arrested on an intent to
- 59:51Speaker 1: use charge should be sent to jail. They should be
- 59:53Speaker 1: sent to a rehab facility. But that's just my opinion
- 59:56Speaker 1: and has nothing to do with this story. Really, But
- 59:58Speaker 1: what did can ye to do to get arrested for
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: strong arm robbery? Well, according to police, she robbed a bank. Look, man,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: times is hard and the slums we're from, I tell
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: y'all all the time, people are starving. Folks don't have time.
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: Your stomach don't stop growling because the check is on
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: the way. Your stomach stops growling when you get that check,
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: cash it, and now you got some bread to buy,
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: some brand to feed yourself. Okay, not making excuses for
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: this woman at all, because we all make choices in
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: life and have to be held accountable for the consequences
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: of our actions. And when you rob a bank, nine
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: times out of ten, you're going to jail. I'm just
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: simply trying to get you all in the mindset of
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: this woman. Okay. Now, whenever I think about bank robberies,
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: first thing I think about is how much did they
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: get right? Second thing I think about is how did
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: they get away? What was the getaway vehicle? There's literally
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: nothing you can't find online because I google Top ten
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: getaway cars for robbing banks. Let's run them down real quick.
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: Number ten is the nineteen thirty two Ford V eight.
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: That's the old black cars you see in all the
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: old black and white movies. Number nine is the Toyota Corolla.
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: Number eight it's an ambulance. See it's all about something
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: that as fast as something that blends in. Nothing blends
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: in like an ambulance. Number seven is a Cadillac CTSV Wagon.
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: Number six is a taxi. Yet again, another vehicle blends
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: right in. Number five is the General Lee. You know,
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: the bright orange Dodge charge you the duke boards. You're
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: driving dukes hazard, you know that one. Number four is
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: the Alpine armored Cadillac Escalade. Don't know where you just
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: find one of those. Number three is the Porsche Cayenne
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: Turbo s. Number two is the Dodge Charger SRT three
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: ninety two. That's for speed. And the number one getaway
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: car for bank robberies is the incas Huring APC. That's
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: the big armor truck that the swat team drifts. No
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: regular civilian is gonna have that, So I don't even
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: know why that's on there. But the point of all
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: these vehicles is either for speed or to blend in well,
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: can Yida must have been going for the blend in
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: part because she damn show wasn't going for the speed.
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: Would you like to know what her getaway vehicle A
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: choice was? What you what is it? Let's go to
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: wj A X CBS forty seven for the report place.
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: The Jacksonville Sheriff's Office is releasing the identity of a
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: woman accused of robbing a bank from her wheelchair. This
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: is a new mug shot of Kennyetta Gordon. Actually News
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: Jack's brooke the news yesterday when police say that a
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: woman became angry while discussing her account at the Region's
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: Bank in downtown Jacksonville. She's accused of telling a worker
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: that she was going to kill everyone inside and that
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: this was a robbery. She left, they say, in a
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: motorized wheelchair after getting the cash. She was arrested just
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: a few blocks away. Stop. I don't like when you
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: go rogue drop all right, Jesus, what the Florida is
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: going on here, all right, There's only three people who
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: could have truly gotten away with this crime. One, we're
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: rolling ray okay. Two Snoop Dogg's character in training Day
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: three Professor Child Xavier. Those are the only three individuals
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: who who could have gotten away with robbing a bank
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: in a wheelchair. Now, let me tell you something. This
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: is why Florida is full of brilliant idiots, because robbing
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: a bank in a wheelchair truly is the best way
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: to blend in, even if you don't really need a
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: wheel chair. If you roll in the bank, rob the bank,
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: then roll out, okay, all the block of two, all right,
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: once you get up and walk, ditch the wheelchair. Now
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: you don't even fit the description of what the bank
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: teller saw. It's genius, yes, all right. The sad part
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: is this woman didn't have a plan. I'm not encouraging
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: people to rob banks. No, I'm just saying, can you
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: the picture a plan before you picture yourself rolling into
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: a bank asking for a big bank roll and listen,
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: just because I have understanding of this woman's situation, meaning
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: I understand why she would be in the mind frame
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: the robber bank simply because I understand the current economic
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: condition a lot of people are facing. It's easy to say,
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: can ye To should have just rolled with the punch's
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: life was throwing at her? But no, folks is broke
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: and you can't tell people to just roll with it. Okay.
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: In life, we all have a role to play. But
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: sometimes what you're casted ass is out of your control.
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: Remember when Kodak Black said he can't even roll in peace?
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: Remember that neither ken ken Yeida, because she's starving waiting
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: on this damn government to roll out these damn stimulus checks.
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: By the way, she's only thirty nine, only thirty nine.
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: I'm inspired by people who keep rolling no matter their age.
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: But she's just thirty nine, and she's got the point where,
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: even though she's disabled in a wheel chess, she has
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: to rob a bank at thirty nine. Think about that, Canda.
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: I feel your painting. But even though I feel your pain,
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: I still have to give this story the credit it
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: deserves for being stupid. But Kenida, I'm praying for you.
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: I want you to get the help you need for
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: your drug problem because they found a crack pipe on you. Yes,
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: she was riding dirty for real. But I'm telling you, Kenyida,
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: I want you to get clean, put the bs behind you,
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: and one day, I promise you, the good times will roll.
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: Please give Kenyida Gordon to sweet Sounds of the Hamletones. Oh,
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: now you are the doge, the oh gee, oh, the day.
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: Ye oh. We're not gonna play a game. Don't want
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: to play a game. We're not gonna do that. We're
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: not gonna play a game. I don't want to play. Well,
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: I have no problem rolling out a game of guess
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: what race it? Alright, alright, here are the context clothes.
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: All right. I don't even know if he's a contact clues.
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: I don't even know if I use that correctly. But
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: can you to Gordon? Okay, Jacksonville, Florida, robbed the bank
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: in a motorized wheelchair. Oh you want a description. I
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: need to give a description. Description. I don't need to
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: give a description. You want a little quick descriptions. Let
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: me get the description that the police were using. Hold okay,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: this is the description. Hold on, you see if I
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: can find it. Hold on, officers are looking for an
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: adult blank female thirty nine years of age with short
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: blonde hair. Oh, I got you now you thought it
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: was easy. I thought it was easy. You thought it
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: was short blonde hair? Can ya? I say, can you do?
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: Can you do? You know that's how you pronounced can
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: you eat a garden? Ramirez? All right? Who said Ramirez?
- 1:06:05Speaker 1: I'm down for the profile and but go okay, Porto Angelie.
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: Are you sure you don't want to play? I think
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: it is a white man, white man man, okay, okay,
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: all right, all right, I see where we're taking it. Uh,
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: And I ain't telling y'a whether y'all right or wrong.
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: We're just gonna leave this black Why didn't you ask
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: me to sing your name? You only ask um emmy? Well,
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: I asked him to say my name. I thought you
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: want to end to sing it? He said, say it
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: you want to say? I can say his name? Ahead,
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: go ahead, quail P. I'm not telling y'a's black hair. Three.
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: I'm not telling yall alright, what can you eat? Go?
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: Thank you for that interpretation. Okay, McKay, y'all guess figure
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: it out on your own. Go do your own research.
- 1:06:58Speaker 1: I'm not telling y'all white man. I agree with you.
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: That's what I saw, all right. That's the description that
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: I think okay, all right, keep it lock. We have
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: more coming up next. It's the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy.
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: We all the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: joining us this morning. That's right, doctor jess that's Jessica Clemens.
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: Good morning, if morning. Thank y'all so much for having me.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: I really appreciate y'all. I want to ask you a
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: question I ask everybody, and I really want to honest answer,
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: how are you in this moment? I'm pretty good because
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: I'm here with y'all, but I think, like everybody else,
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: I'm really getting sick and tired of all these zoom meetings,
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: and I'm getting tired of not being able to touch
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: and whole folks. So I'm doing good in this moment,
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: but overall a lot of anxiety, a lot of like
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: sadness around not really being able to do the things
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: that we were doing before the pandemic. How's the baby?
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: How's the baby? Brilliant all, he's doing so well. He's great.
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: He's thirteen months, so he's just so active and cruising
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: and he's getting to live his best life. Because he's
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: with us every moment, every single day. So it's still
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: been it's still been great. Have you been out at all?
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: Have you took him out at all? Or No, we did.
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: We actually went to the beach recently, and so that
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: was nice. It was a nice little moment for him
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: to get to try something new. But generally, no, we're
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: still pretty safe around keeping him safe, especially you know,
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: children can't get vaccinated, and so we just want to
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: think about his safety first and foremost. For sure. Have
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: you thought about how psychologically it might impact a little
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: brilliant being a baby that was born during COVID and
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: in the house for thirteen months damning. I think about
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: all the children, you know, I think about this is
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: a tough time for kids to grow up in this way.
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: I know my baby's gonna be good, so I'm not,
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: you know, as worried about him, but I think there
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: are definitely families out there who may not have the
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: same resources or have the same support. You know, my
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: husband law is incredible, and so together we're able to
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: really provide him with a lot of support. We have
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: family who see them. So I think a lot about
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: the psychological impact that other children may may especially have
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: if they don't have good support system. They apparents who
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: are stressed out and maybe not able to tolerate you know,
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: the normal stuff that happens when kids are growing, so
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: they might be lashing out, and then also not having
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: access to like family and really being able to provide
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: them that nurturing space. I definitely think about the kids
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: for sure. You know, we just had to ask you
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: this morning and I was saying that and there were
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: some issues that their baby was also like about a
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: year old, and the couple wasn't getting along at all, right,
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: And I was thinking about postpartum depression and how sometimes
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: that can play a role and people don't know about that.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: Did you have any issues that you had to overcome
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: after having a baby, And for couples out there and
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: women out there who might be suffering from that, what
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: are the signs? Absolutely? I mean me personally, I I
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: think I didn't experience those symptoms. You know, I had
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: a home birth. I had like an incredible team. I had,
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: you know, people who are checking in on me and
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: again like a very supportive husband. But you know, I
- 1:10:10Speaker 1: think for a lot of people, they don't have access
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: to that they may have had a very difficult birth,
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: so they're coping with you know, c section and trying
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: to like adjust to all that. So postpartum depression really
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: looks like more than just like the normal blues that
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: most women get after they give birth, Like eighty percent
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: of women have like that blue, sad feeling that gets
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: better with breath. But postpartum depression is persistently low depressed mood.
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: You're having trouble functioning, you're not connecting as well with
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: your baby. Your baby really needs to see that expression.
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: They need to see mom's smile in response to, you know,
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: something cute that the kid is doing. And so when
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: people moms are depressed experiencing postpartum depression, their facial expressions
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: aren't really as engaging, and so the child is not
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: getting that human kind of interaction that they need to
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: also develop. It also can look like having some really
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: dark thoughts, you know, suicidal thoughts can occur, but it's
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: treatable and to your point, angel it, I think it's
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: something that's very common. But also a lot of pediatricians
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: are checking in our moms when they're bringing their kid
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: in for visits. Your O G y N should be
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: asking about that, and again it's treatable, usually with an antidepressant,
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: and people go sort of right back to where they
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: were before. You know, you know, doctor Jess, it is
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: mental Health Awareness Month. We did something I think earlier
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: this week for MTV, and now I was just wondering,
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: is there actually any benefit for these awareness months? I
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: think so absolutely right, we're talking about it. We're getting
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: people who maybe don't really engage with this type of
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: conversation to be engaging. Right to your point, Chargerman, I've
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: been doing so many talks this month. I have another
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: one today. Actually, I've been doing so many talks with organizations.
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: So what that's telling me is that people are trying
- 1:11:48Speaker 1: to raise the awareness. But then one of the things
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: I did talk about during our panel together was that
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: it's also time to talk about resources, where to get help,
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: how to get help. It's time for therapists also to
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: do a better job at working with underrepresented groups. I
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: know I always talk about this when I'm here with Doll,
- 1:12:05Speaker 1: that we've got to get white therapists to do a
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: better job at taking care of black and brown patients,
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: like they don't need to be in the in the
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: rooms with their therapists feeling like they got to justify
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: everything that they've experienced. So I think it does help.
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: I think we're talking about it. But I think we
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: have to keep moving the needle forward to maybe make
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: Mental Health Awareness Month about like a day of action
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: or a month of action. People showing selfies going into
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: their therapist office, or people taking selfies of themselves taking
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: their psychiatric medication. I think we have to really normalize
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: it too, and so next next year, let's maybe make
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: that a part of Mental Health Awareness Month. For sure,
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: all we got more with doctor Jess. When we come back,
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: is dj Envy Angela Yee Schlomne, the guy we are
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club was still kicking with doctor Jess. Have
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: two questions. The first question is a kind of a
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: light question. Do you respect doctor Leonard McKelvey as a doctor? No,
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: and she does. She shouldn't ask you had we had
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: her and I had this conversation. By the way, doctor
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: Jess is a real doctor. She actually put in the work.
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: J I'm just an honorary doctor. I don't even know
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: of what doctor. How do you feel about doctor lepect
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: I hate him. I love it, you know, I respect
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: I respect charl Vne's work and really contributing to like
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: breaking the stigma. I think that was one of the
- 1:13:28Speaker 1: first things we talked about when we were, you know,
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: teaming up to do the first live televised therapy session.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: Like you said to me, like, let's eradicate the stigma,
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: and so I respect that. I think that. I appreciate
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: also that you do recognize that takes so much work
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: to get this and a lot of money. I'm like, ooh,
- 1:13:42Speaker 1: it's like a lot of money to you know, get
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: all these letters. But I think it's important and I
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: do respect you for that absolutely. I was just joking.
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: My real question is social media. Do you think we
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: should just throw social media away? I think social media
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: does so much damage to ade kids, teenagers. I think
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: it's part of the reason why people go I don't
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: want to say the word crazy, but they go crazy.
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: I think it's why a lot of people, even like
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: even some of the mass shootings are due to the
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: social media and bullying. So do you think we should
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: just eradicate social media? As far as Twitter, Instagram, Facebook,
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: and all lot of other stuff. I mean, I think
- 1:14:18Speaker 1: I think that would be really interesting if we did. Like,
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: I agree with you, there's so many issues with social media.
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: You know, I'm thinking about young black boys. Their suicibrates
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: are increasing. Even though we say boys in general the
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: rate is LORI, but it is not within our black boys.
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: So you know, I think that social media causes a
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: lot of issues. Right, there's data that supports it causes
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: increased depression, suicidal thinking, and young girls. So you know,
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: if it happens, I definitely would support it. I mean,
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: but that also would mean people may not have access
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: to resources and community. But we've got to do something.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: I think we should kill the algorithm. That's what I
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: think we really should get rid of. I don't think
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: that it should be determining what we're engaging with. You know,
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: if you if you spend a few moments on let's
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: say some celebrities Instagram account and you're kind of liking
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: certain videos, anallymus that in all of your feed is
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: going to feed you more of that. So I think
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: this algorithm really is the bigger issue. If we could
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: have timelines that are curated specifically on based on like
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: what we want or how we're feeling, I don't want
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: to give you know, these social media platforms ideas, but
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: if they could maybe focus on how you're feeling that
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: day and target material that helps you or targets material
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: that keeps you in that mood state, I think that
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: would be so much better. But there are so many issues. Parents.
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: You got to monitor your children. Do not let them
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: just be on social media all day because it is
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: causing comments. The cafeteria is going from like the little
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: space that we knew to everywhere all the time. Like
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: I dreaded walking into the cafeteria some days because I knew, like, oh,
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: this is where things get weld. But imagine having your
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: phone as the cafeteria day and night. Like it's about
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: just kill the comments, Like just kill the comments. I mean,
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: you know, they're obviously positive and negative, and you know,
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: you just you know, it's because I think a lot
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: of people are you know a lot of people are
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: hurt from the comments. Absolutely, I mean, you know, Hailey
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: Bieber actually shared that she she's cut down the comments.
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: We I interviewed her for YouTube channel, and one of
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: the things that she said was that she specifically only
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: lets people that she follows or you know that she
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: chooses to engage with her in the comments, and I
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: think that's you've got to curate your world. You got
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: to treat social media as an extension of like your
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: immediate world. You got to think about it as curating
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: exactly what you want kill the comments. Certainly, anybody can
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: do that. Absolutely. I saw you say that people have
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: to be very intentional about their use of social media.
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: So talk about, like, I guess more, the positive effects
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: of social media, especially in the mental health man. Absolutely,
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: I mean there's so many accounts, you know, I feel
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: like back in twenty eighteen when I was going hard
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: in social media to talk about mental health, since then,
- 1:16:54Speaker 1: so many accounts are are doing the same. I mean,
- 1:16:56Speaker 1: they've got they've got words to kind of educate you
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: about this signs of illness. They've got resources they can
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: tell you where to find help. Like, there's a lot
- 1:17:04Speaker 1: of accounts that actually have directories that you can, you know,
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: find the right therapist for you based on your specific
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: interests and needs. You know, you can also find people
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: that are like minded so that you can you know,
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: have in real life connections, especially as things have begun
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: to open up across the country. So I think there
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: are a lot of opportunities if you go into it
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: focusing on what it is that you're looking for. Like
- 1:17:27Speaker 1: for me, I don't follow a lot of celebrity accounts.
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: I don't follow a lot of the like accounts that
- 1:17:32Speaker 1: you're kind of talking junk about people because I find
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: that that's just going to feed an algorithm that I'm
- 1:17:37Speaker 1: not interested in. It's clean, I'll check them out here
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: and there. So just think about that. Be cognizant and
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: be accounts following. Pay attention to how you feel. Like
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: if you're on it and you feel drained after, you know,
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: take a moment off of it, maybe take a break.
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: Delete the app. It'll be there when you get back.
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: You know, don't delete your account and you don't want
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: somebody to take your special name, but you know, delete
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: the app, come back to it when you're feeling better.
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: Give yourself only a period of time that you're using it.
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: Don't start your mourning off looking at social media. Starts
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: your mourning off with some mindfulness, meditation, reflects on your day,
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: think about all the goals that you want to achieve.
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: But you know, again, don't go straight for the phone
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: and open the app because it's designed to keep you
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: in it, and it's going to do whatever it can
- 1:18:17Speaker 1: to keep you in it, to get those ads, to
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: make sure that you're spending valors. I mean, it's really
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: all about the companies using these platforms in a way
- 1:18:25Speaker 1: to kind of again generate money. So these are just
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: a few things to think about if you feel bad
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: when you're on social media, just take a break from it.
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: You think about Brilliant and what you're going to do
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: with him when he's of age to be on social media.
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: I see there to understand, like an Instagram for younger kids. Absolutely,
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: you know, Instagram recently reach out to me to be
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: a part of learning about some of the works that
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: they're doing to try to, you know, kind of work
- 1:18:50Speaker 1: around the issues that are coming up with mental health.
- 1:18:52Speaker 1: And that is one of the things that you know,
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: I mentioned to someone as you were starting starting to
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: kind of this conversation that you know, I don't think
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: it's a good idea. I think that children should really
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: just get to be kids. They don't need to be
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: already groomed to like be on social media. They have
- 1:19:05Speaker 1: plenty of time for that, you know. And actually another
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: thing to Angela that came up is. You know, I
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: think about parents that are like posting their kids all
- 1:19:12Speaker 1: the time on social media, Like I definitely don't do
- 1:19:16Speaker 1: it often, and I always feel like really anxious when
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: I do it not so much, and I'm worried about
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: like what people think about how he looks or what,
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: you know, what I have him dressed in. But more
- 1:19:25Speaker 1: so that you know, there's definitely going to be opportunities
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: for people to do identity theft. I actually read about
- 1:19:31Speaker 1: you know that perhaps in like twenty thirty years, this
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: social media and what parents are posting is going to
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: provide the most data for people to steal their kids identity.
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: So there's just so much to think about. You know,
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: it's fun and it's cute to be on social media,
- 1:19:45Speaker 1: but it's it's collecting our data. It's also not giving
- 1:19:47Speaker 1: kids a chance to consent and to teach them about
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: what it means to decide what you want to put
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: on social media. So I think about it. I don't
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: think my child will be able to, at least in
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: my awareness, have access to it. But you know, kids
- 1:19:59Speaker 1: do what they do, all right. We got more with
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: doctor Jess when we come back. Don't move. It's the
- 1:20:03Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are to
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We're still kicking with doctor Jess. Now, how
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: do you tell somebody to heal? How do you helpe
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: somebody to heal when they lost somebody close to them.
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: My wife recently lost her mother, and you know, I
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: don't know what to say, you know, I mean, like
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: what like there is nothing that you can say. Of
- 1:20:28Speaker 1: course I'm heard as well because she was a mom
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: to me as well. So how do you help people heal?
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: How does that healing process work? I think it's also important,
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: especially with loss, to understand that grief is going to
- 1:20:40Speaker 1: be like there's no way around it, you know, grief
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: is it's it's something that catches people completely off guard.
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: They're going to be dealing with big emotions sadness, denial, anger,
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: and the emotions that they'll feel will come up in waves.
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: So I think one of the things to tell people
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: is really that you understand what they're going through. Speak
- 1:21:01Speaker 1: from the heart, you know. I think it's important to
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: share what you are feeling as well, you know, to
- 1:21:06Speaker 1: invite them to also share how they're feeling, what they're
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: going through, you know, share also in the memory of people.
- 1:21:12Speaker 1: I think sometimes when we lose folks, we put them
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: on a T shirt and that's it. We don't really
- 1:21:17Speaker 1: create an honor memories around this person. Because when people
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: pass away, the relationship just changes. You know, we're still
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: thinking about them, We still you know, may have memories
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: that come up. So try to be intentional when it
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: feels right. It may not be you know, right away,
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: but in time develop traditions. Maybe it's you know, around
- 1:21:36Speaker 1: the holiday season, putting up something on the tree if
- 1:21:39Speaker 1: you celebrate Christmas to remember them. Maybe it's making sure
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: they have a photo up on your wall if you have,
- 1:21:44Speaker 1: you know, photos of it's just thinking about adjusting that
- 1:21:47Speaker 1: relationship to think about them even without their physical presence,
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: and then giving people time to grieve us. It's a
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: it's a long process for some people. You know, again,
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: it's going to come and way. Sometimes they may be
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: pren't sometimes they may be sort of checked out or crying,
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: and you just want to be reflective and think about
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: that as they go through it. Because you know, losing
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: a parent, losing a mother, it's something I don't think
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: anyone really ever gets over. But I also think that
- 1:22:12Speaker 1: when you have the right people around you, you have
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: people who are holding space for you to naturally heal,
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: in time, you will develop some peace around that lot.
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: How do you think the mental health community has grown
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: since the beginning of the pandemic, Doctor Justice, Oh, I mean,
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: I think it's grown because look, I am book and
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: really really busy with busits that I have. Virtually, I
- 1:22:35Speaker 1: think so many people are going into see therapists primarily
- 1:22:39Speaker 1: because this is a really hard time. People are stressed out,
- 1:22:41Speaker 1: people have lost jobs, people have lost the ability to
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: connect in real life. So I think the community itself
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: has grown in terms of people coming in for help.
- 1:22:51Speaker 1: I know we still need therapists. We still need black therapists,
- 1:22:54Speaker 1: we still need brown therapists. We need people to be
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: able to connect with communities against to help with that
- 1:23:00Speaker 1: barrier that comes up when people are seeing folks who
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: don't look like them and they feel stressed. But the
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: community I think is has grown. People are using telepsychiatry
- 1:23:10Speaker 1: or telemedicine telehealth to engage will probably keep seeing that.
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: I plan to continue doing that even when the pandemic,
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: you know, comes to an end, I plan to continue
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: to still offer virtual visits because people can, you know,
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: show up exactly where they are, people who show up,
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: you know, in all sorts of places, and it feels
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: good for them to be able to do that, And
- 1:23:29Speaker 1: I think it's something that I hope other people will
- 1:23:32Speaker 1: continue to offer to in the future. Is it okay
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: for people who started therapy during the pandemic to stop
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: going just because the world is opening back up, outside
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: is opening back up, you know. I think if you're
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: if you're particularly going into therapy because you've been feeling
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: overwhelmed and stressed and isolated by the pandemic, and you
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: start to feel much better now that you have access
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: to your friends and you can go to branch and
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: all that good stuff. Sure you can stop it, but
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: I think some people might find that they're really starting
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: to do that deep inner work. They're learning how to
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: kill from past traumas, and so sometimes staying in even
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: when things feel like they're better, can really be helpful.
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: So I think it's important to talk to your therapists
- 1:24:12Speaker 1: if you're in a place like you think you want
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: to stop, because you might learn that it might make
- 1:24:16Speaker 1: sense to say, but certainly there're going to be people
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: who will take a break and that's okay. Can you
- 1:24:22Speaker 1: break down some ways people can support the mental health
- 1:24:28Speaker 1: of the loved ones of people who are dealing with
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: mental health issues, because that's been a conversation that I've
- 1:24:34Speaker 1: been having with a lot of people. A lot of
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: people I know have family members who are dealing with schizophrenia,
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: bipolar and that's taking a toll on them. So how
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: do we support the loved ones of people dealing with
- 1:24:45Speaker 1: mental health issues? Yeah, I think it's important to also
- 1:24:50Speaker 1: just think about these people when you are engaging with them.
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: Check on them. How are they feeling, how are they doing,
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: do they need help with anything, do they need their
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: health clean? Do they need a male cook? You really
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: want to think about them as being caregivers, Especially for
- 1:25:03Speaker 1: severe mental illnesses like schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, these can really
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: be taxing on people who are supporting them, So really
- 1:25:11Speaker 1: checking on them also, you know, take some time to
- 1:25:14Speaker 1: think about what is it that they might need. Do
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: they need to have a support group. I would encourage
- 1:25:18Speaker 1: people to really engage in those you know, I think
- 1:25:21Speaker 1: people go to support groups for being caregivers or people
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: who have like cancer or other severe physical illnesses. But
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: people who are also caregivers for people with severe mental
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: illness should also engage in support groups. So you know,
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: look up lists. Noni dot org does a great resource
- 1:25:36Speaker 1: to find about groups, look up lists in your community
- 1:25:39Speaker 1: and maybe offer that. But again checking on them, try
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: to stand in the gap, give them support if they have,
- 1:25:45Speaker 1: you know, needs that could be met, help them take
- 1:25:47Speaker 1: a break, Offer to drive you know, their their loved
- 1:25:50Speaker 1: one to an appointment if you're able to do that.
- 1:25:53Speaker 1: But I think just keeping them in your mind and
- 1:25:56Speaker 1: checking in regularly is going to be a really great
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: a great start for people now, for people who are
- 1:26:01Speaker 1: you that are new to this and just hearing it
- 1:26:03Speaker 1: now and say, hey, I want this is something I
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: want to try, and let me try a therapist. Is
- 1:26:06Speaker 1: there something online? What advice would you give them? And
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: do you have any information for those people? Where do
- 1:26:10Speaker 1: you get started? Yes? Oh yeah, so I think the
- 1:26:14Speaker 1: great The great thing right now is that there's so
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: many resources out there. There's so many directories. So I
- 1:26:19Speaker 1: tell people start with looking at psychology today. It's a
- 1:26:22Speaker 1: little bit of an older directory, but there are definitely
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: most therapists do you put their information up on there.
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: You can search if you want, like a male therapist,
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: a woman, a black doctor. Whatever it is that you're
- 1:26:33Speaker 1: looking for, you can find it there. Also they're really
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: cool directories like therapy for Black Girl, Therapy for Black Men.
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: There's also something called Inclusive Therapists, which gives people access
- 1:26:43Speaker 1: again to different types of resources. And then you can
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: also you know, get really you know created, if you
- 1:26:48Speaker 1: want to do like a Google search specifically in your area,
- 1:26:51Speaker 1: you'll find that a lot of therapists have started to
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: create websites and you'll get a match and you might
- 1:26:57Speaker 1: find someone in your area that has the exact niche
- 1:27:00Speaker 1: that you want. UM. And then I think think if
- 1:27:02Speaker 1: thinking about some of these talk space apps. You know,
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: the only challenge I have with some of those apps
- 1:27:07Speaker 1: is sometimes you're texting and that is not really a
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: form of therapy. So you just want to think about that. UM,
- 1:27:13Speaker 1: if you are choosing to use that, you really want
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: to at least have a video where you're seeing a person,
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: or obviously in person is even better. UM. So just
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: be cognizant where you're choosing some of these newer platforms,
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: because also your information isn't always protected. Um, and so
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: that's something to know too. Thank you Dad to dad.
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: Can I want to ask one more question for you?
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: Go do oh you gotta go. I'm sorry, you gotta go.
- 1:27:35Speaker 1: I have one thing too I want to share. Go ahead.
- 1:27:38Speaker 1: My audio book is finally um finished yea. So it's
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: it's be Well, y'all know. I established that in like
- 1:27:49Speaker 1: twenty eighteen with my conversation series. People are definitely trying
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: to use that now. But whatever, be Well is an
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