Latest / Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED / Abby says she's dating someone on the Lightning?!
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Nine. Welcome back to another episode of Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Yes surprise. If you are now starting to listen, you're like,
- 0:09Speaker 2: wait a second, I didn't know Scotty cuss. I do occasionally.
- 0:13Speaker 1: How many cuss words can I get you to say
- 0:15Speaker 1: in this one episode? Oh, let's take a bet.
- 0:17Speaker 2: I don't know if this is gonna be the one
- 0:18Speaker 2: where I'm letting it rip.
- 0:19Speaker 1: What if we just put it all out there, like
- 0:21Speaker 1: you just say them all once, just to show that
- 0:23Speaker 1: you can say them it is well, and then you
- 0:25Speaker 1: don't say them again. That's so wild.
- 0:27Speaker 2: Like I don't always use a word that that's powerful,
- 0:30Speaker 2: but it's so crazy in this building because I mean,
- 0:34Speaker 2: we did a podcast a couple episodes ago. I popped
- 0:36Speaker 2: off a little bit, not gonna lie about that. Every
- 0:39Speaker 2: single person in this building has stopped me and said,
- 0:41Speaker 2: oh my god.
- 0:41Speaker 1: You said the F word.
- 0:42Speaker 2: You cussed.
- 0:43Speaker 1: I feel very honored that the first time you publicly
- 0:46Speaker 1: used a swear word it was for my owner.
- 0:49Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely. It's like it's you poke a bear.
- 0:52Speaker 2: What do you think the bear is going to do? Giggle?
- 0:55Speaker 1: No, it depends on the bear, Scotty, I'm not.
- 0:57Speaker 2: A giggling bear. You look like a real I am
- 1:01Speaker 2: until you poke me. That's why I let it rip.
- 1:03Speaker 2: Doesn't happen all the time, but it can happen here
- 1:05Speaker 2: because it's unfiltered. So just keep that in mind, especially
- 1:08Speaker 2: if there's young ears around. But yesterday, completely new situation.
- 1:12Speaker 2: We took Abby on a whole new adventure, which honestly,
- 1:16Speaker 2: we almost did you a disservice, Abbey.
- 1:18Speaker 1: In what way?
- 1:20Speaker 2: We let the night be too good?
- 1:21Speaker 1: Oh? It was too fun. I would say. Yesterday was
- 1:23Speaker 1: like my ideal Tampa afternoon.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:26Speaker 1: We walked from my house mm hmmm, which didn't feel
- 1:29Speaker 1: nearly as long as I thought I was going to.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Let's say you had a great company myself. I went
- 1:33Speaker 2: and I parked over at Abbey's and we walked over.
- 1:35Speaker 2: And I will say, I am so jealous because Abby
- 1:38Speaker 2: lives in Tampa and there's this beautiful walk It's like
- 1:41Speaker 2: Bay Shore, We're all. Honestly, as I was driving up,
- 1:43Speaker 2: I was like, is this where the prettiest people in
- 1:45Speaker 2: the world come to walk?
- 1:46Speaker 1: No, literally it is. I feel like I have to
- 1:49Speaker 1: put on a full maybe not a full face of makeup.
- 1:51Speaker 1: I feel like I can't walk Bay Shore if I
- 1:53Speaker 1: look like garbage.
- 1:54Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was. I was really taking note because
- 1:56Speaker 2: I've learned a lot as we've had our conversation of
- 1:58Speaker 2: like how much women think about that their outfits, their
- 2:00Speaker 2: fits that they're going to work out in. I thought
- 2:02Speaker 2: about definitely all the men that you see down there.
- 2:05Speaker 1: I was like, they're all ripped, all of them, They're
- 2:08Speaker 1: all ripped.
- 2:08Speaker 2: I was like, I don't even know you could have
- 2:10Speaker 2: muscles there. I know that's ridiculous, but I was taking
- 2:12Speaker 2: note of like, wow, look at the sets you know
- 2:15Speaker 2: on like, that's a cool outfit. That's a cool outfit
- 2:18Speaker 2: you come out dressed to impress. It's not just a workout.
- 2:21Speaker 2: That is a place that you want to show And
- 2:23Speaker 2: what a great place if you're feeling social enough to
- 2:27Speaker 2: meet some really cool people or a potential.
- 2:30Speaker 1: Boo, potential boo. That's where I would want to find
- 2:32Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I think that's a great place to it.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Other than tub club, well, tub club. This Sunday very
- 2:36Speaker 1: we talked about Luke on the podcast we did. That's
- 2:38Speaker 1: where we came up with Luke lucas my fictional boyfriend.
- 2:42Speaker 2: Club Yeah, he's probably gonna be in the tub right
- 2:43Speaker 2: and you're gonna hop in he's gonna be.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Oh, it's no big deal. Just take a deep breath. Okay,
- 2:47Speaker 1: First of all, Luca's not gonna talk like that.
- 2:49Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Okay, how's he gonna sound?
- 2:51Speaker 1: Lucas gonna sound like a big man man? Ye? Hey,
- 2:53Speaker 1: welcome to the tub. Is this your first time? Hey,
- 2:55Speaker 1: I didn't even pee in this tub yet. Oh I'm
- 2:57Speaker 1: not gonna pee. But if you want to be really comfortable,
- 2:59Speaker 1: just take a deep breath. And I've done this so
- 3:01Speaker 1: many times. I love cold plunges. That the guy you're
- 3:04Speaker 1: looking for right now?
- 3:05Speaker 2: Wow? Interesting? Well, I think Also there's this run club
- 3:08Speaker 2: called we give shout out to all the run clubs.
- 3:11Speaker 2: Off balance Off off balance run club is and they
- 3:14Speaker 2: bounce around, but sometimes they do a lot of runs
- 3:16Speaker 2: in like Hyde Park, Bay Shore, so you get to
- 3:19Speaker 2: be that promenade objectively.
- 3:20Speaker 1: I don't want to be off balance if i'm running though.
- 3:22Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it's that you're gonna fall. I
- 3:25Speaker 2: think it's actually I don't know why it's called that.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Yeah, shouldn't be balanced to run club like like good equilibrium.
- 3:32Speaker 1: I think you really like that run club too. They're
- 3:34Speaker 1: very nice.
- 3:35Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're like really cool. They have a great
- 3:38Speaker 2: I'm gonna say leader for this case because my brain's
- 3:40Speaker 2: tired from l leader. But they have great organization. Yeah,
- 3:44Speaker 2: and so they know where they're running. They don't get
- 3:46Speaker 2: in people's way, they're very respectful, and they always do
- 3:48Speaker 2: a little social afterwards. I do love that. But all
- 3:51Speaker 2: this to say, as we're walking by, it was such
- 3:53Speaker 2: a perfect afternoon. Walked on Bay Shore, got to walk
- 3:57Speaker 2: up through right by Harbor Island, walk up to the
- 4:00Speaker 2: stadium or the arena, and then finally we made it happen.
- 4:05Speaker 2: You took me to Bulan. It took you to Bulan,
- 4:07Speaker 2: Holy out of which is so crazy because I had
- 4:09Speaker 2: a boss I called me and he's like, this is
- 4:11Speaker 2: your first time that going to Bulan and then here
- 4:13Speaker 2: for eleven years.
- 4:14Speaker 1: And let me put this out there because we had
- 4:16Speaker 1: a we had a conversation with our boss in a
- 4:19Speaker 1: group text and she's like, don't take a shot every
- 4:21Speaker 1: time Abby mentions Bulan on this podcast. And I'm like,
- 4:24Speaker 1: you know what, I don't even really like Bulan that much.
- 4:27Speaker 1: I just I enjoy sitting at the bar. I love
- 4:30Speaker 1: people watching, and it's conveniently located to me.
- 4:34Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think the cool thing is that I realized,
- 4:36Speaker 2: and I was talking to Abby about this, you know
- 4:38Speaker 2: those restaurants are that just feel so elegant.
- 4:40Speaker 1: It's a very elegant bar. The crowd there, Oh my god.
- 4:45Speaker 1: The story's at that bar, Like, I want to sit
- 4:48Speaker 1: there longer, and I want to get the wine. Mommy's
- 4:51Speaker 1: drunk enough to tell me their tales of old.
- 4:54Speaker 2: I want to have a night like that where you
- 4:55Speaker 2: sit there and you have a couple and you just
- 4:57Speaker 2: let the night just kind of go, where you look
- 5:00Speaker 2: over to your left and you start a new conversation.
- 5:01Speaker 2: Somebody bumps into and you're like, oh, and then that
- 5:03Speaker 2: turns into a conversation. Yes, perfect bar for that. That's
- 5:06Speaker 2: why I like that bar.
- 5:07Speaker 1: So when I say oil boo, I just really love
- 5:09Speaker 1: the idea of the kind of night I could have there.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Yeah, and I like the look of it. I like
- 5:12Speaker 2: a nice big I like the lighting in there. It's
- 5:14Speaker 2: so weird. As I've gotten older, there are more things
- 5:17Speaker 2: that I take note of that I appreciate that I
- 5:19Speaker 2: never did when I was younger. Lighting yes, aesthetic. I
- 5:22Speaker 2: didn't give a crap about aesthetic growing up.
- 5:24Speaker 1: It was so classy. I mean literally the kind of
- 5:27Speaker 1: money that was in that building, Oh my god, oh ridiculous.
- 5:29Speaker 1: I was looking around at all the tables and I
- 5:31Speaker 1: was going, oh, these people have definitely.
- 5:33Speaker 2: I thought about taking somebody's wallet just for the fun
- 5:35Speaker 2: of it. See what's in.
- 5:35Speaker 1: There, Like, we're not gonna take it, We're just going
- 5:39Speaker 1: to take it and then give it back.
- 5:40Speaker 2: I just want to take a little peak. I just
- 5:41Speaker 2: want to see what it looks like. How heavy are
- 5:43Speaker 2: your cards compared to mine.
- 5:44Speaker 1: They probably have credit cards we haven't even heard of.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Yeah, they have an old undermarket that's like you have
- 5:48Speaker 2: to have a certain level of income to even apply
- 5:51Speaker 2: for this card.
- 5:51Speaker 1: It's not American Express, it's Global Express.
- 5:53Speaker 2: So the perfect night was we went over to for
- 5:56Speaker 2: the eighteenth time Boulon.
- 5:58Speaker 1: We try to get a better over it now. We
- 6:00Speaker 1: went to that restaurant, we went to the and then
- 6:03Speaker 1: we walked over to the Lightning game.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Yeah, and we went out there and we're waiting for Alexia.
- 6:08Speaker 2: But then the most organic, beautiful moment that needed to
- 6:12Speaker 2: happen happened. Because Abby has now been the controversy of
- 6:17Speaker 2: Tampa Bay because she likes to put out awesome videos
- 6:19Speaker 2: where she's just putting her opinion out there. It's funny,
- 6:22Speaker 2: it's satire and if you understand humor, you probably laugh
- 6:25Speaker 2: along too.
- 6:26Speaker 1: You know who we need to bring on this podcast
- 6:28Speaker 1: before we get into this very casual encounter. Maybe I
- 6:32Speaker 1: need to table this and maybe we need to discuss
- 6:34Speaker 1: this beforehand, because there's somebody else in Tampa putting out
- 6:38Speaker 1: almost nearly identical content to mine. But there's one difference
- 6:41Speaker 1: between the two of us, and I think it's do
- 6:43Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about? No, there's one difference
- 6:46Speaker 1: between the two of us. It's not exactly the same,
- 6:48Speaker 1: but it's like the same type of content. That dude,
- 6:50Speaker 1: it's a man, and no one's saying anything to him.
- 6:54Speaker 2: That's a cool you know. I thought about that yesterday.
- 6:57Speaker 2: I know we're not getting into it. No, let's well,
- 7:00Speaker 2: we're valid to say that though. I think that's a
- 7:02Speaker 2: valid opposuation because here's what I will here's what I
- 7:04Speaker 2: will say about the situation. Ye yeah, on Abby's videos,
- 7:06Speaker 2: there's a lot of people that stitch them too. There's
- 7:08Speaker 2: a lot of people that stitch them, react to them,
- 7:10Speaker 2: comment on them that are just like bruh, Like it's
- 7:14Speaker 2: it ain't that deep.
- 7:15Speaker 1: It's just really not that serious anyway. But what I'm
- 7:18Speaker 1: trying to say is I keep getting sent this guy's
- 7:19Speaker 1: videos and because I think we're gonna have Tampa Terrence
- 7:22Speaker 1: on next week if he responds to my DM, we
- 7:25Speaker 1: need to get I think his name is Tampa Tyler.
- 7:27Speaker 1: Let me see no, Like, no, no, I don't think
- 7:31Speaker 1: I made that up. Are you gonna be his name
- 7:34Speaker 1: is Tyler. I don't know if he goes by Tampa Tyler.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I think I might have just called him Tampa Tyler.
- 7:38Speaker 2: In my head, I think that's what was a name
- 7:40Speaker 2: that we gave somebody like three podcasts a go.
- 7:42Speaker 1: That was Tampa Tray. And that's somebody different. By the way,
- 7:45Speaker 1: I saw Tampa Tray, whose name is not Trey or
- 7:47Speaker 1: to introduce yourself, No, I saw him while I was
- 7:50Speaker 1: walking to get that margarite the last Friday, and I
- 7:52Speaker 1: almost thought about saying something, but I'm like, that's kind
- 7:55Speaker 1: of weird.
- 7:55Speaker 2: No you should. I think that's a very valid person
- 7:58Speaker 2: to say. If you see them on Instagram, say it up.
- 8:00Speaker 2: It's kind of like if you see us out and about.
- 8:01Speaker 2: I love when people say hello, you get stopped a lot.
- 8:05Speaker 2: Well now because we're doing a podcast and a show
- 8:08Speaker 2: and it's starting to grow.
- 8:09Speaker 1: I love that I never get stopped. I didn't even
- 8:12Speaker 1: even in Atlanta, I didn't really get stopped a lot.
- 8:14Speaker 2: I think you're going to start now because we're starting
- 8:16Speaker 2: to do more things locally and we're out and about
- 8:18Speaker 2: more and people are putting two and two together. But
- 8:21Speaker 2: a lot of people and I will say this, and
- 8:22Speaker 2: that's I do the same thing. But if like I
- 8:25Speaker 2: see somebody and like I don't want to bother them
- 8:26Speaker 2: or I don't want to like intrude, you could always
- 8:29Speaker 2: intrude on me. I don't care if I'm like, if
- 8:30Speaker 2: you see me, I don't know why I would be
- 8:31Speaker 2: sleeping on that like a bench, but like wake me up,
- 8:33Speaker 2: say hello.
- 8:33Speaker 1: But also say hey, this is where I know you from,
- 8:35Speaker 1: cause I the one thing that I was really bad
- 8:37Speaker 1: about is like older gentlemen would talk to me in
- 8:40Speaker 1: Atlanta and I'd be like, why is this man just
- 8:42Speaker 1: randomly talking to me? And my you're rear a woman?
- 8:45Speaker 1: Mine goes danger danger, And then like somewhere along the line,
- 8:48Speaker 1: they'd be like, oh, by the way, I just want
- 8:49Speaker 1: to know my huge listener. I'm like, can we have
- 8:51Speaker 1: what can you lead with that? So the whole time
- 8:53Speaker 1: I'm out like, why is this fifty year old man
- 8:56Speaker 1: chatting me up? You know what I mean, because otherwise
- 8:57Speaker 1: I think you're trying to make me your sugar baby?
- 8:59Speaker 2: Well would you say?
- 9:00Speaker 1: Yes? Depends on him.
- 9:01Speaker 2: It depends you're hanging in the right area water Street.
- 9:04Speaker 2: But what I think yesterday made it so special is
- 9:07Speaker 2: because we're walking over and then you know, with one
- 9:09Speaker 2: of the videos you started talking about the colts of
- 9:11Speaker 2: Tampa Bay. Yes, yes, and one of the ones that
- 9:13Speaker 2: got people real fared up.
- 9:15Speaker 1: This is the only one I got pushback on, but
- 9:18Speaker 1: not even in a serious.
- 9:19Speaker 2: Way, and the greatest way, possibly just.
- 9:21Speaker 1: Because what I loved about making this point was somebody
- 9:25Speaker 1: said the comment section is proving her.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Point exactly, and that was your comment about the cult
- 9:32Speaker 2: of Thunderbug.
- 9:32Speaker 1: Underbug, because you told me about this, You're like, oh
- 9:35Speaker 1: my god, there's a group of people that are just
- 9:37Speaker 1: crazily obsessed with thunder Well here's the.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Thing, and I will say this with my chest, there
- 9:42Speaker 2: is not a better mascot than Thunderbug, hands down, point blank,
- 9:47Speaker 2: point proven. Anytime you go to a Lightning game, and
- 9:49Speaker 2: I knew that's what would happen. So if you've gone
- 9:51Speaker 2: to a Tampa Bay Lightning game, you know that the
- 9:54Speaker 2: Bug knows how to work on the ice with the fans,
- 9:58Speaker 2: out on the plaza, out the through the community. And
- 10:01Speaker 2: the Bug and I have a cool relationship because every
- 10:03Speaker 2: time I do a charity event or I'm hosting an
- 10:06Speaker 2: event and the Bugs there, we have the greatest bug relationship.
- 10:10Speaker 2: We have this like bond that's so special where we
- 10:13Speaker 2: hug and embrace and I know their whole team.
- 10:15Speaker 1: And I actually got to be.
- 10:16Speaker 2: An honorary bug keeper at one of the games, the
- 10:19Speaker 2: first one, and so I knew as soon as you
- 10:22Speaker 2: got to meet Thunderbug, I.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Would get it. Yes, you know why Thunderbug is like
- 10:27Speaker 1: that popular kid in school. Yes that you can't quite
- 10:30Speaker 1: pinpoint why he's popular, And then you realize it's because
- 10:34Speaker 1: that kid makes you feel so special that it makes
- 10:37Speaker 1: you like them more. You don't mean like how people
- 10:40Speaker 1: like people who like them.
- 10:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I think about them, and they always make it
- 10:43Speaker 2: about you.
- 10:43Speaker 1: They always make it about you, and he made that
- 10:45Speaker 1: moment so special. He's like, oh my god, it's your
- 10:47Speaker 1: first game. I mean he's obviously not talking, yeah, giving
- 10:51Speaker 1: a big hug. He's dancing with me, just so sweet
- 10:53Speaker 1: and so fun that I was like, you know what,
- 10:55Speaker 1: I love you. Yeah, And I want to bear your children.
- 10:58Speaker 1: I want to bear your little thunder babies to the
- 11:02Speaker 1: what do they call it? Oh, never mind, it's gonna
- 11:05Speaker 1: be too graphic.
- 11:05Speaker 2: It's weird.
- 11:06Speaker 1: Underbug was putting the moves on me.
- 11:07Speaker 2: Thunderbug was, I'm telling you what if Underbug knows how
- 11:09Speaker 2: to back it up, knows how to shake that bug
- 11:11Speaker 2: rumper and also make.
- 11:13Speaker 1: You feel so special.
- 11:13Speaker 2: And the Bug pulled out a sign that said my
- 11:16Speaker 2: first game. It's like they were just ready for you.
- 11:18Speaker 2: And we took amazing photos and they danced around in
- 11:21Speaker 2: the plaza. It was honestly so cute and I want
- 11:24Speaker 2: to post that video up eventually. I think Alexia has it.
- 11:26Speaker 2: But it was such a moment that I was like,
- 11:28Speaker 2: I think you're in the cult now. I think so,
- 11:30Speaker 2: because now here's the thing. Now, every time you see
- 11:32Speaker 2: the Bug, you're like, oh.
- 11:33Speaker 1: The barg listen. I'm not opposed to being in a cult.
- 11:36Speaker 1: I'm just saying that there are cults. I'm not Antai colts.
- 11:40Speaker 1: I'm just saying there are cults.
- 11:41Speaker 2: I want to save that. And you know what, when
- 11:44Speaker 2: the moment happens, you're in. But now we got to
- 11:46Speaker 2: see if we can get you to be an honorary
- 11:47Speaker 2: bug keeper. Yeah, because then you get to do everything
- 11:49Speaker 2: with the bug. You get to go on the ice
- 11:51Speaker 2: of the bug, you get to chant on the glass
- 11:53Speaker 2: of the bug, you get to go around. And the
- 11:55Speaker 2: bug has this little scooter. I don't know if you
- 11:56Speaker 2: saw it yesterday, has like a little motorcycle flies around
- 11:59Speaker 2: the arena on it to get to point A to
- 12:01Speaker 2: point B tow points.
- 12:02Speaker 1: It's crazy. Love a man with the bike.
- 12:04Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you want to get on the back of that?
- 12:06Speaker 1: Come on now.
- 12:06Speaker 2: Yeah, so we got to go in. And I'm so
- 12:09Speaker 2: curious on your thoughts because this was your first lightning game,
- 12:13Speaker 2: but even more importantly, your first hockey game.
- 12:15Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:15Speaker 2: Now, when I first went to a lightning game, I
- 12:18Speaker 2: explained it like watching the dance on the ice. First off,
- 12:21Speaker 2: I'll say this, we have a lot of great sporting
- 12:24Speaker 2: events in Tampa Bay. We got the Rays, we got
- 12:26Speaker 2: the Bucks, we got the rowdies, say we got the lightning.
- 12:29Speaker 2: One of the best places to watch a game is
- 12:31Speaker 2: at the arena is for hockey, Yeah, because the environment,
- 12:34Speaker 2: it's like it's kind of classy but still rowdy. You're
- 12:38Speaker 2: not in the blazing sun. The food's amazing, and the
- 12:41Speaker 2: game is extremely entertaining, at least for me. Once I
- 12:45Speaker 2: started to get it.
- 12:45Speaker 1: I love seeing men and skates.
- 12:47Speaker 2: Ah, and maybe after you've seen Heated Rivalry you appreciate it.
- 12:50Speaker 1: That what I was saying. It was like, I've seen
- 12:52Speaker 1: this film.
- 12:52Speaker 2: Before, so we got I mean, this is why I
- 12:54Speaker 2: said to Abby. I was like, okay, and ain't gonna
- 12:56Speaker 2: be like this every time because one of our bosses
- 12:59Speaker 2: hooked us up with awesome club level like tickets.
- 13:02Speaker 1: Shut up, Mike, and we got jerseys.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Okay, grievance, where's my grave? Oh my gosh, we did
- 13:09Speaker 2: get jerseys. And I'm so grateful.
- 13:12Speaker 1: Do not complain about the three hundred dollars jersey we
- 13:13Speaker 1: were gifted.
- 13:14Speaker 2: I am so grateful, beyond grateful, tearfully grateful. I'm sin
- 13:18Speaker 2: I have been in this building for eight years. For
- 13:21Speaker 2: eight years, I have been whispered to that I might
- 13:25Speaker 2: be getting a jersey said that I'll be getting a jersey.
- 13:28Speaker 2: The show that I worked on, they got jerseys. I
- 13:31Speaker 2: didn't get a jersey. I have always wanted a damn jersey.
- 13:36Speaker 2: And I've been progressively becoming a bigger and bigger Tampa
- 13:39Speaker 2: Bay Lightning fan. I've gone out to their their parades.
- 13:41Speaker 2: When we won the Stanley Cup, I sat there in
- 13:43Speaker 2: the pouring rain at the last one and I just
- 13:45Speaker 2: sat there as we were all getting soaked. Those horribly
- 13:48Speaker 2: fun but out of all those things, it just always
- 13:51Speaker 2: felt like just a little tease, get my hopes up,
- 13:55Speaker 2: get my heart broken, and then all of a sudden,
- 13:58Speaker 2: here comes these are amazing queens. We get Alexia, we
- 14:02Speaker 2: get Abby on Magic ninety four to nine, and within.
- 14:07Speaker 1: Months of you being here that he's actually too much.
- 14:10Speaker 2: Okay, I like that, thank you. That hurts a little
- 14:11Speaker 2: bit more.
- 14:12Speaker 1: I got here in February. When you go to your.
- 14:14Speaker 2: First game, you're in the club level and you're getting
- 14:16Speaker 2: to Tampa Bay Lightning jerseys.
- 14:18Speaker 1: What happens when you're Abby Murphy?
- 14:19Speaker 2: That's word, you know what. I'm so grateful for it.
- 14:22Speaker 2: I love it in general. It was just so funny.
- 14:24Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, I joked with Mike or you know,
- 14:26Speaker 2: promotions boss over here. He made that happen, and it
- 14:29Speaker 2: was so cool that it finally happened, and I'm glad
- 14:31Speaker 2: you all got that experience.
- 14:32Speaker 1: Shout up, Mike. I don't think I'll ever be able
- 14:35Speaker 1: to go back if I'm not in the club.
- 14:36Speaker 2: It's insane because the club and I didn't know this
- 14:38Speaker 2: for all of my Lightning career. It's two levels of food,
- 14:42Speaker 2: delicious food. You got cuts of meat, you got sushi, Oh,
- 14:45Speaker 2: you got shrimp ope, multiple open bars, an ice cream bar,
- 14:49Speaker 2: a dessert bar, a coffee bar. Everything you could imagine
- 14:52Speaker 2: is right there, and you could just walk around and mingle.
- 14:56Speaker 2: So it's like you're at one of these elegant bars
- 14:57Speaker 2: like we were talking about earlier. But watching the Lightning game,
- 15:01Speaker 2: we even found out yesterday there's a cigar bar in there.
- 15:05Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I have gone my entire Lightning fan career
- 15:08Speaker 2: not knowing there's a cigar bar that you could literally
- 15:10Speaker 2: sit there, smoke.
- 15:11Speaker 1: A cigar, watch the game. Are you big cigar guy? No?
- 15:13Speaker 2: Not really, but I have every now and then. Yeah,
- 15:16Speaker 2: maybe if I'm with the boys. I think the last
- 15:18Speaker 2: one was of the Bachelor party. I was like, all right,
- 15:20Speaker 2: we'll do one. Yeah, yeah, I like it for a moment.
- 15:22Speaker 2: I usually don't like doing it because man, does it
- 15:24Speaker 2: make my heart race?
- 15:25Speaker 1: Holy mold. Oh it's so bad for you.
- 15:27Speaker 2: Oh it's absolutely But every now and then you gotta
- 15:29Speaker 2: just I don't do it much. It's kind of like
- 15:31Speaker 2: every now and then I have a drink. I'm like,
- 15:32Speaker 2: all right, every now and then, But that level of
- 15:35Speaker 2: experience group, I don't know how often you won't get it.
- 15:39Speaker 2: So I hope you appreciate.
- 15:40Speaker 1: Well, we brought a videographer, so we're like, we're capturing
- 15:44Speaker 1: this experience and we're maximizing it. And so I'm like, well,
- 15:46Speaker 1: maybe if the video does really well, we'll get invited back.
- 15:49Speaker 2: I think if we as long as like we just
- 15:51Speaker 2: continue to ask. You know, it doesn't hurt to ask.
- 15:54Speaker 2: What a good lesson in life? But what were your
- 15:56Speaker 2: thoughts when you walked into the arena. Did it turn
- 15:59Speaker 2: you into the hockey fan that you thought you would become.
- 16:01Speaker 2: Were you impressed? Was it one of the best events
- 16:03Speaker 2: that you've gotten to experience so far?
- 16:06Speaker 1: What do you think I think about me with sports
- 16:08Speaker 1: is I'm not a bandwagoner? But I do feel like
- 16:10Speaker 1: I can claim fan status because my brother has a
- 16:13Speaker 1: dog named after the Bolts. Is it named Bolt? Yeah?
- 16:17Speaker 1: Oh that is so cute. I know, it's so cute.
- 16:19Speaker 1: It's kind of a hard name to say, like, but yeah,
- 16:23Speaker 1: I would like for my fandom to build. I want
- 16:26Speaker 1: to earn my way into the Lightning fandom. I don't
- 16:28Speaker 1: want to be one of those people that just comes
- 16:29Speaker 1: in and it's like, oh, I love it because you know,
- 16:31Speaker 1: I get perks. Yeah, and I really want to earn
- 16:33Speaker 1: my status. So you know, as I attend more games
- 16:37Speaker 1: in the club level, Mike, I will continue to love
- 16:41Speaker 1: the Lightning more and more.
- 16:42Speaker 2: I think that's how it happens organically. As you start watching,
- 16:45Speaker 2: you start learning some of the players, Like did you
- 16:47Speaker 2: get anybody's name yesterday?
- 16:48Speaker 1: Yeah? Just the hot ones? Which ones the name? Give
- 16:50Speaker 1: me one? You told me Brandon Point?
- 16:52Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 16:53Speaker 1: Mind? And Point is a stud number twenty one. Wait,
- 16:55Speaker 1: let me make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend before I.
- 16:56Speaker 2: Say that he might be man, I don't know, Actually
- 16:58Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 16:58Speaker 1: Let's find I'd say.
- 17:00Speaker 2: I mean if he has a girlfriend or wife, you know,
- 17:03Speaker 2: like that's fine.
- 17:03Speaker 1: Just because there's a goalie.
- 17:04Speaker 2: You should know, oh boy, hockey terms.
- 17:07Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 17:07Speaker 2: I mean as I started to get invested with the players,
- 17:10Speaker 2: that's why, and I started to learn the game, it
- 17:12Speaker 2: became so much more fun because you start to see
- 17:15Speaker 2: how things unfold on the ice. And the first time
- 17:17Speaker 2: I went to the game, I was like, this is
- 17:18Speaker 2: like a dance. You see the players like just so
- 17:22Speaker 2: smoothly get into transformation and then all of a sudden
- 17:25Speaker 2: you score and there's no energy like it. Yeah, like
- 17:27Speaker 2: the whole entire arena goes berserk. And the way they
- 17:31Speaker 2: do it, I don't think they do this at every arena,
- 17:32Speaker 2: but I will give credit where credit is due. The
- 17:34Speaker 2: team that does the Lightning games. The production, damn, it's good,
- 17:39Speaker 2: so good. The music, the DJ, the host. You don't
- 17:43Speaker 2: have you met? You haven't gotten to meet Third Leg Greg.
- 17:46Speaker 2: That's the host. That's the guy that's.
- 17:47Speaker 1: Running around with the mic. Why does he go by that?
- 17:49Speaker 2: I was, well, he actually used to be in radio,
- 17:51Speaker 2: but he just that was his name on the show
- 17:53Speaker 2: he was on, like mine was Scotti the body, Yeah
- 17:55Speaker 2: he was third Like you know what, I don't need
- 17:57Speaker 2: the details on why.
- 17:58Speaker 1: That's just what it went by. I can't believe he
- 18:00Speaker 1: and go by that publicly very popular name. But it'd
- 18:02Speaker 1: be like, Hi, I'm Greg and I have a massive winder.
- 18:05Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like. But literally it's like you
- 18:09Speaker 1: go by Scotty the body, like, O, hey, Scotty has
- 18:10Speaker 1: a body. He's like just letting you know. It's huge.
- 18:15Speaker 2: Well, you know, the dude's really cool. One day you'll
- 18:18Speaker 2: meet him. He's an awesome guy. But he does it
- 18:20Speaker 2: extremely well. All the videos that they put up on
- 18:22Speaker 2: the screen, it's just so well done.
- 18:24Speaker 1: The club is such a great place to network. Like
- 18:26Speaker 1: I was looking around and I was like, oh, there's
- 18:27Speaker 1: money here. Also if you're a single lady, lots of
- 18:30Speaker 1: dudes there. Oh you know, like when you go out
- 18:33Speaker 1: on Bay Shore and you see all these guys running,
- 18:35Speaker 1: you go, where do you hide? Where do you go?
- 18:37Speaker 2: Underneath the arena?
- 18:38Speaker 1: I think they literally live underneath the arena. They come
- 18:41Speaker 1: out every time the Lightning Place. I was looking around
- 18:43Speaker 1: and I was like, these dudes are hot, but they're
- 18:46Speaker 1: not going to approach you. So it's kind of weird.
- 18:47Speaker 2: It's a weird place. I don't think you approach somebody
- 18:49Speaker 2: at a Lightning gaming unless you guys are grabbing like
- 18:51Speaker 2: chicken tendies together.
- 18:52Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and you're like, oh hey, I can't reach you.
- 18:55Speaker 2: Got to give here, I give you a tip as
- 18:58Speaker 2: a guy. Yes, give a guy an opportunity to help?
- 19:01Speaker 1: Okay, in what capacity?
- 19:03Speaker 2: Just like I said, it sounds so stupid, but like.
- 19:05Speaker 1: Tell a man I need him never Okay, I'm.
- 19:07Speaker 2: Telling you right now. One thing that we just cannot
- 19:09Speaker 2: get enough of is simply helping. Like let's say, if
- 19:12Speaker 2: somebody gives me a jar and they're like, could you
- 19:13Speaker 2: open this? It's such a weird thing, but our like
- 19:16Speaker 2: our male brains.
- 19:17Speaker 1: Like must help.
- 19:18Speaker 2: I am strong man, and we feel so accomplished even
- 19:21Speaker 2: if you could do it. Okay, give them the opportunity
- 19:24Speaker 2: to help, or give them the opportunity to open the
- 19:26Speaker 2: door or pass the drink.
- 19:28Speaker 1: I'm just picturing. So here I am. I'm in line
- 19:30Speaker 1: for the chicken tenders, and let's say, hot Tan, uh
- 19:36Speaker 1: hot Tan, I'm just coming up with another guy's name,
- 19:38Speaker 1: Hot Tan, Hot Tan. Luke hot Tan Tom, Oh hot
- 19:41Speaker 1: Tan Tom. Hot Tan Tom is behind me, and I
- 19:43Speaker 1: just look behind and I go, can you grab that
- 19:46Speaker 1: chicken tinder for me? And then like right behind him
- 19:48Speaker 1: his girlfriend goes, hello, oh hi, I.
- 19:50Speaker 2: Could grab it for you. Well, okay, make sure he
- 19:53Speaker 2: doesn't have a ring on it. You should always check
- 19:55Speaker 2: that first ever. Know well, okay, guys are think some
- 19:57Speaker 2: guys are shady about that.
- 19:58Speaker 1: The thing is is I have gotten so accustomed to
- 20:01Speaker 1: seeing an attractive man out in public, and especially if
- 20:03Speaker 1: they're in a group of guys, you always know, and
- 20:05Speaker 1: this is like unspoken girl knowledge. You always know the
- 20:08Speaker 1: hottest one in that group is always the one with
- 20:10Speaker 1: a girlfriend.
- 20:10Speaker 2: Well, then you just I was about to say something
- 20:13Speaker 2: so stupid, just for fun. I was gonna say, well,
- 20:15Speaker 2: then you just drop your standards. But no, don't do that,
- 20:17Speaker 2: and you just date uglyar mat Yeah that's exactly right
- 20:19Speaker 2: and just less than what you need. But I think
- 20:21Speaker 2: if you just give more opportunity, let's say, okay, we
- 20:24Speaker 2: can practice this out for tub club. Okay, oh oh,
- 20:26Speaker 2: this is good.
- 20:27Speaker 1: This is good. If you haven't been listening, We're going
- 20:29Speaker 1: to the Cold Plunge party on Sunday, big cold tub plunge,
- 20:33Speaker 1: hundreds of people people. It's like a Darty but without alcohol.
- 20:36Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're gonna have like a DJ food and
- 20:39Speaker 2: a bunch of cold plunges that people are gonna be
- 20:40Speaker 2: hopping in. It's gonna be over at this awesome beach
- 20:42Speaker 2: bar called Caddies. And I think one of the things
- 20:45Speaker 2: that you could do it's just finding ways to start
- 20:48Speaker 2: conversation organically or make a guy just feel really good,
- 20:51Speaker 2: is just give them an opportunity to just like, you know,
- 20:53Speaker 2: you're going in that he's about the man's play. Let's
- 20:55Speaker 2: say you get in the tub, you're like, oh my god,
- 20:56Speaker 2: this is my first how do you do this? How
- 20:59Speaker 2: are you so calm? Because that's what he's gonna try
- 21:01Speaker 2: to do. He's gonna be trying to so calm in
- 21:03Speaker 2: the tub.
- 21:03Speaker 1: He's gonna be like a duck under the water. Yes,
- 21:05Speaker 1: like he looks fine, but he's like.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Yeah, like just I mean just be dumbly impressed, yeah,
- 21:09Speaker 2: and be like, oh my god, have you done this?
- 21:11Speaker 2: But like little ways to get him to glow yeah,
- 21:15Speaker 2: and do his little lightning thing where he's like, oh
- 21:17Speaker 2: my god, I feel like such a man. Because we
- 21:19Speaker 2: do that. We as old as we become, we still
- 21:22Speaker 2: like to peacock. We still like to be the guy
- 21:24Speaker 2: that's like I'm going.
- 21:25Speaker 1: To dip underneath the cold plunge because I'm really strong,
- 21:28Speaker 1: and then just be stupidly impressed like.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's crazy, or if your hands are
- 21:33Speaker 2: I'm just my hands are too full.
- 21:35Speaker 1: I can't get that. Sub Oh is that why you
- 21:37Speaker 1: wanted to hold my phone yesterday?
- 21:39Speaker 2: Oh well yeah, well yeah, oh I wanted to help.
- 21:41Speaker 2: Actually you might have noticed this, like I wanted to
- 21:43Speaker 2: grab the bag. I wanted to grab the phone. I
- 21:45Speaker 2: guess I like to help. I would say a good
- 21:47Speaker 2: quality of a good man, not saying that that's me.
- 21:49Speaker 2: I'm saying a little more, you know, like to pat
- 21:51Speaker 2: myself on the bag. Is somebody that is looking for
- 21:53Speaker 2: ways to make your life easier? Okay, point blank.
- 21:56Speaker 1: So let's cause play do something, act something out or
- 21:59Speaker 1: you know me a scenario and I'll respond like, are
- 22:02Speaker 1: you gonna be the guy the girl at club? I'm
- 22:03Speaker 1: the girl. Oh you're the girl.
- 22:04Speaker 2: Okay, So you have to set up the opportunity for
- 22:07Speaker 2: me to be that.
- 22:09Speaker 1: I'm at club tub tub clubs, I'm a girl. I'm
- 22:14Speaker 1: at top club.
- 22:14Speaker 2: Now that's the background song house.
- 22:17Speaker 1: It's because I love music walking. You're gonna do something
- 22:25Speaker 1: you okay, So okay, I'm getting I'm getting in my car.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Scotty's got top club. I'm like still at home, Like, alright,
- 22:34Speaker 1: let me go thirty minute drive? And how long is
- 22:36Speaker 1: he long? Podcast? Do you have a good playlist for this?
- 22:40Speaker 1: What should I wear? God? Dag, get to it. Okay,
- 22:43Speaker 1: I'm at tub club.
- 22:44Speaker 2: Let's envision it. Okay, there's gonna be a bunch of tubs.
- 22:46Speaker 2: All right, I'm the dude. I'm in the tub. I'm
- 22:48Speaker 2: probably gonna be intimidated because Abby's gonna have an awesome
- 22:51Speaker 2: fit on.
- 22:51Speaker 1: She's like doing her thing.
- 22:52Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, guys, hey, what's up?
- 22:55Speaker 1: This is a this is a really big tub. Yeah
- 22:58Speaker 1: I know what else? Oh? Yeah, weird comment. All right,
- 23:03Speaker 1: I'll go kill myself. How long do I have to
- 23:07Speaker 1: staying here to get hypo army?
- 23:08Speaker 2: I think it's like, let's run this back.
- 23:10Speaker 1: I don't like that. That's Chad. I need to find Luke. Wait, okay,
- 23:12Speaker 1: let me get my Luke.
- 23:14Speaker 2: God dang, that's so Funny's.
- 23:18Speaker 1: No, I'm not there yet. Okay. From changing tubs, okay,
- 23:23Speaker 1: delusional from last night? What's up? Guys? Oh, what's up?
- 23:27Speaker 1: How's the hell's the ice?
- 23:29Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it feels so good. Okay, let's get
- 23:39Speaker 2: you're stepping, you're stuffing into the tub, because that's what
- 23:43Speaker 2: we're gonna do. Here's what we're probably gonna do. I'm
- 23:45Speaker 2: trying to visit. We're probably both gonna be together, going
- 23:47Speaker 2: into a tub together, unless you want to divide in concuer.
- 23:50Speaker 2: I don't think you want to do it. But people
- 23:51Speaker 2: are automatically and assume we're together. Okay, we have to
- 23:54Speaker 2: have a plan on order to establish immediately.
- 23:58Speaker 1: Okay, me give me the the whoop boop music. Any Hey, guys,
- 24:05Speaker 1: this's my friend that I don't have sex with. Hey, guys,
- 24:08Speaker 1: with Scott, is there room in this tub for the
- 24:11Speaker 1: two of us platonic friends? I don't think so don't
- 24:13Speaker 1: think about each other romantically? He seems a little shady. Okay,
- 24:16Speaker 1: we're gonna try another one. Thanks, Luke. Oh that was
- 24:19Speaker 1: the boyfriend, though I know we're gonna find a different boyfriend. Now,
- 24:23Speaker 1: what about like a Brandon? Hey, hey guy, you look
- 24:26Speaker 1: like your name is Brandon. Is there room in this
- 24:29Speaker 1: tub for me and my friend of no romantic interests?
- 24:33Speaker 1: Oh my god? Yeah, that's such a weird thing to say.
- 24:34Speaker 1: What happens? Let me Wow, this water. Oh this water
- 24:38Speaker 1: is really cold? How you I know?
- 24:41Speaker 2: I know the first time is are just taking brad
- 24:43Speaker 2: just taking a deep bread.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Don't guess I'd be brandonily. We talked about this with
- 24:51Speaker 1: Veronica last week. Are you always do this? I'm gonna
- 24:56Speaker 1: go get a sub. I think it's gonna go really well,
- 25:00Speaker 1: so poorly.
- 25:04Speaker 2: I'm thinking you walk up to like because Gateway Subs
- 25:06Speaker 2: is probably gonna be there. You walk up with like
- 25:08Speaker 2: you're stuff in one hand, your phone in the other,
- 25:11Speaker 2: and you're like, you're kind of like bobbling, you know,
- 25:13Speaker 2: You're like, I can't grab the sub and the saws
- 25:16Speaker 2: and the drinks.
- 25:17Speaker 1: Oh my god?
- 25:18Speaker 2: Could you could you grab that for me?
- 25:20Speaker 1: Just really quick?
- 25:21Speaker 2: Did you place it right here?
- 25:22Speaker 1: No? Bit? Oh god, this place sucks. He's so unfriendly
- 25:29Speaker 1: here supposed to spike your dopamine. Someone yelling at me?
- 25:33Speaker 1: Is this hell? Oh my god? This hell?
- 25:38Speaker 2: Okay, so the tough situation didn't work out, the sub
- 25:41Speaker 2: situation didn't work out. The only other hope we have
- 25:43Speaker 2: is the dance floor. Okay, so now, how the heck
- 25:46Speaker 2: you're gonna do this one? But the DJ is going
- 25:50Speaker 2: some guys gonna be bopping there.
- 25:51Speaker 1: What's up? Guys? Hey, what's up? This is me and
- 25:54Speaker 1: my dance partner. But I've never thought about in that
- 25:56Speaker 1: way romantically. Sure, guys seem really like I have got
- 26:00Speaker 1: one intrusive thought once, But then why are you? Lady?
- 26:05Speaker 1: Do you like this music? Really live? I really love this.
- 26:08Speaker 1: It's like garage band music. What's garage band? I'm twenty
- 26:13Speaker 1: Oh fuck, I'm doomed. Oh man, it's very good, though.
- 26:18Speaker 1: I was telling Scottie, I don't know if I vocalize
- 26:20Speaker 1: this on the podcast yet, so I'm sorry if I've
- 26:22Speaker 1: said this multiple times. But like you, guys, I literally
- 26:24Speaker 1: can't do this any longer, Like I you know how
- 26:26Speaker 1: I'm like every year I'm kind of like, you know,
- 26:27Speaker 1: like probably don't know your single one more year and
- 26:29Speaker 1: then like fim, I literally can't do this anymore. Hit
- 26:32Speaker 1: your breakin. I think I've actually hit my breaking point.
- 26:34Speaker 1: I'm gonna be twenty nine next month. Night. She is
- 26:38Speaker 1: so young. I'm so over the ship, Like I literally
- 26:41Speaker 1: this will be fun. I'm excited to go to club tub.
- 26:43Speaker 1: I'm excited to have a couple more weekends tu club
- 26:45Speaker 1: whatever it's called. I'm excited to go to Saint Pete
- 26:48Speaker 1: a couple more nights, maybe have like a couple of
- 26:50Speaker 1: raunchy like blackout makeouts, you know, I mean, like that'll
- 26:52Speaker 1: be fine. Hell yeah, we gotta wrap this up. You
- 26:54Speaker 1: want to cuddle, We gotta wrap this up. Yeah.
- 26:57Speaker 2: I think the more that we keep doing this, we're
- 26:59Speaker 2: up in the chances. You think so, yeah, absolutely, like
- 27:02Speaker 2: a night over at you know the downtown Water Street
- 27:04Speaker 2: area will hit the you know the Pearl and then
- 27:07Speaker 2: you killed club tub on Sunday we hit What do
- 27:10Speaker 2: we got today? Well, no, we're going to do pilates,
- 27:13Speaker 2: So I don't know that's gonna be the best place
- 27:14Speaker 2: to meet men.
- 27:15Speaker 1: You guys am taking Scott into solid core.
- 27:17Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gonna be something that's gonna be.
- 27:19Speaker 1: Absolutely.
- 27:20Speaker 2: I am very intimidated.
- 27:21Speaker 1: We're both gonna be so miserable because we're both tired
- 27:23Speaker 1: from last night. Oh yeah, I didn't plan this, wee no,
- 27:26Speaker 1: but we our We have every other week meetings on Wednesdays.
- 27:29Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, well, we're already used to
- 27:31Speaker 1: meeting on at eleven on Wednesdays. What if we just
- 27:33Speaker 1: went to that class?
- 27:34Speaker 2: I think you could have the best of both worlds.
- 27:36Speaker 2: You could just go out to everything, get content for
- 27:38Speaker 2: the show. Thanks Abby, love that, and then while you're
- 27:41Speaker 2: out there also meet people like I was also telling
- 27:42Speaker 2: Abby there's this like sand Sugar Sand Festival and clear Water.
- 27:46Speaker 2: I'm like, everyone's gonna be out there checking out.
- 27:47Speaker 1: Okay, the traffic's gonna be in sane. Do you think
- 27:49Speaker 1: the men I'm interested in are going to the Sandy Shores.
- 27:52Speaker 1: Here's the thing that fascile making contest.
- 27:54Speaker 2: You know what, if we'vehit a breaking point, we must
- 27:55Speaker 2: go at all measures, so we must see everything. I
- 27:58Speaker 2: might send you to the Renaissance Festival too.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Who knows, I don't know.
- 28:01Speaker 2: Maybe want a man in shining armor with a sword,
- 28:03Speaker 2: a big sword. See now I got your attached im.
- 28:06Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, I'm going with just like a with
- 28:10Speaker 1: like an above average sword. Yeah.
- 28:11Speaker 2: Well, but these spaces give you an opportunity to be like,
- 28:15Speaker 2: you know, open room. Nobody's super intimidating, everyone's a little chill,
- 28:21Speaker 2: and you're like nice, nice sugar sand Castle and they're like.
- 28:24Speaker 1: Yeah, I really like that one. Yeah my wife loves
- 28:26Speaker 1: it too. You're like, well he's looking for a third honestly,
- 28:30Speaker 1: you know what, maybe I was destined to be in
- 28:32Speaker 1: a threpple this whole time? You do like that show
- 28:34Speaker 1: what is Its Secret Lives and Mormon Wives? I kind
- 28:36Speaker 1: of sort of, yeah, but they're swingers, they're not threpples.
- 28:39Speaker 1: M I thought, no, never mind, Yeah, they're not a throupple.
- 28:42Speaker 1: They're they're uh, they're swingers. Well maybe that's the life, No, Scottie,
- 28:48Speaker 1: Is it so much to want just one person, one
- 28:50Speaker 1: person will love me, one person to watch a movie,
- 28:52Speaker 1: A couple of way people is really lofty? M? Yeah,
- 28:55Speaker 1: Scott's Scott was single for two days.
- 29:00Speaker 2: I told I was like, I literally did sign my
- 29:01Speaker 2: like you know, I signed the dotted line. As I'm
- 29:04Speaker 2: going on dates. They just get my heart just destroyed.
- 29:08Speaker 1: It's not destroyed. You're catching feels. I know. That's what
- 29:11Speaker 1: I mean.
- 29:11Speaker 2: My heart is signed up to be potentially destroyed.
- 29:14Speaker 1: Not unless it's your forever person. That is that a
- 29:18Speaker 1: lot of pressure? What kind of answer do you want?
- 29:22Speaker 1: The honest one.
- 29:24Speaker 2: I don't think it's a lot of pressure. I think
- 29:26Speaker 2: it's exciting. I get excited for that chapter.
- 29:29Speaker 1: I know, Scott.
- 29:29Speaker 2: I know that's why on Sunday Tubs, let the men
- 29:34Speaker 2: just be very you know them just show, but let
- 29:37Speaker 2: them peacock and then just be I don't know how
- 29:39Speaker 2: that sounds, especially for our amazing ladies that are listening,
- 29:45Speaker 2: Like that sounds right right, that it's okay to you guys,
- 29:48Speaker 2: I feel like you all do this already to us, like,
- 29:50Speaker 2: and we're just kind of a peanut brain that's like,
- 29:52Speaker 2: oh my god, she's actually impressed.
- 29:53Speaker 1: And you guys know that you're like, oh.
- 29:55Speaker 2: We're just giving them, yeah, like you're giving them the benefit.
- 29:57Speaker 1: Of the debt. We are calculated. I think my old
- 30:00Speaker 1: jaded I've become like, so, what's the right word. Let
- 30:04Speaker 1: me search for the right word. I've become so exasperated
- 30:10Speaker 1: by the experience of having to like flirt and shit,
- 30:12Speaker 1: that I've just I think I've just become.
- 30:14Speaker 2: Mean, Oh no, are you exactly.
- 30:17Speaker 1: Not mean, but like, I mean flirt, you know what
- 30:18Speaker 1: I mean.
- 30:19Speaker 2: You're like, just get to the point kind of deal. No, Like.
- 30:23Speaker 1: You know, like you you roase someone and doesn't go well, Yes,
- 30:26Speaker 1: Remember when we were at run Club a couple of
- 30:28Speaker 1: weeks ago, and then me and that guy kept going
- 30:31Speaker 1: back and forth about yeah, about the freaking Atlanta.
- 30:34Speaker 2: I'm like, God, guys, like this is awkward.
- 30:35Speaker 1: Now we just didn't have chemistry. But I think that's
- 30:38Speaker 1: like the worst version of it. Like you're trying to
- 30:40Speaker 1: kind of give each other ship, but like you're both
- 30:42Speaker 1: in a fun way, but you're both mean. We both
- 30:44Speaker 1: just lee crying.
- 30:46Speaker 2: I like a little cute, like little pushback moment, like
- 30:48Speaker 2: you test me a little bit.
- 30:49Speaker 1: I like pushback. And also I do think I need
- 30:52Speaker 1: to be with someone who can handle that.
- 30:54Speaker 2: Absolutely if they're gonna be with you.
- 30:57Speaker 1: Oh fuck, yeah, you know what it's like seeing her
- 31:00Speaker 1: every day at six am, like you get ready when
- 31:03Speaker 1: her serotonin is at the lowest it'll ever be all day.
- 31:07Speaker 2: I was like, that's the well, at least you could
- 31:09Speaker 2: eliminate a lot of people.
- 31:10Speaker 1: Yes, I need someone that I can like throw a
- 31:12Speaker 1: couple of punches at and they're.
- 31:14Speaker 2: Like not bothered by it. Absolutely, you know what I mean.
- 31:16Speaker 2: That makes it very easy for you to be like
- 31:18Speaker 2: are you my person or not? Like could you handle it?
- 31:21Speaker 2: Are you wise enough? Are you smart enough?
- 31:22Speaker 1: That's what I mean? Like you need to be able
- 31:24Speaker 1: to be clever enough to punch back. Yeah, Like I
- 31:26Speaker 1: want you to emotionally hit me in the face.
- 31:28Speaker 2: Very romantic I think we're gonna find that in the tub,
- 31:31Speaker 2: you know what I mean, there's opportunity. But yes, yeah,
- 31:34Speaker 2: that's what were we talking about the other day, and
- 31:36Speaker 2: it was it was a great point. It was that
- 31:38Speaker 2: the ratio. It's just it's unfair, like you're joking with
- 31:43Speaker 2: me about how like I'm already like been going on
- 31:46Speaker 2: incredible dates, especially with somebody, and it took me not long.
- 31:52Speaker 1: How long were you actually single? So you and your
- 31:54Speaker 1: lady split up and then you had a fling.
- 31:58Speaker 2: Yeah, like I had a couple of different little situations,
- 32:00Speaker 2: but then I met this person like four months in.
- 32:05Speaker 1: Yeah, but my question is between you and your ex
- 32:10Speaker 1: breaking up and your first fling, what was the time period? Okay,
- 32:15Speaker 1: that's not fair question. That is such a fair question. Okay,
- 32:18Speaker 1: a month Okay. In my defense, no defense, I'm excited
- 32:25Speaker 1: to see you try this.
- 32:26Speaker 2: No, no, no, I only say that it was just I
- 32:29Speaker 2: put myself and you're doing this. So I'm saying it's coming,
- 32:32Speaker 2: like my gus going to Yeah, all these different places
- 32:35Speaker 2: that's happening. But I went to an event that was
- 32:40Speaker 2: centered around things that I truly love, that was all
- 32:43Speaker 2: about like the world that I want to dive into
- 32:45Speaker 2: and it was already around like minded people. Yeah, it
- 32:47Speaker 2: made it easier to have like chemistry. If I would
- 32:49Speaker 2: have went, you know, to a place that I don't
- 32:50Speaker 2: really vibe with, Like let's say I go to a
- 32:52Speaker 2: crowded house bar and you know, downtown Saint Pete, I
- 32:55Speaker 2: would not have had this fling. Now, whole other story
- 32:59Speaker 2: for a whole other day. Again, you sign up for
- 33:02Speaker 2: things that go very sideways, very quick. We'll get to
- 33:05Speaker 2: that one day.
- 33:08Speaker 1: It was quick.
- 33:09Speaker 2: I didn't expect it to be in a month. I
- 33:10Speaker 2: didn't expect the fling. But I think, you know, I
- 33:14Speaker 2: think you're just stronger will than me, and I know
- 33:16Speaker 2: we're at the breaking point as like you said about it.
- 33:18Speaker 1: Which I mean twenty nine years, that's a good run.
- 33:20Speaker 1: That's pretty damn good. Pretty good.
- 33:22Speaker 2: But like for me, like I think, honestly, I look
- 33:24Speaker 2: at the universe, I'm like, man, you knew I needed
- 33:27Speaker 2: a confidence boost.
- 33:28Speaker 1: Okay, you knew.
- 33:30Speaker 2: Because that was a weird thing that goes through my mind,
- 33:32Speaker 2: especially as I was stepping out of like as we're
- 33:35Speaker 2: ending the relationship. Your mind just likes to lie to you,
- 33:38Speaker 2: and it likes to tell you things like, are you
- 33:40Speaker 2: gonna ever find somebody else? Are you truly as you know,
- 33:45Speaker 2: appealing to other people?
- 33:48Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes?
- 33:49Speaker 2: All these thoughts and so the universe is like, okay,
- 33:52Speaker 2: we got a boost as ego. We got to help
- 33:53Speaker 2: them out a little bit. Let's here we go, Let's
- 33:56Speaker 2: throw them a couple of people.
- 33:57Speaker 1: Bam, bam bam.
- 33:58Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know what. It like it
- 34:00Speaker 2: Re taught me how to step into that void. Yeah, okay,
- 34:03Speaker 2: I got it. Let me go again and again. It's
- 34:05Speaker 2: not always there, but at least it like Re taught
- 34:07Speaker 2: me how to activate it. I was like, okay, I
- 34:09Speaker 2: could carry my own That's how I look at it.
- 34:11Speaker 2: I don't think it's just me being able to just
- 34:14Speaker 2: go out and step into the dating.
- 34:15Speaker 1: World typical men.
- 34:17Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so many options because women are incredible, Like,
- 34:21Speaker 2: there are so many incredible women I have. It's wild,
- 34:25Speaker 2: you know what?
- 34:26Speaker 1: And speaking of we were number one women.
- 34:29Speaker 2: Shout out to all the women especially for supporting the.
- 34:32Speaker 1: Show specifically in the Tampa Bay area Shadow Women, but
- 34:34Speaker 1: yeah in general as a principal Shadow Women, absolutely that
- 34:37Speaker 1: has been so cool to see.
- 34:39Speaker 2: But then as was sharing like that the pool difference
- 34:42Speaker 2: for now going after men. And I think a lot
- 34:44Speaker 2: of women relate to this that they're seeking men. Holy moly,
- 34:47Speaker 2: you got to go through a lot of like it's
- 34:49Speaker 2: kind of like if you went through like a dirty ocean.
- 34:52Speaker 1: You know, it's like a dirty a dirty ice tub.
- 34:56Speaker 1: You're just pulling apart like gunk.
- 34:58Speaker 2: You're like, God, when am I gonna get to the
- 34:59Speaker 2: cl I know, you gotta swim, I know, and by
- 35:03Speaker 2: swimming that means going to event after event. But that's
- 35:05Speaker 2: also why so many people are just like I'm exhausted. Yeah,
- 35:08Speaker 2: I'm exhausted of dating, a flirting, of doing the pointless conversations,
- 35:12Speaker 2: exhausted of the dating apps because like it doesn't lead
- 35:15Speaker 2: to anything. And then some guys takes a picture of
- 35:17Speaker 2: his wiener and sends it and thinks that's the best.
- 35:18Speaker 1: Way to do it. They do that.
- 35:20Speaker 2: I have heard the horrible, the most horrible stories.
- 35:22Speaker 1: I know, So I get it.
- 35:24Speaker 2: It's not fair, and I acknowledge that point.
- 35:26Speaker 1: Thank you for your validation. That doesn't make it any better,
- 35:28Speaker 1: but it doesn't.
- 35:29Speaker 2: But I think by us doing things like run club, pub, club,
- 35:33Speaker 2: a lot of clubs, not the actual club, it puts
- 35:35Speaker 2: us in better environments to say, wait a second, maybe
- 35:37Speaker 2: this is the kind of person that could really vibe
- 35:39Speaker 2: with me. Yeah, and it easier to have a conversation
- 35:42Speaker 2: and maybe showing. But also we haven't really looked at
- 35:44Speaker 2: any singles events either, we really haven't.
- 35:46Speaker 1: But guys that I want a date are not going
- 35:48Speaker 1: to singles events, you don't think. So they're going to
- 35:50Speaker 1: run club, that's true, and they're going to tub club.
- 35:54Speaker 1: They might be going to the actual club too, but
- 35:55Speaker 1: they're not shown up to like, hey, I want a girlfriend,
- 35:59Speaker 1: because like they have so many girls swarming then that
- 36:01Speaker 1: they don't need to do that.
- 36:02Speaker 2: Oh wow, you think Luke has all these girls around him.
- 36:04Speaker 1: Luca's got it going on. Luke's my fictional boyfriend. He's
- 36:06Speaker 1: not a real person.
- 36:07Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not a real person, but we're probably gonna
- 36:08Speaker 2: find him on something.
- 36:09Speaker 1: But in my mind, Luke's got to going on.
- 36:11Speaker 2: But give Luke an opportunity this weekend to grab your sub.
- 36:14Speaker 1: Okay, Luke sounds weird. I'm coming this weekend.
- 36:17Speaker 2: God will amen hallelujah. Well there you go. So your
- 36:22Speaker 2: first Lightning game success success opportunities there.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Tub club this weekend. We'll update you on Monday.
- 36:27Speaker 2: A solid cord today. Let's see how that goes. Good, Lord,
- 36:31Speaker 2: I can't wait. Am I allowed to videotape myself in there?
- 36:33Speaker 1: Videotape? Okay, that's a valid Yeah, maybe I'll get special
- 36:36Speaker 1: permission this if we don't record anybody else, can I
- 36:39Speaker 1: get scotty.
- 36:39Speaker 2: On just a couple clips? Get nobody in there to
- 36:41Speaker 2: see your legs shake? Oh boy, wow, what a sentence.
- 36:44Speaker 2: Thanks Abby, That's what.
- 36:46Speaker 1: Happened, Like your slow twitch and musclef fibers start freaking out.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Because you're just holding And I was asking Abby. I
- 36:50Speaker 2: was like, I've never done pilates, and I was like,
- 36:52Speaker 2: could you give me like some pointers on? Like what
- 36:54Speaker 2: are the moves? And she's like, nope, it's.
- 36:55Speaker 1: A lot of planking. Get ready to plank.
- 36:58Speaker 2: Oh god, I hate when it's on somebody else's count.
- 37:01Speaker 1: Two. No, you can do your own count. What do
- 37:03Speaker 1: you mean?
- 37:03Speaker 2: Isn't she like ten?
- 37:05Speaker 1: No? No, no, no no. I mean she may for some
- 37:07Speaker 1: of it, but you don't have to follow it like
- 37:10Speaker 1: she may go and because it's a four count, so
- 37:12Speaker 1: you go one and two and three.
- 37:14Speaker 2: But my brain is always like I have to do
- 37:17Speaker 2: the whole thing or else I fail, Like even like
- 37:18Speaker 2: I have a peloton and I do the resistance, I
- 37:21Speaker 2: go to like the max that it has for that segment.
- 37:23Speaker 2: Like if it's like a fifty two, I'm like, set
- 37:25Speaker 2: me at the top. I want to be at the
- 37:26Speaker 2: top because I want to make sure I'm getting the
- 37:28Speaker 2: absolute most out of this. And so when she's like,
- 37:30Speaker 2: let's do a plank, I am not dropping until she
- 37:32Speaker 2: says we're done.
- 37:33Speaker 1: So you're gonna be on toes the whole time.
- 37:35Speaker 2: I don't know because you didn't tell me how pilates works.
- 37:38Speaker 1: So okay, let me tell you what's gonna happen. We're
- 37:39Speaker 1: gonna go in. It's gonna be a bunch of bitches
- 37:42Speaker 1: side on each other. Oh really, I'm gonna be really friendly.
- 37:45Speaker 1: I'm gonna you're you're actually you're gonna open up the
- 37:47Speaker 1: room to be so nice for each other because it
- 37:48Speaker 1: is kind of intimidating. It's like all these girls in
- 37:50Speaker 1: this I'm.
- 37:50Speaker 2: Intimidated by a room full of women where I'm not
- 37:52Speaker 2: supposed to be.
- 37:53Speaker 1: I'm intimidated and going. But there might sign up for it.
- 37:56Speaker 1: There might be one other guy like solid Corey think
- 37:59Speaker 1: is the more mask inform of quote unquote plates. It's
- 38:01Speaker 1: not even technically plates, but whatever. There's always every other
- 38:04Speaker 1: class I take there's like one guy. Okay, so you're
- 38:07Speaker 1: it won't be that weird. It's not like this is
- 38:09Speaker 1: the women's space. There's only women that are allowed.
- 38:12Speaker 2: To be here. No, but I do understand that it's
- 38:14Speaker 2: majority women, do ye that side of fitness, yes, And.
- 38:18Speaker 1: The ones that do come and are willing to put
- 38:20Speaker 1: their quote unquote masculinity aside, they're usually not like creepy
- 38:23Speaker 1: or weird or yeah, maybe they are. I don't know.
- 38:25Speaker 1: Maybe they're looking to us the whole time, but I'm
- 38:26Speaker 1: too busy standing on my toes to really really look around.
- 38:29Speaker 1: That's true.
- 38:30Speaker 2: And I did see a video because we went to that,
- 38:32Speaker 2: you know, mfors that don't run. They said some of
- 38:34Speaker 2: their guys go and try a polate class. Oh that
- 38:36Speaker 2: was so fun to watch those guys look dead afterwards.
- 38:38Speaker 1: It was so dead.
- 38:39Speaker 2: I was like, I saw that video, I was like,
- 38:40Speaker 2: what the hell did Abby sign me up for? I
- 38:42Speaker 2: look like I'm about to be falling on the floor,
- 38:44Speaker 2: sweating my face off, and honestly, like, I don't know
- 38:47Speaker 2: how the videos I see online, and again, I don't
- 38:50Speaker 2: know how much is real. But everybody looks so cute
- 38:52Speaker 2: doing plates. Everyone's like, I have a cute set on,
- 38:55Speaker 2: I look so strong. Look at my muscles. I'm gonna
- 38:57Speaker 2: be breathing heavy. You are sweat my face off, twitch
- 39:00Speaker 2: and stumbling over myself.
- 39:02Speaker 1: No part of that is cute. No, your here looks
- 39:04Speaker 1: so ugly. Great. Well, I'm signing myself up for this.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Got the body what a success. So it'll start out
- 39:09Speaker 1: we'll do about ten to fifteen minutes of core, so
- 39:12Speaker 1: it's a lot of planking.
- 39:13Speaker 2: God dang, that's a lot of core.
- 39:14Speaker 1: It's a lot of planking and yesterday, well get ready,
- 39:19Speaker 1: and then we'll do where the muscle focus is outer glutes.
- 39:22Speaker 1: I don't do a lot of outer groot classes, so
- 39:24Speaker 1: I don't really know what we'll be doing.
- 39:25Speaker 2: I do want to build up this butt. And actually,
- 39:27Speaker 2: side note, do you care about a guy's butt? Because
- 39:31Speaker 2: I've heard mixed reviews from ladies of like.
- 39:33Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not my go to it's not my go
- 39:37Speaker 1: to objectification body part. But I will say, like when
- 39:42Speaker 1: I last night, when I was like, oh, that guy's
- 39:44Speaker 1: so hot, but his pants are too tight, it's because
- 39:45Speaker 1: his butt looked weird in it, like it looked like
- 39:47Speaker 1: he was clinching because his his pants were so tight,
- 39:50Speaker 1: like it looked like they were kind of giving him
- 39:51Speaker 1: a wedgie. So in that regard, yes, but I'm not like, yeah,
- 39:54Speaker 1: bubble butt.
- 39:55Speaker 2: Okay, because I've heard other women say like, oh, you
- 39:58Speaker 2: got a nice butt.
- 39:59Speaker 1: Well, I mean if you see yeah, okay.
- 40:01Speaker 2: It's been a compliment that I appreciated. Yes, And I'm like,
- 40:04Speaker 2: all right, so I'm excited to work because I want
- 40:06Speaker 2: to work that butt.
- 40:07Speaker 1: No, most guys look like that Mike Wazowski meme have
- 40:09Speaker 1: you seen that name with.
- 40:11Speaker 2: The last Oh my god. I will do anything not
- 40:13Speaker 2: to look like Mikeelzowski where it's like literally like, oh
- 40:15Speaker 2: my god, is little tiny little tiny cheeks lit booty.
- 40:19Speaker 1: So I would say the only muscles women really care
- 40:21Speaker 1: about is arms. And I guess abs like if you're
- 40:24Speaker 1: going to the beach, like if you were gonna like
- 40:26Speaker 1: train any yeah, but.
- 40:28Speaker 2: That yeah, I guess. And I was talking to my
- 40:30Speaker 2: roommate about this, and his algorithm has a bunch of
- 40:32Speaker 2: different things that are like this is what women like.
- 40:34Speaker 1: He's a look maxer try but he's like, the most
- 40:38Speaker 1: important here. Here, here's a crazy thought. What about asking
- 40:41Speaker 1: women what they like?
- 40:42Speaker 2: That's why I say, man, I'm like, you can't justify
- 40:44Speaker 2: a video to have all these women that that's what
- 40:46Speaker 2: they like. But he was telling me, is like, the
- 40:47Speaker 2: most important thing that women like.
- 40:50Speaker 1: Is the bicep vein. And I was like, yeah, I mean,
- 40:53Speaker 1: that's not not real.
- 40:54Speaker 2: And I agreed with it, but I was like, honestly, though.
- 40:59Speaker 1: You don't.
- 40:59Speaker 2: It's it feels rare. I think a lot of guys
- 41:02Speaker 2: have it, but a lot of guys don't. And I
- 41:03Speaker 2: was like, how could that be the most popular thing
- 41:05Speaker 2: and why has that cared about so much?
- 41:07Speaker 1: I think it's just because, like typically it's associated with
- 41:10Speaker 1: a big bicep, so like if you see somebody with
- 41:12Speaker 1: the vein, it's because their muscles are big, so I
- 41:14Speaker 1: think sometimes so I think it's like subconsciously you see it,
- 41:17Speaker 1: you go, oh, big muscle, big muscle.
- 41:20Speaker 2: That's so fascinating. I love the way the brains work. Okay,
- 41:23Speaker 2: so we're gonna get there. We're gonna work glutes. I'm
- 41:25Speaker 2: gonna work my.
- 41:25Speaker 1: Butt outer glute.
- 41:28Speaker 2: Gosh, dang it, I never worked my outer gluten me neither.
- 41:31Speaker 2: Oh gosh, so I'm not.
- 41:32Speaker 1: I'm not thrilled about outer glutes. I do need to
- 41:34Speaker 1: do more upper body, But how do you do?
- 41:36Speaker 2: Am I gonna have like my leg? Is it like
- 41:38Speaker 2: wrapped in like a pole or something? Or am I
- 41:40Speaker 2: like pushing myself off?
- 41:42Speaker 1: It'll be a lot of like lunging, a lot of like.
- 41:45Speaker 2: On the platform.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Yeah, holy crap. So it's gonna challenge your balance. Geez.
- 41:49Speaker 2: I'm literally I'm probably gonna eat shit.
- 41:51Speaker 1: You are? Oh god, I almost ate shit this weekend, even.
- 41:56Speaker 2: Though you've been doing it for years.
- 41:57Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because like I slipped, so yeah, you might
- 42:01Speaker 1: want to. You gotta like grippy toes.
- 42:03Speaker 2: So okay. And I also see everyone has these little socks.
- 42:05Speaker 2: I have grippers on it.
- 42:06Speaker 1: You might need grippy socks.
- 42:07Speaker 2: Are they there to buy?
- 42:08Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't think so.
- 42:09Speaker 2: I just have regular socks. I don't grippy socks.
- 42:11Speaker 1: I wouldn't wear regular socks. Honestly, I would row dog it.
- 42:14Speaker 1: I'm not raw dog in a place, absolutely not. I
- 42:17Speaker 1: don't know. I do worry about your slipping because I
- 42:19Speaker 1: have grippy socks and on a slip this weekend Okay,
- 42:22Speaker 1: you're gonna be fine. Uh huh. Then and you're gonna
- 42:23Speaker 1: you know what, You're gonna slay the biceps section. Thank you.
- 42:26Speaker 1: The biceps will be easy for you. Probably.
- 42:28Speaker 2: Is that just like are there cables?
- 42:31Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll use cables, and I don't think they get
- 42:33Speaker 1: that heavy.
- 42:34Speaker 2: Okay, good, But I'm sure it's long periods of time
- 42:36Speaker 2: where you're just like slow contract.
- 42:38Speaker 1: Yes, oh god, yeah, time undertention?
- 42:41Speaker 2: Baby, Oh boy? How long is the class?
- 42:43Speaker 1: Fifty minutes? Oh oh my god, Oh my god, you're
- 42:47Speaker 1: gonna be so excited. I'm gonna be so sore. You're
- 42:49Speaker 1: gonna leave looking like belahedide. Oh wow, oh my god?
- 42:51Speaker 1: How did Scotty get so skin TYA?
- 42:53Speaker 2: As long as I get to walk the runway, then
- 42:55Speaker 2: sign me up. I'm in be sure. I want as
- 42:57Speaker 2: long as people are friendly, see.
- 42:59Speaker 1: They will be. I mean, here's the thing. I'm not
- 43:00Speaker 1: really mingling, you know what I mean. I'm going in,
- 43:02Speaker 1: I'm doing my workout, but.
- 43:03Speaker 2: We should be mingling. Okay, then I should be mingling
- 43:05Speaker 2: with everybody.
- 43:06Speaker 1: I'll let you mingle and then I'll follow your lead.
- 43:08Speaker 1: I'm not anti mingle. I'm just not necessarily pro.
- 43:11Speaker 2: Ming you're not first to mingle, and so many mingles
- 43:13Speaker 2: with you. You'll mingle back.
- 43:14Speaker 1: Somebody mingles with me. Of course I'm gonna.
- 43:15Speaker 2: Be You're not going there specifically to mingle, but.
- 43:17Speaker 1: I'm not going there to mingle.
- 43:18Speaker 2: But this is how we make friends.
- 43:20Speaker 1: I know.
- 43:23Speaker 2: Where could be one sister. Wait, his sister.
- 43:26Speaker 1: You're actually so right about that. And that's a lesson
- 43:28Speaker 1: that I've had to learn thousands of times, but I
- 43:31Speaker 1: refuse to implement.
- 43:32Speaker 2: I know it helps when there's other people you're like,
- 43:34Speaker 2: all right, I need it so like literally, you know,
- 43:36Speaker 2: my buddy, my roommate, He's taught me so many great
- 43:39Speaker 2: skills of like all right, we're out in public, and
- 43:41Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to anybody. Like at first I saw that,
- 43:43Speaker 2: I was like, what the hell?
- 43:45Speaker 1: It's smart?
- 43:45Speaker 2: Anybody and the amount of opportunities and connections that this
- 43:49Speaker 2: man has made simply by Like yesterday, we're sitting at Kava.
- 43:52Speaker 2: A guy walked by. He's driving the car that he
- 43:54Speaker 2: really likes. He's like, dude, tell me about the car.
- 43:55Speaker 2: The guy's chatting for like ten minutes. I'm like, oh
- 43:58Speaker 2: my god, connection job or.
- 44:00Speaker 1: Too very smart.
- 44:01Speaker 2: I was like all that by just complimenting this car.
- 44:03Speaker 1: But side note.
- 44:04Speaker 2: Before we get out of here, you could use that
- 44:06Speaker 2: a tub club complimenting not his car, but complimenting something about.
- 44:10Speaker 1: I think I have an easier time making friends at
- 44:13Speaker 1: somebody that's specifically social, that's social, you know what I mean, Like,
- 44:16Speaker 1: whereas if I go to solid corpse some people, like
- 44:18Speaker 1: I know, in the middle of the day, sometimes I
- 44:19Speaker 1: don't want to make small times.
- 44:20Speaker 2: Yeah, and I can usually read it.
- 44:22Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, sometimes I just want
- 44:23Speaker 1: to like do my workout and go.
- 44:25Speaker 2: I usually do a test while I'm like, hey, how
- 44:27Speaker 2: are you, and I go based off of the energy
- 44:29Speaker 2: that get me back and it's.
- 44:30Speaker 1: Like I'm good.
- 44:31Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, she don't want to talk. Yeah, you
- 44:33Speaker 2: do not want to talk about Oh my god, I'm
- 44:34Speaker 2: so good.
- 44:34Speaker 1: How are you?
- 44:36Speaker 2: I have an open I'm in pilates, sign me up.
- 44:40Speaker 1: I'm you know what, I can't wait to update the
- 44:42Speaker 1: people on this.
- 44:43Speaker 2: Oh god, all right, well then let's I guess I
- 44:45Speaker 2: gotta go change into my set. We got a meeting,
- 44:46Speaker 2: we got to discuss very important things.
- 44:49Speaker 1: Yeah, because we have to leave right from the meeting.
- 44:51Speaker 2: Oh god, why am I going to change. Do you
- 44:53Speaker 2: bring your set in your car?
- 44:55Speaker 1: I'm wearing my set right now.
- 44:57Speaker 2: Is there a locker room?
- 44:58Speaker 1: No, there's not a locker room. I mean I'm gonna
- 45:00Speaker 1: like take I'm literally just wearing my set. Well, I
- 45:02Speaker 1: gotta go to my Okay, I'm stressed. Well, I mean
- 45:04Speaker 1: you got forty minutes. Well you want to run home
- 45:06Speaker 1: and go get your your outfit on.
- 45:08Speaker 2: No, I got in my car.
- 45:09Speaker 1: Oh, I was ready to go. And why don't you
- 45:11Speaker 1: just change? I mean you can change at Solid Core.
- 45:13Speaker 1: There's a bathroom. Oh that's true. But then I want
- 45:15Speaker 1: to come in ready. I want to be ready. I
- 45:17Speaker 1: don't want to be there. I want to be ready.
- 45:18Speaker 2: I don't want to be the guy that's like, oh
- 45:20Speaker 2: my god, we got a new guy who's gonna slow
- 45:21Speaker 2: down the class. Who does he think he is? See,
- 45:25Speaker 2: I'm just sharing with you how my thoughts go.
- 45:27Speaker 1: You're gonna be fine, it's gonna be fantastic. You're actually
- 45:30Speaker 1: probably gonna better than me, I hope.
- 45:31Speaker 2: So I'm very competitive.
- 45:32Speaker 1: Abby. He's like, I'm not slowing down.
- 45:35Speaker 2: And with that to see Abbey's Instagram and all the
- 45:37Speaker 2: things that have been shared at the Abbey, Murphy at
- 45:39Speaker 2: Scott Tavlin His Mine, and make sure to follow along
- 45:42Speaker 2: at Magic ninety four to nine