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Why Your Closet Doesn’t Feel Like You Anymore (And How to Fix It) — with Stylist Kathy Duglin · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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I
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feel
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like
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a
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therapist.
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Styling
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is
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like
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therapy.
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And
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the
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closet
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is
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my
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office
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confession
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time.
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I
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may
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or
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may
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not
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have
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several
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pairs
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of
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skinny
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jeans
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still
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in
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my
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closet.
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You're
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not
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alone.
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And
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that's
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a
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simple
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thing
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anybody
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could
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do.
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Like,
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you
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go
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out
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and
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you
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buy
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like
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a
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new
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pair
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of
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jeans
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that
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feels
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so
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good.
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And
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getting
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your
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hair
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done
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on
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top
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of
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that,
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that's
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like
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a
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power
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move
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right
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there.
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All
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of
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it.
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Right.
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Style
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isn't
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just
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about
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the
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clothes.
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You
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need
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it
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all.
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Even
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in
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midlife.
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I
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mean,
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I
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feel
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like
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we
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should
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be
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taking
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risks.
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Try
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something
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new,
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try
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something
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different.
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Yes.
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There's
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like
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the
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sort
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of
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like,
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functional
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aspect
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and
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that's
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just
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whatever.
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But,
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like,
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really,
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clothing
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is
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supposed
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to
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bring
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joy.
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What
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is
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this
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emoting,
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you
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know,
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out
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of
0:45
you?
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Because
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that
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is
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like,
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what
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people
0:48
will
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pick
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up
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and
0:49
sense.
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So
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many
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amazing,
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you
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know,
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athleisure
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brands
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or
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lifestyle
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brands.
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Being
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comfortable
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doesn't
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mean
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you
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have
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to
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burst
0:56
sweats.
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One
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of
0:58
the
0:58
most
0:58
important
0:58
things
1:00
I
1:00
do
1:00
with
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all
1:01
my
1:01
clients
1:01
is
1:02
like
1:02
the
1:03
edit.
1:08
If
1:09
you've
1:09
ever
1:09
stood
1:10
in
1:10
front
1:10
of
1:10
a
1:10
full
1:10
closet
1:11
and
1:11
thought,
1:12
why
1:12
doesn't
1:12
any
1:13
of
1:13
this
1:13
feel
1:13
like
1:13
me
1:14
anymore?
1:14
This
1:15
episode
1:15
is
1:16
for
1:16
you.
1:16
Today's
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guest
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understands
1:18
that
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mid
1:18
lifestyle
1:19
isn't
1:19
about
1:20
trends,
1:20
rules,
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or
1:21
chasing
1:21
youth.
1:22
It's
1:22
about
1:23
clarity,
1:23
confidence,
1:24
and
1:24
finally,
1:25
dressing
1:25
for
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the
1:26
woman
1:26
you
1:26
are
1:26
now.
1:27
She's
1:27
a
1:27
personal
1:28
stylist
1:28
known
1:28
for
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practical,
1:29
wearable
1:30
looks
1:31
that
1:31
still
1:31
feel
1:32
modern,
1:32
intentional,
1:33
and
1:33
powerful.
1:34
And
1:34
she
1:34
helps
1:35
women
1:35
stop
1:35
hiding
1:36
behind
1:36
their
1:36
clothes
1:37
and
1:37
start
1:38
using
1:38
them
1:38
as
1:38
a
1:39
form
1:39
of
1:39
self
1:40
trust.
1:41
And
1:41
before
1:41
we
1:41
dive
1:42
in,
1:42
if
1:42
you
1:43
love
1:43
these
1:43
kinds
1:43
of
1:44
smart,
1:44
honest
1:44
conversations,
1:46
take
1:46
a
1:46
second
1:46
to
1:47
follow
1:47
the
1:47
show,
1:48
rate
1:48
it,
1:48
and
1:48
leave
1:49
a
1:49
comment
1:49
on
1:49
your
1:50
favorite
1:50
podcast
1:51
app.
1:52
It
1:52
truly
1:52
helps
1:53
more
1:53
women
1:53
find
1:54
the
1:54
iconic
1:54
midlife.
1:55
I'm
1:56
so
1:56
excited
1:56
to
1:57
welcome
1:57
Kathy
1:57
Douglan,
1:58
founder
1:59
of
1:59
Style
1:59
Vous
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Play,
2:00
to
2:00
the
2:00
show.
2:01
This
2:01
conversation
2:02
is
2:02
about
2:02
more
2:03
than
2:03
clothes.
2:04
It's
2:04
about
2:04
identity,
2:05
authority,
2:05
and
2:06
showing
2:06
up
2:06
without
2:07
apology.
2:08
Welcome
2:09
to
2:09
the
2:09
iconic
2:10
midlife.
2:10
Kathy
2:11
Douglan.
2:12
How
2:12
are
2:12
you
2:12
today?
2:14
I'm
2:14
good.
2:15
I'm
2:15
a
2:15
little
2:15
like
2:17
I'm
2:17
doing
2:18
a
2:18
podcast.
2:18
This
2:19
is
2:19
crazy.
2:20
So
2:20
fun
2:20
though.
2:21
No?
2:21
It's
2:22
gonna
2:22
be
2:22
so
2:22
much
2:22
fun
2:23
and
2:23
like,
2:23
for
2:24
those
2:24
listening
2:24
and
2:24
watching,
2:25
just
2:25
a
2:25
little
2:26
background.
2:26
Kathy
2:27
and
2:27
I
2:27
are
2:27
good
2:27
friends,
2:28
so
2:28
this
2:28
is
2:29
a
2:29
real
2:29
treat
2:30
to
2:30
have
2:30
you
2:30
on
2:31
because
2:31
I
2:31
love
2:32
when
2:33
you
2:33
know
2:33
people
2:33
at
2:34
close
2:34
with
2:34
come
2:34
on
2:35
the
2:35
show
2:35
because
2:35
it's
2:35
just
2:35
like
2:36
that
2:36
much
2:36
more
2:36
fun.
2:37
It's
2:37
fun.
2:37
It's
2:37
like
2:38
getting
2:38
together
2:38
with
2:38
your
2:38
friends,
2:39
right?
2:39
I
2:39
know.
2:40
My.
2:40
My
2:40
cheeks
2:41
hurt
2:41
already.
2:43
It's
2:44
true.
2:44
It's
2:45
True.
2:46
Oh,
2:46
my
2:46
gosh.
2:46
So
2:46
I
2:47
was
2:47
just
2:47
thinking.
2:47
I
2:47
was
2:48
like,
2:48
when
2:48
was
2:49
the
2:49
first
2:49
time
2:49
I
2:50
met
2:50
Kathy?
2:51
And
2:51
you
2:51
know
2:51
what?
2:52
I.
2:52
I
2:53
don't
2:53
know
2:53
if
2:53
it
2:53
was
2:53
the
2:53
first
2:54
time
2:54
we
2:54
met,
2:54
but
2:54
the
2:55
first
2:55
time
2:55
we,
2:55
like,
2:56
had,
2:56
like,
2:56
such
2:57
a
2:57
solid,
2:57
fun
2:58
hang
2:58
was
2:59
at
2:59
our
2:59
girlfriend's
3:00
unbachelorette
3:02
bachelorette
3:02
party.
3:04
Right.
3:04
Is
3:04
that
3:05
the
3:05
one
3:05
in
3:05
pumps?
3:06
Yes.
3:07
Yes.
3:09
That
3:09
was
3:09
so
3:10
fun.
3:10
Those
3:11
were
3:11
the
3:12
days.
3:15
That
3:15
was
3:15
wild.
3:16
That
3:16
was
3:16
a
3:16
long
3:16
time
3:17
ago.
3:17
Yeah,
3:18
that
3:18
was
3:18
like.
3:19
Was
3:19
it,
3:19
like,
3:19
20
3:20
years
3:20
ago?
3:20
Almost.
3:21
Oh,
3:22
my
3:22
God.
3:22
That's
3:22
so
3:22
scary,
3:23
isn't
3:23
it?
3:24
So
3:25
wild.
3:26
So
3:26
scary.
3:27
Think
3:27
about
3:27
how
3:27
much
3:28
has
3:28
happened
3:28
in
3:28
20
3:29
years.
3:29
I
3:30
mean,
3:30
girl,
3:31
we've
3:31
been
3:31
through,
3:31
like,
3:32
lifetimes.
3:32
Like,
3:34
I
3:34
know,
3:34
careers,
3:35
kids,
3:36
you
3:36
know,
3:37
marriages,
3:38
friends,
3:38
like,
3:39
divorce.
3:41
Totally,
3:42
totally.
3:43
I
3:43
know.
3:43
All
3:44
of
3:44
it.
3:44
Yes,
3:45
all
3:45
of
3:45
it.
3:45
But
3:45
you
3:46
are
3:46
so
3:46
much
3:46
better
3:46
for
3:47
it.
3:47
I'm
3:47
like,
3:48
she
3:48
found
3:48
her
3:48
happy
3:49
ending.
3:50
I
3:50
did.
3:51
I
3:51
sure
3:51
did.
3:52
Second
3:52
time's
3:52
a
3:53
charm.
3:53
Ladies.
3:56
First
3:56
one's
3:56
always
3:57
practice
3:57
anyway,
3:58
right?
3:59
Yeah,
3:59
I
3:59
think
4:00
so.
4:00
And
4:01
I
4:01
love,
4:01
like,
4:02
when
4:02
I
4:02
think
4:03
about
4:03
you,
4:03
I'm
4:03
like,
4:04
she
4:04
has
4:04
lived
4:05
so
4:05
many
4:05
lifetimes.
4:06
Because
4:07
I
4:07
remember
4:07
one
4:07
of
4:08
the.
4:08
When
4:08
we
4:08
were
4:08
hanging
4:08
out,
4:09
probably
4:09
that
4:09
first
4:09
time
4:10
in
4:10
Palm
4:10
Springs,
4:11
you
4:11
told
4:11
me
4:11
about
4:12
your
4:12
past
4:12
life
4:12
and
4:13
about
4:13
being
4:13
a
4:13
supermodel.
4:14
Hello,
4:15
guys.
4:16
That
4:17
might
4:17
be
4:17
overstating.
4:19
That
4:19
is.
4:20
That
4:20
is
4:20
definitely
4:21
overstating.
4:22
That
4:22
was
4:22
a
4:22
very
4:23
long
4:23
time
4:23
ago.
4:25
That
4:25
was
4:25
just
4:25
a
4:25
little
4:26
pup.
4:28
No,
4:28
this.
4:29
This.
4:29
I
4:29
was,
4:30
like,
4:30
so
4:30
impressed
4:31
when
4:31
you
4:31
told
4:31
me.
4:31
I
4:31
remember,
4:32
I
4:32
was
4:32
like,
4:32
oh,
4:32
my
4:32
God,
4:33
this
4:33
is
4:33
a
4:33
real
4:34
life
4:34
supermodel.
4:35
Not
4:36
to
4:36
mention,
4:36
you
4:36
were,
4:37
like,
4:37
in
4:37
the
4:37
heyday
4:38
of
4:38
the
4:38
supermodels.
4:39
I
4:39
mean,
4:39
I'm
4:39
talking,
4:40
like,
4:40
you
4:41
know,
4:41
the
4:41
Christie's,
4:41
the
4:42
Cindy's,
4:42
the
4:42
Naomi's,
4:43
and,
4:44
like,
4:44
running
4:45
around
4:45
with
4:45
that
4:46
crew.
4:46
First
4:46
off,
4:47
I
4:47
don't
4:47
think
4:47
you
4:47
ever
4:48
told
4:48
me,
4:48
were
4:48
you,
4:48
like,
4:49
discovered
4:50
as
4:50
a
4:50
model
4:51
or,
4:51
like,
4:51
how
4:51
did
4:52
it
4:52
even
4:52
happen?
4:54
Oh,
4:55
this
4:55
is
4:55
a
4:56
part
4:56
of
4:56
my
4:56
life
4:56
that
4:56
I
4:57
don't
4:57
really
4:57
talk
4:58
about
4:58
because
4:58
it
4:59
just
4:59
feels
4:59
like.
5:00
It
5:00
just
5:01
feels
5:01
like
5:01
not
5:01
even
5:02
like
5:02
that.
5:03
That
5:03
wasn't
5:03
even
5:03
me.
5:04
You
5:04
know
5:04
what
5:04
I
5:04
mean?
5:06
First
5:06
of
5:07
all,
5:07
those
5:07
women
5:08
are,
5:08
like,
5:08
next
5:09
level.
5:09
I
5:09
did
5:09
not
5:10
hang
5:10
out
5:10
with
5:10
them
5:11
and
5:11
roll
5:11
with
5:11
them
5:12
at
5:12
all.
5:12
I
5:12
was,
5:12
like,
5:13
doing
5:13
catalog
5:14
and
5:14
editorial,
5:15
and
5:15
I
5:16
was
5:16
just
5:16
like
5:17
a
5:17
small
5:18
little
5:18
chickadee
5:19
in
5:19
the
5:19
grand
5:19
scheme
5:20
of
5:20
things.
5:20
But
5:22
yeah,
5:23
I.
5:24
I
5:25
started
5:25
modeling
5:26
after
5:26
I
5:27
graduated
5:27
college.
5:28
So
5:28
it
5:28
was,
5:29
like,
5:29
not
5:29
an
5:30
expected
5:30
move.
5:31
It
5:31
was
5:31
very
5:31
unexpected.
5:33
And
5:33
to
5:34
be
5:34
honest
5:34
with
5:34
you,
5:35
I
5:35
mean,
5:36
I.
5:36
What
5:36
I
5:36
love
5:37
the
5:37
most
5:37
about
5:37
it
5:38
was
5:38
the
5:39
travel
5:39
and
5:39
the
5:40
experience
5:41
And
5:41
I
5:42
think
5:42
like
5:43
in
5:43
many
5:43
ways
5:44
I
5:44
learned
5:45
so
5:45
much
5:45
about
5:45
myself
5:46
during
5:46
that
5:47
period
5:47
and
5:47
it
5:47
was
5:47
just
5:48
like
5:48
this
5:48
period
5:48
of
5:49
exploration
5:49
and
5:50
like,
5:50
wow,
5:50
this
5:51
world
5:51
is
5:51
so
5:51
big
5:53
and
5:53
Chicago
5:54
is
5:54
where
5:55
I
5:55
was
5:55
born
5:55
and
5:55
raised.
5:56
And
5:56
like
5:57
you
5:57
just,
5:57
it
5:58
opens
5:58
your
5:58
eyes
5:58
to
5:59
like,
5:59
holy
5:59
smokes.
6:00
Like,
6:00
there's
6:01
just
6:01
so
6:01
much
6:01
out
6:01
there.
6:03
And
6:04
I
6:04
mean,
6:04
I
6:04
enjoyed
6:05
modeling
6:06
for
6:06
what
6:06
it
6:06
was,
6:06
but
6:07
like
6:08
where
6:08
I
6:08
like
6:09
really
6:10
found
6:10
my
6:11
sort
6:11
of
6:11
like
6:12
passion
6:12
was
6:13
like
6:13
watching
6:13
the
6:14
stylists.
6:15
And
6:15
like,
6:15
I
6:15
was
6:16
so
6:16
into
6:16
like
6:17
what
6:17
they
6:17
were
6:17
doing
6:17
and
6:18
how
6:19
they
6:19
were
6:20
getting
6:20
us
6:21
ready
6:21
for
6:22
like
6:22
the
6:22
next
6:22
shot
6:23
and
6:23
sort
6:23
of
6:23
like
6:23
their
6:24
role
6:24
in
6:24
all
6:25
of
6:25
it.
6:25
And
6:26
I,
6:27
I
6:27
sort
6:28
of
6:28
just
6:28
like
6:28
learned
6:28
about
6:29
the
6:29
industry
6:29
that
6:30
way.
6:30
And
6:30
I
6:30
just,
6:31
I
6:31
really
6:32
felt
6:32
like
6:32
I
6:32
had
6:32
a
6:32
front
6:32
row
6:33
seat
6:33
to
6:33
like
6:34
this
6:34
whole
6:34
other
6:36
business
6:37
that
6:37
like,
6:38
I
6:38
didn't
6:38
really
6:39
understand
6:39
like
6:39
how
6:40
it
6:40
worked.
6:40
Like
6:40
as
6:40
a
6:41
model
6:41
you
6:41
just
6:41
show
6:41
up
6:41
and
6:42
you
6:42
put
6:42
on
6:42
the
6:42
clothes
6:42
but
6:43
like
6:43
you're
6:43
looking
6:43
and
6:44
watching
6:44
and
6:44
listening
6:45
and
6:45
you're
6:45
like,
6:45
wow,
6:45
there's
6:46
so
6:46
much
6:46
that's
6:46
involved
6:46
in
6:47
that.
6:47
And
6:48
I
6:48
was
6:48
just
6:48
so
6:49
intrigued
6:49
by
6:49
that
6:50
industry.
6:50
So
6:51
that
6:51
was
6:51
cool.
6:52
So.
6:54
So,
6:54
yeah,
6:54
so
6:55
that's
6:55
sort
6:55
of,
6:56
you
6:56
know,
6:56
eventually
6:57
I
6:57
ended
6:57
up
6:57
in
6:57
New
6:58
York
6:59
and
7:00
I
7:01
was
7:01
living
7:01
in
7:01
New
7:01
York
7:01
and
7:02
then
7:03
I,
7:03
I
7:03
got
7:04
to
7:04
a
7:04
place
7:04
where
7:04
I
7:04
was
7:05
like,
7:05
you
7:05
know,
7:05
I
7:05
don't
7:05
really
7:06
want
7:06
to
7:06
be
7:06
doing
7:06
that
7:06
anymore,
7:08
but
7:08
I
7:08
loved
7:09
fashion
7:09
and
7:09
I
7:10
really
7:10
wanted
7:11
to
7:11
like
7:11
build
7:11
a
7:12
career
7:12
in
7:12
fashion.
7:14
And
7:15
so
7:15
I
7:16
eventually,
7:17
while
7:17
I
7:17
was
7:18
in
7:18
New
7:18
York,
7:18
I
7:18
started
7:18
a
7:19
PR
7:19
agency
7:20
with
7:20
a
7:20
friend
7:22
and
7:22
we
7:22
had
7:23
that
7:23
agency
7:23
for
7:24
16
7:25
years.
7:25
So
7:26
between
7:26
New
7:27
York
7:27
and
7:27
LA
7:29
and
7:29
then
7:30
eventually
7:30
I
7:32
kind
7:32
of
7:32
like
7:32
spun
7:33
off
7:34
and
7:34
was
7:34
doing
7:35
my
7:35
own
7:35
agency
7:36
which
7:36
was
7:36
just
7:36
focused
7:37
on
7:37
fashion.
7:38
I
7:38
think
7:39
like,
7:39
ultimately
7:39
I
7:40
knew
7:40
I
7:40
was
7:40
sort
7:40
of
7:40
like
7:41
creeping
7:41
my
7:42
way
7:42
to
7:42
just
7:42
doing
7:43
fashion.
7:44
You
7:44
know,
7:44
it
7:45
was
7:45
like
7:45
fashion
7:45
clients
7:46
representing
7:46
these
7:46
like
7:47
really
7:47
cool
7:47
brands,
7:48
really
7:48
sort
7:49
of
7:49
like
7:50
fast
7:50
paced
7:50
New
7:51
York
7:51
LA
7:51
lifestyle
7:52
and
7:53
kind
7:53
of
7:54
like
7:54
drilling
7:54
down
7:54
to
7:55
like
7:55
a
7:55
period
7:56
where
7:56
I
7:57
was
7:57
doing
7:57
more
7:57
and
7:57
more
7:57
styling,
7:58
kind
7:59
of
7:59
like
7:59
the
7:59
scenes.
8:00
And
8:01
then
8:01
eventually
8:02
I
8:02
was
8:02
like,
8:03
okay.
8:04
And
8:05
I
8:05
think
8:05
this
8:05
might
8:05
be
8:06
the
8:06
thing
8:06
that
8:06
happens
8:07
as
8:07
you
8:07
get
8:07
older
8:09
and
8:09
you
8:09
sort
8:09
of
8:10
like
8:11
really
8:12
understand
8:13
like
8:13
what
8:14
makes
8:14
you
8:14
happy
8:15
and
8:15
like,
8:16
and
8:17
like
8:17
there
8:17
isn't
8:18
like,
8:18
like
8:18
forever
8:19
isn't
8:19
promised.
8:20
So
8:20
like
8:21
for
8:21
me
8:21
I
8:21
was
8:21
like,
8:21
okay,
8:21
if
8:22
I'm
8:22
going
8:22
to
8:22
do
8:22
this,
8:22
if
8:22
I'm
8:22
going
8:23
to
8:23
like
8:23
really
8:23
like
8:24
hone
8:24
in
8:24
and
8:25
like
8:25
do
8:25
styling
8:25
full
8:26
time,
8:27
it's
8:27
like
8:27
I
8:27
need
8:27
to
8:28
just
8:28
do
8:28
it
8:28
now.
8:29
And
8:29
so
8:29
I
8:29
did.
8:30
So
8:30
a
8:31
few
8:31
years
8:31
ago
8:31
I
8:32
just
8:32
like,
8:32
packed
8:32
up
8:33
my
8:33
PR
8:34
agency,
8:36
you
8:36
know,
8:36
kind
8:37
of.
8:37
I.
8:37
I
8:38
resigned
8:39
from
8:39
all
8:39
my
8:39
clients.
8:40
I
8:40
told
8:40
them
8:40
I
8:40
love
8:41
them,
8:42
but
8:42
I
8:42
really
8:43
just
8:43
wanted
8:43
to
8:43
do
8:43
this.
8:44
So
8:44
this
8:44
was
8:44
like
8:44
the
8:45
next
8:45
chapter.
8:45
So
8:46
here
8:46
I
8:46
am.
8:47
And
8:47
you're
8:47
so
8:47
good
8:48
at
8:48
it,
8:48
Kathy.
8:48
My
8:49
God,
8:49
you
8:49
are.
8:49
Like,
8:50
of,
8:50
you
8:51
know,
8:51
all
8:51
my
8:51
friends,
8:51
I
8:52
feel
8:52
like
8:52
you're
8:52
one
8:52
of
8:53
the
8:53
ones
8:53
whose
8:54
style
8:54
just
8:54
is,
8:54
like,
8:55
off
8:55
the
8:56
charts.
8:56
Like,
8:56
you've
8:57
got
8:57
that
8:57
sort
8:57
of,
8:57
like,
8:58
you've
8:58
got
8:58
the
8:58
eye
8:58
for
8:59
it,
8:59
and
8:59
you've
8:59
also,
9:00
like,
9:00
just
9:01
how
9:01
you
9:01
put
9:01
the
9:01
outfits
9:02
together.
9:02
You
9:02
know,
9:02
it's
9:03
like
9:03
that
9:03
modern,
9:04
like,
9:05
so
9:05
chic
9:05
aesthetic.
9:06
Like,
9:06
I
9:06
love,
9:07
love,
9:07
love
9:08
seeing
9:08
what
9:08
you
9:08
wear
9:09
and,
9:09
like,
9:09
seeing
9:10
what
9:10
you
9:10
put
9:10
together.
9:11
So.
9:12
Yeah,
9:13
of
9:13
course.
9:14
So
9:14
I
9:14
want
9:14
to
9:15
know,
9:15
like,
9:15
what
9:15
has
9:16
shaped
9:16
your
9:16
personal
9:17
style?
9:18
Like,
9:18
were
9:18
you
9:18
a
9:19
little
9:19
girl,
9:19
like,
9:20
pouring
9:20
through
9:20
the
9:21
magazines,
9:22
like,
9:22
when
9:22
you
9:22
were
9:22
young
9:23
and,
9:23
like,
9:23
doing
9:24
all
9:24
that,
9:24
or
9:25
was
9:25
it
9:25
something
9:25
that,
9:25
like,
9:26
through
9:27
has
9:27
really
9:28
shaped
9:28
your
9:28
style?
9:29
How
9:29
did
9:29
you.
9:29
How
9:29
did
9:30
you
9:30
get
9:30
to
9:30
that
9:30
point?
9:31
My.
9:32
My
9:32
family,
9:32
like,
9:32
did
9:33
not
9:33
spend
9:33
a
9:34
ton
9:34
of
9:34
money
9:34
on
9:34
clothes.
9:36
So,
9:36
like,
9:37
indulging
9:37
in
9:38
fashion
9:38
in
9:38
that
9:39
way
9:39
wasn't
9:40
really,
9:40
like.
9:41
It
9:41
wasn't,
9:41
like,
9:42
available
9:42
to
9:42
me
9:43
in.
9:43
In,
9:43
like,
9:43
the
9:44
way.
9:44
I
9:45
think,
9:45
like,
9:45
our
9:45
kids
9:46
are
9:46
so
9:46
lucky
9:46
today
9:47
because,
9:49
you
9:49
know,
9:50
that's
9:50
a
9:50
whole
9:50
nother
9:50
bucket
9:51
of.
9:51
Of
9:52
conversation.
9:53
But,
9:53
you
9:54
know,
9:54
I
9:54
think
9:55
I.
9:55
I
9:55
had
9:56
to,
9:56
like,
9:56
really
9:56
rely
9:57
on
9:57
the
9:57
magazines.
9:58
I
9:58
had
9:58
to,
9:58
like,
9:59
look
9:59
at
9:59
magazines,
10:00
and
10:00
I
10:00
remember
10:01
just
10:01
having
10:01
stacks
10:02
and
10:02
stacks
10:02
and
10:02
stacks
10:03
of,
10:03
like,
10:04
all
10:04
of
10:04
it
10:04
and,
10:05
like,
10:05
ripping
10:05
out
10:06
editorials,
10:06
and,
10:07
like,
10:07
my
10:07
whole
10:08
wall
10:08
would
10:08
be
10:08
just
10:09
covered
10:09
in,
10:09
like,
10:10
you
10:10
know,
10:10
beautiful
10:11
photos.
10:11
And
10:12
it
10:12
was
10:12
really
10:12
just
10:13
like.
10:14
It
10:14
was
10:14
like
10:14
a
10:14
wonderland
10:15
for
10:15
me.
10:15
Like,
10:16
I
10:16
just,
10:16
like,
10:16
really
10:17
loved
10:17
it.
10:17
And
10:18
I
10:18
think,
10:18
like,
10:19
you
10:19
know,
10:19
it's
10:20
interesting,
10:20
like,
10:22
as
10:22
time
10:22
goes
10:23
on,
10:24
there's
10:24
like,
10:24
a
10:25
trend,
10:25
right?
10:25
Like,
10:26
you
10:26
sort
10:26
of
10:26
pull
10:26
out
10:27
all
10:27
these
10:27
photos
10:28
and
10:28
you're
10:28
like,
10:28
wow,
10:29
I.
10:29
This
10:29
really
10:30
resonates
10:30
with
10:30
me,
10:31
or
10:31
this
10:32
feeling.
10:32
And
10:32
it
10:32
was
10:33
always
10:33
about
10:33
a
10:33
feeling
10:34
for
10:34
me.
10:34
So,
10:34
like,
10:35
style
10:35
for
10:35
me
10:36
is
10:36
like.
10:37
It's
10:38
kind
10:38
of
10:38
like,
10:38
less
10:39
about,
10:39
like,
10:40
the
10:40
clothes.
10:42
And
10:42
I
10:42
know
10:42
that
10:43
doesn't
10:43
feel
10:43
like
10:43
that
10:44
makes
10:44
sense
10:45
for
10:45
me.
10:45
It's
10:45
like,
10:46
how
10:46
does
10:46
that
10:46
make
10:47
me
10:47
feel?
10:47
And
10:48
I
10:48
feel
10:48
like
10:48
sometimes
10:49
when.
10:50
When
10:50
I
10:50
even
10:50
watch
10:51
a
10:51
fashion
10:51
show
10:52
that,
10:52
like.
10:54
Like,
10:54
I
10:55
almost
10:55
could,
10:55
like,
10:55
be
10:56
moved
10:56
to
10:56
tears.
10:56
Do
10:57
you
10:57
know
10:57
what
10:57
I
10:57
mean?
10:57
I'm
10:57
just
10:57
like.
10:58
Like,
10:59
something
10:59
will
10:59
come
10:59
out
11:00
and
11:00
I
11:00
will
11:00
just
11:00
be,
11:01
like,
11:01
dying,
11:02
you
11:02
know,
11:02
and
11:02
that
11:03
is
11:03
so
11:03
beautiful.
11:04
And
11:04
I
11:05
feel
11:05
like
11:05
that's
11:05
the
11:05
magic
11:06
of
11:06
fashion,
11:07
right?
11:07
And
11:07
style,
11:08
I
11:08
think,
11:08
is
11:09
like,
11:10
you
11:10
know,
11:11
how
11:12
I
11:13
sort
11:13
of
11:13
got
11:13
to
11:13
play
11:14
and
11:14
discover
11:15
as
11:15
I
11:16
was
11:16
growing
11:16
up
11:16
and
11:17
I
11:17
think
11:17
like,
11:18
you
11:18
know,
11:18
and
11:19
then
11:19
slowly
11:19
but
11:19
surely,
11:20
I
11:20
mean,
11:20
believe
11:20
me,
11:20
I
11:20
made
11:21
a
11:21
million
11:21
mistakes.
11:22
If
11:22
I
11:23
look
11:23
back
11:23
at
11:23
like
11:24
photos
11:24
from,
11:25
you
11:25
know,
11:26
high
11:26
school,
11:27
college,
11:28
I.
11:29
Love
11:29
our
11:29
cringe
11:30
photos
11:30
from
11:30
back
11:30
then.
11:31
I
11:31
mean,
11:32
they
11:32
are
11:32
so
11:32
cringe
11:33
worthy.
11:33
It's
11:34
actually
11:35
humbling.
11:36
You're
11:36
just
11:36
like,
11:37
wow,
11:37
what
11:37
was
11:37
I
11:37
thinking?
11:38
You
11:38
know,
11:38
the
11:39
big
11:39
hair,
11:39
the
11:40
teased
11:40
hair,
11:40
like,
11:41
oh
11:41
my
11:41
God,
11:41
it
11:41
was
11:41
all
11:41
so
11:42
bad.
11:42
But
11:42
you
11:43
know
11:43
what?
11:43
But
11:43
at
11:43
the
11:44
time
11:45
we
11:45
were
11:45
feeling
11:45
it,
11:46
you
11:46
know,
11:46
like,
11:47
I
11:47
thought,
11:47
oh,
11:48
this
11:48
looks
11:48
great.
11:49
And
11:50
Contempo
11:50
Casuals
11:51
was
11:51
like
11:51
my
11:51
favorite
11:52
place.
11:52
Girl
11:53
that
11:53
I
11:53
worked
11:53
at
11:53
Contempo
11:54
Casuals
11:54
in
11:55
high
11:55
school.
11:55
It
11:55
was
11:56
literally
11:56
my
11:56
favorite
11:57
store.
11:58
Yeah,
11:59
I
11:59
loved
11:59
it.
12:00
I
12:00
thought
12:00
it
12:00
was
12:00
awesome.
12:01
Like
12:01
Friday
12:01
night,
12:02
let's
12:02
go
12:02
to
12:02
Contempo
12:03
Casuals
12:03
and
12:03
get
12:03
an
12:04
outfit.
12:05
Yes,
12:05
100%.
12:07
100%.
12:08
I
12:08
love
12:08
the
12:08
dribble
12:08
into
12:08
that
12:09
today.
12:09
I
12:09
wonder,
12:10
you
12:10
know,
12:10
somebody.
12:11
I
12:11
just
12:11
saw
12:11
a
12:11
TikTok
12:12
about
12:12
this
12:12
not
12:12
long
12:13
ago.
12:13
It
12:13
was,
12:14
was
12:14
actually.
12:14
It's
12:15
gone
12:15
through
12:15
iterations
12:16
and
12:16
I
12:17
think
12:17
like
12:17
the
12:18
store
12:19
got
12:19
bought
12:20
and
12:20
bought
12:21
and
12:21
bought
12:21
and
12:21
then
12:21
like
12:22
kind
12:22
of
12:22
changed
12:23
over
12:23
and
12:24
there.
12:24
And
12:24
of
12:24
course
12:24
perimenopause
12:25
is
12:25
kicking
12:26
in
12:26
right
12:26
now
12:26
because
12:26
I'm
12:26
like,
12:27
what
12:27
was
12:27
the
12:27
modern
12:28
store
12:28
that
12:28
it's
12:29
like
12:29
kind
12:29
of
12:29
modeled
12:30
on,
12:30
but
12:30
there
12:31
is
12:31
like
12:31
an
12:31
iteration
12:32
of
12:32
it?
12:33
Was
12:33
it
12:33
BB
12:34
that
12:34
was
12:35
like
12:35
in.
12:35
That
12:35
same
12:36
kind
12:36
of
12:36
like
12:36
vein
12:37
a
12:37
bit,
12:38
you
12:38
know?
12:38
That's
12:39
crazy.
12:39
I
12:39
can't
12:39
remember
12:40
what
12:40
I
12:40
had
12:40
for
12:40
lunch
12:40
two
12:41
days
12:41
ago,
12:41
but
12:41
I
12:42
remember
12:42
the
12:42
name
12:42
of
12:42
a
12:43
store
12:43
totally.
12:44
That's
12:45
how
12:45
important
12:45
it
12:45
was
12:46
to
12:46
us.
12:47
It
12:47
was,
12:47
it
12:48
was
12:48
important.
12:48
It
12:48
was
12:49
critical.
12:50
It
12:50
was
12:50
critical.
12:52
You
12:52
know,
12:52
I.
12:53
I
12:53
don't
12:53
know.
12:53
So,
12:54
yeah,
12:54
I
12:54
think
12:54
it
12:54
was
12:54
just
12:55
like
12:55
slowly
12:56
but
12:56
surely
12:56
sort
12:56
of
12:57
like
12:57
figuring
12:57
it
12:57
out
12:58
and,
12:58
and
12:58
just
12:58
really
12:59
like
12:59
understanding
13:00
like
13:00
what
13:01
I
13:01
loved,
13:01
what
13:02
moved
13:02
me,
13:02
like
13:02
what
13:03
made
13:03
me
13:03
feel
13:03
good.
13:04
And
13:04
I
13:05
think
13:05
that's
13:05
sort
13:05
of
13:05
like
13:06
how
13:06
I
13:06
develop
13:07
like
13:08
who
13:09
I
13:09
am
13:09
stylistically.
13:10
I.
13:10
I
13:10
guess,
13:11
you
13:11
know,
13:11
I
13:12
think.
13:12
You
13:12
bring
13:12
up
13:12
a
13:12
good
13:13
point
13:13
too,
13:13
because
13:14
I
13:14
think
13:14
it.
13:14
Style
13:15
is
13:15
truly
13:16
more
13:16
important
13:16
than
13:17
fashion
13:17
a
13:17
lot
13:18
of
13:18
the
13:18
time.
13:18
I
13:19
think
13:19
it's
13:19
how
13:19
you
13:20
feel
13:20
in
13:20
the
13:20
clothes,
13:20
it's
13:21
how
13:21
you
13:21
wear
13:21
them.
13:22
It's
13:22
like,
13:23
what
13:23
is
13:23
this
13:24
emoting,
13:25
you
13:25
know,
13:25
out
13:25
of
13:25
you?
13:26
Because
13:26
that
13:26
is
13:27
like
13:27
what
13:27
people
13:28
will
13:28
pick
13:29
up
13:29
and
13:29
sense
13:29
and
13:30
like
13:30
notice
13:30
about
13:31
you.
13:31
And
13:31
I
13:31
think
13:31
like,
13:32
you
13:32
can
13:33
be
13:33
super
13:34
shy,
13:34
chic
13:35
and
13:35
stylish
13:35
and
13:35
a
13:36
pair
13:36
of
13:36
like
13:36
great
13:37
jeans,
13:37
a
13:38
T
13:38
shirt
13:39
like
13:39
something.
13:40
It
13:40
doesn't
13:40
have
13:40
to
13:41
be
13:41
like
13:41
crazy,
13:42
crazy.
13:42
And
13:43
it's,
13:43
it's
13:43
really
13:44
just
13:44
like
13:45
how
13:45
you
13:45
are
13:45
wearing
13:46
it,
13:46
you
13:46
know?
13:47
Yeah.
13:48
It's
13:48
your
13:48
attitude,
13:49
right?
13:49
It's
13:49
like,
13:50
what.
13:50
It's
13:50
like,
13:52
what
13:52
are
13:52
you,
13:53
what
13:53
are
13:53
you
13:53
trying
13:54
to
13:54
evoke?
13:55
You
13:55
know,
13:56
who
13:56
are
13:56
you
13:57
as
13:57
a
13:57
person?
13:57
Are
13:57
you
13:58
friendly?
13:58
Are
13:58
you
13:59
generous?
14:00
Are
14:00
you
14:00
kind?
14:00
Are
14:01
you
14:01
open
14:01
minded?
14:02
Or
14:03
do
14:03
you
14:03
have
14:03
a
14:03
big
14:03
heart?
14:03
Like,
14:04
I
14:04
know
14:04
that
14:04
almost
14:05
doesn't
14:05
feel
14:05
like
14:05
it
14:05
lines
14:06
up,
14:06
but,
14:06
but
14:07
people
14:07
feel
14:08
energy,
14:09
you
14:09
know,
14:10
and
14:10
like
14:10
you
14:11
could,
14:11
you
14:12
can
14:12
feel
14:12
someone
14:13
who's
14:13
like
14:13
kind
14:13
and
14:14
generous
14:14
and
14:14
they
14:14
just
14:14
happen
14:15
to
14:15
be
14:15
wearing
14:17
a
14:17
cute
14:17
outfit
14:18
and
14:18
you're
14:18
like,
14:19
I
14:19
love
14:19
their
14:19
style.
14:20
But
14:20
you
14:20
don't
14:21
really
14:21
know
14:21
why
14:21
you
14:21
love.
14:22
It's
14:22
like,
14:22
just
14:22
like
14:23
you
14:23
said,
14:23
it
14:23
could
14:23
be
14:23
jeans
14:23
and
14:24
a
14:24
T
14:24
shirt
14:24
and
14:24
a
14:24
great
14:25
pair
14:25
of
14:25
shoes,
14:26
but
14:26
it's
14:27
really
14:27
about
14:27
the
14:27
whole
14:27
thing.
14:28
It's
14:28
about
14:28
the
14:28
feeling.
14:30
So
14:31
I
14:31
think
14:31
there's
14:32
like
14:32
power
14:32
in
14:32
that,
14:32
which
14:33
I
14:33
think
14:33
is
14:33
so
14:33
cool.
14:34
It's
14:35
so
14:35
powerful.
14:35
And
14:35
like
14:35
you're
14:36
saying
14:36
it's
14:36
also
14:36
like
14:36
an
14:36
art
14:37
form,
14:37
you
14:37
know,
14:37
it's
14:38
like
14:38
when
14:38
you
14:38
see
14:39
an
14:39
amazing
14:40
outfit,
14:40
it's
14:40
art
14:41
like
14:41
that
14:41
that
14:42
can
14:42
bring
14:42
you
14:43
to
14:43
tears.
14:44
I
14:44
mean,
14:44
it's
14:44
emotional,
14:45
you
14:45
know,
14:45
it's.
14:46
Yeah,
14:46
totally.
14:47
Really
14:47
to
14:48
be
14:48
appreciated.
14:49
I
14:49
sort
14:49
of
14:49
felt
14:50
that
14:50
way
14:50
when
14:50
I
14:50
was
14:50
watching
14:51
the.
14:51
The
14:53
Dior
14:54
collection
14:54
with
14:55
J.W.
14:55
anderson
14:56
when
14:56
he,
14:57
you
14:57
know,
14:57
just
14:57
sort
14:58
of
14:58
launched
14:59
as
14:59
the
14:59
creative
14:59
director
15:00
recently.
15:00
And
15:00
I
15:00
was
15:01
just
15:01
like,
15:03
I
15:03
literally
15:03
called
15:03
my
15:04
good
15:04
friend
15:04
Brittany
15:05
and
15:05
I
15:05
was
15:05
like,
15:05
I
15:06
don't
15:06
know
15:06
why,
15:06
but
15:06
I
15:06
feel
15:07
like
15:07
I
15:07
needed
15:07
to
15:07
call
15:07
you,
15:09
I
15:10
needed
15:10
to
15:10
phone
15:10
a
15:10
friend
15:11
because
15:11
I
15:11
was
15:12
like,
15:12
who,
15:13
who
15:13
else
15:13
would
15:13
appreciate
15:14
this
15:15
right
15:15
now?
15:15
Because
15:15
I
15:16
was
15:16
feeling
15:17
it
15:17
so
15:17
deeply
15:18
and
15:18
then
15:19
I.
15:19
And
15:20
we
15:20
were
15:20
both
15:20
experiencing
15:21
it
15:21
the
15:21
same
15:22
way.
15:22
And
15:22
that
15:22
was
15:22
so
15:23
cool.
15:23
Anyway,
15:24
that
15:24
is
15:24
really
15:25
cool
15:25
to
15:25
have
15:25
somebody
15:26
like
15:26
on
15:27
the
15:27
sidelines
15:27
with
15:27
you
15:28
who
15:28
gets
15:28
it.
15:28
You
15:29
know,
15:29
it's.
15:30
It's
15:30
so
15:30
important.
15:31
It's
15:31
really
15:31
important.
15:32
You
15:32
know,
15:33
I
15:33
think,
15:34
you
15:34
know,
15:34
with
15:34
style,
15:35
you
15:35
know,
15:35
I
15:36
think
15:36
a
15:36
lot
15:36
of
15:36
women
15:37
in
15:37
midlife
15:38
kind
15:39
of,
15:39
you
15:39
know,
15:39
maybe
15:40
I
15:40
don't
15:40
want
15:40
to
15:41
say,
15:41
let
15:41
things
15:41
go,
15:41
but
15:42
they
15:42
prioritize
15:43
things
15:43
differently,
15:44
right?
15:44
Because,
15:44
because
15:44
there's
15:45
a
15:45
lot
15:45
of
15:46
responsibility,
15:46
right?
15:47
There's,
15:47
there's,
15:48
you
15:48
know,
15:48
the
15:48
family,
15:49
there's
15:49
the
15:49
job,
15:50
there's
15:51
friends,
15:51
there's
15:52
like
15:52
everything
15:52
else.
15:52
And
15:52
it
15:53
feels
15:53
like
15:53
a
15:53
lot
15:53
of
15:53
times
15:53
women
15:54
in
15:54
midlife
15:54
put
15:55
them,
15:55
everybody
15:56
else
15:56
before
15:56
themselves.
15:58
Um,
15:59
so
16:00
what
16:00
do
16:00
you
16:00
think
16:00
is
16:01
the
16:01
best
16:02
way
16:02
for
16:02
a
16:03
woman,
16:03
especially
16:03
like
16:04
in
16:04
this
16:04
time
16:05
frame
16:06
to
16:07
reclaim
16:08
her
16:08
identity
16:10
through
16:10
personal
16:11
style.
16:13
I
16:14
think,
16:16
I
16:16
think
16:16
there's
16:18
a
16:18
couple
16:18
ways
16:19
of
16:19
like
16:19
approaching
16:20
something
16:20
like
16:20
this.
16:21
I
16:21
think
16:21
that,
16:22
like,
16:22
when
16:23
you
16:24
kind
16:25
of
16:27
realize
16:29
that
16:30
you
16:31
have
16:31
a
16:31
smidge
16:32
more
16:32
time
16:32
on
16:32
your
16:32
hands,
16:33
you
16:33
know,
16:33
like
16:34
all
16:34
of
16:34
a
16:35
sudden
16:35
you're
16:35
not
16:35
just
16:36
running
16:36
the
16:36
kids
16:36
and
16:37
shuttling,
16:38
you're
16:39
not
16:39
just
16:39
like
16:40
booked
16:41
all
16:41
day
16:42
or,
16:43
or
16:43
you're
16:44
in
16:44
a
16:44
position
16:44
where
16:45
like,
16:45
you
16:45
get
16:45
to
16:45
like
16:46
open
16:46
up
16:46
your
16:46
schedule
16:47
a
16:47
little
16:47
bit
16:47
more.
16:47
Like,
16:48
right.
16:48
Like
16:48
we're
16:49
a
16:49
little
16:49
bit
16:49
older,
16:50
we're
16:50
more
16:50
established,
16:51
A
16:51
lot
16:51
of
16:51
us
16:51
work
16:52
for
16:52
ourselves,
16:52
we
16:53
create
16:53
our
16:53
own
16:53
schedules.
16:54
And
16:54
then
16:54
all
16:55
of
16:55
a
16:55
sudden
16:55
you're
16:55
like,
16:56
wow,
16:56
I
16:56
have
16:56
like
16:57
a
16:57
little
16:57
space
16:57
here,
16:58
right?
16:58
And
16:58
it's
16:58
like,
16:59
you
17:00
know,
17:00
it's
17:00
like
17:00
slowing
17:01
down
17:01
and
17:01
like
17:02
going
17:02
into
17:03
your
17:03
closet.
17:03
And
17:04
I
17:04
think
17:05
one
17:05
of
17:05
the
17:05
most
17:06
important
17:06
things
17:06
I,
17:07
I
17:08
do
17:08
with
17:08
all
17:08
my
17:08
clients
17:09
is
17:09
like
17:10
the
17:10
edit,
17:12
like,
17:13
I
17:13
think
17:13
it's
17:14
under
17:16
the
17:16
power
17:17
of
17:17
the
17:17
edit
17:18
is,
17:19
is
17:19
so
17:19
major.
17:20
And,
17:20
and
17:21
I
17:21
think
17:21
that
17:21
like,
17:22
when
17:22
you,
17:23
you
17:24
kind
17:24
of
17:24
can't
17:25
have
17:26
clear
17:27
vision
17:27
if
17:28
you
17:28
have
17:28
clutter
17:29
and
17:29
mess
17:30
in
17:30
your
17:30
wardrobe
17:31
in
17:31
your
17:31
closet.
17:32
Like,
17:32
how
17:32
do
17:32
you
17:32
figure
17:33
out
17:33
who
17:33
you
17:33
are
17:33
when
17:33
you
17:34
don't
17:34
even
17:34
know
17:34
where
17:34
anything
17:35
is,
17:35
right?
17:36
And
17:36
so
17:36
like,
17:37
like
17:38
starting
17:38
with
17:38
just
17:39
like
17:39
that
17:39
simple
17:40
exercise
17:41
is
17:41
so
17:41
important
17:42
because
17:43
once
17:43
you
17:43
clear
17:44
out
17:44
all
17:44
the
17:44
things
17:45
that
17:45
are
17:45
not
17:45
serving
17:46
you,
17:47
it's
17:47
like
17:47
not
17:48
who
17:48
you
17:48
are
17:48
anymore,
17:49
right?
17:49
You
17:49
sort
17:49
of
17:50
are
17:50
like,
17:50
oh
17:50
my
17:50
God,
17:51
I
17:51
don't
17:51
wear
17:52
those
17:53
pants
17:53
anymore.
17:54
Or
17:55
I
17:55
don't.
17:56
That
17:56
is
17:57
like
17:57
stained
17:57
or
17:58
it
17:58
doesn't
17:58
fit
17:58
right?
17:59
Or
17:59
oh
17:59
my
17:59
God,
17:59
that's
18:00
so
18:00
1980.
18:01
Why
18:01
did
18:01
I
18:01
hold
18:01
on
18:01
to
18:02
that?
18:02
You
18:02
know,
18:03
you
18:03
get
18:03
rid
18:03
of
18:03
all
18:04
of
18:04
that
18:04
and
18:04
then
18:04
all
18:05
of
18:05
a
18:05
sudden
18:05
you're
18:05
like
18:06
left
18:06
with
18:06
this
18:08
clarity,
18:09
right?
18:09
It's
18:09
like
18:09
clarity
18:10
of
18:10
like,
18:10
okay,
18:11
I
18:11
really
18:11
like
18:12
these
18:12
things
18:13
and
18:13
these
18:13
things
18:13
serve
18:14
me.
18:14
And
18:14
now
18:15
how
18:15
can
18:15
I
18:15
build
18:15
off
18:16
that?
18:16
And
18:17
I
18:17
think
18:17
like,
18:19
when
18:20
you're
18:20
in
18:20
your,
18:21
this
18:21
time
18:21
in
18:21
your
18:22
life,
18:22
like,
18:22
you,
18:23
you
18:23
really
18:24
have
18:24
to
18:24
like
18:24
kind
18:24
of
18:24
hit
18:25
the
18:25
pause
18:25
button,
18:25
right?
18:26
You
18:26
have
18:26
to
18:26
hit
18:26
the
18:26
pause
18:26
button
18:27
and
18:27
think
18:28
about
18:28
these
18:28
things
18:28
and
18:29
just
18:29
sort
18:29
of
18:29
like
18:29
take
18:30
the
18:30
time
18:30
to
18:30
like
18:31
understand,
18:32
you
18:32
know,
18:33
what
18:33
works
18:33
on
18:33
you,
18:34
what
18:34
doesn't
18:34
work
18:34
on
18:34
you,
18:35
what
18:35
makes
18:35
you
18:35
feel
18:36
good,
18:36
what
18:36
doesn't.
18:38
And
18:38
I
18:38
think,
18:39
you
18:39
know,
18:39
kind
18:39
of
18:40
discovering
18:40
like
18:41
that
18:42
about
18:42
yourself
18:42
is,
18:43
is
18:43
going
18:43
to
18:44
help
18:44
you
18:44
kind
18:44
of
18:45
establish
18:45
a
18:46
better
18:46
sense
18:46
of
18:46
like
18:47
your
18:47
personal
18:48
style
18:48
moving
18:48
forward.
18:49
Right?
18:50
Does
18:50
that
18:50
make
18:50
sense?
18:51
Yeah,
18:51
no,
18:51
that
18:52
totally
18:52
makes
18:53
sense.
18:53
And
18:53
it's,
18:54
it's
18:54
like
18:54
a
18:54
long
18:55
winded
18:56
and
18:56
this
18:56
is
18:57
such
18:57
a
18:57
good
18:57
point,
18:57
because
18:57
I
18:58
feel
18:58
like
18:58
I
18:58
need
18:58
to
18:59
edit
18:59
my
18:59
own
18:59
closet,
19:00
you
19:00
know,
19:00
now
19:00
that
19:01
we're
19:01
talking
19:01
about
19:01
this,
19:02
because
19:02
things
19:03
get
19:03
crazy
19:03
in
19:03
there.
19:04
You
19:04
know,
19:04
things
19:04
pile
19:05
up.
19:05
And,
19:05
like,
19:05
you
19:06
have
19:06
all
19:06
these
19:06
emotional
19:07
attachments,
19:08
too,
19:08
to
19:08
these
19:08
pieces,
19:09
right?
19:10
Like,
19:10
as
19:10
we're
19:11
getting
19:11
older,
19:11
I
19:12
feel
19:12
sometimes
19:13
even
19:13
more
19:13
attached
19:14
to
19:14
pieces
19:14
that
19:14
maybe
19:15
remind
19:16
me
19:16
of,
19:16
you
19:16
know,
19:16
when
19:17
I
19:17
was
19:17
younger
19:17
or,
19:18
like,
19:18
a
19:18
specific
19:18
memory.
19:20
So
19:20
how
19:20
do
19:21
we,
19:21
like,
19:22
start
19:22
tackling
19:23
all
19:23
of
19:23
that?
19:23
Because
19:24
there
19:24
is
19:24
so
19:24
much,
19:24
like,
19:25
emotional
19:26
and
19:26
mental
19:27
connection.
19:28
I
19:29
was
19:29
telling
19:30
somebody
19:30
the
19:30
other
19:30
day,
19:31
I
19:31
was
19:31
like,
19:31
you
19:31
know,
19:31
I
19:32
feel
19:32
like
19:32
a
19:32
therapist.
19:33
Like.
19:34
Like,
19:34
styling
19:35
is
19:35
like,
19:36
therapy,
19:36
because.
19:37
And
19:37
I'm
19:37
like,
19:37
in
19:37
the
19:38
closet
19:38
is
19:38
my
19:38
office.
19:40
Whatever
19:41
closet
19:41
I'm
19:41
in,
19:41
that's
19:42
my
19:42
office
19:42
for
19:42
the
19:42
day.
19:43
And
19:43
you're
19:44
right.
19:44
It's
19:44
very.
19:45
It
19:45
can
19:45
be
19:45
very
19:45
emotional.
19:47
There's
19:47
a
19:47
lot
19:47
of
19:48
nostalgic,
19:49
you
19:49
know,
19:49
references.
19:50
Like,
19:50
you
19:50
really
19:51
can,
19:51
like,
19:51
remember
19:52
where
19:52
you
19:52
wore
19:53
something,
19:53
how
19:53
you
19:54
felt
19:54
that
19:54
day,
19:55
and
19:55
there's
19:55
a
19:56
place
19:56
to
19:56
keep
19:56
those
19:57
things.
19:57
Right?
19:57
Like,
19:58
I
19:58
feel
19:58
like
19:59
you
19:59
have
19:59
to
19:59
think
19:59
of
19:59
your
20:00
wardrobe
20:00
as,
20:00
like,
20:00
real
20:01
estate,
20:01
you
20:02
know,
20:02
and,
20:02
like,
20:03
what
20:03
gets
20:03
to
20:03
go
20:04
front
20:04
and
20:04
center
20:04
versus
20:05
what.
20:06
What
20:06
are
20:06
just,
20:06
like,
20:06
the
20:07
things
20:07
that
20:07
you
20:08
want
20:08
to,
20:08
like,
20:09
peek
20:09
at
20:10
every
20:10
now
20:10
and
20:10
again
20:10
or
20:11
talk
20:11
to
20:11
your
20:11
kids
20:11
about
20:12
one
20:12
day
20:12
or,
20:13
like,
20:13
open
20:13
the
20:14
box
20:14
later,
20:14
but,
20:15
like,
20:15
it's
20:15
there,
20:15
and
20:15
you're,
20:16
like,
20:16
gonna
20:16
hold
20:16
on
20:16
to
20:17
it
20:17
because
20:17
those
20:17
are
20:17
special
20:17
memories,
20:18
and
20:18
we
20:18
all
20:18
need
20:19
those
20:19
things,
20:21
but
20:21
they
20:21
don't
20:21
need
20:22
to
20:22
be
20:22
sort
20:22
of,
20:22
like,
20:23
front
20:23
and
20:24
center.
20:24
I
20:24
think
20:24
there's,
20:25
like,
20:25
the
20:25
other
20:25
extreme
20:26
where
20:26
it's
20:26
like,
20:27
you
20:27
know,
20:27
the
20:27
emotional
20:28
sort
20:29
of
20:29
realization
20:29
is
20:29
like,
20:30
oh,
20:30
my
20:30
body
20:30
just
20:30
doesn't
20:31
feel
20:32
like
20:33
I
20:33
can
20:33
wear
20:33
these
20:34
things
20:34
anymore,
20:34
or
20:35
it
20:35
doesn't
20:35
fit
20:36
me
20:36
like
20:36
it
20:36
used
20:36
to.
20:37
And
20:37
sometimes
20:38
that
20:38
can
20:39
feel,
20:39
like,
20:40
not
20:40
great,
20:41
you
20:41
know?
20:42
I
20:42
think
20:42
sometimes,
20:42
like,
20:43
trying
20:43
things
20:43
on
20:44
can
20:44
be,
20:44
like,
20:45
discouraging,
20:46
right?
20:46
You're
20:46
like,
20:47
ugh.
20:48
You
20:48
know,
20:48
like,
20:49
I
20:49
used
20:49
to
20:49
wear
20:49
these
20:49
pants,
20:50
and
20:50
now
20:50
I
20:50
can't.
20:51
They
20:51
don't
20:51
fit
20:51
me.
20:51
What's
20:52
happening?
20:52
My
20:52
body,
20:52
you
20:53
know,
20:53
And
20:53
I
20:53
think,
20:53
like,
20:53
that's
20:54
a.
20:54
That's
20:55
like,
20:55
a
20:55
hard
20:55
part
20:56
of,
20:56
like,
20:57
midlife,
20:58
you
20:58
know,
20:58
and
20:58
sort
20:58
of,
20:59
like,
20:59
getting
21:00
to
21:00
this
21:02
really.
21:02
Sort
21:03
of,
21:03
like,
21:04
being
21:04
gentle
21:05
with
21:05
yourself,
21:05
though,
21:05
too,
21:06
you
21:06
know?
21:06
I
21:07
think,
21:07
like,
21:08
you
21:08
know,
21:09
it's
21:09
hard
21:09
to,
21:09
like,
21:10
move
21:11
through
21:11
that
21:11
and,
21:12
like,
21:12
sort
21:12
of
21:12
just
21:13
being
21:13
like,
21:13
okay,
21:15
I'm
21:16
gonna
21:16
do
21:16
it
21:16
differently
21:16
now,
21:17
you
21:17
know?
21:18
Like,
21:18
it
21:18
doesn't
21:19
feel
21:19
good
21:19
to
21:19
put
21:19
something
21:19
on
21:20
that
21:20
doesn't
21:20
feel
21:21
good
21:21
on
21:21
my
21:21
body.
21:22
That.
21:23
Right.
21:23
If
21:23
it's
21:24
tight.
21:24
I'm
21:24
like,
21:24
I
21:24
was,
21:25
oh,
21:25
those
21:25
are
21:25
standing
21:26
room
21:26
only,
21:27
you
21:27
know,
21:27
and
21:28
it's.
21:28
Like
21:29
standing
21:29
room
21:29
only.
21:30
I
21:30
love
21:30
it.
21:31
Like,
21:31
we're
21:31
not
21:32
going
21:32
to
21:32
the
21:32
bar
21:32
where
21:32
you're
21:33
standing
21:33
all
21:33
night
21:33
anymore,
21:34
so
21:35
that's
21:36
not
21:36
gonna
21:36
serve
21:37
me.
21:37
So
21:37
like,
21:38
you
21:38
know,
21:38
like,
21:38
you
21:38
have
21:38
to
21:39
just
21:39
slowly
21:39
just
21:40
like.
21:40
And
21:40
once
21:40
you
21:40
take
21:40
out
21:41
the
21:41
things
21:41
that
21:41
like
21:42
stress,
21:42
like,
21:43
really
21:43
actually
21:43
just
21:43
make
21:43
you
21:44
feel
21:44
bad,
21:46
it
21:46
gets
21:47
better,
21:48
you
21:48
know.
21:48
So,
21:49
yeah,
21:49
it
21:49
can
21:49
be
21:50
emotional
21:50
and
21:50
I
21:51
think,
21:51
like,
21:51
you
21:51
just
21:51
have
21:52
to
21:52
like,
21:52
be
21:52
gentle
21:53
with
21:53
yourself
21:53
and,
21:54
and
21:54
just
21:55
know
21:55
that
21:55
there
21:55
are
21:56
like,
21:57
there's
21:57
a
21:57
big
21:58
world
21:58
out
21:58
there
21:58
of
21:59
beautiful
21:59
things
22:00
and
22:01
like,
22:01
there's
22:01
a
22:01
way
22:02
to
22:02
sort
22:02
of
22:02
evolve
22:03
your
22:03
style
22:04
and
22:04
who
22:04
you
22:05
are
22:05
and
22:05
what
22:06
you
22:06
want
22:06
to
22:06
evoke
22:07
without
22:07
making
22:08
yourself
22:08
feel
22:08
shitty.
22:10
Yes,
22:10
totally.
22:11
And
22:11
I
22:11
think,
22:11
you
22:12
know
22:12
what,
22:12
why
22:12
even
22:13
in
22:13
midlife,
22:13
I
22:13
mean,
22:14
I
22:14
feel
22:14
like
22:14
we
22:14
should
22:14
be
22:14
taking
22:15
risks,
22:16
right?
22:16
Try
22:17
something
22:17
new,
22:17
try
22:18
something
22:19
different.
22:19
Maybe
22:20
it's
22:20
like,
22:20
you
22:20
know,
22:21
a
22:21
look
22:21
or
22:21
a
22:21
style
22:22
you
22:22
didn't,
22:23
you've
22:23
never
22:23
done
22:23
before.
22:24
Now
22:25
is
22:25
the
22:25
time
22:25
to
22:25
have
22:26
fun,
22:26
right?
22:26
With
22:26
style?
22:27
A
22:27
bit,
22:28
yeah.
22:28
I
22:29
mean,
22:29
I
22:29
think,
22:30
I
22:30
think
22:31
confidence
22:31
is
22:32
everything,
22:33
right?
22:33
And
22:33
I
22:34
think,
22:35
I
22:35
think
22:35
if
22:35
we're
22:35
all
22:36
really
22:36
honest
22:36
with
22:37
ourselves,
22:37
like,
22:38
if
22:38
we
22:38
really
22:39
like,
22:39
we
22:39
all
22:40
have
22:40
a
22:40
full
22:40
length
22:40
mirror
22:41
and
22:41
if
22:41
you
22:41
don't,
22:42
you
22:42
need
22:42
to
22:43
go
22:43
out
22:43
and
22:43
buy
22:43
one
22:44
today.
22:45
Like,
22:45
if
22:45
you
22:46
look
22:46
in
22:46
the
22:46
mirror
22:46
and
22:46
you
22:47
feel
22:47
fabulous,
22:49
then
22:49
wear
22:50
it.
22:50
You
22:51
know,
22:51
like,
22:51
clothing
22:51
is
22:52
supposed
22:52
to
22:52
bring
22:52
joy.
22:53
Like,
22:54
yes,
22:54
there's
22:54
like,
22:55
it's
22:55
the
22:55
sort
22:56
of
22:56
like
22:56
functional
22:57
aspect
22:57
and
22:57
that's
22:58
just
22:58
whatever.
22:59
But
22:59
like,
22:59
really.
23:00
I
23:00
remember
23:01
I
23:01
was
23:01
at
23:01
this,
23:03
this
23:03
conference
23:04
in
23:04
New
23:04
York.
23:05
I
23:05
was
23:05
doing
23:05
a
23:06
panel
23:06
and
23:07
someone
23:08
asked
23:08
me,
23:09
like,
23:10
I,
23:11
I
23:11
just
23:11
don't
23:11
have
23:12
time,
23:12
I
23:12
don't
23:13
have
23:13
time
23:13
for,
23:13
to
23:14
like,
23:14
think
23:14
about,
23:15
I'm
23:15
going
23:15
to
23:15
wear.
23:15
I
23:16
just
23:16
wear
23:16
the
23:16
same
23:16
thing
23:17
every
23:17
day.
23:18
Like
23:19
I,
23:19
I.
23:20
And
23:20
I'm
23:20
like,
23:21
why,
23:21
why
23:21
should
23:22
I,
23:22
like,
23:23
you
23:23
know,
23:23
spend
23:24
time
23:25
like
23:25
thinking
23:25
about
23:26
all
23:26
this
23:26
stuff?
23:27
And
23:27
I
23:27
said,
23:28
well,
23:29
I
23:29
said
23:29
you
23:29
have
23:30
to
23:30
ask
23:30
yourself
23:30
if
23:31
it
23:31
brings
23:31
you
23:31
joy
23:32
and
23:33
if
23:33
it
23:33
brings
23:34
you
23:34
joy
23:34
to
23:34
wear
23:35
the
23:35
same
23:35
thing
23:35
every
23:36
day,
23:36
then
23:38
that's
23:38
your
23:38
happy
23:39
place
23:39
and
23:39
that's
23:40
fine.
23:40
But
23:40
it
23:41
like,
23:41
but
23:41
a
23:42
lot
23:42
of
23:42
people,
23:43
it
23:44
brings
23:44
them
23:44
joy
23:44
to
23:45
like,
23:46
know
23:46
that
23:46
what
23:46
they're
23:47
wearing
23:47
feels
23:47
great
23:48
and
23:48
it's
23:49
like
23:49
their
23:49
version
23:49
of
23:49
joy,
23:50
right?
23:50
It's
23:51
like,
23:51
it's
23:51
also
23:52
personal.
23:52
Like,
23:53
so
23:53
some
23:53
people
23:54
have
23:54
the
23:54
bandwidth,
23:55
others
23:55
don't.
23:56
It's
23:57
why
23:57
I
23:57
love,
23:58
like,
23:58
have
23:58
my
23:59
job.
24:00
Totally.
24:01
You're
24:02
like,
24:02
this
24:02
keeps
24:02
me
24:02
employed.
24:04
Oh,
24:05
because
24:05
I
24:05
Have
24:06
so
24:06
many
24:06
clients
24:07
that
24:07
just,
24:08
they
24:08
don't
24:08
have
24:09
the
24:09
time
24:10
and
24:10
they
24:10
run,
24:12
they
24:12
run
24:12
companies
24:13
and
24:13
they're
24:13
busy
24:13
and
24:14
they
24:14
are
24:15
kick
24:15
ass
24:15
powerful
24:17
women
24:17
who
24:18
just
24:18
crush
24:19
it,
24:19
but
24:20
they
24:20
don't
24:20
have
24:20
the
24:21
time
24:21
to
24:21
think
24:21
about,
24:22
oh,
24:23
my
24:23
gosh,
24:23
are
24:23
those
24:24
pants
24:24
outdated?
24:25
Or.
24:26
I
24:26
have
24:27
like
24:27
this
24:27
important
24:27
event
24:28
coming
24:28
up
24:28
and
24:28
I
24:29
need
24:29
to
24:29
go
24:29
shopping
24:30
for
24:30
it.
24:30
Like,
24:30
no,
24:30
they
24:31
just.
24:31
And
24:32
so
24:32
it's.
24:33
I,
24:33
I
24:33
actually
24:34
think,
24:34
like,
24:35
you
24:35
know,
24:37
it's
24:37
awesome
24:37
that
24:37
we
24:38
get
24:38
to
24:38
do
24:38
what
24:38
we
24:38
do,
24:39
you
24:39
know,
24:39
and
24:39
like,
24:40
help
24:40
women
24:41
in
24:41
that
24:41
way.
24:42
Yeah,
24:42
I
24:43
mean,
24:43
it's,
24:43
it's
24:44
a
24:44
statement
24:44
too.
24:45
When
24:45
you
24:45
walk
24:45
into
24:46
a
24:46
room,
24:46
you
24:47
feel
24:47
good,
24:47
you
24:48
look
24:48
good,
24:48
like
24:49
everything's
24:49
coming
24:50
together.
24:50
That's
24:51
powerful,
24:52
you
24:52
know,
24:53
for
24:53
sure,
24:53
right?
24:54
Absolutely.
24:56
I
24:56
had
24:56
a
24:57
client,
24:58
was
24:58
still
24:58
a
24:58
client,
24:59
and
24:59
I
24:59
just,
24:59
like,
25:00
love
25:00
her
25:00
so
25:00
much.
25:01
But
25:01
I
25:01
remember,
25:02
like,
25:02
one
25:02
of
25:02
the
25:02
first
25:03
times
25:04
I
25:04
ever
25:04
worked
25:05
with
25:05
her,
25:05
I
25:06
said
25:06
to
25:06
her,
25:08
you
25:08
know,
25:08
you
25:08
have
25:09
to
25:09
dress
25:09
for
25:09
the
25:09
job
25:09
you
25:10
want,
25:11
not
25:11
the
25:11
job
25:11
you
25:11
have.
25:12
It's
25:12
part
25:12
of
25:13
manifesting.
25:13
It's
25:14
manifesting.
25:16
And
25:17
she
25:17
literally,
25:18
like,
25:18
will
25:18
refer
25:19
to
25:19
that
25:19
so
25:19
often,
25:20
and
25:20
she
25:21
literally
25:21
has
25:22
like,
25:22
gotten
25:23
to
25:23
the
25:23
place
25:23
she
25:23
wants
25:24
to
25:24
be.
25:24
And
25:24
it's
25:25
so
25:25
awesome
25:25
to
25:26
witness
25:26
that,
25:27
you
25:27
know,
25:27
it's
25:28
like,
25:29
that's
25:29
so
25:29
cool.
25:30
It's
25:31
so
25:31
rad,
25:32
right?
25:33
Really
25:33
is
25:33
just
25:33
so
25:34
cool
25:34
to
25:34
like,
25:35
watch
25:35
people,
25:39
they
25:39
sort
25:39
of
25:39
like
25:40
stand
25:40
taller
25:41
when
25:41
they,
25:41
you
25:42
know,
25:42
imagine
25:42
like
25:43
you
25:43
watch
25:43
your
25:43
client,
25:43
they're
25:44
like
25:44
putting
25:44
on
25:44
something
25:45
and
25:45
they
25:45
like,
25:46
they
25:46
look
25:47
in
25:47
the
25:47
mirror
25:47
and
25:47
they're
25:47
like,
25:48
they
25:48
stand
25:48
taller,
25:49
they
25:49
smile
25:49
at
25:50
themselves,
25:51
they
25:51
like,
25:52
all
25:52
of
25:52
a
25:52
sudden
25:52
like
25:53
walk
25:53
with
25:53
like
25:53
a
25:53
bounce
25:54
in
25:54
their
25:54
step,
25:54
you
25:55
know,
25:55
and
25:55
it's
25:55
just
25:56
like,
25:56
it's
25:57
so
25:58
awesome
25:59
to
25:59
watch
25:59
people
26:00
just
26:00
radiate
26:01
in
26:01
that
26:02
way.
26:02
Yeah.
26:03
Like,
26:03
and
26:03
getting
26:04
your
26:04
hair
26:04
done
26:04
on
26:04
top
26:04
of
26:05
that,
26:05
that's
26:06
like
26:06
a
26:07
power
26:09
move
26:09
right
26:09
there.
26:10
All
26:10
of
26:10
it.
26:11
Right?
26:11
Style
26:11
isn't
26:12
just
26:12
about
26:12
the
26:12
clothes.
26:12
You
26:13
need
26:13
it
26:13
all.
26:13
Oh,
26:14
all
26:14
of
26:14
it.
26:14
All
26:15
of
26:15
it.
26:15
And
26:15
the
26:15
jewels.
26:16
Yes,
26:16
the
26:17
jewels,
26:17
the
26:17
accessories,
26:18
everything.
26:20
Yeah.
26:20
What
26:21
do
26:21
you.
26:21
So
26:21
I
26:21
wanted
26:21
to
26:22
ask
26:22
you
26:22
because
26:22
I
26:23
feel
26:23
like
26:24
we've
26:24
been
26:25
fed
26:25
a
26:25
lot
26:26
of
26:26
like,
26:27
rules
26:28
as
26:28
we've,
26:28
you
26:28
know,
26:29
come
26:29
up.
26:29
And
26:29
it's
26:30
like,
26:30
you
26:30
can
26:31
wear
26:31
this
26:31
until
26:31
this
26:32
age.
26:32
You
26:32
can
26:32
do
26:33
this
26:33
until,
26:33
you
26:34
know,
26:34
this
26:34
point
26:35
in
26:35
your
26:35
life.
26:35
But
26:36
are
26:36
there
26:36
anything
26:37
like
26:37
any,
26:38
are
26:38
there
26:38
any
26:39
style
26:40
quote
26:40
unquote
26:40
rules
26:41
that
26:41
you
26:41
think
26:42
women
26:42
over
26:42
40
26:43
should
26:43
just
26:43
ignore?
26:46
I
26:46
think
26:47
there
26:47
shouldn't
26:48
be
26:48
rules,
26:50
you
26:50
know,
26:50
like,
26:53
I
26:53
mean,
26:54
look,
26:54
I
26:55
think
26:55
like,
26:56
we're,
26:57
we're
26:57
intuitive,
26:58
we're
26:58
smart,
26:59
Women
27:00
know
27:00
what
27:01
feels
27:01
right
27:01
and
27:01
what
27:01
doesn't
27:02
feel
27:02
right.
27:02
So
27:03
you
27:03
might
27:03
have
27:03
your
27:04
own
27:04
kind
27:04
of,
27:06
you
27:06
know,
27:08
rules
27:08
for
27:08
yourself,
27:10
you
27:10
know,
27:11
But
27:11
I
27:11
think
27:11
like,
27:12
this
27:12
notion
27:12
that
27:13
you
27:13
can't
27:13
wear,
27:13
you
27:14
can't
27:14
show
27:14
your
27:14
arms
27:15
when
27:16
you're
27:16
like
27:16
40,
27:17
or
27:17
you
27:17
can't
27:18
wear
27:18
a
27:18
skirt,
27:20
you
27:20
can't
27:21
show
27:21
your
27:21
knees
27:21
when
27:22
you're.
27:22
They're
27:22
so
27:23
old
27:23
fashioned,
27:24
you
27:24
know,
27:24
And
27:25
I
27:25
think,
27:25
like,
27:26
we've
27:26
come
27:27
such
27:27
a
27:27
long
27:27
way
27:28
from
27:28
like,
27:29
those.
27:29
I
27:30
feel
27:30
like
27:30
those
27:30
rules
27:31
actually
27:32
don't
27:32
really
27:32
exist
27:33
anymore.
27:33
I
27:34
feel
27:34
like
27:34
those
27:34
were
27:34
the
27:34
rules
27:35
when
27:35
we
27:35
were
27:36
kids
27:37
and
27:37
our
27:37
mothers
27:38
were
27:39
like,
27:40
moving
27:40
through
27:41
their
27:41
midlife.
27:42
Right.
27:42
And
27:42
I
27:43
think,
27:43
like,
27:45
you
27:45
know,
27:45
that
27:45
doesn't.
27:46
Or
27:46
like,
27:46
don't
27:46
wear
27:47
bright
27:47
colors.
27:48
You.
27:48
You
27:48
don't
27:48
want
27:48
to
27:49
stand
27:49
out.
27:49
You
27:50
want
27:50
to
27:50
blend
27:50
in.
27:50
And
27:51
it's
27:51
like,
27:52
I
27:52
don't
27:52
feel
27:52
like
27:53
any
27:53
of
27:53
that
27:53
really
27:56
resonates
27:56
anymore.
27:57
I,
27:57
I
27:57
don't
27:58
ever.
27:59
I
28:00
mean,
28:00
look,
28:00
there's
28:00
plenty
28:01
of
28:01
women
28:01
who
28:01
have
28:01
insane
28:02
bodies
28:03
even
28:04
as
28:04
they
28:04
age,
28:05
and
28:05
they
28:05
look
28:05
more
28:06
beautiful
28:06
today.
28:07
I
28:07
mean,
28:07
I
28:07
feel
28:08
like,
28:09
I
28:09
feel
28:09
like
28:09
women
28:10
take
28:10
such
28:10
good
28:10
care
28:11
of
28:11
themselves
28:11
now,
28:12
right?
28:12
And
28:12
like,
28:12
if
28:13
you
28:13
look
28:13
great
28:13
in
28:13
a
28:13
bikini,
28:14
wear
28:14
the
28:14
bikini.
28:15
Just
28:15
because
28:15
you're
28:16
40,
28:16
whatever,
28:17
50,
28:17
60,
28:18
you
28:19
don't
28:19
have
28:19
to
28:19
wear
28:19
one
28:19
piece.
28:20
If
28:21
you
28:21
look
28:21
and
28:21
feel
28:22
great.
28:22
That's
28:23
all
28:23
that
28:23
matters.
28:24
So,
28:25
yeah,
28:25
I
28:26
think
28:26
the
28:26
rules
28:26
need
28:26
to
28:27
just.
28:28
We
28:28
need
28:28
to
28:28
kick.
28:29
Kick
28:29
the
28:29
can
28:30
to
28:30
the
28:30
curb.
28:31
Yes,
28:31
100%.
28:33
I'm
28:33
like,
28:33
I
28:34
want
28:34
to
28:34
get
28:34
my
28:35
body,
28:35
I'm
28:35
working
28:36
on
28:36
it.
28:36
I
28:36
want
28:36
to
28:36
get
28:37
it
28:37
to
28:37
a
28:37
place
28:37
where
28:37
I
28:38
can
28:38
like,
28:38
wear
28:38
a
28:39
bikini
28:39
from
28:39
here
28:39
on
28:39
out.
28:40
That's
28:40
like
28:40
good
28:40
inspiration.
28:42
Yeah,
28:42
I
28:42
mean,
28:42
that's
28:43
powerful,
28:43
right?
28:44
Even
28:44
just
28:44
the
28:45
act
28:45
of,
28:45
like,
28:45
knowing
28:46
what
28:46
you
28:46
want.
28:47
Absolutely,
28:48
absolutely.
28:49
So
28:50
what
28:50
would
28:50
you
28:50
say?
28:51
Let's
28:51
say
28:52
there's
28:52
a
28:52
woman
28:52
that,
28:53
you
28:53
know,
28:53
she
28:53
wants
28:53
to
28:53
kind
28:54
of
28:54
do
28:54
things
28:54
differently
28:55
and
28:55
change
28:55
things
28:56
up.
28:57
Like,
28:57
what
28:57
kind
28:57
of
28:58
advice
28:58
would
28:58
you
28:58
give
28:58
to
28:59
somebody
28:59
like
28:59
that
29:00
that's
29:00
kind
29:00
of
29:00
trying
29:00
to
29:01
still
29:01
see
29:02
where
29:02
she
29:02
lands?
29:03
There's
29:04
a
29:04
couple
29:04
things
29:04
I
29:05
feel
29:05
like
29:06
if
29:06
you
29:06
really
29:06
just
29:07
think
29:08
about
29:09
the
29:09
quality
29:10
of
29:10
clothing,
29:12
like
29:12
quality
29:15
fit,
29:16
like
29:17
buying
29:17
fabrics
29:18
that
29:18
are,
29:20
you
29:20
know,
29:21
you're
29:21
buying
29:22
wool
29:22
and
29:22
silk
29:23
and
29:23
cashmere
29:24
and
29:24
cotton
29:25
and
29:25
linen.
29:26
You're
29:27
not
29:27
buying
29:28
polyester
29:29
and
29:29
rayon
29:30
and
29:30
like,
29:30
things
29:31
that
29:31
just
29:31
don't,
29:31
they're
29:32
not
29:32
breathable,
29:33
they
29:33
don't
29:34
drape
29:34
well,
29:36
they're
29:36
just
29:37
not
29:37
made
29:37
well.
29:38
Like,
29:40
if
29:40
you
29:41
are
29:41
wearing
29:41
clothing
29:42
that
29:43
fits
29:44
well,
29:44
that
29:45
is
29:45
tailored
29:45
beautifully
29:47
and
29:48
the,
29:48
the
29:48
fabric
29:49
is
29:49
like,
29:50
quality,
29:51
you
29:51
are
29:52
going
29:52
to
29:52
stand
29:52
out
29:53
without
29:54
sticking
29:54
out
29:55
because
29:55
you're
29:56
going
29:56
to
29:56
look
29:56
fat.
29:56
You're
29:57
going
29:57
to
29:57
look
29:57
amazing,
29:58
right?
29:59
So
29:59
I
30:00
think,
30:00
like,
30:01
I
30:01
almost.
30:02
I
30:02
almost
30:02
say
30:03
buy
30:04
quality,
30:04
buy
30:05
less
30:05
and
30:05
buy
30:05
better.
30:06
You
30:07
know,
30:07
buy.
30:08
Buy
30:08
less
30:09
junk.
30:09
Don't
30:10
buy
30:10
the
30:10
junk.
30:11
It's
30:11
just
30:11
not
30:12
worth
30:12
it
30:12
because
30:12
you're
30:12
just
30:13
going
30:13
to
30:13
throw
30:13
it
30:13
out.
30:14
It's
30:14
so
30:14
much
30:14
better
30:15
to
30:15
just
30:16
buy
30:17
a
30:17
pair
30:17
of.
30:18
Like,
30:19
you
30:19
wouldn't
30:19
build
30:20
a
30:20
house
30:20
with
30:21
shitty
30:21
wood,
30:23
right?
30:23
So,
30:23
like,
30:24
why
30:24
are
30:24
you
30:24
gonna,
30:24
like,
30:25
create
30:25
this
30:25
foundation
30:26
of
30:26
your
30:26
wardrobe
30:27
and
30:27
have
30:27
it
30:28
be
30:28
shitty?
30:29
You
30:30
know,
30:30
like,
30:30
you
30:30
build
30:31
off
30:31
that
30:31
these
30:32
pieces
30:32
can
30:32
be
30:33
in
30:33
your
30:33
wardrobe
30:34
for
30:34
years
30:34
to
30:35
come.
30:36
And
30:36
I
30:36
think
30:36
that
30:37
that's
30:38
what.
30:38
That's
30:38
how
30:38
I
30:39
would
30:39
sort
30:39
of
30:39
like,
30:41
you
30:41
know,
30:42
start
30:42
the
30:43
process
30:43
of,
30:43
like,
30:44
you
30:44
want
30:45
to
30:45
walk
30:45
in
30:45
a
30:46
room
30:46
and
30:46
look
30:46
amazing.
30:47
If
30:47
you're
30:47
wearing
30:48
things
30:48
that
30:48
fit
30:49
well,
30:49
that
30:49
are
30:49
good
30:50
quality
30:50
and
30:50
nicely
30:51
nice
30:52
fabrics,
30:52
you're
30:53
going
30:53
to
30:53
look
30:53
amazing,
30:54
you.
30:54
Know,
30:55
so
30:55
that
30:55
means,
30:55
like,
30:56
sometimes
30:56
that
30:56
means
30:56
shopping
30:57
less
30:57
and
30:57
just
30:58
buying
30:58
better.
30:59
For
30:59
sure,
31:00
for
31:01
sure.
31:01
I
31:01
mean,
31:01
we
31:02
can
31:02
all
31:02
get
31:02
caught
31:02
up
31:03
in,
31:03
like,
31:04
you
31:04
know,
31:04
a
31:04
little
31:05
bit
31:05
of
31:05
the
31:05
fast
31:05
fashion
31:06
or
31:06
you
31:06
want
31:06
to,
31:06
like.
31:07
And
31:08
I
31:08
think
31:08
you
31:08
still
31:08
can
31:09
do
31:09
that.
31:09
I
31:09
think
31:10
it,
31:10
you
31:10
know,
31:10
it
31:11
depends
31:11
on,
31:12
oh,
31:12
I
31:12
really,
31:13
like,
31:13
love
31:13
that
31:13
trend,
31:14
but
31:15
I'm
31:15
not
31:15
really
31:16
interested
31:16
in
31:17
committing
31:17
to
31:17
it
31:18
at
31:18
that
31:18
price
31:18
point
31:19
that
31:19
I
31:19
know
31:19
normally
31:20
like
31:20
to
31:20
shop
31:20
at.
31:21
So
31:22
I'm
31:22
gonna
31:22
just,
31:23
like,
31:24
try
31:24
it
31:25
by,
31:25
like,
31:25
buying
31:26
it
31:26
at,
31:26
like,
31:26
a
31:27
high
31:27
street
31:27
store,
31:28
you
31:28
know,
31:28
and
31:28
then
31:28
that
31:29
way,
31:29
like,
31:30
it's
31:30
like
31:31
you're
31:31
not
31:31
sort
31:32
of.
31:32
It's
31:32
like
31:32
low
31:33
commitment,
31:33
but,
31:33
like,
31:34
you
31:34
want
31:34
to,
31:34
like,
31:34
dabble
31:35
a
31:35
little
31:35
bit.
31:35
Like,
31:36
I
31:36
think,
31:36
like,
31:36
there's
31:36
space
31:37
for
31:37
that
31:37
for
31:37
sure,
31:38
but
31:38
I
31:39
think,
31:39
like,
31:39
just
31:39
foundationally,
31:41
like,
31:41
I
31:42
always
31:42
say,
31:42
buy
31:43
better,
31:45
buy
31:45
better.
31:45
Invest
31:46
in
31:46
the
31:46
pieces.
31:47
No,
31:47
that
31:48
absolutely
31:48
makes
31:48
sense.
31:49
And
31:49
I
31:50
think
31:50
it's
31:50
interesting,
31:50
too,
31:51
because
31:51
you're
31:52
not
31:52
just
31:52
styling.
31:53
People
31:53
like
31:53
styling.
31:54
I
31:54
mean,
31:54
you're
31:54
not
31:54
just
31:55
styling
31:55
bodies,
31:56
but
31:57
you're
31:57
taking
31:57
on
31:58
women
31:59
who
32:00
might
32:00
be
32:00
going
32:01
through
32:01
transitions
32:01
in
32:02
life.
32:02
Maybe
32:02
there's
32:03
some
32:03
insecurities,
32:04
there's
32:04
some
32:05
history
32:06
going
32:06
through
32:07
all
32:07
these
32:07
different
32:07
things
32:08
and
32:08
emotional
32:09
patterns
32:09
that
32:09
kind
32:10
of
32:10
show
32:10
up
32:11
at
32:11
this
32:11
time
32:11
of
32:12
life.
32:12
So
32:14
what
32:14
are
32:14
some
32:15
of
32:15
the
32:15
most
32:15
common
32:17
things
32:17
that
32:17
you
32:17
see
32:18
with
32:18
that
32:19
kind
32:19
of
32:19
thing?
32:19
When
32:19
it
32:19
comes
32:20
up
32:20
when
32:20
women
32:20
are
32:21
trying
32:21
to
32:21
reclaim
32:22
style
32:23
and
32:23
get
32:23
dressed
32:24
at
32:24
this
32:24
time
32:24
in
32:25
life,
32:25
I
32:26
mean,
32:26
it's.
32:26
It's
32:27
hard.
32:27
I
32:27
mean,
32:27
there's
32:28
a
32:28
lot
32:28
that
32:28
happens.
32:29
Like
32:29
just,
32:29
you
32:29
know,
32:30
thinking
32:30
about
32:30
when
32:30
we
32:31
first
32:31
met
32:31
and
32:31
how
32:31
much
32:32
has
32:32
happened
32:32
in
32:32
20
32:33
years.
32:34
Like,
32:35
you
32:35
know,
32:37
you
32:37
Change
32:38
a
32:38
lot,
32:38
right?
32:39
Like,
32:39
life
32:40
kind
32:40
of
32:40
changes
32:41
you
32:41
for
32:41
the
32:41
better.
32:42
Most
32:42
of
32:42
the
32:42
time.
32:42
It's
32:43
always
32:43
for
32:43
the
32:43
better.
32:43
I
32:44
think,
32:44
like,
32:44
changes
32:45
is
32:45
powerful,
32:46
and
32:46
I
32:46
think
32:46
we
32:47
all
32:47
learn
32:47
and
32:47
grow
32:47
and
32:48
evolve
32:48
and.
32:49
And
32:49
I
32:49
think,
32:49
like,
32:50
your
32:50
style
32:51
grows
32:51
and
32:51
evolves
32:52
too,
32:52
right?
32:53
So
32:54
I
32:54
think,
32:55
yeah,
32:55
there's
32:55
a
32:55
lot
32:55
of
32:56
emotional
32:56
things
32:57
that
32:57
happen
32:57
in
32:57
life,
32:57
whether
32:58
it's,
32:59
you
32:59
know,
33:00
a
33:00
divorce
33:01
or
33:01
losing
33:02
a
33:02
parent
33:03
or
33:04
sickness
33:04
or
33:05
whatever.
33:06
But
33:06
I
33:06
think
33:06
at
33:07
the
33:07
end
33:07
of
33:07
the
33:07
day,
33:08
if
33:08
you,
33:11
you
33:11
know,
33:12
you.
33:12
You
33:12
have
33:13
to
33:13
just.
33:14
You
33:15
have
33:15
to
33:15
feel
33:15
good.
33:16
You
33:16
have
33:17
to
33:17
choose
33:17
things
33:18
that
33:18
make
33:18
you
33:18
feel
33:19
good
33:20
and
33:21
don't
33:21
force
33:22
it,
33:22
you
33:23
know,
33:23
just
33:23
like,
33:23
really
33:24
honor,
33:25
like,
33:25
what
33:25
is
33:25
it
33:26
you're
33:26
trying
33:26
to
33:26
achieve.
33:27
Like,
33:27
do
33:28
you
33:28
want
33:28
to
33:28
be.
33:29
Do
33:29
you
33:29
want
33:29
to
33:30
be
33:30
comfortable
33:30
every
33:30
day?
33:31
And
33:31
if
33:31
being
33:31
comfortable
33:32
is
33:32
being
33:32
comfortable
33:33
doesn't
33:33
mean
33:33
you
33:34
have
33:34
to
33:34
wear
33:34
sweats,
33:35
you
33:35
know,
33:36
there's
33:36
so
33:36
many
33:37
amazing,
33:37
you
33:38
know,
33:38
athleisure
33:39
brands
33:39
or
33:39
lifestyle
33:40
brands
33:41
that
33:41
have,
33:42
like,
33:42
you
33:42
know,
33:42
the
33:43
equivalent
33:43
to
33:43
like,
33:44
a
33:44
sweatpant
33:44
but,
33:45
like,
33:45
is
33:45
a
33:46
tailored
33:46
trouser
33:47
silhouette.
33:48
So,
33:48
like,
33:49
this
33:49
is
33:49
where,
33:49
like,
33:49
you
33:50
have
33:50
to,
33:50
like,
33:51
you
33:51
know,
33:52
either
33:52
take
33:52
the
33:52
time
33:53
to,
33:53
like,
33:53
you
33:54
know,
33:54
look
33:54
online
33:55
and
33:55
see,
33:56
you
33:56
know,
33:57
do
33:57
a
33:57
little
33:57
research
33:58
or
33:58
hire
33:58
a
33:58
stylist.
33:59
There's
33:59
so
33:59
many
34:00
stylists.
34:00
This,
34:01
you
34:02
know,
34:02
everywhere.
34:03
You
34:03
know,
34:03
there.
34:04
I
34:04
feel
34:04
like
34:04
there's
34:04
so
34:04
many
34:05
stylists,
34:05
right?
34:05
You
34:05
can,
34:06
like,
34:06
if
34:06
you
34:06
have
34:07
the
34:07
budget
34:07
to
34:07
hire
34:07
a
34:08
stylist,
34:08
great,
34:08
but
34:08
if
34:08
you
34:09
don't,
34:09
you
34:09
can
34:09
go
34:09
to,
34:09
like,
34:10
a
34:10
department
34:11
store
34:11
or
34:11
boutique
34:12
that,
34:12
like,
34:13
you
34:13
love
34:13
and
34:13
you
34:14
trust
34:14
the
34:14
people
34:14
that
34:15
work
34:15
there
34:15
and,
34:15
like,
34:16
have
34:16
them
34:16
help
34:16
you,
34:16
right?
34:17
So,
34:17
you
34:18
know,
34:18
just,
34:18
like,
34:18
think
34:19
about
34:19
what
34:19
it
34:19
is
34:19
that
34:20
you're
34:20
trying
34:20
to
34:21
evoke
34:21
and,
34:22
like,
34:22
really
34:22
hone
34:23
in
34:23
on
34:23
that.
34:24
And
34:24
I
34:24
think
34:24
that,
34:25
you
34:25
know,
34:25
the
34:25
emotional
34:26
things
34:26
that
34:26
happen,
34:28
like,
34:28
if
34:29
you're
34:29
wearing,
34:29
like,
34:30
the
34:30
black
34:30
pant
34:31
that
34:31
looks
34:32
amazing,
34:34
you're
34:34
gonna
34:35
feel
34:35
better,
34:36
period.
34:36
End
34:36
story,
34:37
you
34:38
know,
34:38
so,
34:38
yeah,
34:39
you
34:39
got
34:39
a
34:39
divorce,
34:40
but
34:41
you
34:41
look
34:42
kick
34:42
ass
34:43
and,
34:43
like,
34:43
you
34:44
look
34:44
amazing.
34:44
So,
34:45
like,
34:45
whatever,
34:46
you
34:46
know,
34:46
like,
34:47
now
34:47
you're
34:47
gonna
34:47
start
34:47
dating
34:48
or,
34:49
you
34:49
know,
34:49
so
34:50
I
34:50
think,
34:50
like,
34:51
I
34:51
don't
34:51
know,
34:51
it's.
34:52
It's
34:52
like
34:52
a
34:52
hard.
34:52
It's
34:53
like
34:53
a
34:53
hard
34:53
question
34:54
to
34:54
ask
34:55
answer,
34:55
like,
34:56
specifically,
34:56
because
34:57
it's
34:57
so
34:58
rooted
34:58
in,
34:59
like,
34:59
personal
35:00
experience
35:01
for,
35:01
like,
35:02
the.
35:02
The
35:03
client
35:03
or
35:04
whoever's
35:05
kind
35:05
of
35:05
like,
35:05
moving
35:06
through
35:06
it,
35:06
but
35:06
I
35:06
think,
35:07
like,
35:07
really
35:07
just
35:09
making
35:09
sure
35:09
that
35:09
what
35:10
you
35:10
are
35:11
wearing
35:11
is
35:12
true
35:12
to
35:12
who
35:12
you
35:13
are.
35:14
The
35:14
rest
35:15
will
35:15
just
35:15
fall
35:15
into
35:15
place.
35:16
See?
35:17
Okay,
35:17
that
35:17
makes
35:18
sense
35:18
too,
35:18
because,
35:19
you
35:19
know,
35:19
we
35:19
see
35:19
Every
35:20
season,
35:20
new
35:20
trends
35:21
are
35:21
emerging,
35:22
you
35:22
know,
35:22
and.
35:23
And
35:23
yeah,
35:23
sure,
35:24
some,
35:24
you
35:25
know,
35:25
you
35:25
might
35:25
want
35:25
to
35:25
try
35:26
a
35:26
trend
35:26
here,
35:27
trend
35:27
there,
35:29
but
35:29
what
35:29
is
35:29
the
35:30
kind
35:30
of
35:30
the
35:30
best
35:30
way
35:32
to
35:32
adopt
35:33
maybe
35:33
a
35:33
new
35:33
trend
35:34
or
35:34
two
35:34
into
35:35
your
35:36
closet
35:36
without
35:37
making
35:37
it.
35:37
So
35:38
try
35:38
hard,
35:38
because
35:39
I
35:39
feel
35:39
like
35:39
you
35:40
do
35:40
things
35:40
like
35:40
that,
35:40
Kathy,
35:41
so
35:41
effortlessly,
35:42
like,
35:43
you're
35:43
classic
35:44
modern,
35:45
but
35:45
then
35:45
you
35:45
also
35:45
will,
35:46
like,
35:46
throw
35:46
a
35:47
trend
35:47
in
35:47
here
35:47
and
35:47
there,
35:48
you
35:48
know.
35:48
So,
35:48
like,
35:49
how
35:49
do
35:49
you
35:49
make
35:49
that
35:50
synergy
35:50
happen?
35:50
If
35:51
you
35:51
want
35:51
to
35:51
bring
35:51
in
35:52
some,
35:52
like,
35:52
kind
35:53
of
35:53
trendy,
35:54
trendy,
35:55
you
35:55
know.
35:55
Items
35:56
there,
35:56
there
35:57
could
35:57
be
35:57
baby
35:57
steps
35:58
here,
35:58
right?
35:58
Like,
35:59
okay,
35:59
the
35:59
skinny
36:00
jean
36:00
was
36:00
the
36:00
thing
36:01
forever,
36:02
you
36:02
know,
36:02
and
36:03
like,
36:03
if
36:03
you
36:03
go
36:03
in
36:04
your
36:04
closet
36:04
and
36:04
you
36:05
do
36:05
that
36:05
edit
36:05
and
36:06
you're
36:06
like,
36:06
oh,
36:06
my
36:06
God,
36:07
I
36:07
have
36:07
nothing
36:07
but
36:07
skinny
36:08
jeans,
36:09
okay,
36:10
that's
36:10
like
36:10
a
36:11
very
36:11
simple
36:11
thing
36:12
you
36:12
could
36:12
do
36:13
to,
36:13
like,
36:14
make
36:14
yourself
36:15
feel
36:15
modern.
36:16
I'm
36:16
going
36:16
to
36:16
go
36:16
out
36:16
and
36:17
I'm
36:17
going
36:17
to
36:17
buy
36:17
an
36:18
amazing
36:18
straight
36:19
leg
36:20
and.
36:20
Or
36:21
a
36:21
kick
36:22
flare
36:23
or
36:23
just
36:24
something,
36:25
you
36:25
know,
36:26
that
36:26
is
36:27
more
36:27
modern
36:27
and
36:28
that's
36:28
a
36:28
simple
36:29
thing.
36:29
Anybody
36:29
could
36:29
do
36:30
it.
36:30
Like,
36:30
you
36:30
go
36:31
out
36:31
and
36:31
you
36:31
buy
36:32
like
36:32
a
36:32
new
36:32
pair
36:33
of
36:33
jeans.
36:34
That
36:34
feels
36:35
so
36:35
good,
36:36
you
36:36
know,
36:36
or,
36:37
you
36:38
know,
36:38
or
36:38
your
36:39
pants
36:39
were
36:39
like,
36:40
sort
36:41
of
36:41
like
36:41
side
36:41
zip,
36:42
like
36:42
little
36:43
crepe
36:43
pants
36:44
from
36:44
the
36:45
90s,
36:46
and
36:46
all
36:46
of
36:46
a
36:46
sudden
36:47
you're
36:47
like,
36:47
why
36:48
did
36:48
I.
36:48
Why,
36:48
why
36:49
is
36:49
that
36:49
still
36:49
in
36:49
my
36:50
closet?
36:50
You
36:51
know,
36:52
go
36:52
and
36:53
get
36:53
a
36:53
pair
36:53
of
36:53
trousers,
36:54
you
36:55
know,
36:55
and
36:55
buy
36:55
a
36:55
pair
36:56
of
36:56
trousers
36:56
that
36:56
are
36:56
like,
36:57
that
36:57
just
36:58
drape
36:58
the
36:59
perfect
36:59
way
36:59
and
37:00
you're
37:00
going
37:00
to
37:00
feel
37:00
like
37:00
a
37:00
million
37:01
bucks
37:01
and
37:01
you're
37:02
going
37:02
to
37:02
look
37:02
modern.
37:03
So
37:03
there's
37:03
like,
37:03
simple
37:04
little
37:04
things
37:04
you
37:05
can
37:05
do
37:05
and
37:05
you
37:05
don't
37:06
have
37:06
to,
37:06
like,
37:07
there's
37:07
a
37:08
price
37:08
point
37:08
for
37:08
everybody,
37:09
you
37:09
know,
37:09
I
37:10
mean,
37:10
I
37:10
might
37:10
say,
37:11
like,
37:11
invest
37:11
in
37:11
the
37:12
foundation
37:12
pieces,
37:13
pieces,
37:13
but
37:14
like,
37:15
you
37:15
know,
37:15
there's
37:15
a
37:16
price
37:16
point
37:16
out
37:16
there
37:17
for
37:17
everybody.
37:17
You
37:18
know,
37:19
we
37:19
could,
37:19
like,
37:20
talk
37:20
about
37:20
options,
37:21
like,
37:21
specifically,
37:22
but
37:22
like,
37:23
you
37:23
know,
37:24
cotton
37:24
T
37:24
shirts,
37:25
get
37:25
rid
37:25
of
37:25
the
37:25
ratty
37:26
ones.
37:27
Find
37:27
one
37:27
that
37:27
isn't
37:28
clingy.
37:29
Find
37:29
one
37:29
that
37:30
is
37:30
more,
37:31
you
37:31
know,
37:31
it's
37:32
like,
37:32
shows
37:32
your
37:32
shape
37:33
without
37:33
clinging
37:34
to
37:34
the
37:34
body.
37:34
That's
37:35
more
37:35
modern,
37:36
you
37:36
know.
37:37
Oh,
37:37
you
37:38
know,
37:38
not
37:38
everybody's
37:38
going
37:39
to
37:39
want
37:39
to
37:39
wear
37:39
this,
37:39
like,
37:40
royal
37:40
blue,
37:41
electric
37:41
blue
37:42
color
37:42
that's
37:42
like
37:43
coming
37:43
full
37:44
force
37:44
for
37:44
spring,
37:45
but
37:46
maybe
37:46
it's
37:47
in
37:48
like
37:49
a
37:49
handbag
37:50
or
37:51
a
37:51
clutch
37:52
and
37:52
that's
37:52
like
37:52
your
37:53
way
37:53
of
37:53
kind
37:53
of
37:53
like
37:53
pulling
37:54
in
37:54
a
37:54
trend
37:54
without
37:55
feeling
37:55
like
37:56
you're.
37:56
It's
37:57
invasion
37:57
of
37:57
the
37:57
body
37:58
snatchers.
37:58
You
37:59
know
37:59
what
37:59
I
37:59
mean?
37:59
Like,
38:00
you
38:00
know
38:00
what
38:00
I
38:01
mean?
38:01
So,
38:01
like,
38:01
you
38:01
can
38:02
do
38:02
it
38:02
as
38:03
big
38:03
or
38:03
small
38:04
as
38:04
you
38:04
want
38:04
to,
38:05
but
38:05
I
38:05
think,
38:06
like,
38:06
once
38:06
you
38:06
start
38:07
experimenting,
38:09
you're
38:10
going
38:10
to
38:10
realize
38:10
what
38:10
your,
38:12
what
38:12
your
38:12
limits
38:13
are,
38:13
right?
38:13
You're
38:13
going
38:14
to
38:14
be
38:14
like,
38:14
okay,
38:15
I,
38:15
I
38:15
love
38:15
this
38:16
color,
38:16
but
38:16
I
38:16
don't
38:16
think
38:16
I'm
38:17
going
38:17
to
38:17
buy
38:17
a
38:17
dress
38:18
in
38:18
that
38:18
color.
38:19
That
38:19
blue
38:19
color
38:20
that's
38:20
going
38:20
to
38:20
be
38:20
like
38:20
all
38:21
over
38:21
the
38:21
place
38:21
for
38:21
spring.
38:22
But,
38:23
like,
38:23
I
38:23
really
38:23
love
38:23
it
38:24
in
38:24
a
38:24
shoe
38:25
or
38:25
a
38:25
bag
38:26
or
38:27
a
38:27
T
38:27
shirt
38:27
that's
38:27
under
38:28
a
38:28
blazer
38:28
or
38:29
that
38:29
kind
38:29
of
38:30
a
38:30
thing.
38:31
So
38:31
I
38:31
say
38:32
start
38:32
small.
38:35
You
38:35
know,
38:35
think
38:35
about
38:36
the
38:36
things
38:36
that
38:36
resonate
38:37
with
38:37
you.
38:38
Usually
38:38
it's
38:38
a
38:38
color.
38:40
Usually
38:40
it's
38:40
like
38:40
when
38:41
people
38:41
think
38:41
of
38:41
trends,
38:42
it's
38:42
like
38:42
either
38:42
a
38:43
fit
38:43
or
38:43
a
38:43
color.
38:44
And
38:45
there's
38:45
ways
38:45
that
38:46
you
38:46
can
38:46
incorporate
38:47
a
38:47
modern
38:48
fit
38:48
in
38:48
a
38:48
color
38:49
without
38:49
it
38:49
feeling,
38:50
like,
38:50
too
38:51
severe
38:52
or
38:52
like
38:52
you're
38:53
not
38:53
honoring
38:54
who
38:54
you
38:54
are.
38:55
Confession
38:56
time.
38:56
I
38:57
may
38:57
or
38:57
may
38:57
not
38:57
have
38:58
several
38:58
pairs
38:59
of
38:59
skinny
38:59
jeans
39:00
still
39:00
in
39:00
my
39:00
closet
39:01
because
39:02
I
39:02
know
39:02
they're.
39:03
I
39:03
know
39:03
they're
39:03
not
39:04
like,
39:04
cool
39:04
and
39:05
everything,
39:05
but
39:05
I
39:06
love
39:06
wearing
39:07
them.
39:07
I
39:07
love
39:07
a
39:08
skinny
39:08
jean
39:08
still.
39:09
It's
39:10
hard
39:10
for
39:10
me
39:10
to
39:10
shake.
39:11
You're
39:11
not
39:11
alone.
39:12
I
39:12
mean,
39:13
I,
39:14
I
39:14
feel
39:15
like
39:16
I
39:16
understand
39:17
it.
39:17
I.
39:17
I
39:18
understand.
39:19
I.
39:19
I
39:19
think
39:19
that
39:20
there
39:20
are
39:20
still
39:20
places
39:21
where
39:21
a
39:21
skinny
39:22
jean
39:23
can
39:23
work.
39:23
Like,
39:24
you
39:24
know,
39:24
you're
39:25
wearing
39:25
a
39:25
thigh
39:25
high
39:25
boot
39:26
or
39:26
like,
39:26
if
39:27
you
39:27
are
39:27
wearing
39:27
a
39:27
thigh
39:28
high
39:28
boot,
39:28
you
39:28
can.
39:28
Can't
39:29
stick
39:29
a
39:30
straight
39:30
leg
39:31
in
39:31
there.
39:32
You
39:32
know,
39:32
like,
39:32
you
39:33
need
39:33
the
39:33
skin.
39:33
You
39:34
need
39:34
something
39:34
a
39:34
little
39:34
bit
39:34
more
39:35
form
39:35
fitting.
39:35
It
39:35
might
39:36
be
39:36
a
39:36
legging
39:37
or
39:37
it's
39:37
still
39:37
the
39:37
skinny
39:38
jean.
39:38
Or
39:38
if
39:38
you're
39:38
wearing
39:39
a
39:39
slouchy
39:39
boot,
39:40
you
39:40
know
39:40
you
39:40
want
39:41
it
39:41
to
39:41
go
39:41
in.
39:42
There's
39:42
like,
39:42
definitely,
39:44
there's
39:45
definitely
39:45
times
39:46
when
39:46
a
39:46
skinny
39:47
jean
39:47
is
39:48
like,
39:48
it's
39:49
just
39:49
the
39:49
fit
39:50
that
39:50
works.
39:51
It's
39:51
that
39:51
simple.
39:52
So
39:53
truth
39:54
be
39:54
told,
39:54
like,
39:55
my
39:55
clients
39:55
all
39:56
have
39:56
one
39:56
medium
39:57
blue
39:57
wash
39:58
skinny
39:58
jean
39:58
in
39:58
their
39:59
totally
40:00
one
40:00
black.
40:01
It's
40:02
still
40:02
there,
40:03
but,
40:03
you
40:03
know,
40:04
but
40:05
it's
40:05
for,
40:05
like,
40:05
it's
40:05
reserved
40:06
for,
40:06
like,
40:06
specific
40:07
looks
40:08
for
40:08
now,
40:09
you
40:09
know?
40:09
And
40:09
you
40:09
know,
40:10
they're
40:10
actually
40:10
coming
40:10
back.
40:11
I
40:11
know.
40:11
I
40:12
was
40:12
so
40:12
excited
40:12
to
40:12
hear
40:13
that.
40:13
I'm
40:13
like,
40:13
yes.
40:14
Because
40:14
I
40:14
do
40:14
love
40:14
a
40:15
good
40:15
skinny
40:15
jean.
40:16
I
40:16
know.
40:17
It's
40:18
okay.
40:18
You're
40:18
off
40:18
the
40:18
hook.
40:19
Okay.
40:19
You're
40:19
good.
40:21
Thank
40:21
you.
40:23
I
40:24
know.
40:24
I
40:24
was
40:24
like,
40:24
oh,
40:25
my
40:25
God.
40:25
I'm
40:25
gonna
40:25
have
40:25
to
40:25
confess,
40:26
Festus.
40:26
The
40:27
skinny
40:27
jean
40:27
is
40:28
alive
40:28
and
40:28
well
40:28
in
40:28
my
40:29
Closet.
40:30
As
40:30
long
40:31
as
40:31
you're
40:31
not
40:31
wearing
40:31
it
40:31
with
40:32
a
40:32
wedge.
40:32
No.
40:32
Just
40:32
kidding.
40:33
Exactly.
40:34
Totally.
40:35
Like
40:35
2009.
40:36
Like,
40:36
bringing
40:36
it
40:37
all
40:37
back.
40:38
Yeah,
40:39
but
40:39
that
40:39
was
40:39
the
40:39
jam,
40:40
you
40:40
know?
40:40
Yeah.
40:41
Yeah,
40:42
Completely.
40:43
Okay,
40:43
so
40:44
what
40:44
trends
40:44
are
40:45
you,
40:45
like,
40:45
go
40:46
the
40:46
away,
40:46
do
40:47
not
40:47
come
40:47
back.
40:48
I
40:48
don't
40:48
want
40:48
to
40:48
see
40:48
your
40:49
face.
40:52
I
40:52
don't
40:52
like
40:52
a
40:52
cold
40:53
shoulder.
40:55
I
40:56
don't
40:56
like
40:56
a
40:56
cold
40:57
shoulder.
41:01
I
41:01
do
41:02
not
41:02
like
41:02
wedges.
41:03
There,
41:03
I
41:03
said
41:04
it.
41:04
I
41:04
don't.
41:05
It
41:05
was
41:05
like,
41:06
I
41:06
remember
41:06
when
41:06
the
41:06
wedge
41:07
became
41:07
a
41:07
thing,
41:08
and
41:08
then
41:08
I
41:08
was
41:08
like,
41:08
oh,
41:09
it's
41:09
gonna
41:09
go
41:09
away.
41:10
And
41:10
it
41:10
never
41:11
died.
41:12
It
41:12
never
41:12
went
41:13
away.
41:13
It
41:13
never
41:14
went
41:14
away.
41:14
And
41:15
I
41:15
understand
41:16
it.
41:16
I
41:17
know
41:17
why.
41:17
Why
41:17
it
41:18
works.
41:18
It's,
41:19
like,
41:19
functional
41:21
for
41:21
many
41:22
people.
41:24
But.
41:24
There'S
41:24
different
41:25
versions
41:25
of
41:25
a
41:26
wedge,
41:26
right?
41:27
There's
41:27
like.
41:28
There's
41:28
sort
41:29
of
41:29
like,
41:29
the
41:29
more
41:30
kind
41:30
of
41:30
sleeker
41:31
wedge.
41:32
So,
41:32
like,
41:32
I
41:33
opt
41:33
for
41:33
those.
41:34
Like,
41:34
if
41:34
I'm
41:34
gonna
41:35
do
41:35
a
41:35
wedge
41:36
for
41:36
a
41:36
client,
41:36
I
41:36
will
41:37
never
41:37
wear
41:37
wedge
41:38
personally,
41:38
because
41:38
I
41:39
just.
41:39
I
41:39
don't
41:39
know
41:39
why.
41:40
There.
41:40
It's
41:40
just
41:40
like.
41:41
It's
41:41
like
41:41
an
41:41
allergy
41:42
to
41:42
me.
41:43
But
41:43
there
41:43
are.
41:44
There
41:45
are
41:46
certain
41:46
ones
41:47
that
41:47
I
41:47
actually
41:47
can
41:48
totally
41:48
get
41:48
behind,
41:49
and
41:49
I
41:49
actually
41:49
think
41:50
look
41:50
fabulous.
41:50
So,
41:51
you
41:51
know,
41:52
it's
41:53
not
41:53
for
41:53
everyone.
41:54
But
41:55
those
41:55
are.
41:56
Yeah.
41:57
Cold
41:57
shoulder
41:57
and
41:57
a
41:58
wedge
41:58
are
41:58
my
41:58
two.
41:59
And,
41:59
oh,
41:59
my
42:00
God,
42:00
if
42:00
they're
42:00
worn
42:00
together,
42:01
that's
42:01
probably
42:02
your
42:02
worst
42:02
nightmare.
42:04
I
42:04
don't
42:04
like
42:04
that.
42:06
With
42:07
a
42:07
skinny
42:07
jean.
42:08
Can
42:08
you
42:08
imagine
42:08
a
42:08
cold
42:09
shoulder,
42:09
skinny
42:09
jean,
42:09
and
42:10
a
42:10
wedge.
42:10
You
42:11
die.
42:11
You
42:11
die.
42:13
Triple
42:14
threat.
42:14
Triple
42:15
threat.
42:16
The
42:16
stuff
42:17
of
42:17
nightmares
42:17
for
42:17
you.
42:19
Yeah.
42:20
I
42:20
mean,
42:20
there
42:20
are
42:20
a
42:20
lot
42:21
of
42:21
bigger
42:21
problems
42:21
in
42:22
the
42:22
world,
42:22
but
42:22
that
42:22
would
42:24
cause
42:24
me
42:24
to
42:26
turn
42:26
around.
42:28
Oh,
42:29
my
42:29
God.
42:29
Dying.
42:30
I
42:30
love
42:30
it.
42:31
Okay,
42:32
so
42:33
when
42:33
a
42:33
woman
42:34
finally
42:35
gets
42:35
it,
42:35
like,
42:36
all
42:36
right,
42:36
like,
42:36
she's,
42:37
like,
42:37
feeling
42:37
it,
42:38
like,
42:38
styles
42:38
coming
42:39
together,
42:39
you
42:40
know,
42:40
like,
42:40
confidence
42:41
is
42:41
there.
42:43
What
42:43
do
42:43
you
42:43
think
42:44
actually
42:44
changes
42:45
first?
42:45
Do
42:45
you
42:45
think
42:45
it's,
42:46
like,
42:47
how
42:47
she
42:47
looks,
42:48
how
42:48
she
42:48
moves?
42:49
Like,
42:50
how
42:50
she
42:51
sees
42:51
herself?
42:52
Like,
42:52
what
42:53
is
42:53
going
42:53
on
42:53
with
42:53
this,
42:54
like,
42:54
whole
42:54
psychology?
42:56
It
42:56
starts
42:56
with
42:56
the
42:57
person.
42:58
It's.
42:59
It
43:00
starts
43:00
with
43:00
the
43:00
person
43:00
because
43:01
you're
43:02
like,
43:03
the
43:03
woman
43:03
is
43:04
carrying
43:04
the
43:04
clothes,
43:05
Right?
43:06
But
43:07
I
43:07
will
43:08
say
43:09
there
43:09
is.
43:10
There
43:11
is
43:11
that
43:11
thing
43:12
that
43:12
happens
43:12
when
43:13
somebody
43:13
puts
43:13
something
43:14
on.
43:14
And,
43:15
like,
43:17
I.
43:17
I
43:17
will
43:17
actually
43:18
snort,
43:19
but
43:20
it's
43:20
so
43:20
embarrassing.
43:21
I
43:21
have
43:21
heard
43:22
you
43:22
snort,
43:22
laugh.
43:22
I've
43:23
heard
43:23
you
43:23
snort
43:23
laugh.
43:24
I
43:24
snort
43:25
when
43:26
someone
43:26
puts
43:26
something
43:26
on.
43:27
That
43:27
makes
43:27
me
43:27
just
43:28
like.
43:29
And
43:29
it
43:29
will.
43:29
Like,
43:30
I
43:30
don't
43:30
know
43:30
why.
43:31
I
43:31
don't
43:32
know
43:32
why
43:32
it
43:32
happens.
43:33
It's
43:33
so
43:33
weird
43:33
and
43:34
creepy,
43:34
and
43:35
I
43:35
Should
43:35
not
43:35
have
43:36
just
43:36
confessed
43:36
that.
43:37
But
43:37
there's,
43:38
like
43:38
a
43:38
gasp
43:38
and,
43:39
like,
43:39
a
43:39
snort,
43:40
and
43:40
I'm
43:40
just,
43:41
like,
43:41
dead.
43:42
It's,
43:42
like,
43:42
stops
43:43
me
43:43
dead
43:43
in
43:43
my
43:43
tracks.
43:44
And
43:44
I'm
43:44
like,
43:45
you
43:45
have
43:46
to
43:46
buy
43:46
that.
43:46
Like.
43:47
And
43:48
you
43:48
know
43:48
what?
43:49
I
43:49
think
43:49
that
43:50
there
43:50
are
43:50
moments
43:50
when
43:51
clients
43:52
get
43:52
dressed
43:53
and
43:53
they're
43:53
like,
43:53
oh,
43:54
my
43:54
God,
43:55
this
43:55
feels
43:55
so
43:56
good.
43:56
And
43:56
I
43:56
feel
43:56
amazing,
43:58
you
43:58
know?
43:58
And,
43:59
like,
44:00
so,
44:00
you
44:01
know,
44:01
sometimes
44:02
it
44:02
is,
44:02
like,
44:02
the
44:02
thing
44:03
you
44:03
put
44:03
on
44:03
that
44:04
can
44:04
make
44:04
you
44:04
feel
44:04
that
44:05
way.
44:07
But
44:07
I
44:07
do
44:07
think
44:08
that
44:08
there's,
44:08
like,
44:11
power
44:11
in
44:11
understanding
44:12
who
44:12
you
44:12
are.
44:12
And
44:13
I
44:13
think,
44:13
like,
44:14
you
44:14
said,
44:14
like,
44:14
once
44:15
you
44:15
kind
44:15
of
44:15
understand
44:16
it,
44:17
then
44:17
the
44:17
confidence
44:18
comes
44:18
out,
44:19
right?
44:19
Once,
44:19
you
44:19
know,
44:20
like,
44:20
okay,
44:20
I
44:21
actually
44:21
really
44:21
feel
44:21
great
44:22
in
44:22
these
44:22
pants.
44:23
And
44:23
getting
44:23
dressed
44:24
in
44:24
the
44:24
morning
44:24
is
44:25
much
44:25
easier
44:25
because
44:26
all
44:26
the
44:26
clutter
44:27
is
44:27
gone.
44:27
And
44:27
you
44:28
know
44:28
that
44:28
everything
44:28
that's
44:29
in
44:29
there
44:29
looks
44:29
good
44:29
on
44:29
you.
44:30
And
44:30
you
44:30
know
44:30
how
44:31
to
44:31
style
44:31
it
44:32
because
44:32
you
44:33
had
44:33
a
44:33
session
44:33
with
44:33
me
44:34
and
44:34
I
44:34
told
44:34
you
44:34
what
44:35
looks
44:35
good
44:35
with
44:35
what.
44:37
Wink,
44:38
wink.
44:38
Funny.
44:38
But.
44:40
But,
44:40
like,
44:41
really,
44:42
like,
44:42
the
44:42
confidence
44:43
is
44:43
just
44:44
you.
44:44
You
44:45
leave
44:45
the
44:45
house
44:45
feeling
44:46
great,
44:46
right?
44:46
And
44:47
then
44:47
you
44:47
walk
44:47
into
44:49
wherever
44:49
it
44:49
is
44:49
you're
44:50
going
44:50
to,
44:50
and,
44:50
like,
44:51
people
44:51
will
44:51
feel
44:52
your
44:52
energy.
44:52
Your
44:53
energy
44:53
is
44:54
going
44:54
to
44:54
be
44:55
strong
44:56
and
44:57
powerful.
44:58
But,
44:58
like,
45:00
you
45:00
know,
45:02
it's
45:02
just.
45:02
It's
45:03
like
45:04
you.
45:04
It's,
45:04
like,
45:04
palatable,
45:05
right?
45:05
Like,
45:06
you're
45:06
like,
45:07
feel
45:07
it,
45:07
see
45:07
it,
45:08
and,
45:08
like,
45:08
people
45:08
are
45:09
going
45:09
to
45:09
want
45:09
to
45:09
sit
45:09
next
45:09
to
45:09
you
45:10
at
45:10
the
45:11
dinner
45:11
table.
45:11
You
45:12
know,
45:12
they're
45:12
going
45:12
to
45:12
want
45:12
to,
45:13
like,
45:13
know
45:14
who
45:14
you
45:14
are
45:14
or,
45:15
like,
45:15
you
45:15
know,
45:16
be
45:16
introduced
45:16
or
45:17
whatever
45:17
the
45:17
thing
45:17
is.
45:18
So,
45:18
yeah,
45:19
I
45:19
think
45:21
confidence
45:21
is.
45:21
Is.
45:22
Is
45:22
key
45:23
for
45:23
sure.
45:24
Yeah,
45:24
100%.
45:25
It
45:25
takes
45:26
you
45:26
so
45:26
far,
45:26
like
45:27
you're
45:27
saying.
45:28
And
45:29
also,
45:29
like,
45:30
what
45:30
advice
45:30
would
45:31
you
45:31
give?
45:32
Let's
45:32
say
45:32
it's
45:33
a
45:33
woman
45:33
at
45:33
home.
45:34
She's
45:34
walked
45:34
into
45:35
her
45:35
closet,
45:35
she's
45:36
looking
45:36
at
45:36
her
45:36
closet.
45:37
She's
45:37
going,
45:38
oh,
45:38
my
45:38
God,
45:38
I
45:39
don't
45:39
even
45:39
know
45:39
where
45:39
to
45:40
start.
45:40
I
45:40
want
45:40
to
45:41
do
45:41
something
45:41
different.
45:42
I
45:42
want
45:42
to
45:42
make
45:42
a
45:43
change.
45:43
You
45:43
know,
45:44
I
45:44
want
45:44
to
45:44
figure
45:44
out
45:45
my
45:45
personal,
45:45
personal
45:45
style
45:46
now.
45:46
Now
45:46
that
45:47
I've,
45:47
you
45:47
know,
45:48
gone
45:48
through
45:48
a
45:48
life
45:49
change,
45:49
or
45:49
the
45:49
kids
45:50
are
45:50
now
45:50
out
45:50
of
45:50
the
45:50
house,
45:51
or
45:51
I'm
45:51
divorced
45:52
or
45:52
I'm
45:52
dating
45:52
or,
45:53
like,
45:53
whatever
45:54
it
45:54
is,
45:54
or
45:55
she
45:55
just
45:55
wants
45:55
to.
45:55
Change
45:56
it
45:56
for
45:56
herself.
45:56
You
45:57
know,
45:57
what
45:58
are,
45:58
like,
45:58
three
45:59
key
45:59
things
45:59
that
46:00
you
46:00
think
46:01
she
46:01
should
46:01
do
46:02
to
46:02
kind
46:02
of
46:02
start
46:03
that.
46:03
That
46:04
trajectory?
46:06
I
46:06
think
46:08
you
46:09
just
46:09
have
46:10
to
46:10
go
46:10
through
46:11
your
46:11
closet.
46:12
You
46:12
have
46:12
to
46:12
go
46:13
piece
46:13
by
46:13
piece.
46:15
And
46:15
if
46:15
it's
46:16
too
46:16
overwhelming,
46:18
like,
46:18
you
46:18
have
46:18
to
46:19
phone
46:19
A
46:19
friend,
46:20
have
46:20
a
46:20
friend
46:20
come
46:20
over.
46:21
You
46:22
know,
46:22
have
46:22
a
46:22
friend
46:23
come
46:23
over.
46:24
You
46:25
could
46:25
do
46:25
it
46:25
alone.
46:25
Have
46:25
a
46:26
friend
46:26
come
46:26
over,
46:26
have
46:26
it,
46:27
like,
46:27
have
46:27
a
46:27
bottle
46:27
of
46:28
wine
46:28
and,
46:28
like,
46:29
be
46:29
relaxed
46:30
about
46:30
it.
46:30
And
46:30
like,
46:30
have
46:31
dinner
46:31
in
46:31
the
46:31
closet
46:32
and
46:32
just
46:32
like,
46:32
make
46:32
it
46:32
like
46:33
a
46:33
fun,
46:33
like.
46:34
Like
46:34
pizza
46:35
party,
46:35
you
46:35
know,
46:35
like,
46:36
that
46:36
kind
46:36
of
46:37
energy
46:37
where
46:37
you're
46:37
just,
46:38
like,
46:38
not
46:38
taking
46:38
it
46:38
too
46:39
seriously.
46:39
You're
46:39
not
46:39
going
46:39
to
46:39
let
46:40
yourself
46:40
get
46:40
depressed.
46:42
It's
46:42
like,
46:42
it's
46:43
going
46:43
to
46:43
be
46:43
empowering.
46:44
It's
46:44
going
46:44
to
46:44
be.
46:45
It's
46:45
like
46:45
your
46:46
next
46:46
chapter.
46:47
So,
46:47
like,
46:48
have
46:48
a
46:48
friend,
46:49
hire
46:49
a
46:49
stylist,
46:50
do
46:50
it
46:50
on
46:50
your
46:51
own,
46:51
whatever
46:51
it
46:51
is.
46:51
But,
46:52
like,
46:52
have
46:53
a
46:53
drink,
46:54
put
46:54
on
46:54
the
46:55
music,
46:55
and
46:55
like,
46:56
you
46:56
know,
46:56
you
46:56
might
46:56
have
46:57
a
46:57
friend
46:57
who's
46:57
on
46:57
FaceTime,
46:58
you
46:58
know,
46:58
or
46:58
on
46:59
a
46:59
zoom.
46:59
And,
47:00
you
47:00
know,
47:00
you
47:00
can,
47:01
like,
47:01
tell
47:01
stories
47:01
about
47:01
pieces
47:02
and
47:02
like,
47:02
oh,
47:03
I
47:03
don't
47:03
want
47:03
to
47:03
get
47:03
rid
47:03
of
47:04
this
47:04
because
47:04
of
47:04
this.
47:05
Believe
47:05
me.
47:05
It's
47:05
like
47:05
a
47:05
night
47:06
out.
47:06
Like,
47:07
it's.
47:07
It's
47:07
actually
47:08
quite
47:08
liberating
47:09
and
47:09
fun.
47:10
And
47:10
I
47:10
think
47:10
once
47:11
you
47:11
get
47:11
rid
47:11
of
47:11
all
47:11
that
47:12
stuff,
47:13
you're
47:13
going
47:13
to
47:13
have
47:13
a
47:13
better
47:14
idea
47:14
of,
47:14
like,
47:15
what's
47:15
missing,
47:16
you
47:16
know,
47:16
like,
47:17
what
47:17
is
47:17
it
47:17
that
47:17
I'm
47:17
missing?
47:18
What
47:18
is
47:18
it
47:18
that
47:18
I
47:19
really
47:19
need?
47:20
And
47:20
like,
47:20
we
47:21
ask
47:21
our
47:21
clients
47:21
lots
47:22
of
47:22
questions,
47:23
like,
47:23
you
47:24
know,
47:24
what
47:25
is
47:25
a
47:25
typical
47:25
week?
47:27
You
47:27
know,
47:27
what
47:27
do
47:27
you.
47:28
You
47:28
know,
47:29
this
47:29
is
47:29
your
47:29
career.
47:29
But
47:30
like,
47:30
what
47:30
is
47:30
a.
47:30
What
47:30
is
47:31
a
47:31
typical
47:31
week?
47:31
What
47:31
are
47:31
you
47:32
doing?
47:32
What.
47:32
What
47:32
is
47:33
your
47:33
day?
47:33
Flow.
47:33
Flow.
47:34
Like,
47:34
and
47:35
like,
47:36
you
47:36
know,
47:37
we.
47:37
We
47:37
start
47:38
to
47:38
sort
47:38
of
47:38
like,
47:39
look
47:39
at
47:40
everything
47:40
that's
47:40
in
47:40
the
47:40
closet.
47:41
And
47:41
it's
47:41
like,
47:41
sometimes
47:42
it's
47:42
glaringly
47:43
missing.
47:44
It's
47:44
obvious
47:45
what's
47:45
glaringly
47:46
missing,
47:46
right?
47:47
Like,
47:47
whoa,
47:47
you
47:48
don't
47:48
actually
47:48
own
47:49
one
47:50
T
47:50
shirt
47:52
that
47:52
you
47:52
could
47:53
wear.
47:54
Like,
47:54
you.
47:54
You
47:55
run
47:55
this
47:55
company
47:56
and
47:56
you
47:56
are
47:57
such
47:57
a.
47:58
Just
47:58
a
47:58
rock
47:59
star,
48:00
but,
48:00
like,
48:00
you're
48:01
so
48:01
focused
48:01
on
48:01
your
48:01
career
48:02
that
48:02
you
48:02
forgot
48:02
about
48:03
the
48:03
weekends
48:03
and
48:03
at
48:03
night.
48:04
You
48:05
know
48:05
what
48:05
I
48:05
mean?
48:05
And
48:06
so,
48:06
like,
48:06
you.
48:07
Once
48:07
you
48:07
know,
48:07
it's
48:07
missing
48:08
either
48:08
direction,
48:10
whether
48:10
you,
48:10
like,
48:11
no
48:12
matter
48:12
what
48:12
it
48:12
is
48:12
that
48:13
you
48:13
do
48:13
in
48:13
your
48:13
life
48:14
and
48:14
career,
48:14
there's
48:15
always
48:15
going
48:15
to
48:15
be
48:15
holes
48:16
and
48:16
you
48:16
just
48:16
have
48:16
to,
48:16
like,
48:17
course
48:17
correct,
48:17
right?
48:18
You
48:18
have
48:18
to,
48:18
like,
48:19
work
48:19
backwards
48:20
from
48:20
what's
48:20
missing.
48:22
And
48:22
then,
48:24
you
48:24
know,
48:26
knowing
48:26
that
48:26
you
48:27
can
48:27
walk
48:27
in
48:28
to
48:28
your
48:28
closet
48:28
and
48:29
get
48:29
dressed
48:29
with
48:29
ease
48:30
is
48:30
going
48:30
to
48:31
change
48:31
the
48:31
whole
48:32
thing
48:32
for
48:32
you.
48:33
So
48:33
I
48:33
think
48:34
those
48:34
are
48:34
important
48:34
things,
48:35
but
48:35
also,
48:35
like,
48:36
one
48:36
very
48:36
simple
48:37
thing
48:37
everybody
48:38
can
48:38
do.
48:39
Which,
48:39
this
48:40
might
48:40
not
48:40
feel
48:40
like
48:40
a
48:41
big
48:41
deal,
48:41
but,
48:41
like,
48:42
I.
48:43
All
48:44
my
48:44
clients
48:44
have
48:45
valet
48:45
bars
48:45
in
48:46
their
48:46
closet.
48:47
And
48:47
if
48:47
you
48:47
don't
48:47
know
48:47
what
48:47
that
48:48
is,
48:48
it's.
48:48
It's
48:48
basically
48:51
like
48:52
a
48:52
metal
48:52
bar
48:52
that
48:53
comes
48:53
out
48:54
and
48:54
you
48:54
can
48:55
hang
48:56
what
48:56
you
48:57
going
48:57
to
48:57
wear
48:58
the
48:58
next
48:58
day.
48:59
And
49:00
if
49:01
you
49:01
like
49:01
look
49:01
at
49:02
your
49:02
calendar
49:02
and
49:02
you're
49:03
like,
49:03
okay,
49:03
I
49:03
know,
49:04
here's
49:04
my
49:04
day
49:04
tomorrow,
49:05
here's
49:05
what
49:05
I
49:05
got
49:05
to
49:06
do.
49:06
And
49:06
you
49:06
lay
49:07
out
49:07
the
49:07
look
49:08
for
49:08
the
49:08
next
49:08
day
49:09
on
49:09
this
49:09
valet
49:09
bar.
49:10
Like,
49:11
you
49:11
get
49:11
to
49:11
just
49:12
wake
49:12
up
49:12
and
49:12
walk
49:12
in
49:13
and
49:13
get
49:13
dressed.
49:14
You
49:14
don't
49:14
have
49:14
to
49:14
like,
49:15
go
49:15
through
49:15
that.
49:16
Well,
49:16
hopefully
49:17
you
49:17
won't
49:17
go
49:17
through
49:17
all
49:18
that
49:18
emotional
49:18
turmoil
49:19
because
49:19
you
49:19
would
49:19
have
49:20
cleaned
49:20
out
49:20
the
49:20
closet.
49:21
We
49:21
would
49:21
have
49:22
like,
49:22
replace
49:22
things
49:23
with,
49:23
you
49:24
know,
49:24
replace
49:24
the
49:24
holes.
49:25
Everything
49:26
that's
49:26
in
49:26
there,
49:26
like,
49:27
you
49:27
know
49:27
how
49:27
to
49:27
wear
49:28
it.
49:28
You
49:28
know,
49:28
it
49:28
feels
49:29
great.
49:29
And
49:30
now
49:30
it's
49:30
just
49:30
hanging
49:31
there.
49:31
It's
49:31
a
49:31
process.
49:32
It's
49:32
not
49:32
like,
49:32
this
49:33
isn't
49:33
like
49:33
an
49:33
overnight
49:34
thing.
49:34
Right?
49:34
Like,
49:34
you
49:35
have
49:35
to
49:35
like,
49:36
take
49:36
your
49:36
time
49:37
and
49:37
like,
49:38
and,
49:39
and
49:39
like
49:39
move
49:39
through
49:40
it.
49:40
But
49:40
I
49:41
promise
49:41
you,
49:41
when
49:41
you
49:42
do
49:43
all
49:43
the
49:44
steps
49:44
and
49:45
you
49:45
get
49:45
to
49:45
a
49:46
place
49:46
where
49:46
like,
49:46
you
49:46
can
49:46
just
49:47
walk
49:47
in
49:47
and
49:47
pull
49:47
the
49:48
thing
49:48
off
49:48
the
49:48
valet
49:49
bar
49:49
and
49:50
like
49:50
get
49:50
dressed,
49:50
you're
49:51
going
49:51
to
49:51
like,
49:52
you're
49:52
going
49:52
to
49:52
send
49:53
me
49:53
a
49:53
thank
49:53
you
49:53
note.
49:54
Totally.
49:54
I'm
49:55
going
49:55
to
49:55
be
49:55
like,
49:56
hallelujah.
49:57
It
49:57
worked.
49:59
Like,
49:59
it's
49:59
really
50:00
a
50:00
great
50:00
feeling.
50:01
I.
50:02
A
50:03
lot.
50:03
Everything.
50:03
Everybody's
50:04
so
50:04
busy.
50:04
You.
50:04
That's
50:05
like
50:05
one
50:05
thing
50:05
you
50:05
can
50:06
do
50:06
to
50:06
like,
50:08
not
50:08
have
50:08
to
50:08
think
50:08
about
50:08
it,
50:09
right.
50:09
And
50:09
to
50:09
like
50:10
make
50:10
the
50:10
morning
50:11
easier
50:11
or
50:11
like
50:12
whenever
50:12
you're
50:12
getting
50:13
dressed
50:13
to
50:13
go
50:13
somewhere,
50:14
you
50:14
know,
50:14
it's
50:14
like,
50:15
just
50:15
take
50:15
that
50:15
part
50:16
of
50:16
it
50:16
out.
50:16
There's
50:17
something.
50:17
You're
50:17
right.
50:17
Pre
50:18
planning
50:18
an
50:18
outfit
50:19
is
50:19
a
50:19
really
50:19
good
50:19
idea.
50:20
Pre
50:20
planning
50:21
plan.
50:22
It's.
50:23
It
50:23
seems
50:24
so
50:24
easy
50:24
and
50:25
basic
50:25
and
50:26
like,
50:26
you're
50:26
like,
50:26
oh,
50:26
whatever,
50:27
I'll
50:27
just
50:27
do
50:27
it
50:27
in
50:27
the
50:27
morning.
50:28
But
50:28
it
50:28
really
50:28
does,
50:30
you
50:30
know,
50:30
you
50:31
never
50:31
know
50:31
what's
50:31
going
50:31
to
50:31
happen
50:32
in
50:32
the
50:32
morning,
50:32
especially
50:32
if
50:32
you're
50:32
a
50:33
mom
50:33
and
50:33
you
50:33
have
50:34
like,
50:34
or
50:34
you
50:35
get
50:35
called
50:35
into
50:35
a
50:36
meeting
50:36
that's
50:36
like
50:36
last
50:37
minute.
50:37
And
50:37
then
50:37
all
50:37
of
50:37
a
50:38
sudden
50:38
you
50:38
have
50:38
three
50:38
minutes
50:39
to
50:39
get
50:39
ready
50:39
instead
50:39
of
50:40
the
50:40
45
50:40
minutes
50:40
you
50:41
thought
50:41
you
50:41
had,
50:42
you
50:42
know,
50:43
or
50:44
having
50:44
it
50:44
there
50:44
ready
50:45
to
50:45
go
50:45
is
50:46
like
50:46
a
50:46
game
50:46
changer.
50:47
Total,
50:48
total
50:49
game
50:49
changer.
50:50
Okay,
50:51
so
50:51
what
50:52
trends
50:53
are
50:53
you
50:53
personally
50:54
loving
50:55
right
50:55
now?
50:57
I
50:57
feel
50:58
like,
50:59
I
50:59
mean,
50:59
I've
51:00
sort
51:00
of
51:00
really
51:01
loved
51:02
the
51:02
whole
51:02
brown.
51:03
Yes.
51:04
I
51:04
love
51:04
brown.
51:05
Yes.
51:06
And
51:06
like,
51:07
it's
51:07
funny
51:08
because
51:08
I
51:08
remember
51:08
like
51:09
brown
51:09
would
51:10
be
51:10
like,
51:10
oh,
51:11
like,
51:11
just
51:12
kind
51:12
of
51:12
poo
51:12
pooed
51:12
upon,
51:13
pun
51:13
intended,
51:14
I
51:14
suppose.
51:14
Totally.
51:16
But,
51:16
like,
51:17
brown
51:17
done
51:17
right
51:18
is,
51:18
like,
51:18
so
51:19
elegant
51:20
and
51:20
so
51:20
chic,
51:21
and
51:21
I
51:21
just
51:21
love
51:22
it.
51:22
I
51:22
love
51:22
it.
51:23
I
51:23
love
51:24
cream
51:24
with
51:25
brown.
51:25
I
51:25
love
51:25
grays
51:26
with
51:26
brown.
51:26
I
51:27
love
51:27
Burgundies
51:27
with,
51:28
like.
51:28
There's
51:28
so
51:28
much
51:29
you
51:29
can
51:29
do
51:29
with
51:29
brown.
51:31
It's
51:31
so
51:31
fresh
51:32
and
51:32
modern,
51:32
and,
51:33
like,
51:33
it's
51:33
kind
51:33
of
51:34
like
51:34
this,
51:34
like,
51:34
little
51:34
unexpected,
51:35
like,
51:37
color
51:37
that
51:37
just
51:38
came
51:38
out
51:38
and
51:39
just
51:39
crushed
51:39
everything
51:40
this
51:40
season.
51:41
And
51:42
black
51:42
and
51:42
brown,
51:42
too,
51:43
is
51:43
a
51:43
nice
51:43
combo.
51:44
It
51:44
can
51:44
be,
51:44
you
51:44
know.
51:45
No,
51:45
I
51:45
do.
51:46
I
51:46
love
51:46
it.
51:48
And
51:48
even
51:48
shades
51:49
of
51:49
brown,
51:49
right.
51:49
Like,
51:50
you
51:50
can
51:50
sort
51:50
of,
51:51
like,
51:51
roll
51:51
into,
51:51
like,
51:52
the
51:52
Burgundies
51:52
or,
51:53
you
51:54
know,
51:54
Merlot's
51:55
or
51:55
kind
51:55
of
51:56
any
51:56
of
51:56
those
51:56
hues,
51:56
and
51:57
it's
51:57
all
51:57
so
51:58
beautiful
51:58
together.
51:59
And
51:59
it's.
52:00
And.
52:00
And
52:00
if,
52:00
like,
52:00
you
52:01
then,
52:01
like,
52:01
take
52:01
it
52:01
a
52:02
step
52:02
further
52:02
and
52:02
it's,
52:02
like,
52:03
texture,
52:04
you
52:04
know,
52:05
like,
52:05
think
52:05
about
52:06
texture.
52:06
Like,
52:07
don't
52:07
underestimate,
52:08
like,
52:09
you
52:09
know,
52:09
the
52:09
power
52:10
of,
52:10
like,
52:12
a
52:12
pattern,
52:13
even
52:13
if
52:13
it's
52:13
tonal.
52:14
Like
52:15
a
52:15
tonal
52:15
pattern
52:16
or
52:16
texture
52:17
to
52:17
a
52:17
sweater
52:17
or
52:18
a
52:18
pant
52:19
or
52:19
a
52:19
jacket,
52:19
like,
52:20
whether
52:20
it's
52:20
like,
52:20
a
52:20
shearling
52:21
or,
52:21
like,
52:21
some
52:21
sort
52:22
of
52:22
weave,
52:22
like,
52:23
you
52:23
know,
52:24
adding
52:24
that
52:24
dimension
52:25
also
52:25
makes
52:26
a
52:26
big
52:26
difference,
52:27
and
52:27
I
52:27
really
52:28
have
52:28
loved
52:29
kind
52:29
of
52:29
incorporating
52:30
that
52:30
for
52:30
clients,
52:30
too.
52:32
And
52:32
I
52:32
think
52:32
there's
52:33
also
52:33
a
52:33
shade
52:33
of
52:34
brown
52:34
that
52:34
looks
52:34
good
52:35
on
52:35
every
52:36
skin
52:36
tone.
52:36
You
52:37
know,
52:37
it's
52:37
like.
52:38
Right.
52:38
You
52:38
can
52:39
always
52:39
find
52:39
within
52:40
that
52:40
palette,
52:41
you
52:41
know,
52:42
something
52:42
that
52:42
will
52:43
look
52:43
good
52:43
on
52:43
you.
52:43
Right.
52:44
Totally.
52:45
Yeah.
52:45
I.
52:46
I
52:46
really.
52:46
I
52:46
agree.
52:47
It's
52:47
really
52:48
elegant.
52:48
It's
52:49
cool.
52:49
It's
52:50
really
52:50
cool.
52:50
It's
52:51
really
52:51
cool.
52:52
You
52:52
know,
52:52
I
52:53
love.
52:53
Back
52:53
at
52:53
the
52:54
top
52:54
of
52:54
the
52:54
show,
52:54
you
52:54
know,
52:54
we
52:55
talked
52:55
about
52:55
you
52:56
kind
52:56
of
52:57
moving
52:57
on
52:57
from
52:58
PR
52:58
and
52:59
opening,
52:59
you
52:59
know,
53:00
and
53:00
doing
53:00
all
53:00
of
53:00
your
53:00
styling,
53:01
and
53:01
I
53:01
think
53:01
that
53:02
that
53:02
is
53:02
so
53:02
cool,
53:03
because
53:03
that
53:03
is
53:03
something
53:04
you
53:04
did
53:04
in
53:05
midlife.
53:05
You
53:05
know,
53:06
that's
53:06
like,
53:06
a
53:07
transition
53:07
that
53:07
you
53:08
made,
53:08
and
53:08
you
53:08
went
53:09
all
53:09
in.
53:09
Like,
53:10
you
53:10
closed
53:11
down
53:12
the
53:12
PR
53:12
side
53:13
and
53:13
you
53:13
went
53:13
all
53:14
into
53:14
styling,
53:15
which
53:15
I
53:15
think
53:15
is
53:16
so
53:16
admirable,
53:17
you
53:17
know,
53:17
because
53:17
you
53:18
took
53:18
a
53:18
chance
53:18
on
53:18
yourself,
53:19
you
53:19
know,
53:19
you
53:20
really
53:20
did.
53:21
It
53:21
was
53:21
scary.
53:21
It
53:22
was
53:22
scary.
53:23
It
53:23
definitely
53:23
was.
53:24
Like,
53:26
took
53:27
me.
53:28
I.
53:29
I
53:29
like
53:29
to
53:29
pretend
53:30
like,
53:30
it
53:30
was
53:30
overnight,
53:31
and
53:31
it
53:31
so
53:31
wasn't.
53:32
It
53:32
was
53:32
scary.
53:33
But
53:33
I'm
53:33
so
53:33
glad
53:34
I
53:34
did
53:34
it.
53:35
I.
53:35
I
53:36
think,
53:36
like,
53:36
that's
53:36
like.
53:38
Yeah,
53:38
I'm
53:39
glad
53:39
I
53:39
did
53:39
that.
53:40
Yeah.
53:40
I
53:40
mean,
53:40
I
53:41
think
53:41
it.
53:41
And
53:41
it
53:42
takes
53:42
a
53:42
lot
53:42
of,
53:43
you
53:43
know,
53:44
grit
53:44
and
53:45
determination
53:46
and
53:46
all
53:47
the
53:47
things,
53:47
you
53:48
know,
53:48
to
53:48
kind
53:48
of,
53:48
you
53:49
know,
53:49
put
53:49
yourself
53:49
into
53:50
these,
53:50
into
53:51
this
53:51
full
53:51
force.
53:52
But
53:52
what
53:52
advice
53:53
would
53:53
you
53:53
give
53:53
a
53:54
woman
53:54
at
53:54
home
53:54
that
53:55
maybe
53:55
is
53:56
on
53:56
the
53:56
cusp
53:56
of
53:56
something
53:57
like
53:57
that?
53:57
Like,
53:58
maybe
53:58
she
53:58
wants
53:59
to
53:59
start
53:59
a
53:59
business.
54:00
Maybe
54:00
she
54:00
wants
54:01
to,
54:01
you
54:01
know,
54:01
do
54:02
something
54:02
that
54:02
she's
54:02
never
54:03
done
54:03
before
54:03
for.
54:04
I
54:05
say
54:05
do
54:05
it.
54:06
I
54:06
say
54:06
do
54:06
it.
54:07
Do
54:07
it.
54:07
Do
54:07
it.
54:07
I
54:08
think,
54:08
like,
54:09
you
54:09
know,
54:09
you
54:10
hear
54:10
it
54:10
all
54:10
the
54:10
time.
54:10
If
54:11
you
54:11
do
54:11
what
54:11
you
54:11
love,
54:12
like,
54:12
do
54:12
what
54:12
you
54:12
love,
54:13
and
54:13
you're
54:13
gonna
54:13
be
54:14
successful.
54:15
And
54:16
I
54:17
know
54:17
that
54:17
seems
54:17
easier
54:18
said
54:18
than
54:18
done,
54:18
so
54:18
I
54:19
can
54:19
totally
54:19
appreciate,
54:20
like,
54:20
why
54:20
someone
54:20
would
54:21
be,
54:22
like,
54:22
apprehensive
54:23
or,
54:23
like,
54:24
not
54:24
want
54:25
to.
54:25
To
54:25
take
54:26
that
54:26
leap.
54:27
But
54:27
it's
54:27
so
54:28
worth
54:28
it.
54:29
It's
54:29
so
54:30
worth
54:30
it.
54:30
And
54:30
I
54:31
think,
54:35
why
54:35
not?
54:36
Yeah.
54:37
Yeah,
54:37
why
54:37
not?
54:38
You
54:38
know?
54:39
And,
54:39
like,
54:39
I
54:39
think
54:40
I.
54:40
I.
54:40
My
54:41
only
54:41
regret
54:41
is
54:42
that
54:42
I
54:42
wish
54:42
I
54:42
didn't.
54:42
I
54:43
wish
54:43
I
54:43
did
54:43
sooner,
54:45
you
54:45
know?
54:46
So
54:47
I
54:47
would
54:47
say,
54:48
like,
54:48
anybody
54:48
out
54:49
there
54:49
who's
54:49
watching,
54:50
just.
54:51
Just
54:51
do
54:51
it.
54:52
And
54:52
start
54:52
with
54:52
baby
54:52
steps,
54:53
you
54:53
know,
54:54
I
54:54
feel
54:54
like
54:54
there
54:54
was,
54:54
like,
54:55
some
54:55
Instagram
54:55
post
54:56
recently
54:56
where
54:56
someone
54:56
was
54:57
like,
54:58
write
54:58
down,
54:58
like,
54:58
the
54:58
10
54:59
things
54:59
you,
54:59
you
55:00
know,
55:00
you
55:00
want
55:00
for
55:00
yourself.
55:02
And
55:02
then
55:02
it's
55:03
like,
55:03
circle.
55:04
Circle
55:04
one.
55:05
The.
55:05
The
55:05
one
55:06
that,
55:06
like,
55:06
is
55:06
the
55:06
most
55:06
important
55:07
to
55:07
you.
55:07
And
55:08
then
55:08
it's
55:08
like,
55:08
now
55:08
put
55:08
that
55:09
one
55:09
thing
55:09
on
55:09
another
55:10
sheet
55:10
of
55:10
paper,
55:10
and
55:11
what
55:11
are
55:11
the
55:11
10
55:11
things
55:11
you
55:12
need
55:12
to
55:12
do
55:12
to
55:12
get
55:12
to
55:12
that
55:13
thing?
55:14
Wow.
55:15
And
55:15
I
55:15
was
55:15
like,
55:15
that's
55:16
so
55:17
interesting.
55:17
And
55:18
I
55:18
think,
55:18
like,
55:18
if
55:18
you
55:19
can
55:19
think
55:19
of
55:19
it
55:19
in
55:19
those
55:20
terms,
55:21
I
55:21
feel
55:21
like,
55:22
you
55:22
know,
55:23
don't
55:23
wait.
55:24
Bottom
55:25
line,
55:25
don't
55:25
wait.
55:26
And
55:26
look
55:26
at
55:26
you.
55:27
Look
55:27
what
55:27
you're
55:27
doing.
55:27
Oh,
55:28
my
55:28
gosh.
55:28
Thank
55:29
you.
55:30
So
55:30
awesome.
55:31
Oh,
55:31
it's
55:31
so
55:31
fun.
55:32
It's,
55:32
like,
55:33
so
55:33
perfect
55:33
for
55:33
you.
55:34
Oh,
55:34
thank
55:35
you,
55:35
honey.
55:35
Yeah,
55:35
I
55:36
just.
55:36
Same,
55:36
you
55:37
know,
55:37
same
55:37
kind
55:37
of
55:37
thing.
55:37
I'm
55:38
like,
55:38
gosh,
55:38
why
55:38
didn't
55:38
I
55:39
do
55:39
this
55:39
sooner?
55:39
But
55:39
you
55:40
know
55:40
what?
55:40
Fear
55:41
held
55:41
me
55:41
back.
55:42
And
55:42
I'm.
55:42
I
55:43
know.
55:43
I'm
55:43
glad
55:43
that
55:43
I
55:44
finally
55:44
got
55:44
to
55:44
a
55:44
place
55:45
where
55:45
I
55:45
was
55:45
kind
55:45
of,
55:46
like,
55:46
it.
55:46
I'm
55:46
going
55:47
to
55:47
do
55:47
it.
55:47
But
55:48
that
55:48
is
55:48
a
55:49
real
55:49
thing,
55:49
a
55:49
feeling.
55:49
Fear
55:50
holds
55:50
people
55:50
back,
55:51
you
55:51
know?
55:52
Well,
55:52
there
55:53
was
55:53
a
55:53
saying
55:53
once.
55:54
It's
55:54
like,
55:54
fear
55:55
is
55:56
praying
55:56
for
55:56
what
55:57
you.
55:58
Wait,
55:58
what
55:58
is
55:59
it?
55:59
It's
55:59
like
56:00
fear
56:00
is
56:01
actually
56:01
praying
56:01
for
56:02
what
56:02
you
56:02
don't
56:02
want.
56:04
Yes.
56:04
That
56:04
is
56:05
so
56:05
freaking
56:06
true.
56:07
And
56:07
you're
56:07
like,
56:08
oh,
56:08
my
56:08
God,
56:09
that's
56:09
so
56:10
true.
56:11
So,
56:12
yeah,
56:12
I
56:13
think
56:13
everyone
56:13
just
56:13
needs
56:14
to,
56:14
like,
56:14
pull
56:14
up
56:14
their
56:15
bootstraps
56:16
and,
56:16
like,
56:17
handle
56:17
that
56:18
shit.
56:18
Just
56:18
do
56:19
it.
56:19
Because
56:20
you
56:20
are
56:20
making
56:20
a
56:21
choice
56:21
when
56:21
you
56:21
are
56:22
succumbing
56:22
to
56:22
fear,
56:23
you
56:23
know,
56:23
and
56:23
we've
56:23
all
56:24
done
56:24
it,
56:24
you
56:25
know,
56:25
but
56:25
it's
56:25
like
56:26
you,
56:26
you're
56:26
going
56:26
in
56:26
the
56:27
wrong
56:27
direction
56:27
almost,
56:28
you
56:28
know,
56:28
it's
56:28
like
56:29
you
56:29
have
56:29
to
56:29
course
56:29
correct
56:30
and
56:30
just
56:30
take
56:30
a
56:31
chance,
56:31
you
56:32
know,
56:32
and
56:32
it's
56:32
scary,
56:33
it's
56:33
not
56:33
easy,
56:34
but
56:35
it's
56:35
worth
56:35
it,
56:36
you
56:36
know?
56:37
Stress
56:37
for
56:37
the
56:37
job
56:38
you
56:38
want.
56:39
Yes,
56:39
exactly.
56:40
Exactly.
56:43
All
56:43
right,
56:44
Miss
56:44
Kathy.
56:44
25
56:45
year
56:45
old
56:45
Kathy,
56:46
where
56:46
was
56:46
she?
56:46
She
56:47
was
56:47
in
56:47
New
56:47
York,
56:48
right?
56:49
25
56:49
year
56:50
old
56:50
Kathy.
56:51
I
56:51
was
56:51
living
56:52
in
56:52
Europe.
56:53
Oh,
56:54
I
56:54
was
56:54
in
56:54
Europe.
56:54
Flying.
56:55
Yeah.
56:55
Flying
56:56
around,
56:56
doing
56:57
jobs,
56:57
living
56:58
in
56:58
different
56:58
countries.
56:58
It
56:59
was
57:00
so
57:00
fun.
57:01
Oh
57:01
my
57:01
God.
57:01
Like
57:02
in
57:02
the
57:02
prime
57:02
of
57:03
the
57:03
modeling
57:03
days,
57:04
huh?
57:05
Yeah,
57:05
it
57:05
was
57:06
fun.
57:06
It
57:06
was
57:06
good
57:06
fun.
57:07
But
57:07
you
57:07
know
57:07
what?
57:08
It
57:08
was
57:08
also
57:09
really
57:09
hard,
57:10
you
57:11
know,
57:11
so
57:11
like,
57:11
if
57:12
I
57:12
think
57:12
about
57:12
myself
57:13
at
57:13
25,
57:14
I
57:14
really
57:14
think
57:14
that
57:15
that
57:15
was.
57:16
Yeah.
57:16
I
57:16
don't
57:16
know
57:16
if
57:16
you've
57:17
ever
57:17
experienced
57:17
this,
57:18
but
57:18
there's
57:18
like
57:19
certain
57:19
birthdays
57:20
or
57:20
years
57:21
that
57:21
have
57:22
felt
57:22
hard.
57:24
And
57:24
I
57:25
feel
57:25
like
57:25
25
57:26
was
57:26
the
57:27
hardest
57:27
year
57:27
for
57:27
me.
57:28
Why
57:28
was
57:28
it
57:28
hard?
57:29
I.
57:30
I
57:30
think
57:30
it's
57:30
because
57:31
you,
57:31
you're
57:32
doing
57:32
something
57:32
and
57:33
you're
57:33
like,
57:33
is
57:33
this
57:33
really
57:34
what
57:34
I
57:34
should
57:34
be
57:34
doing?
57:36
And
57:36
you
57:36
set
57:37
these
57:37
like,
57:37
goals
57:38
for
57:38
yourself.
57:38
Like,
57:39
I
57:39
remember
57:39
there
57:39
was
57:39
a
57:40
time
57:40
where
57:40
like,
57:40
if
57:40
I'm
57:41
not
57:41
married
57:41
enough,
57:41
I
57:42
don't
57:42
have
57:42
kids
57:42
by
57:43
30,
57:43
I'm
57:44
screwed,
57:44
I'm
57:44
never
57:44
gonna
57:45
get
57:45
married.
57:45
Or
57:45
like,
57:46
I
57:46
don't
57:46
wanna
57:46
be
57:46
an
57:46
old
57:46
mom,
57:47
or
57:47
like,
57:47
blah,
57:47
blah,
57:48
blah.
57:48
You
57:48
could
57:48
tell
57:48
yourself
57:49
a
57:49
million
57:49
things.
57:50
So
57:50
then
57:50
all
57:50
of
57:51
a
57:51
sudden
57:51
you
57:51
start
57:51
second
57:52
guessing,
57:52
you
57:53
know,
57:53
like,
57:53
am
57:54
I
57:54
supposed
57:54
to
57:54
be
57:54
doing
57:54
this?
57:55
And
57:56
like,
57:56
and
57:56
I
57:56
think,
57:57
like,
57:57
what
57:57
I
57:57
would
57:57
have
57:58
told
57:58
myself,
57:59
what
58:00
I
58:00
would,
58:00
what
58:00
I
58:00
would
58:00
tell
58:01
myself
58:01
today
58:01
back
58:02
then
58:02
is
58:02
that
58:02
like,
58:03
you
58:03
are
58:04
where
58:04
you
58:04
should
58:05
be.
58:06
Like,
58:06
you're
58:06
exactly
58:06
where
58:07
you
58:07
should
58:07
be.
58:08
And
58:08
everything
58:09
just
58:09
sort
58:09
of
58:10
builds
58:11
and
58:11
evolves,
58:12
you
58:13
know,
58:13
the
58:13
way
58:13
it's
58:13
meant
58:14
to.
58:14
And
58:14
everything
58:14
is
58:15
like
58:15
a
58:15
stepping
58:15
stone.
58:17
And
58:17
like,
58:17
just
58:18
trust.
58:18
You
58:19
just
58:19
have
58:19
to
58:19
trust.
58:20
Yeah,
58:20
you
58:21
do.
58:21
And
58:21
fuck
58:22
the
58:22
timelines.
58:23
Fuck
58:24
the
58:24
timelines.
58:25
Yeah,
58:25
the
58:25
timelines
58:25
are
58:26
stupid.
58:26
Yeah.
58:27
So
58:27
stupid.
58:28
So
58:28
stupid.
58:28
All
58:29
they
58:29
do
58:29
is
58:29
give
58:29
you,
58:30
give
58:30
us
58:30
anxiety,
58:31
you
58:31
know,
58:31
it's
58:31
like,
58:32
there's
58:32
no
58:32
point
58:33
for
58:33
a
58:33
timeline
58:34
like
58:34
that,
58:34
you
58:35
know?
58:35
Yeah,
58:35
I
58:35
agree.
58:36
I.
58:36
I
58:37
think
58:37
timelines
58:37
have
58:38
to
58:38
go.
58:38
The
58:38
rules
58:38
have
58:38
to
58:39
go.
58:39
The
58:39
timelines
58:39
have
58:40
to
58:40
go.
58:40
Yes.
58:42
Show
58:43
your
58:43
arm.
58:43
God
58:43
damn
58:44
it.
58:44
Totally,
58:45
totally.
58:46
Wait,
58:46
you.
58:47
You've
58:47
never
58:47
told
58:47
me
58:47
what
58:48
is
58:48
your
58:48
most
58:48
memorable,
58:49
like,
58:50
Experience
58:50
from
58:51
your
58:51
modeling
58:51
days.
58:52
During
58:52
that
58:52
time,
58:52
my
58:53
most
58:53
memorable
58:53
was
58:54
I
58:55
did
58:55
a
58:56
fashion
58:56
show
58:56
with
58:56
Isaac
58:57
Mizrahi
58:58
for
58:59
Isaac
58:59
Mizrai.
59:00
And
59:00
do
59:00
you
59:01
remember
59:01
that
59:01
documentary
59:02
Unzipped?
59:03
Yes.
59:05
Yeah.
59:05
And
59:05
this
59:06
was
59:06
a
59:07
fashion
59:07
show
59:07
that
59:08
was
59:08
not
59:09
on
59:09
the
59:09
Runway.
59:10
Like,
59:10
not
59:11
on
59:11
the
59:11
Runway.
59:11
Like
59:11
New
59:12
York.
59:12
Like,
59:12
New
59:13
York
59:13
Runway.
59:13
This
59:13
was
59:14
in.
59:15
This
59:15
was
59:16
in
59:16
Michigan.
59:17
And
59:17
it
59:17
was.
59:18
Imagine,
59:18
like,
59:18
you
59:19
know,
59:19
when
59:19
you
59:19
go
59:19
to
59:19
a
59:19
trunk
59:20
show
59:20
at
59:20
like
59:20
a
59:20
Neiman
59:21
Marcus
59:21
or
59:21
something
59:21
like
59:22
that.
59:22
It
59:22
was
59:22
like
59:22
the
59:23
equivalent
59:23
of
59:23
a
59:23
Neiman
59:24
Marcus
59:24
in
59:24
Michigan.
59:26
And
59:26
he
59:26
was
59:26
there.
59:27
And
59:27
like,
59:28
he.
59:29
And
59:29
this
59:29
is
59:29
like
59:29
when
59:29
I
59:30
was
59:30
first
59:30
starting,
59:30
and
59:31
he,
59:31
like,
59:31
chose
59:31
the
59:32
outfit.
59:33
And,
59:33
like,
59:33
he
59:33
was
59:34
so
59:34
nice.
59:34
And
59:35
I
59:35
just,
59:35
like,
59:36
I
59:36
actually
59:36
have
59:37
a
59:37
photo
59:37
that
59:37
I,
59:38
like,
59:38
I
59:38
saved.
59:39
It
59:39
was
59:39
like,
59:39
a
59:39
picture
59:40
of
59:41
me
59:41
with
59:41
him,
59:42
and
59:42
I
59:43
just
59:43
thought
59:43
he
59:43
was
59:44
the
59:44
nicest
59:44
person.
59:46
And
59:46
that
59:46
documentary
59:47
was
59:48
out
59:48
Unzipped.
59:49
And
59:49
I
59:49
just
59:49
remember,
59:49
like,
59:50
I
59:50
scream,
59:51
you
59:51
scrim.
59:52
We
59:52
all
59:52
scream
59:52
for
59:52
the
59:53
scrim.
59:53
Totally.
59:54
Oh,
59:54
my
59:55
God.
59:56
I
59:56
loved
59:56
him.
59:57
Anyway,
59:57
that
59:57
was
59:58
when
59:58
memorable.
59:59
That's
59:59
so
1:00:00
cool.
1:00:00
That's
1:00:01
so
1:00:01
cool.
1:00:01
It's
1:00:01
like.
1:00:01
And
1:00:02
you.
1:00:02
And
1:00:02
it's
1:00:03
so
1:00:03
nice
1:00:03
to
1:00:03
meet
1:00:04
people
1:00:04
like
1:00:04
that
1:00:05
who
1:00:05
are
1:00:06
kind
1:00:06
in
1:00:06
real
1:00:07
life,
1:00:07
you
1:00:07
know,
1:00:07
and
1:00:07
were
1:00:08
like,
1:00:08
what
1:00:09
you
1:00:09
wanted
1:00:09
them
1:00:09
to
1:00:10
be.
1:00:11
Totally.
1:00:12
Yeah.
1:00:12
I
1:00:13
feel
1:00:13
like
1:00:13
I
1:00:13
never.
1:00:14
I
1:00:14
only
1:00:14
had
1:00:15
one
1:00:16
kind
1:00:16
of
1:00:16
shitty
1:00:17
experience.
1:00:18
Was
1:00:18
it
1:00:18
a
1:00:18
show?
1:00:20
It
1:00:20
was
1:00:20
a
1:00:21
pretty
1:00:22
major
1:00:22
designer
1:00:23
in
1:00:23
Milan,
1:00:25
and
1:00:25
it
1:00:25
was
1:00:25
doing.
1:00:27
It
1:00:27
was
1:00:27
doing
1:00:28
lookbook.
1:00:29
It
1:00:29
was
1:00:30
like
1:00:30
the
1:00:30
lookbooks
1:00:31
for
1:00:31
the
1:00:31
collection.
1:00:32
Okay.
1:00:33
And
1:00:33
I'm
1:00:33
not
1:00:33
going
1:00:33
to
1:00:34
say
1:00:34
who
1:00:34
it
1:00:34
was
1:00:34
because
1:00:35
it
1:00:35
just.
1:00:35
That's
1:00:36
not
1:00:36
good
1:00:36
form.
1:00:37
But
1:00:37
it
1:00:37
was
1:00:37
really
1:00:38
big
1:00:38
designer,
1:00:39
and
1:00:40
I
1:00:41
was
1:00:41
starving.
1:00:44
You
1:00:44
were
1:00:44
angry,
1:00:45
girl.
1:00:45
You
1:00:45
were
1:00:45
hangry.
1:00:46
I
1:00:47
was
1:00:47
hangry.
1:00:47
I
1:00:48
was
1:00:48
so
1:00:49
hungry.
1:00:50
And
1:00:50
I
1:00:51
remember
1:00:51
opening
1:00:52
up
1:00:52
this,
1:00:52
like,
1:00:53
refrigerator,
1:00:55
and
1:00:56
I
1:00:56
basically
1:00:57
got,
1:00:57
like,
1:00:57
my
1:00:57
hands
1:00:58
slapped.
1:00:59
And
1:00:59
it
1:00:59
was
1:01:00
like,
1:01:00
they
1:01:01
were
1:01:01
like,
1:01:01
no,
1:01:03
no.
1:01:03
Like,
1:01:03
the
1:01:04
designer
1:01:04
came
1:01:04
over
1:01:04
and
1:01:05
slapped
1:01:05
your
1:01:05
hand.
1:01:06
Not
1:01:06
the
1:01:06
designer,
1:01:07
but,
1:01:08
like,
1:01:09
your
1:01:09
people.
1:01:10
And
1:01:11
told
1:01:11
me
1:01:11
that
1:01:11
I
1:01:12
was
1:01:12
only
1:01:12
allowed
1:01:12
to
1:01:12
eat
1:01:13
the
1:01:13
breadsticks.
1:01:18
And
1:01:18
I
1:01:19
will
1:01:19
never
1:01:19
look
1:01:19
at
1:01:19
a.
1:01:19
Breadstick
1:01:20
the
1:01:20
same
1:01:20
way
1:01:21
ever
1:01:21
again.
1:01:22
They're
1:01:22
like,
1:01:23
what
1:01:23
breadstick
1:01:23
for
1:01:24
you?
1:01:25
I
1:01:25
mean,
1:01:25
they
1:01:25
were
1:01:26
good
1:01:26
breadsticks.
1:01:27
It
1:01:27
was
1:01:27
Italy.
1:01:29
I
1:01:29
mean.
1:01:29
But
1:01:30
no,
1:01:31
it
1:01:31
was
1:01:31
not
1:01:31
enough.
1:01:32
And
1:01:32
I
1:01:32
could
1:01:32
not
1:01:33
have
1:01:33
one
1:01:33
more
1:01:33
cappuccino.
1:01:34
I
1:01:34
was
1:01:34
going
1:01:34
to,
1:01:34
like,
1:01:35
it
1:01:36
was
1:01:36
like,
1:01:36
cappuccino
1:01:37
and
1:01:37
breadsticks.
1:01:38
I
1:01:38
was
1:01:39
so
1:01:39
hungry.
1:01:40
It
1:01:40
was
1:01:40
the
1:01:40
worst.
1:01:41
Oh,
1:01:41
my
1:01:41
God.
1:01:42
The
1:01:42
model
1:01:42
diet.
1:01:43
You're
1:01:43
like,
1:01:43
can
1:01:44
a
1:01:44
girl
1:01:44
get
1:01:44
some
1:01:44
pasta
1:01:45
around
1:01:45
here?
1:01:45
Like,
1:01:46
I
1:01:46
need
1:01:46
some
1:01:46
food.
1:01:47
I
1:01:47
was
1:01:48
like,
1:01:48
can
1:01:48
I
1:01:48
have,
1:01:48
like,
1:01:49
a
1:01:49
tuna
1:01:49
salad
1:01:50
or
1:01:50
something?
1:01:54
It
1:01:54
was.
1:01:55
It
1:01:55
Was
1:01:55
crazy.
1:01:56
It
1:01:57
was
1:01:57
so
1:01:57
rude.
1:01:58
Oh.
1:01:59
And
1:02:00
then.
1:02:00
Okay,
1:02:00
here's
1:02:00
the
1:02:00
worst
1:02:01
part.
1:02:01
There
1:02:01
was
1:02:01
this
1:02:02
beautiful,
1:02:02
big,
1:02:02
beautiful
1:02:03
salad
1:02:03
in
1:02:04
the
1:02:04
refrigerator
1:02:05
with
1:02:05
the
1:02:06
name
1:02:06
of
1:02:06
the
1:02:06
designer
1:02:07
on
1:02:07
it.
1:02:08
Like,
1:02:09
nobody
1:02:09
touched,
1:02:10
like,
1:02:10
except
1:02:10
the
1:02:10
designer
1:02:11
kind
1:02:11
of
1:02:11
a
1:02:11
thing.
1:02:12
Yeah.
1:02:12
I'll
1:02:12
tell
1:02:12
you
1:02:12
who
1:02:12
it
1:02:13
was.
1:02:13
You'll
1:02:13
have
1:02:14
to
1:02:14
tell
1:02:14
me,
1:02:14
because,
1:02:14
you
1:02:14
know,
1:02:14
I'm
1:02:15
going
1:02:15
to
1:02:15
be
1:02:15
like,
1:02:15
kathy.
1:02:15
I
1:02:16
need
1:02:16
to
1:02:16
know.
1:02:17
Yeah.
1:02:18
No
1:02:19
way.
1:02:20
They're
1:02:20
like,
1:02:20
models
1:02:20
only
1:02:21
breadsticks
1:02:22
around
1:02:22
here.
1:02:22
Yeah.
1:02:23
And
1:02:23
drink
1:02:23
coffee.
1:02:24
That's
1:02:24
it.
1:02:26
Drink
1:02:27
your
1:02:27
cappuccinos
1:02:28
and
1:02:28
eat
1:02:28
your
1:02:29
breadsticks
1:02:30
and
1:02:30
put
1:02:30
on
1:02:30
the
1:02:30
next.
1:02:31
Look,
1:02:31
damn
1:02:32
it.
1:02:33
And
1:02:33
don't
1:02:33
talk.
1:02:36
Don't
1:02:37
talk
1:02:38
till
1:02:39
midnight.
1:02:41
I
1:02:42
mean,
1:02:42
you
1:02:42
never
1:02:43
know.
1:02:43
The
1:02:43
modeling
1:02:43
world
1:02:44
could
1:02:44
come
1:02:44
a
1:02:44
calling
1:02:45
again.
1:02:45
Lady,
1:02:46
please.
1:02:48
I
1:02:48
mean,
1:02:48
what
1:02:49
would
1:02:49
it
1:02:49
take
1:02:49
for.
1:02:49
You
1:02:49
to
1:02:49
get
1:02:50
back
1:02:50
on
1:02:50
the
1:02:50
Runway?
1:02:50
10,000.
1:02:52
It
1:02:52
would
1:02:52
have
1:02:52
to
1:02:52
be
1:02:52
for
1:02:53
a
1:02:53
good
1:02:53
cause.
1:02:54
Yes.
1:02:55
Yes.
1:02:55
It
1:02:55
would
1:02:55
have
1:02:56
to
1:02:56
be
1:02:56
something,
1:02:56
like,
1:02:57
really,
1:02:57
like,
1:02:58
important
1:02:58
and
1:02:59
special.
1:02:59
Yeah,
1:03:00
I
1:03:00
think.
1:03:00
Yes.
1:03:01
I
1:03:02
don't
1:03:02
know.
1:03:02
I'm.
1:03:03
I.
1:03:03
I
1:03:03
feel
1:03:04
like
1:03:04
I'm
1:03:04
a
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1:03:05
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does.
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1:03:07
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1:03:08
feel
1:03:08
so
1:03:08
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1:03:08
about
1:03:09
anymore.
1:03:10
Girl,
1:03:11
you
1:03:11
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1:03:11
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1:03:11
a
1:03:12
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1:03:12
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1:03:12
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knew
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1:03:14
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1:03:15
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1:03:15
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1:03:19
love
1:03:19
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1:03:19
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1:03:19
do.
1:03:20
Yes.
1:03:20
No,
1:03:20
you're.
1:03:21
And
1:03:21
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1:03:21
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1:03:22
do.
1:03:23
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1:03:24
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1:03:24
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1:03:27
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1:03:28
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1:03:28
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1:03:29
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1:03:29
midlife?
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1:03:31
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1:03:32
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1:03:32
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1:03:32
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to
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yourself.
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1:03:45
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1:03:47
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1:03:48
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1:03:48
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1:03:50
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1:03:50
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1:03:51
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1:03:52
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Rest
1:03:54
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1:03:54
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1:03:55
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1:03:56
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1:03:56
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1:03:56
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yourself.
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1:03:58
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1:03:59
can't
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yourself.
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1:04:23
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1:04:25
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1:04:25
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1:04:26
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1:04:27
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1:04:28
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1:04:28
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1:04:28
me
1:04:28
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1:04:29
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1:04:30
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1:04:32
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1:04:32
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1:04:33
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1:04:34
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1:04:34
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1:04:37
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1:04:37
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1:04:37
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1:04:37
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1:04:38
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1:04:38
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1:04:39
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1:04:39
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1:04:42
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1:04:44
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1:04:45
time.
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1:04:45
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1:04:46
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1:04:46
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1:04:47
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1:04:47
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1:04:48
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1:04:48
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1:04:49
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1:04:49
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1:04:49
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1:04:49
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1:04:50
God,
1:04:50
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1:04:50
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1:04:50
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1:04:51
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1:04:51
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1:04:51
myself
1:04:51
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1:04:51
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1:04:52
More,
1:04:52
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1:04:52
know?
1:04:53
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1:04:54
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1:04:54
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1:04:55
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1:04:55
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1:04:55
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1:04:55
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1:04:57
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1:04:57
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1:04:57
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1:04:58
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1:04:59
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1:04:59
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1:05:00
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1:05:00
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1:05:01
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1:05:02
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1:05:03
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1:05:03
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1:05:04
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1:05:04
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1:05:04
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1:05:04
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1:05:05
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1:05:06
so
1:05:06
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1:05:06
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1:05:06
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1:05:07
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1:05:08
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1:05:09
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1:05:09
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1:05:09
trust,
1:05:10
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1:05:10
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1:05:10
to
1:05:10
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1:05:11
trust
1:05:11
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1:05:11
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1:05:11
yourself.
1:05:12
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1:05:12
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1:05:12
like
1:05:13
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1:05:13
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1:05:13
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1:05:13
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1:05:13
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1:05:14
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1:05:14
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1:05:15
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1:05:15
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1:05:15
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1:05:16
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1:05:16
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1:05:17
like
1:05:17
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1:05:17
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1:05:17
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1:05:17
yourself,
1:05:17
you're
1:05:18
going
1:05:18
to
1:05:18
trust
1:05:18
yourself.
1:05:18
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1:05:20
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1:05:20
know,
1:05:20
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1:05:21
then
1:05:21
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1:05:21
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1:05:21
going
1:05:22
to
1:05:22
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1:05:22
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1:05:22
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1:05:23
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1:05:23
you're
1:05:23
going
1:05:23
to
1:05:23
like,
1:05:24
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1:05:25
stay
1:05:25
in
1:05:26
relationships
1:05:27
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1:05:29
partnerships
1:05:30
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1:05:30
friendships
1:05:31
that
1:05:31
aren't
1:05:31
serving
1:05:31
you.
1:05:32
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1:05:32
know,
1:05:32
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1:05:33
just
1:05:34
all
1:05:34
the,
1:05:35
all
1:05:36
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1:05:36
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1:05:36
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1:05:37
goodness
1:05:37
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1:05:37
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1:05:38
make
1:05:39
its
1:05:39
way
1:05:39
towards
1:05:39
you
1:05:40
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1:05:40
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1:05:40
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1:05:40
gonna
1:05:42
be
1:05:43
anxious,
1:05:44
you
1:05:44
know,
1:05:44
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1:05:44
fearful.
1:05:45
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1:05:45
just
1:05:45
gonna,
1:05:46
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1:05:46
know
1:05:46
what
1:05:47
you
1:05:47
deserve.
1:05:47
And
1:05:47
so
1:05:48
I
1:05:48
think,
1:05:48
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1:05:48
love
1:05:48
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1:05:48
trust.
1:05:50
And
1:05:50
how
1:05:50
are
1:05:50
you
1:05:51
living
1:05:51
iconically
1:05:52
right
1:05:52
now,
1:05:53
Ms.
1:05:53
Kathy?
1:05:55
I
1:05:55
think
1:05:57
being
1:05:57
in
1:05:57
a
1:05:57
position
1:05:58
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1:05:58
I
1:05:58
get
1:05:59
to
1:05:59
help
1:05:59
people
1:05:59
feel,
1:06:00
feel
1:06:00
great
1:06:02
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1:06:02
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1:06:03
like
1:06:04
I
1:06:04
can't
1:06:04
think
1:06:04
of
1:06:05
anything
1:06:05
better.
1:06:05
You
1:06:06
know,
1:06:06
it's
1:06:06
like
1:06:07
there's
1:06:07
doctors
1:06:08
who
1:06:08
help
1:06:08
patients
1:06:09
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1:06:09
healthy
1:06:10
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1:06:10
good
1:06:11
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1:06:11
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1:06:12
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1:06:12
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1:06:12
like
1:06:13
being
1:06:13
in
1:06:13
a
1:06:14
position
1:06:14
where
1:06:14
I
1:06:14
can
1:06:15
help
1:06:15
people
1:06:15
feel
1:06:16
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1:06:17
and
1:06:17
like,
1:06:18
smile
1:06:18
at
1:06:19
themselves,
1:06:19
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1:06:20
taller,
1:06:20
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1:06:21
with
1:06:21
the
1:06:21
swagger,
1:06:23
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1:06:23
know,
1:06:24
be
1:06:24
confident
1:06:25
is
1:06:26
such
1:06:26
a
1:06:26
gift.
1:06:27
And
1:06:27
like,
1:06:27
I'm
1:06:28
so
1:06:28
glad
1:06:29
that
1:06:29
I
1:06:29
get
1:06:29
to
1:06:29
do
1:06:29
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1:06:30
or
1:06:30
have
1:06:30
like
1:06:30
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1:06:31
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1:06:31
tiny
1:06:31
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1:06:31
role
1:06:32
in
1:06:32
making
1:06:32
somebody
1:06:33
feel
1:06:33
like,
1:06:34
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1:06:35
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1:06:36
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1:06:36
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1:06:36
like
1:06:36
they're
1:06:37
gonna
1:06:37
crush
1:06:37
it,
1:06:38
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1:06:38
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1:06:38
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1:06:38
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1:06:39
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1:06:39
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1:06:40
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1:06:42
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1:06:42
that
1:06:42
they
1:06:42
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1:06:42
to
1:06:43
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1:06:45
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1:06:46
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1:06:46
like,
1:06:46
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1:06:47
it's
1:06:47
like
1:06:47
a
1:06:47
privilege.
1:06:48
So
1:06:49
it
1:06:49
is.
1:06:49
And
1:06:50
you
1:06:50
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1:06:50
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1:06:50
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1:06:50
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1:06:51
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1:06:51
are
1:06:51
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1:06:51
good
1:06:51
at
1:06:52
what
1:06:52
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1:06:52
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1:06:53
own
1:06:53
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1:06:54
is
1:06:54
like
1:06:55
your
1:06:55
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1:06:55
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1:06:55
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1:06:56
know,
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1:06:56
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1:06:57
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1:06:57
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1:06:57
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1:06:58
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1:06:58
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1:06:58
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1:06:58
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1:06:59
you
1:06:59
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1:06:59
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1:07:00
like,
1:07:00
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1:07:00
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1:07:01
got
1:07:01
it.
1:07:02
Yeah.
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1:07:05
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1:07:05
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1:07:06
like,
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1:07:06
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She
1:07:09
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1:07:09
doing.
1:07:10
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my
1:07:12
gosh.
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1:07:12
nice
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1:07:13
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1:07:13
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1:07:13
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1:07:14
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1:07:14
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1:07:14
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1:07:16
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1:07:17
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1:07:18
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1:07:19
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1:07:27
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1:08:02
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1:08:18
your
1:08:18
house
1:08:18
and
1:08:18
edit
1:08:19
your
1:08:19
wardrobe.
1:08:19
Oh,
1:08:20
my
1:08:20
God.
1:08:20
Will
1:08:20
you
1:08:20
wait?
1:08:21
Let's
1:08:21
make
1:08:21
a
1:08:21
party
1:08:21
out
1:08:22
of
1:08:22
it.
1:08:22
You
1:08:22
know,
1:08:22
I'll
1:08:22
have
1:08:23
the
1:08:23
wine
1:08:23
ready
1:08:23
for
1:08:24
us.
1:08:24
We
1:08:24
should
1:08:25
do
1:08:25
it.
1:08:25
We
1:08:25
should
1:08:26
do
1:08:26
it
1:08:26
on
1:08:26
a
1:08:26
Friday
1:08:27
night.
1:08:27
Yes.
1:08:28
We'll
1:08:28
order.
1:08:30
Oh,
1:08:30
my
1:08:30
God.
1:08:30
It'll
1:08:30
be
1:08:31
perfect.
1:08:31
We
1:08:32
can
1:08:32
just,
1:08:32
like,
1:08:32
have
1:08:33
fun.
1:08:33
I'll
1:08:33
turn
1:08:34
on
1:08:34
some
1:08:34
music,
1:08:35
get
1:08:35
a
1:08:35
little
1:08:35
dance
1:08:36
in
1:08:36
there.
1:08:36
You
1:08:36
know
1:08:36
how
1:08:36
we
1:08:37
do
1:08:37
it.
1:08:37
I
1:08:38
might
1:08:38
have
1:08:38
to
1:08:38
sleep
1:08:38
over.
1:08:39
Yes.
1:08:40
Guest
1:08:40
room
1:08:41
is
1:08:41
ready
1:08:41
for
1:08:41
you.
1:08:43
Because
1:08:44
we
1:08:44
don't
1:08:44
ever
1:08:44
just
1:08:45
drink
1:08:45
one
1:08:45
bottle
1:08:46
of
1:08:46
wine.
1:08:47
No,
1:08:47
no,
1:08:47
no.
1:08:48
We
1:08:48
like
1:08:48
to.
1:08:48
We
1:08:49
like
1:08:49
to
1:08:49
really,
1:08:50
you
1:08:50
know,
1:08:50
get
1:08:50
after
1:08:51
it.
1:08:51
I
1:08:51
might
1:08:52
just
1:08:52
get
1:08:52
those
1:08:52
skinny
1:08:53
jeans
1:08:53
out
1:08:54
of
1:08:54
the
1:08:54
house.
1:08:55
Totally.
1:08:56
You're
1:08:56
like,
1:08:56
well,
1:08:57
maybe
1:08:57
I'll
1:08:57
reconsider
1:08:58
those
1:08:58
skinny
1:08:58
jeans.
1:09:00
You're
1:09:00
gonna
1:09:00
be
1:09:00
like,
1:09:01
where
1:09:01
are
1:09:01
they?
1:09:02
Where
1:09:02
are
1:09:02
they?
1:09:03
You're
1:09:03
gonna
1:09:03
be
1:09:03
like,
1:09:03
going
1:09:04
through
1:09:04
your.
1:09:07
I'm
1:09:07
like,
1:09:08
where
1:09:08
are
1:09:08
you?
1:09:08
Skinny
1:09:08
jeans.
1:09:11
They've
1:09:11
been
1:09:11
replaced
1:09:12
by
1:09:12
straight
1:09:13
legs.
1:09:13
Yes,
1:09:14
totally.
1:09:15
Totally.
1:09:15
I
1:09:16
need
1:09:16
this.
1:09:16
I
1:09:16
need
1:09:16
this.
1:09:19
Amazing.
1:09:20
Well,
1:09:20
I
1:09:20
just
1:09:20
wanted
1:09:21
to
1:09:21
remind
1:09:22
everyone
1:09:22
at
1:09:23
home
1:09:23
to
1:09:23
rate,
1:09:24
subscribe,
1:09:24
and
1:09:25
comment
1:09:25
on
1:09:26
your
1:09:26
favorite
1:09:26
podcast
1:09:27
app
1:09:27
so
1:09:27
more
1:09:28
women
1:09:28
can
1:09:28
find
1:09:28
the
1:09:29
show.
1:09:29
And
1:09:30
definitely
1:09:30
check
1:09:31
out
1:09:31
Kathy's
1:09:32
website
1:09:32
out
1:09:32
her
1:09:33
Instagram.
1:09:33
She's
1:09:34
amazing.
1:09:35
You
1:09:35
will
1:09:35
not
1:09:35
be
1:09:36
sorry
1:09:36
you
1:09:36
did
1:09:36
okay,
1:09:37
my
1:09:37
love.
1:09:38
Thank
1:09:38
you
1:09:38
so
1:09:39
much
1:09:39
for
1:09:39
joining
1:09:40
us.
1:09:40
All
1:09:41
right,
1:09:41
have
1:09:41
a
1:09:41
good
1:09:41
day.
1:09:43
This
1:09:43
is
1:09:43
exactly
1:09:44
why
1:09:44
I
1:09:44
wanted
1:09:44
Kathy
1:09:45
on
1:09:45
the
1:09:45
show,
1:09:46
because
1:09:46
style
1:09:46
in
1:09:47
midlife
1:09:47
isn't
1:09:47
about
1:09:48
fixing
1:09:48
yourself.
1:09:49
It's
1:09:49
about
1:09:49
editing,
1:09:50
owning,
1:09:50
and
1:09:51
trusting
1:09:51
who
1:09:52
you've
1:09:52
become.
1:09:53
If
1:09:53
this
1:09:54
conversation
1:09:54
resonated
1:09:55
with
1:09:55
you,
1:09:56
please
1:09:56
follow
1:09:57
the
1:09:57
show,
1:09:57
rate
1:09:58
it,
1:09:58
and
1:09:58
leave
1:09:59
a
1:09:59
review
1:09:59
or
1:09:59
comment
1:10:00
on
1:10:00
your
1:10:00
favorite
1:10:01
podcast
1:10:01
app.
1:10:02
It's
1:10:02
the
1:10:02
fastest
1:10:03
way
1:10:03
to
1:10:03
support
1:10:03
the
1:10:04
show
1:10:04
and
1:10:05
help
1:10:05
more
1:10:05
women
1:10:05
find
1:10:06
these
1:10:06
conversations.
1:10:08
And
1:10:08
if
1:10:08
you're
1:10:08
watching
1:10:08
on
1:10:09
YouTube,
1:10:09
hit
1:10:10
subscribe
1:10:11
so
1:10:11
you
1:10:11
don't
1:10:11
miss
1:10:12
what's
1:10:12
coming
1:10:12
next.
1:10:13
Midlife
1:10:14
isn't
1:10:14
about
1:10:14
shrinking,
1:10:15
disappearing,
1:10:16
or
1:10:16
playing
1:10:16
it
1:10:16
safe.
1:10:17
It's
1:10:17
about
1:10:18
showing
1:10:18
up
1:10:18
clearly,
1:10:19
confidently,
1:10:20
and
1:10:20
on
1:10:21
your
1:10:21
own
1:10:21
terms.
1:10:22
That's
1:10:23
iconic.