Latest / Billy The Kidd In The Morning / Dirty Little Secret: “What’s the smallest, pettiest, most ridiculous reason you’ve ever stopped talking to someone?”
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Get it off your jest mess, you'll feel better.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
- 0:04Speaker 3: What is your secret?
- 0:05Speaker 2: It?
- 0:06Speaker 4: Confess it's mixed one o two point nine, A bill
- 0:08Speaker 4: at a kid, Candice Loan, pans, producer, poo, and your
- 0:10Speaker 4: secrets anytime you want, Even if we're not doing Dirty
- 0:12Speaker 4: Little Secret, you can still.
- 0:13Speaker 3: Call us and say, hey, I got one. Okay, we'll
- 0:16Speaker 3: make time for it.
- 0:17Speaker 4: Eight three three seven eight seven at one O two nine,
- 0:19Speaker 4: Dirty Little Secret is on and you have one.
- 0:21Speaker 5: Well, it's it's silly, but it's kind of awful.
- 0:26Speaker 2: I ghosted someone and uh, you know it's not in me.
- 0:30Speaker 2: I don't do that. I'm not a ghoster, but I'm
- 0:33Speaker 2: so bad at it.
- 0:34Speaker 5: I didn't even like I kind of older polite lines
- 0:37Speaker 5: that I've been busy.
- 0:38Speaker 2: So that wasn't a complete ghost.
- 0:39Speaker 3: Okay, So it's like a semi go. That's the way
- 0:42Speaker 3: to start.
- 0:43Speaker 4: That's like your I don't know what would you call
- 0:45Speaker 4: its your foreplay to ghosting.
- 0:48Speaker 3: Okay, you say I've just been really busy and then.
- 0:51Speaker 1: Yeah, he's laying the groundwork, and.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Then it's yeah, wow, is.
- 0:55Speaker 2: It a weird tmble? Tumbleweed?
- 0:57Speaker 3: Tumble weed, no answer, no, reply.
- 1:01Speaker 4: Left, Uh, you know, unread left the chat, left the chat?
- 1:05Speaker 4: So who is this girl? What's it like? Did you
- 1:07Speaker 4: guys go out? How many times you go out? What's
- 1:09Speaker 4: the deal?
- 1:09Speaker 2: We just went out just one time? In her shirt?
- 1:12Speaker 2: It's the reason why I go through her.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Shirt hopefully she had a shirt on.
- 1:17Speaker 3: She had a shirt, a low clap top. What was
- 1:21Speaker 3: going on?
- 1:22Speaker 5: No, I mean it was what was on the shirt.
- 1:25Speaker 5: It shirt was fine, but okay, I just want to
- 1:28Speaker 5: give me your opinion on this, all right, Okay, So
- 1:30Speaker 5: she wearing We went to a super casual date or
- 1:32Speaker 5: just hanging out doing mini golf, nothing too crazy.
- 1:35Speaker 2: And she shows up.
- 1:36Speaker 5: She has a shirt on it and it says in
- 1:38Speaker 5: big letters it's our first date marriage material.
- 1:44Speaker 2: Inn like on her chest. I swear my brain right,
- 1:49Speaker 2: my brain short. I was like, oh boy, that made
- 1:53Speaker 2: me my teeth.
- 1:54Speaker 3: What's wrong with that? You know, what's wrong with that?
- 1:58Speaker 2: Mature on the first date?
- 1:59Speaker 5: Like I'm like, right, well, this seems a little bit desperate.
- 2:01Speaker 5: Maybe I to ignore it, and I did. Every time
- 2:05Speaker 5: you know, she leaned over, looked up on me, or
- 2:07Speaker 5: you know, went to put they were screaming at me.
- 2:10Speaker 2: Married me?
- 2:11Speaker 4: Really, are you that's interesting to me because I would
- 2:17Speaker 4: see that shirt and I would just be like, oh,
- 2:18Speaker 4: whatever that means, I don't, you know, like I don't know,
- 2:21Speaker 4: I don't think. I don't know if i'd think that
- 2:23Speaker 4: much into it where I don't know.
- 2:24Speaker 1: On a first date though, that might be weird if
- 2:26Speaker 1: she has like a sense of humor and it's just
- 2:27Speaker 1: like a joke thing like maybe, but if the rest
- 2:31Speaker 1: of her like personality is very.
- 2:33Speaker 3: Like or something like that.
- 2:35Speaker 4: Canis would say this, and I'm surprised you didn't candas,
- 2:38Speaker 4: what's wrong with one to get married eventually?
- 2:40Speaker 6: Well?
- 2:40Speaker 1: Nothing, Okay, that's great. I mean that's always the end goal,
- 2:43Speaker 1: right with being in a relationship for a lot of people, don't.
- 2:46Speaker 4: I'm right, But it's just like kind of Chris, don't
- 2:49Speaker 4: come on the first date.
- 2:51Speaker 3: Face.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of things to wear, like why it took.
- 2:55Speaker 5: Cash, it's been a funny it had been a funny
- 2:57Speaker 5: shirt like on the three hundredth date, you know, because
- 3:00Speaker 5: it's just like, yeah.
- 3:02Speaker 3: So you were turned off by that and thought it
- 3:04Speaker 3: was a little weird.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Turned off. I was scared to death.
- 3:06Speaker 3: That's hysterical.
- 3:10Speaker 2: Red flag. You might as well just wear a red flag.
- 3:12Speaker 5: You know.
- 3:15Speaker 4: Now, let me ask you this though, if if she was,
- 3:18Speaker 4: it doesn't seem like you guys clicked if you were
- 3:20Speaker 4: to if she was really really attractive, I don't know
- 3:22Speaker 4: what she looked like, but if you were really physically
- 3:25Speaker 4: attracted to her and things clicked, would that short have
- 3:27Speaker 4: bothered you? Or was that like just Okay, nothing else
- 3:31Speaker 4: is clicking and I can't look past this, and okay,
- 3:33Speaker 4: that's it marriage material, that's enough.
- 3:35Speaker 2: Well, you know what it was was that, yeah, we
- 3:37Speaker 2: didn't really click.
- 3:38Speaker 6: But also what it felt like to me was that
- 3:41Speaker 6: I was waiting for her to make a joke about it.
- 3:43Speaker 6: You know, she never did, and she did seem to
- 3:46Speaker 6: be like a little little too clinging to a little
- 3:48Speaker 6: too leg and it just felt it.
- 3:51Speaker 2: She added to it, you know, she added to it
- 3:53Speaker 2: being weird.
- 3:53Speaker 4: As we've been along, and she has no idea that
- 3:57Speaker 4: the secret is. She has no idea that this may
- 4:00Speaker 4: material shirt has cost her a future relationship indeed, and
- 4:04Speaker 4: she has gotten ghost.
- 4:05Speaker 2: She wears it to everyone.
- 4:06Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 4:08Speaker 4: Okay, this is a good secret though, but it also
- 4:11Speaker 4: leads me to go, I want to hear from people
- 4:13Speaker 4: to go, what are the small little things that have
- 4:16Speaker 4: made you stop talking to a guy.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Because this is a small thing. We all can agree
- 4:20Speaker 3: this is a small thing.
- 4:20Speaker 1: Yeah, and the grand scheme it is.
- 4:22Speaker 3: But people have their little quirks that they just get
- 4:25Speaker 3: weirded out by.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Right, like this is I could see this happening on
- 4:28Speaker 1: one of those dating reality shows like that, but not
- 4:32Speaker 1: in real life.
- 4:32Speaker 4: Like right, like, wasn't it you can't have sent you like,
- 4:35Speaker 4: stop dating a guy because he chewed loud or some
- 4:37Speaker 4: or was it somebody else?
- 4:38Speaker 1: Uh, I'm not chewed loud. It was more about his
- 4:42Speaker 1: just like messy apartment. Oh, it was just like this
- 4:46Speaker 1: cannot be how you live.
- 4:47Speaker 3: Which is every guy, I feel like.
- 4:49Speaker 1: At least clean it up before I come over.
- 4:51Speaker 3: Okay, that's true, that's fair.
- 4:52Speaker 2: All right.
- 4:52Speaker 4: Yeah, well so maybe we'll ask people what's the littlest,
- 4:55Speaker 4: tiniest thing that you've ghosted someone for? Uh, and we'll
- 4:58Speaker 4: find out and thank thank you for kicking this topic off.
- 5:01Speaker 4: We appreciate your secret, and now every woman knows it's
- 5:04Speaker 4: gonna date you.
- 5:05Speaker 3: You better put a shirt on. Just put a white
- 5:06Speaker 3: haned shirt on and move on.