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- 0:00Speaker 1: Imagine you're a pharmacist. You've spent your entire adult life
- 0:04Speaker 1: learning exactly how drugs interact with the human body, which
- 0:08Speaker 1: molecules heal, which ones destroy, and at what dose the
- 0:12Speaker 1: difference between medicine and poison disappears. You know the names.
- 0:17Speaker 1: the mechanisms, the thresholds. You know how to save lives,
- 0:22Speaker 1: and you're surrounded every day by people who do the same.
- 0:25Speaker 1: Now imagine you're lying in a hospital bed connected to monitors.
- 0:30Speaker 1: Your body is shutting down in ways that no specialist
- 0:33Speaker 1: on the floor can adequately explain. And the person sitting
- 0:37Speaker 1: closest to you, the one with the most access, the
- 0:40Speaker 1: one arguing with hospital staff, the one who keeps suggesting
- 0:44Speaker 1: a diagnosis, and who is pushing to have you cremated
- 0:47Speaker 1: before anyone asks too many questions, is your husband. A doctor. Who,
- 0:53Speaker 1: before he went to medical school, worked at a poison
- 0:56Speaker 1: control center. Betty Bowman did not die from a mystery.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Prosecutors say she died from a plan, one carried out
- 1:05Speaker 1: by someone who understood, down to the milligram, exactly what
- 1:09Speaker 1: her body could not survive. This is her story. From
- 1:13Speaker 1: Wichita to Rochester. From a wedding in Missouri to a
- 1:17Speaker 1: hospital room in Minnesota, from a life full of travel, laughter,
- 1:22Speaker 1: coffee shops, and a corgi named Crumpet, to an autopsy
- 1:25Speaker 1: that changed everything. And it's also the story of a
- 1:29Speaker 1: digital trail that investigators say a poison specialist left behind
- 1:33Speaker 1: and could not fully erase. A quick note before we begin.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Connor Bowman has pleaded not guilty. Everything you're about to
- 1:41Speaker 1: hear about him is an allegation from the prosecutions. He
- 1:44Speaker 1: has not been convicted of anything. Betty Jo Sponsel was
- 1:48Speaker 1: born on December 13, 1990, in Wichita, Kansas, the daughter
- 1:53Speaker 1: of Nancy and David Sponsel. From an early age, she
- 1:57Speaker 1: was the kind of person people remembered, not because she
- 2:00Speaker 1: was loud or showy, because she paid attention. She remembered
- 2:05Speaker 1: your favorite color, your favorite animal, the small thing you
- 2:09Speaker 1: mentioned once, weeks ago, in passing, that you'd already forgotten.
- 2:13Speaker 1: and she'd bring it up later in a way that
- 2:15Speaker 1: made you feel like the most important person in the room.
- 2:18Speaker 1: That wasn't a technique. It was just who she was.
- 2:22Speaker 1: She graduated from Bishop Carroll High School in Wichita in
- 2:26Speaker 1: 2009 and went on to earn her Doctor of Pharmacy
- 2:29Speaker 1: from the University of Kansas School of Pharmacy in 2017.
- 2:33Speaker 1: In 2018, she completed a pharmacy residency at Stormont Vale
- 2:38Speaker 1: Hospital in Topeka. These are not casual achievements. A PharmD
- 2:43Speaker 1: is a demanding, rigorous program. A hospital residency pushes pharmacists
- 2:48Speaker 1: from theory into high-stakes, real-world practice. Complex patients, critical medications,
- 2:55Speaker 1: decisions that cannot be undone. Betty excelled. She was becoming
- 3:01Speaker 1: exactly the kind of pharmacist who makes hospitals safer. Friends
- 3:05Speaker 1: described her in vivid, specific terms. Sharp. Witty. Adventurous. emotionally
- 3:12Speaker 1: generous in a way that felt effortless. A high school
- 3:16Speaker 1: friend called her the best friend anyone could ask for. Smart, fun, thoughtful,
- 3:21Speaker 1: with a smile and a sense of humor that filled
- 3:24Speaker 1: every room she walked into. Another person, writing after her death,
- 3:29Speaker 1: described how Betty had once customized a chat with lime
- 3:32Speaker 1: green colors and dolphins because she remembered those were that
- 3:36Speaker 1: person's favorites. A small thing, an irreplaceable thing. She traveled widely, Yosemite, Hawaii, Iceland, Chicago,
- 3:46Speaker 1: New York, the Grand Canyon, the Caribbean, and she brought
- 3:50Speaker 1: that sense of adventure into her everyday life in Rochester.
- 3:54Speaker 1: She loved local coffee shops, good cheese, long dinners. She
- 3:59Speaker 1: was a vocal advocate for LGBTQ rights, and her circle
- 4:03Speaker 1: reflected the warm, inclusive community she built wherever she landed—
- 4:07Speaker 1: She encouraged everyone around her to be their truest selves.
- 4:11Speaker 1: And she had Crumpet, her Corgi, her Joy, spoiled with
- 4:16Speaker 1: special treats and trips to local parks. When Betty joined
- 4:20Speaker 1: Mayo Clinic, a pharmacist trained her on arrival and later
- 4:23Speaker 1: said Mayo had hit a home run. She was sharp, reliable, hardworking, trusted.
- 4:30Speaker 1: She eventually moved into work as an operating room pharmacist,
- 4:33Speaker 1: one of the most precision-demanding roles in hospital pharmacy. She
- 4:37Speaker 1: still came back to cover shifts with her original team.
- 4:41Speaker 1: By every account, she was excellent at her job and
- 4:44Speaker 1: beloved by the people who worked alongside her. Now let's
- 4:47Speaker 1: meet the man she married. Connor Fitzgerald Bowman was born
- 4:52Speaker 1: on March 21st, 1993. Like Betty, he came through the
- 4:56Speaker 1: University of Kansas. He graduated from its medical school in 2021.
- 5:00Speaker 1: But before he became Dr. Bowman, He worked as a
- 5:05Speaker 1: poison specialist at the University of Kansas, answering calls about
- 5:09Speaker 1: toxic exposure on institutional devices that required VPN authentication. He
- 5:15Speaker 1: had access to specialized toxicology databases and the kind of
- 5:19Speaker 1: hands-on reference knowledge that only comes from answering those calls.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Which substances cause which effects? In which time frames? He
- 5:28Speaker 1: knew the vocabulary of poison. He knew that medicine and
- 5:32Speaker 1: toxicology speak the same language. and that only intent separates them.
- 5:37Speaker 1: After medical school, Connor was accepted into the internal medicine
- 5:41Speaker 1: residency at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. He and Betty
- 5:46Speaker 1: married on May 30, 2021, in Independence, Missouri, and moved
- 5:51Speaker 1: to Rochester together. Betty to work as a hospital pharmacist,
- 5:55Speaker 1: Connor to complete his residency. On paper, a young medical
- 5:59Speaker 1: couple building something remarkable. From the outside... the Bowman marriage
- 6:04Speaker 1: looked like what it was supposed to be. But according
- 6:07Speaker 1: to investigators, 2023 told a different story. People interviewed by
- 6:12Speaker 1: police and by the medical examiner's office described a marriage
- 6:16Speaker 1: under serious strain. Allegations of infidelity, discussions of divorce, separate
- 6:23Speaker 1: bank accounts because Connor had significant debt and Betty was
- 6:27Speaker 1: careful with her finances. According to the criminal complaint, at
- 6:31Speaker 1: least one person told investigators... that Connor expected to receive $ 500, 000
- 6:36Speaker 1: in life insurance in the event of Betty's death. Investigators
- 6:41Speaker 1: also reported finding a large bank deposit receipt during a
- 6:44Speaker 1: search of the Bowman residence. None of this was visible
- 6:48Speaker 1: to the outside world. Betty was still going to work,
- 6:51Speaker 1: still making friends feel seen and valued, still posting about Crumpet.
- 6:57Speaker 1: But behind closed doors, prosecutors allege, something had already begun
- 7:01Speaker 1: to take shape. In the summer of 2023, Connor was
- 7:05Speaker 1: still logging into his University of Kansas devices, the same
- 7:09Speaker 1: systems connected to his poison control work, protected by institutional
- 7:13Speaker 1: VPN authentication. University of Kansas personnel later told investigators that
- 7:19Speaker 1: Connor had been running searches on those devices that had
- 7:22Speaker 1: nothing to do with any poison control calls he'd received.
- 7:25Speaker 1: No other employee had received calls about the substance he
- 7:28Speaker 1: was researching. He was researching colchicine. Colchicine is a medication
- 7:33Speaker 1: primarily used to treat gout. At therapeutic doses, it reduces inflammation.
- 7:38Speaker 1: At toxic doses, it is catastrophic. It disrupts the way
- 7:42Speaker 1: cells divide throughout the body. It damages the gastrointestinal tract,
- 7:47Speaker 1: collapses bone marrow function, weakens the heart, and can trigger
- 7:51Speaker 1: multi-organ failure. Its early symptoms, severe nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea,
- 7:57Speaker 1: are almost indistinguishable from food poisoning. And there is no antidote.
- 8:02Speaker 1: I'm going to say that one more time because it
- 8:04Speaker 1: matters for everything that comes next. Early on, it looks
- 8:07Speaker 1: like a stomach bug. And once it's in the body,
- 8:10Speaker 1: there is no antidote. By August 5, 2023, the searches
- 8:15Speaker 1: had become more specific. Investigators say Connor searched questions about
- 8:20Speaker 1: whether Internet browsing history can be used in court, whether
- 8:23Speaker 1: police track package deliveries, and how to delete Amazon data.
- 8:28Speaker 1: He also searched about sodium nitrate. including the difference between
- 8:32Speaker 1: food-grade and industrial-grade versions. Then came August 10th. According to
- 8:38Speaker 1: the criminal complaint, Connor converted Betty's body weight from pounds
- 8:42Speaker 1: to kilograms and used that figure to calculate a lethal
- 8:46Speaker 1: dose of colchicine. He then searched for liquid colchicine on GoodRx.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Search warrant reporting also revealed that he used his Mayo
- 8:55Speaker 1: Clinic email address to purchase colchicine through TruPill, an online
- 9:00Speaker 1: pharmacy platform. According to investigators, he subsequently requested the deletion
- 9:05Speaker 1: of his account and purchase history. On that same day,
- 9:09Speaker 1: prosecutors say Connor was calculating a lethal dose on a
- 9:13Speaker 1: university device, and something happened at the Bowman home. A
- 9:18Speaker 1: friend of Betty's later told police that Connor made Betty
- 9:21Speaker 1: a smoothie. Betty tasted it. She said it was bitter
- 9:25Speaker 1: and salty in a way that didn't seem right. and
- 9:28Speaker 1: she joked to her friend that maybe he was trying
- 9:31Speaker 1: to poison her. She didn't finish it. The friend recalled
- 9:35Speaker 1: thinking the smoothie was strange, because Connor never made anything
- 9:39Speaker 1: for anyone. That kind of gesture was out of character
- 9:43Speaker 1: for him. Betty stayed well that day. Investigators would later
- 9:48Speaker 1: explore whether August 10th represented a first attempt, one that
- 9:52Speaker 1: failed because Betty didn't drink the smoothie. That allegation has
- 9:56Speaker 1: not been proven at trial. but the timing sits heavily
- 10:00Speaker 1: in the record. A lethal dose calculation, a bitter drink,
- 10:04Speaker 1: a joke that turned out not to be a joke.
- 10:07Speaker 1: And five days later, Betty was in the hospital. On
- 10:11Speaker 1: August 14th, Betty messaged a man identified in court documents
- 10:15Speaker 1: only by his initials. She had a few days off
- 10:18Speaker 1: and wanted to spend time with him. They made plans.
- 10:22Speaker 1: On August 15th, they saw each other. That night, Betty
- 10:26Speaker 1: texted that she was home, drinking with Connor. It sounded
- 10:29Speaker 1: like an ordinary evening. There was no sign of what
- 10:32Speaker 1: was already in her body or what was coming. The
- 10:36Speaker 1: next morning, August 16th, Betty messaged him again. She was
- 10:40Speaker 1: very sick. She couldn't sleep. She believed something she'd consumed.
- 10:45Speaker 1: something in a drink or a smoothie, had caused it.
- 10:49Speaker 1: That message would become one of the most significant pieces
- 10:52Speaker 1: of evidence in the entire case. It placed the onset
- 10:56Speaker 1: of her illness inside the Bowman home on the night
- 10:59Speaker 1: of August 15th, after drinks with Connor. Blood drawn from
- 11:03Speaker 1: Betty on admission to the hospital that same day would
- 11:07Speaker 1: later test positive for colchicine. Betty was admitted to a
- 11:11Speaker 1: hospital in Rochester on August 16th, 2023, with severe gastrointestinal
- 11:16Speaker 1: distress and dehydration. At first, her symptoms looked like food poisoning,
- 11:22Speaker 1: so the standard approach followed— fluids, monitoring, rest. She didn't improve.
- 11:28Speaker 1: She deteriorated rapidly, in ways that went far beyond anything ordinary.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Her heart began to show serious problems. Fluid built up
- 11:37Speaker 1: in her lungs. Her organs started to fail. Surgeons discovered
- 11:41Speaker 1: necrotic tissue in part of her colon, tissue that had
- 11:44Speaker 1: simply died and removed a portion of it. Her body
- 11:48Speaker 1: was being destroyed from within. And through all of it,
- 11:51Speaker 1: Connor was present. He was her husband, he was a doctor,
- 11:55Speaker 1: and he kept offering explanations to the medical team. His
- 11:59Speaker 1: suggestion was something called hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis, or HLH, a rare
- 12:06Speaker 1: and serious immune disorder. in which the body's own immune
- 12:09Speaker 1: system turns on its tissues. An obscure diagnosis, the kind
- 12:14Speaker 1: that fits symptoms resisting easier explanations. Tests were run. Results
- 12:19Speaker 1: were inconclusive. Betty was never diagnosed with HLH. But Connor
- 12:25Speaker 1: kept steering the medical narrative in that direction. Betty Jo
- 12:28Speaker 1: Bowman died on August 20, 2023, at St. Mary's Hospital
- 12:31Speaker 1: in Rochester, Minnesota. She was 32 years old. four days
- 12:38Speaker 1: from hospitalization to death. Her obituary described the cause as
- 12:43Speaker 1: a sudden-onset autoimmune and infectious illness. It named HLH. It
- 12:49Speaker 1: also encouraged guests at her celebration of life to wear rainbow, pride,
- 12:55Speaker 1: or corgi-themed attire, because that was the kind of woman
- 12:58Speaker 1: Betty was, even in how she was remembered. Her family
- 13:02Speaker 1: called her a beloved friend, sibling, corgi mom, pharmacist, and
- 13:07Speaker 1: cherished member of their lives. To the world, it was
- 13:11Speaker 1: a tragedy. To the medical examiner's office, it was a question.
- 13:16Speaker 1: After Betty's death, a cremation order was placed. The Southeast
- 13:20Speaker 1: Minnesota Medical Examiner's Office halted it. According to the criminal complaint,
- 13:24Speaker 1: Connor argued that Betty's death was natural. He said she
- 13:28Speaker 1: should be cremated immediately, and he tried to cancel the autopsy,
- 13:32Speaker 1: claiming Betty hadn't wanted to be a cadaver. He also
- 13:36Speaker 1: asked whether the toxicology testing would be more thorough than
- 13:39Speaker 1: the hospital's own testing, and he requested a list of
- 13:43Speaker 1: which specific substances would be screened. Forensic investigators would later
- 13:48Speaker 1: describe those questions as significant. That is not how grieving
- 13:53Speaker 1: husbands typically engage with medical examiners. That is how someone
- 13:57Speaker 1: manages risk. The cremation didn't happen. The autopsy did. Toxicology
- 14:04Speaker 1: found colchicine in Betty's blood and in her urine. Her
- 14:08Speaker 1: medical records confirmed no gout diagnosis, no colchicine prescription, no
- 14:14Speaker 1: hospital administration of the drug. The colchicine in her body
- 14:18Speaker 1: came from outside the hospital. The medical examiner determined the
- 14:22Speaker 1: cause of death, toxic effects of colchicine, the manner of death, homicide.
- 14:29Speaker 1: Connor Bowman was arrested on October 20, 2023. What investigators
- 14:34Speaker 1: assembled was not the evidence of an impulsive crime. It was,
- 14:39Speaker 1: they say, a trail of deliberate planning that Connor had tried,
- 14:43Speaker 1: and failed, to fully erase. The University of Kansas search history.
- 14:49Speaker 1: The lethal dose calculation. The good Rx searches. The true
- 14:53Speaker 1: pill purchase made with his Mayo Clinic email. The account
- 14:57Speaker 1: deletion request that followed. The queries about whether police track
- 15:01Speaker 1: packages and whether browsing history can be used in court,
- 15:05Speaker 1: all of it still there. Connor had also accessed Betty's
- 15:09Speaker 1: electronic health record during her hospitalization and kept accessing it
- 15:14Speaker 1: after her death. He created a documentation encounter in her record.
- 15:18Speaker 1: No clinical content, no notes. But the act identified him
- 15:23Speaker 1: as a member of her care team, allowing him to
- 15:25Speaker 1: re-enter the record without re-entering credentials. He was allegedly monitoring
- 15:30Speaker 1: what the hospital knew. Then came the Bumble allegations. Search
- 15:35Speaker 1: warrants unsealed in May 2024 revealed that investigators say Connor
- 15:40Speaker 1: searched is widow gender neutral two days before Betty died.
- 15:45Speaker 1: After her death, he allegedly appeared on the dating app
- 15:48Speaker 1: identifying himself as a widower. Multiple women who matched with
- 15:52Speaker 1: him told investigators he gave them different stories about how
- 15:56Speaker 1: Betty died. Listeria to one. a morphine overdose to another.
- 16:01Speaker 1: One woman said he mentioned a large life insurance payout
- 16:04Speaker 1: within days of their first conversation, saying he'd used it
- 16:08Speaker 1: to pay off student loan debt. In January 2024, an
- 16:12Speaker 1: Olmstead County grand jury indicted Connor Bowman on first-degree premeditated
- 16:18Speaker 1: murder and second-degree murder. In Minnesota, a conviction on the
- 16:22Speaker 1: first charge carries a mandatory sentence of life in prison
- 16:26Speaker 1: without the possibility of release. Connor has pleaded not guilty
- 16:30Speaker 1: to both charges. The pretrial stage has been extensive. In
- 16:35Speaker 1: April 2025, a judge ruled that some evidence from home
- 16:39Speaker 1: electronic devices was suppressed as unconstitutionally obtained. In October 2025,
- 16:45Speaker 1: multiple other suppression motions were denied, covering Mayo Clinic records,
- 16:50Speaker 1: University of Kansas materials, Bumble and social media accounts, pharmacy records,
- 16:56Speaker 1: and financial data. In March 2026, the judge ruled that
- 17:00Speaker 1: evidence from Conner's Mayo Clinic laptop, including the true pill
- 17:04Speaker 1: purchase records, could be used at trial. And in June 2026,
- 17:09Speaker 1: the same judge refused to dismiss the indictment after the
- 17:12Speaker 1: defense argued grand jury misconduct. As of this recording, no
- 17:16Speaker 1: trial date has been set. So let's talk about why
- 17:19Speaker 1: this case is so unsettling from a forensic point of view.
- 17:23Speaker 1: Colchicine is a naturally occurring compound derived from the autumn
- 17:27Speaker 1: crocus plant. At therapeutic doses, it works by interfering with
- 17:32Speaker 1: a protein that cells need in order to divide, and
- 17:35Speaker 1: by reducing the movement of inflammatory white blood cells into
- 17:39Speaker 1: damaged tissue. Useful for gout. Useful for certain cardiac conditions.
- 17:44Speaker 1: At toxic doses, that same mechanism turns catastrophic. When cells
- 17:50Speaker 1: throughout the body can't divide normally... tissues begin breaking down
- 17:54Speaker 1: in sequence. The digestive tract is hit first. Nausea, vomiting,
- 18:00Speaker 1: severe diarrhea, mimicking food poisoning almost exactly. Then, over the
- 18:05Speaker 1: following days, bone marrow fails. Blood cell production collapses. The
- 18:11Speaker 1: heart muscle weakens. Organs begin shutting down. Death arrives as
- 18:16Speaker 1: multi-organ failure, the kind that, without toxicology, can look like
- 18:21Speaker 1: the result of a dozen different diagnoses. There is no antidote.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Treatment is purely supportive. And because the progression from ingestion
- 18:31Speaker 1: to collapse takes days rather than hours, the window for
- 18:35Speaker 1: identifying the cause is dangerously narrow, especially when the attending
- 18:39Speaker 1: physician on the case is is already offering an alternative explanation.
- 18:44Speaker 1: The calculation prosecutors describe was not a rough guess. It
- 18:49Speaker 1: was specific toxicological knowledge applied to a person of Betty's size,
- 18:55Speaker 1: and the outcome would be highly probable without immediate targeted intervention,
- 18:59Speaker 1: which is nearly impossible to deliver when no one in
- 19:02Speaker 1: the hospital has been told to look for colchicine. And
- 19:05Speaker 1: what about the mind behind it, if the prosecution's theory
- 19:09Speaker 1: is correct? Poisoning is the most premeditated of all murder methods.
- 19:14Speaker 1: It requires research, acquisition, patience, and the sustained ability to
- 19:20Speaker 1: remain calm and present near the person you are killing
- 19:23Speaker 1: over days, even weeks. There's no impulse, no heat of
- 19:28Speaker 1: the moment, only planning and then waiting. Forensic researchers describe
- 19:34Speaker 1: this as controlled aggression, violence channeled entirely into covert action,
- 19:40Speaker 1: while a composed, even caring exterior is maintained. In this case,
- 19:45Speaker 1: if the prosecution is right, the alleged perpetrator wasn't lurking
- 19:48Speaker 1: at a distance. He was in the hospital room, suggesting diagnoses,
- 19:54Speaker 1: consulting with the care team, positioning himself as a concerned,
- 19:58Speaker 1: knowledgeable husband, while the substance he allegedly administered was already
- 20:03Speaker 1: working inside her. That level of sustained performance under pressure
- 20:07Speaker 1: doesn't happen by accident. It reflects a deliberate decision to
- 20:12Speaker 1: manage appearances at the moment they matter most. The behavior
- 20:16Speaker 1: around the autopsy fits the same pattern. Pushing for immediate cremation.
- 20:21Speaker 1: Questioning the scope of toxicology. Asking which substances would be screened.
- 20:27Speaker 1: Forensic psychologists call this impression management under pressure. The attempt
- 20:32Speaker 1: to shape how a situation is perceived when the underlying
- 20:36Speaker 1: reality is beginning to surface. not grief processing, risk assessment.
- 20:42Speaker 1: But I want to be clear again, Connor Bowman has
- 20:45Speaker 1: pleaded not guilty. These are the prosecution's allegations, and a
- 20:50Speaker 1: jury has not yet weighed them. The psychological pattern they describe, premeditation,
- 20:57Speaker 1: impression management, emotional detachment, is one forensic researchers recognize, whether
- 21:04Speaker 1: it describes this man as a question for a courtroom.
- 21:07Speaker 1: Betty Jo Sponsel Bowman was 32 years old. A pharmacist.
- 21:12Speaker 1: A Mayo Clinic professional. A Wichita girl who remembered your
- 21:16Speaker 1: favorite color. A traveler. A corgi mom. A friend who
- 21:21Speaker 1: showed up. The kind of person who made you feel
- 21:24Speaker 1: seen just by being in the same room. The first
- 21:27Speaker 1: mystery was why she died. The second was why her
- 21:30Speaker 1: husband seemed so ready to explain it. The cremation never happened.
- 21:35Speaker 1: The autopsy broke the story open. And a digital trail
- 21:38Speaker 1: of searches, purchases, and deletions may be what a jury
- 21:42Speaker 1: ultimately decides. If this case stayed with you, subscribe and
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