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How Do You Make It Work When You Have Different Love Languages in the Relationship · The Erica Show

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  Do you want to five? It's the air because show talking about love languages
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  in your relationships. I mean, they've got books on this, it's been
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  around for years. Do you still pay attention to that in your relationship?
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  Got a listener dilema. She's like, I do not want to be on
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  the air. I want you to ask your listeners please give me some advice.
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  She said. My husband is all about physical touch and it makes me
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  crnch. She said, I just want to be by myself and be quiet.
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  That is the farthest of my love language that I could possibly be.
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  She said. I like affirmations. I like to hear like I'm great,
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  I'm amazing, I'm beautiful, I do things well. I like to hear
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  that you know I've cleaned the house well, she said. I like that
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  kind of stuff, But as far as physical touch, it makes her crunch
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  which. I'm sure that many relationships have opposite love languages. So what advice
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  do you have? How do you show up for your partner when you have
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  completely different love languages and theirs your spouse is makes you cringe? Nine one
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  nine eight six so one oh five one And I know y'all listen right now,
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  you're like, oh, yeah, that's me opposite love languages. How
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  do you make it work? Do you want to five? It's the Erkashov
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  listener Diloma. She said that her love language is completely opposite from her husband's,
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  which his is physical touch, and it makes her cringe. So how
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  do you make it work when you're on the opposite end of the love languages?
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  Nine one, nine eight six zh one oh five to one Christina,
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  what do you say? Well, I think love languages is an amazing skill
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  to have, and it's really helped me actually, So the main thing is
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  not just to know how you show love and how you receive love, but
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  how they also receive love and give love because they might be giving you,
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  you know, love, that that's not how you accept it. But once
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  you realize that that's the only way that they know how to show love,
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  it helps tremendously. So I feel like it's not a big deal. If
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  somebody needs something from you, don't you want to make them happy, don't
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  you want them to feel loved? Just do whatever it is if they you
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  know, need, if you want to keep the relationship,