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Yoreh De’ah 263:5-264:2. Bris Milah: Baby Younger Than 8 Days; Who Can Circumcise, Women; Non-Jews; With What Instrument · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, resh samajh Gilmour. See Eve Hey Tinok schemate child
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  baby who dies Kodem Shiaguya liyot Ben Shmona before he's
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  eight days old. Malinoto al Qibro Bitsour Albert
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  Kane. So the so the Menagiz Balaka is
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  we right? It's not a halacha de raisa,
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  it's more of a, of a minhug. And we cut the, we cut the
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  Bristol Mila with a he writes with a stone or some kind of a
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  sharp weed. The in mevarchim Allah Mila of
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  all, we don't say the bracha, right?
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  There's no bracha. It's certainly no mitzvah to do.
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  But the Mila, it's just a minhag Avau messimimo.
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  Shame Zehar. We do give him a name.
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  So you remember him, Shiachamu Mina shamayam.
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  So in the heavens I'll have mercy on him.
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  The yeah, but kya tame team, right was we want him to get
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  into Ganadian, we want him to get come up with Kyasame team.
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  And he will be more, it'll be more appropriate if he has a
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  Bersmila and if and if he has a name.
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  And then this way we can also refer to him in Davin for him
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  the an Osin king of Philo, the Yom Tosheni Shogalio.
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  But we don't do this on Shabbos and not on Yom Tov.
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  Even Yom Tosheni in Hudslas, the sur liquor be young tov and
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  nephilim. It's aser to bury stillborn's
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  afilu, the fuel, the tautel, aser even to move it.
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  It's aser the aser Lamu goy shalola, shame, girud afilu, the
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  whole. And it's aser to circumcise a
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  non Jew unless you need to for the purposes of converting.
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  Because in order to convert, we're going to learn soon that
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  one of the requirements of conversion, right, there's 33
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  main actions, or we'll call it 2 1/2.
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  We'll see you soon. Besides Cabela's mitzvos, one of
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  them is getting a bursimila or a tafa tambre.
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  If they are are already circumcised, we'll get there.
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  But if it's enough for that purpose, it's us, Sir, to do a
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  bursimila. A bursimila is a special oath,
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  confident brief between US and the Kurdish sparkle, the Jewish
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  people and we're not supposed to share it.
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  And it's it's it's it's a zilzo. It's inappropriate for ours.
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  It also can confuse other people to thinking that maybe they are
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  Jewish. So those are the reasons that
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  it's not allowed, right? It's us or Medarabanam and some
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  of the reasons why it might be mutter is the main 2 reasons
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  that I've seen is either for financial for Scar, it's mutter
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  and or if it's Mishun Eva. Those are the two reasons that
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  I've seen. I've also heard I'm not sure if
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  it's valid or not, but I've also seen for the sake of getting
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  experience. So that is another that might be
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  another another reason why it's mutter yes, exactly It's a
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  Jewish it's a Jewish moel. He's allowed to take money for
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  it to circumcise a non Jew and that's what and that's when it's
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  mutter that's for your benefit. Then we say it's mutter.
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  They're only Simon rage salmah Dali me rightly Lamu Obama
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  maleem vaqueta Malin alef a Coke Sherry mammal Afilu evet isha
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  vekatan VE Ariel user El shameeto shameeto ekhav mahmat
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  Mila the emesh you sell. Let's start.
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  Let me first translate. Everyone is kosher.
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  The following are kosher to do a brasila on a baby.
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  It could be an avid, right, An avid Kanan you were talking
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  about. It could be a woman.
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  It could be a a minor katan below the age of our mitzvah.
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  It can be an RL Yisrael. It could be a uncircumcised Jew
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  who died. I'm sorry, his brothers died and
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  therefore they're not doing during when they got the Bristol
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  shortly or because of the Bristol Mila.
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  So therefore he is never going to circumcise himself.
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  Such a person is still allowed to do the Bristol Mila, the
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  English Yisrael Godel, Sheodiya Lamu, who called them a Coulomb.
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  But obviously, but a proper normal circumcised Jew comes
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  first. OK, hang up.
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  So we see all those are kosher Vyesh on the Isha lot Tamil and
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  the Rama adds that some say a woman is not allowed to do it
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  and therefore we prefer not a woman and not a real big Mahocus
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  there between the Shah Khanarak and the Rahma they both prefer a
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  a man Ava goi afiluhu mahu luya mukhla.
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  But one should not allow a non Jew to do the bris meal.
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  That one should avoid at all costs the E Mao EIN sarik laksar
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  vilamu paan shenit. But if a non Jew did do it, then
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  it works. The Mila was done.
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  It was cut. It isn't the the Aurila was
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  removed and and he's no longer he's a Ben his whole life.
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  He's a Ben Nemo. He's not an aura.
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  OK, so you lost that on the bracha.
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  It wasn't the mitzvah wasn't done the ideal way it's supposed
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  to be done. But the the avid, it's kosher
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  and there's and you don't have to do anything else.
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  You have to have to find some breathe on the last case.
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  So haggah viyesh Omrin, right? With this we're talking about
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  the case of a non Jew, Dulinet. The other cases everyone says
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  works Berievid and you don't have to do hattafa dambrit.
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  The case of a goy, who does it? The non Jew, the khayevim
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  lakhzor ulhatif nimenu dambrit dahanikar.
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  Some say no. For that you need to do hattafa
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  dambrit. And this is the Ekkar opinion
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  and this is even according to the Chaukanara the the shock
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  points out based on the from the base.
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  So you'll say that you need that one should do had to fight
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  Dumbridge. Now regarding a woman so that
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  the task is that we don't see that a woman that a woman is
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  Shyak and doing a Bruce Mila. We do see a story, obviously the
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  one of the most famous stories by Moshe Moshe's wife Sepora.
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  So she did that's that's a question what you can learn from
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  there from wherever we learn the Helkos of Mila.
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  We don't see it where a woman have any Shyakas to it.
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  That was the case of Tsipura was before Matantara.
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  And so it's a question how to deal with that.
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  Anyway, that's that's the Makwalkas.
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  Vishal, what's the Makwalkas? Whether a woman could do me if a
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  woman is allowed to do a Bersmila, you know what, I'll
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  just stop right here. Short question story from that
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  same share from Ariely Billitz. He asked.
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  This does come up once in a while, a female doctor, she's in
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  the hospital and right she's she's involved giving birth or
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  whatever the the family wants her to do it.
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  So obviously we're not talking about from family, you know,
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  usually such a case would come up.
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  So the question is, should the female Doctor Who's religious,
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  should she accept to do the Bristmula so she can't accept
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  it. If they want it done normally,
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  they're going to want to do it on the first, you know, first,
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  second day before the baby leaves the hospital so that she
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  can't do right. So we have to wait until the 8th
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  day. That should be obvious.
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  So let's say they're willing to come back or they want her to do
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  it in a home, can she do it? So, so you pointed out that
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  problem is if you if you think that they're going to use a non
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  Jew to do it and before the 8th day, so he says you stomach the
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  woman should do it like Akila. In that case, that case it
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  becomes like Akila for her. Normally you wouldn't have a
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  woman do it, but if there's no choice, she is certainly kosher
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  to do it when needed. And that would be preferable for
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  her to do it than to end up having a non Jew or done on a
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  different day. One of the things that come up,
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  we're going to get into it more, but it was just tangential.
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  So I'll just point it out real quick.
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  When a meal is done in the hospital, they want to do it so
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  that it's it's idiot proof and it's at least bleeding as
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  possible. And what's often used in a
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  hospital setting is a clamp instead of just having a shield
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  again that covers where you slip the foreskin right through
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  before you cut to protect it. So it's impossible to touch the
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  the, the end, the head of the of the penis, the the glands, the
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  attara, it's that protects it. So it's impossible.
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  Nothing goes through but the skin.
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  But they use a basically the same idea but instead of having
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  a 1mm slit for the skin to go through, it closes it completely
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  and it basically crushes the the blood vessels so that this way
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  it's a much cleaner cut. When you cut, there's not much,
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  there's not much bleeding and depends how long do you put the
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  clamp on. If you put the clamp on very
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  quick and cut, you'll have more bleeding.
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  If you leave it on longer, you'll have less bleeding.
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  So there generally is bleeding. So miik are again, so many are
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  are against many. Generally the postscheme are
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  against it or very much against it.
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  It's not the Minogue utreal. And the main problem is, well,
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  we're going to see there's a few issues.
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  There is cutting the Mila, the Aurila and the Priya together.
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  We're going to talk about it soon.
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  That's the least of the issues. The bigger issue is SAR the
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  Anuka pain for the baby because when that clamp is done it's
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  very painful for the baby. I think they even have tests
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  like with the brain waves to show that it is very painful.
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  I mean, I'm sure we could all imagine if you get a paper cut,
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  usually you don't even feel the cut happening at all.
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  Anytime you have a quick smooth cut, you generally don't feel
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  it. It's you feel the sting
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  afterwards. But when you have a pinch and
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  you get pinched, wow, that hurts.
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  So that's the that's the difference When you do a cut,
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  you don't generally don't feel it.
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  We assume the same thing by Shrieta.
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  When you do a smooth slice, you don't feel it or minimum, but
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  when you're doing, when there's a the clamp, so that's very
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  painful. So that's, that's the biggest
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  problem with Sardi Anuka emotion.
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  Igos Moshe speaks about it, others speak about it.
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  So it's definitely, definitely not recommended, not the way to
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  do it, but it's still kosher. And it's better that than to do
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  than to have a goi do it on the first day.
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  So that's but I don't think they have I don't know, but I don't
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  know if they have a choice in the hospital to use it or not to
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  use it. Probably depends on the
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  hospital. If there's no good question,
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  Moshe asks if there's no, there's no bleeding.
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  So that's a problem That is an integral part of the brasmila.
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  Do you have to do a Tafas tanbris?
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  I don't know if we definitely need for for safety reasons.
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  That's Itza we're gonna get to is part is done for because of
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  Sakana, because it's healthier to have the sucking and pull out
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  a little of the blood. At least at least that's what
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  was thought so Dambris. So I believe I I can't say it
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  for sure, but I believe all or most postskin would say you
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  should do a Tafa Dambritz. But that's what I'm believe
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  without without seeing it inside this.
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  This is a good question. I don't have any sources for
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  that. Mumerola Cola Tara Kula person
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  is a mumer for the entire Tara Oshuhu mumar.
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  Or he's just a mumar when it comes to being an RL.
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  Do you know agoy? He has a din of agoy for the
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  purposes of the shock points out hold your horses.
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  We're talking about for the purposes of Mila.
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  We give him a din of agoy that he shouldn't do it and if he
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  does it then we do a toughest. But a mumar for an RL is not
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  normally considered like a non Jew right?
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  That's because that's just a Muammar la davar ekhar tinoq
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  shilutra hula Mullah talk shimona MI penne A sakana.
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  If for whatever reason there was a baby that needed to have a
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  breast within 8 days because of a sakana in Hilo beni sur al
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  lagoi Nicole talk shimona LO MI cremila.
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  It doesn't matter if the doctor is Jewish or not or the one
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  who's doing the bris amila is Jewish or not.
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  If it has to be done within 8 days because Allahukley, that's
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  not a amila, it wasn't done, OK. And so still we would do now
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  that actually we mentioned before is a mahlocas.
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  It's actually interesting. What did the Rama say from the
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  very beginning? Just to compare, raise some
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  olive, he writes Alva Roma belaila, sorry klaksor, but
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  malutosh Mona ubayom yatsa here he writes.
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  So therefore the shock points out a simple reading.
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  It's Astira, so therefore the shock says in Raysha Mukhbet he
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  holds it's good, but you still need to do a tafas maisa.
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  We would do a tafa sombre meal. Imish aroud seats in Hama aquin
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  amila oshima villa para jigumar. You sell Amila the Shimona.
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  If there are seats in Hama aquin at the Mila or one did Amila and
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  he didn't do the Priya. We're going to explain this more
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  in Gimma. You'll understand this more.
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  You know in Charlotte, seats in Hama aquin amila.
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  So you have parts of the Mila that are part of the orillas
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  remains. So we say the Mila wasn't
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  kosher, it wasn't finished. Or you did half the brisk Mila.
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  You basically did Mila villa para.
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  That means you removed the double layer.
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  We'll explain. You removed the outer Orla layer
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  of skin, but not the inner layer of what we call the Priya.
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  So then or the OR Priya Yigmar Yisrael Hamila leschmona Ola
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  Akharshi trape. So then say if once whatever
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  you're going to finish to do right, and this is on a Darissa
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  level, which is integral part of the Mila, then, then you would
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  wait to do that portion, right? If you needed to do part of it
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  for whatever the reason, then you did it on the first day if
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  it was an emergency of sakana, but you, you will hopefully have
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  or whatever is left, right? If then you save that portion,
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  if it's teaching, if it's part of the integral part of the
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  Mila, you save that for the 8th day or until he's healthy,
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  right? Well, the case is a case of
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  sakana. So it's it's likely you're going
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  to have to show obismano yeh shua Adam laksar ulahada akhara
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  moel ubal breathe eterto with Sadiq.
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  A person should always whenever they pick a Moel you want to try
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  and pick a a well, you're a Shamayam, an experienced Moel a
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  a good one and it's sagic. The IM not an Ulhad a Sir
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  Laksabe. Once you choose a mole and you
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  designate him, you can't go back and switch Who who does it MU IM
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  Khazar Bo have a Hazara. But if you do go back, then it
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  works. You're allowed to I mean it
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  works to go back. Yeah.
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  It doesn't have a Tyne on you the EIN Moyo Bazer Kubo Kenyan.
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  And just because you would you you decide to use him.
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  It's not a, it's not a Kenyan. It was only words and therefore
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  you don't have to, you say Kenyans, Varian, Baal Mahu and
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  therefore there's no, there's no contractual obligation.
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  You don't owe him anything, but you're not supposed to.
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  But if you made a Shihuah that he's going to do it.
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  So then we, we force him, if not to new la ekhad velohaya bahir
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  vah Avaya savor shalo yasham bizmanamila.
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  If when he chose somebody, he would have chosen somebody else.
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  But the one, the mobile that he wanted, he thought was, was not
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  available, wasn't in the city, wasn't available.
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  So therefore he chose mobile number 2.
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  But he really wanted mobile number one.
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  So then he gets, he sends together, right?
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  Yeah. I don't know why you're adding
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  the. And once you choose the second
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  guy, then the first guy shows up, right?
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  So Yamalenu Harishon, you're allowed to let the first guy,
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  whether the whole story happens 5 minutes before the Mila or I
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  think that's the same thing if it happened 7 days before.
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  So then Yamalenu Harishon, you're allowed to let your
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  number one choice, even though you asked #2 first the Vande
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  Lokhazar Minharisham, because he never changed his mind and gave
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  it to the second guy first. He really wanted the first, his
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  first choice to be first, but he wasn't available.
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  So that's not a, that's not a problem where we say you're not
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  allowed to change, right? Isha iniholi teen the acher Lamu
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  dehre Ena sheikhab the mitzvah lamuh at bena a woman.
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  She can't choose who the moell's going to be.
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  I'm sorry in a Shaikh of the mitzvah the mole it's up to the
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  father. So let's go on to bet Nicole
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  Molly with every instrument one is technically allowed to do
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  Mila, but I feel a bit sore, whether it's stone Ubisoft heat
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  or with glass. Ubisoh Devara correct.
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  Anything that's sharp and cuts hoots micromit shell Conner, but
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  it's you shouldn't use the what's it called like a leaf.
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  That's I mean, bamboo is hard. So it's a bit we're talking
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  about something that's hard, but we shouldn't use something like
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  that. The feet Shiksami Mitsimi MENA,
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  because if you use that, sometimes splinters come out of
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  it. We have only day Karut Shifka
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  and it can end up damaging the the Avor and make it so you
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  can't have any any kids or Mitzvah Minamucha Lamuola Barzel
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  and I mitzvah minamukhar. The best thing to do is to use a
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  metal, whether it veins, Sakine vein, the misparime, whether it
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  is a knife or scissors, Finagula, mulabi Sakine and the
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  Mina clearly has always been only to use a metal blade, a
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  knife. And if except what's often done
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  at the very end after the main Mila is done.
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  So then to remove extra little little pieces of soft tissue,
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  the skin, a little extra tabs to make it look nicer or even just
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  for the halacha part to make it kosher that afterwards it's very
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  common that they use the Moline use scissors.
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  It's it's easier and that's what's usually done.
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  OK, fine. We'll do the next we'll actually
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  discuss the actual cutting itself.