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I'm NOT Like Her
What if envy is not something to shame—but something to listen to?
When another woman’s life activates you, it may be tempting to dismiss it, judge yourself for it, or turn it into evidence that you are falling behind. But envy often carries information.
It can reveal a desire you have not yet fully acknowledged:
More visibility
More freedom
More support
More meaningful work
More ease
More permission to want what you want
Her life does not diminish yours. It may simply expand your awareness of what feels possible.
The work is not to copy her path. The work is to ask what her expansion has…
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